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<title>Goodbye and thanks</title>
<pubDate>Mon, 5 Jul 2010 11:18:38 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Pam</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[Thanks ladies. I appreciate the kind words. Though I am no longer a PW, I plan to pop in here sometimes to see how you guys are doing and maybe chime in with thoughts from a former PW. <br /><br />Can't wait to see how great the future Homefront will be!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks ladies. I appreciate the kind words. Though I am no longer a PW, I plan to pop in here sometimes to see how you guys are doing and maybe chime in with thoughts from a former PW. <br /><br />Can't wait to see how great the future Homefront will be!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/1TQ5v6khbMU" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Out of the Fishbowl...</title>
<pubDate>Sun, 4 Jul 2010 08:21:22 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Kris</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Out of the Fishbowl...</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[I don't play piano either...but have other talents that other members don't.]]></description>
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<title>From the pulpit to the classroom</title>
<pubDate>Sun, 4 Jul 2010 08:18:22 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Kris</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>From the pulpit to the classroom</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Hi Peggy and welcome Kasey!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi Peggy and welcome Kasey!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/wL9pfay1wvc" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Goodbye and thanks</title>
<pubDate>Sun, 4 Jul 2010 08:12:53 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Kris</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[I've been blessed too by you/ your topics,etc.. May God Bless you richly in your new endeavors what ever they may be. Keep in touch :)]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[I've been blessed too by you/ your topics,etc.. May God Bless you richly in your new endeavors what ever they may be. Keep in touch :)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/3gVQw32jWwg" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Goodbye and thanks</title>
<pubDate>Fri, 2 Jul 2010 12:51:35 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Dawn W</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Goodbye and thanks</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Pam,<br /><br />Thanks for blessing us with your honesty and insights. I've been blessed by your thoughts and words. Thanks for helping us remember we are alone on this journey. I pray your continued journey will bring you and your family many blessings as you and Scott seek HIs will. I am encouraged by your courage and strength to follow God's call!<br /><br />Love that you closed with those few words from Shepherding...so fitting!<br /><br />God Bless]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Pam,<br /><br />Thanks for blessing us with your honesty and insights. I've been blessed by your thoughts and words. Thanks for helping us remember we are alone on this journey. I pray your continued journey will bring you and your family many blessings as you and Scott seek HIs will. I am encouraged by your courage and strength to follow God's call!<br /><br />Love that you closed with those few words from Shepherding...so fitting!<br /><br />God Bless<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/NoQyD3a29W4" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Goodbye and thanks</title>
<pubDate>Fri, 2 Jul 2010 11:05:57 AM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Goodbye and thanks</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Pam, I sure do thank you for all the insight and encouragement I've received through this blog. You are a godly example without being out of reach. Thanks for bringing up both fun and serious topics and for being such a good listener. My thoughts and prayers go with you in your new adventure! Glad I can still keep in touch via Facebook (which you introduced me to by the way)...Thanks!<br /><br />I also look forward to the new blog and hope to continue connecting with fellow PW's!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Pam, I sure do thank you for all the insight and encouragement I've received through this blog. You are a godly example without being out of reach. Thanks for bringing up both fun and serious topics and for being such a good listener. My thoughts and prayers go with you in your new adventure! Glad I can still keep in touch via Facebook (which you introduced me to by the way)...Thanks!<br /><br />I also look forward to the new blog and hope to continue connecting with fellow PW's!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/K_oIwUfaOtE" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Goodbye and thanks</title>
<pubDate>Thu, 1 Jul 2010 10:11:44 AM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>PB</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Goodbye and thanks</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Thanks again Pam for all your insights and thoughts. You have meant much to Kentucky Baptist Ministers Wives. Let's keep on blogging!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks again Pam for all your insights and thoughts. You have meant much to Kentucky Baptist Ministers Wives. Let's keep on blogging!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/H1Lew8Xy8co" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Church hopping?</title>
<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2010 06:51:58 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Church hopping?</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[So very true...When my husband and I finished seminary, we ended up church planting in New Orleans. Our fledgling church met only on Sunday nights, so we visited lots of different churches on Sunday mornings. I enjoyed seeing the great variety of people, focuses, and worship styles...it let us know what we wanted and what we didn't want in our "own" church. It was hard, though, not having a church family for support and encouragement. I sure will be praying for your family during this time of transition!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[So very true...When my husband and I finished seminary, we ended up church planting in New Orleans. Our fledgling church met only on Sunday nights, so we visited lots of different churches on Sunday mornings. I enjoyed seeing the great variety of people, focuses, and worship styles...it let us know what we wanted and what we didn't want in our "own" church. It was hard, though, not having a church family for support and encouragement. I sure will be praying for your family during this time of transition!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/qP8KkorhDmA" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Church hopping?</title>
<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2010 02:37:13 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>PB</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Church hopping?</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[One of many transitions for you all. My prayers are with you:)]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[One of many transitions for you all. My prayers are with you:)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/dP0ahda9O1U" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Two more Sundays...</title>
<pubDate>Thu, 3 Jun 2010 12:23:42 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Two more Sundays...</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[So glad your transition is going smoothly. Glad, too, that your church family and friends are helping y'all finish well and have good and happy memories of them. Makes you want to come back and preach a homecoming for them 20 years from now...( =<br /><br />Still praying for you- thanks for the blog!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[So glad your transition is going smoothly. Glad, too, that your church family and friends are helping y'all finish well and have good and happy memories of them. Makes you want to come back and preach a homecoming for them 20 years from now...( =<br /><br />Still praying for you- thanks for the blog!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/h1thPhmMq4w" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Out of the Fishbowl...</title>
<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 04:18:26 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>lorie</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Out of the Fishbowl...</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[hi pam...<br /><br />i am in a fishbowl!! haha! this is such an accurate description of life as a pw...i don't play piano either LOL! <br /><br />you may not be out of the fishbowl but you are in a much bigger tank where it's harder to concentrate on just one fish!! HaHa!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[hi pam...<br /><br />i am in a fishbowl!! haha! this is such an accurate description of life as a pw...i don't play piano either LOL! <br /><br />you may not be out of the fishbowl but you are in a much bigger tank where it's harder to concentrate on just one fish!! HaHa!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/giNjG8850DY" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Out of the Fishbowl...</title>
<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 12:38:39 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Out of the Fishbowl...</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[So very true. Life in the fishbowl is, at times, overwhelming. I love your final conclusion, though. It's the same one my husband and I came to as we started new at our present ministry. Everything we do should be because we're following God and being obedient to Him, and anything we're doing simply because we're the pastor's family needs to be evaluated. That has helped as our kids have gotten a little older and are moving toward making their own decisions. We try to never bring their dad's ministry into decisions about what they are to wear, do, listen to, say, etc. Instead we ask, "Is this pleasing to the Lord?" We're hoping that will keep them from following the path so many PK's take toward rebelling against all things godly. <br /><br />Thanks for the reminder. I'm continuing to pray for you and your family as you undertake this new adventure!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[So very true. Life in the fishbowl is, at times, overwhelming. I love your final conclusion, though. It's the same one my husband and I came to as we started new at our present ministry. Everything we do should be because we're following God and being obedient to Him, and anything we're doing simply because we're the pastor's family needs to be evaluated. That has helped as our kids have gotten a little older and are moving toward making their own decisions. We try to never bring their dad's ministry into decisions about what they are to wear, do, listen to, say, etc. Instead we ask, "Is this pleasing to the Lord?" We're hoping that will keep them from following the path so many PK's take toward rebelling against all things godly. <br /><br />Thanks for the reminder. I'm continuing to pray for you and your family as you undertake this new adventure!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/QOFfN3H-d-4" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>The Next Chapter</title>
<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 02:07:00 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>The Next Chapter</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Hi, Pam<br /><br />Just checking in to see how things are going. I sure hope things are continuing to work out and that people are helping you & your husband finish well. BTW...that post from your husband was priceless! You need to copy and paste that into your screen saver or something! ( =<br /><br />Please keep praying for us. Just about the time we start to feel God beginning to work in our church again, someone squashes it and we're back to "biting and devouring one another." It's very frustrating. <br /><br />Anyway, I've been praying for you lately and wondering how it's going. Hang in there!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi, Pam<br /><br />Just checking in to see how things are going. I sure hope things are continuing to work out and that people are helping you & your husband finish well. BTW...that post from your husband was priceless! You need to copy and paste that into your screen saver or something! ( =<br /><br />Please keep praying for us. Just about the time we start to feel God beginning to work in our church again, someone squashes it and we're back to "biting and devouring one another." It's very frustrating. <br /><br />Anyway, I've been praying for you lately and wondering how it's going. Hang in there!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/bGrY9NG9fio" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>The Next Chapter</title>
<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 11:14:45 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>The Next Chapter</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[On another note, I have a church situation that needs prayer that may have to involve my husband and his job. My husband may have to confront a lay person who is a person in a church position<br /><br />because of some choices they have made to do to compromise one of the ministries of the church. The person I feel that should do the confronting is side-stepping their responsiblity to take care of the situation.<br /><br />Please pray for resolve to take place and quickly.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[On another note, I have a church situation that needs prayer that may have to involve my husband and his job. My husband may have to confront a lay person who is a person in a church position<br /><br />because of some choices they have made to do to compromise one of the ministries of the church. The person I feel that should do the confronting is side-stepping their responsiblity to take care of the situation.<br /><br />Please pray for resolve to take place and quickly.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/SCTzoUwDgQI" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>The Next Chapter</title>
<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 11:06:18 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>JoAnn</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>The Next Chapter</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[I am happy for you but very sad for us. I have never seen you and probably would not know you if we met on the street. The funny thing about that is, that we have shared something so personal and private thoughts that you just don't share with everyone being a PW. I feel like I am losing my friend. :(<br /><br />Can we rip this chapter out of the book and re-write it???? Ok--I guess I understand. This reminds me of when I was 8 yrs old and the pastor at my church resigned. I looked around and my mom was crying as well as many people who I called friends of my family. I instantly thought that I could "fix it!" So when a vote was taken I opposed to accept his resignation. My mother who was a very dignified lady was highly embarrassed!<br /><br />So, Pam, I OPPOSE your resignation! <br /><br />Much love and many blessings!<br /><br />JoAnn]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[I am happy for you but very sad for us. I have never seen you and probably would not know you if we met on the street. The funny thing about that is, that we have shared something so personal and private thoughts that you just don't share with everyone being a PW. I feel like I am losing my friend. :(<br /><br />Can we rip this chapter out of the book and re-write it???? Ok--I guess I understand. This reminds me of when I was 8 yrs old and the pastor at my church resigned. I looked around and my mom was crying as well as many people who I called friends of my family. I instantly thought that I could "fix it!" So when a vote was taken I opposed to accept his resignation. My mother who was a very dignified lady was highly embarrassed!<br /><br />So, Pam, I OPPOSE your resignation! <br /><br />Much love and many blessings!<br /><br />JoAnn<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/j0pROfBlEWo" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>The Next Chapter</title>
<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 11:02:31 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>The Next Chapter</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Typically, I haven't read Pam's blogs concerning life as a pastor's wife. I felt that she needed her space to share her heart as a PW without the annoying gaze of her husband looking over her shoulder. But as we near this time of change, I couldn't help myself - I just had to read her thoughts on this important time.<br /><br />For the past ten years, Pam has been my rock. I could not have stayed in ministry as long as I have had it not been for her. Don't get me wrong - Jesus has been my source of grace and power for doing ministry. However, my experience has been that the instrument of his grace has been my wife. It's through her that he has brought me strength, comfort, hope, and joy for the journey.<br /><br />I owe my wife so much. In every way, she has been the ideal pastor's wife. Not one time in the past ten years has she been anything other than an asset to my ministry experience. She's never caused problems. She's never overstepped her bounds. She's never done anything to produce criticism of my leadership. Instead, she has been a silent warrior who has faithfully stayed by side through thick and thin. She has ministered as the Lord has led her. She has made a prositive impact on the lives of those who compose the congregations we have served. Quite simply, I don't know where I would be without her.<br /><br />So, I just want to say - Pam I am so proud to have shared the past ten years with you. You are my perfect mate. I freely acknowledge that, without you, my pastoral experience would have been much weaker - and probably much shorter. I thank God for bringing you into my life, for giving you the courage to say I do to a 19 year old college kid that still had so much growing up to do. I look forward to the rest of our lives together. In the midst of all the change, you are my constant. That makes the change bearable, even enjoyable.<br /><br />I love, Babe! Forever and always!!!!!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Typically, I haven't read Pam's blogs concerning life as a pastor's wife. I felt that she needed her space to share her heart as a PW without the annoying gaze of her husband looking over her shoulder. But as we near this time of change, I couldn't help myself - I just had to read her thoughts on this important time.<br /><br />For the past ten years, Pam has been my rock. I could not have stayed in ministry as long as I have had it not been for her. Don't get me wrong - Jesus has been my source of grace and power for doing ministry. However, my experience has been that the instrument of his grace has been my wife. It's through her that he has brought me strength, comfort, hope, and joy for the journey.<br /><br />I owe my wife so much. In every way, she has been the ideal pastor's wife. Not one time in the past ten years has she been anything other than an asset to my ministry experience. She's never caused problems. She's never overstepped her bounds. She's never done anything to produce criticism of my leadership. Instead, she has been a silent warrior who has faithfully stayed by side through thick and thin. She has ministered as the Lord has led her. She has made a prositive impact on the lives of those who compose the congregations we have served. Quite simply, I don't know where I would be without her.<br /><br />So, I just want to say - Pam I am so proud to have shared the past ten years with you. You are my perfect mate. I freely acknowledge that, without you, my pastoral experience would have been much weaker - and probably much shorter. I thank God for bringing you into my life, for giving you the courage to say I do to a 19 year old college kid that still had so much growing up to do. I look forward to the rest of our lives together. In the midst of all the change, you are my constant. That makes the change bearable, even enjoyable.<br /><br />I love, Babe! Forever and always!!!!!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/ieISKK7HpjY" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>The Next Chapter</title>
<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 11:33:47 AM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>The Next Chapter</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Wow, Pam<br /><br />Congratulations and prayers to you and your family. It's such a good feeling to find the unmistakable direction God is leading you, but I also know that times of transition are so hard- especially for those in ministry. I know these last few months of wondering and searching have been difficult: it's where my husband and I find our selves now. But I appreciate your continuing your blogging ministry through it all. Your blogs and the community of PW's that surround it have been a wonderful source of encouragement for me. Thank you for being real and, in turn, allowing us to be real as well. I will be praying for you and your family as so many things begin to change. And if you get a chance, please write about your experiences during this transition. I am interested to know if my own experiences are normal...not that anything we PW's do is normal, but...it's good to know how to pray and what to expect when our transitions arise.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Wow, Pam<br /><br />Congratulations and prayers to you and your family. It's such a good feeling to find the unmistakable direction God is leading you, but I also know that times of transition are so hard- especially for those in ministry. I know these last few months of wondering and searching have been difficult: it's where my husband and I find our selves now. But I appreciate your continuing your blogging ministry through it all. Your blogs and the community of PW's that surround it have been a wonderful source of encouragement for me. Thank you for being real and, in turn, allowing us to be real as well. I will be praying for you and your family as so many things begin to change. And if you get a chance, please write about your experiences during this transition. I am interested to know if my own experiences are normal...not that anything we PW's do is normal, but...it's good to know how to pray and what to expect when our transitions arise.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/0fwTbauwjDE" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Making time for the PKs</title>
<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 07:31:41 PM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Making time for the PKs</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[For whatever reason, our pastor's children aren't in church. What a sad thing for everyone. I would loved to know: 1) Did the kids feel like their parents were so uninvolved in their lives because of the church? 2) Resentment to church/God because of how they saw their family treated? 3) Other???<br /><br />That would break my heart if if were my children, but I have been the recipient of some tough things. As an adult, I learned to just move on and forgive. Sometimes with kids it is harder. Good lessons for everyone in that.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[For whatever reason, our pastor's children aren't in church. What a sad thing for everyone. I would loved to know: 1) Did the kids feel like their parents were so uninvolved in their lives because of the church? 2) Resentment to church/God because of how they saw their family treated? 3) Other???<br /><br />That would break my heart if if were my children, but I have been the recipient of some tough things. As an adult, I learned to just move on and forgive. Sometimes with kids it is harder. Good lessons for everyone in that.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/ivD5PkcZFWg" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Making time for the PKs</title>
<pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 07:12:16 PM -0400</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[To: Sarah McKenzie<br /><br />Growing up I was not the Youth pastor's daughter or even grand daughter. I was the Youth pastor's sister-in-law and one of the youth in his group. I tagged along with him on so many things---taking people to get their check from WIC or taking them food, clothing and a host of bus ministry stuff. How many days of visitation to homes or hospitals? I could not even begin to tell you! It brought us very close and gave me a heart for ministry and SERVICE! The lessons Iearned were/are invaluable to me then and now.<br /><br />I think that was God just getting me ready to be a PW. Guess what? When my husband and I first married he was a Youth Minister just like my brother-in-law. God has a way of teaching you those great lessons that will benefit your life later. He is a GOOD God! It kinda makes me laugh at the twist he did in my life.<br /><br />You never know what God is doing to prepare you for tomorrow today!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[To: Sarah McKenzie<br /><br />Growing up I was not the Youth pastor's daughter or even grand daughter. I was the Youth pastor's sister-in-law and one of the youth in his group. I tagged along with him on so many things---taking people to get their check from WIC or taking them food, clothing and a host of bus ministry stuff. How many days of visitation to homes or hospitals? I could not even begin to tell you! It brought us very close and gave me a heart for ministry and SERVICE! The lessons Iearned were/are invaluable to me then and now.<br /><br />I think that was God just getting me ready to be a PW. Guess what? When my husband and I first married he was a Youth Minister just like my brother-in-law. God has a way of teaching you those great lessons that will benefit your life later. He is a GOOD God! It kinda makes me laugh at the twist he did in my life.<br /><br />You never know what God is doing to prepare you for tomorrow today!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/uAvH5lgG47o" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Making time for the PKs</title>
<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 11:26:09 AM -0400</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Sarah McKenzie</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Making time for the PKs</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[I'm not a PK, but I am a PG. We go through some of the same things. I am very close to my grandfather. He has been there more for me that my own father has. I spend a lot of time at his house; however, his job makes it very hard for me to spend time with him. There is always a wedding, funeral, hospital visit, or something of that nature every time I try to visit. He is very good at making time for us, even if means tagging along and going to do something after. Believe me, I have been to many weddings of people I barely know and have had to wait in plenty hospital waiting rooms. I know he feels bad for having to do this, but he makes up for it after. I've been dealing with this for the past 18 years. Finding a balance is hard, but it can be done.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[I'm not a PK, but I am a PG. We go through some of the same things. I am very close to my grandfather. He has been there more for me that my own father has. I spend a lot of time at his house; however, his job makes it very hard for me to spend time with him. There is always a wedding, funeral, hospital visit, or something of that nature every time I try to visit. He is very good at making time for us, even if means tagging along and going to do something after. Believe me, I have been to many weddings of people I barely know and have had to wait in plenty hospital waiting rooms. I know he feels bad for having to do this, but he makes up for it after. I've been dealing with this for the past 18 years. Finding a balance is hard, but it can be done.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MinistersWivesComments/~4/miuvmLs44xQ" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded>
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