Marion Korn - new template tag:typepad.com,2003:weblog-534302 2009-07-14T13:07:30-05:00 family law, divorce, mediation, collaborative support & training TypePad Knowing where to start tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a00d8351955ee53ef011572044b89970b 2009-07-14T13:07:30-05:00 2009-07-14T13:07:30-05:00 For many separating couples, trying to understand what step to take first can be confusing. Do we each call a lawyer? Can we talk to one lawyer? Do we need to go to court? Along with my associates, we have... marion korn

For many separating couples, trying to understand what step to take first can be confusing. Do we each call a lawyer? Can we talk to one lawyer? Do we need to go to court? Along with my associates, we have launched Mutual Solutions to help you get started. With Mutual Solutions, you both start together by consulting with professionals who can help you sort out schedules for your children and financial matters for the whole family. Our team is ready to work with you and your family. Just go to the website and contact us for a consultation appointment.

 http://divorce.typepad.com/collaborative/2009/07/knowing-where-to-start.html Who do you call? tag:typepad.com,2003:post-36670910 2007-07-19T15:27:59-05:00 2009-07-13T16:54:30-05:00 When people ask me what I do, I tell them that I am the person you call when you know there is a better way to settle up than having a row! As a lawyer also trained as a settlement... marion korn

When people ask me what I do, I tell them that I am  the person you call when you know there is a better way to settle up than having a row!

As a lawyer also trained as a settlement expert, it is not an easy job to tell people what it is that I do.  Everyone knows what a lawyer is and most people understand what settlement is about.  But "settlement lawyer" sounds like a contradiction.

The truth is that one of the great skills I have as a lawyer is the ability to understand a problem from all sides.  Add to that the additional training in settlement skills and years of experience in working with people in conflict, and you have your answer.

So, as a settlement lawyer helping two people who have a disagreement, I can see the big picture.  I can help people see the problems from many angles.  I can also help them figure out how their decisions fit with the way "the law" would see the problem.

The next time you or someone you know is trying to decide how to tackle a separation from their partner, or some other problem, tell them about my services.  I am committed to working with people to finds ways to overcome problems and find good, long lasting solutions.  It's a good call!

marion@marionkorn.com

 http://divorce.typepad.com/collaborative/2007/07/who-do-you-call.html Divorce Toronto Style tag:typepad.com,2003:post-14126147 2006-11-15T17:05:52-05:00 2006-11-15T17:05:52-05:00 Wednesday, November 15, 2006 Collaborative lawyers, family and financial specialists are starting to plan for an international conference in Toronto, in October 2007. The last conference, which just took place in San Diego ,attracted over 600 collaborative practitioners! This is... marion korn <div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><div>Wednesday, November 15, 2006</div> <div><div>Collaborative lawyers, family and financial specialists are starting to plan for an international conference in Toronto, in October 2007.&nbsp; The last conference, which just took place in San Diego ,attracted over 600 collaborative practitioners!&nbsp; This is an annual gathering for those committed to helping couples and families who are going through separation and divorce to resolve their differences respectfully.</div> <div></div> <div><div>The conference will help spread the word that divorce does not have to be a financially and emotionally devastating event.&nbsp; And thousands of couples and families have already had the opportunity to experience the &quot;good divorce&quot; collaboratively.</div> <div></div> <div>The conference, which is sponsored by the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals, will send out a loud message to our community.&nbsp; &quot;Divorce Toronto Style&quot; means dignity, respect and practical solutions.&nbsp; </div> <div></div> <div>October 26-October 28th at the Royal York Hotel.&nbsp; Please watch the <a href="http://collaborativepractice.com">IACP </a>website for details.</div> <div></div> <div></div> <div><div></div> <div><div></div><script type="text/javascript"></script><script language="JavaScript"></script></div></div></div></div></div> http://divorce.typepad.com/collaborative/2006/11/divorce_toronto.html Why mediation works tag:typepad.com,2003:post-13590042 2006-10-23T12:24:17-05:00 2009-07-13T16:58:56-05:00 Monday, October 23rd, 2006 Here are some thoughts about the value of mediation: In considering how to go about separation, first ask yourself: "what is most important to me?". Most couples value the certainty that their separation will not become... marion korn

Monday, October 23rd, 2006

Here are some thoughts about the value of mediation:

In considering how to go about separation, first ask yourself: "what is most important to me?".  Most couples value the certainty that their separation will not become a battle.  In my experience, clients tell me that the most stressful part of a decision to end a marriage or a relationship is the fear of the unknown. 

Here are a few reasons why choosing mediation can put the fear behind you:

1.In mediation, the mediator will assist you to look forward and to set goals for yourself that are reasonable.

2.Although it is normal to be tempted to blame one other for the failure of the relationship, the mediator is trained to keep the discussions centered on future outcomes and to test how each person's reasonable goals can be met.

3.Mediation is a level playing field.  Fear is often associated with the concern by one person that the other will be able to "outlast" them in a court battle, or "turn the children" against them.  The mediator will explain the importance of creating a budget for the mediation so that each person has equal access to the process.  The mediator will also help parents focus on the needs of their kids.

4.If there are children, there are mediators who specialize in creating plans and schedules so that parents can make realistic arrangements for their kids.

Inform yourself on the value mediation can bring to your situation.  And remember, mediation can help you in all aspects of your life, whether it is dispute with a neighbour, a work colleague, a teacher, etc.

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