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You're dreading writing your resume. My &lt;a href="http://finance.yahoo.com/news/strong-yet-ethical-r-sum-122338814.html"&gt;post today&lt;/a&gt; on USNews.com and republished on Yahoo!.com: How to create a strong, ethical resume, fast. </description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/creating-strong-ethical-resume-fast.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-5921817830937775528</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 17:16:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-21T10:01:52.025-07:00</atom:updated><title>I'd Like to Ask a Favor</title><description>&lt;i&gt;Update: I just heard that thanks to you, almost $4,000 was raised during my show's hour. For comparison this was four times as much as the show that preceded mine. Thank you very much. I will continue to work hard to earn your support.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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This morning (Sunday, May 19) from 11 am to noon, Pacific time, on my KALW-FM (NPR-San Francisco) radio program, &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.martynemko.com/radio-show"&gt;Work with Marty Nemko&lt;/a&gt;, on&lt;/i&gt; which I try to help people with their worklife,&amp;nbsp; I'll ask listeners to donate money to the radio station.&lt;br /&gt;
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I get none of the money but the amount I collect during my hour is used as an indicator of how many people listen to my show, the strength of their support for the show and, in turn, whether my show should stay on the air.&lt;br /&gt;
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As in most public radio donation drives, I offer thank-you gifts for giving during my hour:&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;If you donate $75, you get an autographed copy of my book, &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Life-didnt-school/dp/1467960705"&gt;How to Do Life: What they didn't teach you in school.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;For $150 or $250 for a couple, you get to come to the studio on June 30 to watch the show and then have brunch with my wife and frequent co-conspirator on the show, Barbara Nemko, as well as with fellow donors. We've done these brunches before and they are a networking opportunity, a chance to offer input on my show, and oh yes, people find it quite fun. A number of people have come more than once. It's limited to just a dozen people.&lt;/li&gt;
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It is a bit ironic for me to ask you to donate to KALW. After all, the station mainly presents leftist views and I so value diversity of ideology. And I wouldn't choose to listen to most of the music played on the station. But I do care to keep doing my program, soooh, there you go. At least I'm asking in a way that I believe is devoid of the hype that too often characterizes money-raising efforts.&lt;br /&gt;
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Oh and, of course, most of the show today is not spent asking for money. I'm committed to keeping the requests brief. The hour focuses on Barbara and me talking about how to get cured of excessively&amp;nbsp; interrupting people---one of my many failings.&lt;br /&gt;
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Whether during or after the show, it's easy to donate. Just call 1-800-525-9917 or go to &lt;a href="http://www.kalw.org/"&gt;www.kalw.org&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; As I said, I get none of the money. It's just a way to help keep my show on the air and more important, to support public radio. Whether you're donating during my show or afterwards, I would appreciate your mentioning that you're donating to support &lt;i&gt;Work with Marty Nemko.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Whether or not you donate, I hope you'll listen this morning from 11 am to noon. You can hear it on 91.7 FM in San Francisco, or anywhere on the world right here on your computer at &lt;a href="http://www.kalw.org/"&gt;www.kalw.org &lt;/a&gt;from 11 am to noon, Pacific time.</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/id-like-to-ask-favor.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-6614098877165420144</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 04:42:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-18T00:29:33.029-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">government jobs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">resumes</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">should you go to college</category><title>Me Talking Careers on AOL as the "Opening Act" for Sheryl Sandberg?!</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
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AOL video-interviewed me today for a half-hour. &lt;a href="http://on.aol.com/video/lunchtime-live----i-want-to-use-my-college-degree-but-how--517784077"&gt;HERE&lt;/a&gt; is the three-minute highlight reel.&lt;br /&gt;
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The interviewer asked me about resumes, landing a government job, and who should and shouldn't go to college or graduate school.&lt;br /&gt;
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The video continues with &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marlo_Thomas"&gt;Marlo Thomas&lt;/a&gt; asking &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sheryl_Sandberg"&gt;Sheryl Sandberg&lt;/a&gt; about&amp;nbsp; whether college is still a wise choice.I never thought I'd ever be the"opening act" for Sheryl Sandberg!&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=860AlvJ0ilw"&gt;HERE&lt;/a&gt; is the full interview. In the first few minutes, two unemployed college graduates tell their tale. Then I try to help them, after which the interviewer asks me various career-related questions.</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/me-talking-careers-on-aol-as-opening.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-8360507423310131832</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 17:12:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-16T10:12:39.842-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">landing a job</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">leads</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">job hunting</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">job leads</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">career advice</category><title>Making the Most of a Job Lead</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://newpathwaycoaching.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Helping-hand-300x198.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="132" src="http://newpathwaycoaching.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Helping-hand-300x198.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
You get a lead on a job but how do you make the most of it? That's the topic of &lt;a href="http://jobs.aol.com/articles/2013/05/16/top-8-ways-turn-lead-job/?ncid=edlinkuscare00000007&amp;amp;ts=1368719895"&gt;my AOL article today.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Much of the advice is applicable not only to job hunters but to anyone trying to maximize a lead's value: a sales lead, business development lead, even personal lead.&amp;nbsp; </description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/making-most-of-job-lead.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-5899957977341766691</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 16:45:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-16T09:56:58.972-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">unemployed college graduates</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">career advice</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">three-minute workovers.</category><title>Tomorrow, I Do Three-Minute Workovers on AOL Live</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.blogcdn.com/jobs.aol.com/articles/media/2010/10/aol-jobs---hot-site-logo-box.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="165" src="http://www.blogcdn.com/jobs.aol.com/articles/media/2010/10/aol-jobs---hot-site-logo-box.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
It's been a good few days. First, it was being on &lt;a href="http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/marty-nemko-talks-and-jokes-on-daily.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Daily Show with Jon Stewart&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. Yesterday, it was that I was the sole source for a &lt;a href="http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/is-work-life-balance-overrated.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Business Insider &lt;/i&gt;article &lt;/a&gt;on work-life balance being overrated.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Now, AOL has selected me to be the career expert whom, on &lt;i&gt;AOL's Lunchtime Live!&lt;/i&gt;, will, tomorrow on live video, try to help two B.A. holders who have McJobs to find better work. I'll have just a few minutes with each. We'll see what I can do.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
It'll be tomorrow at 12:30 PM Eastern. &lt;a href="http://jobs.aol.com/articles/2013/05/16/college-educated-underemployed-tips/"&gt;HERE's&lt;/a&gt; the link to more info. </description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/tomorrow-i-do-three-minute-workovers-on.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-7991645834189766690</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 19:37:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-17T08:26:02.544-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">philosophy of life</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">meaning of life</category><title>Your Goal Should be Contribution, not Happiness</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.devereafricafoundation.org/assets/page-pics/1a-Life-Give.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.biography.com/imported/images/Biography/Images/Profiles/T/Mother-Teresa-9504160-1-402.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://www.biography.com/imported/images/Biography/Images/Profiles/T/Mother-Teresa-9504160-1-402.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;This will appear on AOL.com a week from tomorrow but I thought you might like an advance look.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Work-life Balance is Overrated&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Your goal should be contribution, not happiness&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
by Marty Nemko&lt;br /&gt;
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Most people view life's goal as to be happy. I believe that's misguided.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
If the goal is happiness, one could, for example, spend all their time gardening,
watching comedies, having sex, etc. Yet if people did that, the planet would be
far worse: patients would die, homes wouldn't get built, the Internet wouldn't have been
invented, etc.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Mother Teresa didn't work in the stench of Calcutta streets, ankles bitten by
scorpions, because it made her happy She did so because she realized that helping humankind was
far more important than her being happy.* Cardiologists that choose to work
nights and weekends to keep more patients alive realize their life is more
meaningful than if they had opted for the vaunted work-life balance. Even the
supposedly lowly payroll clerk who, after the standard work week, takes work
home to ensure that everyone is paid accurately and on-time is living a far worthier
life than is someone who diverted that time to recreation.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
And as I said in &lt;a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/real-winners-dont-have-work-life-balance-2013-5"&gt;my
interview two days ago in &lt;i&gt;Business Insider&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;, &lt;/i&gt;contrary to what
advocates of work-life balance claim, long work hours do not lead to burnout.
Indeed, as long as you're doing work you're good at and believe in, you'll
likely be more energized from long work weeks than if you spent the
discretionary time playing sports, watching the boob tube, or even the
current fad, yoga.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
I'll be 63 years old next month and been working 60 to 80 hours a week my entire life, since I was a young teen. I cannot claim to be a happy person.
Like my father, I believe I'm constitutionally inclined toward mild
sadness. But I know that my life has been more worthwhile for having
forgone work-life balance in favor of having helped 4,000 career counseling
clients, written seven books,&amp;nbsp; over 2,000 how-to and public-policy articles
and blog posts, plus &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marty_Nemko"&gt;myriad other contributions&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
I will continue to work until I drop in the service of things I believe will make the
world better. I do want to drop dead at this keyboard. A silly
canard is, "No one ever died wishing they spent more time at the
office." Indeed, most of the most contributory people I know and I want to
spend as much time as possible working. That's the main reason why CEOs continue working long after they've made enough money to last three lifetimes.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
As Isaac Asimov, who had written or
edited more than 500 books(!) said when asked, "What would you do if you
knew you had six months to live?" He said, "Type faster."&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;i&gt;* Update: A reader just informed me that Mother Teresa's behavior was often &lt;a href="http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2013/mar/6/french-study-claims-mother-teresa-wasnt-so-saintly/"&gt;far from saintly&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; So take the words "Mother Teresa" not as her literally but as a noun: Popularly, we speak of a "Mother Teresa" as a person who is very generous even to her own detriment.&lt;/i&gt;</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/your-goal-should-be-contribution-not.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-4408863677899297177</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 14:37:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-21T10:03:13.700-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">work-life balance</category><title>Is Work-Life Balance Overrated?</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-oxCERxMPgno/TYZoXe2KvSI/AAAAAAAAEhU/NzH8WCv4yhs/s320/DSCF8390.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-oxCERxMPgno/TYZoXe2KvSI/AAAAAAAAEhU/NzH8WCv4yhs/s200/DSCF8390.JPG" width="150" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;i&gt;Business Insider&lt;/i&gt; interviewed me about what I thought about the deified "work-life balance"&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://work.chron.com/DM-Resize/photos.demandstudios.com/getty/article/97/211/AA010755.jpg?w=600&amp;amp;h=600&amp;amp;keep_ratio=1" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://work.chron.com/DM-Resize/photos.demandstudios.com/getty/article/97/211/AA010755.jpg?w=600&amp;amp;h=600&amp;amp;keep_ratio=1" width="145" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/real-winners-dont-have-work-life-balance-2013-5"&gt;The article&lt;/a&gt; came out today and I was surprised and, I must admit, flattered to see that my opinion was the only one cited. Perhaps because it is contrary to conventional wisdom.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;i&gt;Update: I'm amazed and delighted that it's gotten 35,000 hits and 1,400 Facebook &lt;/i&gt;Likes&lt;i&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/is-work-life-balance-overrated.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-oxCERxMPgno/TYZoXe2KvSI/AAAAAAAAEhU/NzH8WCv4yhs/s72-c/DSCF8390.JPG" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-3310878212888934534</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 15:53:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-15T10:22:58.962-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">making connections</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">job hunting</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">career advice</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">networking</category><title>How to Make a Useful Networking Connection Fast</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://investorpitches.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/networking1-300x225.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="150" src="http://investorpitches.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/networking1-300x225.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
If your networking efforts have yielded little benefit to you, it's tempting to forgo it. Especially if you're job hunting, you could reasonably fear that by the time networking pays off in a job offer, you'll be homeless&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-careers/2013/05/13/how-to-make-a-successful-networking-connection-on-the-fly"&gt;My USNews.com article today&lt;/a&gt; presents a way to make networking more likely to pay off fast, perhaps in just a few minutes.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/how-to-make-useful-networking.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-4816801448579564281</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 07:57:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-12T23:15:40.895-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">college accountability</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">alternatives to college</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">higher education accountability</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">higher education transparency</category><title>Marty Nemko Talks (and Jokes) on The Daily Show about Alternatives to College</title><description>Last night, I was on &lt;a href="http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/thu-may-9-2013/stay-out-of-school"&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Daily Show with Jon Stewart&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
What was amazing to me is that they recorded five hours of interview with me about higher education's deceptive practices and about alternatives to college. During those five hours, I made a total of three jokes. All three made it into the segment.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Of course, I don't mind at all. The creators of&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;The Daily Show&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;are masters at making serious messages funny without trivializing them.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;tr style="background-color: #e5e5e5;" valign="middle"&gt;&lt;td style="padding: 2px 1px 0px 5px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thedailyshow.com/" style="color: #333333; font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"&gt;The Daily Show with Jon Stewart&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td style="font-weight: bold; padding: 2px 5px 0px 5px; text-align: right;"&gt;Mon - Thurs 11p / 10c&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
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&lt;tr style="background-color: #353535; height: 14px;" valign="middle"&gt;&lt;td colspan="2" style="overflow: hidden; padding: 2px 5px 0px 5px; text-align: right; width: 512px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thedailyshow.com/" style="color: #96deff; font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"&gt;www.thedailyshow.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
&lt;tr valign="middle"&gt;&lt;td colspan="2" style="padding: 0px;"&gt;&lt;embed allowfullscreen="true" allownetworking="all" allowscriptaccess="always" bgcolor="#000000" flashvars="autoPlay=false" height="288" src="http://media.mtvnservices.com/mgid:cms:item:comedycentral.com:426188" style="display: block;" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="512" wmode="window"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
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&lt;tr valign="middle"&gt;&lt;td style="padding: 3px; width: 33%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thedailyshow.com/full-episodes/" style="color: #333333; font: 10px arial; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"&gt;Daily Show Full Episodes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td style="padding: 3px; width: 33%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.comedycentral.com/indecision" style="color: #333333; font: 10px arial; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"&gt;Indecision Political Humor&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td style="padding: 3px; width: 33%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/thedailyshow" style="color: #333333; font: 10px arial; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"&gt;The Daily Show on Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
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</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/marty-nemko-talks-and-jokes-on-daily.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>5</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-3223774403870724545</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 17:39:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-17T08:29:07.852-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">tough love</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">laziness</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">find a career</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">welfare mentality</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">career advice</category><title>Looking for a Career? Pick Something Already!</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://ewb-wwu.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/ditch-digger-downsized.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="240" src="http://ewb-wwu.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/ditch-digger-downsized.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;a href="http://jobs.aol.com/articles/2013/05/09/millennials-underemployed-careers/"&gt;My AOL post toda&lt;/a&gt;y ostensibly is tough-love career advice for Millennials.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Actually, it's far more broadly applicable. It reflects my growing recognition, after a quarter century as a career counselor, that it's foolish to spend too much time trying to pick the perfect career.&lt;br /&gt;
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After just &lt;a href="http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-careers/2013/05/06/find-your-career-fast-a-quick-and-not-dirty-approach"&gt;modest exploration,&lt;/a&gt; pick something, commit to becoming expert at it, and then make peace with it, recognizing that career contentment is far more likely to occur from tailoring and accessorizing a given career and then staying with it than from waiting for a more perfect career. Also, all ethically done work is worthy work. I'd go as far as saying that all ethically done work is sacred.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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Indeed, some of society's least respected work--for example, ditchdigging--in my mind is more worthy of respect than are the famous entertainers so many people idolize.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/looking-for-career-pick-something.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-5216345324796774078</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 May 2013 03:55:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-18T00:32:37.249-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">funny girl napa</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Taylor Bartolucci</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">James Sasser</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">funny girl</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">careers in theatre</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Barry Martin</category><title>I piano-accompany Napa Funny Girl stars Taylor Bartolucci and James Sasser</title><description>&lt;iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/-Ft0P_S3D24" width="400"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;
Rarely have I had as much fun on my radio show as yesterday. I got to piano-accompany the two fabulous stars of &lt;i&gt;Funny Girl&lt;/i&gt;, which opens this Friday at the &lt;a href="http://nvoh.org/napa-valley-opera-house/lucky-penny-productions-funny-girl"&gt;Napa Valley Opera House.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://youtu.be/-Ft0P_S3D24"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gLigPYoO-nA"&gt;HERE&lt;/a&gt; is the video of Taylor Bartolucci singing &lt;i&gt;I'm the Greatest Star.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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And &lt;a href="http://youtu.be/-Ft0P_S3D24"&gt;HERE&lt;/a&gt; is the video of Taylor and James Sasser doing the duet,&lt;i&gt; I Want to Be Seen With You.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Oh, I might mention that my wife &lt;a href="http://napalearns.org/about/board-and-executives/barbara-nemko/"&gt;Barbara Nemko&lt;/a&gt; will be playing the comic relief role in &lt;i&gt;Funny Girl: &lt;/i&gt;Sarah Straykosh, a busybody force of nature from Brooklyn.&lt;br /&gt;
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And for the hour before the show on Friday, Saturday, and the following Saturday, I'll be playing&amp;nbsp; Broadway show medleys on the piano as well as accompanying the winners of the &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://napavalley.patch.com/articles/lucky-penny-names-future-star-winners-from-napa-sonoma-counties"&gt;I'm the Greatest Future Star competition.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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I've heard reports from rehearsals that the show is going to be wonderful. One insider said, "This is going to be the best show seen in Napa, ever." For tickets and information, click &lt;a href="http://v/"&gt;HERE&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;i&gt;Update: The first weekend nearly sold out its 1,500 seats, closing night this Sunday is sold out, and only a few dozen of the 1,000 Friday and Saturday night tickets remain. And the reviews have been fabulous. For example, KCRB said, "Easily one of the best, most memorable shows of the year." &lt;a href="http://beniciaherald.me/2013/05/13/napas-funny-girl-shines-amid-bottleneck-frenzy/"&gt;The Benicia Herald&lt;/a&gt; called it a "stellar production...a hard act to follow." The &lt;a href="http://napavalleyregister.com/lifestyles/funny-girl-revival-a-class-act-at-opera-house/article_ff1761e2-bddf-11e2-8e59-0019bb2963f4.html"&gt;Napa Register&lt;/a&gt; called it "impeccably performed by all 19 actors (and) Bartolucci
 delivers the consummate Brice." &lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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My radio show focuses on career issues so the bulk of the hour was spent asking Taylor and James as well as &lt;i&gt;Funny Girl's &lt;/i&gt;excellent director, Barry Martin about the art of trying to make money in theatre. &lt;a href="http://www.npr.org/rss/podcast/podcast_detail.php?siteId=148477971"&gt;HERE&lt;/a&gt; is the link to the entire show, which is archived on the National Public Radio website.</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/marty-nemko-piano-accompanies-napa.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://img.youtube.com/vi/-Ft0P_S3D24/default.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-4526503720446458417</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 May 2013 15:09:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-17T08:29:25.649-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">choose a career</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">find a career</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">career advice</category><title>Finding a Career: A quick but not dirty approach</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.careerrocketeer.com/wp-content/uploads/Career-Path.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="150" src="http://www.careerrocketeer.com/wp-content/uploads/Career-Path.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
My USNews.com article today is&lt;a href="http://goo.gl/fk4BF"&gt; &lt;i&gt;Speedy Career-Finding: a quick but not dirty approach&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Many people spend decades trying to choose a career. I believe this article's approach, though quick, enables you to choose more wisely than do most people. </description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/finding-career-quick-but-not-dirty.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-6133813747107055689</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2013 23:04:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-07T21:14:21.870-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">self-esteem</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">self-confidence</category><title>You May Be Wise to LOWER Your Self-Confidence</title><description>I am of the belief that self-confidence, 
beyond a bare minimum, is more likely to abet complacency and even narcissism than to make people more productive.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Most highly productive people often worry they're not good enough--That's part of what drives them to keep striving. From George Washington to Abraham Lincoln to most of the many highly accomplished 
people I know, they're all driven by moderate insecurity and feelings of unworthiness. I hypothesize that lower achievers are too &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;un&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;intell&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;igent&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; or defended t&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;o feel that worry, that insecurity.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I b&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;elieve that self-esteem programs do mor&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;e harm than good. &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Enduring &lt;/span&gt;self-esteem comes &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;only &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;from on&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;going &lt;/span&gt;accomplis&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;hment, not b&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;y &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;virtue of be&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;ing human, of a particular &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;background, etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;
&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: normal;"&gt;When I wri&lt;span style="font-size: normal;"&gt;te and speak, in my p&lt;span style="font-size: normal;"&gt;rofessional as well as personal life, &lt;/span&gt;I often w&lt;span style="font-size: normal;"&gt;orry if &lt;span style="font-size: normal;"&gt;it's &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;good enough&lt;span style="font-size: normal;"&gt;. Mo&lt;span style="font-size: normal;"&gt;re b&lt;span style="font-size: normal;"&gt;roa&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;dly, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;I worry whe&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;ther, en toto&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;, my life's contributio&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;ns are&lt;/span&gt; valuable &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;enough. I'm not worried into anxiety or depression but &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;just enough that &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;th&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;e &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;worry, &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;borne of only moderate&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; self-co&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;nfidence&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;does &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;help &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;me &lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;be my&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; best self&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;
</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/05/you-may-be-wise-to-lower-your-self.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-1644206750955151236</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 07:33:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-04-30T17:45:03.445-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">small business ideas</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">entrepreneurship</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">business idea</category><title>"Six Fresh Ideas for a Budding Entrepreneur" named "This Week's Best"</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://lessthanthreeconference.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/nyt.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="129" src="http://lessthanthreeconference.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/nyt.jpeg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
I was browsing the &lt;i&gt;New York Times &lt;/i&gt;online&amp;nbsp;tonight when I was surprised and honored to see one of my &lt;i&gt;U.S. News&lt;/i&gt; articles, &lt;a href="http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-careers/2013/03/11/6-fresh-ideas-for-a-budding-entrepreneur"&gt;Six Fresh Ideas for a Budding Entrepreneur&lt;/a&gt; named&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://boss.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/03/18/this-week-in-small-business-surviving-shark-tank/"&gt;&lt;b&gt;This Week's Best.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;(To see that, scroll to the bottom.)</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/04/six-fresh-ideas-for-budding.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-584137883995859381</guid><pubDate>Mon, 29 Apr 2013 20:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-04-29T13:51:11.300-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">job hunt</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">finding a job</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">job interview tips</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">thank-you letters</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">thank-you notes</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">career advice</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">find a job</category><title>Hail-Mary Thank You Letters</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.medixteam.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/thank-you-letters-150x150.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://www.medixteam.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/thank-you-letters-150x150.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
Sending a thank-you letter after a job interview is standard operating procedure but rarely helps you stand out from the pack.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
My post today on AOL.com, &lt;a href="http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-careers/2013/04/29/thank-you-letter-hail-marys"&gt;Hail Mary Thank You Letters,&lt;/a&gt; offers some risky tactics that could put the final nail in your application coffin or give you a prayer. </description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/04/hail-mary-thank-you-letters.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-2621092800173218779</guid><pubDate>Mon, 29 Apr 2013 06:27:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-04-28T23:27:12.750-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">college accountability</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">higher education accountability</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">college scorecard</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">higher education reform</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">college transparency</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">college scorecard v.2.0</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">higher education transparency</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">college report card</category><title>Making Colleges Accountable: College Scorecard Version 2.0</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://lavelleporter.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/college-inc3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://lavelleporter.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/college-inc3.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
I continue to try to make the case for requiring college to post a substantive report card on themselves as a condition of receiving federal financial aid. Today, I make that point in the San Francisco Chronicle's Sunday Magazine, &lt;a href="http://www.sfchronicle.com/opinion/article/Let-s-have-colleges-grade-themselves-4466984.php"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Insight&lt;/i&gt;. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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The article also includes seven questions you should ask a college or graduate admission person before agreeing to attend. </description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/04/making-colleges-accountable-college.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-1806961973476431106</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 21:04:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-04-28T00:46:59.286-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">how to write</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">column writing</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">blogging</category><title>Video of How I Create My Columns and Posts</title><description>Last week, I gave a talk to the Napa Valley Writers Association on how I write columns.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Instead of just telling people how I write a column, I actually created a mini-column in 15 minutes, while saying aloud my thought process, in the moment.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Although nearly all the attendees were fiction writers, a number of them came up to me and said that it will greatly improve even their fiction writing.&lt;br /&gt;
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Afterward, someone who couldn't attend, wrote to ask me if I'd be willing to make a video of that presentation. Here it is below.&lt;br /&gt;
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Because I'm too busy and/or lazy, I didn't do it carefully. I just sat in front of my webcam and let 'er rip. Although it's unedited and the first few minutes of the demo are not visible, just audible, I'm hoping that you'll find this a useful 1/2-hour writing lesson.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;
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&lt;iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/0NF0gRz6iSw" width="560"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/04/video-of-how-i-create-my-columns-and.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://img.youtube.com/vi/0NF0gRz6iSw/default.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-4996564380735028041</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 01:22:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-05-19T13:15:04.817-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">politeness</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">rudeness</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">interrupting</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">communication skills</category><title>Make Conscious Your Deciding to Interrupt or Not</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.doyletics.com/images/110508jv.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="209" src="http://www.doyletics.com/images/110508jv.gif" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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In conversation, you pay a price every time you interrupt:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;It makes the person feel invalidated and thus more likely closed to what you have to say.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;It makes the person feel you're rude and thus less likely to support you in anything.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;You are making your point when their mind is still focused on what they were saying. As a result, the person may not fully hear what you're saying.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
We rationalize the value of interrupting:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;We think it saves time---After all, we're confident we know what they're going to say. We often are right but, for the reasons above, we're less likely to obtain the desired result than if we let the person finish talking. True, you can cram more ideas into a conversation by interrupting but that's a poor metric for assessing the conversation's value. What counts is the amount of benefit that the convo yields and on that metric, you may save time by not interrupting.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;We think that interrupting shows we're motivated, that we care. It may, instead, be interpreted as rudeness, inability to control ourselves, even narcissism.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;We think that interrupting shows we're smart. It may but the value of that is often outweighed by the above negatives.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
If you truly care about being effective and perceived positively, &lt;b&gt;be conscious in deciding whether to interrupt. &lt;/b&gt;Decide, consciously, whether the benefits of interrupting outweigh the liabilities. Indeed, sometimes you'll decide interrupting is worth it. Other times, you'll decide to, when someone finishes talking, wait a full second before speaking. The latter makes the person feel you really were listening rather than just waiting for them to finish so you could offer your pearls. It also allows their mind to clear so it's available to truly process what you're going to say. Plus, it gives you time to craft a more thoughtful response.&lt;br /&gt;
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The no-interrupt/wait-a-second principle also applies to meetings. Often, the person who hangs back until the end of a discussion and then, carefully, tactfully, comments or asks a question, will be taken more seriously and liked more than the person who has peppered the discussion with comments, especially if s/he interrupted others.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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Of course, if you're an inveterate interrupter, changing is much easier said than done. I believe your best chances of succeeding are:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Trying a zero-tolerance policy at least for a while: No interrupting, under any circumstance. It's more likely that you'll make progress with that all-or-nothing policy than if you try to ease off. Having to decide, in the moment, whether to interrupt, is just too difficult. You can later back off, replacing the no-interrupt rule with a rule of staying conscious to interrupt only when it will yield net benefit.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Tell someone close to you that you're trying to develop a new habit: interrupting less and that you'd appreciate it if, every time you interrupt, s/he not complain but simply raise one finger. That's a quick, minimally threatening way to give you feedback.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;In business meetings, if you're afraid you'll forget what you want to say, simply jot it down.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
Learning to control a tendency to overinterrupt is crucial but difficult. I speak from personal experience. Candidly, despite knowing all of the above, I still interrupt too much. Especially when it's something I'm passionate about, I just can restrain myself.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
The good news is that you needn't be perfect. If you interrupt inappropriately, forgive yourself but get back on that wagon. You will reap significant professional and personal benefits. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/04/you-pay-big-price-when-you-interrupt.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>4</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-2078576124503264517</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 01:02:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-04-26T23:19:04.085-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">alternatives to college</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">apprenticeships</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">college critique</category><title>Video: College is Overrated</title><description>I was on &lt;i&gt;Huffington Post Live&lt;/i&gt; again today. This time, we discussed whether going to a university is as wise a decision as it used to be. Especially if you were a weak student in high school, the opportunity cost of attending a university is so high that for many students it's a worse choice than entering an apprenticeship, a short-term community college program, the military, or working at the elbow of a master guitarmaker, an ethical entrepreneur, etc. I enter the discussion at around the 5-minute mark. Here's the video:&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;iframe frameborder="0" height="270" scrollable="no" src="http://embed.live.huffingtonpost.com/HPLEmbedPlayer/?segmentId=50bd07b0fe344454150003c6" width="480"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/04/video-college-is-overrated.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-2127883021436944760</guid><pubDate>Wed, 24 Apr 2013 19:16:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-04-24T12:16:41.059-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">homeland security</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">terrorism jobs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">under-the-radar careers</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">hidden jobs</category><title>Jobs Fighting Terrorism</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="https://www.cia.gov/news-information/cia-the-war-on-terrorism/busterspin_preview.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="180" src="https://www.cia.gov/news-information/cia-the-war-on-terrorism/busterspin_preview.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
My AOL contribution today: &lt;a href="http://jobs.aol.com/articles/2013/04/23/counterterrorism-jobs-after-the-boston-bombing/"&gt;jobs fighting terrorism.&lt;/a&gt; I list lots of options. </description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/04/jobs-fighting-terrorism.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-3674513045708240238</guid><pubDate>Wed, 24 Apr 2013 03:30:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-04-26T23:23:03.704-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">sefl-esteem</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">politicians</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">marketing hype</category><title>America the Tootiful: We brag even when we're not very good</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
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Here's an advance look at my next &lt;i&gt;The Life Well-Led&lt;/i&gt; column in the Mensa publication, &lt;i&gt;The Intelligencer.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;b&gt;America the Tootiful&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
America
loves to toot its own horn, even when we're not very good. For example, after
the Boston Bombing, President Obama crowed about how great America is:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: .05in; margin-top: 0in;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 9.0pt; margin-right: .05in; margin-top: 0in; tab-stops: .25in;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;The
terrorists failed because, as Americans, we refused to be terrorized...That
American spirit includes staying true to the unity and diversity that makes us
strong -- like no other nation in the world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div style="margin-right: .05in;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div style="margin-right: .05in;"&gt;
Huh?! The terrorists didn't fail: Despite America having
spent billions on anti-terrorism, the terrorists accomplished just what they
wanted: They disrupted that iconic American sporting event The Boston Marathon,
killing three, wounding hundreds, and spawning a manhunt and aftermath that has already cost
all of us &lt;a href="http://www.prisonplanet.com/bombing-aftermath-could-cost-boston-billions.html"&gt;billions
of dollars&lt;/a&gt;. And did we truly react "like no other nation in the world?"
Does Obama really believe that not one of the world's 196 nations could even
match our unsuccessful effort?&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Our undeserved horn-tooting
descends from there. Examples:&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-right: .05in;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-right: .05in;"&gt;
In the most recent presidential
election, both candidates fell over themselves to genuflect before the altar of
American exceptionalism despite, for example, the U.S.'s
child poverty rate &lt;a href="http://www.unicef-irc.org/publications/pdf/rc10_eng.pdf"&gt;ranking 34th
among the most advanced 35 countries,&lt;/a&gt; edging out only Romania. But
don't worry, we &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_beer_consumption_per_capita"&gt;rank
#2&lt;/a&gt; in beer consumption. Politico &lt;a href="http://www.politico.com/politico44/2012/08/obama-everyone-wants-to-be-us-131495.html"&gt;reported&lt;/a&gt;,
"The President took American exceptionalism to a whole new level Wednesday
by suggesting that not only is the United States the greatest nation
on Earth, but every other country wants to be us." But even that pales in
comparison with Romney's view, which the Huffington Post &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/richard-t-hughes/mormon-faith-and-the-romney-doctrine-of-american-exceptionalism_b_1874881.html"&gt;summarized&lt;/a&gt;
as, "God chose the U.S.
above all the nations of the Earth to bring light, hope, and freedom to all
humankind."&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Of course, politicians far from
monopolize the gasconade.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-right: .05in;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-right: .05in;"&gt;
According to a panel of experts
convened at Columbia College (IL), Michael Jackson is &lt;a href="http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2010-09-27/entertainment/ct-live-0928-jazz-michael-jackson-20100927_1_music-michael-jackson-genius"&gt;widely
referred to&lt;/a&gt; as a genius. Michael Jackson, a consensus genius??!&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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As a career counselor, I can
attest that the amount of puffery in job seekers' resumes, cover letters, and
interviews could fill a dirigible: "I'm uniquely qualified for the job.
I'm a self-starter yet also a team player who delights in exceeding customer
expectations, and I spearheaded initiatives that saved the company $10
million." If you added up all the savings job seekers claimed, it would
exceed the Gross Domestic Product.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Of course, product marketers know
absolutely no bounds. For example, Here's how &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;Pom Wonderful&lt;/i&gt; pomegranate juice has been promoted: &lt;span class="apple-converted-space"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333333;"&gt;This 'antioxidant superpower' is straight-up 'health in a
bottle' that’ll help you&lt;span class="apple-converted-space"&gt; cheat death &lt;/span&gt;with
beneficial effects on everything from prostate cancer to cardiovascular health to
impotence." In fact, &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;Time&lt;/i&gt;
reported, "The FTC says there is no science to back up the claims. The
results of studies that have been done show that Pom products show no more
efficacy than a placebo."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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"Wonderful" is downright
modest compared with, for example, a kitchen cleaner named &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;Fantastik&lt;/i&gt;! not to mention &lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;the makeup, &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.makeupalley.com/product/showreview.asp?itemid=110468"&gt;Super Orgasm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;
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Even the world of theatre, where stage
plays relentlessly assault capitalism, can't resist its unwarranted
horn-tooting when it comes to lining &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;their&lt;/i&gt;
pockets. For example, Berkeley's very non-proletarian-priced Aurora Theatre's
current play is The Arsonists. Its promo: "See what everyone's talking
about!" I live heavily in the Bay Area theatre scene. Not one person has
mentioned The Arsonists. &lt;/div&gt;
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A decade ago, the company that
made the two-wheel Segway promised it would revolutionize travel. When was the
last time you saw a Segway? Perhaps the revolution was impeded because its CEO
James Heselden died when his Segway accidentally rolled off a cliff. &lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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From whence stems America's
bloviation? One likely suspect is America's obsession with building people's
self-esteem. We praise them or certainly don't criticize them for bragging
about attributes they've acquired without effort: "Black is
Beautiful," I'm Italian and I'm Proud," Girls Rock." Such
phrases are no mere sideshows: A Google search on "Girls rock" revealed
3.4 million hits (and only 0.9 million for "Boys Rock" but I'll leave
the reasons for the disparity for another column.) Ironically, &lt;a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3263756/"&gt;studies&lt;/a&gt; find
that Asians have the lowest average self-esteem and the highest achievement while
Blacks have the highest self-esteem and the lowest achievement. That makes
sense: If you think you're already wonderful, you're less likely to feel the
need to work hard.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-right: .05in;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Sure, when it's exigent, we may
feign modesty. After all, humility is core to America's New Testament roots:
"I accept this honor not just on behalf of myself but of my colleagues, friends,
and family without whom this wouldn't be possible. It truly was a team
effort." Not withstanding such calculated understatement, we are America the
Tootiful.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-right: .05in;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-right: .05in;"&gt;
I cannot claim that every word
that has emerged from my lips or fingers rises to sainthood but I write this
column in hopes it might encourage all of us to pull on ropes of restraint and become
a little less tootiful. It &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;is&lt;/i&gt; key to
the life well-led.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://media.cmgdigital.com/shared/lt/lt_cache/thumbnail/188/img/photos/2012/04/28/aa/58/ddn081511police_998276a.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="254" src="http://media.cmgdigital.com/shared/lt/lt_cache/thumbnail/188/img/photos/2012/04/28/aa/58/ddn081511police_998276a.jpg" width="400" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
If you're a longshot job applicant it may be worth a &lt;a href="http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-careers/2013/04/01/resume-hail-marys"&gt;Hail Mary resume&lt;/a&gt; and, the topic of my post today on USNews.com, a &lt;a href="http://goo.gl/tAV0b"&gt;Hail Mary cover letter.&lt;/a&gt; </description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/04/the-hail-mary-cover-letter-for-when.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-5818457513786471533</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Apr 2013 23:12:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-04-18T16:12:25.108-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">landing a job</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">finding a job</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">career advice</category><title>What's New in Finding a Job</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://jobsearchingsucks.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="101" src="http://jobsearchingsucks.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/1.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;a href="http://jobs.aol.com/articles/2013/04/18/new-job-search-tips/"&gt;My AOL post today&lt;/a&gt; is on some relatively new angles on using the internet in finding a job. </description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/04/whats-new-in-finding-job.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-7630124555522564078</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Apr 2013 19:51:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-04-17T09:46:45.885-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">tech jobs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">business ideas</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">where the jobs are</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">career advice</category><title>What's New in Finding a Career, Landing a Job, and Starting a Business</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.uwalumni.com/media/images/careers/career-path.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://www.uwalumni.com/media/images/careers/career-path.jpg" width="142" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
I was on KGO Radio's &lt;a href="http://www.ronn.com/"&gt;Ronn Owens Program&lt;/a&gt; today. In preparing for the show, I made notes. Lest they go to waste, I've adapted them into this post.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;Likely source of new jobs: &lt;/b&gt;Comprehensive immigration reform/mass legalization. It will create jobs preparing immigrants for the citizenship exam. Illegals are high users of the health care, legal and social service systems, so just these should burgeon: bureaucrats, translators, health care providers, lawyers, court clerks, bailiffs, etc. In the private sector, supermarket chains such as Mi Pueblo should burgeon and nightclubs, radio, and TV shows, etc. will be repurposed to accommodate the change in audience tastes. And this amnesty, if it's like the previous ones, will trigger new waves of immigrants, ensuring that the job market in these areas will be strong. Learn Spanish.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;Growing areas in tech. &lt;/b&gt;there's a decent chance that mobile and social media, currently hot, will soon peak. I'm more bullish on:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;computer security&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;digital forensics:&amp;nbsp;prosecute hackers, spouses hiding money, employee theft.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;and especially Big Data: data warehousing, architecture, and mining. I'm bullish because the massive data is already close to enabling marketers to predict what you'll buy, when and why. In the health care space, the data will be used to identify more cost-effective diagnoses and treatments. Credit card companies will use Big Data to more accurately predict if a transaction is likely to be fraudulent. Stock pickers will use Big Data to develop more predictive models of what to buy and sell.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
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&lt;span style="background-color: white;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Some careers that many people would find fun:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;/span&gt;pyrotechnician, store
merchandiser, hairstylist, garden designer or coach, beer brewer, sports
announcer. Alas, it's not easy to land a good job in most of these fields.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;
&lt;b&gt;What's new and working in landing a job?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;Writing a business plan: what you could do in the first 90 days.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;Including a portfolio of your work products with your applications&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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up your Google results: If you've posted things you wouldn't want your employer to see, consider taking them down.&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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LinkedIn profile including an engaging headshot, &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;!--[if !supportLists]--&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Symbol;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;a href="https://twitter.com/search?q=%23twesume"&gt;Twesume&lt;/a&gt;: A 140-character resume on Twitter.&amp;nbsp;e.g., &lt;i&gt;Tech PR pro, experience both in-house and agency: [link]. &lt;/i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in; text-autospace: none; text-indent: -.25in;"&gt;
&lt;!--[if !supportLists]--&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Symbol;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.careersonar.com/"&gt;CareerSonar&lt;/a&gt;
ranks all jobs available online by the strength of your connections on Facebook and LinkedIn. That makes it easy for you to know when to try to get a connection to try
to help you.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in; text-autospace: none; text-indent: -.25in;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Job-search Hail Marys&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;The resume as an Amazon page, infographic,
or Monopoly board.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Walk in. If there's a security guard, arrive when lots of employees are and try to get one to say, "He's with me."&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Take control of part of the interview, for example, ask if you might go to the white board and explain.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Ask probing questions: "Would you tell me something about working
here that wouldn't appear in the employee handbook?" or "Why should
and shouldn't I want to work for you?"&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Advice for people who get frustrated with coworkers. &lt;/b&gt;It's tough to change people so after a brief effort, minimize interaction with them, get them to
leave, or you leave.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;b&gt;

Self-employment ideas &amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Match.com ad coach&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;High-quality coin-operated laundry: with a kid&amp;nbsp;center, coffeehouse/concerts/videos/internet access, big-screen TV.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Videoscribe/Whiteboard Animation (using Powtoon or Sparkol.)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Semi-retirement jobs.&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;Interim executive,&amp;nbsp;healthcare
advocate, inn sitter, tour guide, advisor to returning college students, teach classes in adult school or as guest speaker in university classes. &lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;
&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Advice for new college grads that are stuck:&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;Circle a date on your calendar a month or two out by which date you will have picked something. Most people who are happy with their careers wouldn't have known it going in. They end up loving their career only when they've become the go-to guy/gal. Then look for a launchpad job--an entry-level position that will put you at the elbow of people who can teach you and get you promoted.&lt;/div&gt;
</description><link>http://martynemko.blogspot.com/2013/04/whats-new-in-finding-career-landing-job.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Marty Nemko)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821345570811107481.post-8093484242899772038</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Apr 2013 03:23:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2013-04-14T14:06:54.157-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">new job search strategies</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">online job searching</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">career advice</category><title>What's New in Landing a Job</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;
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Sometimes it feels that job searching hasn't changed in eons: Write a resume, network, answer ads, interview.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
There are new factors, all internet-based:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Employers will google you. If there's something you've posted that you don't want prospective employes to see, take it down. If someone else has written something unfairly negative about you, see if you can get him to take that down. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; line-height: 14.4pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in; vertical-align: baseline;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;Be sure your LinkedIn profile is complete, including an engaging headshot.&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia; font-size: 9.5pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; line-height: 14.4pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in; vertical-align: baseline;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia; font-size: 9.5pt;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.careersonar.com/"&gt;CareerSonar &lt;/a&gt;ranks all jobs available online by the
     strength of your connections on Facebook and LinkedIn. That makes it easy
     for you to know when to try to get a connection to try to help you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="color: #333333; line-height: 14.4pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in; vertical-align: baseline;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia; font-size: 9.5pt;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://glassdoor.com/"&gt;Glassdoor.com&lt;/a&gt; makes it easy to dig up the straight scoop on what it's like to interview with and work for a specific employer. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&amp;nbsp;It can't hurt to make some smart posts on a blog, Twitter, or LinkedIn forum.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&amp;nbsp;You might create a website containing a portfolio of your work&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&amp;nbsp;If you're camera-friendly, post a YouTube resume or you explaining something you're expert in.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&amp;nbsp;You might try posting a &lt;i&gt;Twesume&lt;/i&gt;: a 140-character resume on Twitter. Employers like to screen fast and many are looking for social-media-friendly applicants. Sample: &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="background: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 10.0pt;"&gt;Tech PR pro. 16+ years experience both in-house &amp;amp; agency. Looking in LA.&lt;span class="apple-converted-space"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span class="tco-hidden"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span class="tco-hidden"&gt;&amp;nbsp;You can also use Twitter to try to get leads, for example,&amp;nbsp; &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="background: white; border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #202022; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;"&gt;Looking for a
job in X field, and would greatly appreciate feedback on my online portfolio!
[link]
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="background: white; border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #202022; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span class="tco-hidden"&gt;&lt;span style="background: white; border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #202022; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;In answering job ads or making unsolicited queries to prospective employers, include a portfolio of your work products&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; and/or&lt;/span&gt; a business plan explaining what you could do if hired.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span class="tco-hidden"&gt;&lt;span style="background: white; border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #202022; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;What's&lt;/span&gt; working less well is asking for informational interviews. People are sick of being asked. Replace that by being a savvy googler and searcher of LinkedIn groups.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
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