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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" media="screen" href="/~d/styles/rss2full.xsl"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" media="screen" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~d/styles/itemcontent.css"?><rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearch/1.1/" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:creativeCommons="http://backend.userland.com/creativeCommonsRssModule" xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 03:26:29 +0000</lastBuildDate><title>Spooked!</title><description>A Gay Ghost Hunter's Snippets of Life... and the Afterlife

Sometimes, things go bump in the night. Are they rattling chains and disembodied footsteps, incoherent mumblings and ruminations, or the ex who refuses to dematerialize? Who says there can't be anything fun, witty, and amusing about matters of life and death?</description><link>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>538</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><creativeCommons:license>http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/2.0/</creativeCommons:license><image><link>http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/2.0/</link><url>http://creativecommons.org/images/public/somerights20.gif</url><title>Some Rights Reserved</title></image><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/moonspenders" type="application/rss+xml" /><feedburner:emailServiceId>moonspenders</feedburner:emailServiceId><feedburner:feedburnerHostname>http://feedburner.google.com</feedburner:feedburnerHostname><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" /><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-5456206605182517366</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 05:03:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-11-04T00:49:29.795-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">video</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">new orleans</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">bed and breakfasts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">ghost hunting</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">hauntings</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">ghosts</category><title>Spooky Happenings in the Crescent City...</title><description>Among the many cities I'm dying (well, not literally) to visit is New Orleans. Just like the Witch City of Salem, it's a town where death seems to be a part of life. Ghosts, witches, vampires, and other nocturnal peoples seem quite at home there and the presence of hoodoo is undeniable. Every shop, bar, and hotel carries with it some fascinating, if not haunting, tale.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SvETxsSKnsI/AAAAAAAACno/IykTcL7_bTE/s400/NOLA_Halloween.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400119172615806658" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;One such place is &lt;a href="http://www.fivecontinentsbnb.com/"&gt;5 Continents Bed &amp;amp; Breakfast&lt;/a&gt;, which I did look into and noted in the "Haunted LGBT Accommodations" section in the back of my book. While I left out some of the history and hauntings at the inn, I just might finally revisit it for the sequel. It's a beautifully-restored old home, and apparently still occupied by its original owners.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SvETxeYvySI/AAAAAAAACng/nMOjto-Vmws/s400/5Continents_steps.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400119168885311778" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.passportmagazine.com/"&gt;Passport Magazine&lt;/a&gt; visited this haunted hotspot for the Halloween season (possibly after seeing it listed on my website... I'm not trying to assume, but reporter Paul West did attempt to contact me about a story earlier this summer, but due to email issues I missed him... sorry again, Paul!) and interviewed the innkeeper as well as a paranormal team as they looked for paranormal evidence at the business.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Check out the video from &lt;a href="http://www.passportmagazine.com/tv/"&gt;Passport.TV&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.passportmagazine.com/tv/player.swf" width="410" height="260" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" flashvars="duration=34&amp;amp;file=http://www.passportmagazine.com/tv/flv/Ghost767.flv&amp;amp;image=http://www.passportmagazine.com/tv/images/Ghost767.jpg&amp;amp;autostart=false&amp;amp;stretching=uniform" allowscriptaccess="always" bgcolor="undefined"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-5456206605182517366?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/rK9MLXxcg-c/spooky-happenings-in-crescent-city.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SvETxsSKnsI/AAAAAAAACno/IykTcL7_bTE/s72-c/NOLA_Halloween.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/11/spooky-happenings-in-crescent-city.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-6975008531333294421</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 07:25:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-11-02T02:59:18.319-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">halloween</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">personal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">people</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">life</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">rants</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>Crawling Out from Under...</title><description>October is finally over. And somehow, I managed to survive. Sure, I slept away the entire first day of November, but my body was trying to tell me something, aside from all these aches, pains, and utter exhaustion that still floods over me. I feel as though I've been thrown in a washing machine with a few dozen boulders. And my throat feels like I tried swallowing a grapefruit.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Su6Po8qh_yI/AAAAAAAACnQ/nQT5vNYzl4U/s400/gay_pirate_couple.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399410936905858850" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;Boy&lt;/i&gt;, you're probably thinking, &lt;i&gt;sounds like he sure had a fun Halloween!&lt;/i&gt; If only that were so. If fun involves being too exhausted to focus energy on anything for more than 5 minutes, trying to nap and failing miserably, battling the cold weather of Ohio, watching as half the people you know face automobile problems, and ending it with phone calls to police and hospitals, panicked that a family member has been in a serious accident (or possibly dead)... then, and only then, would I say yes, it was fun.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;That does make it sound like I had the worst month ever, though. And I can't say that. I've met and spoke with wonderful people, traveled extensively, made new friends and contacts, and found a few times to smile and laugh genuinely. Still, there have been difficult moments. And some people have been left by the wayside as my time has been horrifyingly limited. I'm still only in the beginning phases of catching up, so hopefully I can, at least in part, make up for the many blunders and changes that've happened in these short few weeks. Only time will tell.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Su6Po7dOKnI/AAAAAAAACnY/KqNLkI0lCS8/s400/lion_statue.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399410936581597810" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;I do need to get back to business here on this blog too. I've had one guest blogging offer already, which pleases me to no end. Any time I can have a few people take over for a brief time and post some interesting, amusing, or humorous tidbits in keeping with the intended purpose of this blog, it's greatly appreciated. As one man, trying to write these posts along with other articles all over and future book projects, it can be difficult finding the time to remember that my own life is often kept on the wayside. I love to write on here, don't get me wrong, but after a few years of posting far more regularly, I do need a break. There are people out there I want to have some actual time with and trips I need to make or plan. And to top it all off, I have a severely difficult project on the horizon: writing a sequel to my book. It won't be easy, that's for sure... but I want to do it and refuse not to do it.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Su6PooimePI/AAAAAAAACnI/FwLZq1hpqYw/s400/cleveland_sunset.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399410931503888626" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;So, as the weather gets colder and more dreary here in Ohio, we'll see what happens with my cabin fever as we head into winter. One year of so much traveling and interesting adventures will certainly make matters worse. And when the first snow flies in the coming month or so, I'll probably have more time for blogging... but long for the world outside that is frozen in place until the spring thaw.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-6975008531333294421?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/LVf2Lc_l_l0/crawling-out-from-under.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Su6Po8qh_yI/AAAAAAAACnQ/nQT5vNYzl4U/s72-c/gay_pirate_couple.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/11/crawling-out-from-under.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-7871050253979042847</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 06:11:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-30T02:19:59.178-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">books</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>Out With the Old...</title><description>In light of new projects coming my way (and since Halloween/Samhain is also the new year in certain religions), I've decided to take &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.lulu.com/content/paperback-book/haunted-cuyahoga-spirits-of-the-valley/462087"&gt;Haunted Cuyahoga&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt; off the market soon. And by soon, I mean after selling ONE more copy. (I'm notified of every sale, so I can do that.) Yes, just one... making a grand total of printed copies &lt;b&gt;266&lt;/b&gt;. Why? Well, it's time to move on for me. New things on the horizon... letting go of some of the past that's weighing down this suitcase of life I carry with me. It's been three years since this little venture, and I'd like to lay it to rest...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-7871050253979042847?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/IAsvxLLmTM8/out-with-old.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/10/out-with-old.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-4023449860820874701</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 03:46:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-25T00:10:33.254-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">magazines</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">personal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">travel</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">books</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">writing</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>Home is Where the Tell-Tale Heart Is...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SuPNR_8BCmI/AAAAAAAACnA/jBk332DVhoA/s400/hole_hand.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 95px; height: 400px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5396382487624616546" /&gt;So, I'm back in northeast Ohio after a LONG hiatus. What a trip—er, trips—it's been. I feel like the last two weeks, I haven't had much time to sit still for long, let alone digest everything. From Salem (an incredible city... thanks to everyone there who made my trip enjoyable and the many new friends I made along the way) and my first-ever book signing at &lt;a href="http://www.cornerstonebooks-salem.com/"&gt;Cornerstone Books&lt;/a&gt; to Dayton (as well as Yellow Springs where two bookstores now carry &lt;i&gt;Queer Hauntings&lt;/i&gt;) and my wonderful friends, both distant and close, there who kept me on my toes. I haven't even unpacked yet, but I did take the time to make a Halloween tree and decorate my window a little, just to cheer myself up from the exhaustion for a little while.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I have so much to get done, I'm not sure how long it will be before I have the time to write a regular blog entry. It might be time to finally create that team of bloggers to help me keep &lt;i&gt;Spooked!&lt;/i&gt; active during my more busy times. I promised myself I would have a book signing in my own area before trying to tackle other signings elsewhere. I have a place in mind, but I need to make some calls and see what's happening.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Otherwise, much to my surprise and chagrin, it has been a good month for press. Although I had to decline a few media events due to my hectic schedule, Toronto's &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.pinkplaymags.com/"&gt;Autumnplay Magazine&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt; featured an article about the book and I. But that's not all; just yesterday, I was told that &lt;a href="http://instinctmagazine.com/"&gt;Instinct Magazine&lt;/a&gt; reviewed my book this month. I still need too get my hands on a copy! It may not have been long or 5 stars but till, it's exciting.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Having said that, this neck ache is creeping up my spine and giving me a headache, so I shall bid you all adieu. I'll be back soon, hopefully, if time permits. There's too much to do, but right now it's time to take some aspirin and watch the twinkling ghost lights dance around my window frame...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-4023449860820874701?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/eGlDq-ZXjfc/home-is-where-tell-tale-heart-is.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SuPNR_8BCmI/AAAAAAAACnA/jBk332DVhoA/s72-c/hole_hand.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">4</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/10/home-is-where-tell-tale-heart-is.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-3213737996903331489</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 01:24:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-11T21:39:30.190-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">personal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">travel</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">people</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">stores</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">books</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">salem</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>No Need for Broom Closets....</title><description>For starters... Happy National Coming Out Day!! I know, I didn't realize until just now. Sorry! My mind has been elsewhere!&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/StKIVxxenRI/AAAAAAAACm4/FfWqvGzjeN8/s400/admiral_duncan_pride_flag.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5391521611635399954" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Well, Salem has been everything I thought it would be. And above all else, the entire month of October is one, long Halloween for this town. There isn't another city on earth I can think of where zombies, vampires, and other costumes are seen daily on the street. Of course, fighting your way through the crowd is another matter. It's a madhouse around here.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'll have to update about my entire trip when I get back. I want to devote some time to everything here in the best way that I can, with enough rest for my bones and less aches and pains from hours on the streets. I have so many businesses to talk about... interesting people to mention (beyond &lt;a href="http://www.jeffreyjustice.com/"&gt;Jeffrey Justice&lt;/a&gt;, who has been a dear even though he's run ragged with work... stay tuned for a Supernatural Spotlight featuring him) and photos to share (I know I'll max out my monthly allowance of photos on Flickr for sure). I've been trying to avoid being a tourist, but it's difficult not to be.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'm down to the last 5 copies of my book already, and I've only been here three days! Let's hope they last me through it all. I wasn't expecting this much. I dropped off two copies at &lt;a href="http://www.magicparlor.com/"&gt;The Magic Parlor&lt;/a&gt; yesterday and they both sold within 24 hours! We shall see how long the 10 signed copies there now last. Otherwise, I've met some amusing people, had some interesting conversations, and thoroughly enjoyed myself. People are far more receptive about &lt;i&gt;Queer Hauntings&lt;/i&gt; than the naysayers would care to believe. And if all goes well, aside from a few radio show/podcast interviews I have coming up thanks to some good people I've met, I might even be talking at a university in the coming months!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It's all so exciting, wonderful, and yet exhausting. But for now, I'm signing off from the Witch City. It will be a very long week...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-3213737996903331489?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/VMDCknq2Ss0/no-need-for-broom-closets.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/StKIVxxenRI/AAAAAAAACm4/FfWqvGzjeN8/s72-c/admiral_duncan_pride_flag.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/10/no-need-for-broom-closets.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-4710202708021078399</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 10:59:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-01T07:59:17.250-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">halloween</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">bookstores</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">travel</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">radio show</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">books</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">salem</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">events</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">massachusetts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">dayton</category><title>(Un)Dead Man Walking...</title><description>Welcome to October... or, as I prefer to think of it, that time of year when suddenly everyone thinks about ghosts, ghouls, and hauntings only to forget about them after Halloween. Those of us dealing with the dead generally feel it's "just another day at the office" and sometimes scoff at the sudden interest. Although there is one exception to it being like the rest of the year: everyone wants you to be everywhere at once for the whole 31 days.&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SsSY2jc9VbI/AAAAAAAACmo/ECTaNBfrqV4/s400/halloween_candy_corn.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5387599117239014834" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Honestly, I haven't had what you might call a laid-back October in a few years now. I miss the days when Halloween was something to look forward to instead of the last night and a mile marker for that next chance to take a deep breath, kick off your shoes, and relax. But this is what I've chosen, because I love the paranormal. So I won't complain... though I might try my best to find mild ways of enjoying myself between gigs.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And this month is going to be action-packed for me. I'm gone to Cleveland this weekend to conduct an investigation at a haunted place, followed by an appearance on &lt;a href="http://www.nrrradio.com/"&gt;The Kode 'N Nyte Show on NRR Radio&lt;/a&gt; on Sunday to talk ghosts, have fun, and give away a copy of &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;location=http://www.amazon.com/Queer-Hauntings-Tales-Lesbian-Ghosts/dp/1590212398/&amp;amp;tag=themoonspenpa-20&amp;amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325"&gt;Queer Hauntings&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;. Then I have a few days of down time, hopefully having coffee with a friend, before taking my great adventure east to Salem, the Witch City!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SsSY2ywJt0I/AAAAAAAACmw/vuMVmiuoDSE/s400/witch_liquorstore.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5387599121346049858" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Thankfully traveling via &lt;a href="http://www.amtrak.com/"&gt;Amtrak&lt;/a&gt; again (I love rail travel... so relaxing), I'll be arriving in Boston on October 8th where I'll meet with &lt;a href="http://www.jeffreyjustice.com/"&gt;Jeffrey Justice&lt;/a&gt;, who has been tirelessly helping me plan events in Salem for my week-long stay. I don't have a full schedule yet to give you all, but you can be sure I'll be poking around town, popping up in some of the expected (and more unexpected) places. If you happen to be in the area, check with your local bookstores and see if I'll be popping by... I know &lt;a href="http://www.cornerstonebooks-salem.com/"&gt;Cornerstone Books&lt;/a&gt; is on my list for the 15th! &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SsSY2bRJKfI/AAAAAAAACmg/jVD30cni3y0/s400/cornerstone_books_interior.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5387599115041974770" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Although it is mainly intended to be a "business" trip, that doesn't mean I'm not planning on enjoying myself. If money permits, I'll be having a nice celebratory beverage at some night spot with Jeffrey and I'll be taking plenty of photographs throughout my stay. I''m even planning an excursion to a haunted New England site as research for the sequel to &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;location=http://www.amazon.com/Queer-Hauntings-Tales-Lesbian-Ghosts/dp/1590212398/&amp;amp;tag=themoonspenpa-20&amp;amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325"&gt;Queer Hauntings&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt; (yes, I'm already working on that slowly). Perhaps I'll take a few interesting photos and have a little contest here... letting my dear readers try to guess where I was.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;After I arrive back in Ohio on October 17th, it's off to Dayton for another busy week with friends, followed by a ghost tour. Perhaps I'll stop to breathe around the 24th before the month crescendos into &lt;i&gt;Samhain&lt;/i&gt;, or All Hallows Eve. All the while my laptop will be with me. During all my excursions, I should be letting everyone know what is happening and updating things accordingly. There is no guarantee I'll have time to post daily, but at least I'll do my best to share my experiences with you all. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-4710202708021078399?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/TD_pVVuFtMA/undead-man-walking.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SsSY2jc9VbI/AAAAAAAACmo/ECTaNBfrqV4/s72-c/halloween_candy_corn.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/10/undead-man-walking.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-8734882423588520166</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 10:29:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-28T06:48:46.655-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">werewolves</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">humor</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">music</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">youtube</category><title>I See a Bad Moon Rising...</title><description>It's early Monday morning, there's thunder outside and the rhythmic sound of rain falling. It may be close to dawn, but there's still enough "dark and stormy night" to make me forget all the stress, drama, and insanity of recent time and think back to Halloween's approach.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SsCUCVSwEKI/AAAAAAAACmA/junpDlF4yGU/s400/werewolf_in_daytime.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5386467922131554466" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;October (and all the festivities that come with it) is a time when we all want to be someone... or something... else for a little while, even just to pretend for a few hours. And what best exemplifies this desire than the shapeshifter. Werewolves and other humanoids have been a part of lore for centuries. We've been terrified by the thought of people who could become animals while the moon was full, though secretly, we all would like to have that ability: the power to change who we are and live differently for a brief time. Let's face it. None of us is completely happy with ourself or life as it is. There's something intriguing out there that catches everyone's fancy.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Still, as I always say, there's humor to be had in everything. And in light of the fact that life can get insane, overwhelming, and downright difficult, I think it's time to get a little amusement out of that inner animal inside us all. And an ingenious man online did just that... having a little fun with Shakira's song "She Wolf". I can't help but laugh watching this one. Well, ok... perhaps between chuckles I think he's not too bad to look at:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;object width="410" height="225"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/V0QNEZTzENU&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;color1=0x006699&amp;amp;color2=0x54abd6"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/V0QNEZTzENU&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;color1=0x006699&amp;amp;color2=0x54abd6" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="410" height="225"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-8734882423588520166?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/xyKiswLNRss/i-see-bad-moon-rising.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SsCUCVSwEKI/AAAAAAAACmA/junpDlF4yGU/s72-c/werewolf_in_daytime.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/09/i-see-bad-moon-rising.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-5479354078384643030</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 17:57:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-25T14:28:57.684-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">giveaways</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">edge</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">books</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">contests</category><title>Win a Copy of Queer Hauntings!</title><description>Most of you readers may not realize how much work goes into trying to find interesting stories, websites, etc. to mention in this blog. It can be tiring work. But the research and digging doesn't end there. Even when it comes to my book, finding reviews, booksellers, or anything else happening with it, that too requires a lot of research and digging. Yes... believe it or not, authors aren't told everything!&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Sr0LxlLm4UI/AAAAAAAAClw/Zo0BDlzjBn4/s400/exorcist_movie_eyes.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5385473675827274050" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;In fact, one such bit I just stumbled across may be of interest to most of you. &lt;a href="http://www.edgeunitedstates.com/"&gt;Edge&lt;/a&gt; (along with its different individual city websites) often gives away a variety of tickets , DVDs, books, etc. on its website. Now, it's giving away a copy of &lt;i&gt;Queer Hauntings&lt;/i&gt; to one lucky entrant! There isn't a deadline listed, but I wouldn't wait too long to enter.&lt;a href="http://www.edgeboston.com/index.php?ch=giveawaycenter&amp;amp;sc=giveaway_enter&amp;amp;id=6582"&gt; Click here to go to Edge Boston's page for the book giveaway.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Sorry, everyone, but it's not a signed copy. Although that can be arranged if you win...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-5479354078384643030?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/Eu-O3wrcse8/win-copy-of-queer-hauntings.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Sr0LxlLm4UI/AAAAAAAAClw/Zo0BDlzjBn4/s72-c/exorcist_movie_eyes.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/09/win-copy-of-queer-hauntings.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-4661219192844201229</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 22:56:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-23T19:00:08.551-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">skeletons</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">humor</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">creepy</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">sexuality</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">photos</category><title>Creepy Queer Photo Ops...</title><description>It's been too long since I posted any interestingly delightful images. So here's a little something to disturb or brighten your day...&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SrqoFVjDfDI/AAAAAAAAClo/iOellILH7Bk/s400/skeleton-on-sex.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 289px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5384801114111835186" /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-4661219192844201229?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/V6XodIAeUDs/creepy-queer-photo-ops.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SrqoFVjDfDI/AAAAAAAAClo/iOellILH7Bk/s72-c/skeleton-on-sex.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/09/creepy-queer-photo-ops.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-1787331722253132265</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 22:09:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-23T20:29:52.201-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">personal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">ohio</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">life</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">radio show</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">books</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">salem</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">writing</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>Creeping from the Crypt...</title><description>I've done it again. I've neglected this blog. Of course, this month I haven't been online as much as I normally am, so that's part of the reason. It's been another crazy few weeks for me, chock full of anxiety, stress, and my usual confusion. The temperatures here are slowly dropping down to autumn levels and Halloween will be here before we know it. That's not such a bad thing, though. I'm ready for pumpkins, cider, and the sweet scent of burning wood mixed with foliage in the air. Besides, 'tis the season for people to suddenly regain interest in ghosts and hauntings...&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SrqjFwcu0CI/AAAAAAAAClY/eZ9zoXDdjxU/s320/witch_candles.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 76px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5384795623774933026" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Personal dramas aside, I have also been working (when possible) on research for a sequel to &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Queer-Hauntings-Tales-Lesbian-Ghosts/dp/1590212398/ref=ntt_at_ep_dpt_2"&gt;Queer Hauntings&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt; It might sound premature considering the book isn't even available everywhere yet (and I haven't even seen my first copy of it yet), but this time around. the research will be more grueling. I have perhaps five places to research at this moment, which means I need at least another 35 stories before I will have another full manuscript. My goal is by next year to have it finished, along with another possible book I'm looking into... though writing two books at once might be a struggle.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SrqjFXPrgeI/AAAAAAAAClQ/R5BExT0BRvU/s320/blue_mansion_tower.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 76px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5384795617009304034" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;On the bright side, I'm still looking forward to my great escape to &lt;a href="http://www.gaysalem.com/"&gt;Salem&lt;/a&gt; in October. I'll be updating with details as soon as I know anything for certain. I'll also be off to Dayton yet again for another adventure with friends and spooks, so it will be a busy time for me. I'm hoping to have a few books on hand before I begin my travels, but we shall see how things work out. Also, on October 4th, I'll be on &lt;a href="http://www.nrrradio.com/"&gt;NRR Radio&lt;/a&gt; talking about my new book, as well as doing a bit of ghost hunting on the air. Apparently, the studio where DJ Kode and DJ Nyte are based has become a lot more active in the past month, so this could prove to be interesting. But don't expect things to be too serious. We're all going to have a little bit of fun... and during the program, I highly doubt the only spirits around will be those of the dead.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Srqjo5YUs0I/AAAAAAAAClg/e4XveN2Pm3U/s320/KenSummersPoster.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 233px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5384796227467785026" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;I've finally been updating my website a bit, so feel free to check things out. There are book excerpts posted and I'm slowly adding links as I find more booksellers offering &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Queer-Hauntings-Tales-Lesbian-Ghosts/dp/1590212398/ref=ntt_at_ep_dpt_2"&gt;Queer Hauntings&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;. I'm still hoping to do book signings, lectures, and library events as time passes though it might take a little time. I know my local library might be interested in setting up something, though I'm hoping to break out of Ohio here and there too. Yet another thing for me to get going on: contacting places and trying to set up a few events as locations from the book. So much to do, so little time when you're only one man. That's where this blog suffers too. Perhaps &lt;a href="http://www.jeannebarrack.com/"&gt;Jeanne Barrack&lt;/a&gt; is right... I need a blogging team to help keep this thing going!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'll do my best to keep this thing alive, though. Hopefully I'll find some nifty things to write about soon...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-1787331722253132265?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/kPT9-rrt_BI/creeping-from-crypt.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SrqjFwcu0CI/AAAAAAAAClY/eZ9zoXDdjxU/s72-c/witch_candles.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/09/creeping-from-crypt.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-7934183578600666066</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2009 08:24:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-28T04:38:57.648-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">video</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">movies</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">spoofs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">humor</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">willy wonka</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">christopher lloyd</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">comedy</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">horror</category><title>Beware the Oompa Loompas!!</title><description>&lt;div&gt;What if that world of "pure imagination" were really a sick, twisted, dark place filled not with candies and chocolates, but with gore, brutality, and horror? Well, for all of you who thought that Willy Wonka really was a few apples short of a bushel, writer Eric Appel brings you a strange twist on the old tale of Charlie Bucket. His movie trailer for &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.gobstoppermovie.com/"&gt;Gobstopper&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt; mixes comedy with terror. And best of all, it stars one of my all-time favorite actors... Christopher Lloyd!!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Who else could pull off that uncomfortably-creepy character with just the right comedic timing? (Sorry, Gene Wilder... deal with it. lol)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Sadly, the film isn't real. But what a shame! Here's the "trailer' for &lt;i&gt;Gobstopper&lt;/i&gt;, via &lt;a href="http://www.funnyordie.com/"&gt;Funny or Die&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;object width="384" height="256" classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" id="ordie_player_06b666ae72"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://player.ordienetworks.com/flash/fodplayer.swf"&gt;&lt;param name="flashvars" value="key=06b666ae72"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed width="384" height="256" flashvars="key=06b666ae72" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" quality="high" src="http://player.ordienetworks.com/flash/fodplayer.swf" name="ordie_player_06b666ae72" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;font-size:x-small;margin-top:0;width:384px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/06b666ae72/gobstopper-trailer" title="from Gobstopper Movie, Eric Appel, Paul Scheer, and Paul Rust"&gt;Gobstopper Trailer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And now... I bit you all adieu for a few days as I take care of some offline affairs. Thanks, Fred, for telling me about this gem of a video. I'll be doing my best to add a little humor in your life now, since you need it the most. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-7934183578600666066?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/5dV7hQOrBcU/beware-oompa-loompas.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/08/beware-oompa-loompas.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-9181354587755098286</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 15:07:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-27T11:19:37.212-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">personal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">books</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">salem</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">massachusetts</category><title>Glancing Down the Road...</title><description>In light of the crazy week it's been, I haven't had the time yet to write about some of the interesting things I've run across. But it's coming... never fear. Meanwhile, just a short personal update. The final cover is done for &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1590212398?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=themoonspenpa-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=1590212398"&gt;Queer Hauntings: True Tales of Gay &amp;amp; Lesbian Ghosts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=themoonspenpa-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=1590212398" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;, so here's a sneak peek:&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SpaiaW1te3I/AAAAAAAACk4/2m5icjH_IEk/s320/Lethe_QueerHauntings01.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 210px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5374661779004423026" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'll be posting more soon. And also, plans are going ahead with my Salem adventure in October. So in less than two months, I'll be trekking across the witch capital. I've been wanting to go there for years... and what better time than the Halloween season?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'll be gone all weekend, but hopefully I'll give you all a few amusing things to read about before I leave...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-9181354587755098286?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/bCO4T_b8SrA/glancing-down-road.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SpaiaW1te3I/AAAAAAAACk4/2m5icjH_IEk/s72-c/Lethe_QueerHauntings01.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">3</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/08/glancing-down-road.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-75419728387825034</guid><pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 05:35:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-23T01:42:52.112-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">video</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">news</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">humor</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">england</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">television</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay ghosts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">ghosts</category><title>Need an Incubus to Succubus?</title><description>Thanks to my friend Buddy, I received this little clip in an email. It's &lt;a href="http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/the_soup/index.html"&gt;The Soup&lt;/a&gt;'s take on the season finale of &lt;a href="http://www.travelchannel.com/TV_Shows/Ghost_Adventures"&gt;Ghost Adventures&lt;/a&gt;. Just a little reminder to be careful what you say, especially on camera. It might come back to haunt you...&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;embed src="http://c.brightcove.com/services/viewer/federated_f8/1396519019" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" flashvars="videoId=31384602001&amp;amp;linkBaseURL=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.eonline.com%2Fvideos%2Fv31384602001_the_soup___ghost__whisperer.html&amp;amp;playerId=1396519019&amp;amp;viewerSecureGatewayURL=https://console.brightcove.com/services/amfgateway&amp;amp;servicesURL=http://services.brightcove.com/services&amp;amp;cdnURL=http://admin.brightcove.com&amp;amp;domain=embed&amp;amp;autoStart=false&amp;amp;" base="http://admin.brightcove.com" name="flashObj" width="405" height="346" seamlesstabbing="false" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" swliveconnect="true" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-75419728387825034?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/AZGG4nFVvpg/need-incubus-to-succubus.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/08/need-incubus-to-succubus.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-1212031460942466927</guid><pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 21:42:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-22T18:33:13.654-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">paraguay</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">childhood</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">personal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">people</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">news</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">death</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">friendship</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">florida</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">united states</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">rants</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">bigfoot</category><title>Infantile Behavior...</title><description>Another interesting week draws to a close. Keeping busy with a plethora of things, checking up on friends, and receiving my first onslaught of negativity from an unexpected (well, expected... but not &lt;i&gt;expected&lt;/i&gt;) source. Shocking? Slightly. Crushing? Not at all. I know who I am and what I believe, and this year has been educational about the definition of friendship. If not marching to someone's drum or telling people what they want to hear makes me a bad man, then hooray for being rotten!&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But it's an interesting world out there with plenty of views. And while a lot of the news is on the depressing side, there are some things that aren't so dire and jaded.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SpBxy8heTZI/AAAAAAAACkA/GOn9v3Gs2q0/s400/hospital_sign.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5372919475506924946" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Take, for example, Jose Alvarenga of Paraguay who opened his infant son's coffin this week &lt;a href="http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_3434417.html?menu=news.quirkies"&gt;to find that he wasn't dead&lt;/a&gt;, as doctors had told him. While it's good news for the new father, it doesn't bode well for doctors and staff at the unnamed hospital in Asuncion. If you can't tell dead from living, perhaps medicine isn't the proper field for you.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SpBxyUUwX5I/AAAAAAAACj4/fYy52Laa1IE/s400/baby_feet_prints.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5372919464716165010" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Then back to the United States, where in Florida &lt;a href="http://www.sunjournal.com/node/102411"&gt;sightings of what is described as a "baby Bigfoot"&lt;/a&gt; have been reported in the Baker County area. While it might be an orangutan, the mystery creature has an apparent sweet tooth. Among the witnesses was a bear hunter who lost a few jelly donuts too the furry caper. Subsequent attempts too lure the pint-sized furball out in the open with confectionery treats have failed.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;That's all for now when it comes to abnormal childlike behavior. Bear with me as I struggle with graphics, barrel ahead toward autumn and Halloween, and blaze a few trails in the world, as well as my own life...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-1212031460942466927?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/tqmFoQvun2Y/infantile-behavior.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SpBxy8heTZI/AAAAAAAACkA/GOn9v3Gs2q0/s72-c/hospital_sign.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/08/infantile-behavior.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-3030920591580533168</guid><pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2009 03:44:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-23T18:47:49.145-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">personal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">books</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">authors</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay ghosts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>Like Manna From Heaven...</title><description>When I finally let go of the stress... release the reins and said "que sera sera" about the coming month... it happened. I have word, thanks to the goddess &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/"&gt;Google&lt;/a&gt;. Here are the details of my upcoming book:&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;Queer Hauntings: True Tales of Gay &amp;amp; Lesbian Ghosts&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;by Ken Summers&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;196 pages (paperback)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Publisher: &lt;a href="http://www.lethepressbooks.com/"&gt;Lethe Press&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Price: $15.00 (US)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Release Date: September 18, 2009&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And apparently, it's already &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Queer-Hauntings-Tales-Lesbian-Ghosts/dp/1590212398/"&gt;available for pre-order on Amazon.com&lt;/a&gt;, though the cover remains to be seen. but at least now you all know!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-3030920591580533168?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/Ii_xDrVOY0U/like-manna-from-heaven.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/08/like-manna-from-heaven.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-4950672851403770921</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 01:58:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-14T23:01:53.712-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">personal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">comments</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">feedback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">books</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">writing</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">polls</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>You Can't Keep a Good Blogger Down...</title><description>Yes. I have been way too serious lately on here when I have bothered to post. And I've been distracted too much by my worrying, acutely-emotional side (ok... overwhelmed by it) to the point of madness. But it that my sole reason for not posting? Well... not exactly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SoYkQ2_ZsmI/AAAAAAAACjQ/o9t-RysSpic/s400/sydney_harbour_bridge.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5370019477743841890" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;For starters, I was hoping to start mentioning more about the new book. So far, I have no updates for you, unfortunately. Except for one: there has been a change of title. &lt;i&gt;Queer Paranormal&lt;/i&gt; will not be titled &lt;i&gt;Queer Hauntings&lt;/i&gt;. Why? Oh, silly issues with categorizatio&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;n. You would think "paranormal" would be the least troubling term of the two! Otherwise, nothing has changed. And as soon as I know about cover art, page count, pricing, etc. I'll pass that information along to you all. You're not the only ones getting anxious about it. Just over a month remains until the expected release date! If I weren't keeping up on trimming my fingernails they would all be gnawed off by now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SoYkQSuqPnI/AAAAAAAACjI/pX3_wHKFpHI/s400/atlas_rockefeller.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5370019468009946738" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Otherwise, my life has changed in some ways over the past few weeks. Feelings toward people have shifted forms, whether by nature or with some prodding from them. I hate to call one of these changes becoming "single" because in most ways, nothing has changed. I have a wonderful, funny, charming man in my life... we just aren't sleeping together or picking out furniture for that little dream cottage. I took my time to mill over things, "turn emo" as some uncouth people might say, and come out on the other end content with the people who make my life enjoyable. The list isn't long (and rarely consists of Ohioans) but it's a good one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SoYkRRwaAuI/AAAAAAAACjY/YrzA_q3mbus/s400/vancouver_GTM.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 95px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5370019484928705250" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;And more changes... &lt;i&gt;Spooked!&lt;/i&gt; is now brought to you via &lt;i&gt;Vista&lt;/i&gt;! That's right, after almost a decade, my old laptop was on its last legs so I made the leap and upgraded (frighteningly enough, the new one cost 1/3 the price of the old one and has 5 times more space and 12 times more RAM) to a Compaq Presario. In widescreen. Yay! I'll decide later what to do about upgrading to Windows 7 in October (that month will already be insanely busy for me, no doubt). For now, there are other changes on the horizon...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SoYjpzZI54I/AAAAAAAACjA/VWHGae1rjGs/s400/generic_emo.jpg" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 95px; height: 400px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5370018806763153282" /&gt;&lt;div&gt;I've decided that I truly want to do a little reinventon. I hate growing too stagnant and I've spent so long waiting on that bench at the station of life that it's time to jump on a new train... whether people like it or not. Perhaps a few wardrobe changes (I did get a hoodie this summer... and I like it) and such. But the biggest thing I've been pondering it a change of hair color. No, not that horrible mistake of bright yellow I made years ago. I've been seriously thinking about going black ("once you go black..." lol). Why? Well, aside from blue, it's been one of the colors I've always wanted to try. And after a nice chat on a Greyhound bus with a sweet emo kid (if you read this, Jason, thanks again for cheering me up), I have some confirmation that black just night suit me. Aside from that Gothic demeanor I can give off. And with Halloween approaching, how could it go wrong?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But I'm pondering it a but and am seriously thinking about leaving it up to you folks... to some extent. I've thought about saying, "Since the Tip It button has never yet been useful, if I get 13 tips of $1 or a total of $13... that nice, unlucky number... I'll dye my hair black," but I wonder if that would ever happen! So, I'll make it slightly more interesting: &lt;i&gt;either $13 in my Tip It jar for the blog, or 13 unique comments from &lt;/i&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;separate&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;i&gt; readers (anonymous comments won't count toward that, so you'll have to log in with Open ID (Livejournal, Wordpress, Typepad, or AIM) if you're not on Blogger) with a majority in favor of black (or more unique comments might be necessary if the first thirteen are not a majority "yes" votes)--whichever comes first--and I shall make the change within 48 hours of said events.&lt;/i&gt; At least this gives you all a little incentive to comment, right?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Otherwise, bear with me as I get the last of the software on the laptop, learn to navigate my new technology, and return to your regularly (un)scheduled strange tales and rants. &lt;i&gt;Spooked!&lt;/i&gt; is back.... and those dead queens and crazy people who land in the headlines had better watch out...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-4950672851403770921?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/OuVLznQadbA/you-cant-keep-good-blogger-down.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SoYkQ2_ZsmI/AAAAAAAACjQ/o9t-RysSpic/s72-c/sydney_harbour_bridge.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">7</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/08/you-cant-keep-good-blogger-down.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-2034988788345902880</guid><pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2009 17:16:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-08T13:38:48.021-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">thoughts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">personal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">rants</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>Heavy Cloud But No Rain...</title><description>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Sn24EjzjPEI/AAAAAAAACi4/tlNaID1uMbA/s1600-h/louisiana_cotton.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 95px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Sn24EjzjPEI/AAAAAAAACi4/tlNaID1uMbA/s400/louisiana_cotton.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5367648719365946434" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;As life leads us through those little pathways in the woods, we never quite know where the trails will lead us. Sometimes, what seems to be the surest, best-worn footpath ends up at a dead end... or worse, leads to a grassy meadow where no trail can be found. And there, we're left to wander for a spell, avoiding spiders and snakes and stinging insects in the blazing sun until we find some faded walkway to follow once more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It has been an interesting few weeks... and I regretfully tell you all that the video posts I was planning will have to wait. Life has shifted in many ways for me at the moment, but through all the changes, I have to say that I do not regret anything. Honestly. I have a pile of incredibly wonderful memories from the recent past to make me smile and some wonderful people in my life. Perhaps things have changed from "certain" to "lost in the woods" in some areas of my life, but in some level, it all has been worth it. Life is a risk. A life without chances might be safe, but never answers those "what-if" questions. I'd rather have spent my life stepping off the edge once in a while and not finding solid ground beneath me than taking a safe route and never experiencing life's joys, loves, and aches.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have also had some time to think. And what have I concluded? Mainly, that I'm rather confused about my own path... and disappointed at the person I've become as of late. I feel the need for reinvention and want to do some changing with my appearance, life, etc. yet am not sure how exactly I'll be doing that. I dislike how I've foregone my own opinions and beliefs to please those around me and avoid arguments for so long that I've lost my spark, my trailblazing spirit that took so long to develop. I've slipped back down a gravel slope toward passivity, and it wasn't until someone I care about held a mirror to my face that I realized who I had become. I hated what I saw. But I needed to see it. I'm truly sorry for any grief it caused.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And even more, I hate that I've lost my chipper, blogging habits. I lost the point of this whole blog: to find amusement in the mundane and laugh at some incredibly absurd things about life and death. For that, I apologize to my readers. Life is too serious. We all deal with depression, stress, grief, pain and unbelievable heartache constantly in our lives. It doesn't get better or worse as you age. Ignoring it won't make it disappear, but dwelling on it doesn't make it better. Accept life and people for what they are... find the beauty and wonderful sides to everyone to avoid turning bitter... and most importantly, never forget to laugh.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's a strange world out there. And during terrible times, humor is often the only thing to save us from total destruction.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-2034988788345902880?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/EOEMHaHoPFQ/heavy-cloud-but-no-rain.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Sn24EjzjPEI/AAAAAAAACi4/tlNaID1uMbA/s72-c/louisiana_cotton.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/08/heavy-cloud-but-no-rain.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-3826043355453297089</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 15:33:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-28T11:39:02.552-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">canada</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">weather</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>Nothing to See Here...</title><description>So far, most of my trip has been dodging rain showers, therefore I haven't quite been able to film anything outdoors. And I'm heading out on a journey starting this evening, so perhaps I'll get to it eventually. Worst-case scenario, I'll record a clip in the final days of my voyage when Marc is at work and I'm flying solo.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I would type more, but I need to prepare for the trip... and these bloody Francophone keyboards are tricky to get used to!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-3826043355453297089?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/_ASjv0XAX-k/nothing-to-see-here.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/07/nothing-to-see-here.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-3600455697363505404</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 18:55:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-21T15:17:56.243-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">montreal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">canada</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">travel</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">ohio</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">akron</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">events</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">ottawa</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>One of Those Crazy Months...</title><description>And suddenly, three weeks vanish. Who knew?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SmYSFzEWeRI/AAAAAAAACig/aceSVQA5H20/s1600-h/atlas_rockefeller.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SmYSFzEWeRI/AAAAAAAACig/aceSVQA5H20/s400/atlas_rockefeller.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5360992297248258322" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;It has been a busy time, so I regret having neglected this blog, but hopefully it's not becoming a permanent thing! Working on final details with the book (which is still coming out this fall... September), travels, other little side projects here and there... all these things have distracted me. Life has distracted me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SmYUQDN64rI/AAAAAAAACio/-Rur1UjYazM/s1600-h/civic_neon.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SmYUQDN64rI/AAAAAAAACio/-Rur1UjYazM/s400/civic_neon.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5360994672405308082" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Last weekend, I tagged along with &lt;a href="http://www.sightofohio.com/"&gt;SIGHT of Ohio&lt;/a&gt; to an event at Akron's &lt;a href="http://www.akroncivic.com/"&gt;Civic Theatre&lt;/a&gt;. I presented the history for a paranormal investigation, opened to the public. It was a good turnout and I enjoyed myself... but with fielding so many questions and doing so many things, I didn't have much chance to explore for myself. That's the downside of being involved behind the scenes at an event: you can't participate. Still, I usually don't mind that. Sometimes, I want to sit back and enjoy a nice ghost walk or presentation, but there are times I'd rather be involved in the production itself and left out of the details.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SmYUQW8FVXI/AAAAAAAACiw/6Gv_amRaZao/s1600-h/streets_of_ottawa.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SmYUQW8FVXI/AAAAAAAACiw/6Gv_amRaZao/s400/streets_of_ottawa.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5360994677699204466" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;In just a few hours, I'm leaving for Ottawa for three weeks, with a brief stay in Montreal thrown in for good measure. It won't all be a vacation, but it'll be an adventure. And, time and energy permitting, I will be blogging from there this time! But to spare you all the boredom of merely reading about these places and things to do, I'm thinking I just might give video blogging a try. So if all goes well, expect a taste of haunted Ottawa... perhaps even a brief Montreal clip too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Otherwise, I'll be back in mid-August... hopefully with updates and new information!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-3600455697363505404?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/CwcfkYstarg/one-of-those-crazy-months.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SmYSFzEWeRI/AAAAAAAACig/aceSVQA5H20/s72-c/atlas_rockefeller.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/07/one-of-those-crazy-months.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-8799783926142904702</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 01:37:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-05T21:48:20.719-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">flickr</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">photos</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay ghosts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">updates</category><title>Creepy Queer Photo Ops...</title><description>Sorry again for the prolonged silence! Busy, busy, busy! meanwhile, here's a little Flickr find that caught my attention. Makes me think of a haunted gay club... this really should be titled "Demon is a Dancer".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/savv/90994636/" title="poptastic ghost by savv, on Flickr"&gt;&lt;img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/16/90994636_4bf3366b89.jpg" alt="poptastic ghost" width="400" border="0" height="275" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hopefully, I'll have some more updates to fill everyone in on very soon. I'll be gone later this month to a wedding, so I'll try to find time whenever possible to let you all know I'm still alive...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;...or am I?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-8799783926142904702?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/CGaCf473MtU/creepy-queer-photo-ops.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/07/creepy-queer-photo-ops.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-1301531456443486224</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 20:07:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-26T17:19:56.596-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">connecticut</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">news</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">exorcism</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">religion</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay ghosts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">united states</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">youtube</category><title>When "Horny" is a Bad Thing...</title><description>Want the holy ghost in you? Feeling possessed by one of those pesky gay demons? Well, you might be in luck. All you need is a little help from the friendly folks at &lt;a href="http://www.manifestedgloryministries.com/"&gt;Manifested Glory Ministries&lt;/a&gt; of Bridgeport, Connecticut. After all, they helped someone out recently. The church &lt;a href="http://hosted.ap.org/dynamic/stories/U/US_GAY_EXORCISM_VIDEO?SITE=TNKNN&amp;amp;SECTION=HOME&amp;amp;TEMPLATE=DEFAULT"&gt;held an exorcism to rid a teen boy of his homosexuality&lt;/a&gt;, hence equating it with demonic possession.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkU5s3NxQxI/AAAAAAAAChY/0PxljoLYEZc/s1600-h/manifested_glory_church.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkU5s3NxQxI/AAAAAAAAChY/0PxljoLYEZc/s400/manifested_glory_church.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5351747175098434322" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Reverend Patricia McKinney and her cult... I mean congregation... performed what they called a "casting out of spirits" (because she thinks the 'exorcism' label isn't accurate) three separate times on a 16-year-old boy (the reverend claimed he was 18) at his request. he writhed on the floor, vomiting up the "evil", while onlookers made such priceless statements as "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Loose your grip, Lucifer!&lt;/span&gt;" and "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Right now in the name of Jesus, I call the homosexuality, right now in the name of Jesus!&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When did homosexuality suddenly become an object or energy? I missed that memo.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkU5toRkPnI/AAAAAAAACho/H4iqjk3AxEc/s1600-h/south_park_satan.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkU5toRkPnI/AAAAAAAACho/H4iqjk3AxEc/s400/south_park_satan.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5351747188267695730" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;So, what do you to when you get rid of the "homosexuality demon"? You post it on YouTube, of course! I guess they figured they already had a website and the best way to scare the hell out of people (no pun intended) is to be were the action is. Activist groups and citizens are up in arms about the video, since taken down by the flock. But the church stands by their actions. McKinney, who calls herself a "prophet", told the press, ""Every Sunday we call people up to the altar who want to be delivered from any spirit that causes them to not be able to function. We were just beginning to worship the Lord and all of a sudden he hit the floor."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkU5tWMIM1I/AAAAAAAAChg/qHRz0P1_0KA/s1600-h/holy_bible_book.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkU5tWMIM1I/AAAAAAAAChg/qHRz0P1_0KA/s400/holy_bible_book.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5351747183413048146" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;"Manifested Glory Ministries is not against homosexuality. We do not hate them," the reverend said. "We do not come up against them. We do just not believe in their lifestyle."  I'm sure it makes sense to someone. Is that anything like a double negative?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And did their purging work? According to the executive director of &lt;a href="http://www.ourtruecolors.org/"&gt;True Colors&lt;/a&gt;, Robin McHeavin, the boy told their organization he has since been "engaging in risky behavior". I guess if you take something out of someone, you just have to put it back in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is actual footage from the "exorcism":&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;object width="420" height="235"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/f3ggIkJxSps&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;color1=0x006699&amp;amp;color2=0x54abd6"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/f3ggIkJxSps&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;color1=0x006699&amp;amp;color2=0x54abd6" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="420" height="235"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-1301531456443486224?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/kh9wmzrqmvg/when-horny-is-bad-thing.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkU5s3NxQxI/AAAAAAAAChY/0PxljoLYEZc/s72-c/manifested_glory_church.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">4</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/06/when-horny-is-bad-thing.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-3876978456122189796</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 00:26:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-22T20:49:06.908-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">humor</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">products</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">skateboards</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">paranormal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">ghosts</category><title>Just One Final Poke...</title><description>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkAmLFPHHEI/AAAAAAAAChQ/8ZhK30_CSTI/s1600-h/ghost_boner_skateboard.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 95px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkAmLFPHHEI/AAAAAAAAChQ/8ZhK30_CSTI/s400/ghost_boner_skateboard.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5350318329142123586" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;After the last post, I couldn't resist mentioning this little find. If you're a skater (or just happen to like them), you might find this interesting. The demented... er, creative guys behind &lt;a href="http://www.rogerskateboards.com/"&gt;Roger Skateboards&lt;/a&gt;, Stacy Lowery and Michael Sieben, have one board in particular with a mention.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What is it about &lt;a href="http://www.blackholeboards.com/Exec/product.asp?item_id=155270"&gt;a skateboard featuring a ghost with a boner&lt;/a&gt; that's so interesting? Beats me. No, not some obsession with necrophilia. It's just... bizarre. But bizarre in a good way, hence it earning a place on here. My humor quotient is way down lately, so I figure, what better way to get back into the swing of things (sorry... bad joke). hey, it could've been worse... I could've mentioned the &lt;a href="http://www.blackholeboards.com/Exec/product.asp?item_id=155268"&gt;trouser snake one&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That is all for now. No more lewd paranormal talk or mental images of sharking ghosts for you today. Carry on as you were.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-3876978456122189796?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/YWqIYV4PzBw/just-one-final-poke.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkAmLFPHHEI/AAAAAAAAChQ/8ZhK30_CSTI/s72-c/ghost_boner_skateboard.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/06/just-one-final-poke.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-5983252667369909454</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 00:13:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-22T20:18:55.985-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">missouri</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">true stories</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay ghosts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">united states</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">paranormal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">hauntings</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">ghosts</category><title>Sleeping with a Stiff in St. Louis...</title><description>Our next story which fell through the cracks during book research brings us deeper into the center of the United States. This time, the setting is St. Louis, Missouri during the mid-1980s. It centered around a musician named &lt;a href="http://www.myspace.com/davidudell"&gt;David Udell&lt;/a&gt; and an unusual experience which he recalled on &lt;a href="http://stlouishistory.blogspot.com/2007/11/my-homosexual-ghost.html"&gt;his blog&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkAc6pJFkDI/AAAAAAAAChI/tFAkUPkWqVc/s1600-h/st_louis_twilight.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkAc6pJFkDI/AAAAAAAAChI/tFAkUPkWqVc/s400/st_louis_twilight.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5350308151118106674" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;At this time in his life, David called an apartment on Oregon Avenue his home. It was by no means spacious; with a mock recording studio taking up one entire room, his bedroom consisted of a large converted storage room facing the street, just large enough for sleeping quarters. The streetlights maintained a certain level of illumination on David's bed all through the night. His more-fortunate roommate stayed in a separate bedroom in the rear of the home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkAc6Vx0nvI/AAAAAAAAChA/Wc4qK-QRj0k/s1600-h/sleeping_man.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkAc6Vx0nvI/AAAAAAAAChA/Wc4qK-QRj0k/s400/sleeping_man.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5350308145920253682" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;On one particular night in either 1983 or 84, he was settling down after a late night. It was some time after three in the morning when he laid down on his mattress to get a bit of shuteye, his back turned toward the doorway. Moments later, he heard the sound of what he believed to be his then-girlfriend entering his room. He felt some comfort as he felt someone slip in bed beside him, nuzzling up close in a spooning position. Playfully, he reached around and gave her rear a squeeze. For reasons still unknown to him, he felt a compulsion to reach around to the front.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkAc6GMryEI/AAAAAAAACg4/TnMhYQ24iLk/s1600-h/ghost_leg_bed.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkAc6GMryEI/AAAAAAAACg4/TnMhYQ24iLk/s400/ghost_leg_bed.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5350308141737953346" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;What awaited him wasn't anything he had expected. His hand latched onto something. Something becoming stiff. Whatever was in bed with him wasn't a woman, and it seemed a bit too happy to see him. David yelled and turned around, only to find himself alone. In seconds, he was out from beneath the covers and bounding over studio equipment in a mad dash for his roommate's bedroom. Waking him from his sleep, David told him of his experience and forced him to stay awake with him until daylight came.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When David's roommate asked him if he finally believed in the paranormal, his response was a weak and sheepish "no..."&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-5983252667369909454?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/0cQXJbTJEbA/sleeping-with-stiff-in-st-louis.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SkAc6pJFkDI/AAAAAAAAChI/tFAkUPkWqVc/s72-c/st_louis_twilight.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/06/sleeping-with-stiff-in-st-louis.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-5778822544355645221</guid><pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 23:14:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-21T03:57:28.359-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">oscar wilde</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">england</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">history</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">psychics</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">authors</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay ghosts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">paranormal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">youtube</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">ghosts</category><title>A Spirit of No Importance...</title><description>When the great playwright Oscar Wilde died penniless in a cheap Paris hotel room in 1900, he never would've imagined his posthumous fame. Yet after decades of silence regarding the writer, somewhat humiliated publicly by the trials concerning his sexuality, he is today viewed as one of the greats. In 1962, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FSelected-Letters-Oscar-Oxford-Paperbacks%2Fdp%2F0192812181&amp;amp;tag=themoonspenpa-20&amp;amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325"&gt;The Letters of Oscar Wilde&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=themoonspenpa-20&amp;amp;l=ur2&amp;amp;o=1" alt="" style="border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" border="0" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; was published and accepted by a more open-minded population. That same year, a lesser-known event occurred: Oscar Wilde apparently returned from the grave.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Sj2ED3un3kI/AAAAAAAACgw/PZBuXye9Ehg/s1600-h/oscar_wilde_statue_dublin.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Sj2ED3un3kI/AAAAAAAACgw/PZBuXye9Ehg/s400/oscar_wilde_statue_dublin.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349577134419992130" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;It happened in a séance room belonging to &lt;a href="http://www.leslieflint.com/"&gt;Leslie Flint&lt;/a&gt;, often regarded as one of the great British mediums who held up to ridicule and testing. Flint was known to contact both common people and celebrities in his time through an ectoplasmic "voice box", which would appear during mediumship, making the words come not from his own lips but the nearby air. On the 30th of August, a spirit came through in the presence of George Woods and Betty Greene. After much aloofness, it declared itself as Oscar Wilde.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Sj2EDkWtboI/AAAAAAAACgo/1NprxAcakik/s1600-h/leslie_flint_ecto.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Sj2EDkWtboI/AAAAAAAACgo/1NprxAcakik/s400/leslie_flint_ecto.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349577129219419778" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The author spoke of his life and afterlife, and views of many differing topics for quite some time before fading away from "lack of energy". Given Flint's fame as a medium, audio recordings were taken of each session starting in 1955. The recording of "the spirit of Oscar Wilde" has survived and can still be listened to today. Many recordings can be found &lt;a href="http://www.freewebs.com/afterlife/flint/flintrecordings.htm"&gt;on this website&lt;/a&gt;. The full 30-minute recording of the Wilde séance is available online &lt;a href="http://66.49.237.205/Flint/LF%20Oscar%20Wilde.wma"&gt;through this link&lt;/a&gt;. A partial excerpt and transcript is provided on "&lt;a href="http://www.xs4all.nl/%7Ewichm/wildera.html"&gt;Oscar Wilde Returns&lt;/a&gt;". British videographer &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/poetryanimations"&gt;Jim Clark&lt;/a&gt; took an excerpt of the recording and jazzed it up slightly. Here is his computer animation of a photograph of Oscar speaking the words recorded almost 47 years ago:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;object width="405" height="324"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/2gR6dBIHM4E&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;color1=0x006699&amp;amp;color2=0x54abd6"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/2gR6dBIHM4E&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;color1=0x006699&amp;amp;color2=0x54abd6" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="405" height="324"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-5778822544355645221?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/1DRZzMgMsl8/spirit-of-no-importance.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/Sj2ED3un3kI/AAAAAAAACgw/PZBuXye9Ehg/s72-c/oscar_wilde_statue_dublin.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">3</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/06/spirit-of-no-importance.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10726896.post-8379037387336738352</guid><pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 21:06:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-17T18:19:41.873-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">chicago</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">illinois</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">true stories</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay ghosts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gay</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">paranormal</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">hauntings</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">ghosts</category><title>Love Lies Bleeding in the Windy City...</title><description>While researching for &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Queer Paranormal&lt;/span&gt;, I ran across a lot of interesting tales from everywhere. Unfortunately, several stories could not be researched enough to earn a spot in my book. In light of Pride Month, however, I think it's an appropriate time to give some mention to these tales and revive this blog from its coma as of late. And so, I bring you &lt;a href="http://paranormal.about.com/library/blstory_march08_17.htm"&gt;a strange tale from Chicago&lt;/a&gt; of a haunted apartment and its gay phantom...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SjlrDzdBzEI/AAAAAAAACgI/X6QZ0nM6T9I/s1600-h/warsaw_apartment.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SjlrDzdBzEI/AAAAAAAACgI/X6QZ0nM6T9I/s400/warsaw_apartment.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348423745574915138" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Christina* lived with her roommate on the northern end of Chicago during the 1990s in  a run-down, old, inexpensive building. Throughout her five years tenancy, strange incidents occurred that made her question whether they were indeed alone. Footsteps paced the floor between the kitchen and bathroom. The kitchen itself seemed to be a hot spot for activity; sounds of a chair dragged across the linoleum floor and silverware being put away were not uncommon. But one incident in 1997 escalated the spooky goings-on to a new level.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One hot summer's day, Christina relaxed in her room, absorbed in a book while stretched out on her bed. She was suddenly struck with unexplainable paralysis. As she looked toward the end of her bed, a shirtless man stood there before her. He appeared to be in his late 20s, with a muscular torso and handsome face twisted into an irate expression. His whole body exuded anger, so powerful that Christina felt the pain in her own limbs. They stared at one another for an agonizing moment before the young man slowly faded into the air. Able to move once more, Christina ran from her room and stayed out of the apartment until her roommate returned. Knowing her roommate's fear of ghosts, she didn't mention the unnerving event.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SjlrEfHrXjI/AAAAAAAACgY/kx3RobaihbY/s1600-h/reynolds_shirtless_angle.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SjlrEfHrXjI/AAAAAAAACgY/kx3RobaihbY/s400/reynolds_shirtless_angle.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348423757296524850" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Two years passed. When the landlord announced the building had been sold, Christina decided to inquire into the strange event. During a conversation with the owner, the owner mentioned that&lt;span style="white-space: nowrap;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;—&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;since they would soon be out of the apartment&lt;span style="white-space: nowrap;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;—&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;she had a confession to make. She had not been entirely up-front about the history of their apartment. In the years before Christina and her roommate moved in, the ground floor space had been rented by a gay couple, one of whom was a very handsome, athletic young man... the other, somewhat older. At that time, the neighborhood was very gay-identified, even having a few bars nearby. Both men were involved in S&amp;amp;M, and consumed a lot of drugs. Perhaps the substances contributed to the constant arguments heard from their apartment. The police were called on many occasions to break up the fights.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SjlrELiPrbI/AAAAAAAACgQ/PfFuNnuFxOM/s1600-h/bloody_knife_floor.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SjlrELiPrbI/AAAAAAAACgQ/PfFuNnuFxOM/s400/bloody_knife_floor.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348423752039247282" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;On one particular night, the couple returned from a night of heavy drinking and partying. An argument began, and escalated quickly from the alcohol. In a passionate rage, the older man stabbed his young lover to death in the very bedroom used by Christina. the murderer was sent to prison for his crimes, but the landlord remembered the horror of cleaning up the aftermath. Christina asked for a more detailed description, and it matched the apparition she had witnessed perfectly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SjlrEcRPfrI/AAAAAAAACgg/QVfV_t4VR_8/s1600-h/hands_ghost.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 95px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SjlrEcRPfrI/AAAAAAAACgg/QVfV_t4VR_8/s400/hands_ghost.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348423756531334834" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Whatever became of the the apartment (or even it's location), as well as the haunting presence of the angry young lover are not a mystery. But undoubtedly, somewhere in Chicago, the wandering spirit of the murdered man still lingers, filled with rage over his life cut short so early.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;*Complete name unknown; anyone knowing this person or the apartment, please contact me!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/10726896-8379037387336738352?l=moonspenders.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/moonspenders/~3/4qBXBMapo-s/love-lies-bleeding-in-windy-city.html</link><author>moonspenders@yahoo.com (Ken Summers)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CIQirkH-QSU/SjlrDzdBzEI/AAAAAAAACgI/X6QZ0nM6T9I/s72-c/warsaw_apartment.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://moonspenders.blogspot.com/2009/06/love-lies-bleeding-in-windy-city.html</feedburner:origLink></item></channel></rss>
