https://movingtoaten.com Mon, 15 Jun 2020 21:51:44 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.2 A podcast devoted to improving marriage relationships. Jon & Carolann Ruddat no podcast Moving relationships to a Ten! https://movingtoaten.com/wp-content/uploads/powerpress/mov2a10_logo_1400.png https://movingtoaten.com/category/podcast/ movingtoaten.commarriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respectjon@ruddatfam.netJon & Carolann Ruddat https://movingtoaten.com/010-where-did-the-romance-go/ Thu, 11 Jun 2020 01:39:52 +0000 https://movingtoaten.com/?p=311 Continue reading 010 – Where did the Romance go?]]> We share an emotional conversation we had wrestling with the question, “Where did the romance go?” Highlights of this episode include: Carolann shares why she married Jon (and it made him lose his breath). We asked each other 2 dangerous questions. We share an emotional conversation we had wrestling with the question, “Where did the romance go?” Highlights of this episode include: Carolann shares why she married Jon (and it made him lose his breath). We asked each other 2 dangerous questions. Carolann shared how she felt like an emotional kaleidoscope. There is a difference between … Continue reading 010 – Where did the Romance go? Podcast – Moving to a Ten! full false 23:33 jon@ruddatfam.net (Jon & Carolann Ruddat)marriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respect https://movingtoaten.com/009-its-your-move/ Wed, 27 May 2020 21:48:50 +0000 https://movingtoaten.com/?p=305 Continue reading 009 – It’s Your Move [Commitment]]]> There are 3 options when your relationship is really bad: Stay where you are (miserable) Do something Separate / Divorce We were at that point at the 3rd year of our marriage. Carolann was feeling like “the other woman. There are 3 options when your relationship is really bad: Stay where you are (miserable) Do something Separate / Divorce We were at that point at the 3rd year of our marriage. Carolann was feeling like “the other woman.” We knew things were bad and we were both trying to fix the other. One decision … Continue reading 009 – It’s Your Move [Commitment] Podcast – Moving to a Ten! full false 29:09 jon@ruddatfam.net (Jon & Carolann Ruddat)marriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respect https://movingtoaten.com/episode-008-being-irritated/ Mon, 20 Apr 2020 00:07:48 +0000 https://movingtoaten.com/?p=295 Continue reading 008 – Being Irritated]]> This morning I was really irritated and grumpy with Carolann. In this episode we share how the morning went and how within 10 minutes my grumpiness melted away. In our discussion we reference the book “Love and Respect” by Emerson Eggerichs. This morning I was really irritated and grumpy with Carolann. In this episode we share how the morning went and how within 10 minutes my grumpiness melted away. In our discussion we reference the book “Love and Respect” by Emerson Eggerichs. It’s available on Amazon (not an affiliate link). Our discussion audio is also on … Continue reading 008 – Being Irritated Podcast – Moving to a Ten! full false 17:06 jon@ruddatfam.net (Jon & Carolann Ruddat)marriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respect https://movingtoaten.com/007-praying-outloud/ Wed, 15 Apr 2020 21:06:04 +0000 https://movingtoaten.com/?p=271 Continue reading 007 – Praying Outloud]]> Today we talk about our principle #1: Staying Connected to God Local church Worshiping Serving Bible reading/listening Individually Together Pray out-loud together Including praying your wedding vows The books by Gary Smalley that we mention are: For B... Today we talk about our principle #1: Staying Connected to God Local church Worshiping Serving Bible reading/listening Individually Together Pray out-loud together Including praying your wedding vows The books by Gary Smalley that we mention are: For Better or for Best: A Valuable Guide to Knowing, Understanding, and Loving your Husband Amazon (not an affiliate … Continue reading 007 – Praying Outloud Podcast – Moving to a Ten! full false 22:33 jon@ruddatfam.net (Jon & Carolann Ruddat)marriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respect https://movingtoaten.com/006/ Sat, 04 Apr 2020 01:39:48 +0000 https://movingtoaten.com/?p=266 Continue reading 006 – From Zero To One]]> One of our “superfans” asked, “What did we do to start, from 0 to 1?” We are not experts, just a couple sharing our journey to inspire and help others. For every person and time the process will be different. Our lives are so complex, One of our “superfans” asked, “What did we do to start, from 0 to 1?” We are not experts, just a couple sharing our journey to inspire and help others. For every person and time the process will be different. Our lives are so complex, we learn different ways, our life experiences There isn’t a … Continue reading 006 – From Zero To One Podcast – Moving to a Ten! full false 20:45 jon@ruddatfam.net (Jon & Carolann Ruddat)marriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respect https://movingtoaten.com/005/ Thu, 08 Jan 2015 04:07:54 +0000 https://movingtoaten.com/?p=196 Continue reading 005 – Anger and Resentment]]> 24 hours ago, Carolann and I were sitting on the loveseat in a very bad emotional state. She was really angry at me and I was listening to her, feeling lost. In the podcast we talk about how we went from that place to being able to sing in the kitchen ... 24 hours ago, Carolann and I were sitting on the loveseat in a very bad emotional state. She was really angry at me and I was listening to her, feeling lost. In the podcast we talk about how we went from that place to being able to sing in the kitchen today. Carolann’s anger processing steps … Continue reading 005 – Anger and Resentment Podcast – Moving to a Ten! full false 27:58 jon@ruddatfam.net (Jon & Carolann Ruddat)marriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respect https://movingtoaten.com/004/ Thu, 11 Dec 2014 19:48:52 +0000 https://movingtoaten.com/?p=153 We discuss treating each other like we are dating, by not talking through the bathroom door. We discuss treating each other like we are dating, by not talking through the bathroom door. Podcast – Moving to a Ten! full false 24:22 jon@ruddatfam.net (Jon & Carolann Ruddat)marriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respect https://movingtoaten.com/003/ Sat, 29 Nov 2014 19:50:33 +0000 https://movingtoaten.com/?p=151 Continue reading 003 – Secrets]]> In this episode we share secrets that we didn’t know about each other. Links mentioned in this podcast: Art of Manliness: How to write a Love Letter Art of Charm  Jon’s tips for Guys to writing love notes: There is no secret formula Write what is on yo... In this episode we share secrets that we didn’t know about each other. Links mentioned in this podcast: Art of Manliness: How to write a Love Letter Art of Charm  Jon’s tips for Guys to writing love notes: There is no secret formula Write what is on your heart Be honest Mention a reason why you … Continue reading 003 – Secrets Podcast – Moving to a Ten! full false 22:29 jon@ruddatfam.net (Jon & Carolann Ruddat)marriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respect https://movingtoaten.com/002/ Fri, 21 Nov 2014 19:51:40 +0000 https://movingtoaten.com/?p=158 While trying to make this episode, we hurt each other and turned it around to grow closer. The communication tool that really works: Drive Through Talking from Gary Smalley Listen (take the order) Say it back (repeat the order) Reverse roles and repeat... While trying to make this episode, we hurt each other and turned it around to grow closer. The communication tool that really works: Drive Through Talking from Gary Smalley Listen (take the order) Say it back (repeat the order) Reverse roles and repeat Work towards a common solution   Podcast – Moving to a Ten! full false 22:40 jon@ruddatfam.net (Jon & Carolann Ruddat)marriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respect https://movingtoaten.com/001/ Sat, 08 Nov 2014 17:26:53 +0000 https://movingtoaten.com/?p=106 Continue reading 001 – From the Edge of Divorce]]> We share our story of coming back from the edge of divorce. We are 40-somethings married almost 20 years. On a scale of 1 to 10, our marriage was at the bottom. With help we are moving up, number by number. We share our story of coming back from the edge of divorce. We are 40-somethings married almost 20 years. On a scale of 1 to 10, our marriage was at the bottom. With help we are moving up, number by number. And now we share with you what we’ve learned. Join us, so we can … Continue reading 001 – From the Edge of Divorce Podcast – Moving to a Ten! full false 9:52 jon@ruddatfam.net (Jon & Carolann Ruddat)marriage,relationships,wife,husband,guy,gal,anger,conflict,sexuality,intimacy,love,communication,money,respect