♫Musique's Poetry♫

Manless Mom Equals Gay Son?....WTF

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Thu, 20 Jun 2013 02:57:00 +0000

The picture above my piss you off. Some may agree with it and some may agree with it and others may no. This picture above simply implies that if a male child is raised by a single mother that he will automatically be gay or not know how to be a man.

I've heard this so many times. As a gay man, it pisses me the hell off. I was raised by my mother and I had plenty of male figures in my life, but I'm gay. I have cousins who were raised by single mothers and friends who were raised by single mothers who are straight as an arrow and turned out to be better men than there fathers. Some of them are married and then some of them are not married and have kids everywhere, but they take care of there responsibility.

I've learned that it doesn't matter if you came from a broken home or a stable home you have a path to take and it is your choice as to whatever path you take.

The picture above depicts a single mother with her son. Then it shows the son being a feminine, gay, butch queen and that he doesn't know how to be a man. I guess it shows that some people think that gay men aren't real men. I beg to differ.

I'm a gay man and I am a real man!!! I work, I cook clean, and I teach other males: gay, straight, or questioning on how to be real men. A man doesn't have to be some hypermasculine whore or someone who fits a certain traditional role. A real man is one who shows his true self. A MAN is one who isn't afraid to cry. A real man isn't afraid to be himself.

You can learn a lot from a gay man!!!!

Coming Back to the Loop

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Fri, 14 Jun 2013 04:10:00 +0000

Hey Guys and Gals

How are you all?

Just Chiming In!!!

Slowly but surely,

I'm coming back to the loop

Smooches,

Musique

Saturday Thoughts

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Sun, 09 Jun 2013 01:54:00 +0000

Hey Guys,
Here are some thoughts from me. Over the last few months, I haven't been able to really blog like I desire and once was. Neither am I active on youtube as much. Understanding that, life changes and what not, blogging is what I do. You were there with me through relationships, make ups, break ups, and health things approaching. I love you all and I appreciate you all for the love and prayers.
Right now, I'm up on a hard decision. I don't know what to do with this blog. I'm actually thinking about closing it down. I've made many attempts at trying to get the ball back rolling on this blog. I used to hit you with current stuff. However, I feel like I'm out of the loop. I guess its all apart of life. Not everyone will be a celebrity blogger, but dang it, I'm a celebrity in my own right. I'm about to go out tonight and have some fun I'll hit you all back....What the future holds, I don't know. We shall see.

Impartation Works...Thoughts and Opinion

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Wed, 05 Jun 2013 00:03:00 +0000

Life Changes, People Change

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Tue, 04 Jun 2013 02:06:00 +0000

Over the last few months, I've learned one thing; Life Changes!!! You all know that I used to blog dang near every day and always tweeting or doing something of that nature. Here lately I really haven't had time to do much of anything. Between working and really concentrating on me, I've just been working and taking some much needed rest time. Not to mention other ventures going on.
I've learned that after watching some friendships die and some blossom. People come and people go, I've learned that life changes and so do people. I've come to realize that I too have changed. I've come to see life in a different perspective. Since the diagnosis of November 2013, I've come to realize that my life is worth living and no one can take that from me.
I've also seen how some people have changed towards me in recent months since I don't come out much and I have changed somethings for me. All I can say is such is life. Well I'm out,
Musique

WHICH GAY MUPPET ARE YOU?

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Sat, 18 May 2013 00:19:00 +0000

TODAY IS INTERNATIONAL DAY AGAINST HOMOPHOBIA & TRANSPHOBIA

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Sat, 18 May 2013 00:07:00 +0000

So Close to Friday

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Thu, 16 May 2013 18:58:00 +0000

It is so close to Friday. I can taste it. It will be a day of rest. I'mma live it up. What are you doing this Friday?

Thought of the Day

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Thu, 16 May 2013 18:56:00 +0000

Be True To You.

Congrats to Kevin Grayson

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Fri, 10 May 2013 13:20:00 +0000

Congrats to To former University of Richmond wide receiver Kevin Grayson. He is out and proud. Thank you, Kevin for advancing the sports world.

@PattiLahelle "Shade Lasts Forever" The Got 2 Be Real Send Off: The Goodbye (Series Finale)

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Fri, 10 May 2013 04:40:00 +0000

It is that moment we have all been waiting for; the Got 2B Real Diva Variety Show part 2 finale.

Patti LaHelle Serves it up good letting us know that the shade lasts forever. Get into.

Complications of Life

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Sat, 04 May 2013 02:12:00 +0000

Life can be complicated at times. It really can. Sometimes we try to find a balance, but we soon realize we can't be everything for everybody and we can't be less that the best. In life we have the ups and downs, but through it all we manage to survive.
Life is complicated. There is no way around it. In this life we have to make sure we take time out for ourselves and get the proper rest. There is a balance. Even when it comes to failed relationships and attempts at relationships, we must let those be learning experiences and teach us what we deserve and what we should not put up with. When it comes to the past, It may have hurt you, but it made you stronger, wiser, and better.
These are the complications of life.

Strawberries and Sugar

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Fri, 03 May 2013 15:58:00 +0000

Strawberries and sugar: a sweet concoction. So much sweetness in every bite.
This reminds me of myself. I'm good in taste and I array beauty.
See how bright the strawberries are? Thats how life should be: BRIGHT AND SWEET!!!
Never let someone's bitterness kill the sweetness inside.
Love ya,
Musique

Janelle Monae and Erykah Badu - "Q.U.E.E.N."

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Fri, 03 May 2013 01:16:00 +0000

Just Say

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Sun, 28 Apr 2013 06:06:00 +0000

Just say the truth.
Just say the words that you feel.
Just say I'm not what you want.
Just say it.
Don't lie.
The truth hurts, but say it.
Just say I'm better than you.
Just say it.

You Brought the Sunshine - The Clark Sisters

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Fri, 26 Apr 2013 11:00:00 +0000

The Down Low Badge of Honor

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Fri, 26 Apr 2013 01:47:00 +0000

Many of you know what the term "Down Low" means. Some of us remember when R. Kelly sang about "keep it on the down low," in regards to sleeping with Mr. Biggs' (Ron Isley's Lady). However, in later years author J. L. King, wrote about men "On the Down Low," later creating a phenomena that has become a negative connotation in society today.
A man that is described as being on the down low is portrayed as being a man who is Gay or Bisexual and denies his sexuality. This man could be married or sleeps with women to cover up the fact that he enjoys sex with men. The man on the Down Low could also have many women, but also have many men on the side. Some of his hang ups could be the stupid "no fats, no fems" policy as well as "I don't bottom."
As I reminisce over my days of being on BGC, A4A, and things of that nature I always ran across those adds with "top only," "no queens," and "no bitch shit." Most guys will have the letters "DL" in their screen-name and bio and will stress that they are on the DL. Don't get me wrong, I'm not mad because they choose to be DL. Hell, I was DL at one time, however I felt better when I came out of the closet of hell and shame and began to love me for who I am. Whatever the reason due to status or profession and religious values some guys are DL. However, you have some who treat it as a badge of honor.
What does it mean to have "The Down Low Badge of Honor?" Well When one carries the DL Badge of Honor, one only hangs around straight acting men and constantly down openly gay men or men who they know to be gay period. Some guys are proud to live in the negative connotation of being on the down low. Some even go as far to say that guys who admit they are gay are diseased and more prone to HIV and other STD's. However, anyone is vulnerable to HIV/AIDS today. Educate yourself.
When wearing the "DL Badge of Honor," one refuses to be caught dead red at a gay club or anything that looks remotely gay, however behind closed doors that DL guy is somebody's bottom and not always on the top. He may even like feminine dudes to a certain degree. But more than likely they only deal with guys who are masculine and don't "look or act gay."
I really don't understand why hiding who you really are is a symbol of honor with some people, but why lie about what you like. It may be because of family and job, but always be true to yourself. It may be a difficult road, but you can make it. My advice to those who treat being Down Low and deceptive by using women and making babies to cover up themselves is this; IT'S 2013, YOU'RE GAY GET OVER IT!!!!

Musique.

Thought for the Day

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Wed, 24 Apr 2013 12:54:00 +0000

I am fierce!

The Price of Fame

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Wed, 17 Apr 2013 01:43:00 +0000

What is the price of fame? That has been something that has been on my mind for the last couple of days. Many of you know that I'm a singer and aspiring music artist. I've often felt that since I do a lot of Spiritual music, that my sexuality and lifestyle would be a hindrance, however, I must keep some aspects of my life private.

The more I deal with wanting to become a world class musician, I realize that some aspects of my life will have to change and somethings I may not be able to do. I realize that there is a price we must all pay for fame. Our business will be out there haphazardly and paparazzi as well as messy anus people will always have something to try and bring us down with. Especially when they are jealous.

The Price of Fame could be that you really have to live your life for the people which I really refuse to do. What to do? I guess just continue to be watchful and mindful of my actions. No I don't have an album out yet. Yes I have some musical recognition, but a little gay boy like me dominating the industry? Who knows!!! I will succeed. I will be okay, but I refuse to sell out like so many other artists. I wonder if that's the real price of fame. Losing one's self.

Prayers For Boston

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Mon, 15 Apr 2013 20:58:00 +0000

Let us keep those affected by the tragedy in Boston in our prayers.

Dorinda Clark Cole - My Name is Victory

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Fri, 12 Apr 2013 02:19:00 +0000

Single: A Year Later

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Sun, 07 Apr 2013 04:28:00 +0000

This past Thursday, April 5th marks a year of me being officially single. I really didn't give it much thought, until I sat at my desk and looked at the clock seeing that the date was April 5th, 2013. My mind went back to that night in which my now ex ,"Caramel," sent me a text saying "I've tried, but I can't do this anymore. Your personality is too much for me. Its over between us. It was fun while it lasted."
I couldn't even respond at first. I was hurt because I had put so much effort, not to mention I had given him myself in ways that I hadn't given to someone in a long time. His reasoning for the break up was because I'm "too gay and fem." Imagine that. Not to mention he made it seem like I was a cheap carnival ride.
My response was "Thanks. You could've been real and told me via the voice or in person. Its good to know that you are a coward." and I moved on.
Normally, thinking about a break up brings up bad memories and tension, but I was actually and I'm still in a good mood. That break up taught me, that if someone can't accept me for me, then they are not worthy of me. Granted I've been on some dates and ventured into some endeavors with some potential suitors, but either they are on that playing games side, and then some want me minus the femininity and my entertainer alter ego. Its been a year since I've been single and I'm happy. My life can't do anything but get better.
Although I'm 27 and currently single, I'm not sweating it. I'm still young. I have a music career and other things to focus on right now and I know in due time that I will have the mate that I desire. I'm in the preparation stage of my life. I know what I want and what I don't want. Also I have God on my side. Things will work out fine. I'm enjoying my freedom and getting me together.
365 days of being single and I'm still here. I haven't gone crazy and I'm not relationship hungry. It would be nice, but hey good things come to those who wait.
Smooches,
Musique

@NoShadeSeries: Penetration and Sin

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Thu, 04 Apr 2013 03:41:00 +0000

Get into one of the best web series to hit Youtube! It is called "No Shade." It is presented by Blunted Muse Productions and created by Sean Anthony. The series is LGBT themed and gives you life, DARLING!!!!

In the fourth installment "Penetration and Sin," Noel faces off with Pastor Melvin concerning homosexualty, while Danielle gets a visit at work. Kori and Eric are hanging out when an old friend and Kori cross paths. Girl, you betta hold on because "No Shade" is snatchin' wigs. Get into "Penetration and Sin," below.

My Milkshake is Better Than Yours

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Wed, 03 Apr 2013 00:25:00 +0000

He Shall Do a New Thing

noreply@blogger.com (♫Musique♫) — Tue, 02 Apr 2013 02:27:00 +0000

New things have been happening. For starters, I've gotten a new car. I had to put my old Toyota down. I ended up getting a new car. I had to step out on faith. God says that He will do new things if and when we trust Him. Through all of the things I've been through and even with the tests of my life right now, God has been proving himself to me. He's never left me nor has he left kicked me to the curb. Granted I've been through some tests and trials in recent weeks, but I'm finding myself happy. God is doing an awesome work and I thank Him.
Over the last couple weeks, I've found myself planning for my future. I've had to leave some people behind and I had to just to be honest with myself and see that my life is changing and so am I. Some of my friendships and close knit relationships have changed. I've come to the point that some ties must be severed. I've got to move on to my future. With me moving to the DMV later this year, I've put a lot of things in perspective and I am continually putting it in perspective. Well I'm out,
Musique