She filed a custody hearing in which she did not even have to notify me and won by default because I was completely unaware of the hearing due to not receiving any notice a of hearing. I am now filing again for the third time this year to request to vacate that custody hearing order due to it being awarded under false pretense.

I have only seen my child one time, for one hour, under the mother’s direct supervision, per her rules not the courts or parenting time plan. I have always been awarded parenting time in which I am supposed to be able to bring my child to my home on weekends, alternating holidays and school breaks, but the mother refuses me any contact or visitation for the past five years.

All of my parent time plans that she created show that I have unsupervised visitation as well as make-up parenting time due to the mother not allowing my visitation, yet she still refuses my visitation.

Because she has free attorneys in both states and I cannot afford an attorney, she always manages to find a way to get her way in court. If I complain online like I am right now, her boyfriend will stalk and harass me online as well as print this out and attempt to use it against me in court to show proof that I am harassing them online.

The only thing that I know I did wrong was to marry such an ungrateful immigrant that only wanted the green card and never loved me. Everything that I worked for and wanted in life, she took away from me, even getting rid of most of it, she just did not want me to have anything or get to see my child again out of spite and vengeance.

I know now what my own father had to go through because of my own mother’s actions when I was a child. I grew up to hate my mother after finding out she was responsible for destroying our family as well as my father and my life, all because she was a vindictive psycho that enjoys hurting her family.

My father passed away never really getting to know me or me knowing him, if my mother passes, I really don’t care, because she was an unfit mother as well as too selfish to care about her own child. I don’t want my child growing up with the same hatred and resentment because of what his mother did to his life and his father’s life.

I better go because the computer is acting up again and I am certain I will see the repercussions of this post online as well as in court.

If you are honest and try to go by the rules, you will get the wool pulled over your eyes and lose out.

If you are sincerely attempting to keep the relationship with the father and the child, but need to relocate to survive as well as be with family, I doubt the court is going to go against you, but you have to show evidence that you are not moving for the sole purpose to be vindictive or terminate the relationship between the father and child.

Victims Assistance will tell you upfront that if you do not lie to the courts, file false abuse reports as well as a false restraining order against your ex-husband, you will lose custody of your child. The idea is to scare the hell out of you in order for them to get the funding they need to fight against your ex-husband and make him look like an unfit father and an abusive spouse.

Of course, you will required to pretend to break down and cry and also act like you are in fear for your life in order to get the sympathy of the judge and the upper hand on custody issues.

Honest people do not get ahead in Family Court, liars get it all and if you get a free “criminal” attorney, you will get anything you want, can pretty much do as you please and are above the laws.