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    <updated>2026-06-14T07:14:39Z</updated>
    <author><name>Nairaland Forum</name></author><entry><title>We’re Not Safe If A General Can Die This Way - Reactions Trail Gen. Rabe&#x27;s Death</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8690532/not-safe-general-die-way"/>
            <summary type="html">&lt;blockquote&gt;By Seun Adeuyi&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The death of retired Major General Abubakar Rabe in captivity has sparked widespread reactions on social media, with many Nigerians expressing grief, concern over the country’s security situation, and reflections on leadership and public service.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Rabe, who was abducted alongside his wife in Katsina State about two weeks ago while travelling for a wedding, reportedly died while in captivity.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The Katsina State Government, through the Commissioner for Internal Security and Home Affairs, Nasiru Mu’azu, announced on Saturday that the retired military officer died from complications arising from diabetes and hypertension while being held by his abductors.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Following the announcement, social media users took to Facebook and X (formerly Twitter) to mourn the former general and comment on the broader challenge of insecurity in the country.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;On Facebook, Usman Almustapha described the incident as a lesson for serving military personnel, urging them to protect ordinary citizens during their years of service.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“The death of Major General Abubakar Rabe (Rtd) should serve as a lesson to serving military personnel. Use your position to protect and safeguard ordinary citizens while you are in service,” he wrote.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Another commenter, Musa Hassan, said the incident underscored the temporary nature of power and public office.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“People in power should know that power is transient and their failures and inaction today can affect them in future,” he stated.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Similarly, Suleiman Zaria offered prayers for the deceased while stressing the importance of responsible leadership.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“Leadership is a trust, and history never forgets. Doing the right thing at the right time will always leave a legacy of honour and service,” he wrote.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Mohammed Abdullahi Nako wrote: “If an army general can be kidnapped and killed, then who is safe? We are in grave danger under this lackadaisical government. The nation is no longer safe. Incessant kidnappings, banditry, and other violent crimes against citizens have become the order of the day.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“The government appears preoccupied solely with strategies to win the next election, while the safety of lives and property is no longer its priority. This misplaced focus underscores a glaring level of incompetence. When those entrusted with the security of the state cannot protect even high ranking military officers, it exposes a total collapse of the security architecture and a dereliction of the government’s primary constitutional duty to its people.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Other users reflected on the country’s security challenges. Orok Bassey suggested that experiences such as Rabe’s could influence future discussions on approaches to addressing insurgency and banditry, while Joel Yuyu called for accountability and justice in confronting wrongdoing.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;On X, many users expressed concern over the state of insecurity and questioned the safety of citizens.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;A user identified as @abba_laminu lamented what he described as the growing threat posed by bandits, noting that the death of a retired senior military officer highlighted the dangers facing Nigerians.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“After years of service and sacrifice, Allah ya jiqanshi da rahama,” he wrote.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Another user, @Isiyaq, called on political leaders to take stronger measures against insecurity, while @ReliableGov described the incident as tragic.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Several other users used the occasion to renew calls for more effective responses to kidnapping and banditry across the country.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Rabe’s death has added to growing concerns over insecurity in parts of northern Nigeria, where kidnapping for ransom and bandit attacks continue to pose significant challenges despite ongoing security operations.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The retired military officer’s passing has drawn condolences from citizens across the country, many of whom described the incident as a painful reminder of the need for sustained efforts to improve security and protect lives.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://dailytrust.com/were-not-safe-if-a-general-can-die-this-way-reactions-trail-abubakars-death/&quot;&gt;https://dailytrust.com/were-not-safe-if-a-general-can-die-this-way-reactions-trail-abubakars-death/&lt;/a&gt;</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8690532/not-safe-general-die-way</id>
            <published>2026-06-14T07:14:39Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-14T07:14:39Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>Only God Can End Nigeria’s Insecurity - Matawalle</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8690537/only-god-end-nigerias-insecurity"/>
            <summary type="html">&lt;blockquote&gt;Minister of State for Defence, Bello Muhammad Matawalle, says only God can ultimately bring an end to Nigeria’s insecurity challenges. Nigeria is witnessing a resurgence of insecurity, with killings and abductions across parts of the country, including recent incidents in Oyo and Borno, between May 15 and 17.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Daily Trust had reported how gunmen attacked three schools in Oriire Local Government Area of Oyo State and abducted 39 students and seven teachers. In Borno, armed groups attacked schools in Mussa, Askira-Uba Local Government Area, abducting 42 pupils.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Speaking in an interview with BBC Hausa, Matawalle said insecurity remains a national challenge that requires collective efforts from both security agencies and citizens to overcome. He urged Nigerians to support security agencies and pray for peace while warning politicians against exploiting the situation for political gain.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“It’s disheartening, and we must all rise to ensure that security agencies and Nigerians work together to end insecurity in the country. Insecurity does not discriminate based on political affiliation or religion. It can affect anyone.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“That is why we have urged the opposition to stop using insecurity to incite people. It is a challenge that can happen to anyone, and no Nigerian is happy about it. Unfortunately, some members of the opposition appear pleased with the situation. They do not care about the people. What matters to them is portraying the government as a failure for their own political interests and deceiving people into believing they alone can end insecurity.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“It is only God that can bring to an end to this insecurity, alongside our collective prayers and efforts. It should not be used as a tool to condemn others or score political points.” he said.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to him, old and misleading videos were being circulated on social media by some people to suggest the failure of the administration of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Noting that insecurity is not an isolated case with Nigeria, Matawalle assured that security operatives are working round the clock to crush terrorists unleashing attacks in parts of the country.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“There are fake and recycled videos being circulated, some dating back to the Jonathan administration and others from countries such as Burkina Faso and Mali, yet they are being presented as incidents that occurred under this administration. That is not true.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“Our security operatives are working tirelessly across the country. We have directed them to decisively with terrorists, but this is not a challenge that can disappear overnight. Even some of the world’s powerful nations have battled insecurity for years and are still confronting it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“We ask Nigerians to continue praying for us and supporting efforts to bring this challenge to an end.”e to serve.” he explained.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://dailytrust.com/matawalle-only-god-can-end-nigerias-insecurity/?fbclid=Iwb21leASanLNjbGNrBJqcpGV4dG4DYWVtAjExAHNydGMGYXBwX2lkDDM1MDY4NTUzMTcyOAABHsRj673ULX5P_IRtarPuLEQLbeY3y4IMUR9tVy09JGaeS67lo64CVHg2kmws_aem_YWdncwCBegL8lQO1j0AY4p1ODyKv&amp;amp;brid=YWdncwE7ayg3pNz40opFXqVgeUBc&quot;&gt;https://dailytrust.com/matawalle-only-god-can-end-nigerias-insecurity/?fbclid=Iwb21leASanLNjbGNrBJqcpGV4dG4DYWVtAjExAHNydGMGYXBwX2lkDDM1MDY4NTUzMTcyOAABHsRj673ULX5P_IRtarPuLEQLbeY3y4IMUR9tVy09JGaeS67lo64CVHg2kmws_aem_YWdncwCBegL8lQO1j0AY4p1ODyKv&amp;amp;brid=YWdncwE7ayg3pNz40opFXqVgeUBc&lt;/a&gt;</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8690537/only-god-end-nigerias-insecurity</id>
            <published>2026-06-14T05:38:26Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-14T05:38:26Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>FIFA World Cup: Brazil Vs Morocco (1 - 1) - Full Time</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8689770/brazil-vs-morocco-fifa-world/6#139710406"/>
            <summary type="html">Brazil vs Morocco 13/06/2026 23:00 pm.</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8689770/brazil-vs-morocco-fifa-world/6#139710406</id>
            <published>2026-06-14T01:16:19Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-14T01:16:19Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>Can You Truly Love Someone You Are Not Sexually Attracted To? (Eddytech001)</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8688952/truly-love-someone-not-sexually"/>
            <summary type="html">People always say “love is not about looks,” but in real life, attraction plays a big role in relationships.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If someone is kind, loyal, and financially stable but you don’t feel any sexual attraction to them… can the relationship really survive?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Or will frustration eventually set in?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Some people argue that attraction grows over time, while others believe it must be there from the start.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;So the question is:&lt;br&gt;👉 Is love enough without sexual attraction, or is attraction the real foundation of relationships?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;What do you think 💭?</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8688952/truly-love-someone-not-sexually</id>
            <published>2026-06-13T22:47:32Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-13T22:47:32Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>Bello Turji Names Baby Born In Captivity After Him, Conducts A Naming Ceremony</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8690444/bello-turji-names-baby-born"/>
            <summary type="html">You Won&#x27;t Believe What Bello Turji Did After A Baby Was Born In His Captivity&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Notorious Bandit, Bello Turji, named baby born in his captivity after himself, conducts a naming ceremony then increases his ransom demand to recoup the money spent.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;A caller on Nigeria&#x27;s Brekete Radio broadcast revealed that the notorious bandit leader, Bello Turji, named a baby born in his captivity after himself and subsequently increased the family&#x27;s ransom demand.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the victim&#x27;s relative, the woman was kidnapped while pregnant and gave birth in the bandits&#x27; camp. Turji organized a naming ceremony for the child, bought a ram for the occasion, and then added the expenses of the ceremony onto the overall ransom fee to recoup his money from the family.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://x.com/i/status/2065805592715747460&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;A caller on Brekete Radio today said his brother&#x27;s wife was kidnapped, gave birth in bandit captivity, and Bello Turji named the child after himself before increasing the ransom, saying he bought a ram for the naming ceremony.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://x.com/i/status/2065547722724147513&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8690444/bello-turji-names-baby-born</id>
            <published>2026-06-13T22:10:59Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-13T22:10:59Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>Kwara Traditional Ruler Dies In Bandits Captivity Despite ₦21M Ransom Payment</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8690480/kwara-traditional-ruler-died-bandits"/>
            <summary type="html">&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;b&gt;Freed Victim Claims Kwara Traditional Ruler Died In Bandits Captivity Despite ₦21million Ransom Payment&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;A Kwara resident recently released by bandits has claimed that the traditional ruler of Olayinka community in Ifelodun Local Government Area has reportedly died in captivity despite the payment of a substantial ransom by his community.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the source, the monarch was abducted approximately one month ago by suspected kidnappers who later opened negotiations with members of the community.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The kidnappers reportedly demanded and received a ransom package consisting of ₦21 million in cash, two new motorcycles, and one jerrycan of petrol as conditions for the ruler&#x27;s release.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&amp;quot;&lt;b&gt;The traditional ruler of Olayinka in Ifelodun Local Government Area was killed by his abductors despite the ransom payment made by the community&lt;/b&gt;,&amp;quot; the source told SaharaReporters.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to information relayed by the victim who was recently freed by the kidnappers in Sagbe, Kwara State, the monarch had already died while in captivity.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The source said the revelation came as a shock to members of the Olayinka community, who had hoped that the ransom payment would secure the monarch&#x27;s freedom.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&amp;quot;&lt;b&gt;The kidnappers collected ₦21 million, two new motorcycles and a jerrycan of petrol from the community. Despite all efforts made to secure his release, a person who was recently released by the abductors in Sagbe disclosed that the monarch had died in captivity&lt;/b&gt;,&amp;quot; the source said.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The development has reportedly thrown the Olayinka community into mourning, with residents devastated that the ransom payment failed to secure the monarch&#x27;s return alive.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As of the time of filing this report, security agencies in Kwara State had yet to issue an official statement regarding the coordinated attacks on the reported death of the traditional ruler. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;However, residents have continued to call on authorities to intensify security operations across the area amid growing concerns over the worsening insecurity in parts of the state.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://saharareporters.com/2026/06/12/freed-victim-claims-kwara-traditional-ruler-died-bandits-captivity-despite-n21million&quot;&gt;https://saharareporters.com/2026/06/12/freed-victim-claims-kwara-traditional-ruler-died-bandits-captivity-despite-n21million&lt;/a&gt;</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8690480/kwara-traditional-ruler-died-bandits</id>
            <published>2026-06-13T21:56:33Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-13T21:56:33Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>Kennedy Center Says It Has Fully Removed Trump’s Name From Its Building</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8690447/kennedy-center-says-it-fully"/>
            <summary type="html">&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Kennedy Center has fully removed President Donald Trump’s name from its building, following a court’s orders to reverse the center’s name change before an extended deadline, Executive Director Matt Floca told a judge in court documents Saturday.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Crews placed a tarp over the signage on Friday, blocking any view of the progress made on the removal of Trump’s name. The tarp was still on the building’s facade on Saturday after Trump’s name was said to have been taken off.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;A judge had granted the Kennedy Center’s request for additional time to fully remove Trump’s name from the building, giving the arts center until noon ET Saturday after the organization missed an 11:59 p.m. Friday deadline.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The 12-hour extension came after Justice Department attorneys representing the center said late Friday that while work was ongoing, thunderstorms in the Washington area caused delays.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Workers began removing Trump’s name from an exterior wall of the Kennedy Center early Saturday morning, video from a CNN crew showed.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;On Saturday morning, a small crowd had gathered to watch the president’s name come down, some of them stopping to take a photo. One man took a selfie with the tarp-covered building behind him, crossing his fingers.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;“I just wanted to see (Trump’s) name gone,” JoAnn Jones told CNN. “When a person wants to put their name on a building that you had nothing to do with, you did no work, you just, you don’t deserve it.”&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Crews began assembling scaffolding underneath the exterior signage of the building Friday. Shortly before 2 a.m. Saturday, workers started to drape a covering around the scaffolding, essentially blocking the view of their progress, as &lt;b&gt;people in a crowd that had gathered to witness the removal chanted, “Shame!”&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;A little after 3 a.m., crews appeared to be removing the letters, video shot through a small opening in the scaffolding covering showed.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;On Friday, an appeals court rejected a last-minute effort by the center to freeze the ruling by US District Judge Christopher Cooper that imposed the 11:59 p.m. deadline, arguing more time was needed for court proceedings play out.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The appeals court did not explain its reasoning for its decision in a brief, unsigned ruling. The panel included Judge Gregory Katsas, a Trump appointee; Patricia Millett, an appointee of former President Barack Obama; and Robert Wilkins, also an Obama appointee.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The judges asked for more written legal arguments to be submitted later this month over the center’s bid to pause the lower-court’s ruling that said it must remove Trump’s name from its building, website, promotional materials and other areas. But even as the legal wrangling plays out in coming weeks, the center must take steps to comply with the judge’s directive.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://edition.cnn.com/2026/06/12/politics/trump-kennedy-center-name-change-deadline&quot;&gt;https://edition.cnn.com/2026/06/12/politics/trump-kennedy-center-name-change-deadline&lt;/a&gt;</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8690447/kennedy-center-says-it-fully</id>
            <published>2026-06-13T21:42:43Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-13T21:42:43Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>Defence Minister Musa Blames Israel-Iran, Russia-Ukraine Wars For Arms Shortage</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8690502/defence-minister-musa-blames-israel-iran"/>
            <summary type="html">&lt;blockquote&gt;The Minister of Defence, Christopher Musa, has said the ongoing conflicts involving Israel, Iran, the United States, Russia and Ukraine are making it increasingly difficult for Nigeria and other countries to procure military equipment needed to tackle insecurity.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;The minister also lamented the absence of a comprehensive national database, saying it was hindering the efforts of security agencies, particularly the police, in tracking criminals and preventing crimes.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Musa stated this on Saturday while delivering a keynote address at the Nigerian People’s Strategic Conference and Defence Exhibition 2026 in Abuja.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Speaking on challenges confronting the country’s security architecture, he said global conflicts had disrupted access to military hardware, making it imperative for Nigeria to strengthen local defence production.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;With the war in Ukraine, Russia, Iran, the U.S. and Israel, it’s been extremely difficult getting equipment. Because most times they do down payment because they have the money and they produce most of these items. So even when you go to get, they have booked for them, and so it’s difficult.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;&amp;quot;The only solution is for us to produce what we need,” he said.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;He commended indigenous defence manufacturers and innovators, urging greater government support and patronage for locally produced military equipment.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The minister also appealed to the National Assembly to support the creation of a comprehensive database for Nigerians, describing it as critical to effective policing and national security.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;&amp;quot;I want to also appeal to the National Assembly on the issue of a database. We must develop a database for every Nigerian in the world. There is a capacity to do that.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;“It is only with that that it will make the job a lot easier for security forces. The Nigerian police is struggling because they don’t have a database to track and trace,” he said.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Musa, however, praised the police for their performance despite operational challenges.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;“I commend them because I think they are performing magic. Some of the crimes they’re able to bring out, I can tell you it’s extremely difficult without a database,” he said.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://punchng.com/defence-minister-blames-israel-iran-russia-ukraine-wars-for-arms-shortage/#google_vignette&quot;&gt;https://punchng.com/defence-minister-blames-israel-iran-russia-ukraine-wars-for-arms-shortage/#google_vignette&lt;/a&gt;</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8690502/defence-minister-musa-blames-israel-iran</id>
            <published>2026-06-13T21:38:12Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-13T21:38:12Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>Trailer Falls From Anambra Bridge, Crushes Vehicles Below, Two Injured (Video)</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8690505/trailer-falls-anambra-bridge-crushes"/>
            <summary type="html">&lt;blockquote&gt; &lt;iframe class=youtube src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/ndnucOeayZo&quot;  frameborder=&quot;0&quot; allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndnucOeayZo&quot;&gt;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndnucOeayZo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;A major road accident occurred in Anambra State after a heavy-duty trailer reportedly fell from a bridge and landed on vehicles moving beneath it, leaving at least two people injured and causing significant damage.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Eyewitnesses said the trailer lost control while crossing the bridge before plunging onto the road below, crushing multiple vehicles and triggering panic among motorists and residents in the area. The impact left several vehicles badly damaged as emergency responders and traffic officials rushed to the scene.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Officials from the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) and other emergency agencies were seen coordinating rescue efforts, while recovery teams worked to remove the fallen trailer and clear the affected roadway.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The injured victims were reportedly rescued and taken for medical attention, while authorities launched an investigation to determine the cause of the accident. Traffic around the area was heavily disrupted as onlookers gathered at the scene.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Residents have called for stricter enforcement of vehicle safety regulations and regular inspections of heavy-duty trucks to prevent similar incidents.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Watch the video Above for footage from the accident scene.&lt;/blockquote&gt;Let&#x27;s Discuss About It Now.</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8690505/trailer-falls-anambra-bridge-crushes</id>
            <published>2026-06-13T21:35:12Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-13T21:35:12Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>I Will Not Clean, Cook Or Help With Bills — Lady Lists Conditions For Marriage (Pix)</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8690231/not-clean-cook-bills-lady"/>
            <summary type="html">&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;b&gt;“I’m not going to clean, cook or help with bills” — Lady lists conditions for any man who wants to marry her&lt;br&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;A lady has sparked widespread discussion online after publicly outlining the conditions any man must meet before she would consider marriage.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In a video that has attracted attention on social media, the woman explained that she has no intention of taking on traditional domestic responsibilities in marriage, citing her career ambitions and personal lifestyle preferences.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to her, marriage would not require her to pause her professional growth or assume the role of a stay-at-home mother.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Her remarks quickly drew reactions from viewers, with many weighing in on modern relationships, gender roles and financial expectations between couples.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Expectations For Marriage&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;While explaining her position, the lady stated that she would not participate in household chores or cooking.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;“I’m not going to clean. I’m not going to do any house chores. I’m not going to cook because I have a career. I’m not going to pause my career for any man. I’m not going to be a stay-at-home mum. I’m not going to help you with any bills. I’m not going to be a traditional wife.”&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The statement immediately generated debate, with some social media users supporting her right to set personal standards, while others questioned whether such expectations were realistic.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Social Media Reactions&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;The woman further explained that maintaining her appearance was one of the reasons she would not engage in domestic work.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;“I don’t cook and I don’t clean because my manicure is expensive. If you can’t afford a chef, a cleaner, a nanny… then you can’t marry me. I’m not going to be doing all that. My nails are expensive. I’m not using them to scrub or clean.”&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;She also made it clear that anyone unable to provide that lifestyle should not pursue a relationship with her.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;“If you cannot afford this lifestyle, please don’t come for me. You can’t marry me.”&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The video has continued to generate mixed reactions online, with many users debating changing relationship dynamics, personal preferences and expectations within modern marriages.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;blockquote class=&quot;twitter-tweet&quot; data-dnt=&quot;true&quot;&gt;&lt;p lang=&quot;en&quot; dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Lady lists rules for her future husband &lt;a href=&quot;https://t.co/AdsUUgaHgN&quot;&gt;pic.twitter.com/AdsUUgaHgN&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&amp;mdash; Metro Naija (@metronaija) &lt;a href=&quot;https://x.com/metronaija/status/2065036707225838038?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw&quot;&gt;June 11, 2026&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;script async src=&quot;https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js&quot;&gt;&lt;/script&gt;</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8690231/not-clean-cook-bills-lady</id>
            <published>2026-06-13T20:44:26Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-13T20:44:26Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>&quot;The Best Gift I Can Ever Give To A Man Is Infection&quot; — Pretty Lady (Video)</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8689840/best-gift-ever-give-man"/>
            <summary type="html">&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;b&gt;&amp;quot;The best gift I can ever give to a man is infection&amp;quot; — Lady&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;A viral interview clip has triggered widespread outrage online after a lady made alarming remarks about what she described as &lt;b&gt;“ best gifts”&lt;/b&gt; to men during a conversation with a male interviewer.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In the video, the interviewer asked a simple question about the best gift one could give to a man.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The response quickly turned controversial and unsettling, drawing sharp reactions from viewers across social media platforms.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Interview exchange sparks shock and disbelief&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;During the discussion, the interviewer asked: &lt;b&gt;“What is the best gift we ever give to a man?”&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The lady responded: &lt;b&gt;“The best gift I can give to a man is infection. That is the gift that they will not forget in their whole life.”&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;She further stated: &lt;b&gt;“Men don’t deserve any gift”.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;When the interviewer reacted in disbelief, she repeated her position, insisting that material gifts are forgettable compared to what she described as lasting consequences.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;She was also heard saying: &lt;b&gt;“If I give a man money, give them things, they will forget them. But if I give infection, they will never forget it.”&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Disturbing claims linked to personal relationship experience&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;The woman later referenced a past relationship, alleging she was cheated on by a former partner. She appeared to connect that experience to her comments, saying it influenced her thinking.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;She escalated her remarks further, stating: &lt;b&gt;“Give him Staphylococcus, HIV, give him syphilis, for his life he will never forget that I gave him that gift.”&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The male interviewer repeatedly reacted in shock, questioning her statements and attempting to steer the conversation away from the disturbing direction it had taken.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;blockquote class=&quot;twitter-tweet&quot; data-dnt=&quot;true&quot;&gt;&lt;p lang=&quot;en&quot; dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Lady sparks outrage over claim that men deserve “inf+ctions, not gifts” in street interview &lt;a href=&quot;https://t.co/hb3dG3z1cp&quot;&gt;pic.twitter.com/hb3dG3z1cp&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&amp;mdash; Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) &lt;a href=&quot;https://x.com/instablog9ja/status/2065344047120564735?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw&quot;&gt;June 12, 2026&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;script async src=&quot;https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js&quot;&gt;&lt;/script&gt;</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8689840/best-gift-ever-give-man</id>
            <published>2026-06-13T20:02:10Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-13T20:02:10Z</updated>
            </entry><entry><title>7.8-Magnitude Earthquake Hits Philippines, 55 Dead, Several Missing (Videos, Photos)</title>
            <link href="https://www.nairaland.com/8690461/7.8-magnitude-earthquake-hits-southern-philippines"/>
            <summary type="html"> &lt;iframe class=youtube src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/L4_wDJNPtBY&quot;  frameborder=&quot;0&quot; allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L4_wDJNPtBY&quot;&gt;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L4_wDJNPtBY&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; &lt;iframe class=youtube src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/elWikfzvTqI&quot;  frameborder=&quot;0&quot; allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=elWikfzvTqI?si=WFdY8ouTPNg1FS_E&quot;&gt;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=elWikfzvTqI?si=WFdY8ouTPNg1FS_E&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;b&gt;Death toll climbs to 55 after powerful earthquake hits southern Philippines&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thousands displaced and housed in temporary shelters while emergency responders race to reach isolated communities.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Death toll from the powerful earthquake that struck the southern Philippines&lt;/b&gt; earlier this week &lt;b&gt;has risen to 55&lt;/b&gt;, authorities said Thursday, as search and rescue teams continued efforts in &lt;b&gt;the hardest-hit areas of Mindanao&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Reports from the Philippines indicated that dozens of people remain injured, while several others are still missing amid widespread destruction caused by the strong tremor.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Philippine News Agency (PNA), local disaster management officials confirmed the updated casualty figure after additional bodies were recovered from collapsed buildings and landslide-hit communities. Rescue operations have been hampered by continuing aftershocks, unstable structures, and damaged roads leading to affected towns.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;The 7.8-magnitude earthquake struck off the coast of Mindanao, triggering panic across the southern Philippines and causing extensive damage to homes, schools, hospitals, and public infrastructure&lt;/b&gt;. General Santos City and parts of Sarangani province were among the worst-affected areas, with authorities declaring states of calamity to speed up emergency response and relief efforts.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thousands of residents have been displaced and are staying in evacuation centers as officials assess structural damage and distribute food, water, and medical assistance. The Philippine Institute of Volcanology and Seismology has recorded numerous aftershocks since the quake, prompting warnings for residents to avoid damaged buildings.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;President Ferdinand Marcos Jr. has pledged full government support for affected communities and ordered national agencies to accelerate recovery and rehabilitation measures. The Philippines is located along the Pacific Ring of Fire, one of the world&#x27;s most seismically active regions, making earthquakes a frequent occurrence in the archipelago.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://www.aa.com.tr/en/asia-pacific/death-toll-climbs-to-55-after-powerful-earthquake-hits-southern-philippines/3964802&quot;&gt;https://www.aa.com.tr/en/asia-pacific/death-toll-climbs-to-55-after-powerful-earthquake-hits-southern-philippines/3964802&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; &lt;iframe class=youtube src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/0zER9aMZjww&quot;  frameborder=&quot;0&quot; allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a rel=ugc href=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0zER9aMZjww?si=B5tmuEdAo61RNKGP&quot;&gt;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0zER9aMZjww?si=B5tmuEdAo61RNKGP&lt;/a&gt;</summary>
            <id>https://www.nairaland.com/8690461/7.8-magnitude-earthquake-hits-southern-philippines</id>
            <published>2026-06-13T18:49:13Z</published>
            <updated>2026-06-13T18:49:13Z</updated>
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