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		<title>愛你但說不出口 by Karencici</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick Pan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2026 14:24:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[寶貝 今晚的我有點醉bǎobèi jīnwǎn de wǒ yǒudiǎn zuì 別理會你聽的那些謊話bié lǐhuì nǐ tīng de nàxiē huǎnghuà 我沒辦法wǒ méi bànfǎ 把真相都證明給你啊bǎ zhēnxiàng dōu zhèngmíng gěi nǐ a So 我的寶貝So wǒ de bǎobèi 你別看我渣nǐ bié kàn wǒ zhā 也會累yě huì lèi 脆弱的心被你一擊就碎cuìruò de xīn bèi nǐ yī jī jiù suì So what you say?So what you say? 能不能再給個機會?néng bùnéng &#8230; <p class="link-more"><a href="http://www.nickpan.com/2026/10/08/%e6%84%9b%e4%bd%a0%e4%bd%86%e8%aa%aa%e4%b8%8d%e5%87%ba%e5%8f%a3-by-karencici/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "愛你但說不出口 by Karencici"</span></a></p>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Better AI Answers Start with Better Briefs</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick Pan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 14:48:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Have you seen that viral video where a dad asks his kids to write step-by-step instructions for making a peanut butter and jelly sandwich? If you haven&#8217;t, it’s worth a quick watch: The premise is super simple. The kids write down steps like &#8220;put the peanut butter on the bread.&#8221; So the dad takes the &#8230; <p class="link-more"><a href="http://www.nickpan.com/2026/10/07/better-ai-answers-start-with-better-briefs/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "Better AI Answers Start with Better Briefs"</span></a></p>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Loud Confidence vs. Quiet Competence: Why the Wrong People Get Heard at Work</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick Pan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 12:38:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[If you work in an office, you have probably seen this before: Someone spends ten minutes reading a quick summary, then presents an idea with total confidence. Senior managers are busy and want fast answers, so they believe this person right away because they sound so sure. At the same time, the real experts sit &#8230; <p class="link-more"><a href="http://www.nickpan.com/2026/09/30/loud-confidence-vs-quiet-competence-why-the-wrong-people-get-heard-at-work/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "Loud Confidence vs. Quiet Competence: Why the Wrong People Get Heard at Work"</span></a></p>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Wisdom Doesn’t Start with IQ</title>
		<link>http://www.nickpan.com/2026/09/27/wisdom-doesnt-start-with-iq/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick Pan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 15:19:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[We tend to think the smartest and most intelligent people have the highest IQ and are the wisest. We tend to view wisdom as a high-level cognitive skill, an intellectual destination you reach if you just read enough books or have enough life experience, however we get a rude awakening when realise for a fact &#8230; <p class="link-more"><a href="http://www.nickpan.com/2026/09/27/wisdom-doesnt-start-with-iq/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "Wisdom Doesn’t Start with IQ"</span></a></p>]]></description>
		
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		<title>What&#8217;s Next?</title>
		<link>http://www.nickpan.com/2026/09/27/whats-next/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick Pan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2026 16:27:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Photo by Sharosh Rajasekher on Unsplash I like asking others “What’s next?”. I usually get answers like, the next holiday, the next job, new house, baby on the way, and the likes. And I constantly ask myself the same question and also wonder what’s next for our human race. We’ve actually come a super long &#8230; <p class="link-more"><a href="http://www.nickpan.com/2026/09/27/whats-next/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "What&#8217;s Next?"</span></a></p>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Stellar Sowings</title>
		<link>http://www.nickpan.com/2026/09/19/stellar-sowings/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick Pan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2026 14:08:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You died on a Tuesday. It wasn’t dramatic. No heroic sacrifice, no tragic cinematic spectacle. Just a sudden, sharp pain in your chest while waiting for the 8:15 AM train, holding a cup of take away coffee and worrying about that unread email from your boss. Then, the cold platform vanished. You were standing on &#8230; <p class="link-more"><a href="http://www.nickpan.com/2026/09/19/stellar-sowings/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "Stellar Sowings"</span></a></p>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Failures Are Data, Not Fate: Why Curiosity Will Save Humanity</title>
		<link>http://www.nickpan.com/2026/08/20/failures-are-data-not-fate-why-curiosity-will-save-humanity/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick Pan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2026 16:05:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[There is a natural human tendency, when faced with tragedy or the unknown, to look for a narrative. When a natural disaster strikes, when an economic crisis hits, or when an individual faces a devastating mistake or unfortunate incident, we instinctively try to categorize it. We label events as &#8220;bad luck.&#8221; We chalk misfortunes up &#8230; <p class="link-more"><a href="http://www.nickpan.com/2026/08/20/failures-are-data-not-fate-why-curiosity-will-save-humanity/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "Failures Are Data, Not Fate: Why Curiosity Will Save Humanity"</span></a></p>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Levels of Conversation: How Your Conversations Shape Your Life</title>
		<link>http://www.nickpan.com/2026/08/08/levels-of-conversation-how-your-conversations-shape-your-life/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick Pan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2026 07:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Eleanor Roosevelt famously said, &#8220;Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.&#8220; While the quote captures a powerful truth, I feel human communication is slightly more nuanced than that and not to forget everyone also likes to talk about themselves. In everyday life, our conversations generally fall into four distinct levels. &#8230; <p class="link-more"><a href="http://www.nickpan.com/2026/08/08/levels-of-conversation-how-your-conversations-shape-your-life/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "Levels of Conversation: How Your Conversations Shape Your Life"</span></a></p>]]></description>
		
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		<title>The Time Dilation Map &#8211; Intersecting Speed and Gravity</title>
		<link>http://www.nickpan.com/2026/07/05/the-time-dilation-map-intersecting-speed-and-gravity/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick Pan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2026 06:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Recently I attended a lecture in Singapore by Professor Brian Cox: Emergence, his brand new world tour for 2026. Lots of really nice scientific theories explained in visually arresting ways and in such simple terms. It then inspired me to put down some of my own thoughts in this area. So here goes&#8230; We usually &#8230; <p class="link-more"><a href="http://www.nickpan.com/2026/07/05/the-time-dilation-map-intersecting-speed-and-gravity/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "The Time Dilation Map &#8211; Intersecting Speed and Gravity"</span></a></p>]]></description>
		
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		<title>The Studio: Changing from a Consumer to Creator Lifestyle</title>
		<link>http://www.nickpan.com/2026/03/23/the-studio-changing-from-a-consumer-to-creator-lifestyle/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick Pan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 01:42:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[End of last year, as a family we did a year end review and also talked about what we individually want to do more in 2026. The thing I mentioned is I would like to create more and consume less and my dear Cleo have been keeping me in check. But it’s not easy and &#8230; <p class="link-more"><a href="http://www.nickpan.com/2026/03/23/the-studio-changing-from-a-consumer-to-creator-lifestyle/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "The Studio: Changing from a Consumer to Creator Lifestyle"</span></a></p>]]></description>
		
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