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5 Under $50 for the Holidays: Spa Gifts that are Great for the Wallet and Spirit

2008-12-02T15:30:00.008-05:00

Forgive me as I state the obvious. Times are tough…and if you’re like me, you don’t expect for a personal bailout package to come your way any time soon. So does that mean you need to abandon your spa dreams this holiday season? Absolutely not! For the poor in the pocket, but wealthy at heart among us, here are five “can’t lose” gifts for the spa goers in your life….and, as always, feel free to chime in at the end with your own ideas at the end!

A spa gift certificate – Whether it’s to a specific spa (including any of the ones I link to at right) or a service like Spa Finder or Spa Wish whose gift certificates can be redeemed at thousands of spas around the world, you can’t lose with a spa gift certificate. Depending on the spa, a gift of $25 or $50 can get your favorite spa enthusiast a manicure, pedicure or in some cases a short massage. At a higher end spa, it can provide the perfect add-on to a basic treatment. You can’t go wrong with this one, trust me!

A spa gift basket – You can buy a pre-made gift basket from sites such as the NJ Spa Girl & Co. Company Store, Red Envelope, Spa Finder or Wine and Country Baskets for $25 - $50 (of course you can spend more if you want!). Or, if you’re more of a “bricks and mortar” type of shopper check out Sam’s Club, Costco (yes, you read both of those correctly!) for some lovely baskets for under $25 all year round. And, if you’re feeling really creative and want to make your own basket (or gift bag), have no fear! I’ve given you a head start by linking to the more than 1,000 spa-related products available from Amazon. Or, a quick trip to the dollar store and/or a health and beauty retailers like Bath & Body Works can lead you to wonderful spa related treasures for $1 - $10 to fill up your gift bag or basket. From bath oils, lotions and candles, to relaxation masks, bath pillows, spa journals and CDs, the only limits to a wonderfully personalized spa basket are your imagination and budget!

The gift of aromatherapy – Ahhhhh….treat your favorite spa goer to the scent-sational gift of aromatherapy with a scented candle, fragrant aromatherapy oil or home fragrance stick diffuser kit. For about $20 you can find a broad range of scented candles and home fragrance stick diffusers at Hallmark, Red Envelope, Yankee Candle Company, Bed Bath & Beyond and just about any other places where house wares are sold. For those on tighter budget, check your local dollar store or even the seasonal discount aisle of your local CVS, Wal-greens or drug store. You’ll be surprised at what you might find! For those more into aromatherapy and essential oils for the body and/or home, check out the “Fragrantly” section of Stimuliart.com or the guest post below from my friend at YoungLiving.com for some inspiration.

A relaxation CD – The right sounds and music can truly soothe the body and soul. So consider a relaxing CD. The beauty of this gift is that for under $20 you can tailor the soothing sounds based on the recipient’s personal preferences. While there are a variety “spa sounds” out there, such as the ones covered in my earlier post, a relaxation CD is truly defined as anything that helps the listener to relax. So whether your favorite spa goer is into Coltrane or Kenny G, Motown or Mozart, the hypnotic chants of Tibeten Monks, the drizzle of a Brazilian Rainforest or the sounds of the sea, there’s a relaxation CD out there with their name on it!

Spa gear – What would a post like this be without a shameless plug for some comfortable gear to wear while relaxing at home or at the spa from the NJ Spa Girl & Co. company store? From t-shirts and spa journals to tote bags and sweats, we carry a full line of one-of-a-kind merchandise, the majority of which can be purchased for under $50! Of course there are other places you could go to buy spa gear for your favorite spa goer, but why would you?

So, if you’re looking for a little wallet-friendly, spa gift inspiration this holiday season—or all year round—consider this post just for you. Or, the next time someone asks you, what’s on your gift wish list, feel free to pass this article along. You’ll be glad you did—and so will they! J

Wishing you good spa and the happiest and healthiest of holidays!
NJ Spa Girl

Can't Get to the Spa? Indulge in Some "Retail Therapy" at ideeli

2008-08-13T19:46:00.017-04:00

Greetings fellow spa goers!

Who says membership doesn't have its privileges?

When I first launched NJSpaGirl.com, I dreamed of offering my community members exclusive benefits from businesses who share our commitment to making time and taking time to luxuriate and enjoy life's pleasures--from the simple to the luxurious. I'm pleased to report that we've just solidified our first such arrangement with ideeli, a unique, invitation-only shopping community.

ideeli creates daily online events that provide its members with the ideal shopping experience: privileged access to the most sought-after products and experiences, often at privileged prices. Each event is designed by ideeli editors to offer members an exclusive shopping opportunity in a fun, social way. The surprises include not only great products and prices, but items not yet available in stores, finds from abroad, and fabulous giveaways.

Now, as an NJSpaGirl.com reader, you have the opportunity to save as you indulge in one of the most exclusive retail therapy experiences around!

To access this unique service via ideeli's private code for NJSpaGirl.com readers, click the ideeli link in the "Shop for your favorite spa goer" section at right, or click the link below:

NJSpaGirl.com Reader Private Code

Wishing you good spa (and some good retail therapy!)!
NJ Spa Girl

Everything You Want To Know About Aromatherapy Oils (But Are Afraid To Ask!)

2008-07-31T20:09:00.004-04:00

Enjoy this guest post by my fellow Spa Girl Nia (aka FoxyLayd!)

Aromatherapy & Essential Oils

What is aromatherapy? According to Wikipedia, Aromatherapy is a form of alternative medicine that uses volatile liquid plant materials, known as essential oils (EOs), and other aromatic compounds from plants for the purpose of affecting a person's mood or health.

Aromatherapy is the oldest method of holistic healing and is employed to modify a person’s psychological and physical well-being.

Since scent is the most enduring of our senses, it has the power to transform our emotions, and heal our bodies. It can take us to another place and time, it can invoke memories both good and bad (i.e. grandma’s kitchen, an old boyfriend or girlfriend’s cologne).

The Egyptians used aromatherapy for medicinal and cosmetic purposes as well as embalming. In China it was linked to other ancient therapies such as massage and acupressure. The Greeks found that the fragrance of some flowers was stimulating while others had relaxing properties. The use of olive oil as the base oil absorbed the aroma from the herbs or flowers and the perfumed oil was then used for both cosmetic and medicinal purposes.

Aromatherapy, although practiced for thousands of years, has only recently become popular in our culture as a result of a return to a holistic lifestyle. We are now considering all factors when treating illness, taking into account physical, mental and social conditions (mind, body & spirit).

Some of us practice aromatherapy every day. When we burn a scented candle, walk through a fragrant garden or even take a shower or a bath, we are practicing aromatherapy. Most of the bath and body care products we use contain some form of essential oil - the basis of Aromatherapy. One of the reasons aromatherapy is so popular today is it’s easy to practice and readily available.

Essential oils are liquids distilled from shrubs, flowers, trees, roots, bushes and seeds. The healing properties of Essential Oils are capable of treating our physical bodies, enhancing our state of mind (alleviating anxiety, fear, depression, insecurity, irritability, low self esteem, poor memory, sadness and stress) and extend into the effective treatment of a variety of physical ailments (i.e. headaches, acne, bruises, sunburn, indigestion, toothache, halitosis, colds, allergies and PMS). They have been found to provide both psychological and physical benefits when used correctly and safely.

Essential oils have been used medicinally to kill bacteria, fungi and viruses. They provide exquisite fragrances to balance mood, lift spirits, dispel negative emotions, and create a romantic atmosphere. They can be used in the shower, bath, diffused, applied, inhaled or taken internally.

Essential oils that are inhaled into the lungs offer both psychological and physical benefits. Not only does the aroma of the natural essential oil stimulate the brain to trigger a reaction, but the natural constituents (naturally occurring chemicals) can supply therapeutic benefit.

Essential oils that are applied to the skin can be absorbed into the bloodstream. They can aid in health, beauty and hygiene conditions (to apply essential oils to the skin, single oils should be diluted into a carrier oil).

In addition, essential oils are helpful in other applications. Essential oils can be used in household and laundry cleaners (lavender, melaleuca, peppermint); others can be used as a natural insect repellent and pesticide. Lemongrass & bergamot are effective against biting insects, peppermint is effective against spiders.

Essential oils can be blended together to create appealing and complex aromas. Essential oils can also be blended for a specific therapeutic application (Purification® (1) can be used to cleanse and soothe insect bites, cuts, and scrapes).

When purchasing essential oils, look at the ingredient label to make certain that the product does not contain fragrance oils or unpure (chemical) components (look for products that contain pure essential oils on their ingredient list and avoid those that have words like fragrance – they are not the same).

To learn what oils will be suitable your intended use (antibacterial, disinfectant, etc.), please contact me.

Remember, only purchase your essential oils from a reputable company (check out my website: www.youngliving.com/foxeelayd)

1. Purification is a Young Living Essential Oils registered trademark product.

Got Spaaaaaah? How To Manage Your Stress, Before It Manages You

2008-03-30T17:15:00.004-04:00

A Slight Break From Our Regularly Scheduled Programming -- This post departs from my usual spa review focus and format. But I thought it was necessary to take time out to revisit why the art of spa plays such an important role in my life. For me, a trip to the spa is a wonderful way to relieve stress and escape from them the hectic pace of my daily grind. So, this post is dedicated to the stressed out, the overworked, the tired, the frazzled and those among us who are hanging on by a thread. Please visit www.njspagirl.com and share your thoughts.

Who knows…your journey, idea, affirmation or kernel of wisdom could be the inspiration that someone else needs!

When Dealing With The Mundane Seems Like Moving A Mountain – A friend who is like a brother to me called me stressed out the other day. The last straw in his very hectic, demanding, stress-filled week as an educator, father, and husband occurred when he sought refuge in a cup of hot tea at the drive though of a local fast food restaurant.

His request was quite simple. A hot tea with sweetener, for this purpose, let’s say sugar.

The order taker said she would happily put the sugar on the side for him, ok? Well, today, in this moment, no, that was not ok. It was about more than just a cup of tea fixed how he wanted it.

He had driven 2 hours to spend the last day of his weekend haggling with salespeople at the appliance store then moving and installing the heavy appliances (all by himself) for his sickly in-laws, despite the fact they had able-bodied adult sons at home. This was on the heels of a highly stressful week in his professional life, followed by a full day at work on a second job on Saturday and, all the while, trying to be a husband to his lovely wife and keep pace with two pre-schoolers at home.

So today, that cup of tea represented his escape--his oasis from a hectic week that crescendoed in a physically exhausting weekend. So who was the young lady at the drive through to ruin it by putting the sugar on the side instead of in the tea for him?

Sound like any days you’ve had lately…?

In a tight but polite voice, my friend told the young lady at the drive-through window to please put the sweetener in the tea because he was driving and that would make his life much easier. For him, putting the sugar on this side that day was not an option.

I happened to be on the phone with him when the transaction occurred and he asked me if he had been unreasonable? Was his request too much to ask? What exactly was wrong with customer service today?

How To Blow Off Steam Before Reaching Your Boiling Point -- As we talked about the events that had just transpired, I thought, if it were me, here’s where I’d immediately book a spa appointment then recommit to “getting my spa on” much more regularly in hopes of never again allowing the stress to get to the point where I was about to explode.

Once of my favorite Rolling Stones songs goes, “You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you just might find you get what you need.” But how do you learn to get what you need, even when you can’t get what you want? Asked another way, how do you learn to deal with getting the sugar on the side when all you really want is for it to be put in your tea?

While there are numerous books, web sites, spiritual leaders and therapists better equipped to offer advice on effective coping skills and stress management than me, I decided to devote this post to sharing what I do know in hopes of helping you take another step in the ongoing journey of learning nurturing your mind-body-spirit connection. So here goes…

1.) Learning how to manage stress effectively and healthily takes work, especially when you first begin the process. For me, going to the spa for a massage, facial, body treatment or whatever, is how I deal with getting the sugar on the side when all I really want and need is for someone to put it in my tea for me. But it wasn’t always that way.

Those who know me today often find it hard to believe that I used to be a stressed out train wreck. I developed an ulcer and other stomach problems, suffered from muscular tension headaches, and had terrible insomnia – all before I reached my 20s!

So for years I’ve been working on learning how not “to sweat the small stuff” and how to embrace the reality that “it’s all small stuff” (a favorite slogan of my brother’s which Richard and Christine Carlson turned into a popular series of terrific, best-selling books).

I’ve also learned how not to “major in the minors” and to “keep the main thing the main thing” as a former manager and mentor of mine used to say. But it wasn’t easy. I’ve read a lot of books, listened to a lot of inspirational and motivational speakers, and talked to a lot of wise friends, mentors and colleagues over the years – and continue to do so today!

2.) It takes a commitment be good to yourself so you can be good to everyone else around you. One of the best things about www.NJSpaGirl.com is that it helps to keep me honest about keeping a commitment I made to myself to become more diligent about practicing relaxation until it became a routine part of my way of life.

By now you’re saying, but I’m busy. I don’t have time to go to the spa, take a yoga class, mediate {or whatever what I’d like to do in order to relax}—I mean, I can barely find time to go potty by myself without my hubby or the kids knocking on the door at home or being called into back to back meetings and managing concurrent emergencies at work.

You may also be saying, I can’t afford to go to the spa on a regular basis. While I’ll be addressing affordable spa escapes in a future post, for now I’ll challenge you to consider how can you afford not to?

Given the mental, physical and emotional toll stress takes if left unmanaged, how can you possibly compare those costs to that of an occasional spa outing or whatever you need to do to relax?

The bottom line is we find time and money for the things that matter most to us. Whether it’s the mortgage or the kids’ tuition or that cute designer bag, dress and shoes we just couldn’t leave in the store, we always find a way when it’s something that’s really important to us.

So why not add taking better care of and regularly pampering yourself to that list?

3.) Give yourself permission to take a time out. As an over-achieving, female, youngest child with perfectionist and workaholic tendencies (although I’ll NEVER admit to owning either title!) this is one of the hardest things I’ve had to reprogram myself to do. I mean, I feel guilty if I leave work on time, if I spend a frivolous dime on myself, or if I’m not constantly being productive in some way.

Sound like anyone you know?

Ironically, learning to give myself permission to take a break, say “no” or ask for help is one of the hardest things I’ve learned to do and also one of the easiest stress management strategies I’ve ever employed. The best thing about it is that it’s entirely up to you to control. The worse thing about it is that it’s entirely up to you to control. But the good news is, if I can learn to do it, anyone can.

The next time you’re feeling frazzled, here’s a two step exercise to try. Step one, is to look in the mirror and say “You REALLY need and deserve a break, right now”. It feels a little funny at first, but trust me, it gets easier over time. Step two, is to immediately (not tomorrow, not in 5 minutes, but immediately) make that spa appointment, light a candle, take a hot bath with the door locked, meditate or do whatever will ease your mind, body and spirit.

You can do it, really you can!

4.) You don’t have to go it alone…and you shouldn’t! My friends, family members and colleagues are all involved in my stress management strategy, even if they don’t realize it. When I’m frazzled, my sweetie gently reminds me that I haven’t gone to the spa in a while and helps me free my schedule to I can find the time to sneak in a chance to recharge. He also cooks and cleans when I don’t feel like it and helps me give myself permission to do nothing when I really need to.

My wonderful family members and friends are never in doubt about what to give me on gift-giving occasions because they know a spa gift certificate or a spa themed gift is always just the right size and color! And luckily for me, many of them are always ready to join me for a spa outing whenever I don’t feel like going it alone.

Additionally, my team at work knows that I leave on time, which to my guilt-ridden over worked soul feels like early, on Mondays to go to yoga class. They also help me remember to take time for lunch every day and that not everything is an emergency that needs my attention.

And my inner circle of confidants are always there to lift me up or sit me down (depending on what the situation requires!) whenever I need it.

By embracing these four life lessons, I’ve learned exactly what to do the next time I get my sugar on the side instead of in my tea—safely pull over to the side of the road, stop, fix my tea however I want it and sit there, sipping it quietly for as long as I need to…

And when my time out is over, I’ll also be sure to call and make that spa appointment as soon as I get home, if not sooner!

Wishing you good spa!

Wanted: Your Favorite Spa Sounds

2008-02-11T21:43:00.000-05:00

Every time I go to the spa, I wonder "Where do they find all that wonderfully relaxing music?" There seems to be a spa CD to match every flavor of spa, from the zen to the carribean to the avante garde to the classically jazz inspired and everything in between.

In this age of the ubiquitous MP3 player, I thought, what a better way to take a piece of spa with me to work, on the train, in the car, on the plane, in my living room or wherever I go than to load up my device with some relaxing spa sounds?

But where to start? How do I separate the good from the bad and the ugly, if there is such a thing, when it comes to spa sounds?

Given the nature of http://www.njspagirl.com/, the natural place to start is to go straight to the source--to you, my fellow spa goers. So here's your chance to chime in.

Please log on to http://www.njspagirl.com/ and share the name(s) of your favorite spa tunes and CDs. My goal is to compile a list of your favorites for sharing in a future post, so that all of us can take a little piece of spa with us wherever we go.

To give you a little inspiration, I put together the following slide show which captures some amazing spa sounds I've come across, some of which I've taken for a test drive and others that are on my "to do" list to explore. The rest is up to you. Log on and post your ideas or links to the spa sounds that inspire you most.

I look forward to hearing from you and seeing where this part of our spa journey might take us!

As always, wishing you good spa!

The Pampered Spirit NJ & Other Good Reasons To Try A Mobile Spa

2008-01-18T22:55:00.000-05:00

The Gift For The Man (or Woman or Couple) Who Has Everything – Last summer, my brother got married which presented me with a not so unique challenge—so what to get the man who has everything, including a lovely new wife?

My brother is like many men when it comes to his concept of “spa.” He would LOVE to try a massage because the idea of anything promoting stress reduction, serenity and relaxation is appealing to say the least. However, the thought of going to a spa to get a massage seems too “girlie,” too far “outside his comfort zone” or too {insert whatever understandable reason you can think of here} for him to give it a try.

My sister-in-law is a bit more adventurous when it comes to things spa. Before the wedding she mentioned she would love to try a spa, so for her bachelorette outing, I treated her to a wonderful spa experience at Ethereal Day Spa and Day Spa (http://www.etherealdayspa.com/) in Parsippany (don’t worry, the review is coming soon – I promise!). In fact, she was so open, she even let me pick her treatments!

So, when it came time to pick the perfect wedding gift, I decided to treat them both to a magical spa experience that would allow them both to enjoy their first professional massage, a romantic candlelit dinner, and soothing music all in the comfort and privacy of their own home.

Enter the mobile spa experience.

The Experience – I contacted Bridget Turnbach, founder of The Pampered Spirit Mobile Spa & Massage Co. (www.thepamperedspiritnj.com) who helped me design the perfect gift for my brother and his new bride. Since it was a surprise gift and my sister-in-law subscribes to my blog, I will not tell say how much it cost, but I arranged for what is now posted to her site as The Ultimate In Romance Dinner and Massage package.

Bridget and another skilled massage therapist met me at my brother’s home along with Chef Ted, proprietor of Ted Can Cook Personal Chef Service (www.tedcancook.com). We knocked on the door and within minutes, the newlyweds’ living room was magically transformed into a serene spa, complete with candles, music and aromatherapy where my brother and sister-and-law received their side-by-side relaxation massages.

As the Pampered Spirit team worked its magic, Chef Ted prepared a gourmet meal, complete with an entrée of my choosing (I selected Chef Ted’s signature salmon dish) flowers (in colors to match their wedding colors), sparkling apple cider (they don’t drink alcohol) and a wonderful chocolate dessert of Chef Ted’s choosing. The beauty of that add on is that Chef Ted literally bought EVERYTHING from all the ingredients, to the cooking equipment and serving dishes. And when it was all said and done, the Pampered Spirit team, including Chef Ted, cleaned everything up, returning my bother’s apartment back to its original state – except of course for the relaxed, rejuvenated and transformed newlyweds left behind!

While I have yet to personally indulge in the privacy, comfort and convenience of the mobile spa, my brother and sister-in-law were BIG fans of their experience. And, for two people who had never had a massage before, I knew if they enjoyed it, there must be something to it.

Why Try It Yourself? – So, based on their feedback, and some research of my own, here are the top 5 reasons to consider a mobile spa experience, even though in some cases, it may be a bit more expensive than a more traditional spa.

1. It’s convenient – Mobile spa companies schedule appointments based on their availability and their client’s schedule. And many, such as Pampered Spirit, work on weekends, including Sundays!

2. It’s private – Mobile spa companies come to you – at work, at home, at a hotel or wherever you prefer. So, if you’re a little “spa shy,” what could be better than your place for a spa experience?

3. It’s customized – Mobile spa companies totally customize their services. And while you don’t have to have all the trimmings like the gift package I selected for my brother and his bride, you can often get the experience you want, when you want, where you want.

4. It’s great to try alone, with a friend or with a group – In addition to individual treatments, many mobile spa companies offer packages for two and “spa party” services for groups. While, I’ll cover spa parties in another post, mobile spas offer a great option to share a unique spa experience with your sweetie or with your best friends. They also make for unique fundraisers and special events.

5. The extras are limited only by your imagination (ok, and maybe your budget!) – From manicures, pedicures and facials to massages, personal chefs, psychics, martini bars, champagne, flowers and almost anything you can dream of (within your budget and that the space will allow), mobile spa companies can help deliver all the extras needs to bring your ultimate “in home” spa experience to life.

Ways To Spa On The Go – So, if you’re looking for a mobile spa service to try, listed below are a few sites for companies in the NJ/NY metropolitan area that I came across in my search for the perfect wedding gift for my brother and sister-in-law:

The Pampered Spirit NJ (www.thepamperedspiritnj.com)
Earthtones Holistic Products and Services LLC (www.earthtonesmobilespa.com)
Mobile Massage Spa, LLC (www.mobilemassagespa.com)
Spa Chicks on The Go (www.www.spachicksonthego.com)
SpaLean Day & Mobile Spa (www.spalean.com)
Pampered Soul Mobile Massage & Spa (www.pamperedsoulspa.com)
SPArties (www.sparties.com)

Many of them offer gift certificates or special services for the office and/or corporate events, fundraisers, weddings and other special occasions. Please note, this list is by no means inclusive and The Pampered Spirit NJ is the only company whose services I’ve purchased to date. So if you’ve tried any of these mobile spas, or know of one that’s not listed, please let us know by posting your comment below.

Oh yes, before I forget, here’s one last – and perhaps the best – reason to try a mobile spa experience (or any spa experience!)….YOU DESERVE IT!

Wishing you good spa!

Balance Spa & Fitness at the Loews Philadelphia

2008-01-03T13:43:00.000-05:00

1234 Market Street, 5th Floor
Philadelphia, PA
215-627-5500
http://www.loewshotels.com/en/Hotels/Philadelphia-Hotel/Overview.aspx

Visited: November 2007

Genre: Hotel Spa

The Scene: Chic, Art Deco, Modern Facility Where Fitness and Spa Meet

Spa Environment: In Transition When I Went, But Generally, Well-Appointed and Well Worth Another Visit Once Management Change Is Completed

The Damage: Reasonable For A Luxury Hotel Spa; I had the 80 minute East Meets West Combination massage for $140.

The Experience -- the Prelude: When my sweetie and I decided to go away Thanksgiving weekend, we were almost instantly drawn to the Loews Hotel in Philadelphia. Like many other travelers,we researched our travel options online and armed with our AAA discount, we decided on the Loews--a luxurious, first class, affordable option for our holiday escape. In addition to a fantastic view, quality service and a great restaurant (The Loews is home to the very chic and very yummy Sole Food), The Loews had a spa that you KNOW I just had to try.

I admit I was a little nervous at first, when I had difficulty finding a price list or other details (aside from a few pictures) about the spa on the Loews Hotel web site. These fears were allayed some when we called the hotel and were immediately connected with the Balance Spa and Fitness center upon request.

When the gentleman who took my call asked what services I would like, I asked him what he would recommend since I couldn't get any ideas from the web site. He instantly suggested the spa's signature East Meets West Combination massage. He explained the treatment was a custom blend of Eastern Shiatsu and Thai massage with Western Swedish/Deep Muscle techniques. And, at only $100 for 50 minutes, I decided to treat myself to the 80 minute version for only a few dollars more at $140. Besides, I had always wanted to try Shiatsu and figured this might be a great entree into the Japanese art of applying pressure to various points on the body in order to relieve stress and tension.

The Arrival: When I arrived at Balance Spa & Fitness, I was immediately blown away by the size of the facility. With a 20 meter, two lane heated lap pool the immediate right and a spacious cardio and strength training area in front of me, it was easy to see why the space was called the Balance Spa AND FITNESS CENTER!

I later learned that hotel guests could use the pool for $10 per day and that the 15,000 foot spa encompassed the entire Fifth Floor of the Hotel. The latest hip hop and dance music piping in provided a very fitness-friendly atmosphere but begged the question in my mind, how is this going to translate into my spa experience?

The reception area was to the left, flanked on one side by a curiously almost empty beverage case stocked with only a few bottles of water. The friendly receptionist who checked me in made me raise an eyebrow when she explained she needed to find my massage therapist, who had yet to return from lunch. A rookie mistake perhaps, I thought as she handed me a robe and towel. Upon entering the women's locker room, it occurred to me, she hadn't offered me slippers, any refreshments or a tour of the facility--all of which I've come to expect from hotel spas.

Luckily, I always bring my own slippers and my spa robe was very roomy and comfortable. In fact, it was just like the cozy spa robes that were in our hotel room, so I was optimistic when I took a look around while waiting on my massage therapist.

Suddenly, it dawned on me that I had an assigned locker but no key! I quickly returned to the front desk, where the receptionist apologized for her mistake and again assured me she was still trying to locate my massage therapist, this time by placing a call to her cell phone. Fortunately, the spa was completely empty and my things were just where I left them when I returned to my locker.

The Tour: I quickly forgot about the receptionist's oversights when I saw a rather large sized sauna, across from which stood an equally roomy steam room. Both featured easy-to-understand instructions for setting the temperatures and timers to your likely. And, the steam room was equipped with my favorite eucalyptus spray, which beckoned me to indulge after my massage.

The showers and rest rooms were pristine, although I noticed that extra towels were not available anywhere aside from the front desk. I also noticed that the spa was strangely quiet, without any zen-like or yoga-friendly music that typically provides the soundtrack for a hotel spa experience. Beyond that, the spa was fairly well-appointed with cotton swabs, lotion, mouthwash, showers, a hair and makeup area and many of the other accouterments you would expect from a luxury hotel spa.

In the waiting room adjacent to the treatment areas, though, there was a bowl of apples and oranges, but no tea, water, juices or refreshments of other kinds that I could see. In fact, in the entire chic, modern, minimalistic, art-deco-meets-the-neon-50s-diner decorated spa, the only thing I could find to read while waiting was a back issue of Liberty Sports magazine.

This was another strange detail that seemed disjointed with the very chic but inviting, luxurious client experience promised by the Loews Hotel. But before I could ponder that disconnect any longer, Eloisa, my massage therapist arrived to take me to my treatment room.

The Treatment: In a word, my East Meets West Combination massage was fantastic. I mentioned to Eloisa that I had no idea what to expect from the Eastern portion of the treatment but was hoping that the Western portion would focus on my neck and upper back, since that's where I typically carry my stress.

I chose a lavender scented oil for the Swedish portion and Eloisa explained how she would go about employing the various techniques throughout the course of my treatment. The first half, she incorporated Eastern techniques, gently pulling, stretching and applying pressure at various points across my arms, legs, feet and face.

At first, I was a little tense since the movements were a bit reminiscent of some of the range of motion exercises I had in physical therapy when I hurt my knee many years ago. However, there was no pain this go round and when I finally relaxed, I was surprised of how quickly I started to feel "tension free" in the parts of my body the therapist was working on.

When I turned on my stomach for part two, Eloisa employed a familiar combination of Swedish and deep tissue massage. And, in spite of the fact that there was no background music and the massage table wasn't heated, I was so relaxed I nearly dozed off by the time she was done.

Insider Info.: On my way out, I grabbed a photocopied price list from the receptionist. It was then that I solved the mystery of the disconnects and rookie mistakes that had provided a curious undercurrent for my Balance Spa & Fitness spa experience. It seems that the Balance Spa & Fitness center's contract with the Loews Hotel was expiring and management of the spa, fitness center and pool would soon be switching hands in the months to come. That single fact explained so many of the minor disappointments I had experienced during my visit (all of which were made up for by my wonderful East Meets West massage) that I'm looking forward to returning to the spa to see if and how my escape might be different once the facility is under new management.

Spa Toccare at The Borgata: Simply Luxurious

2007-11-25T19:40:00.000-05:00

Spa Toccare at The Borgata
One Borgata Way
Atlantic City, NJ 08401
609-317-7555
www.theborgata.com

Visited: June 2005

In A Nutshell: Lovely & Luxurious, what more can I say?

Genre: Hotel Spa

The Scene: The Best Of The Borgata's Hip, Chic, And Luxurious Style Applied To A European

Spa Environment: Perfect For Releasing The Inner Diva (Or Don) In You

The Damage: Moderate But Affordable With A Little Advance Planning; I had the 50 minute Bilberry Facial for $85.00 and a combination 50 minute Deep Tissue-Sweedish aromatherapy massage for $120. The Borgata automatically includes a 20% gratuity up front, so my total experience cost $246.00.

The Experience: The Prelude —Hip, modern, chic, hot, trendy, sure, the Borgata Casino certainly lives up to its reputation as Atlantic City’s casino of choice for the younger at heart. The rooms are lovely, the games are state-of-the-art and as soon as you enter the Casino, it’s easy to see why they don’t hire just anyone to serve cocktails to the high rollers. But does the Borgata magic transcend to its spa? We (NJ Spa Girl and four of my spa-going buddies, including one new recruit!) recently visited Spa Tocarre to find out.

It was my birthday and I had longed to visit the Bortgata since it opened. So, a group of us hopped in the car and decided to make a mini-vacation out of our Borgata experience, the centerpiece of which would be our trip to its Spa Tocarre in between some serious outlet shopping (did I mention only one of us was a casino game player?).

I had signed up for a Complete Retreat aromatherapy massage and a Bilberry Facial. However, the day before our appointment I got a call from the spa manager to inform me that my massage therapist would be unavailable. The alternative would be to get the same treatment later in the day, or to keep my appointment time and instead choose from either a Deep Tissue or a Sweedish massage. (NOTE: A Deep Tissue Massage, while perfect for overworked and tense muscles, involves intense pressure and therefore is not for the faint at heart or for the beginning spa goer. Instead, try a Sweedish or an aromatherapy massage!)

Since I was going to the spa with a group of my girlfriends, I opted for the change in treatment. The next day, we took the elevator to the 2nd floor and arrived at Spa Tocarre’s reception area, opposite the Borgata Hotel’s magnificent indoor pool (complete with whirlpool, sunroof and palm trees). I was pleased to find that the change had been entered on their computer system and to accommodate me for the inconvenience, they arranged for me to receive a combination treatment featuring “the best of” the therapist’s Sweedish, deep tissue and aromatherapy techniques.

When we left the reception area and entered the spa itself, I knew we were in for a treat.

The Lounge -- A Spa Tocarre representative immediately welcomed us and provided a tour of the women’s spa (Fellas, don't worry, Spa Tocarre has a separate Men's spa just for you!), including the pristine locker room, showers, steam room, whirlpool, hot soak, sauna, spa shop, lounge and beauty salon area (fully stocked with hair scrunchies and everything else a girl needs while getting dressed after her spa experience).

As we changed into our spa robes and went to the lounge to wait for our appointments, we were immediately transported into a wonderfully relaxing world as modern and relaxing as it is luxurious.

I could have spent an hour enjoying the beautiful fireplace lit only with scented candles and reflective mirrors while lounging on the whimsical orange art deco chaise lounge. The soothing array of orange and brown earth tones that colored the comfortable armchairs and matching ottomans made for the perfect complement to the plasma TVs (a Borgata signature accoutrement)—turned on, but silent to create a perfect blend of modern luxury and relaxation!

Spa Toccare’s fully stocked juice bar included a wonderful selection of fresh fruit and an extensive selection of teas, bottled water, and juices made for a delightful finishing touch.
But alas, the time soon came when I had to leave the lounge to partake of my massage and facial!

The Massage -- The next stop on my journey was my Deep Tissue massage. My therapist Jose really hooked me up, treating me to a few extra minutes (I was with him for an hour) for my birthday and his own special Pina Colada aromatherapy technique using a blend of warm and wonderfully scented pineapple and coconut oils. He also combined therapies going deep on my neck, back and shoulders to work out the kinks and adjusting the pressure almost intuitively along the way. Gentler Sweedish techniques accompanied by a wonderful selection of mango, eucalyptus and other divinely scented oils rounded out my relaxing and highly therapeutic journey.

My girlfriends also gave their therapists high marks for their Complete Retreat massages, describing then as relaxing, refreshing, soothing.

But perhaps the most compelling testimony of the day came from the member of our entourage for whom the trip marked her maiden spa voyage. She received the spa’s signature treatment – a 50 minute Toccarre Touch massage. Initially a bit apprehensive and unsure of what to expect, she said her fears were quickly allayed by the treatment which left her saying “I would definitely do that again”. Enough said!

The Facial -- Next it was on to our facials. My therapist Suzanne delivered a wonderfully refreshing massage, complete with a refreshing minty eucalyptus mist in between each stage of the treatment. She took time to educate me about how the skin breathes, nutrition for the skin and tips on taking care of it.

My friends were similarly pleased by their Bilberry facials.

The only potentially sour note was hit when due to a scheduling mix up one of my buddy’s facials was cancelled at the last minute. The spa manager left a voice mail message for her in our hotel room but we missed it because we were already on our way to the spa. However, we were immediately notified of the cancellation upon our arrival and the spa manager personally came into the lounge and whirlpool areas to find my friend and provide her with a gift certificate for a complimentary facial for use at a future date—the perfect make good!

Without question, the Borgata understands the value of keeping its customers satisfied. In fact, we’re already planning our next trip back to the spa to get my friend her free facial and so I can see what other wonderful treatments the Tocarre Spa has in store!

The Extras -- Did I mention we spent the rest of the afternoon enjoying the wonderful eucalyptus mist steam room, state-of-the-art sauna, wonderful waterfall in the spacious whirlpool, soothing hot soak tub, whirlpool-side bottles of water, and catching a few zzzz's on the comfortable lounge chairs…everything the average working girl needs to be a diva for a day!

Insider Info.: Go early—before noon— and go often! Use your Borgata points if you can—they’re good at Spa Tocarre! Try the Epicurian coconut and mango body lotion at the spa's complimentary lotion bar and take home some scented aromatherapy beads for as little as $6 in the spa store!

Serenity Day Spa: A "Home Town" Favorite

2007-11-21T22:58:00.000-05:00

Serenity Day Spa
330 Old Bridge Turnpike, South River, NJ 08882
(732) 257-8118
www.serenitydayspanj.com

Visited: August 2005

In A Nutshell: If you're in Central Jersey and looking for a way to "get away from it all" for a few hours--alone or with some friends--Serenity is a nearby affordable escape.

Genre: Beauty Day Spa

The Scene: Don’t be fooled by Serenity’s corporate, modern-looking website. It’s one quiet, cozy, unique and comfortable retreat -– a state-of-the-art spa with a traditional, "bed and breakfast"-type feel.

The Damage: Surprisingly Affordable; I had an Aromastone Therapy Message (which includes a lime exfoliation) for $115 and an Energy Zone Facial for $70.

The Experience: The Background -- I had been to Serenity several times in the past and enjoyed every minute of it, but wondered if the experience had changed since Serenity joined The Premiere Collection, a conglomerate operating hundreds of spas, salons, and boutiques throughout the United States and Canada. Had Serenity lost its personal touch and warm feel by “going corporate”? You know I had to find out! So, when given a $150 gift certificate to Serenity for Christmas, I decided to give it a try—this time with the critical eye of a spa reviewer and the tired body of a spa patron.

The spa is housed in the historic Van Nest House, a beautiful neo-classical mansion built around 1840. In fact, it’s easy to miss Serenity since it looks like a home owned by a wealthy family or a quaint bed and breakfast from another era. But trust me, if you’re ever traveling on South River’s busy Old Bridge Turnpike, you’ll want to slow down and experience this wonderful retreat from the modern world.

The Lime Exfoliation -- The friendly, professional staff greeted me with a smile and almost immediately introduced me to Lily, the therapist who would deliver my lime exfoliation followed by my Aromastone Therapy Massage.

The lime exfoliation is a not-so-distant cousin to Serenity's Body Buff (the body treatment formerly known as Serenity's Sea Salt Glow for those who may remember when). If your skin is dry or just in need of some good old-fashioned rejuvenation, you’ve got to try a Body Buff for only $65. The treatment blends healing sea salts designed to detoxify and exfoliate the skin with lime and ginger as well as soothing, moisturizing oils applied using a very gentle massage technique from head to toe. The Aromastone Therapy Massage opens with a very similar treatment, less the sea salts.

But I digress. As Lily showed me to my first treatment room, she explained that I could place all my belongings in the tote bag that hung behind the door. This would serve as my personal, portable locker room for the duration of my journey.

In a word, Lily was simply wonderful and so were the services she rendered.

In any case, my lime exfoliation proved a wonderful prelude to the hot stone massage treatment that would soon follow. In fact, I almost fell asleep during the incredibly relaxing process! But just as I was about to doze off completely, Lily's friendly voice brought me back to reality long enough to guide to one of Serenity’s pristine guest showers to rise off the magical mixture she had just applied. When I stepped out of the shower, I couldn’t help but marvel as how moisturized and soft my skin felt.

The Stone Therapy Massage -- Next it was on to my Aromastone Therapy Massage. Lily used the perfect combination of heat and pressure as she used warmed, smooth stones and massage oils to deliver a wonderful, soothing and relaxing full body massage. Ordinarily, I wouldn’t recommend a stone massage to a spa novice since the pressure and heat can be a bit intense. But, if you try one at Serenity and are fortunate enough to get Lily as your therapist, I say go for it! Professional, knowledgeable and attuned to her client’s needs, she was great at tailoring the treatment to my individual preferences.

But alas, all good things…when my massage was over, Lily walked me downstairs to a quaint sitting room and invited me to partake of the spa’s offering of fruit, water and hot teas.

The Facial -- Just as I had finished my fruit and water, I was greeted by Sheila, the esthetician who would provide my facial. Although not quite as warm and friendly as Lily, Sheila was pleasant, very knowledgeable and delivered an excellent facial. Her approach reminded me of a cross between a doctor/dermatologist and a beautician, as she assessed and diagnosed the condition of my skin and tailored the treatment accordingly.

Sheila also gave me some excellent skin care advice and recommended the perfect moisturizer for my skin. I also appreciated the fact that her product pitch was not heavy handed, which was one of the issues I had with the Serenity of years ago and a criticism I often have of most spa facials. Instead, she explained exactly what she was using on my skin and why. When she was done, she asked me how the moisturizer felt and if I would like some more information about it. Since my skin felt great and I was in search of a good moisturizer I said, “Yes!”

By the time I got dressed, gathered my belongings and got back to the front desk to pay my bill, Sheila had left some literature and a tube of the moisturizer for me with the receptionist. No pressure at all...Needless to say, I had to bring some home!

In short, Serenity is as wonderful a day retreat today as it was the first time I visited more than 5 years ago. You should go...really!

Insider Info.: If you know an expectant Mom, treat her to Serenity’s Mom-To-Be Massage for only $80. I’ve given 3 of these as baby shower gifts in the past year and continue to get thanked for it!

Essence Hair, Nail & Body Spa: Maiden Spa Voyage

2007-11-01T21:16:00.000-04:00

Essence Hair, Nail & Body Spa
1678 Pennington Road
Ewing, NJ 08618
609-538-8106
http://www.essencespa-salon.com/

Visited: May 2005

In A Nutshell: A nice, affordable retreat when a day spa or hotel spa are physically or financially out of reach.

Genre: Beauty/Salon Spa

The Scene: Hip, Chic, And Upscale But Very Comfortable And Very Zen-like—Think Barbershop 2 Meets Elizabeth Arden

The Damage: Surprisingly Affordable; I had the Ultimate Time Out for $125 (plus gratuity) which includes a "Stressbuster" massage, refresher facial, manicure and pedicure. Where else can you sample all of those services at that price?

The Experience: The Salon—When I first walked in to Essence, I knew there was something familiar yet different about this beauty spa. Perhaps it was the way the upscale style and contemporary tastes of the owners--Troy and Tommi Vincent--subtly pervades the beauty salon’s décor and piped-in music that immediately let me know I was in for a soulful journey.

The friendly, professional staff seemed genuinely happy to see me, calling me by my first name throughout my entire experience and honoring my appointment without delay.

As I walked across the distinctive hardwood floors supporting the salon area where the shop’s stylist and barber worked away on a young girl and an older gentleman, I couldn’t help think to myself this is not the typical beauty/barber shop—or beauty spa for that matter.

Across from the hairstyling area the cozy, yet comfortable and very neatly kept, manicure stations were accompanied by an impressive selection of nail polishes that I couldn’t wait to try. But that would come later during my Ultimate Time Out, a half-day of pampering and beauty consisting of a massage, facial, spa pedicure and manicure.

The Oasis—Turning the corner, I observe another satisfied Essence customer enjoying what l now know was a decadent foot soak and pedicure. As I proceed up the stairs, I notice a sign asking patrons to please keep the noise to a minimum as I enter “The Oasis”. Suddenly, I’m transported into a tranquil, Zen-like world as the sounds of Stevie Wonder are replaced with what I imagine are a compilation of instrumental tracks from a CD that might be called, “The Best Of Waterfalls, Dolphins, Shooting Stars & Other Relaxation Sounds.”

As I change into my robe and secure my belongings in my locker—complete with sandals and a plastic bag for my jewelry—I slowly inhale the scents of the beautifully lit aromatherapy candles and help myself to a juicy, sweet fresh strawberry before my facial begins.

The Facial—My refresher facial can only be described as peaceful, gentle and rejuvenating. In between the cleansing, exfoliating, toning and moisturizing steps, my cosmetologist Cherise (who also happens be the owner’s sister–but trust me, nepotism has NOTHING to do with why she was the perfect person to deliver the facial for my sensitive skin!) sprays my face with a deliciously scented moisturizing spray which serves as my only source of resistance from the tempting state of slumber that beacons throughout the treatment.

Throughout the treatment, I kept waiting for the comfortable scraping and irritating scrubbing that came with my last spa facial and am pleased to report it never came. At the end of my time with Cherise, my skin looked and felt great—I think I half-jokingly asked her if I was allowed to take it home with me!

The Massage—It doesn’t get any better than this, I thought. Then, I got on Joe’s massage table, an experience that gives new meaning the phrase, “It hurts soooo good.” My Stressbuster massage was incredible. While I ooh-ed my way through parts, I left ahh-ing in a state somewhere between butter and Jell-O.

As I got dressed back into my street clothes and physically prepared to leave the Oasis (part of me is still mentally there!) to meet Juanita for my pedicure and manicure, I thought to myself “They picked the right name for the top two floors of this lovely salon spa!”

The Mani- & Pedi-Cures—Before coming to Essence I didn’t think spa pedicures were worth the money, especially when I can go to my local strip mall and get my feet done for a fraction of the cost. But Juanita changed my mind, delivering one of the best pedicures I’ve ever had. The chair was comfortable (even without the remote control!), the water was hot just the way I like it (thanks to a thermostat device in the basin which heated the water throughout the course of the treatment) and the foot scrub she used did wonders on my rough spots. And did I mention the multi-step treatment allowed extra soaking time? Ahhh…

Needless to say I was a little disappointed when it came time to polish my toes and get my manicure, but all good things…Juanita did a nice job on my manicure, the highlight of which was a glass Emory board that she masterfully used to file and buff my natural nails.

The Future—Although I hear Essence is currently scouting bigger locations that will enable them to provide steam, sauna, showers and other water/pool-based services, I left relaxed, satisfied and eternally grateful to my friend who had given me the gift certificate. The Ultimate Time Out service is exactly that–and for the price, I may have to go again next month!

p.s. The handwritten Thank You note from Troy and Tommi which came a few weeks later to invite me to come back soon was a very nice touch....Don't worry, I will!

Why NJSpaGirl.com?

2007-10-25T22:12:00.000-04:00

If you’re like me, you want to make sure that you’re getting the most out of your spa experience. And, in researching a proposed spa destination, or destination spa, you’ve probably noticed that it’s almost always better to get a referral.

Why? Because most of the spa magazines and Internet sites don’t really offer objective reviews about the spas themselves.

Some are simply online brochures for the spas themselves, while others are advertorials or paid advertisements masquerading as objective user reviews.

Still others are fronts for travel agencies, health and beauty product suppliers, health and wellness trade associations or other entities with a vested interest in the spa industry vs. that of you, the spa-going consumer.

NJSpaGirl.com is an online service 100% interested in you – the spa patron. Our goal is simple—to help you maximize your spa experience by providing an unbiased and unbought “woman-on-the-street” perspective based on NJ Spa Girl’s own visits to spas throughout New Jersey, and wherever her travels may take her.

I am not a spa owner, spa product vendor, spa association, or spa advertiser. Just like you, I'm a hardworking spa goer in search of spa destinations and destination spas worthy of my hard-earned spa money.

I created this web site to share my observations with other spa-oriented kindred spirits and to give you the chance to share your observations with others.

Why?

“Because All Escapes Are NOT Created Equal.”
NJ Spa Girl

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