1. “I will do it myself”

I myself can write and write about this mistake. Strong and independent women of the 21st century are used to dealing with everything themselves. They carry their suitcases, change wheels in their cars, and can easily substitute a light bulb. And now, when we finally meet the man with whom we want to go through life, we need to discard all independence and let him help. You are a woman, fragile and beautiful, and he is the one who should protect you, help and take care of you. Otherwise, the man feels unnecessary and finds one to which his support is more important.

• You always mention your ex-boyfriend

Remember, you should forget about all that has been before. One of the woman’s biggest faults in relations is to compare her current boyfriend with her ex one. Your partner should feel that he is the best. Forget that you had someone before, start from scratch and be open to new feelings and experiences.

• “Do you love me?”

You should never ask a man about love, especially 10 times a day. First of all, he might think that you don’t trust him. Secondly, you may make him think about this question. What if the answer is not what you expect? When you ask him about his feelings, you force him to say that he loves you. Let him say these three significant words only when he wants to say them. Thus you will know that he is sincere with you.

• You ask him about your marriage

Already on the third date, she was waiting for him to kneel and make her an offer. Then a month passes, the second, but he still does not dare. For her this end with tears, tantrum, and wine with friends. This all took place, because when she was 15 years old, she chose the names of future children, drew a dress and searched for the place for the ceremony. He definitely doesn’t expect this. If you really want to build a long relationship with a guy, forget the phrase “when are we going to marry” and truly enjoy the love.

• Blah blah blah

Oh yes, it means exactly as the title says! You talk too much! Especially about you, him and your love and feelings. This is one of the worst mistakes you can make. Some men enjoy when their women talk a lot, but not about those topics. Remember, no lengthy speeches about girlish feelings and all kinds of romantic nonsense. Be merciful with your man!

• Total control

This is how some annoying and overly caring people behave. Total control is the most common female mistake in relationships with the opposite sex. Frequent calls, thousands of questions, reading his mail will not only not help to be closer to your betrothed, but on the contrary, scare him to hell. Accept that your man is an independent person who wants to be trusted.

1. If a man loves you, then nothing can keep him further from you.

This is the one major truth to remember, if your lover truly loves you, then absolutely nothing can stop him from being with you. He will find both time and place for you in his life. But if all you see are his excuses, then it is better to leave this person. So, you both will feel better, because you won’t have false expectations and he won’t have to lie to you.

2. If a man does not want you, then nothing can make him stay with you

I know, you may feel that he is the one for you, and he is the best person you deserve. And because of those false ideas in your head, you will be struggling to keep him around you. Remember, no matter how hard you try, he won’t love you again. You can only turn yourself into a housemaid, who serves him well. But in this case don’t be surprised if he brings a girl to your home and says something like “Hey, it is Helen, she is my new wife. Serve us dinner please.”

3. Let your intuition save you from suffering. Trust and value your own feminine wisdom

Many books are written about this phenomenon. Some women say that it is what drives their lives forward, and some completely deny its existence. We recommend you to stay away from both of those types of women. Your intuition is a very subtle tool. You will prevail if you learn how to use it. Sometimes you just feel that something is wrong with your new lover, and then it turns out that he has a couple of daughters and two-three other girlfriends in different cities.

4. Avoid men who have bred a bunch of children from a bunch of different women

This is obvious because such a man didn’t take responsibility when he made those women pregnant. So why should he treat you differently? He appears to be in constant search of something that is definitely not fidelity and faithfulness. Why on Earth would you need someone like that?

5. Let him have friends separate from you, and have friends separate from him

It is absolutely normal if you both have separate friends. In a better world, couples must have the same friends together. Ideally, you have to be friends with other couples. But, come on, we don’t live in the ideal world. And, thanks to God, we are not restricted as much. The golden rule of relations says that you can have as many friends as you want, but only if you remain faithful to each other.

6. The only soul you can control in a couple is you Forget about controlling your partner, and never let anyone control you. This is another Golden rule of relationships. Remember, love is about freedom, but control kills freedom. Thus, it kills your love. It is very strange, but the more you try to control someone, the more you lose him or her. The same rule applies to your children. Instead of controlling them, you should guide them.