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		<title>HAVE GRIT!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Mar 2016 07:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Did you know&#8230; The psychological definition of grit is &#8220;a positive, non-cognitive trait based on an individuals passion for a long term goal, coupled with a powerful [&#8230;]</p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">Did you know&#8230; The psychological definition of grit is &#8220;a <span style="text-decoration: underline;">positive,</span> non-cognitive trait based on an individuals <strong>passion</strong> for a long term goal, coupled with a <span style="text-decoration: underline;">powerful</span> motivation to achieve their respective goals. This perseverance of effort promotes the <strong>overcoming of obstacles</strong> or challenges that lie within a gritty individuals <span style="text-decoration: underline;">path to accomplishment</span>, and serves as a driving force in <strong>achievement realization</strong>.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>Grit. Believe it. Have it. Use it. </em></p>
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		<title>What&#8217;s Your Reflex?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2016 07:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we must take a break and wait for the words to play out.. see the truth in duration of time passed. Much like guessing an [&#8230;]</p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we must take a break and wait for the words to play out.. see the truth in duration of time passed. Much like guessing an outcome of a game, but waiting to watch until it can fully be replayed.</p>
<p>Some people choose to live like how athletes play- making millisecond judgments based on numerous factors and stimuli all entering the mind at the exact same time; sports analysts observe athletes repeating tendencies and responses, and bring it to attention, thus improving their quality of play. One could conclude that <em>the best a player can become is one who is aware of their reflexes and acts <span style="text-decoration: underline;">against</span> them</em> to create a better play or one with more advantageous opportunities.</p>
<p><strong> Once we&#8217;ve stopped pausing to reflect is when our game stops improving.</strong></p>
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		<title>Came Across Some Writing</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 07:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I wrote this about 2.5 years ago and as I was re-reading it, found the power in it just as strong as before. &#8220;Doors open and [&#8230;]</p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">I wrote this about 2.5 years ago and as I was re-reading it, found the power in it just as strong as before.</p>
<p>&#8220;Doors open and close, paths cross, and the significance of each meeting may not be revealed until years to come. But, as people striving to understand behaviour and personal choices, we reflect and confront. Sometimes we find answers, other times more questions, and then also, answers in our questions. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">To not ask is to accept</span> and things are never as they seem. <em>To question is to learn, increase value in yourself and relationships by discovering untapped / unlimited potential</em>. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Have you grown to be all that you can be</span><em>?</em> &#8220;</p>
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