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The farmer and the well

2021-02-15T18:07:00.000-08:00

The farmer and the well

A farmer looking for a source of water for his farm bought a well from his neighbor.

The neighbor was cunning, and refused to let the farmer take water from the well,

On asking why, he replied, “I sold the well to you, not the water”, and walked away.

The distraught farmer didn’t know what to do.

So he went to Birbal, a clever man and one of the nine courtiers of Emperor Akbar, for a solution.

The emperor called the farmer and his neighbor and asked why the man was not letting the farmer draw water from the well.

The cunning man said the same thing again, “I sold the well, not the water.

So he cannot take my water”.

To this, Birbal replied,

“All that sounds fine to me. But if you have sold the water and the water is yours, then you have no business keeping your water in his well.

Remove the water or use it all up immediately.

If not the water will belong to the owner of the well”.

Realizing that he’s been tricked and taught his lesson, the man apologized and left.

Moral

Cheating will not get you anything. If you do cheat, you’ll pay for it very soon.

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Funny quote

Life is short while you still have teeth.

If a book about failure doesn’t sell, is it a success?

Knowledge is like underwear.it is useful to have it, but not necessary to show it off.

The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits.
My life feels like a test I didn’t study for.

My bed is a magical place where I suddenly remember everything I forgot to do.

I am not lazy. I am on energy saving mode.

My doctor told me to watch my drinking. Now I drink in front of a mirror.
If this is coffee, please bring me some tea; but if this is tea, please bring me some coffee.

A child educated only at school is an uneducated child

When a teacher calls a boy by his entire name, it means trouble.

A man in love is incomplete until he is married. Then he’s finished.

Marriage….it’s not a word, it’s a sentence.

A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears.

light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.

My opinions may have changed, but not the fact that I’m right.

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.

Money won’t buy happiness, but it will pay the salaries of a large research staff to study the problem.

Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his shoes. After that who cares?... He’s a mile away and you’ve got his shoes!

He who laughs last didn’t get the joke.

I finally realized that people are prisoners of their phones… that’s why it’s called a ‘cell’ phone.

Did you just fall? No, I was checking if gravity still works.

If you see me talking to myself if means I’m self employed and we’re having a staff meeting.

It may look like I’m doing nothing, but in my head I’m quite busy.

I don’t understand people who say “I don’t know how to thank you.” Like they never heard of money.

Men are like bank accounts. Without a lot of money, they don’t generate a lot of interest.

The great pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do

Life is like a very long TV show, without a remote control.

I’m not afraid of death; I just don’t want to be there when it happens.

People say nothing is impossible, but I do nothing every day.

One advantage of talking to yourself is that you know at least somebody’s listening

The elevator to success is out of order. You’ll have to use the stairs.

If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.

Fire and swords are slow engines of destruction, compared to the tongue of a gossip.

A smile is an in expensive way to change your looks.

Many people lose their temper merely from seeing you keep yours.

A smile is a curve that sets everything straight.

I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet.

You can cross the sea merely by standing and staring at the water.

A laugh is a smile that bursts.

If you dig a grave for others, you may fall onto itself.

A study of economics usually reveals that the best time to buy anything is last year.

If you reach for a star, you might not get one. But you won’t come up with a handful of mud either.

If you think you are too small to be effective, you have never been in a bed with a mosquito.

Too bad that all the people who know how to run the country are busy driving taxi cabs and cutting hair.

Tension is a habit; relaxation is a habit. Bad habit can be broken, good habits formed.

People often say that motivation doesn’t last well, neither does bathing – that’s why we recommend it daily.

When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.

You want to be rich, but your values system says you believe in sleep more than grinding.

You can practice shooting 8 hours a day, but if your technique is wrong, then all you become is very good at shooting the wrong way.

Nothing in the world is ever completely wrong, even a stopped clock is right twice in a day.

………. I ask people if an elephant has ever bitten them, most of the time people say no. But everyone has been bitten by a mosquito.

Asking is the beginning of receiving, make sure you don’t go to the ocean with a teaspoon. At least take a bucket so the kids won’t laugh at you.

No one has ever become poor by giving.

Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe.

Three groups spend others people’s money: children, thieves, politicians. All of the three-need supervision.

An economist is an expert who will know tomorrow, why the things he predicted yesterday didn’t happened today.

Build on what makes you different from your competitors …. You need to be red tree in the forest.

A smile is a powerful weapon; you can even break ice with it.

The answer to life’s biggest question are not found on Google.

Friendship is like a bank account; you not continue to draw on it without making deposits.

Books say: she did this because. Life says; she did this. Books are where things are explained to you, life is where things aren’t. I’m not surprised some people prefer.

In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on.

If the real world were a book, it would never find a publisher. Overlong, detailed to the point of distraction – and ultimately, without a major resolution.

If you don’t know where you’re going, any road’ll take you there.

Wisdom comes from experience. Experience is often a result of lack of wisdom.

There is no sunrise so beautiful that it is worth waking me up to see it.

I’d rather be a rising ape than a falling angel.

People say nothing is impossible, but I do nothing every day.

We must not allow people’s limited perceptions to define us.

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THE 5 love languages for men By Gary Chapman (summary)

2020-12-06T17:37:00.004-08:00

THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES FOR MEN
By Gary Chapman (summary)

How many languages do you speak?

Everyone has a primary love language, away of expressing devotion and

affection that touches us deep insides, occasionally puts a goofy grin on our face, and leaves on doubt that we are truly and spectacularly loved, as you probably deduced from the title of this book, there are five basic love languages:

1. Words of affirmation

2. Quality time

3. Gift giving

4. Act of service

5. Physical touch

One of them is an expressway to your wife’s heart. That’s not to say she won’t respond politely to one or more of the other languages, especially if she sees you making a real effort Ultimately through those other four love languages are foreign to her. On the other hand, when you express your love for your wife using her primary love language, it’s like hitting the sweet spot on a baseball bat or golf club.

The no- logic zone

Logic suggests that men naturally gravitate toward women who share their primary love language. They communicate their affection easily and freely, forever and ever amen.

Since when does logic have anything to do with love?

The truth is that people rarely marry partners who share their primary love language. Even those rare couples who share a primary love language find that there are countless different “dialects” within each language. No two people share the same language and the same dialect. No two people express and receive love exactly the same way, where there is a challenge, there is an opportunity.

The way to build a thriving, exciting, unpredictable, awe-inspiring, and life- changing relationship with your wife is to master her primary love language, to embrace the challenge of becoming bilingual.

The challenge of becoming fluent in another love language might be better compared to perfecting a golf swing. To become bilingual in the language of love is to make a difference in other’s people’s lives.

WORDS OF AFFIRMATION

How to become fluent in words of affirmation

If the movies have taught us anything, it’s that the right words, spoken at the right time by the right person can inspire people to do the unlikely, the improbable, and in some cases, the near impossible. It’s this potential for good, the power of language to inspire, encourage and build up that makes words of affirmation such a vital tool on your marital workbench.

“if your words are going to make a difference in your wife’s life, you have to believe what you say!”

Many people who are especially inspired or moved by words of affirmation are also especially susceptible to being hurt by less- than- loving words used in sarcasm, insults, and faint praise.

“I was just kidding” is a pretty weak defense for throwing verbal dust in the face of someone who’s thirsty for words of affirmation.”

Communicating love through words of affirmation involves more than your mouth; it also involves your imagination, and more. In order to become fluent in this love language, you have to develop extensive knowledge of appreciation for the many things your wife does, pay attention to the things she says, and the way she interacts with other people.

Becoming fluent in words of affirmation requires more than encouragement, it involves speaking kindly to your wife, forgiving her, and also humility.

When you make a request of your wife, you’re affirming her worth and abilities. You’re indicating that’s meaningful and worthwhile to you. When you make a demand, you become not a lover but a tyrant. Your wife will feel belittled.

Words of affirmation phase book

Don’t just say, “you look good.” that’s a nice color on you or I like your hair that way.
Make a habit of mentioning something specific you’ve observed that has to do with who she is E.g. I enjoyed taking walls with you. You always point out interesting things.
Learn how to say “I love you” or “I love your personality”.
Thank her for something she does routinely and probably doesn’t even expect to be complimented for.

QUALITY TIME

How to become fluent in quality time

Time maybe or may not be the most precious assets we possess. But time is unique among our commodities, every person who draws breath on this earth receives the same amount of time: 24hrs, 1440min, or 86,400 seconds. At the end of every day, every person’s allotment is depleted, Time cannot be stolen or transferred into another account, time cannot be exchanged or refund. Its system cannot be hacked or gamed

To call something “quality” is to set a high bar. Someone who does quality work goes the extra mile, stays focused on the task at hand, and won’t quit. And so, it is with spending quality time with your wife. When you give it make sure it’s the best you’ve got. The key to becoming fluent in the quality time love language is establishing the right mindset. The key to establishing the right mindset is to focus attention.

That’s not to say quality time means spending your together moments gazing into each other’s eyes. It means doing something together and giving full attention to each other. The language of quality time has many dialects, one of the most common dialects is a quality conversation, which is a genuine dialogue in which you share experiences, thoughts, feelings, and desires in a friendly uninterrupted context. To engage in quality conversation is to say.

“I will listen sympathetically to what you have to say”

“I will ask questions- not in a badgering manner but

with a real desire to understand you.”

Practical tips

Maintain eye contact when your wife is talking
Don’t listen to your wife and do something else
Listen for feelings
Observe body language

Another dialect is quality activities, quality activities may include anything one or both of you have an interest in. The emphasis is not on what you’re doing but on why you’re doing it. One of the byproducts of quality activities is that they provide a memory bank from which to draw in the years ahead.

Where do you find time for such activities, especially if you both have careers outside the home?

You make time just as you make time for lunch and dinner. Why? Because it’s just as essential to your marriage as meals are to your health.

Quality time phase book

Plan your quality time according to her schedule.
Sacrifice something you love to create time to share with her.
Designate specific times and places for planned togetherness.
Find an activity you like to do that complements something your wife enjoys.

RECEIVING GIFT

How to become fluent in gift-giving

Gift is are the visual symbol of love. The importance of such symbols may be lost in non-native speakers of the gift-giving love language. The difference between the native and non-native mindset can be seen in people\s attitudes toward the most common visual symbols of love.

Great gifts come in all size, colors and shapes some are expensive, and others are free. If your wife’s primary love language is gift-giving, the cost of the gift will matter to her only if it’s greatly, but in line with what you can afford or what you spend on yourself or others.

“If your wife is consistently critical and unappreciative of gifts you give, you may want to re-evaluate. Gift giving is almost certainly not her primary love language.

Each of us has particular thoughts about the purpose of money, as well as particular emotion associated with spending i.e. some have a spending orientation, others have a saving and investing orientation.

If your wife’s primary love language is receiving gifts, you must recognize that buying gifts for her is the best long-range plan in your portfolio. You are investing in your relationship and filling your wife’s emotional love tale. When both person’s emotional needs are met, your marriage will take on a whole new dimension.

In some dialect of giving gifts, you’ll find there’s an intangible present that sometimes speaks more boldly than a gift that can be held in one’s hand. I call it the gift of self or the gift of presence. Being there when your spouse needs you speaks loudly to the one whose primary love language is gift-giving.

“Physical presence in the time of the crisis is the most powerful gift you can give if your spouse’s primary love language is gift-giving”.

Gift-giving phase book

1.Present your wife with photo records.

2.Give your wife “the gift of a day”.

3.Keep an eye open for spontaneous, unexpected gifts. Make sure they’re all things she would appreciate.

4. Redesign one of the rooms in your house, buy stock in a company your wife support and let her follow the financial ups and down over a period of time.

5. Offer your “gifts of presence” during an especially hard time in her life.

6 .Hide a gift in her luggage.

ACTS OF SERVICE

How to become fluent in Act of Service

When it comes to Act of service, you’re not judged by the amount of time you put in or even by how you work. You’re judge by your effectiveness, the impact you have.

“making an impact on your wife means working smarter not harder."

In order to become fluent in act of service, we need to kick that mindset to the curb. We need to let our wive guide us in determining what is and isn’t an effective act. We need to let her instruct us on how to make an impact.

The key to initiating acts of service is to make it a “3D experience” with Drive, Discipline, and Dedication. Drive speaks to your motivation. To keep the reason for your act of service fresh in your mind. Discipline refers to scheduling and prioritizing necessary to accomplish some of the more ambition you have in mind. e.g. six large garden boxes aren’t built, set up, and filled in a day, etc.

Some acts of service are going to cut into your already busy schedule. Some may require you to postpone or sacrifice your own chores or pastimes. Dedication is making sure that what’s started gets finished. Dedication is staying committed to an act of service until it can be presented as a token of love. Just as crucial as the actual act of service itself is the attitude with which you perform it.

In fact, the right thing done with the wrong attitude can actually cause more harm than good. If your wife sense resentment or irritation in you while you’re performing an act of service for her, she won’t feel affirmed. Your act of service should be done with humility, good humor, and excitement.

THE DOORMAT CONUNDRUM

A doormat is an inanimate object something you step on, wipe your feet on. It has no will of his own. It doesn’t object to the way it’s treated. It serves its purpose period.

When we treat our wives as objects or even give them cause to feel like objects, we eliminate the possibility of love. Likewise, when a husband’s genuine efforts to speak love through acts of service are regularly met with dissatisfaction or indifference by his wife.

Act of service phase book

If she asks you to do something do it.
Think of something she would never expect. E.g. clean out the party and kitchen cabinets
Make dinner
Take your wife “shopping” in the yellow pages online.
Think of your wife’s most frequent complains.

PHYSICAL TOUCH

How to become influence in physical touch

For many guys, physical touch is a huge part of growing up. Left to their own devices, boys can make a contact sport out of any game, activity, or car ride.

If your wife’s primary love language is physical touch, think of her as a “super touch her”. She can sense love and affection among other things. In the slightest arm squeeze or back caress. Physical contact that wouldn’t even register with most people has the potential to thrill her, change her mode, brighten her day, and most importantly make her feel loved and cared for.

The withholding of physical touch by those closest to her has the potential to cause her more pain and anxiety, than most innovative speakers of her love language can imagine.

If you’re serious about becoming fluent in physical touch, you may want to consider conducting a “baseline test” of your current physical touch relationship with your wife.

Kissed her
Gave her a huge
Held her hand
Put your arm around her
Grabbed her around the waist
Gave her a high five
Playfully wrestled with her
Rubbed her shoulder
Caressed her back

Had any other meaning, purpose, affectionate physical contact with her as precise and comprehensive as you can in compiling your list, once you have a fairly concrete idea of how much physical touch you provide your wife on a given day, you can be to be working for areas in which you can do better.

NICE TOUCH

Anatomically speaking, physical touch may be the easiest language of all to begin learning. The human body was designed with touch receptors throughout. You could touch your wife lovingly almost anywhere on her body, in reality, not all touches are greeted equally, some will bring more pleasure to her than others. Your best instructor is the one being touched, of course, in this case, your wife.

After all she is the one, you’re seeking to love. She knows best what she perceives as a loving touch. Don’t insist on touching her in your way and in your time, learn to speak her dialect. The purpose of becoming fluent in the language of physical touch is not to get your desire met but to make your wife feel genuinely loved and cared for.

PHYSICAL TOUCH PHASE BOOK

Make touching your wife a normal part of your routine.
Make a point of hugging and kissing your wife.
Set aside an evening for some experiments to determine where your wife most likes to be touched.
For a designated period of time, communicate with your wife using only touch.

Becoming A Leader by MYLES MUNROE (summary)

2020-11-13T16:01:00.001-08:00

Chapter 1

Understanding leadership

“Great leaders never desire to lead but to serve.”

Leadership is the ability to lead others by influence, and it can also be seen simply as responding to responsibility. Leaders have very little to do with what you do and are fundamentally a matter of becoming who you are.

The great Greek philosophers such as Plato, Aristotle, and Socrates considered and explored the dynamics of human behavior and the nature of humanity. One of their basic conclusion and tenets was that leadership is a product of natural endowment and traits of personality. One is born to lead while others are born to follow.

However, countless deposed kings and hapless heirs to great fortunes can attest that true leaders are not born but made. They are not made in a single weekend seminar. In most cases, leaders have been made by accident circumstances, or determination than all the leadership courses can put together.

Leadership courses can only teach skills they can’t teach character or vision. Leaders are made through developing character and vision; leaders are not gifts but results.

Everyone can lead

Leaders are simply people who dare to be themselves and are able to express themselves fully. To a leader, life is a career. You become a leader when you decide not to be a copy but an original. True leaders have no interest in themselves or position, but an abiding interest in expressing themselves. God created all of us to rule, govern control and influence the earth. He created all of us to lead.

“You were never created to be dominated.”

We are all capable of leadership by design, but we cannot lead correctly and effectively unless we are led by his spirit.

Chapter 2

What is leadership?

“Leadership is first being, then doing. It is the ability to inspire others to fulfill themselves by you doing the same.”

Leadership is the organizing and coordinating of resources, energies and relationships in a productive context for an intended result.

An important ingredient of the leadership function is the ability to draw the best function out of other people and inspire them to maximize their potential and that of the resources they manage.

Chapter 3

What is a leader?

“Good leaders employ others, great leaders deploy themselves and others.”

You were born to lead but you must become a leader, just as one may be a male but must become a man.

The word “leader” is defined as one who guides by influence or one who directs, by going before or along with. Simply put, a leader is one who leads others to leadership.

What makes a leader

A careful study of the lives of effective leaders will reveal some basic ingredients that they share. They include

Purpose: The foundation key to becoming a leader is discovering and capturing a sense of purpose for your life.

Passion: The leader loves what he does and loves doing it. His work is his life.

Integrity: The leader is one who knows who he is and accepts himself as worthy and valuable. Maturity is also important because every leader needs to have experience and growth through following.

Trust: Integrity is the basis of trust which is a product of a leader. Leaders are individuals whose characters have been tested.

Curiosity and Daring: To a leader, life is an adventure. Leaders are willing to challenge traditions, experiment with new ideas, and explore.

To become the leader, you were born to be, you must discover who you are, your purpose in life and understand God’s design for your existence.

“True leaders learn from others, but they are not made nor become others.”

Leaders not managers

Leaders are those who make things happen. Managers are other groups. Leaders are those who master the context, managers are those who surrender to it. All leaders were managers on their way to leadership, but not all managers become leaders.

1. The manager administers, the leader innovates

2. The manager relies on control, the leader inspires trust.

3. The manager focuses on systems and structure, the leader focuses on people.

“True leaders do no try to be, they just are".

Chapter 4

The purpose of leadership

Purpose is the original intent or predetermined result for an individual. It is the expected end. It is, therefore, essential and imperative that you know and understands the “purpose” for something before assuming responsibility in a task.

The purpose of leadership is to produce leaders

The ultimate goal of true leaders is not followers but leaders. True leadership brings followers into leadership and makes itself increasingly unnecessary. You are a successful leader when your followers can lead others.

Chapter 5

Are you leadership material

“The greatest display of leadership is service.”

Leadership is the discovery and marriage of purpose, personality, and potential. You must assess your personal motivation for leadership.

Motivation and ambition

There is a hidden leader in all of us crying to be free, as we approach the study of some of the basic qualities and characteristic of leadership development, it is essential that we first cover the foundation principle of the underlying motivation for leadership.

Chapter 6

The principle key to true leadership

“Authority does not make you a leader, it gives you the opportunity to be one.”

Highly predictable responses to the use of power

1. Resistance ( fight) : when someone is pushed by someone else, the natural reaction is almost always to push back.

2. Resignation (fight) : when faced with a relationship characterized by continual conflict, we try to get away from it.

3. Submission ( succumb to pressure ): The true leader knows and understands that no human is going to do what they say. They understand the only power they truly have as leaders in the power of inspiration.

Natural and spiritual leadership can never be self-generated but only be experienced as a result of a personal relationship with the manufacturer our creator.

Natural leaders Spiritual leaders

1.Self-confident confidence in God

2. Knows men Also know God

3. Make own decision seek God’s will

4. Ambitious self – effacing

Chapter 7

Tapping your leadership potential

A leader is by definition an innovator, he does things, people, either haven’t done or won’t do.

“to be an effective leader, you may listen to all, but in the end. Be responsible for your own decision.”

Test for leadership potential

Independent decision making

Govern yourself

Ability to control anger

Unconditional acceptance of others.

Self – confident

Forgiving

Encouraging

Chapter 8

Qualifications of leadership

Commitment to integrity

The first category of leadership is the commitment to integrity and high social standards.

Moral and ethical qualification

Leaders must demonstrate their commitment to the highest ideals and principles of the word of God. Every time you are put in a position of responsibility, you automatically become a target for temptation.

The quality of maturity

Maturity is indispensable to good leadership. There is no place for a novice, a new convert, or inexperienced, untested character in positions of responsibility.

Intellectual qualifications

True leaders are constantly reaching for more knowledge. If you desire to become an effective leader, you must study and never graduate from the university of life.

Chapter 9

Essential Qualities of leadership

The heights by great men reached and kept were not attained by sudden flight. But they, while their companions slept, were toiling upward in the night.

Discipline

Vision

Common sense

Decisiveness

Sense of Humor

Patience and endurance

Fellowship and friendship.

Chapter 10

The price of leadership

“True leader transcends private comforts others.”

True leaders always demand a high price of the leader, and the more effective the leadership is the higher the price to be paid.

Challenges face by leaders

Personal sacrifice

Rejection

Criticism

Loneliness

Pressure and perplexity

Chapter 11

The dangers of leadership

Popularity

Pride

Jealousy

Chapter 12

A word of the third world

Zeal without skill

Historically, the third world people have always been a hard-working dedicated, zealous, and highly sensitive people. They have the zeal for freedom but no skill for development. The third world nation in effect are led to still look to the industrially developed states for their the measure of standard.

You Can, You Will by JOEl OSTEEN (summary)

2020-04-15T15:37:00.001-07:00

Chapter 1

Keep Your Vision in Front of You

Studies tells us that we move towards what we consistently see. You should keep something in front of you, even if it symbolic to remind you of what you are believing for.

A young man dreamed of becoming an actor, but unfortunately, he was broke and discouraged, he drove his beat–up old car to the top of a hill overlooking the city of Los Angeles and did something unusual. He wrote himself a check of ten million dollars for “Acting services rendered”.

This young man has grown up so poor, he put the check in his pocket and keep it there. When things got tough, he’d pull it out and look at it to remind himself of his dream.

Years later, that same young man. The comedian Jim Carrey, was making fifteen million to twenty – five million on a movie. I’ve found that whatever your vision is, God will supersize it: and without a vision, you won’t see God’s best.

When you keep your vision in front of you, that your faith being released. That why the scripture uses such strong language that says people perish for lack of vision.

There was a man named Conrad Hilton, he was the founder of Hilton hotels. As a young man back in the 1930s, he saw pictures and articles saying Waldorf Astoria hotel is the most famous hotel in the world, he’d never seen anything like that hotel, when with the article God put a dream in his heart to one day own that hotel. Naturally, it looks impossible, because he could not even pay his rent. He cut out the picture of the big beautiful hotel and put it under the glass on his desk. Eighteen years later, his company was able to purchase nearly 250,000 shares of Waldorf corporation and this making him the owner of the most famous hotel in the world.

Chapter 2

Run Your Race

If you’re going to become the winner you were created to be, you need to have a boldness. One of the qualities of a winner is that they run their race the way you want to run it. You have to accept the fact that you can’t keep everybody like you. You’re respectful, you’re kind, but you’re not living to please people, you’re living to please God.

If people talk about you, being jealous, critical, and trying to make you look bad, don’t let that change you. You don’t need their approval when you have God approval.

Everyone has an opinion. People will tell you how to run your life, they’ll have opinions on what you should wear, how you should spend your money. If you try to please everyone, I can guarantee you one thing one hundred percent, you’ll be confused. You’ll be frustrated, life will be miserable.

Too many people scarify their own happiness to keep other people happy. They’ve got to spot by their friend’s house and say hello because they don’t want to upset their friends. They’ve got to loan this friend money, because the friend is in trouble again, and if they don’t their friend will feel upset.

Your time is too valuable to go through life, letting people control you and make you feel guilty. If you don’t come running every time they call, then someone is playing you like a puppet, it’s time to cut the strings. Understand this: your first priority is to keep yourself happy.

If you are giving all the time and not receiving anything in return, then you need to examine your relationship. They are cut off balance.

Fly With Those Who Lift You Up And Thrust You Forward

When flying airplanes we have lift, thrust, weight, and drag. There are some who lift you, brighten your day, cheer you up. they’re a lift. Then there are people who thrust you, they inspire you, motivate you, challenge you to move forward and pursue your dream. The third group weights. They pull you down, dump their problem on you so that you leave feeling heavier and worse than you did before. Finally, there are those who are a drag. They’ve always got a sad song. They’re stuck in a pit, they expect you to cheer them up, fix their problems and carry their loads.

You need to be around lifters, thrusters, people who inspire you and motivate you.

Chapter 3

Expect Good Things

Our expectations set the limit for our lives. If you expect little you are going to receive little. Too many people drag around things

“ Nothing good ever happens to me.”

Instead, start looking for a new break. Expect your dream to come to pass. Some people have a negative mindset so long they don’t realize they’re doing it. It is just natural to them. They assume the worst and they usually get it.

Winner develop this third undeniable quality of excepting good things. You can’t be neutral and hope to reach your full potential or have God’s best.

Chapter 4

Have A Positive Mind-Set

When you wake up, choose to be happy, choose to be grateful for the day, choose to look on the bright side. Choose to focus on the possibilities. When you have this positive mindset, you cannot be defeated. No matter what comes your way, you shake it off and keep moving ahead.

A lot of times we make ourselves unhappy. You can’t change the traffic, the weather, or how others treat you. If your happiness is based on everything going your way and your body treating you right, you will be frustrated.

Before you leave the house, you need to make up your mind to stay positive and enjoy the day no matter what comes your way. You have to decide ahead of time. If you go around with negative thoughts, they will drain you of your faith, your energy, and zeal. You have to think positively. In other to fill your dream.

Chapter 5

Commit To Excellence

When you have a spirit of excellence, you do your best whether anyone is watching or not. You go the extra mile, you do more than you have to. When you’re an excellent person you don’t get stagnant, you’re always taking steps to improve. Increase, promotion, and reaching your highest potential are all tried to a spirit of excellent.

Being excellent may not be some huge adjustment you need to make; it may mean just leaving ten minutes earlier so you can get to work on time. Even if everyone else is late, everyone else cut corners and everyone else is undisciplined, you should do as Daniel did and go the extra mile. make the choice to be excellent

Chapter 6

Keep Growing

Studies show that 50% of high school graduates never read another entire book, one reason may be that they see learning as something you do in school, just something you do for a period of time instead of as a way of life. A winner never stops learning; God did not create us to reach one level and then stop. Whether you’re nine or ninety years old, you should constantly be learning, improving your skill, and getting better at what you do.

There are all kinds of opportunities to increase, there is more knowledge available today than any time in history. We have library, internet and many more. You can always expand your knowledge and improve your skill, read books to learn how to communicate or lead more effectively.

You should be doing something intentional and strategic every day to improve your skill. Don’t be vague in your approach, do not say things such as “if I have time, I’ll do it.” You are better than that, your destiny is too great to be stuck.

Chapter 7

Serve Others

When you live a “serve other” lifestyle, you help friends, volunteer to do something for your community, and take care of loved ones. It’s not something you have to force yourself to do. It becomes a part of who you are. You develop an attitude of giving to everyone you meet, that when you have true fulfillment and happiness.

You are never too big to serve look for others to bless and be sensitive to the needs of others.

Chapter 8

Stay Passionate.

The eighth undeniable quality of a winner is that they stay passionate throughout their lives. The scriptures say God has given us the power to enjoy what’s appointed and allotted to us, which means is don’t have the power to enjoy your life. Be the best that you can be.

Put your heart into it

When you do the dishes, don’t complain, do it with all your heart and honor God. Whatever you do, put your heart into it. Put a spring in your step. Wear a smile on your face

Keep working and growing

If you want to stay passionate, you have to stay productive. You have to have a reason to get out of bed in the morning. when you’re not producing, you’re not growing, always find a way to stay productive.

You have seeds of greatness inside put these principles into action each day. Winning is in your DNA, this is your time. Get ready for an increase, get ready for the fullness of your destiny. You can you will.

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT CHRISTMAS

2019-12-25T06:05:00.001-08:00

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT CHRISTMAS

This question has been asked by a lot of persons, and we be answering this question today in our article, this question is
What is the origin of Christmas?
Reasons for celebration of Christmas?
How to celebrate Christmas?
Who invented Santa Claus?

HISTORY

The first recorded date of Christmas started Christmas on 25^th of December in 336, during the time of the Roman Emperor Constantine. This Roman Emperor was the first Christian Roman Emperor. At the time he was celebrating it, it was not yet an official Roman State Festival.
Pop Julius was the one who choose December 25 as a day to celebrate the birth of Christ. It is commonly believed that the church chooses this date in an effort to remove and stop the tradition of the pagan Saturnalia festival.

The Romans observed Julianne a feast honoring the god of unconquerable Sun, on December 25, Christmas was first called the feast of Nativity.

REASONS FOR CELEBRATION OF CHRISTMAS

We celebrate Christmas because as the angel, the birth of Jesus is good news. Good news is meant to be celebrated. And also, because a messiah was sent to redeem man from their sins.

HOW DO WE CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS?

We celebrate Christmas by giving gift, because the Creator gave us his only begotten son Jesus (John 3:16). We celebrate Christmas by decorating every green tree with stars and angel tinsel because of the eternal life Jesus brings. (John 4:14)

WHO INVENTED SANTA CLAUS?

The legend of Santa Claus can be traced to a monk named St Nicholas, Nicholas was born in Turkey around 280 AD, St Nicholas gave away all of his inherited wealth and traveled the country side helping the poor and sick.

Merry Christmas From Onsum

The 5 love languages By GARY CHAPMAN (summary)

2019-12-24T19:14:00.003-08:00

The 5 love languages

By GARY CHAPMAN

The secret to love that lasts

What happens to love After Wedding

The answer to this question is the purpose of this book. It is not that the books and articles already Published are not helpful. The problem is that we have overlooked one fundamental truth: people speak different love languages.

Your emotional love language and the language of your spouse may as different as Chinese from English. No matter how hard you try to express love in English, if your spouse understands only Chinese. You will never understand how to love each other. We must be willing to learn our spouse primary love language if we are to be effective communicators.

Keeping the love tank full

Love is the most important word in the English language – and the most confusing also. We are told that “love is a many – splendored thing” and that “love makes the world go around”.

The psychologist has concluded that the need to feel loved is a primary emotional need, child psychologist affirm that every child has certain basic emotional needs that must be met if he is to be emotionally stable.

When a child feels loved, he will develop normally but when the love tank is empty, the child will misbehave, the emotional need for love, however, is not simply a childhood phenomenon. That need follow us into adulthood and into marriage.

Falling in love

Most of us enter marriage by way of the “in love”, meeting someone whose physical characteristics and personality traits create enough electrical shock to Trigger our “love alert “system. The bells go off, and we set in motion the process of getting to know the person, then we arrange for a few more “together” experience, so at the end we find ourselves saying, “I think I’m falling in love “. Eventually, we are convinced that it the “real thing” then we redouble our efforts to impress, and eventually win the love of, our beloved. When if reciprocal, we start talking about marriage because everyone agrees that being “in love” is the necessary foundation for a good marriage.

Unfortunately, the eternity of the “in love “experience is fiction, not fact. Dr. Dorothy a psychologist, has done long-range studies on the in-love phenomenon. After studies, she concluded that the average life span of a Romantic obsession is two years, if it is a secretive love affair, it may last a little longer.

A person who is “in love” has the illusion that his beloved is perfect. His mother can see the flaws but he can’t. we can recognize the in-love experience for what it was and now pursue “real love “with our spouse. That kind of love is a love that unites reason and emotion.

WORDS OF AFFIRMATION

One way to express love emotionally is to use words that build up. Verbal compliments, or words of appreciation, are powerful communicators of love. Another dialect is encouraging words. The word encourage means “to inspire courage”. Courage requires empathy and seeing the world from your spouse’s perspective. We must first learn what is important to our spouse.

Kind words

Love is kind. If then we are to communicate love verbally. We must use kind words. That has to do with the way we speak. Love make requests, not demand; the way we express those, desires, however, is all-important.

Various Dialects

All of the dialects have in common the use of words to affirm one’s spouse, psychologist William James said that possibly the deepest human need is the need to feel appreciated. Words of affirmation will meet that need in many individuals.

Keynote: when you read an article or book on love, record the words of affirmation you find.

QUALITY TIME

By “quality time”. I mean giving someone your undivided attention, what I mean is sitting on the couch with the tv off, looking at each other and talking, giving each other your undivided attention.

Togetherness

A central aspect of quality time is togetherness. I do not mean proximity. Togetherness as to do with focused attention. Quality time does not mean that we have to spend our together moment, gazing into each other’s eyes. It means that we are doing something together

Quality conversation

By quality conversation, I mean sympathetic dialogue where two individuals are sharing their experience, thoughts feelings, and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context.

Practical tips

· Maintain eye contact when your spouse is talking.

· Don’t listen to your spouse and do so many things at the same time

· Listen for feelings.

· Observe body language.

· Refuse to interrupt

Learning to talk

Quality conversation requires not only sympathetic listening but also self-revelation. Based on our thoughts and emotions we eventually make decisions.

Personality types

I have observed two basic personality types. The first “Dead sea”. The dead sea goes nowhere. it receives but it does not give. This personality type receives many experiences, emotions, and thought throughout the day. They have large reservoir where they store that information. They are perfectly happy not to talk, if you say to a dead sea personality “what’s wrong”? he will probably answer nothing. He is content not to talk.

On the other extreme is the “Babbling Brook”. For this personality, whatever enters into the eye gate or the ear gate comes out of the mouth gate and there are seldom sixty seconds between the two. Whatever they see whatever they hear, they tell it. If they can’t get someone on the telephone, they may talk to themselves because they have no reservoir. The good news is that the Dead sea can learn to talk and Babbling Brooks can learn to listen. We are influenced by our personality but not controlled by it.

One way to learn new pattern is to establish a daily sharing time in which each of you will talk about three things that happened to you that day and how you feel about them.

RECEIVING GIFTS

A gift is something you can hold in your hand and say, “look, he was thinking of me.” Or “she remembers me”. You must be thinking of someone to give him a gift. The gift itself is a symbol of that thought. It doesn’t matter whether it cost money. What is important is that you thought of him.

Visual symbols of love are more important to some people than others. Gift comes in sizes, colors, and shapes. Some are expensive and others are free. To the individual whose primary love language is receiving gift, the cost of the gift will matter little, unless it is greatly out of line with what you can afford. A gift may be purchase found or made.

The gift need not be expensive, if your spouse love language is receiving you can become a proficient gift giver. Where do you begin? Make a list of all the gifts your spouse has expressed through the years. This list will give you an idea of the kind of gifts your spouse would enjoy receiving. If you discover that your spouse’s primary love language is receiving gifts, then perhaps you will understand that purchasing a gift for him or her is the best investment you can make.

“physical presence in the time of crisis is the most powerful gift you can give if your spouse’s primary love language is receiving gifts.”

ACT OF SERVICE

The apostle Paul summarized that philosophy when he said, “serve one another in love”.

Doormat or lover?

A doormat is an inanimate object, you can wipe your feet on it, step on it, kick it around or whatever you like. It has no will of his own.it can be your servant but not your lover. When we treat our spouses as objects, we preclude the possibility of love. No person should ever be a doormat. Allowing oneself to be used or manipulated by another is not an act of love. It is, in fact, an act of treason.

Overcoming stereotypes

Learning the love language of act of service will require some of us to re-examine our stereotypes, it necessary in order to express love more effectively. Remember, there are no rewards for maintaining stereotypes, but there are tremendous benefits to meeting the emotional needs of your spouse.

PHYSICAL TOUCH

Physical touch is also a powerful vehicle for communicating marital love. Holding hands, kissing, embracing, and sexual intercourse are all ways of communicating emotional love to one’s spouse. For some individuals, physical touch is their primary love language. Without it, they feel unloved. With it, their emotional tank is filled and they feel secure in the love of their spouse.

Sexual intercourse is only one language in the love language of physical touch. Of the five senses, touching unlike the other four is not limited to one localized area of the body. When those receptors are touched or pressed, nerves carry impulses to the brain.

“physical touch can make or break a relationship, It can communicate hate or love.”

Don’t make the mistake of believing that the touch that brings pleasure to you will also bring pleasure to her. Explicit love touches obviously take more time, not only in actual touching but in developing your understanding of how to communicate love to your spouse this way. Love touch may be explicit and demand your full attention such as in a back rub or sexual foreplay.

If a back massage communicates love loudly to your spouse, then the time money, and energy you spend in learning to be a good masseur will be invested. Implicit love touches require little time but much thought.

´if your spouse primary love language is physical touch,

Nothing is more important than holding her as she cries.”

CRISIS AND PHYSICAL TOUCH

Almost instinctively in a time of crisis, we hug one another. Why because physical touch is a powerful communicator of love in a time of crisis more than anything, we need to feel loved. All marriages will experience a crisis. The most important thing you can do for your mate in a time of crisis is to love him or her.

Discovering Your Primary Love Language

Discovering the primary love language of your spouse is essential if you are to keep his/her emotional love tank full. Some individuals will know instantaneously their own primary love language and that of their own spouse. For others, it will not be that easy.

One way to discover your primary love language is to examine what you do or say to express love to your spouse.

“When the tank is low …. We have no love feelings towards our spouse but simply experience emptiness and pain.”

Children and Love Language

Does the concept of love, language apply to children? My unqualified answer is Yes when children are little, you don’t know their primary love language. Therefore, power all five , and you are bound to hit it but if you observe their behavior, you can learn it rather.

Rule of love By Richard Templar (summary)

2019-12-24T19:00:00.001-08:00

Rules for finding love

You really want to get it right this time, you don’t want to do or say the wrongM thing, or expect too much. So while you’re looking for the perfect partner, or getting to know the latest possibility, you have to take note of this rules.

RULE 1

Be yourself

So be you. Might as well get it all out in the open now- if it’s not who they’re looking for, at least you won’t get in too deep before they find out.

RULE 2

Before you get on with it

If your last relationship or two has left you a bit of an emotional wreck, it’s better to repair the damage before you start looking for a new lover and partner other wise you won’t be able to show them real you.

RULE 3

You won’t be happy with a partner until you can be happy on your own

You need to learn to be happy and secure on your own, that way you’ll never stay in a bad situation for fear of being left alone. If it’s not working out, you can simply leave.

RULE 4

You’ll know them when you meet them

Some people do know the instant they meet their future partner that is the person they’ve been looking for all their live. But it doesn’t work like that for everyone, if you aren’t sure right at the beginning, that’s normal. It may take weeks, months, or even years to be sure, especially if you’re of a naturally doubtful persuasion.

RULE 5

Choose someone who make you laugh

If you choose your partner for their looks, their status, even the rest of their personality, you could eventually regret it. A sense of humor will last long after everything else has gone.

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus By John Grey (Summary)

2019-12-11T16:24:00.002-08:00

Men mistakenly expect women to think, communicate, and react the way men do; women mistakenly expect men to feel communicate and respond the way women do. We have forgotten that men and women are supposed to be different.

When men and women are able to respect and accept their difference then love has a chance to blossom. Through understanding the hidden difference of the opposite sex, we can be more successful in giving and receiving the love in our hearts.

Mr. fix it and the Home – improvement committee

The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men don’t listen, and also the most expressed complaint men have about women is that women or all ways trying to change them. When a woman loves a man, she feels responsible to assist him in growing, she thinks she’s nurturing him, while he /feels his being controlled.

These problems can be solved by understanding why men offer solution, and why women seek to improve, a man sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results, to offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn’t know what to do or that he can’t do it on his own.

A woman’s sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships, martins are more solution-oriented. if something is working, their motto is don’t change it, and “Don’t fix it unless it broken”.

When a woman tries to improve a man, he feels she is trying to fix him. He received a message that he is broken. Many times, woman just want to share her feelings about her day, and her husband, thinking he is helping, interrupts her by offering a steady flow of solutions to her problems.

When a man resists a woman’s suggestion she feels as though he doesn’t care; she feels her needs are not being respected.

Men Go to Their Cave and Women Talk

A man feels better by solving problems while a woman feels better by talking about problems.

How to motivate the opposite sex

Centuries before the Martians and Venusians got together, they had been quite happy living in their separate worlds. Then one day everything changes. The Martians and Venusians on their respective planets suddenly became depressed. Its depression, however, motivated them to come together.

When a man is in love, he begins to care about another as much as himself. He has suddenly released from the binding chain of being motivated for himself alone and becomes free to give to others, not for personal gain, but out of caring.

A woman’s tendency to be compulsive relaxes as she remembers that she is worthy of love-she doesn’t have to earn it: she can relax give less, and receive more. She deserves it.

Just as women are afraid of receiving, men are afraid of giving.

Martians need love too

Just as women are sensitive to feeling rejected when they don’t get the attention, they need, man is sensitive to feeling that they have failed when a woman talks about problems.

When Martians don’t talk

The biggest challenge for a woman is correctly to interpret and support a man when he isn’t talking. Women misinterpret a man’s silence, when a man is silent it is easy for a woman to imagine the worst.

How to communicate support to a Martian

Many women feel that the only way they can get what they need in a relationship is to criticize a man when he makes mistakes and to offer unsolicited advice. The answer is that she should definitely not offer criticism or advice unless he asks.

Men Are Like Rubber Bands

When a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer.

Chasing Behaviors

· Physical

When he pulls away, she physically follows him.

· Emotional

When he pulls away, she emotional follows him.

· Mental

She may try to pull him back mentally by asking him guilt–inducing questions.

Women Are Like Waves

When she feels loved her self–esteem rises and falls in a wave motion. A man assumes that her sudden change of mood is based solely on his behavior. When she is happy he takes credit, but when she is unhappy he also feels responsible.

Discovering Our Different Emotional Needs

Men and women generally are unaware that they have different emotional needs. As a result, they do not instinctively know how to support each other.

The primary love needs of women and men

She needs caring and he needs trust.

She needs understanding and he needs acceptance.

She needs Devotion and he needs admiration.

She needs reassurance and he needs encouragement.

How to listen without getting angry

· Remember anger comes from not understanding her point of view.

· Take responsibility to understand.

· Remember that feelings don’t always make sense right away, but they’re still valid and need empathy.

· Remember you don’t have to agree to understand.

How to avoid argument

Just as communication is the most important element in a relationship argument can be the most destructive element. Men are most prone to argue when they have made a mistake or up-set the woman they love.

How to ask for support and get it

When asking a man for support assume that he doesn’t have to be convinced.

Common mistakes in asking

· Be direct

· Be brief

· Use “would you” or “will you “phase.

One of the key elements to assertive asking is to remain silent after you have asked for support

7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey (SUMMARY)

2019-11-26T16:31:00.000-08:00

A MUST READ FOR ALL POTENTIAL LEADERS

7 Habit is a very essential leadership books recommended for all leaders and those aspiring to be a leader. Read more

Stephen R. Covey explained the necessary Habit a leader should have.
The word paradigm come from the Greek and it means theory, perception assumption in general

“it is the way we see”. Paradigm are powerful because they create the lens through which we see the world, to relate effectively with wife, children, friends, or working associates we must learn to listen. Listen involves patience, openness and the desire to understand – highly developed qualities of character.

Habit 1 Be proactive

Pro-activity means that as human begins, we are responsible for our own lives. Reactive people are often affected by their physical environment, it the weather is good, they feel good, if it isn’t it affect them.

It not what happens to us that hurts but our response to what happens to us.

Habit 2 Begin with the end in mind

Begin with the end in mind is to begin today with the image, picture, paradigm of the end of our life frame of reference by which everything else is examined. To begin with the end in mind means to start with a clear understanding of our destination .. it also means knowing where you are going

Habit 3 Put first things first

It’s the exercise of independent will toward becoming principle –centered. urgent matters are usually visible, and often they are pleasant, easy, fund to do but so often they are unimportant.

Important on the other hand has to do with results. If something is important it contributes to our mission your values

Your high priority goals.

Habit 4 Think to win/win

Win/win is not a technique: it’s a total philosophy of human interaction.in fact it is one of six paradigms of interaction. The alternative paradigms are win/lose, lose/lose/win and win/win or no deal.

Habit 5 Seek first to understand, and then be understood

Communication is the most important skill in life. we have spent most of our working hours communicating, we learn how to read and speak but not on listening. Comparatively few people have had any training in listening at all.

Habit 6 Synergize

Synergy is the essence of principle centered parenting. it catalyzes powers within people. Unless we value the difference in our perceptions, unless we value each other and give credence to the possibility that we’re both right, that life is not always a dichotomous either or that there are almost always third alternatives, we will never be able to transcend the limits of the condition.

Habit 7 Sharpen the saw

Habit 7 is personal pc. It’s preserving the enhancing the greatest asset you have. It renewing the four dimensions of your nature –physical, spiritual, mental, and social.

“Sharpen the saw” basically means expressing all four motivation means exercising all four dimension of our natural regularly and consistently in wise balanced way. And to be effective, we need to recognize the important of talking time regularly to sharpen the saw in all four ways.

SHE WAS ONLY 22 BY JANE ALEXEANDER STEWERT (SUMMARY)

2019-11-25T17:27:00.000-08:00

“The story of Helen Ewan a Scotland, a fragrant Dynamic life”

In one sense, Helen Ewan was an ordinary, common Christian and in another she was an extraordinary one. Her brief Christian life of eight years was filled with the fragrance and glory of God. It was filled with blessing to both saint and sinners.

Helen Ewan was born around 1910 into an ordinary working class family she was the only child. Both of her parents loved Christ supremely. The blessed son of God was the center around which the whole household revolved. They lived for only one thing and that was to please God in every details of their lives. Three well marked bibles were always conspicuous in their living room.

After her conversion at the age of fourteen, Helen’s whole personality was radiant with the glory of the Lord. God in His sovereign grace had shone into her darkened soul in order that through this ordinary “Earthenware container” might be manifested the supposing majesty of the power of the gospel.

Being full of the Holy Spirit, she was full of Christ. As she studied the word of God, he took of the treasures of the Lord Jesus and revealed them unto her (John 16:14-15). This made her heart dance for joy. Many times she would stop Christians on the street and with radiant face; tell of some choice portion of scripture where she had found some new picture up her blessed redeemer. These friends often left her present weeping. They said “we have seen Jesus; we have looked into His glorious face”. The awe of God remained upon their souls throughout the remainder of the day many testified that just her passing smile, or her cheery, “Good day. God bless you,” was an uplifting tonic to them the rest of their day.

In her prayer life, Helen was such an example to all. She arose each morning around five o’clock to commune with her Lord. She would begin her communion with praise and worship. She then read the word to warm her heart. After fellowship and communion followed her ministry of intercession for her friends and family, for her assembly, for hundreds of missionaries and the foreign fields. Then came her prayer ministry for the unsaved. She had a list of unsaved persons to whom she had testified and for who she prayed daily until they were born again.

When finally, she entered the university of Glasgow, she used to walk several miles from her home to the varsity each day so that she could distribute tracks along the way. At the same time, she could save streetcar fare and give it to the missionaries cause needless to say she had the joy of leading many students to Christ on the campus. Her body was a walking temple of the Holy Spirit. Thus, wherever she went the power of God was manifested. She studied the whole book from Genesis to Revelation. Thus she became a deeply intelligent child of God. Even when she was a hard working student in her secular studies in the university, seeking to make good grades for His glory, she still gave time for Bible study and meditation. This made her a well-balanced Christian, though there was no time or place in her life for idle gossip or foolish talk.

At the university Helen was preparing herself for missionary service among the Russian people of eastern Europe. Already she was learning the Russian language in preparation for her life’s ministry. But God, in His wisdom and love, called her home at the age of twenty-two.

She had been spending her vacation with an aunt in the kingdom of fire and while there was continually about her master’s business. She was taken ill suddenly and as suddenly was called home.

Onsum

The farmer and the well

The farmer and the well

Moral

Funny quote

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THE 5 love languages for men By Gary Chapman (summary)

THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES FOR MEN By Gary Chapman (summary)

How many languages do you speak?

The no- logic zone

Logic suggests that men naturally gravitate toward women who share their primary love language. They communicate their affection easily and freely, forever and ever amen.

Since when does logic have anything to do with love?

WORDS OF AFFIRMATION

QUALITY TIME

QUALITY TIME

How to become fluent in quality time

Quality time phase book

RECEIVING GIFT

How to become fluent in gift-giving

Gift-giving phase book

ACTS OF SERVICE

How to become fluent in Act of Service

THE DOORMAT CONUNDRUM

Act of service phase book

PHYSICAL TOUCH

How to become influence in physical touch

NICE TOUCH

PHYSICAL TOUCH PHASE BOOK

Becoming A Leader by MYLES MUNROE (summary)

Understanding leadership

Everyone can lead

What is leadership?

What is a leader?

What makes a leader

Leaders not managers

The purpose of leadership

The purpose of leadership is to produce leaders

Are you leadership material

Motivation and ambition

Chapter 6

Highly predictable responses to the use of power

Tapping your leadership potential

Test for leadership potential

Qualifications of leadership

Commitment to integrity

Moral and ethical qualification

The quality of maturity

Intellectual qualifications

Essential Qualities of leadership

The price of leadership

Challenges face by leaders

A word of the third world

Zeal without skill

You Can, You Will by JOEl OSTEEN (summary)

Keep Your Vision in Front of You

Run Your Race

Fly With Those Who Lift You Up And Thrust You Forward

Expect Good Things

Have A Positive Mind-Set

Commit To Excellence

Keep Growing

Serve Others

Stay Passionate.

Put your heart into it

Keep working and growing

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT CHRISTMAS

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT CHRISTMAS

HISTORY

REASONS FOR CELEBRATION OF CHRISTMAS

HOW DO WE CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS?

WHO INVENTED SANTA CLAUS?

The 5 love languages By GARY CHAPMAN (summary)

The 5 love languages

By GARY CHAPMAN

The secret to love that lasts

What happens to love After Wedding

Falling in love

WORDS OF AFFIRMATION

Kind words

Various Dialects

THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES FOR MEN
By Gary Chapman (summary)