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Mood low

Restless sleep

Tired

Unmotivated 

No energy

Feeling flat and blah

Don't feel like doing things I usually enjoy --- like blogging

Just some of the criteria for depression. Just not feeling great. Possibly after-effects of the flu. Possibly the whole Christmas season thing. I think I would like to fall asleep and wake up on 01.01.10 with a hope for a better year.


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Until next time,

Cheers!!!


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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/VWGYNKcs6Fsr3hyIizmKaIyppUQ/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/VWGYNKcs6Fsr3hyIizmKaIyppUQ/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~4/0NLcTUNOBTY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><feedburner:origLink>http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/12/chivalry-is-not-dead-yet.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CEACQ386fSp7ImA9WxBSFEo.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5434632849488571570.post-7664240435298254440</id><published>2009-12-22T20:06:00.000+11:00</published><updated>2009-12-22T20:06:02.115+11:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-12-22T20:06:02.115+11:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Anxiety" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Work-wise" /><title>The Deep Dark Secret</title><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/feeds/7664240435298254440/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/12/deep-dark-secret.html#comment-form" title="11 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/7664240435298254440?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/7664240435298254440?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~3/mIuuB035AxE/deep-dark-secret.html" title="The Deep Dark Secret" /><author><name>Psych Babbler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17950901590157981631</uri><email>psych.babbler@gmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="14894477768836783329" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">11</thr:total><content type="html">Okay. Maybe not so dark. And maybe not so deep either.

I don't know if any of you remember this post which I had hastily posted a couple of weeks ago at work when I was really, really stressed. That week was one hell of a week. And of course, it resulted in my immune system giving up the fight and me falling sick all of last week.

So anyway, I'm going to let you all in on why I was so stressed.
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This is something I've thought about for a while: Why is it that when someone dies, we speak or think of them in a better way than we did when they were
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With my hands poised
Over the keys
I sift through thoughts
In my mind
Trying to figure out
What I should write
A poem, a story,
A deep moving post?
A rant, A review
Or something about work?
A cause, A memory
Or just a silly tag?
An observation, An experience
Or something from the mags?
I type some words
But delete them soon
I play with ideas
All afternoon
Nothing makes sense
Nothing sounds good
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This is a book by Jodi Picoult who, I must confess, is one of my favourite authors. I have all her books! This particular book was released in 1995 and was her third book.

***SPOILER ALERT***

The book begins with a woman hurt and bleeding, waking up at a 
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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/K5d7Ypq7BwNgWItzfKIjN9QXwhI/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/K5d7Ypq7BwNgWItzfKIjN9QXwhI/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~4/L-2kelaSrHY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><feedburner:origLink>http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/12/picture-perfect.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DEINQn84fCp7ImA9WxBTGEg.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5434632849488571570.post-5929603746368363381</id><published>2009-12-15T16:48:00.001+11:00</published><updated>2009-12-15T16:56:33.134+11:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-12-15T16:56:33.134+11:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Indulgence" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="BlogDumps" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Christmas" /><title>Dear Santa,</title><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/feeds/5929603746368363381/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/12/dear-santa.html#comment-form" title="25 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/5929603746368363381?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/5929603746368363381?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~3/emo4az941ag/dear-santa.html" title="Dear Santa," /><author><name>Psych Babbler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17950901590157981631</uri><email>psych.babbler@gmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="14894477768836783329" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6bkI8EPFOzw/SycgPD59uAI/AAAAAAAAAnk/mnXd_ABZq3w/s72-c/45B5ADFA771D019102000000AC193D36.JPG" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">25</thr:total><content type="html">This week's Top Sites Tuesday meme through BlogDumps is about what we want from Santa this year. Well, for this Christmas, here's what I'd like:

1. No flatmate. Yes, I want to have a few days without her. She has been away since Thursday but returns in a couple of days and I'm going to miss having my own space. So, I'd really love to have my own space around Christmas time!




2. A better 2010.
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This is a book by John Elder Robison. An autobiographical book about his life with Asperger’s Syndrome. The book appealed to me on two levels — it appealed to my love for reading and to my love for psychology.





First and foremost, for those that are not aware,
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Something new has been formed.


A NEW BOND....with BOOKS. 

Titaxy started this new venture and has invited Nu, Misty and yours truly to be part of it. 

We are 4 girls from 4 different countries with one very common love --- books. And so, we are going to be posting reviews and views about books, books and more books.

Do join us on our journey. And add our new page to
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I managed to rush from work to make the hour-long trip from my place to the Acer Arena. Our seats were pretty good --- on the upper concourse in the second row but smack bang in the middle. JET kicked off the show at about ten past 7 and were great. I do wish they had 
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Time to fess up!
Can you touch your nose with your tongue?  Do you sing soprano? Are you a whizz with a budget or have a black belt in karate?  Make a mean roast or have you received some form of public recognition for something real that your readers dont' know about? Expose something about yourself that is unusual or something your readers might 
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They don't have to be verbally aggressive towards you. They don't have to be physically aggressive towards you. They don't even have to be your stereotype of someone who is big and has severaly tats all over their arms. They don't have a big booming voice.

It's more in the stuff that's unsaid. Or the small things they notice. 
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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Q2S9GG7xo4Y4cijmMNUQVHHEswo/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Q2S9GG7xo4Y4cijmMNUQVHHEswo/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~4/Vu0KuHTPIgs" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><feedburner:origLink>http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/12/intimidated.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CkQNSHkzeSp7ImA9WxBTEEw.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5434632849488571570.post-5956603958021826028</id><published>2009-12-05T20:33:00.001+11:00</published><updated>2009-12-05T21:53:19.781+11:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-12-05T21:53:19.781+11:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Mental health" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Psychology" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blog-a-ton" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Work-wise" /><title>All in a day's work</title><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/feeds/5956603958021826028/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/12/all-in-days-work.html#comment-form" title="42 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/5956603958021826028?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/5956603958021826028?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~3/z7qkX4LZvog/all-in-days-work.html" title="All in a day's work" /><author><name>Psych Babbler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17950901590157981631</uri><email>psych.babbler@gmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="14894477768836783329" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">42</thr:total><content type="html">This post has been published by me as a part of the Blog-a-Ton 5; the fifth edition of the online marathon of Bloggers; where we decide and we write. To be part of the next edition, visit and start following Blog-a-Ton.

0545 hours: The alarm goes off. My sleepy head rises from the depths of the pillows and the doona to hit the snooze button.

0555 hours: Beep...beep...beep...beep. It's off again
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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2JzdFKHBNp3Phb-ty30mU3MhTps/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/2JzdFKHBNp3Phb-ty30mU3MhTps/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~4/z7qkX4LZvog" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><feedburner:origLink>http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/12/all-in-days-work.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;D0cCQX48eip7ImA9WxNaF0g.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5434632849488571570.post-725692542673322959</id><published>2009-12-01T15:40:00.002+11:00</published><updated>2009-12-02T22:57:40.072+11:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-12-02T22:57:40.072+11:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="World around us" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Social issues" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Women's issues" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Education" /><title>World AIDS Day</title><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/feeds/725692542673322959/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/12/world-aids-day.html#comment-form" title="13 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/725692542673322959?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/725692542673322959?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~3/q-fMwhglKVY/world-aids-day.html" title="World AIDS Day" /><author><name>Psych Babbler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17950901590157981631</uri><email>psych.babbler@gmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="14894477768836783329" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6bkI8EPFOzw/SxZV_tyxQ9I/AAAAAAAAAls/XPJBwwmqUds/s72-c/ttp.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">13</thr:total><content type="html">Today, December 1st, is recognised as World AIDS Day.





Now, we are all probably aware of how AIDS is transmitted and I’m not here to teach you. (Just so you know --- it’s through bodily fluids and not by shaking hands with someone who is HIV+)

One thing I’ve noticed though is the misconception that people tend to have: HIV positive is not automatically equivalent to having AIDS! HIV positive
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The end of NaBloPoMo!

The 30th of November.

And I've done it! Posted every single day. Despite being so busy this month. Kinda like Murphy's law --- when you decide to post every single day, that is the month you will be extra, extra busy!




I am glad that I'm not going to be blogging every single day any more. I will still blog but I first need to catch up on responding to 
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At me
Rather suspicously
As I look over my shoulder
No one is out there
Oh! What if they're out to get me as
In this lifetime they want me
Dead?

Until next time,

Cheers!!!

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Tell us about your most memorable or favourite book you've read this year so far. Why? Would you recommend it? Was there one that you just can't finish or even find? Or you can tell us about the book you've been wanting to read but haven't got around to it...Or is it magazine or newspaper you've discovered this year? Tell us about it!

This is one
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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/1MdFxnB_PQsMRYz1jtZ9V_EtpCk/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/1MdFxnB_PQsMRYz1jtZ9V_EtpCk/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~4/vBa4qBKrRzU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><feedburner:origLink>http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/11/bookshelf-2009.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;C0EHRX08cCp7ImA9WxNaEkQ.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5434632849488571570.post-8257445826584836818</id><published>2009-11-27T14:13:00.000+11:00</published><updated>2009-11-27T14:13:54.378+11:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-27T14:13:54.378+11:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Family" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="NaBloPoMo" /><title>You...</title><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/feeds/8257445826584836818/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/11/you.html#comment-form" title="19 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/8257445826584836818?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/8257445826584836818?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~3/8rjYK3gXW7w/you.html" title="You..." /><author><name>Psych Babbler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17950901590157981631</uri><email>psych.babbler@gmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="14894477768836783329" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">19</thr:total><content type="html">I was excited when I heard that you were coming into this world. I wanted you to be a girl. I was delighted the day you were born. As a young girl of 5, I remember coming to meet you at the hospital. I was amazed at how small you were. I will remember that day even more clearly because mama (uncle) and I left the keys in the car in our hurry to meet you.

You were tiny. It amazed me. But soon I 
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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/zsYXi_Scc_umE-q3ey066Utli4w/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/zsYXi_Scc_umE-q3ey066Utli4w/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~4/8rjYK3gXW7w" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><feedburner:origLink>http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/11/you.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;C0QHQng8fSp7ImA9WxNaEk4.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5434632849488571570.post-262085050756662205</id><published>2009-11-26T21:28:00.000+11:00</published><updated>2009-11-26T21:28:53.675+11:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-26T21:28:53.675+11:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Bombay" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="NaBloPoMo" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blogging" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Terrorism" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Work-wise" /><title>All in a day...</title><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/feeds/262085050756662205/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/11/all-in-day.html#comment-form" title="15 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/262085050756662205?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/262085050756662205?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~3/MJi0815pfrw/all-in-day.html" title="All in a day..." /><author><name>Psych Babbler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17950901590157981631</uri><email>psych.babbler@gmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="14894477768836783329" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">15</thr:total><content type="html">It's been a busy week. I don't really know what to blog about but I have to keep going to continue with NaBloPoMo. I think come December, there may be a few days of me taking a break. A break to read others' blogs and to reply to comments on my own. With trying to blog every single day, I realise I am lagging behind in reading all the other blogs and in responding to comments. Please bear with me
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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/hS_LeWsAjpeMKv-qJ6Yw1ah6LXg/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/hS_LeWsAjpeMKv-qJ6Yw1ah6LXg/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~4/MJi0815pfrw" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><feedburner:origLink>http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/11/all-in-day.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A04CQXw-eCp7ImA9WxNaEEQ.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5434632849488571570.post-2192943591641214988</id><published>2009-11-25T08:59:00.000+11:00</published><updated>2009-11-25T08:59:20.250+11:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-25T08:59:20.250+11:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="NaBloPoMo" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Abuse" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Women's issues" /><title>White Ribbon Day</title><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/feeds/2192943591641214988/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/11/white-ribbon-day.html#comment-form" title="7 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/2192943591641214988?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/2192943591641214988?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~3/JVtmpHZ2dUM/white-ribbon-day.html" title="White Ribbon Day" /><author><name>Psych Babbler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17950901590157981631</uri><email>psych.babbler@gmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="14894477768836783329" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">7</thr:total><content type="html">Today is White Ribbon Day - the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women. 

Here in Australia, the aim is to try and get men and boys to take action to eliminate abuse of women with an offshoot at http://www.myoath.com.au/. It's a great step which involves a lot of high profile men including our PM and an iconic rugby league player among others. Targetting men and boys in 
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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/VkH7TrJtvsDG6oRZZZnDNRoS4V8/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/VkH7TrJtvsDG6oRZZZnDNRoS4V8/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~4/JVtmpHZ2dUM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><feedburner:origLink>http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/11/white-ribbon-day.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CkMAR344eip7ImA9WxNaEEs.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5434632849488571570.post-3148223456335011008</id><published>2009-11-24T20:39:00.001+11:00</published><updated>2009-11-24T22:00:46.032+11:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-24T22:00:46.032+11:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blogging" /><title>HELP</title><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/feeds/3148223456335011008/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/11/help.html#comment-form" title="14 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/3148223456335011008?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/3148223456335011008?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~3/Ls6BgHUxQik/help.html" title="HELP" /><author><name>Psych Babbler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17950901590157981631</uri><email>psych.babbler@gmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="14894477768836783329" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">14</thr:total><content type="html">Okay...something's wrong...I have lost most of my comments!! I don't understand what happened. 

All that I can think of is VIRUS or HACKERS. 

Any ideas???

I had 2000 odd comments till this arvo and then tonight it's down to 120! The one thing I noticed though was when I had to moderate a few comments, there were about 6-8 previously published comments in that section. I clicked on them to 
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If I had to narrow it down to 3 things it would have to be the following:

My parents: I am so thankful to 
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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/0djLg-oGuLfnqMIK7xYzVlmGy_M/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/0djLg-oGuLfnqMIK7xYzVlmGy_M/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~4/q7h-vzAUmo0" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><feedburner:origLink>http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/11/being-thankful.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DE4CQnY9fCp7ImA9WxNbGUo.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5434632849488571570.post-5399037881225132022</id><published>2009-11-23T13:46:00.001+11:00</published><updated>2009-11-23T22:49:23.864+11:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-23T22:49:23.864+11:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="BlogThis" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="NaBloPoMo" /><title>Famous!</title><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/feeds/5399037881225132022/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.overacuppacoffee.com/2009/11/famous.html#comment-form" title="16 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/5399037881225132022?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5434632849488571570/posts/default/5399037881225132022?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/overacuppacoffee/MNgb/~3/cMz_IActlys/famous.html" title="Famous!" /><author><name>Psych Babbler</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17950901590157981631</uri><email>psych.babbler@gmail.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="14894477768836783329" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">16</thr:total><content type="html">I'm 'Famous'!

Okay. That may be somewhat of an exaggeration.

But I'm up on the New Member Monday for BlogThis this week!

Thank you BlogThis! Appreciate the opportunity for increasing visits to my blog. I must say I love the site because it's introduced to me to a lot of Aussie bloggers (who previously, were few and far between on my blogroll)

So thanks again,

EDIT TO ADD: I forgot to mention
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