In this new must read, Ms. Brink discusses how the fourth trimester has more in common with the nine months that came before than with the lifetime that follows. She delivers a comprehensive, intimate, and much-needed “operating manual” for newborn babies and presents a new paradigm of a newborn babies early life that shifts our focus and alters our priorities.

Combining the latest scientific findings with real-life stories and experiences, Ms. Brink examines critical dimensions of a newborn babies development such as eating and nutrition, bonding and attachment, sleep patterns, sensory development, pain and pleasure, and the creation of foundations for future advancement. Brink offers well-informed, practical information and the reasons behind her advice so that parents and caretakers can make their own decisions about how to care for newborn babies during this crucial period.

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Todd speaks of his own awakening to an idea that stemmed from a Voice Over he did for Umano and how this study from 64 years ago showcases how simple the who Anger Management management can be. Throw out the meditation. In fact get rid of any ideas that taking longer than a few seconds. The answers here are nearly instantaneous.

Maybe you already have tools you use to eliminate the anxiety or overwhelmed feeling you so often get. Can you use it int he heat of a battle with your kids? If so, then I demand that you share them below. If not, then maybe you will find an answer here. Janet Allison, wrote a book called, “Boys Alive!“. She had stopped in to talk with some parents at Pagatim and her insight into young boys also proved valuable and relative to this study done so many years ago. There are numerous reasons why in particular men struggle with Anger Management. We now have answers and resources for you.

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I wanted to share my personal experience of my child quitting on me and how it turned into a wonderful moment for both of us and it can for you as well. Many “experts” believe being a quitter is bad, while others say it is good. I say it depends…on the parent and how they handle it, approach and deal with the quit.  Learn an approach that will help guide a child to making the right decision, which may be to quit.

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On this episode, Todd wonders why it is so popular? Why do people like listening to such depressing stories? If they are funny, great! That can lift our spirits, but to listen to someone talk about how much anger they feel inside because their 2 year old daughter died of cancer isn’t uplifting. So why is everyone flocking to The Moth?

Wednesday night in Portland, Todd saw a local version of The Moth called, Russian Roulette presented by Back Fence PDX. It was a great event at the Mission Theater. In fact, all of the stories were funny. Had they all been sad and full of anger and sadness, Todd would have walked out. Sometimes those events turn out that way. Why would you go to one? Todd had a free ticket. What’s your reasoning?

Also, another week as a stay at home dad and this time one of the kids was violently ill? Did Todd pass or fail? He grades himself honestly. Other than that, this job is really easy. Plus he gives props to Laura who is starting to see and understand how he runs things and it’s making life easier. What is she doing differently? Find out.

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What has been hardest for you trying to balance work and childcare? What has been the easiest part? If you knew then what you knew now, what would you change about your approach to your childcare with your kids? One thing Todd has already figured out is routine is King with kids and so it goes with parents also, the more routine the better for everyone. What was your biggest discovery along the way?

Share your thoughts on our Facebook page, or comment below. The goal here is to have multiple short shows through the weeks ahead and keep a conversation building. We will have other episodes that are a full 30 minutes, but they will be less frequent this year as both Todd and Laura are devoting more time to Pagatim as a company and as you well know by now, the kids. It doesn’t mean we are going away mind you. There are three new shows getting ready to be launched from Pagatim this month, but Parenting Unplugged won’t play as big a role.

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Like most of America, Todd and Laura have never had this conversation with their boys, as they are only 8 and 5. But the time is coming soon when Birds and Bees will start chirping. Sex is happening at earlier and earlier ages in our children. Learn some tips about how to make this process easier and how to handle the sex topic when your younger child brings it up.

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Instead of speaking foreign languages to each other, you will be loving, laughing and living the dream. Parenting can be tough but it doesn’t have to be. Whether your child is Fun Loving, Sensitive, Determined or More Serious, there is a way to help bring out their best and you learn some of the ways in this interview.

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Currently, the United States is pushing breastfeeding heavily and those that are unable to or choose to feed using formula don’t have many resources. This book, which would have been one long rant if not for some great editors insists Suzanne, is a documentary of sorts about her struggles with trying to breastfeed and having to use Formula to save her child.

It’s a great book and an even better interview as Laura feels all of her buttons being pushed. But in the end, both women find that they believe in the same thing.

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Also, Laura shared her Cliff Claven moment, when she told Todd all about what Halloween is really about, which is not candy. Plus what happens to our kids when we judge people? Can we actually stop ourselves from doing this? Laura says yes, Todd says no and that it’s ok.

If you have some opinions that differ from your spouse, you will want to listen to this episode because you won’t feel alone after this one.

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None of the manufactuers are telling us the whole truth. It’s kind of like a debate between the Presidential candidates. But Cassidy sets us straight on how we can make our own and have a house that smells as sweet and shines just as brightly. Learn why unscented means nothing; Learn how to get chemicals out of the house; Learn which plastics are really bad, and find out where to get the cheap replacements for all of your non-stick cookware (that stuff is really toxic).

Plus find out what Tide is unwilling to remove from one of their products and what it could be doing to your family.

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In this episode, Todd talks about 5 signs to look for if your child is overscheduled and he has some ideas about what you can do. Is he a researcher? Is he an MD? Nope, just a DAD who has overscheduled his sons and like you is learning every day. He shares an episode from just the other day when overscheduling created a problem in his home with Laura and the kids. What happened? Maybe the same thing that has happened in your house. What did he learn? That’s the important part and he shares it openly and honestly with you.

Even so, some people think this is all bull!

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If your child plays sports, get this book. It’s an incredible resource for you as a parent. Because not all doctors know much about concussions, you need to be informed and this will help. Read the stories of athletes from the ages of 13 to 24 who have suffered incredibly from the long lasting effects of multiple concussions.

Todd and Laura also spoke with Lawyer Richard Adler, who served as Chairman and President of the Brain Injury Association of Washington (BIA-WA) from 2003-2009. He helped develop the Zack Lystedt Law, which requires athletes under the age of 18 who are suspected of having sustained a concussion to be removed from practice or a game and held out until they have obtained a written return-to-play authorization from a medical professional trained in the diagnosis and management of concussions.

It doesn’t matter what sport you play, even the sport of Life can be dangerous sometimes as Todd reveals in a personal story. Without this book as a resource, you will be left in the dark as to what to do when your child says, “Mom/Dad, I am not feeling to good and I have a headache.”

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Joann ZumBrunnen is the Clinical Director of the Eating Disorder Center at RainRock Treatment Center in Eugene, Oregon. She has first hand experience in dealing with the emotional and physical state of anyone dealing with an eating disorder. Questions are being answered. Resources are being created right here that you can use immediately. This 30 minutes could change your child’s life.

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We also talk about the Bob and Charlee Moore Institute for Nutrition & Wellness at OHSU, plus the Moore Family Center for Whole Grain Foods, Nutrition, and Preventive Health in the College of Health and Human Sciences at OSU. This is a man and wife who have come from humble beginnings and are giving back more than they or us could ever imagine. Think of that the next time you buy ingredients for baking. Does that other company do this much good with their proceeds?

Whether you shop with Bob’s Red Mill or not, it is interesting to learn how some who claim to be Gluten Free may not be and how and why it is so difficult to officially be Gluten Free. If you want to learn more about the levels accepted by the US than we provide in this episode, listen to this Dads Unplugged Episode as Todd discussed the art of making a Gluten Free beer making with Brewmasters in Belgium.

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And is anyone a Cat lover? Todd hates cats and needs help. The family just took over the care of a cat and Todd doesn’t know what to do. Any suggestions other than testing out whether they really have 9 lives?

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And don’t miss out on the last 10 minutes, because Todd and Laura take a 73 year old “Marital Rating scale” test, for wives only. Did Laura pass? Does she do anything that a wife was expected to do back in 1939? That was the year Todd’s mother was born. They leave the show laughing, but you may leave the show with a desire to do more or less for your husband.

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Warning! It gets hot early, only to drop to a simmer and then boil again. Listen with your headphones on or without the kids, there are a few words not worth repeating, but no F-bombs. Your emotions will get pushed and pulled and you may find yourself yelling at one or the other or both.  Either way, you will find yourself thinking about the work life balance in a new way when you are done with this episode.

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I guess you haven’t heard about Trackers Earth. The Founder of the camp, Tony Deis joined us to talk about what this camp can do for all of our children. Adventures, Magic, Mystery, Fishing, Fun…it all comes together at this camp and in this interview. In fact, if you aren’t from Portland, Eugene or the Bay area where they are located, you may just put up a for sale sign in the next 30 minutes.

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This conversation is candid and more in depth than any other, as we were able to talk for 37 minutes, not just the normal 8-10. Buzz is not one to hold back on his opinions, and neither is Todd and he let Buzz know that. But what evolves is a true conversation between two huge sports fans, who have had reality hit them square in the face when their children were born premature and both are better for it.

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Her book, Mom Energy: A simple plan to live fully charged is a stepping stone for all of us to live the life we want. Find out what it means to eat as a Qualitarian and the health benefits that come with it.

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Dr. Juniper Martin also joined Todd to talk about the effects of a diet like the Brockenbrough’s. They also discussed how what is in pre-packaged food and processed foods is hurting our teens. What can we do to help our bodies. We have the answer that nobody is talking about and Todd has felt its effects firsthand.

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It’s been tough to be a Mom lately. From the LIFE magazine cover, to the political debates to just everyday life, Moms have it hard. How does one keep her head about her when dealing with all of this?

Kimberly added some great insights into the woman’s brain and shared some simple steps that will make everything you desire achievable. In the meantime, Todd and Laura had their side conversation, as we like to call it, about what works in their home. Who knows? It might be like that in your house as well?

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How is she doing this? Todd and Laura got an earful during their conversation. Laura also owned up to why she didn’t excel in the subject and the story will shock you. This simple program can make a difference in your child’s life and show that science is “Mad”.

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Dr. Juniper Martin, Naturopath gives us tips about the best way to help your body get better. You may be surprised that it’s not that hard or expensive to turn your life around using healthy alternatives to western medicine. Dr. Juniper’s background is Western Medicine before she turned to Naturopathic medicine, so she has seen both sides. Any more questions for her? Ask away on her Facebook page (Juniper Martin).

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It was just “one of her bad days” said her mother. Salecia Johnson, a 6 year old kindergartner from Georgia was hauled off in a patrol car in handcuffs for throwing a “tantrum” at school. The police are not investigating how the situation was handled and the parents are trying to organize a community protest over the officer’s actions. Wait a minute. I will tell you who was make the biggest mistake and what steps the parents, the teachers and the cops can take in the future so that this never happens again.

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Signe is the author of two great workbooks that deal with Anger and Bullying respectively. The COO of LSCI.org is the mother of two girls and puts in your hands a powerful tool that can change your child’s future. We talked about Bully Bans, Hand STANds and guidelines for parents regarding Texting, IMing and Facebook usage.

Our kids bullying isn’t the same experience you had. Home isn’t necessarily a safe haven anymore. There are no walls with which one can keep the bullies out. So how do we protect and support our children? Signe has answers. Plus here about an experience Todd had when he was a teenager where without knowing he used some of these tips and it stopped a bullying situation in its tracks.

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Also, as Spring Break nears, are you ready to allow your child to fly off into the great big blue? Where are they heading? Another country? Some beach a few thousand miles away? How can you be sure they are going to be safe? Laura and I have some ideas that can make a difference right now.

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Jim Ferretti, editor and producer of the Afternoon News on 101FM KXL in Portland has a daughter Lilli, who was born with a Congenital Heart Defect. Only half of her heart was developed. She had her first surgery at 10 days old. Now she is 3 and a half and thriving, but still has many surgeries ahead. Are you in a similar boat? Do you know where to turn? Jim will share his knowledge as he has progressed through this difficult journey. It’s a heart touching story that had to be told. Now you get the chance to listen to it. If you have friends who are struggling with CHD, please pass this episode along to them.

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Are you like Laura in that you set your expectations so high that it almost makes them unattainable and then you beat yourself up after you don’t reach them? Laura talks about what has helped her through these times and how all moms can be better without being “good” at all.

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Ultimately this lead to the discussion of Tommy Jordan’s video in response to his daughter’s very mean Facebook post. He shot her laptop 7 times. His reaction has been praised and lauded all over the country but from our small broadcast booth, I felt it wasn’t our job to judge him, too much, but it was our job to ask whether or not he is willing to take responsibility for putting himself in this position with his daughter. Too many parents don’t want the blame, they only want the accolades. Why? We discuss.

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They also rehash a Valentine’s Day without chocolate, Roses or sex. Then why was it such a great night? Something magical did happen.

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Do you want a Rose that has been dipped is pesticide or one that is naturally beautiful and grown in your own state? We interviewed Josef Reiter, the owner of Botanica Floral Design and talked about the difference between flowers grown in Portland or in your home town vs the ones that are imported into our country, which most are.

Do you actually know the process that flowers go through before you buy them at a supermarket and at many Floral shops? You will after this show and you will not want to buy certain types of flowers again.

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Whether it was Relational Aggression, Cyberbullying or what is working in schools to combat Bullying and what is not, we talked about it. The State of Oregon has their policies in place but are they really helping? Bullying is a problem in our schools, but you will find out it’s not the only place to fix it. We leave you with tools and resources to help your children what can be a very difficult time.

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Jennifer Niesslein, co-founder of Brain, Child Magazine joined us to talk about some of the great stories they have put out over the last 12 years. Whether they are light and fun pieces or others dealing with Anorexia, Brain, Child Magazine creates a stimulating magazine every month that is worth it’s weight in gold to all parents. There is a reason that they call it the magazine for thinking mothers.

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Drew, Connor and I gave Laura some space, and got out of town for 5 days. Our 12 hour car rides gave us time to think and fight as well. What came out of it? Maybe a parenting gem and maybe not. The Anger Jar has now set up camp in our house and while it had a lot of momentum early, it has slowed down a little.

What is it? What was the purpose behind it? Who is it really for? All of the answers await you in this episode. By the way, operators are standing by at our house ready to take your orders.

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The death of a family member is never easy. It can be especially difficult if it is your younger sister. Laura recently lost her sister Caroline, a young woman who had been battling with Bi-Polarism for almost half her life.

Everyone deals with grief differently and this episode is about the personal struggle that Laura has been dealing with and also the perspective of Todd, who has tried his best to be supportive.

Would you have handled this delicate situation the same way? Have you ever experienced anything like this? What are your tips for grief?

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Linda Cohen is a Portlander, who lost her father a few years ago and being true to her faith of Judaism, she wanted to begin a mitzvah in his honor. So began a journey that took over two years to complete and 1000 Mitzvot later, Linda put together a beautiful book, 1000 Mitzvahs: How small acts of kindness can heal, inspire and change your life.

I have always thought that at the heart of Judaism, a beautiful community exists. Maybe people struggle with this religion because they feel excluded. If so, then here is your opportunity to put on your Yarmulke or Kipah.

Talk about the perfect holiday gift. This is something that will unite your family and could live on for generations as it speaks to the real person in all of us. Thank you Linda for travelling this path and sharing it all with us.

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Do you remember watching MASH as a kid? What a great show and Col. Potter was fabulous. Harry Morgan has died, he was 96. Todd gave him props. Also, earlier today there was barely any mention of it being Pearl Harbor Day. Is America forgetting about its heritage and what so many did on that fateful day? Plus a father wants his son to have Pot. The reason makes sense, some people’s reaction doesn’t. And should doctors be allowed to check a 9 year old cholesterol? Isn’t that a little young?

They were certainly topics that you can take to the water cooler tomorrow and as always, Todd was not short on opinions. It’s nice to be back.

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What is our job as parents when it comes to our kids and anger? Is it our job to shame them? No. It is our job to be their teachers and we can’t do that if we are yelling at them to stop yelling.

Parents are models and when we model the wrong thing, what do we do? Glenda responded to a bunch of issue that Todd and Laura are struggling with.

Learn how to self soothe and how that is so crucial to your own development and your child’s. Plus, can we model for our kids how to behave when they are angry? Yes.

And next time you are getting frustrated, ask yourself this. Do kids don’t come with knowledge of how to regulate their emotions. I think you know the answer. Enjoy the show.

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There are many source of stress, and dealing with them all can be difficult. Dr. Juniper, our Naturopath, said that reviewing our environments and accepting little changes in our everyday lives, we can reduce our stress, both mentally and physically. It can be extremely calming! What do Todd, Laura and Dr. Juniper do for stress? Listen in and learn Dr. Juniper’s C.L.E.A.R. stress reducing tips.

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Honestly, Todd and Laura had fought over this when they boys were born. So they split 50-50. Todd may have thought he won, but now he realizes after this conversation that he lost and so maybe have most men who fight to have their child circumcised. What is the point to it? How does it actually benefit the child? It is all about male ego? Why do so many European countries not do it?

Just because Todd had it done, does that mean his boys have to have done as well? Aren’t we trying to have our children live a life that is pain free rather than pain full?

If you have kids, this may cause you to want to apologize to them. If you don’t, it will cause you to pause for a moment and really think through this decision. Why should we allow a Doctor to force something upon our child that we don’t want. Look, they don’t know everything.

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I have heard from many that they want to do both, but can they? Can you? I think you can, but I don’t see any moms that do. They might say they do, but I think it is only wishful thinking.

First Lady Michelle Obama inspired this conversation as she talked about doing her job, being there for her kids and finding that balance while supporting her husband run the country.

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Laurie Regan, Co-host of the show along with Heiner Fruehauf, joins Todd and Laura to discuss what is your True Nature? Laurie is the Dean of the School of Classical Chinese Medicine at National College of Natural Medicine in Portland, Oregon. Heiner Fruehauf is the founder.

Their roads to the school are very different. One graduated from Harvard Medical School, the other battled cancer. Both found their True Nature in Classical Chinese Medicine. Their goal is to share their knowledge and resources with you. Get a taste in this edition of Parenting Unplugged Radio.

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This is something we struggle with every day, not only from a personal standpoint, but a parenting one as well. So that is why we are so happy that Signe Whitson wrote this book: How to Be Angry: An Assertive Anger Expression Group Guide for Kids and Teens.

This is a home run for all parents. Not only does it provide examples and resources for us but it also is part of a workshop you can do with your family, with other parents with other teachers etc… There are exercises you can utilize at the end of every chapter and they are relevant to today’s child.

Sure we don’t want our kids exploding with anger, but unless we are able to give them tools and resources, they will never get there. plus this book gives you a chance to heal your own wounds.

Find out the ways to help your children learn how to deal with their anger in an appropriate way.

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Catherine’s research and collaboration on this book provides all parents with much needed resources and stories that will allow them to understand their “middies” much better. Did you know that most middle children are perceived as neglected, overlooked, confused, but never spoiled?

Whether you are a Middie, or have a middie, this book can create a wealth of knowledge that you can use with your spouse, your coworkers or even your boss. In fact, maybe you will see why Donald Trump, the Dali Lama and many of the American Presidents all are middle children. It’s an episode that any parent with children should listen to. Enjoy!

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“Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.” - Carl Jung

“No one can make any on else feel guilty. Guilt comes from within. You either feel it, or you don’t. And actually, guilt is a very good thing! It causes us to re-evaluate our position – lets us know when we are no longer in line with our own principles, our core values. It tells us that something is off, and motivates us to change whatever it is we’re doing. In other words, guilt makes us uncomfortable for a very good reason!” –  Drmomma.org/Peaceful Parenting on Facebook

Over the course of this episode, Laura and Todd came to realize that while they have been inundated with guilt laden statements over the years from their mothers, there are also statements that have no guilt in them, but we create our own guilt from them. How does that happen? How do we deal with it and overcome? Find out on this episode.

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Have you heard of Silent Sidelines? Todd learned about this from Therapist Ann DeWitt and utilized it in his child’s soccer game on Saturday. The results were mind blowing. The reaction from kids, parents and the other team. Plus it actually led to two goals being scored. Is this something that Todd wants to continue or not?

How can being quiet on the sidelines in a soccer game be a good thing? Todd takes you through the decision to do it. How he handled the parents on both teams and how it all turned out.

If your child plays on a sports team, do not miss this special episode.

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Sometimes for kids it’s not easy separating from their mother or father. It can be a scary time. How do they make it through the day without them? Audrey found a simple way and has shared it with millions. If you haven’t read her books, find out more about the wonderful connecting opportunites she provides. If you have read her books, find out more information about her history, her beliefs and her struggle with the Military and how she hopes a plea can allow her to deliver hugs and kisses to kids from the parents who are protecting our country.

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We have found that one of the leaders of a local theater camp did that with our child, kicked him out of the end of the week performance and left him feeling horrible about the whole idea of being on stage. Theater was a big part of my Jr High and High School expereinces and also played a major role in my career as a local and national sports talk show host before helping start Pagatim.fm. I will be furious if this episode sours him on the whole idea of ever getting back up on stage.

As his parent, it is important that I support him through this and work through the issues that got him to this point. My son is not without blame in this. He is the one who acted out and caused issues. I may even be the one that helped put him in the mood to act this way because of my own behavior, so I am not without potential blame as well. However, there is no excuse for an adult (over 21) to act this way. The adult has to take responsibility for their own actions.

Laura and I go toe to toe as she is frustrated but wants to take the high road. Not me. See which side you fall on during this episode of Parenting Unplugged.

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It’s not an easy fix, but the solutions are coming together and with all of the research that is now available, the Children’s Institute is pushing for more early childhood development. Will it make a difference? That’s for you to decide, but you need to listen first. Enjoy!

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Second of all, Connor was spanked last week by his Grandfather. This got Todd out of his rocker and up on his soap box. Laura didn’t necessarily agree.

Third, some absolute magic happened as Drew caught his first fish ever as did Connor. A deeper understanding of both children was birthed after one on one discussions with them. Also an opportunity to see our 4 and 7 year old in the wilderness and on a river was enlightening.

To say it was a ride is an understatement. To miss hearing the reaction to it all would be a missed opportunity.

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Larry Rogers, Laura and Todd’s counselor joined them on this episode and took over the controls. He decided on the topic and delved into what makes Todd and Laura work well together and work not so well together. Talk about an honest show. These two didn’t hold back and found out something new about each other.

We are not asking you to change career paths and start working together, but we are asking you to listen together and start a conversation that may lead you down a similar path. Enjoy.

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There needs to be reasons behind the things we do for our kids because it can have lasting effects on them. Our children are growing up without any knowledge about how to handle their money. We can help them by making certain changes and making sure that we are giving them money for the right reasons. Schools aren’t teaching our kids anything about money, so let’s make sure that we, as parents, do.

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While many of you may have been married longer, over 13 years these two have learned quite a bit about each other. Not just superficial stuff, we are talking about the deeper meaning that makes each of them tick. However, even to this day, they keep learning. In fact, this past weekend, Todd and Laura had another awakening as they discussed the presence of God or Spirit or whatever you call your greater being…that is if you have one. They fell on polar opposite sides of this issue and enjoyed a rather heated debate. We hope you’ll enjoy it as well. Maybe you should let us know what you think on our Facebook page or right on our web page below the show in comments.

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What about Teens and Tweens? We discussed that as well. Where are some of the places we as parents can take steps to help prevent our children from getting sick? Lunch bags? What is best to put in them? What is worst?

This is a conversation not to be missed unless you want to be paying more in co-pays than in education. Don’t forget to share it with other families at your school and LIKE us on Facebook. Can we cross the 300 barrier by Monday? I bet we can if we all stay healthy enough.

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So how does Mindfulness improve our lives and the lives of those around us? Tough question. Simple answer and it is shared on this episode.

But before you listen to the show, think for a moment. What does Mindfulness mean to you. Leave us a comment and then listen to the show. See how close your description is to that of Kimberly. Don’t worry about how close you come, because nobody can be farther away than Todd was.

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Originally I didn’t go to the event. I went to watch the Harry Potter movie. But she asked that I pick her up at 10. I stopped by and because I know some of her friends, I hung out. It was a long night and a fun one. I got to see Laura back in her High School glory. I also got to see her with her High School sweetheart. It wasn’t just like old times but it sure seemed that way at times.

How did I react seeing them talk and have eyes only for each other at times? You are going to have to listen. You have heard me blow up on these shows before. You should hear my reaction to the whole encounter this time and what I made sure to tell the guy before we all called it a night.

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Tony Deis, the founder of TrackersEarth, and surprisingly also the Galley Cook, joined us to talk about how this camp is making a difference in kids lives. Tired of your children spending too much time in front of some sort of screen? Ready to challenge them this summer?

TrackersEarth says the ancient skills are coming back and they are helping teach them to you: Survival, Hunting & Gathering, Tracking, Ecology, Invisibility in the forest, Permaculture and more. They teach to our kids and they can teach you as well. Find out how in this episode.

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Nope, it’s the Fairmont Orchid on the Big Island

I could have sworn this was Heaven

Is there a heaven?

Oh yeah. It’s the place where dreams come true.

Then maybe this is heaven.

It’s not Field of Dreams, but there is no doubt this hotel is close. It’s our final show from Hawaii. It was time to reflect back on what a wonderful trip it was. In case you missed any of the shows from there, you might want to check this one out. Plus learn more about the Fairmont Orchid. Trust me, next time you go to the Big Island, that is the place you want to be. Find out why.

Plus from the parenting side of things, Laura and Todd were getting a bit testy with each other as they moved to the end of the vacation. It can happen after a month on the road.  Todd is never afraid of calling Laura out. Find out how she responds.

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That’s what we found after sitting down for a chat about all that the Fairmont Orchid has to offer. We weren’t talking about events we were just talking about the land, the Hawaiian culture and how this hotel brings to life the spirit of Hawaii. How do they do it? How do they encapsulate it all? Listen in to this episode of Parenting Unplugged Radio.

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Owana leads us all on a journey of how it was gathered, where it is from and much more about Hawaiian culture in general. Find out exactly why it is so different on the Island, and why we all usually say, “I love the Hawaiian way.”

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Along the way there have been many downs, but his patience has paid off and now Island Princess is considered one of the Big 3 Macadamia Nut companies in Hawaii. This would be his first born. His second baby was a venture that he took on back on the Mainland. It’s called Orchard Heights Winery in West Salem, Oregon. The first wine he produced was not your typical variety. Most in Sonoma and Napa laughed at him. It’s still his top seller.

While Mike and Gwen don’t have children, they have learned many life lessons along the way and his Parting Wisdom is something we should all pass along to our kids. Hear it and you will share it with friends and family.

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Todd and Charles had some time near the Dolphins to talk about what got him to the Islands, why he would never leave and why eating as a family may be the most important thing you do with your children.

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We talked about what has happened in the year since we last had her on the show. They have a new 11 month old Dolphin, Noelani, and are expecting another new one this August.

But the conversation wasn’t all about the animal I consider the cutest next to a dog, it also talked about the 4R’s: Reduce, Reuse, Recycle and Respect. We know about the first three, being from Portland and all, but the fourth one really hits home when you are living on an Island in the middle of nowhere. Hawaii and all of the people that live really have to respect the planet, because a little damage here can travel a long way. You don’t want to tick off Mother Nature on this Island; she has an active volcano on it. Don’t test her.

You may have played with Dolphins at other locations around the world, but it’s different at Dolphin Quest because they are an educational facility first and that provides us as guests something that we can take home with us long after the phenomenal visit.

Learn more about it all and how you can capture the memory of a lifetime for you and your kids with Dolphin Quest.

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Todd and Laura sat on the porch of this 100+ year old home where Tom has created an oasis of sorts. There is Cacao, Coffee, Pineapple, Bananas, Papaya, Mango and some of the most beautiful flowers you have ever seen growing here.  The three sat down for what was to be just a 30 minute conversation and turned into a life changing chat that lasted well over an hour and a half. Too bad Todd only recorded 30 minutes. But that 30 could be profound for you as well.

Here is a teaser of some of the items that were discussed: How to get Blissed but why that may not be the best thing for you. Why the male ego must die. Let this one sink in: It’s better to express how you feel without being how you feel. Or even this, “it’s not what you say, it’s what is being said”

We don’t want to give all the secrets away but it is conversation that has given us more than just pause. It reminds us that you never know what you will find as long as you keep your eyes open. Greg Colden, of Kona’s Natural Soap Company said it in our interview last Wednesday, “We need to make sure we don’t just look ahead or look behind us. It’s important to see the periphery.”

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But this show also discussed how Todd and Laura deal with being cooped up in a small house while trying to deal with two very active boys.  It has lead to some trying moments. What do you do when you are in an enclosed area or situation and someone starts getting upset? Laura’s suggestion of going on a run might have Todd in the best shape of his life by the end of the week.

And don’t miss out on learning about one of the finest healing oils on the island. It’s already working for our family.

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It lead to a conversation about how different their children are and how that can be one of the biggest hurdles in raising your children. So what to do when you do get angry? Are you a parent who yells at their children?

Todd has a very loud voice and a temper. So how can he take better steps and teach his kids a better way? He actually came up with the best answer and Laura was in total shock. Find out what it is and if it can help you on this episode.

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Greg Colden is the co-founder of the Kona Natural Soap Company in Kona on the Big Island. He and his partner Marty Corrigan have created something special that started with a sunburn. 6 years later, the Kokoleka Lani Farm has become the home of what is possibly the greenest, most soothing and best soap available.

But we didn’t just talk soap, we talked about how he arrived at this point in his life. As the owner of a very successful Insurance business, taking this plunge wasn’t exactly easy, but he was staring back at life like a child. He was open to everything and he found exactly what he always wanted out of life. I would encourage you to listen to his Parting Wisdom at the end of the show. It may be exactly what you have been looking for.

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Poop: You may have read about this story on our Facebook page. If not, the saga of a road trip turned into hell and back is smack dab in the middle of this episode and yes it involves. Poop.

Parenting: We were trying to record this show while our children were trying to play nicely. That didn’t last and while Todd did edit out the moments they broke in, we did get the chance to talk about it. Laura explained how she handled one situation and then when Todd handled a similar situation the same way a little bit later, she procalimed, “Well, I would have handled it this way.” Did Todd lose his cool? We don’t hold anything from you on this show.

Sibling Rivalries are something we are locked in right now. Connor (7) and Drew(4) play well well but right now we are 50/50 fun and fighting. It’s driving us both insane.

We did have some wonderful resources to talk about on the Big Island. Our trip to the Sea Horse farm, our venture to Akaka Falls (it says it’s $1 to get it. We didn’t see any of that. It was free) and the Seafood Watch info from the Monterrey Bay Aquarium. It’s all good and it’s all in this episode.

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Todd Williamson of OmBase Yoga studios joined Todd and Laura, and they discussed how a parent might deal with fear or uncertainty. Feeling scared is hard enough, and regulating it in front of the kids is hard. What did Todd, Todd and Laura think the  best way to maintain control, and handle fear in front of the kids?

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This is a stop I think most families with young kids should make on the Big Island. The tour was fantastic, very informative and the kids really enjoyed it. The saw Sea Dragons, hundreds of Sea Horses and yes, all of us had the chance to have one of these little guys wrap themselves around our fingers.

The cost was $35 for adults and $25 for kids. It lasted well over an hour, but the money is key to their research as they are a non grant funded institution. They are doing good work and with the fact that it is projected at our current pace, the world will empty our seas of edible fish in 29 years, we should support what they are doing.

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In general, travelling to Hawaii isn’t that bad, unless you have a kid with Pinkeye. Yes, we have been greeted with the beauty of the Big Island and a nasty case of Pink Eye. Drew has it but I guess this might be the best place to have it. The salt water might help wash it away and the healing powers of Hawaii don’t hurt either.

But will that power and healing ability always remain? With all the garbage, recycling is key here but does everyone really care? Many of the locals do and almost all of the visitors don’t. Where does all of the plastic go?

We also filled you in on how we have been able to do this trip every year. It’s a house exchange. Have you ever done that? Where did you go? Did you get the better house?

And of course we would be here without our great friends at Hawaiian Airlines who flew us here.

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On this episode, Todd and Laura talked with Dr. Wendy Mogel, a clinical psychologist, parenting expert, and author of The Blessing of a Skinned Knee and The Blessing of a B Minus. Wendy said that each child is different, with their own interests, and to “see your child as a seed that came in a packet without a label”.

Are you cheating your child when you under schedule, and every other kid is going to a dozen summer camps? Check out this episode to hear those benefits of under scheduling, and how a crammed schedule could hurt as your son or daughter grows.

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In this episode, Dr. Andrea Nakayama and her 10-year-old son Gilbert told Todd and Laura about what Gilbert eats, how they cook together and ways to get your child to eat healthy. Gilbert had some fascinating insight on healthy eating as a child, the benefits of seaweed, and he shared how he goes about staying healthy around kids his age, it isn’t easy with so many junk food out there! Andrea shared her knowledge on sugar in food, and what you should be feeding your child to help them lead a healthy life.

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A happy childhood doesn’t always lead to a happy adult. What can you do to help your child understand how the world works? How much is too much praise? What are some essential things your child needs to go through? Lori talks to Todd about raising your child in a world of success, and the equally important world with failure.

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Our kids were with their babysitter last week and had a great time at the beach. But they both got bad sunburns on their backs. They have turned to bubbles after three days and a bad Prickly Rash (“Heat Rash”). How do we get them to heal? Aloe? yes. What about food? How can we help their bodies heal themselves. We have answers.

Also, the Grandparents gave them M&M’s, Sprite and overall bad food this weekend at a play. Then they told them they needed to be quiet. The worst part is how bad the sugar is for their body and bad for the rash and sun burn they are suffering from. Will the Grandparents ever listen to what we ask of them?

Finally, Todd witnessed a mom telling her daughter that “you’re ok” after she fell down on her knees. I am so tired of people telling kids “you’re ok” when they aren’t. What parents think the kids are going to say, “you are right, I was just trying to get attention.” Kids aren’t trying to get attention when they hurt themselves. A better approach is to acknowledge them, because otherwise you are telling the kids their feelings don’t matter. What if your spouse told you every day that your feelings didn’t matter? By acknowledging the kids feelings, “Wow, that must hurt. Are you ok?” The kids will either ask for some connection or say, “I’m ok”. Don’t answer it for them. Let them tell you they are ok. Capiche?

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What are these ailments? What foods can cause these problems? What can you do to help your child? Todd and Laura spoke with Kelly and discussed detective techniques parents can use to figure out what is causing ailments such as picky eating or even ADHD. Learn to trust your intuition, because it may be the most important tool as a parent to decipher what is really causing your child pain.

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As for Laura, she spent her weekend in Hood River and while we told you why that town is so great on a recent KEEN HybridLife Radio program,. she found more reasons as to why it is so incredible. In fact, this weekend, may lead to a complete rebirth for her.

As it was a Monday’s edition of the show, there are many other little stories along the 30 minutes as well that you will enjoy, including one that explains why reading aloud in the public library might not be the best idea, and for a reason you never would have thought of.

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What are some of the best ways to explain to a child the death of a pet? What are some ways one can cope with the loss and mourn in a healthy way? Why does it hurt so much? Todd and Laura shared their experiences with the loss of pets, including one very recently. They explained how they dealt with the loss, what it meant to them and how they helped their children cope with the passing of their beloved Holly.

Enid shared her ideas on activities and support groups to attend after the loss of a pet, and delivered advice to the whole family on how to handle the grieving process.

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Todd went to his 25th high school reunion, and dragged Laura along. They share their experience with classmates and other parents at the reunion and how to go about enjoying the weekend.

Also summer is here, and school is out, if both parents are working, what do you do with your kids? Todd and Laura are struggling with this right now. Do you have suggestions? Send them to Todd@pagatim.fm, and listen to what the Mansfield’s are doing on this episode.

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In this episode, Dr Juniper Martin, our Naturopath, gives you the ultimate allergy remedy. No doctors. No shots. No drugs. It works. It’s proven. It will leave you saying wow! and will probably excite you so much that you will want to send this episode out to all of your friends. At least, that is what we are hoping for.

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Kevin interviewed 50 different woman from around the world and in doing so changed his own relationship with his two daughters. There are tears, laughter and knowledge shared in this read and to imagine that a man was able to unveil these feelings and emotion makes this book and this interview that much better.

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