It’s filled with wonderful women—faithful, disciplined, Jesus-loving friends who are encouraging one another toward better physical health. These are not women who neglect their spiritual lives. In fact, many of them inspire me deeply through their faith, their discipline, and their consistency.
And yet, when I joined the group…I became a lurker.

I watched their daily updates.
I celebrated their wins.
I admired their commitment.
I even purchased a STEP COUNTER!

But I could not post my own progress because, if I’m honest, I was in a season where even thinking about 10,000 physical steps felt overwhelming.

Not because I don’t care about my health.
Not because I don’t understand that our bodies are gifts from God that deserve stewardship.
But because some seasons of life, THIS SEASON OF MY LIFE, has required a completely different kind of movement.

Some seasons call us to run.
Some seasons call us to build.
Some seasons call us to fight for our health.
And some seasons require everything we have just to remain SITTING IN THE STILLNESS.

There are seasons where your real steps look like:
* Getting out of bed after devastating news.
* Caring for family members while trying to hold your own life together.
* Walking through grief that no one else fully understands.
* Managing personal health challenges.
* Leading and serving others while quietly carrying your own exhaustion.
* Holding onto faith when God feels silent.

Those steps are real.

And often, they are invisible.

No fitness tracker records the courage it takes to forgive someone who deeply hurt you.
No smartwatch congratulates you for surviving heartbreak without losing your faith.
No app sends a notification that says:
“Congratulations—you asked for help.”
“Congratulations—you chose rest instead of burnout.”
“Congratulations—you took one brave step toward healing.”

Yet those steps matter deeply to God.

Psalm 23 reminds us that the Good Shepherd “makes me lie down in green pastures.”

That scripture has challenged me in this season because STILLNESS does not always feel productive. Sometimes I confuse movement with progress. Sometimes I think if I’m not visibly accomplishing something, anything, I’m falling behind.

But PRAISE God. He does not measure our worth by physical productivity.

* Sometimes He calls us to move.
* Sometimes He calls us to be still long enough for Him to restore our soul.

I think about Elijah after his great victory on Mount Carmel. He had just experienced one of the greatest spiritual moments of his life—and then he collapsed in exhaustion and despair.
And what did God offer him?
Not pressure.
Not shame.
Not a bigger assignment.

God gave him food.
Rest.
Quiet.
Gentleness.

And only then did God give him direction.

Maybe that’s where you are today.
Maybe your next step is bold action.
Maybe it’s finally taking care of your physical health.
Maybe it’s having a hard conversation.
Maybe it’s pursuing healing.

Or maybe your holiest next step is simply resting.

For some women, this season may be about taking 10,000 PHYSICAL steps and some, just cheer friends on as they walk and pray for YOU!

Both matter. And heaven sees every single one.

10,000 Step Friends—I am cheering you on and I DID get a new pedometer. Even though the “official challenge” in this group is almost over—YOU HAVE INSPIRED ME, and I am going to use it!

I love you girls! You know hwo you are :))

Ps 119:32 “I run in the path of your commands for you have set my heart free!”

PS–JOIN ME IN MY FREE GROUP–A WOMAN”S PLACE to talk more about YOUR NEXT STEPS :))

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One of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves and our loved ones is the freedom to be ourselves, to make our own choices, and to pursue our own passions and dreams. When we are able to love without any burden, we create a space for authenticity, vulnerability, and intimacy to flourish.

In a world that often puts pressure on us to fit into certain boxes and to meet certain societal expectations, it can be challenging to let go of these burdens and to fully embrace an unburdened love. It requires a level of trust, self-acceptance, and self-love that can be difficult to cultivate.

But the benefits of this type of love are immeasurable. It allows us to truly connect with others on a deep, meaningful level and to build relationships that are based on mutual respect, understanding, and support. It allows us to experience love in its purest form and to give and receive love without any reservations or fears.

So, how can we cultivate love that is unburdened? Here are a few suggestions:

1. Practice self-acceptance: In order to fully embrace an unburdened love, we must first learn to love and accept ourselves as we are. This means letting go of any self-judgment or self-criticism and embracing our unique qualities and imperfections.

2. Communicate openly and honestly: In any relationship, communication is key. Make sure to openly and honestly communicate your needs, wants, and boundaries with your loved ones. This will help to create a space of mutual understanding and respect.

3. Let go of expectations: It is natural to have certain expectations of ourselves and of others, but when these expectations become too rigid or unrealistic, they can create unnecessary burdens on our relationships. Try to let go of any rigid expectations and instead, focus on building strong, trusting, and loving connections with others.

4. Practice gratitude: When we focus on the things we appreciate and are thankful for in our relationships, it can help to shift our perspective and allow us to see the beauty and value in our loved ones.

Love unburdened may not always be easy, but it is certainly worth striving for. It is a love that is authentic, pure, and freeing, and it allows us to connect with others on a deeper level and to experience the fullness of what love has to offer.

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We know the story.
We know the beginning. We know the ending.
We know the hope of the empty tomb.

This year, I’ve been sitting with a different question…

*What if Easter is not just something we remember—but something we act on and respond to?*

**The Story We Know**

We know the heartbreak of Good Friday.
The silence of Saturday.
And the miracle of Sunday morning.

We know that Jesus rose.
We know the stone was rolled away.
We know the grave could not hold Him.

And yet…

Sometimes we live as if parts of our own story are:

Still sealed.
Still stuck.
Still waiting.
Still buried.

**The Invitation We Can Easily Miss**

Easter is not just proof of resurrection.

It is our invitation into it. Over and over again.

Not just someday.
Not just spiritually.
But personally.
Right here.
Right now.

Because the same power that rolled the stone away…

Is the same power at work in your life today.

The places that feel buried.
The dreams that feel delayed.
The parts of your story that feel unfinished—

They are not beyond God’s reach.

**Where Do You Need Resurrection?**

Let me ask you something, friend—

Where in your life does something feel… over?

Where have you quietly accepted:

* “This is just the way it is”
* “It’s too late for that”
* “That part of my life is behind me”

Easter gently interrupts those thoughts.

It reminds us that God specializes in **new beginnings**.

Not small improvements.
Not surface-level changes.

But resurrection.

**The Stone Was Rolled Away—for You Too**

The stone wasn’t rolled away so Jesus could come out…it was rolled away so that We and He could COME IN!!

It was rolled away so we could step in and see what God had done.

To witness what looked impossible… now transformed.

And maybe that’s the invitation for you this Easter.

To step closer.
To look again.
To believe that what feels closed in your life…
is not closed to God.

**This Is Not the End**

Easter declares something powerful over your life:

This is not the end of your story.

Not your past.
Not your pain.
Not your unanswered questions.

Because resurrection always has the final word.

**A Quiet Next Step**

You don’t have to have everything figured out today.

You don’t have to rewrite your whole story overnight.

But what if this Easter…

You simply said yes to one small step of faith?

One place where you trust God again.
One place where you hope again.
One place where you begin again.

**Because He Lives…**

Because He lives—
you are not stuck.

Because He lives—
your story is still unfolding.

Because He lives—
this might be the very season where something new begins.

With you in the journey,
**Pat**

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Maybe it’s the way its tiny glow appears in the dusk—not loud, not demanding, just quietly shining in the gathering dark.

Recently, I found myself watching their gentle flicker and thinking about LUMINA—those sacred spaces between what was and what will be. The in-between seasons. The quiet transitions. The moments when clarity has not fully arrived, yet God is still present.

Lightning bugs don’t light up the whole sky. They simply glow where they are.

And that is often how God works in our lives.

Small Light. Sacred Timing.

A lightning bug doesn’t shine all day. It shines at the right time.

Its light appears when darkness comes—not to erase the night, but to dance within it.

Isn’t that true of our spiritual journey?

We often want floodlights.

God often gives fireflies.

Just enough light for the next step.
Just enough clarity for today.
Just enough hope to keep moving.

*“Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light to my path.”* (Psalm 119:105)

A lamp doesn’t show miles ahead.
It shows the next faithful step.

LUMINA: The Light in the In-Between
LUMINA is the space between breaths. (I SHARE A MONTHLY “LUMINA” GATHERING each month! Watch your email for invitations!
Between prayers.
Between the dream in your heart and the reality in your hands.

It’s the sacred pause where God is forming something new.

Many women arrive here thinking they are lost, late, or behind.
But what if this season is not a delay—
but a divine dusk where holy light becomes visible?

Lightning bugs remind us:

You don’t need to shine everywhere.
You just need to glow where God has placed you.

Need A Place to Keep Walking in the Light?

If this reflection stirred something in your heart, I want to invite you into A Woman’s Place—my faith-centered community for women who are seeking God in their real, everyday lives.

It’s FREE!

It’s a space for women in every season to gather, reflect, grow, and share the journey. No pressure. No pretending. Just honest faith and holy becoming.

Come join us inside A Woman’s Place and bring your story, your questions, and your flickering light. There’s room for you.

I hope to see YOUR LIGHT there!
Pat

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It’s the space after something has ended but before the next thing is clear.
The season where the calendar says, “move on,” but the heart quietly says, “wait.”

Because we live in a culture that values speed and certainty, this pause often feels uncomfortable. However, I’ve come to believe this space is sacred.

I call it Lumina — the holy pause where light begins to appear.

An Invitation to Pause With Me

What Is Lumina?

The word lumina comes from a root meaning illumination or light. Not the blinding kind. Not a spotlight. Instead, it’s the gentle glow that helps you see what’s already there when the noise finally settles.

Lumina is not about forcing clarity.
Rather, it’s about allowing clarity to rise.

In this quiet space, we begin to notice what matters most. As a result, we stop striving for answers and start paying attention to God’s presence.

Why the In-Between Feels So Uncomfortable

For many women, the hardest seasons are not the painful ones or even the joyful ones. Instead, it’s the in-between.

This is the season where something has shifted, but nothing new has fully formed yet. Because of that, we often feel pressure to decide quickly or explain ourselves too soon.

However, Scripture shows us a different way.

God often works slowly and quietly. Even so, we resist the pause because it asks us to trust without clarity.

That’s why Lumina matters.

How Scripture Honors the Sacred Pause

Throughout Scripture, God meets His people in moments of waiting.

Moses lingered on the mountain.
Elijah heard God in a whisper.
Mary pondered quietly in her heart.

In contrast to our hurry, God consistently reveals Himself in stillness. For this reason, the pause is not wasted time — it is formative time.

Lumina invites us to honor what God has always honored: listening before acting.

Why Journaling Helps Us Hear God More Clearly

One of the simplest ways to enter Lumina is through gentle, prayerful writing.

This isn’t journaling to perform or produce something meaningful. Instead, it’s journaling as a way of listening.

When we slow our hands, our hearts often catch up.

As we write honestly, patterns begin to surface. Emotions settle. Questions become clearer. Most importantly, God’s invitations become easier to recognize.

In this way, journaling becomes a spiritual practice — not an assignment.

An Invitation to Pause With Me

On February 5, I’m hosting a Lumina Workshop — a quiet, guided space where we’ll slow down together, reflect prayerfully, and create room for what God is illuminating in this season.

There will be gentle teaching, extended journaling time, soft music, Scripture, and unhurried space to listen. Rather than planning an entire year, we’ll focus on honoring the pause God may already be inviting you into.

If your heart has been whispering, “I need space,”
If you’ve sensed a nudge but can’t quite name it,
Or if you’re longing for clarity without pressure,

Then this space is for you.

Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is stop long enough to notice the light.

Lumina: The Holy Pause Between Reflection and Rising February 5 A quiet, guided workshop for women seeking clarity and peace

You don’t need to prepare anything.

Just come as you are.I hope to see you there!

Pat

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As this year draws to a close, many women feel a familiar tension—not quite finished, not quite ready, but deeply aware that something is shifting. This is not a failure of clarity. It’s often a sign of growth.

There are seasons when the most faithful thing we can do is honor what is ending—without rushing past it or minimizing what it cost us to get here. Endings carry wisdom. They deserve reverence.

There are also seasons that invite us to create space for what is emerging—even when we can’t yet name it clearly. Space is not emptiness. It is preparation.

And then there is that quiet inner nudge—the place where your spirit feels most alive. The place God keeps drawing your attention back to. That pull is not accidental.

It is often an invitation.

This is a moment to pause.
To listen.
To honor the holy shift unfolding in your current season.

That’s why I’ve created LUMINA: A 2026 RESET—a sacred, end-of-year workshop designed to help you reflect with intention, release with grace, and step forward with clarity.

This is not about fixing yourself or creating a perfect plan.
It’s about making space for light—illumination, wisdom, and God-led clarity for the season ahead.

If your heart senses that something is ending—and something new is quietly beginning—I would love to walk with you in this moment.

You can find all the details and register on my website.

Sometimes the most powerful step forward begins with a pause that honors where you are.

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We light candles.
We quiet our pace—at least a little.
We listen more closely for God’s nearness.

That’s why the Christmas Quiet Time Kit has resonated so deeply. It wasn’t about doing more—it was about being still enough to notice.
But there’s something that often happens around the midpoint of Christmas.

The whisper lingers…
and quietly begins to ask a question:
“What now?”

Not in a rushed, pressure-filled way.
Not in a planner-open, goal-setting frenzy.
But in a holy, curious way.
What is God inviting me into next?

The truth is, God rarely moves us from intimacy straight into instruction.

He moves us from whisper → awareness → direction.

And direction doesn’t begin with a full map.
It begins with a prepared heart.

As we continue walking through the Christmas season, I want to invite you to stay right where you are—but with open hands. Let the quiet moments do their work. Let God surface what needs healing, releasing, or realigning.

Later this month, I’ll be offering a gentle RESET experience—a space to reflect, discern, and prayerfully prepare your heart for 2026. Not to plan harder—but to listen deeper.

For now, keep showing up to the whisper.

Direction will come in its time.

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The lights go up, the calendars fill, the to-do lists multiply… and before we know it, our hearts are running on empty while the world around us shouts “be merry.”

If I’m honest, I’ve lived many Decembers where I felt stretched thin — longing for more of Jesus but unsure how to slow down long enough to meet Him.
Maybe you’ve been there too.

This year, I felt the Lord whisper something simple to my heart:
“Invite them to pause.”
Not perform.
Not perfect.
Not push through.
Just… pause.

Out of that whisper, something new was born — something gentle, simple, and completely doable. Today, I’m thrilled to share it with you.

Introducing the Christmas Quiet Time Kit

This one-page guide was created to help you carve out a peaceful, meaningful moment with Jesus each day in December.
Inside the Kit, you’ll find:

A simple daily rhythm (pause, read, reflect, pray)
A short prayer of peace
A scripture for each day
A gratitude prompt
A small evening check-in
Space to journal your reflections

It’s light.
It’s beautiful.
It’s intentionally crafted for the woman who is carrying a lot this season and just needs a gentle place to breathe.

PLUS: 25 Days of Quiet Time Audio Devotionals

I’ve paired the Kit with something extra special —a full 25-day series of daily Quiet Time Audio Devotionals on my podcast, Permission to Pause.

Every day you’ll receive:
A moment of Scripture
A peaceful devotional thought
A guided pause
A short prayer

Just press play — while you make coffee, wrap gifts, take a walk, or slip away for a moment of quiet.

It’s your companion for a calmer, more Christ-centered Christmas.