P I E C E S

beauty. wisdom. humor.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Mon, 10 May 2010 16:27:40 PDT

RIP Lena Horne.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Sat, 08 May 2010 20:55:12 PDT

hi.

i. wanna. vent.

will you guys listen?

-p

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 07:06:10 PDT

needed a fresh space to write. so i'm tumbling. no widgets, no sidebars. just words. and pictures. i'm not abandoning this playground though, it's my baby. i'm just exploring a new one. see you there.

www.cmxiv.tumblr.com

swoon.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:25:10 PST

the end.

incoherent babble.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 00:14:09 PST

I often wonder about the pain we inflict on each another. How do we justify the things we do? Whether it's the betrayal of cheating or something as deeply painful as ethnic cleansing...how are we able to sanely justify these things? I remember going through something emotionally painful once. The pain was so immense; I was positive that physical pain would be less painful. I even wished there was a way that people who intentionally and neglectfully inflicted emotional pain, were punished like those who physically hurt people. But in real life, physical pain can somewhat be quantified, I don’t think emotional pain can. I think those who hurt people without regard need rehabilitation like those who bruise and batter people.

A friend was going through something emotionally painful recently. She said she wished she could take out her heart and sit it somewhere so it could cool off. It sounds crazy, but I thought the statement was beautiful and made complete sense. Think about it.

There are times when emotional pain is so much; you need a physical way out.

I've accepted some things by remembering, some people do the best with what they know. If you don't know much, your "best" will be lacking - severely. Even if they know better, sometimes the ego interferes with whatever good sense they have left in their possession. The older I get and the more I listen to my intuition, I'm able to identify these people quicker. Sure, some of these things make us stronger. However, I think some of the pains are highly unnecessary, and not everyone can bounce back with a positive attitude. I’ve also learned that sometimes it’s hard to understand certain things people do, especially when your soul wouldn’t allow you to do such things.

in light of recent disaster..

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 11:05:43 PST

please help haiti.

two simple ways. it'll only take a minute.

--> http://www.yele.org/ or text 'YELE' to '501501' and a donation will be made and charged to your cell phone bill.

--> www.state.gov or text 'HAITI' to '90999' a donation of $10 will be given automatically to the Red Cross to help with relief efforts, charged to your cell phone bill.

oxo

someone said..

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 13:10:27 PST

better to do your dharma
horribly, than
someone else's well.

i just don't know exactly who. makes sense though.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 17:54:45 PST

think about it.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 11:20:16 PST

I've realized something.There are some people who feel too much or are extremely sensitive because of a hormonal imbalance. I get it, I do. Like, a pregnant woman who cries with the snap of a finger or a woman with her period who cries about things she wouldn't have cried about a week earlier. Personally speaking, I've done that bullshit and I'm sure a lot of you have too. Absolutely hate it. Then in retrospect you're like "Um, why the fuck was I crying?" But, there are these other kind of people. Those who feel no understanding, compassion, or remorse and are unresponsive to anything or anyone. Could it be said that they have a chemical imbalance as well? I mean, they're totally on the other end of the spectrum. They have a depth-less, almost non-existent capacity to feel emotion. Maybe you could say that these people have a chemical imbalance instead of whatever else excuse is used to describe their emotionless hearts. But then again, who's the judge of what's normal. I guess abnormal is when imbalances start to affect or hurt those without the actual imbalance.

Make sense?

pardon my back.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 18:55:45 PST

i've been spending most of my nights lately curled up in the bed with my laptop, a good book or the book i’m editing. it’s a huge project so it’s taking up a lot of my time. as winter approaches, i usually get very low key anyway, and it tends to affect all areas of my life - favorably, i'd like to think. i kinda like it like that. low activity keeps me balanced and calm at times. i'll pop in every now and then as inspiration strikes. in the meantime, check out ehug mag, we have new writers + tons of new content every week.

Hope you all have a happy holiday.

why..

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 18:29:04 PST

"...did you go natural?" is a question, i've recently encountered if i'm not being complimented, since going natural. i came across this poem by Jackie Joice while cyber-stalking natural hair sites (they've helped immensely) and loved how it listed in a nutshell a few of the reasons i decided to take this journey and experience my REAL hair.. for the first time in about twenty years.

Jackie why did you cut your hair?

I liked it the "other way"

Jackie are you going ill?

Jackie do you belong to a religious cult?

Jackie are you a lesbian?

I cut my hair because

I was tired of

frying

burning

cooking

crimping

chopping

cutting

curling

pulling

stretching

gelling

slicking

relaxing

perming

and spending.

That's why I cut my hair!

-Jackie Joice

hair idols.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 19:20:54 PST

Ayo, Afro-German Singer/Songwriter

Andrea Pippins of Fly

for now.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 10:11:00 PDT

um yeah.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 10:04:37 PDT

slight repost. sometimes people need reminders in the most subtle ways.

bitch.
1: the female of the dog or some other carnivorous mammals

2 a: a lewd or immoral woman b: a malicious, spiteful, or overbearing woman —sometimes used as a generalized term of abuse

3: something that is extremely difficult, objectionable, or unpleasant

4: complaint

I'm changing. The older I get, the more aggressive and assertive I've become in almost every area in my life. Demanding what I want quite frankly without the extra shit. Just because I’m strong minded, becoming a bit brutally honest and more assertive doesn’t make me a bitch. Don't get me wrong, those in my circle use the word loosely, which is cool. But I'm speaking to those who use it with malice. If someone approaches me in a certain manner I will reciprocate in the same manner. I’ll just be more effective at it. My threshold for ignorance and bullshit has decreased (finally), thus, leading to thoughts of me being a bitch. Those who know me, know I'm really not ... I'm actually very nice... in fact, I'm too nice. However, if being a bitch means handling my priorities well and making sure I get what I want deserve…then I guess I'm guilty. I will tolerate nothing but the best for me. Especially if I've earned it.

"When a woman is assertive and adamant about what she wants, she's totally branded a 'bitch,' 'difficult,' 'hard to work with,' or whatever the case may be. You know what? I'll take it. Call me a bitch, call me whatever, it doesn't matter." ~Kelis

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 09:33:19 PDT

essie 2009 winter collection.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 08:49:17 PDT

from right to left: lollipop, rock candy, mint candy apple.

i want mint candy apple on my nails like yesterday.

♥.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 08:45:42 PDT

via we heart it.

comments for 'free will'.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 08:24:51 PDT

i don't usually repost comments left under my blog entries, but after reading these two from my free will post, I felt compelled, as they spoke volumes.

"The only thing we really have is free will. The will to think and do as we
please. The fact is that, that will is governed by experiences, preferences and moral values. That is our gift from God or whomever you believe. The
consequences of those choices and the thought and expectations of those
consequences heavily influence our free will. Integrity is what is lacking
now-a-days. The ability to maintain your moral values in the face of adversity. What is the sense of having or exercising free will with no integrity? Once you have to exercise free will with integrity you stand a true test. I think you are doing pretty frikkin well though lol."

and...

"Free will is also controlled by fear and motivation. You have the will
to change whatever it is that you want to; your actions, your situation etc. But are u afraid of the outcome or consequences that change will bring about? You don't know what the outcome will be. You rather remain in the comfort of the "known" than slip into the unknown. Why would you be motivated to exercise free will if you don't know whether your actions will affect your life positively or negatively? So you continue to live the same way even though you might want to change some things about your life. You might not like some of the things that you do but at least you know what the consequences of your actions are because you have dealt with them before. I believe that free will exist in every situation. It is a wonderful gift that allows us to succeed and fail so that we may learn and progress."

Good Stuff.

untitled: two.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 11:50:05 PDT

we spoke again. i love being there for people i care about. i think she's at a point in her life where she's past the whole open relationship/dating phase. growing up, i was always taught not to settle. why is she settling for something that is not in her best interest? nor does it fit her lifestyle right now. i don't know what else to tell her. i mean, i can only give but so much advice. i remember us being young and into whatever dude fit our mood for that moment but we’ve definitely outgrown that.

…and the truth if she isn't comfortable with some of the things that occur and monogamy has become a little more attractive to her, she should let him know, or pursue it.

life is inevitably predetermined.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 10:04:13 PDT

"My whole life has been decided by fate. I think something more powerful than we are decides our fates for us. I know one thing - I've never planned anything that ever happened to me." - Sharon Tate

untitled.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 11:49:53 PDT

i spoke to her last week and it seems as if she really wants to execute this method she heard about, to see if it will work and help her. supposedly studies show that if you practice something for twenty-one days consecutively, it'll become a habit. personally, i think it will benefit her. she's so close, yet so far. they should try getting to know each other again. as long as she maintains this new mental outlook, she'll be fine. i believe in her.

unfortunately, they're more alike, than they are different. the only difference is that he's the epitome of a realist, which in essence works out great because she's not. someone needs to be in tune with reality.

time in a bottle.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:39:19 PDT

last night while looking for something in my closet, i came across an old diary. a diary i held between 1995 and 1998. as i rummaged through the pages, several emotions invaded my cloudless mind.

i laughed. a lot.

at the same time, i was confused. sad. amazed. responsive.

capturing time in a bottle would be so sweet.

emotional dependence kills.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 17:31:43 PDT

waiting to exhale. ever thought about the characters in that movie? notice how they were all holding on to past hurts and disruptive men because they kept the faith that eventually these men would come around; just to sadly realize that you cannot change a man and you can't sit around in a relationship that you're unhappy with in hopes of him coming around. ever notice that some women are financially independent and can hold their own in the corporate world or anywhere else for that matter, but for some unfathomable reason, they’re emotionally dependent on men?

...being independent doesn’t mean you don’t hurt & cry when a man leaves, it only means that IF a man were to leave; you’d STILL know how to look up and pick up the pieces.

illusions.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 23:14:27 PDT

a woman's intuition never lies but when your self-esteem isn’t where it needs to be, it can be very deceitful by creating fictional feelings.

facade extraordinaire.

noreply@blogger.com (Peggy M.) — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 10:32:27 PDT

smoke and mirrors: a metaphor for a deceptive, fraudulent or insubstantial explanation or description.

everyone has a smoke and mirror act(s) in their life. i don't give a shit how many times you've said you got rid of all the fake people in your life, some are still present. it's unfortunate, but some people do possess this talent, similar to a magicians' illusions. i like to call it facade extraordinaire. they make a personality appear, then disappear.

don't be fooled.