Personal_development

2 ways to be successful

2020-05-19T13:37:00.000-07:00

2 steps to be successful

STEP 1 of becoming successful

Every day, read some positive, uplifting literature. Find 15-30 minutes in the morning to do this—and it's also a good idea to do some reading right before bed. There are literally thousands of motivational books and articles to choose from. Read whatever speaks to you—it could be any holy book or other spiritual material, or perhaps inspiring biographies. You’ll find a wide selection of success books in the Psychology and Self-Improvement section of any bookstore library—so check them out

STEP 2 of becoming successful
. Every day, listen to motivational cassette tapes. You can listen to audio tapes in your car while commuting, at home, or during your exercise routine. The key repetition. When you hear these messages over and over they become part of you—and you begin to implement them to improve your life. The tapes will get you thinking about your attitude and other success principles on a daily basis. Of course, cassette tapes are not a substitute for ACTION. It’s up to you to put these ideas to work!

So, if you read something positive and listen to motivational cassette tape every day, it will make a phenomenal difference in your life. I can tell you from personal experience that these techniques work if you have the disciplined with them.

Personality development tips for everyone.

2020-05-18T13:09:00.000-07:00

Personality development tips for everyone.

1. Don't Compare Yourself to Others
This is the biggest mistake that spoils your personality. When you compare yourself to others your confidence goes down and you feel bad about yourself. You should know that you are unique in yourself.

2. Be kind to yourself
We’ve been given only one body and one mind. We can’t replace our mind and body like a set of dead batteries. We can’t order a new body or new mind when the old one wears out or becomes defective. We must nurture the mind and body we have – we won’t be getting replacements. This alone justifies self-kindness. If we fail to experience kindness for long periods of time, we will pay a high price for its absence. We cannot always count on kindness from others. But we can always count on self-kindness. We just need to make it a priority. Some will argue this is just a veiled form of narcissism. Or disguised self-absorption. Or self-centeredness. It is not. These are examples of self-kindness out of balance. Our lives don’t revolve around self-kindness. Though self-kindness should be an important part of them.Just as we eat to live… we don’t live to eat. Just as we sleep to live… we don’t live to sleep. The key is finding a balance. Self-kindness is an important part of healthy living that should be incorporated into the rhythm of life.

3. Give space to imperfection
People and situations always do not fit in your frame of perfection. Often, that makes one agitated and angry, eventually diminishing the strength of their personality. So, find your peace amidst the world’s flaws even as you strive to make a change.
“Acceptance of a little bit of imperfection on the periphery allows you to be more patient and calm. At least then, you can maintain your inner perfection.” - Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

4. Be spontaneous
Spontaneity makes one be fun around. However, do not confuse being spontaneous with being impulsive. Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar says, that while the former is the key to success, the latter can causes disasters. So, how do you be truly spontaneous? By being cent percent aware in the present moment.

5. Be light in mind and heart
Don’t overthink and overanalyze. Neither let any negativity like shame, anger, jealousy or greed stay in your consciousness for too long. Instead, learn to take it easy; forgive easily and drop grudges against people as soon as they pop up. Being light in mind and heart makes you truly happy from within. And who does not like happy people?

6. Stay enthusiastic
Enthusiasm is infectious and appealing. That is why everyone loves kids. Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar says, that despite adverse situations in life, one must never give up their enthusiasm. Here is Gurudev’s secret of staying enthusiastic.

7. Be a better communicator
A couplet in Kannada says that words can create laughter and can also create enmity. A skillful communicator can win over people and adverse situations. So, bring clarity in your communication. Learn how you can be an excellent communicator with these tips from Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar.

8. Be warm and approachable
We all like people with whom we can easily mingle and talk to. No one likes a person who responds with a straight face. So, learn to be warm. Flash that smile more often. Be friendly and be ready to share and help.

9. Do things with style
Doing things with style adds zing to your personality. The secret to doing things with style lies in working with passion and a relaxed mind. So, while you work at something, don’t let anything distract you from putting all your energy into it. At the same time, stay relaxed.

10.Learn to let go
After you’re done with a task, let go of your attachment with the result. When you let go, you become free, calm, and relaxed - attributes of a strong personality.

Best tips to improve english skills.

2020-05-17T14:28:00.001-07:00

Willing to learn English

Here are some of the Best and effective tips to improve your English skills.

1. Think in English - Whatever you do in your daily routine from waking up to going to bed, whatever you see, whatever you speak just do all that by thinking in English. It will help you to make a connection in your subconscious mind to speak about everything whatever you see. When you think about that thing just speak that thing loud . for example you see people are playing in the park:- The moment you see them playing you have to think in your mind in English and speak what they are doing in English. You can even speak to yourself even if no one is there. This will make your habit and you soon will be able to understand and speak in English.

2. Reading English books - It is a very simple tip, you just have to take any English book that you like and start reading that. If you don't like reading you don't have to read for an hour. You just have to spend 15 minutes on daily reading. For reading, you can pick novels, Biographies, Stories, Fantasy as well as Comics. As soon as you will make it a habit you will be able to understand the structure of the English language.

3. Listen English Musics - You can make your journey to learn English more entertaining with the help of music. In order to learn English, you can listen to English music and try to understand what the song is saying and what are their lyrics, if you still don't understand you can search the lyrics for that particular song on google. Why worry if google is free? Listening English songs helps you in various ways you can get to know the accent of an Engish language, it will make you aware of English words and phrases.

4. Watch English Movies - This tip is for those who love to watch movies. It is true that watching English movies can improve your English fluency. Here movies with subtitles are super important for the Beginners. When you watch movies with subtitle you can get everything in your mind and when you don't understand any word or any phrase then google is there for you. I recommend everyone to watch every single English movie with the subtitles.

5. Phrases - It is a very common, great, and easy tip to improve your English. The phrase is a good way to speak our English more confidently and fluently. These are used in sounds like a native speaker.

Some of the English Phrases are -
1. Thank you so much - This is for thanks, someone
2. Excuse me - When you have to go forward and someone blocks your way.
3. I am sorry - When you apologize.
4. That sounds great - If you like an Idea
5. Pardon - To request someone to repeat

6. Make your conversation partner - You can get help with your friends, family or any professor to communicate in English with you. If you don't have one there is no problem. You can hire one as a tutor or you can join any English academy for speaking. It will help you in increasing your English communication. If once it becomes your habit then no one can stop you to learn English.

How to get Success in life?

2020-05-15T12:27:00.000-07:00

How to get Success in life?

Here I am going to talk to you about how you can be a successful person in your life. Is there anyone in the world who does not like being a successful person. I suppose no one is there in the world who does not like the taste of success.

So let me tell you how you can become a successful person by acquiring the habits of successful people.
Are you guys ready! Hope you are.....

We will observe the stories of the successful people that what they do, how they and what are the habits they have implemented to become a successful person.

Habits of successful people

Take Responsibility - Whatever the work they do for whomsoever they work for they take responsibility. Whether they have done wrong or right they always think that whatever they do they have to responsible for it. So that is the reason why successful people tell to take responsibility. Remember if you don't take responsibilities then you are not going to be successful. Therefore learn to take responsibility.

They have Goals - A person who is going to succeed knows what he actually wants in life. They know their goals. They just focus on their goal and try hard to achieve them. They find something that motivates them to achieve their goals and even I can say that they are self-motivated. So these things help them to be successful people.

They Read Books alot - when you read or hear any success stories you will get to know that successful people read alot. They develop their mind when they read and they also change the way they see the world through reading because reading gives you just a different pattern. You can relate most of the things when you read books.

SO these were some of the good points that you can acquire to become a successful person in your life. As many of them have already implemented these points and got success in their ways.

Success - Build a Positive Personality

2020-05-13T08:30:00.001-07:00

Positive Personality

Step to be taken to build a positive personality are

1. Accept Responsibility
When people accept additional responsibility they are actually giving themselves a promotion.
Responsible behavior is to accept accountability. That represents maturity. Acceptance of responsibility is a reflection of our attitude and h environment we operate in. Most people are quick to take credit for what goes right but very few would readily accept responsibility when things go wrong. A person who does not accept responsibility is not absolved from being responsible. Your objective is to cultivate responsible behavior.

2. Show Consideration
A ten-year-old boy went to an ice cream shop, sat at a table and asked the waitress, "How much is an ice-cream cone?" she said, "seventy-five cents." The boy started counting the coins he had in his hand. Then he asked how much a small cup of ice cream was. The waitress impatiently replied, "Sixty-five cents." The boy said, "I will have the small ice cream cup." The boy ate his ice cream, paid the bill, and left. When the waitress came to pick up the empty plate, She was touched. Underneath were ten one-cent coins left as the tip. The young boy had consideration for the waitress before he ordered his ice cream. He showed sensitivity and caring. He thought of others before himself.

If we all thought as the little boy, we would have a great place to live. Show consideration, courtesy, and politeness. Thoughtfulness shows a caring attitude.

3. Think Win-Win
A man died and St peter asked him if he would like to go to heaven or hell. The man asked if he could see both before deciding. St Peter took him to hell first. There the man saw a big hall containing a big table, laden with many kinds of food. He also saw rows of people with pale, sad faces. They looked starved and there was no laughter. And he observed one more thing: Their hands were tied to four-foot-long forks and knives and they were trying to get the food from the center of the table to put into their mouths. But they couldn't.
Then, St peter took him to see heaven. There he saw a big hall with a long table, with lots of food. He noticed rows of people on both sides of the table with their hands tied to four-foot-forks and knives also. But here people were laughing and were well-fed and healthy-looking. The people realizing that they could not feed themselves with four feet fork were feeding one another across the table. The result was happiness, enjoyment, and gratification because they were not thinking of themselves alone; they were thinking win-win. The same is true of our lives. When we serve our customers, our families, our employers, and employees, we automatically win.

Success - Look for the positive

2020-05-13T07:40:00.001-07:00

Success - Look for the positive

Sure, you’ll have your share of problems and adversities in life. I’m not suggesting that when tragedy strikes you deny your emotions or refuse to face reality. What I am saying is don’t immediately judge your situation as a tragedy and dwell on how bad off you are. Sometimes you won’t be able to instantly spot the benefit that will come from being in your situation... but it does exist. You always have a choice. You can view your problems as negative and becomes gloomy and depressed about them. Let me assure you this approach will only make things worse. Or, you can see every seemingly negative experience in your life as an opportunity... as something you can learn from... like something you can grow from. Believe it or not, your problems are there to serve you — not to destroy you! So, the next time you suffer a problem or setback in your life, don’t get discouraged or give up. Don’t let problems cloud your attitude window forever. Clear off that cloudy window. You may find after the dust settles, that you can actually see better than you did before! Just remember the words of Napoleon Hill: “Every adversity carries with it the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit.” Continually ask yourself what you’ve learned from your trying experience and focus on moving forward and growing as a person. In times of crisis, always strive to maintain an optimistic attitude and an open mind — for this is the environment that will allow you to find the benefit in your difficulty.

Don't Quit -- Poetry

2020-05-12T12:55:00.000-07:00

DON'T QUIT

When things go wrong

As they sometimes will

when the road you're trudging seems all uphill,

when the funds are low and the debts are high,

And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,

When care is pressing you down a bit -- Rest if you

must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,

As every one of us sometimes learns,

And many a failure turns about When he might have

won had he stuck it out.

Don't give up though the pace seems slow -- You may

succeed with another blow.

Success is failure turned inside out -- The silver tints of

the clouds of doubt,

And you never can tell how close you are,

It may be near when it seems so far;

So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit It's when

things seem worst that you must not quit.

ANONYMOUS

First Step Towards Success( Desire)

2020-05-12T10:54:00.001-07:00

DESIRE( FIRST STEP TOWARD SUCCESS)

The motivation to succeed comes from the burning desire to achieve a purpose. Napolean Hill wrote, "Whatever the mind of a man can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve."

A young man asked Socrates the secret to success. Socrates told the young man to meet him near the river the next morning. They met and Socrates asked the young man to walk with him toward the river. When the water got up to their necks, Socrates took a young man by surprise and pushed him under the water. The boy struggled to get out but Socrates kept him there. When the boy started turning blue, Socrates raised the boy's head out of ht water. The first thing boy did was to take a deep breath of air. Socrates asked, "What did you want the most when you were underwater?" The boy replied, "Air." Socrates said, "That is a secret to success. When you want success as badly as you wanted air underwater, you will have it." There is no other secret. This is called burning desire. In the business community, we call it to fire in the belly. In the sports community, we call it the killer instinct.

A burning desire is the only beginning point of all the achievements. Just like a small fire cannot give much heat, a weak desire cannot produce great results.

Powerful Motivational Quotes for Success.

2020-05-12T06:25:00.005-07:00

Motivational Powerful Quotes

When we feel demotivated we feel that we are not going to make it. When we feel depressed about our work we feel that everything has finished. Whenever any worst situation happens in our life we just start to react to this situation negatively. It is correct to react to the situation but it is not correct to hold that unexpected situation for a long time.

To overcome every worst situation or to achieve our goal we need a purpose we need motivation, So for motivation Quotes can be very helpful. With the help of quotes, you can push yourself a little bit again and again to reach your goal your perspective.

There are Some of the beautiful and valuable quotes and thoughts that can surely help you.

Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible and suddenly you are doing the impossible. By - St. Francis of Assisi
You may be disappointed if you fail, but you will ve doomed if you don't try. By - Beverly Sills
When I'd get tired and want to stop, I'd wonder what my next opponent was doing. When I could see him still working, I'd start pushing myself. When I could see him in the shower, I'd push myself harder. By - Dan Gable, Olympic gold medalist in wrestling
Try to become a success, but rather try to become a man of value. By - Albert Einstien
Life is like a ten-speed bicycle. Most of us have gears we never use. By - Charles Schultz
Great minds have purposes, others have wishes. By - Washington Irving
Success is 99 percent failure. By - Soichiro Honda (founder of Honda Motor Corporation )
Associate yourself with people of good quality if you esteem your reputation, for it is better to ve alone than to be in bad company. By - George Washington
Patience creates confidence, decisiveness, and a rational outlook, which eventually leads to success. By - Brian Adams
Nothing great is ever achieved without enthusiasm. By - Ralph Waldo Emmerson

A Defination Of Attitude

2020-05-11T08:22:00.002-07:00

A Definition of Attitude

Think of your attitude as the metal filter through which you experience the world. Some people see the world through the filter of optimism(the glass being half full) while others see life through the filter of pessimism (the glass being half empty). Let me give you some examples to explain the difference between a positive attitude and a negative attitude.

The person with the negative attitude thinks " I CAN'T ".
The person with the positive attitude thinks " I CAN."
The person with the negative attitude dwells on problems.
The person with the positive attitude concentrates on solutions.
The person with the negative attitude finds fault with others.
The person with the positive attitude seeks for the goods in others.
The person with the negative attitude focuses on what's missing.
The person with the positive attitude counts his or her blessings.
The person with the negative attitude sees limitation.
The person with the positive attitude sees possibilities.

I could go on and on with the examples, but I'm sure you get the idea. When I talk about attitude, I often like to use word Pictures. They help people to understand and yeah! one more thing you have to remember.

YOUR ATTITUDE IS YOUR WINDOW TO THE WORLD

How to talk to people attractively

2020-05-10T13:59:00.000-07:00

Communicate to people attractively

Communicating with people in a very attractive manner and effectively has never been impossible but yeah it has been challenging since people have learned the art of communication. In Communication, people say a lot about them and hear a lot about others but still, they lack something while having a conversation that makes conversation boredom. They lack many of the principles, fundamentals, and tips.

So here are some of the principles, fundamentals, and tips of how you can communicate to the people attractively.

1. Stay Confident - This is one of the most important principles while having a conversation. When you talk to someone with positive confidence at that moment you leave a good impact on that person.

Your talk sounds good to them and they feel comfortable talking to you. Just through your confidence, you can leave your good impression.

2. Focus on what you are speaking - You surely may have heard about "Think before you speak". Here what you just need to do is to follow this quote. You should clearly know that what you have to deliver to the people. There are lots of people whom I have seen they are talking and people who are listening they don't get what the person is talking about. Make Your talk simple and try to make it clear. So people can easily catch what you are talking about or saying.

3. Body language - Your body language is the key to your conversation. If you communicate with the good body language your conversation will be obviously good and vice-versa. It shows your visibility to others, your presence to others.That make you feel good and others too. If you don't have then develop one. In the body language there are somethings that you should do and you should not.

Things that you should do
1. Always make a good eye contact while communicating.
2. Shaking hands gently.
3. Be a good listener.
4. Have Patience to when anyone speaks.
5. Make a person feel comfortable.

Things that you should not do
1. Don't overreact.
2. Don't interrupt.
3. Don't exaggerate yourself in conversation.
4. Don't see here and there while having a conversation.
5. Don't feel shy and unconfident.

4. Patience - We all know that patience is needed in everything we do. So It becomes obvious to having a patience in having a good communication. A person can communicate easily once he/she has the patience to listen other. Until and Unless you don't listen to others patiently you won't know what to reply.
Speaker can give his point of views easily once he has patience to listen.