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Between IQ and EQ

2009-01-18T11:26:00.000-08:00

Between IQ and EQ

A survey in the U.S. in 1918 to find the IQ "paradox" that harm: how the IQ scores of children the higher, but their emotional intelligences are down. And data on the results of the survey in 1970 and 1980 against the parents and teachers showed that the generation of children is now more often emotional problems than earlier generations. They grow in the solitude and depression, it's easy to anger, difficult set up, tend to be anxious and aggressive.

The survey continued with the research of hundreds of thousands of workers from the bottom to the top level. This survey found a core of personal and social capabilities the same, which become the key success of the work and the ingenuity emotional life.

Robert K Cooper PhD said: "What they leave behind and forget the aspect is called as the heart." This is from the Yale psychologist, Robert Stenberg-Succeessful of experts in the field of Intelligence, which says: "When the IQ in power, this is because we let it do so. And when we allow the power, we have chosen a bad ruler."

Robert Stenberg also revealed: "One of the most dangerous attitude that has kept by modern workplace culture at this time is that we may not, in any situation, believe voice of our hearts. We raised doubts to themselves, not to hear confirmation of intuition and search outside ourselves for things we do. We arranged to suppose that other people know more than we can tell the truth and sincere with more clearly than we can know yourself. "

So, any posts snippets from the above, we can look in the mirror. Are we still will make IQ as "everything" for us? IQ is important for us, but EQ is also no less important role in our lives. Let's all appreciate the potential of this divine, as the form and sign our gratitude to Him.

Three Great Potentials in Ourself

2009-01-17T11:23:00.000-08:00

Three Great Potentials in Ourself

In ourself there are three great potentials. Three great potential in this ourselves, is the largest gift from The God, for themselves personally and also for the world. Indeed fortunate that he who realized the potential for this third, and continue to strive to maximize the possible according to what the potential of this three-awarded to us. Instead, we should be sympathetic to someone that have not yet realized the potential of these three, and also to which he is still "asleep" and has not moved to optimize accordingly the better.

Then, what the three great potential in ourselves, are?

Three great potential within us is the IQ, EQ and SQ.

IQ, Intellectual Intelligence. Resourceful mind become difference aspect of us humans, with the creation of His being the other. For me, intellectual acumen not only related to the high value that we get from the IQ test we did, but more intelligent and how to optimally utilize our intellect in our minds for life.

EQ, Emotional Intelligence. Emotional Intelligence is the ability to emotionally feel, things that are associated closely with our feelings. Mental attitude, self-confidence, motivation, adaptability, empathy, sympathy, are some examples of emotional intelligences.

SQ, Spiritual Intelligence. Spiritual Intelligence is a spiritual place for the ingenuity of thought, behavior and activities of our meaning in the context of a broader, more rich, more valuable, with based spiritual meaning.

The Question. According to you, the potential of the three above, which are the most important and we must closely with folded arms in our lives?

Do not Always Take Cash - Be An Extraordinary People

2009-01-16T11:15:00.000-08:00

Do not Always Take Cash - Be An Extraordinary People

Each of us is a unique figure of the same shape and different. Namun adakalanya, pengetahuan, pengalaman, benturan realita, mengaburkan semua unikalitas yang kita miliki itu. But sometimes, the knowledge, experience, reality, obscured all uniques we have it.

We hold ourselves safe zone, with the shelter on "what the word", "how many people do and think." We throw ourselves in the flow without the opportunity to think big, which we want to go, what the goal that we want to achieve.

Do not Always Take Cash - Be An Extraordinary People.

Sometime we took great flow, but still need to hold to the principles "to which the goal when we go." We take advantage of the large flow, with still keep our own. With the dream and still maintain the ideals of us. When we follow the flow, we utilized as a driving force to achieve our dreams and our ideals.

Knowledge that we get the same so, but it does not stop just pure knowledge. He let a potential stepping stone and we dare to think and experience the world differently.

The ability to feel or think differently is more important than the knowledge gained.
David Bohm (U.S. physics and philosopher, 1917-1992).

Recognizing the signs of depression

2008-12-21T15:08:00.000-08:00

Many living things trigger the occurrence of depression. Economic and financial crisis, both the level of family and country. Feeling secure that lost outside the home, work deadlines, which continue to accumulate and not handled, can also trigger the occurrence of depression. Recognizing the signs of depression, become important done.

Depression is a difficult phase in the life of someone. However, depression can be treated. Contact with the doctor / psychiatrist, so depression can be treated. The therapy is carried out through counseling. Sometimes, doctors will make medication to reduce depression. If you follow the treatment and care properly, this will also help to eliminate depression.

To prevent depression is urgent, need to know a few things that you bookmark the middle to depression.
Do you find it difficult to concentrate on your job? Are you experiencing sleep disruption? Are you worried that excessive? You have to be ill-tempered? Do you have emotions that drastic changes without a specific reason, such as feeling pessimistic, hopelessness or helplessness that critical?

A person can be diagnosed with depression, if four or more of the above symptoms have been present in a period of two weeks or more. Not all people will have the same symptoms so it is important to remain vigilant and to look for signs of depression symptoms. Remember, only a doctor or psychiatrist can diagnose depression.

Laughter Makes Up The Truly Finest Medicine

2008-12-08T15:19:00.000-08:00

Whenever in that respect one and only thing I have to admit about my mother is that she was always correct about this: Laughter makes up The finest Medicine.

If you can not laugh about yourself and the matters that happen to you - you're pointed for a heart attack or some other sickness, it's the way the body works. Laughter lightens up the moment and strips away the serious-mindedness that many of us set about life with; it releases the annoyance and chases away your personalized rainstorms getting out a colourful shining day.

Scientists have likewise attained that laughter strengthens your resistant system and increments your cardiovascular flexibility (your blood vessels exercise through with dilation).

Laughter besides supplies a catharsis, which means to make pure or purge, to the emotions. It also effects a spiritual renewal or acquittance from tension. You acknowledge how sometimes you'll see a comedian on television, and while he may not be that funny, something merely makes you laugh uproariously? Your body looks to know that it demands the chemicals that are brought out through laughter.

I've always felt better after a good enough belly laugh or two. For me that means a few very large-sounding snorts and a couple of donkey brays thrown into the bargain. Some people won't even out go to the movie with me because when I beginning laughing I cannot stop. My daughters always used to go, Mom! While they slunk belt down into their seats adjudicating not to be seen.

The departure between Laughter, Humor, Annoying and Tickling

However, there is a difference between laughter, humor, teasing or tickling. Humor is your formula of considering the world, it's an intellectual exercise. It's your idea of what's funny; it's not the genuine behave of laughing.

Teasing and tickling are really a manner of ridiculing somebody. Tickling is something beyond someone's control and is actually a physical invasion of sorts. Children laugh when you tickle them because the personify works that way, but it's actually a form of emotional ridicule that can result in very embarrassing feelings.

Teasing commonly has an edge to it. People say they're teasing, but essentially they are dead serious. I think teasing is a passive-aggressive way of hurting someone through the guise of humor. Teasing, according to Dr. Goodheart, "involves our having information about something that another person has very strong feelings about - usually painful feelings - and then bringing that information up without permission." She also says that as people become very good friends they might give each other permission unconsciously to push each other's buttons. Husbands, wives, lovers, and friends play with each other's pain with permission. "When you tease without permission in order to trigger laughter, it's very manipulative and controlling."

All in all, when you're feeling down and need a get up, try laughter. It may be hard at first, but just try laughing. Force yourself. Pretty soon, you'll find yourself laughing at your own laughter and the looks you get from your family members. They'll begin to wonder what's so funny and the corners of their mouths will crinkle up in the beginning of a smile. Now you're laughing because they give you these quizzical looks wondering what you're laughing about.

Pretty soon, your laugh is realistic, your belly aches, the tears flow from your eyes, and the world takes on a different hue.

As for me when I laugh like this, I need Depends. I laugh so hard sometimes I wet my pants and that has nothing to do with my age.

I can still hear my friend's mom yelling at me today nearly 38 years later (while grinning ear to ear) to get off her brocade couch whenever I started laughing.

She recognized what would happen.

Measuring the Knowledge

2008-12-04T12:55:00.000-08:00

Almost all the process to "be" in our life, selected and use the appropriate tool. Go to a place, we need tools, we know that the term means of transportation. To cook food, we need tools (for) cooking. For a better life and the quality, we need equipment / facilities to materialize. One is knowledge.

Knowledge becomes a means for us to realize the quality of life. With the knowledge, expected life of the so more effective. Through knowledge, insight is expected to escalate so we have more understanding about the areas that will be in the correct direction.

However, having the same knowledge does not necessarily bear the same attitude to life.

Often we see, two people with knowledge of the rate of (academic) the same, but have the different attitude to live with all the problems. Then, it seems that what distinguishes it all.

The ability to feel or think differently is more important than knowledge acquired. (David Bohm (physics, philosopher and the U.S., 1917 - 1992)

Yes, readiness to feel or think differently, that distinguish between one to the other. Knowledge can be the same, but the ability to think and feel different, that makes a difference.

Understanding that there is a difference between knowing the real sense (experience), we can make the starting point and measuring tool for us to Measuring the knowledge.

Beauty of Failure

2008-11-26T15:11:00.000-08:00

I'm including one with the allergy of a failure. Failure to realize the expectations. Failed in mourning. Failed to reach the best performance. Failed in the job. Failed in the fight against feelings of fear before the failed step. And the failure of all forms of life in the other. However, with little change of the perspective of failure meaning, and put our mindset in accordance the right portion, then we can feel the beauty of failure. How might this happen?

This is the real story of my own nature.

I want to try my fortune in the field of paid reviews. After signing up many times, always a failure that I get. Last time I signed up to payingperpost, and e-mail answer below that I get:

No, honestly, I will try to return to the count of five to forty time. If the experiment to fifty time that I have not been successful, this is a signal that I need to find another way of fortune from the world of the Internet.

Then, the real story of what I feel is the beauty of failure?

Reason cliche. That failure is success that is pending. Although the sounds cliche, a statement that failure is success, which still has pending a major influence to motivate them to rise again from the decline in sentiment failed.

Knowing what causes the failure. From e-mail I receive, it is known that the cause of the failure is the number of Alexa, which is not eligible. By knowing the causes of this failure, so I To learn how the failure occurred. And for me, this is a valuable lesson and not wasted.
The idea is, I became Since we had to learn from the experience of failure.

Recognizing the process. I realized by the condition, that all things need process to reach for. Before a flower blooms, of course, he passes the process of flower bud first. And in the dynamics of the process, there was a strong interaction between the travel time, effort, self-potential, focus on power, love and fate factors.
Focus on the goal and enjoy the journey can be a unique combination of mutually beneficial in our efforts to realize the ideals.

Three things above are a frame in my contemplate failure, so I find how beautifully the meaning of failure. There may have related tips on how to demeanor a failure?

Suspending Our Ideal On The Sky

2008-11-25T16:00:00.000-08:00

Post time is the third part of the trilogy of adjour our ideal on the sky. Realizing that the discussion about the aspiration is not as simple as a visible and easy for the count, then deliberately posting on the ideals I do not write in just one posting. The goal is to split the theme of the three posts are just simple; to facilitate comrade in understanding it (cut time), fortunately, a little gratitude from this is that imprint in the minds of us all.

In two previous posts, there are two things that should be recognized related ideals. That is courage (determination) to build the ideal outcomes, and what you want to achieve from the ideals it.

Then, approximately what the road with the aspiration that we will be reached for. According to me there are some tways that we can make it as a pillar bolster for the ideals:

Find the right vision-related aspiration. Make us a futuristic human, which has the power to understand and see to the future. With vision, process to realize ideals remain intact and continue to apply. If we tiring of the process of achieving ideals, with a hold on this vision, will always create the motivation that we generate for the return process.

Find the right knowledge. The science work life easier for humans. With the knowledge, we helped best to realize a higher quality of life. And generally, there is correlation between a combination of the right ideals with the knowledge that supporting ideals built. For example, my dreams of becoming a manufacturer of high-quality soybean milk, of course, I will seek knowledge related to all the details have not yet come. From the selection of materials science, to determine the composition of the mixture of soyabean and others, a method or way of processing, packaging, how to put a good product. And we need to realize that knowledge is not the ivory tower and only meeting behind the locked door of the class / campus only. Knowledge is liquid and charming. He who is attending the creation and who always expect the meeting.

Find the right path. Find the right track. Here we can point meaning as a method, way, the process, the groove, orbit, pattern, systematics, dynamics. All that is humane efforts made to achieve the ideal. It should be recognized is that the point of the / selected this dynamic, flexible, subjective, in accordance with the potential of each of us, and are directly related to the dimensions of space and time. The path sometimes twisted, sometimes directly to the target aspiration. Related to this, the important principles that we must be held is the focus on goals / ideals.

Find the right experience. Learning from experience is one key to realizing our dreams. And he was going to be for us in pursuing our dreams. Why? Because our life is too short if we only rely on learning from the experience itself. The experience of other people, is the fruit of the learning process of the man. And in principle, the fruit of this experience can be quoted by anyone who wants to pick it up, for the owner willingly share the fruit. Living our policy to see the jelly, which are sweet and fruit should be, and where the fruit of the experience need not be feasible because we do not take.
Study to the experts, while we build for themselves the potential to become self.

Find the right time. To this point, I view it as a double meaning. First, set the target time achievement ideals, so that all what we do in reaching ideals we can measure with the good. Second, determine the appropriate starting point for our journey to reach the ideals. Then, how to get started? For this last case, I am inspired by the principle of 3 AA Gym: Start from yourself, start from this small, and start now!
See to a majestic walls of China , is originally a small brick compound and then mutually reinforce each other?

After that, what?
This important question we ask our self, when the ideals that we create has been reached.

You may want to aspire to become civil servants. And the ideals it is realized. Next, if your ideals are only want to become civil servants only. I hope not. Because there is a need sustainability of the ideals of your back. From aspire to become civil servants, then you can continue to aspire to become civil servants with high performance, have a optimal moral, with awareness and responsibility over the trust given to you, with the upright spirit to serve each other, in accordance with in which you placed.

And the question then, what? presumably apply to all the ideals that we create since, and we successfully achieve. Remember to this question, and feel how dynamic we live.

Congratulations trying to reach the aspiration of your life!

Adjourn Your Ideal on Sky

2008-11-21T15:40:00.000-08:00

Why do aspiration we need to be hanging on sky? No other outcome is related to the realization of the ideals themselves. The sky is the hyperbola, an expression that can force us to mobilize all the skills and potential in reaching the ideals that we had hanging in the sky. And if the ideals in the sky is not reached, at least, the business that we do not establish a direct us to realize the ideals of the high 'only' a mountain, we realized without. Ideals in the sky is not reached, indeed, but at least we have been able to realize the ideals of a mountain. If this reached by us, the achievement of the ideals in the sky, waiting time to live.

Illustration simplest as follows.

You are a salesman. One time, you install a sales target of 100 products for this month. Then, you will be the focus for achieving the target was a 100. And automatically you will be the potential ability to adjust your target with the tide yesterday. Naturally, you will be motivated to seek ways to build a strategy, plan, build knowledge-related knowledge and effective marketing targeted. Unconsciously, all this process you stretch it. Until the end of the month, you evaluate the achievement of the targets you set at the beginning of last month.

Can be, reach your target does not fully achieved. Maybe only 50 or 65 sales transactions that you achieve successfully, from your target was a 100, this month. Imagine vice versa, since the original if you only specify the target for 10 sales in the month. Of course, the results will reach fewer again, is not it?

You need not lose heart with the case. Because the process was after all, you are actually prepared to determine and achieve the target of much larger.

Term sales target as illustrated above, I mean as other forms of ideals. We are free to determine what form of the ideals of our life. As in the previous note, that if the first aspiration is more to the word or its meaning profession / certain types of employment, the current ideals of its expectation that want to realize, the idea / ideas that you want to manifestated in the act. Values servant noble decorate the face and return to earth.

So, if you bent with a ideals, do not hesitate to hang up your ideals on sky.

Suspend Your Ideal On The Sky

2008-11-16T09:44:00.000-08:00

" Suspend your idea on the sky," I’ve heard this sentence first when I’m in elementary school. So is tolerably long time ago. Only then, to conform to the ideal sky, no further explanation of the meaning of this sentence. This is because of the age we are still children, so that the teachers feel no need to explain it to us so? However, that certainly, this sentence appear back in my mind of late. And I aware to forget it, in my growing increasingly of my age and remote from daring to aspire to and then reach the ideal? My mind lack with the such a fear or the courage to set the ideal outcome may be gone, influenced by life experience, knowledge and time? What is the reason for the show, I realized that, in the end it all die back to myself.

If the first aspiration is more on its word, and focused on the professional or certain types of work, after the adult according to my opinion, ideals means its expectation that want to formed. The idea that you want to manifest in the act. The values of the sky quest to the way to return.

Ideals, any place forms, eventually becoming correlation, combination and interaction between two things: what you want to translate the form of what manifestation. And in fact, there are third thing that we can not ignore it, namely the factors of destiny.

You have your ideals? If not, then I suggest, possession it. Seize it grapple as you grip the middle ear of rice famine in the season, that you will be cooking meals for children. Hold that ideals, like folded arms full of love your, that you have waited many years. Guard ideals of the utmost love and love, then The God, all that exists across the heavens and the earth will pray for you, bright your way when you are in the process to reach it.

If you have dreams, and feels steep and uphill road to achieve it, so be patient. Be patient. If you have a thousand steps past, and yet seem ideals you will form, so be patient. Who will know, if your step out in the 1001, the ideals reached.

Related to the ideals and struggle to achieve it, there are two conditions that can be natural: despairing of the road and fled to the caves to be superseded loser. Or do all the way, although the road be further from the truth. But it is only two conditions that must be our natural? Of course not!

The third condition that we can do is be patient with a fixed, immediately rose from the brand, while continuing search for the right way, good and true way, to realize what we all desire.

If we are talking about ideals, then it seems I only want to add a clause in the opener of this writing:

" Suspend your idea on the sky, because only sky which can limit it!"

Conditioning the Subconscious Mind with Self-Suggestion

2008-11-14T06:28:00.000-08:00

Self-suggestion is a method of mind conditioning generated from each person, which allows the subconscious mind to take over positive thoughts and destinations, and from there engage its dormant ability in reaching those destinations. Sounds heavy? With the following formulas, you will be well on your process to conditioning the subconscious mind with self-suggestion too.

Self-suggestion is set up on the theory of repetition. The constant repetition of positive thoughts is habituated for setting goals, and provides a direct connection between the conscious and subconscious mind, admitting the subconscious mind to affect the conscious mind. Through this repetition process of positive affirmations, the subconscious mind is able to attempt the best possible manner to achieve the goal, as it is unable to reason or logic. This is where its power consists.

The subconscious mind with self-suggestion is that the mind is susceptible to both positive and negative thoughts. Without consciously activating the subconscious mind to focus on positive thoughts, you risk giving up negative thoughts to pass through into the subconscious which will work towards ensuring that it is concrete.

Below are some simple methods you can start habituating today.

1. Repeating Affirmations. This could be done in your mind or verbalized aloud, but it is substantive to repeat the positive affirmations everyday. This can be practiced ideally in the morning or right before bedtime, because it allows the subconscious to continue processing it even though you are sleeping.

2. Writing down your Affirmations. By writing down your affirmations, it is a strengthener process that coerces your mind to concentrate on it. By impressing the importance of these affirmations in your subconscious, you are allowing it to be accepted and acted upon. It is also useful to provide the list in prominent areas such as your work place therefore that you are constantly reminded of positive thoughts.

3. Listening to a self-recorded tape. Over time, you'll determine that it is more than sufficient to listen to your articulation repeating the affirmations. It will then be less important to consciously think of your positive affirmations.

4. Someone you look up to. Pick out traits that you admire, or even a someone whom you wish to emulate. Identify what characteristics you are pointing towards, and admit them in your positive affirmations. This will afford you a concrete goal to work towards.

The subconscious mind is a effective tool that can work both ways if not properly trained. Once you decide on a path of action, the subconscious mind will direct you through it to attain your end goal, manifested by the communication between the conscious and the subconscious mind.

Correcting Our Wrong Beliefs

2008-11-10T01:11:00.000-08:00

After having the vision for our life, second thing that we’ve to create is building our own good beliefs. Why we should do this thing. Because a good vision is useless if deep down our self we don’t believe that we can do it. And when this happened, we have already sabotaged ourself and throw it to the self destruction.

For instance. When we have a vision to be a good teacher, but we belief that we are a shy people and can’t speek fluently in a forum, it will not happen to our life. There is a correlation between good teacher and these two factors (beside others, of course).

To start making that vision a reality we will have to change some of our beliefs and adopt beliefs that will help we reach our goals. We need to truly make a decision to adopt the belief, ‘cause after that we will find a way to manifest it.

Several formulas to correct our beliefs:

1. Melt away negative thoughts snowball, by always think Success. In the time we think about failure, forget about it immediately and don’t let it emerge anymore. Thinking about something else is a powerfull way to change the negative feelings and thoughts. Then try to focus on new positive thoughts as long as possible.

2. Be honest to our self and getting the belief that we are better than what our feel tells us. Always look in to the positive side of our feeling. When we feel negative thing about ourself, realize that it's something we could solve to make ourself better. Try to accept and love who we are, not who we'll or should be.

3. Consider that sky is the limit. Whenever we have little goals we will accept little success, the bigger our dreams the more possible for your potential success. If we think our dream is too big, endeavor to accomplish that dream, because we will end up at a better place than if we would have set our sights on a smaller goal. The trick is to genuinely consider we can do it, this just isn’t wishful thinking. Wishful thinking never got anyone anything, we need to find out what we want and get out there and get it.

4. Meditate on our old belief and assure the truth about it. Now replace it with a belief that will better serve us. Meditate on it until we feel we have converted that belief.

Consistency is key we are all creatures of patterns and habits. We need to be constantly evaluating ourself. Decide if the character we are currently

Meditation, An Effortful Method to Create Vision

2008-10-30T09:08:00.000-07:00

Meditation can be a powerfull way to create our vision.

You are able to think that meditation as a conscious sleeping. Just as you sleep to gain energy for your day-to-day performance, meditation establishes up self-conscious sleeping that makes you totally the energy(inventive abilities) you need for what you think to reach for.

Habituate the power of meditation to help you achieve your goals. Strive to everyday meditate one minute for each year of your current age. If I am 30'th, so everyday I try and meditate at least 30 minutes. There are many ways find something that feels good to us.

Preparation:
1. Pick a nice comfortable place where to meditate and find a comfortable position to sit. Have an intention on what you plan to meditate on before hand. Ex. A destination you want to visit.

2. Cross the legs, clasp the hands together.(this helps make our own energy circuit and gives stability), then close the eyes whole time of meditation process. Stop inner and outer chatter.

3. Relax, begin thinking that our whole body is becoming extremely relaxed.

4. Notice that our mind is full of many thoughts. The mind will than get to call for questions to those thoughts and attempt to and rise up with answers whether they are known or unknown. The mind(ego) can be the real enemy if it mostly thinks in negative terms.

Inner Journey
5. Transcend the mind and thoughts in order to meditate. Our mind and thoughts are what separate us from our higher self, we can also consider that our higher self as our subconscious mind.

6. We surpass our mind through simply noticing our breath, with just observe our natural breathing inhale/exhale . Don't go behind the thoughts, when we catch our self drifting just always get back to our breathing. Slowly the amount of thoughts reduces and the breathing turns thinner and shorter. If we are able to keep totally our focus on our breath, we will get to the point of no thought and no breath. This state of no thought is our connection to our divine being and energy body. The more we meditate the more benefits and energy that we will receive. Our own self awareness and consciousness will also expand.

7. We will feel a very gratifying feeling meditating. When we feel any discomfort in the body, this sign gives notice of the disease areas or illness. By meditating everyday the body will heal naturally.

8. Now that we are in a state of no thought and total relaxation. Begin to think only about our intention. Remember whatever we think now is in a state that will be impregnated directly into our subconscious. It is incredibly important that we don't color any of our thoughts with any lack, limitation, disbelief or doubt. This is why almost all self help material does not bring out the results people expect. We are able to make suggestions to our subconscious where the thought is not modified in any way shape or form. Our conscious mind acts as the gate keeper as to what thoughts we let in. Now that we know this choose to become more aware and conscious about what we think all day long. Learn to see the world in a non linear way, remove time from our consiousness and watch how things show up in our life faster than we ever considered. Mentally practice every moment of it with all your senses.

And Then, This is Show Time!

Make image in vivid detail, our intention as established fact. Also make sure we meditate only on days we feel good. Commemorate we want our thoughts to be as pure as possible. This also means that we really find out what we want, be sure its not something we want solely for ego purposes. Thoughts that involve the ego are usually always colored with negativity.

With time you will begin to be able to keep clear pictures of anything (we will develop our third eye). The more we are able to hold onto an image in our mind the more power we give it. When we get along in our discipline, we will have a lot of fun basically creating our day before it starts. By meditation, we can always try to create our clear vision of life.

Creating A Meaningfull Life by Making The Vision

2008-10-24T11:51:00.000-07:00

What is our formula for success in our life? One of the most important value in our formula for success is having a clearly defined and vivid vision of where we want to be in life. Why the vision is very important for us? Because the vision will gets us so excited on doing or develop our mentality to reach our goal with no other reason.

If we do flashback to our childhood period, maybe we remember that in the time we have a great fantastic dreams for our life in the future. But now, sometime we realize that, our dreams gone by the time. Where part of our life that completely wiped out the dreams? We got older and domesticated by a society that says that having those dreams is a foolish. Beside that, we realize those dreams would make we happy if we can make them real. Making the vision is one of the principal ways to formed them real.

There are many ways to create our vision. From “easy” way to “hard” way, up to our choice. Usually I take both of these ways, from easy to hard way. The important is, how consistent do I to do these ways, so it could be my behavior in my future time. The easy ways are:

My pictures window that I placed it beside my mirror. Pictures window is my imaginer window contains a lot of pictures that I want to reach for them in the future, to call a place to look outside my dreams through these pictures. I usually go and cut a picture from magazines and newspaper to placed it to my pictures window. So, every time I use my mirror, I can look at them and thinking how I can make my dreams come true.
I used my little special book to write many proverb and wisdom words, then bring it every time and every where I go. Every time I found a new words, for instance from holly book, or the books, I’ll write it in this little book. And every time I want, I can read them again and again. This simple way can make my vision grow and sturdy.
Brave to make a little dreaming that I could reach for it in short period of time. And every time I reached it, I usually celebrating my successful with anything that make me happily and rightfully proud to myself. And then, make another little dream to accustomed to make another big and bigger dreams.
Use repetitive magic words sourced from one of the three steps above. I usually do this step every time I wake up in the early morning.

Beside these easy ways, consistency and simultaneous is the best way for us to create a meaningfull life.