Adam Gilad is a cool dude.  At one point, he was David Deida’s business partner (I’m a huge David Deida fan) and he’s also an all-around accomplished guy.

At this moment, I’m most excited about his latest accomplishment – his new Seize the Babe program.

Now, I’m pretty much 30 at this point (I’ve got about a month left in my 20′s as of today).  When a cougar hits on me, I feel young.  When I want to hit on an 18-year-old, I feel ancient.

And I know it’s only a matter of time where my age is really going to show and I’m going to have to face the fact that I’m no longer 21.

I have friends in their 30′s, 40′s, 50′s and 60′s.  I can feel their pain when they tell me that “tastes don’t change – it’s not fair”.

Now see Adam doesn’t deal with any of that BS.  He’s in his 40′s (I think…) and regularly dates women half his age.  Beautiful, young, intelligent women full of life and youthful enthusiasm.

And it’s been Adam’s feeling that any guy can have this… and can have this.

This is great news for me since I never want to worry about my age holding me back from being able to choose the women I want.

And granted, I’ve studied how to attract women, but Adam takes it to a whole other level.

First off, he’s specifically addressing the issues of being an older guy (35+) picking up younger women (18 – early 20′s).

Second, he’s not just giving pick-up tricks and tactics.  He’s presenting a deep model for giving women what they’ve always craved for from men.

Third, he shows you how age is not only not-an-issue… he shows you how your age is tremendously to your advantage.  Society has brainwashed men into thinking that age hurts your chances with young women – Adam’s anti-brainwashing techniques are ridiculously awesome and will have you feeling stronger and more attractive than when you were in your 20′s.

UPDATE:  We were able to do an exclusive interview with Adam Gilad and talk about his course.  Check it out here:

—>  Adam Gilad Seize The Babe Review Interview  <—

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1. Fearless Review: Must Read First Before You Buy Christian Hudson & Nick Sparks New Course…

Today I am going to review fearless from dosomethingfearless.com.  Nick Sparks and Christian Hudson from the Socialman are putting out a brand new product called FEARLESS. The Nick and Christian work at the thesocialman.com and I was lucky enough to take a look at their new product. I want to really dig deep and give you a review of the product that will help you decide if it is right for you.

The Fearless Review:

There’s been a lot of buzz around for Fearless, the new course by Christian Hudson and Nick Sparks.  And with good reason:  Christian Hudson has been making great products for men who want to succeed with the women they really want for many years now.  And Nick Sparks is not only one of the best in-field coaches out there today, he’s also a very cool, down-to-earth normal guy.  And take it from me, normal is very important when it comes to the qualities of a teacher you want to model yourself after.

Both Christian and Nick are very honorable guys who really value giving great content and delivering the results they promise…

Which in this case is becoming Fearless with women, so that you can “get out of your own way” and start getting the women you’ve always wanted.

Fearless talks about how to conquer your fears around women and get the type of women you really want.

I can tell you, as someone who’s wrestled with my own anxieties around dating and life in general, having a product like this is a God-sent to unlocking your full potential.

Recent brain science supports this – if you’re caught up in your own fears and anxiety, your brain will “down-shift” into a fight or flight system of your brain and literally shut down the parts of your brain that make you feel at ease, in control and able to deliver the perfect things to say.

Bottom line:  If you don’t have control over your fears with women, you don’t have control over your dating life.  Period.

Nick Sparks has been teaching with the social man around the world for years.  He’s a legend and he’s never before release his “curriculum” before and I can say at first I was pretty skeptical.

I have heard great things about Nick though, like for example, going from eye contact with a girl at a bar to an immediate make-out and number close, right then and there.  The dude has chops, no doubt about it.

LOVE his stuff and last weekend when I was out at the bar his approach was really working on beautiful women.  I was amazed how simple it is. And after going through it I can say you really should check it out.

I didn’t have to memorize any complicated stuff and some leading PUAs actually joined him on Fearless.  So you’ll also hear from Marni  THE Wing Girl, Josh Pellicer from the Tao of Badass, Stephen Nash who is one of the characters in The Game and Rob Judge, who was voted #2 Pickup Artist last year (if those things matter to you).

Also, there’s a secret insider bonus from Women Desire You giving away $399.95 dollars worth of Girl Getting Bonus Material when you invest is Fearless using their link.  So if you are thinking about this program you should get it, BUT get it here and get $399.95 worth of stuff FREE as well.  Details here:

http://womendesireyou.com/bonus/fearless-bonus.html

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1. Seize the Babe Review – DO NOT BUY Adam Gilad’s Course Until You Read This…
2. The Tao of Badass Review – Does It Suck?

I just finished an advance copy of “The Tao of Badass:  Everything You Have To Know To Be A Complete Badass With Women” by Joshua Pellicer.  For those of you who don’t know or somehow haven’t heard the buzz, The Tao of Badass is a brand new system that makes a high-promise:  To teach men of any skill level how to be the badass that women love.

Now, don’t get me wrong – this isn’t a system about machismo or posturing as some might take from the title or description.  What this system does is show men how to do all of the essential “moves” in the seduction game without any of it being weird, creepy or manipulative like a lot of the earlier systems.

This book is not for everyone though and I will explain why in a bit.  However, first let me talk about what I liked about this book.

First, I think this book is the best book I’ve seen so far in explaining the most powerful ways to seduce women in a way that is not only simple enough for a 5-year-old child to understand it, but also in a way that gets those foundations to stick.  I can’t tell you how many books and courses I went through where I would try something that sounded great in the book, but absolutely SUCKED in the real world.  This system explains everything in a way that is easy to see yourself doing it.

Another strength of this course is that the author’s tone is positive and easy to relate to.  Unlike several other teachers of seduction systems, you can tell that he doesn’t look at women as soulless objects and he doesn’t hate women.  In fact, you can tell that he’s an all around caring guy and it comes across throughout the entire product.

I make a point of mentioning that because as I was learning “game”, I never wanted to have to be an asshole just to get women.  I was happy to take a longer road to figure out how to pick-up hot women without acting like a dick… I wish this book had come out eight years ago.

Anyway, here are some of the reasons why I thought this system was great:

• It looks at game as a whole and sets all the essential foundations in a way that sticks.
• It teaches you how to have the power, not imitate it
• It gives you the magic keys that unlock your ability to make the “perfect moves” at exactly the right moment
• It teaches you the inner game that creates great outer game
• It clearly explains confidence and how to get it.
• It explains how to take on new beliefs
• It explains the 3 stages you must go through to take on new beliefs and how to take on new beliefs permanently.
• It explains the 4 major personality types of other guys and how to deal with each one so you never get AMOGed.

There’s a lot more to the book than that, but you can always check out the details on his website.

Now, like I said earlier, this course is not for everyone.  Here is who shouldn’t get this course:

• If you are completely unwilling to take any action, no matter how easy or simple, then don’t bother to buy this course.  You need to act on the information.
• If you are more focused on talking ABOUT seduction (debating in forums, watching course after course after course, etc.) instead of DOING seduction, don’t bother to get this course.
• If you are already pulling 9s and 10s regularly, at least once a week, then you probably don’t need to get this book.  In fact… I would wonder why you are even reading this?

For everyone else, I would give this book an emphatic YES to anyone who asked me if it’s worth buying.

You can check it out here.

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Knowing how to talk dirty to a girl is definitely a skill you want to have.

There was a time, years ago where I was dating this tall brunette girl who I was way more into than she was into me.  But we were dating and I was happy to have her at the time.

We were hanging out and I was casually talking about something sexual when she said, “OK, you’re really getting me turned on.”

So I was thinking, “Awesome…  I’m going to talk dirty to this girl, she’ll get turned on and we’ll hook up.”  My mind is racing… remembering bits and pieces… fragments of dirty talk or dirty things I’ve heard in the past.

And then I made an attempt that was so awkward and retarded that I believe she had to leave the room in embarrassment.  Seriously – I didn’t just wreck the moment… I dropped a nuclear bomb on the moment.

Needless to say, we did not end up hooking up and I suffered a combination of horniness, disappointment and embarrassment.  I believe they call it dishornassment.

So yeah, one of many stories of my dishornassing trial and error period.  If I had known how to talk dirty to my girl at that moment, things would have gone very differently.

On a relevant but unrelated note, I had the pleasure of meeting David Wygant when I was out in Los Angeles this February.  David Wygant is one of the most experienced and well-known dating coaches out there (the movie Hitch was based on David).  Plus he’s a really great, normal, down-to-earth guy that’s easy to relate to.

David mentioned in March that he was going to release a phone sex product and I knew it would be mind-blowing.  Back when radio was a little looser, radio hosts would have David on and have female listeners call in and get seduced in real-time.  David has seduction down to such a science that he would predictively have the woman moaning with orgasmic pleasure within 15 minutes on the phone.

Hardcore.  I give the man props.

So now that it’s the end of May and I have been meaning to do this for the past month, I decided to finally post up how awesome David’s phone sex course is.

What I found shocking about the program is that David isn’t giving a bunch of suggestions and theories – he actually has you listen in on him using his phone sex system on live calls with real women, then he breaks down the call in a play-by-play format.  He also provides play-by-play IM conversation so you can see how he seduces women on the internet to build extremely rapid sexual attraction.

Now truth be told, I was lucky enough to have learned the art of “talking dirty” or “phone sex” after my tragic first attempt, but listening to David’s delivery and style took my understanding to another level.  I am always happy to learn more and David’s course definitely has something to offer everyone, from complete novice to very experienced.

Definitely worth your time to check out here.

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Lately, I’ve been feeling stressed.  Not depressed or angry (like I was oftentimes when I was working a 9-5 job), but the vast majority of my days lately have had a quality of sadness, a vague sense of fear and an overall desire to distract myself.

When I started this site, I wanted to have a journal to hold myself accountable to being at my best.  I’ve always looked at success with women as a bi-product of living in a successful way.  Not in a material way, but in an experiential way:  Taking successful action in a way that works AND feels good.

But I haven’t been in that state of mind lately.  I’ve been off my diet for about 2 months now, same with exercise and while I have been working hard and moving ahead in the business side of my life, increased success has not brought me increased happiness.

In fact, I’ve been walking around in a low-grade funk a lot of the time and it’s been seeping into my relationships and interactions with women.

So I decided it’s time to reprioritize. I decided that I am going to start putting my experience and happiness at the top of my priority list.

The quality of my work and my interactions with people are only going to be as good as the quality of my consciousness.

So last night, I listened to an hour of Eckhart Tolle’s Power of Now (in audiobook format) and another two hours this morning.

I am not going to say that I immediately entered an effortless, blissful state immediately after my Eckhart binge session, but I do feel tremendously better than I have been lately.

I’m going to make my meditation and Eckhart sessions a priority for the next 7 days and see how it affects my overall quality of life.  And then I will blog about it here.

Eric / Edge

P.S.  I have a lot of awesome projects in the works that I’m very excited about.  One of them is to reboot this website – I started PuE back in June 2008 and there are some things I’m pleased with and other things I feel should be removed or overhauled.  Once I wrap up a couple of projects I have in the works, Pick-up Evolution is going to get a complete website reboot.  The new PuE is going to kick ass, stay tuned.

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Back in 2008, Nick (Legend) and I used to post feverishly on here. Almost daily. And we would religiously upload our weekly field reports (which are still up in the archives).

I think the most motivating thing for us was putting the message out there that normal guys could really succeed at game: even with severe approach anxiety, even with average looks, even if you have a boring job you hate.

But it wasn’t the schools of technique that set us free and gave us results. The different methods were enough to give us the courage to try, but they weren’t enough to get results.

I certainly wished that the gurus would set me free. How I would have loved it if just understanding Mystery Method, or acting cocky funny, or saying “magical lines” would give me results. It didn’t though – if anything, the more knowledge I collected, the more overwhelmed I felt. Collecting outer-game trinkets wasn’t the answer.

So inner game then… was that the answer? Well, no, not exactly.

I mean, I put a lot more stock into mastering your own inner game than outer game, but even still, understanding or even “doing” inner game work isn’t going to transform your life and give you the results you want.

What Nick and I were searching for (and eventually found) was…

Momentum game.

Only it didn’t exist. We had to create it out of real world experience.

What is momentum game?

Momentum game isn’t outer game and it isn’t inner game.  It’s inter-game.

It’s what you’re doing to take action in the real world to get results.

Getting back to what I was talking about at the beginning – when Nick and I were posting constantly, we used to joke with each other that almost everything we posted was about momentum and motivation.  It was about those moments that stood between taking action or not taking action.

Mastering that piece was what stood between getting results and not getting results.  It was the difference between action and inaction.  It was the difference between talking game and doing game.

But nobody had created a system around it.  Nobody took it all the way – a “guru” will spend a whole course convincing a student how and why his method/course is the ultimate solution to solving the girl problem.

And the student (me, in this case) would have a temporary bubble of inspiration, maybe work up the balls and courage to take some action, maybe get a result, but sooner or later fall back into the old routine of feeling powerless and searching for “that one key that ties it all together”.

So what is inter-game?  What is momentum game?

Momentum game is the piece that resolves what stands between a student and taking the action to get results.

The real world doesn’t lie.  The real world will show you EXACTLY where you’re at in terms of skill.  Gurus will lie and tell you that you are all-powerful now that you know these secrets.  Fuck that hype horse shit.

The real world will show you exactly what your skill level is based on the responses and results you get from the real world.

If you’ve studied “game” for 3 years but have severe approach anxiety and shake with nervousness, then that’s where you’re at.  You need a new approach.

If you’ve been banging your head against the wall for 3 years and getting mediocre results, then that’s where you’re at.  It doesn’t matter how much time you’ve sunk into it.  It doesn’t matter what you’ve read, the seminars you’ve been to or how eloquently you can regurgitate what a guru said to you.

If you can’t produce the results you want yet, you need to take a new approach.  And momentum game is the solution that Nick and I created to address this issue.

Our official launch will be happening within the next month, so I’ll be going into greater depth about how one pursues momentum game and improving real world results.  This is a kick off post.  More to come soon.

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