The Art of Charm | Confidence | Relationship & Dating Advice | Lifehacking | Sex Fri, 04 Jul 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 18:10:40 +0000 Libsyn WebEngine 2.0 http://www.TheArtOfCharmPodcast.com en http://www.TheArtOfCharmPodcast.com jordanh@theartofcharm.com (jordanh@theartofcharm.com) http://assets.libsyn.com/content/7294797.jpg The Art of Charm | Confidence | Relationship & Dating Advice | Lifehacking | Sex Jordan Harbinger: Dating & Relationship Advice for Men (JordanH@TheArtOfCharm.com) yes jordanh@theartofcharm.com http://theartofcharmpodcast.theartofcharm.libsynpro.com/rss 283: Ari Meisel | Less Doing, More Living Fri, 04 Jul 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Have things come to you at the time that you can best deal with them." Ari Meisel 

What would you do if you were given a diagnosis and put on 16 pills a day? Would you accept your fate or would you biohack your way to health and wellness?

Ari Meisel chose the latter and he spends time talking with us about how he cured his Crohn’s. He also shares how that process led to his “Less Doing” brand, which is devoted to helping men do less and live more through optimization, outsourcing and automation.

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Ari’s journey began at the age of 20. He had the brilliant idea to renovate some old cigar factories into lofts and he set about doing so. What he had expected to take six months, turned into three years and over $3 million in debt. He spent those three years learning every construction trade he could and invested every bit of himself in that development.

And in the process, he destroyed his body. He was smoking a pack of cigarettes a day, drinking every night and eating fast food a few times a day. Within a month of finishing his construction project, he was given the diagnosis of the incurable Crohn’s Disease and handed prescriptions for 16 different pills, 16!

Never one to be thwarted by circumstances, Ari decided he wasn’t going to settle for all the misery and discomfort associated with Crohn’s. Instead, he set out on a journey of self-tracking and self-discovery to finding out what would heal his body. Within four months he was off ALL his medications and six months later he was competing in a triathlon.

The finer details of this show include:

  • What is Crohn’s Disease and what led to his diagnosis?
  • How he defines being "cured" of Crohn’s.
  • The two main things that were the most helpful in curing his Crohn's.
  • What's the Zeigarnik Effect and what does it have to do with To Do lists?
  • His $8 biohack for better sleep in one night.
  • And so much more!

Though he learned much about the body and he’s since applied that knowledge to help others treat and cure their Crohn’s, the most profound lessons he learned through his healing process were on the topics of being more effective and more efficient in using your time. He discovered he had times of the day and days of the week when he was more effective. By taking that knowledge and using it to schedule corresponding tasks, he was able to be most his most efficient.

For example, he found he is most creative after 8pm and he gets the most done on Tuesdays (the least on Fridays). So now when he has to do something creative, like write a blog post, he knows not to try to write it until 8pm or later at night. And if he has a lot to get done, he schedules the bulk of it for Tuesday.

From that experience and with those practical lessons under his belt, he created the Less Doing brand. Now he works with clients, about half are men, to help them do what he has done: optimize, outsource and automate. He believes, and has proven in his life, that by becoming more efficient and effective, you create the head space to come up with amazing ideas that have been obscured by all the other crap you’re focused on.

Another fascinating topic we talk about is why “To Do” lists don’t work and why they’ll destroy your productivity. There’s an actual psychological effect that proves his theory and we talk about in this show.

Ari was a truly fantastic guest and it was awesome to have him here. He teaches so much about making the most effective use of our most precious commodity: time. He suggests some great tools and even an awesome biohack technique for better sleep, one I’ve never heard before. So tune in, check it out and get more living with less doing!

Resources from this episode:

Ari's web site
Ari on Twitter
Less Doing Book
Follow Up
Boomerang
Evernote
Aqua Notes
Blueblocker Sunglasses
Married Man Sex Life
Athol Kay on the Art of Charm 

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]]> 53:57 yes 282: Dr. Sara Gottfried | Decoding Female Hormones Wed, 02 Jul 2014 07:00:00 +0000 When you understand these hormonal changes, it creates grace in a relationship. - Dr. Sara Gottfried

Are you tired of not knowing how to cope with your woman’s hormonal cycles? Of not knowing when she’ll go from zero to crazy in .002 seconds? And what about your own hormones - can you manage them yourself so that you don’t feel tired and achy when you get up in the morning and grumpy when you come home at the end of the day?

Our guest for today’s show says yes to all of those questions. Dr. Sara Gottfried, author of The Hormone Cure, is a Harvard-trained medical doctor, wife, mother and yogini. And she’s here to give us the scoop on male and female hormones.

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Dr. Sara is, as she puts it, board-certified in everything that can go wrong with a woman’s body. She knows firsthand what it’s like when hormones go haywire and it was her own personal experience that led her into deeper discovery on the topic.

After sorting out her own hormonal imbalances, Dr. Sara decided to specialize in helping others do the same with their hormone levels. Today she treats both men and women.

She’s also written a book on how to properly treat hormone imbalances and in this episode she shares much of her knowledge, her personal experiences and a lot of “how to” advice on all things hormones.

The finer details of this show include:

  • The three words to say to your woman when she's complaining.
  • What is adrenal burnout?
  • What common birth control method can shrink the clitoris by as much as 20%?
  • What's the hormonal cause of Grumpy Old Man Syndrome?
  • What is tilt and why does it ruin many relationships?
  • And so much more!

Dr. Sara and I dive deep into these topics and many more. We talk about the importance of knowing your woman’s hormonal cycle and how to cope with her different needs at different times of the month. For example, there are certain times when your woman will benefit more from getting together with her friends than she will from being with you. Dr. Sara tells us how to know when your woman needs her friends and when she needs you.

We also talk about the three main hormones for men and women. They are different (naturally) and Dr. Sara explores each.

For men, the top three are called “The Three Amigos” and they are testosterone, cortisol and thyroid. For the ladies, she dubbed their top three hormones “Charlie’s Angels”. They are estrogen, cortisol and thyroid.

She tells us why each hormone is important to their respective gender, how to know if any of the big three hormones are off-balance and what you can do to reset them to normal, healthy levels if needed. She also explains why you should get them checked regularly, at least every six months.

We also discuss the subject of tilt: what it is, why it happens and what to do about it. Tilt is when our nervous system gets overwhelmed. Tilt has a major impact on our overall personal health and also on the health of our relationships. Dr. Sara gives us symptoms to look for when questioning whether we’re in tilt or not and how to cope if we are and how to help our woman cope if she is.

And two other topics I made sure we touched on are the importance of orgasms in hormonal health and the three types of girls you should run from! Dr. Sara weighs in on both.

We packed SO much into this episode of The Art of Charm! I think Dr. Sara and I could’ve talked for a few more hours; she was an amazing guest with a fountain of knowledge. I really appreciate how generously she shared her time and her wisdom; I hope you enjoy listening as much as I enjoyed interviewing her!

Resources from this episode:

Dr. Sara's web site
Dr. Sara on Twitter
Dr. Leake on The Art of Charm
OneTaste
Andrew Weil, MD
Imago Relationships
Canary Club
WellnessFX

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]]> 58:39 yes 281: Vanessa Van Edwards | How to Read People Like a Book Mon, 30 Jun 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Imagine what you could do if you could always know what someone else was really thinking - no matter what they were saying to you. How would that change your work life, your life at home and your relationships?

Here to help you do just that is Vanessa Van Edwards of the Science of People, a human behavior research lab. She’s joins the Art of Charm podcast to give us the inside scoop on human behavior, micro-expressions, being a human lie detector and how to read people like a book.

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Vanessa Van Edwards has long been fascinated by people’s behaviors. In fact, she thought she would work for the CIA or the Secret Service, until she realized that would mean interrogating people. Instead she opted to combine her interest in people with self-help for the business world, which eventually led to her joining the Science of People.

The work she and her colleagues do there has been recognized around the world and has been featured on such notable media outlets as Fast Company, Forbes and NPR BusinessWeek to name just a few!

In her words, her work combines “sexy science with self-help” and she brings her it to this episode. We talk about how to use non-verbal communication as a secret weapon and the art of decoding hidden messages so you know what people really mean, regardless of what they are telling you.

The finer details of this show include:

  • Can you tell someone's success or power based just on their face? Vanessa tells all.
  • What's the facial feedback hypothesis?
  • What's one of the hardest micro expressions to recover from?
  • 93.6% accurate predicator of divorce - what is it?
  • The one micro expression that can open an opportunity to connect with a woman.
  • And so much more!

In this show, Vanessa and I give you the 7 micro expressions, specific ways to recognize them, and why they are important. From anger and contempt to happiness and sadness, we dive deep into each so you can begin to recognize them in your friends, family, co-workers and romantic interests.

We also talk about mirror neurons, which are like brain copy cats, and they help us “mirror” the person or people we are interacting with to create connections and that feeling of familiarity.

We cover so much in this show and it’s all information you need to know! This is a primary on reading expressions and the scientific research behind it. Even if you aren’t familiar with how to decode body language or how to read other forms of non-verbal communication, you’re going to take away A LOT from this show and you’re going to be able to learn it and use it quickly.

At the Art of Charm, we talk about the mind following the body and the body following the mind so having Vanessa here was a natural fit. I loved talking with her and sharing as much of her knowledge as we could on this show!

Resources from this episode:

Vanessa's web site
Vanessa on Twitter
Microexpression videos

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]]> 01:02:36 yes 280: Dr. Jeffrey Leake | Insulin, Carbs and Hormones Fri, 27 Jun 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “I don’t have anything to fix! I don’t smoke, I don’t drink, and I don’t eat carbs. My life is just great now. Normal. Vanilla.” -Jason Bateman

Why is it so many of us can eat whatever want in our 20s and look great but the minute we turn 30 (or 40 or even 50 in some cases), all those bad habits seem to show up immediately?

According to our guest for episode 280, Dr. Jeffrey Leake, much of it can be attributed to hormones and insulin. He joins us to disclose what we can do about it through different nutrition choices, exercise and a better understanding of insulin in our bodies. He lets us in on the keys to looking and feeling great, no matter what age we are.

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Dr. Jeffrey Leake is a leading endocrinologist with the often-controversial Cenegenics, the pioneer in age management medicine. Not to be confused with anti-aging, Cenegenics is devoted to helping people use cutting-edge medicine and science to have vitality and energy at any age.

Because his specialty is endocrinology, the study of hormones and the role they play in the human body and, hormones in the body is an area he focuses on for his patients.

But what you might not expect from Dr. Leake is a discussion about how nutritional choices impact hormones.

And yet that’s precisely one of the cornerstones of his teachings. He talks to his patients at Cenegenics about how to create a better, healthier body through proper choices of macro nutrients. To put it simply, he talks to his patients about how what they eat impacts their hormones and how their hormones impact their overall health and function of their bodies.

He helps his patients – and you the listener in this episode – understand how to eat properly for the most energy, highest virility and healthiest body possible, no matter your age.

The finer details of this show include:

Why we need fat.

Which carbs to eat, which to avoid: the doctor weighs in.

The top six carbohydrate sources to give up.

What Jack Lelaine can teach us about living longer and healthier.

Most of your cells would prefer to run on fat: true or false?

That fat is actually an organ (this will certainly change the way you think about holding on to it!)

And so much more!

In this show, Dr. Leake goes into great detail about hormones. He explains how they are like the software of your body. They don’t control every single process, but they control many of the important ones and their healthy function is needed for YOUR healthy function.

He also goes on to explain how hormones are impacted by insulin, what insulin is and how insulin resistance is created by food choices. We talk about how insulin resistance leads to so many of the endemic diseases we have in many countries today: heart disease, stroke, diabetes, etc.

But don’t think it’s all gloom, doom and don’t ever eat sugar again! Dr. Leake gives us some practical tips to take care of our bodies now that will lower our chances of getting these diseases later.

But we don’t just talk about nutrition, Dr. Leake also explains which forms of exercise are the most optimal for your body and also the scientific “why” behind these forms.

It was terrific to have Dr. Leake on the show; I had a consultation with him and wanted you the listener to hear how much knowledge he has on the topics of hormonal function, and the significant role nutrition and exercise choices play in healthy living.

Resources From This Episode:

Cenegenics
Dr. Jeffrey Leake on LinkedIn
Email Dr. Leake: jlkeake [at] cenegenics.com

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]]> 45:36 yes 279: Stephen Key | Licensing Your Dreams Wed, 25 Jun 2014 07:01:00 +0000 “Why look for a job when you can create one?” -Stephen Key

Think you have to get on Shark Tank or drop hundreds of thousands of dollars to bring a great idea to life? Not so says our guest for episode 279.

Stephen Key joins us on The Art of Charm to talk about why the old way of patenting ideas no longer works (and why it never really did), and how you can capitalize on the virtually untapped network of great ideas and great products just waiting to be brought to market.

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Stephen Key is The Guy when it comes to turning ideas into licensable products that generate thousands (if not millions) in passive income. He holds 13 patents and has licensed over 20 products in the last 30 years…some of which are still earning him money today.

And the best part? He’s done all of this without investing hundreds of thousands of dollars on prototypes, patents, etc. He’s found a simpler, easier way: licensing.

Stephen looks for opportunities in every industry; he either comes up with or finds great ideas and tweaks them a bit, before turning them around and selling them to interested companies.

The finer details of this show include:

  • Why it’s not in a company’s best interests to steal your ideas.
  • How to beat “the big guys”.
  • What’s a sell sheet and why does it matter?
  • What are magic words that will open doors for you at any company?
  • How to get a company interested in your product – without ever selling.
  • And so much more!

On this show, Stephen walks us through the ins and outs of licensing and shares real life examples of why it works so well. For example,  he tells the story of how he came up with one idea in about 10 minutes and made $100,000 the first year he sold it. But it doesn’t stop there, that one idea went on to make him money for the next 10 years!

Stephen also shares a few tools he uses to amp up his creativity to come up with more ideas for marketable products.

But what if you don’t have an idea you want to license? Stephen has a solution for that too: he tells us how to find people who DO have ideas and how to partner up, so you both profit. This is a tactic he’s used successfully over the years, and you can too.

There’s so much valuable information in this episode, you’ll want to listen a few times with your Evernote or pen & paper in hand!

Reach out to Stephen (see below) and let him know how you’re going to stop overthinking things and take action to get into the game of licensing!

Resources From This Episode

Stephen’s web site
Stephen on Twitter
Ben Greenfield’s podcast

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]]> 40:00 yes 278: Billy Murphy | Forever Jobless Mon, 23 Jun 2014 07:01:00 +0000 Some of us are unemployable -by choice.  Billy Murphy of ForeverJobless and Jordan Harbinger discuss:

-Going from Pro Poker player to Nine-to-Fiver to Entrepreneur

-How online poker professionals think and work

-Why it’s actually risky NOT to take risks

-Emotional vs. Logical decisions

-How to calculate “expected value”

-Why diversifying in a business or investment is often a bad idea

Billy Murphy made the jump from professional poker to entrepreneur in 2009 and has since launched, bought, and sold a dozens of businesses.  He started his blog, ForeverJobless.com, as a way to simplify the process of starting/automating profitable businesses for entrepreneurs.

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]]> 51:35 yes 277: Charlie Tips | Raising Young Millionaires Fri, 20 Jun 2014 04:00:00 +0000 "Nobody ever got rich working for a living." -Grandpa Tips

 

If the 'World's Most Interesting Man' were a dad, he'd be Charlie Tips. Charlie gives parenting and life advice to those of us shooting for the stars, including:

 

How to educate your kids to be 'billionaires'

 

Why public schools actually teach poor mindsets inadvertently

 

How a 12 year old kid created his own high school packed with world-travel and won two Emmys by age 30

 

Quora takeaways from article: no prep schools, teach generosity, love of work, and how to be worthy of wealth

 

How trading time for money is a losing battle, and how a total schlub learned the skills and mindset of capitalism and put it into action

 

Here's the original answer on Quora

 

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]]> 45:27 yes 276: Peter Voogd | Game Changers Wed, 18 Jun 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “If you really want to be successful, look at what everybody else is doing and do the EXACT opposite.” -Unknown

Peter Voogd began his hustle at a the young age of 15. He's learned a lot since, and we riff on all that, including: Why self-education and taking action isn't always the best path. Action for the sake of action is not a guaranteed win How to rise above mediocrity When you try to catch two rabbits you catch zero Creating a company or personal culture for success How culture is manifested by something inside of us as entrepreneurs Making a plan to interrupt your interruptions Base your decisions and priorities off of standards, principles values and intelligence NOT your emotions (don’t get sucked into what others think) Why focusing on the big picture and pre-determining your outcome is REQUIRED for success How passion can only take you so far Creating a master plan to take you from week-to-week while accomplishing your goals Getting FROM the day vs getting THROUGH the day 

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]]> 01:04:57 yes yes 275: James Swanwick | Fake It 'til You Make It on ESPN Mon, 16 Jun 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "If you don't like the way the world is, you change it. You have an obligation to change it. You just do it one step at a time." -Marian Wright Edelman

James Swanwick of Alpha Male Club swings by to discuss: Why fear of success is just as real as fear of failure Bluffing his way onto ESPN and into a job as a SportsCenter anchor How to formulate a plan and take action despite your fear (“feel the fear and do it anyway”) Recognizing sticking points (fear) and moving forward Why failure is an integral part of success How he stopped drinking and you can too (if you decide to do it, that is!) 

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]]> 50:19 yes yes 274: Cam Adair | Addicted to Video Games Fri, 13 Jun 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Things may come to those who wait… but only the things left by those who hustle.” - Abraham Lincoln

Video game addiction is real, and with over 97% of youth playing video games, our generation is growing up with a lifestyle that looks like this: Wake up, go to school, come home, play video games, go to bed, rinse and repeat. And although this is fun, it’s not necessarily leaving people happy. There’s a difference between having fun and being happy. Albert Schweitzer once said that “success is not the key to happiness, happiness is the key to success,” and with our typical lifestyle nowadays, it’s leaving a lot of people uninspired and not fulfilling their potential. We can do better. In this episode, Cam and Jordan Harbinger talk about: Are video games really addictive? (Is video game addiction real?) How this addiction looks at its worst How to get over video game addiction (practical tips for doing so) How to make up for lost time as best you can How to surround yourself by people that matter The concept of reverse engineering, and a framework for getting to where you want to be from wherever you are right now. 

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]]> 45:21 yes yes 273: Niall Doherty | Around the World Without Flying Wed, 11 Jun 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect." - Mark Twain

Nomad extraordinaire Niall Doherty joins us to rap about: Getting past a childhood birth defect and the mindsets that came with it Living his teenage dream doing media for ESPN and the NBA Traveling all the way around the world without flying Spending a month alone on a cargo ship Running out of money in Iran Close calls on the road and the self-trust that comes out as a result Overcoming fear and building self-confidence from scratch.

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]]> 43:11 yes yes 272: Yu-Kai Chou | Gamify Your Life Mon, 09 Jun 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “If you want to accomplish uncommon things, you need to live everyday of your life uncommonly. If you spend your day like everyone else, you will end up like everyone else.” -Unknown Gamification expert Yu-Kai Chou joins us to discuss: What is gamification and why is it important How does gamification apply to our reality? How can gaming become productive, and life become more like a game? The 8 core drives of gaming and how they apply to pretty much everything we do and play How to turn your life into a game (or recognize that it is one already) How to identify what you want to do in your life and how to build a game plan to achieve mastery How to optimize for motivation and persuasion in everything you do How to build a personal brand in a new niche How to hit your “first major win” state.

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]]> 41:33 yes yes 271: Steven Kotler | The Rise of Superman Fri, 06 Jun 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “You cannot run away from weakness; you must some time fight it out or perish; and if that be so, why not now, and where you stand?”—Robert Louis Stevenson

We've all heard of 'flow'. That mysterious in-the-zone state that athletes, performers and other professionals consummate in their craft seem to attain when they're really crushing it. But what is it and how do we get there deliberately, calling forth flow when we need (or want) it? We'll cover that and more in this episode of The Art of Charm Podcast with Steven Kotler, including: The flow genome project (can we ENGINEER flow?) What is FLOW? What happens in your brain during flow? How do we trigger flow and harness it for ourselves? How flow saved Steven’s life and helped him recover from Lyme disease The flow cycle which is a roadmap for flow as well as practical things we can do and work on to make this cycle a reality for us More bullet points, likely all including the word 'flow' at some point ;)

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]]> 46:11 yes yes 270: Hal Elrod | Your Miracle Morning Wed, 04 Jun 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Where you are is a result of who you were, but where you go depends entirely on who you choose to be."

Hal Elrod died and came back to life. But, he didn't just want ANY old life... In this episode, we'll talk about: How Hal went from dead for 6 minutes to ultra-marathoner to RAPPER to speaker and trainer (and yes, we have Hal freestyle the rap -don't worry) How we cause our own emotional pain (the gap between what we wish were true and what is, and how much we wish we could change it) Remaining positive even in the face of death and disability Why an acute case of impostor syndrome in your career can be worse than death The best way to structure your morning for productivity, happiness and your best shot at getting in the zone (hint: it’s not coffee and it’s not just exercise)

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]]> 01:00:46 yes yes 269: Noah Kagan | Building an Empire from the Ashes Mon, 02 Jun 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “To be in the 1% you have to do what the 99% won’t.” -Unknown

Noah Kagan got fired from Facebook...and proceeded to kick ass, again and again. Noah Kagan of Okdork.com was a cubicle slave at Intel, #30 at Facebook (AND GOT FIRED), #4 at Mint.com and has gone on to start two 7-figure businesses, his latest is AppSumo.com. In this entrepreneurship-oriented episode of the show, we'll discuss: Why scarcity mindsets hinder growth How networking REALLY works and why you need to do it no matter what industry you're in Tips from the pros on how to ‘get known’ How to “give value” even when you think you have nothing to offer Digging your well before you need it Why it’s “all about who you know” and why this is a GOOD thing Why spending your time with high-quality people is crucial How to reverse-engineer anything and work backwards from what you want How to engage your creative brain and defeat creative block Where to start when creating and running a new business Finding out who has your customers Where to look for and acquire them for yourself Where to start selling and how Testing and gaining experience to master your own business.

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]]> 01:11:23 yes yes 268: Jordan Gray | Keep Her Captivated Fri, 30 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Either you run the day or the the day runs you." - Jim Rohn

This one starts off a little scattered but gets fun and goes deep quick. Jordan and Jordan (yes, we've not doubled but SQUARED the Jordan in this one), discuss: What men have been led to believe women want in a relationship vs. what they actually need How to get and give relationship feedback in less than 5 words Why waiting behind self-optimization is a fallacy when it comes to finding your significant other (aka "I'll start dating again once I'm healthier/richer/etc.") Why investing in your love life is the greatest thing you can do for your health, wealth, and happiness How to open your woman sexually and emotionally How and why to give your partner consistent praise and appreciation. Why it's important to let your partner see every side of you. How to never stop dating your partner. How to cut out habits from your life that you know aren't serving you This is a great one so grab a notepad and enjoy!

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]]> 58:57 yes yes 267: Mike Hrostoski | The H is Kinda Silent Wed, 28 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “The greatest fear in the world is of the opinions of others. And the moment you are unafraid of the crowd you are no longer a sheep, you become a lion. A great roar arises in your heart, the roar of freedom.” – Osho

Brace yourself for some woo-woo-ness in this episode as Jordan Harbinger and Mike Hrostoski discuss: The death of Mike's mother, how it affected him and spurned him into a deeper way of experiencing the world Honesty versus vulgarity (open vs closed heart)

The mens movement and our place in it ‘Holding space’ -what this means and why Jordan let this fly on the show Exercises such as "1 month to live" How to decide which friends to keep in your life as you work on yourself.

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]]> 56:42 yes yes 266: Josh Shipp | Wishful Thinking is NOT a Strategy Mon, 26 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Wishful thinking is NOT a strategy." -Josh Shipp

Josh Shipp is a motivational speaker and author with an awesome story (in both the good and the bad way). Jordan and Josh uncover: The journey from depression and criminal behavior to successful entrepreneur How to ditch the victim mentality The importance of mentors and how to get them Breaking things down to baby steps and WHEN to get training (and what kind) in order to overcome your hurdles How to deal with critics and haters Josh Shipp is a former at-risk foster kid turned teen advocate. His TV series TEEN TROUBLE (A&E / Lifetime) documented his work with teens in crisis. He is the author of “The Teen’s Guide to World Domination“, and was listed on Inc. Magazine’s 30 under 30 list. He helps adults understand teens & teens understand themselves.

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]]> 01:01:00 yes yes 265: Daniel Duane | Do Men Suck at Friendship? Fri, 23 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Friendship... is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything." -Muhammad Ali

Men's Journal Contributing Editor Daniel Duane discusses friendship between men, why we suck at it and why it can kill us. Why men suck at friendship How many friends do we need? The Different types of friends What is the Male deficit model and why you should care How friendships between men and women differ Study: men are bad communicators AND we suffer as a result Having no friends will kill you. Literally.

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]]> 50:42 yes yes 264: Tim Pychyl | iProcrastinate Wed, 21 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Procrastination is like a credit card: it's a lot of fun until you get the bill." -Christopher Parker

Dr Tim Pychyl of the iProcrastinate podcast stops by (ironically, after many delays and false-starts from both of us) to discuss: Procrastination: What it specifically it is SCIENTIFICALLY, why it’s bad and why we do it What makes a task aversive (so we want to avoid it) Why we think we’ll feel more like doing it tomorrow Why procrastination is not a time management problem but a self-regulation problem What the effects of procrastination are (it’s not just a matter of a few all-nighters) How we can stop this needless delay, including... The importance of PRE-DECISIONS: Getting rid of anemic broad goal intentions in favor of specific implementation intentions The role of SELF-COMPASSION

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]]> 51:03 yes yes 263: Robin Dreeke | Spy Catcher Mon, 19 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "I know not every mom is a secret KGB spy, but every mom has this whole other life. Every dad and every person has this whole other life." -Keri Russell

Robin Dreeke is an author, teacher of social engineering (sometimes with The Art of Charm's Jordan Harbinger) and the chief of the Behavioral Analysis Program at the FBI. Opinions and concepts expressed on this show are his own and not that of the FBI (just to be EXTRA clear on that). Today, we'll discuss: Pretty much nothing about being the chief spy catcher for the FBI ...and a lot about how to build trust and rapport How to get paranoid/sketchy people to trust you How to refrain from judging others and why this is so powerful Attaining our goals with people in the face of our own emotional resistance How to build tolerance of others avoid becoming collateral damage of other people’s insecurities.

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]]> 43:35 yes yes 262: Sean Chuma | Professional BASE Jumper Fri, 16 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “I will always jump as long as I can. I always want to teach and tell my stories of my experiences. I want to keep BASE moving into a positive direction. It is a right of passage kind of thing. Like being sent into the forest for the winter by yourself to return as a man. It is a celebration of the acheivement of what man can do. It is super human, ninja, gangster shit.” - Sean Chuma

Sean Chuma, professional BASE jumper/instructor joins us to talk about: What BASE jumping is and why it's misunderstood Jumping off skyscrapers in Malaysia Throwing his wheelchair-bound friend off the roof of a building Evading the cops in South Africa Base-jumping with a 102-year old lady ...and more

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]]> 01:11:24 yes yes 261: Israel Irenstein | Escaped Hasidic Judaism Wed, 14 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "People under the influence of cults is similar to that we observe in addicts. Typical behaviour for both includes draining bank accounts, neglecting children, destroying relations with family and losing interest in anything except the drug or cult." -Keith Henson

Israel Irenstein escaped an ultra-conservative Hasidic Jewish sect known as Ger, only to find himself starting fresh in modern society. Here's the story of how he did it and how he helps others who wish to do the same. In this episode: Going from Ger Hassidic Judaism to a non-religious life Just what we mean by 'extreme' when it comes to the religion referenced on the show Learning behavior and dating from scratch as an adult with an extremely conservative background and mindsets Growing up not knowing the difference between men and women (seriously) Israel's arranged marriage Escaping the hassidic community Transition into modern life and helping others do the same.

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]]> 01:03:21 yes yes 260: Tucker Max | I Used to Be an A-Hole Mon, 12 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "I'm just starting to scratch the surface of what really makes me happy and it's taken me a while to admit that acting like a little child and being a jerk and a punk is fun." -Leonardo DiCaprio

Best-selling author, investor and a-hole extraordinaire Tucker Max graces us this time around. We'll cover: Being a best-selling author, selling millions of books Why he retired from the party-animal way-of-life Emotional pain in Tucker’s childhood “Growing Up Tucker Max” "Emotional promiscuity” and how it fills a hole in our psyche The layers in Tucker’s writing and how we see those over time and at different ages Parenting advice from Tucker Max (yep, you read that correctly) Why what happens to you is not your fault and what you do with that afterward is up to you. Why emotional health is one of the most important things in any relationship.

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]]> 47:39 yes yes 259: Ben Greenfield | Become Superhuman Fri, 09 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “The cost of being wrong is less than the cost of doing nothing.” - Seth Godin

Ben Greenfield is kinda crazy, but in a good way. You'll see what we mean when you listen to Ben & Jordan discuss body-hacking, natural supplements (and not-so-natural supplements as well), along with: How we absorb metal and toxins through our daily life Metal detox and why you might need it depending on where you live Underground training tactics (packing hard workouts into short times during your daily routine) Detoxyfiying your organs and gut Compression and why it’s not just for old people Ice baths and metabolism Why its important to be PHYSICALLY uncomfortable at some point every day How to optimize sleep and get the highest-quality z’s possible There's more, but we'll let you discover it as you learn & laugh during this episode of The Art of Charm Podcast.

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]]> 59:07 yes yes 258: AoC Toolbox | Where to Meet High-Quality Women Wed, 07 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Love is the expression of one's values, the greatest reward you can earn for the moral qualities you have achieved in your character and person, the emotional price paid by one man for the joy he receives from the virtues of another." -Ayn Rand

AJ & Jordan Harbinger discuss the age-old conundrum of where to meet & attract high-quality women in the age of internet culture and digital dating.

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]]> 43:55 yes yes 257: James Clear | Transform Your Habits Mon, 05 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "One can have no smaller or greater mastery than mastery of oneself." —Leonardo Da Vinci

Habit-Change maestro James Clear knows about habits, the good, the bad, and how to change them for the better, every day. During this episode of The Art of Charm Podcast, Jordan Harbinger and James will uncover: Why habit is more important that goals and outcomes Why you're building habits every single day, good and bad, whether you want to or not Meeting Richard Branson and how he advises us to keep it simple How "the chosen ones choose themselves" That failure is the cost you pay to be right How to treat failure like a scientist The benefits of a low-INFORMATION diet How our language affects our behavior ...and more!

Free downloads and goodies for Art of Charm listeners: http://jamesclear.com/aoc

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]]> 55:04 yes yes 256: Elliott Hulse | Strength Camp Fri, 02 May 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Every action is measured by the sentiment from which it proceeds." -Emerson

Mild-mannered yet Super-Human, Elliott Hulse both terrifies and delights small children (and adults). He also drops serious knowledge on The Art of Charm Crew, including: Why its important to become strong (Calm down -it's not what you think) How do we become the strongest version of ourselves? Much of our intelligence is found in our bodies, literally How to find our own path to strength How your body and mind are inseparable, and actually the same thing How to breathe, for real Exercises to stretch out muscular tension that we carry all of the time that impedes proper breathing How the Eastern mind and Western mind differ, and how we can absorb some of the lessons that will make us stronger emotionally Body-psychology therapy, mattress-humping for a healthy lifestyle and emotional clarity (Yep. Really.)

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]]> 50:53 yes yes 255: Susan Winter | Is she crazy or is this normal? Wed, 30 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “Here's all you have to know about men and women: women are crazy, men are stupid. And the main reason women are crazy is that men are stupid.” -George Carlin

Men are apt to say that "women are crazy." And while some women are truly off kilter, many of the reactions men experience in women's emotions have a valid underlying reason. So what's truly crazy? How can you tell if the girl you're dating is a head trip, or just expressing her emotions? How much of that is your responsibility and caused by your actions? And what situations are you being "made wrong" for that have no validity? Relationship Management expert Susan Winter to the rescue. Today, we're talking about some biggies, such as: How to decide on and screen in the girl you want for a relationship How to answer the “what are we?” question How to set up personal boundaries within a relationship How to handle conflict within a relationship How to handle bumps in a relationship after the first few months What to do when you feel your partner is pulling away Handling insane relatives ...and more!

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]]> 54:01 yes yes 254: John Corcoran | Systemize your Network Mon, 28 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 John Corcoran of Smart Business Revolution tells us how to systemize our networking and relationship-building process, including: Why it’s all about who you know and why that's a GOOD thing (instead of something to whine about) How to start developing a network like a ninja How to network even when you don't know anyone, “have nothing to offer” and don't have any money How to spark interesting conversations and connections Finding the RIGHT people to connect with at events and parties Getting over the ‘fear of being fake’ Following up with connections and making them count How to measure your networking ‘results’ and ensuring you're getting ROI for your time and efforts building your network

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]]> 01:04:32 yes yes 253: Jordan Harbinger on TheLip.Tv Sat, 26 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 We thought you'd dig this bonus audio of Jordan Harbinger of the Art of Charm chats with Gabe Mizrahi of TheLip.tv about social confidence, removing social anxiety and what we do here at The Art of Charm (and a peek inside the kimono of how things work at AoC). Check out the video in the show notes as well.

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]]> 31:37 yes yes 252: April Mailbag with Justin Jensen Fri, 25 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Justin Jensen and Jordan Harbinger answer listener questions in the April 2014 Mailbag edition of The Art of Charm Podcast.

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]]> 55:48 yes yes 251: AoC Toolbox | How to Break Up with Someone Wed, 23 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "I'm thankful for my struggle, for without it I wouldn't have stumbled across my strength." - Alex Elle

Breaking up is hard to do. AJ & Jordan Harbinger of The Art of Charm go over some 'best-practices' for planning and managing the end of a relationship in this latest installment of The Art of Charm Toolbox. Get a free guide on how to break up at http://www.theartofcharm.com/breakups (or send to a friend in need!)

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]]> 56:34 yes yes 250: Robert Greene | 7th Anniversary Special Mon, 21 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Jordan's Note: this is the 7-year anniversary episode of The Art of Charm Podcast. Since we couldn't and wouldn't have ever done this without your support, I've written a special letter to you, the fans, at the end, so stay tuned for it. Here's to another 7 years and beyond. :) A wordy description won't do this one justice. We cover topics ranging from: mentorship and mastery language-learning What The Art of Charm, Robert Greene, Mastery and the 48 Laws of Power have in common How to find your life's task or purpose and pursue it mercilessly.

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]]> 53:29 yes yes BONUS: Inside a Professional Credit Card Fraud Operation Fri, 18 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Dangerous Dialogue Series: Inside a Professional Credit Card Fraud Operation Jordan Harbinger of The Art of Charm takes a rare glimpse inside the business of a professional credit card fraudster and social engineer. In this episode, we will: -Learn about the internet criminal underworld even before the infamous Silk Road -Meet one of the former top dogs from the site, and hear how he started his credit card fraud business -How he went to jail and why -How he made thousands from fraud and how easy it was -How to reprogram credit cards -How social engineering is crucial to the scam’s success -How he took his credit card factory mobile -How he got caught and became an informant for the FBI -How he snitched on the Russian mafia -...and more Not our usual fare, but I think you guys will definitely dig this episode.

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]]> 45:03 yes yes 249: AoC Toolbox | How to Read Body Language Wed, 16 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Your actions speak so loudly, I can not hear what you are saying." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

In the latest installment of The Art of Charm Toolbox, Justin Jensen, an instructor at The Art of Charm discusses reading body language, why it's important and how to do it like a pro to see if she's interested.

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]]> 45:03 yes yes 248: Ryan Holiday | The Obstacle is the Way Mon, 14 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Some lack the fickleness to live as they wish and just live as they have begun." - Seneca

Ryan Holiday discusses turning obstacles into opportunity. This isn't just motivational, but instructive. Have a listen and learn to persevere like a champ. Ryan and Jordan also discuss: Turning obstacles into advantages Why twitter’s key feature might be a bug How famous historical characters viewed obstacles and turned them into strengths How to control our perceptions & emotions and see things as they are How an ancient principle can steel us and make us immune to failure How to re-frame events and turn disaster into opportunity.

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]]> 48:45 yes yes 247: Robert Fitzpatrick | Why MLM Is a Scam Wed, 09 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "It isn't what we don't know that gets us into trouble, it's what we do know for certain that isn't true." - Mark Twain

Robert L Fitzpatrick is an author and the go-to expert for MLM and ponzi schemes for corporations and governments around the world. Author of False Profits which comes from his experience in consulting and court cases involving MLM and from hundreds and hundreds of MLM case studies including members and companies. This show WILL make me enemies, and I don't care. I'd rather protect those that would otherwise fall victim. -Jordan In this provocative show, we'll discuss: How MLM has hijacked the American Dream How MLM is diff from a 'real' business How even 'smart' people get sucked into MLM How the MLM pitch is predatory by design Why it’s so important to me personally to do this show for you guys Why MLM does not work (and the math to prove it) How 99% of MLM victims never actually make any money and actually LOSE money (this is fact, not hyperbole nor opinion) How some of the Amway, Herbalife and other MLM ‘superstars’ are actually broke and filing for bankruptcy Parallels between MLM and religious cults Why the lure is not just money but actually far more dangerous How to uncover if something is a pyramid scheme or MLM and what to do if you're approached by someone you care about or see another loved one being roped into the scam.

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]]> 01:12:37 yes yes 246: Mike Matthews | Muscle for Life Mon, 07 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “In this age, which believes that there is a short cut to everything, the greatest lesson to be learned is that the most difficult way is, in the long run, the easiest.” – Henry Miller

Mike Matthews of MuscleForLife.com comes to myth-bust and discuss the fallacies in the fitness industry designed to relieve you of your money. Also covered: Why the "low T" trend in fitness knowledge is bullcrap How bodybuilders and the supplement industry build insecurity to sell you stuff, even though it doesn't actually do anything and can actually HURT you. The power of habit and systematizing your fitness and nutrition How to get past the ‘habit dip’ and stick with new things instead of giving up How building positive habits builds trust in yourself and in-turn, self-confidence Why habit building is ALWAYS happening (you’re either building GOOD habits, or BAD habits, ALL of the time)

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]]> 57:27 yes yes 245: Daniel Waldschmidt | Edgy Conversations Wed, 02 Apr 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Old buddies Dan Waldschmidt and Jordan Harbinger discuss: What to believe in (and what to do) when no one believes in you The crucial difference between doing versus being (this isn’t just some woo-woo mantra) The difference between insanity and discipline (it’s probably not what you think!) Why having a dream (versus just having an idea) matters How to stay on track and avoid overwhelm How to make productivity and being awesome a habit Dan Waldschmidt is an international business strategist, speaker, author, and extreme athlete. His consulting firm solves complex marketing and business strategy problems for savvy companies all over the world. Dow Jones calls his Edgy Conversations blog one of the top sales sites on the internet. He’s been profiled in Business Week, INC Magazine, BBC, Fox News, The Today Show, and Business Insider, has been the featured guest on dozens of radio programs, and has published hundreds of articles on progressive business strategy. He is author of Edgy Conversations: How Ordinary People Achieve Outrageous Success.

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]]> 34:05 yes yes 244: Chris Ducker | Virtual Freedom Mon, 31 Mar 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "The way to be nothing is to do nothing." -Anonymous

Chris Ducker, author of Virtual Freedom has 22 years in the sales industry behind him, along with 11 in the outsourcing world alone. That pretty much makes him an OG outsourcing 'guru' who has put points on the board long before any of us heard of outsourcing for our own small businesses. He's also a speaker, blogger and expat badass. If you don't have your own biz, this episode will still get you thinking about what you can outsource in your own life, or how you might change the way you'd start working for yourself. Chris comes to us long-distance from his palatial estate (n.b. I have no evidence for that statement) located in the Philippines, to discuss: -His outsourcing businesses (call center, virtual assistants/staff, co-working space) -We pick up where Tim Ferris left off with Brickwork and outsourcing to Virtual Assistants -Outline the different types of outsourcing -How to hire and MANAGE a GREAT Virtual Assistant (components of a good hire) -What type of tasks should we outsource first, and; -The three lists that will make you 10x more effective as an entrepreneur

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]]> 51:00 yes yes 243: Tripp Lanier | The New Man Thu, 27 Mar 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp. Personal Development for guys that think self-help is for losers. In this episode, Jordan and Tripp discuss: Taking relationships to the next level Making a commitment you're excited about Managing expectations and agreements Creating a relationship you're psyched to commit to Agreements -- what you want vs what "they" want Avoiding the "marriage trap"

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]]> 44:52 yes yes 242: Turner Bar | Around the World in 80 Jobs Sun, 23 Mar 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Almost everything – all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart." -Steve Jobs

Turner Barr has been on the road traveling almost non-stop for nearly 8 years. He's taken jobs of all sorts (and we mean just about everything sort of porn -or do we?) In this episode, Turner & Jordan explore Turner's compulsive nomadism, including: -How Turner has always been encouraged to “Run [his] own [rat] race" -How to get value from busy people -Non-neediness and how this relates making friends overseas -Enjoying the process not the destination and not getting caught up in outcome -How to create your own opportunities for engagement and greatness -How to break states and engage people in a new place -Humorizing negativity and taking ourselves and our egos out of the situation

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]]> 37:40 yes yes 241: Josh Klein | Reputation Economics Thu, 20 Mar 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Causality is Infinite." Josh Klein & Jordan Harbinger discuss: How humans have so much power to connect & amass resources Black-market economics and what Girl Scout Cookies and Snuff Porn have in common How the spread of the internet is increasing the black market and emerging economies Why we’re back to the barter system and why that's a good thing Why giving your resources away is the quickest way to success Ways to maximize your networking skills How to network with the elite and offer value even if you have no money

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]]> 47:05 yes yes 240: John Romaniello | Engineering the Alpha Sun, 16 Mar 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Chop your own wood and it will warm you twice." - Proverb

Hormones: Optimize your hormones to become the best version of yourself and how to do it. Why is optimal testosterone so important? Lifestyle factors that influence testosterone. The signs of low testosterone. Why men have lower testosterone levels at a younger and younger age. How testosterone affects risk-taking and how risk-taking benefits you. What is Insulin and what can you expect from a low carb diet? Benefits of a high fat diet (bacon!) Benefits of saturated fat and cholesterol (Destroying the myth again). Benefits of fasting. What is the first step someone should take on the journey to the perfect body? Leptin manipulation and the science behind cheat days. How sleep influences your hormones. The best ways to improve sleep quality. How the mind affects the body and the body affects the mind (Sound familiar anyone?) How your thinking can influence hormones and how to reprogram your thoughts. Cortisol: The importance of reducing stress and the best ways to do it. John Romaniello, one of the most highly regarded experts in the fitness industry, has written for a myriad of publications, ranging from Men's Health to Fast Company, and has been featured as an expert on a number of television programs, including Good Morning America. His book Man 2.0 Engineering The Alpha: A Real World Guide to an Unreal Life debuted at #4 on the New York Times bestseller list. Romaniello is an angel investor in addition to his writing, and serves as an advisor to nearly a dozen fitness and tech companies.

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]]> 57:08 yes yes BONUS: Jordan Harbinger on Foster the Podcast Fri, 14 Mar 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Jordan Harbinger chums it up with AoC alum and comic extraordinaire Justin Foster & Co on his show, Foster the Podcast. Boom.

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]]> 59:44 yes yes 239: Athol Kay | Married Man Sex Life Thu, 13 Mar 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “Life is a marathon not a sprint.” -Probably Your Dad

In another "instant classic" episode, Athol Kay of Married Man Sex Life and Jordan Harbinger cover: Why marriage therapy has failed couples and will continue to do so Why focusing on 'better communication' doesn't work What Alpha Male and Beta Male REALLY mean in the context of YOUR relationship (hint: you are NOT alpha [nor beta]!) The roles oxytocin, dopamine and testosterone play in your relationship What it means when a woman says “I love you but I'm not in love with you” Why it’s your job to lead, ALWAYS (and WHY) What Newton’s Laws of Motion have to do with your sex life How to consistently create attraction between you and your wife/girlfriend and why this is crucial to survival [view:http://media.blubrry.com/theartofcharm/itunes.pickuppodcast.com/239AtholKay.mp3] What I could tell you about Athol is that he has a diverse educational and professional background, including sociology, religious studies, nursing, behavioral health. He has a self-taught volume of knowledge about evolutionary psychology, sexuality, relationships, self-help and game. He has written three books and writes the cutting edge Married Man Sex Life blog. What I would like to tell you though, is while he’s a heavy duty theory guy, he’s always looking for it to work in reality. It has to be practical to him. This is what makes him a great match for The Art of Charm Podcast.

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]]> 52:02 yes yes 238: Abel James | The Fat-Burning Man Sun, 09 Mar 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Every kick in the ass is a step forward." - Anon

Jordan Harbinger and Abel James rock out in this episode of the show, branching into a plethora of unusual topics, such as: What makes an effective morning ritual Why environmental design can make or break your living/work space Music and its effect on the brain Why journaling is a mainstay of successful entrepreneurs and creators How gratitude is a habit, not a feeling, and why it's important for EVERYONE A modern-day Renaissance man, Abel James is a #1 bestselling author, Top 10 app developer, award-winning talk show host, and serial entrepreneur. Abel’s work has been featured in WIRED Magazine, Paleo Living, and hundreds of media outlets in business, technology, psychology, and health. Abel is the host of the wildly popular Fat-Burning Man Show, rated as the #1 Podcast in Health in 2012-13. Abel and his team developed Caveman Feast, the #1 App in Food and Drink across the world and #6 App overall in the Apple Store in 2013. Abel’s Intro to Paleo and The Musical Brain are distinguished as #1 bestsellers in health and psychology. Abel has advised Fortune 500 and federal government clients including Microsoft, State Street Global Advisors, Lockheed Martin, the Department of Education, the Department of Labor, and the Library of Congress. Also a professional musician and singer-songwriter, Abel James has toured North America and Europe as the bandleader of multiple award-winning musical groups. Abel completed high school and college in a total of just six years. Distinguished as Valedictorian at New Hampton School, Abel graduated as a Senior Fellow with Honors at Dartmouth College with a concentration in Psychological and Brain Sciences. Abel is probably bad at something. We're just not sure what that is yet.

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]]> 55:57 yes yes 237: Antonio Centeno | Real Men, Real Style Thu, 06 Mar 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "I cried because I had no shoes, till I met a man who had no feet." -Anon

Antonio Centeno is the founder of RealMenRealStyle.com & ATailroredSuit.com. He's created over 1000 articles & videos on men's style, blogs at the Art of Manliness, and is the author numerous style books. Antonio has studied clothing design in London, Hong Kong, and Bangkok. He is a former US Marine with an MBA from UT Austin and a BA from Cornell College. In this episode, Jordan and Antonio cover: Why Personal Presentation Matters (it's not as obvious as you think) The Science of Style Taking Action vs. Analysis Paralysis Building an interchangeable wardrobe Systemizing your Style Why we can't hide from our body TYPE Why tailored clothing isn't just for corporate types anymore

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]]> 44:40 yes yes 236: AoC Toolbox | Vocal Tonality Sun, 02 Mar 2014 07:00:00 +0000 In this long-awaited edition of The Art of Charm Toolbox, AJ & Jordan Harbinger outline some of the basics of solid vocal tonality, including drills and exercises to improve your voice and hone your pitch, cadence and tone, as well as begin to eliminate filler words and vocal tics. If you've ever wanted to feel more confident presenting, speaking to groups or even while expressing yourself in simple conversation, this episode is for you.

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]]> 29:52 yes yes 235: Adam Lyons | Network Like a Champion Wed, 26 Feb 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "If you love what you do, you'll never work a day in your life."

Adam Lyons has spent the last 2 years growing and building a film production company. Despite many people telling me the company will fail due to the state of the film industry the company is fairly successful, and the key to that success has been using his skills at social engineering to grow and develop that company. In this episode, Adam Lyons and Jordan Harbinger discuss: Apprenticeship: why it's a MUST to learn in-person from the best Why 'less theory, more practical' is the key to real-world application How to network like a champion by getting people to actually ENJOY and like you Why it's better to know fewer folks but be more strongly connected Why it's okay to take advice from people who can't apply it themselves

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]]> 56:27 yes yes 234: Jay Cross | Do-It-Yourself Degree Sun, 23 Feb 2014 07:00:00 +0000 The Naive Question: "If we weren't already doing it this way, is this the way we would start?" -Peter Drucker

How many of us are doing things we've always done, because we've always done them? Maybe it's our jobs, where we live, the people we surround ourselves with...it could be anything. The Naive Question forces us to re-assess these lazy commitments. After all: if we're only doing something out of habit, it's probably time to do something else. Take school. If college were invented this year, how many students would rationally decide to borrow $100K to attend? Jay Cross says very few. THAT is the Naive Question in action. It shows us which decisions we made for convenience and which decisions we made consciously. Jay Cross and Jordan Harbinger discuss: Why "It is not enough to merely avoid failure: you need to strive for success." How most of us prefer a good excuse for mediocrity over temporary embarrassment for greatness. How your personality type (the scientific one, not the astrology one) has to do with your goals and your current level(s) of success Are you TALKING or are you DOING? How to handle naysayers and haters Working BACKWARDS from your goals Jay is an author and ed tech entrepreneur from Connecticut. He runs The Do-It-Yourself Degree to help thousands of independent learners graduate faster (and debt-free) and is working on a book of the same topic. Jay's college strategies have been featured by Fox Business, Popular Mechanics, I Will Teach You To Be Rich, Brazen Careerist, The Personal MBA, and UnCollege.org.

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]]> 01:00:11 yes yes 233: Charlie Hoehn | Play It Away Wed, 19 Feb 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Man is God’s plaything, and that is the best part of him. Therefore every man and woman should live life accordingly, and play the noblest games... What, then, is the right way of living? Life must be lived as play." – Plato

Charlie was living the dream. Then he burnt out and started having panic attacks. As in, curl-up-on-the-floor and shiver panic attacks. In this episode of the show, we'll discuss how and why he burned out, what he did about it, and what you can do if you find yourself in the same shoes. Also: The mental shift ("A-ha!" moment) that allowed Charlie to snap out of his anxiety and workaholism, and finally enjoy life again How the Work mentality affects us on an individual and cultural level, and why people who choose to play for a living are more fulfilled and successful How to boost your productivity by having guilt-free fun Why "anchors" fuel anxiety, and how to remove them How to optimize your sleeping schedule Three common nutrient deficiencies that amplify anxiety, and how to easily fix them About Charlie: Charlie Hoehn is the author of Play It Away: A Workaholic's Cure for Anxiety, and a marketing strategist for authors and startups. After graduating from Colorado State University in 2008, he studied under and worked with a number of bestselling authors, such as Ramit Sethi, Seth Godin, and Tucker Max. He worked alongside Tim Ferriss during the production and launch of The 4-Hour Body, which hit #1 on the New York Times bestseller list and sold over a million copies. Charlie is also the author of Recession-Proof Graduate: How To Land The Job You Want By Doing Free Work, a popular career guide that’s been downloaded more than 150,000 times. His work has been featured by The New York Times, NPR, CBS, TEDx, and Business Insider.

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]]> 51:56 yes yes 232: Helene Taylor, Esq. | Why You Need a Prenup Sun, 16 Feb 2014 07:00:00 +0000 ”And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” -Paulo Coelho

Helene L. Taylor is a divorce attorney with twenty years of experience who is committed to using her experience to help make people’s divorces easier, relationships stronger and lives happier. In this episode, Helene will let us know why we all need a prenup, no matter what the state of our current relationship. Who needs prenuptials Why prenuptials lead to stronger marriages How and when to talk to your date about prenuptials Why being honest about what you want and don’t want is essential What to do if your date is anti-prenuptial Helene also gives us some practical strategies for managing the logistics of a serious relationship, how to prepare for divorce or hard-times and how to get help once you hit them.

Helene can be reached at: www.heleneltaylor.com or by phone at: 415-968-3028

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]]> 44:49 yes yes 231: Sam Vaknin | Narcissistic Psychopath Wed, 12 Feb 2014 07:00:00 +0000 “As a psychopath I abuse as thoughtlessly and automatically as you breathe … I find it pleasurable to inflict pain on people.” - Sam Vaknin

Meet the man whose affliction is also his field of expertise. In one of the most chilling episodes we've ever done, we speak to Sam Vaknin, a real-life Psychopathic Narcissist. Sam Vaknin is the author of Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited and other books about personality disorders. In this episode, Sam tells us how he found out he was a psychopathic narcissist, what causes these conditions, why people like him are so dangerous and, more importantly, how we can spot early warning signs in others before it's too late (and what to do if we do see them -HINT: Run).

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]]> 01:02:45 yes yes 230: AoC Toolbox | Red Flags Wed, 05 Feb 2014 07:00:00 +0000 So you've found someone new and you're love-struck? That's great! Watch out for these red flags that tend to signal crazy, high-maintenance (or worse) from a mile away. Which red flags do you see in yourself? A sobering look at people's tell-tale signs, as well as your own. Enjoy! :)

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]]> 42:46 yes yes 229: Rob Lewis | Inside the Mind of a Green Beret Sun, 02 Feb 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Inside the mind of a Green Beret: How the US Army Green Berets work and what they do. Rob Lewis is a US Army Green Beret and has been deployed to Iraq, Africa, and Afghanistan, amongst numerous other training deployments around the US and Europe. At the end of his time in the Army his medals included the Purple Heart, Bronze Star, NATO non-article 5 medal, two Army Commendation Medals, Special Forces Tab, Combat Infantry Badge, Airborne wings, Iraq Campaign Medal with star, Afghanistan Campaign Medal, and many ribbons for his exploits with the Army. "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." -Wayne Gretzky In this episode of the show, Jordan Harbinger & Robert Lewis uncover: Why Fear is Failure Why and how you can always put your best foot forward The concept that it doesn't matter what you did yesterday or what you're going to do tomorrow, only what you are doing now. Why it's important to never get comfortable and always have a goal that requires discomfort to reach The idea that communication skills are a muscle that needs to be worked out or left to atrophy. (hint: you're working it out as you listen to us!) How to set measurable, attainable goals based on metrics.

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]]> 01:10:22 yes yes 228: AoC Alumni Spotlight: Daniel Sun, 26 Jan 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Daniel, an AoC alum, went from homeless to successful entrepreneur and philanthropist. In this episode, we explore how he used his AoC skill set to grow, advance and overcome -every step of the way.

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]]> 39:15 yes yes 227: Jamie Smart | Author: Clarity Sun, 19 Jan 2014 07:00:00 +0000 Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And, most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” -Steve Jobs

Jamie Smart is a speaker, coach, trainer & author of the number 1 bestselling book, CLARITY: Clear Mind, Better Performance, Bigger Results. He shows individuals and organizations the unexpected keys to clarity; the ultimate leverage point for creating more time, better decisions and meaningful results. He’s passionate about helping people deepen their understanding of Innate Thinking® and to create the results that matter to them. He regularly appears on the UK's national TV news as an expert on state of mind and high performance. Jamie Smart & Jordan Harbinger uncover: • The inner source of confidence and security. I’m talking about the kind of natural confidence that has you feel comfortable in your own skin, and gives you the courage to do the right thing, no matter what the situation (whether it’s speaking your truth, approaching someone you’re attracted to or standing up for what’s right.) • Discover the secret to deep, genuine connection. It turns out that connection is the most natural thing in the world, once you understand how it works. You’re going to find out how to find a real sense of connection with others (you’ll also find out what to do at those times when you notice it slipping away). • How to get out of your head and into the present moment. Maybe people have told you that you think too much, or that you just need to be present. But I bet they’ve never shown you exactly where that presence comes from, and how you can spend more and more time there. Get ready to find out! • The ultimate leverage point for evaporating your limiting beliefs. All limiting beliefs are the result of a fundamental misunderstanding of two things: 1) How the mind works, and 2) Who you really are. As you discover the answers to both these questions, you’re limiting beliefs will start falling over like dominoes. • Start tapping into your inner source of authentic attraction. You see, it turns out that the most naturally attractive thing about any human being is your willingness to be truly yourself, no matter what the cost. The great news is that it takes absolutely no effort to be yourself. You’re going to find out that it’s easier than you ever thought possible.

]]> 01:17:36 yes yes Bonus: The Overwhelmed Brain interviews Jordan Harbinger Wed, 15 Jan 2014 07:00:00 +0000 I was recently interviewed on "The Overwhelmed Brain," one of the top podcasts in the iTunes Health/Self-Help category. What I appreciated about this show was that I actually had an opportunity to dig a bit deeper into some topics rarely discussed when it comes to non-verbal communication, congruence/incongruence, and what makes someone "creepy". Enter Paul Coliaianni... Jordan Harbinger from The Art of Charm stops by to talk about non-verbal communication. What is it? How can it help us communicate with others, especially those we are interested in getting to know better? Jordan helps us understand why men can appear creepy, and sometimes even repulsive to women. The Art of Charm helps men gain their confidence and learn how to approach women without succumbing to the many fears (or worse, desperation) that can demotivate so many men. This particular episode is full of fantastic information about the non-verbal signals we all give off in social situations and more. It’s definitely one you don’t want to miss, whether you’re a man or a woman! My favorite quote from this interview: “Leave everything better than you found it “ What Jordan teaches us: The definition of non-verbal communication, and the assumptions we make because of it How fast others get a first impression of us (hint: It’s way before we even meet!) How we can utilize non-verbal communication to portray ourselves more confidently and assertively How to go from down and out to up and energized using body language Why women are more evolved in reading non-verbal communication What message you convey using certain physical mannerisms Why some people appear “creepy” Does following your gut really work? How micro-expressions tell a bigger story about people A little bit about sociopaths, and how their mindset helps them manipulate people Does role-playing “confidence” convey and emit actual confidence? What are some signs that you are not in good rapport with someone? What Jordan Reveals: He tells me his real name (because I got it totally wrong!) The best piece of advice he’s ever been given What he does to make sure he doesn’t blow up when things get too heated

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]]> 01:10:37 yes yes 226: Erik Paquet | Travel Hacker (Abroaders.com) Sun, 12 Jan 2014 07:00:00 +0000 "Happiness is an internal function. It is completely within your power to define your own value." - Anonymous

Travel hacking is a great tool to help you to fake it till you make it. Travel hacking started out as a casual hobby while Erik was studying at the University of Michigan. In the six years since then, he's redeemed more than 1 million frequent flyer miles for $20-30k of free travel. He burned the ships in 2011 and started a media and marketing company to help small businesses succeed online. He currently has team members working remotely in Europe, Asia, and South America to serve clients in the United States, Brazil, and Hong Kong. His objective was to create freedom of time and location for myself, so I could pursue personal development and travel while continuing to build a business. For about 2 years, he's been coaching friends, family, and other entrepreneurs on how to leverage their credit to dramatically reduce the cost of travel. Abroaders.com is focused on empowering people to travel and helping them maximize the value by networking with awesome people and developing valuable skills.

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]]> 01:02:55 yes yes Bonus: Go Legendary (#1 of 4) Interview with writer/director Paul Sapiano and actor Dominique Purdy of "Boys and Girls Guide to Getting Down” Wed, 08 Jan 2014 07:00:00 +0000 The guys at Go Legendary debut the new show and discuss the Divorce Hotel, a study that states Men are funnier than women, Lindsey Lohan in Playboy, The Trunk Club an online personal shopping for men and the love drug Oxytocin. Interview with writer, director Paul Sapiano and actor Dominique Purdy of "Boys and Girls Guide to Getting down" and "Hollywood Sex Wars" where they go over what it takes to make it in Hollywood and the struggles of making a movie with limited budgets.

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]]> 53:17 yes yes 225: AoC Toolbox | Relationship Foundations Sun, 05 Jan 2014 07:00:00 +0000 When things go right an you’ve met someone who piques as much interest and curiosity in you as you have in them relationships bloom. AJ, Johnny and Justin go through the ins and outs of setting up boundaries, continuing being your charismatic self and putting together a solid foundation for a healthy relationship.

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]]> 01:07:27 yes yes 224: Kim Ades | Frame of Mind Coaching Sun, 29 Dec 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Kim Ades (“Addiss”), MBA is president and founder of Frame of Mind Coaching and JournalEngine (TM) Software. Author, speaker, entrepreneur, coach, and mother of 5 (yep, five). Kim is one of North America’s foremost experts on performance through thought management. By using her unique process of coaching through journaling, she works with high profile clients to unveil and switch their thought patterns to ignite significant organizational change and personal transformation. In this episode of the podcast, Jordan Harbinger and Kim Ades discuss: The difference between people who live extraordinary lives and others. What is thought management? Increasing your success and happiness through thought management (including the mindset which holds all of us back) The mindset for confidence. (e.g. Why do some guys get all the girls and others don’t?) How expectations drive results and outcomes in our lives In order to work on the belief that you deserve a beautiful, smart and amazing woman in your life, you want to find and dispel the beliefs that stand in your way.

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]]> 50:19 yes yes Bonus: Flip-The-Script | Jordan Harbinger interviewed on The Art of Charm Podcast Tue, 24 Dec 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Merry Christ-ma-Hannu-Kwanza-ka everyone! Test out your new smartphone, iPhone/iPad or mp3 player gizmo here! In this episode of the show, ManSchool's Caleb Bacon once more interviews Jordan Harbinger. This time not about Kidnapping but about running The Art of Charm with AJ, Johnny and the crew, learning multiple languages, traveling to North Korea and more. Don't miss this shameless attempt to boost download numbers during the slow-season! ;)

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]]> 01:07:41 yes yes 223: Kris Wolfe | GoodGuySwag.com Sun, 22 Dec 2013 07:00:00 +0000 “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” -Jim Rohn

There are a lot of components when it comes to self-improvement, but if you're not happy with who you are, look at the people you are closest with. Change requires going outside of your comfort zone and sometimes finding new friends. It applies to my site because the first component is always starting with yourself. In this episode of the podcast, Kris Wolfe, the founder/editor of goodguyswag.com discusses: 1. The premise of goodguyswag.com, namely, that a man needs to be complete through the mind, body, and soul. 2. The mind: of course you can do daily affirmations in the mirror, but being strong in the mind really means clearing out any obstacles that might be keeping you from your goals. For some, it might mean counseling; for others, it might be finding good mentors; or a mix of several things. A lot of guys believe all they need is to find the woman of their dreams, but start with yourself before bringing someone else onboard. 3. After your mindset has changed, work on your confidence. Since this is a holistic approach, developing a body you can be proud of will help develop confidence. 4. Along with developing confidence in the body, working on our spiritual bodies is just as important. For some it might be prayer, others, yoga. Sharing the same faith as your future wife is important. Some readers of "The Wife List" have pointed out they found their true love and they are both atheists. Bottom line is, sharing the same beliefs is important if you're spiritual or not. 5. Prepare: more than anything, prepare yourself to be the best person you can be for the one you may eventually marry.

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]]> 56:23 yes yes 222: Chris & Greg | RoadToRipped.com Sun, 15 Dec 2013 07:00:00 +0000 "Discomfort brings engagement and change. Discomfort means you're doing something that others are unlikely to do because they're hiding out in the comfort zone." - Seth Godin

Gregory O'Gallagher and Christopher Walker are fitness bloggers and co-hosts of the Road To Ripped podcast. Gregory has mastered the Hollywood aesthetic ideal in both his own physique and countless successful clients. He is the author of the Warrior Shredding Program and several other successful muscle building and cutting courses. Christopher is a former fashion model with a degree in neuroscience who figured out how to naturally raise his testosterone levels from almost nothing to above the medical reference range using training and nutrition, a process which he teaches others how to do in his program Testosterone IO. In this episode, Chris, Greg & Jordan discuss: The Power of intermittent fasting Why you should only work out 3 times a week How to make fitness a part of your lifestyle What it really takes to build an incredible physique and keep it forever How to stay fit while traveling We also bust some common fitness myths, like post-workout shakes, eating 5+ meals/day, eating carbs at night, eating 'too much' cholesterol, etc. You don't want to miss this stuff.

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]]> 01:16:13 yes yes 221: AoC Toolbox | Guide to First Dates Sun, 08 Dec 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Now that you've met and garnered some interest from the opposite sex AJ, Johnny and Justin go through some tried & tested ideas and tips to help you out on those all-important first dates. This episode keeps it simple so you can enjoy your date rather than sweating it out.

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]]> 40:10 yes yes Bonus: Jordan Harbinger & Kim Seltzer on Sideshow Network's 'Double Date' Wed, 27 Nov 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Obviously Kim and I aren't a couple, but we went on Double Date anyway. Here's the result. via SideshowNetwork.tv "This week, Shane and April are joined by dating coaches Jordan Harbinger and Kimberly Seltzer for an interesting discussion about relationships, dating and Alcatraz." Double Date podcast description: Shane Mauss, a self-described “gangle-puss” (adj. a gangly snuggle-puss) with a penchant for animal mating behavior and science facts and April Macie, a self-denied “angry feminist” (Betty Freidan in a bikini) met on a bus… SHANE: “You can’t just say we met on a bus!” APRIL: “It was a bus!!” SHANE: “People are going to think we met on a Greyhound.” APRIL: “Okay! We met on a DAMN tour bus!” Anyway, after dating for a little over a year, these two professional touring comedians and lovers are running out of things to say to one another and are in the market for new couple friends to squelch their boredom. DOUBLE DATE is a weekly 30-50 minute podcast/ application for couple friends that will cover topics like: Sex, relationships, religion, politics, evolutionary psychology (mostly Shane), and women’s rights (mostly April). Listen weekly as these two talk with another couple in an attempt to push social boundaries and slowly dismantle their own relationship in a desperate bid for attention.

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]]> 19:07 yes yes 219: Suzanne Venker | Women For Men Sun, 24 Nov 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Suzanne Venker is often called an anti-feminist. An outspoken author, speaker and editorial consultant, she has written extensively about marriage, motherhood and the influence of feminism on women and society. She is also the founder of Women for Men (WFM), an organization committed to the needs of boys and men and to bringing the sexes together. Suzanne's work has been published in the New York Post, St. Louis Post-Dispatch, Parents.com and others. She has appeared on The View, Fox & Friends, ABCNews.com, CNN, and Canadian and Australian news outlets—as well as hundreds of radio shows throughout the country. But as you know, once she's featured here, that's all that matters, right? :) On the personal side, Suzanne is a mother of two, and she’s been a wife for twenty years. In other words, she's a normal person with a normal life with what many would regard as some very un-normal opinions. On this episode, Suzanne and Jordan discuss: -How the culture works against you (men) when it comes to love -Why women succeed at work but not in their relationships -How men perceive the modern woman -Red flags to watch out for when selecting a girlfriend and eventually a wife -Why cohabitation before marriage is a bad idea

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]]> 48:13 yes yes 218: AoC Toolbox | Nightlife Do's and Don'ts Sun, 17 Nov 2013 07:00:00 +0000 AJ and Johnny interview club builder, production manager and friend of the show Derek W on the ins and outs of the nightlife industry. Different ways of getting into the clubs, making a statement when you do and getting the most out of your evening plus a few crazy stories thrown in to illustrate how to do things right and what happens when things go wrong.

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]]> 57:06 yes yes Bonus: Jordan Harbinger on Jeff Steinmann's "How to Quit Working" Podcast Wed, 13 Nov 2013 07:00:00 +0000 I was recently interviewed on Jeff Steinmann's podcast about how I ditched my Wall Street job to co-found The Art of Charm. So, for those of you that were curious about my entrée into this particularly random/unusual industry, here you go. :) Enter Jeff Steinmann: How Jordan Harbinger used his Charm to Quit Working so he can Enjoy Life. While he was in law school, Jordan Harbinger and his buddy started a podcast called The Pickup Podcast (on which I recently appeared) just because they thought it would be fun and they wanted to share what they were learning about talking to women as they tried to turn their ho-hum 19-year-old love lives around. They were having fun with it and everything was going fine. It was just a hobby. Meanwhile Jordan finished law school and started working at a big NYC law firm. Enjoying the big wall street lawyer bucks, he developed a taste for the finer things in life. Fast cars, a nice New York City apartment and big bar tabs with friends. Suddenly, the music stopped. Jordan’s firm told him he was being downsized. The good news is that by this time, the Pickup Podcast was starting to “pick up” — (pun intended; I couldn’t resist). It had a large and growing following. Not discouraged, Jordan know he had something going with the podcast and he completely rebuilt his life – and this time there was no soul-sucking lawyering job involved. This show isn’t just about monetizing a podcast (there’s plenty of that), but it’s really about a whole new way of looking at living your life. A new way that puts the things that that get you excited FIRST. On this episode of the How to Quit Working Show Jordan is going to share: Exactly what he did when faced with an expensive lifestyle and suddenly NO income. Besides business savvy, how do you get a podcast to actually pay you. How he transformed the Pickup Podcast from being just a hobby to the money-making empire it is today.

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]]> 52:57 yes yes 217: Adam Gilad | Dating Younger Women Sun, 10 Nov 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Adam Gilad has spent the last 7 years leading men and women into robust, fearless dating and intimate lives. Adam is a unique dating and communication expert, melding his experience teaching writing and poetry at Stanford University, hosting National Lampoon Radio, crafting movie scripts as an Emmy-Nominated Executive Producer and screenwriter to create a devastatingly effective and profoundly inspiring approach to dating, conscious sexuality and relationships. Adam is the author of several programs for men, including The Boldness Code, Instant Confidence With Women, Deep Online Attraction, Deep Erotic Mastery, How To Make Her Your Dream Lover, How To Talk To Beautiful Women, Tantric 101/102 and most recently, the comprehensive guide, Date Younger With Dignity. In this episode of the podcast, Adam Gilad & Jordan Harbinger talk about: -the 3 things men do wrong when dating online -the 3 things every online profile should have …and the 3 things every list of 3 things should have ;)

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]]> 01:10:10 yes yes 215: AoC Toolbox | How to Get Over a Breakup Sun, 27 Oct 2013 07:00:00 +0000 When it comes to dating and relationships, we’ve spent a lot of our toolbox episodes on getting things started. One phase we haven’t talked too much about is the breakup. AJ Harbinger, Johnny D and Justin Jensen discuss picking yourself up, dusting yourself off and getting yourself back out there on the market.

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]]> 47:21 yes yes 214: Emily Morse | SexWithEmily.com Sun, 20 Oct 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Emily Morse of "Sex With Emily" drops by to spice up your ear buds. Jordan and Emily dish on: -engaging in "foreplay all day" -opening up your partner sexually -sexual communication, communicating your preferences to your partner effectively -sexual compatibility (what the heck is that, anyway?) -how to rescue your sex life

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]]> 01:02:56 yes yes Bonus: Social Engineering Defense Contractors on LinkedIn and Facebook: Who's plugged into your employees? Sun, 13 Oct 2013 07:00:00 +0000 This is a recording of Jordan Harbinger's 2012 talk at DerbyCon Infosecurity conference, entitled: Social Engineering Defense Contractors on LinkedIn and Facebook: Who's plugged into your employees? Syopsis: Sure, Top Secret cleared staff and employees have 'protocol' and rules to follow regarding internet use and social media -but what if they don't (or won't) follow them? What if they're looking to jump ship and no longer care about policy? I put this question to the test and mined confidential information from dozens of contractors and personnel from law enforcement, the military and high-profile defense contractors by using LinkedIn and other social media, all from home and nearly all of it using only my phone...

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]]> 47:11 yes yes 213: AJ Harbinger | AttractionAlchemy.com Sun, 06 Oct 2013 07:00:00 +0000 AJ Harbinger & Jordan Harbinger discuss why generating attraction is a piece of CAKE and The Art of Charm's new book, Attraction Alchemy. www.AttractionAlchemy.com

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]]> 39:42 yes yes 212: Charles J. Orlando | TheProblemWithWomenIsMen.com Sun, 29 Sep 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Charles J. Orlando is a bestselling author and relationship/interpersonal relations expert who has spent the last 10+ years connecting with tens of thousands of people to answer two key questions: What challenges plague romantic relationships in today's technology-centric world; and what do women and men truly want from their significant others in a long-term relationship? Referred to as "The Malcolm Gladwell of Relationships" by the media—and "Carrie Bradshaw-meets-Hitch" by his readers—Charles has built a 640,000+ person fan base on Facebook—completely by word-of-mouth—where he offers free, street-smart love advice to men and women around the world. Providing advice and relationship insights to the masses has been a personal calling for Charles, with his overarching goal to "positively influence as many people as possible." Jordan & Charles riff on: • Why women cheat • How to prevent your girl from stepping out on you • Why women love alpha males • Modern-day chivalry: Does it still work with women's empowerment? • How and why men get played by women

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]]> 01:00:30 yes yes 211: Barbie Davenporte | Sexpert Q&A Sun, 22 Sep 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Sexpert Barbie Davenporte drops by to tackle some listener-submitted sex and relationship questions, such as: -How to bring up the STD question -I've made mistakes in my past. How do I avoid being judged in my current relationship? -"My girlfriend has had sex (or sexual experience) with more people than me, what do I do?" -"How do I cope with a girl who is more sexual and more daring in bed than me?" -"How do I get my girl to open up in bed?" -"My girlfriend wants something in bed that I'm uncomfortable with. Help!"

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]]> 46:20 yes yes 210: Susan Winter | Relationship Coach (part 2 of 2) Sun, 15 Sep 2013 07:00:00 +0000 (part 2 of 2, continued from last week) Susan Winter and Jordan Harbinger have an epic two-part conversation about relationships and relationship management. This will be one for the "best of" page in no time. Topics this week and next: -How to decide on (and screen in) the type of women you want for a relationship -How to answer the "What Are We?" question -How to establish personal boundaries in a relationship -How to handle conflict within a relationship -How to handle the transition from the 'honeymoon phase' to a real relationship -Handling common issues & hurdles in a relationship -How to handle her past -How to handle your future as a couple -Jealousy/possessiveness -What to do when she's pulling away -What to do when she drops 'The L-Bomb'

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]]> 59:29 yes yes 209: Susan Winter | Relationship Coach Sun, 08 Sep 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Susan Winter and Jordan Harbinger have an epic two-part conversation about relationships and relationship management. This will be one for the "best of" page in no time. Topics this week and next: -How to decide on (and screen in) the type of women you want for a relationship -How to answer the "What Are We?" question -How to establish personal boundaries in a relationship -How to handle conflict within a relationship -How to handle the transition from the 'honeymoon phase' to a real relationship -Handling common issues & hurdles in a relationship -How to handle her past -How to handle your future as a couple -Jealousy/possessiveness -What to do when she's pulling away -What to do when she drops 'The L-Bomb'

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]]> 01:01:12 yes yes 208: AoC Toolbox | Escaping the Friendzone Sun, 01 Sep 2013 07:00:00 +0000 AJ Harbinger, Johnny Dzubak and Justin Jensen of The Art of Charm Crew get together to discuss the dreaded FriendZone: -Why you're in it -How to get out of it -How to avoid it in the first place -Why it can actually be a good thing -...and how to turn getting 'friend-zoned' into an opportunity (but not the kind you think!) -The mechanics of platonic friendships between men and women

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]]> 37:54 yes yes 207: Christelyn Karazin | BeyondBlackWhite.com Sun, 25 Aug 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Christelyn D. Karazin is the co-author of "Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed," and runs a very popular interracial relationships blog called Beyond Black & White (www.BeyondBlackWhite.com). She's also been married to white guy for over 11 years and together they have four kids. In this episode: --Overcoming preconceived notions about the dating preferences of women outside your racial and/or ethnic group --How to reference racial differences without sounding like a douchebag --Dealing with external pressure about interracial relationships --Understanding cultural difference when flirting and making overtures --Top ten turn-offs that men new to interracial dating do --Why you need to understand and recognize body language cues, in order to date interracially with success. --Why being a "people pleaser" can kill your chances with women of color. --How to become more culturally aware and why this could save your relationship.

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]]> 51:59 yes yes 206: Justin Jensen | Top Excuses for NOT Coming to AoC Sun, 18 Aug 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Since the foundation of The Art of Charm, thousands of students have come through our doors, graduated and left as the type of man they've always wanted to be. Unfortunately, thousands more have made an excuse NOT to take action. Perhaps you're one of them. In this episode, Jordan Harbinger and Justin Jensen explore (and then debunk) some of the most common excuses that guys have for why they can't change their lives, from time ("I'm just soooo busy!") to money ("There's just no way I can afford it, I've got bills to pay!") to why it couldn't possibly work for them ("But I'm too short/tall/black/white/asian/disabled") to the even more ridiculous. Have a listen. You might hear something that sounds familiar...

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]]> 01:00:51 yes yes 205: Aaron Marino | iamalpham.com Sun, 11 Aug 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Aaron Marino, founder of Alpha M. Consulting, has helped thousands of men, just like you, look incredible with simple, practical, and most importantly, unpretentious image and style advice. Aaron has the #1 Men's Style and Grooming Channel on YouTube with over 10,000,000 views http://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting. Recently, he appeared on the ABC hit show, Shark Tank, where he pitched the Alpha M. Style System (an easy to follow fashion formula that enables men to choose the perfect outfit for any occasion or situation). Aaron also, recently launched his amazing new site for men on all things men's style, grooming and fitness. http://www.iamalpham.com In this episode, Aaron & Jordan riff on: • Image: What is it and why does it matter? • Personal Branding: Think of your image as your personal brand, how you present yourself on a consistent basis is going to determine your brand and how others view you. • Dressing Your Age: What the heck does age appropriate mean and how to tell if you are guilty of being "THAT guy" • Fit, Fit, Fit: Most men are wearing clothes that are too large for them. It doesn't matter how much you spend on your clothes, what brand they are... it does however matter how they fit. • Style Smoke and Mirrors: Most of us don't look like the models we see in GQ magazine... but by choosing the right clothes, implementing the right grooming habits we can minimize our perceived deficiencies (insecurities) and enhance our strengths. Think of it like Style and Grooming smoke and mirrors.

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]]> 36:32 yes yes 204: AoC Toolbox | Signs of Attraction Sun, 04 Aug 2013 07:00:00 +0000 AJ, Johnny and Justin from The Art of Charm Crew get together to discuss signs of attraction in the latest addition to The Art of Charm toolbox! Enjoy! -How to recognize the signs that she's interested in you -How to communicate your interest in her without coming on too strong and making things awkward -How to ramp things up and open the doors to taking things physical -Logistics of making it happen at the end of the night

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]]> 32:40 yes yes 203: Justin Jensen | Coach at The Art of Charm Sun, 28 Jul 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Justin Jensen, the newest addition to the coaching team here at The Art of Charm, gets vulnerable with his podcast debut: -How many beliefs solidify in high school -How many of us have women that choose us (instead of the other way around) -How his heart got smashed and stomped, and how this triggered his now-skyrocketing path to personal growth -How he made every excuse not to get himself together, and the one event that propelled him forward. -Overcoming Social Anxiety, and pushing social boundaries -His days as a pro poker player and what he learned about body language and nonverbal communication -Having the confidence to quit his day job and join The Art of Charm

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]]> 58:34 yes yes 202: Jeff Steinmann | How to Quit Working Mon, 22 Jul 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Jeff Steinmann spent 15 years living a life that revolved around a job that didn't give him the freedom he wanted out of life. Fiercely determined to find a better way, Jeff cut through all hype and false promises of Internet Marketing and Multi-Level Marketing, spending over $47,456 to learn how to create a lifestyle and an income with his knowledge. He assembled it all into his new book, "How to Quit Working" which is a complete guide to creating a life of freedom with with what you KNOW instead of just getting paid for what you do. Jeff used the techniques in his book to create a life of freedom for himself and uses them to help his clients to do the same. Today, Jeff lives the life of his dreams, working from his home in St. Louis, Missouri, on his own schedule and his own terms, with a small international team. Topics include: 1) How does someone work up the courage to actually give up their primary source of income? ("I have bills to pay!!!") 2) How do I know what skill or knowledge I have that I can make money with?  3) Statistics show us that most businesses fail. Why would I be able to succeed?  4) This just sounds really hard. What if I don't know anything about business or marketing?  5) I want to get really really rich. Can I use these techniques to do that? 

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]]> 55:25 yes yes 201: JJ Roberts | Sex 3.0 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 07:00:00 +0000 J J Roberts is a former rock journalist from England who followed the standard script of conventional dating or what he terms "fenced relationships" for the first half of his adult live before exploring sexual relationships not based on enforced monogamy or what he terms "unfenced relationships" for the second half. The result was his first book, Sex 3.0, a fascinating insight into the modern day culture of Sex 2.0 which is based on fear and deception and its replacement Sex 3.0 which represents the death of fear and a return to nature. In this episode of the show, JJ and Jordan discuss: * The original 'caveman' version of sex & relationships * Why marriage conflicts with human nature and the concept of "Sexual property" * The two planes of sexuality (normal / natural) and their equivalent relationship types (fenced / unfenced) - why our societal paradigm of relationships is actually bad for us and our nature as humans as well. * How to manage jealousy and possessiveness * Understanding that fencing your relationships comes from a mentality of scarcity and fear and that negative emotions in relationships are mostly a choice.

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]]> 01:09:45 yes yes 200: Neil Strauss Sun, 07 Jul 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Happy Episode 200! Actually, I plan on making #250 the 'big one', because it buys me some time, and because we plan on going to at least 1,000! :) In this episode, Jordan Harbinger and Neil Strauss catch up and discuss: -What "The Game" was REALLY about -How culture 'wants' to shame us out of being men -How our self-esteem changes over time, and how we match well to others with a similar level of self-esteem -How the PUA (pickup-artist) movement has died and been reborn as a men's movement -How he's grown since the book came out -What he's doing now and how his newly-built foundation has helped get him there ...and (of course) more!

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]]> 01:25:21 yes yes Bonus: Man School with Jordan Harbinger | "I was kidnapped...TWICE" Mon, 01 Jul 2013 07:00:00 +0000 This is an episode where I, Jordan Harbinger am the guest rather than the host. In this show, I talk about how I got kidnapped not once, but TWICE, and why I'm here to tell the story. I'll let Caleb describe his own show... --- Thanks to everyone who checked out Jordan Harbinger's amazing stories on Class #2 "I Was Kidnapped... Twice!" Here's some of the unusual stuff that Jordan talked about... Class Takeaways: Kidnapping advice: If you are being held against your will, fight against going to a secondary location. "The place where no one can hear you scream." Knowing the local language helps. Having some self-defense skills can give you an advantage. The police in another country may play by very different rules than they do where you're from. Come up with an edge. (At one point, Jordan pretended he was sleeping.) "You live and die by your people skills." A friend with a big mouth can get you in a whole lot of trouble.

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]]> 53:37 yes yes 199: Martin Bjergegaard | winningwithoutlosing.org Sun, 23 Jun 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Martin started his first company when he was 18 years old. He then failed 5 times during the following 5 years. In 2006 Martin co-founded the "start up factory" Rainmaking together with 3 friends. Since then they have launched 16 start ups, sold 3 of them, and are today running a portfolio of 8 companies with a total of 100 team members in their offices in London, Copenhagen and Berlin. Via their own accelerator Startupbootcamp they have invested in and supported more than 100 start ups from all over the world during the last 3 years. Together with the Canadian entrepreneur, Jordan Milne, Martin has just released his book Winning Without Losing. Being totally convinced that you can have a great life with lots of fun while pursuing your passions as an entrepreneur, Martin felt called to share this philosophy with the world. In Winning Without Losing the reader learns from 25 role models from all over the planet, via 66 specific advice on how to "get it all". In this episode of the podcast, Jordan and Martin uncover: - that we all need to take responsible for our own happiness, be and think free, and take charge - that the team is the fundamental building block for both success and balance - that communication is actually more about listening than talking - that we all decide our own stories, and that our stories make up our the realities we create - how to protect your mind from naysayers - that no body should accept to live a deferred life. Live the life of your dreams right now

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]]> 01:15:43 yes yes 198: Chris Kirk | Cocaine Smuggler Mon, 10 Jun 2013 07:00:00 +0000 (Locked-Up Abroad: Chris Kirk, Drug Mule) Christopher Kirk used to be a normal guy doing a normal job, a mild-mannered IT geek, a nine-to-five nerd, a regular mow-the-lawn kinda Joe. Then he went to Colombia to see some hippos. Once there, he fell in love with a mysterious Colombian girl, quit his job, sold his things and moved to Bogota because it was the biggest mistake he could think to make. Four years later, after an even bigger mistake, he wound up in a Brazilian prison charged with drug trafficking. Three and a half years later, fresh out of prison, he still hasn't seen the Colombian hippos. It's a long story and we tell it in this episode. More from Chris at: www.ChristopherKirk.co

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]]> 01:37:03 yes yes 197: Blake Eastman | NonVerbalGroup.com Sun, 02 Jun 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Blake Eastman is the founder and head instructor of The Nonverbal Group. He's been conducting independent research on nonverbal communication for the past 5 years. In addition to working at The Nonverbal Group, he teaches psychology at the City University of New York. In this episode of the podcast, Jordan and Blake discuss: 1. Exactly how Confidence is Expressed Nonverbally. 2. Clear, Compassionate Communication and How it can Significantly Improve Your Life. 3. The Practical Application of the Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviors Module. 4, The Process of Extracting Information from Nonverbal Behaviors. 5. The Attraction Paradigm: The Nonverbals of Interest, Attraction, and Anxiety. Find more from Blake at: www.nonverbalgroup.com and www.youtube.com/nonverbalgroup

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]]> 01:13:03 yes yes Bonus: North Korea, Round 3 (2013) Tue, 21 May 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Jordan Harbinger, Captain Joe (Sailor Joe got promoted) and some AoC alumni trekked it out to North Korea in the middle of the highest point of tension between North Korea and the rest of the world. Here's an inside look at the country from us while we were there.

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]]> 56:10 yes yes 196: Lewis Howes | LewisHowes.com Wed, 15 May 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Lewis Howes, former professional football player, two sport All-American and current USA Men’s National Team member for team handball stops by to kick it with Jordan. Lewis is a lifestyle entrepreneur who built a seven-figure business in two years while starting out sleeping on his sisters couch. Wait, what? He is also the author of the definitive books to building your business with LinkedIn and webinars and an angel investor. Lewis dishes out some real talk (as in, he's applied this stuff HIMSELF and gotten REAL RESULTS), on: 1. The power of belief 2. Framing goals 3. Practicing until your hands bleed 4. Seeking out YOUR top mentor 5. Setting up daily small wins Find more from Lewis at lewishowes.com twitter.com/lewishowes and facebook.com/lewishowes And yes ladies, he's currently SINGLE. Have at it.

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]]> 54:33 yes yes 195: Dangerous Dialogues | Felix the Weed Farmer Sun, 05 May 2013 07:00:00 +0000 "Covert Conversations and "off-the-record" interviews with some of the world's most dangerous people." Okay, so Felix isn't dangerous. In fact, he's a teddy bear. A teddy bear who has transported hundreds of pounds of weed across the State of California. And now, he's going to tell you who, what, where, why, and, perhaps most interestingly, HOW this was done. "As far as you know, this is fiction."

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]]> 01:15:36 yes yes 194: Derek Halpern | Social Triggers Sun, 28 Apr 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Derek Halpern & Jordan Harbinger share secrets for networking with executives and other high-level people from the bottom, up. The big problem facing people today is that they think they know how to do simple things like "Email people," "be credible," and "connect with anyone." But the truth is, while they do know the basics of doing such things, they don't know the "secret sauce" the masters use to slap a jetpack on their success rates. * How to score lunch meetings with anyone (even top executives, world-class authors, and more) * The secret behind becoming the guy everyone respects (and talks about) in your company and industry

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]]> 51:48 yes yes 193: Caleb Bacon | Speed Dating (manschoolshow.com) Sun, 21 Apr 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Caleb Bacon from the Man School podcast is an AoC graduate and one of Jordan's BFFs (yep, we just said "BFF"). After going on literally hundreds of speed-dates, Jordan & Caleb break down a system, and explain: -Why speed-dating is amazing for us guys (it's almost unfair) -Make sure you're getting tons of matches every time -Get attention from the cutest girls before the event even starts -Pitfalls to avoid and tips to make sure you get extra time with the women YOU select ...and more, of course. We also dive into some ridiculous (and funny) speed-dating tales for you to laugh at (or with) us. Enjoy!

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]]> 58:52 yes yes 192: Dr. Michael G | Charm in the Medical Profession Sun, 14 Apr 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Dr. Michael Gagaoudakis is one charming dentist. He's been using what he's learned here at The Art of Charm to establish rapport with his patients in order to provide better medical care, create lasting relationships and build a thriving practice. We'll also discuss: -How having rapport with your patient actually helps patients stay healthier -Why doctors WITHOUT good rapport skills get sued more -Why 'bedside manner' is one of they keys to a successful medical practice

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]]> 01:07:50 yes yes 191: Ryan Holiday | "Trust Me, I'm Lying" Sun, 07 Apr 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Marketing expert and author Ryan Holiday drops by to discuss: His new book and why it turns conventional marketing on its head Why dropping out of college was the best thing he ever did How to give value and network with celebrities How to get your dream job(s) Guest Bio: Although Holiday dropped out of college at the age of 19, he spent years training under Robert Greene, author of the nationally known book, “The 48 Laws of Power.” It is through this training period that Holiday learned how to be a master media manipulator. He spent years coaching various musicians and authors on how to sell themselves as a brand name, and worked as a marketing strategist for people like Dov Charney and Tucker Max. Companies such as Twitter, Google and YouTube have used his marketing campaign strategies, and he has caught the attention of top media outlets including the New York Times, Gawker and AdAge. He also served as the Director of Marketing for American Apparel, where as he explains in the book, he felt the real consequences of media manipulation. He is still a blogger living in New Orleans, and posts regularly on his own website www.ryanholiday.net

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]]> 49:21 yes yes 190: Lt. Col. Jason LeDuc | U.S. Air Force Sun, 31 Mar 2013 07:00:00 +0000 We've all heard Networking is a very powerful skill, and that it's not WHAT you know, but WHO you know. However, in the military, a lot of this game is played while the majority of the participants are unaware, or sitting on the sideline. We at The Art of Charm crew first decided to do this show after hearing from a LOT of our military clients that "networking isn't important in the armed forces" -something we just could not believe. In this episode, AoC program graduate Lt. Col. LeDuc shatters this myth, and gives some seriously helpful (and simple!) tips for networking in the military, obtaining coveted assignments, and garnering support for your career on your way to the top.

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]]> 01:02:05 yes yes 189: Nathalie Nahai | The Web Psychologist Sun, 24 Mar 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Nathalie Nahai is an award-winning speaker, Web Psychologist, and author of 'Webs of Influence: The Psychology of Online Persuasion' (Pearson). With a background in psychology and digital strategy, she is one of the few leading voices in this field to have both academic and hands-on experience in engineering online persuasion. Nathalie helps businesses to psychologically optimise for better engagement online, and lectures internationally on the subject of Web Psychology and Online Influence (audiences include Goldman Sachs and Southampton University). She also writes for national publications such as the BBC and The Guardian and runs a bi-monthly blog on the subject of Web Psychology. She is also a member of #OgilvyChange, a new Behavioural Sciences Practice that utilises the latest thinking in cognitive psychology, social psychology and behavioural economics to create behavioural interventions in the real world.

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]]> 55:19 yes yes 187: Mike 'Ambassador' Bruny | Hash Tags to Handshakes Ambassador Mon, 11 Mar 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Mike Ambassador Bruny is a conference networking speaker, certified life coach and author who works with conference bound professionals who have a lot to offer, but have a hard time making connections in big groups. He helps them save time and money by teaching them how to leverage their strengths to build the kind of relationships that will move their businesses and personal goals forward. Ambassador Bruny has experience in various fields including sports, professional development and technology. He has worked with companies such as Intel, Syracuse University, Columbia University, New Balance Shoes, INROADS and the Conference for Women to name a few. He has a degree in Psychology from Hartwick College, a masters in Sport Management from UMASS, Amherst and is an alumnus of The Partnership program in Boston, MA. He is a proud member of the Young Entrepreneur Council and Ambassador to Keith Ferrazzi’s My Greenlight relationship mastery program. He is originally from Brooklyn, NY and discovered he was Haitian his senior year in high school. He has been married for 8 years to his lovely wife Jieun [pronounced "G-un"] and owns over 30 bow ties, including several he designed at Bow Tie Flow dot com for charity. In his spare time he enjoys working as an operations manager at Intel. 

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]]> 40:25 yes yes Bonus: North Korea, Round 2 Sun, 10 Feb 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Jordan Harbinger and Cap'n Joe went BACK to North Korea in 2012 with a whole new group of awesome folks crazy enough to join them. Will you join Jordan, Cap'n Joe and Gabriel in North Korea this year?

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]]> 47:19 yes yes BONUS: Sean | 20-Something AoC Graduate Mon, 04 Feb 2013 07:00:00 +0000 In this mish-mash of a bonus episode, Sean, an AoC graduate, discusses how The Art of Charm course helped him both in college and when getting a job after college. Afterward, Jordan does a read of one of his favorite articles, sure to wake you up from any excuses you've been telling yourself.

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]]> 45:29 yes yes 184: Zach Browman | FindYourFocus.com Mon, 28 Jan 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Jordan's friend Zach Browman of FindYourFocus.com stops by to discuss: -Why New Years resolutions fail -How to set ourselves up for success using realistic goals and finding our focus -How Zach 'recovered' from chronic procrastination and is now consistently focused and motivated After this show, you will know how to: -Set up “supports” for your willpower (social, reward, etc.) -Engineer your lifestyle to support your goals -Resist the urge to punish yourself Enjoy!

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]]> 53:55 yes yes 182: Erin | Former CIA Clandestine Operative Tue, 08 Jan 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Erin emailed me out of the blue one day telling me that what we do and talk about at AoC is "remarkably similar" to what's taught by the CIA at "The Farm". Obviously, my curiosity was piqued, and after verifying that she was the real deal, we decided to do a show together. From 2000 to 2010, Erin served as an Operations officer with the Central Intelligence Agency (CIA), with seven years experience in managing overseas collection operations and counterterrorism activities for the intelligence community.  She served as an operations officer in several critical posts in the Middle East as well as extensive travel in Africa, Eastern Europe, and Southeast Asia, and is experienced in Arab and South Asian issues and cultures. Erin has extensive experience in recruiting appropriate personnel to work within the intelligence community, and has been recognized by senior Agency management for my leadership, planning, organizational abilities and excellent interpersonal skills. In this episode of the show, we take a look at: -Establishing rapport, and why it's the “gateway” to achieve what you are looking for. -Giving-to-get -Confidence vs. Arrogance -Eliciting information Of course, I picked Erin's brain about whether or not she'd had any close calls while on duty, how she got her job (the answer WILL surprise you), and about which CIA skills she uses every day.

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]]> 49:33 yes yes 181: Richard Grannon | StreetFightSecrets.com Thu, 03 Jan 2013 07:00:00 +0000 Malaysia/UK-based badass Richard Grannon from StreetFightSecrets.com drops some knowledge on the PickUp Podcast audience. We'll discuss: -The two levels of fear (real, physical fear and the stuff we make up in our heads because modern humans don't have survival needs that aren't met regularly) -How he learned REAL fear -primal stuff at MMA (Mixed Martial Arts), and how it's helped him in business, in school, and with women -How to gain confidence through training and combat -Why self-defense is more psychological versus physical Richard Grannon has a degree in psychology and is a master practitioner of NLP. He trained with Richard Bandler personally when he was 18. He has 10+ years working as a nightclub doorman and as a professional counsellor so he's am used to "getting his hands dirty" and applying the academic knowledge to real world scenarios. Richard has also worked as a motivational speaker and accelerated learning coach within the British education system for 3 years, teaching and designing courses from secondary school to university level. For the last 7 years his job has been teaching civilians, military and law-enforcement how to overcome fear and anchor states of confidence in high pressure, high risk scenarios.

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]]> 01:01:30 yes yes 180: Barbie Davenporte | Sexy Sex Blogger Sun, 23 Dec 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Barbie Davenporte, badass sex blogger (and one of Jordan's BFFs) hangs out at AoC HQ to solve some sex mysteries and questions from The Art of Charm audience, such as: Why do women cheat? How do I get my girlfriend to have a 3-some? Is it the size of the wave or motion of the ocean? What is masturbation's effect on sex and dating? If you like this, let us know! There's plenty more where this came from and Barbie is one of the go-to girls when you want honest answers and information when it comes to putting your junk to good use!

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]]> 53:13 yes yes BONUS: Michael Margolis (GetStoried.com) Mon, 03 Dec 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Michael Margolis from GetStoried.com drops back in to help Jordan craft a compelling story for The Art of Charm. Also: How to tell people what you do at a cocktail party when you don't want to go down the rabbit hole. How to tell people what you do when you DO want to go down the rabbit hole. How to craft your own compelling story specifically tailored to your audience.

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]]> 30:22 yes yes 179: Dr. Paul Zak | The Moral Molecule Mon, 26 Nov 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Dr. Paul Zak -the Hug Doctor/Love Doctor/Oxytocin Doctor/TED-talk Doctor/Doc-of-all-trades -an old friend of the show, finally (after 3+ years) swings by to talk about his new book and how con men use Oxytocin and trust. Also: -He's a neuroeconomist. What the heck is that? -Are people good or evil by nature? -What does morality have to do with economic prosperity? -Does money make you happy? (Actually, it does!) -How do I naturally increase my oxytocin? -How can I use these concepts to increase trust and rapport with the opposite sex?

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]]> 52:54 yes yes 178: Tim Ferriss | FourHourChef.com (FourHourWorkweek.com) Mon, 19 Nov 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Holy crap! The Tim Ferriss interview! Finally! The new book is out and AJ & Jordan talk with Tim about: -Meta-Learning -Life-hacking -Startups -Innovations that will change the world forever I mean, it's Tim Ferriss, 'nuff said, right?!? (See the show notes for bonuses from Tim & The Art of Charm and for links to all the resources mentioned in the show!)

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]]> 01:19:38 yes yes BONUS: Luke, an AoC grad at University Tue, 06 Nov 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Luke, a graduate of The Art of Charm week-long residential program, is now in college and tearing it up using his newfound skills. Join us as he shares some of his inside info on how to get the most out of the university social scene and uses his newfound charm to live the college dream!

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]]> 01:06:48 yes yes 176: Dan Dennick | OverHerOvernight.com Wed, 10 Oct 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Dan Dennick has been helping men who are going through "unusually painful" break ups for the past 6 years. Dan and Jordan talk about how to handle a break up, how to deal with the "heartbreak" afterwards and how to get back in the game as fast and painlessly as humanly possible. Dan Dennick is the author of Over Her Overnight: The Modern Man's Complete Guide To Conquering the Heartbreak, Jealousy & Loneliness After A Painful Break Up.

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]]> 01:05:22 yes yes 175: Olivia Fox Cabane | The Charisma Myth Mon, 17 Sep 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Olivia Fox Cabane — Author of The Charisma Myth (Kindle version here), released early 2012. An expert in the fields of charisma and leadership, Olivia Fox Cabane has lectured at Stanford, Yale, Harvard, MIT and the United Nations. As a frequent keynote speaker and executive coach to the leadership of Fortune 500 companies, she helps people become more persuasive, influential, and inspiring. From a base of thorough behavioral science, Olivia extracts the most practical tools for business; giving her clients techniques she originally developed for Harvard and MIT. Her course at Berkeley’s Business School was so popular that university staff had to guard the entrance to ensure that only admitted students gained entrance. In addition to being a columnist for Forbes, FastCompany and The Huffington Post, Olivia is often featured in media such as The New York Times, Bloomberg or BusinessWeek. She has been profiled in The Wall Street Journal as well as NPR’s Marketplace show. Olivia was featured as one of the “25 Men and Women Who Are Shaping Our Profession” by the speaking profession’s insider publication, Speaker Magazine. Olivia has both French and American nationalities and is fluent in 4 languages; her books have been translated into 8 languages and she is the youngest person ever to have been appointed Foreign Trade Advisor to the French Government.

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]]> 01:01:33 yes yes 173: Kimberly Seltzer | The Art of Charm Mon, 27 Aug 2012 07:00:00 +0000 The newest addition to The Art of Charm team, Kimberly Seltzer (a certified image consultant and licensed therapist), drops by to discuss dating after divorce: -Revamping your 'divorced guy' wardrobe -Dating when you've got kids -Staying motivated when you're back on the market

p.s. We got a new audio setup and apparently I did my bit to ruin this podcast by failing to turn off my keyboard-mounted mic on the new hardware. Enjoy it for the content, Lamborghinis and keyboard-clicks inclusive!

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]]> 51:52 yes yes 172: Ramit Sethi | How to Get Your Dream Job Mon, 20 Aug 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Ramit Sethi is back on the show with some Dream Job tactics to help you: AVOID cognitive stagnation EXECUTE dream job strategies SYSTEMIZE and change tiny habits for big success Also hear how Jordan networked his way to a job on Wall Street before co-founding The Art of Charm.

Bonus stuff: http://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/aoc

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]]> 01:11:48 yes yes 171: Eric Amaranth | Sex Coach (yep, really!) Mon, 13 Aug 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Sex Coach Eric drops by to discuss bedside sex coaching (yep, you read that right) as well as dishes on some technique you guys can apply right out of the box (see what we did there?)

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]]> 57:17 yes yes 170: Sex Nerd Sandra | Nerdist.com Mon, 06 Aug 2012 07:00:00 +0000 In this latest 'sexpert' interview, Sex Nerd Sandra of Nerdist.com dishes on how to knock her socks off the first time you're intimate with a woman and the ins-and-outs of being a sex coach (see what we did there?)

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]]> 01:00:52 yes yes 166: Leilani | High-End Escort Mon, 09 Jul 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Leilani is a high-end escort based on the West Coast dealing with clientele that you've heard of in the media, movies and television. In this episode, she and Jordan discuss everything you wanted to know and more about this secretive world. There're stories that'll shock you, we discuss how it works in detail, how she manages her clients and real-life relationships, and even how it works how it affects her psychologically. This episode of the PickUp Podcast will both shock and fascinate you.

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]]> 01:07:26 yes yes 165: Norm Schriever | Pushups in the Prayer Room Mon, 02 Jul 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Travel writer and author Norm Schriever kicks it with Jordan to talk about backpacking around the world, living abroad and getting into (and out of) all manner of shady travel situations. Norm's book, Pushups in the Prayer Room, is available at Amazon (please use our website link if you buy!) :)

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]]> 51:05 yes yes 164: Gary Vaynerchuk | Crush It Mon, 25 Jun 2012 07:00:00 +0000 After sitting on the PickUp Podcast hard drives for nearly 3 years, we finally 'unveil' one of the most candid shows we've ever done. In this episode, Gary V riffs out of studio about everything BUT wine, and explains: -Why it's never a bad time to start a good business -How to make business decisions -Why cash is king Despite some out-of-studio audio issues, Gary's personality and hustle steal the show.

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]]> 01:09:15 yes yes 163: Sean Aiken | One Week Job Mon, 18 Jun 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Sean Aiken took a new job every single week for a year. On this episode, Sean jumps on with Jordan to discuss the results of that experiment, including: -How to find your passion -Stepping out of your comfort zone to discover what you love 

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]]> 29:37 yes yes 162: Michael Margolis | Tell Your Own Story Mon, 11 Jun 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Michael Margolis of GetStoried.com drops by to discuss why your personal story is so important to your personal brand, whether for business or social purposes. Also: -How to tell an engaging story -How to AVOID talking about what you do for work -How to elicit other people's stories -How you can be more interesting to others by talking LESS Enjoy!

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]]> 56:32 yes yes 161: Scott Brown | Sexpressed.net Tue, 05 Jun 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Scott Brown from Sexpressed.net drops by to discuss polyamoury and multiple relationships, namely: -How to get them -How to talk about them with your girl -And how to manage them once you're in This is by popular request, and an interesting show whether you're into multiple relationships or a serial monogamist.

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]]> 54:49 yes yes Bonus: Jordan & Ten Dollar Tom Swap Stories Tue, 15 May 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Ten Dollar Tom, former spokesman 'Gary' of New Zealand Telecom and one of Jordan Harbinger's North Korea 2012 travel buddies swap stories of drunken debauchery and "brilliant" plans gone awry. Episode includes: -Tom gets arrested in Italy -Jordan falls asleep on a parked car -Tom hatches a genius plan to win a drinking game only to end up with a catheter bag sprayed all over his bedroom. NOTE: This episode has zero value other than entertainment.

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]]> 51:18 yes yes 159: Mark Davis | European Dream Connections Mon, 16 Apr 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Friend of the show and founder of European Dream Connections, Mark Davis stops by to discuss some of the differences between foreign women and the domestic variety, and how dating differs across cultures. Interested in heading out to Ukraine with Mark?

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]]> 54:56 yes yes 158: Gary Wilson | Your Brain On Porn Mon, 09 Apr 2012 07:00:00 +0000 Watch too much porn? Having some trouble getting it up? Losing interest in real-life women? You may not know (we had no idea), that excessive porn use can cause something called Porn-induced erectile dysfunction (ED), and contributes to depression, fatigue and biochemical / brain changes that can negatively affect you for years to come. Morality aside (we'll stick to the science in this episode, thank you), new studies are showing that watching all that 'harmless' porn causes an addiction that might be doing damage you've yet to discover.

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]]> 46:02 yes yes 157: University of Michigan | Success Through The Art of Charm Mon, 02 Apr 2012 00:00:00 +0000 In September, 2010, AJ & Jordan Harbinger were invited to give a talk to the student body at their alma mater, The University of Michigan. Although the talk focuses on Business Networking, The Art of Charm content shines through in this lecture. Thanks to the University of Michigan Alumni Association for providing the audio recording and making it available to the public. If you’d like AJ & Jordan to speak at your school or organization, contact us.

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]]> 02:08:58 yes yes 156: Ross Mallor | Professional Poker Player Mon, 26 Mar 2012 00:00:00 +0000 AJ and Jordan sit down for an inside look at high-stakes poker with their friend Ross Mallor. Ross gives some perspective on playing poker professionally all over the world, as well as in illicit underground ‘casinos’ in New York City, complete with well-known celebrities losing their shirts as they’re outmatched by seasoned professionals.

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]]> 56:18 yes yes 155: Grant Cardone | National Geographic's 'Turnaround King' Mon, 19 Mar 2012 00:00:00 +0000 GRANT CARDONE is an International Sales Expert, Sales Trainer, Motivational Speaker and NY Times best selling author. Cardone is the star of the National Geographic Channel's, "Turnaround King" and is a regular contributor on such shows as Fox News, CNBC, MSNBC, and CNN. Cardone is known for customizing sales programs for organizations of all sizes and has positively affected hundreds of thousands of people and organizations worldwide. Fortune 500 companies, entrepreneurs, non-profit organizations, and individuals use Grant's techniques and systems to increase their effectiveness and value in the marketplace. "Your attitude is going to determine how much action you take and how effective that action is. It’s always a challenge to remain positive – even more so during a rough economy. This rings true for your competition as well. Ultimately, it’s the person who can maintain an optimistic outlook when things are tough who will have the best advantage and opportunity to advance and conquer." In this episode of the PickUp Podcast, we'll learn: How sales concepts apply to all facets of life, including dating. How to discover your ambition How to separate winners from losers among your friends Just listening to this highly-successful, ultra-motivated speaker and teacher will change the way you think forever.

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]]> 48:17 yes yes 153: Chris Gore | G4's Attack of the Show (part 2) Tue, 06 Mar 2012 00:00:00 +0000 (part 2 of 2) Special guest host Adam Lyons joins us this week to chat it up with G4's Attack of the Show's (AOTS) Chris Gore! This show was super fun to record, and the topics range from guys with bad game to sex in public places, penis injuries, working with (and on) high-profile women like Angelina Jolie. The guys also talk about failing as much as you can, breakups and making it in Hollywood, with some special advice for indie film makers and how social skills can make all the difference in this town.

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]]> 51:57 yes yes 152: Chris Gore | G4's Attack of the Show (part 1) Mon, 05 Mar 2012 00:00:00 +0000 Special guest host Adam Lyons joins us this week to chat it up with G4's Attack of the Show's (AOTS) Chris Gore! This show was super fun to record, and the topics range from guys with bad game to sex in public places, penis injuries, working with (and on) high-profile women like Angelina Jolie. The guys also talk about failing as much as you can, breakups and making it in Hollywood, with some special advice for indie film makers and how social skills can make all the difference in this town.

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]]> 57:09 yes yes 150: Matt | The Evolution of an AoC Student Mon, 20 Feb 2012 00:00:00 +0000 Ever wondered what it was like to go through a program here at The Art of Charm? We interviewed Matt, a recent graduate of our weeklong residential Attraction program. This interview is especially insightful because not only did we interview Matt after his program, but we caught up with him BEFOREHAND to get a handle on his expectations, checked in with him DURING the program, as well as immediately afterward. In this incredible 3-part episode, you can actually listen in on Matt’s evolution and see if you’re ready to make the same transformation yourself.

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]]> 47:02 yes yes 149: Scott H Young, Getting More Out of Life Mon, 13 Feb 2012 00:00:00 +0000 38:40 yes yes 146: Chris Hadnagy, "The Art of Human Hacking" Mon, 23 Jan 2012 00:00:00 +0000 01:10:58 yes yes 145: Dr. Robert Glover, "No More Mr. Nice Guy" Mon, 16 Jan 2012 00:00:00 +0000 01:06:35 yes yes 143: Vin Armani, The Tao of the Gigolo Sat, 31 Dec 2011 00:00:00 +0000 01:11:08 yes yes Bonus Ep.: Jordan Harbinger's trip to North Korea with Neil Strauss (part 1 of 2) Sat, 24 Dec 2011 00:00:00 +0000 01:19:30 yes yes Bonus Ep.: Jordan Harbinger's trip to North Korea with Neil Strauss (part 2 of 2) Sat, 24 Dec 2011 00:00:00 +0000 41:41 yes yes 140: Dan from CouchSurfing.org Tue, 15 Nov 2011 00:00:00 +0000 37:09 yes yes 138: Zach Browman Mon, 10 Oct 2011 00:00:00 +0000 01:02:39 yes yes 137: Susan Kuchinskas Discusses Oxytocin Mon, 03 Oct 2011 00:00:00 +0000 48:16 yes yes 134: Daniel Waldschmidt Interview Thu, 28 Jul 2011 00:00:00 +0000 43:29 yes yes 133: David Coleman Interview Fri, 22 Jul 2011 00:00:00 +0000 01:02:00 yes yes 132: Roy Sheppard Interview Thu, 07 Jul 2011 00:00:00 +0000 33:10 yes yes 130: Vin Armani Interview Thu, 09 Jun 2011 00:00:00 +0000 01:20:20 yes yes 129: Daymond John Interview Tue, 17 May 2011 00:00:00 +0000 46:51 yes yes 128: Derek Sivers Interview Thu, 28 Apr 2011 00:00:00 +0000 50:10 yes yes 123: Alex Weber Interview Fri, 17 Dec 2010 00:00:00 +0000 01:02:03 yes yes 120: 2 Girls Teach Sex Sun, 03 Oct 2010 00:00:00 +0000 39:12 yes yes 119: Quintessentially Hacked with Josh Klein Part 2 Mon, 23 Aug 2010 00:00:00 +0000 26:46 yes yes 118: Quintessentially Hacked with Josh Klein Part 1 Wed, 11 Aug 2010 00:00:00 +0000 36:41 yes yes 117: Infiltrating Social Circles Part 2 Wed, 04 Aug 2010 00:00:00 +0000 01:00:18 yes yes 116: Infiltrating Social Circles with Kyzar Wed, 28 Jul 2010 00:00:00 +0000 59:09 yes yes 115: Text Game (www.HowToTextGirls.com) Mon, 14 Jun 2010 00:00:00 +0000 01:01:08 yes yes 112: Strip and Grow Rich Interview Tue, 27 Apr 2010 00:00:00 +0000 01:11:08 yes yes 111: Banter Revisited Part 2 Mon, 05 Apr 2010 00:00:00 +0000 27:43 yes yes 110: Banter Revisited Part 1 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 00:00:00 +0000 47:48 yes yes 107: Matthew Hussey Resolutions Part 2 Tue, 26 Jan 2010 00:00:00 +0000 40:07 yes yes 106: Matthew Hussey Resolutions Part 1 Sun, 17 Jan 2010 00:00:00 +0000 Matthew Hussey reveals his secrets to nailing your New Years resolutions and starting 2010 off with a bang.

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]]> 36:20 yes yes 105: Value Revisited Part 3 Wed, 23 Dec 2009 00:00:00 +0000 The Art of Charm crew discuss how to become a 10 and supercharge your inner game.

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]]> 33:59 yes yes 104: Value Revisited Part 2 Thu, 10 Dec 2009 00:00:00 +0000 The Art of Charm crew discuss how to become a 10 and supercharge your inner game.

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]]> 01:15:27 yes yes 103: Value Revisited Part 1 Thu, 03 Dec 2009 00:00:00 +0000 The Art of Charm crew discuss how to become a 10 and supercharge your inner game.

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]]> 55:25 yes yes 102: Brad Berkowitz Interview Mon, 23 Nov 2009 00:00:00 +0000 Our friend Brad Berkowitz hangs out with us in NYC and shares some of his best dating stories involving his bachelorhood hijinks. Brad Berkowitz wrote a highly entertaining book "The 21st Century Guide to Bachelorhood" that explains how to navigate the sometimes difficult world of blind dates, cocktail hours and one night stands.

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]]> 45:15 yes yes 101: Susan Crain Bakos Interview Tue, 03 Nov 2009 00:00:00 +0000 Jordan sits down with Kim and Susan Crain Bakos to discuss the elusive female orgasm.

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]]> 47:46 yes yes 100: Sean Stephenson Interviews Us Part 2 Fri, 25 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0000 Sean Stephenson interview us in celebration of our 100th episode!

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]]> 01:10:36 yes yes 100: Sean Stephenson Interviews Us Part 1 Thu, 17 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0000 Sean Stephenson interviews us for Inner Game Magazine in celebration of the 100th Pickup Podcast Episode!

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]]> 01:15:27 yes yes 98: Jacqueline Peros Interview Fri, 31 Jul 2009 00:00:00 +0000 Jacqueline Peros joins us to discuss how to nail your job interview. She is an Image and Style Consultant that focuses on career development.

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]]> 55:07 yes yes 97: Eric Interview Thu, 16 Jul 2009 00:00:00 +0000 Our 'natural' buddy Eric explains the natural mindset and how to rapidly escalate.

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]]> 01:05:38 yes yes 96: Matthew Hussey Interview Wed, 08 Jul 2009 00:00:00 +0000 Matthew Hussey visits from across the pond to talk to us about building natural confidence and becoming unshakable.

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]]> 01:04:06 yes yes 91: Ramit Sethi Interview Part 2 Fri, 08 May 2009 00:00:00 +0000 Ramit Sethi teaches us how to become rich.

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]]> 35:26 yes yes 90: Ramit Sethi Interview Part 1 Mon, 27 Apr 2009 00:00:00 +0000 Ramit Sethi teaches us how to become rich.

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]]> 33:11 yes yes 75: Stacey Interview Tue, 25 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000 We sit down with Stacey, a female pickup artist with a twist. She is a lesbian pickup artist that has the skills to game straight women in relationships.

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]]> 31:04 yes yes 68: Sean Stephenson Interview Part 3 Thu, 04 Sep 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Sean Stephenson stops by to talk about pickup and seduction while living with a disability.

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]]> 33:01 yes yes 67: Sean Stephenson Interview Part 2 Sat, 30 Aug 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Sean Stephenson stops by to talk about pickup and seduction while living with a disability.

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]]> 29:18 yes yes 66: Sean Stephenson Interview Part 1 Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Sean Stephenson stops by to talk about pickup and seduction while living with a disability.

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]]> 39:30 yes yes 58: Will H Interview Tue, 24 Jun 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Will H joins us to breakdown interracial dating in one of the most hilarious PickUp Podcast episodes to date.

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]]> 37:08 yes yes 54: Advanced Toolbox Value Part 3 Sun, 18 May 2008 00:00:00 +0000 The Art of Charm crew discuss how to become a 10 and supercharge your inner game.

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]]> 34:02 yes yes 53: Advanced Toolbox Value Part 2 Sun, 18 May 2008 00:00:00 +0000 The Art of Charm crew discuss how to become a 10 and supercharge your inner game.

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]]> 01:15:31 yes yes 50: Advanced Toolbox Value Part 1 Sat, 19 Apr 2008 00:00:00 +0000 The Art of Charm crew discuss how to become a 10 and supercharge your inner game.

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]]> 43:52 yes yes 49: Alex Allman Interview Sat, 19 Apr 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Sexpert and friend of the show Alex Allman comes on to discuss how to make sex more pleasurable, aphrodisiacs and how to please the women in your life.

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]]> 49:44 yes yes 45: Neil Strauss Interview Part 2 Sat, 08 Mar 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Jordan & AJ score an impromptu 'interview' with Neil Strauss during a visit to NYC.

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]]> 49:16 yes yes 44: Advanced Toolbox Body Language Wed, 13 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Join Jordan Harbinger and the Art Of Charm crew, Joshua Pellicer and Johnny D as they bring you the first installment of The Art of Charm Podcast's Advanced Toolbox Series on Body Language and physical subcommunication.

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]]> 01:06:11 yes yes 43: Neil Strauss Conversation Pt 1 Thu, 31 Jan 2008 00:00:00 +0000 Jordan & AJ score an impromptu 'interview' with Neil Strauss during a visit to NYC. Also included in this episode: info about the new coaching company and video podcast, plus promo videos of Jordan @ Maxim studios

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]]> 20:47 yes yes 38: Kim and Kate Interview Sun, 25 Nov 2007 00:00:00 +0000 Kim and Kate stop by to discuss social dynamics from the female perspective.

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]]> 40:07 yes yes 34: Jason Steinle Interview (uploadexperience.com) Mon, 24 Sep 2007 00:00:00 +0000 Jason Steinle sits down with AJ and Jordan to discuss inner-game issues that face us quarterlifers.

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]]> 40:38 yes yes 22: Rob Kramer Interview Fri, 01 Jun 2007 00:00:00 +0000 Rob Kramer drops by to help us breakdown banter, rapport and fashion.

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]]> 01:01:36 yes yes 17: Storytelling Fri, 27 Apr 2007 00:00:00 +0000 The Podcast goes international as Jordan calls in from the far east to drop some storytelling knowledge with AJ. We explain how to pick topics, convey emotions, and develop rapport when telling stories.

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]]> 56:33 yes yes 13: JW South Interview Thu, 29 Mar 2007 00:00:00 +0000 Joseph W. South has traveled around the world, speaks three languages and lived in four different countries. He's bought businesses, lost them, revived them, financed them and sold them. He's been married, divorced and everything in between, worked in over a dozen professions and has many more on the horizon. In this podcast, he'll be sharing some of that wisdom with you.

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]]> 49:00 yes yes 8: Banter Part 2 Wed, 21 Feb 2007 00:00:00 +0000 Continued from Banter Part 1, AJ & Jordan cover more aspects of banter, such as push/pull and other playful teasing.

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]]> 36:46 yes yes 6: Banter Part 1 Thu, 08 Feb 2007 00:00:00 +0000 This week, in the first of a 2-part episode, AJ & Jordan outline another important tool in their arsenal: Banter & Role-play. You'll learn how to playfully take yourself and the women you meet mentally away from the social-pressure of a 'pickup'.

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]]> 36:21 yes yes 5: Mailbag Thu, 01 Feb 2007 00:00:00 +0000 Due to massive influx of listener email and questions, we're interrupting our scheduled 'how-to' intro to pickup and game to holler back at you. In other words, this cast is 100% mailbag, and it's packed with good stuff.

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]]> 37:52 yes yes 4: Opening Wed, 24 Jan 2007 00:00:00 +0000 A primer on cold-approaching and starting conversations with beautiful women anytime and anywhere.

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]]> 42:40 yes yes 3: Body Language Thu, 18 Jan 2007 00:00:00 +0000 Why Body Language is the most important tool in your social game, and how to make it tighter.

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]]> 34:25 yes yes 2: Toolbox Fri, 12 Jan 2007 00:00:01 +0000 The Art of Charm crew give an overview of the types of tools they use to meet and attract women everywhere.

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]]> 38:04 yes yes 1: Introduction Fri, 12 Jan 2007 00:00:00 +0000 A [re]introduction to the PickUp Podcast with AJ & Jordan Harbinger of The Art of Charm.

 

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