Real Posh Mom

Accessible Luxury

2013-03-29T08:00:00.000-05:00

Come enjoy "Accessible Luxury" on Saturday, April 20, 2013, beginning 7 PM at Park Place Premier Collection Dealership. It is a wonderful night of cars, fashion, food, cosmetics and jewelry all in one place – a fun upbeat event that benefits Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children.

Tickets may be purchased here, beginning at $125 for a individual ticket, $225 for a couple or $1,000 for an exclusive VIP couple ticket which includes priority runway show seating for 2, access to VIP hour, test drive of a Luxury vehicle and a Luxury swag bag.

Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children is a world leader in the treatment of pediatric orthopedic conditions. They strive to improve the care of children worldwide through innovative research and teaching programs, training physicians from around the world. They treat Texas children with orthopedic conditions, such as scoliosis, hand disorders, hip disorders and limb length differences, as well as certain related neurological disorders and learning disorders.

What a great way to enjoy fashion & help the children in our community!

Social Media Creates a False Reality

2013-03-19T08:00:00.000-05:00

There is the good, the bad and the ugly side of social media. The good side is our ability to interact with people ALL over the world, and for the most part, not spend a lot of money doing it. I remember the days before social media when I had to pay for every cell phone minute I used when I was dating my husband. I would use the disposable cameras at our wedding to capture all the candid moments. I would receive 20 phone calls on my birthday from family and friends. Now our phones do more than just call. They enable us to connect with hundreds, even thousands of people.

The number of social networks that I maintain is astonishing: 2 email accounts, 2 Twitter accounts, a Facebook personal profile, 3 Facebook pages, 10 Facebook groups, Linkedin, Google+, Google+ page, Instagram, etc. I consider myself a social person. I love how social media makes the world smaller, but I have believed a lie that interacting with more people is better than interacting with fewer people. After some introspection lately, I’m no longer convinced. The reality is that people online have no idea who I really am, and at the same time, I don't know who people online really are.

When is the last time that you confided in someone online? I know I haven’t. I pick up the phone and call my close friends. I go to coffee and chat. Do the people online really know you? Have you ever met them? Would you invite them to your house, or introduce them to your spouse or your kids? Social media gives us a feeling of intimacy and closeness that doesn’t actually exist. We believe all these people online are our friends. We think these people really care about our lives and are invested in it.

I am not saying that social media is ALL bad, as I consider some of these people to be friends, and I’m thankful that social media has brought them into my life. I have some great stories of lost connections that I found via Facebook and Twitter exchanges that grew into a real-world friendship. But these situations are not as common as I would like them to be. If I would not be willing to get to know these people in real life, I am wasting my time building large networks of shallow relationships. I could use my time more wisely by deepening a few precious friendships with people upon whom I can truly rely.

In summary, social media is not bringing us closer together. In fact, it may be driving us farther apart, as we know more and more people, but know less and less about each of them. As I turn a year older, I am going to focus more on building stronger relationships with a few real friends and less on how many people are in my social networks.

Blissdom '13 Agenda

2013-03-17T08:00:00.000-05:00

Is Blissdom 2013 really THIS week? I’ll be packing over the next few days and heading across town on Thursday. As a planner, I have mapped out my tentative schedule. The problem is there are way too many great speakers, so I am not sure how to choose each session. I am hoping there are other attenders out there willing to share their notes, so I can get the most out of Blissdom. I feel fortunate to have this great conference come to my town. YEE-HAW! This is my first time, and I don't believe you can ever be too prepared. ;)

Thursday
10AM Wholly Guacamole Chef Experience (unofficial)
3PM Photo Walk
4:30PM Newcomer Meet-up
6PM Wildside Meetup (unofficial)
7PM Opening Kick Off Reception
9:30 Bliss After Hours with All My Children & One Live to Live

Friday
5AM 5 Club with Jon Acuff (unofficial)
7AM Fitness Session
8AM Breakfast sponsored by Seattle's Best Coffee
9AM Welcome & Opening Keynote with Scott Stratten
11:15AM Pier 1 Import Outdoor Oasis Consult (unofficial)
12PM Session #1
Business: Sara Hawkins - Legal Bliss For Online Influencers & Professionals OR
Writing: Shelly Kramer: Writing For The Web: What, Why And How To Kick Butt At It
1:30PM VO5 Hair Styling (unofficial)
2:30PM Session #2 Photography: Anna Epp: Rock Your Camera
3:40PM One2One Headshot
4:15PM Session #3
Business: Wendy Scherer: Using Data For Creative And Impactful Marketing OR
Writing: Megan Jordan: Uninterrupted Thought: Power Of Focus
5:30PM GoGo squeeZ Party (unofficial)
7PM Girl Night Out featuring Amber Riley & Chris Mann in support of Child Hunger Ends Here

Saturday
7AM Fitness Session
9AM Morning Keynote with Susan Cain
11:30AM Session #4
Business: Danielle Smith: Spread The Word: Using The Media To Give Voice To Your Message OR
Photography: David Molnar & Alli Worthington: Photographer Bootcamp
12:30PM Lunch with Dallas Bliss Girls sponsored by One2One Network
2PM Session #5 Writing: Bianca Juarez Olthoff: Plot, Conflict, Resolution: The Elements To Your Story
4:30PM Closing Keynote with Jon Acuff
8PM Girl Night In sponsored by Maytag support of Boys & Girls Clubs of America

What does your schedule look like? Want to find me during Blissdom – be sure to send me a Tweet @RealPoshMom and I’ll do my best to find you. If you won't be there and want to see what I'm learning, you can follow my hashtag #PoshBliss. I am looking forward to rooming with three new friends, Amy Pelkner, Jennifer of The Newlywed Pilgrimage and Megan of Fitspiration For Moms.

Pinkberry Has Gone Greek

2013-03-16T08:00:00.000-05:00

Starting today, Pinkberry gets fresh with you! Let me introduce you to Pinkberrygreek, a fresh, not frozen, all-natural Greek yogurt. Now, Pinkberry offers a handcrafted yogurt bar where you can discover and enjoy a variety of fresh and frozen yogurt experiences thoughtfully crafted with a dedication to quality. You can enjoy Pinkberrygreek with delicious, wholesome toppings, blended into smoothies or layered for a culinary twist on parfaits.

While Pinkberry’s signature light, refreshing and clean finish frozen yogurt flavors are the perfect treat, Pinkberrygreek fresh yogurt is the perfect protein rich snack. Pinkberrygreek is a silky smooth all-natural, nonfat yogurt with a clean finish offering 15g of protein per 5oz with no added sugar, thickeners or preservatives. Each batch of Pinkberrygreek can be traced back to happy and healthy cows that live on a sustainable farm. Top it with fresh fruit, granolas and nuts, specialty chocolates and sweets, as well as, finishers like cinnamon honey, organic vanilla agave and strawberry puree.

Pinkberry created five signature recipes using fresh toppings to create yogurt experiences that are delicious and nutritious.

Chocolate Berry: Blueberry, raspberry, dark chocolate granola, chocolate shavings, cinnamon honey
Strawberry Mango: Strawberry, mango, strawberry puree, toasted almonds, shaved coconut
Kiwi Strawberry: Kiwi, strawberry, mango, honey almond granola, vanilla agave nectar
Tomato Basil: Grape tomato, fresh basil, olive oil, sea salt, balsamic glaze
Sunflower Cucumber: Cucumber, sunflower seed bites, olive oil, chili powder

What flavor combination will you be trying?

Hilton Anatole Offers 1-Mile Art Walk

2013-03-15T08:00:00.000-05:00

Love going to art museums? Trying to live a healthy lifestyle? The famed Hilton Anatole has announced a new “1-Mile Art Walk” for guests wishing to stay healthy and enjoy the hotel’s renowned art collection at the same time.

The 1-mile walk, which begins and ends at the hotel’s iconic carved elephants in the foyer of the Chantilly Ballroom, winds both inside and outside of the historic property.The art collection at the Anatole, comprised mainly of Asian works along with other examples from around the globe, has long been considered the most acclaimed collection of any hotel in the country.

You can either listen to audio on AnatoleArt.com while enjoying your tour or pick up a printed guide from the concierge desk and tour through the property. Well known art pieces on the walk include “Nebula”, a large, undulating crystal sculpture suspended from the atrium ceiling; “The Gossips” sculpture by noted Danish artist Bjorn Wiinblad; and “The Right Light” bronze sculpture by Seward Johnson.

“We feel fortunate to have one of the world’s best art collections right here at our hotel,” General Manager Harold Rapoza said. “Being able to share this collection in new and creative ways with our guests is a lot of fun.”

The “1-Mile Art Walk” is free of charge and available to anyone visiting the storied Dallas landmark. Afterwards, take the elevator up to SĒR Steak + Spirits and enjoy a delectable meal while looking over Dallas.

Dress 4 Yellow

2013-03-14T08:00:00.000-05:00

Park Place Motorcars Dallas presents the 2nd annual Dress 4 Yellow luncheon & fashion show on Thursday, March 28, 2013 at the historic Adolphus Hotel in downtown Dallas! This unique fashion show will include original designs inspired by LIVESTRONG's mission to eradicate cancer and a “Yellow Brick Road” auction that includes yellow accessories donated by celebrities. The “Yellow Brick Road” silent auction will include packages, all with yellow features, from Cole Haan, TOM’S, Falke, Thakoon, Laundry, Marc Jacobs, Kendra Scott, Bobbi Brown, David Aubrey, Vera Bradley, Mizzen + Main and more.

The theme of this year’s show is “INVintage – Yellow Through the Years” and will be produced, for the second year in a row, by Bret McKinney of Stanley Korshak. Vintage looks from a multitude of premier designer collections can be expected to walk down the runway. This year’s keynote speaker will be Dhani Jones, former NFL player and Chairman of BowTie Cause. Dress 4 Yellow is globally benefiting the LIVESTRONG Foundation and locally benefiting Cook Children’s Cancer Center. Click here to make a donation if you are unable to attend.

FASHION TIP: The gorgeous canary yellow can be worn on every skin tone with equally as gorgeous results, even varying person style (from masculine chic to femme fetal dresses) can incorporate this bright, bold color.

My gal pal Hilary Kennedy of D Living TV shows you how to be bold!

For a classic look team the bold color with neutrals like beige, tan and nude or jump on the color-block trend with a hint of turquoise.

Allison & Courtney Edwards of Where Wear in the City and I
show the variety of yellows with turquoise earrings.

An Open Letter to People Pleasers

2013-03-13T12:00:00.000-05:00

Today, I was on twitter talking with +Katherine Fell, +Donut Mama and +Jenny Bradford about the struggles of saying one of the shortest words in our vocabulary, "No." The conversation started like this:

I hate saying "No" to opportunities, but I am realizing I cannot be everywhere, do everything and be everyone. Opens doors for others.
— Jennifer (@RealPoshMom) March 13, 2013

This tweet started a great conversation online asking: "Why is it so hard to say "No!"?

"I don't want to miss out."
I struggle with this one the most. I am social person, and I always want to be in the middle of the action. As an entrepreneur, I also don't want to miss out on opportunity that could further my brand either. Unfortunately, attending events, having coffee meetings and being on TV, can take away a valuable asset that I call, "time." As I get older I value my time more...with my family, with my close friends and most importantly, alone with God. I need it. It is essential for me to be the best woman that He created me to be.

"I should take care of others first and then myself."
I find that this statement comes from who we think we should be, not what God wants for us. When we make choices based on an ideal image of ourselves — what a good friend would do, what a good mother would do, what a good wife would do — we end up taking God out of our lives. When you fly on an airplane, the flight attendant instructs you to put your oxygen mask on first, before helping others. If you run out of oxygen, you can’t help anyone else with their oxygen mask. This is an important metaphor for those of you who run around taking care of everything and everyone else except yourself. If you don’t take care of yourself, you can experience burnout, stress, fatigue, reduced mental effectiveness, health problems, anxiety, frustration, etc. You can read my post here when all of the above happened to me.

If I say "No," then they will not be my friend.
If this is true, then they were really never your friend. Healthy boundaries create healthy relationships. Boundaries are NOT about selfishness or self-serving. Boundaries are about freedom, and freedom is always meant to have love. You were called to be free.Use your freedom to serve one another in love.

Boundaries are about God’s restoring freedom to us, so that we could take control of our lives to be able to love Him and others. Ultimately, that is the fruit of boundaries, to love out of freedom, and with purpose.

Final thought to those who are around "people pleasers," offer help don't just ask them if they need it. Send words of encouragement and affirmation to them. Give them a hug and know that these are the greatest friends that you will ever have, for all they want to do is to make sure that you are loved.

What do you think? What is stoppin you in saying "No!"?

Dallas' Best Restaurant off the Beaten Path: The LOT

2013-03-12T15:00:00.000-05:00

One of the thing I love about eating at restaurant in East Dallas is that they all have character. They aren't pretentious or redundant. They are unique, and the newest addition to the East Dallas restaurants, The LOT, is just that, and it really surprised me when I parked for a media lunch. I mean where can you go where you children can spend hours in a sandbox, your husband can watch his favorite sports on a big screen and you can sipping fresh pressed juice (like what you get at your local juice bar) on the patio while watching your kids have the time of their life?!

Your kids will love house-ground cashew butter and honey on grain. You can also enjoy this sandwich and take it up a notch by adding banana or bacon to it. Yes, I said BACON!

Culinary consultant Chef Sharon Hage also adds to The LOT menu items that stand out, such as the Texas Wagyu Beef Tongue sandwich with melted Swiss and sautéed red onion on rye (which my husband swears is the best tongue he has ever eaten), Turkey Meatloaf Sandwich with white cheddar, peppered bacon on sourdough and Sheffie's Sweet Skillet Cakes that are baked to order with flavors like salted caramel pecan, chocolate brownie or cinnamon apple with the creme-de-la creme Carnival Barker's ice cream on top.

The LOT is open Sunday through Thursday from 5PM to midnight (kitchen open until 10PM), and Friday and Saturday from 5PM to 2AM (kitchen open until 11 p.m.). Lunch service is slated to begin on Monday, March 25, 2013.

The city of Dallas has granted permission for a bridge to be built that will allow access from the Santa Fe Trail directly to the restaurant. “The ball is rolling,” confirms The LOT Owner John McBride. Imagine taking a walk or ride your bike around White Rock Lake and going down the Santa Fe Trail for food and drinks at The LOT.

The LOT

7530 E. Grand Ave.

Dallas, Texas

Best Easter Brunches in DFW

2013-03-11T08:00:00.000-05:00

Our family doesn't do Easter baskets. To us, too many holidays revolved around sweets and treats, and the holiday itself can lose its meaning. Our Easter tradition is to go to early church service on Easter, and then we head to an amazing brunch, where we talk, laugh and eat ourselves to the point that a nap is required. Here's a list of Easter brunches in DFW that you should make reservations and have fun with your family and friends:

Café On The Green - MY PICK

Irving | Steak

Enjoy a buffet, kids buffet and Easter Bunny for adults at $71 and for children at $31 (ages 6-12), free for children five and under.

Chamberlain's Fish Market Grill

Addison | Seafood

Enjoy a fabulous 3 course menu specially prepared by Chef Chamberlain for $38.50 per person.

Chamberlain's Steak & Chop House

North Dallas | Steak

Enjoy a fabulous 3 course menu specially prepared by Chef Chamberlain for $38.50 per person.

Del Frisco's Double Eagle Steak House - Dallas

North Dallas | Steakhouse

Celebrate Easter at Del Frisco's featuring a lavish buffet including a variety of popular brunch & dinner items for $49. Children's menu is available for $12.

Del Frisco's Double Eagle Steakhouse - Ft. Worth

Fort Worth Downtown | Steakhouse

Celebrate Easter with our 3-course menu featuring a variety of popular brunch items & dinner menu items for $39. Children's menu is available for $10.

Gaylord Texan Resort - MY PICK

Grapevine | Steak

Get dressed up in your Easter best for the 2013 Easter Buffet because Kodak will be on hand to photograph your family. You won't have to hunt for eggs this year; they will be handed out as you walk in the door for adults at $71 and for children at $29 (ages 4-12), free for children three and under.

Grain - Hilton Park Cities

Dallas Uptown | Steak

Come join Executive Chef James Music & his culinary team to celebrate Easter Brunch in our Beverly Ballroom for adults at $55 and for children at $27.50.

Kenny's Wood Fired Grill

Addison | Contemporary American

Join them on Easter Sunday!

Mignon - MY PICK

Plano | Steakhouse

Join us for a beautiful three course Easter Sunday Brunch for $44.95 per person.

SÉR Steak+Spirits

Dallas Downtown | Steak

Celebrate Easter Sunday at SER Steak + Spirits where chef Anthony Van Camp has prepared a delicious brunch for adults at $49 and a children's menu for those under 12 at $19.

Dallas' Best Sushi: Shinsei

2013-03-07T08:00:00.000-06:00

What's the fastest way to get to Japan from Dallas? This is how I felt when I walked through the door of Shinsei Restaurant for a media lunch. The fish is flown in fresh. Then, sushi chef Shuji “Elvis” Sugawara goes to work on it, from head to tail. Maybe it's a big eye tuna, so shimmeringly fresh it looks as though it was just pulled into the boat. Maybe it's albacore tuna or unagi. Or maybe yellowtail, shrimp or sea urchin. The first thing that came to mind when I order sashimi is the Hawaiian sashimi. Shinsei's refreshing Hawaiian Sashimi is made with hiramasa, maui onion and hibiscus vinegar. The spicy tuna roll is a classic here. Add some wasabi and clear your sinuses. ;) Looking for something a little more fanciful?

Consider one of Shinsei's Regulars "off the menu" favorites, such as Ashby Roll, with spicy tuna roll topped with baked jumbo lump crab in habanero mayo, or the lovely Katina Crispy Rice, with spicy tuna on crispy rice topped with siracha and jalapeños. Shinsei means "rebirth" in Japanese. This is where you will find most divine sushi in Dallas.

The CROODS is a Rock Solid Family Movie

2013-03-05T08:00:00.000-06:00

Personally, a good family movie is hard to find. Usually most of what you see is marketed as a kids movie, but some of the jokes are crude and geared toward adults. Fortunately, The CROODS proved itself to be a movie for everyone filled with stunning animation, suspense, laugh out loud moments and heart touching scenest. But even more I found something unexpected. THE CROODS is a rich story that bringing up the themes of family. It also shows us fear and how we can overcome it. I love the portrayal of the family and how creativity plays an important part in our life.

DreamWorks' THE CROODS hits theaters on March 22, 2013. It’s a film that follows this "first family" through a hilarious and outrageous "road trip" through the harsh “Croodaceous” time period. The dynamics of family are a huge part of THE CROODS, and one of the biggest dynamics is that between teenager Eep and her dad Grug. Director Kirk DeMicco added, “A true father-daughter story was pretty unique, and everyone was really engaged by that.”

Despite their tight family bond, the Croods’ world literally is crumbling around them. Eep’s growing rebellion against the physical and mental darkness of cave life also is causing friction with Dad. When she follows the light one night and meets a creative Guy who has knowledge and invents new things. Not only Guy's introduction to new technology, the protective father’s anxiety over his daughter’s first crush adds the depth of the movie.There are plenty of hysterical moments. My kids favorite character was a sloth named Belt, who is the closest thing Guy has to family. If you know the posh boy, a movie with a sloth in it is a win-win in his book. ;)

Whether it’s to laugh at the changes technology brings to this first family ever, or just to do a little thinking about life and how you always need to reach for the light, your family will want to join The Croods!

Note: The company behind Angry Birds will be launching The Croods app on March 14, 2013. Think Farmville meets “Croodaceous” land.

Jo Malone is Sugar & Spice This Spring

2013-03-01T08:00:00.000-06:00

The Jo Malone Sugar & Spice Cologne Collection (Limited Edition) is hitting the market at the perfect time! That time being when we’re all sick of winter and muted neutrals and are ready for some tasty, pastel-hued fun. The collection consists of five English dessert inspired fragrances signed by perfumer Christine Nagel. The names of the perfumes are Lemon Tart, Redcurrant & Cream, Elderflower & Gooseberry, Ginger Biscuit and Bitter Orange & Chocolate, which sound good enough to eat!

My favorites are Redcurrant & Cream and Ginger Biscuit. Redcurrant & Cream is inspired by a summer fruit pudding and notes of red currants, strawberries, raspberries and creamy musk. Ginger Biscuit captures the scent of just baked cookies spiced with cinnamon, nutmeg and ginger and dipped in caramel. There are also some buttery toasted hazelnuts, tonka bean and vanilla.

The Jo Malone Sugar & Spice Cologne Collection is available at Neiman Marcus, and they complete your Easter and Spring wardrobe!

Take a Break This Spring in San Antonio

2013-02-28T08:00:00.000-06:00

San Antonio is the perfect destination for families looking for a Spring Break getaway that won’t break the bank. Experience thrilling theme parks, delectable flavors and outdoor adventures in San Antonio through the SAVE (San Antonio Vacation Experience) program. With SAVE, you can bring the whole family to San Antonio to create long-lasting memories!

SeaWorld San Antonio celebrates its 25th operating season this year with bigger and better shows, animal interactions and more. In its second year, SeaWorld’s water park, Aquatica, is where the South Seas meets South Texas in a whimsical, one-of-a-kind, 18-acre waterpark only SeaWorld could create. Aquatica blends up-close animal experiences, waters from serene to extreme, high-speed thrills and more than 42,000 square feet of sandy, white beaches. SAVE discounts include deals on family-four packs, $12 off admission and more.

At Six Flags Fiesta Texas, there are more than 50 rides and attractions for all ages and thrill-seeking levels. This spring, the park will unveil its new hybrid coaster, Iron Rattler, which combines a wooden support structure with modern track and rails. The result: a staggering 171-foot drop with an 81-degree drop angle, a 70 mph top speed and four over-banked turns – more than any other hybrid coaster, and the first of its kind to feature a completely inverted barrel roll. SAVE discounts include adults pay kid’s price, next day free and more.

Schlitterbahn Waterpark Resort recently introduced The Falls, “the world’s longest waterpark ride.” The Falls features raging rapids, careening waterfalls and giant waves. The continuously rushing 3,600-foot whitewater river features a ride up the park’s first AquaVeyer, a conveyor belt lift hill, providing an endless float. SAVE discount provides $2 off admission.

At Natural Bridge Caverns, visitors can discover incredible underground chambers filled with spectacular formations on a family-friendly guided tour along paved, lighted walkways. For the more adventurous, there are more challenging exploration tours as well as the Canopy Challenge & Zip Lines, a 60-foot, four-tier adventure course with 47 obstacles that test agility, balance and strength. And for the little ones, the Canopy Kids Course provides rope course fun on a smaller scale. SAVE discounts provide $1 - $2 off Discovery Tours.

San Antonio Zoo is ranked as one of the best zoos in the nation exhibiting over 3,500 animals of 600 species. Some of the newest additions include a sun bear named “Baubles,” a clouded leopard named "Indira," and a warthog piglet named “Zuko.”They also have the posh boy's favorite, Linne's two-toed sloth. SAVE discount provides $2 off admission.

Start planning their spring break trip here and SAVE! Also, follow @SAVEinSA on Twitter for offers throughout the year. :)

Zoës Kitchen Brings Your Phone to the Table

2013-02-26T08:00:00.000-06:00

Zoës Kitchen is a popular, Mediterranean-inspired, fast-casual restaurant with nine locations in the DFW area. With their new mobile app, fans can find the closest Zoës location, set personal goals, learn more about Zoës menu and even earn points towards a free treat each time they visit a Zoës restaurant.

What I love about the Zoës Kitchen app is the convenience of ordering on-the-go. I can look at their menu, check out the nutritional value and place my order ALL in palm of my hand. Know someone with a gluten allergy? No problem. Click on the "Nutrition Calculator" and see what items are gluten-free. For every order, Zoës rewards you with items like a sports cup. Stay tuned for updates to their catering menu and option on the app! Their hummus is a hit at any meeting or party. :)

A Day of Relaxation and Fun in Scottsdale

2013-02-25T08:00:00.000-06:00

Disclosure: This post is part of a compensated project by the Scottsdale Convention & Visitors Bureau. I was asked to share some of my favorite places. This post was not reviewed by a 3rd party. All opinions are mine and may not reflect those of the company. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising. All photos are mine and subject to copyright.

Scottsdale’s Sonoran Desert is a great place to spend the day to relax and rejuvenate the mind, body and soul. The desert’s curative climate, medicinal plants and therapeutic herbs create soothing teas, balms and poultices. For this reason, Scottsdale’s award-winning spas are rare gems that everyone should experience at least once a year or at least once in a lifetime. This past Saturday, I discovered the world of Scottsdale through one of their spas and fun dining.

The perfect day must start out with coffee. After a couple recommendation, my girlfriend and I headed to Cartel Coffee Lab in 5th Avenue in the heart of Scottsdale, where she ordered the creamy chai latte and I a rich, nutty espresso. Baristas at Cartel roast their coffee beans on site, which means everything is fresh. What a perfect place to start your retreat. We also enjoyed a delicious breakfast sandwich.

Big Ben Sandwich

Needing some time of reflection, balance and harmony, I chose Spa Avania at Hyatt Regency Scottsdale Resort & Spa at Gainey Ranch to awaken my senses with a beautiful backdrop of the Arizona’s Sonoran Desert. The spa’s treatments and regimens center around a “time-of-day” philosophy and how the body prepares to Awaken (morning), Balance (midday) and Renew (evening). I chose the Herbal Poultice Massage. The masseuse uses heat and herbs mixed with ginger and lemongrass to reduce aches and soothe muscle tension, and I have never felt sooo relaxed afterwards. The staff reserved a table for me to enjoy a guilt-free cuisine that will completed the whole relaxation experience.

Grilled Salmon Southwestern Salad

Spa Avania also features an outdoor French Celtic mineral pool and lotus pond, relaxation areas, steam and sauna, hot and cold plunges.

After having a relaxing day at the spa, it is time for some fun! Of course, my curious peaked when I discovered a restaurant called Posh. As a culinary explorer, its "improvisational cuisine" made me more excited to try this place out. Instead of a traditional menu, customers get a personal checklist to fill out. You indicate how many courses you want. There's a rundown of the day's featured meats and seafood, so you can mark whether you would like or not. You can also note how you like your meat cooked, whether you'll eat raw meat or fish, whether you want an all-vegetarian meal, etc. Even though you can specify your cravings, you won't know exactly what dishes you're getting until they arrive at the table as part of a multi-course tasting menu. Posh was well-prepared, seasonally fresh, and served in a series of small plates.

My girlfriend and I completed the fun day at an exclusive lounge called Citizen's R+D. You walk through an alley and come to a staircase, where you find posted rules on the outside of the building.

To paraphrase: no approaching women, no off-menu orders or substitutions, no yelling, no unsupervised entry, and charmingly, "No firearms. The Wild West era is over, let's keep it that way."You call the number at the bottom of the rule list. A man will come down and get you, if there is room, and will escort you. Once inside, the first thing you notice is that the place smells of burning sugar, which is like caramel, candy and all things wonderful to drink. The room is outfitted with black modern couches and dark-wood tables. A fireplace adds warmth and the art added style. It was the perfect way to end a relaxing and fun day in Scottsdale.

5 Things To Do Before a Conference

2013-02-23T08:00:00.000-06:00

If you’re attending a convention or a conference over the next couple of months, you might want to prepare and set some goals to accomplish.

1. RESEARCH. Check the agenda for the conference. Highlight sessions that you don't want to miss. Start following the hashtag for the event. Follow the people who you have started a conversation with online. Also, see who will be sponsoring the event. Start connecting with these brands before thew event. Finally, make a list of people that you'd like to meet. Visit their blogs and read what is happening in their lives. This is great to know, so you have a conversation starter. Lastly, if possible, start saying hello to people on their twitter and Google+ streams.

2. PREPARE. Write a few of your best posts that really represent your mission statement for your blog leading up to conference. The likelihood of someone reading your blog right before or during the conference is high. This will also help you when sharing your "elevator pitch." Consider making a video and telling the world who you are. It is easier for someone to know who you are in action than by a static twitter avatar. ;) If you are live blogging, prepare ahead of time. Check all your gear that your are taking like tablets (charged), camera gear (charged & all-together), etc. Backup your laptop before you travel. Spend some quality time with your family before you leave for the conference. They are your BIGGEST fans!

3. PROMOTE. Order updated business cards. Make sure your name is BIG, and also make sure the preferred means of communication is FIRST. Make sure it is very clearly defined what you do or write about on your card. Make sure you are sharing with your followers that you are attending the conference by stating in an update or using the event hashtag and connecting with others. Practice, practice, practice how you will define what you do to others. (Believe in yourself!)

4. PACK. After checking out agenda, pack accordingly. Always bring a sweater or jacket. Conference rooms can sometimes be chilly. If you are sharing a room with someone, remember not to pack too much, so they don't have space in the room. Don't forget those nice business cards that you just bought. Consider an extra batteries or power supplies you might want to have on hand.

5. BREATHE. This is the most important one. Don't worry if you forget something. Don't stress if you didn't meet someone. Just take a deep breathe and do all that you can do. You are not required to go to ALL the sessions, parties or meet-ups. There other opportunities to connect with someone or some brand. Thanks to ALL the social networks. :)

How to Spa

2013-02-22T08:00:00.000-06:00

Spa Avania in Scottsdale, AZ

I think EVERYONE should go to a spa resort once in their life. Here's how to get the most out of a spa experience. When you book your spa appointment, make sure you arrive at least an hour before your scheduled appointment for a couple of reasons. First, the spa will give you a tour of the facilities and all its amenities. This gives you an idea of how you may spend your day. Next, I highly recommend relaxing before your treatment by slipping into their steam room to get your mind and body ready.

Don't worry about what you will be wearing at the spa, as you will be provided with a locker, a robe and slippers. The only thing I recommend bringing is your swimsuit and possibly workout clothes. This gives you more options to take advantage of all the amenities.

After you have spent some time in the sauna, go to the waiting room (sometimes called a relaxation room) 5-10 minutes before your treatment is scheduled to start. Grab a glass of water and take a few deep breaths. The therapist will come and pick you up and escort you to the treatment room. In the room, the therapist will discuss the treatment. This is perfect time to ask questions if you have any and also let them know if you have any allergies. He or she will instruct you in how to get on the table - face up or face down - and leave the room. If you're getting a massage, you will take off your robe, hang it on a hook, and get underneath the towel or sheets. The therapist will knock before reentering.

At the end of the treatment the therapist will leave the room while you put your robe back on and wait outside for you to emerge. Grab another glass fo water to help your body hydrate itself after the treatment. You can return to the relaxation lounge to rest, proceed to your next treatment or you can enjoy the other amenities that the spa offers such as a dip in the pool or a light meal on the patio.

SHŌNA Reforms Vintage Jewelry

2013-02-21T08:00:00.000-06:00

When I met Shona Gilbert at a Christmas lunch, I knew there was something unique and special about her. She had just moved to Dallas after living on the West Coast, East Coast and even St. Croix. Shona makes her own rules, which is one of the things I love about her.

I was so excited to see her passion poured out into SHŌNA, Reformed Vintage jewelry. What makes SHŌNA stand out from other jewelry is her statement pieces and bold designs. Shona creates one-of-a-kind “reformed vintage” masterpieces. She is greatly influenced by her travels and the fantastic diversity of fashion and style that she has observed over her lifetime. Environmentally and socially responsible, SHŌNA are hand-made pieces with reclaimed vintage materials and packages them in recycled cigar boxes.

Cherry Horn Filagree Necklace, part of Ayanna collection.

Citrine Hammered Collar, part of EDHA collection

Clear Lucite Choker Necklace, part of Pebbles collection

When Shona is not designing, she is an active philanthropist in the Dallas community, contributing to and volunteering her time to various charities, including the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, Dallas Museum of Art, Family Gateway and Dress 4 Yellow.

Heart Baubles supporting LLS (Left to Right: Kimberly Alexander, myself, Shona Gilbert)

Recently, SHŌNA, Reformed Vintage has partnered with Neiman Marcus. You can preview her new Spring 2013 Collection at select Neiman Marcus stores and on her site, www.byShona.com. Here are her upcoming trunk shows and personal appearances:

February 22-23, 2013 (10AM-5PM) at Neiman Marcus Willow Bend, Plano, TX
February 28, 2013 (10AM-5PM) at Neiman Marcus, Fort Worth, TX
May 10, 2013 (10AM-5PM) at Neiman Marcus Downtown,
Dallas, TX
May 15-16, 2013 (10AM-5PM) Neiman Marcus, Chicago, IL

Raiser Grazer's Dames Go Local

2013-02-20T08:00:00.000-06:00

Les Dames d’Escoffier International’s Dallas chapter will host its annual Raiser Grazer Sunday, March 3, 2013 from 5PM to 8PM at Union Station in Dallas. This year's theme is "Dames Go Local," showcasing the many local purveyors of fruits, vegetables, meat, cheese and other artisanal dairy products. Raiser Grazer raises money for educational scholarships for area women seeking careers in the culinary arts. Tickets are only $65.

Raiser Grazer will feature more than 25 chef-hosted kiosks serving everything from local beef to desserts made with local dairy products. Also, be sure to check out almost 100 items and experiences up for grabs in their silent auction, which you can start browsing at biddingforgood.com.

Participating chefs include:

Dame Liz Baron, chef/owner, Blue Mesa Grill – Salad of Tassione Farms Greens, Mozzarella Company cheese and olive oil, pecans and grapefruit from Texas.
Dame Dunia Borga, chef/owner – La Duni – Arequipe (aka Dulce de leche) with 3 Happy Cows Dairy Cream and Texas Pecans
Dame Tiffany Derry – chef – Pan Seared Scallops with Texas Ruby Red Grapefruit Beurre Blanc
Dame Sharon Hage and Dame Wendy Taggart – Chef and Owner of Burgundy Pasture Beef – Burgundy Pastures Beef Keftah with 3 Happy Cows Tzaziki Sauce
Dame Lisa Perini – Owner, Perini Ranch Steakhouse – Mesquite Smoked Peppered Tenderloin

Ford Explorer Sport Keeps You Alert

2013-02-14T08:00:00.000-06:00

Long are the days that a family has to buy a minivan to have space in a vehicle. With SUV, a parent can look sporty while also being functional. Unfortunately, SUV can make you feel like you are driving a bus if you are used to sedans. Recently my family put the 2013 Ford Explorer Sport to the test and found that Ford has listen to the voices of cautious SUV drivers of the past.

First thing you notice is how the exterior has changed from boxy to body similar to a crossover. Bravo, Ford! The Ford Explorer Sport has a noticeable black grille and the all-over black exterior accents, including the lower body cladding and Explorer-specific alloys.

The era of the truck-based SUV, and all of its handling and fuel-efficiency faults, has passed. The new hotness is focusing on the sport rather than the utility, and you can see this by the Ford Explorer Sport interior. The black leather-trimmed seats with sienna inserts were inspired by accessories and apparel from the design houses Balenciaga and Prada. How posh is that?!

But, let me get bak to my original point: the Ford Explorer Sport provides tools to help you stay safe while driving this 7-passenger SUV. What stood out to me as I test drove this vehicle was all the safety features. The rear-view camera system is amazing with its green-yellow-red alert, and when I say alert, I mean an alarm goes off if you are in the red...which I love!

Next, BLIS (blind spot information system) with cross-traffic alert is my second favorite feature. This technology warns you when a vehicle is in your blind spot. (And, you know those drivers who love to hang out in your blind spots. It also alerts you of approaching vehicles when backing out of a parking spot. Another great feature is the low-fuel notification with the estimated mileage you need before your tank runs dry.

Lastly, I was impressed with attention to safety detail of the Ford Explorer Sport with the inflatable rear seatbelt airbags along with the

Want a quick, agile, fun-to-drive vehicle you can stuff a bunch of kids into? Ford Explorer Sport is just what you’re looking for!

Date Night Out with Catch Me if You Can

2013-02-13T08:00:00.000-06:00

Being a young adult takes on a new meaning for Frank Abagnale, Jr. in the hit musical Catch Me if You Can. Based on the hit 2002 movie with the same name, Catch Me if You Can tells the story of Frank as he goes from teenager to FBI’s most wanted. Catch Me if You Can combines classic Broadway with a modern touch, making it a fantastic musical for a date night out. Catch Me if You Can greatly mimics the movie in both plot and dialogue. The major difference, though, is the interjections of musical numbers within the show, bringing the action to the bigger-than life Broadway style.

Every character was played to its fullest. Merritt David Janes, who played Carl Hanratty, was fantastic. His portrayal of the obsessive FBI agent was compelling, and his bluesy voice helped bring the audience into the story. Playing Frank Abagnale, Jr., Stephen Anthony's lovely singing voice is what brought the show to life, and his comedic timing was impeccable. He single-handedly fought his way through the show, depicting the lovable crook so common in old Broadway shows.

Dallas Summer Musicals brings Catch Me if You Can to the Musical Hall in Fair Park from Tuesday, February 12 through Sunday, February 24, 2013. You can purchase your tickets here. With all of these opportunities to see the show, why would you miss it? So, come see Catch Me if You Can at the Musical Hall at Fair Park, and enjoy a date night out.

Disclosure: Dallas Summer Musicals gave me two tickets to experience the show. My opinions are my own.

3 Stacks Smokes Frisco

2013-02-09T08:00:00.000-06:00

Texas barbecue is really a different from the rest of their neighboring Southern states, and in Texas, brisket is king. This week, I was invited to visit Frisco's newest barbecue joint called 3 Stacks Smoke & Tap House. As soon as you walk in, you smell the delicious smoked meat, hear country music and see a murals painted on the brick walls done by Deep Ellum's Frank Campagna.

3 Stacks offers black angus brisket, baby back ribs, beef short ribs, pulled pork, smoked turkey breast and their housemade smoked sausage. 3 Stacks brings partners with "The Rib Whisperer," Trace Arnold as he shares his expertise, tips and tricks on smoking meat. Specially blended rubs created by Arnold are applied to the brisket, ribs, turkey and chicken.

But, let me get back to the brisket. Using quality Black Angus beef, Arnold smokes the brisket for 14 hours over mesquite and pecan woods, hand rubs and hand slices with spice that took him 10 years to perfect. After one bite, I can tell you it will have your taste buds dancing. The meat melts in your mouth that you have to have another bite. My favorite must-have side item is their Jalapeño Fire Crackers, hand stuffed jalapeño with this brisket and three-cheese wrapped with bacon and smoked. IT IS AMAZING!

The commitment to great food spreads across the entire 3 Stacks menu, as they serve only FRESH, never frozen, farm-to-table vegetables. My favorite sides were their Baked Beans, Vegetable Skewers and Cheesy Corn Bake with roasted poblano peppers. They also bake their Yeast Rolls, Jalapeño Cornbread and southern-style drop Biscuit daily.

Owner Jason Hall states, "Our commitment is to consistently create amazing flavors by using the freshest ingredients...based on our selection of regional ingredients."

They also offer homemade root beer in a chilled mug and lemonade made fresh-to-order. 3 Stacks has a finger-lickin kids menu (grilled cheese, homemade mac & cheese, chicken tenders, etc) that comes with a small hot fudge sundae. Bring the whole family and prepare to be stuffed like those jalapeños! ;)

3 Stacks

4226 Preston Rd

(Right behind Hooters)

Frisco, TX

Once Upon A Time Virgins Saints & Angels Create Jewelry Collection

2013-02-07T08:00:00.000-06:00

Sundays nights are popular in my household starting last year when ABC launched a show called Once Upon a Time. Once Upon a Time is a sharply written modern spin on the classic fairy tales that combines drama, romance and suspense in a truly magical way. The story brings together far-flung favorite characters like Red Riding Hood, Pinocchio, Rumplestiltskin and Jiminy Cricket. At the center of the show is the tale of Snow White and Prince Charming's love story sabotaged by the Evil Queen in one world and Regina the mayor in the other.

VSA Designs Crown used in Once Upon a Time

Want to look like you belong in a fairy tale? Virgins Saints & Angels' (VSA) newest collection is inspired by Snow White and the Evil Queen. They created two collections for the line, one with delicate angelic pieces and the other with an edgier gothic collection.

The Snow line incorporates soft pink and pure white-colored Swarovski Elements, while the Queen collection includes deep red and jet-colored crystals with dragon or spider accents. These two distinct collections were designed to compliment each other and work seamlessly when layered together. The collection incorporates ornate jewelry pieces consisting of necklaces, rings, cuffs, hair pins, and of course, crowns and tiaras.

Which character represents your style? The sensitive vulnerability Snow White or the bold confidence Evil Queen?

I am wearing Snow's crown while Posh Girl is wearing the Evil Queen's.

Just in time for Valentine's Day, Swag Owner Lisa Alfieri welcomes this new collection to her NorthPark Center store in Dallas, Texas:

Virgins Saints & Angels Global Trunk Show

Featuring the Once Upon a Time Collection

February 8-10, 2013

With a special appearance by VSA Designer and Founder Cheryl Finnegan aka Finn on TOMORROW, February 8, 2013 at 1PM-4PM

Greenz Freshens Uptown

2013-02-06T08:00:00.000-06:00

With the popularity of movies like Forks Over Knives, many seems to be choosing fresh and healthy foods. Fortunately, long gone are the days of sad bins of tired-looking ingredients in self-serve salad bars. Let me introduce you to Greenz, a fusion salad restaurant. Greenz offers fresh soups, sandwiches, specialty salads, appetizers and even homemade desserts. With a focus on health without compromising taste, Greenz offers a wide range of Gluten Free, Heart Healthy, Vegan and Points-Based Diet options. Greenz even offers handy little sheets right when you walk in the door with all of their menu items that meet these criterion.

Founded in Dallas in 2004, Greenz has grown into three locations. They have recently updated their Uptown Dallas location with a new physical design and new owner, Joel Stabile. “I feel like this opportunity was a perfect storm: a great location, a superior product and a fantastic support system under Greenz CEO and Founder, Casie Caldwell,” said Stabile. “I don’t have to reinvent the wheel. Everything I need to be a success is right in front of me and all I have to do is work hard to keep up the standards that are already in place.”

Fortunately, they have the same great taste with a modern look. The Warm Pear & Goat Cheese is fantastic, especially if you enjoy goat cheese and a sweet flavor combination.

The Grilled Southwestern Shrimp is an interesting mix of sweet and spicy with sweet potato straws on top.

You can also build your own salad all made from fresh delicious ingredients. By the way, don't forget to check-in with Foursquare when you visit. They have a great "check-in special." :)

Look for Greenz in Houston, Texas coming in 2013!

The Parking Spot Has You Covered

2013-01-25T08:00:00.000-06:00

We recently traveled out of town and rather than pay the high price for parking at the airport, we decided The Parking Spot at Dallas Love Field would be a great option. The Parking Spot is now offering travelers up to 25% off parking as part of its "More Spots, More Savings" national promotion. With more than 37 locations at 24 U.S. airports, it's now easier than ever to take advantage of low airfares and plan a getaway. Where you park matters, and The Parking Spot offers an experience that will change the way you think about airport parking.

The entire process is simple, convenient and affordable. When you enter the parking lot, you will pull up to a kiosk where you will receive a ticket to enter. You have the option to park in Covered Parking or in Open-air Parking. But, wait! They have an additional service - Car Care, where you can have your car washed by hand and even detailed.

Shuttles are constantly running and take you from your car directly to the airport. The drivers are friendly and helpful. They will provide assistance loading your bags onto the van and ask which airline you’ll be flying on to ensure you arrive at the correct terminal for your departure. They hand you a ticket with information of where exactly your car is located. When you return, hand this ticket to the driver this ticket, and they will drop you off exactly where you parked - talk about posh service. ;) The shuttle is comfortable with leather seats.

When departing the parking lot, you’ll pay the cashier at the booth. The cashier will offer you a complimentary bottles of water, if you'd like. What a way to finish the end of travel! The Parking Spot should definitely be an option if available near your local airport.

I am giving a lucky reader a one-week parking voucher from The Parking Spot. Tweet to @TheParkingSpot where you would like to park yourself on a vacation along with the hashtag #PoshParking. The giveaway will end at 5PM on January 31, 2013.

Disclosure: The Parking Spot gave me a one-week parking voucher to review their service. However, my opinions are entirely my own, and I have not been paid to publish positive comments.