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Warning: This Post may Give you a Purpose

Tyler Logan — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

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We all feel we need a path or purpose. It seems to be fundamentally part of our psychological make-up. A key characteristic that makes us human. The only problem is, a lot of us don't know what it is. But, what if I was to tell you, knowing your purpose is extremely attractive to women and will certainly triple your dates - wouldn't you like to find out?

* But first, let me apologise to subscribers and previous readers. Yes it's been very quiet around here recently. But, from here on in Psyduction will start making its way back up. A new design, better content and most importantly, more of a community will start rolling in within the next month or so. Ok, now before I ramble and confuse new readers - here's the post...

What is purpose? Well I suppose you can see it as your main objective in life, your 'destiny' if you will. Personally, I see it as a combination of one thing that I enjoy immensely and that which I'm naturally good at. My purpose is helping people while making a big change into today's social, for the better. What's yours? What do you enjoy the most while being naturally good at?

You need to figure it out if you haven't already. Men who have a purpose are the most attractive thing possible for desirable women. She wants to know that you can handle yourself, that you can provide, and that you can be successful in the world. If you know what your purpose in life is, your basically there - and she knows it.

Having a purpose works equally well in other areas of life too. Once you know what you want to do, you can adjust your life accordingly - often for the better. For example, if you want to be the first person on Mars, you'll need to quit selling cars and begin whatever process is necessary to become an astronaut. By doing so, you gain massive positive income in the form of self-respect, success, status and happiness. Not to mention the countless women falling at your feet.

Your purpose is long-term. It isn't a fumble, you won't walk on Mars and then open an antique piano shop because you love pianos. Keep that in mind when you decide what your purpose is, since most likely, it will be something you will do for the rest of your life. Focus long-term rather than short-term, all short-term goals will become side effects of your purpose.

To get the ball moving, walk to the nearest mirror, clear you throat and ask these two simple questions out loud:

Is the Universe a friendly place?
Am I a cause or an effect?

Watch your reactions while you answer the questions. Do you believe yourself? Keep at it until you can answer both questions undoubtedly.

Next, sit down with a piece of paper, a pen and lock the door. Stay still in your room and find your purpose. Write down all the things you are naturally good at, and the things you enjoy. Once you've got them down, read them. What is your purpose? What do you want to do? Who do you want to be?

You may find that your life is in the wrong direction at the moment, know that sometimes you need to actively kill things to leave room for more important things. Now, I don't mean anything nefarious, I mean quitting that shit job or letting go of negative friends who hold you back. Let nothing come between you and your purpose and all the rewards will follow.

If by now you know what your purpose is, the next question surely is, what do I do next? Well the only answer is to play big. From here on in your the driver of your life, take the wheel and follow your path. On the way you will achieve every goal you ever could imagine. Don't look back and don't stop moving forward.

What's your purpose?

Disclaimer: I am not liable for anyone who seeks world domination.

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4 Easy Ways to Get Her Number (or E-mail)

Tyler Logan — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

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Real simple ways to get a number or e-mail. It's not as complex as most believe. All it normally takes is the confidence to ask for it - the rest you can play around with, here's some ideas for you.

1. With a card

You: "Hey do you have a card handy?"
Her: "Ummm... yep?"
You: "Good, write down your e-mail."

2. Ask the question

You: "Do you have e-mail?"
Her: "Yep"
You: "Is it something cheesy like sexkitten69?"
Her: "umm.. nope"
You: "I don't believe you, what is it?"

3. Trade info

You: "Hey, let's trade information and catch up at another time."

4. Phone

You: "Hey, do you have a phone?"
Her: "Yep?"
You: "Give it to me!" (Phone your own phone)
You: "Thanks."

When she's writing her number or e-mail (whatever you asked for) tell her to write down her number or e-mail as well, so you'll have both. Usually she will without a problem.

I'm sure you can think of plenty more ways to ask for a number or email - I've listed a few here to fuel ideas. I'd really like to know your favourite way to ask so comment away.

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14 Tips to Beat Dating Failure

Tyler Logan — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

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You're most likely nervous, sweating a little - maybe even considering not going. A date can be a cruel event if you're not prepared. These tips will arm you to the teeth and get you past any uncomfortable feelings.

Here's a fast break down of 14 tips that will improve your game and beat any dating failure you may have:

Never give a woman a direct answer unless it’s “no”. If your unobtainable, you are a challenge - women want a challenge, never give everything they want. Say no.
Answer questions with questions. Or something that implicates her or makes her commit to something. Be mysterious, women like not knowing everything, they won't leave you alone until they find out.
If she complains. Complaining about something is one of the best opportunities to playfully tease her. If she hates your music and complains, turn it up and say "Glad you like it".
Don’t give her exactly what she asks for. Women, expecially beautiful women have a way of getting mostly everything they desire. When a man doesn't give them what they want they need to know why. If you resist her beauty and say 'No' from point one - she'll want you.
Use “Let’s be friends”. Using this takes her attitude, her frame. It's normally what she does to guys so if you do it to her, she's all out of cards and your winning the game.
Be unpredictable. Keep changing your patterns. Having a mysterious, exciting and adventurous life is the key. Women like to be kept on their feet.
2 steps forward, 1 step back. When you've got something going that she likes, stop, take 1 step back. Then a little later, take 2 steps forward and let her enjoy it again - then take another step back. Very good technique in sex.
If a woman tests you always raise and call her bluff. Women always test. Normally they'll bluff and call you out. E.g she may call you a jerk for laughing at her, you laugh some more. Call her bluff, don't give in.
Don’t be a wuss. Don't apologise, don't beg and don't need anything from her. You're a very capable man who doesn't need anything - you've got everything you need. Get rid.
Have a strong composure. Learn body language. Stand confidently, chest out, straight, legs apart and nothing covering your chest. You're a strong dominant man.
Take control of the situation. Be a leader. The situation demands someone to take charge, let that person be you. If she's in control of the current situation, take her somewhere else where you are in control.
Be picky. Have standards. You are important, you don't need to give yourself away from anything les than first class. Never accept second class.
Getting rid of and deal with insecurity. Insecurity can be a nightmare. Mask your insecurities and forget about them. You're a powerful, capable man who knows what he wants.
Reframe a test as she likes you. When a woman throws you a test, turn it around. Anytime a woman tests you it's because she's attracted to you - women don't test men they aren't attracted to. Therefore, turn it around. If she calls you a jerk say "awww... I can't believe how fast you fell in love with me" and smile.

Conclusion

Ideally, if you...

Never give a woman a direct answer unless it’s “no”
Answer questions with questions
Turn around her complaints
Don’t give her exactly what she asks for
Use “Let’s be friends” instead of her
Be unpredictable
Take 2 steps forward, 1 step back
Call her bluff on tests
Don’t be a wuss
Have a strong composure
Take control of the situation
Be picky and have standards
Get rid insecurities
Reframe a test as if she likes you

...you will be a real man on dates and will have no problem having as many beautiful women are you desire.

Know any tips I've missed? Comment away - I'm sure i've missed some.

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9 Beliefs That Make the Difference between Men and Real Men

Tyler Logan — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

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Sometimes the only difference between men and real men are simple, yet powerful beliefs. I will introduce 10 here and show you how to use them effectively.

I'm not completely sure who said it, I think it may have been Swingcat. But, this quote sums up this post perfectly:

“I have a belief that I am better looking than I actually am, I know that I am not as good looking as some men and better looking than others. But I know that I can walk into a room and walk out with another man’s girlfriend”

Utter brilliance. That one belief alone will differentiate you from the normal men and enter you into the league of extraordinary men. Even though you may not need to go as extreme as the above belief, these next 9 beliefs are essential to operate as a real man:

"Women just want to use me for sex"
"I am the prize"
“Women are wonderful creatures that love sex”
“I know a woman’s body better than she does”
“No matter what reaction a woman gives me, it’s always beneficial to learn”
“When a woman says she doesn’t like something about me, it’s just her issue”
“I do not need validation, but she is trying to get me to validate her”
“Every woman wants me; I’ve just got to decide which ones I want”
“I decide if sex will happen”

Beliefs are important for a real man. He needs to believe he's all that and more if he wants to truly excel. The best things I value about beliefs are that once you believe something, it becomes your reality. If you said to yourself, everyday, "Women just want to use me for sex". How long do you think it'll take before you actually believe it? Next thing you know, your reality is full of beautiful women who only want to use you for sex.

Another great thing is, it sets the groundwork for your whole identity. If you believe you're a real man who's valued immensily by women, you will be and your identity will shift to match. Believe something hard enough and your mind will seek out through your reticular activating system and find evidence for your beliefs until fully accepted as reality.

Conclusion

To conclude, real men have a set of beliefs that set them apart from ordinary men. If an ordinary man was to pick up those beliefs and believe them too, he would become a real man extremely fast. Beliefs are important because they structure and define everything in our lives. Therefore you want the best beliefs available, and the 9 listed, in my opinion, fit the bill. More man tips this way.

What beliefs do you have with women? Any of these strike your fancy?

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Warning: Women Know if you’re In a Club Just to Pick Up Girls

Tyler Logan — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

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The odds are against any man in a club looking for girls. Unless you know the difference between key concepts of fishing vs hunting which are explained in the next paragraph.

Fishing vs Hunting

Hunting is the normal play that happens in clubs. Men roaming the dance floors and bars using bait (free drinks) looking for women. However successful the average hunter accredits himself to be, a fisher will be far more successful in the long run.

Fishing is the natural way and if often not seen often in clubs. It's when a man decides what type of woman he wants, adjusted himself appropriately and reels in woman as they approach him. He'll usually do it by standing out, having interesting friends around him or simply by enjoying himself. Almost the opposite of the hunter.

The disadvantage of hunting is mainly down to the fact that women expect it. They know 95% of men in a club are hunting for women and women often don't enjoy being hunted. Instead they'd rather look for a man they're interested in.

The advantages of fishing if that you will be that man they're interested in. These days women will approach men, a lot more commonly than most men believe. If you're having fun, she'll want to have fun with you safe in the knowledge your not going to start hunting her - your too busy having fun.

The main point to bring up is that women can easily tell who the hunters and the fishers are. It's no secret. Therefore, if a woman sees you hunting she's much more likely to stay away from you or accept the free drink and 'disappear' when your back is turned. On the other hand, if your fishing she'll most likely be buying you drinks because she wants to be with you, having a good time.

Conclusion

You've read the advantages and disadvantages, if you were previously a hunter you now have the information required to become a fisher and increase your game. Clubs can be evil places if you're not fully informed, read 5 mistakes men make in clubs and enjoy yourself next time you're at a club or if you're already a fisher - leave a comment of how you personally find it, readers would love to know!

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Here’s a Quick Way to Relieve Tension Around Women

Tyler Logan — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

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I'm sure we can all agree at some point we all feel tension around women, especially around beautiful women. Here's my quick solution for relieving - treat her like your bratty little sister. Next paragraph explains.

Bratty sister mode

Bratty sister mode is where - as you'd expect - you treat her as if she's your little bratty sister. Call her out on whining, call her spoilt if she has lots of things and tease her on her mannerisms etc. In this mode your communicating powerful signals of how you are the dominant presence as well as the protector. Your also making her validate herself for not being 'spoilt' or 'posh' or whatever you may associate with a little bratty sister.

Little bratty sister mode is useful because it allows you to show that you're not the type of guy who falls head over heels at any kind of woman - especially beautiful women. You've seen them all before, you've had them all before - your now picking and choosing who you spend your time with.

The main advantage is the tension it will relieve between you and her. Freeing up your mind to work on more complex ways of interacting with her, instead of worrying - which is kind-of two birds with one stone. Not only are you not tense, but your also relaxed - which is an extremely attractive trait in a man. It shows a woman that you can deal with beauty and your not phased in the slightest.

Another advantage is that you can quickly show your value while making her rethink hers. A very powerful combination that'll leave her wondering who you are and how you can so confidently ignore her beauty, charm and flirting.

The main disadvantage would be overuse or misuse. As long as you use the bratty sister mode when appropriate and decide how far to take it beforehand, you both will have a lot of fun teasing each other - like a brother and a bratty sister.

Another possible disadvantage would be how she will reacts towards you. At first, she will most likely use words that are highly disagreeable to what your saying. It's your job is to ignore those words and focus on her body language - that'll tell the true story of what she's feeling.

To conclude, the bratty sister mode is as it sounds, treating her as if she's your little bratty sister and you're here to put her straight. It's a useful mode because it allows you to re-frame the situation in your own way allowing her to see that you are the dominant presence while she validates herself towards you. As long as you watch overuse or misuse, everything will flow fine.

What's your take on this 'technique'? Have you ever used it?

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Here’s a Quick Way to Increase Her Attraction to You

Tyler Logan — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

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Sometimes its the little untouched things that make the biggest difference in attraction. One of those things happens to be encouraging independence.

Encouraging Independence

Around 90% of women need advice on becoming more independent, so why do men believe its a mistake to allow her to be independent, let alone encourage it?

Personally I believe it's down to a scarcity mentality of believing you won't get another chance or she's yours because you've worked hard thus far in obtaining her. Bad thinking. Instead its much more beneficial to encourage independence, especially if you've been talking to her a lot and say “Why don’t you go meet some guys or something?” or “That guy is checking you out; I think you could get him!”. Such a line will improve her attraction for you because its massively different from what other guys do. She'll be wondering why you'd want to 'get rid of her' as it were, and she'll come to the conclusion that you have many other options and she isn't your be all and end all.

Why she'll come back

Sometimes she'll take you up on your independence advice and chat to another man - attempting to test your confidence. All the time she'll be checking back at you to see whether or not your watching or getting jealous. If you're chilling at the bar, talking to another woman or simply enjoying yourself she's going to know your the catch. Allow her to be independent, it shows how confident you are that your the best choice in the room with an abundance mentality.

There is nothing more motivating that some diminishing item you want. Bear that in mind when encouraging independence because you'll be that diminishing item, that she wants.

Thinking of testing it out? Drop me a comment.

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Get Rid Of Your Inner Wussy Once and For All

Tyler Logan — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

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Don't you hate how sometimes nerves and thoughts get the better of you? We all go through it, doesn't matter how confident and successful you become. This is all down to the inner wussy messing with our perception and here's how to get rid of it, once and for all.

Psychology of the Wussy

The wussy is nothing more than an avoidant victim nice guy. Well in beliefs anyway. To understand and eliminate the inner wussy we'll need to break it down to it's bare bones, see it for what it really is then get rid of it. The wussy is comprised of 3 parts in my opinion, which are:

Avoid - The wussy drives us towards validation and/or acceptance
Victim - The wussy drives us towards no responsibility and a collection of people to feel sorry for us
Nice guy - The wussy drives us towards being the 'nice guy'. A set of beliefs which enable us to go out of our way to help in any circumstance (often by lowering themselves) and secretly believe their better than anyone.

With thew wussy broken down to it's bare bones you can see the real face of our common enemy. It's healthy to see problems for what they really are because now you can reject the beliefs based on knowledge. To get rid of the wussy we also need to understand the 3 types:

"She's different" wussy
"I want her to like me for me" wussy
"I love this one girl..." wussy

To dispel the 3 types quickly - no she's not different, if you want her to like you for you - you'll go months without dates and if you love that once girl who isn't interested in you, you'll end up obsessed. To remind myself of wussy traits I simply think of this quote, which happens to also be the title of a rather interesting book: Nice guys sleep alone.

To kill the wussy

Now that we understand the psychology and types of wussy we're able to deliver the killing blow through re-framing and powerful beliefs:

Attraction is not a choice (credit to David Deangelo)
I am the power
There's enough of everything I want everywhere
Nothing is real, it's all in my mind

For me, my beliefs make the difference and believing the above beliefs will kill the inner wussy. It's hard to hold conflicting beliefs - especially since the mind can only hold one thought at one time. The most dominant belief will win which is decided by how much you want to believe. For more, read 1 method that made me irresistible to beautiful women and remember, believe you are and you are.

I'm sure there's plenty more beliefs floating around out there, anyone got any good ones?

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How 1 Method Made Me Irresistible to Beautiful Women

Tyler Logan — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

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Belief. Believing you can do something automatically enables you to do it - therefore, why not believe you're the best thing since slice bread as far as women are concerned?

Limiting beliefs

One of the main reasons men get help back from attracting the woman of their dreams comes down to simple beliefs they carry around which limits their progress. Common examples:

They think I’m ugly
I will be seen as boring because I don't know what to say
I’ll be too nervous to even approach her

I'm sure you can see why these beliefs could limit you but here's a simple way to turn them around in with one method that made me irresistible to beautiful women - re-framing.

The act of re-framing is converting the negative belief into a positive belief by changing a few key words. For example the previous list can be changed to:

They won’t care of my physical appearance
I’ll know what to say because they will be relaxed
I’m nervous of rejection but not afraid to change

The beliefs are not instantly better. No more will you doubt yourself into defeat, instead you'll march head in with your new belief structure since you are an irresistible piece of man gold that can't be rejected from your goals - only delayed.

You can do anything

I love reassuring myself I can do anything because now it's completely automated and I know I can - and so can you. The main obstacle is your own intelligence, especially if you're very intelligent. Smart men tend to convince themselves their original beliefs must be right (I'm ugly etc) and tend to stick with them longer. If this is you, you need to get over your intelligence.

Here's 3 things to think about:

Life isn't fair... and that's awesome
Luck is choice, you are the only person who truly cares about your success
Classic line from Deangelo: "You are in my reality and you are a guest"

What thoughts are flying around with these 3 things, what do they mean to you? I'd love to know in the comments.

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Have Standards with Women You Can Be Proud Of

Tyler Logan — Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000

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If you constantly undermine yourself and go for a woman whose under your perceived standards, this post will help you see the qualities you desire and how to raise your standards to match them.

Before you begin, you need to understand and believe the following:

You are the PRIZE! In any situation, you are the prize - not her. Value yourself.
A list of standards. Create a list of standards you expect and stick to it.

Creating the list

If you're not 100% sure what standards you expect, take a look at this list - this is my personal list:

Adventurous
Spontaneous
Mentally strong
Up for a challenge
Intelligence
Sophisticated
Optimistic
Not afraid of change

You can take what you want from my list, mash it up with your own or generally disregard it. Either way, having a list of standards in mind will help you tremendously. Another way to look at it is to also have a list of things you will NOT tolerate:

Drama
Neediness
Dishonesty
Disrespect
Indecisiveness
Chaviness (check 15 types of women you should avoid for more)

Knowing what you don't want is as helpful as knowing what you do want sometimes.

Finding your required standards in women

Right, we've got a list, we know we're the prize. Next, we need to find whether or not she has the qualities required to fulfil your standards.

Personally, during small conversation I'd enter this line: "You seem like you may be adventurous, are you?” – If she says ”Yes” say – “Good, if you weren't I was going to walk away since I'm only friends with adventurous people." From this point on you could enforce your prize mentality by saying something like: "Even though you think you might be adventurous, I don't know if this friendship will work out because I doubt you could handle me". Depending on her answer, you've either met or missed your first standard.

If she answers negatively or by saying "No" then walk away, she's below your standards. But, if you've found that she's adventurous, you now have plenty of ammunition available for more small talk before you test her on another standard. For example, you could ask her what her most adventurous think was in the past few months - this always turns up an interesting conversation.

Your next step would be your next standard, in my case it would be 'spontaneous' where I'd use a similar set up as 'adventurous' (feel free to customise and have fun with how you find your standards). Work your way through your list of standards in any order you see fit, qualify them all and you know you've got a women who rocks your world. Don't accept any less, you're the prize remember?

Conclusion

Having a list of standards is powerful because it shows you as a man who knows what he wants - a very sexy trait. Knowing what you want is also helpful in the time and effort department, think of the time you'd save by not dating needy or dramatic women. Instead, focus on the cool, healthy women you really enjoy and everything will work out perfectly.

What do you expect with a woman, are you brave enough to comment your personal standards?

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