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		<title>Politician has the best response to his Grindr photos being leaked</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[David Hudson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Paul O’Neill is a council member in Northern England.]]></description>
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<p>A UK politician has received praise for his reaction after his Grindr profile appeared all over X and Facebook.</p>



<p>Paul O&#8217;Neill is a Labour councilor in Rochdale in the north of England. He serves the North Heywood ward. Labour is the UK’s major left-wing party, and its leader, Andy Burnham, became the current Prime Minister in July.</p>





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<p>According to the <a href="https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/councillor-praised-classy-response-after-34659246" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/councillor-praised-classy-response-after-34659246" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">Manchester Evening News</a>, someone posted screenshots of O’Neill’s Grindr profile to Facebook. They claimed they “nosied on grinder coz I&#8217;m curious what it&#8217;s all about”. </p>



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<p>O’Neill’s profile includes a photo of him wearing a leather harness and showing off a bear paw tattoo. Another shows him in a leather shirt. The person who posted them to Facebook said they found the profile a “bit disturbing.&#8221;</p>



<p>In his bio, O’Neill described himself as “Gay/bi curious … bear cub … Into politics, football, running, swimming, theatre/creative arts. And beer. NO Reform voters, anti-trans bigots, thanks.”</p>



<p>Reform is a far-right party that has gained ground in the UK in recent years.</p>



<p>Far-right accounts quickly picked up the screenshots and spread them across X.</p>



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<h2 class="wp-block-heading">&#8220;I am not remotely ashamed to have a social and dating life&#8221;</h2>



<p>O’Neill responded with a post on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=122239951922313874&amp;set=pb.61559416224756.-2207520000&amp;type=3" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=122239951922313874&amp;set=pb.61559416224756.-2207520000&amp;type=3" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">Facebook</a> yesterday.</p>



<p>“It’s been brought to my attention that two people have decided to visit a gay men’s dating app I’m a member of, create an account for themselves, and then find my profile, screen shot it, and share it on social media, complete with some rather unpleasant comments.</p>



<p>“The reasons why those people decided to create gay dating accounts for themselves were ‘curiosity’ and ‘verifying’ that I had a profile, apparently.</p>



<p>“I’ll leave it for readers to make their own minds up about THAT bit. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f440.png" alt="👀" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>



<p>“I’m glad that my photos were recent, as I’ve lost 3 stone since February. I’m only sorry these two characters couldn’t wait a few more weeks before invading my privacy, as I’ve just started going back to the gym, and I might have looked even more fabulous than I already did at the Manchester Pride 2026 event most of the photos are from.</p>



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<p>“Joking aside, there are more revealing photos of many straight men and women at the beach or at the gym all over social media, I am not remotely ashamed to have a social and dating life, and it obviously affects not a jot my work as a proud ward councillor for the brilliant people of North Heywood.</p>



<p>“If you think I’m rubbish at being a councillor, that’s fine. But it isn’t because, like millions of other people, straight, gay and everything else, I have a profile on a dating app. And for the record, I’m single. Worst thing that can happen is I might get a date or two out of this, right?</p>



<p>He ended by promoting the date of his next ward surgery (when members of the public can meet with their councilmember), quipping, “I’ll be dressed more conservatively, promise. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f61c.png" alt="😜" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />”</p>



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<p>Many praised O’Neill’s response.</p>



<p>“I don&#8217;t know why this is in my feed, I don&#8217;t know where Heywood is, or who you are but well said. If you&#8217;re upsetting the sort of people who still think &#8216;outing&#8217; someone for having a profile on a gay dating site is a huge &#8216;gotcha&#8217;, then the chances are you&#8217;re probably a decent enough chap. Top day to you sir,” said one woman.</p>



<p>Another woman said, “This just came up on my feed and though I’m not a Heywood resident I met Paul in a Rochdale bar in June. He chatted to me about my watch then checked was it ok chatting to me &#8211; such a polite thing to do. He told me he was a local councillor so I know this is the same pleasant guy and I’m appalled at what’s been done by people who need to get a life.”</p>



<p>One man replied, “Great response and best of British to you. Keep outing the bigots and keep representing your community. I am a straight married Christian white male. I spent 4 years as a local Cllr. It scares me to see how people who aren&#8217;t like me are being targeted by bigots. Nothing but respect for you and other people who stand up and speak out, stay safe and hope you at least score a decent date out of this.”</p>



<p>O’Neill followed it up today with a joke meme about finding “Fame at last, eh?”</p>



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<p>When we first meet Diego, he is dating Rachele. While their relationship seems secure, we see hime develop feeling for Camila, a new recruit at Minerva.</p>



<p>Spoiler alert! Diego and Camila later have a rendezvous of their own. And of course, while Diego might fit the straight boy player archetype that has existed in teen dramas since the dawn of television, there is a bit more than meets the eye.</p>



<p>Before Francesco (Luigi Bruno) disappeared, Diego and Francesco took pictures together at a party. While in the photobooth, the two shared a kiss. Diego, having never experienced attraction toward another boy, struggles with these feelings, and the struggle is magnified when Francesco disappears.<br><br>This does not necessarily mean Diego’s feelings toward Rachele and Camila weren’t real. But it does indicate that Diego may be bisexual or pansexual.</p>



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<p>Granted, while the series has its dark moments, it’s refreshing to have a bisexual storyline that feels complex and nuanced. </p>



<p>Some may argue that one’s sexuality shouldn’t be used as a plot twist, but Diego’s alleged queerness goes deeper than most teen dramas, as viewers see him understand that these feelings weren’t limited to sex. Diego may have had romantic feelings toward Francesco.</p>



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<p>The best (or worst) part? Tuberville felt the need to illustrate his speech using the pregnant man emoji. </p>



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<p>This same man, <a href="https://www.hrc.org/press-releases/tommy-tubervilles-pathetic-attempt-to-attack-transgender-kids-nationwide-fails-in-u-s-senate" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.hrc.org/press-releases/tommy-tubervilles-pathetic-attempt-to-attack-transgender-kids-nationwide-fails-in-u-s-senate" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">in 2022</a>, attempted to push through a bill that would have banned trans children&#8217;s participation in school sports nationwide. That bill ultimately failed, but Tuberville&#8217;s logic is alive and well in the <a href="https://glaad.org/fact-sheet-for-reporters-transgender-participation-in-sports/?gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=24001098910&amp;gbraid=0AAAAAD7GZscH_3Raq4UhfK95MmPKmB0Yn&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwlNPVBhCMARIsAPZ5Rqg4egyF-6me2zWHKqMz-1e0dx_vRVSlDAaAF5Bz2XbxKsBpqE5kRkIaAhJqEALw_wcB" data-type="link" data-id="https://glaad.org/fact-sheet-for-reporters-transgender-participation-in-sports/?gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=24001098910&amp;gbraid=0AAAAAD7GZscH_3Raq4UhfK95MmPKmB0Yn&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwlNPVBhCMARIsAPZ5Rqg4egyF-6me2zWHKqMz-1e0dx_vRVSlDAaAF5Bz2XbxKsBpqE5kRkIaAhJqEALw_wcB" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">sweeping anti-trans legislation</a> focused on keeping little girls out of school sports in 2026. For the GOP senator, it&#8217;s still not enough.</p>



<p>Tuberville is much less passionate about the actual issues, such as gas prices. This week, Tuberville basically told constituents to suck it up. &#8220;We voted for him,&#8221; Tuberville said of Tr*mp. </p>



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<p>Um&#8230; speak for yourself, diva. Even though Alabama—an overwhelmingly red state—did indeed vote for Tr*mp, they most likely did not cast that vote in the hopes that they would be in a state of endless war with gas prices (and grocery bills) to match.</p>



<p>Tuberville might assume his constituents agree with his backwards thinking on trans rights, but he might want to think again. Earlier this year, <a href="https://www.queerty.com/new-report-finds-red-states-are-gleefully-tanking-their-own-quality-of-life-just-to-spite-trans-people-20260715/" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.queerty.com/new-report-finds-red-states-are-gleefully-tanking-their-own-quality-of-life-just-to-spite-trans-people-20260715/" data-wpel-link="internal">CNBC released a report </a>disclosing the 10 states with the worst quality of life in the country. Alabama had no trouble making the list. At #8 on the ranking, the deep red state—already home to plenty of anti-trans legislation—was found to be suffering a severe mental health crisis of its own. </p>



<p>An October 2025 report ranked the state among the country&#8217;s worst for mental health care, coming in last at #50. The crisis seems to have been created by the fact that a <a href="https://abc3340.com/news/alabama-news/new-report-ranks-alabama-among-worst-states-for-mental-health-care-access" data-type="link" data-id="https://abc3340.com/news/alabama-news/new-report-ranks-alabama-among-worst-states-for-mental-health-care-access" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">disproportionate number of adults</a> suffer from mental health struggles, and there aren&#8217;t enough care providers in the state to serve them.</p>



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<p>You&#8217;d think that this crisis might be Tuberville&#8217;s top priority—but apparently not. Instead, it&#8217;s &#8220;furry pilots&#8221; and the trans people that, in Tuberville&#8217;s mind, have some causal link to the furry pilot epidemic. </p>



<p>Here&#8217;s the good news: in 2022, Tuberville&#8217;s anti-trans thinking was right on target. In 2026, it&#8217;s no longer the reliable boogeyman that MAGA Republicans have counted on to get their way for the past four years. Increasingly, Americans across party lines are less worried about trans people coming to convert their children into furry pilots, and more concerned with the tactile issues facing them in daily life: i.e. gas prices, grocery bills, and the general cost of living. </p>



<p>Taking all this into account, Tuberville might be in for a surprise on November 3rd. When you put all your eggs into the anti-trans basket, don&#8217;t be surprised if even the deepest red states get wise to the con. </p>



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					<description><![CDATA[Matt Rogers also talked about a vacation with ex Fraser Olender that led to them briefly getting back together. He’s now single and back on <a href=":censored:23:5c1b8dab0b:/tag/grindr" class="linkify" data-wpel-link="internal">Grindr</a>.]]></description>
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<p>Matt Rogers is the latest guest to sit down with Katya for her ‘<em>Who&#8217;s the A**hole?</em>’ podcast for Grindr.</p>



<p>Given the podcast is produced for the hookup app, the conversation often turns spicy, and Rogers did not disappoint.</p>



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<p>He reflected on his own use of the app, admitting he’s recently been refamiliarising himself with Grindr after taking a break.</p>



<p>Rogers, 36, was in a very public relationship with <em>Below Deck</em> reality star Fraser Olender. They went Instagram official by posting photos together from the red carpet of Bravocon Live in Las Vegas last November.</p>



<p>They reportedly split up in the spring, then reunited for a few weeks, before again going their separate ways.</p>



<p>Rogers is now single and back on Grindr. He revealed to Katya that he sometimes has people questioning if he’s really Matt Rogers or just someone catfishing with his photos.</p>



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<p>The conversation turned to bedroom action. Katya recounted a time she enjoyed a hookup but it didn’t involve b*tt stuff. This prompted Rogers to fondly recall his own love for frottage.</p>



<p>“I used to frott my way all over New York City,” Rogers reveals, before explaining that frotting, or frottage, is the act or rubbing one’s d*ck on another guy’s body.</p>



<p>“Dry humping… s*x without any insertion,” he says.</p>



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<h2 class="wp-block-heading">&#8220;Frotting doesn&#8217;t happen as much&#8221;</h2>



<p>Rogers enjoyed frottage so much in his early 20s, he even wondered what the point of f*cking might be. Wouldn’t it just hurt?</p>



<p>“Now I’m a huge fan of penetration,” he adds.</p>



<p>Asked what message he would give his younger self, he jokes, “It gets better!”, referring to the mechanics of penetrative fun.</p>



<p>Later on, he identifies the year 2010 as his peak frotting period.</p>



<p>“To be honest with you, frotting doesn&#8217;t happen as much. I wish it would happen more.”</p>



<p>Although it’s a jokey conversation, Rogers makes a serious point. Frottage is an often-overlooked, pleasurable aspect of intimacy that requires no douching or preparation (although some lube may be handy!).</p>



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<p>Elsewhere in the conversation, Rogers reveals that he doesn’t think he has a type. He also talks about a dreamy trip to Thailand he enjoyed earlier in the year with his “ex”. We presume he’s referring to Olender.</p>



<p>Katya asked him to name the best vacation he had with a partner or lover, and Rogers says, “My ex and I went to Thailand earlier this year, and it was the most beautiful vacation ever.”</p>


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<p>Katya suggests that Thailand is often so humid between 11am and 1pm, there’s not much else to do besides stay indoors and… well, have fun.</p>



<p>Rogers confirms, “We had a <em>wonderful</em> time, and it was like one of those things where we hadn&#8217;t seen each other in a long time. And also we were broken up so we went on, like, not a f*ck trip but like a nice, beautiful f*ck trip. And then we got back together, but now we&#8217;re not.”</p>



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<p>Rogers is best known for co-hosting the <em>Las Culturistas</em> podcast with good friend Bowen Yang. He’s also in the RuPaul movie, <em>Stop! That! Train!</em>, which is out on Netflix this week.</p>



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<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Katya pauses projects to concentrate on health</h2>



<p>We presume this episode of ‘<em>Who’s The A**hole</em>’ was recorded before Katya, real name Brian McCook, made an announcement about pausing work to concentrate on her health.</p>



<p>Last week, on her official Instagram account, a statement read: “Katya will be taking time away from upcoming projects and live events so she can prioritize her health following recent medical complications. A full recovery is anticipated.</p>



<p>“With the support of her family, her team, and Trixie, she appreciates everyone&#8217;s patience and understanding during this time. Her fans have always been so gracious, and that means everything to her.”</p>



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<p>Katya has been open about struggles with substance misuse, mental health, and physical health issues. This has included spells in rehab, including one in 2024.</p>



<p>In 2023, Katya underwent anterior total hip arthroplasty (hip replacement) on the right side. Then, in the spring of this year, she was hospitalized for a bowel obstruction in the small intestine, requiring emergency surgery. She spent ten days with a nasogastric tube, unable to eat or drink (&#8220;absolute hell on earth&#8221;), before recovering at home. She has since canceled appearances due to medical complications.</p>



<p>Here’s wishing her all the very best with her ongoing recovery.</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[Part of the original Lilith Fair, Grammy winner Paula Cole sings the praises of Olivia Rodrigo's Daisy Chain Fields—and shares she hopes to be part of it next year!]]></description>
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<p>Thirty years ago this fall, singer-songwriter Paula Cole released <em>This Fire</em>, the album that would change everything for her as a defining record of the era.</p>



<p>Lead single &#8220;Where Have All The Cowboys Gone?&#8221;—a Western-inflected critique of gender roles—became her first Billboard Top 10 hit, and the album&#8217;s breakthrough success led to a whopping seven Grammy nominations, including a win for Best New Artist, plus a headlining slot on the first-ever Lilith Fair, founded by her friend &amp; tour mate Sarah McLachlan.</p>



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<p>And perhaps you&#8217;ve heard of a little song called &#8220;I Don&#8217;t Want To Wait&#8221;? When <em>This Fire</em>&#8216;s second single was tapped to be the theme song of The WB&#8217;s teen drama <em>Dawson&#8217;s Creek</em>, Cole was happy to oblige, not realizing what a sensation the show would become. What started as a very personal track about familial trauma now belonged to the world, synonymous with teenaged angst and melodrama.</p>



<p>&#8220;It eclipsed me,&#8221; Cole admits, sharing how frustrating that was for her at the time. But now, all these years later, she&#8217;s able to appreciate it for the gift that it was—and still is: &#8220;It&#8217;s the song of my life.&#8221;</p>

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<p>She&#8217;s been doing a lot of reflecting lately. This month, she unveiled <em>Sonic Memoir: Demos 1989 &#8211; 1998</em>, a double-volume collection of archives, demos, and other memories from the earlier days of her career. She&#8217;s also just embarked on the <em>This Fire: 30</em> tour, playing the landmark album in full in celebration of the special anniversary. Three decades on, Cole remains in awe of her younger self, and is able to see much her past work through a new lens, especially after publicly embracing her identity as a bisexual woman, which she struggled to understand for so long.</p>



<p>So it felt like the perfect time to invite Cole to be the latest guest in <a href="https://www.queerty.com/tag/dishin-it/" data-wpel-link="internal">our long-running Q&amp;A series, Dishin&#8217; It</a>. In our conversation, the artist opens up about the &#8220;intuitive accident&#8221; that led to her <em>Sonic Memoir</em> project, the way she wrote &#8220;in code&#8221; to address her queerness before she could fully accept it, and how Lilith Fair&#8217;s legacy led directly to Olivia Rodrigo&#8217;s Daisy Chain Fields festival—which she hopes to be a part of in the coming years!</p>



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<p><strong>Is there a piece of media—whether a movie, TV series, book, album, theater, video game, etc…—that has played an important role in your understanding of queerness and the queer community, or your own identity? Why does it stand out to you?</strong></p>



<p>I think touring with Melissa Etheridge in &#8217;95—I mean, I&#8217;d already been kind of immersed in different scenes, different LGBTQ+ scenes, and from the Russian River in California, to Clubstitute in San Francisco, to a lot of my sister&#8217;s friends, to landing with Melissa Etheridge. And it&#8217;s hard to pinpoint for me because I think, as a bisexual woman, I struggled with acceptance and understanding, so it flowed under the surface for me, and I didn&#8217;t know how to identify. I ended up in a lot of straight relationships, I&#8217;m married to a man, so it felt like a denial of who I was, in a way. This is a more recent thing for me, to kind of come out and say that, because it feels that&#8217;s the truth of who I am. It doesn&#8217;t reflect my current commitment, but it reflects my truth and my past. </p>



<p>So I would say Melissa Etheridge&#8217;s <em>Yes I Am</em> and being on that tour, specifically, and her singing that song. It was so fascinating—culturally and anthropologically—to be looking out at the audience when she would sing <em>yes I am</em>, and to to see half of the audience totally understanding and feeling vindicated and singing along with her, and the other [half] looking kind of confused. That was really interesting!</p>



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<p><strong>Congratulations on the amazingly expansive <em>Sonic Memoir </em>endeavor. You’ve been working pretty consistently on new music since the ‘90s, so why did now feel like the time to dive into this career retrospective? What inspired it?</strong></p>



<p>It was an intuitive accident. I was spending a lot of time at home because my mom passed away this [past] March, so I was quieter stage in my career. Through all of my moves, I had managed to keep all these shoeboxes full of cassette tapes, DAT tapes, ADAT tapes—these obsolescent formats of work. And my friend Mark Hutchins—who was my partner in the &#8217;90s—he had passed away, and I wanted to digitize so that his family could hear the work he made when he was in his 20s. </p>



<p>So I was running cassettes up to a mastering lab in Maine, and I realized, <em>oh my gosh</em>, I had a mountain of my own demos from this period of my life. It was a really colorful, eccentric, prolific part of my life. I was writing every day, I was demoing every day because that&#8217;s what you had to do in the in the &#8217;80s &amp; &#8217;90s. I had probably over 100 songs. So I decided I&#8217;m going to digitize these, and I&#8217;m just going to keep listening. And when I realized the 30th anniversary of <em>This Fire</em> was coming up, it just felt timely.</p>



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<p>And it&#8217;s been an enormous pain in the *ss. [Laughs.] It&#8217;s been so time consuming, <em>such</em> a heavy lift. I mean, to start from 100 songs and cull down to 63? It&#8217;s a very expensive undertaking. I was talking to a record label, thinking about collaborating at one point, but they wanted to change and edit, and I didn&#8217;t want to do that anymore! I want to be free and have my own label, even if it means less success. I want to be creatively free, I want to deliver this to the real fans who are interested in hearing the earlier incarnations of the songs they know, and then to find the archives of songs that they haven&#8217;t heard. There&#8217;s some really interesting sh*t in there! So this is a love letter to my fans.</p>



<p>It&#8217;s me telling my story, owning my narrative, telling some of the stories I haven&#8217;t told—because you were at the mercy of what the record company pressured you to be back then. So I&#8217;m showing, warts and all, the process of an artist finding herself from being a student to a rebel making mistakes in the demos, keeping the mistakes, finding herself. It&#8217;s a process. It&#8217;s a nine-year process, and it&#8217;s also a process that led me to becoming a producer. So I&#8217;m grateful for it all.</p>



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<p><strong>Despite all of the hard work, what was the most fun or surprising part of the process of going through your archives?</strong></p>



<p>I guess some of the surprises were that I was such an eccentric. [Laughs.] And I love that! I want to embrace and lean even harder into my eccentricity. So it was it good to visit her. There there was a lack of self-consciousness in a lot of the work prior to fame, catching up with <em>This Fire</em>. </p>



<p>And also I can&#8217;t believe just how damn prolific I was! But that was me being in pain and having traumas from childhood, which found its way through the healing force of music. It helped me to understand my whole circle of life. Like, no wonder I&#8217;ve been so prolific: I&#8217;ve been in so much screaming pain—you know, quietly here, beneath my skin, without anyone knowing—that I <em>had</em> to do something with it, and that is create. I&#8217;m not happy unless I&#8217;m working and busy. So it makes me prolific, for better or for worse.</p>



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<p><strong>It’s your more recent song, “Wildflower,” where you sing more openly about navigating your identity and embracing your bisexuality, but I’m curious if, in the process of revisiting your past work, demos, etc… do you feel there are specifics songs where you were maybe trying to tell this to the world before you were ready to openly share?</strong></p>



<p>Oh, sure! I was singing in code a lot. Singing in code in poetry. Like, everything from &#8220;Carmen&#8221;—which is an androgynous name! I was using poetic license; I substituted someone&#8217;s name. I was in love with a woman, and I didn&#8217;t tell her until 2023 that the song was for her, because I knew she didn&#8217;t reciprocate my feelings. Or writing in a male perspective, like the song &#8220;Yes&#8221;—which is a is part of <em>Sonic Memoir</em>—or even &#8220;Black Boots.&#8221; Just feeling very &#8220;other.&#8221; Alone. It comes out as poetry; it&#8217;s in code.</p>



<p><strong>A code which, whether we were always conscious of it or not, I think your queer fans have been able to understand. We were finding ourselves in this music, too, even if it wasn&#8217;t so literal</strong>—</p>



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<p>You&#8217;re going to make me cry, because that really did help me. I can tell you, with some of my fans—and even some of the interviews like this—I&#8217;ve realized, &#8220;Oh wow, a lot of the queer community is paying attention. This is so interesting: I&#8217;m being seen, and I am seeing myself!&#8221; But this is what happens: I&#8217;m very slow to understand my own feelings—that&#8217;s why I need music so so badly. And I&#8217;ve been a perfectionist trying to please my parents; I&#8217;m kind of perpetually caught in that childhood dysfunctional persona of walking on eggshells and trying to be perfectionistic with myself, which is prison. </p>



<p>So it&#8217;s been difficult for me to understand my own feelings. But seeing the freedom in other people—and seeing their seeing of me—was like shining a bright spotlight into my soul. And it felt scary sometimes! Actually, it&#8217;s funny: It&#8217;s still very vulnerable for me to talk about.</p>



<p>And also, with the 30th anniversary of <em>This Fire</em>, there&#8217;s a song that&#8217;s been really special to the LGBTQ+ community, and that&#8217;s &#8220;Hush, Hush, Hush.&#8221; It was written for a friend who died prematurely. He got AIDS when I was living in San Francisco, and I was part of the queer community there. It was just really shocking what was going on; we still didn&#8217;t have solutions, and it was terribly frightening. My sister—god bless her—she was a hospice nurse and helping a lot of AIDS patients. So, when it was Gay Pride in San Francisco in those times, when the hospice nurses would march, you just couldn&#8217;t even believe the applause and the tears. </p>



<p>But that song is, with some poetic license, about his journey passing to the other side, and Peter Gabriel makes an appearance personifying his father. So, I put my feelings to music. When things get difficult or complicated, and I have nowhere to go, I go to the music, and it it heals me and it helps me. And I hope that it&#8217;s done that for other people, too.</p>



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<p><strong>Speaking of <em>This Fire</em>, thinking back to that Paula of 30 years ago, the one who was preparing to share that project with the world, what would you want her to know? Or what advice would you give her?</strong></p>



<p>You know, when I think back to her—when I was gestating all those thoughts and feelings that would become <em>This Fire</em>—I think she actually has it pretty well together because she is listening herself, and that&#8217;s so powerful. I was liberating myself from the confines and the constructs of what my parents wanted me to be. Less polite, less beautiful, less sexy, but owning my sexuality.</p>



<p>That naked photo of me on the cover was me and my girlfriend Jodie [Olsen] outside in the backyard, and it&#8217;s me owning that. Because how many times I&#8217;d been put in that horrible situation, of being with some photographer who wants to get you half naked—it was so abusive! But that record cover, it was me and my friend and nobody else, and I was gonna claim the purity of my body, you know? It wasn&#8217;t sexual; it was just free, and that&#8217;s what it represented: freedom.</p>



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<p>So there was a lot about my 20-something-year-old self that was dialed into my wisdom and listening to myself. I think I was a lot to handle. I needed therapy badly, probably, at that time. I had gone to therapy at the end of college, which is what helped me start writing in the first place. And I&#8217;m in therapy now, but there was a lot in the middle that really would have helped. I think I didn&#8217;t understand the burden of the gift I had—now I can say that at 58; that would&#8217;ve sound pompous to say [then.] But looking back, all through Berklee College of Music and being given awards and praise and seeing where I land, I realize now, &#8220;Oh, I really do have a gift.&#8221; I had a gift, and I was kind of ashamed to own that, or allow it and feel confident about myself. </p>



<p>So the plague I&#8217;ve been fighting my whole life is diffidence, which is a lack of self-confidence, and I wish I could have told myself to find more emotional support. And to not say yes to anything that didn&#8217;t feel right, to feel good about saying no, to not marry that man that was my first marriage, you know? My body was telling me not to do that, and I did it because I thought my Yankee, puritanical self needed to please my parents and the neighbors and the culture—because I was a single mom with his child, and I thought I had to. That was a trap. </p>



<p>My body is old and wise; I wish I had listened to her. That&#8217;s true for anybody: listen to your body. What is it telling you? Are you comfortable around this person? Do you feel comfortable with that decision or that thought? Your mind can trick you a million ways, but your body is wise. Listen to your body.</p>



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<p><strong>Of course, <em>This Fire </em>includes “I Don’t Want To Wait,” which has become a timeless piece of the culture in its own right thanks in part to <em>Dawson’s Creek. </em>What has it meant for you to become synonymous with that show, a series that has meant to much to many of us for SO many reasons, not least of which because it featured one of TV’s earliest positive gay teen relationships?</strong></p>



<p>What a ride it&#8217;s been! That started as my song, for my grandfather, my grandparents—the whole concept of generational trauma. My grandfather fought in the Battle of Okinawa in WWII, he came home bombed in the legs. He already had his own childhood traumas, but then he passed on even more trauma—PTSD from the war—to my family, my father, to me, and it made me think about all that generational cyclical pain, and how I didn&#8217;t want to be repeating it. I don&#8217;t want to do what his father and his father and his father did. I want to be here now. It&#8217;s like me wanting to be awake and alert as to who I am.</p>



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<p>And so it started as being my song. Then I was asked by Kevin Williamson for it to be used for a pilot—I had been asked a whole bunch of times for my songs to be in pilots of TV shows. Usually they lasted a season, if that, and no one thinks of it ever again. But this? This was unstoppable. This was special. And it coincided with me taking my hiatus and stepping away for eight years from the music business and having my daughter, getting married, getting divorced, relocating—all that. And it just eclipsed me. </p>



<p>It was <em>so</em> enormous and so loved that, for a while, I was kind of shocked and frustrated? Like, &#8220;Wait a minute, I&#8217;m a career artist. I want to be known for the entirety of my catalog, and not as a television theme show song.&#8221; So I was mad, but that only works for you briefly because, one, it&#8217;s such a waste of life energy to hold anger, and it&#8217;s unhealthy. Two, it&#8217;s beautiful! <em>C&#8217;mon, get over it, Paula!</em> It&#8217;s joyful—everyone wants to sing. It has this nostalgic, uplifting quality. It unifies a room. I&#8217;m blown away. Now I bow to what it has become. It&#8217;s not even mine anymore; it&#8217;s the people&#8217;s song.</p>



<p>It&#8217;s incredible! How lucky is that? Even if you just have one of those ever in your lifetime? Oh my god. It&#8217;s the song of my life.</p>



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<p><strong>I recently had <a href="https://www.queerty.com/queer-pop-stars-a-list-allies-and-20-million-how-olivia-rodrigos-daisy-chain-fields-set-a-new-festival-standard-20260831/" data-wpel-link="internal">the pleasure of attending Olivia Rodrigo’s Daisy Chain Fields festival</a>, and I don&#8217;t think that would exist without Lilith Fair, which you were a part of from the beginning. Looking back, what did it mean for you to be a part of that, and what do you make of Daisy Chain Fields as a potential signifier of where the industry is heading?</strong></p>



<p>Gen X and Gen Z! [Laughs.] These are our daughters! I&#8217;m so proud of Olivia Rodrigo. I&#8217;m so happy because Sarah McLachlan has been saying for years it served its purpose, but if it happens again, it shouldn&#8217;t be Lilith fair with the same people, it should be then next generation. So I know that she&#8217;s deeply gratified that the torch is being passed. It took a while! </p>



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<p>But Lilith Fair was born out of my touring with Sarah in the <em>Fumbling Towards Ecstasy</em> 1995 era, when two women wouldn&#8217;t even be played in the same hour of a radio station&#8217;s airtime. We were actively discouraged to have two women on a bill—yet she had me. She heard <em>Harbinger</em>, she was supporting me, and had me open for her, loyally, all across the United States. And I would just say, every night to the audience, &#8220;Let&#8217;s give a hand to Sarah McLachlan for having me, a woman, open for her because this is not done. You don&#8217;t understand: We are actively discouraged; we&#8217;re told we don&#8217;t sell tickets!&#8221; And the audience would rise to their feet and erupt with the zeitgeist of applause—clearly we struck a nerve. Audiences knew it was f*cked up. They knew change was needed.</p>



<p>So then we had the test pilot shows for Lilith Fair in &#8217;96 with Suzanne Vega and Lisa Loeb, and then Sarah and her incredible team created the first Lilith Fair in &#8217;97, and it was just a runaway success that ran for three years. I&#8217;m so honored to have been part of its formation and part of its ideation. I love Sarah; I think she&#8217;s an incredible human being—not just a beautiful singer and songwriter, but a really incredible person. It&#8217;s only someone like that who is just extroverted enough, friendly enough, gregarious enough who can unite all these people and make it go. She can take a blow on the chin and stay good natured, [which is] really special, because there&#8217;s a whole lot of sensitive introverts like myself who would be hiding in the tour bus. She was just an incredible leader, and she made that happen. </p>



<p>So now I&#8217;m I&#8217;m moved, and I&#8217;m proud of Olivia Rodrigo. It&#8217;s perfect. God, I hope I can be on it one year! That would be amazing. I want to meet these Gen Z folks. That&#8217;s that&#8217;s my daughter&#8217;s age; she&#8217;s a Olivia Rodrigo fan, so we&#8217;ve been listening to her in the car!</p>



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<p><strong>In closing: Who is an LGBTQ+ artist/performer/creator that you think is doing really cool work right now? Why are they someone we should all be paying attention to?</strong></p>



<p>Well, I don&#8217;t think <a href="https://www.instagram.com/therealsophieb/?hl=en" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">Sophie B. Hawkins</a> gets enough dues. She really was a boundary breaker. In her lyrics of her first single, she was being open about her queerness and has been a champion, but doesn&#8217;t get her flowers. </p>



<p>And there&#8217;s an artist, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fire_swimmer/?hl=en" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">Deni Hlavinka</a>, who—along with Hadley Kennary—I actually recommended to be Tori Amos&#8217;s background singers. She&#8217;s been on tour and has brought out three singers called the Angel Witches, but two of them were my people, and I&#8217;m so happy that it all worked out because I knew they would be great. But Deni goes by Fire Swimmer, and you can find her on Spotify—her version of &#8220;Cowboy Take Me Away&#8221; is <em>so </em>cool.</p>



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<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Paula Cole&#8217;s two-volume archival collections <em>Sonic Memoir: Demos 1989-1998</em> is available now. Catch her this fall on the This Fire: 30 nationwide tour—<a href="https://paulacole.com/#tour" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">tickets &amp; more information here</a>.</h4>



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<p>John Curtis of Utah sent <a href="https://www.pbs.org/newshour/politics/republican-senator-calls-for-probe-of-trump-jr-after-wedding-party-bankrolled-by-russian-oligarch" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.pbs.org/newshour/politics/republican-senator-calls-for-probe-of-trump-jr-after-wedding-party-bankrolled-by-russian-oligarch" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">an official letter</a> to his fellow GOP senators yesterday demanding that they take a closer look at Don Jr.&#8217;s potential use of his father&#8217;s office for monetary gain.</p>



<p>&#8220;The country should not have to accept one standard for the family of a Republican president and another for the family of a Democratic president,&#8221; Curtis stated, explaining the need to investigate whether or not Don Jr.&#8217;s first son status &#8220;was invoked or understood to provide value&#8221; to foreign figures of influence. </p>

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<p>The kicker is, we already know exactly how much value the Tr*mps place on the presidency. Over the summer, the<em> New York Times</em> released a bombshell report detailing the over <a href="https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cvgmv98ez3zo" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cvgmv98ez3zo" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer"> $1 billion in crypto funds</a> and other sales Tr*mp has made during his second term, much of it under the heading of Don Jr. and Eric Tr*mp&#8217;s crypto company, World Liberty Financial. </p>



<p>In a different timeline, the GOP would be fine letting all of it slide. But in the lead-up to the midterms, as Republicans brace themselves to be <a href="https://aaronparnas.substack.com/p/news-republicans-privately-admit?utm_source=post-email-title&amp;publication_id=1810164&amp;post_id=217058481&amp;utm_campaign=email-post-title&amp;isFreemail=true&amp;r=gt6j&amp;triedRedirect=true&amp;utm_medium=email" data-type="link" data-id="https://aaronparnas.substack.com/p/news-republicans-privately-admit?utm_source=post-email-title&amp;publication_id=1810164&amp;post_id=217058481&amp;utm_campaign=email-post-title&amp;isFreemail=true&amp;r=gt6j&amp;triedRedirect=true&amp;utm_medium=email" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">&#8220;crushed</a>&#8221; at the polls, Tr*mp&#8217;s brand has become anathema to the party. </p>



<p>This week, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@aaronparnas1/video/7688503497502854413" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.tiktok.com/@aaronparnas1/video/7688503497502854413" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">Florida GOP candidate Byron Donalds</a> scrubbed all mentions of Tr*mp—including his endorsement—from his official campaign site. Earlier this month, another Republican in the deep red state, rep. Maria Elvira Salazar, also pushed back against Tr*mp&#8217;s hold on the party, saying that his aggressive ICE patrols have <a href="https://www.cbsnews.com/news/maria-elvira-salazar-trump-immigration-hispanic-voters-2026-midterm-elections/" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.cbsnews.com/news/maria-elvira-salazar-trump-immigration-hispanic-voters-2026-midterm-elections/" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">betrayed Hispanic voters</a> for the last time. Even Iowa rep. Ashley Hinson, formerly a Tr*mp fangirl, recently broke with the president <a href="https://www.cnn.com/2026/09/22/politics/republicans-distance-trump-midterms" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.cnn.com/2026/09/22/politics/republicans-distance-trump-midterms" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">over the Iran war.</a> As the race heats up and Tr*mp&#8217;s name turns to poison in the mouths of broke, disenfranchised voters, the same old tricks aren&#8217;t working. Even Texas, arguably the reddest of red states, is looking <a href="https://thetexan.news/elections/2026/tsu-poll-talarico-keeps-narrow-lead-over-paxton-french-loses-ground-after-controversy/article_0ae268f5-58b1-4575-9570-b626677505b4.html" data-type="link" data-id="https://thetexan.news/elections/2026/tsu-poll-talarico-keeps-narrow-lead-over-paxton-french-loses-ground-after-controversy/article_0ae268f5-58b1-4575-9570-b626677505b4.html" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">more like a toss-up</a> with each new poll.</p>

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<p>The Tr*mp family has gotten away with plenty this term, but it&#8217;s looking like their Marie Antoinette antics are finally coming to a definitive end. All it took was a huge Russian-banked scandal in the Bahamas to get them to finally call the for-profit presidency to account. </p>



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                <strong>State-run &#8220;Tr*mp TV&#8221; is already a disaster of humiliating proportions</strong>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[David Hudson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2026 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Some music fans have taken issue with MTV's choice of who will perform a George Michael tribute this weekend.]]></description>
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<p>Organizers of the MTV Video Music Awards have announced that this Sunday’s ceremony will feature a tribute to the late George Michael.</p>



<p>It&#8217;s almost ten years since Michael died on Christmas Day in 2016. It’s also 40 years since he released his career-defining debut solo album, <em>Faith</em>.</p>



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<p>This November, <em>George Michael: The Faith Tour</em> live album will be released, followed by a feature-length film, <em>George Michael: The Faith Tour</em>, in December.</p>



<p>Organizers revealed that performers taking part in this Sunday’s tribute at the Peacock Theater in Los Angeles will be RAYE, Sombr and Teddy Swims. Both RAYE and Sombr are nominated for awards at this year’s VMAs, while Swims is a previous nominee.</p>



<p>Michael is a much-missed figure in the music world, beloved by straight and queer fans alike. No one is complaining about the VMAs wanting to honor him. However, the announcement has still sparked backlash online… mainly because of the acts chosen.</p>



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<p>Many feel that MTV should have selected some out, queer artists to celebrate one of the most famous gay men in pop. Sam Smith, Adam Lambert, Troye Sivan, Orville Peck, Khalid, Durand Bernarr, MNEK and Chappell Roan are among names suggested.</p>



<blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">Sam smith, Adam Lambert, Durand Bernarr, Troye Sivan literally any gay guy girl get chappel roan LITERALLY ANY GAY PEOPLE <a href="https://t.co/PqXlMNyuT7" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">https://t.co/PqXlMNyuT7</a></p>&mdash; <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2b50.png" alt="⭐" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />𝕊𝕙𝕠𝕨ℙ𝕠𝕟𝕚𝕚<img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2b50.png" alt="⭐" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> (@Poniiboi) <a href="https://x.com/Poniiboi/status/2102471838081151331?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">September 22, 2026</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.x.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>



<blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">Last thing about this, I promise!!!<br><br>Adam Lambert + Janelle Monae &#8211; “I Knew You Were Waiting For Me”<br>Sam Smith &#8211; “One More Try” OR “Father Figure”<br>Orville Peck &#8211; “Kissing A Fool”<br>MNEK &#8211; “Fastlove”<br>Christine and The Queens &#8211; “Freedom 90”<br>Jake shears/scissor sisters &#8211; “Faith” <a href="https://t.co/RJmFcKrfeK" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">https://t.co/RJmFcKrfeK</a></p>&mdash; ZEE MACHINE (@ZeeMachineMusic) <a href="https://x.com/ZeeMachineMusic/status/2102537840525824068?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">September 22, 2026</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.x.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>



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<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">Adam lambert and sam smith would have freaking nailed this, but you choose the safe route..</p>&mdash; My Dutch Freakshow (@Dutch_Freakshow) <a href="https://x.com/Dutch_Freakshow/status/2102500388498997530?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">September 22, 2026</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.x.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>



<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">Even Frankie grande would’ve been a better choice</p>&mdash; Taycha (@taychaaa) <a href="https://x.com/taychaaa/status/2102445894842876317?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">September 22, 2026</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.x.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>



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<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">sombr? they couldn’t find anyone else? <a href="https://t.co/hJoFGogj46" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">pic.twitter.com/hJoFGogj46</a></p>&mdash; <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f1f5-1f1f8.png" alt="🇵🇸" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />ꕤ<img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f43e.png" alt="🐾" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2764-fe0f-200d-1f525.png" alt="❤️‍🔥" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f9f5.png" alt="🧵" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> (@noellewes123) <a href="https://x.com/noellewes123/status/2102428361058554218?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">September 22, 2026</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.x.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>



<blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">If I were booking talent for a George Michael tribute I’d find a gay guy that can sing down. But maybe that’s just me!</p>&mdash; <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2728.png" alt="✨" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> just jack <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2728.png" alt="✨" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> (@luxurytrash_) <a href="https://x.com/luxurytrash_/status/2102444219864403969?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">September 22, 2026</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.x.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>



<blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">George keeps getting these botched tributes&#8230;&#8230;.. Grammys,Brits, Rock &amp; Roll Hall of Fame, VMAs I can&#39;t take this anymore. He deserves better</p>&mdash; A.⚢ 2.0 s worded fb (@yogslesbian) <a href="https://x.com/yogslesbian/status/2102445630182543378?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">September 22, 2026</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.x.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>



<p>To prove their point, some people reshared a clip of Adam Lambert paying tribute to George Michael for Project Angel Food a few years back.</p>



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<p>Others pointed out that at least RAYE, like Michael, is a British artist and an amazing singer. Although best known for “Where Is My Husband”, her track “Suzanne”, with Mark Ronson, also has rather queer lyrics. That said, she has not, as far as we are aware, ever labeled her sexuality.</p>



<p>We always watch the VMAs, and were already particularly looking forward to seeing Madonna open this year’s show. A George Michael tribute is one more reason to tune in. Here’s hoping the chosen artists give it their all… and that <em>maybe</em> there might be one or two queer surprises on the night?</p>



<p><strong>Check out the trailer for the new concert movie, <em>George Michael: The Faith Tour</em>, below.</strong></p>



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                <strong>A surprise drag brunch proposal in Miami warms the internet’s heart</strong>
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              <br />He expected brunch. He got a proposal on top.            </p>
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                <strong>Russell Tovey praises George Michael for refusing to be shamed after public bathroom incident: &#8220;What a hero!&#8221;</strong>
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              <br />Russell Tovey said making the cruising drama &#8216;Plainclothes&#8217; had him thinking a lot about George Michael.            </p>
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		<title>Reliving the 118th anniversary of baseball&#8217;s most infamous gaffe, which also has the gayest of names</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2026 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This infamous baseball blunder has long been called a very gay name. ]]></description>
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<p>Homoerotic baseball moments always <a href="https://www.queerty.com/5-unintentionally-homoerotic-pro-baseball-moments-will-leave-dugout-flooded-20221028/" data-wpel-link="internal">leave our dugout flooded</a>. But the biggest boner ever displayed on a baseball diamond is nothing to fantasize over.</p>



<p>On September 23, 1908, a rookie named Fred Merkle who played for the New York Giants cost his team a chance at the World Series with a base-running blunder. In today&#8217;s parlance, we would call Merkle&#8217;s misstep a &#8220;gaffe&#8221; or a &#8220;mistake.&#8221;</p>





<p>But 118 years ago, it was called a &#8220;boner.&#8221;</p>



<p>Legendary sportswriter Bob Ryan, who&#8217;s covered Boston sports for nearly 60 years, reminded his followers of the anniversary on X in colorful fashion. </p>



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<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-width="500" data-dnt="true"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">Baseball savants: Today is the 118th anniversary of Fred Merkle’s alleged “boner.” The rest of you don’t give a shit.</p>&mdash; Bob Ryan (@GlobeBobRyan) <a href="https://x.com/GlobeBobRyan/status/2102740681324134874?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">September 23, 2026</a></blockquote><script async src="https://platform.x.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>
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<p>&#8220;Why is it alleged?&#8221; somebody asked. </p>



<p>Oh, do we have a story for you!</p>



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<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>The &#8220;boner&#8221; in question</strong></h2>



<p>The biggest reason why Merkle&#8217;s boner is alleged, and not confirmed, is because it happened in 1908. Back then, MLB games weren&#8217;t broadcast on TV. </p>



<p>We can only rely on dubious eyewitness accounts from those who were there. </p>



<p>This much is known for sure: The Giants and Chicago Cubs were tied at 1 in the bottom of the ninth inning of a crucial late-season game. Merkle, a rookie who seldom played, was standing on first. </p>



<p>With two outs in the inning, runners were moving on contact. Giants shortstop Al Bidwell came up to the plate and drilled the ball into the outfield. The runner on third, Moose McCormick (we love these names), scored easily. Giants fans, thinking the game was over, began to charge the field. </p>



<p>Merkle, who was 19 at the time, got caught up in the excitement and joined them. </p>



<p>That&#8217;s where the stories divert&#8230;</p>



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<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>The (somewhat)</strong> official tale</h2>



<p><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Merkle%27s_Boner#The_boner" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">Per the incident&#8217;s <em>very </em>in-depth Wiki page</a>, Merkle may have violated rule 5.08. It states that &#8220;a run is not scored if the runner advances to home base during a play in which the third out is made […] by any runner being forced out.&#8221;</p>



<p>Standing on first base, Merkle was forced to run to second. But since he never touched the base, Cubs second baseman Johnny Evers saw an opening. </p>



<p>According to a Giants&#8217; pitcher named Joe McGinnity, the ball was thrown into the stands. But Evers somehow retrieved it. After Evers stepped on second, the umpires consulted with each other, and ruled that Merkle was out. The Giants&#8217; run was nullified, prompting fans to race towards the umps. </p>



<p>Amid the chaos, the game was called a tie. Separated by one game in the standings, the Cubs and Giants faced off again for a spot in the World Series. </p>



<p>The Cubs wound up winning that affair. </p>



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<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Differing accounts</strong></h2>



<p>It remains in dispute how the baseball in question was obtained&#8211;or if it was even the real ball at all. A <em>New York Times</em> writeup says the Cubs&#8217; first baseman was actually the one who noticed Merkle and stepped on second. </p>



<p>In 1944, Evers told his side of the story. He says a Chicago pitcher who wasn&#8217;t playing retrieved the ball and threw it back into play. An <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20160812092559/http://www.sabr.org/cmsFiles/Files/theinsidegame-volume8no4.pdf" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">article from the <em>Chicago Tribune</em></a> supports his version. </p>



<p>But as the Wiki notes, Evers previously said he received the ball from a Cubs outfielder. </p>



<p>One of the umpires, Hank O&#8217;Day, says something different. He says he called the third out after McGinnity, who was coaching first base, interfered with the throw from the outfield. </p>



<p>And if that&#8217;s not confusing enough, Merkle said five years after the play that he only left the baseline <em>after</em> O&#8217;Day had assured him the run had counted. </p>



<p>But even so, some say that Merkle never needed to touch second. Bill Klem, who&#8217;s considered the greatest umpire ever, called Merkle&#8217;s boner the &#8220;rottenest decision&#8221; in the history of the game. </p>



<p>He insisted the force rule was only supposed to apply to infield hits&#8211;not balls in the outfield. </p>



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<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>When did they stop calling mistakes &#8220;boners?&#8221;</strong></h2>



<p>Derived from the phrase &#8220;<a href="https://www.baseball-almanac.com/dictionary-term.php?term=boner" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="external noopener noreferrer">bonehead play</a>,&#8221; the word boner was widely used in baseball throughout the 1920s and &#8217;30s.</p>



<p>But as the word took on a more, <em>ahem</em>, phallic definition, sportswriters and broadcasters shifted away from the slang.</p>



<p>By the 1960s, &#8220;boner&#8221; was no longer part of the regular sports lexicon. That is, except Merkle&#8217;s boner.</p>



<p>That lives forever.</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[The Oscars are still six full months away, but it's already shaping up to be a very gay year!]]></description>
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<p>It&#8217;s now officially fall, which means we can finally start celebrating our favorite time of the year: awards season!</p>



<p>Sure, the Oscars are still an entire <em>six months</em> away, but with many of the year&#8217;s major film festivals behind us—Venice, Telluride, Toronto—cinephiles and prognosticators are starting to piece together which titles are seriously in contention at the Academy Awards and beyond.</p>



<p>And the good news? It&#8217;s shaping up to be a very gay season! </p>



<p>With plenty of buzz for queer-themed films featuring out talent in front of and behind the camera, there&#8217;s so much to be excited about, so we&#8217;ve gone ahead and assembled a guide to the LGBTQ+ films that seem poised to be a part of the awards conversation this year.</p>



<p><strong>So check out the titles below, update your predictions accordingly, and find out when you can see these movies for yourself:</strong></p>





<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>La Bola Negra</em></h2>



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<p>Exes Javier Ambrossi &amp; Javier Calvo (the minds behind <em>Veneno</em>) worked through their breakup to craft this century-spanning epic inspired by the life and work of out poet &amp; playwright Federico García Lorca, a casualty of the Spanish Civil War. Told across three stories set in 1932, 1937 &amp; 2017, it tackles romance, repression, and the preservation of our queer history, with a cast that includes musician Guitarricadelafuente&#8217;s screen acting debut, <em>Elite</em>&#8216;s Miguel Bernardeau, comedian Julio Torres, and even icons Penélope Cruz &amp; Glenn Close in supporting roles.</p>



<p>After a rapturous reception for its premiere at the Cannes Film Festival—where Los Javis were jointly awarded the Best Director prize—momentum has continued to build at the fall festivals, thanks especially to its People&#8217;s Choice Award win in Toronto, long looked at as an indicator of Oscar potential. How far can it go? At this point, it&#8217;s seen as the primary challenger to <em>The Odyssey</em> for the Best Picture prize, and could be a real player in most major categories, from Production Design to Score to Supporting Actress for Cruz&#8217;s show-stopping handful of scenes.</p>



<p><strong>Opening in theaters on October 16; streaming on Netflix beginning December 2.</strong></p>





<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Elsinore</em></h2>



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<p><em>Elsinore</em> is a biopic of the late Ian Charleson, the British thespian known for his work in films like <em>Chariots Of Fire</em> &amp; <em>Gandhi</em>, who sadly died of AIDS in 1990. In the final year of his life, while seriously ill, he bravely stepped onto the London stage in the famously demanding lead role of <em>Hamlet</em>, a period which is the focus of director Simon Stone&#8217;s film written by Stephen Beresford (<em>Pride</em>).</p>



<p>Oh, right, and how could we forget? Charleson happens to be played by the one and only Andrew Scott in what&#8217;s being called the performance of a lifetime. After many felt he was snubbed for <em>All Of Us Strangers</em>, the actor&#8217;s been primed for the &#8220;overdue&#8221; Oscar narrative, and early reports indicate he&#8217;s found a project worthy of his talents, one that let&#8217;s him showcase the full range of human pain and triumph. If the hype holds, he could become the first openly gay man to win Best Actor—for playing a gay role, no less! Word is the always fabulous Olivia Colman has a plum supporting role, and it might just crack the Best Picture field, too, if the positive buzz continues to build.</p>



<p><strong><strong>Opening in theaters on November 20, courtesy of Focus Features.</strong></strong></p>





<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Club Kid</em></h2>



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<p>Jordan Firstman, awards darling? It&#8217;s more likely than you think! In a past year that&#8217;s seem him embodying the chaotic &#8220;gay best friend&#8221; role in <em>I Love LA</em> <em>and</em> cause a gay internet meltdown for critiquing <em>Heated Rivarly</em>&#8216;s sex scene, the provocateur has wowed festival-goers by showing off his sweet, tender side in <em>Club Kid</em>, his feature filmmaking debut.</p>



<p>He stars as Peter, a washed up NYC party promoter who gets the surprise of a lifetime when he learns he&#8217;s a father and suddenly has an adorable 10-year-old on his doorstep (newcomer Reggie Absolom). Somebody&#8217;s going to have to grow up fast—and it&#8217;s not the kid. With an intriguing cast that includes Cara Delevingne, Diego Calva, Miss Benny, and <em>Clue</em> icon Colleen Camp, <em>Club Kid</em>&#8216;s already proven its ability to connect with all kinds of audiences, and just might be the wild, queer crowd-pleaser to melt the hearts of even the Academy&#8217;s stodgier older voters. Look for it to make headwinds in the Best Original Screenplay category, among others, and it&#8217;ll hopefully be a contender at the Independent Spirit Awards and Golden Globes&#8217; comedy categories, too!</p>



<p><strong><strong><strong>Opening in theaters on November 6, courtesy of A24.</strong></strong></strong></p>





<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>The Invite</em></h2>



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<p>Okay, so first off, is <em>The Invite</em> a &#8220;queer movie&#8221;? Not technically, no. But actor/director Olivia Wilde&#8217;s farce about neighboring couples who get together for a dinner party that devolves into marital quibbles <em>and</em> the possibility of some group play does at least show that the straights are &#8220;queering their minds&#8221; when it comes to relationships and intimacy, so that&#8217;s a win in our book!</p>



<p>And, hey, Penélope Cruz&#8217;s character Peña <em>does</em> identify as bisexual, so there&#8217;s that. Since the film&#8217;s debut, the fabulous star has been singled out as a Best Supporting Actress contender here, and given the aforementioned momentum for her work in <em>La Bola Negra</em>, she could well be a double nominee this year—the first actor to be nominated twice in the same category in nearly 100 years. Wilde&#8217;s also in conversation for Actress and Director (one of the few female filmmakers this year, unfortunately), and we have a good feeling the indie&#8217;s solid box office success &amp; word-of-mouth means it&#8217;ll earn a spot in the Adapted Screenplay category.</p>



<p><strong>Now available on digital/VOD courtesy of A24, and streaming on HBO Max beginning October 23.</strong></p>





<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Clarissa</em></h2>



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<p>Virginia Woolf&#8217;s seminal 1925 novel <em>Mrs. Dalloway</em> has long been discussed as a queer text, with some reading it as a story about a lesbian or bisexual woman trapped in a passionless heterosexual marriage because of the conventions of her time. This feels most clear in the ways the titular character expresses her feelings for Sally, a childhood friend, though indications of romantic yearning are mostly in the subtext.</p>



<p>In their gorgeous update of the story—set in modern-day Lagos, Nigeria—twin filmmakers Arie &amp; Chuko Esiri explore this connection more overtly, as Clarissa (played by Sophie Okonedo, and by India Amarteifio in her youth) grapples with her lingering attraction to Sally (Nikki Amuka-Bird, and Ayo Edebiri in flashbacks). The film&#8217;s been highly praised during its festival run, with many championing the long-overdue Okonedo for Best Actress as well as Edebiri&#8217;s best-yet screen work, and others hailing it as an award-worthy work of adaptation.</p>



<p><strong><strong><strong><strong>Opening in theaters on December 11, courtesy of NEON.</strong></strong></strong></strong></p>





<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><em>Teenage Sex &amp; Death At Camp Miasma</em></h2>



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<p>Though its proven more divisive on the internet since hitting theaters this summer, Jane Schoebrun&#8217;s bloody &amp; gutsy horror satire/psychosexual romance should not be overlooked this awards season. After all, it beat out some stiff competition at the Cannes Film Festival (including other titles on this very list!) for the prestigious Queer Palm award, and still boasts an impressive 94% &#8220;Fresh&#8221; rating on RottenTomatoes, so it&#8217;s clearly connecting with viewers.</p>



<p>The great Gillian Anderson is certainly giving a flashy performance—something like Norma Desmond meets Dolly Parton—but for our money it&#8217;s Hannah Einbinder who really deserves some recognition, proving her star potential in a post-<em>Hacks</em> world. And surely Schoebrun&#8217;s ability to bring their surreal vision to the screen is worthy, making the &#8220;Camp Miasma&#8221; slasher franchise feel so real. Keep an eye out for the more genre-friendly Independent Spirit Awards to give this one some love, but how cool would it be if this were a player in the Golden Globes&#8217; comedy categories, too?</p>



<p><strong><strong>Now available on digital/VOD, and streaming on Mubi beginning October 2.</strong></strong></p>





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<p>Quite possibly the only person have a better year on screen than Cruz? German actress Sandra Hǔller, who&#8217;s impressed in past work like <em>Anatomy Of A Fall</em>, and just keeps on delivering fantastic performances. She was a great foil to Ryan Gosling in this spring&#8217;s sci-fi blockbuster <em>Project Hail Mary</em>, and will soon be seen going toe-to-toe with Tom Cruise in <em>Digger</em>. She also earned praise at Cannes for leading Paweł Pawlikowski&#8217;s post-war Polish drama <em>Fatherland</em>, yet it&#8217;s <em>Rose</em> that&#8217;s looking like her strongest shot at a nomination.</p>



<p>From Markus Schleinzer, the film is set in 17th century Germany, where Hǔller plays a woman who disguises herself as a fallen male solider, arriving to the village he once called home to lay claim to his property. In order to keep up the ruse, Rose even takes up a wife, though its not long before she and the rest of town become suspicious. In a Best Actress field still coming into focus, <em>Rose</em> could be what gets Hǔller to the Oscars, while the film itself has been selected as Austria&#8217;s contender for Best International Feature Film.</p>



<p><strong><strong><strong><strong>Opening in theaters on December 10, courtesy of Mubi.</strong></strong></strong></strong></p>





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<p>Speaking of the International Feature Film category, there&#8217;s quite an array of LGBTQ+ films from around the world looking to make their way into the field. According to Academy rules, each country is invited to submit one film for consideration (titles that win top jury prizes at major film festivals are also in consideration), so it&#8217;s a tough one to break into, especially with Spain selecting <em><strong>La Bola Negra</strong></em>, which already feels like a lock this year.</p>



<p>Elsewhere, Belgium is backing gay WWI tale <em><strong>Coward</strong> </em>from Lukas Dhont (a previous nominee in &#8217;22 for <em>Close</em>), Poland picked the aforementioned <em><strong>Fatherland</strong> </em>(director Pawel Pawlikowski won for Ida in &#8217;14), Brazil has queer coming-of-age tale <em><strong>Gugu&#8217;s World</strong></em>, Colombia has nightlife fable <em><strong>Rains Over Babe</strong>l</em>, and Mexico&#8217;s got sex worker road movie <em><strong>En El Camino</strong></em>, which has been getting a lot of attention online for its explicit sex scenes. And there could still be more announced in what&#8217;s quickly becoming one of the fiercest categories of the year!</p>





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<p>After the overblown &#8220;controversy&#8221; for minor moments of queerness in movies like <em>Lightyear</em> and <em>Strange World</em>, it would appear that mainstream animated fare has shied away from LGBTQ+ representation, depressingly. Thankfully, there&#8217;s still amazing indie animated work being made, like the fantasy <em><strong>Julián</strong></em>, about a young Dominican-American boy in Brooklyn who dreams of becoming a mermaid—a dream no doubt familiar to many of us when we were baby gays.</p>



<p>Then there&#8217;s <em><strong>Tangles</strong></em>, which had audiences at the Cannes Film Festival in tears earlier this year. Told in stunning black-and-white, its the story of a young queer woman (voiced by <em>Broad Cit</em>y&#8217;s Abbi Jacobson) returning to her conservative small town to care for her Alzheimer&#8217;s-stricken mother (Julia Louis-Dreyfus). It&#8217;s got a star-studded voice cast that also includes Samira Wiley, Bowen Yang, Beanie Feldstein &amp; Wanda Sykes, which only helps bolster its chances to compete against giants of the field like <em>Toy Story 5</em>.</p>
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