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My New Indian Hero

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Sat, 07 Sep 2013 10:39:00 +0000

Its very probable that you have already heard of him through his TED talk on "Sixth sense". He is all over twitter and social media now, for the wrong reasons.

Pranav Mistry is my new Indian hero, not because he holds a degree from IIT and MIT, has been called as one of TED's ten best inventors of the world, or because he is Samsung's Director of Research in the US, but because he presented one of the world's first smart watches for Samsung before the entire world and with the global news media watching it and didn't bother even a single bit to hide his Indian accent.

If you already are asking, "And why should he do that?" Congrats! You are not on the dark side.

And what did we Indian's talk about after the event? We made jokes about him on twitter about his accent. And we didn't stop at that, a lot of us made hurtful comments in serious ways as well. Its both enraging and alarming to see that how many of us actually consider it less sophisticated and even shameful to just talk in our own accent. He didn't do anything special, its the same accent you hear by fellow Indians in the chai and chaat shops, in the next table at your restaurant, and probably by your beloved parents and grand parents.

Dear brothers, sisters and hot women of the country, I am not saying I don't do it. I made fun of a north Indian lady, calling my room-mate Benjamin "Ban" instead of "Ben" and saying "Catch-up" instead of Ketchup, I make fun of my Mallu friends (which is almost all my friends) when they mention their 'Ungils from Gelf ' being a self-proclaimed half-mallu myself. I love to say "Raacket-u" instead of Rocket to emphasize that I am a Tamil boy to myself and others. But there is a difference, believe it or not, I AM proud of it. No not of the making fun part, but talking in our own accents part. I love to embrace it, I wish it never dies, but only grows as it is part of who we are, our heritage.

Every other accent in the world is cool isn't it? The English, American, Scottish, French, Italian, German and many European countries speak English in their own accent, influenced by their mother-tongue and is considered cool. Australian accent is cool, and so is the Afro-American way, along with West Indian, Jamaican and Mexican. Except for us isn't it? I have had numerous arguments with my ex-colleagues who firmly believed that our accent 'sucks' for no logical reason.

Why we consider our accent to be inferior is because of the same reason why our country considers 'dark skinned' people as inferior. In Bollywood and rest of Indian movie industry we might have a max of 5 heroines who are dark, and Hollywood and Pop-star world has hundreds. Long live our self-esteem and self-pride in being ourselves and embracing who we are. And all thanks to "the media" for playing a great role in nurturing it all over these years. But at least what makes me happy, is that the same media is today is fighting back to remove all these weeds from the society's thought process and a lot of us have already realized this.

We need to be able to laugh at ourselves, but not feel shameful for being ourselves.

http://www.firstpost.com/tech/how-accent-shaming-topped-pranav-mistry-launching-galaxy-gear-1087773.html

http://www.livemint.com/Leisure/ZbwCIGa5JxwmtbrekTMcZL/Pranav-Mistry-and-your-accent-anxiety.html?ref=mr

P.S. I wondered why I haven't mentioned some of the prominent Asian countries yet. The Japanese make kick ass video games in their own language, which the rest of the world begs them to translate and release. They have Japanese keyboards all over their country used for their computers, their internet and websites are in their native language. So do the Chinese, who have their own version of search engine even. (Yes Google is not their first choice). Both these countries were far beyond where we started and are far ahead of us today. The amount of pride they have in being themselves is far more than rest of the world put together.

How I know Vodafone India is selling your numbers to Telemarketers!

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Thu, 29 Aug 2013 08:09:00 +0000

My phone speakers stopped working a little while ago. So when the phone is not with me, which is, most of the time, I have the habit of calling people back after I see the missed calls. So I called up this unknown number today who had tried to call me earlier. "Good Morrrrningg Doctor Raahaevoswangyaaa" (that's how he pronounced it), the guy said on the other line. Ok, I know! the 'Doctor' part right? I will explain soon below. My brain quickly figured out two possible callers - either its an old friend or its someone from Vodafone customer service calling me.

I thought it was an old friend first, because the way the guy wished me 'good morning' was the rough equivalent of a class of seventy five 5th standard students wishing the class teacher 'good morning' in the first hour of Monday morning. Except, there was no chorus and just one voice tone which was very close to Akshay Kumar's, in one of his 'decade old' movies with that annoying laugh.

"I yam R K Kumar calling from Club Mahindra", he said, and right there I confirmed, Vodafone India is responsible for this. How dare they sell my number off to random telemarketers without even asking me! If only this was America I would have sued them and they would be paying for my wheat bread-omelettes for the next 10 years. But then we are in India, we don't 'do' anything about our problems. We watch the news and post on Facebook about how this country is going to the dogs or rapists, make hints in blog posts like this, have heated serious discussions with friends while gulping a Budweiser over the weekend about how our politicians owe us this perfect country, esp. with all of us keeping it so clean, never trying to evade our taxes, not at all bribing the traffic cop etc.

Original Image from

So how did I figure out it was Vodafone India? Let me explain.

I was logged into Vodafone online portal a long time ago and in the profile section I saw that they allowed me to edit my title/salutation. There were 4 options - Mr, Mrs, Miss, Dr. and I picked the last option. So when ever I am running late on paying my mobile bills, the customer service lady calls up and addresses me as Dr. Raahaevoswangyaaa, and I tell her angrily that I am in the middle of a surgery and will pay it tomorrow.
(You can put your #Thoos and #HakThoos in the comments below)

And God forbid, if the title/salutations box was an open text box and not a drop-down list, I might have just entered "Emperor", "Your highness", "Lord" etc.

And Kids... that is how I know Vodafone India has sold my mobile number to telemarketers! Case closed.

My longest bike ride!

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Sun, 26 Feb 2012 10:16:00 +0000

Last Tuesday, the day was a bit different from other days. I woke up extremely early in my standards (about 5.30 AM), got ready soon before 6.30, and said to my mom that I am leaving for office and left my house. Except, my office was about 300+ km away, and it took me about 5 hours to reach there.

This wasn't the first ride, this was the return journey from Trichy to Bangalore. But learning from my mistakes which was made during the first ride, I carefully chose some good roads which extremely changed the quality of the drive. Here are a few points I learnt during my first solo maiden voyage..

Have at least one checkup for your full vehicle with the mechanic, before starting, or else half way your gear axle might just 'fall off' from your bike, even if it was purchased just a month ago.
Read a little bit about the roads you are about to travel. Especially when it is not a national highway.
NHAI and their roads are awesome ! (At least from Bangalore to Namakkal)
Roads are everything, when you want to enjoy a long bike ride.
Weather is everything, when you want to enjoy a long bike ride, so start at 5 - 5.30, not 6 - 6.30.
Bike ride will be a really super cool experience till the first 200 km mark. After which you will regret it.
Sometimes the most famous roads aren't the best and will be a real exploration to choose them.
Read some posts from the xBHP forums and learn from others mistakes. Don't think you are Christopher Columbus of 21st century who is doing it for the first time.
Don't forget to pack some energy drinks / Red bull probably (which I would definitely do, if at all I do this again)
Again, don't trust Google's auto directions about Indian roads.

This was the departure ride map. Last 100 kms after Namakkal was terrible, thanks to blind murderous sand lorry drivers who treat the road like a one way filling both the lanes pushing you to the muddy sides of the road.

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And this was the return journey. The village roads below Kolli hills were awesome for a early morning drive. Drive was great till Dharmapuri-Krishnagiri except for the hot weather. Still might have been awesome if it was a

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Some pics from the return journey.

6 ways to respond to people who point out that you are losing hair

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 13:32:00 +0000

The author is not responsible if people remove you from their facebook friends list (or) start hate clubs for you, after following this guide. I have used * symbol all over the article, please imagine your favorite swear word there while reading. Thank you.

I don't know about you, but its one of the most pissing off moments in your life when people point out that you have thin hair. Especially the cursed ones like me, who are blessed to eternally have right amount of thin hair, so that the thinness is visible only when your hair is wet and you are standing under bright sun. Even people who are actually bald will not go through these worst confrontations. Nothing is more irritating than a guy exclaiming amidst a crowd of friends pointing at your hair, and screaming - "Duude ! Everything is visible mann !!". Seriously guys, do you really think, the guy who you are pointing at, doesn't know it. Its his *head dammit.

So coming to the post. Here are some ways to respond to people who point out that you are losing hair.

1. "Thank you.. (Look at the person with gratefulness in your eyes and face and after a pause say) Christopher *Columbus!"

2. Some people have a different way to start this. "Is you father bald?" (Now even though you know exactly why he is asking this, just keep a curious face and ask 'why' was he asking that). "No, its just that you have thin hair, so if your dad is bald, you will go bald too" (Great find Sherlock! With a sarcastic puzzled look) Oh really ?!, then... Your Dad used to be stupid too ?"

3."Thats Ok. At least unlike you, I still have my brain left."

"Looks like you are losing hair"

4. Sometimes even old guys who are almost completely bald will try it on you. To them you could say - "Yeah.. It should be awesome being you! you don't have anything left to lose"

5.Yeah no worries, its just the autumn season. It'll be back in spring. (Then if he looks at you with a confused look, give a horror stare and ask - "YOURS DOESN'T ?!!", who knows he might even get scared!).

6. Thanks for finding that out man! I had no *idea. Can you give me money so I can buy a * mirror? please?

I would really like to add more to this list. Please contribute in the comments :)

The last set

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Tue, 30 Nov 2010 05:21:00 +0000

The arena was filled with a sudden silence. It was just announced that he will break his own record. The hundreds of thousands of audience comprising of men, women and children were personally shaken by this decision of their champion. Though the crowd was mixed, the event manager knew that women formed the majority of the crowd. At a far end of the arena, a group of people lit candles to pray for their favorite hero to win this historic event. Infinite banners were held by the faithful fans hoping the camera would catch a glimpse of it anytime. Cameras kept looping through some of the interesting ones.

"WE LOVE YOU. PLEASE MARRY ME AND MY SISTERS!" said a banner held by a group of 5 ultra hot Quintuplets sisters with the center one dressed in Princess Leia's costume in Star Wars. All the others sisters were dressed identically in a slightly slutty futuristic costume. They jumped in joy when they saw themselves on the big screen. The other screen switched to a camera pointed at their hero looking at the girls on the big screen and smiling. He winked his eyes and gave them a flying kiss. The roaring audience cheered for it, setting a new record of decibel level in the arena recorded by any past event, amidst the annoying vuvuzelas which never stopped.

The Bell rang thrice and a blanket of silence crept over the arena again. All the cameras pointed at him, at the center of the arena inside the ring. The commentators were raising the heat of the situation asking critical questions like - "Will he disappoint his faithful fans by failing this attempt to break his own previous record ?", "Is he going to loose his fan given title of 'EVER WINNING WONDERMAN' by the FFFUUs (Female Fan Federation of United Uruguay) ? All of this will be answered in the next one minute." paused the commentator.

ONE.... yelled the show host on the ring who stood near him as he took the first step towards eternal glory. The audience cheered over the arena following his voice on the speakers.

TWO... Another round of cheers along with claps heard all over the arena. The audience cheered and clapped like they swore to cheer louder than their previous one each time.

One by one the count kept increasing THREEEE, FOURRRR, FIIIVVE, SIXXX.... SEVVVEN and by the time he reached EIGHT, the audience cheering sound level raised even more, that it almost shattered every glass present in the place. With just two more to go, when he made the attempt for NINE, he just paused half way and the whole crowd went .. "Ohhhhhhhh!" and he stopped there in mid air unable to complete nor give up THE NINTH step. Horror crept upon everyone's face in the arena including the commentators who were left speechless. If you were there, you would have thought you suddenly went deaf. And then a little boy jumped over the security towards the commentators and yelled in their Mic - "Youuuuu Can Doooo Itttt......Pleaseeee Don't give uppppp!" One by one the audience started to shout and in a matter of seconds all of them yelled in a chorus "You Can do it", "You Can do it".... and it went on..

Then the miracle happened, he, in the center of the ring on the stage, started to move, and the crowd started to increase their tempo "You can do it", "You can do it" faster and faster. And then Bang... he reached NINE and for another quick one and TEN!!!!!

"This is unbelievable, history has been rewritten today and we are all extremely thankful for being a part of it and witnessing it" - the commentator went on the Mic. The crowd went on like they can never get tired. Camera showed a bunch of girls who even flashed themselves on the event of this epic moment revealing his name tattooed all over them.

And then I open my eyes completing my extra set of crunches, coming to the real world surrounded by guys working out with full focus like no one else even existed in the gym apart from them. I get up and say good bye to the instructor and get out.

Its one month since I joined the Gym :P

What Is Your Earliest Human Memory ?

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Fri, 08 Oct 2010 19:57:00 +0000

My earliest memory is when I was a toddler, I was crawling in the kitchen of my grand mother's house towards a hot cooker kept on the floor. I also have faint memories of getting burnt on my thighs on it. I wish I remembered the face of my grand mother. People say she loved me more than anybody in the world. Showered me with attention, Ignoring the whole house and cooking only the food I loved - Kesari with lots of Cashews and Ghee they say, I loved the ones she made. She always had the ingredients ready, they say, in case I dropped in with my mom or dad as a surprise visit. Unfortunately she passed away before I could walk properly.

I grew up watching the neighboring kid and my then classmate getting all the special attention, love and care from his grand mother, who never let him down, even when made mistakes. Probably she wanted to show me that all the marks I scored better than him (in fact all others, yes I used to be the 1st rank kid) and the prizes I won at school for competitions, and being the famous kid, none of them made up for what I was missing.

Another notable memory I remember is in my childhood house, while sitting in the kitchen entrance again (ahem.. OK, its coincidence, really! :P) and watching my mom make food and acting like doing the homework, while all I did was watch my little baby sister. I turned away from her and turned back again to see her trying to roll over for the first time in life. She was half way through and I started to jump and yell running around her cheering her to do it, while my mom stood watching her along with me. After a few nail biting seconds, she finally rolled over. It was such a cute sight to watch the cutest baby girl** in town roll over for the first time. I was so happy like I achieved something great, and I guess I went up to each and every one in school including my poor school teachers telling how amazingly my little sister rolled over. Everyone I remember, gave that trademark smile which means "OK Kid, STFU and get the hell out of here instead of dramatizing your boring story" in their mind, but instead they would say "Oh really.. that's very nice" to not disappoint me and quickly walk away. There are times I wished that me and my sister didn't have that 6 years age difference, which if it was lesser could have may be bonded us better ? These are moments that make me realize how lucky I have been.

**(My sister was very cute as a baby, in fact like the ones you see in forwarded mails, fair and chubby with round eyes, while I was nothing short of the scary fugly babies that appear in Horror movies and Doom 3, I can post photos as evidence soon)

Thanks to Tumblr Bot for asking this question. Sorry for betraying Tumblr and posting answer to this on Blogger :)

Good Fiction - An attempt

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 08:57:00 +0000

He glanced through the corner gap of his green curtained window at the big 'dot like' red light on top of a distant mobile phone signal tower. What if that was a sniper's laser beam ? He thought to himself and smiled at his own insanity. There were sprinkled pieces of cake littered from a empty packet near the mouse. He held the mouse and did a right click.The speakers played some music with soft beats. His dark face was lit with bright white light from the LCD monitor. There was only text on it.

'Thud !!' a loud bang was heard at the window glass. He thought he saw a quick shadow. Panic clung tightly on to his veins. He slowly rose from his chair. There was no sound except for the music and the fan. He lowered the volume. As he looked down and he froze out of fear at the mysterious black area on the visible area of the window glass. He took a few seconds to regain strength. In normal situations he would usually run out of his room and wake up his flat mates. But now that they were out of town, he was all by himself. Slowly he took out his mobile phone and turned on the torch on it and directed the beam from the floor slowly towards it.

'Screw it'- I am never going to write good fiction, he thought to himself as he opened his eyes unable to continue his imagination. I am posting this to my blog titled - 'Good fiction - An attempt', no matter what, he said to himself.

Are you your own Doppelganger ?

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Sat, 29 May 2010 15:26:00 +0000

Sometimes in life, you really believe in something, even though you have absolutely nothing to back it up with. No logical reasons, or no reasons at all about why you believe in it. Sometimes you are right, and you become a local superhero, a film star, a business giant or a highly successful person. But when it goes wrong, you have 2 choices. You could just let it go, probably blame something else for it and forget it. Or you could treasure that moment, that priceless moment, where you realize how stupid you actually were, and finally learn a life lesson, make a note to remember it throughout your life to become 'A Better Person'.

It could be a career path you took, a relationship choice you made or anything that could influence your life a lot. The important thing to realize is that you should always feel happy for it. Whether you win or loose, you should always remember that you had the guts to take that risk, rather than always staying at the safe zone, playing easy like most others do. Quoting one of my favorite dialogues from Scrubs -

“I’ve been thinking a lot lately about taking chances, and how it’s really just about overcoming your fears. Because the truth is, everytime you take a big risk in your life, no matter how it ends up, you’re always glad you took it. ”- John Dorian, Scrubs. (Source)

I used to wonder about things like purpose of life and measure of success. I finally realize there is no answer to those questions. We all are born in different places, to different parents, surrounded by different people, brought up in different ways. I realize its not fair at all to compare people and their lives. So what exactly is the purpose of life ?

In spite of whether you get success or failure due to a risk taken in life, the important thing to realize is that you always win something priceless, something which cannot be acquired by any other means. And that magic element is 'Experience'. It is this experience that make you better, that completely changes you and completes every missing jigsaw piece of the puzzle of life. I'm starting to think that the most happiest people are the ones with the most variety of experiences in life, the ones who were able to take risks, enjoy its success, withstand the failures caused by it and persevere by taking more of them.

Once a great man told me, you need to experience pain to appreciate pleasure. Unless you have one, you are not going to appreciate and enjoy the other. So don't worry about risk and failures. Now look back and think about how you were 5 years ago. Do you see radical changes in you, in your outlook about life and people. Have you learnt a lot more, about things that can be learnt only by Experience ? Have you become your own Doppelganger in the few years? If yes, your life rocks, if you don't think so, you will realize it soon. If no, then you better start realizing that you are wasting your life. By staying on the shore, instead of cruising through the storms, missing the excitement and experience.

Post inspired by Ted's dialogue in the latest episode of How I Met Your Mother - Doppelgangers.

P.S. - I know I used to abuse people who use tough words in their blog posts :P. I just don't like it when there is a simpler way to do it. I learn t the word Doppelganger recently. My understanding of the word is 'someone who looks very much like you, but is a completely different person'. Its something more than just a lookalike.

P.P.S. - People who are seeing stars after reading the whole thing, I'm sorry. The point of the post, is that there is no point to run behind success, fame, money etc. instead try to enjoy every aspect of life and to experience the variety of life.

How did she ever get in those clothes ?

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Mon, 17 May 2010 15:42:00 +0000

This is a very very old post. But it was published only in the blog running in my mindosphere. Many things have changed since those days, me, my thoughts, my outlook on life, culture and relationships. But still, this might be interesting for a few of you. Moreover I was reminded of this incident when I saw my label 'Winning Arguments' on the side bar.

Time was about 6.30 and it was a normal evening in September 2007. Jencil and I were on a stroll. I saw a girl on the road walking in the opposite direction. Boy, she wore a tight dress. So much tight that out of all the odds, the first thought that ran in MY mind on that sight was 'How did she ever get in those clothes ?' She was definitely uncomfortable, but she sure was enjoying all the attention she received from everyone on the road. I am sure no one looked at her face, not at least at the first glance.

"Ithellam konjam overa iruku da" (this is way too much) - I spoke. Jencil immediately turned towards me, and said - "Why too much? Its her freedom and choice. When guys build their body by going to gym don't they wear tight clothes to show off and walk around ?" I listened patiently to some more things he added to prove that I'm wrong. Then I said - "Ok Machi, let us say you build your body like Hrithik Roshan, (Sorry Hrithik Roshan wherever you are)... and wear tight clothes on the road. And someone commented a 'little loudly' that you had an attractive body and you heard it. What would you do then ?" Very happily without even thinking he replied - "Definitely I will thank, wave my shoulders and raise my collar". Then I continued - "Ok, let us say you are married and your 'awesome' wife walks with such clothes and someone on the road comments that her body is very sexy a little loudly that you and some more people on the road happen to hear it". "Appavum collar raise pannivittu thanks solluviya machan?" (Even then will you raise your collar and say thanks ?)

I couldn't hear any reply. When I turned around, My friend Jencil was missing for a moment, the person standing in his place was Mr.Jencil - The Toothpaste Ad Model. "Sorry, I acknowledge I was a bl00dy hypocrite" is what I heard even though he didn't speak.

Please don't judge me based on this post. I believe if you support something, that applies to you too.

One awesome short story ! + Avant Garde Bloggies award winners

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Mon, 05 Apr 2010 07:33:00 +0000

Before doing anything else read this short story. It won the best short story award here.

Read the following only after you read the short story. Its a must read for all Indians, probably even all human beings. The winners for Avant Garde Bloggies Award '09 have been announced in various categories. Check out the results for some exciting blog posts of all sorts.

DONT DO THIS ! Especially when I am working on Saturdays !

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 14:40:00 +0000

This is what happened to my friend and colleague, on a Saturday evening, when he was actually working hard to meet a deadline.

Please notice the timestamps on the right. OMG! I can't stop laughing... Fortunately for the other guy my friend didn't press ENTER after typing the last message.

A Silly 'Flu'sh Back

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 05:48:00 +0000

Day 1:- Swine Flu's fear and fame was at its peak among the people. I was even more worried as the area in which I lived in Bangalore had some reported deaths and a lot of infections. A friend and colleague said I am over reacting and panicking too much. I replied with Tha'lame' fake anguish on my face - "Yeiiii ! Na Thani Aal illa !" (I am not just a single/one person). He replied - "Yes, I heard you eat three people's lunch"

To multiply the horror effect, suddenly many people in office were starting to catch "common cold". So, at times in office, when I am one among 2 or more people, who try to pass through a small space between cubicles, I do "About turn" and take my mobile and start calling Credit card telemarketers to make the move seem natural and escape the situation.

Day 2:- I was sitting at my place heavily concentrating on tasks like pointlessly checking mails continuously and occasionally doing productive work. Then I heard the dreadful sound. The heavy and loud sound of some one trying to Dry clean a 330 ml Pepsi bottle through a Straw trying to pull the last nanolitres of beverage in it. Damn ! It was coming from right near my ear or it even sounded like it came from inside my ear.

I turned around and with a sudden gasp, I pulled back my face at the speed of light from Mannu's Nostrils who brought his face closest to me without smooching!! "Dude! What??" I asked trying not to sound very loud and irritated. He actually being a sweet polite guy, said "Sorry to bother you Dude. Can you please show me the sample code that you were showing that day?". "Ok. Sure I will IM you the link" I said. "Ok man. Thanks a lot !" He said and left the place. PHEW !

Later in the day, I asked him about his cold and he replied with a cool tone - "No Dood, its just 4 days since it started, I have to go to doctor tomorrow or in the weekend". "What ? Is he out of his mind !" I thought. Is it possible I got infected because of him ?. "Naah You are just crazy and scared" I thought to myself.

Day 3:- The next day I woke up like every other day, brushed, bathed and dressed up for office. Then I did something subconsciously. I tried to suck back something with my nostrils... Whh.. What ! Mucus ??! To describe my feelings that moment - I really felt like setting my hair on fire and running on the roads screaming like crazy !

Without wasting time, I decided I will go to hospital in the lunch time even against the deadliest odds of in fact ... skipping ...... lunnnnchh ! I know there was a good sized hospital behind my company building and so started walking towards it as soon as it was lunch time. I noticed there was no way or door in the front except for the pharmacy.

So I went to the security and asked about whether "Out-Patients" are allowed. He said Yes. Then I asked do they perform "Swine Flu" check up? He said Yes again. Immediately He asked me back "Patient Yellidhare ?" (Where is the Patient ?) I had to control all my emotions and say with a plain face - "Its for me".

I reached inside and I had one of those dreadful hospital moments, where everyone who came in the opposite started looking literally 'green'. Again "About TURN !" I reached the end of the corridor which was the Out-Patient area. I met a Nurse and inquired about Out-Patients and Swine Flu check up and secretly prayed that she should not ask "Where is the patient ?". She did not. "Doctor will be here in a minute. In the meanwhile you can Please bring the patient here" She said instead. I said "I am the patient" with a plain face again and explained - "Today Morning onwards I am having a cold, so I just want to be cautious." She turned around and I think she chuckled.

I don't remember how it ended, but I did have a slight fever also, but eventually both of them disappeared.

An unfair world - An unknown hesitation..

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 20:29:00 +0000

It was an unusual day and something did not feel right. As I was locking my house gate, In my thoughts I knew, something is wrong with me today. A few moments later I realized it was because I was leaving home on (right) time to office. I wore my turtle-shell helmet, which usually I take care of, instead of it taking care of me while driving. A lot of people praised me telling how 'awesome' (disclaimer:- the actual word might slightly differ e.g. good, okay etc.) it looks and how it fits my face and head perfectly except for the silly bike I owned. They always recommended me to buy a Bullet or Harley Davidson type of vehicle due to my huge build over the last 2 years.

As I drove, I saw a kid of around 8 years driving a small bicycle about 25 meters away from me. A big Innova car was coming in the opposite side in that 'not so big' road and there were Auto-rickshaws parked on the side of the road. The kid trying to get through the small gap between the Auto-rickshaws and Innova car, accidentally drove over the 'just stepped out' feet of an Auto-rickshaw driver, who actually was busy talking to someone inside probably about his cruel wife who doesn't let him in if he comes home totally wasted and drunk at night, INSTEAD of actually watching the road while getting out of his vehicle.

The driver and the kid clashed and the driver caught the bicycle, which almost tumbled down and fell against himself. The next 5 seconds, there were POWs and SOKs over the poor kid's head, as the driver slapped the boy 3 to 4 slaps on his head slightly above his right ear. He yelled at him for not watching the road and for driving so close by the Auto-rickshaw. With a sad and slightly scary look on his face, as the kid opened his mouth to explain something, THUDDD ! he got the next slap on his head. The kid just drove away with his heavy eyes and disappointment. There were tears waiting to roll down his cheeks and the pressure on his eyelids was enormous, but he controlled himself and drove with a face which turned from sad and scary to shrewd and angry yet with slight tears starting to roll down his cheeks.

That face showed a hatred. Hatred towards the driver, hatred towards the world for being unfair. After all, he was not the one who made the mistake. No one on the road came to help or support, none of the other drivers even pulled back the driver while hitting him.

As I passed this incident, I drove with my mind imagining about the series of unfortunate events that could follow due to this incident in that kid's life, the kind of feelings he might develop against people and world in general. What if his parents never hear him out when he gets home, as they were not present in the spot to see the actual impact ? May be someone should have consoled him, supported him, cheered him up.. I know I wanted to. But I never did. Shame on me.

I just decided while making this update that, the next time I pass by such an incident, I WILL definitely act....

If u smell what the Quakeboy is Cooking...

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 16:50:00 +0000

A post revived from the dreaded "draft" pit by me. Its a long time ago, I saved this empty post with just the title. Everyone who comments will get a Dosa made by me :)

When I think of it now, it amazes me about how much a little new activity can bring a change. I don't remember from when I wanted to be regarded as a good cook. I was proud once during my school days that I was able to make the crispiest Dosa, even slightly better than Amma, once. After I left home after my 10th standard its been almost 6 years since I started cooking again.

It wouldn't have started if it was not for my completely impulse driven friend, classmate and room mate. He just wanted to start cooking, and one day, bought utensils worth 250 for 750 Rs. as usual and came home with victory smile.
I still remember the time, I, proudly wanting to impress everyone with my Dosa skills, made them almost say 'your Dosa kills'. I think my Dosas could have made excellent candidates for being used in Rorschach Ink blot tests. But not for long, by the time I made my 7 or 8th one, I once again regained control and became The Dosa Man !

Another thing, I remember is how much I used to bug my mother for recipes particularly after we started using the Pressure Cooker.
I would call my Mom. She would ask what happened ? I would reply "Cooker whistled".
I would call my Mom again. She would ask what happened ? I'd say "Whistle Stopped".
I would call my Mom yet another time. She would ask what happened ? I'd grin and say "No Whistle yet".

Now I belong to a South Indian family where we don't enact even 0.001% of Karan Johar movies' sentiment scenes during our lives. The love just is understood between us. I used to come home with bleeding legs due to small accidents at play and expect to receive all the attention from my Mom, only because my friend's mom reacted that way when it happened to him. But she would say "go in wash and apply some ointment". If I said I am not eating tonight due to some problem, or if I was angry, she would say "Oh, thank god, I can sleep early" with a big smile so as to irritate me and I would have to sneak into the kitchen after everyone slept. Later in life I realized she did that to not spoil me and was thankful and loved her more for it.

Now coming back to bugging my Mom over the mobile for cooking directions. I felt and knew that I was really bothering her a lot. But once as we were talking, she just paused and said "You should cook everyday". I am sure there was almost no pause before the next conversation rolled it. But how ever small it was, during that time, I am sure we both experienced the same effect and BG music, which was played in K3G when Shahrukh sets foot anywhere near his mother... Its same as the words, that JD wishes to hear from Cox always but almost never gets to. On your face JD !

Though its late in the day. Happy Birthday to the best Mom in the world :)

Top 10 Melodious and Soulful songs

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 19:33:00 +0000

This is a kind of tag, a very interesting one, as we can explore the world of songs and discover and remember really soothing melodies. Here is where I found it.

There are always two ways to get interesting results from such a situation. One, just give it a rapid fire without thinking. Two, Spend a really lot of time and do a lot of thinking. I am opting for One here. Let me go

My list with no order (I guess I am going to mention multiple languages)

1. Vennilave Vennilave
Movie - Minsara Kanavu.
Music - AR Rahman
Singers - Hariharan, Sadhana Sargam.

~~2. Nila Nee - (Lucky you songy ! - I am addicted to you right NOW. So :P)~~
~~Movie - Pokkisham.~~
Music - Sabesh Murali
Singers - Vijay Yesudas, Chinmayi (wasn't able to regard it as an all time classic now, especially after seeing the video)

2. Etho Ondru
Movie - Lesa Lesa
Music - Harris Jeyaraj
Singers - Harish Raghavendra, Franko, Srilekha Parthasarathy

3. Anbe Va, En Munbe Va
Movie - Sillunu Oru Kathal
Music - AR Rahman
Singers - Shreya Goshal

4. Ooru Sanam (I like the instrumental version more)
Movie - Mella Thiranthathu Kathavu
Music - Ilayaraja
Singer - Janaki

5. Yaaro Manathile
Movie - Dhaam Dhoom
Music - Harris Jeyaraj
Singer - Bombay Jayashree

6. Poi solla
Movie - April Maadhathil
Music - Yuvan Shankar Raja
Singer - Yuvan Shankar Raja

7. Pehli Nazar Mein
Movie - Race
Music - Pritam Chakraborty (Ok.. he copied, but his flavour is a great plus always)
Singer - Atif Aslam

8. Devathayai Kanden
Movie - Kadhal Konden
Music - Yuvan Shankar Raja
Singer - Harris Raghavendra

9. Kal ho na ho
Movie- Kal ho na ho
Music - Shankar, Ehsaan and Loy
Singer - Sonu Nigam

10. Mudhal Mazhai
Movie - Bheema
Music - Harris Jeyaraj
Singer - R Prasanna, Mahathi, Hariharan

Like I already said.. Its rapid fire, there are lots and lots more in the universe of music all over these years, but I could remember these immediately. Some other worth mentioning extras are Etho Ondru from Lesa Lesa, Katrukullay from Sarvam which I can think of like right now again.

Please take up this tag and include songs from any language and leave me a comment. I will update the post with your post links.

Quakeboy's Evil Scientist Lab Release

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Thu, 28 May 2009 09:53:00 +0000

Here I am presenting the blog readers (I mean the few of you who are my good friends who I irritate terribly asking to read after posting this and also the amazing few who read it on their own and the poor ones who reach here by google !)...

Lets begin again. I am presenting the blog readers the new column - "Evil Scientist". This is what popped on my head suddenly as I was sitting at office thinking about how to solve an OpenGL surface generator problem..

I composed an SMS in my mobile as written below

"latest magic sms viRus - you cAnnot Just forwArd this Very msg 2 more thAn 3 ppl. If u do, ur phoNe will switch off automaticallY. bt u cAn turn it on again."

and forward it to some people, some were girls (as I believe 90% of the girls in this world are dumb) and a some guys too who are my close friends who would understand my intention and forward it to others :)

Will have to wait and see if this message spreads fast !

Extra hint :- The Caps in the msg mean something :) I forwarded it exactly like that...

If you hate Rajnikanth !

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 05:59:00 +0000

Foreword

He is 58 years old in real life, yet he has been a 25+ years old in reel life for the last 25 years.
His heroines are mostly with their real ages, equivalent to his reel life age.
He looks just like the guy next door and not with the killer looks you will fall in love with.
He doesn't have/never had muscles like Arnold, Salman or Aamir Khan in Ghajini.
He is bald now, and has been for a long time, never combed his hair properly in movies !

He doesn't know to dance like Hrithik Roshan, aaaw forget Hrithik. If you have seen the "Desi Girl" song in Dostana movie where Abhishek and John compete for the "Who can be the worst dancer ? contest", Rajnikanth's dance is only slightly better than that. At times he has proved himself to be a sufficiently good dancer too.

He is the highest paid actor in India, 2nd highest paid in Asia after Jackie Chan.
He was born, brought up in Bangalore, but today he is the most powerful guy in Tamil Nadu.
He has a really huge number of Japanese fan base for his movies dubbed in Japanese language.
and yet ... e- ha- ha- ha- ha .... I am a fan of Rajnikanth !

A Journalist who bitched about the movie 'Sivaji'

When his last movie, Sivaji was released, I loved that movie. I was soo engrossed in the movie admiring him, his style, dialogues, charisma in many scenes. During that period, Anuradha SenGupta a journalist @ CNN-IBN and blogged about how much the movie "Sivaji" and "Rajnikanth" SUCKED !!. The post has 1800 comments !

Before reading further, please note that, I am not illiterate. I am not FRED FLINTSTONE. I am a game programmer (a professional one now !). I know 5 languages. I watch FRIENDS. I understand the serial too and I love Chandler and Joey. I love Bruce Willis, Adam Sandler and many others, not because they look good or have muscles (like many Indians loved Ghajini Aamir for), but because I love their acting too. I have watched every American Pie and loved Sean Willian Scott. I probably understand science fiction more than Anuradha SenGupta does !
and I love Rajnikanth.... phew !

She is right, but she is narrow minded

She is right. Yes she is. Anyone who sees a recent Rajnikanth movie for the first time in their life will see him as a clown, joker and may be even a retard. They will probably think, the whole clan of Rajnikanth fans are retards too, or may be voodooed by Rajnikanth using Black Magic. Its perfectly normal. I am not going to get angry at them.

She is narrow minded ?? WTF Dude, she is a journalist and she works at CNN-IBN. She must be well educated, sophisticated and classy - I don't wanna reply the Stiffler way*. Let me explain why.

But before that, just remember the olden times, where famous people, who we today regard as great scientists were all considered stupids and lunatics by even the highest regarded people of those times. In fact the whole world would have believed them to be lunatics except for a few who actually understood those scientists. Now, don't start laughing again at me as if I am a lunatic who compares Rajnikanth with great scientists. I just said "remember".

Understanding Rajnikanth as a phenomenon, not just as an actor/person

I can see people who argue comparing Rajnikanth's impossible stunts, actions with Hollywood movies and actors. But that my friend, is wrong. Remember "The Matrix" or the "Spiderman" ? Why are people accepting that worldwide and not Rajnikanth's movies ? There is a basic difference. Matrix, Spiderman are movies based on fictional stories with a strong storyline explaining the concepts. So when Spiderman does something crazy you don't get annoyed, but you enjoy watching it. That is exactly where all the difference lies !

Great.. as if we don't know this ! Then still why do you like Rajnikanth ?

Hmm.. the concept of Rajnikanth is not as easy or simple to understand like a Spiderman or a Neo. It develops over the years in the mind of a person who has seen his movies from the olden days and has been coming up the gradual curve. I have been watching and loving his movies since when I was a child. The message - "Rajnikanth is slightly more than a normal man" can only be slowly taken in by human beings. I am able to enjoy his movies because when he does something beyond what a normal person can do, my mind automatically accepts it.

So, you accept his crap and enjoy it ?

I won't accept the word crap because it is NOT crap. It is not a simple task to develop and maintain such an image in the minds of millions of fans. If anyone could do it, then there would be countless Rajnikanths. He is still the icon of Hardwork and regarded really great as a person. He did not grow to the super hero Demigod status over night or suddenly from one of his movies. He made the people believe that he is something more than a common man only because of his skill, style and his magnetic charisma. Ever seen a not so attractive guy in your life who you could never believe to have so many hot girl friends ? Thats about charisma. You can't understand just by looking or being with it once. It takes time. First you might make fun, but soon once you are in it, you will find yourself gradually admiring and getting attracted.

Sometimes it gets too much. I agree

Yes, sometimes things do gets kind of funny or crazy. Like his "style" song costumes in Sivaji, the naked fight in Padayappa, First Stunt Sequence in Chandramukhi with poor graphics. But who doesn't have mistakes, remember Main Hoon Na Rickshaw fight ? Even Hollywood has bloopers. But that doesn't make them stupid. Look at the positives, they are rich, abundant and a mountain compared to just a handful of bloopers.

Here it ends

So you see Rajnikanth is really a Phenomenon which takes time to understand and enjoy. So Anuradha Sen Gupta, you need to take time. Somethings in life can't be judged immediately.

Appo naan.... Var...ta ??

Are you reading a book ? - Hahaha !

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 13:50:00 +0000

Do you like to read general books and think it is one of the most useful things you do in life ?
(Or)
Do you think reading such books are for losers and you are proud to say that you don't have such bad habits ?

I belonged to latter group and later moved to the former after discovering the amazingly cool world of good books. Before that all I read was about Technology, Computers etc. I thought books that don't talk about science, history, geography are just mutated forms of waste materials. Today I love reading good books about general subjects like personality development, efficiency, productivity, relationships and even dating !

Ah.. that's where the clash started - Dating books. There was this amusing dating book written by David De Angelo (excuse spelling errors). It was not just about how to impress girls and get them, but it was about improving your overall personality, moral betterment, avoiding bad relationships so that you don't get wasted and totally ethical ways of the dating process and a lot of self improvement tips. I realized (all) Dating books are not EVIL.

It helped me a lot too. I can tell you its not just that one book, but the combined/filtered knowledge I gained from many personality development books + dating books made me a better person in dealing with people and yes, girls also. Please don't consider this to
actually mean I am a playboy, macho, player, charmer etc. Just that it made me better :)

Ashwin started arguing suddenly as usual - "These things are no fun, if you just read and get them. It has to come just naturally, born within" and started his usual - "I am Ph.D in every subject in this world", "I am all powerful, omnipotent, cloned god" kinda talks.

If you think what he said was fair and you belong to the same crowd which says such things (Dating, handling people, productivity, time management, relationships kinds) have to be inborn, then LISTEN !

"What exactly do you mean by inborn ?".. Would you have known how to eat, play, drink, talk all by yourself ? Would you have known that you have to say sorry when you do mistakes and say thank you when you receive something all by yourself ? Do you think people who argue too much, who are very stubborn etc are like that by birth ?

All of these can be grouped under one word - "behavior". Behavior never comes inborn. It has to be taught, trained, learnt by seeing. So what exactly comes inborn ?

Have you ever trained up yourself to like Rock music ? like your favorite color, food, drink etc ? So that answers - Genes don't hold behavior. They might actually a little influence but its very low. Genes hold your basic traits and that is what decides your tastes, attributes etc.

Handling people in general is all a collection of behaviors you need to learn and use in response to their actions. If you found someone who has done this without reading books, he is NOT a superman. It is just that he has learned it by other means - Hearing, Observing similar incidences, taught by parents, elders etc. When you actually ask them how they do that, they would probably say - "It just comes automatically". Do you remember who exactly taught you how to lie ?

I gave this argument back and turned only to see all his teeth visible. He stood grinning. That actually means "Yes I acknowledge I was an A$$ ole !"

Funniest greeting card - New year special

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 06:56:00 +0000

I found this card in a near by gift shop and bought it immediately ! Just kept it as a collection... lol. The pics below are of a birthday greeting card. Examine the first picture carefully before viewing the next one.

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Happy New year Everybody !

P.S. My friend Suz was the only one who never even smiled after seeing this. On asking him about it, he said he was disappointed as he expected something romantic and he found it 0% amusing. I have no comments about this :D

A Branded Crazy World

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Wed, 31 Dec 2008 12:29:00 +0000

What is your name ? - "I work at Infosys"

Scene happens just outside a regular Kerala style mess (eat-out). Its a usual sight to see men/women along with their hanging dog chains, err sorry company ID tags even though its highly inconvenient to do other tasks when hanging it.

Jencil, another roommate & Myself are standing near a similar guy. For convenience let us call him Mr.X. Hmm.. better to call him Mr.F. B'Coz trends show that Indians like the F Word more than anyone else in this world.

Mr.F is a typical IT worker @ a reputed services company with his only pair of Reebok shoes, 2 weeks old Jeans and T-Shirt with a golden tag (looks golden only to him).

Jencil suddenly takes out his old mobile phone with invisible keypad technology with added zero battery advantage. Starts talking to someone ?? (May be his dead ex-girlfriend)
"Hello"
"How are you, Its been a really long time" (since someone dumped you ?)
"Yeah Yeah." (how did he read my mind ?)

"I'm get irritated with these people nowadays" (Who ?)
"They think its something great. Looks like dog tags, even worse than that. Always hanging around the neck. Won't these people even remove it when they s*** in the toilet" (Now I start my Deer Karate process. On your mark...)
"They don't have any common sense yaar. All useless idiots, just showing off" (Get set... But I could not control my laughter, burst out laughing at the same time)
Slowly Mr.F took his ID tag and slips it into his pocket and starts his bike (eh ?? I was about to run away.. never mind no one knew it..)
Both of us have a good laugh together about our feat (It was his feat wasn't it?).

It reminds me of a post on Twisted DNA blog which I read long ago where something similar happens. Someone in your native town asks you where you work. When you reply proudly that you work for Google, he looks at you pathetically and asks you "Why ? Didn't you manage to get a job @ Infosys ?" and just walks away with a look you wear after seeing a sick beggar. So much for working @ Google.

If you see a guy walking out of a company with an old crumpled T-Shirt with no ID tag, watch, glasses, no proper shoes and looks almost close to someone who doesn't have money to shave. He is probably a great programmer who has been the mastermind behind an innovative software which contributes to almost a huge amount of the entire company's profit. On the other hand if you see a guy who walks with well visible features, a show off attitude and of course with his ID tag very visible and swinging, Its definitely someone who is an application support guy whose job is to configure and set up that software and answer phone calls and emails about technical queries.

I am not here to under rate and humiliate support engineers and others, as dealing with people day in and day out is a hard job too. But what I am trying to express is my concern towards the amount of brand hype people use and show off which is nothing more than worthless.

"In today's world, Empty vessels make noise with digital surround sound"

May be some people just forget to remove the tag. Not all of them. and I know whether it is easy to wear the tag hanging or walk around with it inside the pocket. So please don't tell me you feel uncomfortable to keep it in your pocket than hanging it outside. Please note my emphasis in only on the tag and other added things in this post are just junk :P

Necessary Evil

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Fri, 26 Dec 2008 11:17:00 +0000

I have the desire to blog about many things, but I am really busy* !

*I have to

keep thinking/ planning to resume my current project at regular time intervals
but instead waste time on the internet reading stuff
read game/movie reviews that pop up my head
check torrent sites/blog statistics/feed burner account without any aim countless times
check the tech/news feeds I have subscribed on my Google reader which are flooded with feeds which suck at least 3 – 4 hours a day if read properly.
keep thinking about various things to blog, but never do it as I am busy* (recursive :P)
finally start suffering from information overload and be a loser without accomplishing anything useful !

Let aside the above junk, lets come to the title. (I was about to write about something else Phew !)
I typed the term – Necessary Evil when coding my current project done in C++ as a comment line somewhere. (this is my problem, I work only 1% of my actual work time to do only this)

I glanced my mind vision on the words, It gave me a lot of thoughts. First one being, if there was no evil, will there be any good? – Definitely Spiderman, will have to start cleaning skyscraper windows for money

I googled to see if anyone has already blogged about it. Someone had written a beautiful article too.. I loved the points he had mentioned. In short – evil existed because of three possible reasons

1. It happened itself (This would make the omnipotent god theory impotent)
2. God created evil (For us to understand the value of good blah blah..)
3. God is both good and evil (I liked this !)

Whenever It comes to a clash between we and they. We always regard ‘we’ as good guys, super heroes etc. We have to remember that the same thought runs through the minds of the opposite party. Okay.. This was also mentioned in that article.

Anyways I have also thought of such things but in more of a geeky sense. In batman we had a device which can show what is running through your mind visually, I seriously wish we had it in real and test it out on George Bush, Bin Laden, My only enemy in life now ‘DoubleM’, of course Myself and finally SRK – anyways he is in the news all the time, so he won’t mind.

I will blog about DoubleM later - I definitely have to. BTW I confirmed the person who stole my PSP. Waiting for the judgement day.. Muhahahaha !

Though I have many interesting things happening in life, I had to write this obsessive self-oriented article.

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What others think about you is none of your business !

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 08:42:00 +0000

Yes, I am visualizing how much this sentence is affecting people's lives around me. I got this emailed my batchmate along with a set of other pictures with similar wordings on it titled "Rules for a happy life". I enjoyed everyone of it, I have it in my mobile and look at them often..

But people often misunderstand the beauty of this sentence and start annoying people, and put other people in discomfort - Especially when it comes to following culture. You need not worry about others, do things thinking about what other person feels etc. But you need to show respect for others feelings, not annoy them and hurt them.

Once in a old students get together where everyone was seated in chairs arranged in a big circle, everyone stood up while talking about their present status in life, except 3 girls who were in a group, and just casually said, Its not very necessary to stand up to themselves. What kinda act is this ? Of course its not a really big deal, BUT most of them including me were annoyed at this act. WHY ? Because it was like telling the rest of us were fools and need not be respected. Everyone went about saying - "They were just too arrogant, show offs etc" Of course olden days revolutionary scientists denied the common beliefs of most people and changed the world. But don't you think there is a difference in it. They did it because it was going to benefit humanity.

Do you think you can change the way a student behaves to a teacher? Think scratching your balls amidst a crowd is okay? Clapping your hands to call your boss? The act of saying "Thank you" after someone does a selfless help? Not saying thank you is not a revolution, its just a plain rude act. There are some things in life that should not be changed, thats beautiful when not changed - CULTURE, and you should be sensible to separate this and that.

I do follow the title, but with extra command line arguments. Remember not annoying others and discomforting others is class. Who doesn't want to be classy ?

There was this subordinate colleague of mine, who had this problem. He did everything worrying about others, was always worried about if others will think he doesn't know things, if he was not educated well, if he was not respected by his manager. I had to let out one day to him, he was close to me called me his elder brother though I am like 3 years younger than him. This is exactly the situation where you need to remember the TITLE. Is such a worrying of any benefit to you or anyone ? Truth won't remain hidden always, you don't have to push yourself at such situations. Just remain calm and people will understand.

But remember this is not an excuse for missing an oppurtunity, a golden chance to showcase your talents and making yourself a better person. You can just say I don't care if the world doesn't know if I am good at this or that. I hope that makes sense.

This change can't be brought in just a day. Changing your attitude requires constant practice, remembering about the effects, virtues of a principle. I was once just like him, worried about what people might think about me and I was always in despair when such situations came.

Today I am a different person... atleast I think so :)

Forwarded Frustrations - The Stiffler inside me

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 05:21:00 +0000

This email body was forwarded to me today... This message has contents unsuitable for so called decent people...
=========EMAIL BODY========

Once you send the message, press F6 and you will see what appear .... unbelievable but true .....

<A Stupid spinning globe picture here>

Send this to at least 15 people , and then press F6 ; the name of the person you love will appear...

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And this is what I replied to all more than 100 people in that list... Most of them are my juniors cum students (Yes I work as a part time lecturer)

=======MY REPLY TO < 100 PEOPLE=========

All of you, people, this is a life time lesson.
Remember the following points... and read everything down !

You can never generate money for anyone by forwarding a mail or an SMS !
No one gives you anything free for forwarding a mail, as mails cannot be tracked to see who all it has been forwarded.
Remember everyone is not as job less as you are, and each such junk mail you send will waste atleast 30 secs... and if it reaches 100 people, 3000 seconds = 50 mins is just wasted..
Please take time to explain this to people and ask them to spread it, as it may demolish such mails from the internet.. and save hours and hours of time..

Here is something, that has really worked... forward this message to all your friends (Do it !!) and after that

Just put your 2 of your fingers in your * and you can ** yourself !

Cheers ! it really works.. and if you have a question... yes i have tried :-|

P.S. Sorry for being nasty and rude, but if I don't add such entertainment, then the actual message won't reach the audience... (Yes I added this note also)

Ha ! My first tag...

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 08:05:00 +0000

This is the first time, I doing this. Probably its called “tagging” where someone creates a questionnaire and you answer it in your blog.. This tag is by Rat – the only one who has commented in my blog [thanks Rat :)].. doing this after reading the answers by Roshan

1. If your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be?
I’d break down to the core spend a week or two in total despair. Hear “Why do I love you” by west life, “Numb” by Linkin Park and some senti tamil/hindi songs over and over again. Later I’d help myself come out of it, by reading inspirational stuff etc. And thank god for putting me through such a situation and making me stronger.

AFA she is concerned, if she comes back to me crying and apologizing, I’d definitely give her another chance and put efforts to nurture the relationship else move on... or Rock On :)

2. If you can have a dream come true, what would it be?
Have my own Game/Software Company as the best in the world…
Me – as a cool super hacker!
Have Ghajini Asin (her character)/ as my girlfriend….
Live life like Lara Croft / Indiana Jones
Fulfill each and every one of my mom’s wishes
And finally release a super hit album of songs in my voice, directed, written and composed by me... and many more.. but...er...

3. Whose butt would you like to kick?
My Company Director (for being soo fickle minded)
My best friend (for being too laid back inspite of being soo talented)
Jeyam Ravi (for spoiling 2 awesome Siddharth movies)
Myself (for being late everywhere)

4. What would you do with a billion dollars?
Find secure ways to multiply it invariably and make use of the dividends for the betterment of the mankind…. Get back our old house…. Get another house of my dreams (usually amidst a deserted nature filled place)… Sponsor our college football team to go international (though I don’t play)….

5. Will you fall in love with your best friend?
Of course yes. Best friend is someone who you can live happily through out your life with and I won't miss.. (Neva had girl best friends though! You know Girls don’t like geeks) Pyaar dosti hai...

6. Which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone?
Being loved by someone. I love to see the happiness in the person's face, when I try to express that I love her more than what she does.. try to give surprises, loving emotional poems and notes, say love you again and again and again, declare how much she means to me amidst a crowd of a million..

7. How long do you intend to wait for someone you really love?
Until she gets married or committed to someone else!

8. If the person you secretly like is already attached, what would you do?
If I think her partner is the right/better person for her, I’d probably pray for her future and wishes her good luck and move on. Else if he was an asshole, I’d try to snatch her off… :) Wicked I know…

9. If you like to act with someone, who will it be? Your gf/bf or an actress/actor?
Right now with Genelia... or the girl from Jamshedpur who danced for Silsila eh chahatka in our college cultural (3-4 years ago)... Wish I meet her in life once; she was too good at dancing...

10. What takes you down the fastest?
Nothing... I think soo..

11. How would you see yourself in ten years time?
Boss of a Game/Software company, which is regarded as the best place to work, doing original innovative stuff unlike most Indian software companies do… Filthy Rich / Fit / FREE ! and finally with my family forever..

12. What’s your fear?
That I will die before I make my dreams come true

13. What kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is?
AFA I can see she possesses good qualities (intelligence, creativity I think) which are quite higher in degree than an average girl.

14. Would you rather be single and rich or married but poor?
Single and Rich of course!

15. What’s the first thing you do when you wake up?
Sincerely right now in my life, most of the days, when I wake up… I see the time, and what ever it is I just go back to sleep. And that cozy moment when you wake up and sleep again, my friend is priceless!

then again after sometime get up see the time, and shout "S*** I'm late again".. My roomies made helluva fun of this.. :(

16. Would you give all in a relationship?
I don't really understand this..

If that means proper commitment and time, Yes. If that means I have to sacrifice certain things in my life that I'm very passionate about... No !

17. If you fall in love with two people simultaneously, who would you pick?
I think falling in love is like dying… you never die twice.

18. Would you forgive and forget, no matter how horrible a thing someone has done?
Yes I believe in the quote “Time heals everything. Give time time…”

19. Do you prefer being single or having a relationship?
I think I prefer being single rather than being in a relationship. Though if I ever be in a relationship it should be like Sillunu oru Kaaaadhalllll !

Joke.. made me smile with surprise

noreply@blogger.com (Rajavanya Subramaniyan) — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 10:51:00 +0000

An old man lived alone in Idaho. He wanted to spade his potato garden, but it was very hard work. His only son, Bubba, who used to help him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and described his predicament.

Dear Bubba:
I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won't be able to plant my potato garden this year. I'm just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. If you were here, all my troubles would be over. I know you would dig the plot for me.
Love, Dad

A few days later, he received a letter from his son.
Dear Dad:
For heaven's sake, Dad, don't dig up that garden. That's where I buried the BODIES.Love, Bubba

At 4 a.m. the next morning, FBI agents and local Police showed up and dug up the entire area without finding any bodies. They apologized to the old man and left.
That same day, the old man received another letter from his son.

Dear Dad:
Go ahead and plant the potatoes now. It's the best I could do under the circumstances.Love, Bubba

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