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		<title>Interview with author Lindsey Kelk</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/ltme-interview-with-author-lindsey-kelk-a-chance-to-win-her-book/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2016 23:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What&#8217;s it about? Is it a break? Or is it a blip? You’ve just had a holiday,’ I pointed out, trying not to yawn. Wasn’t that enough of a break?’ &#8216;I don’t mean that kind of break.’ There’s nothing worse than the last day of holiday. Oh wait, there is. When what should have been a proposal turns into a break, Liv and Adam find themselves on opposite sides of the life they had mapped out. Friends and family all think they’re crazy; Liv throws herself into work animals are so much simpler than humans and Adam tries to get himself out of the hole he’s dug. But as the [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>Boyfriend won&#8217;t go down on me. Like, ever.</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/boyfriend-wont-go-down-on-me-like-ever/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2016 23:16:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve been with my guy for over two years. We have a pretty good sex life, and he’s really lovely, but in that time he’s gone down on me twice. Twice, in two years seems like a very low average, especially when I’m quite generous about going down on him!]]></description>
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		<title>MANSWERS: I&#8217;m worried my boyfriend is an alcoholic</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/manswers-im-worried-my-boyfriend-is-an-alcoholic-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Nov 2016 23:51:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most of the time my boyfriend is a lovely guy and we get on well. However, I have issues with his level of drinking and partying. He seems to need to go out every weekend and get completely out of it. I am certainly not adverse to a couple of drinks, but this need for serious all night obliteration, every weekend, is beginning to concern me and I'm beginning to notice that he likes to drink most nights during the week too. This is especially worrying as he has addiction issues in his family – his father is a serious alcoholic...]]></description>
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		<title>MANSWERS: What kinds of things should you never say during a fight?</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/manswers-what-kinds-of-things-should-you-never-say-during-a-fight/</link>
		<comments>http://realitychick.com.au/manswers-what-kinds-of-things-should-you-never-say-during-a-fight/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Nov 2016 23:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my not so humble opinion, saying any one of these 5 phrases is just not on in a relationship no matter how mad you get during a fight.]]></description>
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		<title>I&#8217;m pregnant and my husband is being a dick</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/im-pregnant-and-my-husband-is-being-a-dick/</link>
		<comments>http://realitychick.com.au/im-pregnant-and-my-husband-is-being-a-dick/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Nov 2016 23:09:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Updated 20-11-16 I need some advice. I&#8217;m expecting our second child, and I&#8217;ve been staying in the house mostly because I&#8217;m in my first trimester and I&#8217;ve been really nauseated (more than I ever was with my first). I&#8217;ll be honest, I stopped doing much around the house just because being up just makes me feel like I&#8217;m going to pass out. My partner&#8217;s not happy about this. He&#8217;s upset about how the house looks, which isn&#8217;t new (it feels like I can&#8217;t ever please him), but at the moment I feel like I have a good reason as to why I&#8217;m not up to cleaning/tidying. One night this week he told me [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>MANSWERS: My husband&#8217;s little white lies do my head in. Am I overreacting?</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/manswers-my-husbands-little-white-lies-do-my-head-in-am-i-overreacting/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2016 23:20:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband doesn't tell me the whole truth. He claims it's because I get mad if he does. I don't accept that, and the lies are really getting to me. How do I handle his dishonesty?]]></description>
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		<title>SP: 6 ways to keep the romance alive in your relationship</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/sp-6-ways-to-keep-the-romance-alive-in-your-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://realitychick.com.au/sp-6-ways-to-keep-the-romance-alive-in-your-relationship/#respond</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2016 06:32:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post is kindly brought to you by eHarmony. Romance. Passion. We’re told over and over that it doesn’t last. Can’t last. That at best we’ll be staring into each other’s eyes and having mad crazy sex on the kitchen table until 18 months in – or 3 years, tops – and after that, the relationship will morph into something, well, different. Something cosy and comfortable and not as exciting. But here’s a fact: that’s not true AT ALL. Or least, it doesn’t have to be. A lot of couples out there who’ve been together decades – yes, decades – know how to maintain the romance. Those ‘in love’ feelings. The [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>I&#8217;m on BlogLovin&#8217;!</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/30063-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2016 04:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>QUICKIES: He&#8217;s grossed out by going down on me &#124; We broke up two years ago but I can&#8217;t get over her &#124; He&#8217;s gone cold on me and I don&#8217;t know why</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/quickies-hes-grossed-out-by-going-down-on-me-we-broke-up-two-years-ago-but-i-cant-get-over-her-hes-gone-cold-on-me-and-i-dont-know-why/</link>
		<comments>http://realitychick.com.au/quickies-hes-grossed-out-by-going-down-on-me-we-broke-up-two-years-ago-but-i-cant-get-over-her-hes-gone-cold-on-me-and-i-dont-know-why/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2016 12:06:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://realitychick.com.au/?p=30032</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[RC is asked questions on all topics. Sometimes, the letters sent in inspire an essay (or close). Other times, just a few lines will do &#8211; and all those letters are popped into a semi-regular section called quickies. It&#8217;s just how it sounds &#8211; a short, fast dose of RC advice. Don&#8217;t forget, if you need advice from RC or the Manswers team, drop us a line via the Question Box. He&#8217;s grossed out by going down on me I&#8217;m 23 and the man I&#8217;ve been seeing for about 8 months is 21. We&#8217;re expecting a baby in December and have had a definite attraction since day one. Our sex life is great [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>We have four kids but I can&#8217;t see myself growing old with him</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/we-have-four-kids-but-i-cant-see-myself-growing-old-with-him/</link>
		<comments>http://realitychick.com.au/we-have-four-kids-but-i-cant-see-myself-growing-old-with-him/#respond</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2016 22:07:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m trying to decide to stay or leave my marriage. We have 4 kids aged 17, 13, 3, and 1. We married 6 years ago, separated after the first 2 kids for 5 years. I then went back to him because it felt safe and comfortable after an emotional rollercoaster relationship with someone else. Here&#8217;s the thing: the attraction hasn&#8217;t been there for me this whole seven years. I see intimacy with him as a chore. I know that&#8217;s what I signed up for and its been fine until now, when we&#8217;re starting to disagree on parenting and it&#8217;s becoming clear we seem to want different things in our lives. He likes drinking and socialising and partying [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>SP: What would you ask your ex if you had the chance?</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/sp-what-would-you-ask-your-ex-if-you-had-the-chance/</link>
		<comments>http://realitychick.com.au/sp-what-would-you-ask-your-ex-if-you-had-the-chance/#respond</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 May 2016 22:36:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post is kindly brought to you by True North. Running this site and Letter To My Ex for so long, I know how wide the spectrum can be when it comes to keeping in touch with an ex. Maybe you feel if you never saw your ex again it would be too soon (that&#8217;s me), or perhaps you&#8217;re the type to let bygones be bygones, recognise you shared a lot with that person and like to stay in touch (and maybe even catch up and shoot the breeze over beers every few months). If you&#8217;re in the latter camp and live in the UK, a fascinating new reality show is seeking exes. To [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>UPDATE FROM LETTER-WRITER: &#8220;I love her, but should I move in with her?&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://realitychick.com.au/update-from-letter-writer-i-love-her-but-should-i-move-in-with-her/</link>
		<comments>http://realitychick.com.au/update-from-letter-writer-i-love-her-but-should-i-move-in-with-her/#respond</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 May 2016 03:36:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel at Reality Chick]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wrote to you in February with this question &#8211; it seems so long ago now. To update we stayed together until last weekend. The love and trust had died for us both. Now we’re going to try and be friends with no expectations that anything will happen between us. I’m choosing to be her friend because despite everything we did have a lot of good times and I value her better qualities. I’ve learned a great deal from being with her and thankfully most is positive. ThankYouRC Great to hear from you and I&#8217;m so glad you wrote back with your update. I&#8217;m sorry it didn&#8217;t work out, but given what you [&#8230;]]]></description>
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