<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="no"?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007</id><updated>2026-10-24T05:46:07.933-04:00</updated><category term="Thankful Thursday"/><category term="relationship"/><category term="Grandma Daisy"/><category term="Testimony"/><category term="Botswana"/><category term="God's will"/><category term="Pastor Forrest"/><category term="Reliance on God"/><category term="blessings"/><category term="darkness"/><category term="peace"/><category term="purpose"/><category term="suffering"/><category term="trust"/><category term="Beth Moore"/><category term="Desperation"/><category term="Direction"/><category term="Friendship"/><category term="Gifts"/><category term="Growth"/><category term="Mercy Me"/><category term="Missions"/><category term="Plans"/><category term="Restoration"/><category term="Thank you"/><category term="comfort"/><category term="deliverance"/><category term="discipline"/><category term="distress"/><category term="hope"/><category term="loss"/><category term="meaning"/><category term="quiet"/><category term="quiet time"/><category term="sin"/><category term="stillness"/><category term="time management"/><category term="update"/><category term="world. Godly life"/><category term="4 and 5"/><category term="Abba Father"/><category term="Advent  Intro"/><category term="Advent  weeks 3"/><category term="Almonte"/><category term="Application"/><category term="Basics"/><category term="Be still"/><category term="Bell Shoals"/><category term="Bible study"/><category term="Bride"/><category term="Bridegroom"/><category term="CAN'T"/><category term="Care"/><category term="Christ"/><category term="Christ's return"/><category term="Christmas"/><category term="Church body"/><category term="Clarity"/><category term="Cleaning"/><category term="Clutter"/><category term="Conform"/><category term="Conviction"/><category term="Crucify"/><category term="Date night"/><category term="Days 1 and 2"/><category term="Deadly sins"/><category term="Devotion"/><category term="Doctrine"/><category term="Duran Duran"/><category term="Dwelling place"/><category term="Easter"/><category term="Election"/><category term="Ellel"/><category term="Esther"/><category term="Forgiveness"/><category term="Good Friday"/><category term="Hard times"/><category term="Heartbreak"/><category term="Helping"/><category term="Hoyt"/><category term="Inspiration"/><category term="Instant gratification"/><category term="Judging others"/><category term="Kids"/><category term="Leading"/><category term="Majesty"/><category term="Martha"/><category term="Mary"/><category term="Mercy  Forgiveness"/><category term="Ministry"/><category term="Narda"/><category term="New Creation"/><category term="Observation"/><category term="Pride"/><category term="Pruning"/><category term="Relax"/><category term="Ruth"/><category term="Sadness"/><category term="Saving"/><category term="Serving"/><category term="Simeon Nix"/><category term="Sleepless"/><category term="Snakes"/><category term="Sorrow"/><category term="Spiritual Champion"/><category term="Temple"/><category term="Trials"/><category term="Used of God"/><category term="VBS"/><category term="Witness"/><category term="Worship"/><category term="ability"/><category term="acceptance"/><category term="adversity"/><category term="attack"/><category term="battle"/><category term="change"/><category term="conference"/><category term="correction"/><category term="dissension"/><category term="esteem"/><category term="forget"/><category term="forgive"/><category term="gluttony"/><category term="goals"/><category term="husbands"/><category term="leaders"/><category term="life"/><category term="minor details"/><category term="mountain top"/><category term="nurture"/><category term="prayer"/><category term="questions"/><category term="rambiling"/><category term="redemption"/><category term="roles"/><category term="strength"/><category term="sufficiency"/><category term="testimoney"/><category term="testing"/><category term="thankful"/><category term="thorn"/><category term="today"/><category term="tomorrow"/><category term="unity"/><category term="value"/><category term="wedding"/><title type="text">REFINED BY HIM</title><subtitle type="html">God's glorious grace and majesty never cease to amaze me!! Check out how He is working in my life and my observations of His work around me!</subtitle><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default?redirect=false" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/" rel="alternate" type="text/html"/><link href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" rel="hub"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false" rel="next" type="application/atom+xml"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><generator uri="http://www.blogger.com" version="7.00">Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>156</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><xhtml:meta content="noindex" name="robots" xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"/><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-3346062672331304449</id><published>2011-03-17T23:11:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-03-17T23:52:29.842-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Desperation"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Heartbreak"/><title type="text">A Little Salve for the Broken Hearted</title><summary type="text">
Not only so, but we&amp;nbsp;also glory (or rejoice) in our sufferings,&amp;nbsp;because we know that suffering produces perseverance;&amp;nbsp;perseverance, character; and character, hope.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;And hope does not put us to shame (disappoint us),&amp;nbsp;because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts&amp;nbsp;through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.Romans 5:3-5 (NIV, emphasis mine)

I am </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/3346062672331304449/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/3346062672331304449" rel="replies" title="1 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/3346062672331304449" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/3346062672331304449" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2011/03/little-salve-for-broken-hearted.html" rel="alternate" title="A Little Salve for the Broken Hearted" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBl0th2CuOoylVxsaoQQTmWIkypuTSjnVEef-7P5Tetpdm08mj98j3WL2V_HGB15m9khp24yuYWM9RGlfnjgddiqXyHjrPsNP2w2S8dHsuBjeUHnH_imbAHxzeWP5nTc6yJMZ7Qek4JSo/s72-c/broken_heart-1503.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-4103083003156409004</id><published>2011-03-12T23:03:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2011-03-13T00:00:25.224-05:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Observation"/><title type="text">Corner Evangelist</title><summary type="text">

Driving back from a birthday party with my little fella today, I decided to go out onto the busy roadway to make a stop at the local Target. Mind you, this was not my normal route and I routinely avoid this busy road at all costs. But, there at the corner of Insanely Crazy Blvd and What Was I Thinking Road, there was a man standing on the corner in a white dress shirt, tie and dress pants all </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/4103083003156409004/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/4103083003156409004" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/4103083003156409004" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/4103083003156409004" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2011/03/conner-evangelist.html" rel="alternate" title="Corner Evangelist" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-6651071649277450857</id><published>2010-06-02T10:55:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-02T11:13:30.278-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Botswana"/><title type="text">He met me!</title><summary type="text">I did not have access to the Internet while I was gone so I took the old fashioned pen and paper route to capture my thoughts.  Now that I am home all of 24 hours, I have just begun to process all that happened; all that I was a part of; and everywhere we went. What speaks to me is that I hope that I ministered to those wonderful people as much as they ministered to me. God met me in the middle </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/6651071649277450857/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/6651071649277450857" rel="replies" title="1 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/6651071649277450857" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/6651071649277450857" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2010/06/he-met-me.html" rel="alternate" title="He met me!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-241343217568628103</id><published>2010-05-22T16:12:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-22T16:34:49.233-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Botswana"/><title type="text">Lucky Bags!!!</title><summary type="text">I can't believe it's already Saturday night here in Gaborone. It feels like I just left home in so many ways, yet feels like forever. In reality, it seems like one long day since I really didn't sleep much on the plane. Haven't done anything "mission-like" yet -- just traveling. The cultures are different and it is really odd to see so many passport control areas and customs officials just </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/241343217568628103/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/241343217568628103" rel="replies" title="1 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/241343217568628103" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/241343217568628103" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2010/05/lucky-bags.html" rel="alternate" title="Lucky Bags!!!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-3083280072307726330</id><published>2010-05-14T05:16:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-14T05:32:48.895-04:00</updated><title type="text">Never Fails!</title><summary type="text">
Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning: great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, "The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him." Lamentations 3:22-24 (NIV)
Dealing with a lot of outside stressors right now that involve innocent children. It appears that many folks, including those in my very own extended </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/3083280072307726330/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/3083280072307726330" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/3083280072307726330" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/3083280072307726330" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2010/05/never-fails.html" rel="alternate" title="Never Fails!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-6202833853225060925</id><published>2010-05-01T09:53:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-01T10:19:27.896-04:00</updated><title type="text">Be Amazed!</title><summary type="text">Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. "You of little faith," he said, "why did you doubt?"  Matthew 14:31 (NIV)
To date, I have been pushed, pulled, flattened, fried, smashed, you name it into a mixed bag of emotions. My hopes have been dashed by legal wranglings and dead ends. I have come to the end of my rope trying to do for others and "help" in my own way. I am by nature a </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/6202833853225060925/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/6202833853225060925" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/6202833853225060925" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/6202833853225060925" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2010/05/be-amazed.html" rel="alternate" title="Be Amazed!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-5088432922781435429</id><published>2010-04-21T19:07:00.010-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-22T08:56:06.895-04:00</updated><title type="text">Suit up!!</title><summary type="text">



Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/5088432922781435429/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/5088432922781435429" rel="replies" title="1 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/5088432922781435429" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/5088432922781435429" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2010/04/suit-up.html" rel="alternate" title="Suit up!!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjg3xALl6zWu00z-ZIW4xshH43oiaAZlvnyKgPLPYv-a7Y6cXe0XKdEw6MrS6GRKM_e07s_gLE-b41pUbysBzwdayvZLsAF3FHlTqZFhnZs5qm2lkEsT2D65lucJehCL8cVF_mgbo-dyg/s72-c/armor.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-4602332037719893009</id><published>2010-04-19T23:32:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-20T00:27:26.011-04:00</updated><title type="text">The House always wins!</title><summary type="text">                                              

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. you will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. "Jeremiah 29: 11-13 (NIV)
Right now I feel like one of those little </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/4602332037719893009/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/4602332037719893009" rel="replies" title="1 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/4602332037719893009" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/4602332037719893009" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2010/04/house-always-wins.html" rel="alternate" title="The House always wins!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-148284123497129841</id><published>2010-03-21T02:28:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-21T03:15:45.518-04:00</updated><title type="text">Roar Away!</title><summary type="text">

"Simon, Simon, (Paula, Paula or insert your name) Satan has asked to sift you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, Simon,(Paula) that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthen your brothers." Luke 22:31-32 (NIV) parenthesis mine
What a week my family has had. Ironically, this passage of scripture came up in my Bible study on Wednesday of this past week and I earmarked </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/148284123497129841/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/148284123497129841" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/148284123497129841" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/148284123497129841" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2010/03/roar-away.html" rel="alternate" title="Roar Away!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-5741565285910701765</id><published>2010-02-25T12:46:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-25T14:55:23.788-05:00</updated><title type="text">Time-- A vastly wasted commodity</title><summary type="text">



Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Hebrews 12:1 (NIV)
Where has the time gone??? I think I ask myself that question almost daily -- when I am running errands; when I am talking with a friend; when I look and see that my</summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/5741565285910701765/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/5741565285910701765" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/5741565285910701765" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/5741565285910701765" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2010/02/time-vastly-wasted-commodity.html" rel="alternate" title="Time-- A vastly wasted commodity" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-5594640278062055487</id><published>2010-02-04T09:43:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-04T10:25:17.446-05:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Botswana"/><title type="text">Stepping out -- WAY out!</title><summary type="text">
Also I heard the voice of the Lord, saying, 
Whom shall I send, and who will go for us? 
Then said I, Here am I; send me. 
Isaiah 6:8 (NIV)



I am about to embark on a calling that is WAAAYYYYY outside my comfort zone and it all began about 2 years ago. During that time of our life, Hubby's job was full of uncertainty and we cringed with each phone call from his boss, thinking is surely the </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/5594640278062055487/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/5594640278062055487" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/5594640278062055487" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/5594640278062055487" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2010/02/stepping-out-way-out.html" rel="alternate" title="Stepping out -- WAY out!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_NOeJo_Ka2Zm3XH_dR7L6_OWmzpOxf3964HRIvBH14hqB_nRUy-0v3M7u8VCK4E0Xe-kpeBCbfEATtGmKkdvvDN30BbnXmZGs6hVvTllV4jf90LR3pNVU7bxcF8GUho-hVCXUHmUHXw/s72-c/botswana+map.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-9002678483183756012</id><published>2010-01-21T16:54:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-21T17:47:19.605-05:00</updated><title type="text">Hi, my Name is Paula and I am a List-aholic!</title><summary type="text">


Do not boast about tomorrow,
       for you do not know what a day may bring forth. 
Proverbs 27:1 (NIV)


I am a perpetual list-maker.  I have lists for lists and sub-lists within those lists!! It really has become a sickness. As a matter of fact, I need to write down "update Blog" on my list just so I can mark it off. I really am that compulsive about my list making. As I peruse my many </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/9002678483183756012/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/9002678483183756012" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/9002678483183756012" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/9002678483183756012" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2010/01/hi-my-name-is-paula-and-i-am-list.html" rel="alternate" title="Hi, my Name is Paula and I am a List-aholic!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyCcbGLn-NbxFYjJgdVdB2ljL50uZGFev4H6AnVNJo2HQvIccstwdWjhtpb9RKUEOH0Cko-XlMmmwWTSQCzpr85Xf8lSLkU3g6xubDMon-uwiKigUyK4Nw_pNEkMKL4leSq4A74NWA3w/s72-c/todo+list+image.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-159583098463430162</id><published>2009-11-12T08:33:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-12T09:20:03.311-05:00</updated><title type="text">Lessons from the Laundry</title><summary type="text">




Look at the birds of the air; 
they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, 
and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. 
Are you not much more valuable than they?  
Matthew 6:26 (NIV)


Doing the laundry at my house is always an adventure for me. Having a precocious 6 year and a  forgetful hubby around proves to be profitable at times but also a little perplexing. Checking the pockets for </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/159583098463430162/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/159583098463430162" rel="replies" title="1 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/159583098463430162" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/159583098463430162" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/11/lessons-from-laundry.html" rel="alternate" title="Lessons from the Laundry" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXNpavTJg8IVlJL6Q-87hPBvBPULtetikFtub6qJPHiqqyNnQdHp_ZGhyphenhyphenTuqmDLhIcX-iN6N1lOHkJLoMmDQgHXHtLyy3Eksc5TebPnyBFWePltuE8FVX0_1-_L9QDB0fLLHefQF6uZw/s72-c/dirty-laundry1.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-5275543630264492160</id><published>2009-11-02T02:22:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T09:15:00.631-05:00</updated><title type="text">Proud Momma!</title><summary type="text">At that time Jesus said, "I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to little children.
Matthew 11:25 (NIV)

I had the honor of taking my son out for Halloween this year. We don't do the "normal" door-to-door type of collection, we typically go to the mall for a mosquito-free and climate-controlled experience.</summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/5275543630264492160/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/5275543630264492160" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/5275543630264492160" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/5275543630264492160" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/11/proud-momma.html" rel="alternate" title="Proud Momma!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-2558027483877133046</id><published>2009-10-23T00:09:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-23T00:10:37.786-04:00</updated><title type="text">Post in progress</title><summary type="text">I haven't abandoned my blog (AGAIN!). I have been busy working on some other writing projects. I will be posting some new stuff shortly!</summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/2558027483877133046/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/2558027483877133046" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/2558027483877133046" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/2558027483877133046" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/10/post-in-progress.html" rel="alternate" title="Post in progress" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-4392618396906634205</id><published>2009-10-14T04:18:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T08:53:57.397-04:00</updated><title type="text">Mixing peas and carrots</title><summary type="text"> So do not fear, for I am with you; 
       do not be dismayed, for I am your God. 
       I will strengthen you and help you; 
       I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. 
Isaiah 41:10 (NIV)


I must admit that I am a bit of a quirky individual. The vastness of my nuances can't be that different than anyone else - can they?? Unbeknowst to me up until hubby pointed it out a couple of </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/4392618396906634205/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/4392618396906634205" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/4392618396906634205" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/4392618396906634205" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/10/mixing-peas-and-carrots.html" rel="alternate" title="Mixing peas and carrots" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-50919007081330041</id><published>2009-10-09T16:05:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-09T17:57:02.901-04:00</updated><title type="text">Reluctant  Cleaning...</title><summary type="text">let us throw off everything that hinders
and the sin that so easily entangles 
Hebrews 12:1b (NIV)

Last month I set the goal for myself to clean out our spare bedroom and then move onto my son's room and have it completed by the end of Oct. At the time, my goal seemed very doable and not all out of the realm of possibility. I also made this goal when I was already neck deep in other </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/50919007081330041/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/50919007081330041" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/50919007081330041" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/50919007081330041" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/10/relunctant-cleaning.html" rel="alternate" title="Reluctant  Cleaning..." type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-5484910065266768487</id><published>2009-09-30T15:56:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-30T16:40:33.210-04:00</updated><title type="text">How I got my name</title><summary type="text">For you, O God, tested us;  
you refined us like silver. 
Psalm 66:10 (NIV)

I was pondering the title of my blog the other day and trying to determine the exact weight it bears on my own life. To be honest, when I initially chose the title -- it was because it was pretty much all that was available on blogspot.com. I tried "refined by fire," "God's girl, " "blessed by God" and the like. I </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/5484910065266768487/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/5484910065266768487" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/5484910065266768487" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/5484910065266768487" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/09/how-i-got-my-name.html" rel="alternate" title="How I got my name" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-7365586696419116534</id><published>2009-09-29T18:22:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-29T19:05:00.249-04:00</updated><title type="text">Darkness envelopes - a personal struggle</title><summary type="text">And this is love: that we walk in
 obedience to his commands.
 2John 1:6 (NIV)

I took a little break from blogging. For that matter,  I took a significant break from writing and any type of mental and to an extent spiritual exercise. It really boils down to a defiant (although passive) stance that I chose to take over the last couple of months.  I must go back to explain my current stance and </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/7365586696419116534/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/7365586696419116534" rel="replies" title="1 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/7365586696419116534" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/7365586696419116534" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/09/darkness-envelopes-personal-struggle.html" rel="alternate" title="Darkness envelopes - a personal struggle" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-2033610474277263896</id><published>2009-07-10T06:24:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-10T06:39:25.407-04:00</updated><title type="text">Mood blaster...</title><summary type="text">This is the day
the LORD has made; 
let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Psalm 118:24 (NIV)

This morning I am beside myself with emotion... unwarranted and unexplained emotion. It teeters from downright sadness to fear to anger... All unprovoked and definitely not understood. I did not sleep well last night and was awake off and on throughout the night. Again, for no discernible reason.

Not sure </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/2033610474277263896/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/2033610474277263896" rel="replies" title="1 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/2033610474277263896" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/2033610474277263896" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/07/mood-blaster.html" rel="alternate" title="Mood blaster..." type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-7275774164349275561</id><published>2009-06-29T22:57:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-29T23:40:09.326-04:00</updated><title type="text">Practice what is preached...</title><summary type="text">



Haven't blogged in awhile...it's been an unintentional break I guess you could say. My last post was about taking time to play in the rain...which I also took to heart and took more time to do more than just play in the rain.. I've been taking time to enjoy the basics of life and what God has gifted to me.

In the month of May, I had high aspirations for writing and really devoting myself to </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/7275774164349275561/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/7275774164349275561" rel="replies" title="1 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/7275774164349275561" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/7275774164349275561" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/06/practice-what-is-preached.html" rel="alternate" title="Practice what is preached..." type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJObX2cqyVJFRdFhtjN4hhozoMi3IkCeQFabQQOqmIwTqNjEOsp2wAEUNTULxL7KxxfqTeSZlE2KO6FpVfuTPK9ZD2UYZ09rN-iwytLYBo_KaHPNS-en32chK9bcz03Km38klwonCqZQ/s72-c/DancingFamily2.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-7240751678849919052</id><published>2009-05-28T06:08:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-28T09:26:25.820-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="blessings"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="time management"/><title type="text">Take time to Play in the Rain</title><summary type="text">


A couple of days ago, Little Man and I had the opportunity to visit a local amusement park. We went in the afternoon in hopes of seeing the night parade.  We were prepared....had a plan...even added an umbrella and rain slicker to our bag of goodies "just in case."

Thirty minutes after our arrival at said park -- the proverbial bottom dropped out of the sky. I am not talking just a drizzle </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/7240751678849919052/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/7240751678849919052" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/7240751678849919052" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/7240751678849919052" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/05/take-time-to-play-in-rain.html" rel="alternate" title="Take time to Play in the Rain" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifup1wmlUGKtP-E8sSHLJEvo-o5pceHispNp3N8gIlDTB4hHyLUw5jSutga-PZlO5K3oLJMfDOfGJON07uajpUvDOJ_JKdS0ev6-j8CudVrPTYgtzuqKgHJaw10vP5wROlpeW1PPGg1w/s72-c/rain.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-2468612126126031488</id><published>2009-05-15T02:50:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-15T03:36:56.223-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Application"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><title type="text">He's at it again....</title><summary type="text">
"There is a time for everything,  
and a season for every activity
 under heaven:...."
Eccl 3:1 (NIV)



"Ping-Ping-Splat", "Ping-Ping-Splat" -- It's Florida in mid-July -- no wait --it's only mid-May, (I digress)... Anyway, it's HOT with a capital H!! -- It hasn't rained in ages, our grass is brown like desert sand (wait -- has it turned to actual sand??), our plants have shriveled to "</summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/2468612126126031488/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/2468612126126031488" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/2468612126126031488" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/2468612126126031488" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/05/hes-at-it-again.html" rel="alternate" title="He's at it again...." type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" height="72" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbRhkkgvfeuI9XBvj9YeDnvguRg7-PTDRmnqmWfg0wRjqjKwi5dhZAFB5w2nXupDQknK0OP6sq207nJBKlxdtYKgS7UUYsv1JaIroQqMKeca2bjQDG28PhxoXShIfy2Hfc493RNbQdpw/s72-c/love-bugs.jpg" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-4140044730976489198</id><published>2009-05-04T23:25:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-04T23:50:24.193-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="loss"/><title type="text">Chipping away....</title><summary type="text">The past couple of weeks has been a virtual roller coaster ride for my family. I must say that I am one with a proclivity towards motion sickness so the ride has been none too friendly for my tastes. Well, last week we finally reached the station with a direction and clear path.  After being rocked by the actual ride, the destination nearly did me in. It may have been from the exhaustion of "not </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/4140044730976489198/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/4140044730976489198" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/4140044730976489198" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/4140044730976489198" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/05/chipping-away.html" rel="alternate" title="Chipping away...." type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1851254564114099007.post-2125874303119800727</id><published>2009-05-01T02:23:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-03-12T22:56:50.886-05:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="loss"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Sorrow"/><title type="text">God said NO!</title><summary type="text">God said "no"
Now I want to hide
Instead upon His knee I climb

God said "no"
I begin to cry
Yet He still doesn't tell me why

God said "no"
I'm too tired to fight
But now His arms hold me tight

God said "no"
I don't understand
"Be patient child - I've got a plan"

God said "no"
Still I weep
"Promises still do I keep"

God said "no"
Why oh Why??
"Oh my child - not this time"

God said "no"
I </summary><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/feeds/2125874303119800727/comments/default" rel="replies" title="Post Comments" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/1851254564114099007/2125874303119800727" rel="replies" title="0 Comments" type="text/html"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/2125874303119800727" rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1851254564114099007/posts/default/2125874303119800727" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml"/><link href="http://refinedbyhim.blogspot.com/2009/05/god-said-no.html" rel="alternate" title="God said NO!" type="text/html"/><author><name>Paula</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03399234388183477706</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image height="32" rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" src="//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizI7j2yKJX3x6ujCiLe9V2M2o-PVQV8GwLNxOkY5LW2rRRzNOep87A4PQtCPNlRZdJDEgblIS1QJq3YzRWFO2iuR7Ajf3zUfNAWYblwMce6gSCpndL61SvHVGwokFa/s150/_MG_1147.jpg" width="32"/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>