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The blank page a canvas for thoughts and inspiration, ready to pour out from within." Eric S.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Zorlone – “&lt;a href="http://zorlone.blogspot.com/2009/07/just-another-bus-commute.html"&gt;Just another bus commute&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;"...That chance may never come again..but then... I'm sure somewhere down the road, you'll finally meet your princess." - JenaIsle&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;Fiction  / Prose / Memoir&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;strong&gt;Roy – “&lt;a href="http://shortstoriesblog.com/2009/07/08/the-short-story-blogger/"&gt;The Short Story Blogger&lt;/a&gt;” &lt;em&gt;- &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;A blogger... his life... his stories...&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:x-small;"&gt;(WOOF participants should re-post all the links above by next Monday. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Presenting the finest of the writer’s blogs by the bloggers who write them. Highlighting the top posts as chosen by the July 10, 2009 WOOF Contest participants. Want in to join the next WOOF? The next contest ends July 17. Submit a link to your best writing post of the last 3 weeks using the form on &lt;a href="http://plotdog.com/woof-contest/plotdog-press-woof-contest/"&gt;this page&lt;/a&gt;. Participants, repost the winning link list within a week and you’re all set.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Other WOOF Contestants for 07/10/09&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;Fiction  / Prose / Memoir&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;strong&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://supernovasplash.com/2009/07/07/cinnamon-french-toast/"&gt;Cinnamon French Toast&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;How making french toast spawns a memory or two.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;strong&gt;Webbielady – “&lt;a href="http://tales-details.blogspot.com/2009/06/fish-is-caught-from-its-mouth.html"&gt;The Fish Is Caught From Its Mouth&lt;/a&gt;” &lt;em&gt;- &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Indeed, the fish is baited in the mouth, thus, to keep quiet sometimes gives us safety.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;strong&gt;Roy – “&lt;a href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/06/he-is-still-same-son-after-all.html"&gt;He is still the same son after all...”&lt;/a&gt; - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Rediscovering my long lost relationship with my son...&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;Poetry&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;strong&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://dreamsofchampagne.info/2009/07/09/haiku-series-19/"&gt;Haiku Series 19&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;A series of haikus based on a variety of subjects.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;strong&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://beforeiamfamous.com/2009/07/07/waterlily/"&gt;Waterlily&lt;/a&gt;”&lt;/strong&gt; - &lt;em&gt;A surreal poem and it includes another picture drawn by me.&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-6834578842886942236?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~4/zRGoy0fftjA" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/feeds/3672372567032925679/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8395899&amp;postID=3672372567032925679" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/3672372567032925679?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/3672372567032925679?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~3/zRGoy0fftjA/to-take-care-of-my-sight.html" title="To take care of my sight" /><author><name>Roy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="02103925317550355481" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/07/to-take-care-of-my-sight.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DUMFRX8zeip7ImA9WxJVGU8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395899.post-2750180768100268015</id><published>2009-07-05T20:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-06T17:43:34.182-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-07-06T17:43:34.182-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="tatay" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="building bridges" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="hospital" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="father" /><title>So I am not allowed to celebrate</title><content type="html">After a long delay, finally we can go out and celebrate Father's Day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the &lt;a href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/06/some-fathers-day.html" target="_blank"&gt;day of the occasion&lt;/a&gt; itself, my youngest and middle children were sick... fine, we can celebrate after a week...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Following weekend, &lt;a href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/06/why.html" target="_blank"&gt;my oldest son was sick&lt;/a&gt;... okay, fine there's always next week. Granted it was a &lt;a href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/06/he-is-still-same-son-after-all.html" target="_blank"&gt;rediscovery for both of us&lt;/a&gt;, he was still sick.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally yesterday, to celebrate the weekend that nobody was sick - the long delayed Father's Day celebration was finally pushed through... or so, I thought.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While we were at the movies, I received a text from my sister, my father was admitted to the hospital because of pneumonia.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Swell! Celebration cut short and we rushed to the hospital.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, I don't really claim to be so close to my father. The fact is, I was not... never have been. But being older now, and a father myself, I am slowly... albeit awkwardly, trying to build a relationship between us two.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He is my father after all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And while we're in the hospital, I was thinking... "what kind of cosmic forces are plotting against me?! Now, that my kids are safe, and I didn't get sick, it has go outside, yet still within the family."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Coincidences?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The problem now, is while I would want to keep watch over my father, I can't. I have to attend to my kids who would be attending school... and I have to work, to keep sending them to school.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My father is already old... these past few days, my mother always tell me that he is already saying a lot of nonsense - a sign of senility, to say the least, and he is not really in the peak of health, and he moves slower now... much slower.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now that he's in the hospital... I'm seeing flashes of images... nightmares... I hope the worst won't happen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The gap hasn't been patched yet... the bridge is being built...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope he gets through it.... I hope he gets well...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-2750180768100268015?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~4/6kNvSQ7b3aU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/feeds/2750180768100268015/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8395899&amp;postID=2750180768100268015" title="3 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/2750180768100268015?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/2750180768100268015?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~3/6kNvSQ7b3aU/so-i-am-not-allowed-to-celebrate.html" title="So I am not allowed to celebrate" /><author><name>Roy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="02103925317550355481" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">3</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/07/so-i-am-not-allowed-to-celebrate.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0MMRH0zfyp7ImA9WxJVE0s.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395899.post-7914059829018803325</id><published>2009-06-28T08:01:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-30T06:44:45.387-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-06-30T06:44:45.387-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="ralph" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="quality time" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="bonding" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="memories" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="roy" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="young ralph" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="father and son" /><title>He is still the same son after all</title><content type="html">I was really &lt;a href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/06/why.html" target="_blank"&gt;depressed, frustrated and feeling low&lt;/a&gt;. What happened last year was repeated – three kids getting sick one after the other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Angel and Edgar were already well and finally went to school.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ralph’s fever just started last Friday.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of my three kids, Ralph, who is the eldest, is the one that I don’t want to get sick, because he is the one who has the lowest threshold on pain.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;True enough, he was always whining, almost crying at the slightest hint of pain in his body.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don’t know if it has anything to do with being a firstborn child. We were always there for him, and wouldn’t let anything harm him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because he was the only one then, we can look after him better. That’s why he rarely gets sick when he was still young.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But he got sick… and was always crying. I couldn’t even leave him for a while – so I stopped writing, left the computer and just sat beside him on the bed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To entertain him and let his mind off the pain (imagined or true), he is feeling, I talked to him. I asked if he still recall what we used to do when he was still small….&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We used to walk around the neighborhood without any particular direction, he was barely four or five years old then.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every afternoon, we would go out, walk around. Sometimes, we would fly kite in the vacant lot just a block away from our house…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We used to go swimming then too, all three of us – Ralph, my wife and me. We wouldn’t even wait for any occasion to go, anytime we decide, we pack and call on the tricycle at the corner to take us to the resort…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He was smiling… he remembered…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He remembered too, as he told me, the things he did when he was small – how he got burned by the flat iron because he touched it out of curiosity, the same curiosity that pushed him to touched those grills at the back of the refrigerator, and how I found him once stuck on the freezer because he tried to lick the ice at the sides.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We were laughing… it was a very rare chit-chat that has become a luxury for us two – Ralph and I.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lately I have been trying to push him to grow up, making him responsible… because I need him to be. He is after all the eldest of the three.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He is not really the rebellious type, but in his own little ways he does… by going home late without even texting me… and teasing Angel even though he knows it irritates me no end.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe those weren’t intentional, maybe it was just me…. whatever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The closeness that we used to have when he was still small wasn’t there anymore… as if we were alienated from each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But because he was sick, I had to talk to him gently… lowered my voice, so as to calm him and his pain…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And because he was sick, he too had to stay put, listened to me, and at the same time talk in a gentler voice too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our conversation was nice… one that didn’t happen for a long time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I was surprised, because he put his head on my lap – imagine a 16 year old boy, sleeping with his head on his father’s lap… and he slept good… he was calm… and I realized, it was something that I miss…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I too was able to fall asleep while seated, because I can’t move lest I’ll be waking him up. So I just stayed there and savored the moment that my son and I were close to each other once more…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That was when I realized that, he is still the same son that I used to have more than 10 years ago.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_t4ckIywnd_o/SkeHGwey9cI/AAAAAAAAARc/s8C-k4yxp7A/s1600-h/PICT0084.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 312px; height: 416px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_t4ckIywnd_o/SkeHGwey9cI/AAAAAAAAARc/s8C-k4yxp7A/s320/PICT0084.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5352395232316159426" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-7914059829018803325?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~4/tCJBQBcDbwM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/feeds/984627910065511029/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8395899&amp;postID=984627910065511029" title="1 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/984627910065511029?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/984627910065511029?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~3/tCJBQBcDbwM/why.html" title="Why?" /><author><name>Roy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="02103925317550355481" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/06/why.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CEIDRHg_eCp7ImA9WxJWFUg.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395899.post-3039665617810726117</id><published>2009-06-20T19:43:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-20T19:49:35.640-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-06-20T19:49:35.640-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="fever" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="frustrations" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="angel" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="rants" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="father's day" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="edgar" /><title>Some father's day!</title><content type="html">Yes indeed! Some father's day it turn out to be!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As if my son's swollen lips wasn't enough, my baby has to catch fever!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She was already fine last night, after giving her medicine, buying her comfort food (her favorites, especially when she's sick). She was feeling well when we slept yesterday.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But today, we woke up again with her feeling hot. Her temperature reads 40! She looks worst! She have already taken her medicine, and her last temperature reading was 39.5, and she said she feels better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some father I'm turning out to be!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My son's lower lips isn't getting any better either.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The disadvantage of not having a mother. Unfortunately, it has to happen to my children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some father's day indeed!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-3039665617810726117?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~4/xEy93c8iD4c" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/feeds/1614662193953663791/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8395899&amp;postID=1614662193953663791" title="8 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/1614662193953663791?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/1614662193953663791?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~3/xEy93c8iD4c/she-wants-to-be-free.html" title="She wants to be free" /><author><name>Roy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="02103925317550355481" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_t4ckIywnd_o/SjEoh_KGouI/AAAAAAAAARU/_oGg0jIIyf4/s72-c/angel2.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">8</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/06/she-wants-to-be-free.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;D0AERnY4fyp7ImA9WxJXFk0.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395899.post-1280722036528433223</id><published>2009-06-09T20:12:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-09T20:48:27.837-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-06-09T20:48:27.837-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="solo" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="angel" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="independent" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="anxiety" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="liberty" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="letting go" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="freedom" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="alone" /><title>A father's dilemma</title><content type="html">This is just another one of those exaggerated anxieties.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This time, it was brought to me by &lt;a href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/01/only-woman-in-my-life.html" target="_blank"&gt;my Angel&lt;/a&gt;... yes, my little darling caused me anxiety this morning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No, she didn't do anything. She just asked a question... a simple, innocent question...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Dad, when can I go to school by myself?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_t4ckIywnd_o/Si8s5BuTOYI/AAAAAAAAARM/EiIOzE62yoc/s1600-h/PICT0028.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_t4ckIywnd_o/Si8s5BuTOYI/AAAAAAAAARM/EiIOzE62yoc/s320/PICT0028.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5345540640938867074" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was surprised, caught off-guard so to speak. My baby wants to go to school alone. She asked this while we were on a public jeepney on the way to her school.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Everyday, I take her to school in morning and I come back in the afternoon to pick her up. This is our daily routine. I am self-employed (read: jobless), so I have all the time in the world. Quite frankly, I am enjoying it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I thought my baby was enjoying it too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She said she just want to experience being solo (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;is this her way of telling me to move back?&lt;/span&gt;), she asked me to allow her even for a day, just for the experience (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I know how freedom feels, I know she'll want more of it&lt;/span&gt;).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Reminds me of the anxiety I felt when &lt;a href="http://beinspired.168center.com/2008/11/15/letting-go/" target="_blank"&gt;my son was going on his first field trip&lt;/a&gt;... &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;unimaginable!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, it's Angel's turn to seek her independence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;But she's only 11 years old!&lt;/span&gt; So young... so small... so fragile...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately (for me), her request was not without basis.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One - her best friend lives near our house, and they can go home together, so she won't be necessarily travelling alone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Two - with the installation of traffic lights near her school makes crossing the street not as dangerous as it was before.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Three - on her way home, she won't even have to cross the street!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I now imagined myself going out of the house, looking at the street waiting for her to appear within my view every 4:30 in the afternoon... and not until I get a glimpse of her will I be able to feel relax.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://beinspired.168center.com/2008/08/21/she-left-me-an-angel/" target="_blank"&gt;I promised my wife I will take care of our baby&lt;/a&gt;. That's why I see myself looking after her as long as I can, even watching her in school 'til she reached high school (maybe even college)... she's my only baby.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, this early, she is telling me to "back off" in the most subtle way... is she ready to be independent?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Am I ready to let her be independent?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know, I'm over-reacting.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-1280722036528433223?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~4/PiHbAVfDloQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/feeds/1300218072312309043/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8395899&amp;postID=1300218072312309043" title="3 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/1300218072312309043?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/1300218072312309043?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~3/PiHbAVfDloQ/writers-block.html" title="Writer's block" /><author><name>Roy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="02103925317550355481" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">3</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/06/writers-block.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0ADRn8-eSp7ImA9WxJQFkk.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395899.post-6873407997447255351</id><published>2009-05-29T19:13:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-29T19:16:17.151-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-05-29T19:16:17.151-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="missing you" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="poem" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="poetry friday" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="i miss mama" /><title>emptiness</title><content type="html">I long&lt;br /&gt;for your smile&lt;br /&gt;for your kiss&lt;br /&gt;for your touch&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;no more&lt;br /&gt;shall I hear&lt;br /&gt;shall I see&lt;br /&gt;shall I feel&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;memories&lt;br /&gt;are all there is&lt;br /&gt;are all I have&lt;br /&gt;are all I need&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I miss you… I really do&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-------------------------------&lt;br /&gt;Roy&lt;br /&gt;May 29, 2009&lt;br /&gt;7:52 PM&lt;br /&gt;Angeles City&lt;br /&gt;Philippines&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-6873407997447255351?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~4/96KM7bOj7Po" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/feeds/6873407997447255351/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8395899&amp;postID=6873407997447255351" title="10 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/6873407997447255351?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/6873407997447255351?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~3/96KM7bOj7Po/emptiness.html" title="emptiness" /><author><name>Roy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="02103925317550355481" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">10</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/05/emptiness.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;C0QARHs_fSp7ImA9WxJQEko.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395899.post-2843807712258396606</id><published>2009-05-23T07:39:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-25T10:09:05.545-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-05-25T10:09:05.545-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="reflection" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="apprehension" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="roy" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="influential blogger" /><title>Do I really want to be influential?</title><content type="html">I'm at a crosscroad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After years of blogging, it seems that I am really about to accomplish something out of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do I really want it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Admittedly, just being included in such a list brings me into a state of euphoria. And I haven't even won yet!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This 'influential blogger' thing is really getting into my system. I want it. I know I do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But part of me says, "Are you ready?" Then there's the more familiar side which says, "There you go again expecting. Do you really think you can win?!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This thing won't be handed down to me on a silver platter. No, it won't. It requires efforts. Lots of work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And that, I'm founding out early on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Already, it has taken a lot from me. I'm so focus in the contest that I tend to drift from my online work which I need badly. And I have never been so conscious of my posts! "Will this be a hit?", "Will they comment on this one?", "Will it earn me another nomination?". "Is this clever enough to solicit a nod?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I'm not even talking about the grammar yet!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe it's just me. Maybe I'm really taking this thing too seriously.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's how bad I want this thing. The 'only' thing that can give me an affirmation that I have existed in this chosen endeavor that I'm in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Am I ready?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-2843807712258396606?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~4/yXNHuBgKDwM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/feeds/2843807712258396606/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8395899&amp;postID=2843807712258396606" title="10 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/2843807712258396606?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/2843807712258396606?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~3/yXNHuBgKDwM/do-i-really-want-to-be-influential.html" title="Do I really want to be influential?" /><author><name>Roy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="02103925317550355481" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">10</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/05/do-i-really-want-to-be-influential.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;Ak8CRX44cSp7ImA9WxJRFkQ.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395899.post-4765172324859729</id><published>2009-05-18T18:47:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-18T19:07:44.039-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-05-18T19:07:44.039-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="mother's day" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="poetry" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="poems" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="WOOF Contest" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="winners" /><title>My poem for my wife made the grade</title><content type="html">The WOOF Contest winners for the week-ending May 15 has been picked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The poem I wrote for my wife was lucky enough to pass the peer's standards.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's the complete list.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://plotdog.com/woof-contest/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;WOOF Contest – Top  Picks&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;Poetry&lt;/u&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Webbielady – “&lt;a href="http://tales-details.blogspot.com/2009/05/beautiful-poem-unique-poem-religious.html"&gt;If I Am God...&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;What if I'm given the seat as the God of this universe just for a few hours or a day or a couple of days? A crazy though, a weird poem came out of it...&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jena Isle – “&lt;a href="http://gewgawwritings.blogspot.com/2009/05/poems-of-adieu-and-hello.html"&gt;Poems of Adieu and Hello&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;What would be more indelible in one's memory, is it saying adieu or hello?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Albert Ashok – “&lt;a href="http://typhonz.wordpress.com/2009/04/20/concerning-my-land/"&gt;Concerning my land&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Concerning my land- is a concern for my country and the well-being of all concerned with my country.&lt;/em&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dragon Blogger – “&lt;a href="http://www.wandererthoughts.com/a-mothers-love-poem-by-dragon-blogger/"&gt;A Mother's Love&lt;/a&gt;”&lt;/strong&gt; -&lt;em&gt; A tribute to Mother's everywhere.&lt;/em&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Roy – “&lt;a href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2006/05/dont-ask-me-why.html"&gt;Don't Ask Me Why&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;A poem I wrote for my wife in 1999.&lt;/em&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Christable Anon – “&lt;a href="http://colorspot-bluenotes.blogspot.com/2009/05/third-day-of-may.html"&gt;The Third Day of May&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;How would you address your pain to some deaf wounds?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Zorlone – “&lt;a href="http://zorlone.blogspot.com/2009/05/simply-mother.html"&gt;Simply A Mother&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;The joys of motherhood cannot be expressed in a single poem. But this one tries to have a glimpse of the beauty of such a devoted and unselfish love.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://beforeiamfamous.com/2009/05/15/birthday/"&gt;Birthday&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;2 months to the day is my birthday and I will be 29 I guess getting older is bothering me some since it seems like I am writing a lot about getting older and losing childhood completely.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Brought to you by &lt;strong&gt;PlotDog Press&lt;/strong&gt; with the&lt;a title="Serial Screenplay" href="http://plotdog.com/2009/04/18/intervention-scene-38/"&gt; Serial Suspense Screenplay "Intervention"&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:x-small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(WOOF participants should re-post all the links above by next Monday. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Presenting the finest of the writer’s blogs by the bloggers who write them. Highlighting the top posts as chosen by the May 15, 2009 WOOF Contest participants. Want in to join the next WOOF? The next contest ends May 22. Submit a link to your best writing post of the last 3 weeks using the form on &lt;a href="http://plotdog.com/woof-contest/plotdog-press-woof-contest/"&gt;this page&lt;/a&gt;. Participants, repost the winning link list within a week and you’re all set.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Other WOOF Contestants for 05/15/09&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Poetry&lt;/u&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dragon Blogger – “&lt;a href="http://www.wandererthoughts.com/the-hunt-for-the-pegasus-random-twitter-poem-for-may-11th/"&gt;The Hunt For The Pegasus&lt;/a&gt;”&lt;/strong&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Poetry Prose about hunting for Pegasus to save his love.&lt;/em&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Roy – “&lt;a href="http://thestrugglingblogger.168center.com/2009/05/06/can-we-really-expect-the-unexpected/"&gt;Can we really expect the unexpected&lt;/a&gt;?” - &lt;/strong&gt;Just some words and phrases which have caught my curiosity and wondered if they were really being used correctly.&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dragon Blogger – “&lt;a href="http://www.wandererthoughts.com/lavender-rain-random-twitter-poem-for-may-13th/"&gt;Lavender Rain&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Random word poem about mysterious Lavender Rain.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://beforeiamfamous.com/2009/05/15/vacancy/"&gt;Vacancy&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;There is a old people's home near my house with a little sign that says "vacancy apply within" This sign inspired this poem.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://dreamsofchampagne.info/2009/05/15/haiku-series-18-before-vacation/"&gt;Haiku Series 18- Before Vacation&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;I think the title says it all.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://dragonflypoems.com/2009/05/09/reflections/"&gt;Reflections&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;An acrostic using the word reflections, it is about poem about childhood friends and missing that person.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Short Story / Flash Fiction&lt;/u&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Zorlone – “&lt;a href="http://zorlone.blogspot.com/2009/05/flood-and-traffic-are-tears-and-choices.html"&gt;Flood and Traffic are Tears and Choices&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Photographs, lies, love, and selflessness. A flash fiction of a moment in Star's life that left her clinging stranded in a flooded road.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;"&gt;Congratulations to all the winners!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-4765172324859729?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~4/9RdH9YGt8K4" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/feeds/4765172324859729/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8395899&amp;postID=4765172324859729" title="2 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/4765172324859729?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/4765172324859729?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~3/9RdH9YGt8K4/my-poem-my-wife-made-grade.html" title="My poem for my wife made the grade" /><author><name>Roy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="02103925317550355481" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/05/my-poem-my-wife-made-grade.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0YDRX4yfSp7ImA9WxJSGEo.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395899.post-114792668239939897</id><published>2009-05-09T07:25:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-09T07:26:14.095-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-05-09T07:26:14.095-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="reason" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="why" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="care" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="family" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wife" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="love" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="home" /><title>Don't Ask Me Why</title><content type="html">Don't ask me why I love you,&lt;br /&gt;I just do.&lt;br /&gt;I love you not because you&lt;br /&gt;love me back&lt;br /&gt;I just do&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although I may not say it,&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes It may not show,&lt;br /&gt;But believe me,&lt;br /&gt;I do&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love you not for the caring&lt;br /&gt;Nor the thoughtfullness you've shown,&lt;br /&gt;Not for being there&lt;br /&gt;At times when I'm low!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not for taking care of my children,&lt;br /&gt;Not for making me a home&lt;br /&gt;and not for being patient&lt;br /&gt;of all my imperfections.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please don't ask me for reasons&lt;br /&gt;'cause I don't need them at all&lt;br /&gt;Because loving you is itself the reason&lt;br /&gt;And nothing else matters anymore&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So don't ask me why I love you,&lt;br /&gt;Because I do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-------------------------------&lt;br /&gt;a poem i wrote for my wife in 1999&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Happy Mother's Day Mama!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-114792668239939897?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~4/AUBSZ91NiGs" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/feeds/5836364086647190688/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8395899&amp;postID=5836364086647190688" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/5836364086647190688?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8395899/posts/default/5836364086647190688?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reflectionsbyroy/~3/AUBSZ91NiGs/rain-and-anxiety.html" title="Rain and anxiety" /><author><name>Roy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="02103925317550355481" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/05/rain-and-anxiety.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;Ck4AQ3Y_fSp7ImA9WxJSEUg.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395899.post-4433710801662365497</id><published>2009-04-30T20:41:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-30T21:09:02.845-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-04-30T21:09:02.845-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="lovers" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="mother's day" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="23rd" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="birthday" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="girlfrien-boyfriend" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wedding anniversary" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="May" /><title>May... she comes</title><content type="html">Used to be that May was my favorite month of the year, and I got a lot of reasons for doing so. As a kid I always look to it being the time of summer of vacation... a time to fly kites, run under the sun all day, without any worries of doing any homework or waking up early the next day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course, as I grew older the reasons became more meaningful, more meaningful that these childhood joys. Aside from the fact that it is my birthday month (which makes me Taurus, that's why I'm stubborn), May was also the time my wife officially became my girlfriend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was in the month of May that she said yes to me, albeit with hesitation. But of course, I proved to her that she doesn't have anything to worry about. I am not a perfect person, but I tried to perfect for my wife.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This year could have been our 23rd year anniversary as lovers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then there is the Mother's Day, the time where we give special honor the all the mothers in the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like I said, May used to be my favorite month....&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-4433710801662365497?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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Not her first blog actually, because she already had one in her old Friendster account which was unfortunately hacked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I saw her, I asked if she wants to have a 'real blog' not that a Friendster blog isn't a real one. I was meaning for her to have her own domain, to save her the trouble of thinking about transferring files and blog posts, or worse, starting over again when she comes of age.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Right now (based on her old blog), she really have a poor command of English grammar, she's only 11 years old after all. So what worries me once I create her blog is that those &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;pseudo-English gurus&lt;/span&gt; might be hounding over her blog, checking it twice (like they were Santa Clause) and find what they think were lapses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Honestly, I found out personally that blogging is not really for the faint-hearted. Save from some supportive friends who always push and boost your morale to encourage you to write some more, there are some who comes from nowhere creating havoc in the blogosphere.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some would pick a line or phrase from your post, expounding it on their blog - which is totally out of context from where it was picked-up, to justify their post and make you look dumb.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Back to Angel's blog, these facts make me think twice whether or not I would create a blog for her. But I don't want her to miss a beautiful experience just because of some stupid paranoia. Maybe I could just be keeping a watch on her blog, and throw all those commentators who &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;'doesn't have anything better to do' &lt;/span&gt; in the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;river of fire&lt;/span&gt; where they will &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;'burn and gnash their teeth as they cry.'&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sorry, I got carried away... anyway, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Angel wants a blog... Angel will get a blog!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But make no mistake about it, &lt;a href="http://thestrugglingblogger.com/"&gt;Daddy&lt;/a&gt; will be keeping a watchful eye.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-6810991591478122254?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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She may not be like one of those expensive dog breeds that we see famous people totting around. But she is special to us, especially to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Angel&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chuchi was given by her classmate and bestfriend who happens to live in the neighborhood. She was just a tiny pup when she came to us, barely out of weaning. We gave her milk during her first days with us. We tried to feed her bread then, but she wouldn't eat it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She was a timid little dog at first, we thought she will always stay like that. Always lying silently in one corner, very, very lame. We thought she was weak.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As the days passed by, since the excited kids would always play with her (and sometimes I do too), she started getting active. Now, after more than a month of staying with us, she has turned into one frisky, hyper-active little pup.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At times, we would be walking around the house dragging her as she is biting on our pants and wouldn't let go. There are times she would bite the slippers we're wearing, pulling it and once we took it off, she would run away with it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But what is really most anticipated by the kids is feeding time. During meal time, Chuchi would be staying under the table, waiting for us to be finished. Although there would be times she would jump up, but after we tell her wait, she'll go back under the table.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And when it's her turn to eat, Angel would always be feeding her by hand. Yes, this one spoiled '&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;askal&lt;/span&gt;' would be eating food from Angel's hand as Angel would hand it to her one by one until she finishes everything.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_t4ckIywnd_o/SfHdUISXDAI/AAAAAAAAAQs/auSebslnDL4/s1600-h/PICT0052.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_t4ckIywnd_o/SfHdUISXDAI/AAAAAAAAAQs/auSebslnDL4/s320/PICT0052.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5328283172047621122" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I really have come to love this dog myself, especially with what she brought to the family. My Angel has someone to show her affection too, aside from having a playmate. Even the two boys have become affectionate because of Chuchi.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chuchi is a one frisky little dog, she tears the newspaper one day, once the radio dropped off the table because she dragged its cable while she was running inside the house. Sometimes we wonder if she's really an 'askal' because we find her intelligent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whatever, we still love her, because she is family.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-8295266795163070500?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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But she will grow up, and that's a fact -- I'm thinking boys, crushes, sleepovers, heartaches... and heaven forbids -- &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;'monthly period!' &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How can I cope? Would we be able to connect to each other and maintain the relationship we have now once I start to be strict on her when it comes to boys?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And what about my sons? You think that them, being boys, I won't have any problems relating them? Guess again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You know how boys keep things to themselves, and being a man myself, how would I be able to convince them to pour out all those aches, pains and frustrations inside? Things that they could easily open up to their mother... which unfortunately is no longer here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know these two books won't really tell me how to do things and be a 'mother' to my kids... but maybe they could give me an idea, a woman's point of view perhaps, or maybe a sound advice coming from a mother to another 'mother.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is it still a wonder why I want to win these books?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-5435403627202408198?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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A story of love's imperfections.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;About Writing&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Roy – “&lt;a href="http://reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com/2009/04/getting-back-to-poetry-my-real.html"&gt;Getting back to poetry... my real reflection&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Rediscovering my love for poetry writing...&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Izzy Daniels – “&lt;a href="http://izzydaniels.blogspot.com/2009/04/so-i-earlier-this-week-i-touched.html"&gt;Maximizing Your Writing Time: Ideas! I need Ideas&lt;/a&gt;!”&lt;/strong&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Ways to come up with ideas for your writing, and maximizing your outline in order to avoid having to go back.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;Poetry / Poetic Fiction&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Zorlone – “&lt;a href="http://zorlone.blogspot.com/2009/04/ancient-cities.html"&gt;Ancient Cities&lt;/a&gt;”&lt;/strong&gt; - &lt;em&gt;We are awed by the presence of astounding skyscrapers, sturdy bridges, and majestic monuments. They are in one way or the other influenced by the ancient cities from all over the world.&lt;/em&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Deeptesh Sen – “&lt;a href="http://www.deepteshpoetry.blogspot.com/2009/04/time-travel.html"&gt;Time Travel&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;It's the creation of a surreal city which you can reach through your mirrors by means of time travel.The vehicle for this telepathic transport is a symphony.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Dragon Blogger – “&lt;a href="http://www.wandererthoughts.com/unlikeable-random-twitter-poem-for-friday-april-17th/"&gt;Unlikeable&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;A random word poem about a person who is simply unlikeable.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Gabriel Gadfly – “&lt;a href="http://www.gabrielgadfly.com/poetry/shelter"&gt;Shelter&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Two creatures cross paths at the junction of life and death.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Zorlone&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt; - “&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://zorlone.blogspot.com/2009/04/gentle-touch.html"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A Gentle Touch&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;An intimate beauty of lovers sharing their passion for one another.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Brought to you by &lt;strong&gt;PlotDog Press&lt;/strong&gt; with the&lt;a title="Serial Screenplay" href="http://plotdog.com/2009/04/18/intervention-scene-38/"&gt; Serial Suspense Screenplay &amp;quot;Intervention&amp;quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ff0000;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;(WOOF participants should re-post all the links above by next Monday. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Presenting the finest of the writer’s blogs by the bloggers who write them. Highlighting the top posts as chosen by the April 17, 2009 WOOF Contest participants. Want in to join the next WOOF? The next contest ends April 24. Submit a link to your best writing post of the last 3 weeks using the form on &lt;a href="http://plotdog.com/woof-contest/plotdog-press-woof-contest/"&gt;this page&lt;/a&gt;. Participants, repost the winning link list within a week and you’re all set.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Other WOOF Contestants for 04/17/09&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;About Writing&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Jonathan Crossfield - “&lt;a href="http://www.jonathancrossfield.com/blog/2009/04/finding-creative-freedom-by-ad.html"&gt;Finding creative freedom by adding limitations&lt;/a&gt;”&lt;/strong&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Why creative freedom isn't necessarily a good thing. The more constraints we have, the more creative we are forced to become. Supported by some interesting video of Robert McKee.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Writing Nag – “&lt;a href="http://writingnag.blogspot.com/2009/04/chasm-between.html"&gt;The Chasm Between&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;It's very difficult to get on the page what we imagine in our mind. These 15 prompts may help you get started.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;Fiction&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Webbielady – “&lt;a href="http://tales-details.blogspot.com/2009/03/book.html"&gt;How She Wish She Could Stay&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;She wishes to stay with him longer... or even forever. Will she attain this goal? Would her wish be granted?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;Non-Fiction, Life Improvement, Spiritual&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Amritbir Kaur - “&lt;a href="http://literarybonanza.blogspot.com/2009/04/prayer.html"&gt;Prayer&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;Prayer is not a mere lip service. Do we ever introspect ourselves? Read more...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;Poetry / Poetic Fiction&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Alex McGaughan – “&lt;a href="http://alexmcg.com/?p=385"&gt;Found Poem: Spam Villanelle&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;This is a bit of found poetry I did using the spam comments from my blog as my source. The form is a traditional Villanelle, with the A-B-A rhyme scheme and repeated lines.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Dragon Blogger - “&lt;a href="http://www.wandererthoughts.com/2009/04/a-million-followers-tribute-poem-to-ashton-kutchers-twitter-goal/"&gt;A Million Followers&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Fun Poem to join the hype to help Ashton Kutcher reach a million followers on twitter, I don't think he read it though.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://dragonflypoems.com/2009/04/17/april/"&gt;April&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;An acrostic poem about April.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://dreamsofchampagne.info/2009/04/17/haiku-series-17/"&gt;Haiku Series #17&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Random haikus on different topics.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://beforeiamfamous.com/2009/04/17/finding-my-reprieve/"&gt;Finding My Reprieve&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;A poem written in nonette form about finding one self.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Jennifer M Scott  - “&lt;a href="http://beforeiamfamous.com/2009/04/16/depressed-april/"&gt;Depressed April&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;A very short poem about rainy days in April.&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Jennifer M Scott – “&lt;a href="http://beforeiamfamous.com/2009/04/15/a-kiss-from-apollo/"&gt;A Kiss From Apollo&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Dedicated to the god of poetry Apollo.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;strong&gt;Dragon Blogger – “&lt;a href="http://www.wandererthoughts.com/gluttony-random-twitter-poem-for-april-16th/"&gt;Gluttony&lt;/a&gt;” - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Random word poem consisting of 13 words about someone not caring about their health and eating poorly.&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8395899-8883084041899117599?l=reflectionsbyroy.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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