On today’s episode, I am sharing a quote that has been super helpful for me. Here it is:

“The common sayings ‘be in the world but not of it’ and ‘wear the world loosely’ refer to the need to be engaged with life while not being attached to specific outcomes. Do not take this world too personally, for you are one of many co-creators here to play – and we have many ideas about how all this should play out. Just know the outcomes don’t matter as much as hte presence you bring to each experience and how you let yourself flow through life. There’s a real freedom in knowing and accepting this. So will you wear the world loosely or will it straitjacket you? It is your choice. Whatever happens, have the rouage to keep trying to live as you are meant to. And when it comes to manifesting, don’t worry about the ‘how’ or evey the ‘why’. We have that covered. Everything is going to turn out exactly as it should. Spirit has a plan!”

This is so helpful for me to know that we can detach from the outcomes and we can choose how we live in the world. It’s why I create this podcast and why I coach and write. It is so helpful to know we are not alone in this world.

I’d love to hear what resonates with you. You can email me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or connect with me on Facebook or Instagram.

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On today’s episode, we’re talking about the idea of feeling unsettled. Many of us have gone through personal things and there is also a lot going on in the world.

I woke up with the thought of “I am not the same.” It’s not a bad thing. It’s just an observation and a willingness to see it and allow it to be there. Grief can be overwhelming and challenging, as well as so many other feelings that you may be feeling.I want to encourage you to allow these feelings to be there and not be fearful of them. If you need someone to talk to, please reach out to me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or connect with me on Facebook or Instagram.

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On today’s episode, we are talking about values and what’s most important to you. For me, mine were:

• Freedom
• Empowerment 
• Peace

These are all a part of me and what I stand for and it’s important for me to keep them in front of me in my life and my business.

I would encourage you to think about your values and what it would look like to keep them in front of you in your daily life.

I’d love to hear from you. You can email me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or connect with me on Facebook, Instagramor TikTok.

You can also join us in the private Facebook group for the month of November, focusing on gratitude.

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On today’s episode, we are talking about our choices and how many we have.

Deciding on purpose is such a powerful way to choose how you want to live. We have so much power in this.

Taking back our own personal power and decide to be a part of solutions can really be incredible for all of us.

I’d love to connect with you on Facebook, Instagram or TikTok. 

You can also join us in this private Facebook group to focus on gratitude for the month of November.

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On today’s episode, I am talking about seeing the northern lights and what it helped me realize.

We often get distracted and don’t recognize what is right in front of us or don’t take the time to pay attention. 

What’s right in front of you that you aren’t paying attention to?

I’d love to connect with you on Facebook, Instagram or TikTok.

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On today’s episode, we are talking about our word of the year. Did you choose one? Do you remember what it is? Have you been intentional about incorporating it into your life?

I also share some thoughts about freedom that I think are so helpful. I’d love to hear from you. Do you remember your word of the year and have you been intentional about it? Email me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or connect with me on Facebook or Instagram.

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On today’s episode, I am reading chapter 2 from Ablaze. I needed the reminder this week and I thought maybe you might need to hear this as well.

I’d love for you to pick up a copy of my book, Ablaze. You can find it on Amazon and also on my website.

And don’t forget to check out my fall coaching special here.

You can connect with me on Facebook or Instagram or TikTok.

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On today’s episode, I am talking about Bravenly products, which you can find here.

I’m also talking about what we focus on. It can be really helpful for what we focus on, but it can also be unhelpful as well. It is definitely a conscious decision to decide what we focus on.Learning to focus on the present is a really important skill that can make such a big difference in your life.You can connect with me on Facebook, Instagram or TikTok.

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On today’s episode, we are following up to the previous meditation episode. We’re talking about paying attention to your body and learning to listen to what it is wanting to tell you.

I’d love for you to leave a review of my book, Ablaze. If you do, send me a message and let me know. I’d love to thank you personally!

You can connect with me on Instagram or Facebook.

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On today’s episode, I am guiding you through a meditation to breathe & release what is no longer helpful for you. I hold workshops with this topic to give people a safe space to release emotions that are stuck in our bodies, so I wanted to share the meditation with you.

Take some time and allow yourself to breathe and release.

I hope this is helpful. I’d love to hear from you. You can connect with me on Instagram or Facebook.

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On today’s episode, I am talking about what we tell ourselves we CAN’T do. So many times, we tell ourselves that we can’t do something simply because we haven’t done it or someone has told us that we can’t.

What if that isn’t true?

What if it is simply a story you are telling yourself?

I want to challenge you to examine this and see if it’s possible that the story you are telling yourself is not true.

I’ve loved to hear from you. You can connect with me on Facebook or Instagram.

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On today’s episode, I’m talking about what your definitions of things mean to you. Defining what is important to you and also what words mean to you is a key to helping you become more fully yourself.

This can be really challenging, but is so incredibly powerful. As I talk about in my book, Ablaze, you are not a problem to be solved! We keep chasing things that we think will make us feel better and validate us, but it doesn’t work. Because we haven’t defined for ourselves what that truly means to us.

I challenge you today to figure out your own definitions of words or phrases or ideas that have been bothering you or you have been using to beat yourself up. It can make a huge difference.

Connect with me on Facebook or Instagram to continue the conversation!

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On today’s episode, we are talking about emotions and how they interact with our brains and our bodies. I always want to focus on the healing aspect of emotions and learning to feel and understand them.

I recently attended a workshop where the teacher explained that when we cannot hold tolerance for an emotion, it’s because we were never held in it. I absolutely loved that explanation and image. If we were held in an emotion, it would be acceptable and easier for us to sit with others through their own. But if we haven’t been held in it, we often have no tolerance for it. This is so profound and so helpful.

I will be talking more about this in the days ahead, but I would love to hear your thoughts on this! Connect with me on Facebook or Instagram.

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On today’s episode, I am talking about a quote I heard that really resonated with me.

“Choose love over fear, gratitude over lack, possibility over limitations. Tap into your infinite power of the universe and become a magnet for miracles.”

I try really hard to be intentional about the choices of how I show up in the world and also how I choose to respond when things happen. This isn’t easy, but it is possible.

I also choose to be really intentional about things I choose to watch or listen to in order to protect my energy and to be mindful of what is helpful and what isn’t.

How does this resonate with you? I’d love to hear from you. Connect with me on Facebook or Instagram.

You can listen to my episode on Adam Mock’s Resuce Your Dreams podcast.

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On today’s episode, we are talking about this quote regarding our potential. I don’t recall where I heard it, but I absolutely loved it.

“It’s up to us to tap into the song of our own potential.”

It is so powerful and such a great reminder that we have so much more control than we think we do over our lives.

I’d love to hear from you and what you think about this. Connect with me on Facebook or Instagram.

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On today’s episode, we are talking about how it’s okay to feel “meh” about certain things that others absolutely love. We often want to diminish it or not admit things that we don’t like because other people have different reactions to.

I’d love to hear from you. Is this easy or hard for you?

If you have read Ablaze, I would love for you to leave a review on Amazon or wherever you bought it and let people know what you liked about it! I’d love to connect with you on Facebook or Instagram.

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On today’s episode, we are talking about pain. I know, I know. Exactly what you want to talk about. 

I came across this quote from Geneen Roth that says “Your pain can be touched and it won’t destroy you.” 

Isn’t that so powerful? We haven’t always believed this, have we? 

But it can be so important to understand this and to start to practice this. I have felt this with energy work as well as learning to see our thoughts and feelings more objectively. It can be so incredibly healing.

I’d love to hear your thoughts. You can email me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or connect with me on Instagram or Facebook.

You can also learn more about the Bravenly products I mentioned here.

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On today’s episode, I am talking about what you really want. I discovered this quote in one of my old journals and absolutely love it.

“The only way to get what you REALLY want is to know what you want. The only way to know what you really want is to KNOW yourself. The only way to know yourself is to BE yourself. The only way to be yourself is to LISTEN to your heart.”

I talk about this on my podcast and also in my coaching. Knowing and understanding ourselves is truly the magic to being more fully YOU. Starting with asking yourself what you want and then being willing to know ourselves and be ourselves is how we learn to listen to our hearts and live a life we fully love.

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Email me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or connect with me on Instagram or Facebook. Also, if you are interested in learning more about the Bravenly products I mentioned, you can check it out here.

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On today’s episode, we are talking about wanting your life. I recently had someone comment that they wanted my life.

And while I understand the reason someone would say this, I want to challenge you today to consider if you really want someone else’s life?

Or if you really want a life that you are proud of and wake up to every day that you love?

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. You can email me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or connect with me on Instagramor Facebook.

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On today’s episode, I am excited to announce the release of my new book, Ablaze. I loved writing this book and am looking forward to sharing it with all of you. You can find it on Amazon in print, Kindle and Audible versions as well as on my website here. It will also be available in local stores in the days ahead.

If you pick up a copy of the book, I would love for you to send me a picture with the book. You can email it to me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or share it with me on social media.

I’m looking forward to hearing how this book resonates with you. And as always, I would love your honest review wherever you purchase the book. Thanks so much for listening and reading!

I’d love to connect with you on Facebook or Instagram.

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On today’s episode, I am talking about focusing on a habit for 100 days. I’m choosing to do 100 days of meditation, based on the recommendation from Ambition to Success. There are lots of fun trackers that you can use to track your progress. Here is one that I purchased.

I’d love to hear from you. What are you wanting to focus on for 100 days? Email me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or connect with me on Instagram and Facebook.

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On today’s episode, I’m talking about coming out of winter and the feelings and actions we may or may not have taken during the winter. I challenge you to ask yourself if it is okay. What if it is?

What if isn’t a big deal that you were not doing as many things during the winter and that you were a little more hibernated during that time? What if this can be helpful for you?

I encourage you to give yourself grace and to consider the possibility that you are exactly where you are meant to be.

I’d love to hear from you. Email me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or connect with me on Instagram or Facebook.

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On today’s episode, we are talking about what lights you up. What brings you joy. What brings you life.

So many of us have forgotten what a difference this makes to our every day life, when we choose to intentionally have things in our life that bring us joy.

I’m excited to share more about my new book, releasing soon!

Connect with me on Instagram or Facebook.

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On today’s episode, I am talking about the energy behind our motivation. The difference it makes when are vibration is high versus low and how it impacts our motivation. This seems so simple, but can be such a powerful shift.

I’d love to hear from you. Can you tell the difference between these types of energy?

Connect with me on Instagram or Facebook.

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On today’s episode, we are talking about the pace of your life. I’ve been looking at old journals and realizing how much I have slowed down the pace of my life. It’s been 10 years since I left my corporate position and in that time, I have completely changed the pace that I have.

In my journal, I wrote about how there was conflict between focusing on productivity and allowing myself to learn my own rhythms. We do get to decide what our pace of life is. I know it can seem challenging, but it really is an option.

Here’s a question to consider: Is the pace of your life helping you or is it causing you additional stress?

I’d love to hear from you about the pace of your life. You can email me at tammy@tammyhelfrich.com or connect with me on Instagram or Facebook.

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