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Kenapa Cowok Suka Jelalatan?

shon3n@gmail.com — Sat, 12 May 2012 11:29:00 +0000

Penyebab Cowok Jelalatan

Sebenarnya sih hal ini bukan hal baru , tentang laki-laki yang suka jelalatan. Aku teringat ini karena suatu kejadian saat hari ini seorang teman menginterview calon karyawan. Seorang laki-laki usia 40 tahunan, temanku merasa agak merasa canggung karena merasa dijelalatin calon karyawan tadi, meski sebenarnya dia tidak terlalu kentara menjelalati si wanita tapi karena temanku seorang yang peka dan punya intuisi kuat yah tetap aja ketauan.

Kalau lihat wanita cantik pasti kemanapun dia bergerak seolah-olah bola mata cowok terpaku padanya. Anda kaum perempuan pasti sering sebel dengan pasangan saat jalan-jalan dikerumunan yang banyak wanita cantiknya. Sudah jadi rahasia umum kalau laki-laki itu doyan lirak-lirik wanita lain. Bahkan pada saat jalan sama pasangan, mereka masih aja suka liat sana-sini. Sekarang yang menjadi pertanyaan mengapa hampir semua cowok jelalatan? apakah mereka memang didesain seperti itu? Inilah penjelasan ilmiahnya.

Meskipun manusia sudah mengalami perubahan dengan evolusi selama jutaan tahun, tetapi insting dasarnya masih ada. Pada jaman dulu, laki-laki harus pergi berburu mencari makanan dan wanita tinggal dirumah untuk memasak hasil buruan atau menjaga anak-anaknya. Pembagian tugas seperti ini masih berlaku juga untuk sekarang. Akibatnya, ada beberapa perbedaan perilaku antara laki-laki dan wanita yang sampai sekarang masih tetap terbawa.

Tugas sebagai pemburu membuat laki-laki memiliki kemampuan lebih baik dalam memperkirakan jarak, tetapi sudut pandangannya lebih sempit dan lebih fokus. Karena itu, jika seorang laki-laki melihat sesuatu yang menarik, secara naluriah dia akan memutar kepalanya menghadap kearah objek yang dilihatnya. Makanya akan kelihatan sekali kalau seorang laki-laki sedang “main mata”.

Di sisi lain, wanita punya tugas untuk menjaga dan melindungi anak-anaknya. Jadi untuk dapat melihat datangnya bahaya, wanita mempunyai sudut pandangan yang lebih lebar dan perasaan yang lebih peka. Karena itu kalau mau melirik, wanita bisa melakukannya hanya dengan gerakan mata tanpa harus memutar kepala, jadi lebih sulit untuk ketahuan kalau lagi lirak-lirik.

Perbedaan yang lain, laki-laki tidak bisa melakukan pekerjaan secara multitasking, misalnya membaca koran sambil dengar radio, atau nonton tv sambil menelepon. Kalau lagi fokus pada sesuatu, laki-laki akan seketika menjadi “tuli” apalagi kalau nonton bola. Sedangkan wanita masih bisa melakukan beberapa hal sekaligus, baca buku sambil denger musik, atau nonton tv sambil memasak, dsb.Dari penelitian beberapa ahli juga menyebutkan bahwa retina laki-laki memang lebih sempit

Jadi, buat cowok-cowok, kalau pasangan anda nonton tv saat ditelepon, tidak perlu tersinggung, karena mereka memang bisa melakukannya sambil tetap mengikuti pembicaraan di telepon. Tapi buat cewek2, kalau pasangan anda melakukan hal lain seperti membaca koran, nonton tv atau dengar radio pada saat anda berbicara, yakinlah bahwa anda sedang dicuekin.

Nah gimana menyiasati kita para cowok agar tidak ketauan lagi jelalatan?? hehehhe..gak pa pa kan ..siapa tahu lagi jalan/duduk bareng pacar/istri eh ada barang bagus lewat. Nih aku kasih tips :

Setiap kali keluar rumah siapin deh kacamata hitam, pasti dengan aman kamu bisa melirik dan jelalatan sepuasnya tanpa ketahuan.
Gimana kalau ngak punya kaca mata hitam? ehhmm aku sih ngak saranin pake kacamata kuda. Pura-pura baca , kamu bisa gunakan koran, majalah atau buku dan mengintiplah di sela-selanya..hehehe
Gimana kalao ngak punya koran,majalah atau buku? upss...bilang aja ke pasangan kamu " sayang bulu idung kamu ada yang nongol tuh..heheheh..yakin deh dia pasti buru-buru ngacir ke toilet..
Masih ngak mempan juga nih ide?? yah gimana lagi ...berarti kamu lulus tes buaya darat..kebuayadaratanmu sudah tidak diragukan lagi..

The Revolutionary of Online Casino

shon3n@gmail.com — Tue, 08 May 2012 14:52:00 +0000

Online Casino Like A Real

The Internet brings such a great impact for our world, one example is the casino game. Now, we no longer need to go to Las Vegas to play casino, because with the internet, we can play the casino wherever we are, with the number of players is unlimited

all over the world.Its become a great revolution in

the gaming casino.

Accidentally while trying to search on google I found a

site online casino which is quite interesting. Its name is

a casino en ligne.This is a site from France. But don't worry,

you can simply resetting your google chrome to translate it

into English. This site not only offers the complete casino

games, such as poker,but also some very interesting game.

With an internet connection that even is not too fast,

you can still access it it pretty well.

If you are still curious you can immediately try it.When you

choose an online casino games are the right choice on a

online casino website is very determining satisfaction play.

The quality of an online casino website is determined by the

ease of play, gifts that are offered, convenience store the

results of the games and various other conveniences.

Currently scattered online casino that spread around

the internet ready to spend your money or even those of

you who spend money the bookie? Who knows the world of

betting, which is important as

you havin fun isn't it?

Just go to casino en ligne and have a good play. I wish

you good fortune.You can imagine you are playing with

your money and cards while surrounded girl glamour france.

Not only are a lot of free games, design their website

is making a shadow will be money in abundance.

Here there are a variety of games, such as games

machines, poker, online slots and all this game very easily

played.

The thing most i like that online slot game is with pictures

that refreshes the eye. Just one click then you will wait for

the results to be widened, well it makes you just lucky, but

we all hope for it right? Or want to play video poker? of

course you want a game that feels very real you could give

it a try here.Video poker that you never imagine so real they

promised here will make you do not have to waste your time go

a long way to Las Vegas.

Rumpian Ibu Ibu Di Pagi Hari

shon3n@gmail.com — Sun, 15 Apr 2012 12:34:00 +0000

Rumpian Ibu Ibu Yang Nggak Jelas

Seperti pagi lainnya aku sarapan di kantor di ruang sebelah karena biasanya ibu cleaning sedang membersihkan ruanganku. Diruang ini adalah tempat tiga orang cewek yang sudah menikah dan punya anak. Saat sarapan biasanya aku sambil nonton TV sambil basa basi ngobrol sesekali dengan mereka sebab terus terang aku ngak terlalu tertarik membicarakan hal-hal yang tidak penting seperti kebiasaan rekan - rekanku ini.Sebagai orang yang nebeng makan acara yang tidak kusuka pun yah kucoba nikmati saja, beruntung pagi itu yang di pasang adalah acara berita, mungkin sedang rame karena berita gempa di aceh.

Sekitar lima menit mereka membicarakan tentang gempa tadi (gw nonton sambil nguping nih, maklum suaranya lumayan keras) ntah kenapa omongan bisa sampe ke cut tari yang notabene keturunan aceh. Mulailah muncul komentar si ibu yang paling tua yang umurnya sudah 50+ tapi selalu berusaha kelihatan modis (paling ngak berusaha, heheh). Oke biar lebih gampang kita buat kodenya aja

Ibu 1 : Keriting, coklat, agak gemuk, dada besar,agak pendek, berkacamata. usia sekitar 5o tahun

Ibu 2 : Keriting ombak , agak gemuk, tinggi besar, coklat, usia sekitar 40 tahun

Ibu 3 : Rambut lurus, kuning, agak pendek, berkacamata,lipstik tebal,usia sekitar 27 tahun

Komentar mulai dari ibu 1

Ibu 1 : "Si Cut Tari ini gak tau malu banget , masa katanya dia pengen mewanwarai esbeye padahal namanya uda jelek geto.

Ibu 2 : "Ah orang kayak gitu memang ngak punya malu" sekarang artis-artis itu kawin cerai . Eh sekarang si aril digosipin pacaran sama si ...siapa itu ??? siapa ya ??? ahhh lupa aku namanya...

Ibu 1 : "Yang baru jadian itu kan si Gading sama Gisel

Ibu 3 : "hah masa"

Ibu 2 : " Iya kemarin dia nembak di panggung"

Ibu 1 : " eh si andika ini sayang ya sama si ussy yang janda gitu kayak ngak ada lagi perawan" .

Ibu 2 : " Kemarin si aril kan dibilang pacaran sama si itu, siapa ya namanya, yang itu lo yang idungnya pecek, penyanyi lo..yang orang medan ato mana geto..

setelah sibuk membahas-bahas siapa yang digosipin sama aril dan putus asa karena ngak ingat sama namanya akhirnya aku yang capek denger obrolan ini nyeletuk " momo , sama momo" yah meski ngak suka gosip tapi klo nimbrung di kamar teman yang senang nonton gosip kan terpaksa dapat beritanya juga..hehhe..tapi yang paling aneh ..aku nyeletuk gitu kagak dipercaya tuh...mereka tetap bingung nebak siapa yang digosipin sama aril.

Nah setelah itu topik beralih ke gading

Ibu 3 : " Gisel itu yang mana seh? "

Ibu 1 : " itu lho cantik orangnnya , putih"

Ibu 3 : " Yang mana ya? wah astrid tau dong ,untung dia udah mau merid yo"

Ibu 2 : " Iya , kalo belum mana mungkin dia berani ", tapi calon astrid itu jelek ya"

Ibu 3 : "Ah ngak juga lho mbak, entah kenapaaaaa dulu mereka pisah, padahal ya direstui..eh si astrid malah kabur "Asik - asik ngomongin si Gading si ibu 3 penasaran terus dengan yang mana namanya Gisel.

Eh tiba -tiba seorang rekan yang lain muncul di jendela memanggilku. Setelah bicara satu menit aku kembali kesarapanku bermaksud kembali menonton berita. Eh aku kaget acaranya sudah ganti ke acara musik dengan MC si Gading..wkwkwkkw..aku langsung kabur..

Yah beginilah fenomena para wanita, meskipun tidak semua seh ibu-ibu suka bergosip. Tapi tetap aja geli mendengar mereka membicarakan orang-orang yang mereka lihat secara langsung pun tidak pernah. Saat membicarakan ini kelihatan mereka sangat serius seperti ini sebuah bagian penting dari hidupnya. Sudah gitu beritanya ngak jelas lagi, salah-salah dan anehnya setiap orang mempertahankan kebenaran informasinya sendiri.. Hi hi hi hi ...na rumpian ini salah satu sarapan pagiku ssetiap harinya.

What makes a woman sexy?

shon3n@gmail.com — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 02:06:00 +0000

What Makes You Sexy

A woman's sexiness is not a precise formula, but is rather a complex concoction of charm, charisma, confidence, conversation, composure, cleverness, and of course, attractiveness. Sexiness is a woman's ability to continually inspire the sexual curiosity of a man, through her appearance and attitude.

The defining feature of a sexy woman is that she manages to gravitate a man's sexual thoughts continuously and spontaneously in her direction, even when she is absent. She is timeless in the face of other female novelties, and never becomes a fleeting memory. In fact, a man who has experienced her does not satisfy his curiosity. He instead thrives on her energy and desires her more.

A sexy woman is the mystique that mirrors and matches a man's masculinity. To understand what a sexy woman IS, we must first substantiate what a sexy woman is NOT.

*A sexy woman is not always erotic. Turning a man on does not necessarily stimulate his sexual curiosity. Any decent looking woman clad in a short skirt, tight top, with a toned tush and chiselled cleavage can arouse a man. A sexy woman does far more. She manages to weave herself into the inner echelons of the man's mind, making him not simply lust, but also wonder about her. She remains tangled in the web of his thoughts long after his erection has gone soft. She constantly evokes in him the most far-fetched fantasies, even under the most innocent and platonic of circumstances.

*A sexy woman is not necessarily exceptionally beautiful or hot. There is a subtle difference between a sexy woman and a beautiful one. Some women are beautiful "eye candy" but lack a sexually engaging element that continually fuels a man's interest. Some women look less than a perfect ten, yet their composure and cleverness enhances their sex appeal tenfold. And some, the true mistresses of seduction, are both beautiful and sexy.

*A sexy woman is not a product of an aesthetic or cosmetic routine. Sexy woman are comfortable in their skin and that is precisely why they are so confident. True sexiness is only semi based on tangible aesthetics; the rest is an aesthetic display of intangible qualities that challenge a man to recognize the woman's sophistication. A sexy woman does not flaunt herself and scream "look at me"; she rather unravels herself, catching the man's peripheral gaze, until he cannot help but always look at her.

So what does make a woman so irresistibly sexy, that a man is continually attracted to her?

*A sexy woman is instinctually smart.

A sexy woman is intellectually a step ahead of her man in the imagination and creativity of the rapport, or at the very least, at his level. She cleverly fathoms ideas, constantly surprises, and entertains. She takes risks in romance, reads between the lines, and tweaks circumstances in her favor. She is an excellent conversationalist, knows how to steer attention towards herself, through her words, actions and suggestions, without suffocating her man.

*A sexy woman is a talented, sensual siren. She hones her gifts and presents them to the man through the five senses: sight, sound, taste, touch and smell. She ignites the hormonal and chemical combustion of both his animalistic drives and rational thinking patterns, until he naturally associates random sensory stimulation with cravings for her.

*A sexy woman is a shape-shifter. A sexy woman is not afraid to be a woman and exhibit traditional roles with her man. She is also not shy about being strong and dominant when necessary. She responds to her man by assuming different roles, under different circumstances. During sex, she is neither adverse to subordinating herself and submissively yielding to her partner's desires, nor is she afraid to demand or extort pleasure from him when it suits her.

*A sexy woman is an honest one who makes her own rules, communicates them, and lives by them. As versatile and accommodating as she is, she is not a doormat to be stomped upon. She has clear standards and sticks to them, and will not allow her integrity to be violated by any man. She stands up for herself when necessary, and does not allow herself to be guided by a man's principles without careful, personal scrutinization first.

*A sexy woman is playfully spontaneous, yet satisfying. She is open-minded. She makes and responds to new suggestions, always initiating a carefree, gentle tease. She is nevertheless completely attainable, and always delivers what she promises. A sexy woman enjoys finishing a game as much as she enjoyed started it, but she is endowed with such creative and physical energy that she can play the game forever, if the man wishes. She is not a creature of habit, but of habitual transition. She knows that when she monotonously and constantly caves into granting every last of a man's whimsical desires, she ceases to be challenging or sexy.

*A sexy woman is respectable. She is intelligent and elegant, tasteful and graceful. She is neither angelic or innocent, nor is she sleazy or superficial. Her strong sexual nature does not scandalize or pervert her poised qualities, but rather makes her charming and captivating. She is in complete control of her sexual desires, and decides when to manifest them, and with whom.

*A sexy woman truly makes a man weak. A very sexy woman is a man's kryptonite, the only universal force capable of controlling his reproductive anatomy, contaminating his mind, and morally tempting him into sinful situations beyond demonic devices, all at the same time.

But the true symbol of a sexy woman is that she is never destructive, and always leaves a man better off than before she met him.

Paola Fanutti from helium.com

How To Choosing or Chaging Career Paths

shon3n@gmail.com — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 15:45:00 +0000

Finding the Right Career

Are you thinking of choosing or changing your career? Maybe you have been dreaming about a career change but don’t know where to start. Perhaps you’re getting increasingly bored at work or realizing that opportunities for growth are limited. Or, like many in this economy, you may be unemployed or facing unemployment. Regardless of your reasons, the right career is out there for everyone. Discover how to find the best career path for you, including finding the courage to make a change, researching options, realizing your strengths, and learning new skills.

Finding meaningful work in today’s world

You may have fallen into the trap of thinking the sole point of work is to bring home enough money to live comfortably. While adequate compensation is important in any job, it’s not the whole story. If you are unsatisfied with what you do every day, it takes a toll on your physical and mental health. You may feel burned out and frustrated, anxious, depressed, or unable to enjoy time at home knowing another workday is ahead. What’s more, if you don’t find your work meaningful and rewarding, it’s hard to keep the momentum going to advance in your career. You are more likely to be successful in a career that you feel passionate about.

Whether you’re looking to enter the work force for the first time or contemplating a career change, the first step to choosing a fulfilling career is to uncover the activities that get you excited and bring you joy.

Discovering new possibilities

The first step in considering a career change is to think carefully about what really drives you. You might find it hard to get past thinking about “what pays the most” or “what is most secure,” especially in today’s economy. However, it’s important to first discover your primary interests and passions. This can open doors to careers that you might not have considered. Once you have that foundation, you can start fine tuning your search for the right career. You may be surprised at how you can fit your passions into a new career.

Exploring your career opportunities

Focus on the things you love to do. What have you dreamed of doing in the past? What do you naturally enjoy doing? Jot down what comes to mind, no matter how improbable it seems.
Look for clues everywhere. Take note of projects or topics that stir your compassion or excite your imagination. Reflect on stories of people you admire. Ask yourself why certain activities make you happy, and pay attention to times when you are really enjoying yourself.
Be patient. Remember that your search may take some time and you might have to go down a few different roads before finding the right career path. Time and introspection will help you identify the activities you most enjoy and that bring you true satisfaction.

Overcoming obstacles to career happiness

It’s always challenging to consider a huge change in your life, and there may be many reasons why you think changing careers is not possible. Here are some common obstacles with tips on how to overcome them:

It’s too much work to change careers. Where would I ever begin? Changing careers does require a substantial time investment. However, remember that it does not happen all at once. If you sit down and map out a rough plan of attack, breaking down larger tasks into smaller ones, it is a lot more manageable than you think. And if the payoff is a happier, more successful career, it’s worth it.
I’m too old to change careers. I need to stay where I am. If you have worked for a number of years, you may feel that you’ve put too much time and effort into your career to change midstream. Or you may be concerned about retirement and health benefits. However, the more you’ve worked, the more likely you are to have skills that can transfer to a new career. Even if you are close to receiving a pension or other benefits, you can start to plan now for a career transition after retirement.
I don’t have enough skills to consider a new career. You may be unaware of the skills you have, or low self-esteem may lead you to underestimate your marketability. Either way, you probably have more skills than you think. Consider skills you’ve learned not only from your job but also from hobbies, volunteering, or other life experiences. And gaining skills is not an all-or-nothing proposition. You can volunteer once a week or take a night class to move forward, for example, without quitting your current job.
In this economy, I’m lucky to have a job. I don’t want to rock the boat. In today’s climate, it might feel like too much of a risk to consider changing careers. However, if you’re unhappy in your current job, doing research on other options will only benefit you in the long run. You may discover a career with a more stable long-term outlook than your current career, for example. And you don’t have to quit your current job until you are confident of your new career path.

What if I’ve already lost my job?

Being unemployed or underemployed can be tremendously stressful. It can increase You may be feeling the pressures of meeting your mortgage payments or and other financial obligations. You might You may feel be feeling ashamed for not working, or feel the loss of your job has stripped you of your identity, with your family and friends. And a very real loss is that of your identity at work. This is especially true if you have been in the same field for a very long time.

However, unemployment also has a bright side. It gives you the chance to reflect on your career path. If you’ve been considering a new field, now is the time to research the options and see what might be the right fit for you. You may end up in a much stronger position than if you had originally kept your job.

Finding the right career tip 1: Identify occupations that match your interests

So how do you translate your interests into a new career? With a little research, you may be surprised at the careers that relate to many of the things you love to do.

Career tests

Different online tools can guide you through the process of self-discovery. Questions, quizzes, and personality assessments can’t tell you what your perfect career would be, but they can help you identify what’s important to you in a career, what you enjoy doing, and where you excel. One example, frequently used by universities and the U.S. government, is the RIASEC/Holland interest scale. It outlines six common personality types, such as investigative, social, or artistic, and enables you to browse sample careers based on the type of personality you most identify with. Find links to this and other online career tests in the Resources section below.

Researching specific careers

If you have narrowed down some specific jobs or careers, you can find a wealth of information online, from description of positions to average salaries and estimated future growth. This will also help you figure out the practical priorities: How stable is the field you are considering? Are you comfortable with the amount of risk? Is the salary range acceptable to you? What about commute distances? Will you have to relocate for training or a new job? Will the new job affect your family?

Get support and information from others

While you can glean a lot of information from research and quizzes, there’s no substitute for information from someone currently working in your chosen career. Talking to someone in the field gives you a real sense of what type of work you will actually be doing and if it meets your expectations. What’s more, you will start to build connections in your new career area, helping you land a job in the future. Does approaching others like this seem intimidating? It doesn’t have to be. Networking and informational interviewing are important skills that can greatly further your career.

You may also consider career counseling or a job coach, especially if you are considering a major career shift. Sometimes impartial advice from others can open up possibilities you hadn’t considered.

Finding the right career tip 2: Evaluate your strengths and skills

Once you have a general idea of your career path, take some time to figure out what skills you have and what skills you need. Remember, you’re not completely starting from scratch—you already have some skills to start. These skills are called transferable skills, and they can be applied to almost any field. Some examples include:

management and leadership experience

communication (both written and oral)

research and program planning

public speaking

conflict resolution and mediation

managing your time effectively

computer literacy

foreign language fluency

Tips for discovering your transferable career skills

Don’t limit yourself to experiences only at work. When you are thinking about your skills, consider all types of activities including volunteering, hobbies, and life experiences. For example, even if you don’t have formal leadership or program planning experience, founding a book club or organizing a toy drive are ways that you have been putting these skills into practice.
List your accomplishments that might fit in. Don’t worry about formatting these skills for a resume at this point. You just want to start thinking about what skills you have. It can be a tremendous confidence booster to realize all of the skills you’ve developed.
Brainstorm with trusted friends, colleagues, or mentors. They may be able to identify transferable skills you’ve overlooked or help you better articulate these skills in the future.
Uncover more transferable skills by taking the online tests listed in the Resources section below.

Finding the right career tip 3: Develop your skills and experience

If your chosen career requires skills or experience you lack, don’t despair. There are many ways to gain needed skills. While learning, you’ll also have an opportunity to find out whether or not you truly enjoy your chosen career and also make connections that could lead to your dream job.

Gaining career skills:

Utilize your current position. Look for on-the-job training or opportunities to do projects that develop new skills. See if your employer will pay part of your tuition costs.
Identify resources in the community. Find out about programs in your community. Community colleges or libraries often offer low cost opportunities to strengthen skills such as computers, basic accounting, or how to start a business. Local Chambers of Commerce, Small Business Administrations, or state job development programs are also excellent resources.
Volunteer or work as an intern. Some career skills can be acquired by volunteering or doing an internship. This has the added benefit of getting you in contact with people in your chosen field.
Take classes. Some fields require specific education or skills, such as an educational degree or specific training. Don’t automatically rule out more education as impossible. Many fields have accelerated programs if you already have some education, or you may be able to do night classes or part-time schooling so that you can continue to work. Some companies even offer tuition reimbursements if you stay at the company after you finish your education.

Finding right career tip 4: Consider starting your own business

If you’re getting worn down by a long commute or a difficult boss, the thought of working for yourself can be very appealing. And even in a slower economy, it’s still possible to find your perfect niche. Depending on the specialty, some companies prefer to streamline their ranks and work with outside vendors. However, it is especially important to do your homework and understand the realities of business ownership before you jump in.

Make sure you are committed to and passionate about your business idea. You will be spending many long hours getting started, and it may take a while for your business to pay off.
Research is critical. Take some time to analyze your area of interest. Are you filling an unmet need? Especially if you are considering an online business, how likely is your area to be outsourced? What is your business plan, and who are your potential investors? Learn more in the Resources section below.
Expect limited or no earnings to start. Especially in the first few months, you are building your base and may have start-up costs that offset any profit initially. Make sure you have a plan on how to cope during this period.

Final tips for career changers

Pace yourself and don’t take on too much at once. Career change doesn’t happen overnight, and it is easy to get overwhelmed with all the steps to successfully change careers. However, you will get there with commitment and motivation. Break down large goals into smaller ones, and try to accomplish at least one small thing a day to keep the momentum going.
Don’t rush into a change because of unhappiness in your current job. If you are stressed and unhappy in your current job, or unemployed, you might be feeling a lot of pressure to make a quick change. However, if you don’t do enough research, you might end up in an even worse position than before, with the added stress of a new position and new learning curve.
Ease slowly into your new career. Take time to network, volunteer, and even work part-time in your new field before committing fully. It will not only be an easier transition, but you will have time to ensure you are on the right path and make any necessary changes before working full-time in your new field.
Take care of yourself. You might be feeling so busy with the career transition that you barely have time to sleep or eat. However, managing stress, eating right, and taking time for sleep, exercise, and loved ones will ensure you have the stamina for the big changes ahead.

from .helpguide.org

Warhammer 40K: Space Marine Game

shon3n@gmail.com — Sun, 08 Apr 2012 08:52:00 +0000

Warhammer 40K: Space Marine

This game runs extremely well and i mus say it is very well optimized. I am playing at 1920x1080 on a GTX570 with i5-2500k and the GPU does not go above 55% usage. That's not to say there's not much going on in the game, as the graphics are beautiful and smooth at 60FPS all day. The game supports xbox 360 gamepad natively or customizable keyboard controls. I tried both and I must say since there is a ton of shooting to do, I like the kb/m combo a lot better than the 360 controller. I've read this game runs very well on laptops also that barely meet the minimum requirements. This game is straight up boss on PC and that's a testament to THQ and their Warhammer games that have been on the PC.

This game is VERY satisfying in terms of what it wants to accomplish, and that is killing orcs and making it fun. The gunplay is very tight and I'm halfway through but have experienced at least 8 different guns and there are so far 3-4 different melee weapons. The melee combos are simple but effective and the mix of gunplay and melee combat against hordes of greenskinz is executed very well. Simply it, this game is just FUN to play. There is a demo available on steam if anyone is curious how well it runs and you get a taste of the combat and jet pack. Now the JET pack, WOW you get this thing a few times throughout the campaign and you feel like a beast with it on. You can fly up, ground pound, shoot from the air and just become a murder machine. It is hard to truly share how the combat is in this game, but it really is a blast to just plow through the enemies and the game is no cakewalk either, if you are careless and just jump into the fray you will die. Executions are done after you stun enemies and this is the main way you regain life outside of a "limit break" bar that you go into a fury mode and you also regen health this way. This game has really surprised me on how fun it is. I say that because games need to be FUN and rewarding, not just work that you have to do so much stuff to get somewhere. Right off the bat you get what you expect and that's being a Space Marine that owns. The game is pretty much "hack n slash shooter with no RPG elements. Pure and simple.

Onto my main complaint, and it's not bad is the checkpoint save system. At times the checkpoint is unforgiving and you have to clear an entire large room again and then die in the next area and have to re do it all. This is just me complaining because I'm used to being able to just save anywhere on most PC games. At least the combat is so fun that this only becomes a pain if you are dying a ton, and/or just barely cleared one room only to die the next and it was kind of difficult.

Warhamer 40,000: Space Marine is a third-person Action Shooter in which players accept the role of a Space Marine Captain tasked with the defense of the empire as well as humanity against the Chaos Faction lead by the ruthless Ork hordes. Players will have to use their exceptional size, strength, armor, weaponry and fighting spirit in order to succeed. Features include: a new seamless combat system allowing equally for ranged and melee action, hordes of deadly enemies of various kinds, intense 16-player online multiplayer and more.

In Warhammer 40,000: Space Marine you are Captain Titus of the Ultramarines, humanity's last hope for survival in a war-ridden future. Step into the armor of this superhuman warrior and use a lethal combination of deadly weapons to crush overwhelming alien forces. Fight against the savage Orks and the unholy forces of Chaos in a brutally violent world based on the richest science fiction fantasy ever created.

Space Marine features a fluid combat system that allows players to seamlessly switch from ranged to melee weapons without interrupting the flow of combat. Hitting the melee button at any time will result in a close range strike with the equipped hand-to-hand weapon as well as the camera pulling out to melee distance. Pulling either trigger will instantly snap the view back to behind the player’s shoulder ready for precise shooting. These systems are immediately responsive and leave the player in full control at all times. As the player dispatches enemies in Space Marine they will be earning "Fury" which can be used to unleash devastating ranged or melee attacks. The player can use "Fury Marksman" to enter a heightened form of awareness where time seems to slow down allowing them to pick off multiple ranged enemies in the blink of an eye. Alternately the player can opt to utilize their "Fury Strike" up close and personal with a sweeping area of affect attack that will obliterate anything close enough and knock-back and stun more distant foes.

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Kangkung Menghilangkan Ketombe Secara Alami

shon3n@gmail.com — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 02:44:00 +0000

Cara Menghilangkan Ketombe

Dengan Kangkung

Mungkin membaca judul artikel ini ada yang heran atau mungkin ada yang pernah mendengar tapi kurang yakin. Tapi setiap kali aku menceritakan metode ini ke teman-teman, mereka biasanya terkejut dan mengaku belum pernah mendengar. Cara menghilangkan ketombe dengan kangkung ini kualami sendiri, beberapa waktu yang lalu kepalaku gatal sekali dan ketika kucek ternyata dikepalaku banyak butiran putih seperti pasir, kata orang sih ketombe sebab aku sendiri belum pernah ketombean, entah dari mana datangnya .

Sewaktu garuk-garuk kepala karena ketombe iseng-iseng aku tanya ke seorang teman apa obat ketombe. Dia menyarankan untuk memakai kangkung. Bagaimana caranya ? ini langkah-langkahnya.

Ambil seikat kangkung yang masih segar, kalau bisa ambil kangkung langsung dari kebun. Setelah dicuci di potong-potong sekecil mungkin agar getahnya keluar semua (kuperkirakan getah kangkung inilah yang membasmi ketombe).
Kemudian kangkung yang telah dipotong tadi rebus dengan kira-kira tiga gelas air, masak dengan api kecil. Setelah air tinggal sedikit dan warnanya agak hitam (perkirakan cukup untuk membasahi seluruh rambut dan kepala) angkat dan biarkan sampai hangat-hangat suam.
Setelah hangat atau kamu lebih suka dingin peras rebusan kangkung tadi maka akan keluar lendir campurkan saja dengan air rebusannya. Manfaat lendir itu adalah melembutkan rambut, karena saat pertama kali memakai metode kangkung ini aku tidak mengambil lendirnya so rambutku keras banget seperti memakai sampho anti ketombe lainnya rambut menjadi keras.
Langkah selanjutnya keramaslah dengan shampo seperti biasa kemudian handuki rambut sampai tidak meneteskan air, sekarang rebusan kangkung tadi diusapkan keseluruh rambut sampai mengenai kulitnya. Kalo kamu telaten pijatlah kepala pelan- pelan sekitar satu menit. Sambil menunggu rebusan kangkung bereaksi kamu bisa mandi atau ngapain aja kan .
Sekitar 10-15 sudah cukup rambut bisa dibilas kembali dengan air.
Ulangi cara ini sampai ketombe hilang.

Kalau aku dulu cuma ngulang sampai tiga kali ketombenya sudah hilang. Selain ketombe hilang rambutku semakin hitam dan lembut. Eits ini bukan iklan tapi pengalamn asli , kamu bisa coba deh daripada ketombe terus menggerogoti kulit kepalamu. Selain ga enak dirasa, ga enak juga dilihat. Selamat mencoba, kalo berhasil kamu bisa kasih komentar di bawah ini.

Cara Melangsingkan Tubuh Dengan Mudah Tanpa Menahan Lapar

shon3n@gmail.com — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 15:32:00 +0000

Langsing Dengan Cara Yang Alami

Aku disini menulis tentang pengalaman seorang teman tentang melangsingkan tubuh dengan mudah tanpa harus menahan lapar. Cara ini juga tanpa obat-obatan dan jamu-jamuan.Di bawah ini tulisan asli dari dia ya, yok simak tiap langkahnya.

Kurang lebih dua tahun yang lalu aku menjalani operasi 'open heart', karena suatu kelainan di jantung terpaksa di operasi. Sebulan dirumah sakit terbaring dan di tambah obat-obatan otomatis membuat tubuhku menggelembung. Berat badanku sebelum masuk rumah sakit 46 kilogram menjadi 56 kg, dengan tinggi 155 centimeter tentu ngak enak lo ngelihat bentukku wkwkwkwkw, bayangin deh. Meskipun sebenarnya berat segitu ga gendut-gendut amat kata teman-temanku tapi tetap aja aku ngak pede.

Seperti kata mitos, orang yang baru operasi biasanya sangat susah kembali ke ukuran normal setelah badannya menggelembung. Jadi aku berusaha memutuskan mitos tersebut, karena di tahun pertama badanku masih dalam pemulihan aku belum berani diet dan berolah raga. Namun di tahun kedua kubulatkan tekad untuk mengembalikan bentuk tubuhku. Dan sekarang beratku sudah 50 kg, berat segini memang sengaja tidak kukurangi lagi agar lebih sexy kata pacarku..hehhehe. Oke aku akan berbagi rahasianya.

1. Sebelum kamu diet , bulatkan dulu tekadmu agar diet yang akan dijalani tidak berhenti di tengah jalan.

2. Sebelum berdiet hal yang paling penting kamu lakukan adalah mengencangkan perut, karena kunci diet ada di perut. Kamu bisa mengencangkan dengan cara sit-up atau latihan pernafasan. Jika perutmu sudah kencang maka selera makan akan jauh berkurang, bedakan dengan perut yang melar yang pengen makan melulu.

3. Pilihlah menu makan yang berserat. Diet artinya bukan menahan lapar tetapi mengatur pola makan, artinya meskipun diet kamu tetap bebas makan apa aja tetapi di atur waktu dan kuantitasnya.

Sarapan pagi bisa kamu isi dengan oat meal , atau sepotong roti dan segelas susu tanpa lemak.

Makan siang bisa dengan menu yang lebih berat, nasi +ikan/daging+sayur.

Makan malam dengan buah-buahan atau sayur, dan makanan lainnya yang sangat sedikit mengandung karbohidrat.

4. Dalam diet ini aku sangat menganjurkan untuk sebanyak mungkin menghindari nasi, walaupun kamu tidak bisa melepaskan diri dari nasi, usahakan hanya sedikit saja memakannya.Agar kenyang kamu bisa mengantinya dengan sayur yang lebih banyak. Karena kalori yang ada pada nasi akan segera menjadi lemak jika tidak kamu pakai beraktivitas berat.

5. Hindari makan-makanan berlemak sebanyak mungkin, seperti ice cream, cokelat, permen dll. Jika kamu juga sangat tidak bisa menahan keinginanmu untuk melahapnya, makanlah makanan itu pada saat siang hari.

6. Jangan makan malam di atas jam 6 sore.

7. Jangan tidur setelah makan , minimal 2 jam setelah makan.

8. Berolah raga secara teratur tetap berperan penting untuk mengurangi berat badan, selain lebih sehat tentunya.

Nah , gimana tipsku diatas? masih terasa sulit?? yah kalo usaha diatas kamu rasa terlalu sulit kamu bisa saja menggunakan obat-obatan pelangsing. Tapi menurutku cara seperti ini tidak aman, dan jika kamu tidak bisa mengatur pola makanmu obat-obatan juga percuma. Ingat , tubuh langsing tidak sekedar untuk enak dilihat tetapi untuk kesehatan juga. Orang yang beratnya berlebihan sangat mudah terserang berbagai penyakit. Kalo kamu menemui kendala dalam dietmu , kamu boleh share disini.

Whose The Woman on the Back of Bobby Petrino's Motorcycle

shon3n@gmail.com — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 06:31:00 +0000

The Woman on the Back of Bobby Petrino's Motorcycle

Well, this is awkward. Remember that motorcycle accident that Arkansas football head coach Bobby Petrino was involved in? And remember how his family issued this statement afterward?

It turns out that all of that is true -- except the "no other individuals" part. There were other individuals. And by other individuals, we mean an attractive blond woman who is not Bobby Petrino's wife.

But wait -- there's more. It turns out that Jessica Dorrell is not just a former volleyball player at Arkansas (one of 13 Razorbacks with 1,000 kills!) and an assistant director of the Razorbacks Foundation -- she was recently hired by Petrino to be the football program's student-athlete development coordinator.

We found all of that out not because the university or anyone reported it, but because the police report for the accident was finally released.

And the fun doesn't end there. It turns out that Jessica Dorrell is engaged to Josh Morgan, who appears to be the same Josh Morgan who serves as director of swimming and diving operations at Arkansas.

To be clear, we do not know for a fact that anything untoward happened here. It's not like Bobby Petrino was found with a pair of red panties in his lap, like a certain former athletics director. But the chain of events here raises far too many questions even if nothing happened between Petrino and Dorrell.

Did the university know that Dorrell was riding on the back of the motorcycle when they issued what now appears to be a false statement from Petrino's family? If not, why did Petrino lie to (or mislead) his employers? If so, why did the university lie to the public for Petrino?

More importantly, if something untoward was going on here, or if Petrino did lie to the university, what does Arkansas do?

This isn't exactly analogous to the Houston Nutt situation, because at least Nutt's eager texting of a reporter covering the Hogs -- and we should quickly point out that there was never any concrete proof that Nutt was romantically involved with her -- didn't take place with an athletics department employee. (Much less an athletics department employee engaged to another athletics department employee.) That is a different kettle of fish entirely.

But Petrino is the most successful head coach at Arkansas in years. So can the university overlook a lie, assuming the administration wasn't complicit in it to begin with, if there are no other issues in the case? Can they overlook it if there was something wrong happening?

There are a lot of questions that Arkansas fans and others have to pick through over the next few days, but the last two are the ones that could haunt a team seemingly on the rise in the SEC West.

sourche :teamspeedskill

Fast and Effective Ways To Get His Attention

shon3n@gmail.com — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 14:52:00 +0000

10 Fast and Effective Ways To Get HIS Attention!

Have you noticed that your husband or boyfriend is paying less and less time with you and more time with work or his hobbies? It's perfectly fine to feel a little insecure when he starts focusing on other things, but that doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. Usually, when a guy starts switching his attention away from the relationship to things like work or hobbies it is because he feels secure in his relationship. Most guys have the "if it's not broken, then don't fix it" attitude.

Right now, he just feels that there is no issue that the relationship needs all of his attention. What you want to do is have a talk about ways that you can spend more time together or you can simply seek more of his attention out with subtle hints. The only thing is that you don't want to sound demanding or clingy.

When it comes to talking to your man, you will want to avoid sounding demanding. If you push him and there is nothing wrong, to him, in the relationship, he will start to get defensive. Don't sound like you don't trust him, or that you don't appreciate him. If it is work that is getting in the way of you two men take their jobs very seriously. In fact, a job, to a man, defines who he is.

If you begin to get all demanding he feel like you don't appreciate all the work that he does, which he'll say he does it for you. Most of the time, you will find that if the man is too evolved in work it is because he wants to better his position, better his life, and better the relationship too. However there are many ways that you can take control of the situation. When you do any of the following make sure that you think about how your boyfriend/husband will feel. You don't any to alienate or seem demanding or clingy.

1) First, you may want to spice up the relationship in the bedroom.

If you have noticed that you both seem to be bored in the bedroom, one of the partners will usually pull away from those types of situations. You can spice up the relationship by being more aggressive, take more of a part, and upping the romance and attraction in a relationship.

2) You may want to stop by the office just to say "Hi".

See him at the office every now and then when you can so that you can let him know that you still care. If you pop in the office and ask him out to lunch, he'll love the fact that you have taken time out from your busy schedule to stop by.

3) Start dressing sexier.

If you start wearing a pushup bra or show some cleavage, he'll notice. If you dress in colors that he loves and start wearing more slinky, short dresses, he'll definitely notice. This is one of the quickest ways to get his attention.

4) You will also start wanting to be less available.

When you aren't there for him when he needs you, he's going to start paying more attention to you so he can bring you back into his life more. However, don't be too unavailable because you may lose this game, however, if you begin to tease by making them wait to check your schedule for a date, he'll get the picture.

5) Another way to get his attention is teasing plainly.

If you go in for a kiss and then change your mind, if you flirt more, he'll become more attracted to you and you'll have his attention a lot more.

6) Not only should you dress sexier, but also you should walk and talk with confidence.

When you are confident and seem so happy and flirtatious, you are more likely to catch his attention. If you walk around sort of mellow and not really, into the morning, he'll not pick up on you, however, if you begin to walk around like you own the place, well his attention will be caught because he'll notice the change and he'll be attracted by it. Confidence is a turn on.

7) Not only should you spice up the bedroom with a new routine, but you will also want to work on your foreplay.

You will want to think about when you were in high school, or maybe in the beginning of the relationship, and you were so passionate in your kissing and foreplay. If you can bring that back, he'll start coming home early and he'll bring to spend more time with you.

8) Start doing things just for him.

Like cook dinner (or order take out and pretend that you cooked it) for him in a romantic setting. This will give you the full attention and then you can do something to keep the relationship interesting and moving forward.

9) What will really get his attention is if you backed off the whole baby or marriage conversation.

Many of the times when a man plunges himself in work it's to avoid such topics. Just one day not mention it. In fact, back off for a while on the subject. If he brings up, you guys are ready for that step, but men don't like to be hassled by topics that women seem to focus on. He'll notice the change and either appreciates it and come back to focusing on you or he'll initiate a talk.

10) Bluntly, ask about the relationship.

As soon as you say, "I think we should talk?" in a mature and serious tone, guys know it's about the relationship and they will participate in a talk. This will allow him to know how you feel about him spending so much time away from you and he'll tell you why, and this will help you set all the insecurities aside so that the passion can be brought back to the relationship.

sourche: eioba

The Hunger Games Movie Mockingjay Prop Rep Pin

shon3n@gmail.com — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 11:16:00 +0000

The Hunger Games Movie

Mockingjay Awesome Pin

If you notice the wings of the mockingjay, to be an authentically real pin, the wings of the bird have to reach out of the circle just a little bit. Guess what? This one does, the weight is good you don't feel it, it's made of durable metal, which means it will endure any fall or being thrown. The circle around the bird should be about half mm bigger than a US quarter. The packaging was well done and safe and inside it was secure. The third picture shown that has the pin, the plastic packaging, and has the words NECA on the top right corner are exactly what you will see and receive if you order it. I advise you to buy it, it's amazing, and please if you're crazy over the Hunger Games, you should have at least read the first book until now and don't turn this into Twilight as in go Team Peeta or Team Gale, the Hunger Games is more than a love story, its about freedom and rebellion. May the odds be ever in your favor.

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Romantic Dating Tips

shon3n@gmail.com — Thu, 29 Mar 2012 11:33:00 +0000

How To Be Romantic

Romance is at the heart of any dating experience. If you don't consider yourself romantic then you are wrong. I don't know of anyone on this planet who doesn't have the ability to fall in love. Therefore if you can fall in love, you can be romantic too. Romance is not in the grand gestures , it is in the small details. Women will often say that it is the small things that matter. The small gestures but it is down to both men and women to start being romantic. It is a two-way process and both parties get an immense amount of pleasure from showing they care about someone. Yes we would all love to have a romantic picnic on a deserted Caribbean beach with the person of our dreams but romance begins closer to home with tips such as these:

· Understand what romance means and why it is important and learn what romantic aspects there are to your own character. No one has a heart made of stone, however tough their exterior.

· Understand that romance is not the sole domain of women and that men who are romantic are far more successful when dating

· Romance has nothing whatsoever to do with masculinity. In fact, being romantic can enhance your masculinity and reputation with girls.

· Not all women are naturally romantic either but that doesn't have to be the case.

· The key to being romantic is thoughtfulness. So start being a little less thoughtless and selfish.

· Communicate with your partner on every level and anticipate their desires and needs.

· Look at your partner when they are talking and hold their gaze

· Learn that mood, location, situation and ambience can heighten romance with dramatic effect

· Phone just to say hello, I love you and surprise your partner

· Learn to say, I love you and mean it. Don't say it ever, if you don't mean it

· Send them notes and small cards telling them you are thinking of them

· Be spontaneous and do little deeds that show you are thinking about them

· Start going for walks together, whatever the weather

· Put your partner first, particularly as a surprise with a spontaneous trip away

· Think creatively and plan a surprise weekend away

· Buy flowers any time of the year, nice ones not just roses

· Remember birthdays, anniversaries and landmark days such as the day you first met and plan something

· Listen to the clues your partner gives you, such as things they like and books they read and buy little gifts

· Keep being romantic. In a good relationship, romance never ends

· Compromise. Putting yourself first is not romantic.

· Write him/her a letter and let them know that you love them and you mean it. People send far few letters these days. Use good quality stationery too.

· Watch romantic movies together and invest quality time doing the things you share and both enjoy

· Make cards rather than buying them. It shows thought and inspiration.

· Take your partner on a picnic to the park or beach and prepare in advance without involving them. Initiative illustrates romance nicely

· Don't be a cold fish. Learn how to hug, cuddle and make physical contact. Touching without sex is far more romantic but don't always hug without kissing!

· Kiss your date and learn to appreciate the finer qualities of kissing for its own sake

· Dance together when the occasion arises and show them special attention

· Hold hands and do anything make your partner feel close to you

· Hold and hug your partner in bed, especially after sex

· Talk chat and converse about anything and everything

· Allow your partner to breathe and do separate things to heighten the sense of romance when you are together

· If you don't cook dinner for your date, start learning my friend. A surprise dinner with candles is romantic

· Buy small gifts spontaneously that show great thought in what they enjoy. But not too many otherwise it has the opposite effect

· Remember that romance is often about giving of yourself, even if it is simply your precious time when you could have had other plans. Making your partner a priority is vital

· Do things that make you both laugh. Laughter and romance go hand in hand

· Remember that romance is in the small details and does not need to be expensive in any way. I'd rather receive a handmade card any day than an expensive gift.

· Anticipate your partner's wishes and desires to show them you are listening to them and that you care.

· Expect rightfully that romance is a two-way process though the romance you provide is simply giving of yourself.

source: topdatingtips

How to Manage and Improve Your Credit

shon3n@gmail.com — Thu, 29 Mar 2012 10:17:00 +0000

Tips to Manage and Improve Your Credit

Understanding your credit score can be complicated, but when managed, can work to your advantage. A good credit score has a major impact on your financial life.I want to share you how it's help you understand and improve your credit.

"A good credit score is important in many aspects of your life. "It can make the difference in receiving approval for a mortgage, car loan eligibility and credit card interest rates. A good credit score can lead to better rates and less interest paid over time."

In honor of Credit Education Month, these offers a few tips to manage and improve your credit.

1. Check your credit report. This should be done at least 60 days or 90 days before applying for a loan in order to make sure that the report is correct. If it's incorrect, make sure to notify a credit agency before you apply for a loan.

2. Pay your bills on time. When a bill is paid late, or is even 30 days past due, it can show up on your credit report for up to seven years.

3. Manage credit responsibly. Less is more. By cancelling credit accounts and getting new ones, you cause a negative impact on your credit score. It can take months even years to repair.

4. Avoid going over the credit limit. Some credit card companies allow you to do this as a courtesy, but it can negatively reflect on your ability to handle your account.

5. Use credit when needed. If you never use credit of any kind, it doesn't mean that you'll have a great credit history. Most lenders prefer to see at least three to four accounts reflecting a satisfactory 24-month payment history.

6. Avoid "shopping for credit." Each time you apply for a loan or credit card, an inquiry from that lender will be reflected on your credit report. Inquiries can affect your credit score.

7. Add an installment loan to the mix. You'll get the fastest improvement in your scores if you show you're responsible with both major kinds of credit: revolving (credit cards) and installment (personal loans, auto, mortgages and student loans).

8. Use your cards lightly. Racking up big balances can hurt your scores, regardless of whether you pay your bills in full each month. You often can increase your score by limiting your charges to 30 percent or less of a card's limit; 10 percent is even better.

9. Consider limiting your credit. Applying for a new account, transferring balances, or concentrating all of your credit-card balances onto a single card can result in a lower credit score.

Managing your credit score does not have to become a source of anxiety or stress. Take advantage of this Credit Education Month to learn more about your credit score and ways to improve. A clean credit report and good score can help you with future loans and interest rates.

source: the wall street journal

Perbandingan Xenia dan Avanza

shon3n@gmail.com — Fri, 23 Mar 2012 14:01:00 +0000

Perbedaan dan Persamaan Avanza dan Xenia

Kalau di suruh milih , kira kira milih mana ya? Xenia atau Avanza ?

Kalau anda tipe orang yang mengedepankan prestise, saya sarankan untuk memilih Avanza. Toyota sebagai leading market mobil di indonesia pastilah menjadi sebuah brand yang cukup membanggakan bagi penggunanya. Namun, bagi anda yang mengedepankan logika, dan fungsionalitas, maka Xenia pilihannya.

Pada tahun 1999, Daihatsu menjadi anak perusahaan dari Toyota Motor Company, dengan Toyota menguasai 51% saham daihatsu. Dengan adanya kerjasama ini maka pada tahun 2004 dibuatlah sebuah mobil yang dirancang dan dibuat bersama oleh Daihatsu dan Toyota.Mobil ini kemudian di pasarkan dengan 2 merek.Daihatsu Xenia dipasarkan oleh Astra Daihatsu Motor, Sedangkan Toyota Astra Motor memasarkannya dengan merek Avanza.

Sejak pertama kali diluncurkan, MPV ini langsung mencatatkan penjualan tertinggi di Indonesia.Dengan mesin yang sama namun beda cc, Xenia menggunakan mesin 1000 cc dan 1300 cc, Avanza menggunakan mesin 1300 cc dan 1500 cc.

Bagi anda yang memerlukan mobilitas tinggi untuk di pakai di dalam kota, saya sarankan untuk memilih xenia 1000 cc. Namun jika anda memerlukan mobil yang dipakai untuk antar kota, saya sarankan memilih Avanza 1500 cc. Lo ? lalu kalau yang 1300 cc di kemanain ? di kasih ke saya saja kali ya. hehe, becanda. :-P.

Mesin 1300 cc cocok di gunakan dalam segala kondisi. Mau dalam kota, atau luar kota, cukup pas untuk pengguna yang tidak terlalu memerlukan speed tinggi. Lagian jalanan di indonesia mana ada sih yang bisa buat geber mobil sampai kenceng, paling ya cuman di pantura.hehe :-D

Lalu kalau memilih mesin 1300 cc kira kira milih Avanza atau Xenia ?

Kalau saya sarankan lebih baik milih Xenia, kenapa ? karena selain xenia dan avanza memiliki mesin yang sama, namun untuk harga OTR nya lebih murah Xenia. Selain itu juga untuk spare part dan biaya servis lebih murah xenia daripada avanza. Dengan harga yang lebih murah dari Avanza , Xenia menawarkan fitur lebih dan kualitas yang sama. So ? kenapa milih yang mahal ? apa karena prestise ?

Kalau alasannya prestise saya sarankan mending milih Avanza tipe mesin 1500 cc. Mesin lebih bertenaga, dan lebih nyaman. Cuma sayang lebih boros. Namun hal ini wajar karena cc nya juga lebih besar.

Ok sekian dulu pembahasan Xenia dan Avanza, jika ada pertanyaan silahkan ajukan lewat komentar di bawah artikel ini, Semoga bermanfaat. ;-)

Menghasilkan Uang dari Facebook

shon3n@gmail.com — Thu, 22 Mar 2012 12:54:00 +0000

Cloudcrowd Uang dari Facebook

Bagi kamu yang suka fesbukan sudah pernah dapat duit dari fesbuk? aku aja kaget seh saat tau yang beginian, padahal udah fesbukan dari berapa tahun kemarin. Adalah cloudcrowd.com namanya yang mengajak kita melakukan hal-hal mudah dan mendapat dollar. Disini kita dipekerjakan oleh perusahaan-perusahaan yang membutuhkan detil -detil yang berhubungan untuk mengisi data -data yang di dapat dari internet. Paid to task ini misalnya mencari tag sebuah gambar atau video, menyunting artikel, atau menterjemahkan. Kamu bebas memilih tugas yang sesuai dengan minatmu.

Saya yakinkan bahwa cloudcrowd ini bukan scam, kalau kamu ragu bisa kamu coba dulu beberapa tugas terus lihat besok harinya apakah paypalmu sudah terisi. Nah asyik kan, sambil chating ama teman-teman bisa ngerjain tugas-tugasmu disini. Tunggu apa lagi ? buruan daftar disini clowdcrowd.com

The Hunger Games

shon3n@gmail.com — Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:44:00 +0000

The Hunger Games "Movie"

THE HUNGER GAMES is directed by Gary Ross, with a screenplay by Gary Ross and Suzanne Collins and Billy Ray, and produced by Nina Jacobson’s Color Force in tandem with producer Jon Kilik. Suzanne Collins’ best-selling novel, the first in a trilogy published by Scholastic that has over 23.5 million copies in print in the United States alone, has developed a massive global following. It has spent more than 160 consecutive weeks/more than three consecutive years to date on The New York Times bestseller list since its publication in September 2008, and has also appeared consistently on USA Today and Publishers Weekly bestseller lists.

story Line

Every year in the ruins of what was once North America, the evil Capitol of the nation of Panem forces each of its twelve districts to send a teenage boy and girl to compete in the Hunger Games. A twisted punishment for a past uprising and an ongoing government intimidation tactic, The Hunger Games are a nationally televised event in which "Tributes" must fight with one another until one survivor remains.

Pitted against highly-trained Tributes who have prepared for these Games their entire lives, Katniss is forced to rely upon her sharp instincts as well as the mentorship of drunken former victor Haymitch Abernathy. If she’s ever to return home to District 12, Katniss must make impossible choices in the arena that weigh survival against humanity and life against love.

from ; thehungergamesmovie.com

Cara Menghasilkan Uang Dari Blog

shon3n@gmail.com — Wed, 21 Mar 2012 13:12:00 +0000

Menghasilkan Uang dari Blog

Dulu awal aku buat blog ini cuma buat iseng-iseng sekalian menyalurkan hobby menulis. Ngak pernah ada kepikiran untuk mencari uang dari internet. Semakin lama kok rasanya membosankan juga kalo cuma nulis-nulis ngak jelas gitu.Setelah ngobrol-ngobrol dengan teman dan membaca-baca info tentang program-program menghasilkan uang ternyata gampang banget .Kenapa ngak aku coba aja ?? daripada ngenet cuma buat iseng dan mencari hiburan yang ngak jelas. Kayaknya mendapat uang dari internet ternyata jauh lebih menghibur, hehhe.

Berikut website-website yang aku pakai untuk menghasilkan duit dari blog, dijamin bukan scam dan pasti membayar fee dari blogger sebagai publisher.

1. Infolinks

Setelah dibanned dari adsense google aku beralih ke infolinks, PTC yang ini malah lebih gampang daftarnya asal blogmu gak total memakai bahasa indonesia. Blog yang aku pake juga memakai bahasa indonesia namun separuhnya berbahasa Inggris.

2. Chitika

PTC yang ini agak unik, mungkin kamu ngak bisa lihat kalau di blog ini ada iklan dari chitika, namun kalau

online dari negara seperti USA, Canada atau Eropah aku yakin iklannya pasti terlihat. Pada awal aku masukkan code iklannya aku bingung sampai beberapa hari, katanya kok di approved tapi ngak ada jejak iklan sedikitpun. Tapi ketika kubuka account chitika reportnya ada beberapa iklan yang di klik. Ternyata iklan chitika hanya dapat dilihat dari zona marketingnya. Info lengkapnya klik chitika.com.

3. Amazon

Amazon memberikan fee dari hasil penjualan barang yang ngelink dengan blogmu. Komisi dari amazon ini cukup besar dan sangat pair dalam pembagian komisi. Jika kamu rajin -rajin mereview barang - barang amazon pasti banyak yang tertarik. Amazon juga pasarannya USA, jadi pastikan blogmu juga diisi artikel bahasa inggris.

4. Mungkin kamu bosan cuma menunggu hasil tanpa kejelasan dan punya hobby menulis , kamu bisa salurkan di sponsorreview. Disini kita bisa menawarkan untuk membuat artikel tentang website-website sesuai permintaan sponsor. Kebanyakan websitenya bahasa inggris, tapi pernah tanpa kuduga ada website yang ternyata bahasa indonesia.

Jangan kwatir meskipun blog anda hanya berbahasa indonesia, banyak kok website lokal yang membayar kamu sebagai publisher. Ini beberapa yang kupakai :

1. Kumpul Blogger
Mendaftar Kumpul blogger sangat mudah, hari ini mendaftar biasanya besok sudah di approved. Langsung aja daftar disini kumpul blogger.

2. Idblognetwork
Ini web pemasok iklan favorit ku , tapi sayang dapat iklannya susah banget, yang kebagian cuma web besar dan rank alexa yang tinggi.

3. Kliksaya
Disini blogger bisa mendaftar sebagai penerbit, biasanya blog dengan rangking alexa min.1 di approved, iklannya cukup banyak.

4.Sitti
Sama dengan iklan PTC lainnya , kamu akan di bayar tiap klik iklan yang terpasang di blogmu.

Ayo kita manfaatkan peluang - peluang ini, sekali iklan aktive di blog maka dengan pengunjung yang ramai di jamin iklan akan menghasilkan duit. Selamat berjuang bro.

tips mencegah virus komputer masuk ke komputer kita

shon3n@gmail.com — Thu, 15 Mar 2012 14:22:00 +0000

Tipa Membasmi Virus Komputer

Sangat menjengkelkan sekali apabila komputer atau laptop kita tiba tiba lemot dan restart sendiri. Apalagi saat kita sedang mengerjakan suatu tugas yang sangat penting. jengkel bangetkan rasanya ? Makanya, coba baca artikel di bawah untuk tips mengatasi dan menghilangkan virus di komputer kita.

Ok, Sebelum kita membahas lebih jauh tentang cara membasmi virus, kita harus tahu Penyebab utama komputer kita terkena virus.Prinsip Utama sebenarnya sangat simple sekali. Virus itu pasti tidak akan pernah ada di komputer kita kalau tidak ada media lain yang memasukkannya. Media lain itu bisa berupa flash disk yang terinveksi virus, atau bisa juga berupa situs internet yang mengandung virus. Jadi intinya, virus itu tidak ada dengan sendirinya, tapi ada yang mengadakan. ini bukan lagunya utopia lo, antara ada dan tiada. he.he.he...

Syarat mutlak utama dalam memerangi virus adalah menginstal suatu program antivirus. Tapi, seperti yang saya bilang tadi, hal ini tidaklah cukup. Berikut tips membasmi virus secara tuntas tas tas.

1. Instal lah antivirus yang handal dan sudah terbukti hebat.
Untuk urusan antivirus handal, penulis punya pengalaman sendiri. Penulis sangat merasa mantap memakai NOD32 Eset Smart Security. Anti virus ini terbukti sangat hebat dalam membasmi virus yang tak bisa di basmi oleh antivirus lain macam avg, smadav, avast, norton, avira, dll. Selain itu, eset smart security juga melindungi kita dari trojan yang tersembunyi di balik situs situs internet. Jadi satu antivirus ini cukup komplit dan sangat recomended. Bukan promosi lo, tapi memang ini berdasarkan pengalaman pribadi penulis.

2. Segera tanggap jika komputer anda mengalami keanehan.
Cek segera dengan membuka task manager, cari program yang membuat komputer kita berat atau lemot. coba telusuri apakah program itu memang program resmi atau yang memang sudah kita instal, ataukah program yang tak pernah kita tau asal dan ujung rimbanya.

3. Jangan mengklik atau membuka situs yang memang sudah disarankan oleh antivirus untuk tidak di buka.
Pada saat membuka kita membuka situs tertentu kadang keluar warning atau peringatan bahwa situs yang akan kita buka itu berbahaya apabila di teruskan. Lalu muncul pilihan, proses anyway or not. nah ini sebenarnya adalah warning dari antivirus kita. Arti dari warning ini adalah kita disarankan untuk tidak membuka situs ini, karena di duga dapat menyebarkan worm. Tapi sayangnya dari kita kebanyakan tidak mengerti maksudnya , atau sudah mengerti tetapi tetap ingin melanjutnya. Akhirnya ya, resiko kita sendiri.

4.Selalu scan antivirus flash disk yang akan kita pakai dari awal plug in ke komputer kita.
Seringkali kita tanpa sadar tertular virus dari komputer teman atau warnet lewat flash disk yang kita punya. Oleh karena hampir mustahil kita bisa mencegah itu semua, karena kadang virus tidak terdeteksi di antivirus tapi ternyata ketika di masukkan ke komputer kita malah kena virus. So ini lah fungsi sebenarnya antivirus yang handal tadi.

5.Installah antiworm sebagai solusi tambahan
Penulis pernah mengalami suatu kejadian dimana worm sudah terlanjur masuk ke komputer dan terpaksa penulis menerapkan cara ini, Setelah di scan ternyata memang cukup membantu menangkap worm worm yang ada di komputer penulis,

Ok, sementara itu dulu tips dari penulis, Lain waktu akan saya tambah artikel tentang apa beda virus dan worm dan cara mengatasinya.

Infolinks PPC Alternative Selain Adsense

shon3n@gmail.com — Fri, 09 Mar 2012 15:04:00 +0000

Infolinks PPC Alternative selain Adsense

Bagi yang jengkel karena account adsensenya di banned jangan kuatir masih banyak kok PPC yang bisa menghasilkan dollar. Salah satu alternativenya adalah Infolinks, menurut gw PPC ini keren banget karena cara kerjanya sangat agresive. Kita ngak perlu bingung mau naruh dimana iklannya, karena mesin infolinks akan otomatis menyesuaikan iklan dengan teks-teks yang ada di blog. Teks yang berisi iklan infolinks akan berubah warna dan kadang ada garis- garis di bawah teks.

PPC ini juga di jamin keamanannya, termasuk kalangan PPC elite. Pembayarannya lewat Paypal dengan minimum pay out 50$. Nilai iklan per click ditentukan oleh wilayah pengunjung, wilayah yang paling tinggi nilainya adalah USA dan Canada. Jadi kalau pengunjung anda kebanyakan dari Indonesia penghasilan anda akan jauh berbeda dengan blog-blog berbahasa Inggris.

Pendaftaran infolinks ini sangat mudah dan tidak berbelit-belit, mereka tidak membedakan blog kecil maupun besar. Setelah anda mendaftar biasanya langsung di setujui dan anda langsung dapat memasang kodenya di blog.

Oke sekian bagi infonya, selamat mencoba.

Rihanna , We Found Love in Her Voice

shon3n@gmail.com — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 04:30:00 +0000

Rihanna , Sexy and Hit Makers

No one will denied that rihanna song and voice is really incredible.

if you check her song time by time. you can see that her voice can not compare to anyone, even the winner of all american idol. That my views.

But the power of rihanna not only from her voice, but also her song.She allways make a hit song.

Umbrella, only girl, california king bed, we found love, and many others.

Actually i'm not the fans of her. I think shes not too beautifull but yes, shes sexy. but lately i become her fans. We found love is really make me very interesting. And now i really become interested in her. :)

Rihanna sexy photo

I really glad actually i can find that song, if not i will not learning about rihanna.

For the present, i will put the link of rihanna video on my post.

buy her cd here

Katherine Jenkins On The Bikini

shon3n@gmail.com — Wed, 29 Feb 2012 15:28:00 +0000

Katherine Jenkins The Hots Babes

Born on 29 June 1980 in Wales, she is a Welsh mezzo-soprano. She is a classical crossover singer who performs across a spectrum of operatic arias, popular songs, musical theatre and hymns.

At the age of 17 she won a scholarship to study at the Royal Academy of Music, where she studied Italian, German, French and Russian, graduating with honoursand receiving a music teacher's diploma. Not only pretty and good singer, she is a educated person.

She is the beautiful and talented , we like to talk about her not on "Dancing with the Star" . She not only have a sexy voice but i think she have a body perfect . Here i shared you her hots pose. Its natural and needling posess.

Polisi - Polisi Ganteng

shon3n@gmail.com — Tue, 28 Feb 2012 16:03:00 +0000

Futu -futu Polisi Ganteng

Mumpung lagi hots ni tentang polisi - polisi yang ganteng yang tiba-tiba muncul dari persembunyiannya. Setelah meledakknya video acha acha si Norman Kamaru yang sekarang malah jadi artis ga jelas (eh maap ni buat penggemarnya ya). Dulu sih waktu si Norman pake Seragam polisi ganteng juga, tapi sekarang kok keliatan gimana gitu ya..hahhah..hanya anda dan Tuhan yang tahu..

Kenapa yah ada polisi ganteng jadi sebuah keheboan ? padahal nyari cowok ganteng ga susah-susah amat, di TV juga banyak artis yang ganteng tapi yah reaksi cewek-cewek biasa aja. Ehmmm ini penting banget nih buat perhatian Bapak Kapolri, kalo menurutku sih karena selama ini kita bosan ngeliat tampang polisi yang selalu bikin nyali ciut dan slalu identik dengan wajah sangar, berkumis dan perut gendut. Udah gitu makin jelek aja kalo pas nilang dan minta duit.. uihhhh...

Nah sekarang ada polisi cakep dikit aja cwek-cewek pada heboh, inilah sosok yang dirindukan masyarakat untuk image polisi yang punya semboyan "Pelindung dan Pengayom Masyarakat" tapi kita ngak pernah kayaknya merasakannya malah justru sebaliknya. Kita merindukan sosok polisi yang ramah, kita merasa nyaman dan dilindungi . Yah mungkin dengan munculnya sosok-sosok yang mengejutkan ini, oh ternyata polisi ada juga yang enak dilihat tampangnya...Ini sekedar opini ku..klo ada yang tidak setuju silahkan...

Sekarang yang lagi booming nih Briptu Saeful Bahri, ini dia dengan gayanya yang fenomenal (cieee)

Setelah itu banyak lagi bermunculan wajah-wajah yang lain.. Nih aku bagi-bagi ya buat para cewek-cewek biar bisa bobok manis mimpi indah

Yang ini Briptu Vatta, katanya sih mirip Ricky nya 5minutes..

Ngurah Wiratama

Fauzan Affi

futu dulu ahh

futu jugaaa

Yang ini malah sempet main sinetron lho

Ok. Sekian dulu investigasi ku udah bintitan nih liat polisi-polisi ganteng ini, thanks tu teman-teman Df , dasar tukang gosip bisa aja dapat foto beginian.

Moga - moga polisi-polisi ganteng ini ga jadi narsis karena dikagumi masyarakat, apalagi sampai jadi memilih jadi artis karena mondar-mandir ke smua stasion TV. Yahhh moga-moga lagi kerjanya secakep wajahnya....apalagi kalo ga pake malak n korup..tambah ganteng deh pak...

Gods Island Holiday In "Bali"

shon3n@gmail.com — Mon, 27 Feb 2012 11:13:00 +0000

How To Gets Fun Holiday In Bali

You may have heard the name ' Bali ', that is a tourist spot in southeast asia. This Bali existed precisely in a country called Indonesia. Bali is a small island between the thousands of islands in the country. A very beautiful place that they call it the island of gods ' The God Island '.

Here are some very beautiful places in Bali Like the climate in tropical countries, the place is just experiencing the rainy season and the dry season, so you can have fun at any time. A little problem maybe in the rainy season, mud and a little puddle.

Here I will share tips on how to keep your holiday fun run:
1. Before you decide to come to this place for the first time, I suggest you wear a service agent travell. You can get the website online, dont worry this country not old-fashioned as you might imagine. Many of the travel agent services already offered to foreign tourists. The price they are offering are still reasonable, than you are desperate to come without matching local people, you can be fooled that you just took out the cost of a swollen.

Beautiful Panorama at the seaside

2. Maybe you messing with foreign foods that actually make you tortured . Here a lot of foreign restaurateur with it tastes which need not doubt , such as food eropah , china , america , etc . Or for you that likes to culinary travel you can ask guide you to bring to a local . This country have 32 province with culture, customs and the food a highly diverse , you can find it in Bali.

Dolfine with the sunset

3. During stay in Bali try to interact with the locals, learning the local language, they are people who are very friendly, you could have got a lot of lessons about life from them. However I recommend to carefully defined, criminals wherever there is always, no exception here.

Local Culture

4. If you choose a short time on holiday days out Indonesian national holidays, because on holidays the place is very crowded, so it is not suitable for you who want to find restful.

Restful with Spa

You may be more happy mountain attractions? because Bali is more present shore excursions. In this country there are 3000 more island, a small island until a large very much cultural diversity, nature and food. Many places are much more beautiful than Bali, just a pity the management is still very minimal, but for those of you who like adventurous it is very exciting. Happy Vacation.

Cara Menghasilkan Uang Di Waktu Luang

shon3n@gmail.com — Sun, 26 Feb 2012 13:30:00 +0000

Bagaimana Menghasilkan Uang

Di Waktu Luang

Saat ini semua sisi kehidupan kita begitu sulit, kadang bingung membagi penghasilan dari gaji yang pas-pasan agar semua tetap bisa berjalan dengan baik. Anda mungkin punya waktu yang kosong tapi bingung bagaimana memanfaatkan waktu itu untuk mendapatkan penghasilan tambahan. Ada banyak cara yang bisa dilakukan untuk menghasilkan uang di paruh waktu tersebut, berikut saya kutip dari wikihow :

1. Pikirkan tentang apa yang Anda ingin lakukan. Jika Anda berencana untuk bekerja paruh waktu, carilah sesuatu yang menarik, menguntungkan dan fleksibel buat anda.

2. Memutuskan apakah anda ingin bekerja paruh waktu di rumah atau diluar rumah.

3. Ada empat hal yang harus anda pertimbangkan untuk keputusan anda bekerja paruh waktu

Sesuaikan pekerjaan yang anda pilih dengan keahlian dan faktor yang mungkin mempengaruhi anda dari pekerjaan tersebut. Untuk orang tua perlu memikirkan stamina fisik.
Cari pekerjaan di koran lokal atau di internet.
Anda bisa membuatkan iklan di koran, di papan pengumuman rt/rw atau tempat ibadah, beritahu tentang keahlian dan apa saja yang dapat anda lakukan untuk mendapat bayaran.
Tanya orang-orang disekitar anda. Pekerjaan terbaik biasanya tidak diperoleh di koran, anda bisa bertanya ke tetangga, teman , atau saudara.

4. Memanfaatkan kendaraan yang anda miliki untuk memberikan jasa antar jemput, mis. antar jemput katering/makanan, anak sekolah atau karyawan.

5. Menawarkan jasa kepada warga yang sudah tua untuk membeli obat atau sekedar untuk ke kantor pos.

6. Memberikan jasa merawat hewan. Pekerjaan ini gampang dan menyenangkan, anda hanya butuh memandikan, mengajak jalan-jalan dan menemani bermain.

7. Jika anda menyukai baju-baju baru , anda pasti mengenal beberapa pemilik toko. Pelanggan biasanya mendapat potongan, dan anda bisa menjualnya dengan harga toko.

8. Anda bisa mengumpulkan barang-barang bekas yang masih bagus kemudian menjualnya secara online.

9. Menjadi penulis freelance, anda bisa mencari situs-situs yang membayar anda untuk menulis artikel atau sekedar membuat review website.

10. Membuka penitipan anak dirumah, selain mendapatkan uang. Pekerjaan ini sekaligus menguntungkan bagi anda yang memiliki anak.

Pekerjaan -pekerjaan diatas sangat mudah dilakukan, hanya butuh kemauan dan tekad yang kuat.

Tips Melupakan Mantan Pacar

shon3n@gmail.com — Sat, 25 Feb 2012 15:20:00 +0000

Melupakan Mantan

Malam minggu kayak gini, yah uda agak terlalu malam sih ngomongin malam minggu. Malam minggu kan identik dengan pacaran , wakuncar gituu. Yang baru putus cinta atau lagi ngejomblo karena belom dapat ganti sidoi dan ngak ada teman buat hang out pasti lebih sengsara dari orang yang baru ditolak.. hheheh..

Masih kepikiran pacar terus yah??? bingung ..kok belum juga bisa ngelupain senyumnya yang semanis madu atau pelukannya yang sehangat bulu domba masih terasa saat ingat namanya, padahal jalan kembali sudah tidak ada dan kamu juga ngak pengen berlarut-larut dengan bayangannya.

Ada tips buatmu biar ga nelangsa atau galauuuu berlarut-larut, so bisa eksis kembali godain cowok/cewek sebelah rumah.

1. Jangan pernah mencoba melupakan. Aneh ya, pengen ngelupain kok malah disuruh jangan melupakan. ??? Semakin kamu coba melupakan pasti wajahnya makin nempel di matamu.Ingatlah tentang hal-hal minus aja dari doi, so kamu akan menyadari bahwa kamu ga rugi-rugi amat kehilangan doi, atau malah beruntung banget ngak sama dia lagi.

2. Cari kegiatan-kegiatan baru

Cari kegiatan-kegiatan baru yang belum pernah kamu lakukan atau bisa kegiatan lama tapi sudah ga pernah kamu lakukan, yang membuat sibuk dan cape sehingga kamu cepat tidur , ga perlu menatap langit kamar terus keingat doi lagi. misalnya olah raga, main musik atau apa aja yang membuat waktu kamu cepat terasa habis dan bertemu orang sebanyak mungkin.

3. Hindari tempat-tempat yang pernah kamu datangi bersama doi

Tempat-tempat ini akan mengingatkanmu tentang masa-masa bersamanya. Mending cari tempat lain, selain tidak menimbulkan perih hati bisa nambah pengalaman pada tempat-tempat baru.

4. Tebar Pesona

Ups.. orang lagi patah hati disuruh tebar pesona..ini untuk mastiin bahwa kamu masih ada penggermarnya, jadi ga perlu kuatir, pacarmu ilang trus ga bisa dapat gantinya, tetap pada prinsip mati satu tumbuh seribu.

Tetaplah jaga penampilanmu meski lagi patah hati, jangan sampe ga mandi dan ga sikat gigi.

Inget, aku cuma menyarankan untuk tebar pesona, tidak lebih.

5. Memberi maaf

Siapapun yang salah dan menyebabkan hubungan kamu putus tidak perlu kamu pikirkan, tetapi yang perlu adalah memaafkan, kalo kamu merasa dirimu yang salah maafkan dirimu, anggaplah ini sebagai takdir dan jangan berlarut-larut menyalahkan diri sendiri. Kalo kamu merasa yang salah adalah doi, maafkan doi dengan ikhlas, manusia tidak ada yang sempurna. Semua hal-hal diatas akan sia-sia kamu lakukan kalo hal yang satu ini tidak bisa kamu lakukan.

Pada masa ini aku ga menyarankan kamu untuk segera cari pacar baru, jatuh cinta pada masa patah hati tidak akan berbuah manis, pacar yang kamu dapat untuk pelarian tidak akan pernah bisa kamu cintai dengan tulus. Ini menyakitkan bukan hanya untuk pacarmu , tapi juga buat kamu sendiri. Memang enak pura-pura menikmati hidangan yang sebenarnya ga kamu suka?

Tunggulah sampai hatimu benar-benar iklas menerima keadaan , dan kamu sudah bisa tertawa dengan ringan , saat itu cinta yang baru akan datang tanpa diduga.