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You start to open up and you start to stand up for yourself, which you didn’t do earlier. Yes? And you’re finding yourself irritated with him and mad at him. Yes? Because he’s not the solution to you anymore. He’s not doing this thing all the&hellip;</p></div></div><div class="fl-clear"></div></div><div class="fl-post-feed-post fl-post-feed-image-above fl-post-align-default post-17686 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-love-life" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/BlogPosting"><meta itemscope itemprop="mainEntityOfPage" itemtype="https://schema.org/WebPage" itemid="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/my-husband-was-deeper-than-i-thought/" content="My Husband Was Deeper Than I Thought" /><meta itemprop="datePublished" content="2026-04-29" /><meta itemprop="dateModified" content="2026-04-21" /><div itemprop="publisher" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Organization"><meta itemprop="name" content="Have The Relationship You Want"></div><div itemscope itemprop="author" itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><meta itemprop="url" content="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/author/roriraye/" /><meta itemprop="name" content="Rori Raye" /></div><div itemscope itemprop="image" itemtype="https://schema.org/ImageObject"><meta itemprop="url" content="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2.jpg" /><meta itemprop="width" content="800" /><meta itemprop="height" content="400" /></div><div itemprop="interactionStatistic" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/InteractionCounter"><meta itemprop="interactionType" content="https://schema.org/CommentAction" /><meta itemprop="userInteractionCount" content="0" /></div><div class="fl-post-feed-text"><div class="fl-post-feed-header"><h2 class="fl-post-feed-title" itemprop="headline"> <a href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/my-husband-was-deeper-than-i-thought/" rel="bookmark" title="My Husband Was Deeper Than I Thought">My Husband Was Deeper Than I Thought</a></h2><div class="fl-post-feed-meta"> <span class="fl-post-feed-author"> By <a href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/author/roriraye/"><span>Rori Raye</span></a> </span></div></div></div><div class="fl-post-feed-image"> <a href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/my-husband-was-deeper-than-i-thought/" rel="bookmark" title="My Husband Was Deeper Than I Thought" aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1"> <img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload" alt="" data-srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><noscript><img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload lazyload" alt="" data-srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><noscript><img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload lazyload" alt="" srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/11-2.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></noscript></noscript> </a></div><div class="fl-post-feed-text"><div class="fl-post-feed-content" itemprop="text"><p>I&#8217;ll tell you one more thing about my husband &#8211; our day together at a &#8220;couple&#8217;s workshop&#8221;, with friends of ours. It was our friends&#8217; (great therapists) workshop. So we went, and in the living room of their house, we participated in all kinds of &#8220;couple&#8217;s exercises&#8221;: &#8230;picking up cards&hellip;</p></div></div><div class="fl-clear"></div></div><div class="fl-post-feed-post fl-post-feed-image-above fl-post-align-default post-17689 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-love-life" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/BlogPosting"><meta itemscope itemprop="mainEntityOfPage" itemtype="https://schema.org/WebPage" itemid="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/drop-down-into-what-you-really-want/" content="Drop Down Into What You Really Want" /><meta itemprop="datePublished" content="2026-04-27" /><meta itemprop="dateModified" content="2026-04-21" /><div itemprop="publisher" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Organization"><meta itemprop="name" content="Have The Relationship You Want"></div><div itemscope itemprop="author" itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><meta itemprop="url" content="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/author/roriraye/" /><meta itemprop="name" content="Rori Raye" /></div><div itemscope itemprop="image" itemtype="https://schema.org/ImageObject"><meta itemprop="url" content="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog.jpg" /><meta itemprop="width" content="800" /><meta itemprop="height" content="400" /></div><div itemprop="interactionStatistic" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/InteractionCounter"><meta itemprop="interactionType" content="https://schema.org/CommentAction" /><meta itemprop="userInteractionCount" content="0" /></div><div class="fl-post-feed-text"><div class="fl-post-feed-header"><h2 class="fl-post-feed-title" itemprop="headline"> <a href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/drop-down-into-what-you-really-want/" rel="bookmark" title="Drop Down Into What You Really Want">Drop Down Into What You Really Want</a></h2><div class="fl-post-feed-meta"> <span class="fl-post-feed-author"> By <a href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/author/roriraye/"><span>Rori Raye</span></a> </span></div></div></div><div class="fl-post-feed-image"> <a href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/drop-down-into-what-you-really-want/" rel="bookmark" title="Drop Down Into What You Really Want" aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1"> <img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload" alt="" data-srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><noscript><img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload lazyload" alt="" data-srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><noscript><img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload lazyload" alt="" srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Feminine-WANT-Blog.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></noscript></noscript> </a></div><div class="fl-post-feed-text"><div class="fl-post-feed-content" itemprop="text"><p>We&#8217;re talking about the Feminine Want process. 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We&#8217;re talking about Desire&#8230; ..and I don&#8217;t want to lump the big Want, the Big Desire with the only or just category of &#8220;sexual&#8221; desire &#8211;  but the feeling of sexual desire is so strong, clear and&hellip;</p></div></div><div class="fl-clear"></div></div><div class="fl-post-feed-post fl-post-feed-image-above fl-post-align-default post-17693 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-love-life" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/BlogPosting"><meta itemscope itemprop="mainEntityOfPage" itemtype="https://schema.org/WebPage" itemid="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/what-did-you-see-that-love-was-when-you-were-a-kid/" content="What Did You See That Love Was When You Were A Kid?" /><meta itemprop="datePublished" content="2026-04-25" /><meta itemprop="dateModified" content="2026-04-21" /><div itemprop="publisher" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Organization"><meta itemprop="name" content="Have The Relationship You Want"></div><div itemscope itemprop="author" itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><meta itemprop="url" content="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/author/roriraye/" /><meta itemprop="name" content="Rori Raye" /></div><div itemscope itemprop="image" itemtype="https://schema.org/ImageObject"><meta itemprop="url" content="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32.jpg" /><meta itemprop="width" content="800" /><meta itemprop="height" content="400" /></div><div itemprop="interactionStatistic" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/InteractionCounter"><meta itemprop="interactionType" content="https://schema.org/CommentAction" /><meta itemprop="userInteractionCount" content="0" /></div><div class="fl-post-feed-text"><div class="fl-post-feed-header"><h2 class="fl-post-feed-title" itemprop="headline"> <a href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/what-did-you-see-that-love-was-when-you-were-a-kid/" rel="bookmark" title="What Did You See That Love Was When You Were A Kid?">What Did You See That Love Was When You Were A Kid?</a></h2><div class="fl-post-feed-meta"> <span class="fl-post-feed-author"> By <a href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/author/roriraye/"><span>Rori Raye</span></a> </span></div></div></div><div class="fl-post-feed-image"> <a href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/what-did-you-see-that-love-was-when-you-were-a-kid/" rel="bookmark" title="What Did You See That Love Was When You Were A Kid?" aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1"> <img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload" alt="" data-srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><noscript><img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload lazyload" alt="" data-srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><noscript><img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload lazyload" alt="" srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/resized-blogrr-photos-32.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></noscript></noscript> </a></div><div class="fl-post-feed-text"><div class="fl-post-feed-content" itemprop="text"><p>Let me ask you out there, how many of you had mothers who were in love with your father? Did you experience a mother who was in love with, connected to, touching, smiling, kissing, obviously feeling romantic to, and physically attracted to the man she was living with when you&hellip;</p></div></div><div class="fl-clear"></div></div><div class="fl-post-feed-post fl-post-feed-image-above fl-post-align-default post-17714 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-love-life" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/BlogPosting"><meta itemscope itemprop="mainEntityOfPage" itemtype="https://schema.org/WebPage" itemid="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/be-happy-be-the-woman-you-want-to-be/" content="Be Happy.  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Be The Woman You Want To Be." aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1"> <img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload" alt="" data-srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><noscript><img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload lazyload" alt="" data-srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><noscript><img decoding="async" width="300" height="150" src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7-300x150.jpg" class="attachment-medium size-medium wp-post-image lazyload lazyload" alt="" srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7-300x150.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7-768x384.jpg 768w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/4-7.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></noscript></noscript> </a></div><div class="fl-post-feed-text"><div class="fl-post-feed-content" itemprop="text"><p>There are things and circumstances and people who, when we&#8217;re around them and in them, we feel happy &#8211; and things and circumstances and people who, when we&#8217;re around and in them, we feel sad. 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We want&hellip;</p></div></div><div class="fl-clear"></div></div></div><div class="fl-clear"></div><div class="fl-builder-pagination" style="display:none;"><ul class='page-numbers'><li><span aria-current="page" class="page-numbers current">1</span></li><li><a class="page-numbers" href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/paged-2/2/">2</a></li><li><a class="page-numbers" href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/paged-2/3/">3</a></li><li><span class="page-numbers dots">&hellip;</span></li><li><a class="page-numbers" href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/paged-2/191/">191</a></li><li><a class="next page-numbers" href="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/paged-2/2/">Next &raquo;</a></li></ul></div><div class="fl-builder-pagination-load-more"><div  class="fl-button-wrap fl-button-width-auto fl-button-center"> <a role="button" tabindex="0"     class="fl-button"  > <span class="fl-button-text">Load More</span> </a role=&quot;button&quot; tabindex=&quot;0&quot;></div></div></div></div><div class="fl-module fl-module-rich-text fl-node-58af9bd8db721" data-node="58af9bd8db721"><div class="fl-module-content fl-node-content"><div class="fl-rich-text"><p><span style="color: #cf1150; font-size: 26px;">How To Know If You're His Woman - Or His Delivery Girl...</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px;">by <span style="color: #cf1150; font-size: 14px;">Rori Raye  </span><span style="font-size: 14px;">March 1, 2017</span><span style="color: #cf1150; font-size: 14px;"><br /> </span></span></p><p><em><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-8020 lazyload" src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/2-3-768x644-300x252.jpg" alt="" width="300" data-srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/2-3-768x644-300x252.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/2-3-768x644.jpg 768w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><noscript><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-8020 lazyload" src="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/2-3-768x644-300x252.jpg" alt="" width="300" srcset="https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/2-3-768x644-300x252.jpg 300w, https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/2-3-768x644.jpg 768w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></noscript>When was the last time you felt completely at ease with a man?</em></p><p>Where you felt totally secure in the knowledge that he loves you, totally sure he appreciates you, and feeling that cozy warmth inside because all your needs for love and romance are being met by him?</p><p>Or does that seem like a dream? 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