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	<title>Have The Relationship You Want</title>
	
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	<description>Marriage &amp; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<title>Equality, Entitlement, Conscious Creation and the Mystery of Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:55:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[chivalry]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[equality in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love and money]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masculine]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[money]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I wrote Jason, a man who&#8217;s been posting here, and got this interesting reply:
&#8220;Rori,
Great to get your encouraging email. I am still here. I love your comments, provocative posts, and overall attitude.
If you want a ripe topic &#8212; and maybe you&#8217;ve already touched on this &#8211; I&#8217;d like to know your thoughts on equality and entitlement [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Better To Express Ourselves</title>
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		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/the-better-to-express-ourselves/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 23:03:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[acting class]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotinal healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[expression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Judith Weston]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=571</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So here I am, standing on a stage in a small theater, with 20 people and the teacher in light in front of me and the lovely man in the chair opposite me playing the man in the scene for me (even though I&#8217;m doing a monologue, he is joining me on the stage to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Don’t Let Go, Don’t Resolve, Forget Closure and Stay On Your Horse</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/zj5B38u-yJM/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/dont-let-go-dont-resolve-forget-closure-and-stay-on-your-horse/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 22:39:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[From Lovers To Friends And Back Again]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[letting go of relationship breaking up]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=561</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[How can you move forward in your life without &#8220;letting go&#8221; of him?  And still &#8220;dump him&#8221; and &#8220;stop contact&#8221;?
This is a jump off of the last post, inspired by the comments.  Here are two that sparked me:
Erika said:
“…sometimes if I ignore a guy, I actually end up thinking about him MORE. It feels [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Bring Something Up Without Leaning Forward - DON’T Bring It Up</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/WLGfteXTV0E/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/how-to-bring-something-up-without-leaning-forward-dont-bring-it-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 04:20:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[friends with benefits]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[friends with man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lover to friend]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=555</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from J - and I had very strong feelings when I read it, because I know J&#8217;s history with this man.  And also - most truthfully - because this is exactly the way I was, this is exactly the kind of question I would have asked of Rori Raye long ago, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A Helpful Interview</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/VhJ-v9EEUfs/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/uncategorized/a-helpful-interview/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 21:17:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[braveheart women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mariel hemingway]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=552</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I did an interview for BraveHeartWomen.com that&#8217;s showing today&#8212;it might be helpful to you. It&#8217;s a community of women, kind of cool&#8230;I did it because Mariel Hemingway is on the interviewing panel, and I loved her movie &#8220;Personal Best&#8221; - and of course &#8220;Manhattan&#8221; - so it was a thrill for me to meet her.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Soft Feelings</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/tfyULeYMHGE/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/feminine-energy/soft-feelings/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 18:08:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[peace]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=545</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi - just a very quick post to thank you all - to say how absolutely lovely the energy is on here.  Can you feel it?
Everything&#8217;s soft and deep - and it&#8217;s so relaxing to read through the comments - it&#8217;s like every comment of yours is a gem - so helpful - peaceful, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Keep Your Power When You’re WITH Him</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/O9CEXoWrk-w/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/how-to-keep-your-power-when-youre-with-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 16:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[cure desperation neediness]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get self esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get self respect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[highway of love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[living together]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[relationship end]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[should I move in with him]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=536</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re feeling confused about how &#8220;much&#8221; to do in your relationship with your man - so that you are warm and loving without OverGiving - Here&#8217;s an exchange with one of my clients, Diana, that will be very helpful.
&#8220;Hi Rori,
I have not been able to find a nice place to live so I asked [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Don’t Get Hung Up On Him - Even If You’ve Slept With Him</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/xzNE_ERJ2SI/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/dont-get-hung-up-on-him-even-if-youve-slept-with-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel stuck]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[juicy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pleasure]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship tips]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-pleasure]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stuck]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=517</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s the age-old problem - where does sex fit in the scheme of  &#8220;relationship&#8221;?  Especially at the very beginning? A comment from - I&#8217;ll call her &#8220;Gina&#8221; stated this issue so well, with a lot for me to talk about:
&#8220;Rori, I&#8217;ve recently met a man that I feel has much potential to be a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Accept A Gift - Even If You Think It’s Too Big</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/ugDcselIg5s/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/how-to-accept-a-gift-even-if-you-think-its-too-big/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 03:43:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract a man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[clingy in relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cure desperation neediness]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get self esteem]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[highway of love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=529</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great question from Mercedes - and Mercedes has true confidence, is strong, independent, feisty, and a true goddess - and still, just like all of us, she has places where there&#8217;s still more to learn, more to receive, more to&#8230;.. (I&#8217;m just printing the entire conversation - even though you can see it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>YOU Can Date Other Men, But He CAN’T Date Other Women - Is That Fair?</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/CJExC3YGQV0/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/you-can-date-other-men-but-he-cant-date-other-women-is-that-fair/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 22:40:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Targeting Mr. Right]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[multiple dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[polyamory]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ultimatum in relationship]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Okay - so just because YOU want to date other men - does HE get to date other women?  NO!!!
Here&#8217;s a letter from Victoria that started this post:
&#8220;Rori, I was thinking about your Circular Dating and turned it around. Would you be able to date a man you were very interested in (hoping to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Unearth The Anger And Bring On The Intimacy</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/90DSE5BdrAY/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/unearth-the-anger-and-bring-on-the-intimacy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 18:59:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger management]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[defensiveness in relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[toxic man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic men]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=492</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a situation - a VERY common situation, where a man is consistently defensive and on the attack in order to feel okay with himself. The cure is in my Toxic Men program, and I&#8217;ll touch on it here.
It&#8217;s about unearthing the anger in you, in him, in the relationship - and getting it out [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Instantly Change a Bad Moment into an Intimate Moment</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/OHNkYLGSs9M/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/instantly-change-a-bad-moment-into-an-intimate-moment/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 03:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[self-respect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=482</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever been somewhere with your man, with your friends around, too, and had your man make a comment &#8212; like he usually does &#8212; that&#8217;s both rude, hurtful, and infuriating all at the same time?
Where you feel absolutely stuck, completely rigid and paralyzed, and have no idea what to do to fix the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Be Irresistible to Men, by Taking Exquisite Care of Yourself</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/tN9cP2fc6so/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-be-irresistible-to-men-by-taking-exquisite-care-of-yourself/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 23:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[care]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Care.org]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feminine]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[femininity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[hormones]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[intuition]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[nutrition]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Rose Cole]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=495</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you get my CD Interview Series - you heard the wonderful Rose Cole talking with me about how to pretty much change your life - especially your love life - by balancing the hormones in your body (and she told us exactly how to do that in a mesmerizing way) and I got more [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-be-irresistible-to-men-by-taking-exquisite-care-of-yourself/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<feedburner:origLink>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-be-irresistible-to-men-by-taking-exquisite-care-of-yourself/</feedburner:origLink></item>
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		<title>Stuck With A Confused Man And Nowhere To Live</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/dltQ0aYRYZs/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/stuck-with-a-confused-man-and-nowhere-to-live/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 23:27:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[humiliation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[living with him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationshiip]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=474</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever been this close to total humiliation with a man?  Where you just take your own commitment to him, and your own sense of being a good woman to the point where you&#8217;re almost embarrassed for yourself?
Well, I know I have, and most of the women I know and have worked with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do When A Man Opens Up Emotionally With Feelings</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/pz3bBoJtxoI/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/what-to-do-when-a-man-opens-up-emotionally-with-feelings/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 01:47:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[close]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[communicate]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man opening up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mans emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[men and relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[open him up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[wi the lottery]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=418</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a question from Ebony (my comment started here-&#62;):
&#8220;How do you respond to a man when he shares his feelings and vulnerability? Yesterday I got a text from my guy saying that he was sad and that he wishes that he could win the lottery so that we could start having kids. I was obviously [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Nights In Rodanthe - A Man Must Make You MORE - Not Less</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/Fb6_y4FT_48/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/nights-in-rodanthe-a-man-must-make-you-more-not-less/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 22:21:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[Nights In Rodanthe]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Richard Gere]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=454</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You know I love movies - and my husband was away this week, and so I got to wallow in chick-flicks and tear-jerkers, and here&#8217;s one gem I picked up from Nights In Rodanthe (way too sad for my taste, but very good for tears) - I can&#8217;t remember the exact words our heroine said, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Don’t Walk On Eggshells</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/mgir-szUq5g/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/dont-walk-on-eggshells/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 21:46:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Emotional & Physical Abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger management]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[argue]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[love helpm love advice]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship areument]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship fighting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[save relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop arguing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop arguments]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop fighting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop fights]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=452</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a situation close to my heart that I haven&#8217;t really talked about much before&#8230;this letter states the problem exactly, and I&#8217;d love to get a dialogue going around it&#8230;
&#8220;Hi Rori,
I am 27 years old, I been with my high school sweetheart for almost ten years. We have been engaged for about ten years except [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Let Him Take The Lead- And Have The Strength To Follow</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/Q5DlLjEMA5A/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/let-him-take-the-lead-and-have-the-strength-to-follow/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 16:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[antonio banderas]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Antonio Banderes]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ballroom dance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dancing]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[life journey]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[modern siren]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[take the lead]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[teach dance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[vulnerable]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=424</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is a guest post from Erin Ginkel - she sent me this out of the blue, and I thought it was so terrific, I wanted you to see it&#8230;I&#8217;ve since got in touch with her - and she really is terrific.  She&#8217;s a life and relationship coach and you can find her here: [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Don’t Be Friends</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/bOXsd5rekag/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/dont-be-friends/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 19:55:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Breakup & Divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[From Lovers To Friends And Back Again]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[can he be just a friend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[end relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[friend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[friends to lovers]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[have relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he wants to be friends]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[just friends]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[men as friends]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[men friends]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[platonic]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[platonic relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship break up]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[save relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=421</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is a jump off from a question from Robin -
&#8220;My pattern seems to be getting put in the ‘friends’ category. When I was a teenager, I thought this was the way to go, because I always heard from people that you want to “marry your best friend.” Or that you have a better chance [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Use Your Gluts Instead Of Your Quads To Get Your Man</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/bq85ko95VDk/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/use-your-gluts-instead-of-your-quads-to-get-your-man/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 17:06:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[body awareness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exercise]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feminine]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get strong]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[gluteus]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[gluts]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masculine]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[quadriceps]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[quads]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship tip]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[strength]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=422</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Your quads are in the front of your thighs, and your gluts are in your butt. They actually ARE your butt.
So how can the way you use those muscles possibly make any difference in your love-life?
Because when you walk around every day mostly using your quads to hold you up and move you, you are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Circular Dating Even When You’re Exclusive</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/0q64bfaYjS4/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/circular-dating-even-when-youre-exclusive/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 18:01:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Targeting Mr. Right]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tip]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[excusive relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=415</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve become &#8220;exclusive&#8221; with a man before the ring is on your finger and the wedding date is set - how do you handle the ups and downs and insecurities and weirdnesses that come up - the very things that my Circular Dating tools are meant to help you avoid?
There&#8217;s a firm line between [...]]]></description>
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		<title>From Then To NOW</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/IPQSm-eJXG0/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/from-then-to-now/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2009 22:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be here now]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be in the now]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[memories]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[memory]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[present]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=412</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When I was younger, I was a singer-songwriter.
I used to sing in coffee houses and at college events all around UCLA, and at &#8220;open mic&#8221; nights.  After that, I was lucky enough to become a professional and make a living in bands, singing groups and trying to break out on my own - like American [...]]]></description>
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		<feedburner:origLink>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/from-then-to-now/</feedburner:origLink></item>
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		<title>Circular Dating After 2 1/2 Years</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/4V0mpnnNpd8/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/circular-dating-after-2-12-years/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 20:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[4 man plan]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date more than one man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[reconnect]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=383</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Laura, who&#8217;s got a horrible and lovely problem, all at the same time:
&#8220;Dear Rori -
I have the ebook, Reconnect, and am listening to Modern Siren now. I have learned so much from you.
&#8220;Here is my situation - I have a wonderful boyfriend, we&#8217;ve been together 2-1/2 years. He is very committed [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Doesn’t Want You To Date Other Men - But He’s Living Day To Day…</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/R7XaUzZ5B2Y/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/he-doesnt-want-you-to-date-other-men-but-hes-living-day-to-day/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 02:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[cure desperation neediness]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=405</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Katie left a comment here that I thought would be helpful - the man who want&#8217;s you all to himself but is offering only &#8220;boyfriend/girlfriend&#8221; right now:
&#8220;Rori, Thanks so much for this blog and your tools! I am currently involved with a man (six months into the relationship) and he has asked for sexual exclusivity [...]]]></description>
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		<title>More About Friends With Benefits and Strong Surrender</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/og026hgxNxY/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/more-about-friends-with-benefits-and-strong-surrender/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 21:40:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=390</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Oh, wow - my Friends with Benefits post got some strong reactions&#8230;let&#8217;s go further..
Here&#8217;s the original post:
Here&#8217;s the comment from Priscilla:
&#8220;I&#8217;m a little lost on the strong reaction from Rori. I totally understand the “booty call” thing. But what exactly did the guy do except withdraw and maybe become insensitive to her feelings? It sounds [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Reviving a Dead Relationship</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/P4Id46imdFA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/reviving-a-dead-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 19:26:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=403</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve been talking so much about dating - I wanted to talk about what happens in a long-term relationship, a marriage - when the connection gets so damaged it dies.  Here&#8217;s a letter from Jane:
&#8220;Rori, My marriage is dead. I am sad to say I don&#8217;t even know if I want to try and revive [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Twilight and Transparency</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/41oa_ZPdEts/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2009 02:05:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve talked about Bella as heroine and hero and surrendered girl - and now I want to go into another HUGE part of the book and movie - and that&#8217;s the openness and transparency of the relationship.
One of the qualities that makes this such a yummy fantasy is that our hero, Edward, continually asks Bella [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are You His Woman Or A Delivery Girl</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/Lf4f-jG4Yqw/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/are-you-his-woman-or-a-delivery-girl/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2009 02:22:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=343</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When was the last time you felt completely at ease with your man?
Where you felt totally secure in the knowledge that he loves you, totally sure he appreciates you, and feeling that cozy warmth inside because all your needs for love and  romance are being met by him?
Or does that seem like a dream?  A [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Support For Targeting Mr. Right</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/Fi264PRgoII/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/targeting-mr-right/support-for-targeting-mr-right/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 19:30:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Targeting Mr. Right]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=401</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you have my new program about Circular Dating  - &#8220;Targeting Mr. Right&#8221; - I want you to have extra support for staying with the nuts &#38; bolts of the program.  If you&#8217;re finding yourself stuck in any one place, needing a push to keep going - post your comments here, and I&#8217;ll help as [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do In The Face Of NO</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/HTDmi5gLbe8/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/what-to-do-in-the-face-of-no/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 20:01:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=399</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A bunch of comments here centered around what to do in this situation:
A man cancels on you.
Could be:
He hasn&#8217;t called even though he said he would or you hoped he would, or he makes a date and then doesn&#8217;t call to confirm or show up, or he cancels a Saturday night date, or you&#8217;ve been [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Friend Or Foe - Letter From Lisa</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/PGk4rP95TuU/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/friend-or-foe-letter-from-lisa/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=370</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s an &#8220;other woman&#8221; scenario that I know so many of us have been through:
&#8220;I am having an issue with my fiance regarding his friends. They are a couple but I don&#8217;t have the warmest relationship with the female friend of the couple, although I get along quite well with the rest of his friends [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Twilight the Book’s Bella and Twilight the Movie’s Bella</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/P1RmjcZkeiI/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/twilight-the-books-bella-and-twilight-the-movies-bella/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 00:35:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=391</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I just watched the movie of Twilight (I loved it - I&#8217;m such a romantic, such a pushover) - and our heroine, Bella, is a different person than the Bella from the book.
She&#8217;s evolved, stronger, more receptive.
And the difference in the two ways of seeing this character can be a huge help to us, here.
In [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do If He Doesn’t Want To Have Sex With You</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/Gycs5LolI58/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/what-to-do-if-he-doesnt-want-to-have-sex-with-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 07:03:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=389</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment from &#8220;InLove&#8221;, who&#8217;s suffering at 20 with a problem most of us have experienced at some time or other, in response to  my post about reviving sex&#8230;
&#8220;Hi, I just want to ask about a similar situation. I’m only 20. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Friends With Benefits Stinks</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/-5hCUbNDtmM/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/friends-with-benefits-stinks/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 04:06:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=388</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment from Regina -  it&#8217;s so powerful, I felt so passionate about my answer because it&#8217;s so at the core of all women&#8217;s problems in love that I&#8217;m reprinting it whole and then letting fly:
&#8220;Rori, Please HELP. I am so lost and feel so alone. I have been dating Robert for 4 [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Biggest Trigger - Sex</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/YWDTYfN-Obw/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/the-biggest-trigger-sex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 22:10:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=374</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment from Jami about sex and going numb around it - and it&#8217;s such a terrific and universal topic - I wanted to jump off.  Here&#8217;s Jami&#8217;s comment:
&#8220;I am practicing circular dating and am doing quite well. My triggers are becoming fewer, I am attracting great men, and many tell me I’m incredibly [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Twilight and Making Your Greatest Romantic Fantasy Come True</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/i-CWAAjoH_4/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/masculine-energy/twilight-and-making-your-greatest-romantic-fantasy-come-true/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 22:02:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Masculine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bella]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dream]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[edward cullen]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fantasy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fantasy romance]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[soul mate]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[twilight]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[twilight movie]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=386</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m almost at the end of the book, and then I&#8217;ll quickly pick up the sequel. Twilight is for &#8220;girls&#8221; - the heroine is a teenager - and yet, for me,  it&#8217;s a timeless study of what we women are all about.
Bella, the heroine, has a soulmate kind of fantastical romance that is clearly meant [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Misery With a Married Man</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/cg7dMQHcSOA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/misery-with-a-married-man/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 20:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affair]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affair with married man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[chating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[closed man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date married man]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotionally closed]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love married man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[maried men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[married man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationshp advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[unavailable man]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=368</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s something I hardly ever deal with - a &#8220;relationship&#8221; with a married man - because I see only pain there, but I know many of you are in, or have been in, or are tempted to get involved in a relationship with a married man, so here&#8217;s a letter from Belinda..
(Keep in mind as [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Does A Man Treat You Badly</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/S8YA3j9fhmA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/why-does-a-man-treat-you-badly/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2009 19:40:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad treatment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[clingy in relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cure desperation neediness]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get self esteem]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[highway of love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[man treats me badly]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=378</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a question from Maria that I want to jump off of (I edited it a bit) &#8230;
&#8220;l have a question, too and it may sound as stupid as it is simple. When a man treats you bad is it HIM or ME? Meaning - was he born with (or been given) a natural ability [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Baby Steps To Circular Dating</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/Xw2I7WRUq4I/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/baby-steps-to-circular-dating/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2009 17:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[clingy in relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cure desperation neediness]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[desperation]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[highway of love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[law of attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=376</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m still jumping off Lisa&#8217;s comment that she can barely look a man in the eye, much less even consider &#8220;dating&#8221; one.  To get her, and you - started - here&#8217;s some  new baby-steps&#8230;and I&#8217;ll keep working this into the idea of a &#8220;Road Trip&#8221; to love.
Try this for now:
Baby Step 1- Make Friends.
This is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mesmerize Him By Listening To Your Body</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/rRHbAaHkVZA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/mesmerize-him-by-listening-to-your-body/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2009 21:41:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Targeting Mr. Right]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[awkward man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[better date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[better man]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[boring man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[curiousity]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[icky date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[man not good enough]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-involved man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[selfish man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[unhappy date]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=314</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Are you disgusted with men?
Are you faced with the thought of dating men who are &#8220;sub-par&#8221; - and it feels icky?
I&#8217;ve experienced this a lot in my life, so I know what you&#8217;re feeling when you write me that you had a date with a man, and he only talked about himself, and wasn&#8217;t curious [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Road Trip to Love Forever</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/0WP30DIkPDU/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/the-road-trip-to-love-forever/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 17:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[cure desperation neediness]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[curiosity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[curious]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[desperation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get self esteem]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=375</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Lisa is suffering after a breakup with her man of 10 years, and she&#8217;s feeling the way we&#8217;d all feel in this situation.  I want to jump off of her comment (sorry - I lost the link, but here&#8217;s the whole comment) and help her (and you, too) with some direction. (This will be the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How Expectations Can Change The Outcome</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/V_qQimBl-oM/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/how-expectations-can-change-the-outcome/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 23:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affectionate]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affectionate parent]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[expectations]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[family system]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happy marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[high expectations]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ilusion]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[joy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[modeling relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[parents]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[patterns in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship cycle]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship patterns]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=372</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I made online friends with this incredible man, Corey Allan.  He has a terrific blog - SimpleMarriage.net, and I asked if he would write something special for us - here it is:
When you get right down to it, you hear what you expect to hear, you see what you expect to see.
Expectations change the experience.
If [...]]]></description>
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		<title>More Answers To More Of Your Questions</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/jmgp6MZiBWs/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/more-answers-to-more-of-your-questions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 17:55:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story & Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feminine]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masculine]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[Rori Raye answers]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=367</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi - the older post for answering your questions is getting so huge it&#8217;s hard to get to them all&#8230;so here&#8217;s a fresh place for you to start asking new ones and helping each other.
So that everything we do here is helpful to you to having the relationship you want - when you share and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do With Your Anger - A Man’s Point Of View</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/HnaIJ6P2z_o/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/what-to-do-with-your-anger-a-mans-point-of-view/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 21:31:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger in love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger management]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[angry words]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[being angry at him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[being angry with him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[being honest]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feeling angry]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feeling hurt]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[hurt]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love and anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[radical honesty]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship hurt]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[saying the truth]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[talking about anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[telling him you're angry]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=303</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment made by Matt in response to a series of comments started off by &#8220;Heartbeat&#8221; about how to handle your emotions - especially anger:
&#8220;I’m no advice columnist, but my first inclination is to tell you that a man needs to be able to receive your honest words, he needs to be able to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Stress Hurts More Than Your Heart</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/iT7lFSD8sZs/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/relationship-stress-hurts-more-than-your-heart/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 21:05:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional & Physical Abuse]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[feeling sorry]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heart attack]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heart health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heart hurts]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[love stress]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[women and stress]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[womens stress]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=351</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[How does relationship conflict hurt your body?  Your health?  Your mind?
Okay, we all know stress is a demon - but I saw an article in the newspaper with actual data for women.
It seems that women in &#8220;strained&#8221; marriages are more likely than other wives to have high blood pressure and other risk factors for heart [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are You Gifted?</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/Bof2omQDzz0/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/are-you-gifted/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2009 19:32:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[appreciating yourself]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[appreciation in relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[apreciation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[being gifted]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[gifted]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love yourself]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=362</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Yes you are. You are gifted.
We&#8217;re all gifted in some way, and we all dismiss our gifts.
Instead of building on what we have that&#8217;s unique and special (calling Mr. Rogers here) - we yearn for what someone else has.
It doesn&#8217;t work that way.
So - let&#8217;s make a list of your gifts:
Are you especially sensitive to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He’s Just Not That Into You - The Scarlett Johansson Character</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/vH6fdpynU80/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/hes-just-not-that-into-you-the-scarlett-johansson-character/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 18:32:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=363</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The Scarlett Johansson character here was the hardest for me to write about.
That&#8217;s because at her age (and into many, many years) - I could never dream of having the self-confidence she had.
Scarlett is able to feel, to Leanback, to sink into herself, to speak her feelings. She has the boundaries to let a man [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He’s Just Not That Into You - The Drew Barrymore Character</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/7HvimbEQjq0/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/hes-just-not-that-into-you-the-drew-barrymore-character/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:58:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=360</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[For me, the Drew Barrymore character here was all about Hope. (Again - Spoiler alert - I tell it all, so see the movie first&#8230;)
She was confused, challenged by the same limited understanding of men and relationships that we&#8217;ve all suffered with, made worse by all the social networking alternatives and ways of contacting - [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should You Interview A Man To Find Out What Happened?</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/NFY3MJz73wA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/should-you-interview-a-man-to-find-out-what-happened/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2009 18:11:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=359</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi - here&#8217;s a great debate starter: If the same unhappy things keep happening over and over again for you with men - should you go to to the source and ask the men what happened?
Here&#8217;s the question from &#8220;ABC&#8221;::
Hi Rori,
I have a question regarding how to react to a man pulling away without any [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Undo The Way You Treat A Depressed Man</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/jMiGaFWJraQ/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/how-to-undo-the-way-you-treat-a-depressed-man/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 18:20:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=356</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is a jump off from Susan&#8217;s comment about placating her depressed man and wanting to undo all that-&#62;
Here&#8217;s what&#8217;s going on:
We placate a depressed man because we&#8217;re afraid.  It&#8217;s a coping mechanism we&#8217;ve learned and used our whole lives to keep our trauma reactions at bay.
We&#8217;re afraid for a lot of reasons.
Depression isn&#8217;t a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>She Got The Ring</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/OREDt2ar33I/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/she-got-the-ring/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 02:33:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=310</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great letter from Tinque:
“Dear Rori,
I was just reading your latest post about &#8220;seeing&#8221;, and it make me think about imagining aspects of the life desired, how they do manifest if they are believed.
They seem to take a long while to do so, but they do. They really do.
I was thinking about when I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Undo What’s Already Been Done</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/tRUEKZeUHuI/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/how-to-undo-whats-already-been-done/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 20:13:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=353</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Mims made a comment, and I wanted to print her question and jump off of it:
&#8220;Hi Rori,
First I want to thank you for helping us women learn how to be successful in our relationships. Well Rori, I recently started dating this guy who is 6 years younger than I (he’s 24 and I’m 30). At [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Tool - Be Unpredictable</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/AtF3T0BQOEM/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/relationship-tool-be-unpredictable/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 10:05:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=342</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Has a man ever disappointed you?
Made you feel like &#8220;less&#8221; and &#8220;not enough&#8221; and like you&#8217;re not as important as whatever it is he&#8217;s doing?
I remember that feeling being a standard part of every relationship.
I remember struggling with myself and enduring such second-class treatment I&#8217;m embarrassed to talk about it - yet still talking myself [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He’s Just Not That Into You - Ginnifer Goodwin And Desire</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/iPnwrQ-VNsI/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/hes-just-not-that-into-you-ginnifer-goodwin-and-desire/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 18:37:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=328</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[For Ginnifer Goodwin&#8217;s character, I was torn between two words: Desire and Determination.
Desire feels good, it&#8217;s sexy.
Determination feels masculine - and yet that&#8217;s what made her character so singular and charming - her refusal to give up on her dreams, her determination to get what she wanted even if it meant hearing the truth from [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Jason Mesnick As The Bachelor - Understanding What Happened</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/fFr3GlZ6pMY/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/jason-mesnick-as-the-bachelor-understanding-what-happened/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 06:24:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=346</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay - what drama.  What a shambles.  High energy Reality TV, a mess very much like what happens everyday with people  - men and women who get engaged to one sister or brother in a family and then want to marry the other, who move through life like they&#8217;re in high school.
People who don&#8217;t know [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Shredding The Originals And Starting This Moment</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/AAH1WprQAVk/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/shredding-the-originals-and-starting-this-moment/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 20:35:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=349</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Every morning I get one of these &#8220;Notes From The Universe&#8221; from Tut.com and I look forward to them, I save them, I print them out, I put them on my wall.  Sometimes they make my day.  They always get me going, and sometimes they put such a quick positive, happy spin on things I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He’s Just Not That Into You - The Jennifer Connelly Character Solution</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/epsmu-FrDps/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/hes-just-not-that-into-you-the-jennifer-connelly-character-solution/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 01:39:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=345</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[(Spoiler alert - Don&#8217;t read this if you haven&#8217;t seen the movie!)
First, I so noticed from all the comments that everyone is triggered in a different way by the different characters.  I noticed that we seem to identify with a character not necessarily by who she is, inside, but by what HAPPENS to her in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Will Show Up - Yes He Will</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/IhCORbiNs18/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/he-will-show-up-yes-he-will/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 22:08:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=338</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I know right now, it feels far away.
You&#8217;re either in the middle of a relationship that doesn&#8217;t feel good, or you&#8217;re in an empty space on the game board of life and love, or you&#8217;re in pain, or you&#8217;re making do, or you&#8217;re in a state of hope and working through stuff, or you&#8217;re in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Be In Your Dignity - The Jennifer Aniston Character</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/GPnq06F_vDA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/how-to-be-in-your-dignity-the-jennifer-aniston-character/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Feb 2009 20:36:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=334</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
What can you learn from a movie?
My whole life, I&#8217;ve been learning from actresses on the big screen (and on TV, too.) - not from who they are in their real lives - but from the characters they portray - and from the sheer fearlessness of how they portray them.
I see them open up their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Lessons From The Movies To Help You Get Into You</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/I09fS9S2WrY/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/lessons-from-the-movies-to-help-you-get-into-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2009 20:15:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=333</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever felt small and blue? Frustrated and lonely and even a bit lost?
Is this something we can fix?  Or is it simply part of being a human being?
For me, it&#8217;s not what happens, or how we feel - but what we do with that.  What we CHOOSE to do next, when we have [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Your Love Life Works Best Organically</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/e2iVLmqc5xw/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/your-love-life-works-best-organically/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2009 18:59:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=327</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[EVERYTHING works ORGANICALLY.
LOVE and Relationship work organically.
That means - from the inside.
That means - from your soul.
When you are down and depressed, it&#8217;s as though you&#8217;ve lost the connection to your soul, as though a blanket of numb has fallen across the cells of your being&#8230;
And this is where you need to take 3 actions:
1. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>4 Types Of Relationships That Are Destined to Fail</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/4PW-fw4D9eI/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/4-types-of-relationships-that-are-destined-to-fail/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 19:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=331</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a lovely guest post by Tina Tobin of www.LuvemOrLeaveem.com

At some point everyone meets a couple that is so obviously not going to last that the biggest surprise is often how long it takes for the couple to realize that their relationship has been perched like a house of cards from day one. There are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Easy Emo-Trance To Unstick Yourself</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/uP1DhH1H_FU/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/easy-emo-trance-to-unstick-yourself/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 07:29:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=330</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So glad to hear you&#8217;re trying this&#8230;and here&#8217;s an easy way to do Emo-Trance the way I teach my clients&#8230;
Let&#8217;s say you notice you&#8217;re feeling tense, sad, upset&#8230;anything.
1. Put your hand on the spot where you feel the tension and emotion most.
2. Imagine this:  The tension, the pain is stuck energy.  it&#8217;s just all balled [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Online Dating Is Huge NOW</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/cffsCtcccTM/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/why-online-dating-is-huge-now/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 19:06:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=298</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a really interesting article - I know we&#8217;re into February already, but it&#8217;s sort of about how the seasons and Holidays affect us:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/01/22/AR2009012201045.html
It&#8217;s cold out.  I know you don&#8217;t want to drag yourself out of the house - but you MUST.
It&#8217;s February, we just survived Valentine&#8217;s day and got through January, which is officially [...]]]></description>
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		<title>From Connection To Passion</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/JobjEptNAdA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/from-connection-to-passion/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 18:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=305</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Even if you&#8217;re with a man for the wrong reasons -  Even if the &#8220;energy&#8221; is off, and the connection is off, and your astrologer and numerologist and psychic tell you you&#8217;re not &#8220;aligned&#8221; - you can FEEL intense passion, love - everything you want to feel with nearly any man.
There are trade-offs no [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Ultimate Feeling Message Date</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/ERrJXnUU7RQ/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/the-ultimate-feeling-message-date/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 19:37:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=322</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I just received this letter from Averie, and it&#8217;s such a testimonial to Circular Dating, and gives you so much HOPE - let it help you keep the wonderful, amazing things you&#8217;re doing:
&#8220;Hi Rori,
Since our last contact, I&#8217;ve made some amazing discoveries about myself and dating. I can&#8217;t wait to share with you all the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Your Valentine’s Day Dance With Yourself</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/laqlb7K8r3M/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/your-valentines-day-dance-with-yourself/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 08:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=284</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If Valentine&#8217;s Day seems special to you, and that &#8220;specialness&#8221; is making you feel blue - you&#8217;re not alone.
We women are just taught from birth that romance is something that DEFINES us - that if we don&#8217;t have it, there&#8217;s something wrong, if we don&#8217;t have it, this minute, we&#8217;re supposed to FEEL bad.
When the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Saying Goodbye</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/IyCIrry6ooo/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/saying-goodbye/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 19:36:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=323</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We said goodbye to our cat Maggie yesterday.  She was way too young at 6 years, she got sick way too suddenly and shockingly and mysteriously, the wheels of diagnostic medicine turned way too slowly, and we were faced with a choice we didn&#8217;t want to make way too soon.
Along the way to goodbye, we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Let’s Stop Bad-Mouthing The Frogs And Look For The Message</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/UMujEhlOaTA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/lets-stop-bad-mouthing-the-frogs-and-look-for-the-message/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2009 21:41:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=318</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re all so used to calling men &#8220;losers,&#8221; and &#8220;frogs,&#8221; and&#8230;other names - just because we aren&#8217;t interested in them romantically.
They don&#8217;t look right, or talk right, or smell right, or carry themselves right, or live right.
So - who are these &#8220;frogs&#8221; and why did one just show up in front of you at Starbucks?
To [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Listening At Level 3</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/whaiLLiJzZc/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/listening-at-level-3/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 19:24:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[being present]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=316</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay - here&#8217;s how this goes.
Listening at Level 1 is - it&#8217;s all about me.
Listening at Level 2 is - it&#8217;s all about you.
Listening at Level 3 is - it&#8217;s all about everything.
This is what I was taught at Coaches Training Institute, where I learned to be a Life Coach.  And it changed my life [...]]]></description>
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		<title>No Relationship Closure Needed</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/aZj9nGiJRnE/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/no-relationship-closure-needed/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 05:36:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=311</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Closure is a HUGE issue.
We all want something to end &#8220;completely.&#8221;
We all want answers, to understand.
We often hang around in a relationship, doing damage to ourselves, because we&#8217;re looking for that moment when it &#8220;all get&#8217;s clear.&#8221;  When we finally say what we mean and what we feel and finally feel HEARD by him.  When [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Listening To Forget Him</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/yL0_Dbo-zp8/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/listening-to-forget-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 00:38:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=312</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
Okay - everyone - Exercise:
Go to the ebook (if you don&#8217;t have it, get it now - the link to the catalog page is over on the right here - or get directions from one of these fabulous women) and do Listening at Level 2. 

The first &#8220;problem&#8221; you encounter in Circular Dating, especially if [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Anger Makes MORE Love When You Do It This Way</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/KHnYtAKQbis/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/anger-makes-more-love-when-you-do-it-this-way/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 08:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[change anger]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=306</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We are ALL &#8220;gurus.&#8221;
We are all always in process of either understanding ourselves and knowing ourselves MORE - or working hard to AVOID understanding and knowing ourselves.  The more we avoid, the more we reduce our ability to feel, experience, and get close to a man.
Anger is much easier for a man.  It&#8217;s the antidote [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Self-Respect Or Protection - Which Is It?</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/2HHpFSZMkHk/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/self-respect-or-protection-which-is-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 18:54:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=304</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s a conversation going on here in the comments, and it&#8217;s terrific, and I want to thank Daria for starting it, and Matt, for showing up here as such a smart, conscious, good man, and providing such a concrete balance to the perceptions we women develop about men our whole lives - I want to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How Feeling Messages Work</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/WmkYSrgmZ6U/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/how-feeling-messages-work/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 20:51:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=299</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel tempted beyond endurance to tell a man how you feel?  Even when he&#8217;s not there, or he&#8217;s not interested, or he doesn&#8217;t care, or he hasn&#8217;t called you in weeks, or you&#8217;ve been broken up?
And then when you do it - you call, or email, or write, or met with him [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Recover From An Imaginary Relationship</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/Gpu5LIpWiJU/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/recover-from-an-imaginary-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 22:43:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=296</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This comment from Sandra is so universal - so much what happens to us women over and over again, I wanted us to work with it:
&#8220;Rori, I have your Commitment Blueprint, and I’m working on the steps. In the midst of changing myself and picturing my man leading me across the bridge to the relationship [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Be Your Heart And Get HIS Heart</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/jfLTK2UZyvM/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/be-your-heart-and-get-his-heart/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 19:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=295</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This fabulous letter is from Pamela Tames, who has a great site http://SeasonedSex.com - and to me - it just speaks so powerfully about how we all go to our &#8220;Default&#8221; position when we don&#8217;t feel comfortable - and how getting aware of what that is for each of us, and using my Tools to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Feel Good Naked</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/EKngX6A0Xr0/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2009 06:15:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Just came across this great article, by Deborah May for Oprah.com - an interview with Laure Redmond who wrote &#8220;Feel Good Naked&#8221;:
http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/01/23/o.nude.attitude/index.html
The book, I hope - tells us how to actually DO this - feel good naked (I&#8217;ll check it out and let you know) - but it got me thinking.  This should be an [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Turn Your Marriage Around Now No Matter What’s Happening</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/528doM_uum4/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/turn-your-marriage-around-now-no-matter-whats-happening/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2009 00:32:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=293</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve turned a marriage just like this one around - let&#8217;s do it for &#8220;Lost His Love&#8221;!
&#8220;Hi Rori.
My situation is my Husband had an affair with his ex girlfriend. they use to date before I met him. We’ve been Married for 16 years and we lived together for 13 years, before we got married. So [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Seeing Love With New Eyes</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/di0gGPbA-x4/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/seeing-love-with-new-eyes/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 23:58:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=289</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Ahhh&#8230;art class.  More wisdom from 3 hours sitting with a charcoal pencil, a slab of newsprint paper propped in my lap, and cups and saucers and bowls and bottles and teapots in front of me on a platform with my own, personal,  student light shining on them at the angle of my choice, than I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Inaugurate LOVE</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/66y6v1FW6nA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/inaugurate-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 08:04:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Barack Obama]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=285</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Today is a HUGE party - one of the hugest parties in our history - the Inauguration of a new president - and it&#8217;s all about us hoping that the way things are will soon change into the way we WANT things to be.
So - I want to make this YOUR party - too - [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Dog Walk - Tending To Yourself</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/4I63F9BVsbA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/the-dog-walk-tending-to-yourself/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 18:55:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel good]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[heart connection]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[mind body spirit]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=282</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I love walking my dog.  And drilling down even further - I love HAVING to walk my dog.  My code of ethics and what I believe being a good dog guardian includes is walking her every day - twice if I can, but once as a must.
So - I get out in the air.  I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>As If You Were Already Happy</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/DZAIMyaQLcI/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/as-if-you-were-already-happy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2009 18:03:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[as if]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=281</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Let&#8217;s replace the &#8220;If Onlies&#8221; with the &#8220;What Ifs&#8221; - and then let&#8217;s move those &#8220;What Ifs&#8221; into &#8220;AS IFs.&#8221;
So - what does this look like?  And even more important - What does this FEEL like?
Let&#8217;s just do it and find out for ourselves in our unique ways - and let&#8217;s start with the big [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Can I Win Him Back After He Dumped Me</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/51q6OItNePw/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/can-i-win-him-back-after-he-dumped-me/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 05:08:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup & Divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=278</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Disgusting as it sounds, apparently January is officially &#8220;National Break-Up Month.&#8221;  My friend Eris Huemer (if you have my Interviews With Relationship Experts CD series, you&#8217;re listening this month to the great interview I did with her) told me more relationships end over the Holidays than at any other time&#8230;and so I asked her [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How Do I Feel Sexy Right Now - Even Though My Man Hasn’t Arrived Yet?</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/A2KURMcXE3Y/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/how-do-i-feel-sexy-right-now-even-though-my-man-hasnt-arrived-yet/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 00:46:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[fix loneliness]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=277</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I got this article from my friend Allana Pratt - The Sexy Mom Expert - and I thought it was terrific, so I asked if I could use it as a guest post answering the question:
How Do I Feel Sexy Right Now - Even Though My Man Hasn&#8217;t Arrived Yet?
Allana says:
While a nice warm sexy [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Circular Dating Success</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/H-Agt46m6E8/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/targeting-mr-right/circular-dating-success/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 04:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Targeting Mr. Right]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=274</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay, I&#8217;m officially blown away.  I can&#8217;t believe how brilliant you all are - how totally brave and amazing, and as i read your comments - you just have no idea how fast you&#8217;re moving- like lightening.  You&#8217;re blazing across the sky.  I can see from here - and I know it&#8217;s harder to see [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Healing Rage</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/auLhiY4PUJ4/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/healing-rage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2009 03:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[heal anger]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[healing rage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how do I control my anger]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=276</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Thank you all, so much for your comments, and I noticed a theme here. About RAGE.
Here&#8217;s how I want you to frame this Rage thing in your mind: I don&#8217;t want you going back in your life, re-imagining, trying to connect your Rage up with some event or events.
That&#8217;s the way some therapy proceeds - [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Soft In The Kitchen - How To Get A Man To Step Up</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/6W4NJqZvB1E/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/soft-in-the-kitchen-how-to-get-a-man-to-step-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 21:44:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=275</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I feel like a just got run over by a truck - on my feet and onstage for 8 hours at my Targeting Mr. Right seminar and product taping yesterday (it will be out in March)&#8230;I wanted to answer more and more questions - so you&#8217;ll be seeing a lot of talk about Circular Dating [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Telling The Truth Is Scary - And Fantastic, Too - Bethany 7</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/MQ_HNyh4wZs/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/telling-the-truth-is-scary-and-fantastic-too/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[authenticity]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[personal power]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=139</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve been following Bethany, you know her man got a text from another girl, and when he told her about it - he did it in a way that made her feel awful, horrible - the whole &#8220;freak -out.&#8221;
We talked about how she could share her feelings, and tell him the TRUTH - so [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Highway Of Love</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/xcBf26yWvnY/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/the-highway-of-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 00:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[bad feelings]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[make love happen]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[psychic]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=273</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Oh, my - it&#8217;s all getting away from me. Holidays, and now I&#8217;m jamming to get ready for the filming of my newest program around Circular Dating - I still don&#8217;t have a title for the program - but it&#8217;s all around being a &#8220;Diva&#8221; and so I&#8217;m renaming Circular Dating (and expanding what it&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Having Sex WITHOUT Getting Hung Up On Him</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/nvEiUB4PmTc/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/having-sex-without-getting-hung-up-on-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 22:41:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[men and sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[regret sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[when do I have sex]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[when to have sex with him]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=272</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve ever felt &#8220;hung up&#8221; on any and every man you slept with - even though you KNEW he was a lost cause, even though you KNEW he wouldn&#8217;t call again, that he wasn&#8217;t marriage material, and that your heart would hurt very quickly - here&#8217;s some thoughts, jumped off of a comment by [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If Low Self-Esteem Is Making You Chase Down A Man - Fix It Now</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/DYc0tChp2As/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/if-low-self-esteem-is-making-you-chase-down-a-man-fix-it-now/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Dec 2008 18:41:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=270</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
Sometimes, when I look back, I&#8217;m just amazed at how naive and &#8220;stupid&#8221; I was about men.  How I humiliated myself, chased after them, pined after them, and thought that was the way relationships went.
And so when I get a letter that makes my face red, and makes me want to stomp around, I know [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Truth Is Sexy</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/LGCkJwG9RZY/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/the-truth-is-sexy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2008 20:48:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how do I talk to him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to talk to a man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ If you&#8217;ve ever felt torn in two directions with a man, and you&#8217;re struggling with following your heart or your own Boundary &#8220;Rules&#8221; - here&#8217;s a letter from Hannah we can work with:
&#8220;Hi Rori,  I am reading the ebook and doing the writing exercises. I already feel better. I decided that clenching my [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Holidays And Love</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/hy7btocmQlw/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/holidays-and-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Dec 2008 08:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Chanukkah]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Hanukah]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[hanukkah]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Kwanzaa]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love at the holidays]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[realtionships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The Holidays are slipping away from me. I’m buzzing, speeding, moving faster than sound waves. Brain on overdrive, pedal to the metal. It’s Hanukkah. It’s Christmas. It’s Kwanzaa. It’s New Year’s. All at once.
I see my entire life in rewind. My whole life crammed into two weeks. I remember my childhood and the Hanukkah candles, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Move On From A Broken Engagement</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/zccFalPeD7g/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/how-to-move-on-from-a-broken-engagement/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Dec 2008 05:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup & Divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be dumped]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[broken engagement]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[broken heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[broken marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dumped]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[end relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement over]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he broke up with me]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he dumped me]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[just broke up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sudden breakup]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=241</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a heartbreaking letter from Leslie, who&#8217;s suffering the surprise and sudden end of her 6 year relationship:
&#8220;Rori, I thought I was in a wonderful relationship with a man I have been with off and on for 6 years. He had given my an engagement ring and we planned to get married next June. We [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Look Confident Even When You’re Confused</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/FO-Sq1mC_vw/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/look-confident-even-when-youre-confused/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 23:07:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be confident]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[become confident]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[confidenct]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[confident]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to look confident]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ice princess]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[raise confidence]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=185</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Rachel, and It&#8217;s so universal, I&#8217;m going to write a lot about the issue of &#8220;Confidence.&#8221;:
&#8220;Rori, Here&#8217;s my situation, I have been single for about a year, and can&#8217;t figure out why.  I&#8217;m quite attractive and at times confident (if I&#8217;m not interested in a man), but as soon as a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If You’re Addicted To Men - Do This</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/xkB7q4pXXEA/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/if-youre-addicted-to-men-do-this/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Dec 2008 21:12:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[4 man plan]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=197</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ Allana Pratt, the Sexy Mom Expert (and I know her and love her and she truly is&#8230;) wrote a comment about my Circular Dating as Healing post - you can read the whole comment here-&#62; and basically, she deals with her clients a bit differently than I do in this one way&#8230;
For the most [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should You Ignore Him Or Let Him In?</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/ZnAbQWv6B_g/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/should-you-ignore-him-or-let-him-in/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Dec 2008 02:41:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fear of intimacy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=183</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever felt like a guy was hanging around you, but he just never asks for a regulation date?
And you don&#8217;t know how to behave?
Here&#8217;s a situation from Helene I think is pretty universal - especially if you live in a small town where everyone hangs out together and seems to know everyone else:
&#8220;Hi [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Porn And Your Relationship</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/DlJqbBxJjeg/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/porn-and-your-man/porn-and-your-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 19:25:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Porn And Your Man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[computer porn]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he looks at porn]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[porn]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[porn and men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[your m an and pornography]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Okay - this is a tough, tough topic - and I asked Tinque to guest post about it - because she&#8217;s dealt with it in her own life, becoming an amazing woman, an absolute expert and a great coach. Her take is completely the opposite of everything you&#8217;ll hear out there, and I&#8217;ll be asking [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do With Your Rage - Bethany 6</title>
		<link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/roriraye/~3/5PAXMERvLaE/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/what-to-do-with-your-rage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 18:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cheating boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[communicate in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[conflict in relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[I'm angry with him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Bethany&#8217;s now moved from anguish - to anguish and RAGE, and though she&#8217;s trying to cork the rage, it just squeaks out - see if this will help you:
&#8220;Hi,  Rori,  I saw Carl in the computer lab today and I felt angry.  He was with a student and the three of us [...]]]></description>
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