Learning how to take good pictures of yourself shouldn’t require a professional photographer, expensive equipment, or a degree in confidence. And yet most of us have deleted more photos than we’ve kept-convinced we’re just not photogenic.

Here’s what 18+ years behind the camera has taught me: the problem isn’t you. It’s distance, angle, and a few technical mistakes that are surprisingly easy to fix. (Your face is fine. Your arm length is the issue.) Once you understand these basics, getting better photos becomes surprisingly simple-a real game changer for anyone who needs to show up online.

This guide gives you a photographer’s system for taking photos of yourself that actually look like someone else took them. No selfie sticks required. No awkward arm stretch. Just better pictures, on your phone, whenever you need them. It’s an easy way to get your best photos without booking a professional.

To take good pictures of yourself:

• Step the camera back to avoid lens distortion (use a tripod or timer)
• Position it slightly above eye level, not below
• Use soft natural light, not direct sunlight-good lighting makes all the difference
• Add small movements or actions instead of holding a stiff pose

One simple trick: treat every self-photo like a mini photo shoot rather than a quick snap.

Why Most Photos of Yourself Don’t Turn Out Well (It’s Not You)

When clients arrive at my studio, the first thing many say is some version of “I’m really not photogenic.” Successful businesswomen. Confident speakers. People who command rooms. The moment a camera appears, they’re convinced something is fundamentally wrong with how they photograph.

It isn’t.

What’s actually happening is a combination of three fixable problems:

The camera is too close. When you hold your phone at arm’s length, the lens distorts your features. Noses look bigger. Faces look wider. That dreaded double chin appears out of nowhere-even on people who don’t have one. This isn’t how other people see you-it’s how a lens two feet from your face sees you. Spoiler: not flattering for anyone.

The angle is working against you. Most selfies are taken from slightly below eye level (because that’s where your arm naturally falls when you’re pretending you’re not taking a selfie). This is the least flattering angle for almost everyone. It shortens the neck, emphasises the jawline in unflattering ways, and makes you look like you’re peering down at the camera with mild suspicion.

Your body doesn’t know what to do. Nobody looks natural when they’re trying to look natural. The moment a camera appears, your arms suddenly feel like they belong to someone else-just hanging there like confused robots. The stiffness shows up everywhere-raised shoulders, gripped hands, a frozen smile that reads as tense rather than warm.

I’ve photographed enough people to see the pattern clearly: when you fix these three things, people like their photos immediately. Even the ones who arrived certain they’d hate every shot. Many tell me it’s the first time they’ve actually liked a picture of themselves in a long time-and that includes people who cringe at every old picture they see.

Here’s what that difference actually looks like in real life.

What Makes a Good Picture of Yourself (According to a Professional Photographer)

Before diving into techniques, it helps to know what we’re aiming for.

A good picture of yourself has:

• Flattering proportions – your features look balanced, not distorted by a too-close lens
• Relaxed body language – your shoulders, hands, and facial expression all signal ease
• A clear focal point – you’re the main subject, not competing with a cluttered background
• Enough light – soft, directional lighting that shapes your face without harsh shadows

The great photos you admire on other people’s profiles? They tick these boxes. And you can achieve the same final result with your phone camera once you understand what creates it. It’s about being in the right place with the right time to set up properly, and knowing how to highlight your best features.

Selfie vs Self-Portrait: The Shift That Changes Everything

Most people want self-portrait results but use selfie techniques. That’s the core problem.

A selfie is reactive: phone at arm’s length, front-facing camera, quick snap, hope for the best, delete seventeen takes, try again. The camera is too close, the framing is accidental, and you’re simultaneously the photographer and the subject with no way to see what’s actually happening. Standing in front of the camera like this rarely produces a great selfie.

A self-portrait is intentional: camera stepped back, framed deliberately, taken with a timer or remote so you’re not stretching toward the lens. It’s planned. It looks like someone else took it-because technically, time-delayed you did. Finding the perfect angle becomes much easier when you’re not holding the phone.

The moment you stop treating photos of yourself like selfies and start treating them like self-portraits, the quality changes completely. Your selfie game improves dramatically when you make this mental shift.

Can You Still Use These Tips for Selfies? Yes, Here’s How

If you’re wondering how to take a good selfie without a tripod, these principles still apply. Sometimes you genuinely need a quick photo and setting up isn’t practical:

• Raise the phone slightly above eye level – even a few inches makes a difference
• Extend your arm fully – maximum distance from your face
• Turn your body at a slight angle – don’t face the camera square-on
• Use the front-facing camera – so you can see what you’re getting
• Make small adjustments between shots – tilt your chin, shift your gaze, try different angles

You won’t get professional photo results, but you’ll get a much better selfie than the arms length default.

The Rosie Distance Method (A Photographer’s Checklist)

After years of teaching DIY brand photography, I developed a simple system that works whether you’re taking photos for social media, your profile picture, or professional headshots.

It’s an acronym because acronyms stick. And this one spells DISTANCE-which is exactly where most people go wrong.

D – Distance First

This is the most important factor and the best way to instantly improve your photos. Also the thing nobody does because it feels weird.

Set your phone camera further away than feels natural. Use a tripod, a shelf, a stack of books, a helpful stranger-whatever gets that lens at least 6-8 feet from your face. Crop later.

Why? A close lens creates distortion. The camera lens exaggerates whatever is nearest to it-usually your nose. Step back and you get natural proportions. That double chin everyone worries about? Often it’s not a chin problem. It’s a distance problem.

My actual setup: I use a mini tripod that folds flat into my handbag, a Bluetooth remote clicker, and my iPhone (though I’ve achieved similar results on Android). Timer set to 3 seconds. That’s it. Genuinely nothing fancy-just distance. You don’t need the best camera or any special equipment-a normal camera on your phone works brilliantly. Some remotes have wifi capabilities, but a simple Bluetooth remote release shutter does the job perfectly for any photo shoot.

I – Intentional Angle

Position the camera just above eye level. Never below.

Turn your body slightly rather than facing square-on-about 45 degrees works well for most people. This creates depth and dimension rather than a flat, passport-photo effect. If you know the rule of thirds, try positioning yourself slightly off-centre for a more dynamic composition.

For your chin, imagine there’s a string gently pulling it forward and slightly down. This lengthens the neck and defines the jawline.

Find out the posing tips that instantly look more natural

S – Soften the Body

Here’s something I notice in almost every shoot: people smile beautifully, but their body tells a completely different story.

Shoulders creep up toward the ears. Hands grip whatever’s nearby-a chair arm, their own leg, the edge of a table-like they’re about to fall off a cliff. The jaw clenches. These tension markers show up in photos even when the facial expression looks fine. Your smile says “relaxed and approachable.” Your white-knuckle grip on that coffee mug says otherwise.

Before each shot:

• Drop your shoulders deliberately
• Unclench your hands (shake them out if needed)
• Take a deep breath and release it
• Shift your weight onto one leg

The physical relaxation reads as confidence in the final image. And confidence is what we want profile pictures to communicate.

T – Tiny Movement

Models on shoots make constant micro-movements between frames. They never freeze in one pose.

This is the mistake I made for years with my own photos: finding a pose that felt okay and then staying completely still. What I learned is that there’s always one angle that works better-and you only find it by moving. Try different poses and take a lot of pictures-that’s how the professionals do it.

Between each shot:

• Shift your chin slightly
• Tilt your head a few degrees
• Adjust your gaze
• Change the angle of your shoulders

I take about 5 shots per pose, making small adjustments each time, then move to a different angle entirely. This gives you options to choose from rather than hoping one frozen moment works.

A – Action Over Posing

“Just pose naturally” is the most useless photography advice ever given. Nobody looks natural on command. Try it now. “Be natural.” See? Immediately weird.

What actually works is giving your body something to do: lean against a wall, hold a mug, walk slowly toward the camera, adjust your sleeve, look out a window then turn back. These self portrait poses work because movement removes stiffness, and stiffness is what makes photos feel awkward. Have a bit of fun with it-self portraits don’t have to be serious.

One of my favourite techniques when photographing clients: I ask them to imagine their favourite person in the world is standing behind the camera. (The reveal of whether it’s their partner or Idris Elba always gets a genuine laugh-and sometimes a very telling pause.)

Discover creative self-portrait ideas you can try today

N – Neutral Expression First

The forced smile is the enemy of good photos. You know the one-somewhere between a grimace and a hostage situation. Very Chandler Bing energy.

Start with a relaxed, neutral face. Let your expression settle. Then, if you want a smiling photo, think of something genuinely amusing-not “smile for the camera.” The difference shows. If you’re struggling, try saying the words “yoga” or “why” as you take the shot-sounds ridiculous, works brilliantly.

Your good side? It’s real. Most faces are slightly asymmetrical, and one angle usually photographs better. Notice which side feels more natural and lean into it.

C – Choose, Don’t Fix

Here’s a secret from professional photo shoots: selection does the heavy lifting, not editing.

Editing apps can’t fix a bad angle. They can’t undo lens distortion. They can’t relax tense shoulders. What they can do is make small adjustments to exposure or colour-which is optional once you’ve got a strong image. You don’t need to understand shutter speed or long exposure or tweak your camera settings endlessly.

Take multiple photos. Choose the strongest. The best photographers in the world take hundreds of shots to get a handful they use. Give yourself the same permission.

E – Exit With Confidence

This sounds counterintuitive, but stop once you have two photos you like.

Over-shooting creates doubt. You start second-guessing, your energy drops, frustration creeps in-and all of that shows in your face. I’ve learned this the hard way trying to get photos while out with family. Push too long and you end up with worse results and possibly a passive-aggressive comment from your partner about “how many more?!” which really brings out that relaxed, confident energy you were going for . Don’t spend a lot of time trying to perfect what’s already good enough.

Set a limit. Get your shots. Move on. You can always take more another day.

The Three Things People Get Wrong When Taking Photos of Themselves

Beyond the framework, here are the most common mistakes I see:

1. Chasing perfect lighting instead of Just avoiding harsh light

You don’t need golden hour or a professional light source. You just need to avoid direct sunlight and harsh shadows. Soft, indirect light-like standing near a window but not in the direct sun-is flattering for almost everyone. The middle of the day in bright sunshine? Basically a crime scene photo. Very harsh. Early morning or late afternoon light tends to be softer and more forgiving. And never use your camera’s built-in flash-it flattens everything. Startled squirrel in the headlights is not the look we want!

2. Standing square to the camera

Facing the camera straight-on flattens your features and often makes people look wider than they are. It’s also how passport photos are taken, and nobody has ever looked at their passport and thought “yes, this captures my essence.” A slight turn-even just shifting one shoulder back-creates dimension and a more natural, candid photo feel.

3. Relying on editing instead of distance and angle

I see people spend ages adjusting filters when the actual problem is the shot itself. No amount of smoothing or brightening will fix lens distortion from standing too close. The best results come from getting the photo right in the camera, not fixing it afterwards. Editing is for small tweaks, not salvage operations.

Simple Tools That Make This Easier (Without Overcomplicating It)

You don’t need much. Here’s what actually makes a difference:

Your phone camera – Modern phones are genuinely excellent. You don’t need a DSLR camera. The one in your pocket is fine. Better than fine, actually. It works for all types of photography, from portraits to lifestyle shots.

Portrait mode – For most people, portrait mode is the easiest way to get better results. It makes you the focus and blurs distracting backgrounds. This single setting change can dramatically improve image quality. It’s doing a lot of the heavy lifting so you don’t have to.

A mini tripod – Mine cost about $20 and fits in my handbag. This is the easiest way to get distance without needing another person or balancing your phone on a bin.

A Bluetooth remote shutter – Small, cheap, and means you’re not lunging for a timer. Click when you’re ready. Life-changing for about $8.

The built-in timer – If you don’t have a remote, the 3 or 10 second timer works fine. I use 3 seconds alongside the remote to make it easy to keep in position.

That’s genuinely it. Right equipment doesn’t mean expensive equipment.

How This Applies to Profile Photos, Personal Branding, and Visibility

If you’re a content creator, business owner, or anyone who needs professional photos regularly, the ability to take good pictures of yourself is a genuine business asset. It’s also useful for family photos when you want to be in the shot rather than always behind the camera.

Professional headshots are wonderful-but they give you a limited set of images that get stale quickly. One of my Slay Your Selfies students put it perfectly: “You’ll pay upwards of £1,000 ($1,250) for a brand shoot and probably only get three or four photos that you can use. That’s three or four social media posts before you’re repeating.” And we’ve all seen that person who’s clearly been using the same headshot since 2019. Don’t be that person.

When you can take your own photos:

• Your profile picture stays current
• You have fresh content for social media whenever you need it
• You can capture seasonal photos, behind-the-scenes moments, and location shots without booking a photographer
• You show up more consistently-because the barrier is lower
• You can grab a shot when out with a family member or best friend without the awkward “can you take seventeen more?”

Another student was featured in Forbes magazine using a photo she took herself following these techniques. Her comment: “Proof that you can achieve anything with the right mindset, training, knowledge, and support.”

Visibility matters. If people can’t see you, they can’t be reminded of you. And they’re not going to reach out.

Find out how brand photography builds a professional visual identity

Want This Broken Down Step by Step?

This guide gives you the framework. If you want guided practice-with video demos, room-by-room setups, and a supportive community of people learning alongside you – that’s what Slay Your Selfies is for.

It’s how I teach business owners to take professional-looking photos with their phones, so they never have to rely on a single brand shoot again.

LEARN MORE ABOUT SLAY YOUR SELFIES

Frequently Asked Questions About Taking Good Pictures of Yourself

Final Thought: Being Photogenic Is a Skill You Can Learn

People usually decide they’re unphotogenic after seeing a handful of badly taken photos. But different lenses, distances, and angles produce completely different results-one image is never the whole truth. (Especially one taken at arm’s length in bathroom lighting. That image is a lie.)

After 18+ years photographing women who arrive convinced they hate photos and leave genuinely pleased with what we’ve captured, I can tell you: being photogenic isn’t a trait you’re born with. It’s a skill you develop through practice and understanding.

The women who look effortless on camera? They’ve figured out their angles. They know how to hold their bodies. They’ve practiced. You can learn the same things.

You’re much more loved than you think. And you deserve photos that actually look like you-the version other people see, not the distorted close-up your arm-length selfie captures.

Start with distance. The rest follows from there.

These techniques work whether you’re at home, at work, or travelling. Solo travelers often ask kind strangers to take their photos-but with a tripod and timer, you can find your own photo spot and get better results yourself.

Rosie Parsons is a brand photographer with 18+ years of experience, winner of Cosmo Bride Wedding Photographer of the Year, and creator of Slay Your Selfies – the DIY brand photography course that’s helped hundreds of business owners take professional-looking photos with their phones.

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Most articles will tell you a personal brand is something you build, craft, or curate (usually with a mood board and a very expensive strategist). And yes, personal branding is a process – but your personal brand? That already exists. It’s shaped by everything from your tone of voice to your visual identity to whether you’re the person who always brings homemade cake to networking events (in which case – hello and I love you).

Your personal brand identity is your public image – the impression that stays in their mind after someone visits your website, scrolls your social media profiles, or meets you at an event. It’s your true brand, whether you’ve been intentional about it or not.

In the modern world, a recognisable personal brand is a powerful tool. It helps people understand who you are, what you stand for, and whether they want to work with you – often before you’ve said a single word. (No pressure!)

This post will help you understand what a personal brand actually is, why it matters, and how to start shaping yours with intention. 

You already have a personal brand (whether you work on it or not)

Here’s something that surprises most people: you don’t need to “create” a personal brand. You already have one!

Every time someone Googles you, visits your LinkedIn profile, meets you at a networking event, or hears about you from a mutual connection – they’re forming an impression. That impression is your own personal brand, and it exists whether you’ve given it a moment’s thought or not.

(Terrifying? A little bit. But also kind of freeing once you accept it.)

Your public personas are already out there. Your social circle has opinions about what you’re like to work with. Your work experience tells a story. Your personal journey – the wins, the pivots, the “what was I thinking?” moments – is already shaping how people perceive you.

The only question is: are you shaping it intentionally, or leaving it to chance?

I learned this the hard way. When I started my photography business – over 18 years ago now, I called it “Forever After Images.” I thought it sounded romantic and professional – exactly what couples would want.

I’m cringing right now just typing it.

And guess what? It attracted the most traditional brides imaginable. Lovely women, but they wanted classic white roses and string quartets, and I was over here wanting to photograph someone in a hot pink dress with a disco ball. We were not a match.

After a year or two, I gained confidence and changed the name to Rosie Parsons Photography. The kind of clients I attracted began to change as well. Same me, same skills – but a different signal, and a completely different result.

Your brand is already broadcasting something. The question is whether it’s broadcasting you – or some weird corporate version of you that you think other people want but doesn’t actually exist.

Personal brand vs personal branding (what people get wrong)

These two terms get used interchangeably, but they’re not the same thing!

Personal brand = the outcome. It’s how people perceive you. It’s the impression you leave, the associations people make, and the reputation you carry – online and offline.

Personal branding = the process. It’s the intentional work of shaping that perception through your messaging, visuals, content, and behaviour.

Think of it this way: your personal brand is what people say about you when you’re not in the room. Personal branding is what you do to influence that conversation. (Preferably so they’re saying nice things and not “oh, she’s the one with the really confusing website.”)

This distinction matters because too many people focus on tactics – a personal brand statement here, a personal branding statement there – without first understanding what they’re actually trying to shape. A corporate brand has the same challenge: the logo and tagline mean nothing if the underlying perception doesn’t match.

In any professional community or corporate setting, the people who stand out aren’t the ones with the slickest marketing. They’re the ones whose professional brands feel consistent and real – where the promise matches the experience.

Why so many brilliant women feel unseen

If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t even know what my brand is” – you’re not alone. Most people feel the same way.

This is one of the most common frustrations I hear from business owners. But the feeling of being “all over the place” isn’t a competence problem. It’s a clarity problem.

Most capable women I work with have plenty of skills, experience, and value to offer. But they haven’t decided what they want to be known for – so they end up showing a little bit of everything, and none of it sticks.

In a world where everyone is shouting for attention, your potential clients can’t remember you if you haven’t given them something specific to remember. And your target audience can’t connect with you if you’re trying to appeal to everyone. You don’t build a competitive advantage if you’re blending in with the crowd. But that doesn’t need to feel stressful – it is actually liberating!

I spent a year photographing corporate clients in boardrooms against white backgrounds. The work paid, but I didn’t feel creatively fulfilled – and I didn’t even get to know anyone I was photographing. I’d turn up, take photos of people looking vaguely uncomfortable in suits, and leave. It was disheartening, honestly. I was doing “professional” work, but it wasn’t me.

Once I got clear on my specific audience – female entrepreneurs who wanted bold, colourful brand photography – everything changed. Not just my bookings, but how much I actually enjoyed getting out of bed in the morning!

Clarity isn’t limiting. It’s freedom and being able to live your passion!

You don’t have to be “unique” to stand out

Differentiation comes from being recognisable, not from trying to be different.

Most advice about standing out goes something like this: find your unique value proposition, identify your unique perspective, develop a unique approach.

Cue everyone staring at a blank page trying to figure out what makes them different from the 47,000 other people who do the same thing.

The pressure to be “unique” is exhausting. But the good news? It’s a bit misguided.

Here’s what I’ve learned after 18 years working for myself: differentiation doesn’t come from being the most original. It comes from being the most recognisable.

You don’t need to be the best in your field to be chosen. You don’t need some revolutionary angle that nobody’s ever thought of. You just need to show up consistently as yourself – and let the right people find you.

Think about how we choose friends. We’re not ranking them on innovation or market positioning! We’re drawn to people whose energy we like, whose values we share, whose vibe feels right.

Business works the same way.

The most powerful personal brands aren’t trying to be unique. They’re trying to be unmistakably themselves.

What happened when I stopped playing it safe

After having children I had started getting most of my photography work via business networking. But during lockdown, all my in person referral work dried up overnight. I was sitting at home with four kids climbing the walls, thinking, “Well, this is fun.”

But I also had nothing to lose. So I thought about if I wasn’t going to get paid, what would I most want to spend my day photographing? And that prompted me to contact women I admired, create the colourful portfolio I’d always wanted, and start posting bold, playful images that felt like me.

People loved it. Bookings skyrocketed! Not because I’d invented something new – but because I’d finally committed to being recognisable and enjoying myself doing the work I most wanted to do.

“What you show is what you attract.”

Your competitive edge isn’t some clever differentiator buried in a strategy doc. It’s your true self, expressed consistently enough that people start to recognise you.

You don’t need to be a thought leader. You just need to be you – repeatedly, visibly, and without apology.After having children I had started getting most of my photography work via business networking. But during lockdown, all my in person referral work dried up overnight. I was sitting at home with four kids climbing the walls, thinking, “Well, this is fun.”

But I also had nothing to lose. So I thought about if I wasn’t going to get paid, what would I most want to spend my day photographing? And that prompted me to contact women I admired, create the colourful portfolio I’d always wanted, and start posting bold, playful images that felt like me.

People loved it. Bookings skyrocketed! Not because I’d invented something new – but because I’d finally committed to being recognisable and enjoying myself doing the work I most wanted to do.

“What you show is what you attract.”

Your competitive edge isn’t some clever differentiator buried in a strategy doc. It’s your true self, expressed consistently enough that people start to recognise you.

You don’t need to be a thought leader. You just need to be you – repeatedly, visibly, and without apology.

Personal brands are built through patterns, not moments

A personal brand is built through repeated signals over time, not one-off moments of visibility.

A strong personal brand isn’t built in a single viral post or one brilliant photoshoot. (I know. I wish it worked that way too.)

It’s built through repetition.

Recognition comes from consistency. The key elements of an effective personal brand – your visuals, your voice, your values – need to show up again and again before they stick. It’s like that song you hated the first time you heard it, and now you can’t stop singing in the shower.

This takes a lot of time. There’s no shortcut, sorry! But the compound effect is real: every post, every photo, every interaction adds to your body of work and deepens the lasting impression you leave.

I’ve seen this play out in my own business (the hard way, obviously, because that’s how I learn everything).

When I had an assistant handling my social media – filming behind-the-scenes content, posting consistently – my enquiries were constant. Then she moved on, and I thought, “Do I really need to replace her? How important can it be?”

Spoiler alert: it was important.

I didn’t replace her. And my enquiries disappeared faster than high quality cookies at a networking event.

If people can’t see you, they’re not being reminded of you. And if they’re not being reminded of you, they’re not reaching out.

Once I started showing up again – making a plan, being visible, staying consistent – it all came back. The pattern matters more than any single moment. I even started getting spotted by people who had seen me online when I was out and about in public – disconcerting but fun! Just had to remember not to speak crossly at the children in the vicinity of anyone who could be a potential linkedin connection, haha!

The core elements of your brand need to become familiar. That’s how trust is built.

Your face is part of your personal brand (and why that matters)

In service-based businesses, people don’t just buy what you do. They buy you.

Your face helps people build trust before they’ve ever spoken to you. It creates familiarity. It makes your online presence feel human rather than corporate. Nobody wants to hire a logo.

This is why your social media presence matters – not as a vanity metric, but as a connection point. When someone sees your face across different platforms, on your personal website, in your social media accounts, they start to feel like they know you.

That feeling? It’s powerful. And slightly bizarre. But mostly powerful.

I now have clients who fly in from abroad for photoshoots. Actual plane journeys! When I ask why they chose me, the answer is almost always some version of: “I feel like I already know you.” They’ve been following my content for years. By the time they book, it feels like we’re two friends already. Yay!

That doesn’t happen through faceless content. It happens when you show up – really show up – and let people see you.

One of my most popular pieces of content ever was a simple “about me” video. Just me, showing my everyday life, the normal stuff. Making a cup of tea. Sharing my favourite things to do and places I go. Nothing fancy.

It got 150,000 views.

Your face is a communication channel. Use it! And if you’re not sure where to start, here’s how to take a good selfie that actually looks like you.

Want professional-looking photos without the professional price tag? Learn how to take scroll-stopping DIY brand photos with your phone in Slay Your Selfies!

Being yourself will repel some people – and that’s a good thing!

This is the part that scares most people. If I’m really myself, won’t I put some people off?

Yes. That’s the point!

Your personal brand is a filter. It attracts the right people and repels the wrong ones – which saves everyone time. Think of it as a public service, really.

Would you rather spend an hour in a room with 200 people (half of whom make you want to fake an emergency phone call and hide in the toilets), or 10 like-minded people who make you feel happy, positive and excited about life? I know which I’d rather!

When you show up authentically, some potential clients will think, “Oh, that’s not for me.” Good! They weren’t your people anyway. The ones who do resonate with you will connect faster, trust you sooner, and be far more enjoyable to work with.

That’s a positive experience for everyone – and a positive impact on your business success.

Here’s something I haven’t shared before. For years, I held back online because I was trying to date – and in the back of my mind I was worried about how I’d come across if someone I liked Googled me. If I was too honest about my weight struggles, or “too much” would some future boyfriend see my Instagram and run away?

A few years ago, I decided to stop dating and just focus on my kids and business. And that decision has been a surprising liberation for me that I didn’t see coming.

I stopped filtering myself for an audience I wasn’t even trying to reach. Now I only care about attracting people who like me for me. My clients aren’t bothered about how much I weigh. They want to feel understood, helped, and get great results.

When you stop performing for the wrong audience, you finally have space to connect with the right one. I wrote more about this for Entrepreneur if you want to dig deeper.

Practical ways to build your personal brand (beyond photos)

You don’t need a complete rebrand or a five-figure photoshoot to start building your personal brand. While those are great as you get more successful, you can start building your brand whatever stage you’re at. Small, consistent actions work better than one big gesture. (And they’re much cheaper.)

Here’s some practical advice for your first step:

Start with who you’re drawn to. If you’re not sure what you want to be known for, look at the people you admire. Are you drawn to brand photographers who feel warm and friendly? Or someone more classic and elegant? Do you like content that feels authoritative and polished, or playful and approachable?

The suppliers, creators, and brands you gravitate toward are clues to your own brand identity. Start there! It’s basically just shopping research, which most of us are already excellent at.

Commit to your choices. This is the most common mistake I see: not fully committing to the brand you’ve chosen.

You can have many facets to your personality – of course you can! But if you want to be known for a particular feeling or style, you need to protect that signal.

I’m known for colour and playfulness. That doesn’t mean I never wear black – I’m not a monster. But I wouldn’t show up to a networking event in head-to-toe black, and I wouldn’t share photos where I’m dressed in muted tones. That would be confusing for people. Every touchpoint should tell the same story.

Create valuable content around what you want to be known for. Active engagement builds familiarity. Talk about your topics, share your perspective, and let people get to know your voice.

The next step doesn’t need to be complicated. It just needs to be consistent.

The core elements of a strong personal brand

When you break it down, every strong personal brand has a few core elements working together:

Visual identity and visual consistency. This includes your colour scheme, what you wear in your photos, and the overall aesthetic of your online presence. People should be able to recognise your content before they see your name. 

Tone of voice. How do you sound? Warm and conversational? Direct and no-nonsense? Your voice should feel consistent across your website, social media, and real-life interactions.

Core values and guiding principles. What do you stand for? What matters to you? These don’t need to be grand statements carved into marble – but they should come through in everything you do.

Personal goals and professional goals. Where are you heading? What are you building? A clear sense of direction helps people understand how you might fit into their world.

A useful exercise: choose five words you want people to associate with your brand. Then check everything you put out against those words. Does it reinforce them – or contradict them?

My five words are colourful, playful, warm, confident, and approachable. Every piece of content, every outfit choice, every client experience gets filtered through that lens. It’s like having a really helpful checklist for every decision.

Choose where to show up (you don’t need to be everywhere)

One of the biggest traps in building a social media presence is trying to be on every platform at once.

Spoiler: you will burn out. You will hate it. You will start resenting your phone.

You don’t need a YouTube channel, TikTok, a podcast, and a newsletter. You need to show up consistently on the social media platforms where your people actually are.

For many business owners, that might be LinkedIn and Instagram. For others, it might be a personal website and an email list. There’s no universal answer – only the answer that works for your audience and your energy.

Pick one or two different platforms. Get good at those. Let the others wait. They’ll still be there when you’re ready.

How photos help people understand you faster

Photos aren’t about vanity. They’re about translation.

Your visual identity communicates things that words can’t – your energy, your style, your vibe. A great photo helps someone understand you in seconds, before they’ve read a single line of copy. It’s like a cheat code for connection.

This is why visual consistency matters. When your photos match your brand, people get a coherent sense of who you are. When they don’t, it creates confusion – and confusion kills connection.

I’ve photographed hundreds of women who arrived at my studio feeling incredibly awkward in front of the camera. Most of them came to me convinced they weren’t photogenic! They’d apologise before we even started. “Sorry, I’m terrible at this. My face does weird things in photos.”

By the end of the shoot, they’ve relaxed, had fun, and walked away with images that actually look like them – just the most confident, polished version.

The best personal branding examples aren’t the most glamorous. They’re the ones where the person’s personality comes through clearly, and the visuals match the message.That’s a great example of what brand photography is really for: not making you look “perfect,” but making you look like you. Just… really good you.

Frequently asked questions about personal brands

What’s next?

If you’ve made it this far, you already understand something important: your personal brand exists whether you tend to it or not.

The only question is whether you’ll shape it with intention.

You don’t need to have it all figured out. You don’t need to be the “best version” of yourself before you start. Personal growth happens through the process, not before it. (If we all waited until we were ready, nobody would ever do anything.)

The life lessons I’ve learned about branding came from doing it imperfectly, learning as I went, and gradually becoming more myself in public. It’s been messy. It’s been awkward. There have been questionable outfit choices. But it’s worked.

Your next step doesn’t need to be dramatic. It might be as simple as choosing your five brand words. Or updating your profile photo. Or posting something that actually sounds like you.

Start where you are. Be consistent. And trust that the right people will find you.

Ready to show up with confidence?

If you want to create professional-looking brand photos that capture your personality – without needing to hire a photographer – Slay Your Selfies will teach you how to do it with just your phone.

Get visible, get confident, and let’s get you booked!

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What you really want is a headshot that does three things: makes you feel like you, looks flattering, and comes across as professional. That’s a trickier balance than most people realise – there’s no single perfect outfit that works for everyone, but there are clear principles that help you find the right outfit and wear clothes that photograph brilliantly.

After 18 years of photographing headshots and reviewing thousands of images side-by-side with headshot clients at ordering appointments, I’ve learned something most style guides miss: the best headshot outfits aren’t chosen based on what looks fashionable. They’re chosen based on where the image will be seen and what the viewer needs to feel.

For this guide, I’ve also collaborated with Chantelle Znideric, a personal stylist with nearly 20 years of experience helping professionals look their best. Between us, we’ve seen what works – and what doesn’t quite translate on camera – more times than we can count. (We’ve also consumed an unreasonable amount of tea while discussing necklines. It’s a passion.)

This guide is written for professional and business headshots – LinkedIn profiles, company websites, corporate headshots, speaker bios, and brand imagery – not acting or lifestyle photography.

It covers colours, fit, necklines, accessories, and the small details that can make or break a great photo. This goes beyond general tips – whether you need headshot outfits for women in corporate roles, professional profile pictures for LinkedIn, or images for your website, you’ll leave knowing exactly how to choose – confidently.

Why Headshot Outfits Are Different From Everyday Clothes

That gorgeous blouse you wore to your friend’s birthday? The one that got compliments all night? It might not translate on camera the way you’d expect.

Here’s why. A headshot is usually viewed small and fast – often on a phone screen while someone scrolls through LinkedIn or scans a company website. Your outfit has about two seconds to support your face rather than compete with it.

Clothing that looks fine in real life can collapse visually once it’s cropped to shoulders and head. The camera compresses details differently than your mirror shows them. Studio lighting behaves nothing like your bathroom bulbs. And that “flattering in person” neckline? It might land differently once the image is cropped.

The focus needs to stay on your face. That’s the focal point – the thing that builds trust and connection at first glance. Everything you wear should quietly support that, not shout over it.In simple terms: The best outfit for a headshot is one that keeps attention on your face, creates clear contrast at small sizes, and supports the message you want to communicate. If your clothing draws attention before your expression does, it’s working against you.

Start Here: What Are These Headshots Actually For?

One of the first questions I ask clients: where will these photos actually appear?

This matters more than any colour rule or neckline advice. People need headshots for different reasons – and what works brilliantly for a LinkedIn profile photo might fall flat on a speaker bio page. The outfit that pops on your website hero image could look oddly casual in a corporate team photo. You may need different looks for different platforms. Remember: every prospective client sees your headshot before they see you.

LinkedIn and Professional Profile Photos

Your LinkedIn headshot is doing digital handshakes around the world while you sleep. (It’s more productive than you are at 3am, let’s be honest.) It’s your first impression – your introduction to potential clients, employers, collaborators – people who’ve never met you and are deciding in a split second whether you seem trustworthy and competent.

At thumbnail size, clarity wins. You need warmth, approachability, and enough visual contrast to stand out when someone’s scrolling past dozens of faces. A brighter colour can help you pop against the sea of grey and navy. (LinkedIn really does love a grey suit. Time to rebel.)

I once introduced two friends at a networking event. They went to connect on LinkedIn and discovered they were already connected – but neither recognised the other. Awkward silence ensued. It’s surprisingly common, and it’s usually because profile photos don’t stand out enough. Your headshot needs to pop so that when people meet you in person, they instantly think, “Oh, I know you!”

What works: Solid block colours in your brand palette. Clean necklines. Enough contrast against your background that your face doesn’t disappear.

Company Website and Online Presence

Website headshots allow slightly more personality than LinkedIn. You’ve got more pixels to play with and viewers are usually more engaged – they’ve clicked through intentionally.

This is where you can bring in brand colours more boldly, show a bit more of your environment or style, and let your outfit reflect your business personality. If you’re unsure how headshots fit into a wider image strategy, this sits within a broader approach to Personal Branding Photography: The Complete Guide.

What works: Brand colours that match your website design. Outfits that reflect how you’d dress to meet your dream client for the first time.

Speaker Bios, Press, and Media Features

If you’re pitching for speaking gigs, appearing in press, or building authority in your field, these images need to convey credibility and expertise. They’ll often appear alongside your bio or in promotional materials.

What works: Polished, professional looks with structure. Think blazers, business suits, tailored pieces, and colours that photograph well under various lighting conditions.

The FACE Test for Headshot Outfits

This framework helps you decide what works on camera before you get dressed.

Before choosing what to wear for a headshot photo, run your outfit through this framework:

Frame – How Much of You Is Visible Once Cropped

A headshot typically shows your head and shoulders, sometimes down to mid-chest. It’s not a full body photo – that means your neckline and any accessories near your face are doing most of the visual work. Everything below your ribcage? Probably won’t even appear in the final image. (Yes, you can absolutely wear pyjama bottoms. I won’t tell.)

Choose your top as if it’s the only thing that exists.

Audience – Who Needs to Trust You at First Glance

Think about your ideal client or the person you want to impress. What would make them feel confident working with you? A creative entrepreneur might need to look approachable and fun. A solicitor needs to look competent and trustworthy. A leadership coach might want warmth with authority. Your outfit should meet the professional standards your audience expects.

Your outfit sends a message before you’ve said a word.

Colour – Skin Tone, Brand Palette, and Contrast

Does this colour complement your skin tone or wash you out? Does it work with your brand colour palette? Will it create enough contrast against your background – or will you blend in and disappear?

Execution – Studio Lighting, Natural Light, and Fabric Behaviour

Some fabrics photograph beautifully. Others crease, shine weirdly, or lose all their texture under studio lights. Matte fabrics generally work better than shiny ones. Structure holds up better than anything too flowy or shapeless.

If an outfit passes all four parts of the FACE Test, it will almost always work in a headshot.

Best Colours to Wear for Headshots

Colour is where most people either overthink or underthink. Different types of colours serve different purposes – let’s break it down properly.

Why Solid Colours Beat Busy Patterns

In headshots, small patterns and fine prints compress and lose clarity – especially at thumbnail size. Tight patterns and busy prints blend into visual noise, which distracts from your expression.

I see this regularly. Someone arrives wearing a gorgeous paisley blouse that looks stunning in person. But once we crop to headshot size, the pattern competes for attention. The eye gets drawn to the fabric rather than the face – which isn’t what we want.

Solid block colours stay clean, readable, and let the viewer’s eye land where it should – on your face. Chantelle confirms this from a styling perspective: “Block colours work really well – that’s what’s going to draw the eye to that certain profile.”

Best choice: Solid colours in your brand colour tones, your favourite colours or light neutrals. The first thing to remember: if a pattern feels busy in person, it’s likely to be amplified on camera.

Jewel Tones, Earth Tones, and Light Neutrals

If you dont have a set of brand colours already then these colour families photograph reliably well:

Jewel tones – emerald, sapphire, ruby, amethyst. These bright colours are rich and striking without being overwhelming. (Also excellent if you want to feel like royalty. Which you should.)

Earth tones – terracotta, olive, camel, warm browns. Grounded and approachable.

Light neutrals – soft grey, cream, white. A classic look that’s always a good choice for corporate settings.

The key is matching these to your skin tone. Warmer skin tones often glow in earth tones and warm jewel colours. Cooler skin tones tend to suit blues, purples, and crisp neutrals. What works beautifully on one person may wash out another – different people need different palettes. Generally, darker colours add authority while light colours feel more approachable.

If you want help with knowing what colours suit you, you might find an online service like Color Guru helpful. They do a colour analysis based on you sending them digital photos and send you a swatch set back of colours that will look amazing on you. Use coupon code ROSIE to get 10% off any package!

Why Black, White, and Pale Colours Need Extra Thought

Black absorbs light and loses detail. On camera, it can read as a flat shape rather than a refined garment – the texture and structure you love in person simply doesn’t come through. It tends to merge into itself rather than showing off the cut and quality of what you’re wearing. (Your gorgeous designer blazer? The camera sees “black rectangle.” Not quite the same effect.)

White and very pale colours can blow out under studio lighting, creating harsh contrast against your skin or blending into light backgrounds. Light shades need careful handling to avoid looking washed out.

Does that mean never wear black or white? Not exactly. Black can work against a very light background with careful lighting. Any dark colour needs enough contrast to avoid disappearing. Cream works beautifully as a neutral when there’s a pop of colour in the background. But if you’re choosing a “safe” option, mid-tone colours and brand colours hold texture better and create cleaner separation.

How Background Colour and Studio Lighting Change Outfit Choice

Your outfit doesn’t exist in isolation – it’s part of a system with your background and lighting.

I photographed a client, Lea Turner, wearing a blue dress against an aqua background. I edited the dress to be more aqua-toned, creating this beautiful harmonious look – soothing to the eye, but with enough tonal separation that she didn’t disappear.

The key? Your outfit and background should be slightly different tones. Either a lighter or darker version of the same colour family (harmonious), or complementary colour combinations that create contrast (eye-catching).

If your company is organising team headshots, it’s worth asking what colour background they’re using. A white shirt against a white background can lose definition, and dark blue or black clothing against a dark background may blend in more than you’d like. No one wants to look like a floating head!

Related post: Personal Branding Photography: The Complete Guide

Fit, Necklines, and Structure: What the Camera Actually Sees

This is where things get counter-intuitive.

The Fitted vs Baggy Myth

It’s completely natural to reach for looser clothing when you’re feeling self-conscious – most of us have done it. (Myself included. Many, many times.) The thinking is: “If I wear something oversized, it’ll be more forgiving.”

Here’s what I’ve learned from thousands of shoots: on camera, this often has the opposite effect.

Excess fabric can actually add visual bulk at the shoulders and neckline – the exact areas a headshot focuses on. It’s not about showing off your figure; it’s about giving the camera clean lines to work with.

I learned this myself recently. I assumed a fitted dress wouldn’t work because I’d like to lose some weight and I have a large chest. But when I wore a fitted Twisted Wunder dress for some headshots, it was actually much more flattering than a big jumper. The structure gave me shape. The fit looked intentional, not accidental.

Well-fitted clothing creates cleaner lines and photographs more confidently, even if it feels bolder when you put it on. This applies to every body type – structure flatters more than fabric that hides.

Necklines, Sleeves, and Proportions That Photograph Best

Best necklines for headshots:

• V-necks (modest depth) – elongate the neck and create a flattering frame for your face
• Round necks – clean and simple, work for most face shapes
• Collared shirts – add structure and professionalism
• Boat necks – elegant and broadening for narrower shoulders

Necklines that need a bit more thought:

• Very high necklines that might cut at an unflattering point once cropped
• Very low cuts that could shift focus away from your face
• Busy ruffles or details that might compete for attention

Sleeves: Long sleeves often photograph best because they create clean lines. Three-quarter sleeves work well too. Sleeveless can work but sometimes creates visual imbalance if the crop catches your bare shoulders awkwardly.

Collared Shirts, Modest V-Necks, and Long Sleeves

For professional headshots women often ask about what neckline to choose. Chantelle recommends a silk or satin blouse in a solid colour – “It’s timeless, feminine, polished, and professional without looking formal.” She’s right: this look photographs beautifully and suits most contexts.

For men, solid shirts with a collar (with or without a jacket) almost always work. A classic dress shirt is reliable. Chantelle also notes that “a collar of some kind will always give off a more professional look” – even a collared knit can elevate a casual outfit. The key is matching your outfit to your context – a chunky knit jumper might be perfect for a lifestyle coach’s brand, but less so for a corporate leadership announcement.

Chantelle shared a great example of why context matters. A client had just been promoted to MD and was preparing headshots for a leadership announcement. Her instinct was a beautiful turquoise jumper she loved – but the images would appear on a black and red banner background.

As Chantelle explained: “A jumper can read as relaxed and approachable, which is lovely for some contexts. But for a leadership announcement, she needed something that said authority and polish.” Together they chose a structured blouse that still felt like her, but matched the moment. The result? She felt confident and looked the part.

Want expert guidance before your shoot? If you’d rather not navigate outfit choices alone, Chantelle offers virtual wardrobe styling sessions specifically for photoshoots. She’ll help you pull together options from your existing wardrobe (or point you toward what’s missing) so you arrive on the day knowing exactly what works – whoever your photographer is. Get in touch with Chantelle here

Think about your best self walking into a meeting with your dream client. That’s what you should wear.Think about your best self walking into a meeting with your dream client. That’s what you should wear.

Accessories, Glasses, and Small Details That Matter

Simple Jewellery vs Visual Distraction

Less is often more with headshot jewellery. A statement necklace that looks gorgeous at a dinner party can overwhelm a small thumbnail image where your face should be the focus.

What works for most people: Simple studs or small hoops. A simple necklace or delicate chain. One ring rather than a stack. Anything that enhances without competing.

What to be mindful of: Large pendants that catch light oddly. Dangling earrings that create movement blur. Anything that makes noise when you move – you’ll spend the whole shoot going “what’s that jingling?” and the answer will be you.

However – if you have a creative or fun personal brand then go wild!

Choose designs that match your brand colours so they fit in cohesively with your outfit and your other visual marketing. And just as I recommend for clothing, try to pick pieces with bold shapes and patterns and avoid overly detailed or delicate details that will get lost on camera.

Glasses, Recognisability, and Consistency

If you normally wear glasses, wear them in your headshot. People need to recognise you when they meet you in person.

But glasses come with considerations – and this is where Chantelle’s styling expertise is invaluable:

Your frames are part of the picture. As Chantelle explains: “Glasses are such a visible part of your face in a headshot – they’re worth getting right.” If your frames feel a bit dated or don’t quite suit your face shape, it might be worth updating them before your shoot. It’s a small change that can make a real difference.

Face shape matters for frame choice. Chantelle’s rule of thumb: contrast your face shape with your frames. Angular face? Go for rounder styles. Rounder face? More angular frames work better. And consider stepping outside the default black or navy – a neutral that suits your colouring can look more modern while still being timeless.

Reflections are manageable. Turn your head slightly away from the light source. Move your chin up or down. Most editing software can remove minor reflections, but if the glare covers your actual eye, the result might not look like you.

The ultimate solution: Non-reflective coating on your next pair of glasses. It makes a huge difference in photos.Pro tip: Take some shots with glasses and some without, so you have options.

Logos, Prints, and Keeping the Focus on You

Visible logos can inadvertently draw attention away from your face – and toward someone else’s brand. Unless you’re getting paid for it (in which case, carry on), it’s usually best to keep logos out of frame.

The same goes for slogans, text, or graphics on clothing. They can distract from your expression and may date the image faster than you’d expect. That hilarious slogan tee from 2019? Perhaps save it for weekends.

What to Be Mindful of in Headshots

Here are some common things that don’t always translate well on camera:

Busy patterns – They can become visual noise at thumbnail size. Solid colours are usually a safer bet.

Black (in most cases) – Can lose detail and definition. There are exceptions with the right lighting and background, but it’s worth considering alternatives.

Very pale colours – Can blow out under lighting or disappear against light backgrounds.

Very casual pieces – A favourite hoodie or slouchy jumper might not match the professional message you’re aiming for. (Unless that relaxed vibe genuinely is your brand – then go for it!)

Anything uncomfortable – If you’re tugging, adjusting, or feeling self-conscious, it tends to show in your expression.

Shiny fabrics – Can catch light unpredictably and create distracting hotspots.

Clothes that don’t quite fit – Too tight can pinch and pull. Too loose can add bulk. Well-fitted is the sweet spot.

How to Look Slimmer and More Confident in a Headshot

I’m going to say something that might surprise you.

Your potential clients don’t care how slim you look.

I know. After 18 years of photographing business owners, I can tell you: clients see you through a completely different lens. They want to feel you look professional, approachable, competent – basically that you align with everything else your brand says about you. That’s why they pick you.

If you look uncomfortable or appear in a corporate blazer when your brand is all about being casual and relaxed, that mismatch will put them off. Your actual weight? Not what they’re evaluating.

In fact, sometimes our weight can make us look more relatable and approachable. Focusing too much on looking thinner can distract from what actually matters in a headshot.

What actually makes you look confident in photos:

• Posture – Stand tall, shoulders back, chin slightly forward and down
• Fitted clothing – Gives you shape and intention
• Colours that work with your skin tone – Make you look healthy and vibrant
• Genuine expression – Confidence reads visually, and feeling comfortable in what you’re wearing helps that shine through.

What helps with angles:

• Turn your body 45 degrees from the camera, then turn your head back toward it
• Elongate your neck slightly
• Relax your shoulders (they creep up when you’re nervous – mine practically touch my ears if I’m not careful)

The goal isn’t to look like someone else. It’s to look like the best, most confident version of you.

Testing Your Outfit Before a Professional Photo Shoot

Why Test Shots Reveal What Mirrors Don’t

Your mirror doesn’t tell the whole story. It shows you a version of yourself that doesn’t quite match how a camera captures you. (Also, bathroom lighting is notoriously deceitful. It’s been lying to all of us for years.) Testing outfits before a professional headshot session can save you from surprises on the day – it’s a great way to build confidence before you arrive.

I learned this looking back at photos from the same week – one in a pink and red heart dress, one in a blue and lilac dress. The difference was stark. The pink dress really sings. It feels magnetic, like the photo version of me that feels most true. The blue one? Nice, but not wow.

I wouldn’t have known that without the photos. You can’t tell from a mirror.

Studio Lighting vs Natural Light at Home

If you’re testing outfits at home, stand near a window with natural light falling on your face. Set your phone camera to selfie mode, prop it up (tripod or stack of books), and step back to get a proper headshot crop.

This won’t perfectly replicate studio conditions, but it’s much more accurate than your bathroom mirror. (And of course, a professional shoot often includes a makeup artist to help you look your best – another reason the final results differ from home tests.)

When DIY Testing Works and When It Doesn’t

For a quick sense of which colours and necklines work on camera, DIY testing is brilliant. But nothing replaces working with a professional photographer who can guide you through what actually works.

For professional photos – how fabric behaves under professional lighting, how backgrounds interact with your outfit, how you look when you’re relaxed and properly posed – you need a real test run. It’s a good idea to do this before any photo session. That’s why I show clients how photos are looking as we shoot. If something isn’t working, we stop and swap into different outfits rather than spending hours on content they won’t even like.

And when they can see that they look good? Their confidence lifts, which makes the remaining photos even better. (Pro tip: bring your outfit options in a garment bag to keep them crease-free.)

Related post: Business Photoshoot Tips for Professional Headshots

Want to Feel Confident in Front of the Camera, Not Just Dressed for It?

Knowing what to wear is only part of the equation. The other part? Actually feeling confident when that camera is pointing at you.

If you want to learn how to take professional-looking brand photos yourself – with just your phone and natural light – my course Slay Your Selfies teaches you exactly that. Posing, lighting, composition, and how to actually like how you look in photos.

One of my students got her profile picture featured in Forbes as an example of a great headshot. Taken on her phone. After the course. (I’m still dining out on that one, to be fair.)

Learn more about Slay Your Selfies

How Headshot Outfits Fit Into Your Personal Brand

Your headshot doesn’t exist in isolation. It’s one piece of your wider personal brand – and ideally, everything should feel cohesive. What you wear plays a significant role in how people perceive you before they’ve read a single word.

That means your headshot outfit choices should connect to the colours, energy, and personality across your website, social media, marketing materials, and how you show up in person. Your personal style should shine through consistently, reinforcing your brand identity at every touchpoint.

If your brand is warm, colourful, and playful – dress that way for your headshot. If it’s calm, professional, and minimal – reflect that too.

The goal is recognition and consistency. When someone sees your headshot, browses your website, then meets you at a networking event, they should think: “Yes, this is exactly who I expected.”

For a real example of how this works in practice, see my blog post on Laura Brunton’s Headshots Case Study and get a front row seat to see how epic a silver sequinned suit can look for business headshots! Love it!

Frequently Asked Questions About What to Wear for Headshots

Final Takeaway: Dress for the Message, Not the Mirror

Most headshot advice misses the point because it treats clothing as a style problem when it’s actually a communication problem. (Also, the internet is very confident about “rules” that don’t actually exist. Never let a stranger on the internet tell you that you can’t wear patterns. You absolutely can. Just… maybe not tiny checks.)

The best headshot outfits aren’t chosen based on what looks nice on a hanger or what got compliments at a party. They’re chosen based on where the image will appear, who needs to trust you when they see it, and what you want that viewer to feel.

Run your outfit through the FACE Test:

• Frame – Will this look good cropped to head and shoulders?
• Audience – Does this reflect what my ideal client needs to see?
• Colour – Does this complement my skin and create contrast with my background?
• Execution – Will this photograph cleanly under proper lighting?

Get those right, and you’ll have a headshot that genuinely works for you.

One final tip: If you’re working with a professional headshot photographer, don’t be afraid to ask what background they’ll be using. Good photographers will happily advise on outfit choices once they’ve planned the setup.

Ready to feel confident in front of the camera?

If you want to learn how to take professional-looking brand photos yourself – with just your phone and natural light – Slay Your Selfies teaches you exactly that. Posing, lighting, composition, and how to actually like how you look in photos.

Join Slay Your Selfies

Looking for a full professional shoot instead? Get in touch about brand photography sessions.

With thanks to Chantelle Znideric, personal stylist, for contributing her expertise to this guide. Chantelle has nearly 20 years of experience helping professionals dress with confidence.

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As a business coach who helps ambitious women build bold, profitable brands without the burnout, Laura needed photos that matched her energy – confident, colourful, and completely unapologetic. I love to see it!

When you’re selling expertise, trust and transformation, your photos can’t be an afterthought. They need to show your personality and values so you can attract the right fit clients.

Read on to discover how Laura’s photoshoot supports her coaching business, why visibility matters when you’re running your own business and how being strategic in your planning can help you nail your photoshoot!

Who Is Laura Brunton and Who Does She Help?

Laura Brunton is a UK-based business coach. She works 1:1 with vibrant ex-corporate women who are building and scaling businesses they genuinely love.

Through her premium “VIBRANT” coaching experience, Laura gives female founders the strategy, purpose, and unstoppable momentum they need. She helps them craft and sell high-value offers to their dream clients.

Her work centres on four things: sales, strategy, sisterhood, and visibility. Those pillars run through absolutely everything she does. From intensive coaching days to her flagship annual Ignited Woman Event, which brings together over 200 driven women in business each year in London.

Laura is also known for running The Super Connector, a free, high-energy monthly online networking session. It regularly attracts over 120+ women business owners from around the world.

That level of visibility needs a personal brand that’s instantly recognisable. And Laura’s brand photos play a massive role in making that happen.

Laura Brunton Coaching and the Role of Visibility

For Laura, visibility isn’t some nice-to-have add-on. It’s foundational.

A lot of the women she coaches are transitioning from corporate careers. Their identity was tied to a company, a job title, or a team. Building a personal brand means stepping out from behind all that structure and being seen as yourself.

That shift requires confidence, clarity, and photos that reflect who you actually are. Not who you think you should be.

Laura’s coaching philosophy is deeply rooted in authenticity. She helps women move past self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and that horrible fear of being “too much” as they step into leadership.

Naturally, that same energy needed to come through in her brand photoshoot.

These weren’t images designed to make her look polished for the sake of ticking some corporate box. They were designed to show her as she is. Bold, expressive, vibrant, and confident.

Why Visual Branding Matters for Business Coaches

If you’re a business coach, consultant, or online educator, your face is your personal brand.

People aren’t buying a product they can hold or test. They’re buying you, your expertise, and the belief that you can actually help them get results.

That decision happens so much faster when your photos support trust, recognition and familiarity.

Visual branding isn’t about vanity. It’s about consistency.

When someone sees your face across your website, Instagram, a webinar slide and a sales page, they start to feel like they know you.

That familiarity is what makes people more likely to want you specifically, rather than just any old business coach. It’s why having a considered approach to personal branding photography matters far more than a single “nice” headshot.

For Laura, whose work involves speaking, teaching, launching programmes and hosting large-scale networking events, having a flexible library of brand photos means she can show up consistently. No more scrambling for new photos for every piece of content.

That’s the commercial value of a well-planned coach photoshoot.

A Complete Studio Brand Shoot Includes Both Headshots and Expressive Imagery

A complete studio brand shoot includes both headshots and expressive imagery.
Headshots establish trust and recognition. Expressive poses support communication, teaching and visibility across content. Together, they create a visual system rather than a single profile photo.

Laura’s session was planned as a system. Not just a one-off set of photos.

That’s a crucial distinction.

Most coaches need way more than a great headshot. They need images that work across launches, content, webinars, social posts and slides.

A single polished photo won’t cut it when you’re running a multi-channel business.

Headshots Build Trust and Recognition

Classic headshots are your introduction.

They’re what people see first on LinkedIn, your website About page, podcast features and email signatures.

A strong headshot communicates professionalism, approachability, and authority in a single frame. Direct eye contact, good posture, clean composition. These things make the image work anywhere.

For Laura, her headshots needed to reflect her warm but direct coaching style.

She’s not some stuffy corporate consultant. She’s a business coach for women who want sisterhood, strategy, and a bit of sass.

Her headshots support that positioning without losing any credibility.

Expressive Poses Show Personality and Make You memorable

Expressive images do something completely different.

These are the photos that sit next to a headline on a sales page. They accompany a social post about your latest launch. They appear on a webinar slide while you’re teaching.

They add energy, personality, and movement to your content and actually AMPLIFY the message.

Laura’s expressive brand photos include open body language, dynamic posing and lots of fun.

These images work beautifully in Canva designs, Instagram carousels, presentation decks, and banner graphics. They’re designed to feel confident and eye-catching without looking forced or like you’re trying too hard.

Expressive Studio Images Are Designed to Work Alongside Content

Expressive studio images are designed to work alongside content, not replace it.
These photos sit comfortably next to slides, Canva graphics, captions, and headlines. They give visual emphasis without competing with the message. This is why they work so well for launches, webinars, and educational content.

One of the biggest mistakes coaches make is choosing photos that are too busy, too posed, or too disconnected from the way they actually communicate.

Laura’s brand photos were shot against block colours. Bold, colourful backdrops that make her stand out without distracting from the words around her.

That intentionality means her images enhance her content rather than fight it.

When you’re scrolling Instagram or landing on a sales page, you shouldn’t have to work hard to understand what you’re looking at.

Laura’s photos do exactly what they’re meant to. Draw your eye, communicate confidence, and let the message do the rest.

Different Poses Solve Different Business Problems

Different poses solve different business problems.
A direct, composed pose works for credibility and introductions. A more open or dynamic pose supports storytelling, momentum, and calls to action. Shooting with intent means each image has a job to do.

Not every photo needs to look the same. Frankly, it shouldn’t.

A headshot for your LinkedIn profile serves a completely different purpose than an image you’re using to promote a workshop or accompany a testimonial.

Laura’s shoot was designed with that variety baked in from the start.

Poses for Credibility and Introductions

Some poses are grounded and still.

Arms by your side or crossed comfortably, shoulders square to the camera, neutral or warm expression. These images communicate authority without being cold.

They’re the photos you use when you need to be taken seriously. Speaking engagements, media features, partnerships, or professional bios.

Laura’s composed headshots reflect her expertise and leadership.

She’s a business coach who’s built a thriving brand, hosted sold-out events, and coached hundreds of women. That credibility needed to show up in the photos.

Poses for Storytelling, Energy, and Calls to Action

Other poses are designed to move.

Hands in motion, body slightly turned, laughter, or a moment mid-thought. These images feel alive.

They’re the ones you use when you want someone to feel something. Excitement, connection, curiosity, momentum.

For Laura, whose work is rooted in igniting confidence and helping women take bold action, her expressive brand photos match that energy perfectly.

They don’t sit quietly on the page. They demand attention, just like she does here!

Studio Photos for Coaches Who Teach, Speak, and Sell Online

Studio imagery is especially effective for coaches who teach, present, or sell online.
When your business relies on communication, your body language becomes part of the message. Expressive poses help reinforce tone, clarity, and confidence without needing a physical location. The result is consistency across every platform.

Laura teaches. She speaks at her own Ignited events. She runs monthly networking sessions through The Super Connector. She sells high-ticket 1:1 coaching.

All of that happens online or in hybrid formats. Which means her brand photos need to work without relying on context or location.

Studio brand photography solves that problem brilliantly.

The images are clean, versatile, and timeless. They work whether you’re posting a quick Instagram story or building a six-figure sales page.

There’s no distracting background, no seasonal clothing that dates the photos in six months (just a range of epic Scamp & Dude), and no awkward cropping required.

Just you, your energy, and your message.

The Goal Is a Flexible Image Library, Not a One-Off Photoshoot

The goal is a flexible image library, not a one-off set of photos.
A strong shoot produces images that can be reused across banners, sales pages, social posts, and presentation decks. If your photos only work in one format, they limit your marketing. Versatility is intentional, not accidental.

Laura walked away from her business coach photoshoot with a ready-to-use folder of images that support everything she does.

Launch a new programme? She’s got photos.

Run a webinar? Covered.

Update her website? Done.

Promote The Super Connector networking event? Sorted.

That’s the difference between a photoshoot and a brand shoot.

One gives you pretty pictures that sit on your hard drive. The other gives you a content asset that keeps delivering value long after the session ends.

Common Personal Branding Photography Confusions (Cleared Up)

Let’s clear up a few things that trip people up when they’re planning their own coach photoshoot.

Headshots vs Expressive Brand Images

Headshots are for recognition and trust. They’re static, professional, and designed to introduce you.

Expressive brand images are for communication and momentum. They add energy to your content, support storytelling, and work alongside text.

Most coaches need both to show up consistently across everything they do.

Images for Social Media vs Images for Launches

Social posts need relatability and frequency. You want photos that feel approachable and fit the casual tone of Instagram or LinkedIn.

Launch assets need clarity and authority. Images that make someone stop scrolling and actually take you seriously.

Planning both in one shoot avoids those horrible visual gaps later. Saves you from scrambling when you’re mid-launch and realising you’ve got nothing decent to use. Eek!

Posing vs Performance

Good posing creates ease and clarity. It highlights your strengths, communicates confidence, and feels natural.

Over-performing creates tension and looks awkward.The aim is natural emphasis, not forced animation. Laura’s photos work because they feel like her. Bold and expressive, yes, but not manufactured or fake.

How Laura Uses Her Brand Images Across Her Business

Laura Brunton’s brand photos aren’t just sitting in a folder gathering digital dust. They’re actually working across every part of her business.

Coaching, Content, and Authority

Her headshots appear on her website, in podcast interviews, on her LinkedIn profile, and in email campaigns.

They establish recognition and build trust with potential clients before they ever book a discovery call.

Her expressive images show up on Instagram, in her email newsletters, and on sales pages for her VIBRANT coaching experience. They communicate energy, confidence, and the kind of transformation her clients can expect when they work with her.

Community and Networking Visibility

Laura’s monthly Super Connector networking event attracts over 120 women in business every single time.

That kind of community doesn’t just build itself. It requires consistent visibility.

Her bold, colourful brand photos help her stand out in what is, let’s be real, a very crowded online space.

When women scroll past dozens of networking invitations, Laura’s eye-catching photos make them stop and actually pay attention.

Studio Brand Shoot Checklist for Coaches and Consultants

If you’re planning your own personal branding photoshoot, use this checklist to make sure it actually supports your business rather than just giving you a few nice photos:

• Clear headshots for profiles and introductions
• Expressive images that work next to text and graphics
• Images that crop well for banners, slides, and square formats
• Body language that supports your message and authority
• Images you can use across launches, webinars, and ongoing content
• A set that feels intentional rather than repetitive

Related post: Business Photoshoot Tips for Stunning Professional Headshots

What Laura Brunton’s Personal Brand Photos Say About Her Coaching Business

Laura’s brand photoshoot reflects exactly what makes her coaching so effective. Clarity, energy, leadership, and sisterhood.

Her images don’t try to make her look like someone else or fit some weird corporate mould. They amplify who she already is: A bold, vibrant business coach who helps women in business build brands and income streams that feel aligned, exciting, and actually sustainable.

That alignment between message and photography? That’s what makes personal branding photography powerful.

When your photos feel like you, your audience feels it too. And that’s when the magic happens.

Your Next Step: Creating a Brand Image Library That Works for you

If you’re a coach, consultant, or online business owner who’s tired of scrambling for photos every time you launch something new it could be time to invest in a brand photoshoot!

Laura’s session is proof that when you plan strategically, your photos become a long-term content asset. Not just a folder of pretty pictures that you never actually use.

A well-executed personal brand photoshoot gives you months of ready-to-use images. Images that support launches, webinars, social content, and sales pages without needing constant updates or last-minute panic.

That consistency builds recognition, trust, and authority faster than any single marketing tactic ever could.

Ready to create your own library of bold, versatile brand photos that work hard to support your marketing across your business like Laura’s?

Book a personal branding photoshoot with Rosie and walk away with photos that reflect who you are and support everything you’re building!

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But personal branding photography isn’t something you earn after you’ve “fixed” yourself or when you’ve achieved more in your business.

I’ve photographed women for nearly two decades now. And the biggest mistake I see? People treating confidence as the entry requirement, when actually confidence is the outcome. It’s like saying you’ll go to the gym once you’re fit. That’s not how any of this works.

You don’t need to lose weight first. You don’t need a perfectly polished brand. You don’t need to suddenly become someone who loves being photographed. (If that were true, I’d have approximately four clients.) The women who get the best results from personal branding photography are rarely the most confident. They’re the ones willing to show up before they feel ready, and let visibility do the work.

I learned this the hard way. For years, I photographed anyone who booked me: local magazines, corporate events, whoever asked. I had no particular style, just a camera and availability. My unique selling point was that I’d turn up. And that made it very hard to stand out or charge premium prices!

Then during lockdown, all of the work that I’d have usually got through networking events dried up. Instead of panicking, I decided to use the downtime as an opportunity to build up my portfolio of my ideal clients… Colourful and fun, personality-filled images of women in business. My favourite kind of people!

Soon word began to spread and people started travelling across the UK to work with me. One potential client in Essex, a six-hour drive each way, offered to come to me instead. “There’s nothing else like what you offer,” she said. “It’s worth travelling for.”

That moment changed everything. Not because I’d suddenly become confident, but because I’d started showing up as myself – and turns out that was my unique selling point! 

So if you’re reading this thinking “I’ll do a personal branding photoshoot once I feel ready,” this post is for you. And if you’re still wondering what a personal brand even is, I’ve written a complete guide to personal branding that explains it simply.

What personal branding photography actually is

Photo of Victoria Richards, Handsome Vintage by me – Rosie Parsons Photography

Personal branding photography is a strategic collection of professional images that show who you are, how you work, and what it’s like to work with you. 

Unlike a single headshot, it creates a visual library designed for ongoing use across websites, LinkedIn, marketing, PR, and content creation.

One of the first things I’d like to do is to clear something up, because my eye does a tiny twitch every time I hear this mixup.

One of the most common misconceptions I hear time and time again is that people assume a single headshot is all they need. Or that personal branding photography is just multiple headshots in different outfits. 

If you look at having a brand photoshoot this way, getting more than a couple of photos would certainly feel a bit indulgent. Let me explain why it is not vain to get multiple photos of you for your business.

Personal branding photography is not a headshot.

A headshot answers the question “what do you look like?” Personal branding photography answers “can I trust you, and do I want to work with you?”

Personal branding photography helps you visually communicate your brand story, your brand message, and the unique story behind how you work, so the right people recognise themselves in your business.

The goal of personal branding photography is to build on your initial headshot. To come across as credible, approachable, and give a flavour of your unique personality and who you are. 

Think of it as the difference between having one outfit and having a wardrobe. A professional headshot is your smart blazer. Essential for certain situations, but you can’t wear it to the beach, to bed, or to that networking lunch where everyone else is in jeans and you look like you’ve come straight from a job interview. 

Personal branding photography gives you the full range: action shots, behind-the-scenes moments, lifestyle portraits, and images that show your personality in context.

These photos become your visual content for everything: website photos, social media posts, email newsletters, press coverage, pitch decks, course materials, and those “about me” pages that everyone pretends they don’t read first. (We all read them first.)

For a broader look at how this fits into your overall visual strategy, see [why brand photography matters for your business].

Interested in creating brand content yourself? Many business owners start with DIY photography before investing in a professional photo shoot. [Learn how to start with DIY brand photography]

Why headshots alone don’t do the job if you want to be noticed

Left: Traditional headshot | Right: Personal branding photography image : Both image credits Rosie Parsons Photography

Here’s the trust gap nobody talks about:

Your potential clients are making decisions about you before they ever speak to you. They’re scrolling your website, checking your LinkedIn, reading your about page. And if all they see is one polished headshot from 2019 and a load of stock photos of suspiciously enthusiastic people shaking hands? They’ve got nothing to go on.

A couple of headshots, even polished business headshots or corporate headshots, rarely give potential customers enough information to form a lasting impression.

A single business headshot tells people what you look like. It doesn’t show them how you work, what your energy is like, or whether you’re the kind of person they’d enjoy working with.

Modern buying behaviour has changed. People want to feel like they know you before they book a call. They want to see you in action, get a sense of your personality, understand what working with you might actually feel like.

This is especially true for service-based businesses. If you’re a coach, consultant, therapist, or creative (someone whose personality and approach matters as much as your expertise) a headshot alone leaves too much to imagination. And people’s imaginations are not always kind.

Headshots are a single, polished image. Personal branding photography is a collection of images designed for ongoing use across multiple platforms.

A professional brand photographer isn’t just there to take a nice photo, but to help you communicate trust before someone ever gets in touch.

[Learn more about how headshots and brand photos differ in purpose and use]

Who personal branding photography is actually for (and who it isn’t)

Personal branding self portrait by personal stylist Chantelle Znideric using the Slay Your Selfies method

Personal branding photography is for business owners and thought leaders whose reputation, expertise, or personality drives sales.

If your target audience needs to trust you before they buy, your images need to speak to the right people, not just look professional. They need to show alignment, energy, and authority in context.

It’s ideal for:

• Coaches and consultants who need clients to trust them before booking
• Therapists and wellness professionals building a warm, approachable presence
• Course creators and speakers who need content across multiple platforms
• Creative entrepreneurs whose personality is part of their brand
• Anyone whose business lives or dies by “know, like, trust”

It might be premature if:

• You’re still figuring out who you serve and what you offer
• You’re planning a major rebrand in the next few months
• You don’t have anywhere to actually use the photos yet
• You’re hoping photos will magically create clarity you don’t have (they won’t, I’ve tried)

I’ve seen too many women invest in gorgeous branding photoshoot inspiration Pinterest-worthy images before they’ve nailed their positioning, then feel frustrated when the images don’t quite fit six months later. The photos weren’t the problem. The timing was. It’s like buying a wedding dress before you’ve met anyone. Technically possible, emotionally inadvisable.

When personal branding photography is worth investing in

Nutritionist branding photoshoot for Innocent Smoothies by Rosie Parsons Photography

Personal branding photography works best when you have a clear idea of who you’re for and what you want people to do next. Without that, even a good idea executed beautifully won’t create the right opportunities.

You don’t need everything to be perfect and unable to change, but you do need clarity on:

• Who you help (your ideal clients)
• How you help them (your core offer)
• Where your images will be used (website, LinkedIn, launches, PR)

Without that, even beautiful photos won’t work hard for your business. They’ll just sit in a folder looking pretty and making you feel guilty. Like an unused gym membership, but more photogenic.

Quick decision checklist:

You’re ready for professional personal brand photography if:

• You know who you’re for and what you sell
• You have platforms where you’ll actually use the images
• You want photos that will work for 12-24 months

Hold off if:

• You’re actively pivoting or testing new offers
• You’re not sure how you’ll use the images yet
• You’re hoping a photoshoot will create clarity (it won’t)

Signs you’re ready (real example):

One of my clients, Heather from AI for Non-Techies, has now done three shoots with me. When she first came to see me she arrived thinking she was unphotogenic and awkward in front of the camera. But as I tell everyone who comes to see me – no one is unphotogenic, you just need a bit of guidance with posing and relaxing!

So it has been fantastic to see her confidence grow shoot by shoot as she saw for herself how good she could look! And now we see those photos being published in the likes of Forbes!

During the five years we have been working together on her shoots, Heather has totally pivoted her business. When she first came to see me it was as the owner of a marketing agency to now the Founder of training business AI for Non Techies. 

But the great thing is that she has been able to use the photos from all her shoots in the new business. This is because the photos were created to reflect her own personal brand that extends throughout any business she might create. 

That’s what happens when timing, clarity, and visibility align.

Signs you might want to wait:

If you’re still pivoting, testing offers, or not sure who your audience is, consider starting with creating self portraits on your phone via DIY brand photography first. Build momentum, test what resonates, and invest in a professional shoot once you’ve got direction. There’s no shame in the DIY game and it is a great way to get your business visible without needing a huge marketing budget.

What makes personal branding photography effective (and what quietly fails)

Self portrait of myself, Rosie Parsons, shot on my iPhone 15 using my Slay Your Selfies method

Let me be blunt: pretty photos that don’t get used are a waste of money. 

Effective personal branding photography is planned, not improvised. It’s built around messaging, platforms, and real usage, not poses or trends. The strongest shoots start with strategy and finish with images that slot effortlessly into everyday business life. 

The planning phase matters far more than people expect. A thoughtful shot list ensures you leave with a versatile set of images that create consistent imagery across your website, social media, and marketing.

Having the right photos available makes creating marketing assets effortless. Having ones that aren’t quite right is just frustrating.  

What works:

• Photos planned around your actual content needs
• Variety of compositions: professional headshots, action shots, detail shots, lifestyle portraits
• Images that match your brand colours and energy
• Shots you can use across website, social media, and PR

What quietly fails:

• Chasing trends that don’t match your brand (looking at you, random smoke bombs)
• Only shooting “pretty” without thinking about purpose
• Forgetting you need horizontal and vertical crops (Instagram will not be pleased)
• No plan for where images will actually live

Great imagery should support your visual identity, including your colour palette, rather than fighting against it.

See real personal branding shoot examples and outcomes

The three types of personal branding photography (and how they work together)

Here’s something a lot of people don’t realise: not all personal branding photography is the same. People lump it all together, which creates confusion about what to book, when, and why.

In reality, there are three distinct types of shoots, each serving a different purpose. Most successful personal brands use more than one over time.

1. Studio personal branding shoots (the foundation)

Studio shoot of Lea Turner from The HoLT by Rosie Parsons Photography

Studio shoots are where most people should start. Yes, they include headshots, but they’re not limited to the stiff, corporate variety you’re imagining.

Studio shoots often rely on artificial light, which gives you consistency and flexibility no matter the weather or time of year (phew no need to reschedule!).

A good studio branding photoshoot works for:

• Clean, controlled lighting that flatters
• Space for expressive poses (pointing, celebrating, reacting, thinking)
• Images that work beautifully as cutouts with text overlays

These photos become the workhorses of your brand. They’re what you’ll use for slides and presentations, social media graphics, LinkedIn posts, and website basics. They’re not boring. They’re foundational.

I generally recommend starting here so your headshot and core visuals are nailed first. Once you have these, everything else becomes easier.

2. On-location lifestyle personal branding shoots (context + credibility)

Editorial lifestyle shoot for You & Your Wedding Magazine of wedding cake designer Zoe Clark by Rosie Parsons Photography

Lifestyle shoots show who you are in context. They tell a narrative.

These are the photos that work brilliantly for:

• About pages that actually connect
• PR and media features
• Brand storytelling across your website

Where studio shoots say “here’s what I look like,” lifestyle shoots say “here’s my world, and here’s what it might feel like to work with me.”

Lifestyle images are about context, much like interior design photography, where environment tells part of the story.

One thing worth knowing: lifestyle shoots often require a different skillset. It’s completely valid to use the same photographer for both, or to work with someone better suited to editorial and environmental work. There’s no rule that says one person has to do everything. But once you have found a photographer you like I would stick with that person to do all of your lifestyle shots, so that they are all edited the same and look cohesive across your marketing materials.

3. DIY personal branding photography (ongoing visibility)

Self portrait by wallpaper designer Georgina van Hasselt from Whistling Thorn Designs using the Slay Your Selfies method

This is what I teach in my online course Slay Your Selfies, and it’s not a consolation prize. DIY personal branding photography is strategic, high-volume, repeatable content that sits well above casual selfies or generic stock photos.

DIY personal branding photography works brilliantly for ongoing content, including stills and short-form video content, especially if you’re producing content regularly.

It’s ideal for:

• Social media posts that need constant feeding
• Ongoing visibility between professional shoots
• Building confidence in front of the camera

There are two valid ways to use DIY photography: as a budget-friendly starting point if professional shoots aren’t accessible yet, or as a top-up system between studio and lifestyle sessions. Both are legitimate. Neither is “less than.”

If you’re starting with DIY, my guide on how to take good pictures of yourself covers the fundamentals of distance, angles, and lighting that make phone photos look professional.

The order that works for most business owners:

L-R: Studio Headshot, Lifestyle personal branding photoshoot, Slay Your Selfies self portrait from iPhone

If you’re wondering where to start, here’s the sequence I recommend for most people:

1. Studio shoot first to nail your headshot and core brand visuals
2. Lifestyle shoot next to add context, credibility, and PR-ready images
3. DIY photography ongoing to keep your content fresh and build confidence

This isn’t rigid. If budget is tight, start with DIY and add professional shoots when you’re ready. The point is that visibility can be built gradually. You don’t have to do everything at once.

The SLAY Visibility Method helps you decide which of these you need now, and which can come later.

The SLAY Visibility Method

After 18 years behind the camera, I’ve noticed patterns. The shoots that create real business results (not just nice photos that gather digital dust) share four things in common. I call it the SLAY Visibility Method.

It’s not a photography checklist. It’s a decision-making framework that helps you reduce overwhelm and create momentum, whether you’re DIYing or booking a professional personal branding photoshoot.

S – Strategy

Before a camera appears, you need clarity on three things: who you’re targeting, what you’re selling, and where the images will be used.

This isn’t about being rigid. It’s about making sure your business photos actually serve your business. A photo of you laughing at your desk is lovely, but if you need images for a serious corporate portrait, it might not be the right shot. Context matters. You wouldn’t wear a onesie to a board meeting. Same energy.

Your core values and creative process play a huge role in effective visual storytelling. Over time, this consistency builds brand recognition, even before people consciously realise it.

L – Locations

Your shoot locations should reflect your real working world, not a random aesthetic you found on Pinterest at 2am.

Generic studio backdrops can work for headshots, but personal branding photography comes alive when it shows context. Your actual office. A café you genuinely work from. The space where clients experience you. Whether it’s a studio branding photoshoot or on-location, the setting should feel authentic. 

Saying that, if your home office is more bomb-site than boujie, it can be worth scouting out a nice location specifically for your brand photos. You can find nice places on Airbnb or Peerspace which rent spaces by the hour or your photographer might have some good ideas up their sleeve. 

Wherever you pick, it is really important that it reflects the rest of your brand. Is it inner city exposed brick or rustic outdoors? What about the colours – these should be cohesive with your website and social media. Make sure the vibe of your chosen location fits the aesthetic of everything else you use in your marketing – from your copy to the clothes you wear.

A – Activities

Images of you doing the work build trust faster than posed shots ever will.

Think: writing, coaching, creating, consulting. The activities your clients associate with your expertise. These “in action” shots give people a window into what working with you looks like, and that’s what converts browsers into buyers.

Y – You

Studio shoot by Rosie Parsons Photography with Harri Helvon-Hardy Founder and CEO – FABRIC Family, FABRIC Foundation and Stella

Your personality and energy matter more than perfection.

I ask clients for their favourite going-out music weeks before their shoot. They forget they told me. Then on the day, they walk in and their favourite songs are playing. One client said, “It’s amazing we have the same taste in music!” (I told her the truth eventually. She laughed. We’re still friends.)

The point is: the best personal brand photography captures you, relaxed, genuine, in your element. Not a stiff, over-styled version trying to look like everyone else on Instagram.

If any of these elements are missing, the photos may look good but they won’t perform.

Three things people confuse about personal branding photography

Personal branding photography vs headshots

A professional headshot is one image, usually head and shoulders against a clean background. Personal branding photography is a strategic library of images designed for ongoing use across your website, LinkedIn, Instagram, email marketing, and PR.

You need both. But they’re not the same thing. Professional headshots women use for LinkedIn are just one piece of a complete brand photography collection. It’s like saying a passport photo is the same as a holiday album. Technically both photos. Very different vibes.

Personal branding photography vs lifestyle photography

Lifestyle photography focuses on mood and storytelling. It’s atmospheric and editorial. Very “walking through a field looking wistfully into the distance.”

Personal branding photography adds commercial intent. Every image should support visibility, trust, or conversion, not just look nice. Pretty is great. Pretty that pays your bills is better.

DIY or book a shoot? Here’s how to choose

At this point, there are two valid paths forward. Neither is better. The right choice depends entirely on where you are right now.

This isn’t a hierarchy. It’s a fork in the road, and both directions lead somewhere good.

Option 1: Start with DIY visibility

If you’re short on time but need regular content for social media platforms, DIY photography gives you flexibility without sacrificing quality.

DIY brand photography suits you if:

• You want control over timing and output
• Budget is a factor right now
• You need photos regularly, not just once a year
• You want to build confidence before a professional shoot
• You’re still refining your brand and need flexibility

The good news: phone cameras are now better than professional cameras were ten years ago. Genuinely. My camera from 2014 would weep with inadequacy if it saw an iPhone 15. With the right knowledge of lighting, composition, and headshot poses, you can create scroll-stopping brand content yourself.

One of my Slay Your Selfies students even got featured in Forbes using photos she took herself. When I created the course, it was to help people get better selfies for social media – I thought phone photos wouldn’t be good enough for press coverage. My students have completely proved me wrong. (Rude, but also wonderful.)

DIY isn’t “less than.” It’s a legitimate path to visibility, and for many women, it’s the confidence-building step that makes a professional business photoshoot feel possible later.

Boost your own brand content with Slay Your Selfies

Option 2: Book a professional personal branding shoot

A professional shoot is often the best way to take your brand to the next level when you’re investing in a new website, online ads, or a bigger launch.

A professional shoot makes sense if:

• You have clarity on your brand, audience, and offers
• You need a large library of high-quality images at once
• You’re launching something significant (website, course, rebrand)
• You want the experience of being photographed by someone who knows how to make you look and feel amazing
• You’re ready to invest in images that will work for 1-2 years

When you book a professional brand portrait photography session, you’re not just paying for photos. You’re paying for the photographer’s eye, their ability to direct you, and the experience of feeling genuinely good in front of a camera. Which, if you’re anything like most of my clients, might be a novel sensation.

I build in 45-60 minutes at the start of every shoot for tea, hair, makeup, and chat. If you go straight into photos, it feels like whiplash. “Hello nice to meet you NOW POSE.” Terrifying. You get much better results (more natural, genuine expressions) when you feel like you’re being photographed by a friend. Hence the tea. And the chat. And sometimes the snacks.

[INTERNAL LINK: See examples of personal branding sessions I’ve shot]

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How to choose the right personal branding photographer

A good personal branding session isn’t just about the photos. It’s making sure you have a great time throughout the whole experience, from planning through to delivery. A fellow photographer who understands branding will think beyond individual images.

Whether you’re searching for a local photographer or open to travelling, here’s what actually matters:

Vibe alignment matters as much as aesthetics. Look at their portfolio. Do the people in their business portraits look like how you’d like to look – can you see yourself in their place and be happy with that? Do they look relaxed and natural? You’ll likely look similar.

Ask about their planning process. A good personal branding photographer will ask about your business, your audience, and where you’ll use the images before talking about outfits and locations. If they skip straight to “what should you wear for your branding photoshoot outfit?” without asking who you’re trying to attract, that’s a red flag.

Check they understand usage. Great photos that don’t fit anywhere are useless. Your photographer should be thinking about crops, orientations, and platforms alongside composition. If they seem unfamiliar with how images actually get used online, that’s worth noting.

Trust your gut on rapport. You’ll be spending hours with this person, potentially in vulnerable moments. If the vibe feels off in the enquiry process, it won’t improve on shoot day. Chemistry matters, mainly because if you’re feeling uncomfortable it will show on your face!

Red flags to avoid:

• Photographers who only show heavily-styled, heavily-edited work (magazines will be fine with lightly edited shots but they need to fit in with the rest of their publication)
• No mention of planning or pre-shoot discussion
• Pressure to book without understanding your needs
• A portfolio where everyone looks the same (you are not a clone, don’t let them make you one)

How to use your personal branding photos once you have them

From your new website and email marketing to social platforms and even business cards, the right personal branding photography ensures your online presence feels intentional and cohesive everywhere people encounter you.

The ROI of personal branding photography comes from actually using the images. Here’s where they should live:

Website: Homepage hero image, about page, services pages, contact page. Not just one photo tucked in a corner like it’s embarrassed to be there. Multiple images throughout.

LinkedIn: Profile photo, banner image, and posts. LinkedIn rewards personal content with reach. Your brand photos give you fresh material for your professional profile pictures without having to take yet another bathroom mirror selfie.

Email marketing: Newsletter headers, welcome sequences, sales pages. People buy from people, and seeing your face builds connection.

PR and press: When journalists or podcast hosts need an image, you want options ready. Nothing worse than being asked for a photo and your only option is that one blurry selfie from 2017.

Social media: Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest. Mix professional brand photos with casual content for variety.

Pitch decks and proposals: If you’re pitching for speaking gigs, collaborations, or clients, branded images elevate your credibility instantly.

Course materials: If you sell digital products, branded photos make your content feel more premium and personal.

The goal is to get seen consistently. Which brings us to the choice in front of you.

Frequently asked questions about personal branding photography

Your next step (no pressure, just clarity)

You’ve got two valid paths in front of you:

Path 1: Start building visibility now with DIY brand photography. Learn to create your own scroll-stopping content, build confidence, and show up consistently without waiting for the “perfect” moment. (The perfect moment is a lie. Like “I’ll just have one biscuit.”) Boost your own brand content with Slay Your Selfies

Path 2: Book a professional personal branding photography session with someone who gets you. Invest in a library of images that will work across everything you do for the next year or two. Book a personal branding photography session with me

Neither path is better. They’re just different starting points for different situations.

What I know after 18 years of photographing women is this: the ones who get results aren’t the most confident, the most polished, or the most “ready.” They’re the ones who decide to be visible anyway, and let the confidence catch up later.

Your photos don’t need to be perfect. They need to be you.

Now stop overthinking and go do something about it!

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Knowing How to take a good selfie isn’t about having supermodel bone structure (thank goodness for that!). And it definitely doesn’t require a filter that removes your pores, your nose, and any trace you’ve ever experienced a human emotion.

As an award-winning brand photographer with 18 years helping real people look great on camera, I can tell you this: the women who take the best selfies are simply the ones who’ve learned what actually works. One of my Slay Your Selfies students even took a self-portrait that ended up in Forbes! They know a good thing when they see it!

Here’s a surprising fact: many of the most flattering selfies don’t actually involve holding your phone at all. Intrigued? Well, indeed you should be!

Even though I’m in photos all the time, I still stress about my own pictures too — my weight goes up and down – colossally at times, and some days all the vibes I’ve got equates to “meh”. So believe me – If I can take photos I actually like, you absolutely can too.

In this guide, I’m going to walk you through my top tricks – from lighting, angles, posing and simple yet devastatingly effective shortcuts that transform awkward snaps into photos where you look like the goddess you truly are. You are very welcome.

The Quick-Start Formula for Taking a Good Selfie

Here’s a simple four-step formula you can use immediately.

Think of this as your foundation. Get these right and you’re already ahead of most people who are still taking selfies standing in pub toilets with overhead lighting that makes them look like they’re auditioning for a zombie film.

1. Face a flattering light source. And I don’t mean a low fat salad cream whispering sweet nothings.

Turn towards a window or stand in open shade outdoors. The light should fall softly on your face. Not blast down from overhead like you’re being interrogated about where the money is.

This single change transforms photos more than any filter ever could.

2. Position your phone slightly above eye level.

Not dramatically high. We’ve all seen that angle where the phone’s so high it looks like it was taken by a drone.

Just a touch above your eyeline. This naturally lifts and defines your features in a way that feels polished rather than “trying desperately hard to improve my jawline.” Yes we all know what’s going on.

3. Choose a clean, uncluttered background. Sadly this does mean a reason to get onto that pile of washing that’s been there since Thursday. Sorry about that.

A messy background distracts from your face and makes even good photos feel chaotic.

Nobody needs to see your laundry pile. Or that mysterious cable situation behind the sofa. Or your other half wandering past in his pants. We want to look good, and there’s sometimes a thing called a little too much authenticity.

Let’s try to avoid the #awkward face

Selfie portrait of me, taken with a tripod selfie stick and clicker, with my Slay Your Selfies method

4. Add a little movement. You don’t have to be the next Strictly Champion, but give me a little razzle dazzle!

Your selfie position matters almost as much as your expression.

Instead of freezing like a startled deer in headlights, try shifting your weight, adjusting your hair … or if you really can’t bare the cringe, even just taking a breath and breathing out just before you shoot.

This creates natural energy in the image. It helps you avoid that stiff, hostage-video expression we all know and dread.

How to Take a Good Selfie: Top Tips That Actually Work

Now… (imagine me talking in hushed tones, looking over my shoulder anxiously for outsiders listening in and for some reason I’ve also gone full South London accent)… let’s get into the down and dirty, top secret detail of what you need to know to take a top notch selfie.

These are the techniques I’ve developed over 18 years of photographing women for their businesses. Like precious wisdom of old I pass these golden nuggets down to you.

They work whether you’re twenty-five or sixty-five. Whether you’re having a “good face day” or one of those mornings where you wake up still with last night’s makeup on and look like you’ve aged fifteen years overnight.

(Just me?)

The number one thing I hear from clients arriving at their shoot is that they are unphotogenic. Not that they feel unphotogenic. But they ARE unphotogenic.

The worst story I heard was that another photographer had told one of my clients years ago that they were unphotogenic (like seriously – who the heck would say that?!) and it stuck.

Perhaps a throwaway comment at school made you feel self conscious about your nose, teeth or double chin? So many unkind or thoughtless words can really stick with us for life when the person who said them has long forgotten about it!

The thing is, even the most confident, successful businesswomen I photograph—women who speak on stages and run empires—often feel genuinely vulnerable in front of a camera.

You are absolutely not alone in this.

But the good news is – actually you are lovely! And you can absolutely be photogenic once I’ve finished with ya! Once you understand the principles of how to take a good selfie, everything becomes easier. Hooray!

You Don’t Have to Use Your Arms to Take a Selfie

This is the life changing tip that is going to rock your socks off. And as of yet, hardly anyone talks about it.

When you hold your phone at arm’s length, you’re limited to one basic angle. Your arm gets tired. Your shoulder hunches up somewhere around your ear. You end up with that slightly tense expression that says “I am concentrating very hard on not dropping my phone in the toilet.”

Worse, the wide-angle lens on your front-facing camera distorts your features. It makes your nose look larger and your face appear rounder than it actually is.

Marvellous. Just what we all needed.

The solution? Put the phone down and step back.

“But Rosie, how will I then be able to take a picture?!” I hear you ask in confusion!

Well mon cherie – you can use your camera timer (most phones give you three, five or ten seconds options) and prop your phone against something!

A coffee cup works brilliantly. So does a stack of books, a plant pot, a sauce bottle in a restaurant (done it), or a handy tree with obliging branches (also done it).

Or as per my favourite option… you could use a tripod that doubles up as a selfie stick. They’re really lightweight and portable. I have a recommended one that I suggest to all my students.

My handbag is never without one. Always photo-ready. #AnotherDayAnotherSlay

Propping up your phone lets you position the camera at a distance. You can use the sharper, high quality rear-facing camera. And you can actually relax your body like a normal human being.

I’ve taken some of my favourite selfies by leaning my phone against a mug on a café table, setting the timer, and sitting back with my coffee looking casually into the middle distance. I may feel like a goon, but I look good in my picture!

Nobody watching would even know I was taking a photo. They probably thought I was just a woman really enjoying her flat white with deep meaningful thoughts. Aha, fooled them!

The result? A natural, relaxed image that looks like someone else took it. Which is exactly what we’re after.

You can also buy inexpensive remote shutters that connect via Bluetooth. Press the tiny button hidden in your hand and the phone takes the shot. I like these a lot – I just wish I didn’t lose them so often!

This tip alone is an absolute game-changer for anyone who wants professional-looking content without hiring an actual photographer. And no need to have an Insta husband available on demand. I’d call that a win for everyone involved!

For more on the technical side of distance, angles, and what makes photos actually flattering, I’ve written a full guide on how to take good pictures of yourself.

Selfie portrait of me at Peggy Porschen, London taken on my iPhone 15

Mastering Natural Lighting

Good lighting is the single biggest factor in whether a selfie looks professional or like it was taken in a bunker during an apocalypse.

Forget ring lights for a moment. They have their place, but they’re not essential. What you really need is soft, directional natural light.

The best light source for selfies is a large window with indirect light. Face the window so the light falls evenly across your face.

If direct sunlight is streaming through, diffuse it with a sheer curtain or move to a spot where the light is softer.

Direct sun is not your friend. It highlights every pore, every fine line, every bit of tiredness you’re carrying. We don’t need that kind of brutal honesty.

Outdoors, open shade is your best friend.

Stand under a tree canopy, in the shadow of a building, or on a covered porch where the sky acts as one enormous softbox.

The light wraps around your face beautifully. No harsh shadows that add ten years and a vague air of “hasn’t slept since 2019.”

Golden hour—the hour after sunrise or before sunset—produces that warm, glowy quality you see in gorgeous travel photos.

The kind where people look sun-kissed and relaxed rather than sweaty and squinting.

If you’re planning a content day, schedule your outdoor shots for these times. You’ll notice a dramatic difference.

Flattering Angles and Finding Your Good Side

Most people have a side of their face they prefer. Even if they’ve never consciously noticed it.

Spend five minutes taking photos from slightly different angles. Chin tilted up versus down. Face turned a few degrees left or right.

You’ll quickly spot which feels most like you. Or at least, most like the version of you that you’d happily put on the internet.

A classic flattering angle is to turn your face about fifteen degrees away from the camera, then bring your eyes back to the lens.

This creates dimension. It avoids the flat, passport-photo look that makes everyone look vaguely criminal.

Tilting your chin very slightly down and forward helps define your jawline. Imagine a turtle gently poking its head out of its shell.

Elegant, I know.

It feels utterly bizarre when you do it. But trust me—it photographs beautifully. I do it in every single photo and I’ve never once felt graceful doing it.

I’ve photographed celebrities who’ve flat-out refused to try a pose because they were convinced it would look terrible. Then they loved the result when they saw it.

Posing well doesn’t come naturally to anyone. Not models, not actresses, not that woman on Instagram who seems to nail every shot.

We’ve all just practised until we found what works.

Lean in Slightly

Here’s another trick I use constantly: lean your torso very slightly towards the camera.

Not so much that it’s obvious. But just enough that your face becomes a bit larger in the frame than your body.

Your eyes draw people into the photo. This subtle lean makes you look engaged and interested rather than stiff and distant.

Subtle Tweaks That Help Your Features Shine

Small adjustments make a surprisingly big difference in selfies.

These are the tricks models and actors use that nobody tells the rest of us about until we’ve been doing it wrong for twenty years.

Pushing your tongue against the roof of your mouth while smiling helps define the area under your chin.

Sounds completely barmy. Works brilliantly. Nobody will ever know you’re doing it.

Relaxing your jaw before you shoot prevents that clenched, tense look many of us default to when a camera appears.

If you’re anything like me, the second a lens points in your direction, your entire face forgets how to arrange itself naturally.

Take a breath. Unclench. Maybe have a little shake out if nobody’s watching.

Watch your shoulders too. I see this constantly when photographing clients.

They’ll be smiling beautifully, but their shoulders are hunched up around their ears with tension. It shows in the photo, even if you can’t quite put your finger on why.

Before you take the shot, consciously drop your shoulders down and back. You’ll look instantly more relaxed and confident.

And here’s one most people don’t notice: check your hands.

I cannot tell you how many times I’ve photographed someone whose face and body look lovely, but their hands are gripping onto their leg or the chair like they’re on a turbulent flight.

We do it without realising. But it’s a dead giveaway that we’re not comfortable. It shows in the final image.

Consciously relax your fingers. Let them be soft.

If you wear glasses, tilt them very slightly forward on your nose to reduce glare. Or angle your face so the light source isn’t reflecting directly off the lenses.

Nothing ruins a good selfie quite like two white rectangles where your eyes should be.

Avoiding Harsh Shadows and Direct Sunlight

Direct sunlight is not your friend when it comes to selfies.

It feels counterintuitive. Surely more light is good?

But direct sun creates hard shadows under your eyes, nose and chin. It makes you squint like you’re trying to read something very small and far away. And it shows every single bit of texture on your skin.

We don’t need that level of detail. Nobody does.

If you’re outdoors on a bright day, find shade.

Stand with your back to the sun if necessary and let the open sky light your face instead.

Alternatively, wait for a cloud to pass overhead. Overcast conditions produce beautifully soft, even light.

Finally, a reason to appreciate British weather.

Indoors, avoid standing directly beneath overhead lights.

They create unflattering shadows that make everyone look like they haven’t slept in a week. Even if you’ve just had nine hours.

Instead, face a window or lamp that lights you from the front or side.

How to Get Sharper Shots and Avoid Camera Shake

Blurry selfies usually come down to one of two things: camera shake or the camera focusing on the wrong spot.

Both are fixable, thankfully.

Hold your phone with both hands if possible. Tuck your elbows into your body. Take a breath before pressing the shutter.

Better yet, use the camera timer so you’re not jabbing at the screen and wobbling the phone at the crucial moment.

There’s nothing worse than taking what feels like the perfect shot, only to find you’ve captured a lovely photo of a flesh-coloured blur.

Tap your screen to tell the camera where to focus. Specifically, tap on your face.

Most phone cameras will adjust both focus and exposure when you do this. It often improves the image dramatically.

Otherwise, the camera might decide to focus on that very interesting lamp behind you instead.

If your phone has burst mode, use it. Take ten shots in rapid succession and pick the best one.

Even professional photographers rarely get the perfect shot first time. We just take hundreds and pretend we nailed it immediately.

Natural Smile Tips

Nothing ruins an otherwise lovely selfie faster than a forced, uncomfortable smile.

You know the one. Where your mouth is technically smiling but your eyes are screaming “please let this be over.”

The trick is to create genuine emotion right before you take the shot.

One of my favourite techniques when photographing clients is to ask them to imagine their favourite person in the world is standing behind the camera.

Sometimes it’s their partner. More often… it’s Ryan Reynolds.

Either way, that split second of genuine warmth and amusement shows in your eyes. It completely transforms the photo.

If a full smile doesn’t feel right, try a soft, closed-mouth smile or a relaxed, open expression.

Not every selfie needs teeth. What matters is that your face looks at ease rather than held together by sheer force of will.

Practise your smile in the mirror. Not to perfect it, but to get used to seeing your own face.

The more familiar you are with how you look when you smile—really smile—the less awkward you’ll feel trying to recreate it for a camera.

Using Portrait Mode Properly

Portrait mode on most smartphones blurs the background to create that professional, depth-of-field effect you see in magazine photos.

When it works, it looks absolutely gorgeous. When it doesn’t, you end up with half an ear missing and a chunk of your hair floating mysteriously in mid-air.

The key is distance.

Portrait mode needs you to be far enough from the camera that it can detect the edges of your face accurately.

If you’re too close, you’ll get weird blurring around your hair, ears or jawline. It makes you look like you’re slowly dissolving.

About two feet away from the lens is usually ideal. Another reason arm-free selfies work so well.

Good lighting helps portrait mode work better. In dim conditions, the software struggles to separate you from the background.

The effect can look artificial. More “bad Photoshop” than “professional photography.”

Check the edges of your image after you take it. If the blur has eaten into your hair or created odd halos, either retake with more distance or skip portrait mode for that particular shot.

No shame in it whatsoever.

Helpful Editing and Filters (With a Light Touch)

A little editing can enhance your selfies without making them look fake.

The goal is to polish. Not to create a version of yourself you wouldn’t recognise in the supermarket.

Brightness and exposure adjustments help if your original image was slightly too dark. Lift the shadows to reveal detail in your eyes and hair.

A touch of warmth often makes skin tones look healthier. Cool, blue-toned images tend to feel clinical. Like a passport photo or a police mugshot.

Neither of which is the vibe we’re going for.

Subtle sharpening can bring back detail lost in compression, particularly around the eyes.

As for filters: use them sparingly.

Heavy filters scream “I’m trying very hard to look like someone else.” They can obscure the natural beauty of a well-lit photo.

If you look at the result and think “that’s lovely, but who on earth is she?”—the filter has gone too far.

Selfie Poses You Can Copy Today

Posing is where most people get completely stuck.

The second we have to do something deliberate with our faces and bodies, we forget how humans normally stand. We end up looking like we’ve never had limbs before.

Here are some reliable options you can use straight away.

Start sitting or leaning.

When I photograph clients, I always ease them in with a pose where they can sit or lean against something.

It takes the pressure off. It gives you something to do with your body. It feels much less awkward than standing in the middle of a room wondering what to do with your arms.

Lean against a wall. Sit on a chair. Rest against a doorframe. Anchor yourself and you’ll instantly feel more comfortable.

The head tilt.

Simply tilt your head gently to one side.

It creates softness and interest without looking posed. Works beautifully for headshots and casual content alike. Almost impossible to get wrong.

The hair touch.

Bring one hand up to your hair. Tuck it behind your ear, lift it slightly, or rest your fingers at the nape of your neck.

This adds natural movement. It gives you something to do with your hands, which is genuinely half the battle.

The chin rest.

Rest your chin lightly on your hand, elbow propped on a table or knee.

It frames your face nicely. It feels more relaxed than standing there with your arms dangling awkwardly at your sides wondering what hands are for.

The over-the-shoulder.

Turn away from the camera, then look back over your shoulder.

This creates a dynamic, candid-feeling shot that works particularly well outdoors. Very “casually caught in a moment” even though you absolutely planned the whole thing.

The laugh.

Instead of smiling on command, make yourself laugh genuinely and capture that moment.

Even if your mouth is open mid-giggle, real laughter photographs better than a frozen grin.

Think of something funny. That thing your friend said last week. Yes, that one.

The look-away.

Gaze off to the side or slightly down instead of directly at the camera.

This creates an editorial, thoughtful vibe that suits professional content. Very “lost in important thoughts” even if you’re actually thinking about whether you remembered to defrost dinner.

If you’d like step-by-step pose sequences and detailed guidance, my course Slay Your Selfies walks you through everything in a really easy, encouraging way.

Common Selfie Mistakes (And How to Fix Them Fast)

Even when you know the basics, a few sneaky mistakes can sabotage your efforts.

Here’s what to watch for. I’ve made every single one of these myself, so absolutely no judgement from me.

Holding the phone too close.

That wide-angle lens distortion I mentioned earlier? It gets worse the closer you are.

Your nose grows. Your face rounds out. You end up looking nothing like yourself.

Either use a timer and step back, or invest in a tripod selfie stick. Your actual face shape will thank you.

Choosing a busy background.

A gorgeous outfit and perfect lighting mean nothing if there’s a bin, a pile of washing or someone’s elbow photobombing from the corner.

Always check what’s behind you before you shoot.

Over-editing.

It’s tempting to smooth every pore and brighten every feature until you look like a porcelain doll.

But the result rarely feels authentic. And honestly, people can tell.

Aim for “polished version of myself on a good day” rather than “AI-generated human who has never experienced stress.”

Tensing up.

Stiff shoulders. Clenched jaws. Frozen expressions. Hands gripping on for dear life.

The camera picks up on all of it immediately.

Take a breath. Shake out your shoulders. Consciously relax your fingers. Remind yourself that you can delete any photo you don’t like.

Nobody ever has to see the awkward ones. That’s between you and your camera roll.

Ignoring the light.

I cannot stress this enough: bad lighting undermines everything else.

If a location has terrible light—and you’ll know because you’ll look vaguely grey and like you might be coming down with something—move somewhere else.

No amount of editing fixes a harshly lit photo. Believe me, I’ve tried.

Taking just one shot.

Professional photographers take hundreds of images to get a handful of keepers.

Give yourself the same grace.

Take twenty selfies. Pick the best two. Delete the rest. Tell absolutely no one how many attempts it actually took.

Using the front camera when you could use the rear.

The rear-facing camera on most phones produces sharper, less distorted images.

Yes, you can’t see yourself while you shoot. But that’s what timers and burst mode are for.

The results are worth the mild guesswork.

Not checking your outfit on camera.

I do this myself. You don’t always know how something will look on camera until you take the picture.

Have your best guess at what you want to wear. But check the photos as you go.

If something isn’t working, change it while you’re still in good light. Don’t discover the problem when you get home.

How to Take a Good Selfie for Business or LinkedIn

Professional selfies need to strike a balance. Approachable enough to feel human. Polished enough to be taken seriously. These photos are part of your personal brand – the visual impression people form before they ever speak to you.

You want to look like someone people would actually want to work with. Competent, warm and like you’ve got your life at least somewhat together.

(Even if behind the scenes things are slightly chaotic. We’ve all been there.)

Here’s the thing: if you’re not confident, it shows in a photo. Even if you can’t quite explain how.

That’s not a great look when you’re asking people to trust you with their money. You want to look confident and friendly.

These tips will help you get there.

Light is paramount.

Stand facing a large window with soft, even illumination.

Avoid overhead office lighting. It casts the kind of shadows that make everyone look exhausted and faintly haunted. Not ideal when you’re trying to win new clients.

Keep the background simple and uncluttered.

A plain wall, tidy bookshelf or clean office space works beautifully.

Remove anything distracting or unprofessional from the frame. Yes, that includes the novelty mug your kids gave you, charming as it is.

Dress in solid colours that suit your skin tone.

Busy patterns can distract from your face. Bright whites sometimes confuse the camera’s exposure.

Your expression should be confident but warm.

Think “welcoming and capable” rather than “will definitely send passive-aggressive emails.”

A gentle, closed-mouth smile often works well for professional contexts.

Frame yourself from the chest up with a little headroom above you.

Centre yourself or use the rule of thirds for a more dynamic composition.

Consider using portrait mode for that subtle background blur.

It looks professional without needing to hire a pro photographer just for your LinkedIn headshot.

Not that there’s anything wrong with that. But sometimes you just need a decent photo at 9am on a Tuesday and the photographer on speed dial isn’t an option!

How to Take a Good Selfie on iPhone vs Android

Both platforms offer brilliant camera capabilities. But there are a few differences worth knowing about.

iPhone Selfie Tips

The front-facing camera on recent iPhones is excellent. But the rear camera is still sharper.

Use the timer function (find it in the camera settings or swipe up on the viewfinder) and the rear camera for the best quality selfies.

Portrait mode works well for selfies but needs adequate light.

In dim conditions, you may get better results with the standard photo mode. Portrait mode tends to struggle and produce some rather creative interpretations of where your face ends and the background begins.

Burst mode (hold down the shutter button) captures multiple frames quickly. Brilliant for catching natural expressions.

Then you just scroll through and pick the one where your eyes are actually open and you don’t look like you’re mid-sneeze.

The wide-angle lens on the front camera can distort features quite dramatically.

Either hold the phone further away than feels natural, or use the rear camera at a distance with the timer.

Android Selfie Tips

Android phones vary widely. But most flagship devices have superb cameras.

Check whether your phone has a dedicated “selfie” or “portrait” mode in the camera app. It’s worth having a poke around in the settings to see what’s available.

Many Android phones include a palm gesture feature. Show your palm to the camera and it triggers a countdown.

Perfect for arm-free selfies. Much less frantic than trying to hit the button and then arrange your face into something presentable in three seconds flat.

Look for any “beauty mode” settings and use them sparingly, if at all.

Aggressive smoothing can look very artificial. We’ve all seen those photos where someone appears to have no pores, no texture, and questionable nasal structure.

If your phone has a telephoto lens, using it for selfies reduces distortion. Though you’ll need to prop the phone further away.

For both platforms: clean your lens regularly.

Seriously. A smudgy lens creates soft, hazy images that no amount of editing can rescue.

Give it a wipe on your shirt before you start. Glamorous, right?

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the trick to taking good selfies?

The single biggest trick is lighting. Face a soft, natural light source—like a window or open shade—and let it illuminate your face evenly.

Beyond that, hold your phone slightly above eye level, keep the background clean, and give yourself permission to take multiple shots.

Nobody gets the perfect selfie first time. That’s completely normal.

Even those people on Instagram who seem to nail it effortlessly? They’ve deleted forty attempts. Guaranteed.

How do you make your face look good in selfies?

Good lighting does most of the heavy lifting. But angles matter too.

Turn your face very slightly rather than shooting straight on. Tilt your chin gently down and forward to define your jawline. Find your preferred side through a bit of experimentation.

Relaxing your face and shoulders before you shoot also helps enormously. Tension shows up instantly in photos, making you look uncomfortable even if the lighting is perfect.

What is the most flattering way to take a selfie?

The most flattering selfies tend to be taken in soft natural light. The camera should be positioned slightly above eye level and far enough away to avoid wide-angle lens distortion.

Propping your phone up and using the timer lets you step back, use the sharper rear camera and actually relax your body.

This combination produces results that look natural, confident and genuinely like you. On a good day, admittedly, but that’s rather the point.

How do you take a good selfie when you’re older?

The same principles apply at any age.

Soft, even lighting is essential. It minimises harsh shadows and creates a natural, flattering glow.

Avoid direct sunlight or overhead lighting, which can emphasise texture and create under-eye shadows.

A camera angle at or just slightly above eye level tends to work beautifully.

Skip heavy filtering and embrace the polish of good lighting and thoughtful composition instead. It makes far more difference than any smoothing tool ever could.

How to take a good selfie on iPhone?

Use the rear camera with the timer function for the sharpest results and least distortion.

Face a natural light source like a window. Tap the screen to focus on your face. Take multiple shots using burst mode if needed.

Portrait mode adds a professional touch in good lighting but can struggle in dim conditions and produce some questionable edge detection.

Clean your lens before you start. It makes more difference than you’d expect.

How to take a good selfie on Android?

Most Android phones have excellent cameras. The key is learning your specific device’s features.

Check for palm gesture timers, portrait modes and any manual settings that let you control focus.

As with any phone, the rear camera typically produces sharper images. Use a timer or remote shutter and step back from the lens.

Good lighting remains the most important factor regardless of your device. It trumps everything else.

How do you take a good selfie in the mirror?

Mirror selfies can look fantastic when done thoughtfully.

Clean the mirror first. Smudges and dust show up more than you’d think. Nothing ruins the aesthetic quite like a mysterious fingerprint hovering across your face.

Stand at a slight angle rather than square-on for a more dynamic composition.

Hold the phone to one side rather than directly in front of your face. Look at the phone screen in the mirror rather than at the camera lens itself.

Natural light from a nearby window produces much better results than harsh bathroom lighting. Which is universally unflattering to everyone who has ever existed.

How do you take a good full-body selfie?

Full-body selfies work best when you prop your phone up and step back.

Trying to fit your whole body in frame at arm’s length is a recipe for bizarre proportions and a very tense expression.

Use a timer. Lean the phone against something stable (or use a tripod selfie stick). Give yourself enough distance to fit your whole body in the frame comfortably.

The rear camera produces less distortion than the front camera. This is especially noticeable in full-length shots.

Angle the phone very slightly upward from waist height to elongate your proportions naturally.

How do you take good selfies when you’re not photogenic?

Here’s the honest truth: “not photogenic” usually just means you haven’t yet learned what works for your face.

And I say this as someone who has definitely had days where I’ve looked at a photo and thought “surely not—that can’t be right.”

The biggest myth in photography is that you’re either born photogenic or you’re not. It’s simply not true.

Experiment with different lighting directions, angles and expressions until you find combinations that feel right.

The techniques in this guide work for everyone. They’re not about being naturally beautiful. They’re about understanding how cameras see us and making small adjustments accordingly.

I’ve taught hundreds of self-described “unphotogenic” women to take photos they genuinely love.

What is the best time of day to take selfies?

For outdoor selfies, golden hour—the hour after sunrise or before sunset—produces the most beautiful, flattering light.

The warm tones and soft shadows are universally lovely. They make everyone look like they’re on holiday somewhere glamorous. Even if they’re actually standing in their back garden.

For indoor selfies, daytime hours when natural light floods through windows give you the best results.

Avoid harsh midday sun outdoors or dim evening conditions indoors unless you have good artificial lighting set up.

How do you take a good selfie for LinkedIn or professional profiles?

Keep it polished and approachable.

Face a large window for soft, even lighting. Choose a clean and simple background. Dress in professional attire with solid colours.

Your expression should convey warmth and confidence. A gentle smile works well, though not so enthusiastic that you look slightly unhinged.

Frame yourself from the chest up. Ensure the camera is level with your eyes.

Consider portrait mode for a subtle background blur that looks professional without being over the top.

You’ve Got This

Taking good selfies isn’t a gift reserved for influencers and twenty-somethings with perfect bone structure.

It’s a skill. And like any skill, it improves with repetition. The more you practise how to take a good selfie, the more second-nature it becomes. And the more easily you’ll find angles, expressions and lighting that feel authentically you.

I’ll be honest: I don’t always love photos other people take of me. In fact 90% of the time I reeeeeally don’t like them!

Different photographers, different lenses, different angles—they all capture us differently.

I generally prefer the photos I take myself because I can position myself exactly how I want and, frankly, look a lot slimmer than I do when someone else is in charge.

I’d prefer to believe that version is reality. And you know what? That’s one of the reasons I love self-portraits and why I teach other women to take their own.

Being in control of your own image is genuinely empowering.

Here’s something else I’ve learned: I look back at photos from ten years ago—photos I cringed at the time—and I think “actually, I looked really good then.”

I was certainly ten years younger.

We’re always so much kinder to ourselves in hindsight. So in ten years, you’ll look back at photos from now and think the same thing.

Take the photos anyway.

And if you’re having a day where you feel stressed or down or a bit bigger than you’d like—take them anyway.

If you hate them, delete them. If you don’t like them, don’t show anyone. But give it a go.

Treat it like a hobby rather than a test. Take the pressure off and just see what happens.

Because here’s the thing I really want you to hear: you are so much more loved than you think.

People want to see who you are and know about you.

If you stay invisible because you’re worried about how you look in photos, there are people out there who would really benefit from knowing you exist. And that is a shame. (You can imagine me looking sadly at you, and shaking my head slowly).

Not to go all deep on you or anything, but there’s a quote I love that says trying to photograph a sunset or the moon never quite captures the beauty of the real thing. I wish I could remember where I saw it, but it was very good!

Sometimes photos of us are like that too. You’re not unphotogenic. Photos just don’t always capture how lovely you actually are. That’s what I’m telling myself anyway.

If you’d love guided video lessons to help you take your own flattering photos with confidence, my course Slay Your Selfies is designed to make the whole process simple and fun.

But whether you go it alone (bad idea) or want a little extra support (that’s the right answer), I hope this guide has shown you that beautiful selfies are absolutely within your reach. 

Now go find some lovely light and dazzle them all you fabulous feast of delightfulness!

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If you’re currently feeling like an overstuffed suitcase zip (holding it together but barely) and looking to chill with some ideas for activities for self care – then you’re in the right place!

Like me, you’re probably drowning in to-do lists, have at least three people needing something from you right now, and the last time you did something just for yourself was… actually, you can’t remember.

Life as a business owner and single mum to four children (12-year-old triplets and an 11-year-old) has taught me that self-care activities aren’t necessarily just about luxury spa days (though if anyone wants to take me to one I’m up for it!). The real self care activities are about finding small, intentional everyday actions that help you feel more like yourself again, even when your daily routine is absolute chaos.

Whether you’re juggling kids, running a business, coping with chronic health conditions or just managing everyday life, it’s easy to put your own well-being at the bottom of the list. Your physical health, emotional health, and mental wellbeing all take a back seat. But here’s what I’ve learned: developing a self-care practice isn’t selfish. It’s essential, and everyone benefits when we feel good. And fortunately I’ve found a few things to help that don’t have to take much time.

In this post, I’ll share seven practical self-care routine ideas that have genuinely helped me manage stress levels and boost my mood whenever I’m feeling emotional and overwhelmed. These aren’t abstract ideas — they’re things I actually do and hopefully they will help you too.

Why Self-Care Matters, Especially When You’re Overwhelmed

For the longest time, I thought self-care activities were a bit self-indulgent and not for me. They were something that people with more time, more money, or fewer children shouting “Mum!” every five minutes might do.

But then something shifted. My ex-partner used to make me feel special in small ways – buying me a takeaway drink when we went out for a drive, bringing snacks for movie nights, lighting candles to make it feel like an occasion.

When that relationship ended, I realised I’d been waiting for someone else to make me feel cared for. And yes, I can buy myself flowers (and talk to myself for hours, thanks Miley). But more importantly, I learned I could show myself the same kindness he once did.

Self-care isn’t just face masks and bubble baths (though those are lovely). It covers your physical health, emotional health, mental wellbeing, and even your social and spiritual self-care needs. It’s the practice of taking care of your overall health in different forms — and it matters, especially when you’re overwhelmed.

When you’re running on empty, everything feels harder. Your patience is shorter. Your stress levels are higher. You’re more likely to snap at your kids or feel resentful about your endless to-do list. The regret afterwards is the worst bit.

But when you take even small intentional actions to look after yourself, everything shifts. You have more energy, more capacity, and you’re just nicer to be around. I’d call that a win for everyone.

So is self-care important? Absolutely. And not just for you — for everyone around you too. To me, that sounds like a very good reason to start being kinder to ourselves.

So here are 7 easy self care ideas and activities to boost your mood.

Selfie portrait of me (Rosie) shot on my iPhone 17 Pro

The 7 Self-Care Activities That Actually Help

These self-care activities are a great way to support your own well-being in everyday life, especially when your daily routine feels full and you don’t have enough time. They focus on different forms of self-care that help your physical health, emotional health, and mental wellbeing, giving you simple, intentional actions you can actually use in the present moment.

1. Healthy Meals for Better Physical Health

One of the most important forms of physical self-care I’ve learned is healthy eating. I am terrible at eating well normally, but I’m aware that reaching for carbs and sugar only makes me feel worse. So one of the top things I do for a bit of self-care is to have a stash of ready-made nutritious meals from Field Doctor waiting for me in my freezer when I can’t face cooking.

When I don’t have enough time to cook something nice and healthy from scratch, knowing dinner is sorted helps me feel calmer and more in control. It’s meeting one of my basic needs without adding to my stress levels.

With fussy eaters in the house, my children often want more basic pasta dishes and things I don’t fancy like chicken nuggets. So I firstly make a smoothie packed with veg and fruit that we all enjoy. That is something I’ve done for the kids’ entire lives – a great way to smuggle in lots of nutrition, especially for the veggie-haters (which includes myself). Then they have their basic pasta meal. And if I’m still hungry after my smoothie, I need something quick just for me.

The problem with most ready meals is they’re either full of ingredients that make you gain weight (something I struggle with a lot), or if you have dietary requirements, there’s barely anything suitable.

I’ve found Field Doctor meals are brilliant for this – they’re nutritious ready meals designed for specific health needs like gluten free, low FODMAP, or gut health. They can be frozen and ready in minutes in the microwave or popped in the oven.

I love that they are so convenient without compromising on nutrition. Or if I’ve invited myself round to a friend’s house while the kids are at their dad’s, I can just bring one along and not be any trouble.

This is one of those activities for self care that doesn’t feel like “self-care” at all – it just feels like survival. But healthy eating doesn’t have to mean cooking from scratch every night. A balanced diet is about actually eating proper meals, not surviving on jam and toast.

Having healthy meals ready means you’re taking care of your body even on the hardest days. This self-care activity supports your physical health, your emotional health, and frees up mental space for the million other requests on your list.

Exciting news! You can get 25% off your first order with Field Doctor by using my affiliate link with the promo code: Rosie_Parsons

2. Decluttering for Better Mental Wellbeing

I work for myself and I absolutely cannot work from a messy house. My brain feels scattered when there’s stuff everywhere. But with four children, the house gets chaotic again really quickly, especially when we have too much stuff.

This is where clearing out becomes one of my most effective self-care activities. It’s a self-care practice I try to keep up with because it genuinely helps my emotional health. It’s so much easier to feel calm when your home isn’t overflowing with things. It makes cleaning easier and you can actually find the jeans you wanted instead of spending 20 minutes getting stressed tossing clothes everywhere.

Self-care tips for decluttering that actually work:

• Set a timer for 30 minutes and just focus on one room or area.
• Keep three bags ready: sell, donate, bin.
• If you haven’t used it in a year, let it go.
• Get everyone in the house involved (even children can sort their own toys).
• If you’re prone to buying more than you need, take a photo of the item in the shop or of yourself wearing it in the changing room. Tell yourself you’ll think about it properly at home and come back another time if you really want it. You rarely will.

I get my older kids involved in reselling my impulse purchases on Vinted. It gives them pocket money and trains them in entrepreneurial thinking.

Other family members have even signed up to get help once the kids have finished in our house. It’s a great little earner for them and an easy way to keep things moving in everyday life for me.

For non-branded items that are unlikely to sell on Vinted or for my more random things, we have a community project here in Exeter called the Thrift Warehouse where everything is sold for a pound to help the community. I take a bag there once a month. I’ll often pick up some good books while I’m there, and it feels nice to know I’m helping others as well.

Look for similar projects in your area — community thrift stores, charity shops that support local causes, or use social media marketplaces where you can pass things on for free.

What I love about drop-off donation points is you don’t have to wait in for people to turn up (who often don’t). You can drop things off at a time that suits you, rather than arranging collections or dealing with no-shows. The best way to keep the flow going is making sure things don’t pile up in the first place.

I keep a bag by the door so that if I spot something I no longer need, I can pop it in there. Once the bag is full, I take it down to the thrift store. The physical activity of sorting through things boosts my mood, and the clearer space helps reduce stress levels. It’s one of those different forms of self care that actually makes daily life easier.

3. Music and Scent for Emotional Self-Care

Sometimes you need self-care activities that work in seconds, not hours. When I’m feeling drained or my emotional needs aren’t being met, I’ve found that sensory triggers like music and scent can shift my mood faster than almost anything else.

I regularly put on my favourite music to boost my energy or change how I’m feeling. It’s one of those free self-care ideas that’s so simple but amazingly effective. Music brings me into the present moment and helps me feel more grounded, especially on days when I’m rushing between tasks and feeling scattered.

I also keep a diffuser running at home with scents I love. I particularly love The White Company electronic diffusers (the ones you fill with water and drops of scent that blow the fragrance into the air). And here’s a great way to save money: buy the bigger refill bottles of the scent oils instead of the little individual ones. You only need a few drops, so it works out much cheaper.

If you buy multiple diffusers, you can use different scents in different rooms and change them depending on the time of year and time of day. I use relaxing scents in my bedroom an hour before bed, so it feels luxurious and inviting. Lighting candles makes me feel cosy and cared for too — just don’t fall asleep with them on.

Recommended diffuser:

The White Company Textured Ceramic Electronic Diffuser

Gorgeous scents:

White Company Tuberose and Cashmere

Jo Malone English Pear & Freesia

NEOM Wellbeing London Perfect Night’s Sleep

This form of self-care is quick, easy, and you can do it while you’re working or at the end of the day when you finally sit down. It’s emotional self-care that doesn’t require planning or much money. Just press play on a playlist, light a candle, and switch on your diffuser. You’ll notice the difference almost immediately. Ahh bliss.

4. Physical Activity And Fresh Air

When I’m feeling low or overwhelmed, one of the simplest self-care activities I turn to is getting outside for some fresh air. It doesn’t have to be a long walk or a whole exercise session. Even 10 minutes outside can shift my energy and help me feel more like myself again.

Fresh air and a bit of physical activity work wonders for your mental wellbeing. There’s something about being outdoors that helps clear my head when everything feels too much. I’ll often combine it with treating myself to a favourite drink (a coffee, a smoothie, whatever feels good that day). It’s a small thing, but it makes the walk feel a bit more special.

This is one of those forms of self-care that supports both your physical health and your emotional health. You’re moving your body, getting out of the house, and doing something kind for yourself all at once.

Here’s something else I try to do when I’m out: being kind to strangers. Especially when the world feels tough, I remind myself that kindness stands out and makes a difference. Smiling at someone, holding a door, having a quick chat. It helps me feel more connected and reminds me I have purpose, even on days when I’m struggling.

Getting outside for fresh air doesn’t cost anything, doesn’t take much time, and it’s one of the best ways to reset when your stress levels are climbing. It’s physical self-care and emotional self-care rolled into one.

5. Social Self-Care With a Close Friend

One of the most underrated forms of self-care is social self-care. I make sure I catch up with a close friend at least once a week, even if it’s just a quick coffee. That connection always encourages me and reminds me I’m not doing life on my own.

Spending time with people who get you is so important for your emotional support and mental wellbeing. It’s easy to let friendships slide when you’re busy, but making it a regular self-care practice to reach out makes a massive difference to how I feel.

If you don’t have a strong support system or you’re feeling isolated, here’s my advice: try something new. Sign up for networking events if you run your own business. I don’t go to networking to sell — I’ve met some of my best friends there. Go somewhere that sounds interesting. Look for others who are on their own and make the first move. Check Eventbrite or Meetup.com for groups in your area.

Feeling nervous about going to an event on your own? Try these tips:

• Arrive early so you’re not walking into a full room.
• Look around for others who are on their own and start a conversation — they’re probably feeling the same.
• Set a small goal like “I’ll talk to three people.”
• Ask questions — people love talking about themselves.
• Assume people will like you and want to chat. It genuinely makes it easier.

My motto is: don’t wait to be talked to. Make the first move. Most people are relieved when someone else breaks the ice, and you’ll be surprised how many people want to connect too.

Find local networking or other social events ini your area by looking at Eventbright or Meetup.com.

Social self-care isn’t selfish. Building strong relationships and having people in your corner is one of the most important ways to support your emotional health and overall wellbeing.

6. Spiritual Self-Care for Emotional Needs

This is one of the most important forms of self-care for me. When people look for activities for self care, they often focus on physical things like exercise or spa treatments, but spiritual self-care has genuinely changed how I cope with life’s challenges and how I feel day to day.

I have a Christian faith and I go to church, which always helps me feel better. Whenever I feel upset or overwhelmed, I remember that I am loved, that I have a deeper purpose, and that everything works out for good in the end. I also pray, which helps me reconnect with peace and perspective.

If you’re seeking God or curious about faith, I suggest signing up for an Alpha course to explore it more deeply. I also put on gospel and worship music regularly, and sometimes I listen to podcast sermons. It helps keep me focused on the bigger picture when everyday life feels chaotic.

Beyond prayer, I practice gratitude out loud and encourage the children to do the same. There’s always something to appreciate, even on tough days. Speaking it out loud makes it feel more real and shifts my emotional state faster than just thinking it.

I also speak kind affirmations to myself because I know my brain believes what I say. One affirmation I love is by Louise Hay: “Everything is working out for my highest good. I am safe.” I try to trust that even when things don’t make sense yet, they have purpose and will eventually work out for the best.

These emotional self-care practices don’t require much time, but they support my mental wellbeing in ways nothing else does. They help me stay in the present moment and remind me of what actually matters.

This self-care activity costs nothing and can be done anywhere. Whether it’s a quick prayer, putting on worship music while you work, or speaking gratitude before bed, it’s one of the best ways to care for your emotional needs.

7. Systems and Routines for Better Mental Wellbeing

Running a business while raising four children means my to-do list never ends. And if I don’t have systems in place, I get completely overwhelmed and frazzled. Having systems makes a huge difference to my mental health and stress levels.

This might sound like productivity advice, but it’s actually one of the most effective self-care activities I practice. When you have routines and systems, you free up mental space, reduce decision fatigue, and feel more in control of your daily routine.

How to create simple systems that actually work:

• Write down all the steps for tasks you do regularly (posting on social media, preparing for client meetings, weekly meal prep, bedtime routines). Once it’s written, you don’t have to think from scratch every time.
• Batch similar tasks together instead of constantly switching between things. For example, do all your admin on one day, all your content creation on another. This stops your brain feeling drained from task-switching.
• Create morning and evening routines that you follow on autopilot. Mine includes making my smoothie, checking emails, and putting the diffuser on. It sets the tone for the day without draining my energy.
• Use checklists for repetitive tasks. I have checklists for everything from packing for trips to my monthly business tasks. It sounds boring, but it really helps! Plus you get the dopamine hit when you check each thing off (ADHDer’s unite!)
• Time block your week so you know when you’re working, when you’re with the kids, and when you’re doing self-care. It stops everything blurring together (like when I look up from the laptop and realise it’s 2am and everyone else has been asleep for hours!).

When I batch tasks, I can stop constantly jumping between work, home life, and marketing. My brain isn’t scrambling to remember what comes next. I just follow the system, and it gives me a real sense of purpose and achievement.

This self-care practice isn’t glamorous, but it’s one of the best ways to make everyday life feel less chaotic. And when life feels calmer, you have more capacity for the self-care routine activities that actually fill your cup.

Small Habits for a Strong Self-Care Routine

The difference between knowing about self-care activities and actually doing them comes down to consistency. And I don’t mean perfect consistency – because we all know that doesn’t exist when you’re juggling a packed schedule!

What works is building self-care into your everyday life on a regular basis, even if it’s just tiny actions. Five minutes of gratitude before bed beats an occasional spa day you never actually get round to booking.

Here’s how to make your self-care routine actually stick:

• Link it to something you already do. Put your diffuser on when you make your morning coffee. Listen to worship music as you load the dishwasher. Practice affirmations while brushing your teeth.
• Keep a self-care checklist. Tick off small wins like “went outside for 10 minutes” or “called a friend.” Seeing progress helps you keep going.
• Start ridiculously small. One kind affirmation. One item in the donation bag. Small habits build momentum.
• Schedule it like any other appointment. If it’s not in your calendar, it won’t happen. Block out time after the kids go to bed or during your lunch break.
• Be flexible. Some days you’ll manage your full self-care routine. Other days you’ll just light a candle and call it a win. Both count.

Remember, self-care is important, but it’s not about adding more pressure to your life. It’s about protecting your mental wellbeing and reducing your stress levels so you can function. Consistency matters more than perfection, and even the smallest actions add up over time.

When Self-Care Isn’t Enough: Recognise When You Need Extra Support

Sometimes, self-care activities alone aren’t enough. And that’s completely okay.

If you’re consistently struggling with your emotional health or mental wellbeing, if your stress levels feel unmanageable no matter what you try, or if you’re feeling persistently low or anxious, it might be time to reach out for professional help.

There’s no shame in recognising that your emotional needs require more support than you can give yourself. In fact, knowing when to ask for help is one of the bravest and most important things you can do.

Signs you might benefit from extra support:

• You’re feeling overwhelmed or anxious most days.
• Self-care activities that used to help aren’t making a difference.
• You’re struggling to get through daily tasks.
• You feel isolated even when you’re around people.
• You’re having trouble sleeping or eating properly.
• Your mood is affecting your relationships or work.

Building a support system matters. This could mean talking to your GP, reaching out to a therapist or counsellor, or leaning on trusted friends and family members who can offer emotional support. I haven’t tried them myself but there are online counselling services like betterhelp.com which mean help is never far away.

Self-care is important and valuable, but it’s not a replacement for professional help when you need it. Taking care of your mental wellbeing sometimes means recognising you need more than what you can do on your own. Don’t be afraid to reach out if you need extra support.

Final Thoughts: You Deserve to Feel Calm, Cared For, and Grounded

If you’ve made it this far, I hope you’re feeling less overwhelmed about self-care. It’s not about being perfect or finding hours of free time you don’t have. It’s about small, intentional choices that help you feel more like yourself.

Your own well-being matters — not just for you, but for everyone around you. When you’re taking care of yourself through physical, emotional, and spiritual self-care, you show up better in every area of your life.

Self-care is important, and it’s not selfish. It’s essential. You can’t pour from an empty cup, and all those other clichés that are actually true.

So here’s what I want you to do: pick just one self-care practice from this list. Just one. Maybe it’s keeping healthy meals in the freezer. Maybe it’s lighting a candle and putting on your favourite music. Maybe it’s reaching out to a friend this week.

Start there. See how it feels. Build from that.

Good self-care doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive or time-consuming. It just has to be something you actually do. And you’re worth that effort.

You deserve to feel calm, cared for, and peaceful. Do let me know if any of these ideas helped you!

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If you’re searching for how to start a blog for your small business or personal brand, you’re in the right place. This is the ultimate guide for beginners walking you through how to start a blog and make money. Not the hobby-blog version that gathers dust, but a strategic, on-brand blog that grows your business, brings in clients, income from your traffic and finally gets you showing up on Google.

In this guide you’ll learn exactly how to start a blog step by step, from choosing your niche and setting up WordPress to creating content that ranks, grows your audience and makes money. This is the exact process I followed when building my own blog (this one!) from scratch, so you can confidently skip the trial and error and launch a professional blog fast.

I’ve spent the last 17 years building a successful online brand, photographing thousands of entrepreneurs, teaching content creation to business owners, and setting up more websites than I’d care to admit. I’ve also just rebuilt my own WordPress blog from scratch (this one!), so everything you’re about to learn is exactly what works right now – not the outdated advice floating around the internet.

Starting a blog feels like it should be simple, but the process can feel overwhelming enough to make you close your laptop and wonder if you should have become a florist instead. I’ve been there. I’ve cried into cushions. I’ve sworn at plugins. I survived long enough (so far, at least) to bring you this guide.

The good news? You don’t need to go through any of the pain I did! This step-by-step walkthrough will show you how to start a blog in 2026 without jargon, without panic, and with a bit of humour along the way. By the end, you’ll have a solid plan, a beautifully set-up blog, and the confidence to hit publish instead of endlessly “tweaking the homepage”.

Ready? Let’s get your blog online – minus the tears.

This post includes a few affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission if you choose to buy through them. It won’t cost you anything extra, and it helps support the free content I create for small business owners.

By the end of this post, you’ll have the exact steps to start your own website from scratch – step by step – so your blog can support your:

• Small business growth
• Personal brand (whether you’re building a food blog, personal blog, or business blog)
• Client attraction
• Expert positioning
• SEO strategy
• Email list building
• Future passive income

And because I know some of you want to go deep while others just want the basics, I’ve created a hybrid guide with two layers:

1. The Beginner Section: Short sentences. Simple steps. Do-this-next clarity.
2. The Advanced Section (optional): For when you’re ready to grow faster and optimise like a pro.

This is a great way to learn at your own pace without feeling overwhelmed.

Ready? Let’s start building your blog without the panic!

Before You Start: What You Need

Before you begin building your blog, let’s talk about what you’ll actually need. The good news? It’s simpler than you think – and far more affordable than hiring a web designer.

The Non-Negotiables (What You Definitely Need)

Here’s your essential checklist for starting a professional blog:

• Domain Name: Your website address (like rosieparsons.com) – costs around $10-15 per year
• Web Hosting: Where your website lives online – expect to pay $5-20 per month depending on your plan
• WordPress (self-hosted): The platform that powers your blog – completely free to use
• WordPress Theme: The design template for your blog – free options available, premium themes cost $40-80
• Essential Plugins: Tools to add functionality to your blog – most are free, some premium options $30-100 per year

Total startup cost: $50-150 for your first year (that’s less than one month of Facebook ads!)

How Long Does It Take to Start a Blog?

Here’s the honest timeline:

• Basic setup: 2-4 hours (domain, hosting, WordPress installation, theme setup)
• Essential pages and design: 3-5 hours (About page, Contact page, menu customization)
• First blog post: 2-4 hours (research, writing, formatting, images)
• Total time to launch: for a simple blog 1-2 days of focused work (or if you’re like me and get a more involved theme (I have Create by Restored 316) with loads of posts showing on the homepage, possibly a couple of weeks).

You don’t need to complete everything in one sitting. Many successful bloggers spend a weekend setting up their blog, then refine it over time as they learn and grow.

Before we dive into the technical steps, let’s quickly address why blogging remains one of the most powerful tools for business growth:

Why Starting a Blog is Still Worth It in 2026 (And Why It’s a Great Thing for Your Business)

Before we dive into the “how,” let’s quickly talk about the “why” – because if you’re going to invest time and hard work into creating a blog, you deserve to know it’s actually worth it.

Here’s the most important thing to understand: a blog is one of the most powerful tools you can use to grow your business in 2026.

It’s not just a good idea – it’s genuinely one of the best ways to attract ideal clients, establish authority, and create valuable content that works for you long-term.

Here’s What a Blog Can Do For Your Business:

You’ll Show Up on Google (Hello, Organic Traffic)

When someone searches “how to take brand photos at home” or “best tips for confident business owners,” a blog post can put you right in front of them – without paying for ads.

This is called SEO (search engine optimisation), and it’s one of the most powerful tools for attracting new people to your business. A self-hosted WordPress blog is the best option for SEO because you have complete control over your content and technical setup.

You’ll Build Trust and Authority

People buy from people they trust. When someone reads your helpful, well-written blog posts, they start to see you as the expert. They feel like they know you. They trust your advice.

And when it’s time to hire someone or buy a course? You’re the obvious choice.

Sharing personal experiences and valuable content on a regular basis is a great way to build that trust naturally.

Your Blog Works While You Sleep

Unlike social media posts that disappear into the void after 24 hours, your blog posts keep working for you. A single post can attract readers, build your email list, and generate sales for months – even years – after you publish it.

This is a good thing – your content becomes a marketing tool that compounds over time.

You’ll Have a Home Base You Actually Own

Instagram could change its algorithm tomorrow. TikTok could ban your account. Facebook could disappear (okay, maybe not, but you get the point).

Your blog? That’s your own website. Nobody can take it away. You control it completely with your own domain name.

This is one of the most important reasons successful bloggers invest in their own domain and hosting rather than using free blogging platforms.

You Can Finally Stop Creating Content From Scratch Every Single Day

Here’s my favourite part: once you start blogging, your content creation gets SO much easier.

Write one blog post … then turn it into:

• Email newsletters
• Instagram captions
• Reels scripts
• Pinterest pins
• LinkedIn posts

One piece of valuable content becomes 10+. This is the blog-first content workflow, and it will save you hours every single week. It’s the best way to manage your social media accounts without burning out.

Step 1: Choose Your Blog Niche, Name and Audience

Your blog exists to support your business or personal brand. So your blog’s niche, blog name, and audience should all connect to where you want to grow.

This is the foundation and your starting point. Get this right, and everything else becomes easier.

BEGINNER VERSION: Keep This Simple

1.1 Pick Your Specific Niche

Your niche is simply the specific topic your blog will focus on. Whether you’re creating a food blog, personal blog, or business blog, clarity is key.

Choose a specific topic that:

• You actually enjoy talking about
• Supports your business or personal brand
• Helps someone solve a real problem
• You can write about on a regular basis (without running out of ideas)

Examples of Great Blog Niches:

• DIY brand photography for small business owners
• Confidence and personal branding for female entrepreneurs
• Business tips and tools for freelancers
• Marketing strategies for small businesses
• Handmade product business advice
• Life coaching for career changers
• Wellness tips for busy mums
• Food blog focusing on quick family meals
• Personal blog about building a creative business

You don’t need to niche down to something teeny-tiny like “gluten-free baking for left-handed vegans in Manchester.” Just be clear enough that your ideal reader knows your blog is for them.

Choosing a specific niche is a good idea because it helps you create valuable content that really resonates with your target audience.

1.2 Choose Your Blog Name

You have a few options here:

Option 1: Use your own name (great for personal brands)

• rosieparsons.com
• yourname.com

Option 2: Use your business name

• rosieparsonsphotography.com
• yourbusinessname.com

Option 3: Use a simple, descriptive name

• confidenceandbrand.com
• thesmallbusinessblog.com

Keep it:

• Short
• Memorable
• Easy to spell
• Easy to say out loud

Don’t overthink this. You can always tweak it later if you need to (though it’s a bit of a faff, so try to get it right the first time).

1.3 Know Your Target Audience

Who are you actually writing for?

Get specific. Think about:

• Who they are: Small business owners? Coaches? Creatives? Women building a personal brand?
• What they struggle with: Visibility? Confidence on camera? Time management? Client attraction?
• What they want to achieve: More clients? A bigger email list? To be seen as an expert?
• Where they hang out online: Instagram? Pinterest? Facebook groups?

The clearer you are about your target audience, the easier it will be to write content that actually resonates with them.

Your Blog Should Guide Readers Toward a Next Step

Every blog post you write should have a purpose. What do you want readers to do after they finish reading?

Examples:

• Join your email list
• Book a discovery call
• Download a freebie
• Take your course (like Slay Your Selfies)
• Buy your services
• Read another helpful post

When you’re clear on the next step, your blog becomes a genuine business asset – not just a random collection of articles.

ADVANCED VERSION: If You Want to Go Deeper

1.4 Define Your Content Pillars

Content pillars are the 3-5 main categories you’ll write about repeatedly. They form the foundation of your blog and help you create valuable content consistently.

Example Content Pillars for a Photography + Personal Brand Blog:

1. Blogging tips
2. DIY brand photography
3. Confidence and visibility
4. Business tools for small business owners
5. Behind-the-scenes and personal stories

These pillars should align with your business goals and support your offers. This is the best way to stay organised and ensure you’re always sharing personal experiences and expertise that matter to your audience.

1.5 Research Your Audience’s Language (A Great Place to Start)

One of the smartest things you can do before you start blogging is to research what your audience is actually saying. This is a great place to find content ideas.

Check:

• Facebook groups where your ideal clients hang out
• Pinterest search bar (type in a topic and see what auto-suggests)
• Google auto-suggest (start typing “how to…” and see what comes up)
• Google Keyword Planner (free tool that shows search volume)
• TikTok and Instagram search terms
• Comments under competitor posts
• Questions people ask you in DMs
• YouTube videos in your niche to see what’s popular

Write down the exact phrases people use. These become your blog topics AND your keywords. This research is valuable content planning in itself.

1.6 Connect Your Niche to Your Business Funnel

Here’s a powerful question to ask yourself:

“If someone finds my blog on Google, what is the next step I want them to take?”

This ensures your blog supports your business funnel instead of distracting from it. There are different ways to structure this, but the key is to have a clear path.

Example Funnel:

1. Reader finds your blog post on Google
2. They read your helpful, valuable content and trust you
3. They download your free checklist (and join your email list)
4. You nurture them with valuable emails on a regular basis
5. They buy your course or book your services

When you design your blog with this funnel in mind, every post becomes a step toward a sale. This is the right way to use your blog as a marketing tool.

Beginner Recap: Step 1

You’ve just defined your blog’s foundation. You now know your niche, understand your target audience, and have clarity on what makes your blog different. Don’t overthink it – your niche can evolve as you grow. The important thing is you’re clear enough to start creating content that helps real people.

Step 2: Plan Your Content Strategy

This is where most people get stuck when they start a blog – not the tech, but the “what do I even write about?” part.

What you’ll achieve in this step:

• Define your blog categories
• Create initial blog ideas
• Set up your content workflow

Your blog should be the centre of your entire marketing strategy. Everything else flows from it:

• Your Instagram posts
• Your Reels
• Your newsletters
• Your Pinterest pins
• Your freebies
• Your client trust-building

So let’s build your content plan first.

BEGINNER VERSION: The Simple Approach

2.1 Choose 3-5 Blog Categories

These are the main sections of your blog. They help readers navigate your site and help Google understand what you write about.

Example Blog Categories:

• Blogging tips
• DIY brand photography
• Business tools
• Confidence and visibility
• Personal brand storytelling

These should align perfectly with your business and the services or products you offer.

2.2 Brainstorm 10-20 Blog Post Ideas

Before you even touch WordPress, sit down and brainstorm blog post ideas.

Think about:

• What questions does your audience ask you all the time?
• What are people searching for on Google?
• What would get saved or shared on Pinterest?
• What problems can you help them solve?

Examples of Blog Post Ideas:

• “How to take brand photos at home with just your phone”
• “10 confidence tips for entrepreneurs who hate being on camera”
• “The beginner’s guide to starting a blog for your small business”
• “How to batch create content in one afternoon”
• “5 free tools every small business owner needs”

Aim for at least 10-20 ideas before you start. This way, you’ll never run out of things to write about.

2.3 Create Your Blog-First Content Workflow

This is where your unique angle shines.

Instead of creating content from scratch every single day, you write one blog post first … then repurpose it into everything else.

The Blog-First Workflow:

1. Write one blog post (1,500-2,500 words)
2. Turn it into 3-5 email newsletters
3. Pull quotes for Instagram captions
4. Create a Reel script from the main points
5. Design 5-10 Pinterest pins linking back to the post

This keeps your message consistent across all platforms AND saves you hours every single month.

ADVANCED VERSION: If You Want to Go Deeper

2.4 Create Pillar Posts (Your SEO Powerhouses)

Pillar posts are your long, in-depth, highly valuable guides. These are the posts that will rank on Google and bring you traffic for years.

Examples of Pillar Posts:

• “How to start a blog in 2026: The complete beginner’s guide” – don’t do this one, I just did it!
• “How to take brand photos at home: A step-by-step tutorial”
• “The ultimate guide to confident personal branding for small business owners”

Pillar posts should be at least 2,000 words (preferably 3,000+), packed with helpful information, and optimised for SEO.

2.5 Develop Your Customer Journey

Think of your blog as a gentle funnel that guides readers from “I just found you on Google” to “I’m ready to buy.”

Example Customer Journey:

1. Awareness: Reader finds your blog post on Google
2. Interest: They read more posts and start to trust you
3. Consideration: They download your freebie and join your email list
4. Decision: They book a call or buy your course

Every blog post should fit somewhere in this journey.

2.6 Add an Internal Link Strategy

Internal links are links from one blog post to another on your site. They help readers find more of your content, and they tell Google that your blog is well-organised and valuable.

Internal Linking Best Practices:

• Link to 2-3 related posts in every new post
• Use descriptive anchor text (e.g., “learn how to take better selfies” instead of “click here”)
• Link to your pillar posts often

You’ll add these links after your blog is live, but it’s good to plan for them now.

Beginner Recap: Step 2

You’ve created your content roadmap. You now have 3-5 blog categories, a list of initial post ideas, and a realistic publishing schedule. This planning saves you hours of “what should I write about?” stress later. Remember, you can always adjust your strategy as you learn what your audience loves.

This is one of the most important decisions you’ll make when starting your blog. There are dozens of blogging platforms available, but not all of them are created equal – especially if you want to rank on Google and own your content.

Step 3: Choose the Right Blogging Platform

Here’s where things get a bit confusing: there are two WordPresses.

Yes, two. I know. It’s annoying.

But understanding the difference is critical, because choosing the wrong one will limit your blog from day one.

Blogging Platform Comparison: WordPress vs Other Options

Before we dive into WordPress specifically, here’s a quick comparison of the main blogging platforms so you can see why WordPress.org is the clear winner for serious bloggers:

WordPress.org (Self-Hosted)

• Best for: Business bloggers, content creators, anyone wanting full control
• Pros: Complete ownership, unlimited customisation, best SEO, full monetisation options, thousands of themes and plugins
• Cons: Requires hosting ($5-20/month), slight learning curve
• Verdict: The professional choice. This is what I recommend.

WordPress.com (Hosted)

• Best for: Personal diaries, hobby blogs with no growth plans
• Pros: Free to start, no technical setup
• Cons: Limited themes, limited plugins, restricted monetisation, you don’t own your site, awkward pricing tiers
• Verdict: Fine for a personal journal, but too limiting for business.

Wix

• Best for: Simple one-page websites, portfolios
• Pros: Drag-and-drop builder, beginner-friendly interface
• Cons: Poor SEO compared to WordPress, limited blogging features, expensive to remove ads, difficult to migrate away
• Verdict: Better for basic websites than serious blogs.

Squarespace

• Best for: Creatives wanting beautiful templates with minimal effort
• Pros: Gorgeous templates, all-in-one pricing, good for visual portfolios
• Cons: Limited blogging functionality, weaker SEO, less flexibility, harder to scale
• Verdict: Pretty, but not built for content-heavy blogs.

Blogger

• Best for: Absolute beginners testing the waters
• Pros: Completely free, owned by Google
• Cons: Outdated design, very limited features, Google could shut it down anytime, looks unprofessional
• Verdict: A relic from 2005. Avoid for business.

The bottom line? If you’re serious about blogging, WordPress.org is the only platform that gives you full ownership, unlimited growth potential, and the best chance of ranking on Google.

Plus, with over 60,000 free plugins available, you can add almost any feature you need. Want a contact form? There’s a plugin. Email signup? Plugin. Online shop? Plugin. No other platform comes close to this flexibility.

That’s why this entire guide focuses on WordPress.org.

BEGINNER VERSION: The Simple Explanation

WordPress.com (Not What You Want)

WordPress.com is the “free” version, but it comes with major limitations:

• Limited themes (ugly designs)
• Limited plugins (you can’t add most features)
• Limited monetisation (can’t run ads or sell properly)
• Limited control (you don’t really own your site)
• Awkward upgrades (confusing pricing tiers)

WordPress.com is fine for a personal diary blog, but if you want to grow a business? It’s not even close to good enough.

WordPress.org (This is What You Need – The Best Option)

WordPress.org is the professional, self-hosted version of WordPress. It’s what 43% of the entire internet runs on, and it’s the best option for anyone serious about their blog.

When you use WordPress.org, you’re creating a self-hosted WordPress blog – meaning you have complete control.

Why WordPress.org is the Only Choice:

• Full control over your own website
• Unlimited WordPress themes (both free WordPress themes and premium options)
• Unlimited WordPress plugins to add any feature you want
• Complete design freedom
• SEO-friendly (ranks better on Google)
• Fully monetisable (Google AdSense, affiliates, products, services)
• Perfect for businesses and personal brands
• You own your own domain name and all your content

You Don’t Need to Do Anything Yet

Just don’t sign up for WordPress.com by mistake. We’ll get WordPress.org installed for you automatically when you choose your hosting in Step 6.

The good news is that most hosting companies make this incredibly easy – often with detailed instructions and one-click installation.

ADVANCED VERSION: If You Want More Depth

3.1 Why WordPress.org Wins for SEO (One of the Most Powerful Tools)

WordPress.org gives you complete control over your site’s SEO, making it one of the most powerful tools for ranking on Google.

You can:

• Install Yoast SEO (the best SEO plugin)
• Edit permalinks (your URL structure – the right way to organize your content)
• Choose fast-loading WordPress themes
• Install speed optimisation WordPress plugins
• Compress images automatically
• Customise schema markup
• Integrate with Pinterest and Google Analytics
• Control site speed (a major Google ranking factor)
• Add Google AdSense when you’re ready to monetize

None of this is possible (or easy) on free blogging platforms like WordPress.com.

3.2 Why Successful Bloggers and Experts Use WordPress

If you want credibility, a professional online presence, or long-term business growth, WordPress.org is the only platform that scales with you.

You can start small and simple, then add features as you grow:

• Online shop (WooCommerce)
• Membership site
• Course platform
• Booking system
• Advanced email integrations
• Google AdSense for passive income

Everything is possible with a self-hosted WordPress blog. There are different ways to grow, and WordPress supports all of them. This is the best place to build a long-term online business.

Beginner Recap: Step 3

You’ve chosen WordPress.org as your blogging platform. This decision gives you complete ownership, unlimited customisation, and the best chance of ranking on Google. Self-hosted WordPress is the professional choice – you’re setting yourself up for long-term success, not just a hobby blog.

Your WordPress theme controls how your blog looks and functions. This is where design meets performance – and both matter for SEO and user experience.

Step 4: Choose Your WordPress Theme’s Entire Design

Your blog theme controls how your blog looks and feels – layout, fonts, colours, menus, everything.

And yes, theme choice affects site speed and SEO. A slow theme will hurt your Google rankings, no matter how good your valuable content is.

Choosing the right WordPress theme is one of the most important things you’ll do when you start your blog.

BEGINNER VERSION: The Easiest, Least Stressful Setup (The Best Way for Beginners)

4.1 Use Kadence (Parent Theme – The Best Option)

I’m going to make this simple for you: use Kadence.

This is the best way to start with a solid foundation. Kadence is one of the best WordPress themes available, and here’s why:

Kadence is:

• Fast (excellent for SEO)
• Beginner-friendly (the right place to start)
• Modern and professional
• Easy to customise without coding
• Works beautifully on mobile
• Compatible with WooCommerce (if you ever want to sell products)

It’s the blog theme I use, and I can’t recommend it enough. While there are many free WordPress themes available, Kadence offers the best balance of features and performance.

4.2 Choose a Restored 316 Child Theme (Optional but a Great Thing)

If you want your blog to look instantly polished and feminine without doing any design work yourself, add a Restored 316 child theme on top of Kadence. This is a great way to get professional design quickly.

These themes are gorgeous, pre-designed, and ready to go.

4.3 Download the Zip Files

Once you’ve chosen your WordPress theme(s), download the zip files and save them to your computer.

BigScoots (the hosting company I recommend) can install them for you – you don’t have to do it yourself. They’ll provide detailed instructions if needed.

ADVANCED VERSION: If You Want to Go Deeper

4.4 What is a Parent Theme vs Child Theme?

• Parent theme = the structure and functionality (Kadence)
• Child theme = the design layer that sits on top (Restored 316)

Using a child theme means you can update your parent theme without losing your design customisations.

4.5 Why Theme Performance Matters for SEO

Google ranks fast sites higher in search results. Your theme is one of the biggest factors affecting site speed.

Kadence = excellent Core Web Vitals.

Cheap, bloated themes = poor rankings.

Choose wisely.

4.6 Advanced Theme Customisations You Can Do Later

Kadence lets you customise:

• Header builder
• Footer builder
• Blog archive layouts
• Custom post templates
• Global colour palettes
• Typography presets

You don’t need to touch any of this now – it’s just nice to know it exists when you’re ready to level up.

4.7 Thrive Themes as an Alternative

If you want funnels, landing pages, quizzes, and conversion tools built into your theme, Thrive Themes is another excellent all-in-one option.

Beginner Recap: Step 4

You’ve selected a fast, professional WordPress theme. Whether you’ve chosen Kadence with a Restored 316 child theme or another quality option, your blog now has the design foundation it needs. A good theme improves your site speed, SEO performance, and user experience. You’ve made a smart investment in your blog’s success.

Step 5: How to Choose and Use Images on Your Blog

Now that you’ve chosen your theme and your blog is starting to take shape, let’s talk about one of the most important elements that beginners often overlook: images.

Strong visuals aren’t just “nice to have” – they’re essential for keeping readers engaged, building your brand identity, and even improving your SEO rankings.

Why Strong Visuals Matter for Your Blog

Here’s what quality images do for your blog:

• Keep people reading: Blog posts with images get 94% more views than text-only posts
• Build brand recognition: Consistent visual style makes your blog instantly recognisable
• Improve SEO: Image alt text and file names help Google understand your content
• Work on Pinterest: Eye-catching images drive massive traffic when pinned
• Make your blog feel professional: Even simple, well-lit photos elevate your brand immediately

The good news? You don’t need expensive equipment or professional photography skills. Your smartphone is absolutely good enough to create beautiful blog images.

How to Take Great Photos Using Only Your Phone

Most modern smartphones have excellent cameras – the secret is knowing how to use them properly.

Lighting: The Single Most Important Element

Good lighting makes everything look better. Bad lighting makes even expensive cameras produce rubbish photos.

Best practices:

• Shoot near a window during daylight hours (natural light is your best friend)
• Face the light source – position yourself or your subject facing the window
• Avoid overhead lights – they create harsh shadows and unflattering angles
• Overcast days are brilliant for photography – the clouds act as a natural diffuser
• Early morning and late afternoon have the softest, most flattering light

Avoid: Direct harsh sunlight, yellow indoor lighting, backlighting (light behind your subject), and photos taken at night without proper lighting.

Backgrounds: Keep It Simple and Uncluttered

Your background should support your subject, not distract from it.

Good background choices:

• Plain white or neutral walls
• Wooden tables or floors
• Simple textured fabrics (linen, cotton)
• Clean desks or workspaces
• Natural outdoor settings (gardens, parks)

Avoid: Cluttered rooms, messy backgrounds, distracting patterns, unmade beds visible in frame, or anything that pulls attention away from your main subject.

Composition: How to Frame Your Shot

Composition is simply how you arrange elements within your photo.

Simple composition rules that work:

• Rule of thirds: Imagine your photo divided into nine equal squares (like a tic-tac-toe grid). Place your subject along those lines or at the intersections
• Leave breathing room: Don’t crop too tightly – give your subject space around the edges
• Fill the frame: Get close enough that your subject is the clear focus
• Use leading lines: Roads, shelves, table edges naturally draw the eye through your photo
• Keep horizons level: Wonky angles look unintentional and unprofessional

Angles: Change Your Perspective

The angle you shoot from dramatically changes how your photo looks.

Try these angles:

• Eye level: Straight on – feels natural and conversational
• Slightly above: Flattering for most subjects, great for flat lays
• 45-degree angle: Perfect for products, food, desk setups
• Close-up details: Adds variety and visual interest

Don’t just stand and shoot everything from the same height. Crouch down, stand on a chair, move around your subject. The best angle often surprises you.

Creating a Consistent Visual Style

Consistency is what makes your blog look professional and recognisable. You don’t need to overthink this – just make a few simple decisions and stick with them.

Choose your aesthetic elements:

• Colour palette: Pick 3-5 colours that appear regularly in your photos
• Mood: Bright and airy? Moody and dramatic? Warm and cosy? Pick one vibe
• Editing style: Use the same filter or editing approach on all photos
• Props: Reuse similar props across photos (your favourite mug, notebook, workspace)

When someone lands on your blog, they should immediately recognise your visual style across different posts. This builds brand recognition faster than you’d think.

Optimising Images for the Web

Beautiful photos are wonderful – but if they’re too large, they’ll slow down your site and hurt your SEO. Here’s how to optimise properly.

File Size and Compression

Ideal image specs for blogs:

• Width: 1200-1500 pixels maximum (more than enough for screens)
• File size: Under 200KB per image (aim for 100-150KB)
• Format: JPG for photos, PNG for graphics with text

How to compress images:

• Use free tools like TinyPNG or Squoosh before uploading
• Install a WordPress image optimisation plugin (ShortPixel, Imagify)
• Never upload photos straight from your phone without resizing first

Alt Text Basics for SEO

Alt text (alternative text) describes your image for people who can’t see it – and for Google.

How to write good alt text:

• Describe what’s actually in the image: “Woman working on laptop at wooden desk with coffee”
• Include relevant keywords naturally: “Brand photographer taking phone photos with natural window light”
• Keep it under 125 characters
• Don’t keyword stuff: “best blog photos blogging tips how to blog” is rubbish alt text
• Don’t start with “image of” or “picture of” – it’s implied

Every single image on your blog should have descriptive alt text. This helps Google understand your content and improves accessibility.

What Makes an Image Blog-Friendly?

Not all photos work well on blogs. Here’s what to look for:

Good blog image:

• Bright and clear (easy to see what’s happening)
• Simple background (doesn’t distract)
• In focus (sharp, not blurry)
• Properly lit (natural, even lighting)
• Relevant to content (supports your message)

Better blog image:

• All of the above, plus:
• Shows your face or personality (builds connection)
• Matches your brand colours (creates consistency)
• Tells a story (evokes emotion or curiosity)
• Pinterest-friendly vertical format (2:3 ratio works brilliantly)

Avoid: Dark, grainy photos; cluttered backgrounds; images with harsh shadows; photos that have nothing to do with your content; overly posed or staged shots that don’t feel authentic; images with distracting watermarks or text overlays that look unprofessional.

You Don’t Need Perfect Photos to Start

Here’s the most important thing I want you to understand: quality photos will help your blog look polished and professional right from the beginning – but they don’t need to be perfect.

A simple, well-lit photo taken on your phone near a window will always beat:

• Generic stock photos that look nothing like you or your brand
• No photos at all (walls of text are hard to read)
• Waiting months until you “get it right” before publishing

Start with what you can do now. Take photos with your phone. Use natural light. Keep backgrounds simple. Add them to your blog posts.

Your photography skills will improve with every photo you take. The important thing is to start, not to be perfect.

If you’d like step-by-step guidance on taking bright, professional photos for your blog using only your phone, my digital course Slay Your Selfies teaches simple techniques for lighting, posing and composition. It’s designed to help you create colourful, on-brand images even if you’re camera-shy or don’t feel confident on the technical side.

Beginner Recap: Step 5

You now understand how to create professional blog images using just your phone. You know the basics of lighting, composition, and image optimisation. Even simple, well-lit photos will make your blog look polished from day one. Remember, progress over perfection. Start taking photos now and improve as you go. (And hopefully you’re probably already thinking about signing up to Slay Your Selfies! I don’t blame you.)

Step 6: Set Up a Staging Site

Here’s something most “how to start a blog” guides won’t tell you about – but it’s genuinely one of the smartest things you can do as a beginner.

A staging site is like a practice version of your blog where you can test changes, experiment with design, and learn how WordPress works – without accidentally breaking your live site.

Why This Matters for Beginners:

• No mistakes go live: Test everything before your audience sees it
• You can practice: Learn how to add blog posts, change colors, upload images – all in a safe space
• Safer for SEO: Avoid accidentally deleting pages or breaking links on your live site
• Reduced anxiety: You can click around without worrying “Did I just break something?”

It’s your secret, behind-the-scenes version of your blog.

Think of it like your private dressing room where you can try on outfits, mess things up, practise, and make changes before the world sees anything.

You absolutely want a staging site if this is your first time starting a blog.

BEGINNER VERSION: The Simple Explanation

5.1 What is a Staging Site?

A staging site is a private version of your blog where you can:

• Practise using WordPress
• Make mistakes without consequences
• Change colours and fonts
• Break things (and fix them)
• Learn at your own pace

Nobody can see it except you. It’s not live on the internet yet.

5.2 Ask BigScoots to Create It

When you sign up for hosting in Step 6, just message BigScoots on live chat and say:

“Can you please set up a staging site for my new WordPress blog?”

They’ll do it for you. Done.

5.3 Why Staging Sites Are Brilliant for Beginners

Because you:

• Won’t accidentally publish half-built pages
• Won’t panic if the menu disappears
• Won’t break your live site
• Can build everything at your own pace

You can customise your theme, homepage, menus, colours, blog post layout, plugins, logo, and fonts – all behind the scenes.

When you’re ready, BigScoots will “push it live” with one click.

ADVANCED VERSION: If You Want to Go Deeper

5.4 Why Staging Sites Matter for SEO

Staging sites let Google index your blog only when it’s actually ready – not when it’s half-built, broken, or full of placeholder text.

This protects your:

• Site quality score
• User experience
• Search rankings

5.5 When to Use Your Staging Site Later

Your staging site isn’t just for beginners. Use it again when you want to:

• Redesign your site
• Change themes
• Test new plugins
• Create a new homepage layout
• Update your branding
• Add WooCommerce

It’s an incredibly useful long-term tool.

Beginner Recap: Step 6

You’ve set up your staging site (or know how to ask BigScoots to do it for you). This practice space means you can experiment, make mistakes, and learn WordPress without any anxiety about breaking your live blog. It’s your secret weapon for confident blogging from day one.

Step 7: Choose Your Hosting Plan and Domain

This step is easier than it sounds – especially with BigScoots on your side (the hosting provider I use for my blog after trying a few!).

Choosing the right hosting company is one of the most important things you’ll do. The good news is that I’m going to show you the best way to do this with exact steps.

Your domain name is your blog’s address (like rosieparsons.com). Your web hosting is where your blog lives online. Think of it as renting space on the internet for your website files, images, and content.

This is a decision that affects your blog’s speed, security, and SEO rankings – so it’s worth getting right from the start. Plus some of them are a lot more helpful than others!

What is Web Hosting?

Web hosting is like renting a home for your website. Your hosting company provides:

• Server space to store your blog files
• Bandwidth so people can access your site
• Technical support when things go wrong
• Security features to protect your site
• Email accounts using your domain name

You cannot skip hosting. Even if you buy a domain name, you need hosting to make your website accessible online.

How Much Does Hosting Cost?

Hosting costs vary depending on the quality and features:

• Budget hosting: $2-5/month (often slow, limited support, shared servers)
• Quality shared hosting: $5-15/month (faster, better support, still shared servers)
• Managed WordPress hosting: $15-30/month (optimised for WordPress, excellent performance)
• VPS or dedicated hosting: $30-100+/month (for high-traffic sites, advanced users)

For new bloggers, quality shared hosting or managed WordPress hosting is the sweet spot. Don’t go for the cheapest option – slow loading speeds will hurt your SEO rankings and frustrate your readers.

How Much Does a Domain Cost?

A domain name (your website address like rosieparsons.com) typically costs:

• .com domains: $10-15 per year
• .co.uk domains: $6-10 per year
• .blog domains: $20-30 per year
• Premium domains: $100-1000+ per year (short, memorable names)

Many hosting companies include a free domain name for your first year when you sign up. This saves you $10-15 initially.

BEGINNER VERSION: The Simple Checklist (Exact Steps)

6.1 I 100% recommend choosing BigScoots for Hosting (The Best Place to Start)

I’ve tried other hosting companies (some well-known, some cheap), and BigScoots has been an absolute dream. This is 100% the best place to host your self-hosted WordPress blog.

Special offer: Use voucher code CM6QU7A40B1Y for 25% off your first year with BigScoots.

Why I recommend BigScoots:

• Real humans on live chat (not bots)
• Simple explanations (no confusing tech jargon)
• Fast and secure
• They install WordPress for you with detailed instructions
• They install your blog theme for you
• They create your staging site
• They connect your own domain name
• Excellent customer support – perfect for non-techie blogging beginners

You don’t need to be “techy.” They guide you through the exact steps for everything.

This is genuinely the best option for beginners who want to create their own website without stress.

6.2 Choose Your Hosting Plan

For beginners, the basic plan is absolutely enough. You can upgrade later as your traffic grows. Don’t overthink this – just start with their entry-level plan. It won’t take much time to set up. If you get confused at any point you can also ask BigScoots for advice on their live chat on their website. Their support is second to none and you’ll get through to a human straightaway. I’ve never seen service like it!

6.3 Choose Your Domain Name (Your Own Domain Name)

You can:

• Buy it through BigScoots (easiest option and the best way for beginners)
• Or buy it separately on Namecheap (more steps, but fine if you prefer)

Your domain should be:

• Short
• Easy to spell
• On-brand
• Memorable

Examples:

• rosieparsons.com
• yourname.com
• yourbusinessname.com

You only need one domain. Don’t overthink it. Some hosting companies offer a free domain for the first year, which is a good thing if you’re on a budget.

Avoid free blogging platforms that give you a subdomain (like yourname.wordpress.com) – you want your own domain name for credibility and SEO. This is the right place to invest if you’re serious about your blog.

ADVANCED VERSION: If You Want More Control

6.4 Why Hosting Matters for SEO (And Why It’s Worth the Hard Work)

Good hosting = faster site = better Google rankings. This is one of the most important things to understand.

Good hosting gives you:

• Faster site speed
• Better uptime (your site is always accessible)
• Better Core Web Vitals scores
• Fewer errors
• Higher search rankings

Cheap hosting (like $3/month shared hosting) from low-quality hosting companies slows everything down and can hurt your SEO. At the end of the day, you get what you pay for.

Investing in quality hosting is the best way to ensure your self-hosted WordPress blog performs well. It’s a good idea to choose a reputable hosting company from the first step.

6.5 SSL Certificate (Personal Information Security)

BigScoots will set this up for you automatically with detailed instructions if needed.

But in case you’re curious: SSL = the little padlock next to your URL in the browser.

Google requires SSL certificates for trust and security. Without one, your site will show as “Not Secure” (not good). This is especially important if you collect any personal information from readers.

6.6 Domain Structure

Choose either:

• www.yourname.com
• yourname.com

Both are fine. Consistency matters more than which one you pick. This is your new domain that will become your home on the internet.

Beginner Recap: Step 7

You’ve chosen your hosting provider and secured your domain name. Your blog now has a home on the internet and a professional web address. With BigScoots hosting and your voucher code applied, you’ve got fast, reliable hosting with excellent support. You’re ready to install WordPress and start building.

Step 8: Install WordPress and Log In

This is where most beginners panic… but with BigScoots, you don’t do any of it yourself.

Once you’ve purchased your hosting and domain, it’s time to install WordPress and access your new blog’s dashboard.

WordPress Installation (The Easy Way)

If you’re using BigScoots:

Contact their support team via live chat and simply say: “Please install WordPress on my domain.” They’ll have it done within 5-10 minutes, and you’ll receive an email with your login details.

BigScoots will install:

• WordPress
• Kadence (your theme)
• Your child theme (if you chose one)
• Your staging site
• Your domain connection

All you have to do is ask.

What You’ll Receive After WordPress Installation

After WordPress is installed, you’ll receive:

• Login URL: yoursite.com/wp-admin
• Username: The admin username you created
• Temporary password: Change this immediately after first login

BEGINNER VERSION: What You Need to Do

7.1 Just Ask BigScoots

Send a message on live chat:

“Can you please install WordPress and my theme for me?”

They’ll do it. You don’t need to click anything complicated.

7.2 Check Your Email

You’ll receive:

• Your WordPress login URL
• Your username
• A temporary password

Click the link. Log in. You’re inside your WordPress dashboard.

7.3 Take a Breath – This is the Learning Curve Moment

Everyone feels overwhelmed the first time they see the WordPress dashboard.

It looks complicated. It’s full of menus and options you don’t understand yet.

But it gets easier SO quickly. Trust me.

ADVANCED VERSION: If You Want More Detail

7.4 The WordPress Dashboard Overview

When you log in, you’ll see:

• Posts (where your blog posts live)
• Pages (for static pages like About, Contact, etc.)
• Appearance (where you customise your theme)
• Plugins (where you add features)
• Settings (important stuff like permalinks)
• Media (your image library)
• Tools (import/export, etc.)

You don’t need to learn everything at once. You’ll learn naturally as you go.

Beginner Recap: Step 8

You’ve installed WordPress and logged in for the first time. You can now access your dashboard, navigate the basic menu, and you understand where everything lives. Don’t worry if it feels overwhelming. You’ll get comfortable with it quickly as you start creating content.

Step 9: Customise Your Blog and Create Essential Pages

Now that WordPress is installed and your theme is activated, it’s time to make your blog look professional and create the essential pages every website needs.

Set Up Your Homepage Layout

You have two main options for your homepage:

Option 1: Blog Posts Homepage (Traditional Blog)

Your latest blog posts display automatically on your homepage. This works well if your primary goal is content marketing and SEO.

To set this up: Go to Settings → Reading → Select “Your latest posts”

Option 2: Static Homepage (Business Website)

Create a custom welcome page with your introduction, services, and call-to-action. Your blog posts appear on a separate “Blog” page.

I recommend Option 2 for service-based businesses and coaches. It gives you more control over first impressions.

Add Plugins

Plugins are like apps for your blog. They add features and functionality without you needing to code anything.

Keep it simple at first. You don’t need 20 plugins. Start with these essentials. Yon can find them in your WordPress menu to the left of your admin area.

BEGINNER VERSION: Install These 5 Plugins

8.1 Yoast SEO

Helps you optimise your titles, meta descriptions, and basic SEO. This plugin is essential for ranking on Google.

8.2 Google Analytics (by Site Kit)

Shows you how many readers you have, where they’re coming from, and which posts are most popular.

8.3 Google Search Console (by Site Kit)

Shows you what keywords you’re ranking for and how people are finding your blog on Google.

8.4 Grow by Mediavine

Great for social sharing buttons, email sign-ups, and content organisation. Also prepares your site for display ads later (if you want that).

8.5 ShortPixel or Imagify

Compresses your images automatically so they load faster. Fast site speed = better SEO.

ADVANCED VERSION: Optional Plugins to Add Later

• Redirection plugin (for fixing broken links)
• WooCommerce (if you want to sell products)
• Backup plugin (though BigScoots backs up your site for you)
• Cache plugin (depends on your host)
• Social sharing plugin (for Pinterest, Facebook, etc.)
• Security plugin (like Wordfence)

You don’t need any of these on day one. Start simple.

Beginner Recap: Step 9

You’ve customised your blog and created your essential pages. Your About page tells your story, your Contact page makes you reachable, and your essential plugins are installed. Your blog now looks professional and functions properly. You’re ready to start creating content.

This is the moment you’ve been working toward – creating and publishing your very first blog post. It’s normal to feel nervous or overwhelmed, but remember: your first post doesn’t have to be perfect. It just needs to be helpful.

Step 10: Write and Publish Your First Blog Post

This is where your blog starts to feel real. Exciting!!

Your first post doesn’t need to be perfect. It just needs to be published.

What Should Your First Blog Post Be About?

Your first blog post should cover:

• A simple, helpful tutorial: Something your audience struggles with that you can explain clearly
• A searchable topic: Something people actually type into Google
• A problem your audience already has: Answer a question you hear repeatedly

BEGINNER VERSION: The Simple Formula

9.1 Choose a Simple Topic

Pick something that helps your audience right away.

Examples:

• “5 tips for taking better selfies”
• “How I planned my first month of blog content”
• “The best free tools for small business owners”

9.2 Write a Short Introduction

Explain:

• What the post is about
• Who it’s for
• Why it matters

Keep it friendly and conversational.

9.3 Create 3-5 Easy Sections

Use headings (H2s and H3s) to break up your post.

Write in short paragraphs. Short sentences. Easy to read.

9.4 Add Images

Use:

• Your own photos
• Screenshots
• Simple graphics from Canva

Add an image every 2-4 paragraphs to keep things visually interesting.

9.5 Add a Simple CTA (Call to Action)

At the end of your post, tell readers what to do next:

• Join your email list
• Read another post
• Download a freebie
• Book a call

Make it clear and easy.

ADVANCED VERSION: If You Want to Shine

9.6 SEO Optimise Your Post

Use your target keyword in:

• The title
• The first sentence
• A few headings (H2s and H3s)
• Image alt text
• Meta description

Don’t force it. Use it naturally.

9.7 Add Internal Links

Link to 2-3 other posts on your blog (when you have them) to keep readers on your site longer.

9.8 Add Affiliate Links (If Relevant)

If you mention a product or tool you love, add your affiliate link. It’s an easy way to earn commissions. You must remember to disclose affiliate links if you post them though. Something simple at the top of the post saying “This post contains affiliate links. If you click and make a purchase, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.” is perfect.

Beginner Recap: Step 10

You’ve written and published your first blog post. Whether you’re still on your staging site or already live, you’ve created helpful content for your audience. This is a huge milestone. Your first post doesn’t need to be perfect. What matters is that you’ve started, and you can always refine it as your skills improve.

Step 11: Promote Your Blog and Drive Traffic

Publishing your blog post is only half the work (#sorry!). Now you need to get eyes on your content and build your audience!

Pinterest: Your Blog’s Best Friend

Pinterest is a visual search engine that drives massive traffic to blogs – especially for lifestyle, business, food, DIY, and creative content.

SEO (search engine optimisation) sounds technical, but it’s surprisingly simple once you learn the basics.

SEO = helping Google understand your content so it can show your blog to the right people.

BEGINNER VERSION: The Only Three Things You Need to Remember

10.1 One Keyword Per Post

Focus on one main keyword per post. Don’t try to rank for everything.

Example: “how to start a blog”

10.2 Put Your Keyword in the Right Places

• Title
• First paragraph
• A few headings
• Image alt text
• Meta description

10.3 Write Helpful Content

Google rewards content that genuinely helps people. Write for humans first, search engines second.

ADVANCED VERSION: For Those Ready to Grow

10.4 Create an SEO-Friendly Structure

Use H2s and H3s so your post is easy to skim. Google loves well-structured content.

10.5 Aim for 1,000-2,500 Words

Longer content tends to rank better. Aim for at least 1,000 words per post (but quality over quantity always).

10.6 Answer Questions

Use FAQs at the end of your post to add natural keywords and provide extra value.

10.7 Use Google Trends and Keyword Planner

Look for related searches, synonyms, and long-tail keywords to include naturally in your post.

Beginner Recap: Step 11

You now understand how to promote your blog and drive traffic. You know the basics of SEO, Pinterest, and building an email list. Traffic takes time to build, so be patient and consistent. Focus on creating helpful content, and the readers will come.

how to start and make money with a blog

Once your blog is established and getting consistent traffic, there are multiple ways to monetize your content and turn your blog into a profitable business.

Display Ads

Display ads are banners, videos, or images placed on your blog that generate income based on views or clicks.

Popular ad networks:

• Google AdSense: Easy to get approved, lower earnings, good for beginners
• Mediavine: Requires 50,000 monthly sessions, much higher earnings
• AdThrive: Requires 100,000 monthly page views, highest earnings potential

Realistic earnings: $1-5 per 1,000 page views with AdSense, $15-30 per 1,000 views with premium networks.

Affiliate Marketing

Promote products or services you genuinely use and love, earning a commission when readers purchase through your unique link.

Popular affiliate programs:

• Amazon Associates (physical products)
• ShareASale (wide variety of merchants)
• CJ Affiliate (big brands)
• Individual company programs (often higher commissions)

Affiliate marketing works best when you create detailed product reviews, comparison posts, and tutorials featuring the products you recommend.

Digital Products

Create and sell your own digital products that provide value to your audience:

• Ebooks: In-depth guides on topics you know well
• Templates: Downloadable resources people can use immediately
• Workbooks: Interactive PDFs that help people implement your advice
• Printables: Planners, checklists, calendars
• Stock photos: If you’re a photographer

Digital products have incredible profit margins since you create them once and sell them repeatedly.

Online Courses

Transform your expertise into comprehensive video courses that teach people valuable skills.

Courses typically price between $50-500 depending on depth and transformation promised. Your blog becomes the perfect platform for attracting course students through free valuable content.

Services

Use your blog to attract high-quality clients for your services:

• Coaching or consulting
• Freelance services (writing, design, photography)
• Done-for-you services
• Strategy sessions

Many coaches and service providers use their blog primarily as a client attraction tool, generating six or seven figures annually from services alone.

Brand Partnerships and Sponsored Content

As your blog grows, brands may approach you to create sponsored content. This could include dedicated blog posts, social media mentions, or product features in exchange for payment.

Sponsored post rates vary wildly depending on your traffic, niche, and engagement. Smaller bloggers might earn $50-200 per post, while established bloggers can charge $500-2,000+ for a single collaboration.

The key is to only partner with brands that genuinely fit your audience. Your readers trust your recommendations, so protect that trust by being selective about who you work with.

Gifted Products and Reviews

Brands often send free products to bloggers in exchange for honest reviews. This is a great way to create content while trying new products relevant to your niche.

You might receive anything from books and beauty products to software subscriptions and tech gadgets. Some brands ask for a review in return, while others simply hope you’ll mention them if you love the product.

Even if you didn’t pay for something, your opinion still matters. Be honest in your reviews, whether the product was gifted or not.

Important: Disclosure Requirements

You must disclose affiliate links, sponsored content, and gifted products. This isn’t optional. It’s a legal requirement in the UK under the ASA and CAP codes, and similar rules apply in most countries.

For affiliate links, add a simple statement at the top of posts:

“This post contains affiliate links. If you purchase through my link, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.”

For sponsored posts, clearly state the partnership:

“This post is sponsored by [Brand Name]” or “This post is in collaboration with [Brand Name].”

For gifted products, be transparent:

“[Brand] kindly sent me this product to try” or “PR sample.”

Your readers will respect your honesty. Trying to hide partnerships damages trust far more than simply being upfront about them.

Important note: Don’t worry about monetization when you’re just starting out. Focus first on creating helpful content and building your audience. Once you have consistent traffic (1,000+ monthly visitors), monetization opportunities will become much clearer.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I start a blog for beginners?

Starting a blog as a beginner is simpler than you think. Purchase hosting, install WordPress, choose a theme, create your essential pages, and publish your first helpful post. You can have a basic blog running in 2-4 hours.

Here are the 10 steps:

1. Choose your niche and name
2. Buy a domain name
3. Pick quality hosting like BigScoots
4. Install WordPress
5. Choose a fast theme like Kadence
6. Set up essential pages (About, Contact, Privacy Policy)
7. Install key plugins (Yoast SEO, image optimisation)
8. Plan your content strategy
9. Write your first helpful blog post
10. Promote on Pinterest and social media

The most important thing? Just start. You’ll learn as you go, and that’s completely normal.

How much does it cost to start a blog?

Starting a professional blog costs approximately $50-150 for your first year. This includes hosting, a domain name, and optionally a premium theme. Many hosting companies include a free domain for your first year.

Here’s the breakdown:

• Domain name: $10-15/year
• Quality web hosting: $5-20/month ($60-240/year)
• Premium theme (optional): $40-80 one-time
• Essential plugins: Mostly free (premium options $30-100/year)

Free blogging platforms exist, but they come with significant limitations: ads you can’t remove, restricted customisation, poor SEO potential, and you don’t actually own your site.

For a serious business blog, budget $50-150 for year one. That’s less than one month of Facebook ads and gives you an asset you fully control.

What do I need to start a blog?

You need five essential things to start a professional blog: a domain name, web hosting, WordPress, a theme, and a few key plugins. You don’t need fancy equipment, tech skills, or a huge budget. If you can send an email, you can start a blog.

The five essentials:

1. Domain name: Your website address like yourname.com ($10-15/year)
2. Web hosting: Where your blog lives online ($5-20/month)
3. WordPress.org: The free platform that powers your blog
4. A WordPress theme: The design template (free options available, premium $40-80)
5. Essential plugins: Tools like Yoast SEO and image compression (mostly free)

Many hosting companies like BigScoots will even install WordPress and your theme for you. Just ask their support team via chat. It’s genuinely simpler than most people think.

How do I choose a blog niche?

Choose a blog niche by combining who you help with what problem you solve. Your niche = your target audience + their specific struggle. For example: “I help wedding photographers book dream clients” or “I teach busy mums how to meal prep on a budget.”

Ask yourself these questions:

• What do people ask me about all the time?
• What problem do I solve in my business?
• What topics could I write 50 blog posts about without getting bored?

Don’t overthink this. Your niche doesn’t need to be unique or revolutionary. It just needs to be clear enough that the right people know your blog is for them.

Your niche can evolve as you grow. Many successful bloggers refine their focus over time. The important thing is to pick something and start creating content.

How do I start a blog on WordPress?

To start a blog on WordPress, purchase hosting from a quality provider like BigScoots, register your domain name, and ask them to install WordPress for you. Most hosting companies do this for free within minutes. The whole setup takes 2-4 hours.

Step-by-step process:

1. Purchase hosting ($5-20/month) and register your domain
2. Ask support to install WordPress (or it installs automatically)
3. Log in to your dashboard at yoursite.com/wp-admin
4. Install a fast, SEO-friendly theme like Kadence (free)
5. Create essential pages: About, Contact, and Privacy Policy
6. Install key plugins: Yoast SEO, image compression, Google Site Kit
7. Customise your navigation menu and design
8. Write and publish your first helpful blog post

WordPress powers over 40% of all websites. It’s the best choice for serious bloggers who want full control and excellent SEO.

How long does it take to start a blog?

You can have a basic blog up and running in 2-4 hours if you focus on essentials. A fully polished blog with multiple pages, customised design, and your first blog post typically takes 1-2 days of focused work.

Realistic timeline:

• Basic technical setup (domain, hosting, WordPress, theme): 2-4 hours
• Creating essential pages and customising design: 3-5 hours
• Writing and publishing your first blog post: 2-4 hours
• Total: 1-2 days spread across a weekend

You don’t have to do it all in one sitting. And you absolutely don’t need everything perfect before launching. Many successful bloggers publish their site and refine it over time.

Progress over perfection wins every time.

What should my first blog post be about?

Your first blog post should answer a question your target audience frequently asks, solve a specific problem they have, or teach them something step-by-step. Focus on topics people actually search for on Google rather than writing about yourself.

Good first post formulas:

• “5 Mistakes [Your Audience] Makes When [Doing Something]”
• “How to [Solve Problem] in [Timeframe]”
• “The Beginner’s Guide to [Relevant Topic]”
• “What I Wish I’d Known About [Topic] When I Started”

Choose something you can explain well without needing to be an absolute expert. Your unique perspective and personal experience matter more than perfection.

Your first post doesn’t need to be your best post ever. It just needs to provide value and get you started. You’ll improve with every post you write.

How do bloggers make money?

Bloggers make money through multiple income streams including display ads, affiliate marketing, digital products, online courses, services, and sponsored content. Most successful bloggers combine several of these rather than relying on just one.

Main income streams:

• Display ads: Earn $15-30 per 1,000 page views through networks like Mediavine or AdThrive
• Affiliate marketing: Promote products you use and earn 5-30% commission on sales
• Digital products: Sell ebooks, templates, workbooks, or printables you create once
• Online courses: Teach your expertise (typically $50-500 per student)
• Services: Attract coaching, consulting, or freelance clients (often the fastest path to income)
• Sponsored content: Partner with brands to create content featuring their products

Don’t worry about monetisation when you’re just starting out. Focus first on creating helpful content and building your audience. Once you have consistent traffic (1,000+ monthly visitors), monetisation opportunities become much clearer.

Is blogging still worth it in 2026?

Yes, blogging is absolutely still worth it in 2026. In fact, it’s more valuable than ever for business owners and personal brands. A blog helps you show up on Google, builds trust and authority, and creates content that works for years after you publish it.

Why blogging matters in 2026:

• Free organic traffic: Show up on Google when people search for solutions you provide
• Builds authority: Readers who find your helpful content see you as the expert
• Long-term asset: Blog posts work for months or years, unlike social posts that disappear
• You own it: Unlike social platforms that could change algorithms or ban your account
• Content repurposing: One blog post becomes Instagram posts, Pinterest pins, emails, and more
• Human connection: While AI generates generic content, readers value authentic advice from real people

The bloggers struggling in 2026 are those creating thin, unhelpful content. The bloggers thriving are those creating genuinely valuable, personality-driven content that helps real people solve real problems.

How do I create a blog people will read?

Create a blog people will actually read by solving real problems, using your authentic voice, and making content easy to scan. People read blogs that help them, sound human, and feel trustworthy.

Key principles:

• Solve real problems: Write about questions your audience asks repeatedly
• Use your authentic voice: Write like you’re talking to a friend over coffee
• Make it scannable: Short paragraphs, clear headings, bullet points, images
• Lead with value: Hook readers in your first 2-3 sentences
• Include personal experience: “Here’s what happened when I tried this” beats generic advice
• Optimise for SEO: Use relevant keywords so Google can send you traffic
• Show your face: Add photos of yourself throughout your blog
• Promote consistently: Share on Pinterest, social media, and email
• Write regularly: Consistency builds an audience faster than sporadic genius

Focus on being genuinely helpful, sounding human, and building trust. Do those three things and you’re already ahead of most bloggers.

Final Checklist: OMG You’re Ready to Launch!

Before you officially launch your blog, run through this final checklist to ensure everything is ready:

Technical Setup

• Domain name purchased and connected
• Quality web hosting activated
• WordPress installed and updated to latest version
• SSL certificate installed (your site shows “https” not “http”)
• Permalinks set to “Post name” structure
• Theme installed and activated
• Staging site created for testing changes

Essential Pages Created

• Homepage (static or blog posts)
• About page with your photo and story
• Contact page with working contact form
• Privacy Policy page
• Blog page (if using static homepage)

Design and Branding

• Navigation menu created with essential pages
• Logo or site title added to header
• Brand colours applied consistently
• Readable fonts chosen
• Footer customised with copyright and links
• Favicon uploaded (small icon that appears in browser tabs)

Essential Plugins Installed

• Yoast SEO or RankMath (for search optimisation)
• Google Site Kit (connects Google Analytics and Search Console)
• Image optimisation plugin (ShortPixel, Imagify, or TinyPNG)
• Backup plugin or hosting backup enabled
• WPForms or similar contact form plugin
• Email signup plugin (if building list immediately)

Content Ready

• First blog post written and published
• Professional photos added throughout site
• All images have descriptive alt text
• Internal links added where relevant
• Meta descriptions written for key pages
• Content plan created for next 3-5 blog posts

Mobile and Testing

• Site checked on mobile devices (looks good and loads fast)
• All links tested and working
• Contact form tested (actually sends emails to you)
• Images load properly everywhere
• Site speed tested (use Google PageSpeed Insights)

Promotion Prep

• Pinterest business account created
• Pin graphics designed for first post
• Social media posts scheduled to announce launch
• Blog link added to all social media bios
• Email list signup form visible on site

Once you’ve checked off these items, you’re officially ready to launch your blog to the world!

Troubleshooting Common Beginner Problems When You Start a Blog

Problem: “My site looks weird on mobile.”

Solution: Check your theme’s mobile settings in the WordPress Customiser. Most modern themes (like Kadence) are mobile-responsive by default, but you may need to adjust font sizes or spacing.

Problem: “My images look blurry.”

Solution: Upload images at 1200-1500px wide. Don’t upload images that are too small (they’ll stretch and blur) or too large (they’ll slow down your site).

Problem: “Google isn’t indexing my blog.”

Solution: Submit your sitemap to Google Search Console. Yoast SEO creates one automatically at yoursite.com/sitemap.xml.

Problem: “I feel embarrassed posting photos of myself.”

Solution: Everyone starts there. It gets easier with practice – I promise.

Start with one photo on your About page. Then add more as you get comfortable.

Problem: “I don’t know what to write about.”

Solution: Write about the questions your audience asks you all the time. Check Pinterest, Google, and social media for inspiration.

If you’re ready to give your new blog a polished, professional look, Slay Your Selfies walks you through exactly how to take colourful, engaging photos using nothing more than your phone. It’s ideal for your About page, blog posts, Pinterest graphics and social media – a simple way to elevate your visuals from day one.

Common Mistakes to Avoid When You Start a Blog

• Uploading giant, uncompressed images
• Using too many plugins (slows down your site)
• Choosing a slow, bloated theme
• Ignoring mobile design
• Overthinking your niche
• Writing walls of text with no headings or images
• Not using your face anywhere on your blog
• Not building an email list from day one
• Waiting for “perfect” before you publish
• Giving up too soon (SEO takes time!)

Tools Recap: Everything You Need to Start a Blog

Hosting: BigScoots

Theme: Kadence

Child themes: Restored 316

Alternative: Thrive Themes

SEO plugin: Yoast SEO

Analytics: Google Analytics (via Site Kit)

Search Console: Google Search Console (via Site Kit)

Image compression: TinyPNG, ShortPixel, Imagify

Social sharing/email sign-ups: Grow by Mediavine

Online store: WooCommerce

Final Thoughts: You’re Ready to Start Your Blog!!

Congrats! You’ve just learned how to build a whole website and saved yourself around $3000 in website design fees – amazing!

You took action. You learned new skills. You stretched your comfort zone.

I know it’s a lot – but you built something that supports your business and your personal brand!

And now you’re ready for the next chapter.

A blog with your face on it. Your ideas. Your personality. Your voice. Your photos. Your authority.

If you want help taking photos to share on your new blog that you actually love – the kind that build trust and make readers remember you – my course Slay Your Selfies will guide you step by step.

With warmth. With clarity. With zero judgement. And no fancy equipment required.

Your blog is only the beginning.

You’re building a brand. And you’re doing it brilliantly.

Ready to start your blog? Pin this post and save it for later!

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Planning a Christmas aesthetic photoshoot but feeling stuck for ideas? There’s nothing quite like this time of year for cosy, fairy-lit shots that make your feed feel magical. But usually when you search for Christmas photos, most of what comes up involves big family gatherings or children in matching pyjamas. Cute, but not exactly helpful when you’re trying to plan your own solo christmas photoshoot for insta!

The good news? You don’t need a photographer, a partner, or a Pinterest-perfect family to create stunning content. After years of shooting my own DIY cosy christmas photos around London and the UK – from bustling markets to fairy-lit cafes – I’ve learned easy ways to snap gorgeous christmas pictures quickly – and on my own!

This guide is your inspiration look-book for influencers, solo creators, and small business owners who want scroll-stopping photos for instagram, blogs and socials. Whether you’re after inspo for creative christmas photoshoots indoors with twinkling lights or outdoor scenes at winter markets, it’s packed with lots of tips and ideas to inspire you.

Let’s turn your December photoshoot into content that stops the scroll – even if you’re dodging tourists and battling the rainy British weather!

Christmas Aesthetic Photoshoot: Cosy Indoor Ideas

When the weather’s miserable or you’re short on daylight, indoor shots are your secret weapon for nailing that cosy Christmas aesthetic. They’re often easier to control than outdoor locations – and just as scroll-stopping. The key is finding spots that already have festive atmosphere or bringing your own props to transform a neutral space..

With Presents In Front of Your Christmas Tree

Your living room might seem obvious, but it’s a cozyChristmas photoshoot classic for good reason. Position yourself close enough that the tree fills the background, and use Portrait mode if you’re on your phone to get that blurred bokeh effect with the lights. Try relaxed Christmas poses like sitting cross-legged with a gift or laughing while unwrapping – these feel more natural than stiff standing shots.

Wear something that complements your colour palette – emerald green looks stunning against traditional red and gold decorations, while all-white creates more minimalist aesthetic christmas photos. Pyjamas look super cute like you’ve just woken up on Christmas morning. This setup works perfectly for a solo christmas photoshoot since you can use a tripod and self-timer.

Decorating Your Tree

Capture the magic of decorating with action shots that feel candid and natural. Reach up to hang an ornament while looking at the tree rather than the camera – it creates a relaxed christmas portrait that works beautifully for a solo christmas photoshoot. Use a tall extendable tripod with a self-timer and take multiple shots to catch the perfect moment.

Holding Festive Props

Props like gingerbread cookies, baubles or ornaments give your hands something to do and add interest to your poses. Try holding a handful of gold baubles up towards the camera for a playful aesthetic christmas photo, or a single iced biscuit for something more delicate. These small details will elevate your christmas pics without much effort.

Scattered Baubles on the Floor

Add extra festive texture by scattering baubles around you on the floor or a cosy rug. This works especially well for sitting poses and creates depth in your shot. Mix metallics like gold and silver for a glamorous look, or stick to one colour for a more cohesive aesthetic.

The Cosy Morning Setup

Style a simple scene in your living room: you in cute Christmas pyjamas or comfortable sweaters, a mug of something festive, maybe some Christmas presents arranged casually nearby. This works brilliantly for lifestyle creators and feels authentic rather than overly produced. Add a throw blanket, some fairy lights in the background, and shoot from slightly above for a flattering angle. It’s a great way to show your personality while keeping things festive.

Using Bokeh for Dreamy Backgrounds

That beautiful blurred fairy light effect (bokeh) is a christmas instagram essential. Position yourself a few feet in front of your tree and use Portrait mode or a wide aperture. The lights become soft glowing orbs behind you, giving your photos that cozy christmas photoshoot look instantly.

Outdoor Christmas Content Ideas

Outdoor Christmas content has an energy that’s hard to replicate indoors – the movement, the atmosphere, the way winter light hits festive decorations. Yes, it’s colder and requires more planning (and hopefully you won’t have to dodge the rain like I have many a time!), but the results are worth layering up for.

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Decorated Doorways and Archways

If you’re visiting Christmas markets or festive venues, keep an eye out for decorated doorways, arches, or entrances. These frame you naturally in the shot and often have beautiful garlands, ribbons, or lights. Stand in the doorway, lean against the frame, or capture yourself walking through. It adds depth to your photos and makes use of existing decorations without any effort on your part.

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Christmas Markets at Blue Hour

One of my favourite ideas for Christmas photos is to take photos during “blue hour”. This is hands down one of the best ways to capture a Christmas atmosphere. Blue hour is that magical window just after sunset when the sky turns deep blue – and it makes Christmas market shots look incredible.

The contrast between the warm market lights and the deep blue evening sky creates an ambiance you simply can’t get during the day or even later at night when the sky is black.

Visit markets like Winter Wonderland in London (or similar versions in most cities), set your phone to Portrait mode to blur the people in the background, and focus on yourself with the stalls and twinkly lights behind you.

Wear something that brings the Christmas vibes: red coat, white faux fur, deep greens or even go rogue with a cute festive pink outfit if that’s more your style. 

Your tripod may usually be your best friend for solo shoots, but a quick side issue to note; a lot of the bigger markets will not allow you to bring in selfie sticks or professional camera equipment (they search your bag on the way in) – so be aware of this if you were planning on shooting your own pictures or getting a friend with a DSLR camera to take your pics. It would be very sad to get turned away! Best solution is to bring a friend and get them to just use your mobile phone. 

Something to be aware of: some of the bigger Christmas markets won’t let you bring in your own food and drinks in to their venue. A shame as it can be quite a money saver to stock up on candy canes and lollipops beforehand but of course they want you to spend money inside. So do check before making your plans.

Ice Skating Rinks

Ice skating rinks are festive, photogenic and give you natural movement for eye catching shots – if you’re able to stand up long enough!

When I was skating in London I was very aware about holding up people behind me – and it’s hard enough standing upright, then posing AND smiling like you mean it, without also making sure no one skates into your legs knocking you flat like Bambi!

Saying that, you don’t have to be brilliant at skating – even just sitting with a coffee with the ice rink behind you still works very well! Most rinks have beautiful lighting and Christmas decorations around them.

Somerset House and the Natural History Museum rinks in London are particularly stunning. It’s worth looking up photogenic ice rinks near you on instagram and finding one with natural light. The background of the ice rink will make a huge difference to how nice your photos turn out and if you’re in a marquee rather than outside, the light won’t look as natural and festive. 

The best times to shoot are during quieter morning sessions when the rink first opens, so you’ll get fewer people in the background.

Wear something practical but stylish: a furry festive coat, warm bobble hat, and gloves. Keep your phone in a secure pocket and ask someone nearby to grab a few shots, or use a tripod at the edge if the rink allows it.

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Festive Shop Windows and Decorated Streets

Taking photos as you walk past illuminated Christmas windows is an easy but creative way to capture movement and atmosphere for your Christmas photo shoot.

In London, Fortnum & Mason, Liberty, and Harrods all create show-stopping displays, but wherever you may be a wander around your local high street will usually come up with all sorts of beautiful decorated shop fronts worth using.

Time these shots for early evening when the windows are lit but there’s still some natural light. This gives a festive atmosphere with the warm twinkly lights but enough natural light to still make your photos nice and sharp. 

Wear textured winter layers – bundle up in cosy scarves, knits and faux fur – so the photos convey how cold it is. That context makes the festive warmth of the lights feel more intentional.

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Festive Spots in Your Local Area

Have a scroll through Instagram and search for festive locations near you – old cobbled streets, Victorian arcades, historic town centres, or anywhere with decorations all photograph beautifully. Every city has its hidden gems during Christmas, and locals usually tag them.

I loved walking around Leadenhall Market in London when the Christmas lights first turned on in November – the Victorian covered market gets draped in garlands and fairy lights, and the ornate architecture is traditional, full of history and the perfect Christmas palette of red and golds – stunning! 

Even though I went on the second weekend of November it was already busy! So I can only imagine how hectic it will be coming up to Christmas!

I’d advise to go to popular spots early on a weekday morning to avoid the crowds. It also means you’ll be less stressed about your phone getting swiped by a thieving ratbag, which is definitely something I’m always thinking about when I’m shooting photos out in London! 

Leadenhall market was especially nice because the natural light filters through beautifully during the day, but evening shots with the lights on create a completely different scene. It’s also sheltered, which is perfect because it means you can shoot in bad weather without getting drenched.

Cute Cafes with A Christmas Aesthetic

Cosy Christmassy cafes are also a great option if you want beautiful backdrops without planning an entire outdoor shoot.

Plenty of cafes set up outdoor seating with festive blankets, heaters, and fairy lights during winter. These create the perfect blend of cosy and atmospheric. Order something seasonal – a gingerbread latte or mulled wine – and shoot yourself wrapped in the provided blanket with the Christmas lights blurred in the background.

The key is to show the temperature through your styling: hat, scarf, gloves in shot, rosy (Rosie if you prefer haha) cheeks. It sells the winter vibe without looking uncomfortably cold. Teeth clenched, mid shiver and nose running is not the vibe!

Winter Activities Beyond Christmas

You don’t need overtly Christmas backdrops to create festive content. Winter activities like walking through simple locations like frost-covered parks, visiting botanical gardens with winter displays, or even just wandering streets with fairy lights all work.

The trick is your styling and the time of year – if you’re dressed festively and the light is wintry, the context does the work. This is a great option when you’re travelling somewhere that doesn’t go full Christmas decor but you still need to shoot some seasonal content.

This shot above was taken in Chamonix where there was lots of snow about so that was a headstart to looking Christmassy. And then I added a snow overlay to ramp up the festive atmosphere!

High-Impact Creator Poses for Christmas Photos

Getting the pose right can make the difference between holiday photos that look awkward and ones that makes your audience feel like you’re friends.

When you’re shooting a solo Christmas photoshoot, you need poses that look natural even when they’re carefully planned – and that work whether you’re using a tripod or you’ve convinced someone to help.

I always plan out the poses I want to do before I get to my location. That doesn’t mean I won’t improvise – but it does mean that when my brain goes blank I can take a quick squiz through my inspo and get back to shooting – making the most of the time I have there. 

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Walking Shots Through Markets and Festive Streets

Walking shots are brilliant for creating movement and energy in your Christmas content. But you don’t have to actually walk! That would be too difficult to get yourself in exactly the right place at the right time for the perfect shot. Instead swing back and forward just doing one mini step, the same one over and over again. Much easier to capture a natural looking “walking” shot!

The most important thing is to keep your shoulders relaxed and look slightly away from the camera – either at shop windows, up at decorations, or just ahead of you for that “oh you just happened to catch me looking cute while Christmas shopping” vibe. Much better than a genuine harassed Christmas shopping moment! 

Candid moments happen when you’re not staring directly at the lens. These shots work particularly well at Christmas markets where there’s visual interest in the background.

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Bokeh Portrait with Twinkly Lights

Position yourself a good metre or two in front of Christmas lights – whether that’s your tree at home, market stalls, or shop windows. Use Portrait mode on your phone or a wide aperture on your DSLR camera to blur the lights into beautiful bokeh.

Face towards the light source slightly so it catches your face, and adjust your angle until you’re happy with the lighting. Your tripod becomes your best friend here if you’re shooting alone. This setup creates those dreamy, professional-looking portraits without needing a professional photographer.

Looking in Decorated Shop Windows

This pose works beautifully for styled outfit shots with a festive backdrop. Look over your shoulder against a decorated window, or cross one ankle over the other, and position your hands naturally – in your coat pockets, holding a cup, or adjusting your scarf.

The key is to shift your weight onto one leg rather than standing square-on, which creates a more flattering line. Shop windows in areas like Covent Garden or your local high street often have stunning displays that do all the styling work for you. I actually spot a lot of gorgeous displays just by walking around at Christmastime and end up finding some unique spots that no one else has posted yet. Much better to have unique content that no one else has (until they start copying you – you lil trend setter!).

Camera & Phone Settings for Festive Self-Portraits

Most of us are shooting Christmas content on our phones, and honestly, modern phone cameras are more than capable of creating professional-looking results. But whether you’re using your iPhone or you’ve pulled out your mirrorless or DSLR camera, understanding a few key settings will transform your festive shots.

Portrait Mode is Your Secret Weapon

If you’re shooting on your phone, Portrait mode should be the first thing you enable for Christmas content. It blurs the background beautifully – essential when you’re at busy markets or cafes and don’t want random strangers stealing focus.

Position yourself at least a metre away from the background (your tree, market stalls, shop windows) so the blur effect works properly. The separation between you and those twinkly lights creates that professional bokeh look. If you’re using a mirrorless or DSLR, shoot with a wide aperture – f/1.8 to f/2.8 works brilliantly for the same effect.

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Shooting at Blue Hour

Blue hour is that gorgeous window about 20-30 minutes after sunset when the sky turns deep blue. The most important steps for blue hour shooting are timing and settings.

On your phone, tap to focus on yourself and then swipe down slightly to reduce the exposure – I like pulling it down to -0.7. You want the sky to stay that rich blue rather than washing out to grey. If you’re using a DSLR or mirrorless, unless you have a very wide lens, you’ll likely need a higher ISO (800-1600) to capture enough light without making your shutter speed so slow that you get motion blur. Balance your settings so the lights look warm and the sky stays saturated.

Making Natural Light Work Indoors

When you’re shooting inside – whether at home or in a festive cafe – natural light is still your best option during the day. Position yourself facing a window but not directly in front of it.

The light should hit your face from the side or at a slight angle, which creates dimension. Fairy lights in the background will add warmth, but the natural light should be doing the heavy lifting on your face. You can also do a lot with editing in Lightroom afterwards to create a festive atmosphere, but it’s good to try and get it right as far as possible when you take it. 

Night Shooting Without Grain

Low light situations – like Christmas markets at night or evening indoor shots – can make your photos look grainy if you’re not careful. On most phones, Night mode will kick in automatically, but you need to stay very still for it to work.

Use your tripod or prop your phone on something stable. If you’re using a mirrorless or DSLR, increase your ISO but be mindful – going above 3200 will add grain. A better way is to use a wider aperture (lower f-number) to let more light in, which keeps your ISO lower and your images cleaner. 

If you are shooting on RAW format you can also use the denoise feature in Lightroom which will remove a lot of the grain. I like to use this when I take photos at our church’s Christmas carols by candlelight services. I really have to boost the ISO to extreme levels AND go down to f/1.2 but they look awesome, especially when I use the denoise option during the edits.

Quick Settings Checklist for Phone Shooters

Before you start your photo session, run through these: Portrait mode on, HDR enabled for tricky lighting, grid lines on to help with composition, and make sure you’re shooting in the highest quality your phone allows.

These simple settings take seconds to check but make a noticeable difference to your final images. If you’re somewhere with particularly beautiful light – golden hour or blue hour – take way more shots than you think you need. You can delete later, but you can’t recreate that light.

Aesthetic Christmas Outfit Ideas for Solo Creators

Your outfit is doing just as much work as your location when it comes to festive content. The right styling tells your audience it’s cold, it’s Christmas, and you’ve put thought into the shoot.

Accessorise with Festive Props

Sometimes the simplest approach is the most effective. A great idea for Christmas photos is to add festive touches to an otherwise neutral space: hold candy canes, wrap yourself in a chunky knit with a Santa hat, style yourself with reindeer ears for something playful, or wear fun socks and shoot from a cosy floor angle. Even ugly Christmas sweaters can work if you style them intentionally with sleek hair and makeup. So wherever you may be, you can bring the festive element into your photo rather than relying on your location.

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Sparkle and Sequins

Festive doesn’t always have to mean traditional red and green colours. Sequinned tops, sparkly dresses, or anything with a bit of shine photographs beautifully under indoor lighting, especially near Christmas trees or fairy lights. The light catches the texture and creates visual interest. Pair with simple Christmas jammies on the bottom half if you’re only shooting from the waist up – nobody needs to know, and you’ll be comfortable while you’re setting up your shots. 

Textured Neutrals with One Festive Touch

For creators whose brand aesthetic leans minimal, you don’t have to abandon your style for Christmas content. Wear textured neutrals – think chunky cream knits, camel tones, or soft greys – and add one festive element like a sprig of holly, a red lip, or Christmas earrings. Shoot in a neutral living room or against a plain wall with one string of warm fairy lights. It’s a great option for maintaining brand consistency while still acknowledging the season.

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Classic Red and White Combinations

You can’t go wrong with red and white for Christmas content. A red coat over an all-white outfit creates instant visual impact, especially against snowy scenes or neutral backgrounds.

Red jumpers, red scarves, or even just red lipstick with an otherwise neutral outfit all work. The colour photographs beautifully and reads as festive without being costumey. Pair with stylish shoes that can handle winter weather – Chelsea boots or sleek trainers keep it current rather than frumpy.

Emerald Green for Something Different

Emerald green is having a moment and it’s a great option for Christmas content that doesn’t make you look like you just escaped from Santa’s workshop. It photographs richly, works beautifully against traditional Christmas decorations, and feels something a little different than the traditional bright red.

Style it as a jumper, coat, or a dress if you’re shooting indoors. It pairs particularly well with gold jewellery and creates a gorgeous contrast against fairy lights.

All-White Winter Looks

An all-white outfit creates a minimalist, elegant take on festive content. Think cream knits, white jeans or trousers, and an oversized white coat.

This works brilliantly for creators whose aesthetic leans clean and neutral but who still want to acknowledge the season. Add texture through different materials – cable knit, faux fur, wool – so the outfit doesn’t look flat. Finish with a bobble hat or scarf in a soft neutral, and let your location provide the colour.

Cosy Knits and Textures

Chunky knit jumpers, cable knit scarves, and textured fabrics photograph beautifully and immediately convey warmth. Layer different textures together: a wool coat over a chunky knit, a faux fur collar, a thick scarf.

The weight of these pieces shows your audience it’s genuinely cold, which makes festive content feel more authentic. Comfortable sweaters that look intentionally oversized work better than ones that just look baggy – fit still matters even when you’re going for cosy.

Playful Festive Accessories

Sometimes the simplest creative way to make an outfit festive is through accessories. Santa hats, reindeer ears, Christmas earrings, festive brooches, or even fun socks if you’re shooting barefoot-at-home content all work. You can find festive and affordable Christmas accessories at places like Tiger Tiger or Primark, which have lots of kitsch options to choose from that won’t break the bank but definitely bring a smile to my face! 

The key is to style them intentionally rather than letting them look like fancy dress. A Santa hat with a sleek black outfit and good makeup feels playful and confident. Reindeer ears with an otherwise chic ensemble becomes quirky rather than childish. Even ugly Christmas sweaters can work if you style them with attitude and shoot them well. The main thing is that whatever you wear, you feel fabulous in it! 

And if you’re more chic than festive-freak (I mean that in the best way!), then you can still go for the Christmas vibes with delicate snowflake earrings that hint at the season without being in your face!

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Fingerless Gloves for Shooting Your Own Content

Here’s a practical tip that I only discovered this year and has made a massive difference to my Christmas photoshoots!… fingerless gloves let you operate your phone or camera while still keeping your hands warm during outdoor shoots. This means you can get your shots done a lot quicker. They also look great in photos – far better than bulky mittens that hide your hands entirely.

Style them with a coordinating scarf and bobble hat for a cohesive look. If you’re shooting somewhere genuinely freezing, bring proper gloves to wear between shots and switch to fingerless ones when you’re actually shooting.

Self portrait of me taken on my iPhone 17 Pro

Off-Piste Colour Combinations

Christmas content doesn’t have to be red and green. In early November I shot some photos in my pink Christmas cardigan at London influencer favourite Peggy Porschen. Non-traditional colours can still feel wintry when you add a bobble hat, scarf, and winter layers. Camel and cream feels sophisticated and seasonal. Even all-black works if you have contrasting winter textures and your location is doing the festive heavy lifting.

The family vibes of traditional Christmas don’t have to dictate your aesthetic – create content that feels like you while still acknowledging the season. Your colour palette should work with your existing brand rather than against it.

Christmas Photoshoot Plan

Planning a Christmas photoshoot doesn’t need to be complicated, but a bit of structure saves you from standing in the freezing cold realising you’ve forgotten something crucial (like me when I turned up in central London with two red heels, both for my left foot – dammit!). 

Here’s your practical checklist to make sure your shoot runs smoothly.

Before You Leave the House

Check your gear: Phone fully charged, spare battery if you’re using a camera, memory card with space, tripod, and any remote shutter you’re using. Nothing kills momentum like a dead battery halfway through. I also like to take a fully charged battery pack so that I can recharge my phone on the move between locations. 

Plan your route: If you’re hitting multiple locations – Christmas market, then a festive cafe, then shop windows – map it out logically so you’re not backtracking. The most important steps happen before you even leave: know where you’re going and what you’re shooting. I like to create a private Google map with all my preferred locations and then see how close they are to one another and then plan my route for the day.

Check the light: Golden hour and blue hour are your friends, but they’re also short. Know what time sunset is and plan to be at your outdoor locations at least 30 minutes before. Indoor shoots can happen anytime, but natural light through windows is best mid-morning to early afternoon.

Outfit check: Make sure everything fits, looks good together, and is practical for the weather. If you’re planning outfit changes, pack them in a bag with any accessories. Don’t bring massive bags. Been there, done that and it’s just stressful hauling a big bag around. Aim for max three outfit changes, and ideally wear the same trousers in each – plain black leggings go with any outfit and mean you don’t have to bring a suitcase for outfit changes! 

At Your Location

Do a test shot first: Before you commit to 50 shots in one pose, take a few test frames. Check the lighting, the background, and your positioning. We all know we have a best side! Adjust your tripod height, move closer or further from your background, tweak your angle. This is a great way to avoid wasting time on shots that aren’t working.

Shoot more than you think you need: Facial expressions, angles, and lighting can vary wildly between frames. Take at least 20-30 shots per setup, especially if you’re using burst mode for walking shots. You can delete later, but you can’t recreate the moment once you’ve left.

Change your angles: Don’t just shoot everything straight-on. Crouch down for a lower angle, shoot from slightly above, try different perspectives. Small changes in angle can transform a decent shot into a great one.

Mind your backgrounds: Keep an eye out for distracting elements – bins, traffic cones, random people walking into your shot. Move a few steps left or right if something’s ruining your picture. Use Portrait mode to blur out busy backgrounds at markets and on high streets.

Back Home

Cull immediately: Go through your shots while the shoot is still fresh in your mind. Delete the obviously bad ones – closed eyes, awkward expressions, blurry shots. It’s easier to edit 30 strong contenders than 200 mediocre ones.

Edit consistently: Whether you’re using Lightroom, VSCO, or just your phone’s native editor, keep your editing style consistent across your Christmas content. Your holiday photos should still feel like your brand, just festive.

Batch your content: You don’t need to post everything immediately. Schedule your Christmas content throughout December so you’re not scrambling on a busy schedule. A great idea is to shoot two or three times in early December and spread the content across the month.

Quick Reminders

The most important thing about shooting Christmas content is to actually do it. Don’t wait for perfect weather, the perfect outfit, or the perfect mood. Get out there, shoot what you can, and refine as you go.

Conclusion

Even if you’re not creating perfect family Christmas card photos, these ideas give you the same warmth with a solo-creator twist.

Creating gorgeous Christmas content as a solo creator doesn’t require a full production team or hours of your day. It just takes a little planning, the right locations, and confidence in your ability to capture that Christmas vibes aesthetic on your own terms.

Whether you’re shooting at Christmas markets during blue hour, styling cosy Christmas setups in your living room, or capturing movement at ice skating rinks, the goal is the same: create content that feels authentically you. It doesn’t have to be perfect – just show your personality and have fun with it.

The beauty of being a solo creator is that you control every element. Your aesthetic, your timing, your locations, your style. No coordinating schedules or compromising on your vision.

So grab your tripod, plan your route, layer up, and go capture that cosy Christmas feeling. Your best festive content is waiting – and it doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s. I did this last year and again this December, and it works every time.

If you’d like to learn how to take selfie-portrait holiday photos like mine, join me in my DIY photography class Slay Your Selfies. See you there!

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I’ve been a professional photographer since 2007, working with thousands of entrepreneurs and creators, and the thing I hear more than anything else is this: ‘I don’t know what to post on my Instagram account!’

This blog post fixes that. Below you’ll find creative, easy Instagram photo ideas you can use straight away, using just your phone. Many of the ideas also work for excellent DIY home photoshoots if you prefer staying indoors.

Self-Portrait and Selfie Ideas for Instagram Photos

These ideas help you create personal, expressive photos even if you’re shooting alone.

Self-portraits and selfies are one of the best ways to create Instagram photos that feel personal and authentic, especially if you’re a solopreneur – but they can still feel awkward the first time you try them. These simple photo ideas will help you show up confidently, create instagram posts that fit your personal style, and make your instagram feed feel more creative right from your next post.

1. Classic Selfie with a twist

Sometimes you just need a straightforward “hello, this is my face” photo for your Instagram account – but this simple tweak will make it look instantly more professional. 

Stop relying on your arm. 

When you hold your phone yourself, every shot ends up tight, repetitive, and missing the context that makes Instagram photos feel more intentional. Using a small tripod and timer mode lets you step back, add breathing room, and create Instagram posts that feel cleaner and more polished with almost no effort.

Perfect for: quick social media posts, Instagram captions about daily life, or any moment when you want a simple, upgraded version of your usual selfie.

2. Mirror Selfie That Looks Professional

Here’s where people go wrong with mirror selfies: they stand too close, the lighting is terrible, and there’s usually a pile of laundry in the background. Let’s fix that.

Stand back from the mirror. Seriously, take two steps back. This creates better proportions and shows more of your outfit or environment. Clean your mirror (I know, revolutionary concept but easily forgotten!). Use window light if possible, positioning yourself so the light hits your face rather than creating that weird bathroom shadow situation.

Tilt your phone slightly to avoid getting your hand and phone right in the middle of your face. And please, check what’s in the background. Your Instagram stories don’t need to feature yesterday’s knickers.

This is a great way to show your personal style whilst creating content that feels authentic. Add relevant hashtags related to your outfit or location, and you’ve got yourself a winner.

3. ‘Hold My Hand’ Perspective Shot

This is one of my favourite creative ideas for Instagram photos because it tells a story without showing your whole face. You extend your hand toward the camera as if reaching for someone, and that someone (or your trusty tripod) takes the shot from their perspective.

It works brilliantly for travel content, couple shots, or just adding variety to your Instagram feed. The composition naturally creates leading lines through your arm, and it gives your audience that feeling of being invited into your world. Very “come with me” energy, which performs well for Instagram engagement.

4. Window Light Portrait

Window light is genuinely magical, and it’s free. Position yourself about one or two metres from a window (not in direct harsh sunlight, but in that lovely soft light you get on an overcast day or when the sun isn’t directly hitting the window).

Turn your face slightly toward the light. This creates beautiful, flattering shadows and makes you look like you know what you’re doing with photography composition. Use your phone’s portrait mode if you want that blurred background effect.

This is perfect for professional looking content when you’re building your social media presence but don’t want to look like you’ve hired a photographer every time you post. It’s also a good fit for longer Instagram captions where you need a simple, non-distracting background.

5. Movement Shot for Natural Expression

Static poses can look stiff and awkward, especially if you’re shooting alone and feeling self-conscious. Here’s a better way: set your phone to burst mode, position it on a tripod or stable surface, and just move. The first time you try shooting alone it might feel awkward, but you’ll get more confident with each attempt.

Walk toward the camera. Turn around. Adjust your hair. Laugh at how ridiculous you feel. Play with your jacket. The movement creates natural, relaxed expressions that look so much better than “standing still trying not to blink.”

This technique is brilliant for capturing genuine moments that feel authentic rather than staged. Your target audience can spot fake energy a mile away, so movement helps you look more like yourself.

Easy Home Photoshoot Ideas

Transform your home into a content creation studio with these simple, effective setups.

Not every Instagram post needs to be shot in some exotic location. Some of my most popular content has been taken in my own home, usually whilst wearing joggers with my fancy top half and my “I haven’t left the house” bottom half. Welcome to modern content creation.

These home photoshoots are ideal when you want fresh content without leaving the house and are some of the easiest home photoshoot ideas for beginners.

6. Cosy Reading Corner

Find a spot in your home with decent light and some texture (a cosy chair, cushions, a throw blanket). Grab a book and your favourite mug. Sit there looking thoughtfully at the book or out a window.

This setup works beautifully for lifestyle content, personal branding, or when you want to create that “effortlessly aesthetic” vibe for your Instagram profile. The key is cohesive colour tones and negative space around you so it doesn’t look cluttered.

Add creative Instagram captions about what you’re reading, learning, or thinking about, and you’ve got content that invites deeper level engagement with your audience.

7. Desk or Workspace Flat Lay

This is a classic for a reason. It works for business owners, creatives, students, literally anyone. Set up your workspace with intentional items: your laptop, notebook, coffee, maybe some flowers or a candle.

Shoot directly overhead for that perfect flat lay angle. Arrange items using the rule of thirds (more on that later), leaving some breathing room. Make sure everything looks intentional, not like you’ve just swept everything into a pile.

This is perfect for behind the scenes content, showing your work process, or creating posts about productivity and daily routines. Your potential clients love seeing how you work.

8. Bed or Sofa Lifestyle Shot

Controversial opinion: bed and sofa shots are worth posting when done well. The key is making it look intentional rather than “I couldn’t be bothered to get up.”

Style your bedding or sofa with cohesive textures. Add a tray with breakfast or coffee. Natural light from a nearby window. Shoot from an angle that shows the whole scene rather than just you lying there.

This works for relaxed, lifestyle content that shows your daily life without trying too hard. It’s relatable content that performs well because everyone loves a cosy moment.

9. Minimalist Wall Portrait

Find a plain wall in your home (white, neutral, or even a bold colour). Stand against it. That’s it. That’s the post.

This creates a clean, professional look that’s perfect for posts with longer captions where the words are the main focus. It’s also brilliant for creating consistent branding across your Instagram feed because the background doesn’t compete with your message.

Pro tip: leave space above your head in the frame. Nobody wants to feel like you’re squashed into the photo.

10. Before and After Transformation Shot

People absolutely love seeing transformations. This could be your workspace before and after tidying, a photo editing before and after, a styling transformation, or even your face before and after your morning coffee (relatable content right there).

Split screen these images or post them as a carousel. Add a caption explaining the process or what changed. This type of content naturally encourages engagement because people want to comment on the transformation.

Lifestyle, Outdoor and Travel Instagram Photo Ideas

Get out of the house and find fresh inspiration in your everyday surroundings.

When you’re ready to venture beyond your four walls (I know, scary), these ideas work brilliantly for adding variety to your social media channels.

11. Staircase Portrait with Leading Lines

Staircases are genuinely brilliant for Instagram photos. The lines create natural visual interest and lead the eye straight to you. Sit on the steps, stand at the bottom looking up, or position yourself at the top looking down.

The geometry of stairs just works. It’s photography composition gold. Plus, interesting staircases are everywhere: office buildings, libraries, outdoor spaces, car parks (yes, really).

This is one of those perfect shots that looks thought out and professional without requiring any special photography skills. Just find stairs, position yourself thoughtfully, and shoot.

12. Coffee Shop Moments

Coffee shops are content goldmines. The aesthetic captions practically write themselves. You’ve got the latte art, the cosy atmosphere, the laptop setup for “working remotely” vibes, the journalling scene.

Shoot your coffee from above. Capture yourself working with your drink in the foreground (slightly out of focus for that professional depth). Take a wide shot of the whole scene. Coffee shop content performs well because it’s relatable, aspirational, and gives you excellent props to work with.

Just maybe buy an actual coffee rather than sitting there for an hour taking photos without ordering anything. The staff will appreciate it. And if you grab ice cream instead? Even better for summer content.

13. Doorway or Archway Travel Portrait

Architectural features like doorways, arches, and frames within frames create stunning Instagram photos. Stand in the doorway looking out, lean against the frame, or shoot through the arch with you in the background.

This technique works anywhere: travel locations, historic buildings, even your own front door. The frame naturally draws focus to you whilst adding visual interest and context to the shot.

These photos have that “effortlessly wandering through beautiful places” energy that performs brilliantly on Instagram, even if you took 47 attempts to get the shot.

14. Seasonal Photos (Blossom, Autumn Leaves, Festive Lights)

Seasonal content is a great way to stay relevant and tap into what your audience is already thinking about. Spring blossom photos, autumn leaf shots, festive light portraits, summer beach scenes… And if you want something a bit more dramatic, a flower bath moment always looks incredible in summer content and will definitely get a lot of engagement (especially if you post it on LinkedIn haha). 

The perfect time to shoot these is early during the actual season so you still have time to post while it’s still relevant (no Christmas trees in January please!). People love seasonal content because it feels current and relatable.

Seasonal ideas work beautifully for family photos too, especially if you prefer relaxed, natural moments rather than posed group shots. So bundle up your reluctant boyfriend in some cosy knits and get him involved!

Use seasonal relevant hashtags to reach beyond your current number of followers. And yes, this means planning ahead. Sorry.

15. Street Style Outfit Shot

You don’t need to be a fashion blogger to post outfit content. If you’re wearing something you feel good in, photograph it. Stand against an interesting wall, walk down a street (movement, remember?), or style it with your environment.

This type of content shows your personal style, which helps your audience feel more connected to you. It’s also practical content for business owners whose brand includes their personal presentation.

Creative Angles, Flat Lays and Composition Techniques

Master these simple photography principles to instantly elevate your Instagram photos.

Right, let’s talk about making your photos look more professional without needing an actual photography degree. These techniques are simple but effective.

16. Rule of Thirds for Instant Balance

Imagine your photo divided into a grid with two horizontal lines and two vertical lines (most phones can show you this grid in camera settings). Position yourself or your subject where those lines intersect.

This creates natural balance and makes photos more interesting than just centering everything. It’s literally photography basics, but it works every time.

Use this for portraits, landscapes, product shots, basically everything. It’s one of those best ways to instantly improve your photography without any technical knowledge.

17. Leading Lines for Eye-Catching Photos

Leading lines are any lines in your environment (roads, fences, walls, rivers, building edges) that guide the viewer’s eye toward you or your subject.

Position yourself at the end of these lines or along them. The lines create depth and movement in the image, making it more dynamic than a flat, static shot.

This technique works brilliantly for travel photos, urban environments, and landscape shots. Once you start noticing leading lines, you’ll see them everywhere.

18. Overhead Flat Lay

Flat lays are everywhere on Instagram for good reason: they work. They’re perfect for products, workspaces, styled scenes, food, basically anything you can arrange on a flat surface.

Shoot directly overhead. Arrange items with intention, leaving negative space (empty areas) to let the composition breathe. Stick to cohesive colour tones rather than having everything clash.

You can also include wider scenes images to show more atmosphere around you, which helps your audience understand the setting without every shot being a close-up.

This style is brilliant for creating scroll-stopping content that showcases multiple items in one shot. Great for product launches, workspace setups, or lifestyle content.

19. Reflections (Windows, Phones, Mirrors)

Reflections add a creative layer to your Instagram photos. Shoot through a window with your reflection visible, capture your phone screen reflecting something interesting, or use puddles and water for artistic reflection shots.

This technique feels more artistic and considered, which helps your content stand out in a crowded Instagram feed. Plus, it’s a new way to show yourself without doing another standard selfie.

Experiment with different surfaces and lighting conditions. Some of my favourite creative ideas have come from just playing around with reflections.

20. Close-Up Detail Shots

Sometimes the perfect shot is zooming right in. Hands holding something, jewelry details, texture close-ups, creative crops that show just part of the scene.

Detail shots add variety to your social media strategy and can be more forgiving if you’re camera-shy. They also work brilliantly for product-based businesses or when you want to create intrigue.

These shots perform well when paired with storytelling Instagram captions that give context to what we’re seeing. They make people look twice, which is exactly what you want.

Mixing a few of these approaches together is one of the best ways to keep your social media presence feeling fresh and intentional.

Instagram Content Ideas for Business Owners & Creators

Strategic photo ideas that build your brand whilst showcasing your expertise and personality.

If you’re using Instagram to grow your business or personal brand (and let’s be honest, most of us are), these are great ideas for building trust and showing the reality behind your brand.

For more on building a cohesive brand through photography, explore my brand photography resources.

21. Behind the Scenes of Your Work

People are genuinely nosy about how things work. Show them. Pack orders, set up your camera, edit photos, plan content, prepare for meetings, organize your workspace.

Behind the scenes content humanizes your business and builds connection. It shows the effort behind your work, which helps your audience appreciate what you do. Plus, it’s original content that nobody else can replicate because it’s specifically yours.

Behind the scenes content works especially well when paired with concise captions that highlight what’s happening without overwhelming your audience.

Use Instagram stories for quick behind the scenes moments and your main feed for more polished versions. Both work, just in different ways.

22. Work in Progress or Creative Process

Similar to behind the scenes, but focused specifically on the creation process. Show sketches, drafts, iterations, the messy middle of a project.

This type of content builds anticipation for the finished work and demonstrates your expertise. It’s also incredibly relatable because everyone’s work has that “it looks terrible right now but trust me, it’ll be good eventually” phase.

Add Instagram captions explaining your process or what you’re learning. This positions you as an expert whilst keeping your content authentic and human.

23. Tools of the Trade Flat Lay

Create a flat lay of the tools you use in your work: camera, laptop, favourite pens, sketchbook, equipment, whatever is relevant to what you do.

This content works because it’s both aesthetic and informative. People love seeing what professionals use. It’s also a natural way to work in affiliate links or product recommendations if that’s part of your social media strategy.

Bonus points if you can make it look beautiful whilst still being practical and honest about what you actually use.

24. Client Wins or Testimonial Visuals

Social proof is powerful. Share screenshots of lovely messages from clients, testimonials designed beautifully, photos of work you’ve done for clients (with permission, obviously).

This builds credibility and trust whilst creating content that celebrates your work. Style these thoughtfully so they don’t look like bragging but rather like genuine celebration and gratitude.

These posts naturally encourage engagement from your existing community who want to support your wins, and they reassure potential clients that you’re good at what you do.

25. Day in the Life Moments

Show snippets of your actual daily life as a business owner or creator. The morning routine, the afternoon slump, the “finally finished that thing I’ve been avoiding” celebration.

This content builds connection because it’s relatable and honest. It reminds your audience that you’re a real person, not just a perfect Instagram presence.

These moments also work brilliantly when introducing team members, giving your audience a feel for who’s behind the brand.

Use carousel posts to show the progression of your day, or create a story highlight dedicated to day in the life content. People genuinely enjoy this type of peek into someone else’s reality. Perfect for sharing with team members too, showing the human side of your business.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I take good Instagram photos alone?

Taking great photos alone is easier than it looks, as long as you set up your phone properly and use movement to your advantage. Here’s exactly how to do it:

Invest in a basic tripod. I’m talking twenty quid on Amazon, not some fancy professional setup. Just something that holds your phone steady. This is non-negotiable if you’re serious about creating consistent content for your Instagram account.

Use burst mode religiously. Rather than setting a timer and hoping for the best, set your phone to take multiple shots in quick succession. This way you’re capturing natural movement and expression rather than standing frozen waiting for the beep.

Experiment with angles and positions. Take the first time you try this as a learning experience. Move your tripod around. Try different heights. See what works with your space and lighting. Nobody gets it perfect immediately, and that’s fine.

The timer is your friend. Most phones have a 3 or 10 second timer option. Use it. Set up the shot, press the button, get into position, and trust the process. You’ll feel ridiculous doing this, but the results are worth it.

Shoot in good light. I cannot stress this enough. Window light during daytime transforms mediocre photos into decent ones. Golden hour (that hour before sunset) is even better if you’re shooting outdoors. Lighting is genuinely 80% of what makes a good photo.

The more you practice taking photos alone, the quicker the setup becomes and the more natural you’ll feel. It’s a skill, and like any skill, it improves with repetition.

If you want to go deeper on distance, angles, and what actually makes self-portraits look professional, see my guide on how to take good pictures of yourself.

What are some good ideas for Instagram photos?

If you need the quick version of this entire post, here’s what works consistently:

For personal branding: selfies with personality, workspace shots, outfit posts, coffee shop moments, reading corner aesthetics, day in the life snippets.

For business content: behind the scenes images, work in progress shots, tools of the trade, client wins, before and after transformations, flat lays of products or services.

For lifestyle content: golden hour portraits, seasonal shots, quirky doorways and walls you spot on your travels, cosy home scenes, movement photos, street style.

For creative variety: rule of thirds compositions, leading lines, reflections, close-up details, overhead angles, minimalist backgrounds.

The best Instagram post ideas are the ones you’ll actually execute consistently rather than overthinking until you post nothing. Start with what feels easiest and build from there.

How many photos should I post?

Quality beats quantity every single time. Here’s what actually matters:

Consistency matters more than frequency. Posting three thoughtful, well-composed photos per week will serve you better than posting mediocre content daily just to “stay consistent.” Your audience would rather see less content that’s actually worth their time.

Consider your capacity realistically. If you’re a solo business owner managing everything yourself (hi, me too), don’t commit to daily posts if that’s going to stress you out and make you resent the whole process. Sustainable social media presence beats burnout every time.

Mix your content types. Rather than just thinking about how many photos, think about variety. Selfies, lifestyle shots, behind the scenes content, educational carousel posts, stories, reels. The algorithm loves when you use different content formats.

Track what works for your specific audience. Check your insights regularly. Which posts get the most engagement? What times work best? What types of photos do your target audience actually respond to? Use that data to inform your strategy.

My honest recommendation: aim for 3 to 5 quality posts per week on your main feed, supported by regular Instagram stories to stay visible between posts. But adapt this to what works for your life and your audience. There’s no point having a beautiful design for your Instagram profile if you’re too stressed to enjoy running your actual business.

What are good ideas for Instagram Stories?

Instagram stories work best when they’re spontaneous, interactive, and authentic rather than overly polished.

Behind the scenes content works beautifully in stories. Show the messy reality, the works in progress, the unfiltered moments. This builds authenticity and makes your audience feel like they’re getting the real you.

Use interactive features like polls, question stickers, quizzes, and sliders. These tools boost engagement naturally because people enjoy participating. Ask opinions, gather feedback, create conversation. The question sticker is particularly good for getting to know your audience better.

Share your daily life without overthinking it. The coffee you’re drinking, the book you’re reading, the view from your desk. These small moments keep you visible and relatable between main posts.

Repurpose your feed content by sharing posts to stories with additional context or commentary. This drives people back to your profile page and increases engagement on the original post.

Create tutorials or tips using the multi-slide format. Share quick, valuable content that positions you as helpful and knowledgeable. This type of content often gets saved and shared.

Promote time-sensitive things like flash sales, limited spots, new launches, or special offers. Stories are perfect for creating that sense of urgency without cluttering your main feed. Perfect for happy birthday shoutouts or quick announcements too.

Stories are also a great place to pair your images with aesthetic or funny captions if that suits your personal style.

The beauty of stories is that they’re low stakes. Not every story needs to be revolutionary content. Sometimes it’s just about showing up and staying present in your audience’s day.

Creating great content for social media platforms doesn’t need to be this massive, overwhelming task that leaves you doom-scrolling other people’s perfect feeds. It’s simply about showing up with intention, experimenting a little, and giving yourself permission not to be perfect while you figure out what works for you and your Instagram account. These ideas for Instagram photos are a great way to get into a creative rhythm again without putting pressure on yourself.

The ideas in this blog post are great ideas I’ve used myself or taught to thousands of creators and business owners through my work as a professional photographer. They work because they’re practical, achievable, and based on real photography principles rather than whatever trend is blowing up this week.

So here’s your challenge: choose one idea from this post. Just one. Try it this week. Don’t wait for perfect light, the perfect outfit, or the perfect moment. The perfect time is when you actually hit the button. Whether you’re shooting behind-the-scenes content, relaxed family photos or a simple lifestyle moment, each one is worth posting because it reflects your daily life and personal style.

Create content that feels like you. Your audience wants originality, not a copy of someone else’s aesthetic. And using these ideas consistently gives you a new way of getting in front of your ideal clients each time you share your next post, helping you make a lasting impression and strengthen your social media strategy at the same time.

If you want to feel genuinely confident taking photos of yourself — and take your content to the next level — my Slay Your Selfies course will walk you through everything step-by-step. It’s helped over 10,000 creators take professional-looking selfies at home using just their phone, and it’s one of the simplest next level upgrades you can make without needing a complete overhaul.

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Every one of these ideas for Instagram photos is designed to help you show up with confidence and clarity, whether you’re sharing scenes content from your day, announcing a flash sale, or capturing the perfect shot on holiday.

Now stop procrastinating by reading about taking photos — and go take some. Your Instagram feed (and your business) will thank you.

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