Maybe it’s due to my unconventional way of learning. Most probably due to my Indirect Resource element. Anyway, let’s go back to fengshui. As some of you may notice, I have been following Master Lee’s blog www.penangfengshui.blogspot.com for quite some time.

Recently, he launched e-fengshui class that enable anyone at anywhere and at anytime to learn fengshui in more details. His first e-fengshui class preview titled, “How did Master Lee manage to predict the earthquake in Chile before it happened?” is shown as per below youtube video.

The e-fengshui class starts with basic understanding of the fengshui and move on to describe the space location; internal and external as well as the flow of Qi. Examples given are based on some of the residential and commercial area in Malaysia, which makes this e-fengshui class more practical and easy to understand.

To me, this e-fengshui class is as easy as ABC and you will not have difficulties to understand Master Lee’s explanation on fengshui.

Arm with this knowledge, one can try to DIY your house or office fengshui though the best way is to engage fengshui master like Master Lee  to give you an in depth understanding and explanation of your property fengshui.

So if you are curious on what is green dragon, white tiger, red phoenix, black turtle,  flying stars, where is the best location to sit in office, how to enhance your living room, kitchen, bedroom and numerous fengshui practical steps by steps – then don’t wait…

Just sign up as a member for free of charge and pay only USD 4.99 for 36mins e-fengshui class. So much of information and yet worthwhile…

Hence, try it out and share with me your view on Master Lee’s e-fengshui class at http://www.penangfengshui.com/index.php?pages=video_listing

Christmas Fight!

In this “How to know a person through face reading?” you will find answers on some of the common questions on face reading such as

1) on whether plastic surgery helps?

2) mole on the face. ( I had just removed a mole on my face on the advised of Master Lee. In fact, he told me to remove it months ago. )

3) how to get a rich man?

4) how to know whether a woman will emphasize sex as her priority?

and many more answers..……

The only reason I study face reading is to understand myself ( of course) and others. Face reading is very useful especially during business dealing and networking. I have been learning face reading for years but because I’m such a lazy person, I usually ended up learning a bit here and there..

To those who are skeptical on face reading, grab the above book at book stores or go to www.penangfengshui.com , learn it and apply it. Then tell me what you think. Believed me, you will be amazed by the power of face reading..

If you are more into feng shui kind of thing, try Bazi by Master Lee.

The author is unknown to me but the way he wrote has certainly reminds me to strike a balance between working and personal life.

Hope you enjoy this piece of story….

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A story worth sharing

4 years ago, an accident took my beloved away and very often I wonder, how does my wife, who is now in the heavenly realm, feel right now? She must be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to taking care of the house and the kid. ‘cos that is the exact feeling that I have, as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional needs of my child, and failed to be the dad and mum for my child.
There was one particular day, when I had an emergency at work. Hence, I had to leave home whilst my child was still sleeping. So thinking that there was still rice leftovers, I hastily cooked an egg and left after informing my sleepy child.

With the double roles, I am often exhausted at work as well as when I am home. So after a long day, I came home, totally drained of all energy. So with just a brief hug and kiss for my child, I went straight into the room, skipping dinner. However, when I jumped into my bed with intention of just having a well-deserved sleep, all I heard and felt was broken porcelain and warm liquid! I flipped open my blanket, and there lies the source of the ‘problem’… a broken bowl with instant noodles and a mess on the bed sheet and blanket!
Boy, was I mad! I was so furious that I took a clothes hanger, charged straight at my child who was happily playing with his toy, and give him a good spanking! He merely cried but not asking for mercy, except a short explanation:

“Dad, I was hungry and there wasn’t anymore leftover rice. But you were not back yet, hence I wanted to cook some instant noodles. But I remembered you reminding me not to touch or use the gas stove without any adults around, hence I turned on the shower and used the hot water from the bathroom to cook the noodles. One is for you and the other is for me. However, I was afraid that the noodles will turn cold, so I hid it under the blanket to keep it warm till you return. But I forgot to remind you ‘cos I was playing with my toys…I am sorry Dad…”

At that moment, tears were starting to run down my cheeks…but I didn’t want my son to see his dad crying so I dashed into the bathroom and cried with the shower head on to mask my cries. After that episode, I went towards my son to give him a tight hug and applied medication on him, while coaxing him to sleep. Then, it was time to clear up the mess on the bed. When everything was done and well past midnight, I passed my son’s room, and saw that he was still crying, not from the pain on his little buttock, but from looking at the photograph of his beloved mummy.

A year has passed since the episode, I have tried, in this period, to focus on giving him both the love of his dad and mum, and to attend to most of his needs. And soon, he is turning seven, and will be graduating from kindergarten. Fortunately, the incident did not leave a lasting impression on his childhood memories and he is still happily growing up.

However, not so long ago, I hit my boy again, with much regret. This time, his kindergarten teacher called, informing me of my son’s absence from school. I took off early from work and went home, expecting him to explain. But he wasn’t to be found, so I went around our house, calling out his name and eventually found him outside a stationery shop, happily playing computer games. I was fuming, brought him home and whack the hell out of him. He did not retaliate, except to say, ‘I am sorry, Dad’. But after much probing, I realized that it was a ‘Talent Show’ organized by his school and the invite is for every student’s mummy. And that was the reason for his absence as he has no mummy…..

Few days after the caning, my son came home to tell me, the kindergarten has recently taught him how to read and write. Since then, he has kept to himself and stayed in his room to practice his writing, which I am sure, would make my wife proud, if she was still around. ‘cos he makes me proud too!

Time passes by very quickly, and soon another year has passed. It’s winter, and its Christmas time. Everywhere the Christmas spirit is in every passer-by…Christmas carols and frantic shoppers….but alas, my son got into another trouble. When I was about to knock off from the day’s work, the post office called. Due to the peak season, the post master was also on an edgy mood. He called to tell me that my son has attempted to post several letters with no addressee. Although I did make a promise never to hit my son again, I couldn’t help but to hit him as I feel that this child of mine is really beyond control. Once again, as before, he apologized, ‘ I’m sorry, Dad’ and no additional reason to explain. I pushed him towards a corner, went to the post office to collect the letters with no addressee and came home, and angrily questioned my son on his prank, during this time of the year.
His answer, amidst his sobbing, was : The letters were for Mummy.

My eyes grew teary, but I tried to control my emotions and continued to ask him: ” But why did u post so many letters, at one time?” My son’s reply was: ” I have been writing to mummy for a long time, but each time I reach out for the post box, it was too high for me, hence I was not able to post the letters. But recently, when I went back to the postbox, I could reach it and I sent it all at once…”

After hearing this, I was lost. Lost at not knowing what to do, what to say……
I told my son, ” Son, mummy is in the heavenly kingdom, so in future, if you have anything to tell her, just burn the letter and it will reach mummy. My son, on hearing this, was much pacified and calm, and soon after, he was sleeping soundly. On promising that I will burn the letters on his behalf, I brought the letters outside, but couldn’t help opening the letter before they turn to ash.

And one of the letters broke my heart….

Dear Mummy,
I miss you so much! Today, there was a ‘Talent Show’ in school, and the school invited all mothers for the show. But you are not around, so I did not want to participate as well. I did not tell Dad about it as I was afraid that Dad would start to cry and miss you all over again. Dad went around looking for me, but in order to hide my sadness, I sat in front of the computer and started playing games at one of the shops. Dad was furious, and he couldn’t help it but scolded and hit me, but I did not tell him the real reason. Mummy, everyday I see Dad missing you and whenever he think of you, he is so sad and often hide and cry in his room. I think we both miss you very very much. Too much for our own good I think. But Mummy, I am starting to forget your face. Can you please appear in my dreams so that I can see your face and remember you? I heard that if you fall asleep with the photograph of the person whom you miss, you will see the person in your dreams. But mummy, why haven’t you appear?

After reading the letter, I cant stop sobbing. ‘cos I can never replace the irreplaceable gap left behind by my wife….

For the females with children:
Don’t do so much overtime. If you cannot finish the work, it must be some kind of problems within the company, and it is not your sole problem. Feedback to your boss. Endless overtime may not necessary be the answer to the problem. Take care of your health so that you can treasure and take care of your little precious.

For the married men:
Drink less, smoke less, cos nothing can replace your good health, not even business nor clients.
Try thinking this way, are you able to work till your clients are totally dependent on you? or your boss is totally dependent on you? In this society, no one is indispensable.
Take care of your health, so that you can take care of your little precious and your loved ones.

For those singles out there:
Beauty lies in loving yourself first.
With confidence and loving yourself, you will see the beauty in other things around you. You will be able to work better and happier. Don’t let your health be affected by your work or your boss, so nothing matters more than your well being.

However, sometimes I prefer to go out to explore the world especially my lovely Penang state. Many months ago, I joined my friends to an island off the coast of Bukit Tambun, Seberang Prai, Penang.

It’s the Pulau Aman. Literally translated to Peaceful Island.

Pulau Aman is a small Malay fishing Village. To reach Pulau Aman, we drove all the way from Penang island to Batu Kawan in mainland. We past by the Batu Kawan Stadium and followed the signboard to jetty. If you are lost, ask the people around for direction. Anyway, it’s easy to reach the jetty. Do not worry, you will not get lost.

We were at the jetty at 10.30am and bought a two ways boat trip that cost RM 6 per person.

Pulau Aman is not far away from the jetty and it’s very visible from far.

It was a very hot day. To those who plan to visit the island, get prepared umbrella or cap to protect yourself if you want to walk around the island.

From the Pulau Aman jetty, we walked to the much talked about Restaurant Terapung Pulau Aman.

It’s at this restaurant, the mouth watering seafood are served.

As usual, we called for the mee udang, either goreng or rebus style. The taste is not bad but I can’t say it’s very good. It’s the prawns freshness and big in size that caught my attention.

At the same time, we ordered the freshly caught prawn mantis and crabs from the fisherman. The seafood really looks superb fresh and juicy…

Just take a look at this little creature… wakkaaa…

And the gang…

After taken our lunch, we went for sightseeing albeit under the hot sun but windy day. Coconut trees greeted us along the coast and there’s a few nice chalets at one part of the island.

I believed the chalet is a nice place to group a bunch of friends for BBQ at night.

After some sightseeing, I decided to search for ‘siput’. It reminds me of my childhood time in Malay village. And once awhile I went to Teluk Bahang Malay Village for the siput as well. Fun and lively life.

We ended our tour with mak cik’s ice kacang that came with lot of peanuts. Love it.

Pulau Aman is indeed a real peaceful area. No car, no noise pollution. Windy and the natural surrounding is still virgin( I hope I am right). The seafood is definitely very fresh and a must try!

So check it out for yourself at Pulau Aman!