Articles From Scot McKay

Attracting Women - Can You Charm Her Too Much?

Mon, 26 Jan 2009 11:30:59 -0600

What if you became so charming to women that you actually had to tone things down some? Sound crazy? Here's how life looks when you've got what I call a "high quality problem"...

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The Leapfrog Effect - Get a Terrific Woman in Your Life, Find Greater Success Everywhere

Fri, 23 Jan 2009 11:38:47 -0600

Think that getting a great woman in your life would be the ultimate goal? What if I told you that was just the tip of the iceberg?

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How to Make Twitter Your Free Online Dating Site, And Why You Should

Tue, 20 Jan 2009 13:59:05 -0600

Here is some amazing insight that came about THIS MORNING during a coaching call with one of the guys who has put me to work for him. If you are into online dating at all (which you should be),...

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Do You Believe You Can Succeed With Women, Or Are You Lying to Yourself?

Wed, 31 Dec 2008 09:38:53 -0600

Lately I've been starting to earn the reputation for being the dating coach who takes guys from "good with women" to "great with women". Sure, David D. introduced me as that guy when I was on his...

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Have You Ever Dated "Double-Standard" Chick?

Mon, 29 Dec 2008 16:55:31 -0600

OK, if a woman wants to impose unreasonable standards of conduct on you as the man she's dating, you would think she would at least reciprocate in kind...wouldn't you? Then again, how is even she...

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Understand How Women Think and Increase Your Dating Success

Fri, 21 Nov 2008 15:56:55 -0600

I firmly believe that some dating advice that carries the disclaimer "for entertainment purposes only" REALLY IS "for entertainment purposes only". What's more, some guys are perfectly okay with...

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Is the Woman You're Dating Seeing Other Men Also?

Wed, 19 Nov 2008 15:06:04 -0600

It's no secret that I strongly advocate dating several women at once. Life is way too short to be a "serial dater". You've got to learn quickly what it is you really want in a great woman, and how to...

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Secrets to Flirting For Men

Tue, 04 Nov 2008 14:49:14 -0600

What do you think of when you hear the word "flirting"? Be honest. For years (make that decades) I used to equate the concept of flirting with making the kind of remarks and gestures toward women...

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Approaching Women - Is Her Liking You Back "Too Good to Be True"?

Mon, 20 Oct 2008 13:44:24 -0500

What is it that is keeping you from approaching beautiful women? Could it be that you automatically assume that she couldn't possibly like you back?

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Do Only Good Looking Guys Get Women?

Mon, 20 Oct 2008 13:41:48 -0500

Do looks really matter when it comes to attracting women? The truth may surprise you - and the reasons behind the truth may surprise you even more.

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How to Plan Perfect First Dates

Mon, 20 Oct 2008 13:30:39 -0500

Every guy wants to impress a woman on a first date. Here's how to do exactly that...without looking like you're trying too hard.

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Attracting Women - Two Neuter Beings Cannot Become Sexually Attracted

Mon, 20 Oct 2008 13:29:06 -0500

Let's face it, masculinity attracts femininity. That's the way it always has been, and things aren't changing any time soon. So how is it we as guys think that acting like a neuter creature is...

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Get Over Approach Anxiety, But Don't Leave Her With Departure Anxiety

Mon, 20 Oct 2008 13:26:37 -0500

Perhaps you've had to conquer approach anxiety when it comes to meeting women. But are you really getting the job done when you DO actually meet a woman? If you "fail to deploy", you could be...

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Limiting Beliefs in Reverse - See Dating and Attraction From a Woman's Perspective and Succeed

Mon, 20 Oct 2008 13:22:59 -0500

While it's true not every woman who is your vision of female perfection will like you, it's equally true that SOME WILL. A lot. Perhaps even as much as YOU LIKE THEM. Can you believe that?

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The Top Ten Places on Earth to Take a Woman

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 11:58:30 -0500

Planning a trip with the woman in your life? Want some ideas for the best places to take her? Read on for the ten best in the world...

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Women Approaching Men - 5 Secrets For Getting Women to Notice You and Make the First Move

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 11:58:10 -0500

Want to get women to approach YOU first? Here are some sure-fire ways to make that happen.

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Approaching Women - Improve Your Phone and Text Game in One Easy Step

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 09:52:30 -0500

Once upon a time, there was a guy. Let's call him Dan. He worked for a major courier company, delivering parcels on the same route just about every day.

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Are You Still Getting Rejected by Average Women? This Could Be the Problem

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 09:52:15 -0500

Are you getting rejected by women over and over again, even though you think you have a lot to offer a great woman? The reasons why this is happening may surprise you...

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Put Your Limiting Beliefs Aside - How to Become Her Superman

Wed, 24 Sep 2008 10:13:37 -0500

The Beijing Olympics remind me that it was exactly four years ago when everything changed in my dating life. I remember the exact day.

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What Do Women Think About Approach Anxiety?

Wed, 13 Aug 2008 08:21:54 -0500

Have you ever wondered how women themselves view "approach anxiety"? If not, you're probably not alone. Most of us have been too shy to ask...literally.

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My Funniest Online Dating Horror Stories

Mon, 11 Aug 2008 10:03:23 -0500

Online dating can be a great way to meet MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex). Then again, not every date is going to go so well. At least you end up with some funny stories to tell. Here are my...

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How to Succeed With Women - BE Murphy's Law

Thu, 07 Aug 2008 15:37:04 -0500

Most of us think of "Murphy's Law" as something that happens to us. It's especially easy to apply "Murphy's Law" to our lives with women, isn't it? Well, instead of running from the "law", it's...

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Are All the Women Teasing Us, Or What?

Wed, 30 Jul 2008 11:02:44 -0500

A common thread in many guys' minds is, "If women aren't really interested in sex, then why do they dress they way they do?" Today we're going to decode that whole concept once and for all...and the...

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7 Ways to Tell If You Are Settling For the Wrong Person

Wed, 30 Jul 2008 08:57:16 -0500

When you meet someone new, you tend to be stoked about it. But if you are thinking long-term, are you really kidding yourself? How EXACTLY can you tell when you've truly raised the bar to the point...

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Barely Legal - Older Guys Dating Teenagers?

Fri, 11 Jul 2008 15:51:36 -0500

How young is too young when it comes to older guys dating younger women? Here are a few solid ideas that make sense in the real world.

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Can You Get Just ONE Person to Be Attracted to You?

Tue, 08 Jul 2008 13:49:49 -0500

Have you ever had even ONE person take a romantic interest in you...ever? If not, you probably need direct coaching in order to change that ASAP. But if you have-at any point in history, even just...

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Dating Tips For Guys - The Difference Between "Nice" and "Mr Nice Guy"

Tue, 01 Jul 2008 16:22:20 -0500

We as guys all know that being "too nice" is not the best way to attract women. But have we taken it all too far? Has the message been misunderstood?

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Who "Chooses" and Who "Chases" Men Or Women?

Thu, 26 Jun 2008 15:53:06 -0500

Who really has all the options in the dating world, men or women? The answers may surprise you.

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How to Succeed With the Most Attractive Women on Earth

Tue, 17 Jun 2008 09:21:13 -0500

Most of us start off with a real need for increasing our skill with women. Then we start seeing some success. But THEN...something happens that stops us dead in our tracks. How will YOU handle it?

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Do Women With Low Self-Esteem Actually Seek Out the Worst Guys Possible?

Fri, 06 Jun 2008 11:49:36 -0500

Could it actually be true that women who suffer from low self-esteem actually punish themselves by being with low-quality men? Find the answers herein...and also discover why you don't want to be...

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What Do Dating And Sales Have In Common?

Fri, 23 May 2008 10:30:51 -0500

In order to become the man with options in his dating life, you've got to think like a millionaire salesperson. Here's why.

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Frustrated With Your Dating Life? Here's Why

Tue, 13 May 2008 10:47:05 -0500

There are only two types of single people. Those who are frustrated by their dating lives, and those who aren't. Discover the secrets to ending frustration right here...

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The Dating Disappearing Act - Did She Think She Wasn't Good Enough For You?

Tue, 13 May 2008 10:46:46 -0500

Every guy experiences the frustration of a woman simply dropping off the face of the Earth. Everything seemed to be going great, then you suddenly stop hearing from her. Here's a striking...

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Dating Relationships - Should We Become Exclusive, Or Not?

Tue, 13 May 2008 10:45:52 -0500

Some fear exclusive relationships and avoid them like the plague. Others tend to jump into LTRs (long-term relationships) with the first person who shows interest. Stop the madness...whoever you...

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Six Ways To Tell If She's Psycho

Fri, 09 May 2008 09:39:46 -0500

Are you rationalizing a woman's irrational behavior? Once and for all, here are a half dozen ways to tell if her behavior is decidedly erratic or even downright crazy.

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Dating Secrets - Why Women Love A Man With Courage

Fri, 25 Apr 2008 08:38:50 -0500

Women crave a man who is courageous. But is a woman's definition of what that means the same as a man's? Read on and find out...

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The "Big Four" Factors That Attract Women To A Certain Man

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 09:49:05 -0500

Want to know what it is that makes a particular guy so attractive to women? It's not his car, his looks, his bank account or ESPECIALLY how "nice" he is. Get the "Big Four" factors right instead,...

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Attracting Women - Six Ways To Be Masculine

Mon, 24 Mar 2008 13:35:46 -0500

You know you've got to be masculine in order to attract the most feminine women. But what does that mean, exactly? Here are six ways to emanate masculinity--all in the manner that women are most...

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The Real Cure For Neediness, Clinginess And Manipulation

Thu, 13 Mar 2008 14:38:00 -0500

If you are serious about truly deserving what you want instead of settling for mediocrity, this article could be the most foundationally important you've ever read. Learn the true secret to...

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Are You Getting Better With Women Despite Yourself?

Wed, 20 Feb 2008 11:33:09 -0600

As guys improve their skills with women, it's easy to think that every little bit learned is helping. But is it?

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Pickup And Seduction - What's The Difference?

Tue, 27 Nov 2007 10:35:33 -0600

What is the difference between "pickup" and "seduction"? And more importantly, is that really all there is to getting better with women?

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How To Stop Being Manipulated By People

Fri, 16 Nov 2007 14:41:26 -0600

You learned the "Golden Rule" when you were a kid (we hope). Most people NEVER DISCOVER its logical counterpart. You are about to do exactly that...

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Pickup And Seduction - Hide The Axes And Chainsaws

Thu, 08 Nov 2007 13:29:22 -0600

It's easy for a guy to become entirely fascinated by the concept of becoming a pickup artist. The initial curiosity is, of course, whether or not a guy actually can "pull" women with the ease and...

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Attraction - Which "Experience" Are You

Wed, 31 Oct 2007 16:54:24 -0500

You probably know what your "type" is. That's all good. But what "type" are you? The answer to this question and how you deal with it is all-important when it comes to creating attraction. Dating...

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That "Talk To Children" Voice Some Guys Use To Ruin Their Chances With Women

Fri, 26 Oct 2007 16:03:20 -0500

Here's at least one case where everything you've ever learned about body language and rapport just might be WRONG... I was visiting earlier today with yet another new friend of mine who will soon be...

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Is The Opposite Gender "The Enemy"?

Wed, 24 Oct 2007 15:25:24 -0500

So are we making love or war? You decide. With six billion other people sharing the planet with the relatively insignificant number of us who are reading this article, you would think that most of...

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Blind Dates - Don't Be Left In The Dark

Wed, 10 Oct 2007 11:40:00 -0500

When was the last time you went on a blind date? If you are into online dating at all, you are likely going on blind dates all the time, really. Find out how our brains play tricks on us on blind...

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Getting Beat By A Girl

Sun, 11 Mar 2007 16:54:14 -0500

Why is it that the vast majority of men are afraid to approach women they are attracted to? Maybe the truth is that guys aren't afraid of the women themselves, but rather of a much more primal,...

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But I'm 'Average,' How Can I Possibly Deserve The Partner Of My Dreams?

Mon, 05 Feb 2007 17:13:48 -0600

How does the "average" person ever stand a chance of attracting and keeping the most amazing person he or she has ever met? Generally speaking I am blessed to receive emails on a daily basis from...

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The Most Critical Thirty Minutes In Dating

Sat, 27 Jan 2007 10:55:51 -0600

Old movies have a lot to teach us about how to spark attraction. One of the best lessons is about the most important half-hour there is in the dating world.

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Why Most Self-Help Schemes Will FAIL

Fri, 05 Jan 2007 06:02:23 -0600

This year millions of us will make New Years resolutions and embark upon some kind of self-help plan. Most of us will FAIL. If your quest is to become better with the opposite sex, here's the #1...

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The Language Of Pet Names

Tue, 19 Sep 2006 11:28:29 -0500

Just for fun this week, we are reprinting the very first X & Y Communications newsletter ever produced. This is what started it all ... Enjoy!

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Am I "Being Shallow", Or Am I Just Not "Settling"?

Mon, 18 Sep 2006 11:39:00 -0500

If I refuse to settle for anyone less that the woman of my dreams, what's so wrong with that?

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I'm Not Ken And She's Not Barbie...Thank God

Thu, 31 Aug 2006 11:27:13 -0500

The media loves to tell us who we're supposed to be attracted to, doesn't it? So what if we are honest with ourselves in admitting we are attracted to someone completely different? And can we be...

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What She Really Means When She Says, "I Want A Man To Protect Me"

Fri, 18 Aug 2006 11:28:46 -0500

Women often talk about wanting a man who can "protect them". What they really mean when they say this might surprise most men.

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Approaching Women: The Simple Event That Changed My Life

Wed, 02 Aug 2006 10:08:11 -0500

Despite all the "seduction gurus" out there proffering tips and tricks to "picking up women", the author learns the true secret to approaching and meeting women for the first time - by total accident.

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