Seks Melayu: Cara dan Praktikal

Seks selepas bersalin

2009-01-25T02:48:00.003+01:00

Melahirkan anak merupakan satu pengalaman yang pasti mendebarkan. Selepas kelahiran brelaku, pasti segala-galanya menjadi lega dan tenang semula. Kini tempoh berpantang perlu dijalani buat beberapa waktu bagi memulihkan kembali keadaan badan si ibu.

Bagi kaum bapa tanggungjawab yang dipikul juga sudah bertambah. Si isteri perlu dibantu bagi meringankan tugasa hariannya yang semakin bertambah. Namun keadaan ini kadangkala tidak dikongsi bersma oleh kaum bapa. Mereka lebih merisaukan keadaan layanan isteri yang semakin kurang dari segi layanan seks, layanan pakai minum dan sebagainya. Isteri kelihatan lebih banyak menumpukan masa kepada anak yang baru lahir tadi.

Apakah penyelesaiannya? Bagaimana untuk memastikan masa kualiti suami dan isteri untuk menikmati hubungan seks dapat berjalan lancar tanpa gangguan? Mari kita lihat tip-tipnya

Kepada para isteri, dapatkan pemeriksaan kesihatan 5-6 minggu selepas bersalin. Dapatkan nasihat doktor tentang prestasi diri anda untuk memulakan semula hubugan seks dengan suami. Sekiranya anda masih trauma dengan detik-detik kelahiran, dapatkan nasihat dan pemeriksaan doktor khusus berkenaan vagina dan kesan-kesan luka semasa bersalin. Kebiasaan selepas 1-2 bulan bersalin luka tersebut akan beransur pulih dengan spenuhnya.

Kepada para suami, hubungan seks tidak semestinya berlakunya penetrasi zakar kedalam faraj. Banyak lagi kaedah hubugan seks yang dibenarkan oleh syarak, yang boleh dilakukan bagi mencapai kepuasan dan kenimatan. Oleh itu suami perlu memahami situasi isteri yang baru. Suami perlu lebih bersikap peka dalam membantu isteri menguruskan rumah tangga dan tidak terlalu cerewet dalam menerima layanan isteri terhadapnya.
Berbincang mampu menguraikan banyak permasalahan. Berbincanglah dengan baik dengan isteri anda, bagaimana hubungan seks dapat dijalankan seusai tempoh yang sesuai.

Minyak Lintah KARUT

2007-12-16T12:13:00.000+01:00

DEBUNK BY DR ISMAIL THAMBY

Usah terpedaya produk palsu

“SAYA membeli produk minyak lintah bagi kekuatan ‘kelelakian’ saya. Produk ini adalah pembelian di internet dan saya sudah menggunakannya. Saya juga membuat pembelian ‘pil kuat’ untuk tujuan sama.

“Namun yang membimbangkan, ada yang memaklumkan produk ini memberi kesan jangka panjang ke atas pengguna. Keadaan ini membimbangkan saya. Saya perlukan nasihat doktor.”

Ini antara soalan yang banyak saya terima di laman web ini.

Nasihat saya kepada mereka yang mengemukakan soalan ialah, ramai lelaki dan wanita menjadi mangsa penjual barangan karut yang kini banyak dalam internet tetapi kemudian berdepan masalah seksual yang kronik.

Bukan bermaksud untuk menakutkan anda, tetapi ini adalah hakikatnya kerana pembeli bukan saja mudah terpedaya dengan produk palsu, tetapi juga yang tidak diketahui kandungannya yang mungkin memberi impak buruk terhadap kesihatan mereka.

Kini orang ramai tidak lagi perlu bersusah payah untuk mencari produk kekuatan seksual kerana dengan hanya satu klik di internet, iklan barangan karut itu muncul dengan gambaran dan maklumat meyakinkan.

Untuk makluman pembaca, lintah menyedut darah dan darah ini tidak beku di dalam tubuhnya kerana kandungan enzim Hirudin. Enzim ini sesuai untuk mencairkan darah beku atau mengelak darah membeku.

Sehubungan itu, Hirudin yang dihasilkan sebagai ubat untuk mencairkan darah atau dikenali sebagai ‘Heparin’ sesuai untuk rawatan mengatasi masalah darah beku dan bukan untuk membesar atau kekuatan zakar.

Justeru, maklumat yang anda dapati daripada iklan penjual minyak lintah itu hanya penipuan. Malah, tiada jaminan lintah digunakan untuk menghasilkan minyak berkenaan dan berkemungkinan bahan lain.

Nasihat saya ialah, usah membazir duit lagi. Jika berasa anda perlu lakukan sesuatu untuk memantapkan kesihatan syahwat, lebih baik berjumpa ahli farmasi di mana-mana farmasi untuk mendapat nasihat jika malas berjumpa doktor.

Sekali lagi saya ingin jelaskan, minyak lintah apa jenama pun tidak memberi kesan kepada kesihatan anggota sulit. Ini hanya penipuan dan pembaziran bagi mereka yang membelinya.

Dapatkan produk yang diuji kaji dan mendapat kelulusan Kementerian Kesihatan atau Agensi Perubatan Antarabangsa seperti FDA di Amerika Syarikat. Sila rujuk doktor atau ahli farmasi berdekatan.

Making a Choice of Baby's Sex

2007-11-27T16:09:00.000+01:00

This technique (using quinacrine stain) has been used with 80% success in 47 sperm centres in the world including one in Bombay at Khar Road Ericson has actually established a company named Gametrics Ltd. in California, U.S.A. which specializes in separating sperms with Y chromosome and hundreds of male children have been produced with its help.

Techniques have also been developed to separate sperms carrying X chromosome for artificial insemination leading to the birth of female children. This technique involves 'sephadex gel column', in which sperms with Y" being lighter are trapped in gel and those with X being heavier reach the bottom of the column, and can be used for insemination.

The techniques permitting choice of sex of the baby have been condemned by many sociologists, who fear that this may disturb the sex ratio leading to a variety of problems; But some doctors argue that this will help couples in planning their families, since there are also couples who may like to have a female child. This may also allow selection against sex linked abnormalities in the children.

Taken from here

Adab-adab Jimak

2007-11-07T08:27:00.000+01:00

Antara adab-adab berjimak yang dianjurkan ialah bercumbu dahulu sebelum bersetubuh dengan pasangan anda.

Kajian menyatakan bahawa perempuan memerlukan antara 10-20 minit utk bercumbu agar berahi mereka naik dengan sempurna. Manakala lelaki hanya memerlukan tidak klebih dari lima minit untuk berahi mereka teransang.

Apabila proses bercumbu selesai, maka baru lah proses berjimak boleh diadakan. Antara tanda2 bercumbu itu telah sampai ke kemuncak ialah

Nafas pasangan anda menjadi lebih kencang
Air mazi keluar dengan banyaknya
Badan terasa panas dan berhaba
Suara-suara mendengus mula kendengaran

Semua ini bergantung kepada keberkesanan teknik bercumbu itu.

Antara tempat-tempat yang perlu dicumbui ialah

Belakang badan
Punggung
Sekitar tempat sulit
Dada
Mulut
Wajah
Tengkuk

Dengan bercumbu barulah kenikmatan untuk berjimak dapat dirasai dengan puas. Selamat mencuba!!

Malay Girls? So cheap???

2007-11-05T10:28:00.000+01:00

What old man said may be right about circumcision. The Malay as a whole has a very sexualised culture where awareness
of the manhood is brought out in the open creating natural curiosity and sensuality among the girls even at a very
young age. Most young girls will remember their their male cousins being proudly celebrated with elaborate kenduris
by their parents to have their manhoods circumcised. It is normal to invite relatives to watch the tok mudim come to the house
and in kampung houses where there are only one main hall, the public display may means even at a young age girls are sexually aware
of manhood and the excitement in such events enhanced their curiosity. Some girls are even allowed be part of the highly
sexualised atmosphere where adults sat around the nervous young man trying to keep his composure as some made sexually direct remarks
on his predicament. Being the centre of attention with his lower half naked while lying on a mattress he has to endure the
embarassment of public scrutiny. Some girls are even allowed to watch the brother's manhood being exposed before the blood spurt
from the cutting of the foreskin.

The entire circumcision event affect the girls sensuality more as the boys were kept exposed in the hall while recuperating for a week.
Such family celebration of manhood is not found in any other culture. This ritual is not surprisingly led by the women in the
family as they have to prepare the kenduris. The sexually charge environment can only enhanced a girl knowledge and curiosity.

Of course most Malay girls themselves are circumcised though this is not spoken as much in the family. But the process of female circumcision
is no less interesting with the girls naked legs spread apart to allow the circumcision at a young age, it brought their sexuality to the fore.
Whispering among the women folk brought sex awareness early to the girls.

Another aspect is the body shape of Malay women which are generally curvaceous e.g Ziana Zain, Sofia Jane etc. Compare this to the extreme thin Singaporean Chinese body shape and it is not surprising that Singaporean have the least interest in sex. Voluptuosness must come with a certain fat.

The relax lifestyle too allows more for more sexual exploration while the stress of competition takes away the interest of most other
races. And the erotic lifestyle is carried on in pantuns and public flirting..thus Malay women are exposed to such sensual environment
that is carried on in the bedroom.

Malay women talk too is highly sexualised from what I personally hear...and this does not mean vulgar talk but rather highly sexualised
content which you can hear in most office as they describe their exploits...

And what about the jamu and the kacip fatimah potions which help to tightened their parts have been around for centuries. Thus Malay women
expect to enjoy sex and are prepared to take positive actions such taking jamu medications so they can performed better.

And of course the tudung which are drummed into the young girls they have to wear because they are sexually alluring to men. While most
girls in other culture are slow to aware of their effects on men, Malays girls are told at puberty to cover their body parts thus enhancing their
sensual awareness.

Sex during pregnancy

2007-10-23T11:41:00.000+02:00

Q. Now that I'm pregnant can I still have sex, and if so, for how long into my pregnancy?

A. Sex in pregnancy is wonderful! You can continue to have sex as far into pregnancy, right up until birth, as you and your partner are comfortable. This includes orgasms. There are a few reasons why you shouldn't have sex during certain periods during pregnancy. These include:

* Bleeding
* Preterm Labor
* Sexually Transmitted Disease (you or your partner)

Be sure to talk to your practitioner about specifics for you. When your practitioner says, "No sex." Find out what they mean, do them mean no orgasms? Do they mean no intercourse? If so, for how long? For example, if a woman has a slight bit of bleeding in the first trimester, it's common to be told to avoid intercourse and orgasm for the period of one week from the last episode of bleeding.

Q. Now that my belly is growing we're having a harder time having sex. Any suggestions?

A. Be creative! While many people tend to prefer the missionary position for sex during pregnancy, it becomes a very difficult maneuver to perform as the abdomen gets larger. Try some of these positions:

* Woman on top. This allows you to control the depth of penetration, and the majority of the movement. You can go as fast or as slow as you'd like, while controlling the depth of the penis. This position works really well throughout pregnancy and at the very end of pregnancy.

* Spooning. This position gets it's name from the way spoons fit together in the silver ware drawer. Usually it's best if the man is behind allowing his penis to go between your thighs and enter you from behind. This creates no pressure on the abdomen, and allows for a shallow penetration. Many women find this a very relaxing position for sex during pregnancy, and it can be used throughout.

* Hands & Knees. This is a very good position for pregnant women again because of the lack of direct pressure on the abdomen, although as your get larger your belly may actually rest on the bed. Some women find this difficult at the very end of pregnancy, depending on how high they are able to hold their belly off the bed and still allow for penetration.

* Side lying. This can be kind of tricky, but it can be done! Lay on your side with your partner facing you, try pulling one leg up to allow room for your partner. This may get tiring after awhile, and may not be easy for the last part of pregnancy.

taken from about.com

Suggestions for You and Your Partner

* If you’re concerned, ask your health care provider if it’s okay to have sex.
* Talk to each other about your needs and concerns in an open and loving way. If you work together, you can probably figure out how to put a smile on each other’s face.
* Let mutual pleasure and comfort be your guide. If something doesn’t feel physically or emotionally right to one of you, change what you’re doing.
* Keep your sense of humor.
* To avoid sexually transmitted infections, have sex with only one person who doesn’t have any other sexual partners and/or use a condom when having sex. Discuss HIV testing for you and your partner with your health care provider.
* If the pregnancy is high risk or if you have any questions at all, ask for guidance from your health care provider.
* After the baby is born, wait until after your postpartum checkup before you resume intercourse.

Awasi sindrom 3gp

2007-10-20T01:12:00.000+02:00

Kecanggihan 3gp (third generation platform) adalah aplikasi untuk mengurangkan beban bandwidth telfon bimbit untuk menyimpan video mpeg-4.

Sindrom 3gp ini mula melanda masyarakat Melayu apabila banyak telefon bimbit hari ini datang dengan aplikasi tersebut.

Walaupun kegunaannya seharusnya mendatangkan banyak faedah, tetapi seperti biasa kecanggihan teknologi ini selalu disalah gunakan.

Aku tengok ranking blog ini dah jatuh sket berbanding biasa. Setelah dikaji, kini sudah ada banyak (terlalu banyak)blog yang menggunakan keywords melayu,gadis,seks,video dan sebagainya.

Takpe...persaingan yang sihat actually.....

Walau apa pun strategi ynag digunakan, bahan2 lucah perlu dihindarkan.

Adab Berjimak

2007-10-19T03:49:00.000+02:00

Wasiat Rasululullah s.a.w

ADAB UZ-ZIFAF

Ahmad telah menceritakan :
“Telah menceritakan kepada kami oleh ‘Amru bin Hafsah dan Abu Naar dari Muhammad bin Al-Haitham dari Ishak bin Hanjih, dari Husaif dari Mujahid daripada Al-Khudri yang berkata : “Rasulullah s.a.w. telah berwasiat kepada Saidina Ali bin Abi Talib r.a di mana baginda telah bersabda :

1. “Wahai Ali, bila pengantin perempuan masuk ke dalam rumahmu, maka (suruh ia) tanggalkan kasutnya ketika ia duduk dan (suruh ia) membasuh kedua-dua kakinya. Maka sesungguhnya apabila kamu berbuat demikian Allah mengeluarkan tujuh puluh ( 70 ) jenis kefaqiran dari rumah kamu, dan Allah s.w.t. menurunkan tujuh puluh ( 70 ) rahmat yang sentiasa menaungi di atas kepala pengantin sehingga sentiasa keberkatan itu meratai setiap penjuru rumahmu dan pengantin itu sejahtera da! ri penyakit gila, sawan (gila b**i) dan sopak selama mana ia berada di dalam rumah tersebut. Laranglah pengantin itu daripada memakan dan meminum empat ( 4 ) jenis makanan ini pada minggu pertama perkahwinan iaitu :

1. Susu 2. Cuka 3. Coriander (Ketumbar) 4. Apple Masam”

Saidina Ali r.a bertanya :
“Wahai Rasulullah, mengapakah empat jenis makanan ini di larang..?”

Baginda menjawab :
“Kerana rahim perempuan itu kering dan sejuk, dengan sebab dari empat perkara (makanan) ini untuk menghalang dari dapat anak. Sesungguhnya tikar di penjuru rumah adalah lebih baik daripada perempuan yang tidak dapat anak.”

Saidina Ali r.a bertanya :
“Wahai rasulullah, mengapakah cuka itu di larang..? (semasa haid dan semasa minggu pertama perkahwinan).”

Baginda menjawab :
“Apabila ia minum cuka! semasa haid, sesungguhnya haidnya itu tidak akan bersih selama-lamanya secara sempurna.

Mengenai Coriander (ketumbar) ia mengganggu haid di dalam perutnya dan menyukarkan kepadanya kelahiran.

Tentang Apple masam, ia memotong haid sebelum masanya maka menjadikan haid itu berlalu begitu saja dengan sebabnya.”

2. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah engkau berjima’ dengan isterimu pada awal (hari pertama) bulan, pada pertengahannya (sehari) dan pada akhir (dua hari) di hujung bulan. Maka sesungguhnya penyakit gila, gila b**i dan sopak mudah mengenainya dan anaknya.”

3. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah berjima’ dengan isterimu selepas zuhor, sesungguhnya jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak kerana jima’ pada waktu itu, maka ia akan bermata juling dan syaitan sangat suka kepada manusia yang bermata juling.”

4. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah bercakap-cakap semasa jima’, sesungguhnya jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak dengan jima’ yang demikian, maka anak itu tidak selamat daripada bisu.”

5. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah lihat kepada faraj perempuanmu dan jagalah pandanganmu sewaktu berjima’, (jika tidak) sesungguhnya mewarisi buta – iaitu anak.”

6. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah berjima’ dengan perempuanmu dengan syahwat terhadap perempuan lain, maka sesungguhnya yang demikian itu jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepadamu berdua anak, anak itu akan menjadi pondan yang bersifat benci dan hina.”

7. “Wahai Ali..! jika kamu berjunub di tempat tidur, janganlah membaca Al-Quran, maka sesungguhnya aku bimbang akan turun kepada kamu berdua api (bala) dari langit yang membakar kamu berdua.”

8. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah berjima’ de! ngan isterimu kecuali ada padamu satu tuala dan pada isterimu satu tuala.”

9. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berdua menyapu dengan menggunakan satu tuala, nanti akan jatuh syahwat keatas syahwat (salah seorang akan kuat syahwatnya daripada yang lagi satu), maka sesungguhnya yang demikian itu akan mengakibatkan permusuhan kemudian membawa kamu berdua kepada berpecah dan talak.”

10. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu secara berdiri, maka sesungguhnya yang demikian itu daripada perbuatan kaldai, jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak, maka anak itu sentiasa kencing di tempat tidur seperti kaldai yang suka kencing di merata-rata tempat.”

11. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah berjima’ dengan isterimu pada malam ‘Aidil Fitri (Raya Puasa), maka sesungguhnya jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak anak itu seorang yang cacat dan tidak mendapat anak baginya kecuali sudah tua.”

12. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ deng! an isterimu pada malam ‘Aidil Adha, maka sesungguhnya jika kamu berdua berjima’ pada malam tersebut, apabila Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak aku bimbang ia akan menjadi seorang yang berjari enam atau empat.”

13. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu di bawah cahaya matahari (secara langsung – direct) dan terkena warna (cahayanya), kecuali kamu mengenakan tutupan (bumbung), jika tidak maka sesungguhnya kalau Allah mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak, nanti anak itu akan menjadi seorang sentiasa hidup dalam meminta-minta dan faqir sehingga mati.”

14. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu di bawah pohon kayu yang berbuah, maka sesungguhnya jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kamu berdua anak, nanti anak itu akan menjadi seorang tukang gojo, tukang sebat atau seorang ketua yang bengis,”

15. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu sewaktu antara azan dan iqomah, jika berjima’ pada waktu demikian, sesun! gguhnya jika Allah mengurniakan anak pada kamu berdua, nanti ia menjadi seorang yang menumpahkan darah.”

16. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu semasa ia hamil kecuali kamu berdua berwudhu’, jika tidak maka sesungguhnya jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kamu berdua anak, nanti ia akan menjadi seorang yang buta hati dan bakhil tangan.”

17. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu pada pertengahan (Nisfu) Sya’ban, maka sesungguhnya yang demikian itu jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kamu berdua anak,nanti anak itu akan mempunyai tanda yang jelek pada muka dan rambutnya.”

18. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu pada akhir bulan (yakni tinggal dua hari) maka sesungguhnya yang demikian itu jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak nanti anak tersebut menjadi seorang yang sentiasa perlu meminta-minta.”

19. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu dengan syahwat terhadap saudara perempuannya ! (ipar kamu) kerana yang demikian itu sesungguhnya kalau Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak, nanti anak itu akan menjadi penolong dan pembantu kepada orang yang zalim dan pada tangannya membuat kebinasaan kepada manusia.”

20. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu di atas loteng maka sesungguhnya yang demikian itu jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan anak kepada kamu berdua nanti anak itu menjadi seorang munafiq, pelampau yang melewati batas.”

21. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu pada malam kamu hendak keluar musafir kerana yang demikian itu sesungguhnya kalau Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak, ia akan membelanjakan harta kepada yang tidak Haq,” dan Rasulullah s.a.w. membaca ayat Al-Quran : “Innal Mubazziriina kaanu – ikhwan Nas – Syayathin.”

22. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu bila kamu keluar bermusafir dalam tempoh tiga hari tiga malam, maka yang demikian itu sesungguhnya bil! a Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak, nanti ia menjadi seorang pembantu kepada setiap orang yang zalim.”

23. “Wahai Ali..! janganlah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu pada awal malam, maka sesungguhnya jika dikurniakan anak kepada kamu berdua, ia menjadi seorang tukang sihir, sunglap, dan menghendaki dunia daripada akhirat.”

ANJURAN BERJIMA’

24. “Wahai Ali..! jika kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu bacalah : “Allahumma Jannibnis Syaitan Wajanibis Syaitan Mimma Rozaktani.” Maka yang demikian itu kalau Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu anak, tidak dimudaratkan oleh syaitan terhadapnya selama-lamanya.”

25. “Wahai Ali..! hendaklah kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu pada malam Isnin maka sesungguhnya jika Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak, ia akan menjadi seorang yang berpegang teguh kepada kitab Allah (Al-Quran) dan redha terhadap segala pemberian Allah s.w.t. (baik d! an buruk Qada’ dan Qadar Allah).”

26. “Wahai Ali..! jika kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu pada malam Selasa, Allah s.w.t. akan memberi kepada kamu berdua anak yang mendapat nikmat Mati Syahid sesudah syahadah : ‘Anla ilahaillallah wa anna Muhammada ar-Rasulullah’ dan Allah s.w.t. tidak azabkannya (turun bala kepadanya) bersama-sama orang musyrikin, mulutnya berbau harum yang akan melembutkan hati orang, bersih lidahnya daripada mengumpat, berdusta dan mengadu-domba.”

27. “Wahai Ali..! jika kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu malam Khamis, maka Allah s.w.t. akan mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua anak yang bijaksana, atau seorang yang alim,di kalangan orang-orang yang alim.”

28. “Wahai Ali..! jika kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu sewaktu matahari di tengah langit, Allah s.w.t. mengurniakan kepada kamu berdua seorang anak yang tidak di hampiri syaitan sehingga ia beruban (tua) dan menjadi seorang yang faqih serta Allah s.w.t. rezekikan kepadanya keselamatan agama dan dunia.”
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29. “Wahai Ali..! jika kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu pada malam Jumaat dan nanti anak kamu berdua adalah seorang pemidato yang berwibawa dan petah.”

30. “Wahai Ali..! jika kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu pada hari Jumaat, selepas Asar, Allah s.w.t. akan kurniakan seorang anak yang terkenal, masyhor dan alim.”

31. “Wahai Ali..! jika kamu berjima’ dengan isterimu pada malam Jumaat selepas Isyak yang akhir, maka sesungguhnya di harapkan anakmu nanti menjadi seorang yang abdal (terkemuka),”

“WAHAI ALI PELIHARALAH WASIATKU INI SEBAGAIMANA AKU TELAH MEMELIHARANYA DARI JIBRIL A.S.”…..1*

(1*) Al-Ikhtisyaah, ms 132-135, As-Saduq, Al-Faqih ms 456, Al- Ilal ms 174.

Happy EId

2007-10-06T14:49:00.000+02:00

Bayram Mubarak Olsun

Be patient, dont easily get excited on the roads...

Kebanjiran Bahan Lucah

2007-09-25T09:06:00.000+02:00

Kebelakangan ini akses kepada bahan lucah menjadi semakin berleluasa. Dengan teknologi canggih seperti Bluetooth, 3Gp, Internet dan sebagainya, bahan-bahan lucah ini semakin menjadi-jadi penyebarannya. Tidak kira dari golongan atasan hinggalah ke golongan bawahan. Bahan-bahan ini sangat mudah didapati. Search trend juga berubah. Kalau dahulu pencari-pencari bahan ini menggunakan keywords melayu,seks,gadis dans ebagainya, tetapi kini dengan kata kunci tersebut telah berkembang.

kalau dahulu hanyalah artikel-artikel lucah yang dicari kini Mereka mula mencari video,gambar dan suara lucah yang sangat mudah didapati di mana-mana terutama di internet.

Adalah sangat perlu bagi pihak bertanggungjawab terutamanya ibu bapa mengawal anak-anak mereka. Penggunaaan handphone yang canggih perlu dipantau untuk mengelakkan anak-anak ini emnyimpan bahan-bahan yang tidak sepatutnya.

Eve is from Adam's Rib, the Earth is Flat, and Races Come from Genes

2007-07-24T12:35:00.000+02:00

By Jacqueline Stevens

With the benefit of being a late-comer to this esteemed group of scholars responding to Armand Mari Leroi's characterizations about the state of the research on genetics and race, it seems obvious that the evidence in favor of re-opening the debate on whether race is a genetic classification has as much validity as that which might prompt revisiting empirical claims from Genesis and medieval Catholic astronomy. Especially troubling are Leroi's claims about the most credible source for his evidence, the conference that led to the Nature Genetics supplement. He states that at the conference leading to this publication, “some even argued that, looked at the right way, genetic data show that races clearly do exist,” but he does not say how many said this or who they were. Joseph L. Graves Jr. was on the external advisory board of the National Human Genome Center at Howard University, the group that organized the conference whose results Leroi putatively summarizes. Graves was also present, read the papers, and writes that Leroi's claim about their meetings supporting a return to conventional uses of nineteenth century racial taxonomies was wrong. “[N]one expressed that 'race' as classically defined was an appropriate way to classify individuals” (emphasis added).1 It may be that Graves overlooked a comment here or there but it would be quite bizarre if he missed an emerging consensus.

Among the articles appearing in the Nature Genetics issue that Leroi references as authorizing his claims about a new use of a geneticized concept of race, only one makes even a weak case for using race in biomedical research. And this article, authored by scientists mapping genes and their evolution, not doing clinical research, says relying on standard racial classifications for medical interventions is apt to be unhelpful. “At face value, such results [locating disease genes in ancestral populations] could be interpreted as supporting the use of race in evaluating medical treatment options,” write Lynn Jorde and Stephen Wooding, “but race and ancestry are not equivalent. Many polymorphisms are required to estimate an individual's ancestry, whereas the number of genes involved in mediating a specific drug response may be relatively small. If disease-associated alleles are common (and thus of clinical significance), they are likely to be relatively ancient and therefore shared among multiple populations. Consequently, an individual's population affiliation would often be a faulty indicator of the presence or absence of an allele related to diagnosis or drug response” (emphasis added).2 One reason the New York Times readers were never clued into Leroi's missed attributions is that he left their sources unnamed. Leroi quotes only the texts with which he takes issue and not the ones he asserts support his views. This allows him to impute an authority to certain claims that are not supported in the texts themselves. His article contains not a single direct quotation from anyone justifying racial classifications for medical research.

In addition to misidentifying an emerging consensus, Leroi has incorrectly dated the origin for critiques of a geneticized idea of race and the underlying evidence that they have used. As Graves also points out, Leroi wants his audience to believe that until Richard Lewontin's denunciation of race in 1971, racial categories reflected long-held popular intuitions. But the concept of race is a relatively recent one, dating only from the fifteenth century, which is when the Roman Catholic Church banned enslaving enemies, even when captured in just wars.3 At that point Portugal's King Alfonso V sailed deeper into southern Africa, where he could initiate a slave trade and kidnap people from political communities with whom Portugal had no previous contact, unlike the Moors of northern Africa, who themselves had occupied Portugal and Spain for large swaths of time. Some Moors had become Christianized—and many Portuguese and Spaniards converted to Islam. In short, no one in the neighborhood of the existing European and even Islamic empires was fair game for enslavement. Not being able to enslave human beings, as these could be converted, Spanish and Portuguese monarchs claimed these tribes from southern Africa were sub-human, and hence emerged the idea of race.

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Monetize Your Web

2007-05-31T01:17:00.000+02:00

Monetize your websit by displaying adsense,auction ads,adbrite,referral programm and many more.

Buat duit dgn ada blog? citer bagus ni......nak tahu camne? lawat sini

www.powermarketingsolution.blogspot.com

Dating and pre marital Sex

2007-05-10T00:42:00.000+02:00

What is the Islamic view on-

a. Dating and Premarital sex:
Islam does not approve of intimate mixing of the sexes, and forbids premarital or extramarital sex. Islam encourages marriage as a shield to such temptations and as a means of having mutual love, mercy and peace.

b. Abortion:
Islam considers abortion as murder and does not permit it except to save the mother's life (Quran 17:23-31, 6:15 1).

c. Homosexuality and AIDS:
Islam categorically opposes homosexuality and considers it a sin. However, Muslim physicians are advised to care for AIDS patients with compassion just as they would for other patients.

"Dating" as it is currently practiced in much of the world does not exist among Muslims -- where a young man and woman (or boy/girl) are in a one-on-one intimate relationship, spending time together alone, "getting to know each other" in a very deep way before deciding whether that's the person they will marry. Rather, in Islam pre-marital relationships of any kind between members of the opposite sex is forbidden.

Are Islamic Teachings Old-Fashioned?

Depending on your upbringing, who your friends are, and your exposure to television shows and movies, you might have been socialized to believe that premarital relationships are glamorous, filled with romantic overtures, and a natural expression of a man's attraction towards a woman. In fact, some young Muslims are so convinced that premarital relationships are the norm rather than the exception that, when told "dating is haram [forbidden]," they respond by saying, "Why is Islam so backward? Why can't we just get with the times and realize that today, premarital relationships are ok because not everyone is thinking about sex all the time."

Is that right? And so how would you propose going about helping those young people who are inclined to think about sex some or most of the time and not, as you say, all of the time. What shall we tell them? Read more at Islamonline

Is Internet really harmful?

2007-05-06T09:42:00.000+02:00

Information technology provides a huge sources of informations and knowledge. It could bring more harm than good or vice versa. It depends merely on the mentality of the users. If they use internet to find good things, then they should benefit from their surfing activities. But what if someone who life is full with negative thinking about sex, use internet to fulfill his or her desire?

From the statistic that I collect from the STATSCOUNTER, what really scare me is, there is almost every hour internet surfer from various IP in Malaysia, search about something that against the good behavior of a Muslim. Are Malaysian so desperate? Or are they pervert?

Perversion is a term and concept describing those types of human behavior that are perceived to be a deviation from what is considered to be orthodox or normal. Perversion differs from deviant behavior, since the latter refers to a recognized violation of social rules or norms (although the two terms can apply to the same behavior).

The keywords seksmelayu,lembahseks etc etc are the most popular keywords in the statistic.From the list we can recognize that only few surfers are really into enhancing their knowledge and information regarding healthier sex. The others???

But after all thanks to all visitor who out of sudden stumble upon this sexy blog. I hope you enjoy reading the material and gain something beneficial!

If only Google does not ban the Adsense of this website, I should make more revenue from this!

Ready for steamier meals

2007-04-22T11:45:00.000+02:00

Often we neglect the power of being together while preparing meals or foods. Many spouse and couple forget that the precious time to be together could happen anywhere even in the kitchen.

So let us see how preparing food could be a very steamier moment in your daily relationship day.

First!
* Set the table so you have a nice place to eat.
* Buy a range of small treats and finger foods.

• Aphrodite was said to have been born from the sea, so many types of seafood have reputations as aphrodisiacs. For example, the sight, smell and taste of oysters is reputed to put a woman's lover in mind of her intimate parts, while asparagus is equally suggestive to a man's partner.

• Spices such as curry, cumin and cayenne warm the body. This diet includes entrees with enough spice to heat things up.

Beware!
Although some foods arouse, others can impair sexual function. Fried fare and rich cream sauces can leave us feeling more sluggish than sexy. What's more, excessive sugar, salt, saturated fat and highly processed foods are linked to frigidity, difficulty reaching orgasm and lack of interest in sex. Cutting back on these foods will help revive and preserve sexual vitality and enhance overall well-being. It's also a good idea to limit consumption of alcohol and coffee, and to skip tobacco altogether. These "pleasure drugs" can dampen sexual desire and leech beneficial nutrients vital to our sexual health.

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2007-04-14T04:51:00.000+02:00

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Teh Herba Misai Kucing

2007-04-14T04:35:00.000+02:00

Orthosiphon aristatus is a medicinal herb found mainly throughout South East Asia and tropical Australia. It is known as pokok misai kucing in Malay. It is believed to have antiallergic, antihypertensive, anti-inflammatory and diuretic properties. It is used as a remedy for arteriosclerosis (capillary and circulatory disorders), kidney stones, diabetes and nephritis. (Wiki)

Misai Kucing adalah pokok herba yang banyak didapati di Asia Tenggara. Misai Kucing sudah terbukti sebagai salah satu herba yang dapat mengubati penyakit batu dalam hempedu dan ginjal. Ia juga berkesan untuk mengurangkan ketegangan minda dan badan.

Disamping itu Misai Kucing juga bagus untuk kesihatan dalaman seseorang. Pengaliran darah yang lancar akan membawa oksigen yang mencukupi ke seleuruh badan.

Semasa hubugan seks ketegangan zakar berpunca dari aliran darah yang mengandungi cukup oksigen. Seringkali masalah para lelaki ialah ketegangan zakar mereka tidak cukup lama dan mudah kendur.

Misai Kucing dapat mengatasi masalah ini. Minum teh rebusan misai kucing sejam sebelum tidur (terutama pada malam anda ingin melakukan seks). Ini akan melancarkan pergerakan darah dan justeru mengalirkan cukup oksigen keseluruh badan. Kesan dari ini badan akan terasa segar dan kuat.

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Introducing our new products

2007-03-30T04:20:00.000+02:00

This portal has been online since more than a year. Since than we have provide you with a lot of informations and tips.

Now it is a time for applications. I have spend around 4 months in the South Asia region for a religious purpose. Beside going there and visit many places, I also encounter many ancient tips and medicine that can be used for your healthy sex life.

So now we are offering you a healthy package consist of three traditional herbals remedy.

Pek Kesihatan Batin AHSAN

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Madu/Honey (40 ml)
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From a book that I read written by Ustaz Jaafar Salleh, he wrote that:

One hour before you have a sexual intercourse with your spouse, apply some olive oil with black seed oil on your penis. InsyaAllah it will become strong all the night.

Honey is also to be taken regularly with the Habbatus Sauda early in the morning before you go to work. InsyaALlah you will stay fresh and energetic.

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6 points of happy family

2007-03-28T03:18:00.000+02:00

A happy family is not depends on wealth and richness. It depends on how you maintain and improve the relationship with the Almighty and the people around you.

Soleh parents
Obedience of the children
Practicing the complete Islam
Dicipline
Understanding
Communication

Aphrodisiac: Ancient Malay Heritage

2007-03-26T09:14:00.000+02:00

Libido problem? Pre-mature ejaculation? Early satisfaction? These are the problems face by men.

For a long time you strive hard to search for any help to gain and increase the power of the libido?

Why spend more money on chemical subtances that could bring harm in the future? Try traditional methode. Not only it is cheap but also proved to be effective and ehem ehem....

What is Aphrodisiac?: It is any of various forms of stimulation thought to arouse sexual excitement. Aphrodisiacs may be classified in two principal groups: (1) psycho-physiological (visual, tactile, olfactory, aural) and (2) internal (stemming from food, drugs, love potions, medical preparations).

Let us see what available in our country:

1. Sireh/sirih
Piper Betle Linn
A very effective aphrodisiac, stimulant and anti-inflamatory.
Take daily two or three times with all the additional things. Avoid chalk (kapor).
For women the leaf can also be used to clean the vagina and the private parts.

2. Zafran (saffron)
Crocus satirus Linn
Also known as an effective aphrodisiac. Widely used in Arab country. Quite expensive compare to others.

3. Cardamom
Cardamom Elettria Maton
This plants is suitable to deal with stomachic and carminative. It is also known to be a very good stimulant and frarance.

4. Winter cherry
Withania somnifgera Dunal
Known to be a light aphrodisiac. It is also known as antioxidant and antiaging. very suitable for awet muda.

What is Testosterone?

2006-10-01T10:58:00.000+02:00

Testosterone is a male sex hormone required for sperm production, the development of male reproductive organs and the emergence of secondary male sexual characteristics such as facial hair, a deeper voice and muscles.

In men testosterone is produced in the testes and adrenal glands.

Testosterone is also produced in women's ovaries and adrenal glands. Little is known about the exact role of testosterone in women, but scientists believe it helps maintain muscle and bone strength and contributes to sex drive or libido.

On average, men produce between 4 and 10mg of the hormone per day and overall they have about 20 times more testosterone than women.

Testosterone is also well known for its role in the hormonal hotbed that is male puberty. It promotes the growth of the reproductive tract, increases in the length and diameter of the penis, development of the prostate and scrotum, and the sprouting of pubic and facial hair. As well as these androgenic, or masculinising effects, testosterone also drives anabolic, or tissue-building, changes. These include thickening of the vocal chords, growth spurts, development of sexual libido, and an increase in strength and muscle bulk.

There's no denying these powerful physical effects which continue well into adulthood, and their driving force, hormones. But we feel compelled to box our hormones resolutely into those that belong to men, or to women. Estrogen and progesterone are the so-called female sex hormones, and testosterone, the so-called primary male sex hormone. With that we assign our hormones impossible gender roles. But of course gender ain't that simple, and nor are our hormones.

Senaman Melayu

2006-09-29T18:19:00.000+02:00

Dalam tempoh beberapa tahun timbul kesedaran memperkenal dan menyebarkan pengetahuan mengenai teknik warisan bangsa

KESEDARAN dan keinginan untuk hidup sihat menyebabkan teknik senaman dari benua India dan China seperti yoga dan tai chi, popular di seluruh dunia.

Masyarakat Barat sedar bahawa untuk menentukan keseimbangan sistem tubuh manusia, amalan pemakanan dan gaya hidup sihat tidak mencukupi jika senaman diabaikan.

Walaupun tidak kurang dengan teknik senaman seperti pilates, masyarakat Barat yang sentiasa mahu menerokai sesuatu yang baru beralih ke Timur untuk menerokai khazanah warisan Asia seperti yoga dan tai chi.

Perkembangan sama menular di Malaysia apabila pemodenan dan peningkatan tahap pengetahuan mengenai kesihatan menyebabkan wujud keinginan untuk mencari teknik senaman sesuai.

Pembukaan pusat senaman berasaskan yoga dan tai chi yang pelanggannya dari pelbagai kaum membuktikan rakyat Malaysia semakin terbuka menerima teknik senaman dari luar walaupun bayaran dikenakan bukan murah.

Ketika yoga semakin berkembang dan tai chi diamalkan di tempat terbuka seperti taman awam, timbul persoalan, apakah orang Melayu yang kaya dengan warisan budaya tidak mempunyai teknik senaman sendiri.

Orang Melayu sebenarnya tidak kurang hebat dengan teknik senaman setanding yoga dan tai chi, tetapi khazanah kaya ini tidak diterokai sepenuhnya. Tanyalah kepada sesetengah orang tua Melayu yang hidup sihat walaupun usia mencecah 80 tahun.

Antara jawapan mereka seperti Mohd Zin Hussain, 78, atau lebih dikenali sebagai Pok Jeng di Besut Terengganu, yang terkenal kerana berkahwin sebanyak 30 kali ialah mengamalkan senaman secara konsisten.

Senaman tegang urat yang diamalkan sejam setiap hari dikatakan antara rahsianya awet muda dan sihat.

Malangnya kebanyakan pengamal senaman Melayu bersikap individualistik. Pok Jeng sendiri mengaku bahawa senaman itu adalah rahsia peribadi dan tidak diperturunkan kepada sesiapa kecuali keluarga terdekat.

Pengetahuan dan kemahiran senaman Melayu adalah rahsia milik keluarga yang diperturunkan secara eksklusif dari seorang ayah kepada anaknya dan bukan menjadi milik masyarakat.

Pengalaman getir dirasai sendiri Pengarah Bakaprep Sdn Bhd, Azamarul Sa’adi Azman, ketika mencungkil rahsia teknik senaman seorang lelaki di Tanjung Sepat, Selangor, yang ketika hayatnya sihat dan cergas.

Katanya, Adnan Wongso yang meninggal dunia pada usia 81 tahun beberapa tahun lalu, keberatan mendedahkan teknik senaman yang kini dinamakan Senaman Baka dengan memberikan pelbagai alasan.

“Hanya selepas memujuk berkali-kali dan Allahyarham yakin dengan kesungguhan saya, baru dia menunjuk ajar senaman yang kemudian dikaji dan didokumentasi secara sistematik,” katanya.

Bagaimanapun dalam tempoh beberapa tahun ini, kesedaran untuk memperkenalkan senaman yang menjadi identiti orang Melayu dan menyebarkan pengetahuan itu sebagai satu gerakan massa semakin meluas.

Orang Melayu yang mempunyai pengetahuan mengenai senaman tidak lagi keberatan berkongsi ilmu menyebabkan senaman berasaskan seni silat semakin diterima walaupun belum mencapai tahap populariti seperti yoga dan taichi.

Antara penggerak senaman Melayu adalah Azlan Ghanie, yang mempopularkan Senaman Tua dengan beliau sendiri mengajar di sekitar Lembah Klang serta mengadakan bengkel dan seminar di seluruh negara.

Pertubuhan Seni Silat Lincah Malaysia (PSSLM) dengan keahlian kira-kira 840,000 orang merancakkan perkembangan senaman Melayu dengan memperkenalkan Senaman Jurus Lincah yang berasaskan Silat Lincah.

Mahaguru dan pengasas PSSLM, Datuk Omardin Mauju berkata, senaman yang sesuai untuk semua kaum itu mengambil masa lapan bulan untuk dihasilkan dan terlebih dulu diuji untuk memastikan keberkesanannya.

Tenik Senaman Jurus Lincah yang memperkayakan dunia senaman Melayu juga dibukukan dan dijangka dilancarkan secara rasmi tidak lama lagi.

Walaupun mempunyai pergerakan berbeza, senaman Melayu, yoga, tai chi dan pilates mempunyai persamaan kerana teknik semua senaman ini membabitkan pernafasan dan pergerakan demi pergerakan secara teratur.

Begitu juga aspek meditasi apabila pengamal seperti menyatukan dirinya dalam senaman wujud dalam semua senaman.

Senaman Melayu yang berasaskan silat mempunyai persamaan dengan tai chi. Pergerakan senaman kebanggaan bangsa Cina ini apabila dilakukan dengan pantas boleh berubah menjadi seni mempertahankan diri.

Berbanding yoga dan tai chi yang mempunyai sejarah ribuan tahun, senaman Melayu mungkin tidak memerlukan masa sepanjang itu untuk popular. Jika populariti Tongkat Ali yang kini setanding ginseng di mata dunia dalam jangka masa singkat, tidak mustahil senaman Melayu mampu melangkah lebih jauh.

Aspek jenama dan menjadikan senaman ini lebih canggih dari segi imej seperti kemudahan tempat latihan dan pakaian, amat penting untuk mempopularkan senaman Melayu.

FAKTA
Senaman terkenal dunia

YOGA

- Dalam bahasa Sanskrit, Yoga bermaksud penyatuan.
- Yoga adalah amalan kerohanian kuno dan aliran pemikiran kerohanian yang berasal dari India.
- Empat aliran utama yoga ialah Karma, Bhakti, Jnana dan Raja.
- Yoga berkembang pesat dan popular, terutama di Barat sebagai latihan kecergasan.
- Mempunyai kaitan rapat dengan agama Hindu, Buddha dan Jainisme.
- Amalan yoga moden menerapkan prinsip moral dan etika, posisi tubuh untuk menyihatkan tubuh, falsafah kerohanian, arahan guru, membaca mantera, pranayama (latihan pernafasan) dan meditasi.
- Kebanyakan latihan yoga moden diubah suai untuk memenuhi keperluan bukan penganut Hindu yang menjadikan yoga sebagai teknik mencari ketenangan dan menjaga kesihatan.

TAI CHI

- Bermaksud genggaman terakhir yang agung adalah seni mempertahankan diri Cina.
- Terdapat pelbagai gaya tai chi tetapi dikatakan asasnya adalah dari sistem yang diajar oleh keluarga Chen kepada keluarga Yang pada 1820.
- Dipromosikan dan diamalkan sebagai terapi seni mempertahankan diri untuk tujuan kesihatan dan hidup lama.
- Amalan ini dianggap gaya seni mempertahankan diri lembut dan seni yang lengkap untuk merehatkan dan melembutkan otot.
- Lima gaya utama tai chi ialah Chen, Zhaobao, Yang, Wu dan Sun.
- Tai chi menjadi popular di seluruh dunia dengan reputrasi sebagai senaman yang menyihatkan golongan tua.
- Hospital, klinik dan pusat warga tua turut mengadakan kelas tai chi.

PILATES

- SISTEM kecergasan fizikal dicipta pada awal abad ke-20 oleh Joseph Pilates, seorang lelaki Jerman yang dilahirkan di Dusseldorf pada 1880 dan meninggal dunia pada 1967.
- Pilates berpandangan sistem itu adalah kaedah yang mengalakkan penggunaan minda untuk mengawal otot.
- Sebanyak 500 bentuk latihan dihasilkan oleh Pilates.
- Senaman ini mengajar pengamalnya mengenai kepentingan pernafasan dan jajaran tulang belakang serta menguatkan otot badan untuk mengurangkan dan mencegah sakit belakang.
- Pengamal Pilates menggunakan tubuh sebagai pemberat dalam latihan untuk membina kekuatan dan fleksibiliti.
- Ramai ahli terapi fizikal menggunakan senaman ini dalam proses pemulihan pesakit.

Are Malaysia pervert or they just desperate

2006-09-20T15:59:00.000+02:00

The case of Taiwanese singer who captured(voyoured) picture being circulated in the web, put Malaysia again on the top of the world wide web keywords search.The singer was being voyouerd by a hidden spy cam during his stay in Genting Higland for a show.
The culprit put a hidden cam in the wardrobe of the singer.

The case of Nasha Aziz being voyoured few years ago, should be a lesson for women to beware of their house surrounding. While there might others who always looking for chance to take the oppurtunity.What is so sad was, the culprit is a Mamak Muslim. Nasib baik bukan Melayu Islam. So org2 melayu jgn lah buat cam gini ya....

link baru Info Seks Wanita. Lawat2kan

Overweight and Obesity

2006-09-13T17:03:00.000+02:00

Overweight and obesity can cause a lot of desease. Men with overweight and experience obesity will face lot of problems during the sex activity. The desease that can be cause by obesity and overweight are:
High blood pressure, hypertension
High blood cholesterol, dyslipidemia
Type 2 (non-insulin dependent) diabetes
Insulin resistance, glucose intolerance
Hyperinsulinemia
Coronary heart disease
Angina pectoris
Congestive heart failure
Stroke
Gallstones
Cholescystitis and cholelithiasis
Gout
Osteoarthritis
Obstructive sleep apnea and respiratory problems
Some types of cancer (such as endometrial, breast, prostate, and colon)
Complications of pregnancy such as; gestational diabetes, gestational hypertension and preeclampsia as well as complications in operative delivery (i.e., c-sections).
Poor female reproductive health (such as menstrual irregularities, infertility, irregular ovulation)
Bladder control problems (such as stress incontinence)
Uric acid nephrolithiasis
Psychological disorders (such as depression, eating disorders, distorted body image, and low self-esteem).

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Islams Sex Technique

2006-09-05T10:20:00.000+02:00

Islamset - Sex Technique

Any manoevre or position that adds to the pleasure of the sexual encounter between husband and wife is permissible and commendable. One exception is anal intercourse, which is forbidden in Islam. A man may get to his wife from her behind, provided the male organ is introduced in the vagina and not in the anus. This was clearly indicated by the Quran and the Sunna- The Quran says:

"Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when and how you will" (2:223)

The similie on this verse makes intercourse similar to agriculture, entailing putting the seed into the soil in the hope of getting the fruit; and this does not apply to anal sex.

Several prophetic traditions forbid the practice of anal sex:

"Do not visit women into their back passages" (Ahmad, Termizi, Ibn Magah)

When the jews of Madina argued with some muslims and said that vaginal coitus approached from behind would cause the baby to have squint in his eyes, the prophet denied this and said:

"From behind or from the front as long as it is in the vagina." (Muslim and Abu Dawood)

"Cursed he. ..who has sex with a woman through her back passage." (Ahmad)

It is reported that the occasion when the verse of the Quran "Your wives are a tilth unto you, so approach your tilth how and when you will", was when Umar ibn al Khattab (prophet's companion and later second caliph) had (vaginal) sex with his wife approaching her from behind and was worried lest it be unlawful. He went to the prophet looking distressed, and asked why he was worried, he used the modest and shy expression: Apostle of God. I changed my saddle'last night' , He was relieved when the Quran and the prophet announced the permissibility of the practice. Another Quranic reference to this matter came with the injunction that intercourse is to be avoided while the woman is menstruating:

"They ask you concerning menstruation. Say it is a hurt and a pollution. So keep away from women during their periods and do not approach them until they become clean. But when they have purified themselves you may approach them in any manner, time or place ORDAINED FOR YOU By GOD." (2:222)

In Islamic law, anal intercourse even with the wife is illegitimate. If legally proven, it is punishable according to the discretion of the judge. It stands as legal justification for the wife to apply for divorce if the husband is unwilling to desist.

Over the past two decades the subject of anal sex started to make its: : appearance in scientific medical meetings that I attended, and one couldn't miss the special furyor some medical people went into, in order to prove that it Was completely harmless. Clinical series and over-whelming statistics Were presented which contradicted basic knowlege, and on one occasion the researcher even proved that anal sex Was safer than vaginal sex. The discussions were all within the context of homosexuality , and the proponents were all the time the same who advocated free sex, free abortion and freedom from religious' 'relics and taboos'. Since then, I lost my trusting nature and my faith in the integrity of some researchers and at the beginning this Was an agonizing feeling. As time passed, one became even more disillusioned. Until 1970 homosexuality was considered to be a disease necessitating treatment. But when the American Psychiatric Association declared that it was not a disease, homosexuality became a wave, a cult and a growing power until the dream became shattered with the emergence of AIDS (aquired immune deficiency syndrome) that threatens to be the Scourge of Our century.