When we evade the truth about those we deal with, for fear of disturbing the relationship, we set ourselves up for inevitable suffering. If I am honest with myself about someone’s shortcomings but choose to go on dealing with him or her because of other benefits, and therefore do not complain or express shock if the shortcomings express themselves, I am not engaged in evasion or self-deception. I am in effect taking a calculated risk based on what amounts to a cost-benefit analysis.

But if I choose not to be conscious of plainly apparent dangers 0r if I deny or rationalize my spouse’s abusiveness, pretend not to see evidence of infidelity, or, in business, if I make myself oblivious to the shortcomings of a deal because I want so much for the project to work – then I am inviting the pain and disappointment I will experience. I have forfeited the right to cry “betrayal.” I have disarmed myself, and by my cooperation I have signaled my partner that his or her behavior is acceptable and there is no need or reason to change.

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Branden’s book has impacted my life; I recommend that you buy a copy.

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In order to expand, I’ve decided to narrow my focus for a bit. I’ll continue with Talk It Up TV, as its momentum continues to build. And I’ll focus on video production (some filming, some directing, mainly post-production work). This will allow me to be better at the basics of my craft, while earning income to improve my equipment. This narrowed focus also allows me to actually ENJOY what I’m doing.

Instead of an organized production, I’ll be working with FunnySaysWhat?! at more of a hobby-level. This will allow me to still be creative with the project, while allowing it to build momentum more organically. When it’s time to move it forward, I’ll have a headstart.

I’ve got other skills I want to introduce myself to, as well. This narrowed focus may lend some time for learning the new, too.
–DC

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My wife is often that “buddy” for me; yet she’s got her own visions (that I attempt to be a good “buddy” regarding). I’ve found that forming strategic bonds with others who are as passionate about their visions as I am mine can be a huge assist.

For example, Ray Pierce is A1-Passionate about videography. So much so, that he gladly elected to support my project, Funny Says What?! We can carry on about filming and production, entertainment value, and the right way to deliver the intended experience to viewers. It’s great. We both get to discuss our talents and discoveries – without boring the other (I’m skilled at lulling my wife to sleep).  I get to feel like he’s my wing-man; he thinks I’m his wing-man.  Yet we’re both the super-stars of our own visions.

However, we both have other tasks to take care of and other people in our lives. As FSW gains performers and an audience, I’ll have more and more individuals I can share with. In the meantime, I find that reading over a description of my projects often gets me back on the right track, should I veer off into a lonely stupor. Try it. And if you still need an extra boost of visionary energy, I’ll get Ray’s number to you.
–Dave C

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Things are moving quickly.  If I’m not actively working on the projects, I’m engulfed in reading about different facets of my trade.  Online TV production isn’t the passion; it’s the vehicle that allows me to work in and express my passions (of bringing different ideas and people together, and in working with comedy).  I’m having to fast-forward my education and learn a little about the different aspects of production.   This makes things very exciting.  Along the way, I seem to meet individuals who can fill the gaps nicely.

My son (14) got into town, and it’s a blast being able to work with him, as well as explore a bit of the world of improv together.

–DAVE C

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A fantastic week; one that made for sleeping most of the day on Sunday. Excited to go forward.

–DAVE C

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I left that lunch appointment and noticed a storefront sign of an associate of mine (actually, I had met him at the local improv theater – we were both taking a course there). Having never stopped by his place, I took the opportunity to stop in. I hadn’t anticipated it, but walked out with a place to call home for our local FSW studio; and a suggestion for another place if I needed a place to house a set that didn’t need to be taken down.

Getting back to the car, I discovered a parking ticket. I was quite pleased it was only $10; I guess I anticipated a cost of $40. A comfortable studio arrangement for $40? Not bad. Not bad, indeed.

Don’t know what will come of this next bit, but I had pulled into a parking lot to await a reply on a text message. While I was there, I ran into a local performer who had expressed interest in learning more about my online improv project and got his card.

On the drive home (I really want to move closer to town), I put together some thoughts on making a full-time studio/office profitable; which led to ideas for an improved model for growing FSW.

Exciting day. Say your prayers; they’re heard.

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