Pheromone Massage Oil: Cucumber Melon, Citrus Basil or Ginger Lime

Do you ever wish you had that extra edge that would help make you somehow more interesting, extra exciting, and completely enticing to others? Pheromones just might be the answer!

Pheromones are a naturally occurring chemical compound found in insects, animals and humans. When pheromones are secreted, they dictate sexual behavior. In the animal kingdom, they generally signal the start of the mating ritual. We’re sure everyone has witnessed the power of a female dog in heat. Their pheromones can attract a male dog from over a mile away!

Recently, researchers at the University of Chicago say they got their first actual proof that humans produce and react to pheromones. Their findings, published in the Journal of Nature, say that female ovulation can be made longer or shorter through the use of pheromones.

The majority of human pheromones come out through our sweat. This is probably not the most desireable way to meet a new date, however. Also, it’s probably not much fun with your mate either. It is kind of ironic that when we shower, we clean off our own natural pheromones and then we put on deodorant and mask the natural pheromones that our bodies create. So our own natural pheromones are low. Since our body only secrets small amounts of pheromones at a time, there is a real big advantage to using bath and body products that are enhanced with pheromones such as Pheromone Massage Lotion, Pheromone Massage Oil or Pure Instinct Sexual Attraction Cologne (also known as Basic Instinct). This can give you that extra sexual allure that you’ve been searching for.

Pheromones can also be responsible for boosting careers. Wearing them can subconsciously help people around you perceive you as someone exuding tremendous confidence. The more confident you are or the more confident you’re perceived to be, the more successful you’ll be in both your career and personal life. There are many people in service-related fields that swear that wearing the pheromones helps to increase their tips.

To sum it up – pheromones can help you get more eye contact and smiles and others can find you instantly more attractive. People may feel more at ease and relaxed with you. You might notice that more people are paying attention to you when you wear your pheromones. Strangers might start conversations with you. You could increase the chances of getting a date with that special someone or have an instant chemistry on a blind date when you’re wearing your pheromones. Don’t be surprised if people stare at you when you’re wearing them. Strangers may think they know you and may even try to get closer and get a sniff of you! So be sure to wear a smile and have some fun!

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Fun Factory Baby Bug Silicone Vibrator

There are many materials that go into adult sex toys, but there are just a few categories that they fall into:

• Rubber or Latex
• Silicone
• Blends
• Hard Materials

We’re going to give you an overview of the sex toy materials, but the most important thing we want you to understand is the difference between porous and non-porous.

Porous toys have pores in them. It’s similar to the pores on our skin. When the porous toys get wet or when they are used, viruses, bacteria or anything that is on the surface or the toy goes into those pores. The next time that toy gets wet, the virus, bacteria, etc. comes back out again. The reason we recommend toy cleaners for sex toys, particularly porous toys, is because the toy cleaners will remove the bacteria, yeast, and viruses and prevent them from getting into your toy.  When you use the toy cleaner, it rinses completely from the toy. An added benefit for the ladies is the toy cleaner helps maintain a pH balance in the vaginal area.  When the pH gets out of balance in the vaginal area, women can get an infection or irritation.

Let’s examine the different types of adult sex toy materials:

Rubber Slim Butt Plug

• Rubber – Rubber is a porous material and it doesn’t contain phthalates. Rubber is generally firm and flexible and it is often heavy. Rubber dildos are porous and they need more care because they are porous. That means they are a little harder to clean and maintain. Most rubber is produced using petroleum. However, some (estimated around 25%-33%) are made from Latex, which is extracted from trees, or a latex-like product.  Each of the two sources produces a different type of rubber with different properties. Polymers, which are large molecules made from petroleum, make up synthetic rubbers. Natural rubbers are made from elastic latex. During WWII, the U.S.’ natural rubber supplies were largely cut-off. So there was a need for a commodity to change and it encouraged serious experimentation to produce synthetic rubbers. While synthetics still predominate, natural rubber is very desirable for many applications because it has a greater resilience.When using a rubber or latex adult toy, we recommend only using a water-based lubricant.  This is because any oil or petroleum-based substances are going to break down the rubber or latex. That means all oil-based lubricants – including massage oils, butter, olive oil, Vaseline – anything containing oil. Silicone lubricants are okay to use as long as you’re certain that the toy doesn’t contain any silicone. To be on the safe side, we recommend only using water-based lubes with rubber or latex toys.To clean your rubber or latex toys, wash before and after use with an adult sex toy cleaner, rinse with warm water and air or pat dry. Using a condom on the toy allows for easier clean up.  It puts a barrier between you and the toy and prevents the toy from picking up anything from you or the environment. You can take the condom off and clean the toy much easier. If the toy is battery operated, do not submerge the toy unless it is waterproof. If the toy is not waterproof, make sure not to get water in the battery compartment. Use the spritz and rinse method – spritz the cleaner on the part of the toy that you want to clean and rinse it off. Use a damp cloth to clean the outside of the battery compartment. 
  

  Sugar Sak Sex Toy Storage Bag

   To store your toys after they are dry, put the toys in individual sex toy storage bags for the best results and to prevent them from melting together. Also, remember to remove the batteries before storage.

  Latex is very porous, and does not contain phthalates, but a lot of people are sensitive to latex and many people are allergic to it.  So it’s important to know which materials could contain latex.

  If you share toys with a partner, make sure you use a condom on the toy and change the condom before allowing your partner to use the toy.

• Silicone – Silicone is non-porous (make sure it is 100% pure medical grade silicone). It warms up very quickly and retains body heat. It minimizes infection potential because it is non-porous. Medical grade silicone is firm to the touch and it is considered to be hypoallergenic. Silicone doesn’t have a taste or a smell. Appealing, brightly colored toys can be created with silicone.  Silicone is phthalate-free. Phthalates are chemicals used to soften plastic or vinyl to make it more flexible. They are used in many everyday applications from sex toys to fingernail polish to foods, perfumes and medical instruments. Phthalates raise some concern on safety so some people try to avoid toys that contain phthalates.Vibration transfers very well through silicone and silicone-blends. This is another reason why it is an excellent choice for a sex toy.  Silicone falls into the ‘better materials’ category which generally means that it is going to cost you more to purchase toys that are made of silicone. Many people find the higher price worthwhile because silicone has a longer lifespan, it is more comfortable to use, and pure silicone is much easier to clean.Only water-based lubricants are recommended for use with silicone sex toys. Using a silicone lubricant on a silicone or silicone-blend toy can ruin the surface of the toy and cause it to become tacky/sticky feeling.To clean your silicone toy, make sure you clean it before and after use with a toy cleaner to prevent contamination and maintain pH balance. Rinse with warm water and air or pat dry. Another option for 100% pure silicone or medical-grade silicone toys is to run them through the dishwasher. Silicone can tolerate high temperatures so you can also boil it on the stove for 3-5 minutes. If your toy vibrates, remove the vibrating parts before boiling or putting in the dishwasher. If those parts cannot be removed, it is not recommended to clean them that way – use a toy cleaner instead. If you clean the toy by immersing it in the boiling water, make sure you allow the battery compartment cavity to dry out before storing. Once it is dry, store it in an individual sex toy storage bag or plastic bag for best results. Remove the batteries and store them in a separate plastic bag.

• Blended Materials – Silicone blends are probably the most popular right now. They are porous, but it depends on what is it blended with as to how porous it is. They can contain phthalates. They vary in density – some are very soft, while other blends are much more ridged. They are generally very pliable, but, again, it depends on the percentage of other material that is added to the silicone as to how pliable it is. The advantage of having a blended material is that the material will most likely last longer and less likely to tear or break down.  A condom can be used for safety and easy clean-up. Just toss the condom after use. Make sure not to use a silicone lubricant with a blended toy because it will melt the toy. If you want to use a silicone lube, you can put a condom over your toy first. To clean a blended material toy, stick with the warm water and toy cleaner method. Clean before and after use to prevent contamination and maintain pH balance. Rinse with warm water and pat or air dry. When dry, store in an individual sex toy bag or plastic bag and remove the batteries.

In a future blog post, we’ll explore the other materials and share some special tips.

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The Lindsay Fully Loaded Love Doll will satisfy you orally, vaginally, and anally. She’s fully loaded and she’s all yours!   

Lindsay Fully Loaded Love Doll

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ID Glide Lube

The most sensual sex is wet sex! Wet sex is easily achieved by using lubricants. We’ll explore the reasons why adding lubricants to your next sexual experience will add a new dimension to your lovemaking that you may not have tried before.  Also, we’ll explain the different issues that can cause problems with producing natural lubrication.

Have you ever suffered from some kind of discomfort because intercourse took place without a sufficient amount of natural lubrication? Many women do and lubricants can help eliminate that problem.

Have you ever run out of natural lubrication during extended intercourse and suffered from a sore spot the next day (men and women both)?  If so, lubricants can help with that situation also.

Have you ever wished that condoms transmitted more sensation? With a lubricant, they can!

Have you have ever suffered discomfort during anal play? Anal lube is essential during anal sex.

Lube is often the most misunderstood, overlooked element in good sex. It is one of the things that can make the biggest difference in your sexual satisfaction levels. Saliva is the world’s most popular sexual lubricant. It’s available everywhere, it’s free, however,  it’s really watery and not very slippery and it is probably one of the most inefficient lubes available. It dries really fast and for pleasure enhancement it is not as effective as a commercial lubricant that was developed for specifically for pleasure.

For a modest cost, sexual lubricants can add a new sensual zing to your lovemaking. Unfortunately, despite the easy availability of lubricants, not many people use them. There was a study done in 1994 at the University of Chicago, and the researchers asked the women participants if lack of vaginal lubrication had been a problem for them in the last year. Almost 20% said yes. By just adding a lubricant, this problem can be eliminated. If 20% of American women are complaining about insufficient lubrication, clearly millions of people are in the dark about lubricants. So why don’t more people use them? Because people think that normal sex involves nothing but the body. As a result, many people consider lubricants unnatural. We say that is nonsense. Lubricants are as natural as any other sexual enhancer such as a candle, soft music, lingerie, a glass of wine, a sexy video, sex toys, etc. Many normal, healthy women don’t produce much vaginal lubrication. 

In the 60’s, pioneering sex researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson describe vaginal lubrication as an early sign of a women’s sexual arousal. They maintained that the vagina produces lubrication fairly quickly when a woman becomes aroused. However, for many perfectly normal healthy women, vaginal lubrication takes longer. And when it does, there may not be much of it.  Why not? Here are some reasons why: Just as women vary in height, so does the production of their vaginal lubrication. It’s nothing wrong with the woman; some people just produce more than others, and some just don’t lubricate very well at all.

Let’s look at a few of the factors that cause a difference in lubrication:

• Age

Age is a huge factor. Estrogen plays an important role in lubrication levels. Estrogen production begins to decline before menopause and many women that had no trouble producing lubrication in their 20’s and 30’s start to notice a decrease in their 40’s and beyond when menopausal changes begin to occur.   After age 50, many women experience a persistent dryness. This is a normal cycle for all women. Even during the course of the menstrual cycle at any age, because estrogen influences the production of vaginal lubrication, women produce different amounts of lubrication at different times of the month.

• Childbirth

Following childbirth women produce different levels of lubrication. This is, again, primarily due to estrogen, but there are also other issues that take place during childbirth that can some other fluctuation problems.

• Stress

Every kind of stress, from job hassles to relationships to other tensions can impair a sexual response in both men and women. In men, the result can be an erection impairment, and in women, stress can reduce lubrication. With less lubrication comes less enjoyment.

• Medications

There are so many over-the-counter and prescription medications that decrease vaginal lubrication. You have to keep in mind that any time the medication decreases your hydration level it is going to decrease the wetness factor all over your body. Some women report that birth control pills reduce lubrication. Antihistamines, cold formulas, and other medications that dry the mouth also impair lubrication.

• Alcohol, Cigarettes and Marijuana

Most people don’t think of alcohol as a lubrication inhibitor, but it is. So are cigarettes, and marijuana. They can all have similar effects decreasing that lubrication potential.

• Travel

Primarily travel by airplane. As we know, flying across time zones produces a jet-lag. The pressurization and the dry environment of the plane along with the jet-lag causes extra problems with hydration and can definitely interfere with your lubrication production.

• Extended Sex

Even women that produce a good amount of natural lubrication, sometimes need help during these ‘marathon’ sex sessions.

Few people understand that some women don’t produce much natural lubrication and those people might not understand any of the above circumstances. Just as a man can love a woman deeply and not be able to have an erection because of diabetes, heart disease, stress or other issues, a woman can love a man and feel very turned on by him but still not produce much lubrication. This is the case especially when they get close to menopause and after menopause when vaginal dryness becomes even more common. If you’re a woman that doesn’t produce much lubrication, mention this to your lover.  Let him know that it is no reflection on him or on your feelings for him. It is just the way you are and it is not a problem if you use a lubricant.

People don’t think a lot about lubrication for men too. According to Masters and Johnson, shortly before orgasm, there is a gland in the penis that produces a few drops of lubricating fluid that moistens the head of the penis and helps it slid into the vagina. It’s true that can happen for some people, but not for everyone. Many of the factors that influence the ability for women to produce lubrication also apply to men. Even at best, it rarely covers any more than just the tip of the head of the penis. Without adding lubrication, the shaft of the penis can become irritated during sex. Also, never expect the natural male lubrication to be enough for any kind of anal exploration. You always need to add extra lubricant or, anal lubricant, for anal play.

In a future blog post we’ll explore the different types of lube that you can choose from and the advantages and disadvantages of each. Check back soon!

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Clit Flicker With Wireless Stimulator

A cock ring is a circular device that wraps around the penis, penis and testicles or just the testicles, in some cases. It works by gently slowing down the flow of blood out of the penis by applying a light pressure to the surface blood vessels, keeping the penis more engorged. They are generally easy to put on, easy to remove and easy to clean.  Stretchy rings can be worn around the shaft only and should be put on when erect. They can be worn mid-shaft, at the base or you can stretch them around the whole package. Because of their flexibility, they are one-size-fits-all. So that eliminates the need for embarrassing measurements. If cock rings are used around the penis and the scrotum, it applies pressure to the perineum and moves the testicles into a little different position. That can give a pleasurable feeling and a slowing of ejaculation.  

So why would you want to use a c-ring? For him – it gives him a harder-feeling, longer-lasting erection.  It can delay ejaculation for many men, give them more satisfying orgasms and can also be used during sex with a partner or solo-play. For her – there is added pleasure from clitoral or labial stimulators, and that is a huge bonus. Vibration is even better for many women because the added stimulation is ideal for people that need that little extra clitoral sensation to achieve orgasm. You can use it with a partner or a vibrator.  

Dr Joel Kaplan Silicone Cock Ring - Dual (AKA Intimacy Enhancer)

Because cock rings restrict blood flow in the highly sensitive part of the male anatomy, some caution needs to be exercised when using one. They should fit snugly and be tight enough to be effective. They should NOT cause discomfort or discoloration or leave marks on the skin. Those are indications that the ring is too tight. Also, don’t wear a c-ring in excess of 20-30 minutes at a time. Leave it off for 10 or 15 minutes then you can put it back on again. In addition, men shouldn’t use a cock ring if taking Viagra or other similar medication for erectile dysfunction, or, if he has a vascular disease or disorder.  For example, many diabetics have problems with their blood vessels and they shouldn’t use cock rings because it can cause additional problems.  

To put on a stretchy c-ring, all you have to do is stretch it wide, use the index finger of both hands, bring it underneath and behind the scrotum, if you choose, or just down to the base of the penis and let is slowly rest against the body. You can adjust the tension to bind the area securely so that it doesn’t snap, cause any discomfort or any other issues. It’s also okay to use more than one ring. Some people might want to put one at the base of the penis and one around the penis and testicles.  Others might want to put one at the base of the penis and one mid-shaft. If the ring is firmer, it should have lube added first before it is put on. The soft rings can be stretched, put on, and lube applied after they are put on.   

Berman Minerva Enhancement Ring

The underside of the head of the penis is very sensitive after orgasm for many men. To take a ring off, wait until the penis is somewhat flaccid, and add more lubricant before removal for more comfort.  Groom the hair around the base of the penis and scrotum to prevent the hair being pulled when the cock ring is removed.  To remove a metal ring, take note that you will not be able to remove it as fast as a stretchy ring.  You have to remember to relax and not panic if the ring is not able to be removed right away.  The best thing to do is to lie in a tub with cool water to allow the penis to cool off and shrink down.  Add more lube to aid in removal.  If the ring has been on for over 30 minutes and it has not been able to be removed, it is probably time to go to the emergency room.  Trust us, they have seen everything before, so this will not be new to them.  It is better to have a little embarrassment and get it removed then to go through life without an important part of your body.  

Technobeat Aggressor (AKA The Progressor)

Persuading a partner to try a c-ring is like coaching them into anything else that is new.  It can be a little unsettling, but sexual changes can be even more-so because intimacy is loaded with emotion. Men might feel like the woman is trying to replace them, or their abilities aren’t enough, or their equipment isn’t satisfying their partner. Make sure that he is reassured that he is loved and is irreplaceable. The cock ring is just an enhancement to introduce some variety and spice to your love life.  For men that feel that sex aids are unnatural, and sex should not include anything but two bodies, point out that a c-ring is like any other sensual or sexual enhancement. Like lingerie, perfume, candlelight, or sexy movies. Pointing that out can provide a little extra perspective on your desire to introduce couple’s toys into your relationship.  

There are a variety of cock rings available – from simple donut-style rings to rings with multiple loops and ticklers, to vibrating rings with ticklers and multi-position vibrators. Many options for the beginning couple, to the more experienced users. So go enjoy!

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Edible Soy Massage Candle

For any new experimentations that you are going to do, be sure that you are creating a comfortable atmosphere and a sensually pleasing environment. Think of all the senses. Think of soft fabrics, romantic scents, candles, soft music, etc.  A product called Silky Sheets is a great product for this because it has pheromones and is available in lots of scents.  You can also try an edible sensual soy massage candle. They are fantastic for mutual massage and fun.  They are made of soy so they melt at a lower temperature so you can spoon them onto your partner or drip them directly on the skin and use them for sensual massage.  They are pheromone infused and are an exhilarating experience. Of course don’t forget to have some lubes handy too in case you get into the special private areas, lube is sometimes the best thing to use.

Consider showering or bathing together first. It’s really a fantastic start to romance and relaxation. And this is an exercise to explore new pleasures. So intercourse, in this particular case, is not the goal. Keep that in mind. We’re going for pure passion and pleasure. Try not to focus on climaxing at all. Or try not to focus on even bringing your partner to orgasm. What you’re going to do is enjoy the pleasurable experience, find out what the new sensations you can create are. And concentrate on finding the pleasures that work best for the both of you and then you can pull them into the rest of your passion play. In addition to building on the things you are experimenting with now together. So whatever your preferences are, a good part of the key is to vary the techniques. It’s great to know that you can bring yourself to orgasm in five minutes or less. But this time we’re going for a lot more relaxed, enjoyable experience. This isn’t a race. We’re looking for the best types of stimulation that feel the best. And the only way you can do that is to run through everything you can think of. Here are a few favorites to try on the ladies (remember to use a lube, a special massage oil or an edible product for even more fun) :

We are limiting this to a hands-on experiment so these are some specific instructions you can use to stimulate your female partner:

You’re going to get down to the vulva area (entire area between her legs), and start out just circling around the clitoris with your finger. Some women find the direct clitoral stimulation too intense, so starting this way is going to give you an idea. Circle one direction, and then circle the other direction around the clitoris. Then place one or two fingers directly onto the hood of the clitoris and move them into a circular motion, one direction, and then at some point, the opposite direction. Vary the speed, intensity and pressure for different sensations to find out what your partner likes best. Open the lips of the vulva apart a little bit more, and gently tap the hood of the clitoris. Vary the speed again.  And come from different directions, like come down from 12 o’clock, come up from 6 o’clock and in from 3 and 9. Tap, tap, tap, tap, tap… that’s a very pleasing sensation for a lot of women. Now getting a little bit more specific – what you’re going to do is gently place a thumb and index finger on either side of the clitoris, feel down toward the base of it and gently roll between your thumb and index finger. Do this very slowly and gently and increase the motion. Ladies, with all of these exercises, speak up when it feels good or say ‘move on’ or ‘let’s try something else’ and give some direction to your partner because this is unexplored territory. Learning new skills is going to be a fabulous thing for both of you. Be prepared to speak up and say what you like.

Here are a couple of more fun things to try.  Some of these things can be done with oral techniques also.  We’ll explore that later in another post. Draw each letter of the alphabet on the clitoris with a finger. Pay special attention to which letters feel the best.  And in the future when you get really good at this exercise, you can yell out the words that you want to be spelled. ‘WOW’ and ‘XRAY’ are popular favorites.  Don’t be afraid for some vaginal action too -it’s all in the vulva area. The most sensitive nerve endings are right at the opening of the vagina. A slow, gentle stimulation about an inch in the vagina is about all you really need unless directed otherwise. Or, if you want to try a little g-spot stimulation, you can read our g-spot stimulation tips.

Drawing all these techniques together and massaging your partner to the point of great pleasure, great enjoyment or orgasm is the goal.  Trying these techniques out on yourself first is a great idea to find out what you like so you can tell your partner.

Mutual masturbation is not the way to start masturbation with your partner. It is best to do that after you feel comfortable with your partner. Quite often it is the man masturbating first and the woman watching. The woman masturbating and letting the man watch usually comes later, because that is a huge step for most women. When you can truly do that and enjoy it, it opens up a whole new genre of new things that can be so much more fun. Massage is definitely the easiest way to work into it.

Erotic Massage Book

For the guys, we know they are a lot more comfortable with their self pleasure. So what us women need you to help us do is to explore you. Again, lube everything up. Lubing is always really good. Hold your hand in the typical “OK” position, make a circle with one hand and massage up and down the shaft. That’s a great way to start. Most ladies are comfortable with that. You can move the technique up a little bit and take both hands, lock the fingers together, and go up and down the shaft with both hands for a different feel. You can wiggle your fingers while you do that. While you’ve got your hands locked together, rotate your hands around a little bit as you go up and down – kind of like you’re rotating a stick to try to start a fire, but do it gently.  Ladies, you can consider using other body parts on the penis too, like you’re mouth or your breasts. Also, don’t ignore the rest of the ‘package’. The guys have the testicles, so a little extra stimulation on the scrotal sac, testicle area, and perineum – the area between the testicles and the anus, is also very well accepted and appreciated. A little finger tickle, a little more lubrication, a little extra stimulation, and maybe some more experimenting down the road can add to the fun and pleasure for the both of you.

Erotic Massage DVD

Now these are just some suggestions to get you started. You could consider some additional instruction on erotic massage by reading the book:  Erotic Massage – the Touch of Love and/or by viewing the DVD: Erotic Massage – the Touch of Love.

Have fun experimenting!

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Vibrating Dildo

Dildos can be made of hard or soft plastic, jelly or life-like materials called Futurotic, PleasureSkin or CyberSkin. They can be used like a penis during masturbation or for couple play. They can be stroked and rubbed all over the body, particularly in women, on the vulva and clitoris.

Anal plugs, also called butt plugs, are also a kind of dildo. Some people are comfortable with anal play. Most like to introduce standard size dildos into the anus, but we encourage starting small and working your way up. Anal plugs are usually shorter and thinner than regular dildos and, therefore, they can be more comfortably inserted. Anal plugs typically have a flared base. That flared base is going to prevent the plug from sliding inward. Toys that are designed for anal play are designed to not accidently slip inside because that would be very embarrassing and difficult to retrieve. Also, be sure to use lubrication when using anal products.

Vibrators also come in many different kinds, sizes, shapes and materials like dildos. Vibrators may use batteries, re-chargeable batteries, or they may plug into a wall outlet. They may have one speed or many speeds. They may do several functions at once or just one function. And they may or may not be waterproof. There are a lot of things you need to think about when choosing a toy. They come in lots of different shapes and sizes too. They can be very realistic-looking like artificial penis’ like the popular All American Whopper. There are some larger-than-life artificial penis’ like the Kong Huge Realistic Dildo. There is also g-spot stimulators – usually cylindrical and have a curved end to enable a woman or her partner to reach her gspot. (For more info on the G-Spot, read our G-spot guide)

Berman Aphrodite Vibrator

Ball-top vibrator massagers are usually hand-held wands topped with some type of vibrating ball and they’re about the size of a plum, usually, and they’re excellent for whole body massage. They can be used on the genitals, just be very careful because some of them can go at fairly high speeds. These are usually the type that plug into a wall outlet. A very popular body massager that was featured on Oprah by Dr. Laura Berman is the Aphrodite.

Bullets are a type of mini vibrator and they are called a bullet because they actually look kind of like a bullet. Usually they’re too small to contain the batteries in them, so most of them have a control unit that is wired to the bullet. Vibrating bullets are a good choice for travel. You can slip one inside your panties and get a secret little buzz in social situations and no one would know. Interesting, huh?

In addition to penis-shaped, or cylindrical-shaped toys, you can have double shaft vibes and dildos. They have the end of a penis on each side,

Butterfly Hands-Free Vibrator (AKA Flutter Frenzy)

 or, a penis and an extra extrusion somewhere, often as a clitoral stimulator like a rabbit vibrator. Then there is the butterfly or vulva hands-free vibrator. Instead of any kind of cylinder, it actually looks like a little butterfly sitting externally on the genital area. It’s more of a  flattened shape and it’s really not meant for insertion. It just presses on the vulva and stimulates the whole area - which some women find extremely pleasurable. Some models come with straps that you can put around your thighs and hold them in place so you can use them for solo missions or with a partner.

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» Where can I buy a Fleshlight?

1. You’re in control. Whenever you want, however you like, the Fleshlight sexual gratification alternative is there to fulfill your sexual fantasies and meet your desires. 2. Nothing is closer to the real thing. The soft, pliable, non-vibrating Real Feel Super Skin® sleeve has been designed to provide the most realistic intercourse simulation known to man. 3. Improve stamina & performance. Whether you’re a real Casanova or just a rookie to the game, there is always room for improvement. Test your skills, practice new techniques, and test how long you can last in one of our specially designed inserts, created for maximum sensation. 4. Practice safe sex. The Fleshlight was created in part, to address the risks associated with promiscuity, the spread of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), and unwanted pregnancy. Whether you’re having trouble finding a safe partner or waiting for the right one to come along, the Fleshlight offers a a safe and satisfying means for expressing your sexuality. 5. Lifetime of pleasure. With proper use and care, the Fleshlight will last you a lifetime. If only it were that easy with real sexual partners. [top]

With nearly half a million sold, 90% of our customers start out with the Original Pink Lady.

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Penis length/girth:
When choosing your perfect Fleshlight, consider your girth as equally important to length. When erect, the average penis length is approximately 5-6 inches with an average girth (circumference) of approximately 4-5 inches. Refer to the illustration on the left for an explanation of measuring length and girth. Use of a measuring tape is suggested for taking measurements. The correct measurement can make the difference between an enjoyable and non-enjoyable Fleshlight experience. Choosing too small of an insert diameter will result in discomfort during use, while too large of an insert diameter will be a less sensational experience. Ranked from most tight to least tight: Ultra Tight, Super Tight, Wonder Wave/Speed Bump/Super Ribbed, STU, Original. Larger than average men often choose: Original Pink Lady or Speed Bump
Smaller than average men often choose: Super Tight or Sex In A Can
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Your color options:

The first thing to consider is the Fleshlight insert color. This is an easy decision, just choose whatever color suits you best. When you choose the ice color, you are really selecting ‘no color’. The lack of pigment leaves the ice inserts slightly stickier than the rest.

Fleshlight Orifices

Next, you will need to decide on the orifice, which is the external appearance of the Fleshlight insert. Choose the orifice that is the most visually appealing to you. The lady (vagina) is the most popular choice, followed by the butt. The non-descript is ideal for users that travel with their Fleshlight or someone who is concerned about family members/roomates discovering their sex toy. The mouth is choosen by men who prefer the experience of a blowjob over the rest. However, there are a few minor differences to point out. The butt orifice is the thinnest of the three, letting you get to the texture sooner, and the lady has the largest opening allowing for easier access.

Fleshlight Sensations

The final and most important step is to choose the correct sensation. Do you prefer a textured or smooth insert? How tight do you like it? Refer to the size chart above and descriptions below to help you to decide. Remember that these are only suggestions that were developed based on sales records and customer testimonials. Explore the entire product line and post your reviews for each product along the way!
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Sex In A Can (SIAC)
The Sex In A Can is a lighter, smaller version of the Fleshlight that makes for easy carrying and storing. The inside canal is a 1/2″ (13 mm) diameter and textured similar to the Wonder Wave, with the waves being fatter and slightly more separated. This is a good change for the frequent user who is well rehearsed with the full size Fleshlight. Not only is the insert tighter, but the orifice is smaller too. The SIAC can easily be controlled with just one hand and it’s decreased weight makes it easier to maneuver and hold for long periods of time. The whole can itself measures about 7 inches (178 mm) in length, compared to the normal 10 inch (254 mm) Fleshlight case. The size of the SIAC makes it favored by less endowed men. An additional difference is that the bottom of the can has a hole in it, not a screw on cap. You can regulate the suction easily by covering it with your finger.

Where can I buy a Fleshlight?

Original Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Mouth – Original
• Fleshlight Butt – Original
• Fleshlight Ice Lady – Original
• Fleshlight Ice Mouth – Original
• Fleshlight Vibro Pink Lady – Original
• Fleshlight Vibro Pink Bottom – Original

Speed Bump Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Pink Lady Sleeve – Speed Bump
• Fleshlight Ice Mouth – Speed Bump
• Fleshlight Fleshjack Ice Jack Ass – Speed Bump
• Fleshlight Ice Lady – Speed Bump

Stamina Training Units:

• Fleshlight Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit
• Fleshlight Pink Endurance Jack Ass

Super Ribbed Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Fleshjack Pink Jack Ass – Super Ribbed
• Fleshlight Pink Lady – Super Ribbed

Wonder Wave Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Pink Lady Sleeve – Wonder Wave
• Fleshlight Ice Lady – Wonder Wave
• Fleshlight Ice Mouth – Wonder Wave
• Fleshlight Fleshjack Ice Mouth – Wonder Wave

Vortex Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Fleshjack Pink Jack Ass – Vortex
• Fleshlight Pink Lady – Vortex
• Fleshlight Pink Mouth – Vortex

Lotus Fleshlights – Fleshlight Girls Series:

• Teagon Presley Fleshlight
• Eva Angelina Fleshlight
• Jesse Jane Fleshlight
• Riley Steel Fleshlight
• Lia 19 Fleshlight
• Raven Riley Fleshlight
• Lupe Fuentes Fleshlight – Mini Lotus
• Tera Patrick Fleshlight – Lotus
• Katsuni Fleshlight – Lotus

Swallow Texture – Fleshlight Girls Series:

• Jenna Haze

Twista Fleshlights:

• Tera Patrick Fleshlight – Twista

Touch Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Vibro Pink Lady – Touch
• Fleshlight Fleshjack Vibro Pink Bottom – Touch

Cyclone Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Vibro Pink Lady – Cyclone

Sex In a Can:

• Sukit Draft
• O’Doyle’s Stout
• Lady Lager

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Dr. Laura Berman on the Dr. Oz Show

The Dr. Oz show recently had a show on how to orgasm over 40. The famous sex therapist, Dr. Laura Berman, was on the show to aid in the discussion.  She explained that one of the ways for all women to achieve a more intense orgasm is to strengthen the pelvic muscles (sometimes called Kegal muscles). As women age and have children, the pelvic muscles get stretched. Dr. Berman displayed 2 of the pelvic exerciser products from her intimate accesories line of sex toys. The basic pelvic exerciser is for beginners who are just starting to strengthen their pelvic muscles. The advanced pelvic exerciser is weighted and allows for advancement as the kegals are strengthened. Strong kegal muscles allow for stronger orgasms as these muscles are an integral part of the muscle contractions involved in an orgasm.

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LELO Gigi Luxury G-Spot Vibrator

GSpot Vibrators can help achieve an orgasm and female ejaculation

What is Female Ejaculation?

There has only been a small amount of research on female ejaculation so nothing is definitive. We have gathered everything together that we can find in order to give our readers a compilation of information about the female ejaculation.

The female ejaculate is the fluid that is pushed out during an orgasm. There are many theories on why it happens. Some think the fluid originates in the bladder while others think it originates in the periurethral or Skene’s glands which are located underneath the gspot. All of these areas are in close proximity and involved during sexual arousal.

There are two different types of female sexual response fluids. One is a vaginal fluid that comes out when women are aroused and it is for lubrication during intercourse. It oozes out of the vaginal walls and is a milky color, a little bit thicker, and it will dry a white color. You’ve probably noticed this fluid before. It is a perfectly normal fluid that is used to lubricate.

Female ejaculate is less commonly seen. This is not because women aren’t capabable, but due to the lack of understanding and agreement on how and why it happens. Here is what we have found: It is definitely a different liquid than urine. It’s clear in color, sweetly scented, tastes sweet and is a very light texture.

Female ejaculate can come out with great force and in large quantities – up to a couple of cups. People have studied this and reported that the color, smell, consistency and taste does vary from time to time. It is a milder, sweeter scent and taste. It contains sugar (glucose) in a much higher level than urine would contain. It also has an enzyme in it that is similar to the prostate enzyme in men. The female ejaculate is similar to male ejaculate without the semen – you can think of it that way. A lot of people compare the female Skene’s glands to the male prostate. So the female ejaculation fluid is a unique substance that is not like the heavy/thicker fluid that comes from the vaginal walls.

Where does the female ejaculate come from? Researcher’s best guess is it comes from the area around the urethra opening called the urethral sponge. But it can be accessed from inside and outside so people aren’t exactly sure. There’s a lot of debate on where it exactly originates – from the bladder, from the urethral sponge, Skene’s glands or a combination of more than one. But all these areas are in close proximity so it is hard to tell where is originates.

How can it hold so much fluid? The size of that area is small, so the likelihood of if holding a couple of cups of fluids isn’t very high. Researchers think that the glands may have the capacity to refill and empty rapidly. And this would explain how a gspot orgasm works. The longer the women’s orgasm, the more fluid she would ejaculate which is often the case. So if this is true, it’s probably a considerable amount of fluid that isn’t coming from the bladder at all.

The urethra, the vulva, the vagina and other areas fill with blood during sexual arousal. The same thing happens with the male organs in a guy. The tissue gets firmer when it is filled with blood like a male hard-on. So if you use some specific gspot masturbation techniques, you can practice having a gspot orgasm and learn how to ejaculate during the orgasm. It’s clear that a woman doesn’t really have to work hard once she understand how it works – to really expel the fluid and have that g-spot orgasm. The rhythmic pressure on the gspot is what it takes. Using a gspot vibrator usually makes it easier to achieve a gspot orgasm. Remember, the amount of fluid released during an orgasm can vary from medium amounts to large amounts so know that it is normal to release a lot of fluid.

For more information on the gspot orgasm and gspot masturbation techniques, please see our previous gspot stimulation guide.

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