Seymore Butts and Mari Possa from Paulie & Pauline's "Off the Set"

I used to have a link post, but I think that’s too easily confused with the links I’m posting on Delicious – so I’ve renamed it. Here’s a collection of links, from Twitter and my inbox, that I want you to know about:

A second KinkforAll in Washington, DC is in the works: http://kinkforall.pbworks.com/KinkForAllWashingtonDC2.

Furry Girl’s strap-on project, CockSexual is now live, and it’s hot.

The SF Site has a lengthy review of the Arse Elektronika anthology, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?

LustCinema.com  is now hosting the work of German photographer Kristyan Geyr, and fetish filmmaker Maria Beatty.

Get whipped on your lunch break: Domina-mobile. (Thanks, E!)

Cameryn Moore is a phone sex operator and performance artist.

Supervert’s new book, Perversity Think Tank is out. It attempts to formulate a philosophical conception of sexual perversion: what is perversity?

JuicyPinkBox, which just debuted two shorts at this weekend’s Cinekink festival,  is casting for its next erotica series, Therapy.

The first episode from Em & Lo’s new 10 part series from Alive Mind Media, Sex: How to Do Everything is now available online. Use the coupon code WATCHEMLO (valid until 2/28/10).

The CW network is now casting for a show called Secrets. They’re looking for women in their 20’s who are struggling with an intimacy addiction and
are trying to maintain their “perfect image” on a daily basis.

Photographers Paulie and Pauline’s book, Off the Set, is a fine art photography book showing the real private lives of adult entertainment stars. It comes out April 2nd. A selection of photos may be viewed here.

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Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #9? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

This Isn’t Play. . . BDSM and Rape – The very basic principle that we hold so dear in BDSM play, “Nothing without consent” seems to stand in stark contrast to a very common form of play, “Rape Play”.

Half-Full – When I get my ass beaten, is it as much for the sensation as it is for the “Good girl…I knew you could take that for me.” that I want so badly at the close of the scene?

House Party Part 2 -His wife walked by at one point and he cryptically asked her to “do what she did to so-and-so earlier”. His wife disappeared behind me, but I felt her hands touching me and his cock as it entered me.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Backseat Orgasms - We kissed lightly and without focus, both a sensual act and maddening at the same time. More, I needed more. In a blur I was on my knees on the seat, straddling his leg, his mouth latched onto one nipple and his fingers hunting for the key to undoing my dress pants.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Are You Watching Me? – A plan of devious proportions begins to form. Before this is over with, I will have forced you into a corner…forced you to act…forced you to give ME what I want.

See also: Pleasurists #64 and 65 for all your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

A story of FL
Contemplation
Cuddling
Floor Exercises
Good day for a milking
Goodbye
G-Spot Orgasms Galore – Part 2
Initiation
Logan
Mark. Confession #423
Mouth
Nothing says I love you quite like…
Playful and Dangerous
Play your part
Plotter
Splish Splash
The Library Hotel
The Secret I Couldn’t Keep
Triple X
Three A.M. Surprise

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Anatomy of Desire (PT. Two)
Better Cautious Than Raped
Lingerie Tales Vol 1 An Obsession Begins
My life as a gamer’s slave
Perplexed
Saturday Texting
So Simple
The Elusive Female Orgasm
The G Spot Mouse or How To Make A Woman Squirt
Transtastic: On Language

Kink & Fetish

A No Limits Slave?
Are Discipline and Punishment The Same?
BDSM Advice Series: Pet Play
Bondage 101—Part 1: Bondage Basics
Breaking the Demons
Dark/DirtyBlog Crush
Factory Doll
Hand vs. toys
I’m on a book cover: ‘The Punishment List’ by Abel
Kink
Men as sex objects
Rough Porn
Raleigh and La Fortress
Savouring the texture of my skin with his teeth
The Way They Look At Me
The Slut Chronicles #13 ~ The Auction
Whither the spankosphere?

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Happy Valentines Day!
Hookers, Catholic School Students and Facebook
Lane Bryant Makes Puppies and Kittens Cry
Pussy Cosmetics and Vagina Myths

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Thursday, February 25
Hot Knots

Friday, February 26
DSF: “The Humble Clothespin, Instrument of Beauty & Torture” w/ Earthwalker & TylerRose

Saturday, February 27

Sunday, February 28
Kinky Jews: Crazy Kinky Purim Extravaganza
New York Bondage Club
Suspension party

Monday, March 1
CV: “Tightlacing” w/ Halo Jones

Tuesday, March 2
TES: “Medical Bondage” w/ slave 705-468-560

Wednesday, March 3
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group: “An Evening with Efrain Gonzalaz”
Pleasure Salon

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Where:  Lesbian Gay Bisexual & Transgender Community Center, 208 West 13th Street, Manhattan
Cost: Single $350, Pair $600

Are you SERIOUS about improving your rope bondage skills? Do you want to erotically please and sexually pleasure your partner using rope? Do you want to learn how to be a better bottom or receiver of rope pleasures? Ready to get to the next level of education? Do you want to do safer rope suspension bondage the right way?

If so, you’ll love Rope Bondage Dojo®.

It’s designed with a multi skill-level layered education style to create an exceptional learning experience for both the experienced and novice players.

In two days, your rope skills will improve dramatically through16 hours of concentrated, personalized and hands-on education by Midori and DeLano, two of the best instructors around. It’s a weekend-long immersion and training course unlike any other!

For more information: http://www.ropedojo.com/home/?cat=7

To register: https://fire-horse-productions-inc1.ticketleap.com/NYCDojo2010

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Men, Women, Trans, Welcome!

In this workshop we will go over the fundamentals of rope. We will teach basic ties, rope aesthetics, and rope safety.

Participants must be over 18yr.

Location: Greenwich St. (btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site) Specific building number will be emailed upon registration.
Cost: $25- per person
Instructor: Lolita Wolf
Assistant instructor: V

Participants must be over 18.

The Rope Share is a bondage workshop that is structured to fit your skill levels and interests. There is one highly skilled rope instructor and one teaching assistant. The attendance will be limited to 12 students.

This month’s Rope Share workshop is a concentrated class for the beginner/novice. The instructor will teach you the basics of safety, negotiations and the elemental ties needed to start your bondage exploration.

This is a lab-environment setting and we will practice on one another. Please be open to both tie and be tied for the sake of education. Please wear comfortable clothing as there is no nudity during the class.

Bring Rope: 4 lengths of 25ft. rope; 2 lengths of 50ft.; and safety scissors. Cotton, nylon, hemp, and jute are all fine.

To sign up, send an email to RopeShare@gmail.com. Title the subject line as “Novice Rope Share Sign Up” and
include the following information in your email:

1. Your name (Scene name or legal)
2. Contact number and email address
3. Rope bondage experience and skill level ( Please be brief)
4. What you are interested in learning
5. How you heard about this workshop

Sign up now as places are expected to fill quickly! Beginners to advanced rope players are all welcome!! If you have never tried rope before, but are curious, this is a safe space to share and learn rope bondage.

Lolita Wolf discovered the BDSM scene back in the late 80’s when “online” meant being on the phone sex lines. She is an activist who defends the sexual freedom for all consenting adults, spreads the word about BDSM, sex and poly, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains “to have fun.” Lolita has learned her rope skills from Midori’s Rope Dojo and from many other instructors at Shibaricon, and many other events.  Lolita has taught workshops for organizations and events across the country, and  is well-known for a fun and entertaining style. She is co-facilitator of the TES Bondage Group. Lolita is an Emeritus Board Member of of both TES and Leather Leadership Conference. She is a former Chair of Lesbian Sex Mafia, an honorary member of GMSMA and an Associate Member of New York boys of Leather. She is active with National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and Leather Pride Night. Her writing has appeared in On Our backs and Prometheus magazines and she has authored two books: Spanking and CBT in a Nutshell.

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Thursday, March 4
The Baroness’ Fetish Retinue party: Liquid Latex Spring Metamorphosis!

Friday, March 5
Apple Munch
DSF: “Mummification: The Bound Body Altar” w/ Klawdya Rothschild
Eagle NYC: ”Full Fetish Friday”

Saturday, March 6
Rope Share w/ Lolita Wolf
NYC TNG General Munch

Sunday, March 7
MAsT MetroNY: “Demystifying the pedestal”
New York Bondage Club

Monday, March 8
CV: TBA

Tuesday, March 9
TES: “Erogenous Torture Workshop: Dicks, clits and nipples” w/ Madame Sade

Wednesday, March 10
TES Novice Group: “Fem Domme Kink Academy” w/ Princess Kali

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Location: LGBT Center, 208 West 13th Street (bet 7th and 8th Ave.)
Cost: $5/LSM members, $10/Non members

If you have ever had a scene that lured you with the promise of edgy intensity, but wondered if you could handle the situation before, during or afterward, this discussion is for you! We will explore the reasons some people enjoy play that is VERY edgy psychologically, emotionally and physically, and how you can go about making that fantasy a reality. Inherent in this discussion is the level of responsibility of both / all partners, how to manage risk, and how you can support your partner in the aftermath. Edgy play can be hot, and we will look at ways to avoid some common pitfalls, as well as how to recover with grace and honor when things go off of the planned path.

*Please be advised: Some highly controversial scenes (i.e. racial or incest play, weaponry, etc.) will be discussed. Please do not attend if these are outside of your comfort zone.

About Mollena Williams

Mollena Williams is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, solo-performer, BDSM Educator and Executive Pervert. She travels hither and yon speaking on a broad spectrum of subjects within the Leather Lifestyle. She’s a founding member of the Crowded Fire Theater Company, lives in San Francisco and blogs at The Perverted Negress. She is also proud to have been awarded the title Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009.

With over 12 years of experience in the BDSM and Alternative community she frequently travels nationally, teaching Leather Lifestyle Classes. Her work has been published by the Society Of Janus Newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Society’s magazine, Prometheus, as well as the online magazine at ALT.COM and Bondage.com. She was interviewed for The Bottoming Book, ColorLines Magazine, and the award winning documentary “Vice & Consent”. She also get all tied up in the instructional video, Jay Wiseman Teaches Rope Bondage. Her essay entitled “BDSM and Race Play” will be appearing in the upcoming Best Sex Writing 2010.

About LSM

LSM is a support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female-born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. And, who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited sexual expression in a safe, sane, consensual and confidential way.

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Where: Happy Ending Lounge
Address: 302 Broome Street (Between Forsyth & Eldridge.), NYC
Directions: (B/D to Grand, J/M/Z to Bowery, F to Delancey or F/V to 2nd Avenue, )  Look for the hot pink awning that says “XIE HE Health Club.”
Cost: Free

Get kinky with memoir writers, BDSM educators, erotica authors, a porn star, and more at In The Flesh. Featuring Melissa Febos (author of dominatrix memoir Whip Smart), blogger Selina Fire (Pleasure Salon), rope bondage expert Monk (Twistedmonk.com), Julie Powell (author of Cleaving and Julie and Julia), erotica writer Xan West (contributor, Best SM Erotica 3), Mollena Williams (author, “BDSM and Playing with Race” in Best Sex Writing 2010, BDSM educator Lolita Wolf (LeatherYenta.com) and feminist porn star Madison Young (MadisonBound.com). Hosted and curated by Rachel Kramer Bussel (Best Sex Writing 2010, Bottoms Up, Spanked, Yes, Sir, Yes, Ma’am). Prize giveaways sponsored by Kink Academy (shirt, journal, purse, aftercare blanket, memberships and more) and Eden Fantasys (suede flogger and faux fur bondage cuffs). Authors’ books will be available for sale by Mobile Libris. Free cupcakes by Baked by Melissa along with chips, candy and other snacks will be served.

In the Flesh is a monthly reading series hosted at the appropriately named Happy Ending Lounge, and features the country’s best erotic writers sharing stories to get you hot and bothered, hosted and curated by acclaimed erotic writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel.

Full writeup and reader bios  here.

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Location: Bluestockings Bookstore
Street: 172 Allen St., NYC

Body Heat is a fierce, sassy, irreverent Femme artist collective setting performance art communities ablaze and smashing Femme stereotypes. They’ll challenge your assumptions, entertain the hell out of you, and leave you panting and begging for more!

Armed with an arsenal of erotic song, dance, camp, poetry, smut, and prose Body Heat was hailed by the Center for Sex Positive Culture (Seattle, WA.) as “The best Femme porn writers in the country.” These `pull no punches,’ `it’s never too nasty,’ power femmes are touring to support and promote queer femmes and their contributions to erotica, the sex industry and the sex-positive movement. Thru the use of art and performance they are literally, visually, emotionally, psychologically and socially revealing a more complex sexual identity for queer femmes.

The line-up will feature :

• Kathleen Delaney (Atlanta, GA.)–Body Heat founder and spoken-word performer
• Meliza Bañales (San Francisco, CA)–Sister Spit vet, former slam champion, filmmaker, writer
• Jen Cross (San Francisco, CA)–published author and sex-workshop facilitator
• Nicky Click (Durham, NH)–Nationally renowned singer / performer
• Alex Cafarelli (Oakland, CA.)–martial artist, writer, versatile performer, and Psycick Slutz co-founder
• Vagina Jenkins (Atlanta, GA)–The Queen of Queer burlesque
• with special guests:
• Diana Cage (NYC)–former On Our Backs editor, radio personality, and acclaimed author
• Gigi Frost (Boston, MA)–The Femme Show founder & performer
• J. Dellecave (Riverside, CA)–dancer and performance artist extraordinaire

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