Thursday, February 25
Hot Knots

Friday, February 26
DSF: “The Humble Clothespin, Instrument of Beauty & Torture” w/ Earthwalker & TylerRose

Saturday, February 27

Sunday, February 28
Kinky Jews: Crazy Kinky Purim Extravaganza
New York Bondage Club
Suspension party

Monday, March 1
CV: “Tightlacing” w/ Halo Jones

Tuesday, March 2
TES: “Medical Bondage” w/ slave 705-468-560

Wednesday, March 3
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group: “An Evening with Efrain Gonzalaz”
Pleasure Salon

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Where:  Lesbian Gay Bisexual & Transgender Community Center, 208 West 13th Street, Manhattan
Cost: Single $350, Pair $600

Are you SERIOUS about improving your rope bondage skills? Do you want to erotically please and sexually pleasure your partner using rope? Do you want to learn how to be a better bottom or receiver of rope pleasures? Ready to get to the next level of education? Do you want to do safer rope suspension bondage the right way?

If so, you’ll love Rope Bondage Dojo®.

It’s designed with a multi skill-level layered education style to create an exceptional learning experience for both the experienced and novice players.

In two days, your rope skills will improve dramatically through16 hours of concentrated, personalized and hands-on education by Midori and DeLano, two of the best instructors around. It’s a weekend-long immersion and training course unlike any other!

For more information: http://www.ropedojo.com/home/?cat=7

To register: https://fire-horse-productions-inc1.ticketleap.com/NYCDojo2010

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Men, Women, Trans, Welcome!

In this workshop we will go over the fundamentals of rope. We will teach basic ties, rope aesthetics, and rope safety.

Participants must be over 18yr.

Location: Greenwich St. (btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site) Specific building number will be emailed upon registration.
Cost: $25- per person
Instructor: Lolita Wolf
Assistant instructor: V

Participants must be over 18.

The Rope Share is a bondage workshop that is structured to fit your skill levels and interests. There is one highly skilled rope instructor and one teaching assistant. The attendance will be limited to 12 students.

This month’s Rope Share workshop is a concentrated class for the beginner/novice. The instructor will teach you the basics of safety, negotiations and the elemental ties needed to start your bondage exploration.

This is a lab-environment setting and we will practice on one another. Please be open to both tie and be tied for the sake of education. Please wear comfortable clothing as there is no nudity during the class.

Bring Rope: 4 lengths of 25ft. rope; 2 lengths of 50ft.; and safety scissors. Cotton, nylon, hemp, and jute are all fine.

To sign up, send an email to RopeShare@gmail.com. Title the subject line as “Novice Rope Share Sign Up” and
include the following information in your email:

1. Your name (Scene name or legal)
2. Contact number and email address
3. Rope bondage experience and skill level ( Please be brief)
4. What you are interested in learning
5. How you heard about this workshop

Sign up now as places are expected to fill quickly! Beginners to advanced rope players are all welcome!! If you have never tried rope before, but are curious, this is a safe space to share and learn rope bondage.

Lolita Wolf discovered the BDSM scene back in the late 80’s when “online” meant being on the phone sex lines. She is an activist who defends the sexual freedom for all consenting adults, spreads the word about BDSM, sex and poly, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains “to have fun.” Lolita has learned her rope skills from Midori’s Rope Dojo and from many other instructors at Shibaricon, and many other events.  Lolita has taught workshops for organizations and events across the country, and  is well-known for a fun and entertaining style. She is co-facilitator of the TES Bondage Group. Lolita is an Emeritus Board Member of of both TES and Leather Leadership Conference. She is a former Chair of Lesbian Sex Mafia, an honorary member of GMSMA and an Associate Member of New York boys of Leather. She is active with National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and Leather Pride Night. Her writing has appeared in On Our backs and Prometheus magazines and she has authored two books: Spanking and CBT in a Nutshell.

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Thursday, March 4
The Baroness’ Fetish Retinue party: Liquid Latex Spring Metamorphosis!

Friday, March 5
Apple Munch
DSF: “Mummification: The Bound Body Altar” w/ Klawdya Rothschild
Eagle NYC: ”Full Fetish Friday”

Saturday, March 6
Rope Share w/ Lolita Wolf
NYC TNG General Munch

Sunday, March 7
MAsT MetroNY: “Demystifying the pedestal”
New York Bondage Club

Monday, March 8
CV: TBA

Tuesday, March 9
TES: “Erogenous Torture Workshop: Dicks, clits and nipples” w/ Madame Sade

Wednesday, March 10
TES Novice Group: “Fem Domme Kink Academy” w/ Princess Kali

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Location: LGBT Center, 208 West 13th Street (bet 7th and 8th Ave.)
Cost: $5/LSM members, $10/Non members

If you have ever had a scene that lured you with the promise of edgy intensity, but wondered if you could handle the situation before, during or afterward, this discussion is for you! We will explore the reasons some people enjoy play that is VERY edgy psychologically, emotionally and physically, and how you can go about making that fantasy a reality. Inherent in this discussion is the level of responsibility of both / all partners, how to manage risk, and how you can support your partner in the aftermath. Edgy play can be hot, and we will look at ways to avoid some common pitfalls, as well as how to recover with grace and honor when things go off of the planned path.

*Please be advised: Some highly controversial scenes (i.e. racial or incest play, weaponry, etc.) will be discussed. Please do not attend if these are outside of your comfort zone.

About Mollena Williams

Mollena Williams is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, solo-performer, BDSM Educator and Executive Pervert. She travels hither and yon speaking on a broad spectrum of subjects within the Leather Lifestyle. She’s a founding member of the Crowded Fire Theater Company, lives in San Francisco and blogs at The Perverted Negress. She is also proud to have been awarded the title Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009.

With over 12 years of experience in the BDSM and Alternative community she frequently travels nationally, teaching Leather Lifestyle Classes. Her work has been published by the Society Of Janus Newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Society’s magazine, Prometheus, as well as the online magazine at ALT.COM and Bondage.com. She was interviewed for The Bottoming Book, ColorLines Magazine, and the award winning documentary “Vice & Consent”. She also get all tied up in the instructional video, Jay Wiseman Teaches Rope Bondage. Her essay entitled “BDSM and Race Play” will be appearing in the upcoming Best Sex Writing 2010.

About LSM

LSM is a support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female-born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. And, who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited sexual expression in a safe, sane, consensual and confidential way.

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Where: Happy Ending Lounge
Address: 302 Broome Street (Between Forsyth & Eldridge.), NYC
Directions: (B/D to Grand, J/M/Z to Bowery, F to Delancey or F/V to 2nd Avenue, )  Look for the hot pink awning that says “XIE HE Health Club.”
Cost: Free

Get kinky with memoir writers, BDSM educators, erotica authors, a porn star, and more at In The Flesh. Featuring Melissa Febos (author of dominatrix memoir Whip Smart), blogger Selina Fire (Pleasure Salon), rope bondage expert Monk (Twistedmonk.com), Julie Powell (author of Cleaving and Julie and Julia), erotica writer Xan West (contributor, Best SM Erotica 3), Mollena Williams (author, “BDSM and Playing with Race” in Best Sex Writing 2010, BDSM educator Lolita Wolf (LeatherYenta.com) and feminist porn star Madison Young (MadisonBound.com). Hosted and curated by Rachel Kramer Bussel (Best Sex Writing 2010, Bottoms Up, Spanked, Yes, Sir, Yes, Ma’am). Prize giveaways sponsored by Kink Academy (shirt, journal, purse, aftercare blanket, memberships and more) and Eden Fantasys (suede flogger and faux fur bondage cuffs). Authors’ books will be available for sale by Mobile Libris. Free cupcakes by Baked by Melissa along with chips, candy and other snacks will be served.

In the Flesh is a monthly reading series hosted at the appropriately named Happy Ending Lounge, and features the country’s best erotic writers sharing stories to get you hot and bothered, hosted and curated by acclaimed erotic writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel.

Full writeup and reader bios  here.

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Location: Bluestockings Bookstore
Street: 172 Allen St., NYC

Body Heat is a fierce, sassy, irreverent Femme artist collective setting performance art communities ablaze and smashing Femme stereotypes. They’ll challenge your assumptions, entertain the hell out of you, and leave you panting and begging for more!

Armed with an arsenal of erotic song, dance, camp, poetry, smut, and prose Body Heat was hailed by the Center for Sex Positive Culture (Seattle, WA.) as “The best Femme porn writers in the country.” These `pull no punches,’ `it’s never too nasty,’ power femmes are touring to support and promote queer femmes and their contributions to erotica, the sex industry and the sex-positive movement. Thru the use of art and performance they are literally, visually, emotionally, psychologically and socially revealing a more complex sexual identity for queer femmes.

The line-up will feature :

• Kathleen Delaney (Atlanta, GA.)–Body Heat founder and spoken-word performer
• Meliza Bañales (San Francisco, CA)–Sister Spit vet, former slam champion, filmmaker, writer
• Jen Cross (San Francisco, CA)–published author and sex-workshop facilitator
• Nicky Click (Durham, NH)–Nationally renowned singer / performer
• Alex Cafarelli (Oakland, CA.)–martial artist, writer, versatile performer, and Psycick Slutz co-founder
• Vagina Jenkins (Atlanta, GA)–The Queen of Queer burlesque
• with special guests:
• Diana Cage (NYC)–former On Our Backs editor, radio personality, and acclaimed author
• Gigi Frost (Boston, MA)–The Femme Show founder & performer
• J. Dellecave (Riverside, CA)–dancer and performance artist extraordinaire

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Start Without Me – It’s for when one of us is too tired, or not in the mood, or out of town, or the other of us is too horny to wait. But now, here, right in front of me, you’re touching yourself, playing yourself, and it is the fucking hottest thing I’ve ever seen.

Wicked Tongues - There are so many different ways that a mouth can connect themselves with my cunt. And so many partners, each with their own way of connecting with me.

“Vanilla” Bigotry – I effectively retired my personal usage of the word “vanilla” when one of these sick fucks told me that he hated that term. He said it was condescending, and the implication that kinky people have any idea what goes on in other people’s bedrooms just because they aren’t fucking around in a dungeon was ridiculous.

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Audible – More hushed giggles, more kissing sounds. A gasp followed immediately by a quiet, restrained moan. I had to make up the images in my head, try to picture what caused that gasp, who’s mouth was on what body part. Or was it even a mouth?

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Swing Shift Volume 33- We’re “Sexually Festive!” – What I do know is that I love Veronica now more than ever, that we choose our extra-marital partners with care and respect, and never fail to remember that our primary relationship is the most important one.  If we’re considered sluts or promiscuous by others, so what?

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Mollena Williams. Photo by Colm McCarthy

NYC is lucky this week, because my friend, West Coast based kinkster and educator Mollena Williams, is in town. These are workshops you’d otherwise have to travel to national conferences to see, so take advantage of her presence here, and go!

Here’s her schedule:

Tuesday, March 16
TES Presents: RACE: The Final Frontier”

The idea of playing into stereotypes and bigotry, of doing scenes that recall horrors from the darkest moments of history is, in many folk’s opinion, best left alone. But…for those who are drawn to explore deeper crevasses of our psyche, the desire to explore that taboo can be compelling. Even if you’re not desirous of acting on these fantasies, taking charge of them and letting go of guilt can be an amazing release. Should you decide to act on these fantasies, you’ll get tips on how to approach this edgeplay, what to do if things do not fall out as planned and the pros and cons of doing these scenes in public venues. Expect the unexpected and prepare to surprise yourself.
http://fetlife.com/events/14083

Thurs., Mar. 18
BDSM Night at In the Flesh

Get kinky with memoir writers, BDSM educators, erotica authors, a porn star, and more at In The Flesh. Featuring Melissa Febos (author of dominatrix memoir Whip Smart), blogger Selina Fire (Pleasure Salon), rope bondage expert Monk (Twistedmonk.com), Julie Powell (author of Cleaving and Julie and Julia), erotica writer Xan West (contributor, Best SM Erotica 3), Mollena Williams (author, “BDSM and Playing with Race” in Best Sex Writing 2010, BDSM educator Lolita Wolf (LeatherYenta.com) and feminist porn star Madison Young (MadisonBound.com). Note: Both floors of Happy Ending will be opened for this event.
http://fetlife.com/events/11598

Friday, Mar. 19
LSM presents: Taboo Play, and Working Through Extremes

If you have ever had a scene that lured you with the promise of edgy intensity, but wondered if you could handle the situation before, during or afterward, this discussion is for you! We will explore the reasons some people enjoy play that is VERY edgy psychologically, emotionally and physically, and how you can go about making that fantasy a reality. Inherent in this discussion is the level of responsibility of both / all partners, how to manage risk, and how you can support your partner in the aftermath. Edgy play can be hot, and we will look at ways to avoid some common pitfalls, as well as how to recover with grace and honor when things go off of the planned path.
http://bit.ly/91f2gk

Sunday, Mar. 21
Instigate NYC: Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy

Self-identification is difficult for anyone in the alternative lifestyle. It can be even more challenging for people who see themselves as strong in their lives but desirous of submission. There is a great deal of pressure in the BDSM community to “seem submissive,” so what do you do when you see yourself as strong and fierce and yet crave mastery and domination? Believe me, you are not alone. There are many submissives and bottoms and slaves who are strong and independent and finding their way through the maze of the Kink Community! This class is an intense discussion of self-assessment personal identification, passion and power. From those who struggle with their desire to submit, to those who strive for greater strength of purpose, this class will be a wonderful opportunity to bond with the likeminded and suss out your strength in an open setting. And for tops, dominants and masters, this is an excellent opportunity to get into the mind of those who are strong and embrace the dichotomy of strength in submission and freedom in slavery!
http://fetlife.com/events/14295

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