I remember back in high school, there was a specific girl who made a big deal every year about her new school clothes. Each day for the first couple weeks of the new school year, we had to hear about each new article of clothing. And I admit, at the time I was self conscious about it since 99% of my school clothes came from the local Goodwill or the local hospital thrift shop. That was long before it was cool to recycle – hmmm, we were going green with my school clothes But I digress.

I remember how I felt about her bragging about the new clothes and how I felt self conscious about my “gently used” clothes. But I also remember that she had very few friends, didn’t really stand out in any way and had many insecurities. Even then, I had a feeling that was her way of making others think she was “better” than them.

But – how is that different from the scenes we see of people stampeding, rioting, starting fights and in some cases – hurting other people, to get the latest pair of Nikes? Now I admit that I definitely prefer to go barefoot and take every opportunity not to wear any shoes and while I like to have attractive shoes, being comfortable is my priority. I never wear heels since I’m just over 6′ tall – but I do know there are many beautiful shoes on the market. They just don’t find their way to my closet

So – here’s what I wonder….

Why do kids feel they NEED the latest Nikes?

Why do families who are struggling to pay the rent/mortgage and pinching pennies to buy groceries – feel it makes sense to buy overpriced sneakers for their kids?

As an example of how out of control the mentality is – this is a current auction on Ebay. The funny thing I noticed is that the ad says “New with box: A brand-new, unused, and unworn item (including handmade items) in the original packaging” and then below that it says “This Foamposite model was first previewed on the feet of Gentry Humphrey at the Sole Collector x Penny Hardaway event in Las Vegas.”

New shoes are great, attractive shoes are great. For ladies, sexy shoes can be great – although I believe that they do all kinds of damage to feet. But let’s dig deeper…

Why do you feel you need the latest Nikes or the latest sexy shoes? If you’re buying and wearing them to make you feel better about yourself — just understand that there are better ways to develop real and healthy self confidence, self esteem and respect for yourself.

Very soon, I’m launching a new 12 week program for people who want to develop a real and healthy love, respect and acceptance for themselves — and its the kind of respect that you can develop, no matter what kind of shoes you wear…  http://www.the12steppingstones.com/love-yourself.html

What are your thoughts?? What do you think are the reasons why people feel they need the latest expensive shoes? Of course, its not just shoes, but that was in the news today…

Riot erupts at Florida Mall during Nike All Star collection sneaker release event: MyFoxORLANDO.com

We all know people that seem to flirt as easily as they breathe. Are you one of the people who believe the art of flirting is something that you either have or you don’t? Take heart – that isn’t true at all.  The art of flirting is something that can be mastered by anyone with an interest in learning how to flirt.  It’s one of those things you can learn with plenty of practice and is learned from the inside out. Every person masters the art of flirting differently. However, there are some basics of flirting which might help you to find the flirt inside and bring her out to play.

The first thing to know about the art of flirting is that it can be done by anyone.  You don’t need to be the most attractive person in the room (and always remember that beauty is a subjective quality) and you don’t have to be the smartest, most athletic or most outgoing either.  The art of flirting is designed to bring out the wonderful qualities that are unique about you and to let them shine so others can be drawn to them.  That means flirting begins on the inside.  Your first priority is to determine the qualities you like about yourself and you will use them as a basis – flirting is an art of quiet confidence.

Next you need to know what to do to let others know that you’re a terrific person. Flirting is primarily non-verbal.  You have likely heard the eyes are the windows to the soul and you will use your eyes as a starting point for flirting.  Have you ever glanced around a room when you were bored and then unexpectedly caught the eye of a stranger? Did you hold their gaze for a few moments?  Most people find this causes their heart to race and the mind to start working, wondering what caught that person’s attention.

People are drawn to others who are attracted to them. So, you can convey your interest on many levels with the different types of looks you give people.  The art of flirting incorporates many different types of gazes.  If you are in a public setting and just want to catch the eye of a stranger – meet their gaze, hold it for a few seconds, shift your gaze to something else and then glance back at them for a few more seconds.  This quickly conveys that you are interested in flirting with them and by watching their reactions you can tell whether or not they share your interest.  More aggressive flirting is done through giving the object of flirtation a look, which says, “I am thinking dirty things about you”.  Sometimes this is done with a lingering gaze, sometimes with an up-and-down-the-body glance and sometimes with a stare, which suggests that you are hungry and looking to devour them. Obviously, you won’t use these aggressive flirting techniques with everyone.

In addition to eye contact, the art of flirting makes use of other types of body language.  Positioning your body in a way that shows you are open to communication is crucial to the art of flirting.  Subtle touching is a big part of flirting, but it should be done cautiously.  You should read the other person’s body language to determine whether they are welcoming the signals you are sending out.  You’ll be able to tell if it’s appropriate to touch their arm or lean your leg against theirs while talking.  The art of flirting consists of a combination of conveying your intentions while reading the signals of the other person. You can learn to read other people’s body language with practice. There are also a number of articles on this site about various aspects of body language.  A successful combination of flirting and body language stem from a casual confidence in your own self-worth which makes the art of flirting enjoyable and fun.

It may be surprising what a damper children can be on your love life. The first year after a baby is born many women struggle with exhaustion, fluctuating hormones and the overwhelming adjustment that a child places on your life. Often they struggle to get in the mood or stay in the mood during this time period. And their husbands struggle to be supportive, still wanting to have a satisfying sex life while juggling a family. It should get easier as the children get older, but it doesn’t always. It is important to take time now to revamp your love life so that your family has a better shot at staying together. A sexless marriage is all work and no fun!

Schedule Regular Dates

It is important to hire a babysitter on a regular basis, once a week or twice a month, to allow the two of you to reconnect emotionally. Take advantage of your dates to spend real time together talking and connecting the way you did before kids entered your relationship. If you start this when you are young, it will be easier to carry it forward in the future. Connecting emotionally will help you when you contact physically later as well. It is difficult to have a fulfilling sex life when you are not connecting on all levels of your relationship.

Take Weekends Away Together

Schedule vacations that do not involve the children. This can be a short weekend trip where you drop the kids off at the grandparents, or weeklong trips to paradise where you hire a sitter to cover for you. No matter if you do it in short bursts or longer stays, it should be a regular part of your life. Even if you cannot afford to go on a fancy vacation, sending the kids away for the weekend and having the house to yourself for a few days can make a big difference in allowing yourself to connect with each other again. It is important to try to do this each year.

Schedule Sex and Stick to Your Schedule

One of the best ways to make sure you are having sex on a regular basis is to schedule it. You need to follow through with your plan, and it may mean a few quickies on bad days, but it can help jumpstart a tired libido to have sex on a regular basis. You can take the thirty-day challenge, which means you have sex every day for thirty days. Many women who struggle with wanting sex find that this helps them rekindle their desire and at the end of the challenge they may not have sex every single day, but they do a lot more often than they did before the challenge.

Try Something New

Sometimes you just need to be willing to try something new. This may mean acting out a fantasy for your partner, playing a game, or trying a new position. There are games, and books available to help you figure out new things to try if you have gotten into sex slump and need ideas. If you are embarrassed to purchase them at the store, take advantage of online stores. It can make your love life more exciting if you know you are trying something new.

About the Author:
Heather Green is a freelance writer for several regional magazines in North Carolina as well as a resident blogger for www.onlinenursingdegrees.org. Her writing experience includes fashion, business, health, agriculture and a wide range of other topics. Heather has just completed research on nursing programs online and online nursing school.

Let me start by saying “intensity” is an understatement in this case. Anyone who reads my blog will likely know there are a wide variety of sex toys on the market. And all of you ladies and gentlemen who have done “private testing” can also agree there are many choices on the market. Just when I thought I’d seen it all – Jopen released the Intensity. I saw an advance press release about this gadget and definitely had to see and try one for myself.

To see if this might be of interest, let me ask a few questions:

• Do you like rabbit vibrators?
• Do you like g-spot stimulation?
• Do you enjoy stimulation in various vaginal areas?
• Would you like a vibrating, stimulating shaft that you can inflate?
• Would you like to have stronger and more intense orgasms?

Now I’ve got your attention…

Most women and men likely aren’t overly familiar with the pelvic floor muscles in a woman. But, the more toned these muscles are, the more control you have and the more intense your orgasms can be. So, it would seem that we would all like to strengthen these muscles. You can do the standard PC muscle exercises – this is an article from the Mayo Clinic website about pelvic floor muscle or PC muscle exercises – http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/kegel-exercises/WO00119. You can do these exercises anywhere. But you can also add a powerful new “workout” by using the Intensity and you will enjoy it.

Here’s the short story of how the Intensity was created. A new gadget was being tested and developed – when the researchers heard an interesting report from one of the women in the study. She had a very powerful orgasm using this new gadget. They found out the other women were having more powerful orgasms too. So, they made some modifications to this new invention – which made it more effective and to rev up the stimulation and arousal features.

So – imagine a sex toy that is good for you, that will help you develop muscles that are good for various health concerns, not just more powerful orgasms. You will notice a difference in the first few minutes with this toy. It comes with stimulation gel that can be used on the two metal pads on the shaft. There is a raised area that can stimulate the g-spot and there is a rabbit feature on the front, to stimulate the clitoris at the same time. If that isn’t enough, you can also press on the bottom of the toy and it inflates the shaft.

Master Sexpert Tips

• Be sure to clean the Intensity thoroughly before and after use
• The Intensity is made from silicone, so do not use silicone lubes
• You can add a bit of electrode stimulating gel on the metal plates on the Intensity for greater stimulation
• Before you inflate the shaft of the Intensity, be sure you have it positioned to stimulate all the areas at once. You may want to adjust the position to get more stimulation at one area or another. Once you find the position that is the most pleasurable for you – then you can press on the bubble bottom of the Intensity in order to inflate the shaft until it is right for you
• Press the quick air release valve to deflate before removing the Intensity from the vagina.
• The control panel is very easy to use and has LED lights to let you know what level of stimulation you are using – this can be helpful when you and your partner use the Intensity together
• If you are using it with your partner, be sure to let them know if it is too strong or not strong enough – one small adjustment on the control pad can feel very different in the body
• I will say that you should be careful not to overuse the Intensity and definitely take your time to work up to the higher settings. Even if it “feels good” while you’re using it, remember with any exercises, you should build up your tolerance and build up the “intensity”

Men – the Intensity is a great gift for your woman that she will love, it will improve her sexual health, you can also feel the difference as her PC muscles are strengthened and she is likely to have stronger orgasms. Hmmm, sounds like a great Valentine’s Day gift – for both of you…

Get your own Jopen Intensity – http://shop.shedyourinhibitions.com/jopen-intensity.html

Details from the Jopen website:

The first easy-to-use kegel exerciser that automatically strengthens and tones the pelvic muscles responsible for intensifying orgasms
• Five incremental speeds of electro stimulation
• Inflation pump operates with a gentle squeeze and deflates with quick air release valve
• Includes Electrode Gel to intensify the electro stimulation
• Dual Stimulating Contacts enhance pelvic contractions
• Highest grade Safe and Pure silicone
• State-of-the-art LED indicator with easy on/off button
• Created, designed, tested, perfected and manufactured 100% in the USA
• Uses 4 AAA batteries
• Patents Pending

• Click Here to download the Intensity Instruction Booklet

• Click Here to download the Intensity Flyer

Get your own Jopen Intensity – http://shop.shedyourinhibitions.com/jopen-intensity.html

Many people display self-defeating behavior throughout their life, without realizing they are doing it. People around them may recognize this behavior, but not know what to do about it or how to help. By the very nature of it, self-defeating behavior, is destructive and is something we need to identify in ourselves and work to modify this behavior.

Some of the most well know and familiar examples of self-defeating behavior, include: Tiger Woods, Jesse James, Lindsay Lohan, O J Simpson, and many others. There are many people in the public who watch their antics with morbid fascination, but there are actually things we can learn from self-defeating behavior.

1 Admitting there is a problem is the first meaningful step

It is impossible to fix a problem that we can’t see and won’t admit is a problem. This may sound simple, and it is easy to say. But the implementation can be where you will have an issue. Even if you are only able to admit it to yourself, take that first step and admit there is a problem and you need to make some changes.

2 We can accomplish anything that we want bad enough

Once you admit there is a problem, you must be determined to make a change. Understand that self-defeating behavior is a temporary fix. While these things may make you feel really good in the moment, they are not part of a long term positive and healthy relationship or life. If you want to have healthy relationships and a better chance at a happy and fulfilling life, you will have to stop the self-defeating actions.

3 A person must want to change, you can’t force them

In all aspects of life, we can’t change another person unless they want to change. Another side of this, is that while you can change to make a loved one happy, the most lasting changes are ones that we do for ourselves first and foremost. Make the change because of the things it will do for you first and because it will make other people happy, as your lesser motivation.

4 Face the problems head on

You can take your time and think about subtle or minimal ways to adjust your behavior. Often people really enjoy their self-defeating behavior, so in order to make a real and meaningful change, you have to face the problem head on.

5 We need to identify the behavior and then work to improve it.

You never want to look at your life and realize it wasn’t all you could’ve made out of it. You may not get everything you think you should have in life, but that’s not what I mean. Have you done everything you can in a positive way, to have a healthy and positive life that truly makes you happy?

6 Get out of a bad situation and into a more positive situation

We’ve all heard the saying “Jumping from the frying pan into the fire”. We don’t want to jump from one problem into another problem. Be sure you don’t stop one type of self-defeating behavior, only to start something else that is negative. To complete the change – consider the negative behavior and what you will do to avoid it the next time the opportunity arises. That will help you to avoid slipping back into those bad patterns.

7 Years of positives can be gone in a minute

Keep in mind that you can and will lose the trust and respect of people when you are behaving in self-defeating ways. It can take a long time to earn back that respect and you will likely need to proof to people that you can be trusted and that you deserve their respect. It take time to earn respect, but can be lost in a minute and the longer the bad behavior persists, the harder it will be to earn back that trust and respect.

8 Old patterns can be changed – if we want to make a change

Never think you are too old or unable to learn and make changes. Now, if you have a negative attitude and stubbornly refuse to put the effort into changes, then you’re right, you will not change. But have a positive attitude that you want to make positive changes and understand why you’re putting the effort into changes and it is very possible. Your age doesn’t create the difficulty in making changes, your attitude does.

9 Self-involvement and entitlement lead to self-defeating behavior

Remember that having a healthy love for yourself does NOT mean you focus so heavily on yourself that you ignore the effect your actions have on other people. As you make positive changes, people who don’t have your best interest at heart will likely be hurt and show fear or anger because you are making positive changes. But don’t ignore the people closest to you. There may be times when you need to talk with them and let them know why and how your behavior will be changing. Involve them in the changes and help them understand how the changes are positive for you and your loved ones.

10 Overcoming self-defeating behavior is very rewarding

Sure you feel good in the moment. A reason why you do things that are self-defeating is because they feel good. At this moment, you may not believe it, but overcoming self-defeating behavior is very rewarding. Knowing that you overcame a problem is rewarding, but seeing a positive change in your life is priceless for you and your loved ones. This will also enable you to develop self-esteem and self-respect.

If you are one of the people who is battling self-defeating behavior and other problems in your life, we invite you to visit http://www.the12steppingstone.com to get a peek at an exciting new 12 week program to help you work through the things that are holding you back from having the happy and fulfilling life that you want. Enter your name and email in the box on the page and you will be one of the first to be notified when The 12 Stepping Stones to Learn to Love, Accept and Respect Yourself Program is ready to launch.

Some sex toys just feel so good – in your hand, against your skin, in your body and any other way. This is one of those toys. If you haven’t felt a “pure skin” toy – you should. It feels very much like the real thing. The toy I reviewed is a Pure Skin Bendie. The exterior material does have a great skin feel to it and it also looks like a penis. The shaft can also be bent before or during use and depending on how vigorous the play is, it will move and bend with your body.

Since the toy bends, you can bend it before use if you want to use it  to massage your g-spot or your man’s prostate. You can also bend it to make it easier to reach the clitoris, the g-spot, the perineum, the anus of any other area.

I really like the life like look and feel. If you really want to test the feel before use, you can stroke it and I have a feeling it will remind you of a penis. It comes in ivory and brown – so you can pick the look you prefer J

The Pure Skin Bendie has 10 functions – so you have various vibrations, pulses and escalation patterns – depending on your current mood or to change along with your mood as you play.

Master Sexpert Tips –

1 – This toy can be used vaginally or anally. But NEVER use a toy, finger or hand in or around the anus and then move to the vagina – without thorough cleaning.  If you want to avoid stopping to clean the toy and still be safe, use a condom for anal play and take it off and still wash it off before any vaginal play.

2 – Be sure to clean it thoroughly before and after work and good old soap and water works.

3 – You can play with the bendability and use it on your g-spot. It can stimulate the g-spot but its not as easy to reach the g-spot as some other toys.

4 – Remember if you experiment with g-spot stimulation – use the restroom first and be prepare for it to feel like you still have to go, as you and your partner continue to stimulate this area. But that does not mean you should stop – it means you’re getting closer to an awesome orgasm.

While I like this toy very much – there are a couple of concerns.

1 – The toy does seem to clean up very easily, but even after using a lot of soap and water, I found that the surface has an unusual feel. However I will continue to talk to friends and others to determine if this is okay.

2 – Also – the “skin” on this toy is shaped to look lifelike, but I also discovered a spot on it where the “skin” created an air bubble. Its not something you feel when using it, but my concern is about the material tearing over time. But I won’t know that for a while.

3 – The controls are on the bottom and very easy to work. This position for a partner to use the toy on you is very convenient, but it is also very easy to turn it off accidentally and who wants to turn it off early J

Overall I think you will really enjoy the Pure Skin Bendie if you enjoy flexible, penis shaped vibrators and definitely check out the feel J

Two similar toys that you may want to take a look at:

http://shop.shedyourinhibitions.com/10-function-pure-skin-stud.html

http://shop.shedyourinhibitions.com/pure-bendie-10-function.html

  Life-like, plushy soft, unscented, maintenance free dual density, Pure Skin® multi-function dong

  Quiet, flexing vertebrae allows bending in any direction

  10 sensational functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation

  Powerful motor positioned in the tip

  EZ push button control with state-of-the-art memory chip that resumes last function used

  Automatic on/off button

  TPR (dong) ABS (control)

  3 AAA batteries

  7”x 1.5”/ 17.75 cm x 3.75 cm

As people, there are certain things we want and need in our lives and there are limitations and boundaries that we need to identify and we need to enforce for our well-being. There can be times when we assert our boundaries and we may strike a negative cord with friends, co-workers and family members. So – how can we be assertive and look out for our well-being while maintaining positive and healthy relationships?

Be Clear and Avoid Confusion

Let’s start at the beginning, you need to know what you need and want in your life. Second, you need to be clear in your own mind about your boundaries. When you’re thinking about these things, be open and honest with yourself.  Once you understand your needs, wants and boundaries – we need to convey those details with people in our lives.

Explain Your Boundaries to People in Your Life

In order to respect your boundaries, you have to tell the people in your life about them. Obviously all the people don’t need to know all your boundaries. For instance, your boss or co-workers don’t need to know about your sexual boundaries. And your partner won’t necessarily need to know the boundaries you set for co-workers. You can have various types of boundaries, such as physical, emotional, mental, sexual and so on. Think of these like limits on what you will and won’t do and how you want people to treat you. As you explain your boundaries, notice how it makes you feel – if you explain something and it “feels” wrong, you should rethink that.  Setting boundaries and insisting that people respect them is a way of respecting yourself and protecting yourself.

Practice Makes Perfect

Like all things in life, setting and maintaining your boundaries requires practice. This also means that you will often have to remind people and maybe yourself, of the things you need and want. These are great times for you to stand up for yourself and remind people there are limits that they need to remember. It doesn’t require that you be rude or mean about it, but kindly remind people of things you need them to do or things that you want to limit. It’s a productive experience for each of you and help you maintain that respect for yourself.

Respect is a Two Way Street

While you are working on your love and respect for yourself, remember that respect works both ways, so you need to show respect for your friends and family and respect their boundaries too. Maybe you can help them to understand and accept their own boundaries.

However, if you’ve explained reasonable boundaries and your partner, friends, family or co-workers won’t respect that, you should consider that seriously and determine if they really care about you and respect you. That doesn’t mean you would act disrespect to them, but you will likely want to limit your time around them.

I studied to become a Love and Relationship Coach and Master Sexpert at Loveology University, which was founded by Dr Ava Cadell.  I figure if you want to study, you should work with the best in the business.  So I was anxious to see her educational video on oral sex.

For a preview – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UFauZ3zSXPQ

I know Dr Ava has been eager to create educational DVDs on sexual topics, so I was anxious to see this DVD set when it became available. This is a 3 DVD set – one focuses on couples, one on oral sex for her and one on oral sex for him. The set has over 3 hours of content, interviews, tips, and over 90 techniques.  I also noticed that you can go into the me and jump directly to specific tips you want to review or share…

So many people have questions, concerns, worried and issues when it comes to oral sex – both giving and receiving.  Many people are shy about asking and others have no idea what to ask or who to ask. Well, if you’re looking for details and you want honest and clear cut answers, Dr Ava is the person to ask.

In the first DVD – you will discover about 30 techniques for couples to use when they are giving and receiving oral sex. From the ways to get turned on and build up to oral pleasures – to various positions, techniques to use in these positions and other items around the house that you can incorporate into your oral sex sessions.

One DVD shares tips for giving oral sex to your woman and the last gives tips for giving oral sex to your man. Imagine an entire hour for your partner to learn about various ways to spice up oral sex for you and ways to tantalize and turn you on.

Whether you are very experienced in giving and receiving oral sex, if you’re learning the techniques or want to learn new ways to satisfy your lover – you need to check out this 3 DVD set.

This DVD set is not intended for minors and you will see couples engaging in oral sex. But it is done very tastefully and watching the DVDs will give you all kinds of ideas, along with tips and suggestions to make oral sex a favorite sexual and intimate activity for you and your lover. Remember a picture is worth a thousand words – and this video I worth far more than that.

You have to admit that companies come up with some entertaining names for their toys and the Silly Rabbit is a good example. Anyone who is familiar with sex toys and especially vibrators – knows there are a wide variety of rabbit designs. But most of the ones I’ve reviewed had a fairly thin or short shaft on them. For ladies who prefer a bit larger shaft, you will enjoy this one. It is not huge, but it is a good size. There is also a curved tip on the top to stimulate your g-spot.

The Silly Rabbit is made of silicone so be very careful not to use a silicone lube with it. The Rabbit has 7 different function – so you can shift between vibrations, pulses and the escalating pulses — find the one you like and change them as needed to maintain or raise your arousal level.

For the ladies who enjoy rotating pleasure beads in the center of the shaft – you will enjoy the Silly Rabbit. This vibe has a variety of interesting features – and it offers plenty of different options and we all like options don’t we?

You can enjoy the rabbit ears to tinkle your clit, enjoy the shaft – with any of the various speeds or pulses, use the g-spot tip or turn on the rotating beads below that curved tip. Or you can enjoy any combination of those choices. You can also turn the toy so the rabbit ears can tickle your perineum – I bet you will enjoy that too. But if you turn the toy around, the g-spot tip won’t hit the right spot.

Master Sexpert Tips

• Use plenty of lube for clitoral, vaginal, G-spot or especially anal massage
• Be creative – this toy has the usual “rabbit” shape, but you can still turn it and use at slightly different angles to see which feel better for you.  Let your partner try many variations (you have 7 vibrations, pulses etc to use) and let him/her know what you like better. Then use it on them
• Be sure to thoroughly clean all toys before and after you use them. This is really easy with toy cleaner or soap and hot water.
• If you are a woman and you have enjoyed G-spot massage before, or if you want to try it — this is a nice toy for an intense G-spot orgasm ladies. (Don’t forget to go to the bathroom before you start.)
• G-spot tip – even though this can make it easy, you still need to know where the G-spot is located. If your partner is using their finger to massage your G-spot, they need to lay their hand with the palm up, insert their finger(s) in your vagina and reach inside a couple of inches. They need to move their forefinger in a “come hither” way and they will be very close to the G-spot. When stimulated, it feels like a small patch of corduroy – that is the area to stimulate.  With this toy, you need to move it so that the “stimulator” tip reaches that spot. Even if you have to “play” to reach the right spot, you will be stimulated.  If you feel like you have to go to the bathroom – you’re in the right area — don’t stop now… go for it. Now – you want to stimulate that area with the vibrator.

• For people and especially for women who are new to G-spot stimulation — it feels like you need to pee, when the G-spot is stimulated – use the bathroom before starting your exploration and stimulation. Don’t stop because of this feeling, its just an indication that you’re on the verge of sheer bliss — go with that feeling…

Information from the CalExotics website – http://www.calexotics.com/p-23464-silly-rabbit.aspx

• Bulk Weight: 12.5(oz) / 0.35(kg)
• What’s in a name? There’s nothing silly about what this rabbit can do!
• Pure Silicone, premium massager with intense vibrating rabbit ears
• Gently curved G-spot design
• Soft, smooth and unscented Silicone
• 7 incredible functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation
• 3 speeds of shaft rotation with reverse rotation function
• 3 rows of non-jamming pleasure beads
• Easy-to-use control panel with illuminated LED lights
• 4 second power off button
• EZ load battery pack
• Silicone (vibrator) Stainless Steel (beads) ABS (controller)
• 3 AA batteries
• 5”x 1.5”/ 12.75 cm x 3.75 cm (shaft)
• 2.25”x 1.25”/ 5.75 cm x 3.25 cm (stimulator)

This is something that bugs me and I wanted to write a post about it. But this is so well written that I had to share it and in the 7 years since this was written, the problem has only gotten much bigger.

As with ANY professional — please verify that a person is qualified. Being qualified to advise or coach you about love, relationships, intimacy and sex — is about more than just having a lot of sex. I’m happy to explain the training I’ve had and I do understand the limits of what I should and should not offer to clients — just claiming to be a “sexpert”, “a dating coach”, a “love coach” etc — does NOT guarantee that the person actually did take the time and put forth the effort to study, research and learn more about all those intriguing relationship and sexual topics. For people who would like to get an idea of the training I did complete – you can visit this page (http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/CourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=22&a_aid=litekepr) to learn more and to see the full curriculum. Its wonderful that new courses are added from time to time — gotta love continuing education.

Sure my training was a lot of work and took time, but the information was very interesting and sparked ideas for so many more things to study. Another interesting “side effect” of my training was that I saw and felt major changes in my mindset, my outlook and my overall happiness in my life. That isn’t something I could effectively fake — I experienced the positive changes that happen when people put forth the effort to study, learn and grow. I wouldn’t trade that training and knowledge for anything

Now its time to share the article that really resonated with me this morning –