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		<title>Belated Wrap Up To The Launch Of The Dialogue In Cairns</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Exactly one week ago, The Dialogue was launched at the Cairns Spiritual Centre, here in Cairns of Far North Queensland. It was a whirlwind week leading up to the launch, with both myself and David having family members visiting from all over. I had two cousins come over to visit me from Perth, Australia and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Exactly one week ago, The Dialogue was launched at the Cairns Spiritual Centre, here in Cairns of Far North Queensland.</p>
<p>It was a whirlwind week leading up to the launch, with both myself and David having family members visiting from all over. I had two cousins come over to visit me from Perth, Australia and Edmonton, Canada and David&#8217;s mother, grandmother and second sister flew over from Singapore. And in the middle of all this, we managed to squeeze a family trip down to Sydney.</p>
<p>I got back 48 hours before the launch and needless to say I was totally wiped.</p>
<p>It was a remarkable lesson in exactly what I am here to teach.</p>
<p>We create every instance of our reality. Nothing happens by accident. The family visits could not have happened at any other time, and there was no other time for the launch. </p>
<p>It was tempting to succumb to the following thoughts:</p>
<p>&#8220;I messed up.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;I should have pushed myself harder, worked harder.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;I am disorganized.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;I am not good enough.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;I just can&#8217;t do this.&#8221;</p>
<p>And so on and so forth. In fact I did, for a couple of hours.<span id="more-1278"></span></p>
<p>But then I was blessed to be reminded by the very people who supported me through this from the start and beyond, my beloved partner David Tng and his sister Dinah Tng: Everything is alright. All in perfection, all for a higher reason, always.</p>
<p>And the theme of it all was trust.</p>
<p>To trust in who I am and what I am here to be.</p>
<p>I am a speaker. I have been a speaker for years, but I always prepared my speeches. Meticulously scripted and rehearsed, that was how I always readied myself for any speaking engagement I had.</p>
<p>Yet the events that I created for myself this past two weeks disallowed me that. I had to ask myself why.</p>
<p>David and Dinah had to remind me: I had to BE who I am, and not DO.</p>
<p>So I chose to let go of years of preconditioned training and entered into the launch in the moment.</p>
<p>It was a success.</p>
<p>We had a grand total of five attendees, for whom I am very grateful for making the time to come down to the Centre that evening, and we had a great time.</p>
<p>I learnt a lot about how The Dialogue works as the session progressed. Which is funny to say, I know, as the creator and founder of the seminar, but you see, I did not create The Dialogue per se. I simply allow it through.</p>
<p>I hardly ever feel that it is I who is speaking, I who &#8220;created&#8221; this, I who &#8220;made&#8221; this.</p>
<p>The Dialogue is created by Source, I am merely the tool through which The Dialogue flows.</p>
<p>So I learn through The Dialogue as much as any of the participants of The Dialogue, for it is Source who teaches us all.</p>
<p>I received good feedback and I thank Rebecca, Gary, Lorraine, Mandy and Trudy for their precious time and participation. I am even more grateful for the presence of my family members David, Dinah and their mother.</p>
<p>Now I am making plans onwards to launch The Dialogue next in Tasmania over the next three months. More information will be released through my <a href="https://twitter.com/silverhuang">Twitter</a>, <a href="http://facebook.com/silverhuanglive">Facebook Page</a>, <a href="http://linkedin.com/in/silverhuang">LinkedIn account</a>, email newsletter and this blog very soon.</p>
<p>Here are <a href="http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.271663179573263.64217.266108880128693">some photos of the launch</a>, many thanks to Dinah for being the event photographer! Love you babe <img src='http://silverhuang.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>How Do We Experience Or Improve Our Experience Of Intuition?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 02:25:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Intuition is a staple in the spirituality and personal development industry today. As a result, many people now desire to know how they can be intuitive, or be more intuitive, or improve their current intuitive abilities. A perfectly valid desire, for intuition is an extremely powerful gift that we have co-created for our physical experience. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Intuition is a staple in the spirituality and personal development industry today. As a result, many people now desire to know how they can be intuitive, or be more intuitive, or improve their current intuitive abilities.</p>
<p>A perfectly valid desire, for intuition is an extremely powerful gift that we have co-created for our physical experience.</p>
<p>However, as with many desires, it is not so much the desire that matters, but the motivation behind the desire.</p>
<p>And so, my response to this question would be yet another question: Why do you want intuition? Why do you want to experience intuition? Or improve your intuition?</p>
<p>The most common answer is, &#8220;So that I can receive higher guidance more accurately and easily, in order to improve some or all areas of my life.&#8221;</p>
<p>My next question is then: Do you believe that you have no access to higher guidance without intuition?</p>
<p>Intriguing? <span id="more-1275"></span></p>
<p>You see, we are all intuitive, whether or not we are aware of it, and whether or not we choose to consciously and intentionally use our intuition. The two way channel between you and higher guidance, or Source, is always there, always open, always flowing.</p>
<p>&#8220;But I don&#8217;t see, hear or sense anything!&#8221; you might say. Or, &#8220;I don&#8217;t see, hear, sense or receive guidance very well at all!&#8221;</p>
<p>But think carefully for just a second. What you mean to say is, &#8220;I don&#8217;t see, hear, sense or receive anything <strong>non-physical</strong>.&#8221;</p>
<p>There is a pervasive and unquestioned idea that people have about intuition that almost exclusively associates intuition with the unseen and non-physical realms. Do you have this association? When you think about intuition, are you exclusively expecting to receive non-physical information?</p>
<p>If your answer to that is yes, then my next question will have to be: Do you have the expectation that the use of intuition is limited only to the reception of non-physical information, in other words, non-physical interaction and communication?</p>
<p>Or maybe you have been struggling with receiving clear intuitive guidance and someone told you that your intuitive ability or channel is blocked, or chakras are blocked etc. and therefore you feel the need to do something to improve your intuition.</p>
<p>I am not saying that blocks do not occur. They can, and do. However, there is nothing, NOTHING, that can ever block you from Source, the source of all higher guidance. You ARE Source. It&#8217;s like suggesting that the water in an ocean whirlpool is separate from the water in the rest of the ocean. </p>
<p>Blocks are not blocks. That is a misconception and misnomer. Blocks are really just indicators, and very accurate ones at that. They tell that you are creating something that you do not desire from a limited perspective that you hold. Your block is in itself your key to your freedom.</p>
<p>So… back to the original question. You desire intuition or desire to improve your intuition because you believe you require the non-physical guidance that is available only through intuition for the purpose of bettering your life.</p>
<p>That desire in itself is fine. At least until you begin to believe that an inability, or less than ideal ability, for intuition actually blocks or hinders you in achieving the better life you envision you would have IF you could have the intuition you desire.</p>
<p>Let me assure you, whether or not you believe me, that you need nothing more than whatever you already are, right here, right now. You and your life are already perfect. You just do not see it or realize it yet.</p>
<p>Even if you were psychically deaf, dumb, blind and made up of stone so that you were unable to feel anything subtler than a brick on your skull, Source that loves you unconditionally and infinitely WILL get through to you. </p>
<p>You are never lost, never alone, never without higher guidance, even if you have never had the slightest, even vaguest intuitive experience in your entire life.</p>
<p>Intuition is nice, but not a mandatory need for higher guidance. </p>
<p>And perhaps I should clarify at this point that by intuition, I am referring to the specific idea about intuition that many people have, where the reception of higher guidance through intuition involves only some sort of one-way or two-way interaction or communication involving either mental images, words or feelings with a non-physical entity or group of non-physical entities from a higher plane of awareness. </p>
<p>The truth is that intuition is far, far more than that, and this single, limited idea on intuition is one reason why many people either feel they are not intuitive at all, or that their unique mode of intuition is not &#8216;valid&#8217; or &#8216;good enough&#8217;. </p>
<p>Higher guidance comes to us in more ways than just intuition and non-physical communication alone.</p>
<p>Take a look around you. Just stop for a moment right now, and take a good, long look at this fantastic world that we have co-created for ourselves. Isn&#8217;t it just amazing?</p>
<p>Now, did you really think that we, as Source, in our infinite, insatiable appetite for diversity, would have created only ONE way for ourselves as Source to guide ourselves as experiencers through our incredible creative lives?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think so!</p>
<p>If you are <strong>here</strong>, if you are <strong>breathing</strong>, you have instant and unlimited access to higher guidance, no special skills or abilities required, no prerequisites.</p>
<p>Guidance is all around you.</p>
<p>It <strong>is</strong> you. It is your life.</p>
<p>Your very life is all the higher guidance you will ever need.</p>
<p>You just need to live. Live every moment as you are and you will not be able to help but see what you require next. What you desire next.</p>
<p>You are Source. You created the you whom you are experiencing. You also created and continue to create every single event you ever experienced and will ever experience, and each and every instant of your life is your own feedback, your own higher guidance back to yourself.</p>
<p>Did I say that there were no prerequisites? Maybe I was a little too hasty on that.</p>
<p>Perhaps there is one, no, make that a few.</p>
<p>You need to remember that:</p>
<ul>
<li>You create everything you experience.</li>
<li>You desire everything that you create and experience, even if on the immediate, conscious level it appears undesired.</li>
<li>Everything you experience has a greater purpose: To enable you to continue to refine your understanding of who you are and what you desire to create in your reality.</li>
</ul>
<p>If you can see every single event in your life through that broader perspective, you will have all the guidance and all the clues you need. And you wouldn&#8217;t even need to be a practicing intuitive.</p>
<p>PS: I am a practicing intuitive and I rely extremely heavily on my own intuitive connection to do the work I do, like provide guidance in consultations, prepare the material in my seminars and write these posts. I love my intuition and I cannot imagine life without my intuitive connection.</p>
<p>At no point am I saying that intuition as a whole is pointless and useless and not needed. I am merely making the point that intuition is great if you don&#8217;t turn it into a burden and excuse for creating unhappiness for yourself, just because some illusion-based idea or expectation of yours isn&#8217;t getting met.</p>
<p>This post is specifically addressed to people who feel inadequate, limited or simply less in some way because of a lack of what they perceive intuition to be.</p>
<p>As I very briefly mentioned in this post, intuition is far, far more than just the ability to listen to and talk to invisible people floating above our heads. I did not go into detail as that would be far too much material for just one post but I promise to go into it soon.</p>
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		<title>How Do We Get Happy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 02:21:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the biggest questions since the dawn of the human mind is, &#8220;How do I achieve happiness?&#8221; Well, I&#8217;ve got bad news for you. There is no answer to that question, no matter how good any proffered answer may sound, or even how logical it may sound. In fact, I would say, steer clear [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>One of the biggest questions since the dawn of the human mind is, &#8220;How do I achieve happiness?&#8221;</p>
<p>Well, I&#8217;ve got bad news for you. There is no answer to that question, no matter how good any proffered answer may sound, or even how logical it may sound. In fact, I would say, steer clear away from logical answers, *laughs* they are sometimes the worst.</p>
<p>I am here to offer a perspective born from personal, infuriating experience.</p>
<p>Here is the short answer.</p>
<p>The experience of happiness happens. It is not attainable or obtainable.</p>
<p>Happiness is a state. States are. They are not attainable or obtainable. States are inherent. You either experience a state or you do not, but the lack of the experience does not imply the lack of a state.</p>
<p>That probably didn&#8217;t help much, did it?</p>
<p>Well, here&#8217;s the long answer.</p>
<p>Happiness is a state you can experience or not experience. <span id="more-1271"></span>The experience of happiness follows the state of happiness. The state of happiness happens. It is not a goal you can achieve, or result you can obtain.</p>
<ul>
<li>Happiness happens when you are aligned.</li>
<li>You are aligned when you are low in resistance.</li>
<li>You are low in resistance when you are accepting. Accepting of who and what you are and what you have created for yourself to experience.</li>
<li>You are accepting of all that you are and have when you know that you are a unique manifestation of Source, who is here for your own unique self created purpose that is refining and expanding in every moment, hence you have no need to compare, no need for anything else or to be anything else.</li>
</ul>
<p>Yet, that is not even a good answer. Why?</p>
<p>This answer immediately reinforces the illusion that you can achieve happiness by completing the process of this answer, which will then negate the usefulness of this answer altogether.</p>
<p>Hence it is not a good answer because it misleads you.</p>
<p>What then?</p>
<p>Well… I could say that happiness is a choice. Though even that is not totally accurate, though it is somewhat closer. Why?</p>
<p>You are already happy. You just do not know it yet.</p>
<p>Hah ha, I know, you must be going, &#8220;WTF, if I&#8217;m happy already, I sure as hell don&#8217;t feel it!&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s exactly it.</p>
<p>You do not experience your inherent state of happiness because you are not aware of your inherent state of perfection.</p>
<p>If you were truly aware of your inherently perfect and happy state, you could choose to experience it, right here, right now.</p>
<p>Yet, guess what? </p>
<p>If you are unable to accept your perfection and unable to simply choose to experience your inherent state of happiness, that is alright too. For odds are, you are making yourself even more unhappy than you already are by choosing to be unhappy that you are unhappy.</p>
<p>Laugh out loud, no? Bullshit? No, not really.</p>
<p>All states and experiences are inherently perfect in themselves, even states and experiences we do not desire.</p>
<p>If we really, truly see that, then we can be happy, even in our unhappiness, because then we would know that our unhappiness is a perfect event, created by ourselves for our own unique experience and purpose.</p>
<p>Ah hah, the ultimate mind f***.</p>
<p>Did you just hear me say that you can be happy AND unhappy at the same time?</p>
<p>Why, yes indeed. How is that even possible? Aren&#8217;t the experiences of happiness and unhappiness mutually exclusive?</p>
<p>Well, only in the idea that you are holding onto about happiness.</p>
<p>The idea of happiness that you have is simply what you THINK happiness is, and not what happiness TRULY is.</p>
<p>Most people have no clue what happiness truly is. </p>
<p>Instead, we have this idea of what we think happiness is supposed to be. Happiness is supposed to make us bubbly, laugh, smile, feel delighted etc.</p>
<p>This idea of happiness is essentially a high.</p>
<p>Remember always, where one goes up, one must also come down. This idea of happiness is but an illusion, a pervasive and deeply entrenched one for sure, but an illusion nonetheless.</p>
<p>We would do a lot better simply accepting humbly that we have no idea what happiness is at all.</p>
<p>Then and only then do we actually stand a chance of finding out what it is. For then and only then will we not be blocked by all our preconceived and strongly held ideas about what happiness is. So hard do we hold onto these ideas that, trust me, when true happiness comes knocking, we would turn it away, saying, &#8220;You are not true happiness. You are not what I seek.&#8221; </p>
<p>We think we know so well what happiness is, that we would not only not recognize it when it comes, we would reject it outright.</p>
<p>So… back to the original question.</p>
<p>How do you find happiness?</p>
<p>My response is a question in return, &#8220;Why are you going on making yourself even more unhappy by convincing yourself that you need happiness to be happy?&#8221;</p>
<p>Really!</p>
<p>If you would drop your expectations and ideas, needs and requirements for happiness, happiness would happen. To you. Instantaneously.</p>
<p>And strangely, that would bring us all the way back to the start, wouldn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>Why, yes indeed.</p>
<p>Happiness happens. You can&#8217;t do anything to get it. You can&#8217;t even try to get it, for in the trying, you have removed yourself even farther away.</p>
<p>I like to say that we trip and fall into happiness.</p>
<p>You either simply fall into the state of happiness one day and start experiencing it therefore, or you simply make the choice to be happy one day, and in so choosing, you release all your resistances and end up falling into it anyway too.</p>
<p>You fall into the state of happiness that was always there, right under your nose, that you failed to see.</p>
<p>State precede experience, always remember that.</p>
<p>A state of happiness precedes the experience of happiness. And you cannot attain or obtain a state. For you cannot attain or obtain something that you already are.</p>
<p>Is this a useless answer?</p>
<p>Yes, it would be to someone who insists on holding onto the idea that happiness is something that he or she needs to attain or obtain for his or her happiness.</p>
<p>But it would be incredibly liberating to someone who is ready to see reality.</p>
<p>Happy happens. If you let go and let it.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 02:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>My sincerest apologies for the downtime experienced over this past half a week. I renewed my domain just a tad too late and it was placed on hold, and it took another 24 hours after I renewed it for the name servers to propagate.</p>
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		<title>I Am Not The Me That I Was Yesterday</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 15:26:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am changeable. Almost disconcertingly so to the people who know me. I am forever transforming. And it is markedly visible, noticeable, even to people who live with me. I was not always this way. More accurately, I did not always allow myself to be this way. I remember the first time I decided to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>I am changeable. </p>
<p>Almost disconcertingly so to the people who know me. I am forever transforming. And it is markedly visible, noticeable, even to people who live with me.</p>
<p>I was not always this way. More accurately, I did not always allow myself to be this way.</p>
<p>I remember the first time I decided to embrace and express a new change in myself, in my personality. I was in my late teens. </p>
<p>I was happy and I was proud of my decision internally. I felt freer for having chosen and embraced my inner transformation.</p>
<p>Then a very close friend of mine took me aside one day and said the following words to me, very seriously, &#8220;<em>You have changed. I don&#8217;t like the new you. I liked you better before you changed.</em>&#8221;</p>
<p>I never forgot that moment. It was emblazoned in my mind like an indelible scar. </p>
<p>I learnt that it was wrong to express the new person I knew I had become on the inside even if it made me happier.<span id="more-1257"></span></p>
<h3>Change Is The Only Constant</h3>
<p>We are Source, incarnate in the physical. One of our greatest desires as Source is to experience boundless diversity.</p>
<p>Therefore we, as Source, created change. For change creates unlimited opportunities for us to experience diversity.</p>
<p>Change can be thought of as a universal force, at least in our reality, affecting all things and beings within our co-created reality.</p>
<p>We, as spiritual beings in physical shells within this co-created reality, are subject to the principle of change on all levels of our being, internal as well as external.</p>
<h3>All Change Starts Within</h3>
<p>An ancient wisdom states, ‘As above, so below. As within, so without.’</p>
<p>As a form of creation, all change will begin within and manifest without.</p>
<p>This is yet another universal principle that affects all things and beings within our co-created reality.</p>
<p>You will change and transform from one state to another during the course of your life and that change will begin in the subtle levels of your being and will eventually be made manifest on the visible, physical plane of your experience.</p>
<h3>Why Would We Fear To Express Our Inner Transformations With Joy?</h3>
<p>We are constantly changing beings.</p>
<p>Yet, this is something many of us often fear, whether on a conscious or subconscious, aware or unaware level. </p>
<p>Many of us have equated the expression of personal change and transformation with the disruption of our social circle and status quo.</p>
<p>Therefore, we fight it and we often fight harder against the expression of change in ourselves.</p>
<p>We fear the loss of peers and friends, and the disapproval and alienation from family, odd looks and misunderstandings from colleagues.</p>
<p>We are taught that it does not pay to express transformation in ourselves to our social circle, or even the outside world.</p>
<p>If we started out as Person A, we are expected to remain Person A till the end of our days, for the comfort and ease of the people around us.</p>
<h3>Accepting Our Changeability As A Gift And A Strength</h3>
<p>Since that scarring incident in my youth, I have come a long way.</p>
<p>From fearing, judging and being ashamed of my changeable nature, I have since come to not only accept it, but to embrace it with joy and pride.</p>
<p>I embrace my inherent birthright and understand that one of my highest desires as Source is to enjoy the diversity of experience available to me.</p>
<p>I watch myself as I transform within and I freely express it when it is ready to manifest.</p>
<p>Yes, it can be disconcerting to the people around me, but I have also come to learn that I would rather surround myself with people who desire more to know me as who I am in each new and fresh moment, than as a stale, fixed and outdated state of me that I no longer resonate with.</p>
<p>I desire the same for anyone. </p>
<p>I recognize in them, too, their inherent birthright to be free to change and nothing pleases me more than to be able to celebrate with friends who have come through a transformative process and are now manifesting the fruits of their experience.</p>
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		<title>The Dialogue — Seminar Series Is Finally Here!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[After many, many years of experience and contrast, it has all finally come together. I am finally launching my professional seminar series, entitled The Dialogue. Why &#8216;The Dialogue&#8217;? For years, I was daunted at the prospect of running seminars, even though I was told repeatedly that I had the talent for speaking on stage. I [...]]]></description>
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<p>After many, many years of experience and contrast, it has all finally come together.</p>
<p>I am finally launching my professional seminar series, entitled <a href="http://silverhuang.com/thedialogue/">The Dialogue</a>.</p>
<h3>Why &#8216;The Dialogue&#8217;?</h3>
<p>For years, I was daunted at the prospect of running seminars, even though I was told repeatedly that I had the talent for speaking on stage. </p>
<p>I do not doubt that I can speak and present, however, my question was more, &#8220;Is that what I <em>really</em> want?&#8221; It is easy for a third party to look at me from the outside and say, &#8220;Yes, you can speak well, you ought to do this.&#8221;</p>
<p>Speaking alone is not the point. Speaking is but a tool, a medium. The real question was always, &#8220;What do I want to achieve?&#8221;</p>
<ul>
<li>What do I want to accomplish?</li>
<li>What is my real talent?</li>
<li>What am I really here to do?<span id="more-1235"></span></li>
</ul>
<p>It took me a long, long time, nearly twenty years as a matter of fact, but I finally came to the realization that my talent lies in my ability to &#8216;hook&#8217; into a person&#8217;s inner state in the split second moment of a person&#8217;s <strong>asking</strong>. </p>
<p>In that instant of a person&#8217;s desire <strong>to know more</strong>, I come alive.</p>
<p>I live not to speak, I live <strong>to give</strong>, <strong>to guide</strong>. Speaking is only my medium.</p>
<p>A one way discourse, be it 15 minutes or 45 minutes, was simply not satisfying to me, nor am I at my best to serve my audience.</p>
<p>Hence, the concept of The Dialogue was born within me from my desire.</p>
<p>In truth, it is nothing new.</p>
<p>I owe much thanks to <a href="http://www.abraham-hicks.com/lawofattractionsource/index.php" title="Abraham-Hicks">Abraham, Esther and Jerry Hicks</a>, for it was in knowing that they offered such a medium of interaction between themselves and their listeners, that I was able to conceive of it as well.</p>
<p>Hence, never fear what it is that you have to contribute to this Universe, this co-created reality. You never know whom it is you may help or even save.</p>
<p>The name &#8216;The Dialogue&#8217; was found in the concept of this seminar style as well, where the bulk of the time is spent in a open-to-the-floor question and answer experience.</p>
<p>For isn&#8217;t that a dialogue between the speaker and his or her audience? </p>
<p>Creation occurs in the moment of interaction between two individuals, when that unique chemistry of mixing of experiences brings forth a new experience for all, speaker, asker and audience. That is what I love.</p>
<h3>Where Is The First Session Of The Dialogue To Be Launched?</h3>
<p>The first session of The Dialogue will be launched in the lush and beautiful tropical city of Cairns, in Far North Queensland of Australia.</p>
<p>Location: <strong>Cairns Spiritual Centre, 1/194 Spence Street, Cairns, QLD 4870</strong> [<a href="http://maps.google.com/maps?q=194+Spence+Street,+Cairns,+QLD+4870&#038;hnear=194+Spence+St,+Cairns+Queensland+4870,+Australia&#038;t=h&#038;z=16&#038;vpsrc=0" title="194 Spence Street, Cairns, QLD 4870 - Google Maps" target="_blank">map</a>]<br />
Date: <strong>Thursday 16 Februrary 2012</strong><br />
Time: <strong>07:00 PM to 08:15 PM</strong><br />
Cost: <strong>Special launch rate of $20.00</strong> (payment at entry)</p>
<p>Remember to RSVP your attendance to thedialogue [@] silverhuang [dot] com or use the form on the <a href="http://silverhuang.com/contact">Contact Page</a>.</p>
<h3>Some Acknowledgements <img src='http://silverhuang.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </h3>
<p>This has been an epic journey for me, spanning more than a decade, and I can finally say that I have arrived&#8230; </p>
<p>But this moment of writing this post wouldn&#8217;t be possible without the following people:</p>
<p><strong>David Tng</strong>, my beloved soul mate, who has stuck with me through fat and thin, temperate and tropical, hell and heaven, <em>I love you beyond forever</em>.</p>
<p><strong>Dinah Tng</strong>, my beautiful unofficial sister-in-law, who lends me her patient and genius love of design, as well as much support, fun and craziness. <em>Love you babe</em>.</p>
<p>Many thanks to Deborah White and the volunteers of the <a href="http://cairnsspiritualcentre.com.au/">Cairns Spiritual Centre</a>, for without them, this would not be possible.</p>
<h3>Where Can I Get More Information?</h3>
<p>All the latest information on The Dialogue will be made available through:</p>
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<p>I will be getting my social media act together very soon, after which I will be available on Twitter, Facebook and LinkedIn.</p>
<p>In the meantime, please do not hesitate to contact me at silver [@] silverhuang [dot] com or through the contact form on my <a href="http://silverhuang.com/contact">Contact page</a> if you have any questions.</p>
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		<title>Why Bad Is A Mindset, Not Reality</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 13:08:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Silver</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is easy to succumb to feeling that life is hard, or not going our way, at least occasionally. Particularly when there seems to be no reason to why certain bad things happen. When everything just seems to be out of our control and some unseen force appears to be scheming to bring about our [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>It is easy to succumb to feeling that life is hard, or not going our way, at least occasionally.</p>
<p>Particularly when there seems to be no reason to why certain bad things happen. </p>
<p>When everything just seems to be out of our control and some unseen force appears to be scheming to bring about our downfall in every possible way.</p>
<p>The whole world, nay the whole universe, seems to be against us.</p>
<p>And someone comes along, usually a spiritual person of some sort *cough cough* and tells you that, &#8220;All is well, all is well.&#8221;</p>
<p>Reminds me of this exchange&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;What about Rhiannon&#8217;s kidnapping?&#8221; Brian made a desperate attempt to get some sign of emotion out of his father, to ensure he hadn&#8217;t turned into a zombie. &#8220;Surely you&#8217;re concerned about that. She is your granddaughter, after all!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Why concerned?&#8221; Myrddin queried. &#8220;All is going splendidly.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Splendidly!&#8221; Brian barked. &#8220;If this is what you call splendid, I&#8217;d sure hate to see your idea of shithouse.&#8221;</em><span id="more-1214"></span></p>
<p>Masters Of Reality: The Gathering, by Traci Harding</p></blockquote>
<p>All is going splendidly.</p>
<p>Myrddin could not have been more correct, even if he was pissing the hell out of Brian, his son.</p>
<p>&#8220;Bad&#8221; is a trained state that we default to when we do not understand the circumstances of our experiences.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;We can never see past the choices we don&#8217;t understand. [...] You&#8217;ve already made the choice. Now you have to understand it.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>The Oracle, The Matrix Reloaded</p></blockquote>
<p>The question most often asked is, &#8220;Why do bad things happen?&#8221;</p>
<p>However, if we choose to shift our perspective, we can choose to ask instead, &#8220;What is bad?&#8221;</p>
<p>What is bad?</p>
<p>Bad is anything we do not like, anything that causes us suffering.</p>
<p>Bad is everything we do not desire.</p>
<p>However, this is an all-inclusive creation that we experience. There is nothing that is truly &#8220;unwanted&#8221;. </p>
<p>All things have a reason and a purpose for existing. For we created it all. We are Source. Incarnate in the physical, yes, but that does not make us any less a part of Source. We are still Source, and Source is still us.</p>
<p>We as Source created all things in our experience so why would we create something we do not desire?</p>
<p>If that which we do not desire actually serves a greater desire.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.abraham-hicks.com/" title="Abraham-Hicks">Abraham</a> calls this contrast. I learnt the term from them, and I am ever so grateful for their beautiful and ever so succinct way of putting things into words.</p>
<p>Contrast is not bad. Contrast can be unpleasant, yes, contrast can even be extremely unpleasant.</p>
<p>But we created contrast because from a broader perspective, we understood that what we stand to gain from this contrast that we have created far outweighs whatever unpleasant form our contrast could come in.</p>
<p>How do we identify contrast? Easy. Contrast is anything we do not desire. The concept and belief of &#8220;bad&#8221; is contrast, for example.</p>
<p>So what is the purpose and the function of contrast? </p>
<p>Contrast serves a manifold purpose:</p>
<ul>
<li>Contrast shows you what you truly desire</li>
<li>Contrast refines your present understanding of your desires</li>
<li>Contrast keeps you up-to-date with your ever evolving desires</li>
</ul>
<p>So, when viewed in this perspective, there is nothing &#8220;bad&#8221; for all unpleasant experiences were created by ourselves in order to serve our highest, broadest desires.</p>
<p>Turns out that &#8220;bad&#8221; is really a blessing in disguise.</p>
<p>Therefore, sages of the ages do not lie when they nod and say, &#8220;All is well, all is well.&#8221; They know this to be true.</p>
<p>&#8220;Bad&#8221; is a mindset, not incontrovertible reality.<br />
&#8220;Bad&#8221; is a choice we make on how we want to view any circumstance in our life.</p>
<p>I am not saying that this is a cure or a fix for suffering. That is a far more complicated topic altogether.</p>
<p>I am saying, however, that understanding that we are not victims of some uncontrollable cruel, cruel universe is the first step to being able to view any unpleasant or unwanted circumstances in a constructive and far more empowering way.</p>
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		<title>How I Released My Phobia Of Death Through Dreaming</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 13:58:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you fear death? You wouldn&#8217;t be considered unique or weak if you said yes. I think that the fear of death is completely natural. Death is an unknowable state to the living. What we do not know, we fear. Simple as that. I used to have a terrible phobia for death as a child. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Do you fear death? You wouldn&#8217;t be considered unique or weak if you said yes.</p>
<p>I think that the fear of death is completely natural. Death is an unknowable state to the living. What we do not know, we fear. Simple as that.</p>
<p>I used to have a terrible phobia for death as a child. I had it all the way up to my teens. My phobia was so bad that I actually had frequent nightmares about dying. </p>
<p>In one of my earliest death nightmares, I was stabbed to death by a man who broke into my house. I ran desperately to escape him but I tripped and fell and he was upon me and stabbed me three times in my back. </p>
<p>I woke up panting raggedly, covered in sweat, and had three very distinct icy cold spots on my back where I felt the blade enter my body in my dream.<span id="more-1206"></span> But there was no pain. I remember noticing that.</p>
<p>I must have been ten years old.</p>
<p>I continued to have these death nightmares for years. </p>
<p>I think I have just about died in every way possible in my dreams. Drowning, gun shot, knife, strangulation, asphyxiation, car crash, falling from great height, air plane crash, poison, blunt force trauma to the skull&#8230; </p>
<p>I would frequently jolt up in the middle of the night covered in sweat, chest heaving, heart galloping from the throes of yet another death nightmare.</p>
<p>Then one day, it just changed. I still remember the dream very well, crystal clear in my mind.</p>
<p>It was a bright and clear sunny day. The air was comfortably cool. I was standing on an immensely long and narrow wooden suspension bridge stretched over a massive chasm. The ground was so far away that it was actually shrouded in cloud.</p>
<p>The bridge swayed dangerously in the wind. I took a step back to steady myself&#8230; but it was one step too far. </p>
<p>My heel plummeted through thin air and my whole body followed suit, flipping backwards violently as my body lost all balance and just slipped through ropes.</p>
<p>My breath caught in my throat for just an instant from the shocking sensation of falling but as my body sailed through the air backwards and I saw the bridge recede into the distance, thoughts drifted almost casually through my mind.</p>
<p>&#8220;I am going to hit the ground soon and die. Oh well, what a ride. Look&#8230; I&#8217;m flying&#8230;&#8221; </p>
<p>In that moment, my body relaxed and went limp with a sensation that I can only describe as sheer relief or bliss. </p>
<p>And I actually leant my head back, closed my eyes, spread my arms wide open to catch the air rushing past me, as I let my body melt into the moment of the experience.</p>
<p>I hit the ground with a soundless thud. </p>
<p>And I woke up naturally. </p>
<p>No shock. No fear. No heart thumping, no ragged breath dragging through my lungs, no tension, no sweat. </p>
<p>I just opened my eyes to a very naturally relaxed body and a feeling of peace permeating my body.</p>
<p>Some might say that it was just a dream, but what is a dream but just another self created experience no more ephemeral than our physical experience is?</p>
<p>A dream is no less and no more real than what we call physical life.</p>
<p>Lucid dreamers attest to the power of dreaming. </p>
<p>The power of my dreaming experience with death is such that I learnt that death was just another experience. Just like life and dreams are.</p>
<p>One experience in a long and never-ending line of experiences that I choose and create for myself to experience.</p>
<p>There is no end and there is no suffering, only a change of form.</p>
<p>Death is as simple as waking up from a dream.</p>
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		<title>There Is Never A Good Time For Change</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are never ready for change. We can never anticipate when the time for change comes upon us. We can only choose, and leap, in the moment. If change could wait for readiness, or if we could foresee change, change would not be so tough to accomplish. Change is a choice. Change is a leap. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>We are never ready for change.</p>
<p>We can never anticipate when the time for change comes upon us.</p>
<p>We can only choose, and leap, in the moment.</p>
<p>If change could wait for readiness, or if we could foresee change, change would not be so tough to accomplish.</p>
<p>Change is a choice.<br />
Change is a leap.</p>
<p>There is never a good time.</p>
<p>But you will find that if you make that choice, and that leap, when the time is upon you, the outcome will always be in your favor.</p>
<p>For that is what change is always and only about.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I will not say much because I feel that to speak too much of the magic of the moment is to debase and disrespect the sacredness of the encounter. All I will say is this: To be able to share such a powerfully intimate moment of spiritual connection with a Cassowary as I did today, [...]]]></description>
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<p>I will not say much because I feel that to speak too much of the magic of the moment is to debase and disrespect the sacredness of the encounter.</p>
<p>All I will say is this:</p>
<p>To be able to share such a powerfully intimate moment of spiritual connection with a Cassowary as I did today, is a gift beyond all comprehension, measure and description.</p>
<p>It is a blessing to be be humbled and awed by a power animal as potent, magnificent and indescribably poised and regal as a Cassowary.</p>
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