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Scorpio Man: Love, Lust, Obsession and Insanity -2

2012-01-25T16:19:00.000+05:30

In the previous article we spoke about Scorpio Man's Love and Lust. In this article, we'll speak about his Obsession and Insanity.

You will find many topics on Scorpio Man's love. But about his obsession and insanity there might be very less information.

So, Let's see what is the much talked about Obsession and Insanity of a Scorpio Man:

Obsession: He is something who will be obsessed about the one who he loves. If he is a typical Scorpio he will be passionate about everything about his lover and everyone related to her. Scorpions are known for their possessiveness. However, possessiveness is not just about control. His possessiveness is about knowing everything about his lover. He wants to control all of it. He's driven by everything that relates to his lover.

You might find it chilling and suffocating. But this is how they are. A scorpio man wants to own his lover. She is his property. He is unwilling to give any space to her. Reason? He is suspicious and insecure. A scorpio man is vulnerable in love. Unlike he's image; he is not strong when it comes to emotions. He may pretend to be brash, harsh and cold. But his emotions run deep and dark. A good way to avoid the dark is by keeping him secure. Keeping him secure means giving him respect and lot's of emotional support. Yet, she should hold her ground.

You might find your Scorpio lover dropping in without giving you the slightest hint of his coming. You might be bugged by constant phone calls that have a frequent, "Where are you?" tag line!

There is no need to get bugged; he is the only man who can sleep with only one woman all his life. If you have gained Scorpio Man's trust and love- let him get obsessed.

If he is not obsessed about you, and takes things very casually. Then he is not interested in you. This doesn't mean that you should torture him with various questions. It simply means that if he is not stalking your phone, hacking your emails, twitter or facebook then he might not be that serious. On the other hand, it can also mean that "He trusts you". Yet, he will be suspicious and ask you questions in a sugar coated manner.

An obsessive scorpio lover will take care of you like a mother. All water sign men are women at heart. I hear Sagittarians, Leos and Arians laughing along with Cappys. Well, this doesn't imply that they are less "Masculine". In fact, they are the real men of the zodiac. They are the gentlemen and most macho of all 12 signs.

Why? A Superhero like Batman or Superman never let's a woman do any work. He does them all. He saves his love and risks his life for her. Spiderman Peter Parker has his entire life revolving around his sweetheart.

He can bring her the world's greatest treasures and still not complain. He will shower her with a regular "thank you" and lot's of adulation. A scorpio man's woman is a superhero's girlfriend. She is the envy of all women.

So, anymore gregarious Sagittarius laughter? Where is the lion hiding ? Leos, you too, do the same but wouldn't risk your life for one women, would ya? No, I know, the King has many queens. Let alone chauvinistic Aries and Cappys.

Now, let's get back to the topic of Obsession of the Scorpio.

Scorpio does everything to the extreme. So, he'll love to the extreme. The eighth house of Sex, Mystery and Death is ruled by Scorpio. Therefore, they are the sexiest, mysterious and deadliest of all men.

If you don't calm his nerves on time then he might show you Scorpio Man's Insanity - are next sub-topic!

Insanity of a Scorpio - Scorpio is not known for his cute sense of humor like that of the Saggitarius. But you have heard about the poisonous sarcastic sense of humor. He will wound you with it if you have hurt him. Don't expect that an angry scorpio man finds it below dignity to hit you. He will definitely do it.

Scorpio Man: Love, Lust, Obsession and Insanity -1

2012-01-19T15:23:00.002+05:30

You must have read many articles written on Scorpio man's love. Most articles speak about his mystery and strong determination of getting the one he desires. His dedication, perseverance and loyalty. Although all these things are true. There are many sides to this mystery man who may boost about being the most loyal of all zodiac signs. In reality, Scorpio man can be the most loyal and the most disloyal. He can be the least bothered to the most obsessed of all lovers.

Linda Goodman quotes in her Scorpio Man chapter of "Sun Signs" book about the first impression of this man as, "He has got you thinking that he is either good or extremely wicked, he is neither or maybe he is both".

The fact is that as girl in love with a Scorpio; you must know whether he is in love or is it lust. You may not find another article online that has such detailing.

Let's see how he will react in both situations:

Love: Steady gaze. However, the stare will be hypnotizing, deep, mysterious but placid. Remember Jack Dawson's eyes as he makes Rose's painting in Titanic. Leonardo has given the character a Scorpion touch. Jack is focused on his goal. But he is passionately in love; he just has the lid on; just!

When a Scorpio man is staring at you, he will never break the stare first. He will have his eyes locked with yours. This is one of the most important techniques of judging his seriousness for you.

Less amount of words. Deadly persuasion. I mean "deadly". He'll find you even if you are hiding at one end of the Universe. Yes, but only if you have reciprocated to his feelings. A Scorpio man can either die for you or can kill you (only to repent) when he is pursuing you.

He wants all the love and gives you all the love, money, fame and happiness. See so many things in return of just one thing! There is no halfheartedness, no thinking and no realization of right or wrong. It is all futile. He only knows and believes that he wants you. There is no other thing on his mind. Call it madness. It is Scorpio love.

Lust: Lot's of giggle. Lot's of cheesy talk. Dirty stares and dirty talk. Quick responses to your moves. No restriction and no control. Don't think keeping a Scorpio man means lot's of "you know what". It will only keep him tied to your bed for sometime. Then at his will, he will move on. You can't hold him. He is a strong willed person who only listens to his own will.

At the most, you'll be his favorite friend. But nothing more than that. If you have no intelligence, no challenge and no purity of soul to offer; he has no patience to offer. If you lack in any two of these departments and have at least one then he may be interested in you.

Nevertheless, it will be a fragile interest. He will hold on a bit longer if you have "profit" to offer. Something that will help him attain his present goal (they have endless goals). This is Scorpio Lust!

Scorpion men are great at breaking hearts and they are the most lustful of all men. You will find him changing girlfriends like he changes his clothes. The same old story will be repeated time and on. Till the time he finds the one who fits in the three departments. She may, too, bring on the profit! But it's not at all a compulsion. Scorpio taste is high so the girl he loves is usually the "most wanted" of all. Therefore, he may soar on great seas of wealth when she comes in his life. One such example is, Shahrukh Khan and his wife Gauri.

Gauri brought lots of luck in the Scorpion King's life. She was a pretty teenager when he fell in love with her. Very pretty indeed!

Let's see the next chapter: Scorpio Man: Obsession and Insanity

How a Psychic Consultation Can Solve Your Troubles

2012-01-01T20:33:00.003+05:30

Psychic consultations generally have been the road of self discovery.

A psychic consultation may give you the insight that you are seeking
to help you to make the right decision. You can chat live with a
psychic consultant. It helps you to sort out your problems.

Psychic reading: Solution of your problem

Psychic reading gives the opportunity to learn if you are on the
right path or not.

You also come to know that if you need any major or minor changes in your life.

You come to know what you have in store for your future. When you get a psychic reading you feel safe, relaxed and less worried.

There are certain unseen factors affecting your life. Therefore, you need someone with a sixth sense to give you the insight.

Psychics normally interpret a certain patterns of your life. Through a
psychic reading you can understand your family, your friends,
your spouse or your children.

A psychic consultation can help you in peeking into your professional, personal, past, present and future as well. A psychic can tell you how to solve the issues without causing any damage of any sort.

Generally you can ask some question about yourself to your consultant. There is no specific set
of question for a psychic reading. It varies from person to person.

If you chat live with a Psychic you can give get relieved from

past life troubles as well.

The psychic reading provides you a guideline that you can choose to
follow or not. This reading helps you in finding the most positive way
to move forward with your life.

It is not intended to lead you in any certain direction, but to open you

to the possibilities for your life. It also help you figure out the best

way to achieve your goals.

Scorpio Male Love With Pisces Female

2011-12-19T10:45:00.002+05:30

Explore Scorpio male love with Pisces female! Strange admiration from Pisces woman to a Scorpio man often leads to love followed by marriage. If not, then it usually leads to strong and unforgettable relationship. As one of few opportunities she will not resist the first admiration, which would lead to a long friendship.

Those two are created for each other. Well, it may seem sad, but sometimes Pisces and Scorpios secretly fear and allow the postponement of decisions from day to day overshadow the joy that could be reached together. If they did not open their eyes on time, then the couple fall apart. A few reasons could lead to such a tragedy.

Exploring Scorpio male love with Pisces female further, the first reason for not being together is that someone of them (or both) may belong to another, when they meet for the first time and know each other. And then one of them (or both) may not have the courage to admit response from their hearts, because the sense of compunction will interrupt. Sometimes it is wrong feeling, because fidelity is kept, at the end it will lead to loss, because is not easy to be in relationship with someone whose heart does not belong to you, and it is really very sad. This is not a word in defense of adultery or divorce. It is an attempt to give a piece of advice, to these two man and woman help them to avoid mistakes

Sometimes children or other considerations hinder them to be together, and the relationship should be terminated. When it comes to Pisces and Scorpios, the pain is very severe, such severe that even the time cannot heal it. Some come out of this situation through the increased integrity. Some stay where they are.

Female Pisces and male Scorpio, who do not face these problems (or solve them together), have an excellent opportunity of long-term relationship in which there is no space for boredom. However, another warning must be placed: if the above named causes and disharmony has been avoided, these two have opportunity to check if they are meant to each other, and they may be forced to overcome a strong temptation to a variety of lures, which is a potential danger to Scorpio male love with Pisces female.

Once these men and women have their feeling tested, and if the harmony has no obstacle from the very beginning, their lives become as a symphony of joy and serenity, peace and pleasure. Of course, there will be some difficulties, but they are going to be very slight. Scorpio man has a strong, deep feelings and convictions, and he will vigorously resist any attempts to deflect him to where he does not want to go. He will also stay trying to have his girlfriend trusted him unconditionally. It's very selfish. But the Pisces woman won’t offend the double standard of male domination, as might the other woman could offend it.

Typical Pisces woman will not panic because of the periodic manifestations of Scorpio man selfishness. In any case, she will deal well. While he believes that he is on his way, she would tenderly and gently push him even closer to the deceptively fragile network.

Developing further Scorpio male love with Pisces female, one quality that cannot attract him to her, it is his habit to nag: not blatantly and openly. Woman-Pisces doesn’t do so. She strikes you with a feather, nags little by little, almost gently, unobtrusively. It unobtrusively to the majority of men, but senses of Scorpio so sensitive that he can discern subtle nuances what the other men are not given.

Like water, dripping all the time at regular intervals, she can overcome resistance to the representative of any other zodiac sign , so that it be hardly noticed by him. Sagittarius, however, will notice it and give green light to anger. He may destroy their love, because the Scorpio deliver the unpleasant and harsh words that cripple her pride. She will pay back, she may plunge him into despair and make him feel all the futility of their suffering through heavy tears, fears and reticence, despite its mystery and inscrutability. If she, the sea monster creates serious threat to his masculinity, he will leave her, even if it breaks his heart.

However if she learns this lesson, he will come back. He could go back to any other woman but this woman doesn’t give him rest, even in a dream. Separation and reconciliation can take several hours or days, weeks, or months, sometimes years. This is a long time, but Pisces, Scorpio, are patient and ready to be the victims in need to find the most important thing. The sense of unity and ecstasy, they are experiencing at the time of physical proximity, imperceptibly brings Pisces and Scorpios together, allowing Scorpio male love with Pisces female.

Are you in Need of Acne Relief?

2011-12-19T09:50:00.005+05:30

Get Clear Glowing Skin!

Acne is a problem that affects not just teenagers but adults also. If you are in need of acne relief, there are a multitude of products, remedies, potions, etc. on the market help you. The first trip should be to your local boxmart (Wal-Mart, Target, etc) or local grocer. Why? Each of these locations typically has a licensed pharmacist on staff. They usually, key on the word usually, are more than willing to help you identify products that work well vs. those that do not. If the pharmacist at one location is not helpful, try another.

You can do this from you own home via the phone. No need to drive all over the place. Another solution to check out are so called natural remedies. These “natural” remedies are usually natural items such as everyday foods, plants, chemicals, etc. The claim is that certain combinations of these ingredients act in such a way that the effect will reduce acne.

Before you run off and do these items, there are other things you should check into. Although doctors and scientists cannot say for sure what exactly causes acne, there are several things that are at the top of the list of suspects.

Medications – Many believe that Acne can be a side effect of some drugs, including barbiturates, seizure medication and steroids. Interestingly enough some believe that birth control pills cause acne while others prescribe birth-control as a medication for acne.

Chocolate – Many now believe that chocolate cannot cause acne outbreaks. Still, there are those who are staunch believers that chocolate causes outbreaks. The debate rages on.

Stress – While stress may not be a cause of acne, many people believe that stress can aggravate acne. Exercise is a great way to relieve stress.

Washing your face too often – While acne sufferers should keep their face clean, too much washing or harsh scrubbing will actually aggravate the skin causing acne to occur
Using greasy skin care products and oily cosmetics. Acne occurs when the pores become plugged up. Therefore, one can assume that any product that covers up the face in anyway may block the pores and the natural release of sebum may help cause acne flare-ups.

Environmental Irritants – Think of it, pollution is an unnatural containment. Being in a high pollution area can cause several reactions in the body, including acne. It is also thought that high humidity can cause acne outbreaks. High humidity can cause the skin to swell thereby blocking those pores.

Your Diet – Your diet, (what you eat) can have significant impact on acne outbreaks. Excessive dairy products, fatty foods, etc. are thought to have an impact on acne breakouts as well as a lack of zinc in your diet. Zinc supplements are often prescribed to treat acne.

As always, each person is different. You may have noticed that certain foods seem to have more of an impact on your acne than others. If you are unsure, pay closer attention to your diet and keep track of your acne outbreaks.

Of course, you should always consult with your dermatologist/doctor.

Mahi Way - Alchemist Mahendra Singh Dhoni's Secret of Global Success

2011-08-10T16:34:00.003+05:30

In my previous article, I had praised the so-called brats of the Indian cricket team and that list includes the spearhead. I will still praise Zaheer Khan because he went with the team ignoring his injury and did catch his bunnies. But this is not his year. So, this article is about our captain cool who is not the greedy Midas but an unselfish alchemist. He is a hero that the land of hero worshipers was waiting for but not because he is the avatar of any god. The secret of his unsurpassed national and global success is perhaps...

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3 Blasts Shatter Mumbai - The Old Games Begins Again

2011-07-16T18:52:00.002+05:30

I received a call from my best friend. She was asking me how to go to Dadar by train. She was planning to go alone the next day. She belongs to such a family where little girls (like me) are protected and are usually made to travel by auto-rickshaw or car. Moreover, she has moved to Mumbai from Kolkata, just a year back that is why she has no idea how to travel by train. Therefore, like a good friend I told her not to travel alone. I gave her appropriate instructions and warned her once again, “Don’t travel alone, Mumbai is no longer safe!” Those words seemed to be symbolic... Read More

2011-06-27T00:13:00.003+05:30

How To Color Your Hair With Natural Products- Penelope Cruz Hair Makeover

2011-06-25T12:48:00.002+05:30

Permanent hair dyes severely harm your hair as they affect the natural pigment of your hair. In permanent hair coloring the natural color pigments of the hair are irrevocably chemically changed for a considerably long period of time. Hair that has been dyed with permanent hair color may perhaps be more prone to knotting. The hair could become dry and rough and lose its natural shine and texture.

That’s why it’s best to color your hair using natural products. Organic hair colors do not damage your hair as they are deprived of any synthetic chemicals, preservatives, or harsh oxidizing chemicals, such as ammonia.

Some of the natural ways in which you can color your hair or cover up your grays are given below:

Chamomile tea and Lemon juice hair Dye

Blend 1 cup of fresh lemon juice with 3 cups of Chamomile tea. You can increase the quantity respectively depending upon the length of your hair. Gently massage this mixture into your hair and leave it till it gets completely dry. Repeat the process few times in a week for best results.

Honey and Yoghurt Hair Dye

Combine 3/4 cup honey with 1 1/2 cups plain yogurt. Wet your hair and apply this mixture to it. Gently massage your hair. Thoroughly wash your hair after 8 hours.

Henna Hair Dye

Take good quality Henna powder based on the length of your hair Pour this powder in a copper vessel. To this mixture add sufficient quantity of tea. Cove this container with a plastic wrap and leave it to sit overnight.

Next day apply this mixture to your hair. Leave this mixture on your hair for 3 -4 hours. Wash your hair with water and then shampoo it.

Do not forget to condition your hair well as Henna tends to dry your hair.

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How To Select The Right Type Of Foundation - Penelope Cruz Makeover

2011-06-25T12:34:00.001+05:30

Foundation is a synonymous to any make up. Make up is incomplete without foundation.

Foundation lends the face a smooth and even look. However, most women do not know how to apply it properly. They are also unaware about the right type of Foundation for their skin tone.

The most elementary point when it comes to foundations is selecting the perfect shade matching your skin color. The best way to accomplish this is by testing a small amount of foundation on the inside of the forearm as this portion of the body is protected from harmful UV radiation of the Sun. You should select the foundation shade that perfectly blends with the skin color of that part of the body.

In case you’re uncertain about how to choose a foundation shade that is lighter than your facial skin color. The next crucial thing is the type of foundation whether to go for liquid foundation, cream foundation or compact foundation.

Liquid Foundation: Liquid foundation is most frequently used as it is simple to apply. It is suitable for all skin types except for dry skin. Those with oily skin can opt for Oil free liquid foundation.

Compact Foundation: Nevertheless, compact foundations are superb options because of their unmatched ability to give a smooth finish. Compact Foundations are a total package equipped with a powder which sure shot makes them a first preference of professional make-up artists across the globe. They come with a cosmetic sponge to enable a smooth application.

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Cream Foundations: Cream Foundation is solid, rich and equipped with moisturizing ingredients which makes it a perfect choice for those of you with dry skin. It has a pretty thick texture so you have to blend it well into your skin in order to have that smooth and even finish.

Stick Foundation: Stick foundation is the foremost foundation, its origination stems from the near the beginning of Hollywood. It is best for a badly blemished skin.

How to Get Rid of Acne

2011-04-22T11:39:00.001+05:30

There must be innumerable products in the market that claim to be the most effective cure for acne. However, after trying them all we are left with a feeling of being cheated. Acne is something that is caused due to bacteria

When acne is caused due to bacteria, there are ways to cure it. Does it sound hypothetical? May be, but it is not.

Sometimes we go on searching for things too far when we can just look inside

MS Dhoni, Gautam Gambhir, Yuvraj Singh fulfill Master's Dream - Win World Cup 2011

2011-04-03T14:54:00.034+05:30

Wankhede Stadium, Mumbai, 2nd April 2011

Champions!

Captain MS Dhoni's sixer gained India the title of 'World Champions'. All though the captain was out of form but when the nation called for his bat, he batted out the lankans. His confident batting created history by making India the first nation to win the ICC World Cup at home. Gautam Gambhir's 97 helped the country to stand-up to the challenge of Sri Lanka when the top order toppled in front of Milanga.

Yuvraj Singh Marches on with Team India after the Win

The entire country went in shock when sachin was caught by the Sri Lankan skipper Kumar Sangakkara. Lasith Milanga had reduced India to 31-2 by taking two important wickets and sending shockwaves across 121 billion people. But Gambhir, stood calm keeping a partnership with MS Dhoni of 109. Unfortunately, Gambhir was stumped by T Perera. However, the captain led from the front and anchored the team to the win with this lucky mascot 'Yuvraj Singh'.

Captain MS Dhoni with the World Cup Trophy at the Taj

Euphoria: People Celebrate World Cup Win

Yuwie had helped India get quick and important wickets of Sri Lankan skipper Kumar Sangakarra and Thilan Samaraweera. He fielded well and very deservingly clutched the title of 'Man of the Series' while the skipper won 'Man of the Match'. All this was done for the master blaster Sachin Tendulkar whose innings in Mohali had helped India to make a place in the final. Sachin missed his century but won the cup. His team had helped him live his dream.

Team India has inspired the youth to live their dreams. Despite of the debacle of the toss, Dhoni and his men marched towards victory. Many people had heard the Sri lankan skipper say 'tails' to be his choice during the first toss. But since he retracted, MS Dhoni showed his sportsmanship and went for another toss. He lost but India won. As it is said in an oscar nominated bollywood movie, 'Sach aur Sahas ho Jiske Man Mein, Ant Mein Jeet Usiki Rahein'; which means that the one who has truth and courage in his heart is the ultimate winner. This win wiped away the tears that 26/11 had given to Mumbai and to India by bringing good memories to cherish.

Long Live Team India, May You Never Let Go Off the World Cup!

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Sachin Shines, India Triumphs!

2011-03-31T11:51:00.005+05:30

Yesterday, was a historic moment for the two countries. Pakistani PM meeting India's Prime Minister Manmohan Singh over the India-Pakistan Semi-Final in Mohali. After a visible attempt of trying to re-establish friendship between the two countries. The much awaited match began with Captain MS Dhoni's decision of batting first. Virendra Sehwag gave an aggressive start to the match by piling 4s giving space to the master blaster to settle. But this aggressive streak came to an end with Wahab Riaz's ball when he had to go back to the pavilion with 38 runs.

However, the master continued to play in a steady and stable manner despite of repeated false appeals by the green gang. Six times the master blaster was declared not out. Sachin tendulkar proved once again that bowling him is not a "child's play". He paved the way to India's victory by quickly pushing the score above 100. The master's innings came to an end at 85 with Shahid Afridi's catch at Saeed Ajmal's ball. But the little master was declared man of the match as Pakistani batsmen stumbled over their heads while chasing a score of 261.

During the Pakistani innings, Sachin Tendulkar was paying keen attention on every segment right from bowling to fielding. He was also seen guiding captain MS Dhoni.

Now, India will be meeting Sri Lanka in the Final at Wankhade Stadium, Mumbai. The nation hopes to see a century from the little master along with the world cup trophy.

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Texas Hold Em Poker Rules

2011-02-03T11:32:00.000+05:30

These amounts are called “blind bets”. The blind placed by the second player is always double the amount placed by the first player. The first is called the little blind while the second is called the big blind. Then each player is

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Meenaxi- Movie Review

2010-12-19T17:44:00.005+05:30

"The heroine of the movie is of course, Meenaxi, played beautifully by the talented, ravishing and gorgeous actress Tabu. I must admit, that I never found her more beautiful in any of her earlier films than in this one."

"The other lead in the movie is played by the talented actor, Kunal Kapoor. Kunal is another mystery man for the author. "

I watched this movie two weeks ago and I downloaded it from a website. Since, then I have been watching it almost regularly whenever I get time. I don't know if I am addicted to this movie. But it seems that I have got addicted to it. Well, "Meenaxi" is pronounced actually as "Meenakshi". This movie has been directed by famous painter M.F. Hussain and it seems that he did an excellent job post his first flop "Gajagamini". Although, Meenaxi, too, bombed at the box office; it is an excellent film for any movie lover. If you wish to discover, the real Bollywood then Meenaxi is a must watch. Most bollywood lovers have not even taken a single glance at the movie considering the reputation of the maker. Mr. Hussain may have had a great reputation as a painter but his first flop got him a tag of a bad filmmaker.

Unfortunately, most review writers did not bother to take a fair and square look at the movie. This made a wonderful creation get hidden in the darkness forever. But for me, the movie delivered the most colorful experience. Apart from the regular Bollywood masala movies, candy-floss movies and recent irritating romantic-comedies – Meenaxi offers a fresh thought wrapped in a fragrance of mystery, romance, reality and beauty.

Characters:

The heroine of the movie is of course, Meenaxi, played beautifully by the talented, ravishing and gorgeous actress Tabu. I must admit, that I never found her more beautiful in any of her earlier films than in this one. Tabu is at her best as she portrays the mystery woman who has charmed the author to death.

Nawab the second lead played by veteran actor Raghuveer Yadav is an author who is completely mesmerized by the beauty and essence of “Meenaxi”. Raghuveer Yadav comes across as the obvious choice for playing “Nawab”. His acting is obvious and effortless. He clearly conveys the confused, hypnotized, clumsy author who thinks about nothing other than his work. As the story unfolds, we learn that Nawab is an absent-minded author who has been suffering from the writer’s block from the past five years.

The other lead in the movie is played by the handsome actor, Kunal Kapoor. Kunal is another mystery man for the author. A person whom he has met in life but has not had a clearly conversation with; Nawab imagines meeting him in person and discovers the real man who resides inside a rustic, arrogant, spoilt and non-serious motor mechanic as the movie progresses. Kunal kapoor plays two characters in the movie namely Kunal, the motor mechanic and Kameshwar Mathur, a thoughtful poet from Hyderabad who falls in love with the two characters played by Tabu; Meenaxi from Jaisalmer and Maria from Prague. Kunal’s acting is remarkable as he effortlessly essays the rusty mechanic and the calm poet. He looks innocent and perfect for his characters. His acting for a debutant is far more polished. He successfully pulls sympathy for both his diametrically opposed characters. Kunal has got Arabic looks that make him look apt for the characters; secondly, his ease at performing makes him a site worth watching. Except for his dancing skills, Kunal Kapoor is an asset for Bollywood.

Nadira Babbar plays aunt of the author and Kameshwar Mathur. She is cute, funny and authoritative. She essays a typical rich aunt who is kind and loving at the same time has authority in her mannerisms.

The Plot:

“Meenaxi” is the name of the woman who resides in the mind of the famous author Nawab. Nawab is great at observing people. He has the name, “Meenaxi” on his mind as his sister’s friend happens to have it. This mystery woman is a face, situated in his mind. Her fragrance too, has made it’s place in the mind of the author. Meenaxi is a woman who has completely fascinated the author and he has her all over his mind. She has become his point of reference. Having met her only for a short instance, Nawab consults her every time he gets stuck while understanding her character. Nawab seems to register everyone who he has met even for a short instance in his life; like a true author, all those people and things take shape in his story.

Nawab meets Meenaxi at his sister’s wedding and next day she comes at his residence. She asks him to write her story and promises that she will not interfere in his work. Nawab meets a rowdy motor mechanic when he goes to repair his car. Nawab discovers that this rowdy motor mechanic loves to sing but has suppressed his passion and hence, is frustrated. He decides to make him a hero of his story.

Nawab tells Meenaxi that in his story she is a princess from Jaisalmer who falls in love with a poet from Hyderabad. Meenaxi from Jaisalmer is a strong beautiful woman who trusts her intuition for better judgment. She is working for making people aware about the water problem in Jaisalmer. She has long been alone, her only companion being her jeep. Unknowingly she longs for a companion or a partner which she finds in the nephew of her uncle’s friend. Kameshwar Mathur, has come from Hyderabad to reside with his aunt and uncle. He belongs to a decent family and is a professional poet. Kameshwar is an extremely polite, well-mannered boy who follows his heart to make choices. He easily falls in love with the mysteriously beautiful princess. The lonely girl decides to go against the wish of her uncle and marry the young poet. At that time, the hyderabadi Meenaxi wakes up the author and burns the pages of the story. However, in reality due to the writer’s block and uncertainty of understanding the characters of both the girl and the boy; the story ends without an end.

The author starts to rediscover his characters and meets the motor mechanic again after six months. He advises him to become a singer. The young mechanic pours his heart in front of the author yet not telling him his name. After the author leaves, the young man goes through a transformation when he sees himself in the brothel with a bottle of liquor in his hand.

The author, now, confident about the character of his hero writes another story putting his heroine in the city of Prague. Maria works as a waitress on a ship and is a full-time actress in a theatre. She too is lonely but more expressive than the Meenaxi from Jaisalmer. This character is much closer to the girl from Hyderabad. Now, the author feels that he has come very close to knowing his heroine. He makes her meet her hero, Kameshwar Mathur. They both fall in love. Eventually, they conquer the heights of love. Just like Meenaxi from Jaisalmer, Maria is an orphan whose companion is her bicycle on which she doesn’t ride. She is also an independent woman but more free spirited than her previous avatar. After Maria has loved and is loved, the writer stops his pen.

The character of Meenaxi is now beyond his reach and will not walk on his given line. She comes out of the book leaving the author gasping for breath. On the other hand, the author’s hero has decided to walk the path of the author’s choice. The motor mechanic has now decided to become a singer and lead a decent life. His character is completed and so he reveals his name to be “Kunal”. While the author still gasping for breath now succumbs to death with Meenaxi sitting besides his head. The next day the author’s sister accompanied by his aunt comes to visit him. They find the author dead. In some seconds, he comes back to life and finds himself at his sister’s wedding following a lady in a white sharara (a traditional outfit). She turns back and to his surprise it is not “Meenaxi” as he had presumed. For an instance, Nawab had imagined everything from meeting her, talking with her and even writing her story. It was all in his mind while he was actually still standing at his sister’s wedding.

Nawabs sister comes near her brother to have talk, just when, he sees a woman wearing a white sharara (a traditional outfit). Nawab follows her and she turns back. Nawab is awestruck. Once again, he asks this woman her name and she replies, “Meenaxi”. Thus, the process of discovery begins once again.

Conclusion:

The movie is a must watch especially for those who love to read and write. The movie is also for those who love bright colours, romance and everything that is beautiful in this world. Meenaxi takes us away from the gloominess of the everyday world while still highlighting the beauty of our everyday life. The tale revolves around three cities; Hyderabad, Jaisalmer and Prague. I found Jaisalmer the most beautiful followed by Hyderabad. Cinematography and art direction of the movie is beyond excellence. The movie captures minute details of everyday life adding beauty, humour and romance to the story. Watch it, you will not regret it!!

My rating:

9.5/10

How to Look Young and Beautiful with Fruit and Vegetable Juices

2010-12-17T10:28:00.000+05:30

To start a healthy day it is important to eat healthy in the morning. Your energy level depends on what you have for the breakfast.

It is essential to have a well nourished and healthy food to look young, beautiful and fit.
A good way to start your day is with a glass of vegetable or fruit juice to clean the intestine and also energize your body.

Vegetable juices help in detoxification, improve metabolism, increase stamina and also boost the immune system.

26/11: Have We Learnt Our Lesson? May be Not!

2010-11-26T22:32:00.003+05:30

Today, two years have passed post 26/11 and we are where we were two years back. It is painful and it is frustrating that the biggest terror attacks did not teach us anything. Our chief minister forgot that the national anthem was playing and that he was supposed to stand till it got over.

Two years back after the massacre ended; Vilasrao Deshmukh had gone to visit the Taj officially along with star son Riteish and director Ram Gopal Varma. This had cost him his post but Prithviraj Chavan has already replaced Adarsh Scam fame Ashok Chavan.

So, with whom will the Congress replace Prithviraj Chavan? They are suffering from the lack of clean men, therefore, are in a big fix. Two years back Pakistan was not accepting the hand of their pet Cobras namely: 1) the ISI and 2) LeT in this gruesome massacre despite of repeated pleas from our country; Two years later they have still not accepted it.

Two years back there was no security in the public places, two years later the situation has not changed for better. Two years back Ajmal Kasab, the man who killed innocent civilians and three brave cops by committing a cowardly act was alive; he is still alive and safe in the prison. The only thing that changed after 26/11/2008 was that the blaze of anger extinguished into silence once again. Silence; which a man who goes to work everyday maintains because silence doesn't need time. Time, is something that nobody in this country has; especially those living in the urban part. Those having the power are well-versed with it and so they see no reason to take action.

Even though we claim to be united, we are still fragmented. Biases exist in class, creed, community, caste, designations, religions and generations. Therefore, it is easy for the politically correct politicians to divide us without causing an evident rift. Today, I wait in silence and painful grief to think that one day a new sunrise will bring the sunshine of security, happiness and health to my ailing motherland. At that time, her pain will heal and she will smile for once and forever!

If we save the tigers, we'll save the planet

2010-11-14T11:01:00.001+05:30

By Leonardo DiCaprio and Carter S. Roberts

Tigers have long provoked awe in the human imagination, becoming symbols of untamed nature whose "fearful symmetry," in the words of William Blake, has inspired everything from art to advertising. In the wild, however, tigers are on the verge of disappearing.

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2010-11-05T10:52:00.000+05:30

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The PISCES Woman By Linda Goodman - 2

2010-10-28T00:59:00.000+05:30

First of all, she's subtle. Ask Nicky Hilton, Michael Wilding, Eddie Fisher and Richard Burton-each of whom married a Pisces. As a matter of fact, the same Pisces. She is not only subtle, she's sometimes a bit deceptive when she practices her art of wrapping you around her emerald ear rings.

Now, you may know a Neptune lady who wears a ging ham apron and a shy smile, and who is the epitome of the devoted wife, homemaker and tender mother. You're think ing that she's neither subtle nor deceptive. Forgive my di rectness, but you are wrong. As for that Pisces lady you think is different, I know her, too, or one just like her.

She's a widow who lives in the Bronx, and her name is Pauline. She also wears a gingham apron and a shy smile -the whole setup. How can such a Fannie Farmer image be subtle or deceptive? I'll tell you. First of all, she wraps everyone around her apron strings. (She doesn't have any emerald earrings. Next year, maybe.) She's a short woman who has managed to stand up to the loss of a dear child, heartbreak, boredom, tragedy, fear, poverty, and even the confusion of sudden, very brief riches. She's coped with little boys' bruised knees, braces, lost galoshes; a husband's sloppy Sunday cook-ins in her neat kitchen-and the big gest mixture of in-laws-all speaking eight languages at once-you ever saw outside the United Nations. She has faced all this mishmash of fate like Rocky Graziano.

That's gentle? That's delicate? To this very moment, her two sons think of her as a charming, girlish, helpless, fluttery and soft little creature, who needs to be protected, and who can't quite understand how the lock works on the front door.

She's delightfully vague and dreamy. She doesn't know a thing about economics, but she manages to dress as though she was turned out by Sophie of Saks, cook frequent seven-course dinners for assorted grandchildren, pay the rent on time, and send exquisite gifts on holidays and birthdays- all on a monthly income about the size of one of Jack Benny's tips. She has the open love and affection of two daughters-in-law, and an incongruous group made up of the librarian, the super, the owner of the comer delly, the fruit man, half a dozen stray cats and children, the butcher, the newsboy, and would you believe it, even the landlord. She may have one enemy. The man she turned down before she married her husband. He probably joined the Foreign Legion in disappointment, and now I doubt if she even re members his name. Heartless females, these Pisces women. Subtle and deceptive. (But don't try to tell their neighbors that.)

Like the March winds, your Pisces girl will have many a mood. She's terribly sentimental, and when her feelings are wounded she can cry buckets. She'll look at you so re proachfully you'll feel as if you'd just shot a small rabbit. Pisces females sometimes get the idea they're hopelessly unequipped for the fierce battles and driving ambition re quired to survive. Then deep depression sets in. At these times you'll have to tell her she's admired for her deep, mysterious wisdom and her blessed understanding by every single human she has ever graced with her friendship. It's usually the gospel truth. The hardest lesson she has to learn is to overcome her timidity and her doubts. If the fears go deep, she'll shut herself off from others, then wonder why she's lonely. She's often afraid of imposing, pushing too hard, taking advantage, when such thoughts are in no one's head but hers.

Now and then a Pisces girl will cover her shyness and vulnerability with wisecracks, a sophisticated veneer and a frigid independent personality, but it's merely a cloak of protection, worn to hide her uncertainty from the prying eyes of rough people who would bruise her genfle heart if she exposed it. I know one who pours out her real soul by writing lovely song lyrics with a secret message woven in the shades of her soft, very private dreams. When she's not writing, she's the picture of the brittle, callous, career woman she wants people to see.

Yet, even this type of Pisces is unable to fight her Sun sign. With all her make-believe independence she waits on the curb and lets the man whistle for the cab. There are some things one just doesn't do, as far as Neptune women are concerned; not acting like a lady in public is one of them. She fools a lot of men who could quiet her inner fears and make her take back her frequent claim of, "Who needs a husband? They only mess up your life." Imagine a statement like that from a Piscean, who needs to belong to someone more than she needs to sleep, eat or breathe.

A Pisces girl will give all of her heart to her children, except for the large chunk she saves for you. She'll love them all, but the ones who are uglier, weaker, smaller or sicker may have a slight edge with her. Only a Pisces movie star would pass up the little dimpled darlings and adopt a tiny, crippled tot with frightened eyes. Female fish are the greatest women in the world for understanding the shyness of small boys and the growing pains of awkward adolescent girls.

A Piscean mother spins a thousand wispy, cobweb dreams over each bassinet. She'll sacrifice anything so her children can have what she was denied as a child. She may be too permissive. Administering discipline is difficult for her, and she must realize that a lack of firmness is often as bad as severe neglect. In a way, it is neglect, of building the small characters in her care, who need firm guidance to leam to swim alone. If she's guilty of too much softness, explain it to her kindly. She'll comprehend without bitter ness, and begin to give the hairbrush a workout. Still many Neptune mothers manage a happy medium between dis cipline and kindness, and their offspring do them credit.

A Pisces woman will gladly let you cam the bacon and cggplant. She'll probably prefer not to enter the brutal com petition of the commercial world, unless you desperately need her to. She had enough of that (if she's a typical Neptune girl) when she worked for that big, confusing company while she was waiting for you to rescue her. Some, not all, but some Pisces women are a wee little bit extrav agant. She may need some help figuring out why the bank's balance doesn't reconcile with her stubs, written in Sanskrit. Still, when an emergency forces her to adapt her champagne taste to a skim milk pocketbook, she'll man age.

She listens to the ocean, and it tells her things.

In the> midst of the city, she still hears the waves of Neptune whispering to her Pisces heart more, perhaps, than she wants to know. Don't forget her birthday or your anni versary or the day you proposed. She won't. I'll always remember the Pisces friend I went to school with in West Virginia. She was tiny, with long, dark hair and those strange Neptune lights in her greenish brown eyes. She mar ried (among several other men) a big football star; it was a totally unexpected elopement. I remember when she asked him why he proposed. She was curious. "Well," he told her, "it was the funniest thing, Shorty. I didn't have the slightest idea of proposing that day.

We were in the park, near the pool. The chicks who were lying around getting a tan had wet, stringy hair from swimming, and they looked all hot and sweaty on the benches. You were sitting there under that tree in a white lace dress, and you looked so cool and different from the others. You looked like-well, I guess you sorta looked like a girl." That's the subtle secret of the Pisces woman. Whether she follows Neptune's call as a dedicated nun in a convent or as a sultry songstress in a noisy nightclub-she's a girl. All girl. One hundred per cent.

The PISCES Woman By Linda Goodman - 1

2010-10-28T00:55:00.000+05:30

'Well, what are you?" said the Pigeon. "I can see you're

trying to invent something!" "I-I'm a little girl," said Alice, rather doubtfully.

She found herself at last in a beautiful garden, among the bright flower-beds and the cool fountains.

The line forms to the right. And please don't crowd. There may not be enough Pisces women for every man, but that's no reason to be unruly. You'll have to take your turn, and hope for the best.

Even without astrology, rumors have spread about the charms of a Pisces female. She has her negative points, to be sure, but at first glance she's every man's grade school valentine, with maybe just a touch of a Playboy bunny to add some pepper. We might as well admit that the modern, emancipated woman, with her cast-iron image, has made the Pisces girl's value shoot even higher. With all that free dom from the feminine mystique clouding the air over lover's lane, the demure, pretty, helpless Neptune creature has to beat off the men with big sticks.

It's hardly surprising that she's at a premium. The Neptune female seldom tries to overshadow her man, mar ried or single. She hasn't the slightest hidden, neurotic desire to dominate him in any way. He can pull out her chair, put on her coat, whistle for the taxi, light her cigarette and talk about how wonderful he is to his heart's content. All she wants is that he should protect her and care for her. She's happily content to lean on his big broad shoulder and let him know, with wide-eyed wonder, how strong he is, and how much she needs him in this scary world. Just think of all those wolves out there, waiting to devour Red Riding Hoods. It's enough to make a girl get out her smelling salts. Even if she isn't quite as Victorian as all that (though plenty of girl fish are), she'll be a charm ing listener to all his troubles, and what is referred to as a good egg through every crisis.

A Pisces woman thinks her mate, lover, boy friend, brother, father-in fact, any man-can lick the whole world with one hand tied behind his back, and it takes a surprisingly small amount of her touching faith to con vince them of the same thing, men being the way they are. And you wonder why she's so popular? The Pisces girl is a cozy, calm haven of tranquility for her proud male, far from the noise of the frame and the ticker tape machines. The lights in her fish pond are soft and dim. They soothe tired eyes which have been blasted by neon and all those silly little figures at the stock market she couldn't understand to save her life. (Though if it would really save her life, she would sharpen her pencil.)

In the winter she wears fluffy angora mittens. In the Spring she wears dainty, full skirts. Summers will find her in a brief bikini. In the fall she'll look adorable sitting beside you at football games, with her hands in your pockets to keep them warm, and asking you the score. She is eter nally feminine in all seasons. At the risk of making an un derstatement, men are drawn to her like bumblebees to a honey pot.

A short conversation with her, and a man instantly re laxes. He pictures a glowing, crackling fire on a chilly night, or he sees himself in a hammock on a balmy spring day, with no one to nag him. She makes it clear that she'll never blame him for any problems in his career or any ac cidental mistakes. It's always someone else's fault. Not her man's. Shell never press him to get ahead faster. His own pace is perfect with her.

Need I explain why the female fish makes the most dangerous other woman of all the Sun signs? Flash! Maritime warning: After marriage she may nudge a little. To be truthful, she may nudge a lot. In a way, it serves you right for letting yourself be so blinded by her charms. Lots of times she'll even be bitterly sarcastic, but every woman has to have some flaws, and the Pisces girl will be gentle far more often than she's quarrelsome. She has to be goaded by extreme cruelty or laziness in a mate to be a shrew-and who's to say a cruel or lazy hus band doesn't deserve it? Not me. I'm with her.

Besides, her delectable femininity covers any minor defi ciencies, and most of the time the typical Neptune girl is soft, dreamy and womanly. Since the fish swims in both directions at once, she adapts beautifully and quietly to conflicting situations that would turn other women into nervous Nellies. Of course, now and then, some cranky words and irritable chatter may bubble up from her nor mally placid stream of thought. Occasionally a sensitive Neptune female who has suffered harsh treatment at an early age will allow bitterness to break the two symbolic fish of her sign apart-and this can be very sad. She be comes a lonely, miserable Piscean, always swimming furi ously, and meeting herself everywhere she dives down to escape-never realizing that the turning inward of her end less love and sympathy toward herself is the real poison. Drugs and drink and false illusions hide the truth from her and blind her to the rocks in the river that might destroy her. But the average Neputune girl keeps both symbolic fish joined firmly together in smooth action, gliding softly first back, then a little forward, so you're never quite sure exactly which way she's headed. Pisces is said to be a deep, mysterious sea, into which all rivers flow. You'll have a better chance of catching her if you know some of her elusive secrets. What makes her swim?

The SCORPIO Man by Linda Goodman

2010-10-26T15:26:00.001+05:30

And her eyes immediately met those

of a large, blue caterpillar

that was sitting on the top with its arms folded, quietly

smoking a long hookah . . .

The caterpillar and Alice

looked at each other in silence,

If you're in love with a Scorpio male and the word passion frightens you, put on your track shoes and run as if King Kong were pursuing you. He is.

I'm not speaking of romantic passion alone, though that may be at the head of the list. I also refer to pas sionate intensity about politics, work, friendship, religion, food, relatives, children, clothing, life, death and any other categories you can think up. A Scorpio man is not exactly what your psyche needs if you're repelled by emotional excess. Don't look back. Just run.

You'll think I've taken leave of my senses if you've just met that particular Pluto person. He's so calm and steady. How could anyone with such obvious self-control be passionate, let alone dangerously so? How indeed. Be cause he's only bluffing with the surface cool. Inside, his passions are as red hot as that stove you burned your hand on when you were three or four years old and getting into things out of your reach. This man may also be out of reach. He's sizzling underneath his deceptively controlled manner. Don't touch. You know perfectly well how long it takes for bums to heal. Remember? Your hand was stinging for weeks after that episode with the stove when you were in your Buster Browns.

After this experience, your heart will burn for months, maybe years, and first aid kits will do little good. Grandma's favorite saying, "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure," applies to both stove burns and Scorpio singes, so play it safe. Make sure you know where you're going and with whom.

If your Sun sign gives you an asbestos, fireproof nature, go ahead and play with explosives. You may be able to keep the flames under control and have yourself a powerful fire to warm your heart for a lifetime. Perhaps you're pas sionate about things yourself.

Fine. Then it's simply a mat ter of degree of heat. If your passion has an automatic thermostat, so it can be turned down to cool when his reads hot, you're safe. Let's pretend you are. The girls who are in danger should be in the next state by now, if they ran fast enough. They'll thank me someday after they've married a nice, safe Libran or Cancerian.

As for you women who have analyzed yourselves as safe in a Pluto relationship, let's see if we can find what's hidden behind those hypnotic, piercing Scorpio eyes. It's pretty certain he hasn't made a neutral impression on you. He's either got you thinking he's boyish and sweet, or that he's wicked and passionate. (There goes that word again.) The trouble is, he's neither. Or maybe I should say he's both. Well, this isn't getting us anywhere. Let's start all over again.

In a word, this man is invincible. Just behind his frosty reserve is a huge pot of boiling steam that bubbles and seethes continually. If you're lucky, he'll keep the lid on. tight for a lifetime, but a deep injury can blow it right off with a brilliant explosion. It's kind of fascinating to watch. if you're not in its direct line of destruction. Step aside, if you feel it coming. And don't do anything to cause it yourself.

Hell bewilder you with his twin Scorpio traits of passion and reason. He's master of both: intellect and emotions rule him equally. Scorpio is more than intelligent. If he's a highly evolved specimen, he's also deeply philosophical, concerned with mysteries of existence, and he'll come close to knowing the answers.

There are Scorpios who can live a spartan existence in a bare room, denying themselves every comfort for some obscure, aesthetic reason, but the true nature of the sign is sensual.

Normally, Scorpio will surround himself with luxury. He'll lean toward excesses in food, drugs, drink, and yes-in love. Most assuredly in love. He's geared for it, with confidence. Romance will never frighten him, puz zle him, or catch him unaware. It's been on his mind ever since he rode his first bicycle. Maybe even his first tricycle. Of course, you could conceivably know a Scorpio who is so absolutely innocent-looking, with such disarming, youthful charm and lack of obvious seductive mannerisms, he's convinced you that passion is over-rated in Pluto males. He may even have freckles, and a whole drawer full of Boy Scout merit badges. But ask his wife. Try something like, "Say, Bertha-or Rosalie-or Sheila-or what ever-is your husband, well, is he passionate?" She might summon enough dignity to tell you it's none of your busi ness, but your answer will most likely be hysterical laugh ter.

Between her peals of mirth, she'll be remembering many days of his intense, passionate declarations about air pollution, housebreaking the dog, narcotics, long hair, birth control, and many nights of ... well, and many nights. This will be true even if her husband looks like Huckleberry Finn, and doesn't even remotely resemble King Kong.

These men have an explosive temper that can strike a life-time wound. When the Scorpio lashes his deadly tail, the sting bites hard. He not only enjoys winning, he has to win. Something inside him dies when he loses, even in small ways; yet oddly enough, a Pluto man normally prac tices good sportsmanship. Like all his other emotions, disappointment never shows on those set features, and his reactions are rigidly controlled, including his romantic in tentions. If there's a good reason to avoid the relationship, hell bum inside while he's projecting a glacial calm out wardly.

He's also capable of torturing a girl cruelly before he finally decides to grab her by the hair and drag her off to his jungle of honeysuckle vines. Naturally, there are some November fellows who will gently propose on bended knee. They'll behave very properly, with or without a chaperone, but don't be deceived. It's merely the Scorpio desire to keep dignity at all cost. Your reputation must be spotless. He won't stand for ridicule or cheapness, for all his erotic nature.

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The SCORPIO Man by Linda Goodman - 2

2010-10-26T15:15:00.003+05:30

Pluto people can have either a Sunday School teacher horror of sin, an attitude which produces intensely dedi cated evangelistic religious leaders, like Billy Graham, or they can be driven by curiosity to penetrate every dark corner of the human mystery. Sometimes, both attitudes are combined, resulting in the hypocrisy or self-delusion of an Elmer Gantry or a Reverend Davidson in Rain.

Every Scorpio is a law unto himself, and completely un concerned with what others think of him. He would like to be respected as a good, solid citizen, but if it interferes with any of his intense ideas or goals, then he couldn't care less, and those who gossip can just go to the place Pluto rules. None of his important decisions are hampered by the opinions of his friends, relatives, neighbors or enemies. I'm sorry to say, not even by you. Don't run away yet. Such beautiful self-containment and sureness of purpose can create a mighty attractive, free spirit who's not always fussing about what people think. Are honesty and courage and integrity such bad bargains? They may have lost a little of their sparkle in today's marketplace, but rub off the dust they've collected, and you can still get them appraised as genuine.

It's quite an experience to see the Scorpio man operate under adversity's black clouds. While others are mumbling and crumbling and grumbling, he is at his forceful, courageous best. He seldom wallows in envy or self-pity, and he doesn't happen to think that life owes him a single farthing. You can just imagine how much time that saves. Instead of pouting in hurt anger when real troubles hit, he meets them head on. Conquer them? But of course.

That's what he was born to do.

One thing is a little frightening, and may require courage on your part. Scorpio loves mystery and there's not a single one that crosses his path he won't solve in detail. Since the eternal feminine mystery is any girl's most potent defense and offense, being stripped naked of your mystery can leave you feeling a little exposed. You'll scarcely have a secret left when he starts probing with those burning eyes and piercing questions.
He has high standards, and he won't choose his friends loosely. They'll have to measure up. This is a marvelous, rare kind of man who can share a jug of spirits and joke with rough humor among other men like a bawdy Eliza bethan; then tap that deep, inscrutable nature and turn into as gentle and tender a lover as Robert Browning. If there's anything more to ask for in a male animal, I don't know what it might be. Submissiveness and forgiveness? Detachment and caution? That's not fair. You knew he was short on those qualities back in the beginning.

He can be cruel sometimes, for his own, unfathomable reasons, and he may even exhibit a sadistic sense of wit by describing you as fat, dumpy, shrewish and square in front of friends. It's his private joke. Grin, if it kills you. You've been warned that Scorpio is compelled to conceal his motives, and this tendency isn't watered down in love. It may even be intensified. He's not about to display his true emotions in front of the world like a vulnerable, smitten schoolboy. Later, when you're alone, he'll tell you what he really thinks.

Marriage gives you a certain security, but if he pulls some of his Pluto tricks before the knot is tied, it may hurt, and you'll fail to get the humor. Still, don't even think about telling him that his harsh, self-sufficient who-needs-you? game makes you feel like jumping off a bridge. The Scorpio man will just tell you to go ahead and jump. It may take a while to adjust to his personality, but it will eventually toughen you up. If you're too soft, you'll bruise easily with a Scorpio. Never ask him what he thinks of a new dress or hair-do, unless you're prepared to be stung by the brutal truth. At least you'll know his positive state ments are honest, and not pasted together with the sticky glue of bored, insincere flattery. It's better to brave a good, healthy "You look awful," now and then, and be rewarded by an occasional "You're really beautiful, you know," than to swallow a constant diet of vague remarks like: "Yes, dear, it's lovely, sugar. Mmmmm-just fine, pigeon," from other men. Don't you think so? I do. But then, you're the one who has to live with it.

When it comes to jealousy, you'd better tread very, very carefully. He could bum and erupt like Mount Vesuvius in its heyday if you should accidentally wink near a man when a cinder gets in your eye, and if you ever give him a real reason to be suspicious, you're a very brave woman. But you'd better pack away your own jealous streak in the trunk, and then lock it. It will make no impression at all to drench him in angry tears or reproachful recriminations. No matter how he behaves, just say to yourself, "He loves me, and he will never discard real love for physical promiscuity. He's loyal to his deep ties, and he's only practicing his hypnotic art with those girls." Say it once before each meal, in the morning and at bedtime. Especially at bedtime. Women will find him irresistibly attractive, but keep remembering that if anyone is strong enough to resist such continual flattery and temptation, it's a Scorpio. Doesn't that make you feel better? It should. It's true.

He'll probably be a stern father. The children won't get away with an ounce of lazy or frivolous behavior. Hell teach them to respect property, but he'll also teach them to respect themselves. Youngsters will seldom get the chance to form any false values around a Scorpio papa. Although he'll love them with as much sincere passion as he puts into everything else he cares about, he won't Stand for any nonsense. He'll protect them when they need it, but they'll soon get the message that he expects them to stand alone. If they borrow money from him, he's liable to charge them interest on it, but it's for their own good. They may not realize that until he's gone some-day, but the lesson will eventually come home to them. Lots of children of Scorpio fathers resent his high-handed authority and tight discipline throughout childhood, and especially during the rebellious years, but as adults, they realize how lucky they were to have his firm guidance. From no other father can children learn so much truth about the way life really is. Often his offspring will find him gentle and funny; still there won't be any question about who is boss. He'll joke and laugh with them, and give them a sense of freedom, but the chalk line will be drawn, and they'll know not to cross it.

Even as they resent his attitude of command, the children will secretly admire his strength and try to imitate it, but occasionally it works the other way. A gentle child may feel bullied and cowed by Scorpio power, and retreat into neurotic intro version, fearing to risk his displeasure. Then you'll have to remind him that affection and tenderness sometimes get more results than his normal, unbending, autocratic manner. Just be sure you remind him tactfully and respectfully. A Scorpio man will never allow a woman to dictate to him. Never in a million years. He is the man and you are the woman, and if you have any doubts about it, you will be set straight so surely that you'll never need but one lesson. Yet, a Scorpio husband with a wife who truly understands him, will be tender, sympathetic, considerate, and repay her loyalty with the kind of love most women only read about and wish for.

It won't help much to try to resist this man, once the flame has been stirred and he's decided he wants you. Hell hypnotize you right out of all your good intentions. The magnetism of Scorpio men is almost tangible. You feel you can reach out and touch it. When you do, you may get a surprise. It will bum you only if you're over-sensitive and scorchable. If you're patient and strong, it will be like touching cool marble. Girls are out of their league with him. It takes a brave woman to fly with the eagle and not crash. He can soar higher than his symbolic bright star Antares in the constellation of Scorpio, then dip down suddenly to earthy expression. Hang on tightly, but keep your eyes open wide, and you'll see horizons with him the timid will never see. Look over there, just beyond the tall fir trees-did you ever in your whole life experience such a sunrise? Sunset will be just as grand.

How to win a Scorpio back after you have hurt him

2010-10-14T11:53:00.000+05:30

Jeffrey Kishner

Scorpio men do not take kindly to being hurt. Scorpios hold on to resentments as tightly as a sphincter holds on to water. A fixed water sign, he is stubborn when it comes to emotions. Scorpios don’t trust easily in the first place, because they are all too aware of how one can be wounded in intimate relationships.

Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, the planet that digs deep into experience, rooting out secrets and suppressed memories. Pluto is associated with manipulation and abuse of power. The Scorpio man is well-acquainted with the methods of torture used in the Underworld, and hence does not like to be on the receiving end of such barbaric techniques.

Even though the Scorpio man does not let go easily of his resentments, his zodiac sign is also the most transformative. Pluto rules the death-rebirth process. Scorpios hold tight, but they also periodically become devoured by the flames of regeneration.

As he rises from the ashes, your Scorpio man will have let go of his anger. However, there’s nothing you can do to initiate this process. Pluto works by his own mysterious schedule.
You cannot win back a Scorpio, but if you’re patient he might forgive you.
How long do you want to wait?
Comment below: Have you been reunited with a Scorpio after having hurt him?

What does a Scorpio man want in a woman?

2010-10-14T11:48:00.000+05:30

Jeffery Kisner

Scorpio man seeks woman who can keep a secret, stay faithful. Must have high sex drive, and must never ever look at another man (or woman, for that matter). Extra points if you have a healthy respect for privacy. Willingness to merge assets a plus — bringing along debts may be a dealbreaker. You should have completed a full round of psychoanalysis first, and know your dark side well — I don’t want to be your therapist, and I’d rather you have thoroughly examined yourself before I dig up all your skeletons. Tolerance for witnessing emotional extremes and black moods is a necessity. If you want to be possessed, I’m your man.