Sober Alcoholic Veteran, Sobriety Came Hard

21 Months Alcohol Free

2009-07-09T17:49:00.000-04:00

The good life is waiting for you
after you are freed from the prison
of your own thoughts.

I have been sober for 21 months now and
somehow it only feels like I had my last drink
yesterday. I have since found a great apartment,
a part time job in a IT department, which I am
enjoying, it actually gives me somewhere
to go each day. I take courses at the local
community college in computer technology
and I now have a little dog called Ruby as a
pal in the afternoons to play with. So between
work, school, home work and Ruby I have a
full day.

I have not gone to a AA meeting in three months,
so I decided to attend a meeting last night. I was
surprised that I only new 3 people in attendance,
as we were chatting after the meeting, I found out
that many others had returned to drinking and
pill popping.

I no longer have the urge for a drink and attend
many social functions where alcohol is served, I
don't have a problem with that and always stick
to my diet coke. All my co workers and friends
know I am an alcoholic and I am up front about
that fact. I even think it works to my advantage
to let it be known because I am sure someone
would intercede, if I attempted to have a drink
at a weak moment. I follow all that I learned
while going through the veterans substance
abuse program here in Gainesville, Florida.
and I am only a phone call away from my case
manager at the VA (Irma) and Dr Brandt the
hottest looking chick I know . I don't think she
appreciates me calling her that, but I can,
because this is my blog.

I have not entered into a relationship but frequently
date and have a special lady that means a lot to me.

I got my life back and I continue to be a sober
alcoholic Marine veteran. Thanks to all the guys
and gals at the Veterans Hospital in Gainesville,
Florida and to my God.

Author: Alden Morrison

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Veterans In Recovery Reunion

2008-10-08T09:00:00.000-04:00

The good life is waiting for you
after you are freed from the prison
of your own thoughts.

I attended the 2nd Veterans in Recovery
Reunion in Gainesville, Fl held last weekend.
It was a great fun party, attended by at least
one hundred and fifty veterans in recovery.

BBQ ribs, chicken, hot dogs, hamburgers and
all the trimmings were supplied and enjoyed
by all attending.

It was great to see all the Staff, from Doctors,
Rn's, Case Managers and Health Technicians
all enjoying the results of their hard and
demanding work, 150 sober veterans having
a great time without drugs or alcohol.

It was also great fun to see old friends sober
and drug free, shaking hands, giving and
receiving large hugs, wow, what a great
feeling.

Dan, the ladies man and Lewis, The gold chain
man did all the cooking and what a job. The
rest of the staff made sure all we veterans were
well fed and I must add the deserts were great
and fattening and oh yes, we all enjoyed our soft
drinks.

Two guest speakers were on hand sharing the
despair they had as users, then entering the
Veterans Health System Substance Abuse
Treatment Program, then using the skills
they were taught, their desires, hopes and
successes as Sober Veteran Alcoholics. They
had the Veterans in Recovery Groups total
attention.

Irma, my case manager was there with her
young son already a entrepreneur, you can
actually see the love flowing between Mom
and Son. He can't help but have a great
life with the kind of Mom he has.

Also my favorite Dr. Jennine Brandt was
there, a very professional lady with a big
heart for we Veterans and I might add,
because this is my blog and because I can,
is one hot looking chick.

To All - A Job Well Done and a SPECIAL Thank
You to the Veterans Health System for
helping us salvage our lives, you see a
government can mandate a service, but not
the very real love and care showed us by the
Staff at the Substance Abuse Program,
Veterans Hospital, Gainesville, Fl

Author: A grateful Sober Veteran: Alden Morrison

Respect yourself

2008-10-07T11:11:00.000-04:00

The good life is waiting for you
after you are freed from the prison
of your own thoughts.

Be your own person, love yourself.
Don't allow others to drag you down
with there words.

Don't put yourself down and hold
your head up and face the World
One Day at a Time.

God has created us equally, it is
just that some of us realize it later
than others because of our drinking
and drugging.

But now we are sober veterans, so
attack this world with the same
energy we used when we needed a
drink or drug and the world will
cough up what you need and more.
So respect yourself, worship God,
love and help your neighbor and
God will gladly let you stumble
upon your share and much more of
what he has to offer. This ex- Marine
has.

Jesus let me in, this ex-Marine has
served his time in hell.

Author: Alden Morrison

Flexability

2008-10-05T13:06:00.000-04:00

No man is ever whipped, until
he quits in his own mind.

You must be able to adapt to any
given situation, that the world
throws at you, without getting
panicky, getting mad or go into a
self pity or blame mode. Keep in
mind that you're reaction to any
given situation results in the state
of your mental attitude (positive
or negative). For we alcoholics
being flexible could mean the
difference in our sobriety.

Author: Alden Morrison

Positive Mental Attitude

2008-10-05T12:59:00.001-04:00

No man is ever whipped, until
he quits in his own mind.

A Positive Mental Attitude is the
correct attitude in any given situation,
and is symbolized by such words as
Faith - Integrity - Optimism - Courage -
Initiative - Generosity - Tolerance -
Tact - Kindliness - Good Common
Sense.

Author: Alden Morrison

Veteran's In Recovery

2008-10-05T12:50:00.000-04:00

No man is ever whipped, until
he quits in his own mind.

May God Bless all those who walk the
path that has been put in front of us.
The journey of recovery is filled with
discoveries. Some are enlightening,
and some are painful, but we grow
through these discoveries. Just
remember: Don't Pick Up No Matter
What. The Journey will be awesome,
and spiritual growth becomes a way of life.
And as the old saying goes: Today is the
first day of the rest of your life.

Responding - Not Reacting

2008-09-19T11:54:00.000-04:00

No man is ever whipped, until
he quits in his own mind.

Respond to life, do not merely
react to it. When we are hit with
negative words or situations from
other people, we usually immediately
react to that situation. Take a second
or two, pull back in your mind, now
respond with the thinking part of
your brain, say a quick prayer, like
help me God, it only takes a split
second, then you are ready to respond
and not reacting to the situation.
Remember if you react to a
situation, you lose, if you respond to
a situation, you win.

Think about this, when you were in the
armed forces, you leaders looked at a
situation and then responded the
correct way, they did not respond then
look if it was the right way to respond.

Author: Alden Morrison

Introduction at Alcoholics Anonymous Meetings

2008-09-17T10:02:00.000-04:00

No man is ever whipped, until
he quits in his own mind.

At AA meetings, everyone introduces
themselves, i.e. Al, alcoholic or Al,
addict to get to know each other.

Now keeping in mind that my mind
does not care what I put in it, good
or bad, it will act out what I put into
it. If I am constantly telling myself
that I am a alcoholic or addict, it
will find ways to convince me to act
as one and lay out a plan to carry it
out. This maybe the reason for the
term "stinking thinking" used often
at Alcoholic Anonymous meetings.
I could be setting myself up for a
relapse without knowing it, because
my mind is working on the solution,
i.e. to have a drink that is what
alcoholics do and my mind knows it.

While in the Veterans Administration
Program for alcoholics and addicts, I
was taught how our minds work while
on alcohol or drugs and what happens
before we relapse, so that is why I say
"my mind is working on the solution,
to get a drink", it is working around
all the good information my mind
learned in the Veterans program and
wants to get me that drink, I don't
need.

This could be the reason why the AA
success rate is small according to there
own figures. Now don't get me wrong,
I love AA for the 12 Step program and
fellowship I get and I attend meetings
daily.

So now it is my belief right or wrong to
now introduce myself as "Al, Sober
today", that way my mind is not
receiving conflicting information
to act on.

Author: Alden Morrison

2008-09-16T11:20:00.000-04:00

No man is ever whipped, until
he quits in his own mind.

Today I attended a Bible - 12 Step
Program on step nine.

The bible-12 Step meeting is a little
different than the Alcoholics
Anonymous meetings in that we sit
in a circle and everyone shares in
turn after the moderator has discussed
a certain part of Step Nine which was
the focus this week. If you do not
feel like sharing, you simply pass.

The focus was on making a direct amends
to the people we have hurt.

As people began sharing, I remembered
what my instructors in the Veterans
Program had suggested very strongly,
"avoid all relationships for at least one
year into your sobriety".

Everyone was sharing on mothers, fathers,
siblings, ex wives, husbands or significant
others. No one shared anything about
just plain friends, it seems we alcoholics
are short of real friends and it was very
evident we know how to destroy personal
relationships with close family members
and that is a good enough reason to avoid
any new relationships for at least your
first year of sobriety.

I was thinking about myself since I have
been sober for eleven months now and I
am content. I have not had any real
relationships in the last five years and
single life suites me fine. I avoid
relationships like they are the plague,
so there are no new violent words to
make amends for. The tongue can be a
very violent tool, more so than our
sometimes reactions to someone else's
tongue (domestic violence).

Bottom line is, avoid relationships
for a while anyway, enjoy your own
company because we do not need any
more problems than we already have.

Author: Alden Morrison

Faith - One Day At A Time

2008-09-14T15:49:00.000-04:00

By sincerely engaging in spiritual
practice, we can gain mastery over
our mind

Today is a new day and with
it comes new problems and
new solutions.

Yesterdays problems and there
solutions are gone and I cannot
go back and correct them.

Hopefully I have learned something
from yesterday that I can apply as a
solution to new problems as they
come up.

Author: Alden Morrison

Admitting My Alcoholism

2008-08-27T09:58:00.000-04:00

By sincerely engaging in spiritual
practice, we can gain mastery over
our mind

Looking back I had a hard time
admitting I was a alcoholic. I
really did not think I was different
from other people. But I finally
came to admit it. I saw friends
take a couple of drinks and stop.
My body always wanted another
drink and always got it and then
another one, it seemed never to
not want another drink. Reflecting
on this, I can remember my friends
misplacing their drinks at a party
or bar when dancing or doing other
things, me I never did, it was always
in my hand waiting to be refilled but
I can remember not being able to
locate my car.

A person avoids peanut butter if he
or she is allergic to it because it will
make them sick or possibly face death,
same goes for a person allergic to shell
fish, it makes them deadly sick so both
the above type people avoid the food
which they are allergic too. Not the
alcoholic. If I avoid alcohol, I am Okay.
If I take that first drink my body craves
another then another and so on, my
allergy not only slowly kills me, but
destroys every relationship I have, helps
me break the laws of society and not
remember any of it. So I came to the
conclusion that I was not as normal
as the next person when it came to
drinking alcohol.

My sick mind went on thinking and
it came up with this, "I have a allergy
called alcoholism", and it stop arguing
with itself, my alcoholic mind does that
all the time, doesn't yours?

Some people will never admit to being
a alcoholic. They will perform all kinds
of test on themselves, i.e. drink on
weekends only, beer only, wine only,
etc., none of which works. We are
alcoholics and will never be able to
drink like normal people, nor will the
lovers of peanut butter or shell fish and
who are allergic, ever be able to enjoy
those foods.

Author: Alden Morrison

My Fathers Way

2008-08-20T23:10:00.000-04:00

By sincerely engaging in spiritual
practice, we can gain mastery over
our mind

I walk through life now with a renewed
attitude and dreams. The Father of the
Universe is with me now. I have given
Him my will and he now guides me
through the day and gives me strength
and hope to do his will. I no longer fear
the day, I walk knowing, I am guided in
my relationships and actions with other
people, places and things. I now have
the strength, because of my Father, to
say no at the right times, to behave with
brotherly love and to help my brothers
in need.

My Father helps me to control my thoughts,
to discard the bad ones and to embrace the
good ones, as those good thoughts, always
help others in some fashion, that I may or
may not be aware of, but I know, that is the
way of my Father, for He is all loving.

I sometimes forget to be grateful to my
Father, because at times I take for granted
the good things he has done for me and I
fall back to doing my will. This always
ends in strife for me and my Father who
loves me allows this strife to happen. This
strife always brings me back to my Father,
who is always happy to see me. You see,
no matter what I have done, he always
loves me.

My Father allows for the hardships of daily
life, for you see, he wants to know how I
will handle these little adversities of life.
My way or His way?

I now know which way is best way, but I must
admit, I still stumble, but now I know, to
immediately talk to Him and get on His
track again.

My Father put in my path the good people
at the Veterans Administration, the Doctors
and staff, members of Alcoholics Anonymous,
my sponsor and the fellowship of sober
alcoholics.

That is why this alcoholic veteran is a
sober alcoholic veteran today.

One Day At A Time.

Author: Alden Morrison

Turning My Will Over To God As I Understand Him

2008-08-11T16:13:00.000-04:00

By sincerely engaging in spiritual
practice, we can gain mastery over
our mind

I often hear in the rooms of
alcoholics anonymous, I have
surrendered my will over to God.
Well if we really turn our wills
over to God, we have to know what
Gods will is because at that point
it is no longer about us, but about
God. I started thinking to myself
which could be dangerous, is his
will in the 12 steps, could be for
some people working on all our
character defects, could it be in
the Big Book of alcoholic Annoy-
mous again it could be for some
people but I could not find his will
in either the steps or the Big Book.

I was sitting quietly and thinking on
this, when the phrase "one day at a
time", popped into my mind, a phrase
used often by alcoholics and druggies.
A fellow alcoholic veteran had told me
the phrase actually came from the
bible. The following may not be the
exact words but close enough, "do
not worry about tomorrow, because
the evils of today are great enough".

So again, I start thinking, when I pray
I am doing the talking, when I meditate
I am working on my character defects,
relaxing or just quiting my mind and
if God is talking to me during these
times, I don't hear him or I do not have
the right code.

So again, I start thinking and come to
the conclusion that the right code is the
bible. I started reading in the Book of
Mathew and now I know what Gods will
is for me, but doing his will is a different
matter than just saying the words. I
came across these words "I do what I
don't want to do and the things I want to
do, I don't do".

Well now that I know Gods will for me,
I don't know whether to be happy or sad.

Again I start thinking, boy, some of Gods
will, will be hard to follow, I will have to
change my life style, but I know of some
religious groups that take some parts of
the bible and leave other parts out, seems
ok for them, but I have an extra ace in the
hole, hang, I am an alcoholic and can
use that for not completely following his
will, boy, that is as good an excuse as
any, wonder if He will buy it? What do
you think?

Folks remember, the above is my opinion
only, have a great day.

Author: Alden Morrison

2008-08-10T07:16:00.001-04:00

Bitterness

2008-08-08T07:36:00.000-04:00

You Must Learn To Control Your Emotions

When I was going through Detox,
sick as a dog and living at the
Salvation Army, I did not see
any reason to thank my Higher
Power. I had very little tolerance
and patience, in fact I was in full
panic mode and my mind was
racing a mile a minute. I think
I was angry with the world
including my Higher Power. I
was a very bitter person with a
chip on my shoulder. My whole
life didn't make any sense to me.
Why was all this crap happening
to poor me?

As the days went by, and receiving
the help I needed from the people
my Higher Power put in my path,
I overcame that bitterness and put
the blame where it actually belonged,
on me.

Whether I handled those adversities
well or not, I really do not know but
I do know that this veteran alcoholic
is grateful to the Veterans Addiction
program, Alcoholic Anonymous and
to my God.

Author: Alden Morrison

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Finding My Fears

2008-08-06T07:47:00.000-04:00

You Must Learn To Control Your Emotions

Fear effects my thoughts and the way I
act. I don't think I have any fears but
they could be hidden and I am told that
they are the most dangerous to have.

So I meditate on it and try to be as honest
as I can with myself. I am afraid of
getting really sick, I know I don't fear
criticism or I would not be doing this
blog. I think about my two children
and it scares me that they might get
hurt or end up as alcoholics like I am.
I have no other relationships, so there
are no anxieties there and at 65 I do
not plan on any, been there and done
that hell, of course the hell was all my
doing. I may have some fears hidden
in my past that have not come up yet.
I am currently working on my Step 4,
in conjunction with a drug/alcohol
curve and this should shake my
memory up as I dig deeper into my-
self.

In the mean time I meditate several
times a day and this helps me to not
dwell on fears. I have to be especially
careful of fears and boredom, both
could send me back to hell again. Oh
yes, I do fear God, I don't know how
to get over that one.

In the mean time I am a sober alcoholic
veteran trying to stay that way.

Author: Alden Morrison

My Alcoholic Thoughts

2008-08-05T15:50:00.000-04:00

You Must Learn To Control Your Emotions

My thoughts will make me or break me.
When I was drinking, my foremost
thought was liquor. Do I have enough
to last me the day. I better go buy
another bottle, hang, I don't have
enough money, I better borrow some
or con someone out of it. Thoughts
effected my morals and created an ego
that just wasn't me. I was just a
simple drunk, not this sophisticated
guy that my ego developed for me.

Thinking back on it all, I probably
never went to God for help, because
I liked my character defects to much,
to even think of a higher power. I
knew that my drinking and druggie
friends did not hang out with people
that didn't use and God would only
disapprove of us, so he was not
invited to the party.

Now being a sober alcoholic veteran
and having surrendered my will over
to God, I have help in changing those
thoughts that enter my mind at will,
it seems. When I become aware of
those kind of thoughts, I now can
change them immediately, this keeps
me sober and my morals as they
should be.

Life is improving hour by hour and
most of all, I sleep well at night
knowing I did my best today.

Author: Alden Morrison

Step 3 - Progress

2008-08-04T17:09:00.000-04:00

You Become What You Think About

I do my Step 3 in front of 12 other
alcoholic veterans, I get mixed
feedback.

The reality of my drinking is that I
cannot stop on my own or just with
a rehab program. I need something
greater and bigger than myself or for
anything else for that matter. I realized
by doing Steps 1 and 2, that trying to
stay sober my way did not work and
that I needed help big time from God
as I understand him. I am convinced
that I am a mentally sick person, how
else can I explain what I did to myself
and others, I can't. A rehab program
itself, cops, lawyers and doctors can
not keep me from drinking, so I have
no choice but to call on God. I realize
God has me now where he wants me
and is bending my will to conform to
his. I accept this as a fact by simply
not doubting it, because if I doubt it,
I loss faith and losing faith just means
I am back on the road to drinking and
self destruction, so I come to the
conclusion that I have no choice, I
accept God

I am not naive about the fact that there
is a price for everything and that I must
pay that price by having an open mind,
a willingness to accept things as they are
and by trying not to impose my will on
others or by having my own way, all
easier said than done but I am working
on it.

Author: Alden Morrison

Patience - We Need to Practice It

2008-08-02T22:29:00.000-04:00

You Become What You Think About

Patience is wisdom. It shows that we
understand that things unfold in
their own time, not our time. You
cannot make things happen so I
just accept that fact and if I get
impatient I have learned to change
my thoughts because thoughts create
the impatience in me.

Thoughts of the past and the future
just seem to come and go at their own
pace, like I have two minds, so as soon
as I become aware of these thoughts I
can change them. Meditation really
helps me, in doing this.

The best way I can explain this, is that
I have a young daughter that hardly
will talk to me because during my
drinking with my veteran alcoholic
friends, I neglected our relationship
for years. Now that I have been sober
for a couple of months, she still has
not come around to speaking with me.
How should I feel about her emotions,
that I have no control over, mad, angry,
impatient after all, I have been sober for
sixty days. You see now I can't do
anything about the way she feels except
do the next right thing, like attempting
to call, write a letter, telling her mother
to tell her that I love her. She is in
control, I am not. So if I want to stay
a sober veteran, I accept that fact, and
know, if I am persistent and have patience
she will come around and I will stay sober
rather than start drinking and take the
road to hell again. Meditation helps me
do this, why it works, I don't know, but
then I try to keep things simple and
accept them now, I have faith.

Author: Alden Morrison

Relapse Prevention - My tools

2008-08-01T02:51:00.000-04:00

You Become What You Think About

I avoid relapse by setting a daily routine
which I follow:

My routine starts at 5am. I pray giving
thanks for my sobriety, my living conditions,
being able to sustain myself, I pray for my
children, for others and our country. I ask
for strength to stay sober today and for
wisdom in my decision making and
forgiveness. I will then read a small
verse from a book called "24 Hours a
Day" followed by a short Bible verse.
I then meditate for a half hour by
clearing my mind of thoughts and
keeping it still, this is work but I am
getting better at it by doing it several
times a day, it relieves any stress or
worry I may have. I don't know why
but I always feel calm after meditation.

I call my sponsor at 7:30am because
that is what he wants, I think he is
trying to teach me that the telephone
is not heavy. He always gives me the
time I need to discuss anything I have
on my mind and he suggests sound
advice to follow.

I have set daily goals, so I read them
aloud to myself, I have already done
some of them with the above routine.
I have goals because I like to know
where I am going in life. Goals keep
me in the right direction.

I have a list of ten telephone numbers
of sober friends I have meet and during
my day, I will call several of them to
keep in touch and just chew the fat,
they do the same.

My work day then begins and by noon,
I am at my first alcoholics anonymous
meeting. I listen, I share, I mingle with
sober veteran alcoholic friends then
back to work and at another alcoholic
anonymous meeting by 5:30pm. I again
share, listen, mingle with my sober
alcoholic veteran friends then head for
home.

I then have supper, clean up, look over
my goals and finish them off for the day,
I ad some or change some for tomorrow.
I now have free time from 7 to 11pm and
I fit in prayer and meditation during this
free time and I am in bed usually by 11pm.

During the weekend my routine slightly
changes to include Church on Sunday.
This weekend I am attending a weekend
long conference on addiction at my
church. If it were not for that, I would
attend three alcoholic anonymous
meetings a day.

This routine may sound dull to some but
it keeps me sober and after all, that is my
main goal because if I do not stay sober,
life once again would become hell, been
there and done that.

Author: Alden Morrison

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Relapse Information

2008-07-31T03:55:00.000-04:00

You Become What You Think About.

Relapse simply put means going back
out drinking or drugging after being
clean for a period of time. Relapse is
often preventable. In class I am told
to be aware of the symptoms/warning
signs as they occur and take control
by making specific changes in my life.

Some of the conditions of your state of
mind that can cause relapse are:

. being depressed
. loss of self-confidence
. poor judgement
. compulsive/impulsive behavior
. confusion
. difficulty in making decisions
. easily irritated/angered
. no daily routine
. feeling helpless
. poor sleeping habits
. apathy
. withdrawal from usual activities
. can't concentrate/focus

Another very important factor is
to AVOID People, Places and Things
this simply means stay away from
ex drinking buddies, druggies,
crack dealers, prostitutes, cops,
or anyone else that reminds you
of your drinking and drugging days.
As the song says, friends in low places.
As far as places go that is simple
enough, bars, crack houses, cheap
motels, streets where you bought
your stuff, liquor stores, you know
the places, avoid them. Things are
anything that remind you of drinking
and drugging and the most important
thing to avoid is a relationship or
major decision for at least one year
into your sobriety. A relationship
gone south with take you with it.

I also think we alcoholic veterans
should avoid war stories about our
service because it can bring back
some unpleasant memories and push
that trigger.

Now we know what will cause a relapse,
in tomorrows blog I will discuss what
I learned to prepare myself so a
relapse will not occur.

If you should relapse, do not be ashamed,
get right back into your program. A wise
man once said, a failure just brought me
that much closer to success, if I learned
from that failure. Oh yes, I am not that
wise man, I struggle one day at a time.

Author: Alden Morrison

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Helpful Tool For A Veteran Alcoholic

2008-07-30T05:26:00.000-04:00

In class today we learned of a simple
tool to use to help us avoid relapse.
Its a simple acronym we all know if
you did any guard duty. HALT and
it stands for Hungry, Angry, Lonely,
and Tired.

Hungry - Do not let yourself go hungry,
it causes you to crave something and
that something could turn out to be
alcohol or drugs. Try to eat healthy,
but anything will do, to keep the hungry
cravings away. Here at the apartment
complex we Veteran alcoholics live in,
you could say the Veterans Hospital
has supplied us with a mini store. No
lack of food or snacks and my favorite
ice cream of course with toppings.

Angry - As I sober up, my feelings and
emotions are returning, I have angry
feelings about the Vietnam war, the way I was treated when I returned home, angry at everyone for no special reason. I am angry that it is hard for me to concentrate, angry at my ex wife and full of self pity. So I am told the second I become aware of these feelings, to speak to someone about them. I try to avoid psychiatrist, I believe they are confused from listening to so many confused people themselves. Only kidding. Talk to your sponsor, net work of friends and other Veteran alcoholics that are sober or go to a alcoholic anonymous meeting.

Lonely - Loneliness can lead to drinking
and drugging again. Call your sponsor,
a friend, go to a meeting, go shopping,
be where people are, do not be alone
if you get this feeling. Here at the
Veterans Hospital we Alcoholic Vets
don't have that problem, but we will
when we leave this program, so now
we are aware of what to do.

Tired - I am told to get myself on a
schedule so I get enough rest and not
become overtired, as my defenses will
not be as sharp and will lead back to
a relapse. All we veteran alcoholics
are getting our bodies use to a schedule
while here at the Veterans hospital, in
bed by 11pm and up by 6am. I plan on
keeping this schedule when I leave this
program.

Author: Alden Morrison

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Step Three - Working on It

2008-07-29T16:14:00.000-04:00

Step three is making a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understand Him.

In class today we veteran alcoholics discussed step 3. Surprisingly most of all the veterans believed in God, some choose to call him their High Power. I choose to call him God.

For me I believed but that is as far as it went. I lost being in touch with God during the Vietnam war, I think I saw to much, did to much to believe a loving God could let it all happen.

I had traded God in for a bottle and I really
never learned to love after that. I think my
soul and conscience just became hardened.
I felt nothing except for what I wanted and
if I wanted it, I did anything to get it.

Letting God into my life was a challenge
for me because, I could let him in but
would he forgive me for all the destruction
I had created in my life? Some other
Veterans spoke up and said he would, if
I asked, this all seemed to simple for me.
Some other alcoholic veterans said they
already had turned there lives and wills
over to God, but I didn't see any changes
in them. The class was now over, but
I would discuss this with several other
alcoholic veterans for the next several days. It seemed like the instructor Fred had given my soul and conscience a kick
start. I was glad we had several more
Step 3 classes to attend.

Author: Alden Morrison

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Mindful Meditation

2008-07-28T11:00:00.000-04:00

You Become What You Think About.

One of the Classes I attended today is:

Introduction to concepts of emotional regulation and mindfulness meditation.

TYPE OF VISIT: Veteran participated in a one hour session of Mindfulness-based stress reduction.

PROBLEM: lacks knowledge of healthy coping strategies/relaxation techniques for recovery.

INTERVENTION:

Goal:

1) To participate in a group discussion on principles of mindfulness meditation for developing strategies for emotional regulation in recovery.

2) To participate in an experiential class that will demonstrate a type of mindful attention through watching the breath and other experiential exercises.

METHODOLOGY: Experiential educational group with participant sharing and processing.

GROUP CONTEXT: Group session focused on members engaging in an experiential exercise, mindfulness sitting meditation, standing
stretching meditation and mindfulness walking meditation, followed by discussing their experience. They read and discussed the seven principles of mindfulness meditation, and how they relate to coping in recovery.

PARTICIPATION: Veteran was attentive during the discussion and participated in the meditation (sitting, stretching and walking) portion of the class. He He felt that he benefited from the experience.

PLAN: Continue mindfulness meditation group.

Prior to this class on meditation, I had come across
a web site that offered a free download for the military
and veterans, its called "Be Still And Know", and it
has a lot of other mindful information to help us in
our goal of staying sober for a better life. Its at the
FHU web site located on the sidebar of this blog. I
recommend it to all veterans.

Author: Alden Morrison

Substance Abuse Treatment, VA Hospital

2008-07-27T19:18:00.000-04:00

I was now admitted for substance abuse
at the Veterans Hospital, Gainesville, Fl.

Since the program is voluntary, all
Veterans sign a compliance contract,
stating they will adhere to all rules of
the program, to many to mention here.

The program provides housing off of
hospital grounds in a apartment complex
modified to accommodate 20 veterans of
both sexes. Most of the veterans were
homeless, so this is the first housing they
have had, in some cases, years. We now
had a bed, clean sheets and of course
medical attention that most of us
needed.

All individual medicines were locked up,
and it was each veterans responsibility
to take it as per scribed but all under
supervision of a health technician, at the
time it all seem like a big pain, but in
hindsight very professionally handled
considering you have 20 veterans all
in different stages of recovery, all with
different attitudes towards the program,
themselves and others. Its a mental
ward actually, wow!! I did not want to
tell the world I was in a mental ward.

Daily classes were at another location
and the Veterans Hospital provided
transportation, they also provided
transportation to and from the hospital
for medical appointments and to take
urine samples several times a week. The
Health Technicians would give us blow
test when they deemed necessary. If
your urine test came back dirty, you
were gone.

You could not just come and go as you
pleased, your time was completely
occupied from morning to night.

A usual day was up at 6am, fix your
own breakfast, lunch was brought in
to us at the class location and supper
was fixed by two of us for the whole
20 people in the program. Two different
individuals cooked every evening with
a planned menu voted on by the veterans
themselves under the supervision of
the Diet Technician. Then you did your
assigned house chores, got ready to go
to class by 8am. Your day ended at
11pm. There was very little free time
until later in the program.

We were self governed by electing a
President, Sgt at Arms and a Secretary
of course all supervised by a Health
Technician.

The Peer Leader was appointed by the
staff, usually a vet with some time in
recovery that was doing well and
followed the program. Every week
all patients were given a grading sheet
and we graded each other in all aspects
of our recovery. I think this sheet was
used to pick the Peer Leader, but I am
not sure.

I was able to adjust to this program
fairly quickly without any problems. I
think my fourteen years in the Marine
Corps had taught me to adjust to any
situation in life and be content with it
and I was.

I had now been sober for about four
weeks in the outpatient program and
now set my sites on learning how to
stay that way. Sobriety had become
my number one and only goal I had
set for myself, now I was going to learn
the steps to achieve that goal because
my way of living had become hell.

Author: Alden Morrison