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The Science of Reading People

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Fri, 03 Jul 2026 12:11:44 +0000

The Science of Reading People: Decoding Human Behavior

The core skill is recognizing that non-verbal cues, body language and facial expressions reveal more accurate information about a person's true feelings and intentions than their words alone. This is crucial.

Decoding Non-Verbal Communication

Non-verbal communication constitutes over 60 percent of human communication.

Body language reveals information before verbal communication.

Focus on observing what people do, not just what they say.

How It Works:

Posture shifts:

Indicate discomfort or changes in emotional state.

Genuine smiles:

Involve the eyes look for crows feet.

Microexpressions:

Fleeting less than a second facial expressions that reveal true, often hidden, emotions.

Inconsistencies:

Look for mismatches between verbal statements and non-verbal behavior e.g., saying Im confident while fidgeting.

Example:

Think of people as icebergs. What they say is the visible tip only around 10 %. What they do with their body language is the massive, hidden base, representing the 90 % you need to understand the full picture.

Watch Out For:

Focusing solely on words: The biggest trap is believing everything people say at face value.

Isolated Cues: Don't jump to conclusions based on one's gesture. Look for patterns and clusters of behavior.

Cultural differences: Be mindful that body language varies across cultures.

The goal:

The ultimate takeaway is that mastering these skills isn't about gaining control over others; it is about becoming a mirror and a witness to the human experience. By moving from observation to connection, one can navigate relationships and high-stakes situations with clarity, confidence, and compassion.

How to Understand Anyone Instantly

1. If someone blinks exactly 7 times in under 10 seconds, they've just lied to your face without realizing it.

2. People who tap their foot while smiling are subconsciously angry. That smile isn't for you, it's damage control.

3. If they clean their glasses before responding, they're mentally editing their words to avoid exposing the truth.

4. A person who touches their neck mid-conversation is subconsciously uncomfortable with their own answer.

5. People who inhale deeply through their nose before speaking are about to manipulate your emotions

6. If someone rubs their nose while you tell them something., they think it's a dumb idea.

7. When someone suddenly shifts from crossed legs to an open posture, they've become comfortable with you.

8. If you notice a person that doesn't talk much, but when they do, they nail it. They are highly intelligent people.

9. People who cross their legs immediately after sitting usually have strong ambitions and an active attitude.

10. Those who habitually touch their chin while speaking are generally alert and attentive in their work.

11. If someone appears surprised for more than three seconds, it's definitely fake.

12. If someone mirrors your body language, it's likely the conversation is going well.

13. If a person laughs excessively, even at silly things, they are probably lonely inside.

Eid ul- Adha, A Celebration of Faith, Sacrifice, and Unity

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Sun, 25 May 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Eid ul- Adha : A Celebration of Faith, Sacrifice, and Unity

Eid ul adha Mubarak 😊

Eid is not just a day of feasting; it is a day of giving, praying, and renewing one’s covenant with the Creator.”

"Sacrifice is love made visible a thread that has us to God and to one another."

”Your sacrifice is a prayer in action a testament to empathy for those who hunger.”

A Story That Beats in Every Heart

Imagine a father’s trembling hands, a son’s unwavering trust, and a love greater than fear.

Thousands of years ago, Prophet Ibrahim’s devotion transformed a moment of heartache into a lesson for eternity. When Allah replaced his son Ismail with a ram, it wasn’t just a miracle it was a promise:

Faith is never about loss, but about surrender to a greater love.

This story, engraved into the soul of Eid ul-Adha, isn’t just a chapter in a holy book. It’s the quiet voice that whispers to parents hugging their children at dawn prayers, to families separated by oceans who send “Eid Mubarak” texts with teary eyes, and to those who give their last dollar to feed a stranger.

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The Morning That Feels Like a Hug

Picture this: the sun hasn’t yet risen, but the air buzzes with perfume rosewater, saffron, and the earthy scent of henna staining eager hands.

Children tumble out of bed, giggling in new clothes that crinkle with starch. Fathers hurry to the mosque, their crisp kurtas brushing against crumpled dollar bills tucked for the needy.

Mothers stir pots of sheer khurma, the sweet vermicelli pudding that tastes like childhood.

And then, the moment. A sea of people stand shoulder to shoulder in prayer millionaires beside refugees, teenagers beside grandparents. The imam’s voice trembles as he recites Ibrahim’s story, and a hundred hearts whisper: “This could’ve been me.”

The Sacrifice That Feeds More Than Bodies

Later, when the animal is sacrificed, there are no cameras just silent prayers. Ahmed, a taxi driver in Cairo, splits his Qurbani meat three ways:

A portion for his family’s feast,

A box for his elderly neighbor who lost her son,

And the rest for a Syrian refugee camp. “This isn’t charity,” he says. “It’s returning a gift to its rightful Owner.”

In Jakarta, 12-year-old Aisha hands a meat packet to a street vendor who’s been saving for her daughter’s school fees. The vendor hugs her, and Aisha realizes: Eid isn’t just about getting Eidi money—it’s about seeing God in the eyes of the ones we serve.

A Global Melody of Joy

Eid ul-Adha dances to a thousand rhythms:

In Istanbul, uncles argue good naturedly over who’ll host the family feast, while aunties sneak extra baklava onto each other’s plates.

In Lagos, a community grill sizzles with suya spiced meat, laughter rising with the smoke.

In Chicago, a convert family invites their non-Muslim neighbors to share biryani, explaining, “This is how we remember by including you.”

Even the Hajj pilgrims, wrapped in identical white cloths, become a living metaphor: No titles, no status just souls walking the same path Ibrahim once did.

The Quiet Truth Behind the Festivities

But Eid isn’t always easy. For Fatima in Gaza, it’s praying over a donated Qurbani because her home was bombed. For Amir in Karachi, it’s swallowing pride to accept meat from a cousin after losing his job. For every family missing a loved one, it’s laying an extra plate at the table, hoping heaven is celebrating too.

Yet, in these cracks, the light pours in. A Somali grandmother once told me,

“Eid is God’s way of asking: ‘Will you choose love, even when it’s hard?’”

A Prayer for Tomorrow

As the crescent moon fades, we’re left with questions that linger like the smell of sandalwood:

- Did I give more than I took?

- Did my sacrifice soften someone’s sorrow?

- Did I love like Ibrahim recklessly, faithfully?

Eid ul-Adha isn’t a day. It’s a mirror.

Final Reflection

Eid ul-Adha transcends cultural boundaries, uniting 1.9 billion Muslims in a shared legacy of faith. As the Quran states, *"Their meat will not reach Allah, nor will their blood, but what reaches Him is your piety" (22:37). This Eid, let us remember: true sacrifice lies in surrendering our ego, extending kindness, and, gratitude—a message timeless enough to inspire generations.

"Eid Mubarak! May your sacrifices be accepted, your hearts be light, and your tables overflow with blessings."* 🌙✨
"May your Eid taste of your mother’s cooking, sound of your father’s laughter, and feel like God’s hand on your shoulder. And when you give, give in a way that makes the angels weep."🌙

Share your Eid stories and quotes with us we’ll weave them into next year’s tapestry.

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Books based on financial freedom

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Sat, 04 May 2024 13:46:00 +0000

Books based on financial freedom:

"Financial freedom isn't just about wealth; it's the ability to live life on your terms, unfettered by monetary constraints."

"Attaining financial freedom is like mastering a game where the rules are constantly changing, but with dedication and strategy, victory is within reach."

"Picture a life where your choices aren't dictated by your bank account. That's the essence of financial freedom."

"Financial freedom isn't an end goal; it's a journey of empowerment, discipline, and wise decision-making."

"Unlocking financial freedom isn't just about making more money; it's about making your money work for you, creating pathways to independence."

"In the pursuit of financial freedom, every dollar saved and invested is a step closer to liberation from financial worries."

"True financial freedom isn't just about accumulating wealth; it's about cultivating a mindset of abundance and security."

"Financial freedom is the ultimate expression of self-reliance, where your financial decisions align with your life's goals and values."

"Imagine a life where your income isn't tied to your time. That's the promise of financial freedom."

"Financial freedom isn't just a destination; it's a state of mind that empowers you to live your best life without compromise."

Here are some book suggestions for you on financial freedom :

- "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill

Summary: This timeless classic delves into the principles that have allowed countless individuals to achieve financial success, focusing on the power of mindset, goal setting, and perseverance.

- "The Richest Man in Babylon" by George S. Clason

Summary: Set in ancient Babylon, this book is a collection of parables that teach timeless lessons about money management, emphasizing the importance of being disciplined about saving and investing.

- "The 4-Hour Workweek" by Timothy Ferriss

Summary: This revolutionary guide presents a step-by-step approach to escaping the 9-5 grind by optimizing and automating income sources, providing practical advice on living a more fulfilling lifestyle with financial freedom.

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Financial freedom

- "The Millionaire Next Door" by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko

Summary: By exploring the habits and lifestyle choices of self-made millionaires, this book dispels common myths about wealth and provides invaluable insights into building and maintaining financial success.

- "You Are a Badass at Making Money" by Jen Sincero

Summary: This engaging book combines humor and personal anecdotes with expert advice to help readers break through limiting beliefs and develop a positive outlook on money management, ultimately getting them closer to financial freedom.

- "The Total Money Makeover" by Dave Ramsey

Summary: Renowned financial advisor Dave Ramsey presents a comprehensive plan for achieving financial stability, focused on eliminating debt, saving money, and creating a strong foundation for long-term wealth.

I hope you find these suggestions helpful and enjoy exploring these books further.

Healing anxiety and overthinking

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Wed, 29 Nov 2023 11:20:00 +0000

Healing anxiety and overthinking by Joseph Nguyen

An overview

THE ROOT CAUSE OF ALL SUFFERING

Our feelings stem from our internal thoughts about events, not the events themselves. It highlights the distinction between neutral thoughts and the potentially harmful act of thinking about those thoughts, which can lead to suffering. The key message is that letting go of negative thinking is essential for overcoming emotional suffering. The provided framework of healing anxiety and over thinking suggests acknowledging and creating a space for persistent negative thoughts to promote a healthier mindset.

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HOW TO LET GO OF NEGATIVE THINKING

This framework for overcoming emotional suffering involves recognizing that thinking is the root cause and creating a space to acknowledge and understand negative thoughts. It emphasizes the importance of questioning whether the thinking serves you and the cost of holding onto it. By trusting and letting go, positive emotions like peace, love, and joy can naturally emerge, leading to a fuller experience of life.

Take a deep breaths to center and ground yourself in the present moment.
Remember that if you're suffering, you're thinking.
Remember the difference between thinking and thoughts.

Thinking is the act of thinking about thoughts.
Don't be afraid to be alone with your thinking and have the courage to allow it to be in your consciousness.
Once you acknowledge that you are thinking, that it is the root cause of suffering and that you are safe when you let go of it, consciously intend and decide to let it go. Naturally positive emotions will arise, like peace, love, and joy. Allow yourself to enjoy these emotions in its fullness as they come up.

The 48 laws of power by Robert Greene

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Thu, 21 Sep 2023 08:13:00 +0000

The 48 laws of power

LAW : 1

NEVER OUTSHINE THE MASTER

Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire to please or impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents or you might accomplish the opposite-inspire fear and insecurity. Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power .

LAW : 2

NEVER PUT TOO MUCH TRUST IN FRIENDS
LEARN HOW TO USE Enemies

Be wary of friends they will betray you more quickly, for they are easily aroused to envy. They also become spoiled and tyrannical. But hire a former enemy and he will be more loyal than a friend, because he has more to prove. In fact, you have more to fear from friends than from enemies. If you have no enemies, find a way to make them.

LAW: 3
CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS

Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelop them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late.

LAW 4
ALWAYS SAY LESS THAN NECESSARY

When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended,

and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.

LAW 10

AVOID THE UNHAPPY AND UNLUCKY

You can die from someone else's misery-emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are

helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw

misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.

The 48 laws of power

Law 11

LEARN TO KEEP PEOPLE DEPENDENT ON YOU

To maintain your independence you must always be needed and wanted. The more you are relied on, the more freedom you have. Make people depend on you for their happiness and prosperity and you have nothing to fear. Never teach them enough so that they can do without you.

LAW 17

USE ABSENCE TO INCREASE RESPECT AND HONOR

Too much circulation makes the price go down: The more you are seen and heard from, the more common you appear. If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even more admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.

LAW 18

DO NOT BUILD FORTRESSES TO PROTECT YOURSELF ISOLATION IS DANGEROUS

The world is dangerous and enemies are everywhere everyone has to protect themselves. A fortress seems the safest. But isolation exposes you to more dangers than it protects you from-it cuts you off from valuable information, it makes you conspicuous and an easy target. Better to circulate among people, find allies, mingle.You are shielded from your enemies by the crowd.

LAW 21
PLAY A SUCKER TO CATCH A SUCKER-SEEM DUMBER THAN YOUR MARK

No one likes feeling stupider than the next person. The trick, then, is to make your victims feel smart and not

just smart, but smarter than you are. Once convinced of this, they will never suspect that you may have ulterior motives.

LAW 25
RECREATE YOURSELF

Do not accept the roles that society foists on you. Re-create yourself by forging a new identity, one that commands attention and never bores the audience. Be the master of your own image rather than letting others define it for you. Incorporate dramatic devices into your public gestures and actions-your power will be enhanced and your character will seem larger than life.

LAW 28
ENTER ACTION WITH BOLDNESS

If you are unsure of a course of action, do not attempt it. Your doubts and hesitations will infect your execu- tion. Timidity is dangerous: Better to enter with boldness. Any mistakes you commit through audacity are eas- ily corrected with more audacity. Everyone admires the bold; no one honors the timid.

Why online earning is word of mouth

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Sun, 20 Aug 2023 11:05:00 +0000

Why online earning is word of mouth now a days?

Online earning has become a prominent topic of word of mouth discussion nowadays due to several factors that have shaped the digital landscape.

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1. Success Stories:

The internet has provided a platform for individuals to share their success stories of online earning. People get inspired by narratives of others who have achieved financial independence or significant income through various online ventures, such as freelancing, e-commerce, blogging, or affiliate marketing. These stories serve as motivation and encouragement for others to explore online earning opportunities.

2. Accessibility of Information:

Due to wide access to the internet and social media has made it easier for people to share their experiences and knowledge about online earning. People can now easily discuss, different online money making methods through various online platforms, such as blogs and social media.

3. Community and Networking:

With passage of time Online platforms of earning have flourished. These earing platforms provide a space for people to share tips, and strategies related to making money online. People seek advice, answers of their questions, and learn from other's experiences, creating a sense of mutual trust and support.

4. Alternative Income Streams:

The changing nature of work, including remote work, freelancing, and the gig economy, has driven interest in diversifying income sources. As traditional job structures evolve, people are increasingly open to exploring online earning opportunities as a supplementary or even primary source of income.

5. Low Barrier to Entry:

Many online earning opportunities require minimal upfront investment or specialized skills, making them accessible to a broader range of people. This lower barrier to entry encourages more individuals to try their hand at online earning and share their experiences with others.

6. Global Reach:

The internet enables individuals to reach a global audience, creating a wider potential customer base for online businesses. Word of mouth spreads rapidly when people from different regions and backgrounds engage in online earning and share their stories.

7. Technology Advancement:

Advancements in technology, such as mobile apps and user-friendly platforms, have made it easier for people to start and manage online ventures. As technology becomes more accessible, more individuals are inclined to participate in online earning activities.

8. Trust and Authenticity:

People tend to trust recommendations and advice from peers or individuals who have firsthand experience. When someone they know or follow shares information about a legitimate online earning opportunity, it carries more weight than generic advertising.

In essence, word of mouth has become a powerful urge for online earning due to the interconnected nature of the digital world. As more individuals engage in online earning and openly share their experiences, it contributes to a self-perpetuating cycle of interest and exploration in the realm of making money online.

Atomic habits

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Wed, 26 Jul 2023 10:56:00 +0000

Atomic habits

Atomic habits by James Clear is a treasure of wisdom on how small habits can have a significant impact on our lives.

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Here are some of the best lines from the book:

1. "Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement. The same way that money multiplies through compound interest, the effects of your habits multiply as you repeat them."

2. "The more pride you have in a particular aspect of your identity, the more motivated you will be to maintain the habits associated with it."

3. "Habits are not a finish line to be crossed; they are a lifestyle to be lived."

4. "The most effective way to change your habits is to focus not on what you want to achieve, but on who you wish to become."

5. "Success is the product of daily habits, not once-in-a-lifetime transformations."

6. "You do not rise to the level of your goals; you fall to the level of your systems."

7. "Make it easy to do right and hard to go wrong."

8. "The purpose of setting goals is to win the game. The purpose of building systems is to continue playing the game."

9. "You don't have to be the victim of your environment. You can also be the architect of it."

10. "The ultimate form of intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity."

11. "Habits are a double-edged sword. They can work for you or against you, which is why understanding the details is essential."

12. "Small changes often appear to make no difference until you cross a critical threshold. The most powerful outcomes of any compounding process are delayed."

13. "The real challenge is not to be perfect, but to keep getting better."

14. "It is only when we embrace our negative emotions that we can break the loop of bad habits and take the first steps toward creating better ones."

15. "Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become."

These lines from "Atomic Habits" serve as powerful reminders of the impact that small, consistent habits can have on our personal growth and well-being. Embracing the power of habits can lead us to a more fulfilling and successful life.

Best quotes fromThink and Grow Rich

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Fri, 19 May 2023 07:25:00 +0000

Best quotes and lessons from think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill

Quotes from think and grow rich

These Quotes from "Think and Grow Rich" provide valuable insights into the mindset and strategies necessary for achieving success in life and business.

"Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve." - Napoleon Hill

"Success requires no explanations; failure permits no alibis." - Napoleon Hill

"Set your mind on a definite goal and observe how quickly the world stands aside to let you pass." - Napoleon Hill

"The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small fire makes a small amount of heat." - Napoleon Hill

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"Opportunity often comes disguised in the form of misfortune or temporary defeat." - Napoleon Hill

"Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle." - Napoleon Hill

"The only limitation is that which one sets up in one's own mind." - Napoleon Hill

"Success is the result of hard work, learning from failure, loyalty, and persistence." - Napoleon Hill

"Your only limitations are those you set up in your mind or permit others to set up for you."

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"The ladder of success is never crowded at the top." - Napoleon Hill

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The power of thought:

Your thoughts have the ability to shape your reality. By cultivating positive and focused thoughts, you can attract success into your life.

The importance of desire:

A burning desire for your goals is the starting point of all achievement. It fuels your actions and drives you towards success.

Persistence and determination:

Success often requires perseverance and the ability to overcome obstacles. Don't give up when faced with challenges; keep pushing forward.

The power of imagination:

Use your imagination to visualize your goals and create a clear mental picture of what you want to achieve. This helps in manifesting your desires into reality.

Surround yourself with like-minded individuals:

Associate yourself with people who share similar goals and ambitions. Their support, guidance, and collaboration can accelerate your success.

Take decisive action:

Avoid procrastination and take immediate action towards your goals. Inaction leads to stagnation, while decisive action propels you forward.

Learn from failures:

Treat failures as learning opportunities and stepping stones to success. Embrace setbacks as temporary defeats and use them to gain wisdom and grow stronger.

Mastermind alliances:

Collaborate and surround yourself with a mastermind group of individuals who bring diverse skills, knowledge, and resources. Together, you can achieve greater success than you could alone.

The importance of specialized knowledge:

Continuously acquire specialized knowledge and skills related to your field of interest. This knowledge sets you apart and increases your value in the marketplace.

Faith and belief:

Develop unwavering faith in your abilities and in the realization of your goals. Believe in yourself, your dreams, and the possibility of achieving extraordinary success.

Best quotes from The Silent patient

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Tue, 02 May 2023 07:45:00 +0000

Best quotes from The Silent patient

"The Silent Patient" by Alex Michaelides is a psychological thriller novel.

"The Silent Patient" explores themes of love, betrayal, trauma, and the power of the human mind. It is a gripping, suspenseful novel that keeps readers on the edge of their seats from start to finish.

Here are some best lines from The Silent patient

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"And then the dreams break into a million tiny pieces. The dream dies. Which leaves you with a choice: you can settle for reality, or you can go off, like a fool, and dream another dream."

"Only when we're brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light."

"People are complicated puzzles, always trying to piece together a complete picture, but sometimes we get it wrong and sometimes we're left unfinished. Sometimes that's for the best. Some pieces can't be forced into a puzzle, or at least they shouldn't be, because they won't make sense."

"Human beings are like puzzle pieces, though individually we are incomplete. Only when we join together in harmony, like the pieces of a jigsaw, can we become fully realized."

"It is a frightening thought, that in one fraction of a moment you can fall in the kind of love that takes a lifetime to get over."

"The point of art is to make people feel less alone. So if you're going to tell me what to feel, what's the point?"

"Alicia was a master at concealing her feelings, and her silence could mean anything, or nothing at all."

"Trauma is not what happens to us, but what we hold inside in the absence of an empathetic witness."

"Home isn't where the heart is; home is a place you go where they have to let you in."

"Trustworthy actions are the bricks and mortar of lasting relationships. Apologies are like spackling paste. Until we've rebuilt the trust, the wall remains unstable."

"Art is not a handicraft, it is the transmission of feeling the artist has experienced."

"No one knows what goes on behind closed doors."

"Justice is not the same as revenge. Justice is finding the truth and seeing it served."

"We are each the love of someone's life."

"Real love isn't just a euphoric, spontaneous feeling – it's a deliberate choice; a plan to love each other for better and worse, for richer and poorer, in sickness and in health."

Rich dad poor dad quotes

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Wed, 19 Apr 2023 10:15:00 +0000

Rich dad poor dad quotes

Robert Kiyosaki Rich Dad Poor Dad Highlights

"Rich Dad Poor Dad" is a personal finance book written by Robert Kiyosaki, which was first published in 1997. It is based on Kiyosaki's experiences growing up with two fathers - his biological father, who was highly educated but struggled financially, and his friend's father (whom he refers to as his "rich dad"), who was a successful entrepreneur.

The book Rich dad poor dad highlights the differences in mindset, values, and financial strategies between the two fathers, and provides insights on how readers can adopt the mindset and strategies of the "rich dad" to achieve financial success.

"The philosophy of the rich and the poor is this: the rich invest their money and spend what is left. The poor spend their money and invest what is left."

Some of the key concepts discussed in the book include the importance of financial education, the differences between assets and liabilities, the concept of cash flow, the power of passive income, and the need to take calculated risks to create wealth.

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"The poor and the middle class work for money. The rich have money work for them."

"The single most powerful asset we all have is our mind. If it is trained well, it can create enormous wealth in what seems to be an instant."

"Money is not the goal. Money has no value. The value comes from the dreams money helps achieve."

"The primary difference between a rich person and a poor person is how they manage fear."

"The fear of losing money is real. Everyone has it. The difference between a rich person and a poor person is that the rich person does not let fear control them."

"Intelligence solves problems and produces money. Money without financial intelligence is money soon gone."

"The most important thing about money is that it gives you choices."

"Financial freedom is available to those who learn about it and work for it."

"The moment you make passive income and portfolio income a part of your life, your life will change. Those who have not yet created wealth will look at you differently. They too will soon want to know how to create passive and portfolio income."

"The love of money is the root of all evil."

The lack of money is the root of all evil."

"The single most powerful asset we all have is our mind. If it is trained well, it can create enormous wealth in what seems to be an instant."

"Don't let the fear of losing be greater than the excitement of winning."

"The more a person seeks security, the more that person gives up control over his life."

"In school, we learn that mistakes are bad, and we are punished for making them. Yet, if you look at the way humans are designed to learn, we learn by making mistakes. We learn to walk by falling down. If we never fell down, we would never walk."

"Money is really just an idea."

"The rich focus on their asset columns while everyone else focuses on their income statements."

"Money is not the most important thing in life, but it ranks up there with oxygen." - Rich Dad Poor Dad emphasizes the importance of financial literacy and taking control of your finances to achieve financial freedom.

"The single most powerful asset we all have is our mind. If it is trained well, it can create enormous wealth." - This quote highlights the importance of investing in yourself, your education, and your mindset to achieve financial success.

Conclusion

"The poor and the middle class work for money. The rich have money work for them." - Rich Dad Poor Dad stresses the importance of building passive income streams, such as investments and rental properties, to achieve financial freedom.

"Financial freedom is available to those who learn about it and work for it." - This quote emphasizes the importance of taking control of your financial future and actively seeking out opportunities to build wealth.

"Don't let the fear of losing be greater than the excitement of winning." - This quote highlights the importance of taking calculated risks and not being afraid to make mistakes in pursuit of financial success.

what is the scariest thing in life

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Fri, 03 Mar 2023 10:52:00 +0000

what is the scariest thing in life :

Get out of your comfort zone

Staying stagnant in life can be a frightening prospect. If you're not growing, learning, and evolving as a person, you risk getting stuck in a routine that may ultimately lead to dissatisfaction or unhappiness.

Many people get comfortable with their current situation and become complacent, not realizing that they are not progressing or growing. This can apply to various aspects of life, such as career, relationships, personal development, and even physical health.

Staying in the same place as last year means that you're not taking steps towards your goals, and you're not expanding your horizons or exploring new possibilities.

Growth is essential for personal fulfillment and success, and it requires taking risks, trying new things, and stepping out of your comfort zone. It can be scary to venture into the unknown, but the reward of personal growth and achievement is worth the effort.

In conclusion,

Life is a journey,and it's essential to keep moving forward, even if it means leaving your comfort zone. The scariest thing is not taking any steps forward and remaining stuck in the same place year after year.

How to deal with failure

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Sat, 02 Jul 2022 14:38:00 +0000

How to deal with failure

I never wanted to fail in my life, actually nobody wants to fail. And when we fail it hurt us a lot we start losing our confidence . But learning from failure is the only way we grow and become better people and the same is true for our businesses.

It's easy to get stuck on a failure, but don't let your failures hold you back from doing what's next in your life whether that be another job or hobby, starting school, going back to school, moving out of your parents house and living with friends/starting over in a new place. After failing never lose hope because because if you really want progress in your life you have to keep going. Sometimes the best thing we can do after failing at something is start over again.

So, let's celebrate failures!

Try again fail better

Here are some ways to embrace your failures and make them something positive:

Write down your failures.
Don't let them hold you back.
Don't let them destroy your confidence
Build up a list of things that inspire you.
list of people who inspire you.
list of things you want to accomplish.
list of things you want to learn.
list of things you want to read.
Don't let failure make you feel bad about yourself; everyone fails so don't let this be an excuse not to try hard in life again because there are always other opportunities for success out there if you keep trying!
Listen to people who tell you that you're doing a good job, even if you don't believe them it will help you to keep going you can't do it on your own, you need to have support from others. This is one of the great things you can do. It will help keep your morale up and allow you to keep going when times are rough.
You need support from others and sometimes even encouragement from those who have more experience than yourself.

So listen to people who tell you that they think what you're doing is great, no matter how much doubt may be creeping into your mind or heart at this moment in time!

Listen to people who tell you that you're doing a good job, even if you don't believe them.Acknowledge the help others have given you. Build up a list of things that inspire you.Stay away from negative people and negative thoughts.

I hope that this article has given you some ideas for how to deal with failure, and helped you take your first steps toward living more positively.

Elon musk inspirational quotes and achievements

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Wed, 02 Feb 2022 12:01:00 +0000

Updated: 21 Aug 2022

Elon musk inspirational quotes and achievements :

Successful business man:

Elon Musk has led many successful businesses since his youth. He learned to program himself and at the age of 12 he sold his first program

The computer game "Blastar".

First company of Elon Musk :

The first Elon Musk company was to create Zip2, a company that supplied newspapers with business cards and folders and was later sold to Compaq for $ 307 million.

Musk left Stanford after just two days to launch Zip2 in his first business.

Elon Musk has founded a total of eight companies :

1: Zip2

2: PayPal

3: SpaceX

4: Tesla

5: Hyperloop

6: OpenAI

7: Neuralink

8: The Boring Company

Video game lover:

Elon Musk is a big fan of video games and will always keep up with games like World of Warcraft or Counterstrike with his staff.

Brilliant billionaire :

When Iron Man was conceptualized, Tony Stark's role as a "brilliant billionaire playboy philanthropist" was modeled by Elon Musk with actor Robert Downey Jr. who spent time with Musk to observe his behavior. Musk even appeared in Iron Man 2. He also starred in The Big Bang Theory, The Simpsons and South Park, among others.

Night club :

Musk and his roommate Andeo Ressi rented a large house , as students at the University of Pennsylvania, turned it into a nightclub to pay the rent.

Initial fortune :

X.com, which later became Paypal, was the source of Musk's first fortune. Musk founded X.com in 1999, which later bought Ebay for $ 1.5 billion. Musk made $ 180 million on the deal.

Elon Musk helped to change the world economy.

Elon Musk quotes :

DON'T EVER ATTACH YOURSELF TO PERSON, A PLACE, A COMPANY, AN ORGANIZATION OR A PROJECT.

ATTACH YOURSELF TO A MISSION, A CALLING, A PURPOSE ONLY.

THAT'S HOW YOU KEEP YOUR POWER & YOUR PEACE. IT'S WORKED PRETTY WELL FOR ME THIS FAR.

-Elon Musk

"I think it is possible for ordinary people to choose to be extraordinary."

-Elon Musk

"Persistence is very important. You should not give up unless you are forced to give up."

-Elon Musk

"The first step is to establish that something is possible; then probability will occur."

-Elon Musk

Elon Musk(born June 28, 1971, Pretoria,South Africa)

"I could either watch it happen or be a part of it."

-Elon Musk

“I’ve actually not read any books on time management.”

-Elon Musk

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Elon Musk by Walter Isaacson

“Work like hell. I mean you just have to put in 80 to 100 hour weeks every week. [This] improves the odds of success. If other people are putting in 40 hour workweeks and you’re putting in 100 hour workweeks, then even if you’re doing the same thing, you know that you will achieve in four months what it takes them a year to achieve.”

-Elon Musk

I hate when people confuse education with intelligence, you can have a bachelor's degree and still be an idiot.

- Elon Musk

"It’s very important to like the people you work with, otherwise life [and] your job is gonna be quite miserable.”

- Elon Musk

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Happy chemicals in brain

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Sun, 24 Oct 2021 07:57:00 +0000

Updated: 20 Aug 2022

Happy

chemicals

in brain

What are brain chemicals?

Brain chemicals are actually neurotransmitters that carry signals from one neuron to another.

These chemicals are compound couriers in the body. Their responsibility is to send signals from nerve cells to target cells. These objective cells might be in muscles, organs, or different nerves

Meet your happy chemicals:

There are Four main chemicals in the brain that influence our happiness.

All play a role in how you experience happiness.

Dose of Happiness 😊

Dopamine

Oxytocin

Serotonin

Endorphins

Happy chemicals in brain

Dopamine :

Plays a role in how we feel pleasure. It’s a big part of our unique human ability to think and plan. It helps us strive, focus, and find things interesting.

Oxytocin :

Is a hormone and a neurotransmitter that is involved in childbirth and breast-feeding. It is also associated with empathy, trust, sexual activity, and relationship-building. It is sometimes referred to as the “love hormone,” because levels of oxytocin increase during hugging. It allows us to become social creatures.

Serotonin :

If you are in good mood you have got serotonin to thank. If you are in bad mood you have got serotonin to blame. It is a regulator. 80 percent of serotonin exist in the gut. And is governed by state of your hunger.

Interesting fact about serotonin :

Eating spicy food causes your brain to produce 'happy' hormones, like serotonin, which makes you better equipped to deal with depression, anxiety, anger, and stress.

Endorphins :

primarily help one deal with stress and reduce feelings of pain. The pleasure effect associated with endorphins is in part related to the increased dopamine production that occurs due to endorphin activity..

Together these chemicals create desirable situation.

Why one should be patient?

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Sun, 15 Aug 2021 17:25:00 +0000

Why one should be patient?

Life is tough so should you, because sometimes despite all your struggles you have no other option, other than patience.

So, be patient, you have to go through thick and thin throughout the life. A moment of patience in a moment of anger saves you hundred moment of regret.

You must be patient. Even if the pains of waiting and wishing and praying tire you, be patient. Even long periods of time pass by and others are blessed with what they have been praying, while you still wait, be patient. For Allah does not wast the efforts of doers of good. He delays his response only to hear you call to him more, be patient. For what awaits you is sweeter than the bitterness of loging.

It is difficult to be patient, but to waste the rewards of patience is worse.

~Abu Bakar (r.a)

Allah knows and it should be enough.

Just be patient

Normally those who go through worse, in the end they get the best.

And it is God’s promise that He is with patients.

I say be patient, because you must.

What is life without risk

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Tue, 22 Jun 2021 07:22:00 +0000

Updated : 26 October 2021

What is life without risk?

So, someone asked me what is a life without risk?

Well, life without risk is not actually a life. Because to live a healthy and successful life you have to take some risks, like starting schooling, starting a new job, getting married, having kids, all things need some sort of change and risk.

By the way if you don't even do all the above things then still you are at risk. 😂

Because not taking a risk is also a risk.

Take risks in your life :

If you win, you can lead, if you lose you can guide.

Remember :
If you take no risk, you will win no victories.

And

Risk is always better than regret.

Take risks or lose the chance to win.

Risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.

Risk something or forever sit with your dreams.

Ramadan Mubarak

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Thu, 08 Apr 2021 11:23:00 +0000

Ramadan Mubarak

May this Ramadan bring us the peace, we have been yearning for.

Ramadan Mubarak to all

This Ramadan, I wiSH YOU a Beautiful Mending of Your Heart That Has Been Brutally broken.

Ramadan Mubarak to all sister and brothers

This Ramadan, I wish you healing in your most damaged part. I wish you a Miraculous Breakthrough in the Phase you are so Badly Stuck in.

Ramadan Mubarak to all Muslims brothers and sisters

This Ramadan, I wiSH YOU tears of joy in the eyes which have Grown Tired of Crying. I wisH YOU gUAIDENCE in your lost ways.

Ramadan Mubarak

I wiSH Allah Converts your Shattered Dreams in to beaUTIFUL Realities of your life.

Ramadan Mubarak

I wiSH Allah responds to every silent wish and every heartfelt unsaid dua.

Ramadan Mubarak

Ameen

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Qismat or naseeb mn kia farq hy

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Mon, 28 Dec 2020 12:45:00 +0000

Qismat or naseeb mn kia farq hy?

کوئی بھی بھلائی ، برائی ، فائدہ یا نقصان جوانسان کو نصیب ہوتا ہے وہ تقدیر کی بدولت اور اللہ رب العزت کی مرضی سے ہوتا ہے۔ اس معاملے کو تسلیم کرنا اور اس پر اعتقاد رکھنا ایمان کے ستون اور بنیادی اصولوں میں سے ایک ہے. کچھ لوگوں کا خیال ہے کہ خوش قسمت انسان کسی بھی مقصد میں کم سے کم کوشش یا بغیر کوشش کے کامیاب ہوجاتے ہیں ۔

اس کا اثر کچھ لوگوں پر پڑ سکتا ہے لیکن پھر بھی اس کا فیصلہ اللہ سبحانہ وتعالی اور اس کی مرضی کا پابند ہے۔ کوئی کامیابی اس وقت تک نہیں ہوسکتی ہے جب تک کہ یہ اللہ تعالٰی کے علم میں پہلے سے نہ ہو، یہ خیال کرنا کہ خوش قسمت شخص کے پاس ایسی چیزیں ہوسکتی ہیں جو اس کے لئے پہلے سے لکھی نہیں گئیں تھی یا یہ اس کی قسمت ہے جو اسے بدقسمتی سے دور رکھتی ہے ، یہ فیصلہ قرآن ، سنت ، اسباب اور حقیقت کے مطابق باطل ہے

"منزل خواہش سے نہیں ملتی،نصیب سے ملتی ہے"

آسیہ مرزا ~

تقدیر پہلے سے طے شدہ ہے ، اور تقدیر جیسی بھی ہے ، یہ ہمارے لئے منصوبہ بندی کی گئی ہے جس کا مطلب ہے کہ ہم جس بھی راستے پر چل رہے ہیں وہ ہمیں اس کا پتہ ہی نہیں چلتا ہے جس کے نتیجے میں ہم اس شخص کی حیثیت اختیار کرتے ہیں جیسا کہ ہماری تقدیر میں لکھ دیا گیا تھا. اس طرح سے خراب تجربات اور مصیبتیں کچھ خاص مقامات پر واقع ہوتی ہیں، تاکہ ہم ان سے سبق سیکھیں. اگر آپ تقدیر پر یقین رکھتے ہیں تو پھر آپ جو کچھ بھی تجربہ کر رہے ہیں اس میں آپ کے لیے کوئی نہ کوئی سبق ہے

دوسری طرف قسمت ایک ایسی چیز ہے جس پر آپ قابو رکھتے ہیں ، یہاں تک کہ اگر آپ محسوس کرتے ہیں کہ اس پر آپ کا کوئی کنٹرول نہیں ہے۔ آپ اپنی زندگی کو اپنی مرضی کے مطابق بنانے کی طاقت رکھتے ہیں ، اور اپنی زندگی میں مثبت تبدیلیاں لا سکتے ہیں اگر آپ کو مثبت انداز میں سوچنے اور اس پر عمل کرنے کی عادت ہے۔

خوش قسمت انسان بننے کے لیے آپ کو 100٪ یقین کرنا ہوگا کہ آپ خوش قسمت انسان ہیں۔ پراعتماد ہونے کے لیے آپ کو اپنی صلاحیتوں پر یقین کرنے کی ضرورت ہے اور جو کچھ آپ کررہے ہیں اس پراعتماد کرنا ضروری ہے

Naseeb do tarah k hoty han:

Naseeb e mualak :

آپکی سوچ بدلتی ہے تو آپ کا نصیب بدل جاتا ہے

Badlo souch badlo zindagi

Ap ki souch badalti hy to ap ka naseeb badal jata hy..

آپ اپنی کوشش سے اسے بدل سکتے ہیں ۔

کوشش بھی کر، امید بھی رکھ رستہ بھی چن

پھر اس کے بعد تھوڑا مقدر تلاش کر ۔ ۔

ندا فاضلی

Naseeb e jameed, ye badal nai sakta :

۔چاہے آپ روئیں گھڑگھڑائیں ،جھگڑئیں، خود سے ، دنیا سے خدا سے ۔ ۔

یاد رکھیں وقت سے پہلے اور قسمت سے زیادہ کسی کو کچھ نہیں ملتا ۔

ہر آزمائش عطا ہے اور ہر عطا آزمائش ۔ ۔

یہ بات بھی درست ہے کہ

"دل اور نصیب اپنی مرضی کرتے ہیں، عقل کی چابی سے دونوں نہیں کھلتے" ۔

(عمیرہ احمد ا(لف~

صورتیں کتنی ہی حسین کیوں نہ ہوں ، نصیبوں کی محتاج ہوا کرتی ہیں ۔

ارادے کتنے ہی مضبوط کیوں نہ ہوں، اسکی کن کے محتاج ہوتے ہیں ۔

خوش رہنا چاہتےہو تو جو حاصل ہے اس پہ قانع ہو جاو

جو تمھارا نصیب ہے وہ تم تک ضرور پہنچے گا، ہاں دیر سویرے اپنی جگہ ۔

خودی کو کر بلند اتنا کہ ہر تقدیر سے پہلے

...خدا بندے سے خود پوچھے بتا تیری رضا کیا ہے

Relationship quotes

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 10:54:00 +0000

Updated : 12 dec 2020

Relationship quotes

If we are optimist then, We live every day but die once. But if we are pessimist, we die every day but forget to live, and don't even try to learn how to live life fully. Life is not a bed of roses. We all suffer on and off.

We lose our loved ones, we miss our loved ones but our relations give us the reason to continue our life, our journey.

Relationships really matter in every one's life. They can make your life haven or hell, depending on the quality of your relationship.

Be wise and smart in order to start any relationship.

FOLLOW these quotes and wise words they will surely help you to enhance your relationship's quality.

Compulsory characteristics of any relationship :

Good communication is the base of any relationship.
Respect leads to love in any relationship.
Trust strengthen your relationship, otherwise there is no reason to continue the relationship.

Never settle for less:

You deserve a love that (never) not even for a second makes you question if you are enough?

Remember You don't lose real friends.

Earn money

Limit your expectations :

Limit your expectations because life is full of disappointments. You know very well that expectations leads to disappointments, don't be complacent not everyone have heart like you, and not everyone feels the way you feel.

Psychology says, you are not afraid to love, you are afraid of not being loved.

Wisdom tells us we are not worthy, Love tells us we are.

Love creat expectations. Wisdom improves our perception of reality.

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Relationships only ever amplify what is already there. Whether you are happy, sad, angry or excited, your partner will take that energy and amplify it as they throw it back to you. That is what makes relationships amazing when you are on the same page, and the worst when you are not.

Stay strong :

It is life and you will lose the ones, who matter the most.

Remember, Love is not complicated, people are.

So staying strong is good for your mental and emotional health.

Independence day quotes

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Thu, 13 Aug 2020 11:37:00 +0000

Independence day quotes :

Pakistan's Independence Day is celebrated on August 14. And India's on August 15, because in 1947 the ceremonies for the transfer of power were held a day earlier in Pakistan, so that the last British Viceroy, Lord Mountbatten of Burma, could attend the ceremonies in both Pakistan and India

Independence day quotes

Independence day quotes for all patriotic Pakistani fellows. Happy independence day.

May you all take part in the progress and prosperity of the motherland Pakistan.

Pakistan's independence day

"I didn't ask to be Pakistani. I just got lucky".
"Freedom is not free, let thanks to all who paid the price. Happy independence day".
"If you are not ready to die for it, put word freedom out of your vocabulary".
"Independence is a greatest gift of Allah. May we always remain independent".
"Freedom in the mind, Faith in the words, pride in our hearts and memories in our soul, Let's salute the nation on independence day".
"Celebrate the true spirit of independence with commitment to a better tomorrow".
"If we want to make this great state of Pakistan happy and prosperous. We should wholly and solely concentrate on the wellbeing of the peopel and especially of the masses and poor people".

~Muhammad Ali Jinnah

"There is no power on earth that can undo Pakistan".

~Muhammad Ali Jinnah

Solitude

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Sat, 06 Jun 2020 09:40:00 +0000

Updated: 3 August 2022

Solitude :

Sometimes it is really hard to deal with people,

People who don’t want to listen you.
People who don’t value you .
People who take you for granted .

Then the best solution for you is stay away from them .

You know why?

"Being alone is better than being ignored."

“Being alone is better than losing your self respect.”

"It is better to be a lonely loin, than a popular sheep".

"Loneliness is an essential friend on the road to bravery" .

~Ibn Arabi

Don’t get disheartened

"Sometimes life is too hard to be alone , and sometimes it is too good to be alone."

"Don’t let getting lonely make you reconnect with toxic people,

You shouldn’t drink poison just because you are thirsty."

And you know what?

"No matter how many friends you have in the end of the day, you will be alone with your problems and pain."

There is a little difference between loneliness and solitude.

Loneliness :

When you feel lonely when you are alone then you are actually emotionally weak.

“ If you are lonely when you are alone, you are in bad company.”

In Jung's views :

"Loneliness doesn't come from having no people around, but from unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself , or from holding certain views which others find inadmisable."

~carl Jung

Your loneliness is not loneliness, it is your personal space.

Don't let your mind misguide you.

The beauty behind loneliness is that you find out that You don't need anyone but Allah.. (God)

Solitude :

And solitude is the state of emotional wellness.

In which you feel you are enough.
You feel ok either someone wants to spend time with you or not .

Although we are social creatures, still begging time from someone is not advisable from me .

“Some journeys in life can only be traveled alone.”
~Ken Poirot

“Loneliness is the poverty of self, solitude is the richness of self.”

~May sarton

Be a loner. It is better than being ignored.

“Be a loner. That gives you time to wonder, to search for the truth. Have holy curiosity. Make your life worth living”.

~Albert Einstein

“Without great solitude, no serious work is possible”.

~Pablo Picasso

No solitude, no serious work.

“The best thinking has been done in solitude”.

~Thomas Edison

Solitude is addictive:

“Solitude is dangerous. Its addictive once you see how peaceful it is , you don’t want to deal people.”

Eid poetry

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Thu, 21 May 2020 11:03:00 +0000

Updated : 15 July 2020

Eid poetry

عید کا دن ہے اور میری یہ کوشش اور خواہش تھی کہ آپ تک کچھ مثبت، کچھ خوش کن الفاظ پہنچاؤں، پر یہ شاعر لوگ، یہ حساس لوگ مجال ہے جو خوشی کے لمحوں میں بھی خوش رہ پائیں۔

کوئی نہ کوئی غم انہیں بے حال کئے رکھتا ہے ۔

:بقول شخصے

تو بتا اے دلِ بے تاب ، کہاں آتے ہیں

!!ہم کو خوش رہنے کے آداب کہاں آتے ہیں

تو آپ لوگوں سے گزارش ہے کہ آپ فلحال

اس مواد سے ہی لطف اندوز ہوں ۔ ہرچند کہ تھوڑا آزردہ کرنے والا ہے۔

پریقین جانیے کافی معیاری ہے۔

تو چلیں آغاز کرتے ہیں ۔

Eid poetry collection :

Eid poetry

ہٹا کر زلف چہرے سے نہ جانا شام کو چھت پر

کہیں کوئی عید نہ کر لے ابھی رمضان باقی ہے ۔ ۔ ۔


Kaheen koi eid na kr ly abhi ramzan baqi hy. عید کا چاند تم نے دیکھ لیا !چاند کی عید ہوگئی ہوگی عید بھی منالیں گے یہ فرض بھی نبھالیں گے سعدیہ~ رسم دنیا ہے نبھالیتے ہیں عید آتی ہے منالیتے ہیں ۔ ۔ اتباف ابرک ~ ہر ایک درد کی شدت چھپائی جائے گی عید تو عید ہے، آخر منائی جائے گی۔ ۔ ۔

Eid poetry

!یہ جو اتنا خلوص لائے ہو

اس کا اب میں آچار ڈالوں کیا؟

!ٹھیک ہے، عید ہے، مگر بھائی

اب اداسی کو مار ڈالوں کیا؟

عابی مکھنوی~

Is udasi ko mar dalon kia : eid saeed

ہوئی عید سب نے پہنے طرب و خوشی کے جامے

نہ ہوا کہ ہم بھی بدلیں یہ لباس سوگواراں۔ ۔ ۔

میرتقی میر~

Turb u khoshi k jamay : eid mubarak

کہاں کی عید،کیسی عید، کیا عید ؟

یہ کیا گڑبڑ مچائی جارہی ہے؟

جون ایلیا ~

اب کے کیا عید مناوں میں

اس گھر کو آخر کیا سجاوں میں

گزرے ہیں کیا کیا الم ہجر کے

کوئی پوچھے تو کیا بتاوں میں

ہم ہارے ہوئے ہیں خود زندگی سے

کسی کو جینا کیا سکھاوں میں

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Lesson learned in life

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Wed, 13 May 2020 11:37:00 +0000

Updated :15 April 2025

Lesson learned in life :

Every individual has his own ideas and believes about life .

Most of us fail to understand the concept of life.

“Some people don’t understand the concept of life. Life is a struggle and struggle until you are happy.”

Life is not always the same you were used to know or you were used to experience, it has different stages , and every stage demand a different you . There is no finite lesson in a life because it is full of uncertainty.

Many of the most valuable lessons life teach us will come with some amount of discomfort. It is just growing pains.

Every incident of life teach you a different lesson. Best ones are those who are open to learn and modify or adjust themselves in different situations.

Life literally teach you in a way that no one can teach you , because you can’t skip a single phase of your life and every phase is full of lessons.

Although I’m not a good student but life hit me too hard that it automatically enabled me to learn what it want to teach me.

Here are some lessons I have learned in life so far.

Every test is a blessing, every blessing is a test.

Every test is a blessing,

Be careful what you tolerate , you are teaching people how to treat you.

Be careful what you tolerate

There comes a time in your life when you need to stop reading other people’s book, and write your own.

~Albert Einstein

Stop reading other people’s book. Start creating your own.

We all grow at different rates . And that’s ok.
Do what you have to do, until you can do what you want to do.

Learn to be bored, silent, and alone

You could give some people a drop of water ,and they’d still appreciate you.You could give the other people the entire ocean, and they’d still take you for granted.
your faith is not tested on your best days. It is tested on your worst days .
Don't be a rigid person who never bend and mold himself according to the situation.
Forget the person but not the lesson .
Be there for others, but don't leave yourself behind.
Rock bottom will teach you lessons that mountain top never will.
In three words I can sum up , everything I have learned about life, it goes on. . .

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what is happiness quotes

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Sun, 05 Apr 2020 18:16:00 +0000

Updated : 10 Nov 2024
What is happiness ?
(quotes )
Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing , you will be successful.

Success is not the key to happiness.

Is really success is the secret of happiness ?
It depends on your definition of Success . If you think , you achieve something then you are successful, you are wrong . Real happiness is being contented with your own
self , and with what you already have.

Happiness is not having what you want ,but appreciating what you have.
Feel good about yourself :
Happiness is when you feel good about yourself without the need for anyone else approval.
Happiness is when what you think , what you say, and what you do are in harmony.
Difference between happy and unhappy people :
Happy people build their inner world .
Unhappy people blame their outer world.
Rember that happiness is not something ready made, it comes from your own actions.

If you want to live a happy Life, tie it to a goal , not to people or things.
Happiness is always a choice . You can't wait for circumstances to get better you have to create your own good fortune so look for ways to be happy every day.

Marcus Aurelius says:
The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.

Don’t find someone who makes you happy.
Make yourself happy then find someone.

And if someone makes you happy, make them happier.

Remember , happiness doesn’t depend upon who you are and what you have , it depends solely upon what you Think .

Life goes on

noreply@blogger.com (Sadia Arshad) — Tue, 28 Jan 2020 07:18:00 +0000

Updated : 18 July 2020

Life goes on

Accept your life's experiences as learning material:

All your experiences the good and the bad are your learning of life. Be grateful for what you have learned .Find the way to move on , from heart breaking realities of life .It is the process that will strengthen you in Future .

Life has it's own rules and regulations :

Apart from your hopes, believes, and expectations life has its own rules and regulations. Sometimes you get effortlessly what you want and sometimes life grind you too hard and still you can’t able to fulfil your desires.

Life doesn’t bother that you are papa’s doll , or mama’s princess, it will treat you as you treat it .

To be successful in your life be a warrior :

Only hard work is in your hands ,and it is the only weapon to fight .

But in some cases in life nothing is required except luck or fate .It is dilemma of life .

You only have to stay on track and fight your battle because strong soldiers never quit they fight their battle till their last breath .

No matter what life put in front of them they have courage to face any thing. Life definitely reward those who don’t lose hope .At the end of the day all courageous people will meet their desired goals , or at least they learned a lot from their struggles .

Push yourself a little more :

Remember,

“Every situation in life is temporary. When life is good make sure you enjoy , and receive it fully. And when life is not so good , remember that it will not last forever and better days are on the way .”

When life is good make sure you enjoy.

Nothing is permanent. Don’t stress yourself too much because no matter how bad the situation is, it will change .

So in this temporary life, live with grace ,live with courage and patience, accept challenges, push yourself a little more everyday towards mental physical and spiritual growth .No matter what just stand and fight nothing last forever your troubles, difficulties, Failures all are temporary .

No matter what,

Good or bad

Happy or sad

Life goes on

Just learn to move on. . .

Soulful quotations

The Science of Reading People

The Science of Reading People: Decoding Human Behavior

Decoding Non-Verbal Communication

How It Works:

Posture shifts:

Genuine smiles:

Microexpressions:

Inconsistencies:

Example:

Watch Out For:

The goal:

How to Understand Anyone Instantly

Eid ul- Adha, A Celebration of Faith, Sacrifice, and Unity

Eid ul- Adha : A Celebration of Faith, Sacrifice, and Unity

Final Reflection

"Eid Mubarak! May your sacrifices be accepted, your hearts be light, and your tables overflow with blessings."* 🌙✨

"May your Eid taste of your mother’s cooking, sound of your father’s laughter, and feel like God’s hand on your shoulder. And when you give, give in a way that makes the angels weep."🌙

Books based on financial freedom

Books based on financial freedom:

Here are some book suggestions for you on financial freedom :

- "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill

- "The Richest Man in Babylon" by George S. Clason

- "The 4-Hour Workweek" by Timothy Ferriss

- "The Millionaire Next Door" by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko

- "You Are a Badass at Making Money" by Jen Sincero

- "The Total Money Makeover" by Dave Ramsey

Healing anxiety and overthinking

Healing anxiety and overthinking by Joseph Nguyen

An overview

THE ROOT CAUSE OF ALL SUFFERING

HOW TO LET GO OF NEGATIVE THINKING

The 48 laws of power by Robert Greene

The 48 laws of power

LAW : 1

NEVER OUTSHINE THE MASTER

LAW : 2

NEVER PUT TOO MUCH TRUST IN FRIENDSLEARN HOW TO USE Enemies

LAW: 3 CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS

LAW 4 ALWAYS SAY LESS THAN NECESSARY

LAW 10

AVOID THE UNHAPPY AND UNLUCKY

Law 11

LEARN TO KEEP PEOPLE DEPENDENT ON YOU

LAW 17 USE ABSENCE TO INCREASE RESPECT AND HONOR

LAW 18

DO NOT BUILD FORTRESSES TO PROTECT YOURSELF ISOLATION IS DANGEROUS

LAW 21PLAY A SUCKER TO CATCH A SUCKER-SEEM DUMBER THAN YOUR MARK

LAW 25RECREATE YOURSELF

LAW 28 ENTER ACTION WITH BOLDNESS

Why online earning is word of mouth

Why online earning is word of mouth now a days?

1. Success Stories:

2. Accessibility of Information:

3. Community and Networking:

4. Alternative Income Streams:

5. Low Barrier to Entry:

6. Global Reach:

7. Technology Advancement:

8. Trust and Authenticity:

Atomic habits

Atomic habits

Here are some of the best lines from the book:

These lines from "Atomic Habits" serve as powerful reminders of the impact that small, consistent habits can have on our personal growth and well-being. Embracing the power of habits can lead us to a more fulfilling and successful life.

Best quotes fromThink and Grow Rich

Best quotes and lessons from think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill

Quotes from think and grow rich

The power of thought:

The importance of desire:

Persistence and determination:

The power of imagination:

Take decisive action:

Learn from failures:

Mastermind alliances:

The importance of specialized knowledge:

Faith and belief:

Best quotes from The Silent patient

Best quotes from The Silent patient

Here are some best lines from The Silent patient

Rich dad poor dad quotes

NEVER PUT TOO MUCH TRUST IN FRIENDS
LEARN HOW TO USE Enemies

LAW: 3
CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS

LAW 4
ALWAYS SAY LESS THAN NECESSARY

LAW 17

USE ABSENCE TO INCREASE RESPECT AND HONOR

LAW 21
PLAY A SUCKER TO CATCH A SUCKER-SEEM DUMBER THAN YOUR MARK

LAW 25
RECREATE YOURSELF

LAW 28
ENTER ACTION WITH BOLDNESS