The comedic web series that I am producing, The Dating Life, has released a trailer. It is located at YouTube right here.

I would love for you to friend and subscribe to our You Tube channel, like us at our fan page and follow us at our Twitter feed.

Enjoy.

Episodes are coming soon!!!

I will be in New York City next week working on a web series in which I play the mother of the lead character. I will have plenty of production stills to share with you.

Love and Light to you.

I want to thank everyone for your comments on my Steve Jobs posts. As a “one more thing” – as he would say – here is a wonderful tribute that his company gave him on October 19th. It is lengthy but well worth the watch.

I just realized a goof, I haven’t been putting in post tags to my posts so going forward I will be doing that as I want to share my words with more people and in that process, increase my audience numbers. I hope you enjoy reading my posts. My social media universe topics usually consist of seven (7) topics I am passionate about and I speak on regularly. They include, in no particular order:

-Technology
-Entertainment Industry
-Marketing
-Sports
-Dogs
-Writing
-Spirituality

I hope you will join me on my ride. I enjoy the journey – that’s a mantra for me – the journey might not all be peaches and cream – but I will continue to learn, become a more evolved human being and have fun in the process.

Your comments are very important to me. I hope you continue to share your insights with me. It means a lot.

Cheers.

Wow. I still can’t believe it. My business compass is gone from this physical realm, but not from being my business compass. You’ll read a Stevenote or few here or I will think of something very Jobsian to say, like “what would Steve do?” to something I am pondering. Those who know me, know I am a very spiritual person. And, my feeling is that he isn’t gone, but is elsewhere and he is hanging out with my mother and father someplace else and I’m just going to open the door and they will all be there, waiting, and they will say “hey, what took you so long?”.

There have been quite a number of tributes to Steve happening (Part I and Part II of my own Steve tributes are here and here). In print. Online. On TV. Apple is doing a memorial for their employees on October 18 (On a Tuesday, makes perfect sense as that is when Apple’s product announcements tend to be.). Discovery Channel is doing a tribute on Steve Jobs called “iGenius: How Steve Jobs Changed the World” (Oct. 16, 8 p.m. EST). Adam Savage and Jamie Hyneman, from Discovery Channel’s “Mythbusters”, will host the one-hour special.

I was at Apple’s HQ last week. For me, I could feel Steve’s soul all around the campus. Eery or what? I’m glad there is not going to be a public memorial and I’m glad the family was able to lay Steve to rest privately last Friday.

The cause of his death was announced as respiratory failure. With cancer, it never seems to be the cancer itself that ultimately kills a person but some other organ that gave out as a result of the cancer. You know, I don’t know anyone who has survived pancreatic cancer – be it the cancer Steve had or the type Patrick Swayze had. We need to put A LOT of research monies into pancreatic cancer – it seems that that is the real killer. It’s tied up into so much of major functionality of our bodies – hormones, liver, etc.

I think what we all will remember about Steve is how he changed our world views – about computing, communications, Internet, the media, music…life. “For the rest of us” will forever stay in our minds. Here is a final video of SteveQuotes which are inspirational quotes, for you.

Steve’s death at 56 holds a little more intensity for me as my dad died when he was 56. I was 20, the age of Steve’s eldest son. I had just completed my sophomore year. My sister was 13, the age of Steve’s youngest daughter. I remember that day like it was yesterday. I moved on. It strengthened me. It built my character. I remember sitting in our living room discussing my dad’s will with attorneys and bankers, probate court, and everything — I was still in shock my dad was gone. Then, I looked at my mother and watching how this amazing woman turned into such an independent woman. I was proud. Me? I think I was independent since I was 10 years old and probably could have gone out into the world. My mother. I was in awe. Still am in awe. We became closer and friends. Yeah, we had our moments. And still think about and talk with her every chance I get. Do you ever wonder that a person dies to give us something? My dad died to give me my mother as a friend, to complete my studies, make my mark in the world and to put some type of “ding in the universe”. My mother died to start me on a path of being present to life. Steve Jobs? He’s given me back my sense of focus, living a simplistic life, and nothing matters other than those first two.

While, I am a self-proclaimed “apple-head”, having had just about every Apple product, (By the way, you must get Apple TV, for $99, it’s a bargain. And I will be a proud owner of the new iPhone 64GB 4S by the weekend.), the Steve I remember and will continue to remember is “that guy” from the 80′s who I met and who, along with Steve Wozniak, “Woz” to us, that started and gave us that magical adventure we know as Apple Computer and now Apple, Inc. Hey, wouldn’t it be cool for Woz to come back to Apple?! I do have a University of Colorado tie-in about Woz. He was at CU for 2 years, then CU kicked him out because he kept hacking into the mainframe.

Here are a couple of my favorite photos in the 80′s. The second one is a little bit small and was part of the original Macintosh launch video. Enjoy.

In Part I of my “All About Steve” post, I said I wasn’t looking forward to writing Part II of this series. I knew it would be to post that he died.

I am going to celebrate his life.

He has been my business role model since I moved to the bay area in the mid-1980′s. I had the honor to meet Steve once. And I have watched with amazement what he was able to do at Apple (the first time), NeXT, Pixar and back to Apple.

There are certain things I don’t believe in. I don’t believe in “perception is reality”. You can change perception. I’ve done it many times over as a tech marketer. I don’t believe in “sacrificing for your art”. I believe that we make choices. That’s the beauty of being a human being – free will – I make a choice. If I wanted to watch TV over working on my acting craft, I made a choice. If I wanted to go to a casting director workshop instead of socializing with friends, I made a choice. And, I don’t believe in “regrets”. While I say that, I will say I would have loved to have worked with Steve either at Apple or NeXT.

Some things that make Steve stand out for me are his focus in following his path, and not letting the naysayers sway him – he was known to say “fuck em” a lot. I found his drive and being a perfectionist to get that perfect product to the masses amazing. He understood business, marketing and knew that products need to appeal to peoples’ emotions and need to have a value-added function in peoples’ lives. He was a minimalist, only focusing on the things that mattered. He was more focused on success than being right. He was difficult and not the easiest to work with – this is what he said about people: “My job is to not be easy on people. My job is to make them better.” When you are driven, you are focused on the vision. That means that you have to expect your people are self-managing, do not need hand-holding and can be counted on to get their jobs done. In an old video about the Macintosh, he talked about individual contributors being the best managers. He understood people and how to communicate with them. He was definitely ahead of his time. When I am challenged with a decision, the question, what would Steve do, comes to mind frequently.

I think what I really like about Steve which is what I find in myself – never being satisfied, always searching, and trying to re-invent himself.

Steve will continue to be my business and tech compass.

I want to leave you with this quote: “Almost everything–all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure–these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.”

Always strive to be insanely great. Be hungry. Be foolish.

I think his views of the whole user experience, marketing, aesthetics, computers, high-tech, and life are amazing. He is amazing.

I have really been thinking about this quote of his a lot over the past week:

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

I was thinking about my own life. I know Steve has been vilified as a tyrant, dictator, egomaniac, rude and other negative descriptions. It’s ironic – driven people are looking for excellence. I loved this comment of his: ““My job is to not be easy on people. My job is to make them better.” Personally, in my life, where I have had successful marketing and financial careers and reached the management table quickly, and even as a producer, I have found that there are people who think I might be curt, etc., but I am driven to excellence (less on the perfection angle these days, but it creeps up now and then) and a true Capricorn at that. Unfortunately, my response to people’s comments that “I am too strong”, “too curt”, whatever dig, was to be apologetic and in a performer’s words, to play small and give up my power. My husband will tell you that I ended up internalizing a lot – having an inferior, low self-worth moment.

I’m taking Steve’s words to heart – it is my path, my life, noone else’s. I’m not here to live my life and make my choices based on someone else’s thoughts or comments. The bottom line is what I think I should do with my life is the only thing that matters. That’s my bliss. My enlightenment. I’m letting it rip! Oh yeah, the recent changes that I have implemented to my physical self – changed diet and exercise, mental self – always striving to be present to life every day and being self-sufficient, and my spiritual self – living in my heart center, don’t hurt. And that’s a pretty full day.

Love and Light.

The following is my candidate statement:

I am honored to accept the nomination for the IAWTV Board of Directors.

My selection to the IAWTV board would ensure a new voice with new ideas to complement the experience and knowledge of veteran members.

In line with the third priority bullet point above, I found this article in the Los Angeles Times – very in line with my position on the future of web TV.

If you are an IAWTV member, I would love to pique your brain about the future of IAWTV and even if you aren’t an IAWTV member but you are either working in the web TV space or want to work in the web TV space, I would love to chat with you.

Love and Light to you.

My “bible” is on my desk and I refer to it every day. In it is everything that inspires me to focus on my actor craft and actor business.

On page 1 is that famous Abraham Hicks quote: “…your real work is to decide what you want and then focus upon it. For it is through focusing upon what you want that you will attract it. That is the process of creating.” Below that, I pose a question to me: What Did I Do Today To Move Myself Closer To My Goals?

What did you do today to move yourself closer to your goals?