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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Merry Christmas!]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2011/12/22/merry-christmas-2011"/>
    <updated>2011-12-22T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>What a busy whirlwind of a year! I remember being told as a kid that life goes faster and faster and I never believed it. Now I&#8217;m a believer!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s amazing to think that Nathaniel and I celebrated our 9 year anniversary in October. Being married to my best friend has been beyond wonderful. He may not be perfect, but he&#8217;s perfect for me, and I am continually amazed at how much alike and yet different we are in all the right places.</p>
<p>This year Nathaniel keeps running away from home, but thankfully he always comes back &#8211; he&#8217;s taken up running as a hobby and form of exercise. He bought some black Vibram shoes (known around here as &#8220;toe shoes&#8221; or &#8220;Gorilla feet&#8221;) and heads out at least two mornings a week for a run. Apparently he missed the memo that said geeks aren&#8217;t supposed to be trim and fit.</p>
<p><a href="https://spreedly.com" style="border:none;"><br />
<img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2011/12/22/spreedly-logo-small.png" alt="" /><br />
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<p>There have been big changes on the business front &#8211; this summer Nathaniel shut down his multi-person consulting company to focus in on <a href="https://spreedly.com">Spreedly</a>, and at the beginning of December he took it a step further and stopped doing all independent consulting as well. It&#8217;s all Spreedly all the time now, and with <a href="https://spreedly.com/info/team">a new <span class="caps">CEO</span></a> brought on board (Nathaniel&#8217;s now happily serving as <span class="caps">CTO</span>) momentum is picking up fast. 2012 promises to be an exciting ride!</p>
<p>I (Katie) was busy most of the year making a baby. Our sixth born &#8211; Katherine Serene &#8211; was born on August 9th and I am very happy to have another baby to kiss on. I also began &#8220;seriously&#8221; homeschooling this fall with a planned schedule and all. In my minds eye I had our mornings all figured out and down on paper, only to realize that real life and paper diverge wildly. I have since adjusted our morning school time and am please with the progress that is being made by the whole brood.</p>
<p style="float:right;"><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2011/12/22/reuben.jpg" alt="" /></p>
<p>Reuben (8) has really taken off in his reading. He started of with the <em>Box Car Children</em> and quickly progressed to the <em>Hardy Boys</em>, <em>Trixy Belden</em>, and any kids adventure book he can get his hands on; a Kindle and the <a href="http://www.gutenberg.org">Gutenberg Project</a> have been a big help in keeping him supplied with books. He also excels in math and is amazing his siblings with his talents by counting to one hundred by tens and fives. When not reading and &#8217;rithmatic&#8217;ing, Reuben spends most of his time trying to figure out how things work (often by taking them apart!) and then trying to replicate them with household items or Legos. Favorite projects have been making primitive archery sets and trying out kite making. And baking, which I think mostly just reflects his love of sweets. Now if we could just get him as excited, or at least as competent, about cleaning up afterwards we&#8217;d be doing good.</p>
<p style="float:left;"><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2011/12/22/annemarie.jpg" alt="" /></p>
<p>Anne Marie (6) is tall and lanky and her curls continue to make me jealous. At 6 she is already growing up into quite a lady &#8211; one that boasts she can &#8220;fight&#8221; better than the boys and enjoys climbing trees. She has learned to officially read this year, and amazes herself when she sees a word and can sound it out. She hasn&#8217;t taken off like her brother yet, but I have a feeling I will be finding her curled up with a stack of books in the near future. Her housekeeping skills are also starting to grow, and she loves to help out with Katherine, the first baby she gets to hold by herself. Perhaps most exciting, Anne Marie has learned how to earn and save money this year, and she carefully saved up enough a dollar at a time to buy a guitar just for herself. I have a feeling this will be the first of many wise financial decisions on her part.</p>
<p style="float:right;"><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2011/12/22/william.jpg" alt="" /></p>
<p>William (5) is begging to do math and has asked me to teach him to read; he doesn&#8217;t want to be left behind his older siblings when it comes to school. As our official house comedian, William is often funniest (and most philosophical) when he doesn&#8217;t mean to be: he was overheard telling another sibling, &#8220;&#8216;Poor Poor&#8217; means you don&#8217;t have anything in your house, but &#8216;Poor&#8217; means you don&#8217;t have any children.&#8221;</p>
<p style="float:left;"><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2011/12/22/elaine.jpg" alt="" /></p>
<p>Elaine (4) is our first girl who loves to play with dolls and have tea parties. She is also a thumb sucker who one hour wants to quit (because 4 year olds don&#8217;t suck their thumb!) and the next hour has found a secluded place to cosy up with her thumb and a blanket. She enjoys playing with Etan and they&#8217;re buddies on most subjects of play, especially while the older ones are working. She is looking more and more like her mama; it&#8217;s nice to know that at least one of my children decided to take after me.</p>
<p style="float:right;"><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2011/12/22/etan.jpg" alt="" /></p>
<p>Etan (2) successfully potty trained this fall. Thankfully, he was one of our easiest, since I was starting to wonder how I was going to keep up on the laundry with two in cloth diapers. He is Daddy&#8217;s little boy and they even have a &#8220;secret&#8221; hand shake which all the boys have now adopted. Etan&#8217;s latest interest is in the wooden train set, but I don&#8217;t know what he enjoys more, dumping the bins out or actually building and running trains around the track. He has been one of our earliest talkers and it&#8217;s a joy to hear his little voice jabbering about life (and parroting most things we say to him). He&#8217;s figured out how to forage for himself, and so when he gets hungry we&#8217;ll often find a trail of banana peels leading to a happy boy sitting and enjoying his snack.</p>
<p style="float:left;"><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2011/12/22/katherine.jpg" alt="" /></p>
<p>Katherine (4 months) arrived one week past her due date and now that she is in my arms is well worth every ache and pain it took to get her here. She surprised us with the cutest little dimples, doubly surprising since no one on either side of our families has dimples that we know of. She is our &#8220;on&#8221; or &#8220;off&#8221; baby, usually all smiles, but if she isn&#8217;t smiling, then she is usually letting you know at the top of her lungs that she needs something. Being the sixth child, I find myself much more laid back and enjoying the infant stage, knowing that it won&#8217;t last long.</p>
<p>God has been very good to us this year &#8211; we&#8217;ve been healthy, well provided for, and have also found a new church home at Christ Church in nearby Cary. We can&#8217;t wait to see what the new year has in store!</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2011/12/22/family.jpg" alt="" /></p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Professional Changes]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2011/05/17/professional-changes"/>
    <updated>2011-05-17T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2011/05/17/professional-changes</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I just put a post up on the Terralien blog outlining a big change: <a href="http://terralien.com/blog/articles/2011/05/17/shut-down">I&#8217;ve shut Terralien down*</a>. The asterisk is that I&#8217;m still doing some contracting work, but all my entrepreneurial focus is now being focused in to <a href="https://spreedly.com">Spreedly</a>. <a href="http://verseurl.com/fh">No man can serve two masters</a>, and I&#8217;m being a whole lot more productive now that I&#8217;ve stopped trying to do the impossible.</p>
<p>This also means I&#8217;ll probably move my blogging back over to this blog; maybe I&#8217;ll even get a chance to move it to a modern blogging platform. The sky&#8217;s the limit now!</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Latest from Terralien]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2010/05/12/the-latest-from-terralien"/>
    <updated>2010-05-12T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2010/05/12/the-latest-from-terralien</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>As many/most of you know, I&#8217;ve spent the past few years running <a href="http://terralien.com">Terralien</a>, a consulting shop focused on custom software development. Just last week we launched <a href="http://fullstackiphone.com">Full Stack iPhone</a>, a new full-service iPhone development service that bundles up design, iPhone development and web development into a complete package. I mostly mention it here to show off what I&#8217;ve been up to, but of course if you know anyone that needs an iPhone application developed, definitely point them our way!</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[A Few Miscellaneous Pictures]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2010/02/25/a-few-miscellaneous-pictures"/>
    <updated>2010-02-25T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2010/02/25/a-few-miscellaneous-pictures</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>These are a bit random, but ones I wanted to share:</p>
<p>Can you tell who keeps sneaking the camera even though she isn&#8217;t supposed to?! (Hint &#8211; her name begins with the letter Elaine)</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_5970.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>And&#8230;</p>
<p>Aunt Claire sent us a cookie mix for Valentine&#8217;s Day:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_5949.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_5993.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>Etan is playing with toys now:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_6007.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>I let William help with lunch. We tried a hammer for breaking the Ramen Noodles. Didn&#8217;t work too well, but we had fun pounding:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_5999.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>Our wimpy attempt at a snowman on Monday:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_6033.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_6042.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>Reuben eating the last of the &#8220;clean&#8221; snow:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_6038.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>This snow fall came over night, but was gone by 11 AM. We now are practically snowless; it&#8217;s just piled up from plowing and shoveling previous snowfall. Rain is in the forecast until we leave for North Carolina on March 2nd, but we are still praying for some snow.</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Our Weekend]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2010/02/24/our-weekend"/>
    <updated>2010-02-24T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2010/02/24/our-weekend</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>We decided to see the sea this weekend. It was different than what I expected in that there were lots of bays to stop at, but not many ocean views.<br />
<a href="http://www.maine.gov/doc/nrimc/mgs/explore/marine/sites/jun00.htm">Jasper Beach</a> was our first stop:</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_6023.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>I&#8217;m so used to the Oregon coast where you drive down the highway with the ocean in view the whole length of the state. In Maine there are so many inlets that (as far as I can tell) you never do drive near the ocean. You never get a good eye full.</p>
<p>This is also the first time I have had to bundle my kids in snow clothes before going out to the beach. Thankfully, they mostly have rock beaches. Rocks are much easier (and cleaner) to pick up with mittened hands.</p>
<p>Daddy and Etan enjoying the day:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_6015.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>Reuben enjoying the rocky shore:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_6012.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>Elaine and I were walking buddies. It was hard for her to walk on those rolling rocks:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/23/IMG_6024.JPG" alt="" /></p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Anne Marie's 5th birthday]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2010/02/14/anne-maries-5th-birthday"/>
    <updated>2010-02-14T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2010/02/14/anne-maries-5th-birthday</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Since we are away from home (meaning grandparents and aunts) we had to make sure that Anne Marie&#8217;s birthday was very special. <br />
The &#8220;birthday&#8221; things we did today included visiting Dunkin&#8217; Donuts, having a tea party:</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/14/IMG_5904.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>(More in the full article&#8230;)</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/14/IMG_5913.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>We practiced holding our pinkies up :</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/14/IMG_5912.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>Boys aren&#8217;t very good at it:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/14/IMG_5909.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/14/IMG_5910.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/14/IMG_5917.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>We ate the diner of Anne Marie&#8217;s choosing &#8211; grilled cheese and tomato soup, and then had cake:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/14/IMG_5926.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>It was of course pink (strawberry), in a heart shape, with pink sprinkles and pink candles.</p>
<p>Then we played pin-the-tail-on-the-donkey and opened presents:</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2010/2/14/IMG_5929.JPG" alt="" /></p>
<p>Anne Marie got a princess game and fake makeup from us and some audio CDs from Nana and Papa.</p>
<p>We finished off the day by blowing balloons up and letting them shoot up into the vaulted ceiling.</p>
<p>Now we have a 6, 5, 3, 2 year old, and a 4 month old. It&#8217;s a fun crowd!</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[2009 Christmas Letter]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/12/22/2009-christmas-letter"/>
    <updated>2009-12-22T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/12/22/2009-christmas-letter</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>It seems like the theme of the Talbottsâ€™ year was conferences &#8211; from California to Spain, and Toronto to Florida, Nathaniel attended 8 conferences and spoke at most of them, often with family tagging along. The Lordâ€™s blessing continued to be very evident in our household as well, not the least of which was safe travel over all the miles covered!</p>
<p>All of the conference-going was but one symptom of the growth of both of Nathanielâ€™s businesses. <a href="http://terralien.com/">Terralien</a>, which does custom software design and development, continues to pick up steam, and was able to bring in a full-time project manager in the second half of â€™09. With ongoing work with clients who first found Terralien as far back as 2005, and plenty of work helping new clients get their businesses off the ground, thereâ€™s plenty to manage!</p>
<p><a href="http://spreedly.com/">Spreedly</a>, a subscription management business that Nathaniel started with three co-founders a couple of years ago, really started to take off in 2009, and has 10 times as many businesses using it now as it did at the beginning of the year. Nathaniel often feels like he has two full-time jobs between Terralien and Spreedly, but heâ€™s loving (almost) every minute of it, and wouldnâ€™t trade it for anything. A lot of what he spoke about at conferences this year was entrepreneurship, either particular aspects of it or just generally encouraging folks to get motivated and start their own thing. If you ever need an entrepreneurial pep talk heâ€™s always up for giving one!</p>
<p>Katie spent most of the year pregnant, but we wonâ€™t bore you with those details. Her current days are filled with taking care of a house full of energetic kids, which she enjoys a good ninety-five percent of the time. The other five percent she spends dreaming of having older children who can blow their own noses and pick out matching clothes. She also spent a lot of time this year researching homeschooling, and is becoming ever more grateful for the time and effort her mother put into her own education.</p>
<p>When Nathaniel went and spoke at a conference in Madrid, Spain over Thanksgiving this year, Katie and the baby got to come along. Since this was the first trip sheâ€™d made overseas, it was a definite highlight to the year. She hopes to get to repeat the experience again in the future, all except the part where she got lost for two hours in the downtown of Europeâ€™s third largest city!</p>
<p>One of the biggest blessings of the year came in October as Etan Zeal Talbott was born two days after his due date. Although not the easiest Talbott baby, he has already captured our hearts with his smiles and coos of recognition and affection. At almost 3 months of age, Etan is living up to the meaning of his name &#8211; <a href="http://blog.talbott.ws/articles/2009/10/24/announcing-etan-zeal-talbott">strong, firm one</a> &#8211; as he is either crying with vigor, or smiling and joyfully wiggling with vigor. His motto in life seems to be &#8220;all or nothing.&#8221;</p>
<p>Elaine, now two years old, is still a bit of a baby to us all as she held that position longer than most of our other children. After 2 years, we are still mesmerized by her sweet smile, and even in the middle of the naughtiest situations she knows that a big grin will help diminish the punishment of her crime. The words most heard out of her mouth are, â€œMe! Me!â€ as she doesnâ€™t want to be left out of any fun.</p>
<p>William is now three and finally getting some visible hair &#8211; poor guy was bald for quite awhile!  He is talking a mile a minute these days after being the kid that just last year we couldn&#8217;t even get to try, and he has a quick, little boy sense of humor that he likes to whip out at the funniest times. One of our sources of joint amusement and annoyance this year has been William&#8217;s need to have something in his hands at <span class="caps">ALL</span> times; we often uncurl his fingers to find a dime, a small twig, a piece of cloth, a ball bearing, or some similarly random item wrapped up inside. We wouldn&#8217;t mind so much, but at nap time we end up removing the oddest things from his hands, his bed and under his pillow, things he has collected when he&#8217;s supposed to be sleeping!</p>
<p>Anne Marie is four, soon to be five, and she has matured into a beautiful little girl &#8211; inside and out. She is learning how to help more around the house and her newest accomplishment is mixing up the orange juice (from concentrate) by herself. Being such a big girl meant she needed a bigger bed, and Aunt Claire moved out in August after living with us for three years, allowing Anne Marie to move into the grown up bed and start sharing a &#8220;girl&#8217;s room&#8221; with Elaine.</p>
<p>Katie regularly stops by Nathaniel&#8217;s upstairs office to tell him the latest funny thing the kids said, and it&#8217;s often Anne Marie that said it. The most recent one was when Anne Marie, in response to a question, told Katie that some clothes were hanging on the chiropractor, when what she meant was that they were on the treadmill. She has her parents convinced that someone can be extremely smart and extremely blonde all at the same time!</p>
<p>Reuben is six now, and his big accomplishment this year was learning to read; we now get regaled with a running commentary on the road and store signs as we drive around town. Reuben has a desire to know <span class="caps">EVERYTHING</span>, with &#8220;why?&#8221; and &#8220;what?&#8221; ranking as his favorite words. Much like his daddy, Legos are one of his favorite things, and he&#8217;s always showing off some new creation he has constructed, usually a vehicle of some sort. Unlike his daddy, he is fascinated by real car makes and models, and can name most of those he sees on the road. Of course, the one thing his daddy did teach him about cars is that Honda&#8217;s are the best!</p>
<p>The best part of writing a Christmas letter is just remembering what we did ourselves in 2009 &#8211; what a whirlwind! We hope you enjoy the peek into our family, and that if you&#8217;re ever in North Carolina you&#8217;ll look us up.</p>
<p>Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from the Talbott Family!</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Announcing Etan Zeal Talbott]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/10/24/announcing-etan-zeal-talbott"/>
    <updated>2009-10-24T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/10/24/announcing-etan-zeal-talbott</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://blog.joylynphotography.com/2009/10/16/baby-etan/"><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2009/10/24/JJP_7152_s.jpg" style="clear:left;float:right;margin-left:1em;" alt="" /></a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s time to metaphorically set pen to paper for the fifth time and record for our newly born son why he has the name he does, and what the promise and the warning are that are bound up in it. First, though, the vital statistics:</p>
<p><strong>Name:</strong> Etan Zeal Talbott<br/>
<strong>Born:</strong> October 3, 2009 at 4:15am<br/>
<strong>Length:</strong> 21.5 inches<br/>
<strong>Weight:</strong> 7 lbs., 15 oz.<br/></p>
<p>Etan, your mother and I had your middle name figured out first: Zeal. One of the defining characteristics of your pregnancy was your mother suddenly putting her hand on her stomach or giving a little jump as you moved around. Now, all babies move in the womb if they&#8217;re healthy, but you moved very often and very strongly. Because of this we wanted to give you a name that reflected the passion of your earliest days, and Zeal seemed to fit it perfectly.</p>
<blockquote style="display:inline-block;">
<p>&#8220;My zeal has consumed me,<br/>
&nbsp;&nbsp;Because my enemies have forgotten Your words.&#8221; &#8212; Psalm 119:139</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Now, both your mother and I thought you were going to be a girl, so we hadn&#8217;t picked out a boy first name when you were born. I laughed out loud when you came out (I was right there!) and I saw that you were most definitely <strong>not</strong> a girl, and from now on I can tell you that we&#8217;ll always have both a boy and a girl name selected! In the two days after you were born, your mother and I spent a lot of time with the baby name books, and I came across the name Etan, a variant of Ethan, and loved both the name and the meaning &#8211; &#8220;strong, firm one&#8221;.</p>
<p>When the pieces are put together, the meaning of your name is &#8220;firm, strong passion&#8221;. Lest you think that it&#8217;s all about brute strength, know that in Scripture Ethan the Ezrahite was renowned not for his physical prowess but for his wisdom, said to be second only to Solomon. So I challenge you as you learn to speak and articulate and someday read these words to be a man of strong, passionate ideas; a man who is known for force of reason and not simply for force.</p>
<p>The warning in your names is in the two of them apart. Strength without passion lumbers along and is not touched, but also does not touch the world. Barak was such a man &#8211; strong and mighty, but with so little drive that he refused the privilege of leading the Israelites into battle. On the other hand, passion without strong resolve is flighty and prone to be controlled by the lust of the moment. The so-called &#8220;strongest man&#8221;, Samson, was an example of untempered passion &#8211; so much drive and potential, all wasted because he couldn&#8217;t rein in his lusts.</p>
<p>The promise of your name is in the two parts together: if you will live a passionate life while tempering that passion with strength and endurance, you will be an unstoppable force in whatever you put your hand to. The world needs more strong, passionate men, and I challenge you to grow into your name and to be such a man. Emulate David &#8211; zealous and passionate for God, and yet strong and articulate in his life and worship. Of course there&#8217;s another warning in David: beware wandering on your rooftop when you should be out in the battle.</p>
<p>The fun thing about writing this is that your eldest brother is almost old enough to read his name post for the first time, and it makes me all the more expectant of you reading yours in a few years. I love you, my little Etan Zeal, and I know that by God&#8217;s grace you will grow into your name in ways that I can&#8217;t even guess at now.</p>
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<p>&#8220;The <span class="caps">LORD</span> bless you and keep you;<br/>
&nbsp;&nbsp;The <span class="caps">LORD</span> make His face shine upon you,<br/>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;And be gracious to you;<br/>
&nbsp;&nbsp;The <span class="caps">LORD</span> lift up His countenance upon you,<br/>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;And give you peace.&#8221; &#8212; Numbers 6:24</p>
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<p><em><strong>P.S.</strong> Photography by the amazing Joy of <a href="http://www.joylynphotography.com/">Joy Lyn Photography</a>. She also did our wedding, and we highly recommend her for any fine photography you want to have done!</em></p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Owning the Means of Production]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/07/15/owning-the-means-of-production"/>
    <updated>2009-07-15T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/07/15/owning-the-means-of-production</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Wow, what a great conference <a href="http://futureruby.com">FutureRuby</a> was! A lovingly curated talk schedule, a carefully planned set of parties, and a room full of smart Ruby folks made for one of the best conferences I&#8217;ve been to. If the &#8220;spiritual successor&#8221; to FutureRuby shows up next year (as FutureRuby was the spiritual successor to RubyFringe), you will <strong>not</strong> want to miss it.</p>
<p>I had the privilege of opening up the conference this year, and given the theme of the conference I used it as an opportunity to get philosophical and to encourage everyone to take personal responsibility for their vocation. It&#8217;s been awhile since I wrote out a talk, but I decided to do so again for this and thus I present you with the full text, almost verbatim as it was given:</p>
<h2><a href="http://blog.talbott.ws/articles/2009/7/15/how-capitalism-saves-ruby-from-corporatism">How Capitalism Saves Ruby From Corporatism</a></h2>
<p>Give it a read and let me know what you think. And if you read it and it inspires you to go out and take action, I&#8217;d love to know that, too! I&#8217;m hopeful that a hundred flowers might bloom from this one little seed.</p>
<p><strong>Update:</strong> <a href="http://www.infoq.com/presentations/talbott-capitalism-corporatism">video of the talk is now up on InfoQ</a> with the caveat that the content is 99% the same as the essay.</p>]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[How Capitalism Saves Ruby from Corporatism]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/07/15/how-capitalism-saves-ruby-from-corporatism"/>
    <updated>2009-07-15T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/07/15/how-capitalism-saves-ruby-from-corporatism</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<h1>Or, Owning the Means of Production</h1>
<p><em>This talk was given at <a href="http://futureruby.com">FutureRuby</a> in Toronto, Canada in the summer of 2009.</em></p>
<h2>I. Armed Quarterbacks</h2>
<p>As I&#8217;m sure many of you are, I&#8217;m an amateur student of all things political, fiscal and ideological. I love to hear other&#8217;s views, read about new ideas, and spend time musing with friends over a beer about where this thing we call civilization has come from, where it currently is, and where it might be going. It&#8217;s armchair quarterbacking that &#8211; unlike normal quarterbacking &#8211; is on a subject that really matters. (Sorry sports fans &#8211; you can tackle me at the break.)</p>
<p>Perhaps the reason we engage in this constant debate and search for understanding is that it matters at a fundamental level. There&#8217;s a hard edge to the bantering, because we&#8217;re talking about national and global matters that when we boil them down affect the ultra-local: what happens to our own skin. Our livelihoods, freedom, and perhaps our very lives are at stake, and not only our own, but those of everyone else with whom we share this big blue marble.</p>
<p>So it was with interest and felt need that I dug into the topics of capitalism, corporatism, and just about every other -ism you can think of in preparation for this talk. I&#8217;m just an amateur politico-socio-philosopher and I&#8217;m probably the least educated in the room when it comes to a lot of this stuff. But a wildfire is touched off by a little spark, and since my goal is to start a revolution, I need just a little bit of knowledge to be very, very dangerous.</p>
<p>And speaking of danger, this talk is about a danger to Ruby so sinister, so dark, that many of you would embrace it wholeheartedly even as it gobbled up your passion. So let me spin the tale of Ruby&#8217;s future, and the tale of our future, and see if we can&#8217;t figure out how to keep them both safe while also weaving them together.</p>
<h2>II. Frying Pan, Fire</h2>
<p>I got started with Ruby back in 2001. If you hunt through the ruby-talk archives you can read all my posts from ages gone by, many of them probably somewhat embarrassing &#8211; it&#8217;s sort of like when Mom pulls out the photo album. I jumped into Ruby with both feet because it was exactly what I was looking for: a dynamically typed, interpreted language that wasn&#8217;t Python and wasn&#8217;t a toy. At least, I didn&#8217;t think it was a toy &#8211; I had a lot of trouble convincing those I was working with that I&#8217;d actually get paid to use it someday.</p>
<p>In the early days of Ruby the challenges were simple, and the first one was to scrape together enough people for a conference so we could fly Matz to the states and get to meet him. We managed that in 2001, and I have the t-shirt to prove it. But at that first RubyConf we ran into the next problem: here was this great language we loved using, but only one person in the room was getting paid to code in it. Unless and until we could start getting paid to do Ruby, it was threatened with the monster that eats cool programming languages for breakfast with barely an afterthought: obscurity.</p>
<p>Over the next few years Ruby usage crept up and a few of us, myself included, managed to sneak it in under the radar and get paid to write the occasional app. But it wasn&#8217;t until RubyConf 2004, when this guy from Denmark gave a talk on a web application framework he&#8217;d made, that the demon of obscurity was banished for good and (while we didn&#8217;t know it yet) we hit the big-time. That was Rails, and I was there, and it was cool then, but none of us knew just how popular it was going to end up being.</p>
<p>But with the banishment of obscurity, another specter arose: the giant sucking sound of the corporate vacuum. I call it a vacuum because most large modern-day corporations are ownership machines &#8211; they seek to own and control anything and everything they can. And with the ascendency of Rails those corporations, in the natural course of things, turned their sights on Ruby.</p>
<p>And so we saw the litany of &#8220;Ruby&#8217;s not enterprise&#8221; and &#8220;Ruby needs to have X to be taken seriously&#8221; and &#8220;You can&#8217;t use Ruby for that!&#8221; If that doesn&#8217;t sound like an attempt at ownership you just haven&#8217;t learned that the first step to assimilation is to cut your target down to size. This is important for two reasons: first, it lowers acquisitions costs, and second, if you fail to assimilate you can always marginalize.</p>
<p>Now, I know some of you are about ready to jump out of your chair and berate me for implying that a corporation (or a group of corporations) could &#8220;own&#8221; Ruby. It&#8217;s open source, right? Great point &#8211; they can&#8217;t actually own Ruby. I tricked you &#8211; that&#8217;s not really the threat, and never has been. The real threat is that they&#8217;ll own us &#8211; or already do.</p>
<h2><span class="caps">III</span>. A Sad State</h2>
<p>By way of making my point, back in the 1800&#8217;s a philosopher named Karl Marx &#8211; maybe you&#8217;ve heard of him? &#8211; formulated a set of ideas about the forces governing the course of history. I&#8217;ll tell you up-front that I&#8217;m not a big fan of Marx, as I believe his view of history and his theories are fatally flawed and his conclusions are ridiculous. But of course, I&#8217;m just an amateur, and the Communists can pummel me after the sports fans are done.</p>
<p>That said, two of Marx&#8217;s basic tenets ring true to me: that all material profit derives from labor, and that the ownership of the means of production matters. Trace profit back to its source, and you&#8217;ll find someone hard at work, building something useful, using their time to take something of value N and make it worth N+1. And in most cases a tool is required to add that value, so if you do not own and cannot make the tool, you cannot ply your trade without relying on someone who does or can.</p>
<p>To tie this all together I&#8217;ll ask a simple question: how many of you own the assets created by your labor? Now, I&#8217;m not talking about a paycheck or payment on an invoice, I&#8217;m talking about the actual thing that you create that can be sold and earns income for the owner when bought. I&#8217;d guess very few of you, though perhaps a slightly larger percentage than the general populace.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s where corporations come in: they hire employees to create value that the corporation then owns &#8211; the employees are paid an hourly wage or a salary, and the amount doesn&#8217;t vary much if at all with the actual profit generated by their activities. In the software world we are often creating products that will generate revenue on an ongoing basis with very limited or even no ongoing labor, but we get only the initial payment for our work, none of the ongoing gain.</p>
<p>Why does this matter to the future of Ruby? Very simply, whoever owns the asset also dictates the tools. Or, put another way, if you own no assets, you&#8217;re at the mercy of whatever tools the corporation provides to you. So while no corporation can &#8220;own&#8221; an open source tool like Ruby, they can de facto own the usage of it by dictating to their employees (and even other corporation&#8217;s employees) whether they can use it and what they can and can&#8217;t do with it. And since we&#8217;ve established that most folks don&#8217;t own what they create, we can by extension posit that corporations have de facto control over not just Ruby but anything else we might want to use.</p>
<p>Of course, we could go back to the days of happily using Ruby as a hobbyist language squeezed in between work hours, but that&#8217;s just not enough for me, nor should it be for you. You&#8217;ll spend almost half your waking hours laboring over the course of your life &#8211; why do it using inferior tools, working on projects you&#8217;re not passionate about? More importantly, why spend it building profit for someone else?</p>
<h2>IV. Laying Blame</h2>
<p>In my discussion of corporations so far I&#8217;ve engaged in a bit of a reification fallacy, in that I&#8217;ve attributed to corporations the human traits of intent and even of malice. But it&#8217;s exactly that: a fallacy, and it&#8217;s time to set the record straight. Corporations are just collections of people, and the majority of those people are smart and acting with good intentions. And that goes right to the top: maybe it&#8217;s easier for some folks to hate them if they believe that the CEO&#8217;s and other executives at corporations are evil or stupid, but I just don&#8217;t buy it in general. Although&#8230; Steve Ballmer I might make an exception for. (Microsoft folks, please wait until the break to beat me with your copy of Windows Vista Ultra Home Premium Corporate Professional Accordian Edition.)</p>
<p>But if corporations are just people and those people are in general smart and have good intentions, why do corporations make evil and stupid decisions? Logical fallacies have been written down because we humans have a tendency towards them, and reification is no different. The reason we see corporations, especially large corporations, making stupid and evil decisions is due to a crisis of identity: the participants in the corporation have begun (or long ago completed) the process of seeing the corporation as an entity unto itself for which they do not have direct responsibility.</p>
<p>How many of you have seen the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5YGc4zOqozo">United Song</a>? Definitely look it up after the talk and give it a view &#8211; it&#8217;s hilarious and very, very sad. Here&#8217;s the gist: the artist is sitting with his band on a plane and the lady in front of him says, &#8220;They&#8217;re throwing guitars!&#8221; Sure enough, instruments are flying by on the tarmac, and he later finds that his $3000 Taylor guitar has been smashed in transit. A broken guitar is sad, but what&#8217;s really sad is that no one at United would take responsibility for what had been done: not the ground crew when they were originally loading luggage, not the flight attendants when he flagged them down on the flight, and not the customer service people he talked to afterwards. And why should they? They were just doing a job, they couldn&#8217;t authorize anything, their corporate rules didn&#8217;t require and/or allow them to make it right, etc.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s to blame for this? Is it the government, for chartering corporations in the first place? Making them a legal &#8220;person&#8221; doesn&#8217;t help, but there are plenty of charted corporations that are still humane in their dealings &#8211; Southwest Airlines would be the counterpoint to United. A company like Southwest also puts the lie to size being the instigator &#8211; while size seems to have a heavy correlation with the identity problem, size can&#8217;t be the root factor since there are large companies that are also humane. Does the blame lie at the feet of the executives? Partially, yes, but I don&#8217;t think most executives make de-humanizing decisions on purpose. Quite the opposite is true: most would adamantly and honestly assert that they&#8217;re doing all they can to make their corporations more humane.</p>
<p>The identity crisis of a corporation begins when the decision-makers become separated from the decision executors. When customer service decisions are made by those who don&#8217;t have to service customers, when cost cutting decisions are made by those whose costs aren&#8217;t being cut, when review processes are put in place by those who do not themselves have to be reviewed or at least deal with those so reviewed (iPhone App Store anyone?), and when tool specifications are made by people who don&#8217;t have to use the tools.</p>
<p>This is the threat to Ruby: that we will allow others to make decisions for us about what tools we will or won&#8217;t use &#8211; people who do not themselves use the tools. Even if they let us use Ruby for awhile, or perhaps worse if they mandate the use of Ruby in all cases, what happens when the spiritual successor to Ruby comes along? What happens when Erlang is a better fit for the problem at hand? What if a <span class="caps">BSD</span> server is a better alternative than Linux, or (heaven forbid!) a Windows Server is the best solution for current needs?</p>
<p>But where does the blame really lie? Is it with those who make these decisions, separated from the effects that flow from them? No, because this is not power that is grabbed or coerced, it is power that is abdicated. And it is we who abdicate it.</p>
<h2>V. Ulterior Motives</h2>
<p>I said my goal was to start a rebellion, and here it is: I want each of you to rebel against your natural tendency to abdicate responsibility. You don&#8217;t depend on a factory or massive capital expenditures to earn your livelihood, and you have no excuse not to own the tools of production and the assets created by them. But to own the assets you must also own the responsibility: you must stop abdicating your choices to a &#8220;manager&#8221; or placing all culpability for the results on the &#8220;corporation&#8221;.</p>
<p>Time to put all my cards on the table. I&#8217;ve always had a strong entrepreneurial streak, and back in 2005 I made the jump: I was fed up with bad decisions, and decided to stop abdicating and start owning responsibility and the profits (and losses) that came with it. I started <a href="http://terralien.com">Terralien</a> &#8211; a Ruby on Rails custom design and development shop focused on young businesses &#8211; and began a journey of being actively involved in both the decisions and the effects of those decisions. Using Ruby as our primary tool was one of those choices, and the results have been fantastic.</p>
<p>Then, in 2007 I hit a roadblock with a very corporate entity: PayPal. After sinking weeks and eventually months into subscription billing for a client, I knew there had to be a better way, so I grabbed three smart co-founders and <a href="http://spreedly.com">Spreedly</a> was born. Since then we&#8217;ve been building a business that helps others build businesses, and we couldn&#8217;t be happier about it.</p>
<p>In the meantime, I&#8217;ve become a big fan of the libertarian family of ideas &#8211; the idea that a responsible civilization grows out of responsible individuals, not out of coercive force applied by a monopolistic state. The Libertarian Manifesto, &#8220;For a New Liberty&#8221;, is my primary travel reading on this trip. The conservatives and liberals in the audience &#8211; I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll both find some of my beliefs repugnant &#8211; can have what&#8217;s left of me once the sports fans, communists, and Microsofties are done with me.</p>
<p>What this means is that I have a triple-decker of ulterior motives underlying this talk. First, I want to grow the number of small businesses there are, since Terralien stands to gain from that: our services are focused on the new, the young, and the intentionally small. Second, I want every one of you to start a subscription business, since I know you&#8217;ll quickly discover the pain of subscription and relationship billing &#8211; financial institutions are definitely corporations! &#8211; and hop on the Spreedly bandwagon. And finally, I want to do everything in my power to encourage personal responsibility in all things. If you&#8217;re busy building a business, you won&#8217;t have time to support the coercive state, and will start to find yourself on the wrong side of it on a regular basis, just as all entrepreneurs do.</p>
<h2>VI. Revolutionary Perspective</h2>
<p>The hero of my tale is the stereotypical entrepreneur, and the villain is the stereotypical employee. Does that mean that all entrepreneurs are doing it right and all employees are doing it wrong? Not at all. In Terralien I work with a bevy of sub-contractors who are trading their labor to me for money. As we grow Spreedly, my goal is to hire contractors and employees (depending on which tax structure works best) to help move it forward. So I&#8217;m not saying you&#8217;re dumb to work for a company, nor to sometimes trade your labor for wages.</p>
<p>Let me give you three things you should do, and let the concrete explain the abstract. First, you should be creating an asset &#8211; maybe with a co-founder or two &#8211; for yourself on your own time. You have a computer, you have free tools for writing software, you have available time, and you have zero excuses for not using that power to make something of value for yourself and for those who will pay for it. Cut it out with the delays and get started on it today!</p>
<p>Second, change your perspective on employment. Our parent&#8217;s generation saw being an employee as part of their identity and as an end unto itself &#8211; that&#8217;s ridiculous imperialist thinking. You should see your time at a company as an opportunity to learn while helping those who own the asset create value for their customers &#8211; i.e. a jumping off place for your next venture. Good business is cooperative, and you can cooperatively help other businesses even while plotting your own. And when you are taking a wage, don&#8217;t ever let yourself start reifying the entity you&#8217;re working for, and detach yourself from the results of your work. You write software for nuclear weapons? You own it when they&#8217;re used.</p>
<p>Third, we must explore new models of ownership and find ways to keep those doing the work directly connected to the results of that work &#8211; the profits, the decisions, and the pain. At Terralien I&#8217;m already doing everything in my power to encourage my sub-contractors to create their own businesses, and that keeps them very close to the clients they&#8217;re servicing, since it makes them both entrepreneurs. For Spreedly we also have a cool plan: pay everyone to spend their Friday building a business of their own that sits on top of Spreedly. Our thought is that we don&#8217;t want any &#8220;lifers&#8221; at Spreedly &#8211; we want people who are growing out of employment even while they&#8217;re helping us build the platform.</p>
<p>If we implement these things, the vibrant, passionate future of Ruby will be assured. The people in this room will be making the decisions about what tools to use, and Ruby will be among them. Even better, the people in this room will be making the decisions about what&#8217;s worthwhile to spend time on and what&#8217;s not, and we&#8217;ll have projects, like Rails, Rubinius, Chef, etc., blossom as businesses work cooperatively towards the shared goal of creating value for their customers.</p>
<h2><span class="caps">VII</span>. Hacking Business</h2>
<p>Of course there&#8217;s one really big hurdle standing in your way if you&#8217;re interested in joining the revolution. Most of you, like myself, have no earthly idea how to market, sell, or otherwise run a business. And it is challenging: I&#8217;ve been working at it for a few years and I still feel like a total novice. But I look around me and I see other folks who have done it and I know it&#8217;s achievable and I keep plugging away.</p>
<p>One of my favorite aspects of hacker culture is that it&#8217;s not cool to just sit around and gripe &#8211; we do some of that, sure, but true street cred goes to those who fix problems, not those who simply identify them. There&#8217;s a shared tendency towards do-it-yourself and personal responsibility. So I&#8217;m confident that this lack of business skills can and will be overcome. I&#8217;m also confident that most programmer&#8217;s will make better businesspeople than most MBA&#8217;s.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to discuss with any and all of you &#8211; if I can still talk after everyone I&#8217;ve offended is done with me &#8211; about how to succeed at this thing we call business. If this talk does nothing more than ensure that I get to have interesting discussions all weekend, then I have succeeded in some small part. But I&#8217;ll know I&#8217;ve really succeeded when I start hearing about successful businesses that got their start in July of 2009, right after FutureRuby. And then I&#8217;ll know that the future of Ruby is confidently assured.</p>
<p>If you know how to make something of value &#8211; and everyone here does &#8211; then you have no excuses. Grab your laptop, Ruby, a few friends, and join the revolution. It&#8217;s a wild ride, but the best ones always are.</p>]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[The Lean Startup Primer]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/06/08/the-lean-startup-primer"/>
    <updated>2009-06-08T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/06/08/the-lean-startup-primer</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve decided to jump head-first into offering some training via <a href="http://terralien.com">Terralien</a> with the <a href="http://leanstartupprimer.com?referrer=talbottblog">Lean Startup Primer</a>. For a little more background, <a href="http://terralien.com/blog/articles/2009/06/08/the-lean-startup-primer/">check out the post on the Terralien blog</a>.</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Nathaniel Gets Interviewed]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/02/03/nathaniel-gets-interviewed"/>
    <updated>2009-02-03T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/02/03/nathaniel-gets-interviewed</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>If you like tech talk, you might enjoy the interview I recently did in the lead-up to the <a href="http://www.nfjsone.com/conference/raleigh/2008/02/index.html">RubyRX</a> conference. <a href="http://terralien.com/blog/articles/2009/02/03/a-coffee-shop-chat/">You can watch it over on the Terralien blog</a>.</p>]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Nathaniel at RubyRX]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/01/26/nathaniel-at-rubyrx"/>
    <updated>2009-01-26T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2009/01/26/nathaniel-at-rubyrx</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Are you a Rubyist? Then hop on over to the Terralien blog and find out <a href="http://terralien.com/blog/articles/2009/01/26/why-you-should-be-at-rubyrx/">why you should be at RubyRX</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://nfjsone.com/conference/raleigh/2008/02/index.html"><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/system/RubyRXbanner552x79.jpg" alt="" /></a></p>]]></content>
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  <entry>
    <title type="html"><![CDATA[2008 at the Talbott's]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/12/23/2008-at-the-talbott-s"/>
    <updated>2008-12-23T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/12/23/2008-at-the-talbott-s</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>2008 in the Talbott household managed to be busy without being too hectic, noisy without being overpowering. There was much maturing on all of our parts as we&#8217;re settling in to the routine of a six-person household, and the children are starting to get to the point of helping to clean up messes as well as make them. The highlight of our year was our summer trip to the North Carolina mountains. It was four wonderful weeks of a little work, lots of play, and just generally enjoying each other as a family. <a href="http://blog.talbott.ws/articles/2008/8/6/mountain-retreat">You can read all about it in the write-up Katie did a few months ago</a>.</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2009/1/1/Blog1.JPG" style="float:right; margin-left:1em;" alt="" /></p>
<p>One of the amazing things this year has been watching the kids grow and learn. As their personalities develop and their minds start to understand the world, it&#8217;s great to get their unique perspectives on everyday things. Reuben (5) is the leader of our small pack. He&#8217;s the family&#8217;s living day-timer,  keeping us informed on when it&#8217;s trash day, who&#8217;s turn it is to pray at the noon meal, and if Katie&#8217;s forgotten something he considers important. He&#8217;s begun doing some relaxed schooling this year, memorizing some Scripture and hymns, learning letter sounds and simple mathematics, and various other tidbits that he likes to tell us at the weirdest times. His greatest discoveries are not while bent over a book, though: after a nap one day he told Katie, &#8220;Circles are &#8217;o&#8217;s. I figured it out while I was restin&#8217; today.&#8221;</p>
<p>He&#8217;s also been picking up a lot of theology this year, and loves to share it with his siblings, often while in the car. A recent car conversation went something like this: &#8220;Did you know that baby Jesus came and grew up and then was crucified? But that&#8217;s okay because he was raised from the dead three days later and he is going to come back. I don&#8217;t know when though. I think it&#8217;s going to be a long time&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Anne Marie (almost 4) is becoming quite the little mama to her younger siblings, hugging on them and telling us exactly what she thinks they need. She&#8217;s also started a bit of schooling alongside Reuben, and is learning to write her letters. She&#8217;s decided that &#8220;easy&#8221; letters like &#8220;T&#8221; are fun to write, but a &#8220;hard&#8221; one like &#8220;M&#8221; is enough to bring her to tears.</p>
<p>When Anne Marie&#8217;s not learning she&#8217;s often teaching us some new vocabulary: &#8220;I want to do diarrhea&#8221; was her recent way of telling Katie that she wanted to read a book about ballerina&#8217;s. Katie also heard her exclaim, &#8220;There&#8217;s a thing to blow your hair off!&#8221; upon seeing a hair dryer, and &#8220;Can we eat some pine cones?&#8221; when asking if we could have ice cream cones.</p>
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<p>William (2) has so far been our quiet, content child. He discovered a love for Legos this year, and will often sit for an hour or more just putting them together and pushing them around on the floor. He&#8217;s still very difficult to understand when he tries to talk, but he&#8217;s obviously more interested in learning to talk in the last few months, and has been showing rapid improvement. And even if he has trouble getting out clear words, he can certainly communicate when he wants to &#8211; he&#8217;s got a lot of tenacity when it comes to being understood.</p>
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<p style="clear:left;">Elaine (1) is still &#8220;baby&#8221; to us in some ways, with a sweet personality and a precocious ability to apply it towards charming those around her. In a few years Nathaniel may have to buy a shotgun and use it to keep the boys away, and in the meantime he&#8217;s trying his best to not get too wrapped around her pinkie. Her communication abilities are not far behind William&#8217;s, and she picks up new &#8220;tricks&#8221; at an amazing rate. It&#8217;s probably a survival instinct: she figures she has to be quick or she&#8217;ll get run over!</p>
<p>Katie&#8217;s been learning a lot this year about managing a household with six people, and it&#8217;s been amazing to see the patterns settle down to a comfortable cadence. There&#8217;s of course always laundry to do, but in between loads she manages to get lots of deals off of Craigslist, participate in a local fresh produce co-op, make our home ever more appealing with her decorating skills, and spend lots of quality time with Nathaniel and the kids. She also cranked up her graphic design skills this winter and put together a calendar for the grandparents using an advanced photo editor called &#8220;The Gimp&#8221;. It was a lot of work, but the results were rewarding.</p>
<p><img src="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/assets/2009/1/1/Blog3.JPG" style="float:left;" alt="" /></p>
<p>Nathaniel spent the year continuing to grow <a href="http://terralien.com/">Terralien</a>, his web application development consultancy, taking the lessons learned in 2006 &amp; 2007 and applying them to get a more streamlined process and develop long-term happy clients. His side business <a href="http://spreedly.com/">Spreedly</a> also hit some important milestones, and looks to grow even more next year. He spoke at two programming conferences this year (RubyConf and RailsConf), and also got the chance to preach a few times at church. And, of course, there was much time spent doing daddy things, like tickling kids and chasing them around the house &#8211; both of which he excels at!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard to smoosh a full year into one letter, but we&#8217;ve done our best! As always, you can reach us anytime at katie@talbott.ws and nathaniel@talbott.ws, and follow our latest happenings (when we remember to post them) right here at <a href="http://blog.talbott.ws/">http://blog.talbott.ws/</a>. Now, ya&#8217;ll have a fantastic 2009, m&#8217;kay?</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Keynoting at acts_as_conference!]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/12/17/keynoting-at-acts_as_conference"/>
    <updated>2008-12-17T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/12/17/keynoting-at-acts_as_conference</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p style="float:left;"><img src="http://www.actsasconference.com/images/badge_xl.png" style="border:none;" alt="" /></p>
<p>I feel honored to have been invited to keynote at <a href="http://www.actsasconference.com/">acts_as_conference</a> in sunny Orlando, Florida early next year. I&#8217;ll be there February 6-7 not just giving a talk but also enjoying the vibe of what is sure to be a <strong>fantastic</strong> regional conference. As a big proponent of personal responsibility at all levels I love the conference&#8217;s focus this year on making ourselves ever more relevant by improving our skills and taking charge of our own paths as practitioners. Bad economy or not, it&#8217;s <strong>always</strong> a good time to stay relevant.</p>
<p>I hope to see you there &#8211; <a href="http://www.actsasconference.com/">don&#8217;t miss out on what&#8217;s sure to be an amazing conference</a>!</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Codename MC]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/12/08/codename-mc"/>
    <updated>2008-12-08T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/12/08/codename-mc</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>My company, <a href="http://terralien.com/">Terralien</a>, is building a product of our very own. Come follow along at <a href="http://codenamemc.terralien.com/">Codename MC</a>!</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA["Fear of Programming" at RubyConf 2008]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/12/01/fear-of-programming-at-rubyconf-2008"/>
    <updated>2008-12-01T00:00:00-05:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/12/01/fear-of-programming-at-rubyconf-2008</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>The trek to <a href="http://rubyconf.org/">RubyConf</a> has become something of a yearly milestone for me, as I&#8217;ve been making it now for eight years running, a period that encompasses more than half of my professional life. So far it hasn&#8217;t let me down, either in learning or in meeting interesting people, and this year was no exception.</p>
<p>One of the best and hardest things I do every year is to give a talk, and this year the topic was <a href="http://rubyconf2008.confreaks.com/fear-of-programming.html">Fear of Programming</a>. After getting very positive feedback on my pre-presentation of it at the <a href="http://www.meetup.com/raleighrb/calendar/7849541/">October Raleigh.rb meeting</a> I was pretty excited about giving it to the wider RubyConf crowd. I think the results were fantastic, but you don&#8217;t have to take my word for it &#8211; I was surfing Google for the talk the other day and ran across all kinds of great feedback:</p>
<p><a href="http://martyhaught.com/articles/2008/11/09/rubyconf-2008-thoughts/">Marty Haught</a> (search for &#8220;Fear&#8221;)</p>
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<p>Friday was probably the best day of the conference for me. I really enjoyed Fear of Programming by Nathaniel Talbott and it seemed the audience did as well. There were no slides and Nathaniel did a great job of going over his latest musings on how fear keeps us from being our best when programming. I think we can all relate in some form or another.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.railstation.eu/blog/artikel/rubyconf-update">Peter Dierx</a></p>
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<p>Great session from Nathaniel Talbott.<br />
This session could be applied to everything that people want to excel in, and the fears that come along with it. Here it&#8217;s about programming of course so the audience was asked what they feared about the app. All kinds of answers. Code base in general, deployment, sloppy testing or no tests at all. What about security, or testing your code in different browsers. People were very honest about it.</p>
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<p><a href="http://averyblog.com/rubyrails/rubyconf-2008-day-2/">James Avery</a></p>
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<p>This talk was something I am very familiar with. [&#8230;] It was a very open talk with no slides and lots of audience participation, it was almost like an open space.</p>
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<p><a href="http://blog.arielvalentin.com/2008/11/rubyconf-2008-day-2-fear-of-programming.html">Ariel Valentin</a></p>
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<p>This was a pretty engaging talk. No slides just us.</p>
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<p>The Twitterverse also had some nice things to say:</p>
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<p>So, do I mention this all just to toot my own horn? Well, I&#8217;ll readily admit that it&#8217;s <em>very</em> rewarding to give a well-received talk, and that I&#8217;m enjoying sharing my excitement with you. But my main motivation is simply this: <strong>to get you to listen to and/or watch the talk!</strong> I think it&#8217;s a really important topic, and I want an even wider audience to get exposed to the ideas and questions within so we can make it an ongoing conversation in the community rather than something everyone thinks they struggle with alone.</p>
<p>Are you juiced to check the talk out? There are two spots to experience it: you can <a href="http://rubyconf2008.confreaks.com/fear-of-programming.html">watch and/or listen to the RubyConf version</a> over at Confreaks, and you can also listen to the pre-presentation I did at Raleigh.rb which is available in the <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/raleighrb">Raleigh.rb podcast</a>.</p>
<p>One last teaser: I&#8217;ve been asked to give the talk as a keynote at a conference early next year, and I have some fun ideas for how to make it even better. Watch for that announcement and I hope to see you there in person to continue this conversation!</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Mountain Retreat]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/08/06/mountain-retreat"/>
    <updated>2008-08-06T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/08/06/mountain-retreat</id>
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<p>Hi!  It&#8217;s Katie here.  I have purposed many times to type up a blog post for talbott.ws, and as you can tell, haven&#8217;t in a few years.  Well, now that we are on a nice long &#8220;holiday&#8221; (as our English friends say) I think I have the time.</p>
<p>We rented <a href="http://www.homeaway.com/vacation-rental/p137100">a house in Franklin, NC</a> for a month.  As I type this we are just beginning our 4th and last weeks stay.  Nathaniel has been working 4 day weeks from here and took one week completely off.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been great living in a climate and surroundings similar to the one I grew up in in Oregon.  There&#8217;s been little to no humidity.  The mosquitos only come out in the evening and only eat on you if are tasty (like Nathaniel).  There are hills and trees all around,  and cows, donkeys, and chickens within ear shot. The temperature has averaged in the mid 80&#8217;s. And there&#8217;s clean mountain rivers to swim in.</p>
<p>I think the kid&#8217;s highlight has been the water element.  There is a small stream within walking distance  which we visit often.  We&#8217;ve visited a river and a lake (Thorpe Reservoir) which we did get to swim in.  We also just today filled up a 8 ft. by 18 in. pool that was on clearance at Walmart &#8211; I couldn&#8217;t pass it up &#8211; and the kids have been having a blast in it.  Up to this point our poor kids didn&#8217;t have much experience with water beyond the bathroom tub and rain drops falling overhead.</p>
<p>We have been learning about bee and wasp stings this week.  Reuben got stung 3 times because he was playing too close to a wasp&#8217;s nest, and William was stung today by the bee he was rescuing from the pool.  Sometimes it&#8217;s hard seeing your kids learning life lessons&#8230;</p>
<p>The lesson I&#8217;ve been learning, is how to manage a house  and kids (and serve a husband) without obsessing and stressing over it all. Being here has given me a new perspective. These past weeks on vacation I have had few responsibilities.  I weekly clean the bathrooms and vacuum the house, and feed the family with meals that have been thought through and are mostly prepared.  It&#8217;s been pretty low key.  If I was back home,  I would have wanted to rearrange the furniture weekly, decorated some part of the house, stressed over how messy the toys were, stressed over how I wasn&#8217;t able to do any deep cleaning (like wash window&#8217;s, or dust baseboards &#8211; or just dust for that matter!)  as well as the normal house cleaning and unthought meal preparations.   I think it concerns Nathaniel a bit that I want to keep a house like my grandmother does, but I have 4 kids that she doesn&#8217;t. :-)</p>
<p>The kids have been extremely cute these days.  Elaine (14 months) is now walking like a pro, William (2yrs) is talking in two word &#8220;sentences&#8221; instead of one. A conversation with him recently went like this, &#8220;William, what are you doing?&#8221;  his response &#8220;si si here.&#8221;  (translation &#8211; &#8220;Sit, sit here.&#8221;  or &#8220;I&#8217;m sitting here in the pool on this inner tube.&#8221;)  Reuben (5) has been sounding out words and excitedly telling me what letter they sound with, as well as telling me what time it is.  Anne Marie (3 yrs) is loving pink, hair and clothes.  It&#8217;s a good thing she is a girl because she looks like one (with beautiful natural curly hair), talks like one (&#8220;I want a pink motorcycle when I get big.&#8221;) and acts like one.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been expanding my knowledge of graphics and started using <span class="caps">GIMP</span>  (a shareware Photoshop like program) for digital scrapbooking.  I have been wanting to do digital scrapbooking for over a year now, but they don&#8217;t have many program options for Macs.   It&#8217;s been a slow process, but fun and addicting.  I&#8217;ve been learning a lot and wishing I was single with no responsibilities so I&#8217;d have more spare time to devote to it &#8211; wait a minute&#8230;  if that was the case then I wouldn&#8217;t have any cute subjects to scrapbook about!   And I have been taking too many pictures on this vacation!</p>
<p>Some other fun things that we&#8217;ve done is gem mining.  It&#8217;s a win win situation with those who have small kids.  Dirt &#8211; Water &#8211; Pretty rocks &#8211; It doesn&#8217;t get much better than that.  For the &#8220;small fee&#8221; of $30 we were given a bucket of dirt, sat down by a elevated stream of water and given screens to wash the dirt in.  Did I mention that the kids loved it?  The buckets are &#8220;salted&#8221; with semi precious gems so we got some nice rocks.  Our fish back home should appreciate the new additions to his fish bowl. (And if you all know our obsession with rubies, you will laugh to know that we did get some rubies in our haul.)</p>
<p>There are some beautiful water falls in the area and some great white water rafting that we will have to come back for someday.  I don&#8217;t think our kids could handle the hikes to the falls, and there&#8217;s a 40lb weight limit to the rafting (which none of our kids would meet).  Vacationing with little ones has it&#8217;s limitations&#8230; but then, we have enjoyed just chillin&#8217; on this trip.</p>
<p>Well, that&#8217;s all for now.  If you haven&#8217;t taken a &#8220;holiday&#8221; in a while I highly recommend it!</p>
<p>~ Katie</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[120 Seconds of the Talbotts]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/06/14/120-seconds-of-the-talbotts"/>
    <updated>2008-06-14T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/06/14/120-seconds-of-the-talbotts</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>It might be more than you can stand, but I edited together some footage from our first 12 hours with the <a href="http://theflip.com/">Flip</a>:</p>
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<p>Man those are some cute kids!</p>]]></content>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[Ruby Hoedown!]]></title>
    <link href="http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/06/11/ruby-hoedown"/>
    <updated>2008-06-11T00:00:00-04:00</updated>
    <id>http://talbott-archive.talbott.ws/articles/2008/06/11/ruby-hoedown</id>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I just posted some info about the <a href="http://rubyhoedown.com">Ruby Hoedown</a> over at <a href="http://blog.terralien.com/past/2008/6/11/ruby_hoedown/">the Terralien blog</a>. Hope to see you in Huntsville this year!</p>]]></content>
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