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A grandparent's guide to entertaining kids on a budget

Sharon Wynne — Sat, 02 Jun 2012 10:00:00 +0000

I got an inquiry recently from a reader looking for things to do with his grandson and as I was crafting my answer to him, I got thinking there are probably a lot of folks out there with this same question. So read on for my suggestions and tips on how to search the rich database of information we have in the Things to Do section of TampaBay.com

Hi Sharon
My name is Doug and I live in Massachusetts. I have a daughter in Tampa with a six year old son, and this week she gave birth to a beautiful second boy. My wife and I visit as often as we can, but sadly that is not often enough. We will be coming to Tampa the week ending Fathers Day and as always, I am looking for fun and "budget" things and places to go with my eldest grandson. ... I have taken my grandson to the train in Largo, and we visit one of the ballparks, usually to see the Phillies.
Always looking for value and kid friendly things that do not involve sitting in front of the television.
Thanks
Doug

Well first of all big cheers to such wonderful grandparents! Those kids are so lucky to have you, Doug, and there's something just so touching and special about time spent with grandparents. You asked the right person this question because in addition to blogging here, the rest of my day is spent on our Things to Do team, where we cover this kind of thing as a beat. Read on for tips on how to search our database and some links to some popular stories we have run along these lines:

The search box
You can search our database using a keyword or date range. Go to the Things to Do homepage here. You'll see a search box on top that has five different boxes labled Keyword (search by keyword such as "Father's Day") Categories (this lets you search for music or in your case Family or Kid-Friendly as a category) City (If you want to stick close to home, just type in Tampa with Kid-Friendly as a category) and finally the most useful search for someone like you coming here during a set period of time, the From and To boxes. Click on From for the date you get here and then To for the date you leave and then GO to get all the events that will be happening while you are here.

Since you told me when you are coming, I put in a search for June 11-17 and got this result. Once you have hit the GO button on the date range, you can narrow your search further. You'll notice on the lefthand side of the page you can clilck on "$5 or under" or "Free" to find the most budget-friendly events.

Some recent stories
Our writers on the TTD team (that's the Things to Do crew) are always coming up budget-friendly ideas. Check out this roundup of 20 Things You Can Do for $5. One of our favorites on that list is the St. Petersburg Pier Bait House. You can buy a bucket of five bait fish for $5 to feed the pelicans by hand. The kids will squeal as they hand over the slimy fish to the docile birds. It's a hoot.

And here's a roundup of Every Free Event we have in the system right now. One of our favorites is the free planetarium shows at the St. Petersburg College observatory. Director Craig Joseph is a great speaker and really gets the audience excited about the stars during his indoor sky theater show, then you go on the roof and look through their powerful telescopes.

The beach is free, or nearly so. Here's our roundup of all the kid-friendly beaches in the area and why we like them so much. If the beach isn't your scene, how about fishing? We have a round up all the great fishing piers in the area, from the Skyway Bridge to Clearwater's famous Pier 60.

There are lots of spraygrounds in the area that let the kids keep cool on these hot summer days and most of them are free. Check out our list of them here. Some of our favorites include the fountains at Tampa's Curtis Hixon Park and the fabulous Dell Holmes Park in St. Pete.

How about some cheap(er) theme parks? Go second-tier and cheesy like Gatorland or Dinosaur World -- both of which have expanded this year and both are hugely entertaining for little ones. I mean, who doesn't like to hear the chomp of an alligator's jaws after tossing a turkey dog into a pit of them? Or take advantage of some of the Florida resident discounts at the big theme parks that we've listed here.

You mentioned taking your grandson to the Phillies game. The minor league teams in the bay area have very affordable ticket prices, often in the $5 range and many have special promotions such as kids eat free on some nights or $1 night where drinks and hot dogs are all just a buck. Here are links to the Threshers (the affiliate to your beloved Phillies), the Tampa Yankees, the Blue Jays, and the Lakeland Tigers. On all their sites, click on Schedule and then click on Promotions to find deals such as a free fireworks show after the game or kid specials.

I hope this helps as you bask in the glow of being a grandfather. It's as close to being a rock star as many of us will ever get. And happy Father's Day to you!

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

From Disney to dinos, here's what's new at the theme parks this year

Sharon Wynne — Fri, 01 Jun 2012 10:00:00 +0000

We have been working hard over on the Things to Do team crafting this year's theme park guide. Every year about this time we take a look around at what's new at all the parks and attractions and once again, there's a lot. From a major Fantasyland remodel coming to Disney to a new parade, lagoon show and Despicable Me themed ride at Universal. Plus there's lots going on at the local attractions to, from Dinosaur World's expansion to the Mummies exibit at MOSI.

Check out the whole package here (And make sure you watch the video of our colleague Susan Thurston screaming as she rides the nation's first zip line roller coaster. It's hilarious)

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free and cheap things to do with the kids this week

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 31 May 2012 10:12:00 +0000

We've got a once-in-a-life astronomy event, as well as fun art shows and a free beach party returns to Treasure Island this week. Read on for more free and cheap things to do with your kids.

Astronomy buffs are buzzing about the Transit of Venus, one of the rarest astronomical phenomena, coming Tuesday when Venus slips between the Earth and the sun, appearing like a distinct black dot crossing the sun as it sets. There are viewings planned around the bay area, with solar shields affixed to telescopes lest we burn our retinas (don’t try to look at the sun with the naked eye). The event comes with a historical tale: Scientists in 1761 and 1769 fanned the globe to use Venus and relatively simple math to calculate the distance from the Earth to the sun. You can see what they saw from 6 to 8 p.m. Tuesday at free watch parties at St. Petersburg College, 6605 Fifth Ave. N, St. Petersburg; on the deck of the Old Snack Shack, 15102 Gulf Blvd., Madeira Beach; and on the roof of the Richard A. Beard parking garage at USF’s Tampa campus, 4202 E Fowler Ave. (There’s also a viewing at MOSI’s planetarium in Tampa, but it’ll cost $20.) You better catch it this time around because it won’t do it again until December 2117. If the weather is a washout, you can watch the transit through NASA’s live remote webcast from atop Mauna Kea, Hawaii. Visit sunearthday.nasa.gov/transitofvenus.

The artists collective known as ArtOn Central brings ArtOn the Bay, an outdoor waterfront festival with mixed media artwork by up to 50 artists, children’s activities, food and live music by Fowlers Bluff and Cosmic Chameleon. It starts at 10:30 a.m. Saturday on the grounds of the St. Petersburg Museum of History, 335 Second Ave. NE, St. Petersburg. Free.

The annual Pinellas Pepper Fest for fire eaters brings the heat Saturday and Sunday at Pinellas Park’s England Brothers Bandshell Park. There will also be live music, family fun, pepper plants for sale, pepper-related items, crafts, barbecue, a jalapeno pepper eating contest (Saturday), a food fight (1 p.m. both days) and a spicy lolly lick-a-thon (Sunday). It runs 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Saturday and 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. Sunday. $2 admission, 12 and younger free.

The biweekly Saturday Sunsets on the Trail, a Treasure Island summer party, returns at 1 p.m. Saturday with vendors lining about 1 mile of the beachfront trail along with street performers, water slides and various inflatables for the kids near the Bilmar Beach Resort, 10650 Gulf Blvd., Treasure Island. There will be live music by Paul Anthony (1-4 p.m.) and Rendezvous (5-8:30 p.m.). It’s free; park on the beach for $5 at 112th Avenue and Gulf Boulevard.

Join a Largo ranger for Stories in the Park. Take a hike in McGough Nature Park and listen to some stories, with snacks for kids. It starts at 10:30 a.m. Saturday at 11901 146th St. N, Largo. $3 per family.

Kids love the surreal and Breakfast with Dali for Families is the monthly docent-led tours that introduces Salvador Dali and the Dali Museum to families with children. The interactive tour highlights Dali paintings and other works that appeal to children. A Spanish-themed breakfast buffet and hands-on activities follow the tour. $21, $10 ages 6-12; $10, $5 ages 6-12 members. Dali Museum, One Dali Blvd. (Bayshore Drive SE and Fifth Avenue SE), St. Petersburg. (727) 823-3767. 9:30-11:30 a.m. Saturday.

More than 100 skiers ages 6 to 60 perform a theatrical Water Ski Show similar to those seen at Cypress Gardens. This week features a Wild West Show that includes barefoot, jump, ballet, adagio and pyramid acts. Free. Tower Lake, 130 Burbank Road, Oldsmar. (727) 480-9365. 6 p.m. Saturday.

Kick off summer with a Free Pool Party. A public pool party with free food and drinks, games, raffles and open slides and kiddie pools. Free. Shore Acres Recreation Center and Pool, 4142 Shore Acres Blvd. NE, St. Petersburg. (727) 688-7761. 4-6:30 p.m. Saturday.

The Friends of the Library Book Sale is a two-day book sale with thousands of used hardcover, soft cover and children’s books donated by library patrons. Prices will be reduced on the second day of the sale. St. Petersburg North Branch Library, 861 70th Ave. N, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7214. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Friday, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Sat. Also being held at Mirror Lake Library, 280 Fifth St. N, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7268. 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Saturday.

Check out the Kids Fishing Derby, a session of free fishing for children ages 5 to 16. Parents must be available to sign a waiver, help children bait their lines, cast their poles and take fish off the hooks. Free. R.E. Olds Park, 107 Shore Drive W, Oldsmar. (813) 749-1273. 8 a.m. Saturday.

Families are encouraged to learn about how kites are used all over the world by making a kite and learning how they fly. $15, $12.50 military/seniors, $9.50 children, under 1 free. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. today-Friday, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Saturday, 1-6 p.m. Sunday.

More family friendly events

Midnite Madness
This night strictly for teens and tweens includes an outdoor laser tag arena, extreme inflatables, game raids, mini skate park jams and snack buffets. $15 advance, $20 day of. Martin Luther King Jr. Recreation Center, 550 Laura Lane, Dunedin. (727) 738-2920. 7 p.m. Friday.
Miniature Train Rides
Kids can ride the miniature trains of Largo Central Railroad. Free (donations for train maintenance appreciated). Largo Central Railroad, 105 Central Park Drive, Largo. (727) 587-6775. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday-Sunday.
Pioneer Nights
An afternoon of old-time fun ends with an evening around the campfire with s’mores. Best for ages 7 to 13. $25 (registration required). Boyd Hill Nature Preserve, 1101 Country Club Way S, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7326. 2-9 p.m. Saturday.
Planetarium Shows
Families with children ages 5 and older are invited to the “star theater” that can accurately simulate the night sky at any time or location on Earth. The theme for the current show is “Stars of Summer” and runs through July 20. Telescope viewings from the rooftop observatory after the shows. Free. St. Petersburg College, 6605 Fifth Ave. N, St. Petersburg. (727) 341-4320. 7 and 8:15 p.m. Friday.
Saturdays at the Morean
Free art experiences designed for families with children ages 5-10. Instructors will be on hand to assist. Free. Morean Arts Center, 719 Central Ave., St. Petersburg. (727) 822-7872. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday.
Sunflower Maze
Follow the paths cut into a 5-acre patch of 8- to 10-foot sunflowers. You’ll also find hay rides, a rubber duck race, tree house explorations, veggie cannon firings, petting farm, story telling, pig races, crafts and a picnic area. Anyone under 18 must be accompanied by an adult. $8.50, $4.50 age 3-11, 2 and younger free (cash only). Sweetfields Farm, 17250 Benes Roush Road, Masaryktown. (352) 279-0977. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday-Sunday.
Target Tuesday
Everyone gets in for $2 from 2 to 7 p.m. Tuesday, presented by Target. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861.
There’s A Monster Under My Bed
A week of monster-themed story times, crafts and slime making. $15, $12.50 military/seniors, $9.50 children, under 1 free. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday-June10.
YMCA Kids Fishing Challenge
Kids fish in 45-minute periods at 8:30, 9:30, 10:30 and 11:30 a.m. Prizes awarded. Includes tournament entry, fishing rod and reel, tackle and tackle box, bait, T-shirt, lunch, crafts, raffle ticket and activities. Non-angler entry includes lunch, T-shirt, crafts, raffle ticket and activities. Proceeds benefit the Greater Palm Harbor YMCA People Helping People Financial Assistance Program. $15, $10 non-angler. Wall Springs Park, 3725 De Soto Blvd., Palm Harbor. (727) 787-9622. 8 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday.
Frankenstein
Childlike in his innocence but grotesque in form, Frankenstein comes to life onscreen through this multicast of the live play performed in London’s National Theatre. $15. Park Place Stadium 16, 7200 U.S. 19 North, Pinellas Park. (727) 525-7777. Also at Woodland Square 20 in Oldsmar and Regency 20 in Brandon. 7 p.m. Wednesday.
Music and Movies in the Park
This week features the 1986 comedy classic Ferris Bueller’s Day Off with music by Lance Lubin and the Clearwater Bluegrass Review before the screening. Bring a picnic and enjoy the water view. Music starts at 7 p.m., and the film starts at dark. Free. North Straub Park, Fifth Avenue NE and Bayshore Drive, St. Petersburg. (727) 463-4612. 7 p.m. today (Thursday)
Sunset Cinema at Pier 60
Bring blankets, low lawn chairs or towels to plop on Clearwater Beach and watch free movies. Friday features Oceans, rated G, and Saturday features War Horse, rated PG-13. No alcohol. Pier 60, Clearwater Beach. (727) 434-6060. Shows start at dusk.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne,
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Are we there yet? A guide to the family road trip

Sharon Wynne — Wed, 30 May 2012 10:00:00 +0000

Our colleague Janet Keeler has written a good guide here to getting through a family road trip with your sanity intact. In addition it was paired with this intriguing list of suggestions for a family friendly destination.

Most of us have only seen a small fraction of the United States, Janet writes, a treasure chest of vacation possibilities. According to a Hotwire/Harris Interactive survey, 72 percent of adults haven't visited the Alamo, the site of an important battle in the Texas revolution against Mexico. And another 65 percent or so haven't visited the Grand Canyon, the Statue of Liberty or the Golden Gate Bridge. The White House? More than half haven't seen where the president lives.

So there are plenty of places to go. The real issue — besides discretionary funds — is what to do in the car. Or how to keep the peace. Some ideas:

Electronics: We can have a debate about whether it's good to let kids tune the world out with their many devices and don't interact with the rest of the family or notice what's going on outside. Check equipment and batteries before you leave home. Perhaps you can use the travel time to get the kids to teach you to use your smartphone or iPad.

Movies: Redbox movie rentals can be returned anywhere, including another state. We watched Avatar last summer from a rental we picked up in North Carolina and returned it to a storefront in St. Petersburg. You can even get an app for your phone that shows where the nearest Redbox kiosk is.

Snacks Bring them. Drinks, too. It's more economical to pack fruit and other goodies than to stop every time someone's stomach grumbles. Watch the salty snacks, which will make them thirsty and require more bathroom stops. And about those bathroom stops, don't make them feel guilty when they have to go. Take a deep breath and pull over . . . for the fifth time.

Comfort It's not just little guys who can use a blankie or favorite stuffed animal. Let everyone bring something to calm the savage breast. A favorite pillow or soft blanket doesn't take up too much room. Let them travel in their slippers or stocking feet (just make sure they can get to real shoes for stops). If your car is really too small for a long journey, consider renting one. That's still cheaper than flying. Bring a first-aid kit.

Student collapses from asthma attack because school form isn't signed

Sharon Wynne — Tue, 29 May 2012 15:09:53 +0000

You may have missed this news in the long holiday weekend, but last week a school nurse in Deltona, near Orlando, made headlines when she allowed a student to collapse in an asthma attack because his medical form allowing him to use his inhaler wasn't signed. What bothers me is that the school district seemed to go out of its way to stand by the nurse. I could forgive a nurse for panicking and reverting to her training but I just don't understand a school system not saying something along the lines of, "Of course a child's life is more important than our rules." The 17-year-old had a prescription inhaler with his name on it and she let him collapse because of no paperwork?

According to the story, school leaders called Sue Rudi when her son started having trouble breathing. She rushed to the office and was taken back to the nurse's office by school administrators and they discovered the teen on the floor. "As soon as we opened up the door, we saw my son collapsing against the wall on the floor of the nurse's office while she was standing in the window of the locked door looking down at my son, who was in full-blown asthma attack," Rudi said.

The mother has said in subsequent stories that she did send in his paperwork and has a copy of the fax from the doctor's office, so it could be the paper was lost. Even so, even if she had, after 12 years, forgotten this year to send in the form, is it really defendable to say it's the mother's fault? As you can probably guess the family has hired a lawyer, and started a petition. Their point is this could happen to anyone because it is state law that officals cannot administer medication without the proper paperwork. Their lawyer says the law needs to change.

I thought this blog had a good question, we have rules in place for a reason but how can we re-authorize people to use common sense?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Coming this summer: zip line, bumper boats and more

Sharon Wynne — Fri, 25 May 2012 10:00:00 +0000

With Memorial Day rolling up as the official start of summer, all this week we will look at what's new in the area's theme parks and attractions. Here's what some of Tampa Bay’s non-theme park attractions are also rolling out this summer:

MOSI The Tampa science museum landed a gem by getting the Mummies of the World exhibit to make Tampa its only Florida stop. And this summer MOSI will add a new state-of-the-art zip line as an outdoor feature. The mummies exhibit, running now through Labor Day, is the largest collection of human and animal mummies ever assembled. There are some 150 specimens and objects from around the globe from more than 20 museums. Through modern science and engaging interactive and multi-media exhibits, the exhibition reveals how the scientific study of mummies provides a window into the lives of ancient people.

MOSI is also bringing out a new zip line this summer that will take riders from launches that rise up to 50 feet from the ground and zip over MOSI’s Kids In Charge! building to another tower more than a football field away. They then turn around and do it all over again for the return trip. It will be located next to the Ropes Course that debuted last year.
Admission is $18.95, $16.95 seniors, $12.95 child ages 2-12; $5 additional each for MOSI exhibits or IMAX, 4801 E Fowler Ave., Tampa.

Lowry Park Zoo This summer the zoo will be opening a ride called Outback Bumper Boats in Wallaroo. It is replacing the Wool Shed playground which was 10 years old. They hope to have it open by the end of June. Also, the zoo’s animal trainers are working with beautiful young macaws and training the brilliant red and blue birds to fly to designated locations within the zoo, so keep an eye out for them. The zoo, 1101 W Sligh Ave., Tampa, is $23.96, $21.95 seniors, $18.95 children 3-11.

Great Explorations The interactive children’s museum in St. Petersburg is rolling out a new Great Beginnings exhibit in mid-June aimed at kids age 1 to 4. Part of the area has a farm theme, where kids can pick vegetables and sort and categorize them with numbers and letters, play “veggie music” with drums and tambourines shaped like produce and a dress-up area with farm costumes. There will also be a beach area, where kids can play in pretend sand and climb on like turtles and giant crabs. Also coming for the youngest visitors is a ball pit and large foam blocks for building and stacking. The museum is free for children under 2, $10 for 2-54 years, $9 for ages 55 and up at 1925 Fourth St. N.

Dinosaur World Plant City’s dinosaur-themed park opened a 12-acre expansion this spring that includes a new museum, gift shop, playground area and lifelike dinosaurs that move. The nearly $4 million project is the largest ever for the 13-year-old park founded by Swedish businessman Christer Svennson. Visitors who enjoyed the Florida kitsch experience before have considerably more to try out. The park kept the 1-mile dinosaur walk through lush Florida landscape but revamped everything else, from the parking lot to the fossil dig. There’s now a grassy courtyard with 25-foot-tall dinosaurs, two playgrounds and a covered picnic area with more than 20 tables. It upped ticket prices about $2, to $14.95 for adults, $11.95 for children 3 to 12 and $12.95 for seniors. Dinosaur World is open from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. daily. Parking is free. Pets on leashes are welcome. 5145 Harvey Tew Road, Plant City; (813) 717-9865; dinosaurworld.com.

Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free and cheap things to do with the kids this week

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 24 May 2012 10:12:00 +0000

We've got sandwich wars and Safari Nights, as well as a European-style circus and lots of free concerts and even fireworks for Memorial Day weekend. Check out our weekly guide to getting out of the house without going into debt:

There’s been a lot of smack talk lately between Tampa and Miami over who owns the “true” Cuban sandwich. Maybe Saturday’s Cuban Sandwich Festival will put the feud between slices of crusty bread to settle it. Celebrate Tampa’s Cuban history in Ybor’s Centennial Park with a day of food, upbeat music, a kids fun zone and friendly competition to find the best Cuban sandwich in the bay area. Among the entries to the competition are Tampa’s Alessi Bakery, Mata Monchies, Mr. Empanada, La Teresita, Stone Soup Company, Gaspar’s Grotto and more. And there is one brave South Florida entry: Hialeah’s Cuban Guys. Will Miami’s sandwich (sans salami) win this sandwich smackdown? It runs from 10:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. in Centennial Park, 1800 E Eighth Ave., Tampa. (Meanwhile, we eagerly await a throwdown over which city owns those tasty deviled crabs.)

Lowry Park Zoo’s summer series Summer Safari Night at the Zoo features free rides after 5 p.m. and special animal encounters. Now, we should warn you that nightlife at the zoo isn’t exactly like what you might have gathered by watching Kevin James in 2011’s Zookeeper. For example, the monkeys can’t pick locks (not well, anyway). The lion and his mate aren’t having relationship problems. But the park’s gorilla does sound exactly like Nick Nolte and would really order 30 oranges if you took him to T.G.I Fridays.
Here are our three favorite animal quotes from Zookeeper that you can use to impress (or possibly annoy) the actual zookeepers at Lowry Park.
1. “I may have crushed an ostrich getting here.”
2. “Throw poop at her. That always works.”
3. “Lather, rinse, repeat.”
Admission is $23.95, $21.95 seniors, $18.95 ages 3-11, 2 and younger free. Lowry Park Zoo, 1101 W Sligh Ave., Tampa. (813) 935-8552. 5-8 p.m. Saturday.

The fourth annual Memorial Day weekend beach concert Bands on the Sand is a weekend of family events including arts and crafts vendors, food and drink concessions and live music from some of the area’s best. The lineup includes Cope, Steve Arvey Horn Band, Funky Seeds, Have Gun Will Travel, Human Condition, Sunza Beaches, Sarah Mac Band, Hubb Tones, Sound Parlor, Jubal’s Kin, the Exchange and Shoeless Soul. The party runs noon to 9 p.m. Saturday (with a fireworks finale at 8:50 p.m.) and Sunday. Free on the beach at 104th Avenue and Gulf Boulevard, T

Screen on the Green is a new downtown Tampa movie series set in Curtis Hixon Park that kicks off this month with Kung Fu Panda 2, which has the voices of Jack Black, Angelina Jolie and Jackie Chan. Bring blankets, low-back chairs and a picnic. The fountains will be on for children to splash around in. Dogs on leashes are allowed. Kahwa Coffee will be selling iced and hot coffee products and sweets. Popcorn, candy and food trucks will also be available on site. The movie will start about 8 p.m. Friday at the park, 600 N Ashley Drive, Tampa.

The family-friendly street celebration Blast Friday features entertainment, unique vendors, fun foods, family activities and contests. This month features music by the Edgar Winter Band, the legendary band that created such classic hits as Frankenstein and Free Ride. It’s free in the 400 block of Cleveland Street in Clearwater starting at 5:30 p.m. Friday.

Tickets are only $10 and kids get in free to see the Circus Florida Festival running through Sunday at the Florida State Fairgrounds. With European style performances, pony rides, a petting zoo, children’s attractions, pig racing and live music. Gates open at 5:30 p.m. today and Friday with the circus show at 7:30 p.m. Gates open at noon Saturday and Sunday with circus shows at 2 and 7:30 p.m. Gates open at noon Monday with circus shows at 2 and 6 p.m. $10, $18 box seats, 10 and younger free. Florida State Fairgrounds, 4802 U.S. 301 N, Tampa. (941) 747-1975.

The Corey Avenue area of St. Pete Beach will have a Fourth Friday Food Truck Festival, a street festival that brings a lineup of food trucks, accompanied by live music by the Joel and Dakota Band, and local merchants open late. It starts at 5:30 p.m. Friday.

Other family events this week:
Fee-Fi-Fo-Fum!
A theatrical performance of Jack and the Beanstalk by Play’ N Around Theater. $15, $12.50 military/seniors, $9.50 children, under 1 free. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. 11 a.m. Saturday.
Once Upon a Time
This week-long program is all about the magical world of fairy tales. The museum welcomes families to create their own fairy tales, make a puppet, and take part in a fairytale fitness activity. $15, $12.50 military/seniors, $9.50 children, under 1 free. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. today, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Friday, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Saturday, 1-6 p.m. Sunday. Also, Let’s Go Fly a Kite starts the new week with kite flying activities. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday-Wednesday.
Parent’s Night Out: Kid’s Night Outside
Mom and Dad can go out on a date while kids in grades K-5 are entertained with supervised night hikes, crafts and a campfire with S’mores. $15. Boyd Hill Nature Preserve, 1101 Country Club Way S, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7326. 6-10 p.m. Friday.
Safety Day
The Pinellas County Sheriff’s Office will present a safety and educational session for kids and parents. Free child fingerprinting and ID card copy, educational material and safety pen. GattiTown, 1560 N McMullen Booth Road, Suite G, Clearwater. (727) 753-9982. 11 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Saturday.
Sunflower Maze
Follow the paths cut into a 5-acre patch of eight to 10-foot sunflowers. Also hay rides, a rubber duck race, tree house explorations, veggie cannon firings, petting farm, story telling, pig races, crafts and a picnic area. Anyone under 18 must be accompanied by an adult. $8.50, $4.50 age 3-11, two and younger free (Cash only). Sweetfields Farm, 17250 Benes Roush Road, Masaryktown. (352) 279-0977. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday-Sunday.
Sunshine Sunday
The museum is opening its doors early for families with kids with special needs. The lights and sounds are turned down and there will be special resources. Advanced registration required at glazermuseum.org/events/sunshine-sunday. $5, members free. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. 10 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Sunday.
The Bumbles and the Honey Bees
The popular children’s entertainment group will sing, tell stories and offer face painting to benefit Brandon Florida Help Portrait. Wally and Bobby Bumble will be available for autographs. $10 children, $5 adults. Embassy Suites Tampa Brandon, 10220 Palm River Road, Tampa. (813) 662-7555. 12:30 p.m. Saturday.
Wee-time at Weedon
This portion features Judy Allen and Tudor Humphries book, Are You a Dragonfly? Includes crafts, and games. Best for ages 3-5. Free (registration required). Weedon Island Preserve, 1800 Weedon Drive NE, St. Petersburg. (727) 453-6500. 10:30-11:15 a.m. today.
Young Anglers Fishing Tournament
Annual fishing contest with prizes for anglers 15 and younger. Winners from each of the three age groups (5 and younger, 6 to 10 and 11 to 15) receive a rod and reel combo, trophy and additional prizes. All registered anglers get a tournament T-shirt, bait bucket with shrimp, a bag filled with fishing goodies, lunch and a raffle ticket for additional prizes. Also face painting, kids games and activities. $15 ages 5 and younger; $25 ages 6 to 15. Hubbard’s Marina and the Friendly Fisherman Restaurant, 170 John’s Pass Boardwalk, Madeira Beach. (727) 393-1947. 7 a.m.-2 p.m. Saturday.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Young race car driver dies

Sharon Wynne — Wed, 23 May 2012 17:19:36 +0000

UPDATE: Youth race car driver Tyler Morr, 12, who lived in Arcadia, has died.

On news of a 12 year old critically injured in a stock car race, parents are defending their choice to let kids as young as 5 get behind the wheel of a racecar. As our colleagues Laura C. Morel and Lane DeGregory report here, driver Tyler Morr, 12, had been traveling about 40 mph along the oval in Winter Haven Saturday night when his No. 17 black stock race car crumpled against the wall, just past the second turn in the track. Monday night, Morr, who lives in Arcadia, was in critical condition at All Children's Hospital in St. Petersburg.

Parents of other youth race car drivers seemed eager to defend the growing sport, even as they acknowledged the risks.

"Naturally, when my boys' father talked to them about racing, I was scared to death," said Charlene Lively, 35, whose 13- and 15-year-old sons have been driving for eight years. "But I went to the training facility, I saw all the safety devices they would wear, and I kind of relaxed.

"I don't think it's any more dangerous than any other sport," added Lively, a stay-home mom who lives in Riverview. "Football, to me, is much more dangerous."

As they report in TampaBay.com, youth car racing began in the 1930s, with quarter-midget cars — basically go-karts with roll bars. The vehicles, which have lawnmower engines, run around a quarter-mile track. In Florida, kids can start racing before they start kindergarten.

"We have 5-year-olds that run to speeds of 40 mph here," said J.R. Garcia, who runs the Ambassador Racing School in Wimauma. "Our 10-year-old drivers have been driving for five years."

At Garcia's racing school, instructors start kids in cars that can be shut off remotely. Soon, the youths are racing alongside their instructors. After a couple of months of instruction and practice, the young drivers are ready to race.

Is this any more reckless than letting a kid strap on a football helmet or knock a soccer ball into a goal with head?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Kid afraid of rollercoasters? Here's some tips

Sharon Wynne — Wed, 23 May 2012 10:00:00 +0000

We've got Memorial Day weekend coming up, the unofficial start of summer. So the next few days on this blog we will be looking at what's new this year at theme parks and attractions that you might want to check out with your kids.

And for parents hoping that this is the year their child musters the courage to take that first roller coaster adventure, it’s a tough call: Do you encourage, bribe or shame the kids into facing their fears? Or do you let them decide for themselves?

Legoland in Winter Haven sent out an interesting guide they’ve come up with to help families deal with veloxrotaphobia, or fear of roller coasters.

The park asked psychologist and author Dr. Susan Bartell to offer some suggestions. To make that first plunge a positive experience for the entire family, Bartell says, there are a host of mistakes parents commonly make.

“Dismissing a child’s fear, comparing them to a sibling or friend, bribing them with gifts and money, or labeling a child with a negative name based on their reluctance won’t make them any braver,” says Bartell. “In fact those strategies often cause greater anxiety, and resentment and make them more reluctant, not to mention ruin what should be a great day for the family.”

Here’s her suggestions on how to manage a melt-down and celebrate at the end of the day:

Before your trip
• Learn online: Young children (especially those who are anxious), don’t like surprises. Visit the park’s website with your child and look at the different attractions, discussing how much fun each one will be.
• Tell a story: Talk to your child about fun roller coaster experiences that you and other people had when they were kids. Be as animated, silly and positive as possible.

When you get to the park
• Focus on fun: As you arrive, review the park map and point out all the fun attractions, not just the roller coasters.
•Take it slow: Invite your child to pick which attractions she most wants to experience. If she is reluctant to try the roller coasters, begin with at least a couple of her choices.

During the day
• Watch and learn: When some people in your party are eager to try a roller coaster, don’t split up. Rather, watch the roller coaster ride with your reluctant child, all the time commenting excitedly about how much fun it looks and how happy and excited kids are as they come off the ride. Point out that kids coming off the ride do not look scared and are not crying.
•Nervous is normal: Explain that while riding a roller coaster, it is normal to feel a little nervous, scream, close your eyes and squeeze someone’s hand – in fact, it is part of the fun. Explain that feeling a bit nervous doesn’t mean you are too scared to go on the roller coaster.
At the end of the day
• No regrets: If your child expresses regret that he didn’t try the roller coaster, don’t make him feel bad. Now that the day is over, it’s easy for him to “be brave.” Instead, remind him there is always a next time, and that he should focus on the rides he enjoyed and the fun that was had by all.

The park will be handing our her advice in the form of fliers and online, and the staff has been trained as well.

—Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Would you let your kid play football?

Sharon Wynne — Tue, 22 May 2012 10:00:00 +0000

I have to admit, I'm kind of glad my kid broke his arm.

After years of playing flag football, he'd been begging me to let him play "real" football with tackling and pads and helmets. I finally relented when he was 12 and wanted to play in a city league. But then, just a couple weeks in, he broke his arm trying to catch his fall off a tackling dummy. It took him out for the season and I was quietly gleeful because he'd experienced the worst of football -- practice in 98-degree weather every night for hours. He was sore every night and the fun part hadn't started yet. They had only just started the tackling drills when he broke his arm.

So now that it's been all over the news how damaging football turns out to be for the players who suffer multiple concussions, I'm starting to feel like a real hypocrite because I love to watch football but I don't want anyone I love to play it. Former Cardinals quarterback Kurt Warner has said he doesn't want his kids to play football, either.

Lawsuits were filed last week in the names of former Bucs Brad Culpepper and Charley Hannah. Scot Brantley, Randy Grimes and Ervin Randle already are attached to suits.

"It was a different culture," Culpepper, 43, said. "You were expected to go back in. As they determine concussions today, I'd say 95 percent, maybe 97 percent, of players have had concussion symptoms.

"Were we given full awareness of the dangers? No. Would it have changed anything? I don't know."

So knowing what we know now about head injuries, would you think twice about letting your kid play football?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

We found ticket deals for theme parks, attractions

Sharon Wynne — Mon, 21 May 2012 19:05:30 +0000

With Memorial Day weekend upon us, we took a look at the deals you can get, particularly the ones offered only to Florida residents. You'll notice Disney is absent from this list but that's because time has run our on their "Wild for 3" of three days in its theme parks for $99. The tickets must be purchased by today (May 21) and used by May 24.

Still, there's lots of other theme parks offering deals this year. And being a Florida resident gets you a price break at most attractions if you jump on the Internet early and use your tickets before the height of vacation season. Here's some of the best:

Tots rule: SeaWorld and Busch Gardens this year raised the age on the free Preschool Pass for Florida residents ages 5 and younger, but the deadline is coming up. Register online by May 31. Bring your confirmation, along with your child’s original birth certificate to any window at Busch Gardens’ or SeaWorld’s front gate. The pass is valid for unlimited admission, with no blackout dates, through Dec. 31.

Third Day Free: Universal Orlando Resort earlier this month announced a new Third Day Free offer that gives Florida residents a two-day, two-park ticket plus a third day free for $99. Tickets must be purchased online by May 31 and used by June 30. This is good for Universal and Islands of Adventure only, not Wet 'n Wild.

Summer Concert Ticket: Universal is offering this ticket that allows one-time admission to the park after 7 p.m. on concert nights for its Summer Concert Series June 9-July 14. It costs $59.99.

Pay now, bonus later: Dinosaur World in Plant City in August is having Double Dino Days. When you pay full admission price in August, you get a ticket to come back any day in December except Christmas Day,
Gatorland is reinstating its discount for Florida residents. Floridians of all ages will get a day’s admission for $9.99 between May 5 and June 30. The price is normally $21.99 ($13.99 ages 3-12). The park features thousands of alligators and crocodiles and shows where you can see them literally leaping to chomp on food. There’s also an aviary, a petting zoo, train ride, splash park and the Screamin’ Gator Zip Line over a gator breeding ground. See www.gatorland.com or call 1-800-393-5297.

Come back all year: Busch Gardens Tampa and SeaWorld Orlando are offering a saving of $25 when booking a joint ticket to visit both parks online. To qualify for this offer you must visit both parks by May 31. Both Busch Gardens and SeaWorld have a “Pay for a day and come back all year” unlimited park admission through Dec. 31.

Blizzard Beach and Typhoon Lagoon: The Disney water parks are offering a Florida Resident “After 2” Water Park Annual Pass. This pass gives admission to the Blizzard Beach and Typhoon Lagoon water parks only in the afternoon after 2 p.m. it costs $63.90 for adults and $51.12 for kids. Purchase this ticket at the gate; you must have proof of Florida residency

Adventure Island: The Tampa water park has a Weekday Pass available with unlimited weekday access with no blackout dates. Mondays through Fridays, now through Sept. 3 for $49.99 for adults and $45.99 for children. For the best deal on a single-day ticket, buy online at AdventureIsland.com and save $5.

WeT 'n Wild: The Orlando water park is offering a weekday annual pass for $52 for unlimited admission for one full year weekdays only. Florida residents can buy a day, get the rest of the year free for $48.99.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Disney closes scary (really scary!) Snow White ride

Sharon Wynne — Mon, 21 May 2012 02:02:08 +0000

I really liked our colleague Sean Daly's take on the closing of Walt Disney World's Snow White ride on May 31, which you can read here. Like so many folks who grew up in Florida, that's the ride that scared the poop out of me as a kid.

But I hadn't thought about it the way Daly puts it as a rite of passage:

For 41 years, the Snow White ride has been a Sunshine State rite of passage. Both of my daughters unleashed big fat tears on the ride. They exited red-eyed, stunned, hitting me with the same what-just-happened look I no doubt flashed my parents: betrayal, anger and, beneath all that, a tingling pride at joining the club.

So true. It's the only ride in the Disney universe that by design is intended to make you jump a foot when that wicked queen turns around.

As Daly points out, it's scary for kids by design. That's something that's almost lost in this time of precious snowflake children.

Enhancing the sheer awfulness/awesomeness of it all, a safety sign posted in the queue — SMALLER GUESTS ENTER FIRST — made sure kids were seated on the side of the car with no opening. No escape. And that just happens to be the very side the witch attacks first.

How cool (or evil?) is that?

Now that scary adventure will make way for a sparkly meet-and-greet experience called Princess Fairytale Hall. That doesn't sound very frightening at all. A terrifying old lady will be replaced with young, chatty gals Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella.

Is that really a good thing?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Parent complaints about early school days grow

Sharon Wynne — Fri, 18 May 2012 10:12:00 +0000

Our friends on the Gradebook blog report here that the Manatee School Board is considering ending its experiment with an early release day to give teacher's planning time. With more demands on teachers to prepare and meet together, many Florida school districts have adopted early release days to give educators that time together. Hillsborough uses Mondays. Pinellas does it on Wednesdays.

But in Manatee County, parents have inundated the School Board with complaints about it. So much so that the board is considering whether to return to five full days of instruction. Board members note that a change could help parents while adding to student learning time, but also realize that time for teacher training and planning still must be provided.

Parents in Hillsborugh and Pinellas have similar complaints. There's a Facebook pagecalled Parents Against Half Days in Hillsborough County that has been beating this drum for more than a year, and in Pinellas a recent survey by the Pinellas County Council of Parent Teacher Associations and the Pinellas Education Foundation, respondents opposed early release Wednesday by a margin of 47 percent compared to 43 percent who favor it, with 10 percent undecided. The margin opposing early release Wednesday increases substantially after removing school employees from the survey results. In that group, 54 percent oppose it and 33 percent favor it.

The Pinellas teacher's union has defended it as a "no cost" way of giving teachers planning time, to which parents have said, "No cost?" Having to pay for after-care or leave work early or seeing their kids lose class time has been a cost in their eyes.

"We do need to have well-trained teachers," Manatee County School Board member Bob Gause told the Herald-Tribune. "There is going to have to be some time built in somewhere to have them attend training."

The Manatee board is set to vote in early June on the matter.

What do you think they should do? How is your life affected by early release days? Should Pinellas and Hillsborough follow Manatee's lead?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free and cheap things to do with the kids this week

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 17 May 2012 10:00:00 +0000

Get those kids to unplug and get outside this week because we have lots of free and cheap things to do on the go, from a kids biathlon to a nifty planetarium show followed by telescope viewing or they can take the dog on a play date. We have that and more in this week's roundup:

It’s a biathlon for kids! The St. Pete Beach Community Center is hosting Splash and Dash, a pool swim and fun run through the park for ages 5 to 12. Stick around for the post-race Splash Bash with music, games, water slides, contests and prizes. It costs $5 on Sunday from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. St. Pete Beach Community Center and Horan Park, 7701 Boca Ciega Drive.

Ages 5 and older are invited to the “star theater” at St. Petersburg College, where a professor points out what you can see currently in the Tampa Bay sky at their free Planetarium Show. The nifty ceiling can accurately simulate the night sky at any time or location. There’s a free show at 7 and 8:15 p.m. Friday, and after the 8:15 show, weather permitting, you can go to the roof and look through the telescopes. The planetarium is on the second floor of the Natural Science building on the St. Petersburg Gibbs campus, by the corner of 69th Street N and Fifth Avenue.

Kids age 8 and older can bond with their dogs at Kids-N-K9s as they learn together with activities including paw and tail painting and dog handling skills. Closed toed shoes (for kids) and proof of rabies vaccination (for dogs) required. $40 (child/dog team). SPCA Tampa Bay, 9099 130th Ave. N, Largo. (727) 586-3591. 11:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m. Saturday

Bring blankets, low lawn chairs or towels to plop on Clearwater Beach and watch free movies. Friday features The Three Musketeers, rated PG-13, and Saturday features Abduction, rated PG-13. No alcohol. Pier 60, 10 Pier 60 Drive, Clearwater Beach. (727) 434-6060. Shows start at dusk.

At the Hummingbird Festival you can stroll the grounds and see the fruits of the Pioneer Florida Museum staff’s labors pay off as flutters of both hummingbirds and butterflies converge on the gardens; with master gardener and speaker talks, food available for purchase, vendors. Included with museum admission: $6 adult, $5 over 55, $2 ages 6-18, under 5 free. Pioneer Florida Museum, 15602 Pioneer Museum Road, Dade City. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday.

Three days of the best boats and fishing supplies will be lined up all in one spot at Tampa Bay Boat Show at the Florida State Fairgrounds. Plus, some of the area’s top fish guides and local experts share tips, secrets and fun stories on how to “catch the big one.” It runs 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Friday and Saturday, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Sunday. It’s free admission, with $5 parking at the fairgrounds, 4802 U.S. 301 N, Tampa.

Why not wind up your week with a free show? This week, the popular Friday Extra Concert Series brings Fire and Rain, a James Taylor tribute band. Another folkie, Jun Bustamante, opens. It’s free at 7 p.m. Friday at Lowry Park, 7525 N Boulevard, Tampa.

Taking advantage of its waterfront location, the USF St. Petersburg campus open house invites the public to try paddle boarding, kayaking, canoeing, sailing, swimming, scuba diving in the 100-foot pool or to take a dolphin tour. All for free Saturday starting at 2 p.m. at 140 Seventh Ave. S, St. Petersburg.

Other family events this week:

Bubble Blow Out
For this bubble-themed week, the museum offers a combination of fun and educational activities including creating giant sized bubbles, painting with bubbles and foam, and learning about what gives bubbles their shape. $15, $12.50 military/seniors, $9.50 children, under 1 free. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. today-Friday, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Saturday, 1-6 p.m. Sunday.
Cave Exploring
Call and make a reservation to get directions to the location where you and your child age 8 or older will explore underground caverns in the Withlacoochee State Forest. Comfortable shoes, long pants, long-sleeved shirt, flashlight, lunch and water required. $67 per parent-child team, $33 per additional person; $50 per parent-child team, $25 per additional person MOSI members. Museum of Science and Industry, 4801 E Fowler Ave., Tampa. (813) 987-6000. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Saturday.
Farm Interaction Day
Kids age 16 and younger can take horse rides around a wooded trail. Horse treats available for purchase. Benefits the animals at Saddle Up Riding Club. $2 admission; $5 horse rides. Saddle Up Riding Club, 6080 94th Ave., Pinellas Park. (727) 520-3132. 4-6 p.m. Sunday.
For Kids, By Kids
Pollyzoom hosts this event to celebrate children’s art with interactive art and dance activities, door prizes, snacks, face painting and a kids art table. Free. Davidson Fine Art/Artful Living, 1100 First Ave. N, St. Petersburg. (518) 231-2563. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Saturday.
Get Up and Go: Family Fun Days
The program focused on exercising, stretching and taking care of children’s growing bodies starts with a fun and outrageous story time . Children will also decorate tea-light holders and sample food fresh off the Hibachi. Free. Brandon Westfield Town Center Mall, 459 Brandon Town Center, Brandon. (813) 661-5100. 4 p.m. today.
Military Strategy Gaming
Students in grades 6 through 12 can join the battle and experience military strategy through computer simulations and board games. $25, $20 members. Museum of Science and Industry (MOSI), 4801 E Fowler Ave., Tampa. (813) 987-6000. 1-4 p.m. Sunday.
Once Upon a Time
Families can create their own fairy tales, make a puppet and take part in a fairy tale fitness activity. $15, $12.50 military/seniors, $9.50 children, under 1 free. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday-Wednesday.
Palm Harbor Food Truck Food Court
Old City Grill, Sinful Pleasures Dessert Co. and others team up for Food Truck Food Court beginning at 11 a.m. until dinner time. Tour the historical museum after lunch. On the corner of Belcher and Curlew roads. Menu prices vary. North Pinellas Historical Museum, 2043 Curlew Road, Palm Harbor. (727) 724-3054. 11 a.m. Wednesday.
Pinellas Pioneers Homeschool Program
Experience Early Florida through a day of hands-on learning, crafts and exploration. $10. Pinellas Pioneer Settlement, 2900 31st St. S, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7326. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Friday.
Summer Fun and Water Safety Day
Cool off and learn how to stay safe in the water at this event with in-pool swim evaluations for children 2 and older by certified swim instructors, diving demos and healthy cooking demos. Resources and guidance for water safety and swimming lessons, swim team information, prizes and refreshments also available. Free. Fossil Park Pool, 6739 Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. St. N, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7732. 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday.
Sunflower Maze
Follow the paths cut into a 5-acre patch of 8- to 10-foot sunflowers. You’ll also find hay rides, a rubber duck race, tree house explorations, veggie cannon firings, petting farm and more. $8.50, $4.50 age 3-11, two and younger free (Cash only). Sweetfields Farm, 17250 Benes Roush Road, Masaryktown. (352) 279-0977. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday-Sunday.

Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Tips for taking tots out to the ballgame

Sharon Wynne — Wed, 16 May 2012 10:12:00 +0000

A friend of mine was so excited to take her toddler out to his first Tampa Bay Rays game on a recent Sunday, which are dubbed Family Fun Days because for a $23 ticket you get a hot dog, drink, snack and the kids get to run the bases after the game. (The next ones are May 20 and June 3) But then it hit her: A little one is just as likely to get antsy and meltdown -- and probably just as the game was getting good.

She turned to her veteran parent friends for help and here's some of the advice she got, from snacks to a debate on whether electronic devices like iPads ruin the experience you are trying to share with your child.

Access: Make sure to get aisle seats so you can "walk it off" if he gets antsy.

Snacks: Bringing a snack that takes some work, like a bag of unshelled peanuts, helps pass the time (and yes the Rays let you bring snacks in).

Be realistic Brace yourself for the possibility that you might end up leaving in the 7th inning. "My feeling was that if I made the boys stick it out, they'd hate baseball for it, defeating the purpose," one friend advised. "Have fun while you're there, but I wouldn't push to the 9th." One family I know opted to not even show up until the 4th inning. That way they could see the end of the game before their tot got bored.

Bring electronics? Here's the debate: If you are really into baseball and really want to see the whole game, it might save a family fight to hand over your iPhone or let the kid bring his electronics when he gets bored. But other moms made a compelling case for why they hate to see electronic devices taking away from the experience that you're actually there to see. "It's like the tree-in-the-forest argument," one mom said. "If you went to the game, but he spent the game with his iPad and not in the moment, did you ever go to the game?"

Look for the diversions They have a lot of kid diversions already built in to the Trop, from the games set up before the game in the alleys off the Tropicana Field entrance, to the touch tank of sting rays to the Rays mascots, Raymond and new this year DJ Kitty. My friend proposes that the Rays build a playground outside (with TVs) so parents can hang out there with their kids until partway through the game and then come inside for the rest. Are you listing Rays?!

Let them eat junk Half the fun of venturing out to the ballgame is getting cotton candy, ice cream or some other treat they can't find anywhere else.

Let them yell My kids' favorite part was that it's perfectly OK to yell your head off, so get him involved in all the cheers (CHARGE!) and the games on the jumbo screen.

So what are your tips for getting kids to love a football or baseball game as much as you do?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Parents lied to get kids in right school

Sharon Wynne — Tue, 15 May 2012 14:11:55 +0000

Sports writer John Cotey has a brutal column today in the wake of the news that five Armwood High School football players, just off a state championship season, have been declared ineligible, "the ones who made up electric bills and addresses and rent receipts, the ones who lied about where they lived instead of doing the right thing — moving into the zone where they wanted their son to play football."

You can blame coaches and recruiting, Cotey writes, but in the end:

Simple: It’s about parents cheating.

This is where you start when looking for people to blame, trying to figure out how something like this could happen, so many kids, so many lies.

Well said, but as he notes this is not the first or the last school to be tarnished by such maneuvers. It's not just about sports. There are parents who will fudge about where they live to get their kid into a better academic environment as well.

I can understand how parents might be motivated by what they think is best for their child. If they can't afford to move, they feel like they are letting the their kid down. But look at the damage they have caused. There will probably be a massive fine. Heads will roll, maybe. But will the system ever change as long as parents are willing to lie for their kids?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

So how do you teach a kid to behave in a restaurant?

Sharon Wynne — Sat, 12 May 2012 10:00:00 +0000

The uproar over the recent story by our colleague Laura Reiley about the pizza place in Seminole Heights that banned children from its back patio and posted strongly worded signs inside to keep the kids quiet or face ejection brought out a host of comments. Most of them were along the lines of "Parents need to make their kids behave!" That's much easier said than done when you have a toddler. As parents weathering the Terrible Twos well know, trying to "make" them do anything is sure to bring on a screaming, kicking, howling tantrum that draws the pointed stares from those around you. Pointed is too mild. Daggers!

We stopped going to restaurants for a few years when our kids were that age. We got takeout or a sitter. That was the very sage advice I received from my pediatrician when I asked why it is my friend who goes out several times a week had such a wonderfully behaved toddler and I couldn't keep mine in his seat or occupied while we tried to eat. Her answer "What the heck are you doing taking an 18 month old to a restaurant? It's not fair to expect him to sit for 30 minutes and it's stressful for you to jump through hoops entertaining him. Get takeout or get a sitter and try again when he's older" I love that woman.

But still, learning to behave well in public is a skill like any other that has to be taught. Here's what we did (thanks to the many moms and aunts I called on for advice) and it worked beautifully.

Tell them what TO do, instead of what NOT to do: Toddlers and young kids can sometimes latch on to the negative, so if you say "No running around," that suddenly seems like the most awesome idea ever. So focus on what they can do by saying things like "Use your inside voice," and "Stay in your seat" and "Wait until you are done chewing to talk" Notice I didn't say "No shouting, no running and no talking with your mouth full" The positive approach gets better results with ours.

Practice table manners at home: Enforce the same rules at home that you would at a restaurant. If they act up take them to their room and tell them they can return to join the family at the table when they can behave.

Do some practice runs: When you think they are ready, plan a trip to a restaurant that you fully intend to leave if you have to. This is a training mission, not an anniversary dinner. Head to a kid-friendly place and before you even go in, spell out the rules: Stay in your seat, use an inside voice, respect the things around you, etc. Tell them if they don't behave you will be leaving the restaurant because only people with good manners are allowed to stay there.

Three strikes and you are out: Once inside if he throws food or starts to throw a fit over something, I wisk him outside fairly quickly saying "Oh no, you can't be in here if you behave like that." The change of scenery is a good attention-getter. Then we go over the rules again and I wait for him to calm down and I say "Do you think you can behave well enough to go back in again? Yes? OK, let's give it another try but you can't stay here if you act up." This usually did the trick. But if he acted up again, I repeated the same move and I never let it get out of hand. The second he acts up --- Boom -- you are outside. This was Strike 2 and I would warn that if he did it again, we were going home. Only once did I ever get to Strike 3 and I said, "I see you have chosen to go home. We'll try again some other time when you can behave better." He howled the whole way home and never did it again. (We use this same method to teach store manners to toddlers)

The Cappy's Pizza owner told tales of parents who just seemed to check out when they got to his place, uprooting flower pots and breaking wall decorations. Kids got away with stuff they'd never do at home. It could be the parents are as rude as the children, or it could be that some parents just don't know what to do when they are in public with a misbehaving child.

So tell me mamas, what literally did you say and do to teach your child restaurant manners?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Pizza place warns parents: Control your kids

Sharon Wynne — Fri, 11 May 2012 16:05:57 +0000

Our colleague Laura Reiley reports here that Cappy's pizzeria in Seminole Heights has had it with unruly children, prompting the owner to ban kids from the patio area and to post a sign in the restaurant warning: "For the comfort and safety of everybody, if you allow your child to run, scream or misbehave, you will be asked to leave."

While some are applauding the owner's courage for calling out the parents of misbehaving children, others are saying it's an awfully hostile sign for a pizza place that from outward appearces looks kid-friendly.

This is clearly a hot topic for diners and for owners. In St. Petersburg, Beak's Old Florida has a clearly marked "no kids" policy for the whole restaurant, calling itself "a place for grownups over 21." Mike Vuick, owner of McDain's in Monroeville, Pa., made national news last year by announcing the restaurant would no longer admit children under 6. At issue? Crying and other toddler noise that disturbed fellow diners. Grant Central Pizza in Atlanta made news for posting on the menu that all crying small people should be taken outside.

"When I was growing up and we went out to eat, I had to sit down at the table and behave myself," Cappy's owner Scooter Gabel told Reiley. "If I had done the things I see, my mother would have spanked me publicly."

But the hostile tone has turned off one of his customers, Marisa Langford, 33, a mother of three with another baby on the way, says signs like this make parents feel unwelcome.

"As a parent I'm already a target because I have three kids under seven. I see the eye rolls. At Cappy's, there could have been a "keep Cappy's safe" campaign or something posted that showed a little more respect for parents. The signs have slowed down my patronage of Cappy's — you don't want to go somewhere where you don't feel welcome."

Having been worked as a waitress she knows there are some "parents out there who ruin it for other parents."

So how should the owner have handled this, mamas? Are parents wrong to feel unjustly targeted because of the behavior of a few?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Time heats up mommy wars with 3 year old breastfeeding

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 10 May 2012 15:14:21 +0000

Hoo boy. What do you think of this Time magazine cover image? It's meant to stir the pot, so maybe we are just falling for it by even mentioning it here but this obviously plays into every stereotype of what attachment parenting is all about.

The photographer who took the pictures explains what he was trying to convey “It was important to show that there’s no stereotypical look for a mom who practices this kind of parenting.”

"This kind of parenting" is called Attachment Parenting and the cover may show a pretty mom breastfeeding a 3 year old, but the cover story is about the man behind the movement Dr. William Sears.

Sears has written more than 40 books on parenting and pregnancy and his theory that attachment parenting — characterized by breast-feeding, sleeping with your baby and wearing your baby in a sling across your body — is the best way to raise confident, secure children. Critics have said Sears is anti-feminist and that his ideas are just totally unrealistic for working women.

They say it has produced a cult of moms who come off to others as slightly superior because this brand of mothering in which you breastfeed for as long as the child wants to, never let a child cry it out for sleep -- and in fact sleep with them in a family bed -- requires more physical and emotional investment than was ever tried by mothers in the past.

His contention that the primitive tribal natural way of mothering is insulting, colonial, paternalistic and just plain wrong, according to this essay in Brain Child magazine titled "Why I Hate Dr. Sears" by scholar Cynthia Eller.

But I also know plenty of people who felt like their sanity was saved by Sears' advice. So who are we to judge? It's nice to have someone give you some ideas to try when you have that fussy, crying baby.

What do you think of this image and of the (very old and well-worn) attachment parenting debate?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free and cheap things to do with the kids this week

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 10 May 2012 10:00:00 +0000

Pirates invade Madeira Beach, kids in Brandon finally have their own skate park and a historic train station celebrates National Train Day. We have these and more wallet-friendly diversions to entertain you and the kids this week.

Celebrate the discovery of John’s Pass with John Levique Pirate Days, featuring a variety of pirate-themed events including a sea battle and a boat parade, a family treasure hunt and costume contests. There are also lots of vendors for shopping and food and a bounty of pirate performers. Free at John’s Pass Village and Boardwalk in Madeira Beach (though Friday’s Pirate’s Ball from 7-11 p.m. is $20). 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Saturday, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Sunday. johnspassfestivals.com.

The Brandon Skate Park has already been open a few weeks, but bad weather hosed the original grand opening party a few weeks ago. Still, skaters have waited a long time to invite the community to the grand opening ceremony of its new 11,000 square-foot “obstacle street and bowl” in Brandon. After the ribbon cutting ceremony, the dudes take over with demonstrations by local skateboarders. Entrance is free all summer. After that, skate fees will be $4 per day, and annual skate park’s passes are available at $150. The event is 1 p.m. Saturday at 5720 Providence Road, Riverview. (813) 635-3500.

This might be more for a date night, but you can bike from stop to stop at the St. Pete Bike n’ Eat, a restaurant hop with free samples at each stop starting at 3 p.m. Saturday. Follow the leader, grab a snack and roll on to the next stop. The group meets at Trek Bicycle Store and makes stops at Casita Taqueria (3:15 p.m.), Meze 119 (3:45 p.m.), the Ale and the Witch (4:20 p.m.), Parkshore Grill (4:50 p.m.) and back to Trek (5:30 p.m.) for a party designed to promote physical fitness and economic growth within St. Petersburg community. Registration required at (727) 498-8655. It’s free, with free samples at the stops, but drinks and menu items additional. Trek Bicycle Store of St. Petersburg, 3169 Fourth St. N, St. Petersburg.

The historic Union Station in Tampa — which is celebrating its centennial — is marking National Train Day with live music, tours of Amtrak equipment, model railroad displays and exhibits, telegraph demonstrations, food trucks and a history program. It’s all free at 601 N Nebraska Ave., Tampa, from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday.

Bueller? ... Bueller? ... Bueller? Found him! The classic ’80s comedy Ferris Bueller’s Day Off is playing on the big screen Friday in Clearwater. Today’s fun fact: Remember Ben Stein, left< as the painfully dull economics teacher? His lines were unscripted. Director John Hughes just told Stein, who has a degree in economics, to present an actual lecture in his scenes. The movie, rated PG-13, is at 7:30 p.m. Friday at the Capital Theatre, 405 Cleveland St., Clearwater. $5.

Friday is a big day at the Dali Museum. Celebrate Salvador Dali’s birthday with mustache painting, films, kid’s crafts, balloon artists, tarot readers and free cake pops from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Friday. Free, but admission required to see galleries: $21, $19 seniors, $15 students and children ages 13-17, $7 children ages 6-12. Then at 7, the adult party swings into action with live music, craft beer, cash bar and look-alike contest ($10). Dali Museum, One Dali Blvd., St. Petersburg. (727) 823-3767.

Since the Rays are out of town playing the Baltimore Orioles, catch the game on the beach at a family-friendly Rays watch party with a giant screen set up on the sand. 620-AM WDAE will broadcast live starting with their pre-game show. The Rays Street Team will also be on hand with giveaways. Get a coupon for unlimited sliding on the giant slide for $10 (normally $30). Proceeds benefit the Rays Foundation. 7:05 p.m. Friday. Free admission. $10 parking on site. Food and drink additional. Tradewinds Island Grand Resort, 5500 Gulf Blvd., St. Pete Beach. (727) 367-6461.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free stuff for Mother's Day

Sharon Wynne — Wed, 09 May 2012 10:00:00 +0000

I have never hidden my deep love of free stuff. And come Mother's Day we hit the motherlode. There's lots of free stuff and free admissions being thrown at us moms, to which I say bring it on.

Free chocolates: First Watch restaurants, home of the award-winning breakfast, brunch and lunch (no dinnners, these are morning people) will once again pay tribute to moms on Mother’s Day by offering a complimentary box of Russell Stover Chocolates to mothers that dine at any of the company’s more than 90 restaurants on Sunday, May 13.

Free admission: You know what Mom always says: The best gift is just time with you. Well, dear child, we have a great way to give her that gift. Lots of local attractions are offering free entry for moms on Sunday with another paid admission.

Lowry Park Zoo: Mom free Saturday and Sunday with the purchase of adult or child admission. $23.95, $21.95 seniors, $18.95 ages 3-11, 2 and younger free. 1101 W Sligh Ave., Tampa. (813) 935-8552.
Henry B. Plant Museum: Free admission for mothers Sunday, but donation appreciated for everyone else. 401 W Kennedy Blvd., Tampa. (813) 254-1891.
Florida Aquarium: Moms get in free with another paid admission Saturday and Sunday. $21.95, $18.95 seniors, $16.95 children under 12. 701 Channelside Drive, Tampa. (813) 273-4000.
Dinosaur World: Free for moms on Sunday, when accompanied by a paid child admission. $14.95, $12.95 seniors, $11.95 children 3 to 12. 5145 Harvey Tew Road, Plant City. (813) 717-9865.
Florida Railroad Museum: Moms can ride the train for a 1-mile trip to historic Willow at no charge. 12210 83rd St. E, Parrish. 1-877-869-0800. 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. Saturday-Sunday.
Glazer Children's Museum: All moms will receive free admission on Sunday. The Museum is also holding an arts and crafts activity that day where children can create and wrap a special gift for mom.

Events

Mango Momma Wine for Mother’s Day
Treat Mom to award-winning fruit-based and sparkling wines, wine-based smoothies and hors d’oeuvres at Mother’s Day sampling. Adults only. Free (registration required). Florida Orange Groves and Winery, 1500 Pasadena Ave. S, St. Petersburg. (727) 347-4025. 1:30-3:30 p.m. Saturday.
Mommy & Me date
Pollo Tropical patrons can pamper their mom with the two-can-dine for $9.99 Mother's Day special. You get two entrees including a choice of a small Create Your Own TropiChop or Quarter Chicken meal with rice and beans, two regular size fountain drinks and a regular side order of yuca sticks, sweet plantains or tostones. This deal will be available from store opening to close time on Sunday, May 13 at all
Pollo Tropical restaurants.
Moms and Mimosas
If you’re a mom, or have a mom, and are over 21, come out for a free mimosa in honor of Mother’s Day. Free. Singing Stone, 1903 N 19th St., Tampa. (813) 247-2787. 6-9 p.m. Saturday.
Mother’s Day Belly Casting Workshop
Belly Bliss will show expectant mothers how to work with a partner to transform their growing “baby bump” into a unique Mother’s Day gift and maternity keepsake. $40, $20 if you bring your own materials. Thank You Mama, 1511 Fourth St. N, St. Petersburg. (813) 789-9097. 3-5 p.m. Saturday.
Mother’s Day Dine
A buffet with Sesame Street character meet and greets and a treat for Mom. $22, $15 children. Park admission required. Busch Gardens, 3605 Bougainvillea Ave., Tampa. Toll-free 1-888-800-5447. 12:30-1:30 p.m. Sunday.
Spring Rose Show
The “Roses for Mama” show and salute to mother’s includes exhibitors with hundreds of blooming roses, workshops, rose arrangements, growing tips and a rose information station. Free. Westfield Citrus Park, 8021 Citrus Park Town Center, Tampa. (727) 392-8326. 1-9 p.m. Saturday.
Sun Coast Mother’s Day Fun Fest
Includes live music, children’s activities, health tips, lifestyle demonstrations, clowns, jugglers, a magician and a children’s play area with inflatable jumpers, miniature train rides through the park and a commemorative photo booth. Free. Largo Central Park, 101 Central Park Drive, Largo. (727) 483-0661. Noon-3:30 p.m. Sunday.
I Love Mother’s Day 5K
For all types of runners. Baby joggers welcome. Post-race hot breakfast. $5-$18. John Chesnut Sr. Park, 2200 East Lake Road, Palm Harbor. (813) 495-1251. 8 a.m. Sunday.
The Great Mother’s Day Race
Run to celebrate Mother’s Day and start or continue an active lifestyle. $28. Al Lopez Park, 4810 N Himes Ave., Tampa. (571) 277-7273. 9 a.m. Sunday.
Mom’s Night Out: On the Pole
Wear comfortable work out clothes and high heels, or bare feet, for a strenuous session of exotic pole fitness. Proceeds from donations benefit the Spring of Tampa Bay. Pay what you can. Impulse Studio Pole Fitness, 6346 Fourth St. N, St. Petersburg. (813) 325-1990. 7-9 p.m. Saturday.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Report ranks Norway No. 1 for moms, Niger worst and U.S.? Meh

Sharon Wynne — Tue, 08 May 2012 10:12:00 +0000

It's always enlightening to see how the U.S. ranks with the rest of the world when it comes to mothers. The Save the Children's State of the World's Mothers report, which was released today, shows the U.S. has climbed a few notches on the report's Mothers' Index this year, but we still are far from the top. This year, they also did a separate scorecard and looked at how the U.S. compares to other industrialized countries when it comes to policies that create a favorable environment for moms who choose to breastfeed. We come in dead last.

The report finds that Norwaymakes it easiest to be a mother; Niger os the worst -- replacing Afghanistan for the first time in two years. Norway comes in at first place. The ranking compares 165 countries around the globe, and looks at factors such as a mother's health, education and economic status, as well as critical child indicators such as health and nutrition. This year, the United States ranks 25th.

“While the U.S. has moved up in the rankings, ahead of last year’s 31st place, we still fall below most wealthy nations,” said Carolyn Miles, President & CEO of Save the Children. “A woman in the U.S. is more than 7 times as likely to die of a pregnancy-related cause in her lifetime than a woman in Italy or Ireland. When it comes to the number of children enrolled in preschools or the political status of women, the United States also places in the bottom 10 countries of the developed world.”

President Obama is expected to discuss food and agriculture at this year's G8 meeting, so the report focuses on nutrition as one of the key factors in determining mothers' and their children's well-being. Malnutrition is the underlying cause of at least a fifth of maternal mortality and more than a third of child deaths.

Of the ten countries at the bottom of Save the Children's annual index, seven are in the midst of a food crisis. Niger, in bottom place, is currently in the grip of a worsening hunger situation, threatening the lives of a million children. Four of the bottom ten countries have seen an increase in stunting over the past two decades - where children's mental and physical growth is permanently blighted by malnutrition.

The report details a vicious cycle of young mothers, who may themselves have been stunted in childhood, going on to give birth to underweight babies who have not been adequately nourished in the womb. If a mother is impoverished, overworked, poorly educated and in poor health, she may not be able to feed the baby adequately, with largely irreversible effects. Save the Children notes that in sub-Saharan Africa, up to 20% of women are classified as excessively thin, while that figure rises to up to 35 percent in South Asia. The report highlights that the best method for breaking this cycle and protecting the pregnant mother and her baby from malnutrition is to focus on the first 1000 days starting from pregnancy.

Save the Children called for more global action to tackle the cycle of maternal and child malnutrition when G8 leaders gather in Camp David in two weeks’ time. "The 2012 State of the World's Mothers report shows clearly that this crisis of chronic malnutrition has devastating effects on both mothers and their children,” said Miles. “We urgently need global leadership on the malnutrition issue, so that policies and programs are put in place to ensure the health and survival of mothers and their babies.”

In new research for the report, Save the Children found that the simple measure of supporting mothers to breastfeed could save one million children's lives a year. Yet the report also shows that less than 40% of all infants in developing countries receive the full benefits of exclusive breastfeeding. This is due, in part, to countries lacking strong commitment and complimentary programs that enable mothers to breastfeed. When the two do combine, the report shows that it can have success even in low-income countries, as it has done in Malawi and Madagascar.

“Our research shows that a mother’s breast milk - one single nutrition intervention - can save a million children’s lives each year,” said Miles. “All mothers should have the support they need to choose to breastfeed if they want to. Breastfeeding is good for babies no matter where they live, but in developing countries, especially those without access to clean water, breastfeeding can be a matter of life or death.”

Policy Recommendations:

--The G8 delivers bold commitments to tackle the global hidden crisis of chronic malnutrition, blighting the lives of millions of mothers and children

--All governments make fighting malnutrition a priority, setting targets for their own countries and around the world

--Developing country governments should scale up nutrition programs around the first 1000 days, from a mother's pregnancy to the child's second birthday

--Developing country governments must commit and fund national nutrition plans of action - including breastfeeding - that are aligned with plans for maternal and child health

--Donor countries should continue to keep their commitments to deliver their international assistance budgets, so that governments can continue to invest in global health and development, including nutrition.

Visit www.savethechildren.org for information on their campaign for children.

Girls in need can get help for prom

Sharon Wynne — Mon, 07 May 2012 19:37:29 +0000

Fairy godmothers are at work all over the bay area helping girls in need for prom season.

The staff and students in the Remington College cosmetology program will provide free prom hair and makeup this Friday and Saturday and also May 18-19. The generous students will be giving girls updos, manicures, pedicures and makeup, and haircuts for guys so they can look their best on prom night. Appointments recommended. Call (813) 316-4470.

Meanwhile, the Belle of the Ball Project will distribute prom dresses this Saturday at Seminole Mall to in-need high school girls between 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. Seminole Mall is located at 11201 Park Blvd. N., Seminole. Look for the Belle of the Ball store next to theRoss department store.

Thousands of quality dresses will be on display for the girl's choosing, along with shoes and purses. Founded in 2003, the Belle of the Ball Project is a nonprofit organization that has given away more than 200 dresses this prom season and more than 2,700 dresses in its nine-year history. It collects new and gently worn, current style homecoming, prom, bridesmaids and cocktail dresses as well as shoes, purses, and accessories. Distributions are open to all Pinellas and Hillsborough County area high school teens. No appointment needed. For low-income, in-need, high school girls only. There is no charge for the dresses, A nominal $1 to 45 donation is requested but not required. Donations of dresses can also be made at the distribution.

For other donation sites and more information about Belle of the Ball Project, please visit their web site www.belleoftheballproject.com Facebook: Belle of the Ball or call (727) 386-4502

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Spraygrounds and splash pads opening up for the season

Sharon Wynne — Sun, 06 May 2012 00:12:00 +0000

It’s starting to warm up and that means the area’s many spraygrounds, public pools and splash zones will be opening up for the height of heat season. Best of all, most of them are free or nearly so.

The Highlander Pool in Dunedin is open already and having a Splash Bash and Picnic next Saturday (May 12) to kick off spring with a celebration including inflatables, games, races, music and lunch. The adjacent Kiwanis Sprayground is open yearround at 1937 Ed Eckert Drive. It has water cannons, floor jets, a slide and a big yellow bucket that fills up, tips over, and drenches those who stand under it from 9 a.m. to sunset every day. The picnic Saturday is free and starts at 11 a.m.

The terrific spray ground at Del Holmes Park in St. Petersburg already opened up for the season on May 1 and will remain open until Oct. 31 from 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. daily. Note that the spayers are motion activated so don’t thing it’s not open if you don’t see water going.
All the city of St. Petersburg’s pools, except North Shore Pool which is open year round, will open for the season beginning Memorial Day weekend, May 26.

Other water play areas around Tampa Bay include:

• Highland Recreation Complex and Family Aquatic Center in Largo is celebrating its season opening May 19-20 with a weekend long party with free hot dogs, chicken sandwiches, door prizes and giveaways at 400 Highland Ave. NE, Largo. This is a mini-waterpark for all ages. In addition to a pool, amenities include a 214-foot corkscrew water slide, a three-story speed slide, a zero-depth sprayground with play structure and water sprays, and a double slide suitable for all ages. Water basketball and volleyball is also available.

• Cypress Forest Park in Oldsmar has a 1,500-square-foot sprayground with all manner of shooting and cascading water that is open daily now from 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. The park, 650 Pine Ave. N, also has basketball courts, playgrounds and picnic shelters. It costs $5 for non-resident parking; $2.50 decal per year for residents.

• Kate Jackson Park, 821 S Rome Ave. in Tampa, is a beautiful park nestled in the heart of historic Hyde Park, with lots of playground equipment, picnic benches and shade trees. Kids especially enjoy running through the fountain, right, which shoots up water from the ground. It’s open year-round and the fountain runs from 10 a.m. to 7 p.m.

• Curtis Hixon Waterfront Park has two interactive fountains, one on the east side of the park along Ashley Drive and the Mist Fountain on the west side the park along the Riverwalk.

• WaterPlay at Zephyr Park, 38116 Fifth Ave. in Zephyrhills, has fountain jets, soaker cannons, falling buckets of water and arches shooting water. The 34-acre sprayground is in downtown Zephyrhills and is the site of the Alice Hall Community Center. The water play area is open 9:30 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Here's a roundup of all the spraygrounds and splash zones in the Tampa Bay area. Now go get wet!

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Cinco de Mayo and Derby Day treats for kids

Sharon Wynne — Fri, 04 May 2012 10:12:00 +0000

Since Saturday is Cinco de Mayo (May 5), I thought I'd share what my kids call Mexican S'mores. They are very easy to make in a skillet, pannini pan or griddle. My then- fourth grader loved it so much he had me make a batch of them for his class's Cinco de Mayo party and the teacher heated them up in a toaster oven. They came out great.

Saturday is also the Kentucky Derby, which is always a fun event in our house. We get out the morning paper and look over the horses and pick our favorites based on the very scientific method of who has the coolest name. And they're off! As everyone knows, the Mint Julep is the signature drink of Derby Day. I came up with a kiddie version that a lot of adults like too, especially since the adult version has a heckuva kick.

First the fiesta. If you are looking for a kid-friendly dessert for a Cinco de Mayo party, try this:

Mexican S'mores

4 flour tortillas
butter or olive oil for brushing
mini chocolate chips
mini marshmallows
cinnamin-sugar for dusting

(can add a scoop of ice cream on the side)

Lay the tortillas on a flat surface and brush both sides with butter or olive oil. Sprinkle one tortilla with mini chocolate chips and mini marshmellows. Top with the second tortilla and cook on a hot skillet or griddle like a quesadilla. When one side is golden, flip and cook another minute or 2 more until golden.

Take off the skillet and sprinkle with cinnamon sugar, cut into wedges and serve.

A scoop of ice cream on the side elevates it to adult dessert fare. Chocolate chips can be substituted with any flavor chip you prefer. White chocolate, butterscotch, etc. You could add a smear of peanut butter to the tortilla first. You can pretty much fill the tortillas with what ever you want!

And for those of you shopping for a big floppy hat for the Kentucky Derby, here's a recipe for your sipping pleasure, giddy up!

Mint Julep (two ways)
3 cups water
3 cups sugar
large handful of mint leaves
bourbon (we like Maker's Mark)
a pitcher of lemonade for kiddie version
more mint leaves for garnish

In a large bowl in the microwave make a big batch of simple syrup of equal parts sugar and water and a bunch of mint leaves. Nuke it for about 5 minutes until it is boiling and let it rest for a couple hours before straining leaves and pouring into a container. Refrigerate container. Now you have the minty syrup you need to make the kiddie version or the adult version.

Adult version:
Fill glass with ice and mint springs, add 2-1/2 ounce of bourbon and the rest with the sugar syrup.

Kiddie version:
Fill glass with ice and mint leaves, pour in about 1/4 cup of lemonade and a splash of sugar syrup.

-- Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free and cheap things to do with the kids this week

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 03 May 2012 10:12:00 +0000

Lots of events center around the date this weekend. You have Star Wars Day on Friday (As in, "May the 4th be with you") and both Cinco de Mayo (May 5) and the Kentucky Derby fall on Saturday. Luckily we have lots of wallet-friendly ways to fill out your dayplanner, no matter what the date, from Free Comic Book Day to family events in the local parks to lots of love for the humble blueberry.

Look sharp if you're in downtown St. Petersburg on Friday. Free art that's yours for the taking will be randomly placed around town. Free Art Friday aims to promote artists by making their work available to anyone who is interested.

Every year on the first Saturday in May, comic book stores across the country open their doors for Free Comic Book Day to give away comic books, but they also host art activities, meet and greets with artists, author signings and, of course, costumed characters aplenty. Follow the trail of superheroes to Yancy Street Comics, 9409 U.S. 19 in Port Richey, as well as Heroes’ Haven Comics in Tampa, Emerald City in Seminole and Clearwater, Wonder Water in Clearwater and North Tampa Branch Library in Tampa. Activities and times vary by location. See the website freecomicbookday.com for all participating stores.

The special edition of the free music series Rock the Park will feature the tbt* Ultimate Local Artists of 2012. This is the sixth year the editors of the paper, which is published by the Tampa Bay Times, are presenting the top 10 Tampa Bay area musicians. They chose to spotlight the hybrid sounds of indie alt-rockers Drake and Sofia, alt-country blues players the Groves, country punk Crash Mitchell and Tampa’s favorite shoegazers Sleepy Vikings, as well as several other hot acts making sonic waves throughout the Tampa Bay area’s live music scene. They take the stage at 6:30 p.m. Friday at Curtis Hixon Park, 600 N Ashley Drive, Tampa. In addition to live music, there will be food and beverages on site. Free.

Saturday is Kentucky Derby day! Grab a big fancy hat and a strong minty drink because the “most exciting two minutes in sports” is the centerpiece of Kentucky Derby parties around the Tampa Bay area. You can actually wager on the race at the watch parties at Derby Lane in St. Petersburg or the Tampa Bay Downs horse track in Tampa. Post time is 6:30 p.m. Saturday but both gambling meccas open at 10 a.m. for early races, with a bar stocked with mint juleps. Free admission.

Although most Cinco de Mayo parties are decidedly adult events (here's a roundup of all of them in the bay area) there are some family friendly options. There's a street festival and dance party Saturday at 4 p.m. in front of Casa Tina's, 365 Main St., Dunedin. And the Clearwater East Library is hosting a party starting at 2 p.m. Saturday with Hispanic games, family-friendly music and crafts.

Two nature parks this weekend combine story time with some time outside for kids. Saturday at 10:30 a.m. is Stories in the Park at McGough Nature Park, 11901 146th St. N, Largo. Join park rangers for a morning story, a hike through the park and snacks with your kids for $3 per family. Every Wednesday at 11:15 a.m. it’s time for Jungle Boogie with kids at Boyd Hill Nature Preserve, 1101 Country Club Way S, St. Petersburg. Children ages 3 to 4 can join in the fun with a nature story, crafts and outdoor exploration. It’s $2.50. (727) 893-7326.

For an uplifting ride, check out more than 100 special needs equestrian experts will ride in the Special Olympics Equestrian Championships, featuring dressage, English equitation, stock seat equitation, working trails, pole bending, barrel racing, showman ship and a sports drill team. 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Friday, 9 a.m.-1:15 p.m. Saturday. Free. Florida State Fairgrounds, 4802 U.S. 301 N, Tampa. (352) 243-9536.

'Avengers’ fans, activate! The Safety Harbor Comic Con is today through Saturday with contests, drawing and graphic novel classes, an Artist’s Alley art reception and more. Friday’s schedule includes a basic cartooning workshop for teens and tweens; Saturday’s schedule includes a “Dress As Your Favorite Comic Character” costume contest, photos with Iron Man and a film presentation of Captain America. 4 p.m. Friday, 2 p.m. Saturday. Free. Registration required for classes. Safety Harbor Library, 101 Second St. N, Safety Harbor. (727) 724-1525, ext. 112.

Feeling the blues? Two weekend festivals celebrate the humble blueberry. In Plant City, Keel and Curley Winery, 5210 W Thonotosassa Road, Plant City, will host its fifth annual Tampa Bay Blueberry Festival on Saturday and Sunday. Visitors are invited to pick blueberries from the winery’s more than 20 acres of fruit-filled bushes. There will be more than 50 local vendors, with craft, food and commercial tables for all ages, as well as live music, kids’ activities, including bounce houses, and an antique tractor display. Gates open at 8 a.m. Saturday and 10 a.m. Sunday. The festival closes at 6 p.m. each day. Admission is free. For more information, visit keelandcurleywinery.com. And in Brooksville, the inaugural Florida Blueberry Festival kicks off Friday. The three-day street festival will take place over 14 square blocks. It kicks off with a parade, celebrity blueberry stomp and Journey tribute band at 6:30 p.m. Friday. Events on Saturday and Sunday include classic car, hot rod and custom bike shows; a hot dog-eating contest; a special Cinco de Mayo celebration and more. Admission is free, but parking is off site and will cost $10 to $15, with shuttle service to and from the festival grounds. For info, see floridablueberryfestival.org.

Trucks in St. Pete? Yep The USF St. Petersburg campus is hosting a Food Truck Rally Saturday to celebrate the end of the school year. (Since the campus is technically on state property the city’s zoning issues with food trucks don’t apply). Open to the public, the 13-truck rally takes place from 4-8 p.m. in Parking Lot 2, at Second Street and Sixth Avenue S. For details, see facebook.com/tampafoodtruckrally.

Kids ages 11 to 18 can learn the basics of the sport at an Ultimate Frisbee Clinic on Saturday. Clinic participants receive a free disc, hands-on throwing instruction and admission to an exhibition game. After the clinic, all you need is an open field and some friends to play. It’s free, but registration is required at (813) 358-8298 or tampabayyouthultimate.org. The clinic is at 9:30 a.m. Saturday at the Joe DiMaggio Sports Complex, 2450 Drew St., Clearwater.

Sunday brings a salute to the holy land Tampa’s Israel Independence Day Celebration, taking place in the outdoor pavilion, includes Israeli music and dancing, games, children’s activities, food, an Israeli market place, live performances and numerous special guests. Noon-4 p.m. Sunday. Free. Riverwalk at Straz Center for the Performing Arts, 1010 N MacInnes Place, Tampa. (813) 264-9000.

More family friendly events this week include:

Book Nook by the Bay
The Pier Aquarium’s family event with varying authors, craft activities and marine education facts. Included with daily admission. $5 adults, $4 students/seniors, 6 and younger free. Pier Aquarium, 800 Second Ave. NE, Suite 2001, St. Petersburg. (727) 803-9799. 10:30 a.m.-noon Saturday.
Breakfast with Dali for Families
Monthly docent led tours introduce Salvador Dali and the Dali Museum to families with children. The interactive tour highlights Dali paintings and other works with special appeal to children. A Spanish-themed breakfast buffet and hands-on activities follow the tour. $21, $10 ages 6-12; $10, $5 ages 6-12 members. Dali Museum, One Dali Blvd. (Bayshore Drive SE and Fifth Avenue SE), St. Petersburg. (727) 823-3767. 9:30-11:30 a.m. Saturday.
Cartooning for Kids
Children aged 7-12 will learn storyboarding, perspective, character development and how to make flip story books. This is the first class in a five week course. $50, includes supplies. Hyde Park Art Studio, 702 S. Albany Ave., Tampa. (813) 259-1687. 4 p.m. today.
Jack and the Beanstalk
The Play’n Around Traveling Children’s Theatre put their own spin on this ageless musical comedy in which a boy named Jack trades his cow, Betsy, for magic beans. $7, $6 Center members. Carrollwood Cultural Center, 4537 Lowell Road, Tampa. (813) 269-1310. 2 p.m. Sunday.
Kid Power: Operation Lunch Line
Journey deep inside the human body in 3D to learn the value of nutrition and exercise. Children sing, dance and use their “kid power” to make health-enhancing choices. $7.50, $6.50 children, $22 family four pack. Largo Cultural Center, 105 Central Park Drive, Largo. (727) 587-6793. 11 a.m. Saturday.
Miniature Train Rides
Kids can ride the miniature trains of Largo Central Railroad. Free (donations for train maintenance appreciated). Largo Central Railroad, 105 Central Park Drive, Largo. (727) 587-6775. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday-Sunday.
Out of This World
This week’s installment of weekly themed parties is “Out of This World,” an unofficial Star Wars day with space-themed activities , the space food world kitchen, character meet and greets and Star Wars character face painting. Activity schedules will be posted in the museum lobby. Included with museum admission. $15, $12.50 military/seniors, $9.50 children, under 1 free. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. today-Friday, 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Saturday, 1-6 p.m. Sunday.
Picnic in the Park
Enjoy an old-fashioned picnic with hamburgers, hotdogs, potato salad, chips, macaroni salad and all the fixings. Lunch is served on the back patio. $7 (advance purchase required). Largo Community Center, 400 Alt. Keene Road, Largo. (727) 518-3131. noon-2 p.m. today.
Prom Dress Distribution
Needy young women can get a prom dress for $1 at the Belle of the Ball Project dress distribution. $1 (donation appreciated). Seminole Mall, 11201 Park Blvd., Seminole. (727) 386-4502. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Saturday.
Safety Harbor Comic Con
Three days of comic book fun with contests, drawing and graphic novel classes taught by Mike Lyman of Magnum Arts, a Superhero Film Festival and an Artist’s Alley art reception. Today’s schedule includes a graphic novel workshop and a film presentation of Thor. Friday’s schedule includes a basic cartooning for teens and tweens workshop. Saturday’s schedule includes a “Dress As Your Favorite Comic Character” costume contest and a film presentation of Captain America. Free. Safety Harbor Library, 101 Second St. N, Safety Harbor. (727) 724-1525. 5 p.m. today, 4 p.m. Friday, 2 p.m. Saturday.
Saturdays at the Morean
Free art experiences designed for families with children ages 5-10. The Bank of America Children’s Learning Center will be open for art exploration, with open art stations and take-home projects. Instructors will be on hand to assist. Free. Morean Arts Center, 719 Central Ave., St. Petersburg. (727) 822-7872. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday.
Shark Theatre presents 'HONK!’
The family musical comedy features music by George Stiles, with book and lyrics by Anthony Drewe. This contemporary retelling of the story about the Ugly Duckling is recommended for ages 6 and older; children 5 and younger will not be permitted. $10 adults, $8 students. Nature Coast Technical High School, 4057 California St., Brooksville. (352) 797-7088, ext. 296. 7 p.m. today-Friday, 2 and 7 p.m. Saturday.
Tampa’s Israel Independence Day Celebration
This community celebration, taking place in the outdoor pavilion, includes Israeli music and dancing, games, children’s activities, food, an Israeli market place, live performances and numerous special guests. Free. Riverwalk at David A. Straz, Jr. Center for the Performing Arts, 1010 N MacInnes Place, Tampa. (813) 264-9000. Noon-4 p.m. Sunday.
Teen Swing Dance
Teens age 13 and older are invited to dress in retro swing attire for this dance jam with contests, door prizes and lessons. No partner required. $7. Gulfport Casino, 5500 Shore Blvd. S, Gulfport. (813) 840-3715. 7-11 p.m. Friday.
Water Safety Puppet Show
This water safety program for kids ages 2 to 12 includes a puppet show, songs, a safety lecture, a visit from Splash the Safety Penguin and free stuffed penguins (while supplies last). Free. Safety Harbor Library, 101 Second St. N, Safety Harbor. (727) 724-1535. 6:30 p.m. Monday, 10:30 a.m. Wednesday.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Moms to be: A belly cast for Mother's Day?

Sharon Wynne — Wed, 02 May 2012 19:39:52 +0000

Sure, you could always get flowers or candy or a nice brunch for Mother's Day, but what if you are a mom-to-be? How about a plaster memory of your huge belly?

Next Saturday (May 12) Thank You Mama in St Petersburg is hosting its first annual “Mother’s Day Belly Casting Workshop” put on by Belly Bliss, "For less than the cost of many at-home belly casting kits, expectant mothers will have all materials provided for them and the unique opportunity to receive professional guidance as they work with a partner to transform their growing baby bump into a unique maternity keepsake," their news release says.

If you want to embrace that growing waistline, they say the best time to create a belly cast is between 32-38 weeks of pregnancy. "However, expectant mothers at any stage of pregnancy will benefit from learning the techniques for later use and many mothers even choose to create multiple casts at different stage s of their pregnancy." The workshop is also open to mothers who have unfinished casts from a previous pregnancy. They may bring their casts in to learn how to have them shaped, reinforced and smoothed.

The Mother’s Day Belly Casting Workshop is from 3-5p.m. on Saturday, May 12th at Thank You Mama baby boutique, 1511 Fourth St. N in St. Petersburg. The workshop costs $40 with all materials provided or $20 if participants wish to bring their own materials. Each participant will also receive a special Mother’s Day gift bag filled with goodies and discounts from area businesses. To register contact Heather Spooner at (813)789-9097 or info@mybellybliss.com.

Do any of you veteran moms wish you had "saved" your belly as a keepsake?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free classes get you ready for pool season

Sharon Wynne — Tue, 01 May 2012 10:12:00 +0000

Are the kids itching for a swim yet? My pool is still too chilly for me, but the kids have already been in all weekend. As we venture into warmer weather, it's nice to see some of the free water safety events coming up.

There's a Water Safety Puppet Show next week at the Safety Harbor Library, that aimed for kids ages 2 to 12. It includes a puppet show, songs, a safety lecture, a visit from Splash the Safety Penguin and free stuffed penguins (while supplies last). Free. Safety Harbor Library, 101 Second St. N, Safety Harbor. (727) 724-1535. 6:30 p.m. Monday, 10:30 a.m. Wednesday (May 6 and 9).

The St. Pete Beach Aquatic Center is taking things a step further with it's Every Child a Swimmmer program. This annual program allows children who are non-swimmers between the ages of 5-11 years to participate in swim lessons for FREE. Registration and swim tests are required before official classes start. Course runs at 5 p.m. and 5:45 p.m. Monday through Thursday May 7 to May 24. Phone: (727) 363-9264.

You can also find reasonably priced swim lessons at the YMCA and most of your local public pools. I always found it funny that when my babies were in lessons at the YMCA in January, there were only a few other people in the class. But come June, the class with mobbed. Don't people realize it takes years to learn to swim, so why wait until summer to sign up?

Of course wwimming lessons is just part of a complete prevention program that should include fencing for pools, appropriate adult supervision, and parent training in CPR.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Tips on buying a cell phone for a kid

Sharon Wynne — Sun, 29 Apr 2012 10:12:00 +0000

I know, I know, I'm about to get pummeled with outrage from readers telling me that no 12 year old needs a cell phone. I get it. You lived through your childhood without a cell phone, and kids these days can do the same. But the truth is, about 75 percent of 12- to 17-year-olds have phones, according to a Pew Internet and American Life Project study. It's not just that kids want one, a lot of us parents want them to have them so we can reach them more easily.

They also are excellent discipline tools. Got a kid getting acting up? Threaten to take away his cell phone and watch him turn into an angel. Want to teach a kid money skills? Let her earn the money she needs to pay for her cell phone or those extra texting minutes she wants.

Metro PCS recently sent me these four tips for parents to consider when buying a cell phone:

Look at big-picture costs. While some parents opt for discounted phones to save up-front costs, they are usually paired with pricier plans that can add up over time. Paying a little more up-front for a phone usually equals big savings in the long-run: Lower-rate plans save close to $2,000 over a two-year period.

Find the right plan. First-time cell users are likely to text frequently (the Pew study also shows that one in three teens sends 3,000 texts a month). By opting for a pay-in-advance plan, parents know what costs to expect and won’t be surprised by overage charges at the end of the month. ... Added bonus: Pay-in-advance phones can be taken away as punishment when necessary without worry of being bound to a monthly contract and paying for a service that isn’t being used.

Determine which features matter most. It’s important for parents to talk to their child about which features or services they’ll use the most. For instance, parents could opt for a phone with a QWERTY keyboard for text-happy users ... or select a device with strong audio and visual capabilities ... for those who love videos and entertainment.

Research parental controls. Once settled on a carrier and phone, parents can consider apps, services and programs that give insight into what their kids are doing on the phone. Whether regularly checking browser history or automatically looking through text recipients, there are a number of tools available to help parents monitor what kids are doing. Apps can also help keep track of where children are, at all times.

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And here are my tips for parents buying a phone for a kid for the first time:

Be prepared for the worst. It is highly likey the phone will get lost, broken or maybe even stolen because kids tend to be careless. Don't buy a phone you can't afford to lose. My son's first phone was a pre-paid phone that only cost about $20. When he jumped into a pool with it in his pocket it didn't cost much to replace (and he was the one who had to raise the money to replace it).

Let them earn a better phone. Set an amount of time, like the first year or 6 months, and if in that time the phone has been well taken care of and none of your house rules have been broken, talk about getting a better one.

Go with pre-paid Kids often don't realize that going over their minutes or texting will result in big charges. If you do a prepaid plan you protect yourself.

Get the passwords Talk ahead of time about your rules for phone use and what will happen in they are broken. Get their passwords and let them know you will be checking texts for signs of bullying or inappropriate behavior. And do check.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Autistic boy's success at sailing leads to new summer camp

Sharon Wynne — Fri, 27 Apr 2012 16:53:54 +0000

There's a very heart-warming story you can read here from TampaBay.com on one autistic boy's great experiece at the Clearwater Sailing Center that led to a new summer camp this year, Camp Awesome, aimed at helping children with disabilities. There's a fundraiser tonight (April 27) to raise money for the camp.

Last year, Bonnie Monroe searched tirelessly for a summer camp that would enroll her autistic son, Mark,12, who has high functioning autism. She found Clearwater Community Sailing Center and Rich White, an instructor who taught Mark to sail.

The kid really took to it and the encounter changed Mark's life forever, his mother said. By the end of last summer, not only had he learned to sail and paddleboard by himself, he had joined the Sailing Center's regular summer camp activities.

"Seeing Mark sail, I was in tears," she said. "He was usually hanging out in the corner playing video games. It was amazing how learning to sail helped change my son."

Since last summer, CARD, or Florida's Center for Autism Related Disabilities, has trained sailing instructors and other Sailing Center staffers so they have a better working knowledge of how to assist children with special needs.

IF YOU GO

Camp Awesome fundraiser

What: Silent auction and cocktail party

When: 6 to 9 tonight

Where: Clearwater Community Sailing Center, 1001 Gulf Blvd. on Sand Key

Tickets: $10 advance or $15 at the door, which includes an automatic entry to win a two- night stay in a luxury hotel or other prizes

Information: (727) 517-7776 or order tickets at clearwatercommunitysailing.org/2012/silent-auction-invitation

It's so impressive to see the staff at the sailing center jumping into this project in such a big way.

Teen journalists take on bullying

Sharon Wynne — Fri, 27 Apr 2012 10:12:00 +0000

The teenage journalists at our "little sister" newspaper tb-two have done some really incredible reporting this week about bullying It's a must-read for both parents and kids since they have the kids themselves talking about what they have seen and experienced.

If you aren't aware of it, tb2 is published by the Tampa Bay Times and is staffed by students in Hillsbourgh and Pinellas high schools, where the paper is also distributed.

They have multiple angles on the subject of bullying but the most heartbreaking is this one by a gay student who has survived years of bullying. He twice tried to take his own life before he got some perspective. He writes:

If I could say anything about the people who bullied me, I’d say they didn’t bring me down, they taught me a lesson. It doesn’t matter what they say to me. I still get bullied now, and it’s like I don’t even care anymore. It’s better to be yourself. It’s such a wonderful feeling to be who you want to be, and it overpowers those feelings of doubt or regret. It’s kind of cliche, but it’s like becoming a butterfly after being in a cocoon for so long. That feeling is so beautiful.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free and cheap things to do with the kids this week

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 26 Apr 2012 10:12:00 +0000

We've got dragons in Garrison Channel and mummies at MOSI, not to mention the lead up to Star Wars Day by camping out with Darth Vader. Read on for not-so-scary ways to spend time -- and not much money -- with your kids.

Dragons will be lurking in Garrison Channel this weekend. Dragon boats that are the stuff of legend will be zipping through Channelside-area waters as paddlers from across the U.S. and Canada compete to be Tampa’s top team. It’s free for spectators to cheer on their favorite teams as they aim to paddle in synch in what is essentially a long canoe with a dragon head. This race is 450 meters with a fully buoyed five-lane course. Each team races three times, and heats run every 10 minutes. Meanwhile, the Asia Fest will run from 11 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. Saturday at nearby Cotanchobee Fort Brooke Park. Enjoy the tastes, sights and sounds of 15 Asian countries. There will be colorful dance performances, traditional music and a Miss Asia Fest competition. The park is at 601 Old Water St., and the dragon boats will be cruising down Garrison Channel starting at 8:30 a.m. Saturday behind the Marriott Tampa Waterside, 700 S Florida Ave., Tampa.

Dunedin is having a Touch-a-Truck on steroids, with more than 150 vehicles on display including … wait for it … a 20-ton tank. The Dunedin Parks and Recreation Department is also bringing out semitrailer trucks, heavy-duty construction equipment, fire engines, emergency vehicles, motorcycles, helicopters and boats from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Saturday. Demonstrations include dive team search techniques and fire/rescue extrications. Free, with $2 parking, at Highlander Park, 1920 Pinehurst Road, Dunedin. (727) 812-4530.

For young star-hoppers, Tampa’s Museum of Science and Industry is staging a Jedi Academy Camp-In on Saturday night. Build a lightsaber! $105 parent/child team, $60 additional child. For details: (813) 987-6000 or mosi.org. This is leading up to what is called Star Wars Day next Friday, May 4th (as in, "May the 4th be with you")

Blast Friday, the family-friendly street celebration in downtown Clearwater this month includes a free concert by ’70s radio kings Firefall (You Are The Woman, Just Remember I Love You, Strange Way). There will also be unique vendors, fun foods, family activities and contests. Free. It runs 5:30 to 10 p.m. Friday in the Cleveland Street District, Clearwater. (888) 532-5278.

A $5 wrist band lets you try all the entries in the Cook Your Butt Off Barbecue Challenge of time-honored family pork butt recipes entered for this contest. There will also be tractor hayrides through the forest ($1 additional charge) and kids games. Free parking and admission from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Saturday at Pinellas Pioneer Settlement, 2900 31st St. S, St. Petersburg. ($25 contest entry fee.) (727) 893-7326.

Treasure Island’s beach will stage 10 hours of dancing in the sand to live music for the Bikini Blues Bash. With music by Paul Anthony (noon), Charlie Morris Band (1:15 p.m.), Betty Fox (3 p.m.), Little Jake Mitchell and the Soul Searchers (5:30 p.m.), Sarasota Slim (7 p.m.) and Lucky Peterson (8-10 p.m.). Other activities include a children’s area, arts and craft vendors, food and beverage concessions, from noon to 10 p.m. Saturday at Bilmar Beach Resort, 10650 Gulf Blvd., Treasure Island. (727) 547-4575. Free.

Come Saturday, Freedom Lake Park's Bark in the Park will look like a doggie singles cruise — we hope someone has ordered a few thousand plastic baggies to contain all the ... umm, excitement. A whole pack of dogs will be on hand from Pekingese to police dogs. Activities include pet adoptions, craft and pet vendors and a K-9 police dog demonstration. Starts at 8 a.m. at 7770 52nd St., Pinellas Park. (727) 488-6321. Free, with contest entry fees benefitting the care for active duty and retired K-9 police dogs.

Or if your pooch is a sports fan, you can try to bark in the ballpark on Saturday. The Dunedin Blue Jays will be hosting an annual tradition at Florida Auto Exchange Stadium - Bark in the Park Fans are invited to bring along their canine companions, and learn about the area's finest dog treats and dog care all while enjoying the wonderful game of baseball! Tickets to the game are $6 for humans and $3 for dogs and the
proceeds of dog tickets will benefit Retired K9 Heroes. There are three different ways you can purchase tickets for the April 28 game vs. the
Tampa Yankees. You can go to the stadium box office located at 373 Douglas Ave. in Dunedin, you can call (727) 733-0429, or you can order
online at dunedinbluejays.com.

It's the first Tuesday of the month so it's Target Tuesday Everyone gets in free from 2 to 7 p.m. Presented by Target. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. 2-7 p.m. Tuesday.

While this isn't free or cheap theMummies of the World exhibit coming to MOSI this weekend through Labor Day is not to be missed. This traveling exhibit is a rarity because it involves 21 different museums from around the world, making it the largest exhibition of real human and animal mummies and related artifacts ever assembled. Tickets are $18.95 for adults; $12.95 for children ages 2 to 12; $16.95 for seniors. For $5 more you can see both the mummies and the rest of MOSI, (813) 987-6000. mosi.org.

Coming on the heels of Earth Day is the annual Green Thumb Festival, the plant and landscape festival that celebrates Arbor Day and Earth Day with a colorful array of flowering plants, trees, orchids, herbs, garden art for sale, soil and water testing, tool sharpening, horticulture exhibits, children’s plant fair, Garden Club of St. Petersburg Flower Show (9 a.m.-4 p.m. Sat. and 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Sun.), recycling and much more. Free (trees additional). Walter Fuller Park & Center, 7891 26th Ave. N, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7441. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday-Sunday.

Other family friendly events this week include:

Pit Bull Awareness Day
Well-behaved bull breeds are the stars of this dog-friendly gathering with confirmation shows, junior handlers, a hang time competition, weight pull, dog product vendors, food and adoptable dogs. Limit one dog per person. Gates open at 9 a.m. $5 per person or dog, 12 and younger free. Florida State Fairgrounds, 4802 U.S. 301 N, Tampa. (727) 735-1079. 11 a.m. Saturday.
Buddy Memorial Horse Show
Children and adults with special needs will put on a show to demonstrate the horsemanship skills they’ve learned through the Saddle Up Riding Club. Tour the facility and check out the animals. Free (donations appreciated). Saddle Up Riding Club, 6080 94th Ave., Pinellas Park. (727) 348-7104. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Saturday.
Largo LIVE! Wine and Food Truck Tasting
Food trucks hit the streets at Ulmer Park, along with specialties from area restaurants, plus 100 wines for sampling (at $3-$7 each), live entertainment, craft and merchandise vendors. Proceeds benefit the Abilities Foundation job and housing programs for disabled veterans. Ulmer Park, 301 W Bay Drive, Largo. 5-10 p.m. Saturday.
Astronomy Night
Join the St. Pete Astronomy Club for a night of star gazing. $3, $1.50 children. Boyd Hill Nature Preserve, 1101 Country Club Way S, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7326. 7:30-9 p.m. Friday.
Cartooning for Kids
Children aged 7-12 will learn story boarding, perspective, character development and how to make flip story books. $50, includes supplies. Hyde Park Art Studio, 702 S. Albany Ave., Tampa. (813) 259-1687. 4 p.m. Tuesday.
Nature’s Elements
Kids take a walk in the preserve to explore nature through crafts and activities. Best for ages 4-7. $10. Boyd Hill Nature Preserve, 1101 Country Club Way S, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7326. 9:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Saturday.
Swing Into Spring
With live music, kids activities, special guest appearances by former Major League Baseball players and food/beer samples for adults. Proceeds from food and drink benefits the Jason Ackerman and Toby Hall Foundations. Free; $10 food/drink. The Shops at Wiregrass, 28211 Paseo Drive, Wesley Chapel. (813) 994-2242. 6-8:30 p.m. today.
Wee-time at Weedon
This portion features Doreen Cronin’s book Diary of a Spider. Includes story related crafts, games and other hands-on activities. Best for ages 3-5. Free (registration required). Weedon Island Preserve, 1800 Weedon Drive NE, St. Petersburg. (727) 453-6500. 10:30-11:15 a.m. today.
Sunset Cinema at Pier 60
Bring blankets, low lawn chairs or towels to plop on Clearwater Beach and watch free movies. Friday features The Smurfs, rated PG, and Saturday features Jack & Jill, rated PG. No alcohol. Pier 60, 10 Pier 60 Drive, Clearwater Beach. (727) 434-6060. Shows start at dusk.
Canoe Lake Maggiore
Study the shoreline as you follow guides on a paddle from Lake Maggiore Park (MLK and 37th-40th Ave. S) to Dell Holmes Park and back. Ages 8 and older only. Pre-registration and pre-payment required. $10, $20 per canoe (limit 3 per canoe). Boyd Hill Nature Preserve, 1101 Country Club Way S, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7326. 9-11:30 a.m. Saturday.
Moonlight Night Hike
Bring a flashlight for a one-mile prowl in search of night creatures. $3 per carload (up to eight people). Dade Battlefield Historic State Park, 7200 County Road 603, Bushnell. (352) 793-4781. 7:30-9:30 p.m. Friday.
Ultimate Frisbee Clinic
Kids ages 11 to 18 can learn about the sport of Ultimate Frisbee. Clinic participants receive a free disc, hands on instruction on throwing a disc and watch an exhibition game. Free (registration required). Julian B. Lane Riverfront Park, 1111 N Boulevard, Tampa. (813) 358-8298. 9:30 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday.
Water Ski Show
More than 100 skiers ages 6-60 perform theatrical water shows similar to those seen over the years in Cypress Gardens. This week features an '80s themed show. Free. Tower Lake, 130 Burbank Road, Oldsmar. (727) 480-9365. 6 p.m. Saturday.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Wet 'n Wild adding major expansion this summer

Sharon Wynne — Wed, 25 Apr 2012 14:25:37 +0000

The state's first water park, Wet ‘n Wild Orlando, has announced it is adding a major expansion that will include a huge sandcastle and a playground that covers an acre of space with slides, soakers, jets and waterfalls. Called Blastaway Beach, it is set to open in June of this year and for parents of little tots, note that it's designed especially for families with a single entrance/exit, "creating a secluded environment that is family-friendly and family-safe," a press release says.

Billed as the largest of its kind in Florida, this will be Wet ‘n Wild’s first new attraction in more than four years.

Built around a sandcastle rising 60-feet high, the new attraction will feature 17 slides, expand across two pools and have more than 160 soakers, jets, waterfalls and water cannons.

Wet ‘n Wild Orlando, a Universal theme park, invented the waterpark concept in 1977 when it was founded by Sea World creator George Millay, and now has more than 15 themed rides and attractions.

Universal Orlando Resort earlier this month announced a new Third Day Free offer that gives Florida residents a two-day, two-park ticket plus a third day free for $99. Tickets must be purchased online by May 31 and used by June 30.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

As vaccine fears rise, so does whooping cough

Sharon Wynne — Tue, 24 Apr 2012 10:00:00 +0000

On the news that whooping cough is on the rise in Hillsborough County, the question inevitably comes up: Are the anti-vaccine forces to blame?

Seven families, spread throughout the Hillsborough County, are responsible for a large portion of the cases, Hillsborough County reports. Among them was one family that does not believe in immunizations, health officials said.

You can't blame all this on the anti-vax folks though. Children receive the vaccine that protects them against pertussis, diphtheria and tetanus in five stages — at two months, four months, six months, between 15 and 18 months and between 4 and 6 years. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends that adults — particularly those who come in contact with infants and small children — receive a vaccine booster dose every 10 years.

But we've also had news stories of measles cases on the rise, and the rising numbers of people who opt out of vaccines citing religions exemptions.

Medical experts say they think the real issue often is not religion, but unfounded fears of a connection between vaccines and autism.

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Kids trash a classroom: What would you do?

Sharon Wynne — Mon, 23 Apr 2012 18:23:56 +0000

Editors at TampaBay.com report here that over the weekend, three boys between the ages of 8 and 12 were caught vandalizing a school's portable classrooms. Vandalizing is too mild a word. They trashed the place.

In three portable classrooms, Winter Haven police said, furniture and electronics were found overturned, books and papers strewn across the floor and paint sprayed across walls, whiteboards, televisions and furniture.

The three boys' parents were called to the school, and police said all three were taken into custody by Winter Haven Police and taken to the Polk County Juvenile Assessment Center. The boys were charged with four counts of burglary and felony criminal mischief, authorities said in a news release.

OK, it's worst nightmare time: What would you do if this were your child? Do the police have to be involved or is this something the parents and the school can handle?

My first instinct would be to set the boy to work cleaning up the mess and then work out a schedule with the school every day before and after school when he could do chores there to work off the cost of the damage.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Teens join battle to save environment

Sharon Wynne — Mon, 23 Apr 2012 10:00:00 +0000

The Pinellas County Youth Advisory Committee will join the battle against invasive plant species, like this Brazilian pepper plant shown at left,by digging into a community service project at Fort De Soto Park on Saturday (April 28) from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Students are invited to join the high school members of the Youth Advisory Committee as they remove invasive plants from the park, a task that is "vitally important to keep the area vibrant, healthy and ecologically friendly for native vegetation and wildlife," a county press release says.

Participating students will earn community service hours while contributing to the maintenance of the largest park in the Pinellas County parks system. The 1,136-acre park is made up of five interconnected islands, home to beach plants, mangroves, wetlands, palm hammocks, hardwoods and scores of native plants. Each of these species plays a vital role in the preservation and protection of the natural environment.

Work clothes, gloves and a bagged lunch are recommended for this community service project. To register, go to the event's website or call (727) 582-2656.

The members of the Pinellas County Youth Advisory Committee are high school students who provide input and assistance to the Pinellas County Board of County Commissioners. Membership is open to high school students who reside in Pinellas County.

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Mummies exhibit too scary for kids?

Sharon Wynne — Sun, 22 Apr 2012 11:23:06 +0000

With haunting images of shriveled flesh and sunken stares, mummies are the stuff of nightmares. So is the new Mummies of the World exhibit coming to MOSI on Friday for a four-month stay too scary for kids? I certainly had that concern when the Bodies exhibit was at MOSI. The thought of those being actual human beings on display just creeped me out.

Marc Corwin, president of American Exhibition, producer of the Mummies of the World exhibit, said they took kids into account and made pains to emphasize the science of mummification and play down the scare factor. (I'm not sure they can play down the creepy factor if they tried) Of the 200,00 visitors at the exhibition’s first stop in Los Angeles, half of them were families with young children, Corwin said.

It helps that there are several interactive kiosks where kids can find out what a mummy feels like or see 3D images of the high-tech scans scientists used to find out what the mummies died of or how old they were.

Here's what the Mummies exhibit entails: This traveling exhibit is a rarity because it involves 21 different museums from around the world, making it the largest exhibition of real human and animal mummies and related artifacts ever assembled. It will remain on display through Sept. 3. Mummification is rare, since it requires the preservation of soft tissue, such as skin, muscle or organs. Without that, it's a skeleton. That's why people are fascinated by them, since they are more human looking.

“They will learn the science of mummification and why some people decompose and why do some end up in this limbo,” Corwin said. “We have these unique time travelers who for some reason their decomposition stopped and here they are for eternity.”

This is "very different and shouldn’t be confused with Bodies," Corwin said. Bodies featured human anatomy and bodies unfolded to dislay their organs and veins, "Here people are able to see mummies of humans and also animals (like this monkey at left) from all over the world and related artifacts and science books and different tools and rituals."

The exhibit has a mummy of a 10 month infant child that carbon dating has found to be 6,420 years old. "That’s 3,000 years older than King Tut," Corwin said. "We are talking about something that is ancient and rare and never been seen before."

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free and cheap things to do with the kids this week

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 19 Apr 2012 10:12:00 +0000

UPDATE: Because of the weather forecasts for the weekend, the Erase the Hate Festival Saturday has been postponed and the Brandon Skate Park Grand opening is postponed

The deals are rolling in, and not just on wheels like the free admission the rest of this month at t a new skatepark. We've got Earth Day, dogs at the ballpark, an orchestra on the beach and a baby show that wants to break a Guinness world record for diaper changing. Read on for family friendly deals.

At long last, Brandon is rolling! Though Saturday's Brandon Skate Parkis Grand Opening has been canceled Saturday because of inclemente weather, we are told that it will happen sometime in May. In the meantime, if the weather cooperates the park will be open and skating will be FREE all summer. Thisis the long-awaited opening of the 11,000-square-foot “obstacle street and bowl” skate park for the Brandon area. Starting int he fall, fees will be $4 per day, with an annual skate park pass available for $150. All skaters must wear a helmet. Free. Brandon Skate Park, 5720 Providence Road, Riverview.

It's a dog day Sunday for Bark at the Ball Park. Trade your mitt for your mutt at Sunday’s Bark at the Ball Park gathering at Bright House Field. The Clearwater Threshers will be hosting the Dunedin Blue Jays, but the real action will be in the stands and the grassy berm in the outfield, where dogs get their day. Adoptable pets will be on hand, and there is the infamous pet/owner look-alike contest. Best of all, when the game’s over, you can run the bases with your best friend. Tickets are $5-$9.50 for humans and $5 for dogs. (Sorry, Fido, there’s no student or puppy discount.) But funds will benefit the Humane Society of Pinellas, so wag your tail appropriately. It’s 1 p.m. Sunday at 601 N Old Coachman Road, Clearwater. (727) 467-4457.

POSTPONED (All VIP passes will be honored on future date when it is determined) Brandi Carlile and Miggs will perform at the Erase Hate Festival, from noon to 10:30 p.m. Saturday at Curtis Hixon Park in downtown Tampa. Twice since 2010, Brandi Carlile has played the 500-seat Capitol Theatre in Clearwater. Both times, the show sold out well in advance. Carlile will trade intimate for sprawling on Saturday, when she headlines the Erase Hate Festival, a public kickoff concert for Erase Hate Tampa Bay, at Curtis Hixon Park in Tampa. The nonprofit aims to educate students on tolerance — bullying, racism, gangs, homophobia — through after-school programs and other activities such as rock climbing, face painting, food by MacDinton’s and adult beverages. Saturday’s concert is free, but donations and VIP ticket sales will benefit the charity. The music begins at 5:30 p.m.; Carlile will go on around 8. Free; VIP tickets $75. For info, see erasehatetampabay.org.

Earth Day is Sunday and there's lots of Earth Day activities around the Tampa Bay area this weekend, including a parade in Dunedin and a wildlife safari in Tarpon Springs.

Kids Toolbox, the new store in Clearwater that stocks materials for kids with autism, attention-deficit disorder and other special needs, will hold a grand opening celebration from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Saturday at 1550 McMullen-Booth Road, Suite F5, Clearwater. There will be promotions and prizes, including a free stay at the TradeWinds, one of the few area hotels with autism-friendly accommodations such as special menus, safety kits for the room and sensory activities. Owners ask that you bring a nonperishable food item for local food pantries.

The annual Beach Goes Pops festival turns the white sand of Pass-a-Grille into a concert hall and dance party. Radio personality Jack Harris will be the master of ceremonies, and things kick off at 4 p.m. Friday with the Beach Goes Pops band, followed by the world beats of Hip Abduction and Big Brother. On Saturday, steel drum music starts things off at 4 p.m., then saxophonist Jeff Zavac and the St. Petersburg Opera Company will provide a special musical program starting at 7:30 p.m. Bring a blanket or a chair. In addition to free music, there’s an arts and crafts show, food and drinks from numerous area restaurants. Free.

Somehow we think Dalí would have appreciated the surreal Tim Burton comedy Pee-Wee’s Big Adventure, about the eccentric man-child and his colorful friends. It’s part of the free Dalí and Beyond Film Series at 6 tonight (Thursday), held twice monthly in the museum’s lobby theater. You can also shop or check out the cafe until 8 p.m. If you want to see the gallery, there’s a price break. Admission to the museum is $10 from 5 to 8 p.m. every Thursday night. Dalí Museum, 1 Dalí Blvd. (Bayshore Drive SE and Fifth Avenue SE). Free.

Have a kid in piano lessons? Take them to see Peter Malinverni. Considered one of New York’s great jazz pianists, Malinverni’s CDs have been chosen for many year-end “best” lists by music writers. While he has played Carnegie Hall and accompanied Elvis Costello, he also serves as minister of music at the Devoe Street Baptist Church in Brooklyn, a predominantly African-American congregation. Eckerd College is hosting him for a concert at 3 p.m. Sunday at the Roberts Music Center, 4200 54th Ave. S, St. Petersburg. Free.

Moms of girls, make some time to check out the free talk by Ariel Levy, author of Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the Rise of Raunch Culture, and a contributing editor to the New Yorker, offers a powerful critique of the “raunch culture” and the commercialization of women’s bodies and sexuality in American society. She is giving a free talk at Eckerd College at 7 p.m. Tuesday in Fox Hall, 4200 54th Ave. S, St. Petersburg.

The Tampa Bay Baby Show features 45 vendors selling baby related products, a diaper derby, stroller wash and hourly prizes. The highlight of the day is the promotion of cloth diaper use and an attempt to break the Guinness Book of World Records for simultaneous cloth diaper changes (noon). Currently 262 locations around the globe have 6,550 babies signed up. The number to beat is 5,026. $10 ages 2-54, $9 ages 55 and older, one and younger free (Baby Show); Free (diaper change participants). Great Explorations Children’s Museum, 1925 Fourth St. N, St. Petersburg. (727) 631-7014. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday.

Nickelodeon’s popular preschool music group The Fresh Beat Band will perform hits from seasons one, two and three of their live-action music series that teaches preschoolers about music appreciation. $29-$46. Ruth Eckerd Hall, 1111 N McMullen-Booth Road, Clearwater. (727) 791-7400. 7 p.m. today (Thursday).

Other family event this week include:

Ultimate Frisbee Clinic
Kids ages 11-18 are invited to learn about the sport of Ultimate Frisbee. Clinic participants receive a free disc, hands on instruction on throwing a disc and watch an exhibition game. Free (registration required). Puryear Park, 5701 Lee St NE
St. Petersburg. 9:30 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday.
BrushBot Building Workshop
Kids in grades 2-6 explore robotic motion, electronics and how robots can make their lives easier. $25, $20 members. Museum of Science and Industry, 4801 E Fowler Ave., Tampa. (813) 987-6000. 10 a.m.-noon Saturday.
CO2 Dragster Racing Workshop
Kids in grades 5-8 can design, build and race their own mini dragster powered with high-pressure CO2. $40, $30 members. Museum of Science and Industry (MOSI), 4801 E Fowler Ave., Tampa. (813) 987-6000. 1-5 p.m. Saturday.
Family Art Night
Families can get together for pizza, art and a movie about the “Artist of the Night.” This month features painter and sculpture Dorothy Gillespie. $40 (two kids and two adults); $5 additional child. Morean Arts Center, 719 Central Ave., St. Petersburg. (727) 822-7872. 6-8:30 p.m. Friday.
Graff-Street Art
As an individual and in a group, kids ages 10-16 will explore the elements of graffiti style, sketching walls, bricks to pixels, tape art, history and use of tools. Sessions focus on the early hip-hop culture. $25. Morean Arts Center, 719 Central Ave., St. Petersburg. (727) 822-7872. 1-4 p.m. Saturday.
Hooked on Fishing
A kid’s fishing tournament with prizes for fun categories including biggest fish, smallest fish and ugliest fish. Light refreshments and first round of bait provided. $5. Merry Pier, 801 Pass a Grille Way, St. Petersburg. (727) 363-9245. 9-11 a.m. Saturday.
Keith Munslow
Munslow looks at real-life experiences of kids and families with humor in this interactive show featuring fun, funky music and stories. $8. Ruth Eckerd Hall Murray Studio Theater, 1111 N McMullen-Booth Road, Clearwater. (727) 791-7400. 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. Saturday.
Kid Crafternoons
Kids ages 6-12 will learn basic design principles and hands on art methods while receiving some teacher direction for crafty creativity in this “design it” yourself activity. $25. Morean Arts Center, 719 Central Ave., St. Petersburg. (727) 822-7872. 1-4 p.m. Friday.
Northdale Family Fun Festival and Parade
The Gaither High School marching band leads the parade from the school into the park where a festival takes place including food samples, railroad displays, live entertainment, games and face painting. Free. Northdale Park, 15550 Spring Pine Drive, Tampa. (813) 968-8460. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Saturday.
Once Upon a Mattress
Comedians and musicians from the Patel Conservatory Youth Theatre put their own spin on the classic fairy tale The Princess and the Pea. $15. David A. Straz Jr. Center for the Performing Arts, 1010 N MacInnes Place, Tampa. (813) 229-7827. 7 p.m. today-Friday, 2 and 7 p.m. Saturday.
Prom Dress Distribution
Needy young women can get a prom dress for $1 at the Belle of the Ball Project dress distribution. $1 donation appreciated. Seminole Mall, 11201 Park Blvd., Seminole. (727) 386-4502. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Saturday.
Rock 'n Roll Railroad
Climb aboard the train for a ride from Parrish to historic Willow for an outdoor concert by Delusions of Grandeur. During the concert, engine 8330 will be open for tours. Make a $25 donation and you can actually drive it on one-mile of open track. $16. Florida Railroad Museum, 12210 83rd St. E, Parrish. (877) 869-0800. 5 p.m. Saturday.
Rosita’s Fiesta
Dance along with Rosita and her Sesame Street friends as they celebrate her Hispanic culture and enjoy delicious food served buffet-style. This event is part of the Viva la Musica celebration. $22, $15 children. Park admission also required. Busch Gardens, 3605 Bougainvillea Ave., Tampa. Toll-free 1-888-800-5447. 12:30-1:30 p.m. Sunday.
Dunedin Highland Games
Annual event with competitions in Scottish bag piping and drumming, pipe bands and Highland dancing. Also, live bands, a clan gathering, Celtic music, kid’s activities, Scottish wares, food and drink. Benefits Scottish bands of Dunedin. $10, 12 and younger free. Highlander Park, 1920 Pinehurst Road, Dunedin. (727) 733-3197. 8 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday.
Friday Night Movies in Pioneer Park
Dress up as your favorite character or thing from each week’s film. This week features the classic film West Side Story. Free. Pioneer Park, Main Street and Douglas Avenue, Dunedin. (727) 812-4530. 7 p.m. Friday.
Movies in the Park
Grab your blankets and chairs for a free screening of Happy Feet, the animated tale of emperor penguins who find their soul mates through song. Refreshments will be sold. Themed activities begin at 7 p.m. and the movie begins at dark. Free. Largo Central Park, 101 Central Park Drive, Largo. (727) 586-7415. 7 p.m. Friday.
Spring and Fall Free For All
Bring lawn chairs, blankets, snacks or a complete dinner for an outdoor viewing of Battle for Terra. Free. Sims Park, 6341 Bank St., New Port Richey. (727) 967-6726. 6:30 p.m. Friday.
Sunset Cinema at Pier 60
Bring blankets, low lawn chairs or towels to plop on Clearwater Beach and watch free movies. Friday features ANTZ, rated PG, and Saturday features Moneyball, rated PG-13. Concessions for sale. No alcohol. Pier 60, 10 Pier 60 Drive, Clearwater Beach. (727) 434-6060. Shows start at dusk.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Win a Mother's Day makeover

Sharon Wynne — Wed, 18 Apr 2012 10:00:00 +0000

Just like Cinderella, we could all use a fairy godmother to give us a makeover and remember what it was like before we lived in yoga pants and pony tails. Our friends on the Deal Divas blog found this contest for a Mother's Day makeover by Classy Consignment of Lutz that will award one winner a full haircut and color from Shanna Young of HairStyle Salon, a makeover from Mary Kay's Annette Antinori-Hall, a new outfit from Classy Consignment, an airbrush tan from Tropic Tan and dinner for two at Benedetto's Ristorante Italiano.

And now comes news that the Buccaneers are accepting nominations for Mother's Day makeovers for military mothers and their families

The Tampa Bay Buccaneers' Third Annual "Mother's Day Makeover" program is giving away a "nce-in-a-lifetime experience" to 10 mothers from Central Florida in honor of Mother's Day. New for 2012, the Buccaneers are looking forward to helping military moms who go above and beyond.

The Buccaneers are searching for compelling stories of mothers who are currently U.S. military members, are mothers of U.S. military members, or are a spouse/partner of a U.S. military member and would benefit from a day of pampering and relaxation.

Following a selection process, the 10 mothers will meet at One Buccaneer Place, the team's state-of-the-art headquarters, and then go on a $500 shopping spree. After the spree, the mothers will be treated to lunch, a professional makeover at New Identities Salon, and a very special dinner at One Buccaneer Place along with family and friends.

Below is a list of eligibility requirements, consents and releases:

To be eligible for the program, applicants must fulfill the following requirements:

    Applicants must be 18 years of age or older by April 23, 2012 to be nominated.
    All applications must be received by April 23, 2012 at 5:00 PM EST.
    Individuals selected as a recipient for further review must execute all waivers and release agreements required by the Tampa Bay Buccaneers.
    Nominees may be contacted by the Tampa Bay Buccaneers at any time in the future.
    Only complete applications will be considered.
    Only one entry per person is allowed, and decisions of the Tampa Bay Buccaneers are final.

For more information, and to nominate a mother for the Buccaneers "Mother's Day Makeover" program, visit www.buccaneers.com.

Celebrate Earth Day with your kids

Sharon Wynne — Tue, 17 Apr 2012 16:07:29 +0000

The first Earth Day was celebrated on April 22, 1970, with protests around the nation urging Congress to do something about air and water pollution. It achieved a rare political alignment, enlisting support from all political stripes to create the political movement that led to the creation of the Environmental Protection Agency and the passage of the Clean Air, Clean Water, and Endangered Species Acts. It drew participation from more than 10,000 high schools and grade schools.

It has since become a lot less political, more of a feel-good time to remember what we love about nature and why. Some environmentalists complain about that, especially as it becomes an excuse to sell stuff. But kids are still interested in how they can shape their planet.

Our colleague, environmental reporter Craig Pittman, offered these tips on how to use Earth Day as a chance to teach kids how they can help the environment. And below I offer some local events going on this weekend where you can bring along the kids to clean up a waterway, learn about our local environment or learn something new.

Craig's tips are

Show them how to conserve resources: Teach them to turn off lights, television sets, computers, game systems and other electronics when they aren't using them.

Show them the wonders of nature: Instead of a theme park or indoor play place, try taking them to a state park.

Show them their impact. Use a Web site with a carbon footprint calculator like this one or an eco footprint calculator like this one This lets your child can figure out how the way you live affects everyone. These Web sites also offer tips on how to reduce your footprint too.

Around Tampa Bay there are numerous environmental celebrations and events this week to remind us to be kind to Mother Nature.

Dunedin Life and Light Lantern Festival and Parade: The sky over Dunedin will be lit with floating lanterns at this Earth Day celebration with live music by area bands, a plant and garden sale, lantern making workshops, sustainability demonstrations, a kid’s village, drum circle, seed swap and a lantern parade. Free (vendor items and LED light for lantern additional). Pioneer Park, Main Street and Douglas Avenue, Dunedin. (727) 239-0420. Noon-9 p.m. Sunday.

Seminole Heights Bicycle Swap Meet: Celebrate Earth Day by getting a bicycle or buying parts to fix the one you already own. Food trucks will be at this outdoor bazaar with vendors buying and selling bicycles, bike parts, clothing and related equipment. Free. Sherry’s Yesterdaze, 5207 N Florida Ave., Tampa. (813) 468-0064. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Sunday.

Earth Day Wildlife Safari: Children up to age 12 can celebrate Earth Day by studying the snakes, baby raccoons, owls, opossums and gopher tortoise found along the preserve’s 1-mile trail. Last tour starts at 2 p.m. $5. Brooker Creek Preserve, 3940 Keystone Road, Tarpon Springs. (727) 934-2680. 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Saturday.

Great American Cleanup: Keep Tampa Bay Beautiful needs volunteers. Duties include recycling drives, picking up trash, removing graffiti, planting trees and community gardens. Boaters and kayakers are also needed for water cleanup. Visit KeepTampaBayBeautiful.org to view the list of locations and to register. Free. E. G. Simmons Park, 2401 19th Ave. NW, Ruskin. (813) 221-8733. 9 a.m.-noon Saturday.

Gulfport Earthfest: Gulfport pays tribute to the Earth and its water at this family festival with face painting, a water-themed walking parade, live music, dancing, drum circles, story telling, a touch tank, fishing fun, arts and crafts tables and vendors. Free. Clymer Park, Gulfport Blvd. S and Beach Blvd. S, Gulfport. (727) 744-7051. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday.

Earth Day 2012 at Homosassa Springs: Learn about butterflies, bats, bears and native plants from exhibitors throughout the park. Included with park admission. $13, $5 ages 6-12, 5 and younger free. Homosassa Springs State Wildlife Park, 4150 S Suncoast Blvd., Homosassa. (352) 628-5343. 10 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Saturday.

And here's some some of our local attractions are doing for Earth day

Earth Day at MOSI: This week’s Idea Zone Workshop theme is “Eco Totes.” Customize a shopping bag with high-tech embroidery for a nominal fee. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Saturday-Sunday. Also, kids in grades 1-5 can have fun with Recycled Art and Games by using recycled treasures to make board games, jewelry and sculptures in a salute to Earth Day. $20, $15 members (museum admission optional and additional). 1-3 p.m. Sunday. Museum admission is $20.95 adults (13-59), $16.95 child (2-12), $18.95 seniors (60+). Museum of Science and Industry (MOSI), 4801 E Fowler Ave., Tampa. (813) 987-6000.
Celebrate Planet Earth at Glazer Museum: Celebration at the children’s museum includes animal-inspired exercises (10:45 a.m.), a recycled art lab (11 a.m.), a wacky recyclable challenge and obstacle course (noon and 4 p.m.), oil spill exploration (2 p.m.) and a “going green and getting creative” session (3 p.m.). $15, $12.50 military/seniors, $9.50 children, under 1 free. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. 10:45 a.m.-4 p.m. today-Sunday.
Earth Day at the Aquarium: Find out what the aquarium is doing to help the Earth and easy ways that you can help, plus meet eco-friendly vendors and take environmentally focused tours and shows. $21.95, $18.95 for seniors 60+, $16.95 for kids 3-12. Florida Aquarium, 701 Channelside Drive, Tampa. (813) 273-4000. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday-Sunday.
Earth Day at USF Botanical Gardens: Environmental and sustainability exhibits, plus vendors, live music, foods for sale and a kid’s activity area. Free (food/drink additional). University of South Florida Botanical Gardens, 12210 USF Pine Drive, Tampa. (813) 974-2329. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday.
Zoo Enrichment Day for Earth Day: Spend the day with the animals and participate in a variety of animal enrichment activities, educational displays and exhibits. Included with regular admission. $23.95, $21.95 seniors, $18.95 ages 3-11, 2 and younger free. Lowry Park Zoo, 1101 W Sligh Ave., Tampa. (813) 935-8552. 9:30 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Legoland adds water to the bricks

Sharon Wynne — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 10:00:00 +0000

Less than two months until the Legoland Water Park opens on May 26, and the attraction is getting its middle name – water! More than a half a million gallons of H2O were pumped into the Lego Wave Pool by friendof the LegoCity Volunteer Fire Department. The first wave pool in any Legoland Water Park will be home to gently rolling waves. Meanwhile, the rest of the water park attraction is currently under construction from Duplo Splash Safari to Joker Soaker.

From a park press release, the new attractions include:

Lego Wave Pool – Families can catch a gentle wave or simply cool off in this perfectly sized wave pool where the waves are just big enough for all ages to enjoy.

Build-A-Raft River - Families can imagine, design and build a unique LEGO vessel and set afloat on a maiden voyage around the 1000-foot-long lazy river, set amongst playful LEGO Friends, flowering vegetation and palm trees

Twin Chasers – Friends ride tubes 375 feet down an intertwining pair of enclosed water slides before plunging into a refreshing pool below

Splash Out – The thrill seekers of the family can ascend to the tallest point of the water park attraction and choose from one of three unique slides, then speed down a 60-foot drop and “splash out” into the water below

Joker Soaker - A fun, interactive playground with various lengths, heights and types of slides that offer something different for every member of the family. Guests can wade in the surrounding pool and be surprised with a torrential spill from a 300-gallon bucket

Duplo Splash Safari – Toddlers will rule at this water play area with shorter slides and interactive, larger-than-life DUPLO creatures

Admission to the water park attraction is included with Legoland Premium Pass, which offers 12 months admission to Legoland Florida and seasonal access to the LEGOLAND Water Park for just $179 for adults and $149 for child/senior. Single-day Legoland Florida guests may upgrade to a water park attraction ticket for an additional $12 per person (children under 3 are $3). The Premium Pass is now available for purchase at www.LEGOLAND.com or AAA Auto Group branches.

--Suzannah DiMarzio

See more on theme parks from Suzannah at Zannaland.com

4 reasons my kids love FCAT week

Sharon Wynne — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 14:32:27 +0000

Once again, students embarking on FCAT week on Monday can stop in for a free McDonald’s breakfast at any of the fast-food chain’s locations in the Tampa Bay area and it's really not a bad choice for test week: An Egg McMuffin, apple slices and a choice of milk or a small orange juice. The offer is for in-store only and there are no substitutions. It is good only on Monday from 6 a.m. to 8:30 a.m., while supplies last. The student must be present to receive the breakfast and those under 15 must be accompanied by a parent.

But that's not the only reason my kids love FCAT week and why it breaks my heart when I see kids stressing out over this high-stakes test. Teachers' stress I can understand, but I hate that it filters down to the kids. Here are some tips on the three ways you can help your kids do their best, but it boils down to three things: the right breakfast, sleep and relax.

With that foundation, here's the 4 reasons why my kids love a week of taking a test:

No homework: The schools also suspend any ongoing projects, reading logs or practices too. With the free time, we like to take advantage of the longer hours of daylight and ride bikes, start a game of kickball in the neighborhood or visit a playground. (There's a method to my madness here, exercise is the very best brain food you can give a kid. It also helps them sleep better)

Recess returns: A sad fact of this test taking world we live in is teachers are pressed for time to cram in practice sheets and drills, so recess has been squeezed out. The veteran teachers know that it's worth it to make some time to let the kids run around and clear the cobwebs, but it's not a daily thing anymore. Not so for FCAT week.

Snacks: Who doesn't love snacks? They come out for test week and teachers let kids bring their favorites from home to fuel up. Send in a snack for your child. Or even better, help the teacher out and send in some snacks for the class for the middle of the morning such as apples, whole grain crackers, nuts and cheese snacks (rather than sugary treats or white-flour crackers).

School life gets easier: After FCAT week, you can almost feel the whole school exhale. All the art and science or history projects that weren't part of the test's scope get indulged.

If you have a nervous test taker, try to focus on these positives and plan some family time outside each night.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

How to talk to teens about alcohol

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 12 Apr 2012 16:00:00 +0000

Need some help to talk to your teen about alcohol? April 21 is the annual day that Mothers Against Drunk Driving urges parents and teens to start the conversation. MADD even has a free Power of Parents website available with resources and a free handbook you can have e-mailed to you that provides guidance on how to start the potentially lifesaving conversation.

Today St. Petersburg Mayor Bill Foster is kicking off the week before with a proclamation declaring the city’s commitment to stop underage drinking in preparation for PowerTalk 21 day — the annual day for parents and teens to start the conversation about alcohol on April 21. MADD volunteers will be on hand at today's announcement at St. Petersburg City Hall, 175 Fifth St N today (April 12) at 2:45 p.m. to talk about workshops and resources.

If you can't make it, we have 9 tips here on what to say and do on a day intentionally positioned in advance of prom, graduation and other events where teens may encounter alcohol.

More than 6,000 people die each year as a result of underage drinking — more than all other illegal drugs combined. But the good news is three out of four teens say their parents are the number one influence on their decision to drink.

So here's some tips on talking to your teens:

Do it with a caring attitude. The easiest way to start the conversation is to say, ”There's been a lot of talk about alcohol at teen parties and it's been weighing on my mind, I would like to talk with you about it. I know you are smart and have been told a lot about this at school, but I need to talk about this with you because I care about your health and I care about your safety. Can you give me a few minutes?"

Even if you stumble through it, think about it this way: The fact that you've even had a conversation is likely to have an impact. Admit to your kid, "I may not do this right, but if I don't do this I'll feel like a bad parent."

Talk about why it's important: Teens who drink alcohol are more likely to:
    Die in a car crash
    Get pregnant
    Flunk school
    Be sexually assaulted
    Become an alcoholic later in life
    Take their own life through suicide

It's the law. This is actually a reason kids respect. Most teens know it is illegal to drink under the age of 21. Still, they may assume they won’t get caught or they are unfamiliar with Zero Tolerance laws, which prohibit driving after drinking any amount of alcohol. Remind your son or daughter that police do receive complaints about parties. When police arrive, they may arrest all who have been drinking underage. Discuss the potential consequences for breaking the law, such as the teen could have his or her license revoked or face expensive legal fees. The teen, you, and your family could be publicly embarrassed, since these arrests are routinely reported in newspapers. If a court date is scheduled, you may have to take time off from work and could lose pay. Teens rarely consider all the possible legal consequences. Discussing the implications can have an impact.

One way to get them talking would be with questions like:
--Do you know kids who drink? How has it affected them?

--Have you ever been offered alcohol by someone you knew? What did you say? If you havent, but this does happen sometime, what would you say?

--What if someone really pushed you? What would you say? (This might be a good time to come up with some face-saving maneuvers like "I have an early practice tomorrow" or "I don't like the taste so I'm sticking with soda")

--Do you see any risks? Do you have any concerns?

Don't be discouraged by a teen who responds with "I dunno" and "Okay Mom" or "Whatever." They could be tired or trying to avoid a lecture or simply not in the mood, the handbook advises, "Parents need to respect how a teen may feel and not force communication at a bad time. Let the matter drop and bring it up later. Try to pick a time when your teen will be open to talking."

You are likely to be asked about your past and your own behavior as a teen. Some parents set the ground rule that their own past is off limits and not relevant, but be forewarned this can lead to suspicion and resentment from a teen. Or you could go with "I did have a drink when I was younger. However, we did not know as much as we know now about the risks of alcohol. How early binge drinking is more likely to cause lifelong alcohol problems. If I had known then, I would have done things differently. This is why I am talking to you about it."

Discuss your family’s rules about alcohol and agree ahead of time on the consequences for breaking the rules, such as loss of the car (and/or phone, computer, video games) for a month and a much earlier curfew for a month. Emphasize that you hope at the end of the month they will think about making better choices.

Keep it constructive. Do your best his to help them, not attack, to keep communication channels open. Most of all, be constructive
in your responses to your teen, not defensive or angry. Emphasize that you care about them, want to understand them, want to help them and respect their desire to be independent. Studies show that when teens feel they can trust their parents and are trusted by them, they are less likely to drink, MADD says.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free and cheap things to do with the kids this week

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 12 Apr 2012 10:00:00 +0000

Spring is here and the weather is still bearable. And this week we have lots of outside events that are easy on the wallet, from a parent's night out while the kids are around the campfire to a balloon festival on the edge of the Everglades that sounds road-trip worthy. We have that and more in this week's roundup of free and cheap things to do with kids:

Friday is Parent’s Night Out: Kid’s Night Outside at a nature preserve. Mom and Dad can go out on a date while kids in grades K-5 are entertained with supervised night hikes, crafts and a campfire with s’mores. $15. Boyd Hill Nature Preserve, 1101 Country Club Way S, St. Petersburg. (727) 893-7326. 6-10 p.m. Friday.

Seminole Casino Immokalee is launching Balloons Over Paradise Festival, a road-trip-worthy new festival at Immokalee Regional Airport with more than 30 outrageous hot air balloons taking to the early morning sky with a balloon glow set to a musical score. With sunrise and sunset balloon glows, non-stop music, a children’s activity village and Grammy-nominated country artist John Anderson (Swingin’) giving a free show Saturday. RVs and campers welcome. Free; $5 parking. Immokalee Regional Airport, 165 Airpark Blvd., Immokalee. Toll-free 1-800-218-0007. 6 a.m.-8:30 p.m. Saturday, 6 a.m.-4 p.m. Sunday.

In honor of Earth Day (April 22), Craftsman House’s art show elevates recycling into art at the Art for the Earth Opening Reception . In addition to art made from recycled materials and environmental themes, the opening reception Saturday includes blues music played on cigar box guitars and photography by Rob Rowen of Nuance Galleries. The show runs through May 6. The reception on Saturday is at 5 p.m. at Craftsman House, 2955 Central Ave., St. Petersburg. Free.

You can get a cure for your spring fever at the USF Spring Plant Festival. They will have a myriad choices for spring plants, from crotons to camellias. More than 70 vendors and plant clubs will be at this 23rd annual festival, with garden-related supplies and art, tool sharpening, a new children’s craft area and music from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Saturday and from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Sunday at the USF Botanical Gardens, 12210 USF Pine Drive, Tampa. $5, kids under 12 and members free.

A free movie in the park? That’s the name of the ... that’s the name of the ... that’s the name of the game! The classic Frankie Avalon and Annette Funicello beach party movie Beach Blanket Bingo is cheese-tastic and full of cameos including Paul Lynde, Don Rickles, Buster Keaton and a pre-Dynasty Linda Evans as aspiring singer Sugar Cane. The movie is being shown free in Dunedin’s Pioneer Park on Friday in conjunction with the Friday Wine/Art Walk. So follow the title lyric and “Take a blanket, made for two now, add a boy and a girl ...” The movie begins at dusk.

Pros roll into town for Spring Roll. DVS and Matrix present this all-ages skateboard contest with prizes, a product toss and free barbecue Saturday. But first, at 6 p.m. Friday, you can skate with pros like Torey Pudwill and Luis Tolentino ($10, free to watch). Open practice begins at 9 a.m. Saturday, and the event begins at 10:30. $20 advance, $25 day of. Skatepark of Tampa, 4215 E Columbus Drive, Tampa. (813) 621-6793.

Think green, kids. EcoFest is a celebration of the Tampa Bay businesses, organizations and individuals dedicated to sustainability. There’s live music, workshops and demonstrations. 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Saturday. Free. Learning Gate Community School, 16215 Hanna Road, Lutz. (813) 274-8511.

And now for date night. Leo, Kate ... and you? To commemorate the 100th anniversary of the sinking of the Titanic, what else would you do besides take a little boat trip? Come dressed in costume — couldn’t hurt to add a life vest — for the Yacht StarShip’s Titanic Tribute Cruise at 7 p.m. Saturday, with personalized boarding passes, an authentic menu and ship staff dressed in period costumes. There will be a mini display of replicas of Titanic artifacts and a moment of silence with red flares on the Promenade Deck to mark when the Titanic sank on April 15, 1912, after hitting an iceberg. $69.95, $29.95 children. Yacht StarShip, 603 Channelside Drive, Tampa. (813) 223-7999.

Other family-friendly events this week:
Character Story Time
This month’s theme is Superhero for story time, snacks and a craft for children 5 and younger. $5 residents; $6.25 non-residents; $9.25 guests w/out a rec card. Highland Recreation Complex and Family Aquatic Center, 400 Highland Ave. NE, Largo. (727) 518-3016. 9:15 a.m. Friday.
Dexter McCluster Football Clinic
Join Kansas City Chief running back (and Largo native) Dexter McCluster as he supervises local coaches giving football tips to area youth. A parent or legal guardian must sign a participation waiver. Free. Largo Sports Complex, 1640 McMullen Booth Road, Largo. (727) 365-0044. 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday.
Discover the Preserve
Features “Touch-a-Truck,” plant displays, a lady bug release, nature crafts for kids and the opportunity to build a craft out of wood. Free. James E. Grey Preserve, 6938 Plathe Road, New Port Richey. (727) 841-4560. 9 a.m.-noon Saturday.
Family Clue Finders: A Game of Scientific Suspense
Follow scientific clues to discover who did what, when and where. $25 team of four or less; $20 members team of four or less. Museum of Science and Industry, 4801 E Fowler Ave., Tampa. (813) 987-6000. 1-3 p.m. Sunday.
Lego Building
This month’s theme is “robots” in a program that helps children learn about construction, programming and teamwork skills while creating their own Lego masterpieces. $7. Southwest Recreation Complex and Pool, 13120 Vonn Road, Largo. (727) 518-3125. 10-11:30 a.m. Saturday.
Once Upon a Mattress
Comedians and musicians from the Patel Conservatory Youth Theatre put their own spin on the classic fairy tale The Princess and the Pea. $15. Straz Center for the Performing Arts in Tampa. (813) 229-7827. 7 p.m. today-Friday, 2 and 7 p.m. Saturday.
Prom Dress Distribution
Needy young women can get a prom dress for $1 at the Belle of the Ball Project dress distribution. Seminole Mall, 11201 Park Blvd., Seminole. (727) 386-4502. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Saturday.
Swing Into Spring
With live music, kids activities, appearances by former Major League Baseball players and food/beer samples. Free; $10 food/drink. The Shops at Wiregrass, 28211 Paseo Drive, Wesley Chapel. (813) 994-2242. 6-8:30 p.m. today.
Wee-time at Weedon
This portion features Nancy Loewen’s book Tiny Workers: Ants in Your Backyard and includes crafts and games. Best for ages 3-5. Free (registration required). Weedon Island Preserve, 1800 Weedon Drive NE, St. Petersburg. (727) 453-6500. 10:30-11:15 a.m. today.
You Can’t Do That at the Library
All the library rules are being tossed for this party with corn hole games, miniature golf, pizza, ice cream sundaes, drinks and entertainment. Whispering is forbidden. $10, $5 ages 3-12. Palm Harbor Library, 2330 Nebraska Ave., Palm Harbor. (727) 784-3332. 6-8 p.m. Saturday.

Free movies outside:

Movies in the Park
Featuring Dolphin Tale, the movie made in Clearwater about Winter the dolphin. Themed activities begin at 7 p.m. and the movie begins at dark. Refreshments will be sold. Free. Largo Central Park, 101 Central Park Drive, Largo. (727) 586-7415. 7 p.m. Friday.
Sunset Cinema at Pier 60
Bring blankets, low lawn chairs or towels to plop on Clearwater Beach and watch free movies. Friday features Johnny English Reborn, rated PG, and Saturday features Legally Blonde, rated PG-13. Concessions for sale. No alcohol. Pier 60, 10 Pier 60 Drive, Clearwater Beach. (727) 434-6060. Shows start around dusk.
Tierra Verde Movie Night
This month’s free movie is the PG-13 rated film The Tourist, starring Johnny Depp and Angelina Jolie. Downtown Tierra Verde Parking Lot, 1110 Pinellas Bayway S, No. 101, St. Petersburg. (727) 216-9661. 8 p.m. today.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Cirque Dreams: A family-friendly head trip

Sharon Wynne — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 03:26:49 +0000

We took the kids to see Cirque Dreams: Pop Goes the Rock, which has shows through Friday at Mahaffey Theater in St. Petersburg (and Monday in Sarasota). It offers a family friendly stage show full of eye candy, laser lights and a spangled specatacle that, while not as over-the-top dazzling as Cirque du Soleil, nonetheless gets the kids' attention.

While you may be lulled into thinking anything with "cirque" in its name (which means 'circus' in French) is the offspring of Cirque du Soleil and therefore trippy adult fare, know that lawsuits have determined anyone can use the name "cirque" and it simply means European-influenced circus performers. Or, in this case a cirque-influenced stage show. Still, they go for the head trip anyway here, with wild costumes, laser lights shooting out to start up the show with I Love the Nightlife getting moms to sing along.

But where Cirque du Soleil aims for a story line with psychedelic undertones, this feels more like a series of music videos or a Broadway review on acid. There's no connective tissue, but you do get Rapper's Delight with aerial antics and a rousing I Want Candy getting the crowd to sing along and hold their breath as a child performer was bounced on the feet of an adult aerlist who had the kid on so many airborne twirls we were waiting for a candy-coated upchuck finale.

Then there's the light touches, like the magic trick of a girl dancer primping and strutting as the background singer belts out Christina Aquiliera's Beautiful and, with a flick of a scarf, she changes her black dress to a red one, another flick and it's a pink tutu and then a whoosh of an umbrella and she's in a lovely full-length white sheath -- all done in seconds right before our eyes. Color me impressed.

While parents will like that the play list is full of old friends like Sugarhill Gang, Britney Spears and Madonna, one quibble would be a 7:30 p.m. show time is kind of late for a show aimed at a family crowd. We got home at 10 p.m. and the kids seemed like they were on a sugar high. But what the heck, how often do you get to see a guy in roller skates spin a girl around his neck held on only by what looks like a dog collar?

The ticket price of $30-$69.50 is kind of high for families but that's about what you'd pay for a Disney on Ice show and I liked this WAY more than one of those shows. And a tip from my 9 year old: You are actually better off with a seat in the back because you get a better view of the laser lights coming off the stage and bouncing off the back walls.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

New store for kids with ADD, autism, sensory issues

Sharon Wynne — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 10:00:00 +0000

UPDATE: After seeing this blog post, the Tradewinds Resort called to offer the store owners a free night's stay as a raffle prize at the grand opening party because the St. Pete Beach resort has autism friendly accomodations. How cool is that?

There's a new store open in Clearwater for kids, but it's got a unique mission. Instead of Play-Doh, they sell "therapy putty" which are brightly colored pots of putty that progress from super soft to extra firm to meet a wide range of strengthening needs. They also have an array of puzzles that do double duty as therapy tools and specially engineered scissors, spoons, kid chairs and pencils that make life easier for kids with special needs or developmental issues.

The store, Kids Toolbox, is already open, but they are having a grand opening party April 21 to showcase that this is no ordinary toy store, but one with an array of 'tools' for children and caregivers who face challenges posed by autism, ADHD/ADD, developmental delays, sensory disorders, and other issues that make things like writing your name, learning to sound out words or eating with a spoon difficult.

A game like Tricky Fish, right, may look like a toy but it's actually a tool to help a kid develop gross motor skills, eye muscles and attention span. You can find special tools like Dual Control Scissors that make it easier for an adult to help a child with weak fine motor skills or poor vision. The Fridge Clip helps a non-verbal child identify food, and the store stocks seamless socks for kids with sensory issues that make normal socks torture on their toes.

Owners Mike and Pam LeGath are hosting a grand opening celebration from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the store April 21, at 1550 McMullen Booth Road, Suite F5. There will be promotions and prizes. The owners ask that you bring a non-perishable food item to the event, which will be donated to The Mattie Williams Neighborhood Family Center in Safety Harbor.

"We want to make our store unique, not just a typical retail store." LeGath said. "We want this to be a community resource center where all feel welcome and can share ideas and information. No longer will people need to blindly order these products online. They will have somewhere to try before they buy."

LeGath's family had their own frustrations buying things like weighted blankets off the Internet for a member of his family and the frustration of sending returns back and forth through the mail. "It finally dawned on us that there's a lot of people going through this, so we contacted professionals, therapists and teachers." He says he found out that they also liked the idea of seeing the therapy products for themselves.

"We thought if we had a store not only for the parents, but for teachers, doctors, therapists, then the pros can make a better recommendation to parents and the parents get a better buying experience ... and the kids invariably (have) a preference," LeGath said.

The store has a sensory safe area for kids to play while parents shop with puzzles and busy boards. LeGath plans to host parents, teachers, therapists and children to participate in support groups and seminars. For example each Sunday at 1 p.m. they will have a 45 minute children's class for $10 per class.

Here is the schedule:
4/29 Yoga with Susan
5/6 Art with Beverly
5/20 Music with Hernando
6/3 Karate with Sensei Dean

Once a month on a Monday evening will have lectures for adults. On April 30, an expert will talk will about ADHD and the resources available. Call them at (727) 799-ADHD (2343) to sign up. Keep up with them on Facebook for promotions and events. You can also order their products online on their website.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

What does $5 mean to a kid these days?

Sharon Wynne — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 17:00:00 +0000

Every week I write the 5 things to do under $5 feature that runs in the Weekend section the Tampa Bay Times and tbt*, so I spend a lot of my time thinking about what you can get for a 5-spot. But when it came time to set up an allowance for a kid or to set the limit of what the Tooth Fairy was going to leave, the question comes up: What can you really buy for $5, and do kids these days even think of that as a good amount of money?

Take the tooth fairy. I got a quarter. At first I thought I'd be generous and give the kid a dollar but then I realized with tax, you couldn't even get anything at the Dollar Store for that, so the Tooth Fairy left $2. Then my son asked me why his friend Billy got $20 from the Tooth Fairy. I wanted to say, "Because Billy's dad feels guilty that he left Billy's mom," but that would be mean. So I instead said she leaves everyone the same amount but some parents (especially those with a guilty conscience!) sneak in before the kids wake up and add to it. Not bad, eh? But some parents I know do leave that large of an amount under the premise that a kid can't buy anything for much less.

As for the allowance, I was swayed by the argument that it needs to be a decent amount so they can build up savings while also learning to save for something big. I thought $5 a week, but my husband countered that it wasn't enough. It would take a kid 8-10 weeks to save up for a video game. He thinks it needs to be enough that a kid has a few bucks to spend on minor things like Slurpees but if he saves the bulk of it, he can buy something big in 3-4 weeks. So $5 wouldn't cut it.

So what do you say parents, what does $5 mean to a kid these days?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Time to make your summer plans

Sharon Wynne — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 10:00:00 +0000

That wonderful spring break we just had only made me yearn for summer. No schedules, no PTA meetings, no permission slips. But wait, no child care! How am I going to keep these kids safely entertained yet stimulated for 10 whole weeks?

Our marketing and advertising department put together this is list of 101 things to do with kids this summer. And the advertising dept. created this searchable database of summer camps that advertise with Tampabay.com. You plug in your age range and county and it gives you a list of camps.

But the very best database is other moms. It's from those moms that I learned you should wake up at 4 a.m. and park yourself at a St. Petersburg recreation center to sign up for the city's very affordable summer camp program. If you don't, you will likely be shut out because it fills up every year. (And once you are in you can sign up early for next year so the 4 a.m. wakeup call is only needed once)

It was also another mom who told me about TASCO, the city's Teen Arts, Sports & Cultural Opportunities program that offers a series of technology camps through the summer. Programs are open to 6-12, which is a very hard age to find summer programs for.

Another great suggestion from moms last year was to look for kids cooking camps, like this one at Young Chef's Academy in Brandon. They can be expensive because your cost also includes groceries but you don't have to cook dinner that week!

So what are your summer plans, Mommas? Whether you stay at home or work, there has to be some good tips to share about getting through the summer sane.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Free and cheap things to do with the kids this week

Sharon Wynne — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 10:00:00 +0000

We've got more than 60 Easter events in the Tampa Bay area, from egg hunts for kids to making your own glass peeps to community sunrise services. We also have more than 100 spring festivals ranging from live music to livestock at the county fair. But it's also the start of baseball season and the return of poolside movies. We have all that and more in this week's list of free and cheap things to do with your kids:

A sold-out Tropicana Field will be rocking Friday as the Tampa Bay Rays open the season against the New York Yankees at 3:10 p.m. Lest you’ve forgotten the Rays’ amazing clinch last year, the 2011 American League Wild Card banner will be raised to the leftfield catwalk. There will be a block party for opening day on Friday. Two blocks around Ferg’s Sports Bar and Grill on Central Avenue — right across from the Trop — will be closed to traffic to celebrate the Rays with live music, food, children’s activities and giveaways. The road closes an hour before the party, which starts at noon Friday, and reopens an hour after. Free. If you go to Saturday's game, American Idol competitor and Tampa resident Shannon Magrane will sing the national anthem at Saturday’s game. Shannon, a sophomore at Blake High School, had been a fan fave on Idol but was sent packing last month, one shy of the Top 10. Game starts at 7:10 p.m. Toll-free 1-888-326-7297. At Sunday’s game, the first 10,000 kids ages 14 and younger get a free Raymond Cowbell. That’s right: 10,000 more cowbells for Sunday’s game. No word yet on whether there’s an aspirin or earplug giveaway for the first 10,000 parents who come through the gates. Game starts at 1:40 p.m.

As long as we are talking baseball, we can take it to the pool. Flick and Float is back and this week its a baseball movie as you float in the pool at Largo's Southwest Recreation Complex. There were be baseball-themed activites before the 2009 movie Perfect Game. Free prizes from the Rays go to the first 150 people who arrive, and free hot dogs are available while supplies last. Based on a true story, Perfect Game follows a group of boys from the Mexican city of Monterrey, who become the first non-U.S. team to win the Little League World Series. If the Rays beat the Yanks, that will make for the perfect night. Activities start at 5:30 p.m. Friday; movie starts about 9. Don’t forget to bring a floatie. $5, $4 residents. (727) 518-3126.

This link takes you to all our Easter events but we picked 3 egg hunts for kids that sound extra fun:
Bunny Extravaganza and Egg Drop
The Easter Bunny takes to the sky in a helicopter to drop 25,000 prize-filled eggs. The Cypress Point Community Church has 38 acres to use, and it plans three egg drops, at 10:45 a.m., 11:45 and 12:45 p.m. with children divided by age. The copter will drop the eggs — but not over the kids! — and then the hunt begins. Meanwhile, the church is throwing a festival with bounce houses, a human foosball game with players strapped to a pole just like the tabletop version. It’s free at Cypress Point Community Church, 15820 Morris Bridge Road, Tampa. (813) 986-9100. 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday.
Weeki Wachee’s Wacky Egg Hunt
The Easter Bunny gets some Florida-style helpers: mermaids. At the Buccaneer Bay Water Park event, toddlers up to age 3 hunt at 11 a.m., and ages 4-6 hunt at noon at the Kiddie Pool. Ages 7-10 hunt at 1 p.m. and ages 11-13 at 2 p.m. on the beachfront. Bring baskets. Included with attraction admission: $13, $8 ages 6-12, 5 and younger free. Weeki Wachee Springs State Park, 6131 Commercial Way, Weeki Wachee. (352) 592-5656. 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Saturday.
Underwater Egg Hunt
Trade in those Easter bonnets for swimsuits. Hundreds of eggs will be floating (or sinking) in the St. Pete Beach community pool. Stick around after the hunt for open swimming and water slides. $4. St. Pete Beach Aquatic Center, 7701 Boca Ciega Drive, St. Pete Beach. (727) 363-9245. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Saturday.

You could show up in shorts and flip-flops for the screening of this classic Southern epic Gone With the Wind in Pioneer Park in Dunedin, but frankly, my dear, that’s not nearly as much fun as dressing up as your favorite character. They are encouraging costumes like hoop skirts (or even better, craft a dress out of the curtains just like Scarlett). Bring a blanket or lawn chairs and a picnic basket of snacks to join the fun at 7 p.m. Friday at Main Street and Douglas Avenue in Dunedin. Free.

We have two good choices for taking your dog out on the town. Up first at 10 a.m. Saturday is Pawfest at Largo Central Park (where the kids can also get free rides on the miniature train this weekend), with a carnival for the entire family, as well as dog games and products to pamper your pooch at 101 Central Park Drive, Largo. Then in Gulfport, join Pet Pride, billed as the “gayest day of the year for our four-legged friends.” Activities include the crowning of Pet Pride king and queen, live entertainment, pet-friendly vendors, auctions, raffles, prizes and the Big Gay Pet Parade. It runs 4 to 10 p.m. Saturday on Beach Boulevard in Gulfport. Free. Benefits Pets 4 Dorothy and St. Pete Pride.

It’s the First Friday of the month so downtown St. Petersburg will be hopping with its lively block party at Central Avenue and Second Street N with the Tempests playing live music. Then wander a block over to Jannus Live where there’s a free show by Thomas Wynn and the Believers, a band that showcases the young, soulfully voiced siblings Thomas and Olivia Wynn backed by a bluesy, rustic rock band. The show starts at 8 p.m. at 16 Second St. N, St. Petersburg.

Stop complaining about the snowbirds clogging traffic and look at some real snowbirds, the singing kind, at a guided Birdwatching Walk by the Clearwater Audubon Society in the lovely Moccasin Lake Nature Park in Clearwater. They will be pointing out a variety of songbirds, water birds and raptors in this unique oak hammock. They get started at 8 a.m. Saturday at the park, 2750 Park Trail Lane, Clearwater. $3.

To the surprise of absolutely no one, the American Stage In the Park show this year, The Rocky Horror Show, contains mature language and themes. But for older kids or a date night, this could be a fun one to check out. We could explain the plot — newlyweds Brad and Janet get sidetracked on the way to visit an old college professor and end up at Dr. Frank-n-Furter’s home for a scandalous night — but here’s the thing: You either “get” The Rocky Horror Show or you don’t. The ultimate audience partici-(SAY IT!)-pation cult movie from 1975 gets a cultural makeover — we hope — as American Stage presents it as its annual “In the Park” offering. Expect to see your neighbors screaming the lines back at the stage, covering their heads with newspapers and firing water pistols into the air during the show. (If these references sound totally foreign to you, that means you’re a “virgin” — something you’d better keep to yourself because seasoned vets like to haze first-timers.) At the very least, learn the lyrics to Time Warp before heading to Demens Landing. (“It’s just a jump to the left . . .”) Previews start Wednesday, and it opens April 13 with a gala. There are a slew of ticket options, including some seats onstage, so see americanstage.org for details. Demens Landing, 100 First Ave. SE, St. Petersburg. (727) 823-7529. americanstage.org.

It would be a daunting task, even for theater professionals. But a group of high school teens pulled it off. Less than three months ago, 11 students from the Patel Conservatory’s Youth Theater started creating a musical from scratch. They wrote the story, developed the characters and wrote the songs. They designed the set, lights, costumes and sound. They assigned roles and started rehearsals. Local audiences will see the finished product when Caught! A Culinary Comedy of Confusion makes its world premiere tonight (Thursday) at the Straz Center for the Performing Arts in Tampa. The students are part of the Patel Conservatory Youth Theater’s “Do It Yourself” program. It has been around for a few years, but this is the first time the students have started with a blank page and a bare stage to create a musical. In the past, they used pre-existing songs and other elements to get a running start. For Caught!, they started with Shakespeare’s The Comedy of Errors. They took key plot points (mistaken identity) and used the plot structure as a template, but came up with everything else themselves. The resulting show concerns rival families with a history of antagonism who own rival restaurants. Caught! A Culinary Comedy of Confusion is at 7 p.m. Friday and Saturday in the Shimberg Playhouse at the Straz Center. $15. (813) 229-7827, strazcenter.org.

Other family events this week

Adventures of Eco-Man
A mild-mannered reporter transforms into the superhero Eco-Man, teaching environmental awareness. $7, $6 member, $24 family four-pack. Carrollwood Cultural Center, 4537 Lowell Road, Tampa. (813) 269-1310. 10:15 and 11:30 a.m. today.
Breakfast with Dali for Families
Monthly docent led tours introduce Salvador Dali and the Dali Museum to families with children. The interactive tour highlights Dali paintings and other works that especially appeal to children. A Spanish-themed breakfast buffet and hands-on activities follow the tour. $21, $10 ages 6-12; $10, $5 ages 6-12 members. Dali Museum, One Dali Blvd. (Bayshore Drive SE and Fifth Avenue SE), St. Petersburg. (727) 823-3767. 9:30-11:30 a.m. Saturday.
Build by the Bay
Families can build a robot of the future in an interactive Lego play area and meet local Lego hobby builders. Also, area experts will conduct robotic demonstrations throughout the day. Included with museum admission: $15, $12.50 military/seniors, $9.50 children, under 1 free. Glazer Children’s Museum, 110 W Gasparilla Plaza, Tampa. (813) 443-3861. Noon-4 p.m. Saturday.
Going Coastal
This indoor activity for all ages teaches about the fish common to our gulf coast area. Bring a plain white T-shirt for a fish painting project. This portion, “Invasive Marine Organisms,” is about the biology, natural history and the threats of lionfish, Asian green mussels and other organisms invading the Gulf of Mexico. Free (registration required). Weedon Island Preserve, 1800 Weedon Drive NE, St. Petersburg. (727) 582-2100. 10 a.m.-noon Saturday.
Tiny Tot Theme Party
The event is a monthly themed party for preschoolers ages 3 to 5 years old. Parents are encouraged to stay and enjoy the games, crafts and activities with their little ones. Registration is required. $5 per child. Southwest Recreation Complex and Pool, 13120 Vonn Road, Largo. (727) 518-3125. 11 a.m.-noon today.
Make a Difference Fishing Tournament
A fishing tournament for children with disabilities also includes art projects, fire/rescue demonstrations and an awards ceremony. Free. Largo Central Park Nature Preserve, 150 Highland Ave., Largo. (727) 587-6740, ext. 5014. 6 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday.
Spring Festival
Includes touch-a-truck, music, games, bounce houses, make-and-take craft and pottery stations, community center demonstrations and the “Jimmy Meatballs” food truck. Free. St. Pete Beach Community Center and Horan Park, 7701 Boca Ciega Drive, St. Pete Beach. (727) 363-9245. 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday.
Swing Into Spring
Live music, kids activities, special guest appearances by former Major League Baseball players and food/beer samples for adults. Proceeds from food and drink benefits the Jason Ackerman and Toby Hall Foundations. Free; $10 food/drink. The Shops at Wiregrass, 28211 Paseo Drive, Wesley Chapel. (813) 994-2242. 6-8:30 p.m. today.
Ugly Duckling
Now Stages Productions puts their spin on this childhood classic for a new family musical presentation. $7.50, $6.50 children, $22 family four pack. Largo Cultural Center, 105 Central Park Drive, Largo. (727) 587-6793. 11 a.m. Saturday.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne

Little comedian rants about lazy parents

Sharon Wynne — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 18:57:50 +0000

Add me to the growing list of Internet surfers charmed by this young comedian who rants about lazy parents (Lunchables? How hard is it to make a sandwich?) who make them fetch things around the house. Zay Zay is the son of Kevin Fredericks, aka @KevOnStage, a grown-up comedian who penned the cutie's material, but that delivery is all Zay Zay.

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne