If everything feels heavy, here’s something to keep in mind:

You don’t have to do it the hard way.

Somewhere along the way, we learned that things worth having or doing also had to be struggles.

But not always.

You’re allowed to choose the shortcut, the template, the pre-made version.
You’re allowed to automate, delegate, postpone, or delete.
You’re allowed to make life keyless: removing tiny frictions.

Ask yourself:

• What could be 10% easier today?
• What could I skip without consequences?
• What would Future Me thank me for removing?

Ease isn’t laziness.
Ease is wisdom.
Ease is how we keep going without burning out.

Take the lighter path today.
Jess

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If you’re feeling stretched thin… that’s your signal.

You don’t have to say yes just because you can.
You don’t have to carry what isn't yours.
You don’t have to abandon your needs to keep the peace.

A boundary is a kindness.
To you and to them.

It's your way of saying:
“Me first, with love.”

Try one of these today:

• “I don’t have the bandwidth for this right now.”
• “I can’t take this on, but here’s another option…”
• “I need to pause and revisit this later.”

Small boundary → big relief.
Big relief → more energy for what actually matters.

You’re allowed to protect your capacity.

With love,
Jess

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If you’re coming back to something after a break, I’m super proud of you already.

You didn’t miss your moment.
You didn’t mess up the timeline.
You didn’t fall “too far behind.”

You lived a real life.
And now you’re returning in a way that fits your capacity today.

Start softly:

• Reopen the doc
• Make one tiny note
• Set a five-minute timer
• Let it be messy

Your return doesn’t have to be big or loud to be meaningful.
Quiet counts too.

I’m cheering you back in, gently.
Jess

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If your brain keeps wanting to go in twelve different directions at once. Mmmhmm yep, that’s overwhelm talking.

Try this:

Pick one thing.
Just one.

Not the “right” thing.
Not the “urgent” thing.

Just the thing that would make you feel a tiny bit better if you moved it forward.

Ask yourself:

• What’s the smallest next step I can take?
• Which task gives my nervous system the deepest exhale?
• What would make tomorrow (and Future Me) feel even 2% lighter?

Then commit to five minutes.
Not forever.
Just five minutes.

Clarity comes from movement, not the other way around.

You’ve got this.
Jess

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If your body is waving the white flag… listen. It's sending you a sign.

You don’t have to power through. You don’t have to “deserve” rest first.
You definitely don’t have to finish one more thing.

You are a human (a very tired one), not a machine.

So here’s your permission slip:

Rest is productive.
Rest is progress.
Rest is you choosing to show up tomorrow with a little more capacity.

Do the bare minimum.

Be proud of the bare minimum.

Let the rest wait.

Unclench your jaw. Relax your shoulders. Take one long, deep breath.
You’re allowed to pause.

Curled up with you in spirit,
Jess

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I know that tight-chested “I’m so behind” feeling.
Like everyone else is so far ahead and you’re just… here. Trying. Holding a lot.

Let me offer you a tiny reframe:

You’re not behind.
You’re in motion.
And this progress can look different every week, every season, every version of you.

Today, progress might look like:

• opening the tab
• reading one paragraph
• doing five minutes instead of “the whole thing”

Tiny is still forward.

Forward still counts.

Take one small step.
Then let yourself be proud of it.

With you,
Jess

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Some days, it’s just me, my side hustle, and a mountain of to-dos.

That’s why I’ve learned to lean on little automations. Not the fancy kind, but the “thank you, tiny robot friend” kind. The ones that take something off my plate quietly, in the background.

This is the kickoff to my Side Hustle A to Z series: a mini project where I’m sharing small, doable tips for building your side hustle in a way that supports your life too.

No overwhelm. No all-or-nothing energy. Just one little shift at a time.

And we’re starting with one of my favorites:

A is for Automate.

Why automate?

Because honestly? I’m tired.

I’m juggling a job, caregiving, and building something of my own — and I don’t have energy to waste doing the same task over and over again when a tiny system could do it for me.

Think:
Set it and forget it.
Save your brain for the good stuff.
Protect your energy like it’s sacred (because it is).

Some automations I love:

• TidyCal lets people book time with me without the email back-and-forth. I can set my availability once and let the system handle the rest.
• Amazon Subscribe & Save delivers Ensure for my grandma every other week (along with other household staples). Bonus: Alexa reminds me when stuff’s running low.
• Buffer lets me queue up LinkedIn posts when I’m in the mood to write, so they go out while I’m working, caregiving, or lying in bed watching Sweet Magnolias.
• Autopay for bills. Because who has time to remember due dates anymore?
  • Related: you can automate savings + prescription refills too!
• Text replacement on my phone and laptop. When I type zadd, it fills in my full address. Magic.

These might seem small, but together? They make me feel like I’ve got a tiny team working behind the scenes, even when it’s just me and my phone at 9:43 p.m.

Not sure where to start?

Here’s a tiny automation you can try today:

Set up text replacement on your phone for your email, address, or favorite hashtags.
(iPhone users: here’s a 43-second video on how to do it)

Takes 2 minutes. Saves you dozens over time.

Or ask yourself this:

What am I doing over and over again that makes me whisper,
“There has to be a better way”?

That’s your automation cue.

You don’t have to automate everything.
But even one small system can help you reclaim your time, energy, and a little peace.

And that’s the point of all of this, isn’t it?

Not just building a side hustle, but building a life that feels more you.

So if you’ve been feeling behind or overwhelmed or like it’s all too much…
Let the robots help.

Your future self will thank you.

What would you love to automate?

Got a favorite time-saver you swear by? Something you’d like to automate but haven’t figured out yet?

Drop a comment and let’s swap ideas, because sometimes the best tips come from fellow side hustlers figuring it out in real-time.

P.S. This is part of the Side Hustler’s A to Z Survival Guide series: one small shift each week to help you grow your side hustle in a way that’s sustainable, joyful, and real.

Next up: B is for Breaks. Because… we all need them.

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Side hustling while living your life? Whew. It’s a lot.

Welcome to the Side Hustler’s A to Z Survival Guide: a cozy little series where each letter of the alphabet gets its own tip to help you build a side hustle without burning out.

This is not your “wake up at 5 a.m. and do 12 things before breakfast” kind of vibe.
(Because seriously, who has that kind of time?)

It’s for the tired, the busy, the start-and-stoppers.
The folks balancing a full-time job, caregiving, errands, and still trying to make space for something of their own.

Each week (ish), I’ll share one small shift to try. No pressure, no all-or-nothing thinking, just doable ideas you can try in the margins.

Start where you are. Come back when you need a boost.

Try what works. Skip what doesn’t.

Let’s build something that fits your life.

The A to Z Lineup (so far…)

A is for Automate
Tiny systems that take tasks off your plate (thank you, robot friends)

B is for Breaks
Rest isn’t a reward. It’s the rhythm that keeps you going

C is for… (coming soon!)
(Bookmark this page — new letters added weekly-ish!)

Want these by email?

I send each new letter through my #jesspicks newsletter, along with curated tools, personal notes, and a little encouragement for the week ahead.

P.S. Got a favorite tool, habit, or mindset shift that’s helped your side hustle feel more doable? Tell me about it! I’m always collecting gems to add to future letters.

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I saw a post the other day that said:

“Your side hustle is your escape plan.”

And while that’s true for some, it's not the only way.

Maybe you’re in a toxic job (been there).
Maybe you’re looking for more freedom.
Maybe you’ve always dreamed of working for yourself.

But that wasn’t my story, and it might not be yours either.

For a long time, I thought my side hustle was just the first step:
Start small. Grow big. Quit your job. Live the dream.

That’s how it goes right?

But then life happened. I found a job I really loved.
I became a caregiver.
I tried full-time entrepreneurship. Didn’t love it.

Turns out, I like:

• Steady income
• Health insurance (and PTO is great!)
• The stability that lets me care for myself and the people I love

My side hustle stopped being an “exit strategy” and became a creative outlet—a space to explore, experiment, and build something meaningful without the fear of losing everything.

What changed?

I realized that the ”all-or-nothing” approach wasn’t for me.
I used to believe full-time was the only path, that I wasn’t a ”real” entrepreneur unless I went all in. But when I ran my business full-time, I didn't love:

• The constant worry about where the next dollar was coming from
• Saying “yes” to everything just to pay the bills
• The overwhelming pressure

Could that change someday? Maybe. But right now, I’m choosing to keep my business as a side hustle—on purpose.

Because it gives me:

• Freedom and stability.
• The ability to say no to what doesn’t feel right.
• The space to grow at my own pace, with room to rest and recharge.

And I’m allowed to honor that.

Let’s be real: Going full-time isn’t always as glamorous as it looks on social media.

Here’s what people often leave out:

• You trade stability for a different kind of stress.
• That passion project can start to feel like a burden.
• It can be isolating and overwhelming.

Some folks thrive in that “leap and the net will appear” energy.
Me? It’s not my jam.

What if your side hustle is enough?

Not everything has to go big. (And yes – going home is absolutely valid)
It's okay to love your job.
There's more than one way to be an entrepreneur.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is say is, “I’m building this in a way that works for me.”

Maybe that means:

• Being present for your family.
• Prioritizing your health and self-care.
• Saying no to clients that aren't aligned. (all money isn’t good money)
• Having fun with your work again.

What do you want?

Before you take that leap, ask yourself:

• What’s really driving this decision?
• Do I want to leave my job—or do I feel like I should?
• What kind of stability do I need right now?
• What would make me feel truly supported?

You’re allowed to grow slow. You’re allowed to keep your job. You’re allowed to build something on the side. You’re allowed to say, “This is enough for me.”

That doesn’t make you less of an entrepreneur. Or less committed. It puts you in control.

Because the truth is: The best business is the one that fits your life—not the other way around.

There’s no one-size-fits-all path.
Are you building something on the side? Full-time? Somewhere in between?
I’d love to hear what your journey looks like.

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When Life Gets in the Way, Take 5!

Life’s busy, right? Between your day job, personal life, and what can seem like a neverending list of responsibilities, it's easy to feel like your side hustle always comes last. But what if I told you that five minutes could make a difference? Yes, even just 5 minutes!

I was inspired by Chris Guillebeau’s recent newsletter about the 5-Minute To-Do List—a concept where you keep a list of small tasks that can be knocked out in 5 minutes or less. It’s perfect for those moments when you have a tiny pocket of time and want to take advantage without feeling overwhelmed.

As someone who is constantly juggling a full-time job, caregiving for my grandmother, and my business, I've learned that small pockets of time are gold. So, as I continued to develop my own 5-minute list, I figured “Why not create a version of this specifically for other jugglers like myself?”

This list is designed to help you “Take 5” throughout your day and turn small moments into meaningful progress on your side hustle.

For Motivation (when you need a quick boost)

• Write down one tiny win from the past week (no matter how small)
• Create a folder of screenshots with positive customer feedback to revisit when you need a smile 
• Listen to some upbeat music to get energized
• Make a quick list of 3 reasons why you started your side hustle (or review that list for a reminder to keep going)
• Record a voice note hyping yourself up (or if you’re a ChatGPT fan, ask it to describe you as if it were your drunk bestie. Trust me, it’s fun!)
• Find and save an inspirational quote that resonates with your current season. (this tool is great for resurfacing quotes from books!)
• Grab one of my mini pep talks!

For Prioritizing Tasks (when you feel overwhelmed)

• Make a visual schedule to see where you can fit in side hustle time
• Do a brain dump of everything that’s on your mind, then circle the ONE thing that matters most
• Choose one task to finish today (even if it’s a small part of a bigger project)
• Reschedule tasks that don’t need to be done right now
• Create a “Done” list to celebrate the progress you’ve made.
• Think through a typical day and figure out what times you are most productive.  Block out 15 minutes of that slot for side hustle tasks tomorrow.
• Check your inbox and clear out distractions. Email can feel overwhelming at times, but a tool like this one can help. It helps you focus on the most important emails and filter out the rest.

For Working at Your Own Pace (when you feel behind)

• Give yourself permission to take breaks and recharge. Tomorrow is another day.
• Take a photo of your workspace/progress to document your journey (this becomes a powerful reminder of how far you've come)
• Unfollow or unsubscribe from accounts or people that make you feel behind
• Write down one reason your current pace is right for you and your circumstances
• Ask for more time on a deadline that’s causing you stress (most people are more understanding than you'd expect)
• Create a “not doing right now” list — a parking lot for your ideas so you don't forget them

For Focusing on What Matters (when time is limited)

• Help Future You by asking: “What can I do now to make my life easier later?” 
• Figure out your most important task that needs to get done today and commit to working on it for 5 minutes
• Check your calendar and block out two 15-minute slots of “side hustle time” this week
• Pick one task that you can batch with similar tasks to save time (e.g phone calls, social media posts)
• Look at your to-do list and see if there is something you can delegate (e.g. could you order dinner or ask a friend to handle an errand?)
• Set a timer, clear out distractions, and do just one of these 5-minute activities

For Marketing without Overwhelm (when you need visibility)

• Set up a Google Alert for your industry keywords so you can stay informed
• Share one quick tip, insight, or win on your preferred platform
• Make a list of 3 simple ways people can work with you (write it on a post-it note and stick it on your laptop)
• Reach out to 1-2 folks that you could collaborate with
• Record a quick voice note with a content idea to work on later
• Create a simple email signature that promotes your business – include your services and website link (it's a simple way to market without directly marketing)  Bonus: it works even when you’re not directly marketing!)

Why This Approach Works for Side Hustlers

The beauty of these 5-minute tasks isn't just that they're quick. It's that they help you:

1. Maintain momentum even during busy seasons
2. Break through some of that mind gunk when you're feeling stuck
3. Build consistency without needing big chunks of time
4. Reduce overwhelm by focusing on just one small action
5. Create progress that motivates you to keep going

How to Make “Take 5” Work for You

• Start with your biggest pain point. Feeling unmotivated? “Take 5” to boost your mood. Overwhelmed by marketing? “Take 5” to make it easier.
• Keep this list somewhere visible or create your own version of this list on your phone.
• Don't try to do everything. Pick just ONE thing that feels right for today.
• Track your 5-minute wins in a simple journal or notes app. After a month, you'll be amazed at how much you've accomplished.

Remember, slow progress is still progress. Every 5-minute action adds up to meaningful momentum over time.

Think about what’s weighing on you right now or what your side hustle needs most. Which of these tasks would help YOU move forward today? What would you add?

Let me know in the comments!

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