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		<title>4 P’s to Competent Communication</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2022 13:59:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Consider the following effective practices to put into place to become a more competent and persuasive communicator personally and professionally: Pause &#8211;&#160;Excellent communication starts with stopping first. There are great rewards for avoiding knee-jerk reactions. They call them &#8220;knee-jerk&#8221; because a lot of times a jerk is exactly how you feel afterwards&#8230;&#160;Pausing gives you more [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>What’s your role?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tom Leu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2022 18:41:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Square peg. Round hole. Have you thought about the many different types of situations and circumstances you find yourself in daily, weekly, monthly? Personal and/or professional. Sometimes the lines are clear which is which. Sometimes they&#8217;re not. Who you are and your purpose in differing settings drives what you do next to achieve your desired [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>The Opposite of Knee-Jerk</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tom Leu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2022 05:55:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; Stimulus = what happens to us. Response = what we do next. The &#8220;freedom&#8221; in between as the picture here illustrates also goes by another name called &#8220;communication skills.&#8221; And there&#8217;s a &#8220;big ass gap&#8221; between those who are good at this stuff, and those who only think they are. Consider this: It&#8217;s estimated [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Eighty-Seven (87)</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tom Leu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2021 13:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Communications]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[87]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[awareness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oftentimes, I see things that I suspect others do not see. I notice &#8220;communication&#8221; happening that isn&#8217;t super obvious. I&#8217;m tuned-into much of the unspoken, the often-overlooked, the intended or unintended subtleties that fly back-and-forth between people seemingly undetected. I like to say I work hard to&#160;miss less than most. It has its pros and [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Eighty-Six (86)</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tom Leu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2020 13:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[addiction]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Unfortunately, this is tough stuff that touches everyone. Either directly or indirectly&#8230; But I refuse for this topic to always be a downer; doom and gloom. It can, and does become the opposite, sooner or later. Certainly, addiction and its myriad of reasons for being can be complex and controversial depending on individual circumstances. But, [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Eighty-Five (85)</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tom Leu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2020 13:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Majoring in the minors; Minoring in the majors. It happens everywhere, much of the time. This is when people spend inordinate amounts of time focusing on stuff that matters least, at the expense of the stuff that matters most. This happens because it&#8217;s easier to avoid the bigger, harder issues at hand, and instead manage [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Tom Leu on the The Journey Podcast</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tom Leu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2020 14:26:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Podcasts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Recovery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rock 'N Roll]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Kevin Polky]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[podcast]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[recovery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sobriety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Journey]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Tom&#8217;s appearance on The Journey podcast&#160;with host, Kevin Polky from May 2020: The Man Who Makes Sound Matter Pt. 1 &#8220;I have known Tom the majority of my life, close to 40 years. We played football together since middle school, lived together in college, were in each other&#8217;s wedding and now have had the opportunity [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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