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Top 30 Uplifting Quotes by Ankita Singhal

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sat, 11 Apr 2020 18:39:00 -0400

There are many people whom I meet on a day to day basis. But there is someone who has touched me through her artwork. She is known for her quotes. Positive and uplifting quotes that can brighten anyone's day. She believed she could so she did! And many folks in the world wide web see her encouraging quotes as positive sayings. Today I would be walking you guys through Ankita's quotes that got a smile on my face. She posts about everything ranging from sunsets, coffee, books, and almost everything.

1. "There were clouds today and it made me happier. Another breathtakingly beautiful sundown. Another beauty ready to settle and repose with the rays. Ah! Quarantine Sunsets"

2. "Small changes can make a big difference."

3. "Life is about exploring those places that make your heart skip a beat."

4. "He wasn't looking for her yet he found her, she wasn't expecting him to be such yet he was. A collision of two powerful forces is a modus operandi of destruction. But not always, it can indeed be the beginning of something new. Celestial collision it is!"

5. "They say we don't have a stop button when we start to dance."

6. "Let me nurture my wings for I was born to fly."

7. "What it likes to be a writer. They don't write for the sake of writing. They write to make a difference in someone's life. However small that may be."

8. "When green blends into the clear blue. And it feels like Deja Vu."

9. "Freedom is what we are talking about."

10. "Happy soul always sparkle and Fabulous is my favorite word."

11. "Life is like coffee - the darker it gets, the more it energizes."

12. "When coffee makes your day! Oh, wait, coffee always makes your day. Happiness is finding that coffee loves me back equally, coffee loves my words too!"

13. "Spread your wings to know how far and high you can fly."

14. "What is life if it doesn't confuse you beyond your wits."

15. "Be your own reason to sparkle every day. Shine on!"

16. "You exalt me Bati,

This is the message to society,

Brightest day demands

struggling, suffering, and sacrifice,

heroic labor would suffice"

17. "His thoughts are unfathomable & her emotions are all over the place. Oh! The tragedy of Love."

18. "Love is never hurtful; It’s never about forgetting who you are, it’s about exploring yourself more."

19. "I love humanity, surprisingly, as I observe 21st century with hawk-eyed vision, I realize the more I love humanity the less I love Human as an individual."

20. “Poetry is breathing words that give a reader pause.”

21. “A small change can make a big difference. You are the only one who can make our world a better place to inhabit. So, don’t be afraid to take a stand .”

22. “Today I introduced myself to my very own Heart,

In silent agony, after all these years it bled apart.”

23. “I am master of my spoken words and slave to those which remain unspoken.”

24. "Photographers aren't always those who are holding up a DSLR. Sometimes they capture moments like no one else."

25. "Let the words come to you, don't try to mold them, don't try to decorate them. Just let them flow."

26. "Layer upon layer of mystique with no apparent end, the truth is in the journey to her soul that baffles."

27. "Happiness is often found in little things. Have you ever had any realization that had hit you like a sea wave trying to reach to its shore?"

28. "I can't count how many times I have turned my head with the expression that says 'What! You too!" every time you say something."

29. "The calm, the storm and everything in between"

30. "It's always worth taking the scenic break from the mundane life."

Free Internet from HighSpeedInternet.com for those affected by the COVID 19

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Mon, 6 Apr 2020 20:14:00 -0400

"I have terribly bad news to say," Jennifer Austin, visibly upset, said to her boyfriend John.

"And what is it?" John asked.

"Crabtree fired me," Jen said, tears trickling through her eyes. "I wonder when will this COVID 19 madness come to an end. Over 10 million have lost their jobs because of this stupid virus," John said, his hands wrapped around her shoulder. "Even San Diego is so messed up because of this," he added.

It was not a good time for Mother Earth. It was inflicted with one of the deadliest viruses ever to haunt mankind. "I have no inkling about what is going to happen to us," Jen said, "I got so many bills to pay."

"And my network provider even disconnected my internet services and I am not sure how to apply for jobs," Jen added.

At the same time, Jen's phone beeped with her best friend Stephen's text message. "Jen, I sent you something. I got an email from a friend Victoria. Just check it!"

Jen grabbed her boyfriend John's mobile phone and logged into her Gmail account.

"We're giving away internet to help those affected by COVID-19," read the subject line.

Hello Stephen,

My name is Victoria and I’m with HighSpeedInternet.com. We’re based in Salt Lake City, and have recently been impacted by the COVID-19 virus outbreak.

Many of us are relying more than ever on the internet to stay connected during this period of social distancing and isolation. The team at HighSpeedInternet.com wants to help! Whether you’ve shifted to working from home, or you’ve recently lost your job, we want to help twenty US households by giving two months of free internet during this difficult time

What? We’re choosing twenty households to receive free internet for two months. They must be located in Salt Lake City, Utah; San Diego, California;, Seattle, Washington; or Phoenix, Arizona.

Where? Apply here: https://www.highspeedinternet.com/resources/covid-internet-reimbursement

When? Apply by April 19th, 2020.

Why? We understand that the impacts of COVID-19 and subsequent shutdowns have been difficult for our local communities. We want to help families and businesses during this unprecedented time.

Who? HighSpeedInternet.com is an internet comparison site in the US. Our internet experts help people choose the best internet plan in their neighborhood. We want to make your internet decisions fast and easy, and we’re all about connecting folks to the answers they need so they can get connected and get moving. Learn more about us here: https://www.highspeedinternet.com/about/press

Here are some additional resources for you to share with your audience regarding internet and COVID-19:

Please help us get the word out there to your audience that we’re here to help. If you have any questions or need any quotes, Skype interviews, or additional assets, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Stay healthy,

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Jen quickly clicked on the link and applied for the free internet.

Fight the Corona Virus with the Vizio Soundbars

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Mon, 6 Apr 2020 18:42:00 -0400

Aloha, world citizens, I hope you all are doing good. I'm Jim Scotts, the Asia regional head of a famous NewYork based electronics company. Well, my company adored me; instead, they abhorred me, and that's why they made me travel half of the world by the time I turned 35. Because of this, I lead a pretty dull life. During my young days with Sonic, I realized that life was going to veer out drastically for me and I was ascertained that I am going to lead a boring life too where people would take me for granted. I've been to a couple of dates and girls loved the money more than the man! Duh! Well, that's how I could describe my social life. I am not a babe magnet though I could undoubtedly give good quality time to many relationships seeking lasses. I am not a pessimistic person, but I am pretty realistic. Enough of my personal rants. Let me narrate how I met Xiang Sun at a party in Hong Kong. Hong Kong, because that's the city that shelters me. Ever since I met Xiang, life changed upside down. Xiang hailed from Beijing, the capital city of Mainland China. She was an aspiring actress and a regular customer at the Rock Bottom, Kowloon. I often visited Kowloon for Business purposes, and the Rock Bottom pub and bar was our usual hang -out place with my friends.

Like every other Chinese Nationale, Xiang was proud of her heritage. She had an hourglass figure, but she was used to unhealthy eating habits. One day Xiang grabbed my hand at a local Chinese restaurant and asked me not to judge her. I was perturbed for what she was going to confess. It was then I realized that she and her friends Lee and Jung, were planning to eat a monkey's brain. That thought itself disgusted me. According to her, it was an ancient Sino practice of eating a monkey's brain to acquire wisdom and knowledge. She somehow convinced me to stay there and witness the event, an unpleasant event to be honest. The waiter carried a platter with him that was covered by a steel lid. He removed the cover, and I witnessed the most bizarre event of my life. I saw the severed head of a smiling monkey whose skull was cracked. The waiter neatly transferred the monkey's brain, and I saw my girlfriend and her friends enjoying their meal while I sat there, cursing myself for being there. That night I couldn't sleep as the severed head of the poor primate haunted me. How could people have such exotic food wishlists? I had judged Xiang, and at the same time, she had texted me. 'I am sorry for today. I shouldn't have done that. Pls, don't judge me, ok. Dinner at my place this Friday. ok?' I read her text and replied 'Ya sure babe!! :*'

It was Friday evening, and I reached the Hong Kong city in no time. I knocked at her door, and I saw her dressed in one piece. She was unusually hot looking that day!

'Well, Well, for my sweet lady,' I offered her the pink orchids flower bouquet that I brought from the D junction, a famous road crossing.

'Thanks, my love!' she said and planted a kiss on my cheeks. She said with her broken English. She blindfolded me and took me to the dining table.

'Behold, presenting my trademark soup. Soup of the Millenium!' She announced and removed the blindfold from my eyes. It had a pleasant odour. After the monkey brain eating incident, I had to caution myself and had to think twice before she offered anything to me.

'Honey, don't worry. It is just soup.' Xiang said, and I saw her lips curved into a smile. I trusted my instinct, and that's when I decided to drink it. I took a sip and let me confess that it was the most fantastic soup I ever had in my life. Never did I imagine that Xiang was an excellent chef. I consumed the soup and asked her for more. I loved it! That night I was impressed with her cooking skills. We made love that night.

The next morning I woke up and witnessed her sleeping like a newborn baby - naked and elegant. I ruffled her long ebony hair and whispered in her ears, 'Can you share the recipe for that soup?'

'Umm,' she opened her eyes and sprawled her hands and legs and continued, 'So someone loves my Soup, huh!' And I nodded like an idiot.

'It's simple! she started and added, ' In a boiling pot of water, add pepper, mint leaves, spring onions, salt and small pieces of bats. '

'What?' I asked, confused. 'What do you mean by pieces of bats?'

She laughed and said, 'Yes, bats, like the one we have in the batman movies and the caves.' That thought itself made me puke on the bed. The very idea of drinking a bat soup disgusted me to the core. I never belonged to the tribe that enjoyed exotic food. Maybe I unknowingly had a bat soup, but that was the most bizarre thing I had done in my life. I was unhappy with Xiang's eating habits.

Days passed, and I had turned busy with the multi-billion dollar Indian deal. A few weeks back, I had travelled to India for a possible partnership with the Government of India project. We had brief discussions with PM Modi and other bureaucrats in New Delhi. I was feeling extreme uneasiness and queasiness after returning back from India. I barfed several times and coughed like I was about to die at any moment. Xiang had travelled to Beijing for her parent's anniversary. I was feeling lonely, and I missed her badly. She was busily occupied in Bejing and would not even return back any calls nor my text messages. I turned on the TV to the CN News, and the news panel was discussing some viruses that originated from the wet markets.

'Corona Virus might have come from the Bat-su,' An esteemed highly erudite Professor from the University of Shangai said. I freaked out after hearing the word 'Bat'. I surfed through the internet, and multiple news channels and everyone was talking about Bats.

I researched a lot over the coming days and concluded that I was infected with the virus. I was transforming into a hypochondriac, and I knew that life was getting difficult for me. I remained stressed most of the time and this virus created a mess out of my life. I hated myself for drinking the Bat soup. I would check about this virus and search for its cures. I was turning into a maniac. While I was completely drowned in negativity, my eyes grabbed the attention of a Vizio soundbar that Xiang had gifted me for my last birthday. She got it for me from her trip to New York last year. To distract myself from all that Corona negativity, I played some music on the soundbar. It was the first time I was using that device. By then, many countries of the world were battling this virus, and most governments had asked their citizens to quarantine themselves at their home. I played some pop songs from my Amazon music playlist. For a moment, I felt relaxed, and with so much going on in this world, I felt good after a long time. With its full surround sound system, I felt like I was utterly transported to a different world. I found myself swimming out of the negativity and fear. I went on a music listening spree and listened to my favourite songs. My obsession with the Vizio soundbar was to a whole different level that I failed to see the phone calls by Xiang. I was clearly mad at Xiang. I called her back.

'Hey Jimmie, my love!' she said.

'Xiang, thanks for destroying my life.' I screeched at the top of my voice.

'Stop crying, what happened? Tell me clearly,' she said.

'I think I am going to die of COVID19,' I said.

'What nonsense?' she said and continued, 'Did you eat bats recently?'

'Yes and that stupid soup of the millennium of yours,' I replied.

'Yeah? What about that?' she curiously asked.

'You said it was a bat soup, right?' I wiped the incessant tears rolling down my cheeks.

'Babe, I am so sorry,' she said and continued, 'that was not Bat.' She giggled.

'Then,' I jumped out of my chair.

'I was just goofing around with you,' she said,'It was chicken.'

I heaved a sigh of relief. 'Huh! you almost killed me!' I said and continued, 'I can't wait to see you, babe!' I said and disconnected the call. I had then realized that it was the spicy Indian food that caused me all the trouble.

I smiled like a little baby and continued playing music on my Vizio soundbar. Over the next two weeks, I listened to good music on my Vizio soundbar and life was never the same.

The Vizio soundbar could help you filter out all the negativity out of your life during this time of stress. It will help you calm yourself.

At just $69.99, the VIZIO 20" 2.0 Sound Bar provides a multi-dimensional experience that dramatically fills the room with amazing sound.

If you’re looking for something a bit bolder, the VIZIO 36” 2.1 Sound Bar System – which is just $179.99 – comes with a subwoofer and has a slim profile, perfect for any size room. Great for a bigger room, you’re sure to maximize your sound therapy session during the COVID-19 madness.

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9 ways to greet people in the age of the Coronavirus pandemic

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Tue, 24 Mar 2020 23:16:00 -0400

Aloha Mitron,

Many of you might be thinking if the world is coming to an end after observing all that is happening in the past 2 months. Well, I too hope that it doesn't happen. I don't want the world to end that soon.

CoronaVirus is proving to be a great pain in the World's ass and it should be kicked out. Well in this crazy world, every small event gives birth to fresh sets of memes creators, CoronaVirus also gave birth to some creative minds. The world has seen several thousand who succumbed to this deadly monster. Recently the World Health Organization (or WHO) termed this virus or the COVID19 disease as a pandemic and a few days back confirmed it to be an airborne disease. Well, not exciting! But something made me write a blog post on this topic.

We are used to a handshake or a hug or a high-five whenever we meet a person - be it a friend or a professional mate. COVID19 is a contagious disease that spreads rapidly when it comes in contact with humans. SO ultimately it can spread easily and that's what the word contagious means; isn't it? Well, it is like a movie. Remember the Will Smith movie - I am a Legend. Well, that is making rounds these days where people draw eerie parallels to that movie.

1. Namaste

Namaste is an Indian greeting style where you join your hands and wish with a pleasant smile. So during this flu season, go ahead and next time when you meet someone then say Namaste. Oh yeah! these days I am doing 'Nah Imma stay at my bed'

2. Footshake

So now that you are prohibited from having physical contact you might be wondering how to do a handshake or a hug. Well, there is this thing called 'Footshake' where you do a tiny jig using your feet and touch each other using the feet.

3. Flying kisses

Well, my dear love birds, Fret Not! You might not be able to kiss each other but you can definitely send a flying kiss to each other ;)

4. Air Hugs

My dear love birds, if you hate the idea of Air kisses then you can definitely try the Air hugs. What do you think about it?

5. Jim & Pam High-Fives

The Office fans would surely have understood what I mean here. If you have been following the show, then come across a scene where you see Jim Halpert and Pam Beasly air high-fiving each other. Well, that's cute!

6. Elbow bumps

This is another innovative idea that was invented in the last few months aftermath the discovery of the Corona Virus. Have you tried this?

7. Japanese Bow

In East Asia, they usually bow in front of a person as a token of respect. This usually happens in Japan. Well, if you do it now then ensure you maintain a 6 feet distance between each other

8. Wakanda Forever Salute

If you are a King T'Challa's fan, then you might try this Wakanda Forever Salute and greet your friends during this season.

9. Oh Hello!

If none of the above greeting techniques suite you, then why not stick to a simple hello.

Oh, my beloved people, this virus is a pandemic and you all should definitely look after yourselves and your loved ones. Maintain social distancing and if you happen to meet someone and want to greet them without touching each other then follow the above technique I taught you.

This is a crazy ass world

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sat, 11 Jan 2020 23:05:00 -0500

The world where we dwell is a big mean world comprising of mean people. The fake mask of people around you would fall off someday and then you would regret trusting individuals who used you for their gains. I stay away from such fiends. A big lesson I learned in my life is to be careful if you let someone in your life. Trust is an important criterion in a relationship. But sadly often such malicious people bump into our life and paint amazing colors in our life but unfortunately, those are fake emotions that you perceive to be the truth.

We all need one good friend who would be kind and nice to you. From my past experiences, I have realized that I've allowed access to certain people in my life who have been mean to me. But later I realized that these people won't stand for you in your time of need. We need one real authentic friend in this crazy ass world who will be by your side as a guiding angel. But hey! Isn't that a huge expectation and from my childhood experiences I know that expectations always hurt and it hurts really bad. So I stay miles away from this word.

We should stay away from people who befriend you for your Amazon Prime credentials, Netflix account or your MoviePass cards. They need you for a purpose and once their work is done, they won't need you anymore. I've been known to be kind and generous because like a fool I trust people blindly. Now that I am careful when someone tries to befriend me. Cuz this is a crazy mean world! And no one cares for anyone except for your own Keith and kin.

I've met a gem of people during my stay outside my home. I still remember the day during my early 20s when my parents used to be worried to send me out to a different location for my job. They were mighty upset then. But now I realized that I would be a completely different person if I had not stepped outside my house then. During my exile from home, I learned some great amazing life lessons and made some amazing friends. I haven't been in touch with most of them but I plan to visit them whenever I am back in India. Life hasn't been kind to me, you see! It snatched my beloved little sister a few years back whose void is still hurting me and that hurt has left a deep scar in my heart. I remember I once cried for a friend with whom I was close to. I would talk to him on the office communicator whenever we had time. We used to discuss various strategies on how to switch jobs. Luckily he got to change his job before me and I was not feeling good that he was leaving the company. I really felt hurt. Maybe that's because of my nature and my inability to get going to people around me. I always find myself at a point where people take me for granted and that's a shame!

So, I want to inform you that you should choose people wisely and not let anyone enter your life. Don't trust people too easily and that's a lesson for everyone. Make true friends and make that relationship count. Let not people enter your life and step over you and take you for granted. When you give your 100% then you should at least expect 10% but again like I always say that expectations always hurt! I hope that 2020 has been really great for you guys and you will do well in your life. Have fun my amazing people. I miss you all and I remember you whenever I can! See you soon!

New Year Resolutions 2020

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Wed, 1 Jan 2020 18:03:00 -0500

I have never been a fan of new year resolutions. Well, that becomes obvious by the fact that I am never excited by new years. Well its the same life every day, isn't it? Honestly speaking, something struck my mind that provoked it to script something on my blog in the form of a new year post. For people following my blog, you must be aware that my new year always starts with a fictional series that ends with a female protagonist seeking revenge on the male character who plans to exploit and abuse her. That was my idea of bringing revolution through mini blog posts. GIBBERISH, isn't it?

It's been a long time since I ever wrote anything useful in this blog space. My thirst for writing and the lake of creativity is draining high time in my life and I am creativity handicapped. That's the reason why I refrain from looking at this space. I recognize myself as a creative person but it's said to even affirm the fact that I don't see myself as that person anymore. I am no longer the same confident individual whose love for blogging was extraordinary.

New year resolutions are means by which you fool yourself that you would be glued to a series of eventful and constructive activities that aim to reform your life in a better way. This reformation process might be beautiful if it actually lasts but it usually fails. I have listed a few promising resolutions for this year. I have done so previously too but I am never amused by those results as all my previous attempts at fulfilling any new year resolutions have been futile.

Like every other individual who plans to get fit, I too have a plan of trying to hit the gym every day. THIS time I am bloody serious and I am going to give my 100% to this goal of mine.

I plan to remove negativity from my life and lead a better life this year. That can be achieved by discarding distractive elements from your life such as procrastination, social media and such. Social media has been an important part of my life and Twitter, Facebook and Instagram never cease to follow me throughout my daily day's activity. Trust me, I have kicked these distractive trio's from my life and I feel better. I deactivated my Facebook a day after my birthday and I have been feeling good about it.

Reading soothes your mind. I usually never get time to read because most of the time I am fidgeting with my phone. I am sure reading will make my life better to some extent and I am sure it will fill my brain's creative pond with great ideas. You know, when I look back at my young days, I feel like a different person now. The blog posts and the various ideas through my articles now makes me think that they are different people. I need to awaken that old me in the current me.

Early to bed and early to rising makes a person healthy and wise. Bring those alarms and let me ask Alexa to wake me up at 5.30 AM every day. That's how I am going to subject myself to a healthy lifestyle.

Drinking water every day is never injurious to anyone's life. I don't drink much water every day. From this year onwards, I plan to drink at least 8 cups/glasses of water every day.

Getting back to regular writing is something I would like to do this year. If you analyze my blog posting frequency, you would come to know that I have hardly written any blog post this year and I plan to write more. Writing challenges your mind and makes it feel uncomfortable and that's what I want to do right away.

I am exposed to many languages and I fluently read, write and speak multiple languages such as English, Tamil, Hindi, and Marathi. This year I plan to learn a new language. I enrolled in a Spanish course in Udemy and whenever time permits, I do make sure to check a few chapters. So, learning a new language this year is clearly on my mind.

I am not sure how long my plans are going to work but I seriously need to work on these goals of mine to make sure I am doing well this year. What are your new year goals and plans?

17 ways you can find happiness

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sun, 20 Oct 2019 19:37:00 -0400

How often you bump across people who narrate their displeasure with life? Stress and pressure have tied human beings. Not everyone is happy with their life. I throw a challenge at you. Well, find me a happy person and I will send you 1000 dollars into your bank account right away! I can say with full confidence that everyone has some or the other problems in their life. Sorrow beckons us and stress grinds us into a mixture that will never let us reform ourselves into a positive soul. I am not a happiness guru or a baba who can give you a short cut to being happy. Well, that's a state of mind. At this moment, I can say that even I am not happy and this pursuit of happiness is something I've been searching for since long. After the sad demise of my beloved sister two years back, the world crumbled upside down. It felt as if the sky came falling on my head. It was an intense moment of pain for me and my family. Losing our loved one is never an easy thing to digest and it hurts when you lose someone who had great ambitions and aspirations in their life and had an insatiable thirst for excellence. Well, that's how life started to haunt me and I run helter-skelter since then and my happiness quotient i.e. HQ ran towards a negative spiral. With a broken heart, a heart full of hurt and melancholy, my mother would imbue positivity into me and ask me to move on with our lives because my little sister left for heavenly abode. You can imagine how deep I am submerged into sorrow. Intense, isn't it? The irony would die a thousand deaths if I say I will give you different ways of being happy. This is a compiled list and I follow a few of these. I want to know your thoughts on this.

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1. Pursue achievable goals

Setting goals are very important for any human being. That's what defines you and channelizes your life. But sometimes you should remember that one should work hard for their goals. We just simply can't dream about and set up goals. We need to understand that our life would be satisfied if you achieve something that was on your list. Make a list of items that you want to pursue by some period. Keep a track of these items and trust me, that feeling of contentedness that is obtained after you see your dreams materialize is something amazing

2. Smile often

A happy smiling face is what attracts human beings. When you smile, it automatically invokes positivity and it sends happy vibes across people around you. So, don't forget to wear that beautiful sile. During my early days of internet days, I had a status message on my yahoo profile that said, "Always smile because your smile makes me smile!" That's the best you can do.

3. Always help others

My parents raised me saying one thing that I always find incredible. During my growing phase, I observed one thing and I am very proud of that particular thing. My parents never said no to anyone who knocked their doors for help. They always helped others and that too with a smile. Trust me, I acquired this skill from them and I am proud I inherited this trait from them.

4. Sharing with others

No matter what people think about you, never forget to share. There is a popular blogging analogy related to blog commenting that says that 'Sharing is Caring!' How true! Always help and Share with people.

5. Maintain a youthful spirit

Always maintain a youthful spirit irrespective of your age. Do things that fascinate you. Cultivate a hobby and stay focussed.

6. Treat everyone equally

Get along with the rich, poor, bad, beautiful and the ugly. Treat everyone equally. Never discriminate against anyone and spread happiness. This is an important point

7. Keep cool under pressure

Stay calm and composed even if the sky comes falling for you. A cool mind can tackle pressure. Because, if not then you can react on impulse and that can lead to dangerous consequences. So that's why I advise you to remain calm under pressure. Stay cool!

8. Lighten the atmosphere with humor

A little humor here and there won't hurt anyone. It will make the atmosphere lively. Trust me, try to be funny. Crack jokes, bring in those stupid jokes and do fun stuff that is in the right spirit but never hurt anyone through those jokes. Ok, tell me a joke!

9. Forget and Forgive

I know its easy to say forget and forgive especially if someone hurt you so badly that the harsh memories have been engraved in your heart forever. Can we do anything? No, we can't. So why not forget the incident and forgive the person who hurt you.

10. Have few but true pals

Always surround yourself with true friends. The quantity doesn't matter here but have friends who will be there for you at times of need. Fulfill your friendship without any expectations. So go out and make friends but true friends.

11.Treasure every moment with your loved ones

Our loved ones constitute an important part of our lives. We have to spend a significant amount of time with them so ensure you spend some quality time with your folks. Cherish and treasure every moment with your loved ones

12. Never lose your confidence

Stay focussed and never lose your confidence in your life. If you can't have confidence in your life then how can you be happy.

13. Indulge yourself

Keep yourself busy with things that you love to do. Be it art, cooking or writing - indulge yourself with things that you love to do.

14. Take calculated risks

Remember that some decisions that you take in your life can haunt you forever if it turns out to be indecision. So make the right decisions and take calculated risks

15. Understand that money isn't everything

Never prioritize money over everything. I agree that money is important but it isn't everything. Remember that relationships and love triumphs over money. Money can't buy happiness. Note this line. Thank me later!

16.Exercise

Exercise every day. It will rejuvenate you.

17. Try to be creative

Stay creative. Do something new every day.

18. Travel

Explore new places and know about its history and culture.

19. Never stop learning

Don't stop learning. Learning is a process and learn new things every day. Be it a new language or a new hobby.

I hope these different steps can help you find happiness. I wish you all the best in your pursuit of happiness. Stay blessed and it feels great to be back here.

The wolf and the sheep #WoWe

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Wed, 3 Jul 2019 13:23:00 -0400

"Ashwin, I know you love me but doing all these inapt things don't sound good to me," Nisha said to her boyfriend.

"Baby, why fear when I am near? Live every moment. Kiss me like you miss me." He said and cupped her mouth. She stifled a smile. He enfolded her slender body and kissed her delicate pink lips.

That night they made love for the first time.

Weeks passed and there were no signs of Ashwin.

A group of girls were discussing something important in the classroom and there was a deafening silence when Nisha stepped into the class. The boys looked excited as their eyes were glued to a video that was playing in their mobile phones.

One of Nisha's friend showed her phone to Nisha.

"Mumbai college girl hot sex video." Nisha read and she stood stunned. It was her in the video along with a man whose face was blurred. She knew it was Ashwin.

Why did I trust him? A train of thoughts railed through her mind. She couldn't believe herself for he had broken her heart.

This post is written as part of the #WoWe Blog Hop hosted by Mayuri and Rashi, as part of which we have to pen a story within 200 words on the given prompt. This is my entry for Week 4 based on the prompt at the start of this post. Do leave your thoughts below!

Vanilla

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Wed, 3 Jul 2019 11:26:00 -0400

The floor tasted like vanilla.

Ah, the baby had dropped the ice cream once again.

"Crawl fast," my friend screamed as the child flicked me. Now, I lay upside down floundering on the floor.

The Wedding Anniversary

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Wed, 26 Jun 2019 09:52:00 -0400

Today was Nazrana and Ali's 11th wedding anniversary. They hadn't been in talking terms for 6 years due to frequent ego clashes and verbal skirmishes. She always knew that their marriage was never going to work. They had to keep aside their ego and get together for their daughter's good. They spoke to each other over the phone and decided to meet again at the bandstand where they met for the first time. She wore the green dress that Ali gifted her for the first time after their marriage. Nazrana cooked Ali's favorite mutton gosht.

4 PM. Nazrana couldn't stop smiling when she saw Ali walking towards her.
"Sorry for making you wait for so long," He said and hugged her.
Nazrana smiled and said, "You were never a punctual man!"

"And you still looking amazing in this green dress," Ali complimented her.

Ali dug a small portion of the curry and tasted it. "Yummy!"

Out of nowhere, a group of Hindu Sena volunteers grabbed both of them and started beating them.

"There is no place for beef eaters in our country." One of the men from the group announced.

"Say Jai Shri Ram!" they screamed in unison and they thrashed Ali so hard that he kicked the bucket just at the age of 37.

Ali became a face of yet another right-wing atrocities.

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This post is written as part of the #WoWe Blog Hop hosted by Mayuri and Rashi, as part of which we have to pen a story within 200 words on the given prompt. This is my entry for Week 3 based on the picture prompt at the start of this post. Do leave your thoughts below!

5 Characteristics Every Great Essay Writer Has in Common

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Wed, 19 Jun 2019 11:19:00 -0400

They say we should learn from the best and the brightest. Books revealing the stories of famous and successful people become true best sellers around the world because less successful people want to learn from them. This system works in every field, in every professional specialization. If you are a student willing to know how to become a better writer, it is a good idea to get to know more about the characteristics of great essay writers you can make yours. We won't talk about luck or inborn talent, as you simply can't influence those two. However, there are more practical things which you can make part of your life with more or less effort. There is no way you'll be able to work on those characteristics altogether, so pick one for starters and later add ore one by one. Don't be too demanding to yourself, as it can discourage you from the very beginning.

Great Essay Authors Write One Draft After Another

Many students think that they can and should write their essays from the first try. Writing drafts is awful for them, they see it only as a huge time loss. However, we should warn you, that without writing drafts, without throwing away one piece of writing after another, you will never become a seasoned and recognized essay writer. Try to change your perception, and, for example, decide for yourself that for one essay you need not less than three preliminary drafts. Yes, it takes time, but we are giving tips on how to become the best essay writer, not how to become the fastest essay writer.

Successful Academic Writers Read A Lot

You cannot become a quality writer if you don't read enough, become when reading you don't only get some ideas for your texts and inspiration, you will also see how a famous writer structures his text, see new words and combinations, etc. Even your grammar becomes stronger when you read enough classic literature. Our advice is to read novels, not only technical literature or self-help non-fiction books. When you start reading at least 30 minutes every day, you will become much closer to the writers you want to resemble.

Great Essay Writers Learn from The Best and the Brightest

For you Hemingway is one of the most famous writers, but at his time he called himself just a student, and he was learning from many seemed writers before him, and not only American or British writers, but Latin American, French, Russian, etc. On our way to greatness we need to learn from others, otherwise we will be just boiling in our own thoughts and repeating mistakes. Being a student you also can learn from writers professional in academic essays writing. Once in a while pay for essays online at a reliable academic writing service, and use a received flawless final draft as an example for your future works.

Esteemed Writers Work on Schedule

You can be talented and experienced, you may have the best ideas ever, but if you are not working on a defined schedule, you are losing an opportunity to become a great essay writer - in college, university, or just a writer read by many. You need to make a list of assignments you have, count the approximate amount of time you need to complete them and plan your week accordingly.

Great Freelance Writers Respect the Deadlines

Deadlines are there to be followed. If you don't follow deadlines you will not be able to succeed even if you write quality essays full of bright ideas. If you let down your professor, you will fail the course. If you fail your publisher, you will never be published. We don't have a simple answer on "how to kill Procrastination" question, but you should come up with answers which are suitable for you and your writing routine.

The Top 5 Places to Visit in Singapore

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Fri, 31 May 2019 11:29:00 -0400

The Southeast Asian island that is Singapore is among the richest countries across the globe. Due to its massive technological advancements and infrastructural developments in the past 50 years, Singapore has emerged as one of the most preferred tourist destinations worldwide. The island has plenty of amazing natural and manmade features that will give you fond memories in addition to mesmerizing you. Also, the city-state has an array of cultures and religions, and embraces people of all backgrounds, thereby making it a must-visit destination.

So, what are some of the best places to visit in Singapore? Well, here are some top picks:

Gardens by the Bay

The Gardens by the Bay is one place that almost every visitor to the Lion City must visit. It occupies over 100 hectares of land and is near the Marina Reservoir. The garden is awash with thrilling features, including the flower dome, which strives to replicate Mediterranean characteristics in terms of conditions and even plants. Another feature is the cloud forest, which has conditions and flora that are found in high altitudes. Supertrees are certainly the most glamorous of the attractions in the Gardens by the Bay, standing 25m to 50m tall and covered with fern, giving them a green appearance. On the other sides of the supertrees are photovoltaic cells, which collect solar energy. At night, you will find the supertrees beautifully emitting light and playing sweet music. There are other exciting places to tour in the garden, like the children garden, flower market, and horticultural garden.

Botanic Gardens

The Botanic Garden was nominated as a UNESCO World Heritage, and rightfully so. The garden helps preserve some of Singapore’s heritage that is quite wild, hence making the city feel like a well maintained and comfortable concrete jungle. On a walk down the trail, you get to see the garden’s heritage trees, which are well looked after in a bid to protect the city’s mature tree species.

You need to tour Singapore and visit the Botanic Garden and other magnificent places, and see the height of human creativity and technological advancement as well as environmental conservation. To process your visa, you should work with a reliable agent by visiting https://www.one-visa.com.

Orchard Road

Singapore is an outstanding city for fashion and designer stuff, and it is normal if you find yourself going on a crazy shopping spree. Orchard Road is the place to start on your shopping escapades, thanks to the posh stores all over. What do you make of a neighborhood that is home to at least 22 high-end malls and 6 department stores? On Orchard Road, you can buy lots of stuff, such as traditional arts, ancient woven clothes, and the latest fashions. You are also spoiled with entertainment, as there are several movie theaters, including an IMAX. While on your shopping and entertainment adventures, you do not have to go hungry, as there are numerous eating places that serve international dishes.

Sentosa Island

Although not popular as a beach destination, those craving an experience in the sand and sun can go to Sentosa Island. Siloso Beach will offer the best time at the beach, and vacationers can play volleyball or enjoy some kayaking or skimboarding. Some other beach attractions are also available for you to choose from. The Underwater World Aquarium is another feature, as it gives you the rare opportunity to swim with dolphins. Also, the Merlion, which is Singapore's famous statue of a lion head with a fish tail, is a must-see feature on the island. There are plenty of other exciting things on the island.

Marina Bay Sands

You have not seen one of the world’s most iconic manmade features if you have not been to Marina Bay Sands. The resort complex comprises a canal going through it, the ArtScience Museum, and the most outstanding Marina Bay Sands Skypark—a strategic point from which you can get a view of the whole city. Would you believe that the viewing deck of the Skypark and infinity pool are in a ship that tops the hotel? You can only use the infinity pool if you are a guest in the hotel, but anyone can access the observation deck and see the ground-breaking double helix bridge, the Gardens by the Bay, the port, and the breathtaking skyline. Also, you can grab some coffee from the rooftop restaurant or buy a souvenir.

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Life doesn't work that way

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Fri, 24 May 2019 11:09:00 -0400

How often does our heart yearn to meet the person who has been an integral part of your life - someone who has been everything in your life, a part of your family? The human brain is designed in such a way that it can't forget people who have been with you from your childhood. I lost my little sister to a terminal illness that shattered not only her dreams but also my family happiness. The terminal disease had put us in a black hole, never ending sorrow. That's because the past hasn't been kind to my family. That's a natural tendency that we start questioning and hating god for such a loss!

Well, that's natural! I had taken sabotage from writing or to be honest I didn't want to write. I knew writing was the only thing that could de-stress me and freed all my sorrows - of course, the sorrow of losing my little sister is more than anything in my life. I never imagined that sort of cruelty ever. Her absence haunts us every single day. Our home in India is an arsenal of all her creative works. She was the most blessed girl in our entire family - in looks and in talent. But what's the use of so much talent when it has to be nipped in the bud. That question haunts me, it taunts me day and night.

It's funny I try hard to distract myself from anything that is creative or my brain doesn't want me to indulge me into creative stuff. And that pains me. I've been creatively blessed but right now I feel like creativity handicapped. The mind that was a pond of tons of imaginary ideas and stories has drained and the creative juices have drained away. I ask my brain why and I hear no response in return. My own short stories of the yesteryears now seem alien to me. The most difficult thing that is difficult for me to digest is that I find it hard to believe my own creativity. Why is it getting hard for me to convince myself that those are my artwork, my short stories, my poetries and everything on this blog is my work? Have I alienated myself so far that it is becoming difficult for me to believe in myself and my abilities?

I can't even believe I am writing this. For months I have been trying hard to post something here. I know I had signed up for monthly challenges too, but like said before I don't feel like. TO be honest I was bloody excited to write for this and I remember my April 2016 challenge posts. It was one of my best series ever. Why can't I churn out amazing stories like that now? Why can't I draw like I used to? I admit I haven't been a great artist but at least I could try.

When I talk to my friends whom I befriended through blogs, it feels like I am talking to strangers. Maybe I need to fix some serious things in my life. Maybe that's what will help me in the long term. Because life doesn't work that way and I know that very well. In the coming days, I plan to work on several things that will help me professionally. I will post here sporadically and I have no intention to shut this blog. Blogging from 2006 till now seems like an era for me. And no this isn't going to be the end of an era. I will come up with something when my brain permits me to!

Is that what happens when you are in deep grief?

I hope to talk to you again. Till then, CIAO!

10 Tips to Become an Expert in Writing a College Poem

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Wed, 20 Mar 2019 12:30:00 -0400

Good poetry inspires. It makes you ponder on various important issues in our life. Death, life, love, betrayal, faith, separation, reunion, and a number of other essential issues can meet in one poem. Poetry helps poets reveal their feelings and emotions, get rid of negative thoughts and let others experience the same. Still, becoming a poet is rather a challenging path. Not everyone manages to become successful and rewarded.

10 Tips to Help a College Student Become an Expert in Writing

These tips may help you turn into a peerless professional in college poem writing.

1. Find the Subject that Meets Your Interests

First of all, one should choose a topic that reflects personal interests. As a rule, poets do not search the topic but the topics find them. One cannot write about things he or she is not interested in or does not understand. Actually, one could but the result would never be successful. Poetry without inspiration lacks sincerity and sensibility. It is rather rough and is not capable to impress someone. Poetry is usually a mirror of the poet’s life experience. It reveals the emotions, beliefs, fears, expectations, fails, hopes, and dreams. One might write about human relationships and feelings, life and death, pets, natural disasters, children, happiness, sad moments, unusual things, and a number of other issues. If a poet is open and honest, he or she will surely have the audience.

2. Sink into Your Inside World of Feelings and Emotions

Senses are the best poet’s assistants. They help reflect the idea and present it naturally. That is because nobody is able to force someone to feel things which are strange for a personality. Writing about issues one can experience makes each line sound impressive and worthy of trust.

3. Find a Place Where Nobody Can Disturb You

Every writer should have his or her own shelter. It often happens that creative personalities are too vulnerable and dislike noisy surrounding. Let yourself create in a place where you might feel safe and relaxed. That is really important. It can be your office, a bench somewhere in the park, another apartment, even some garden or balcony. The main thing is your comfort. Actually, there are people who can create everywhere because ideas overwhelm them. They feel cozy staying with their thoughts even in nightclubs or on a bus stop. If you are one of them, then you are lucky.

4. Reflect Yourself but Make It Sound Slant

When someone reads a poem he or she expects to look for a hidden idea and sense. Look for expressions which can describe the issue without naming it directly. For example, instead of “death”, one can say “a lady that comes with the last breath” or instead of “tears” a poet can write “tragic dew covered her face”. That what makes poetry sound unusual and striking.

5. Turn Routine into Blessing

People often hate routine. Try to describe familiar things unnaturally letting your readers distract from thoughts about monotonous existence. It is essential for a poet to name things differently.

6. Rhyming Is Not Always Necessary

People used to think that everybody who can rhyme might become an incredible poet. That is not the same. First of all, a poem should possess some theme and idea. Poems without rhymes are gaining popularity daily. Modern connoisseurs of poetry long rather for content than for rhyming. Hokkus written by Matsuo Basho lacked rhyme but they were overwhelmed with brilliant ideas and emotions native to everyone.

7. Find Solution for Your “Stucks”

If you feel that you have stuck you’d better change the activity. Muse often leaves us for some time and we are not able to create. It does not mean that it will never come back. You just need to go for a walk, take a bath, move somewhere, and meet someone. You are to change the activity. Nobody can make inspiration being tired, depressed, in a low mood, or too excited. A poet needs time to recover writing abilities. That is all.

8. Do not Worry about Interpretation

People used to interpret things differently. Let them do that with your poetry. A poet creates a world where different readers may live. So, naturally, everyone might contribute personal meaning to the poetry’s idea. Sometimes some unexpected interpretation makes the poetry successful and popular.

9. Enlarge Your Vocabulary

Read a lot, analyze new vocabulary, borrow some expressions, and create your own. Each writer and poet develops an individual style of writing. Personalized language makes a poet’s creation unique and recognizable. Interesting expressions intrigue the reader. Unparalleled style makes readers want to read more.

10. Read Your Poetry Out Loud

Such a trick lets a poet find weak points and improve them. If you hear that some passages lack rhyme, easy or proper sounding, you will surely want to perfect it. A poem is born to be cited out loud.

Write if it’s Your Cup of Tea

Fortunately, people are not robots. Nobody can install the function called “poem creation”. Writing is an inborn skill that cannot be inherited or sold. Otherwise, the world would be overloaded with writers and lack variety. Some people are good at engineering and some even don’t know the meaning of this word. A person must feel that poem writing is the thing that can make him or her happy and heard. If you have realized that writing is your cup of tea, you will surely find our ten tips helpful. So, create and make this world a bit more beautiful.

As an option, you can enjoy services provided professional poem writers you can hire online if you need highly qualified writing assistance. Enjoy!

Theme Reveal - A to Z April 2019 Challenge - Captain Hatke

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Mon, 18 Mar 2019 12:44:00 -0400

This April may witness the much-awaited end game of the Avengers who plan to defeat the mad Titan Thanos and resuscitate half of the universe but this April will also witness the birth of a new superhero.

This is going to be an inspiring saga of a man's fight against the laws of nature.

This story inspires

About a mortal who aspires

It's about the tears he shed

It's about those moments when he bled

It's about how mankind's little blunder

Gave birth to the Eight Wonder of the world - Our very own superhero

Captain Hatke

Throughout the month of April, you are going to witness the misadventures of Captain Hatke - Avenger's nightmare and Justice League's archenemy

I will never do that again

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sun, 17 Mar 2019 12:27:00 -0400

"Vaak Thoo!" Munshi spat on the tobacco-stained wall as he walked along the promenade near a famous Mumbai beach.

10.30 PM, flashed his wristwatch.

He witnessed the sudden cold breeze brush his hair. He took a deep breathe as the cold breeze kissed him. He had over 100 problems in his life and he knew that the government won't help him in resolving his problems.

He walked towards the sea as the fast-moving waves lashed his feet again and again.

"People are fighting in the name of religion," he murmured.

"There are potholes everywhere and the government sucks money out of my hard earned salary in name of income tax," he uttered to himself.

"What is happening to this country?" he said to himself. "People here need to take classes on discipline and responsibilities as citizens."

"Waak Thoo," he spat again.

"I am worried about this country. Is the country in the wrong hands?" he continued walking towards the Arabian sea.

He unzipped his trousers and splashed on the waves that lashed on him.

"And this is how a responsible citizen like you can change the country right?!" he heard a husky voice but there was no one in sight for miles.

"I am tired of this shit. Now I hear random voices too," he screamed at the top of his voice.

"Why doing this bruh?" he heard the same burly voice.

This time he freaked out. He quickly zipped his trousers and started running back to the road.

"However fast you run, I am going to find you and ..." the voice said.

Munshi paused and asked, "And... are you gonna kill me?"

"Do you think I am crazy to kill people for peeing in public?" the voice said.

"Thank God!" he heaved a sigh of relief and sat on the promenade, carefully moving away from his legs from the tobacco stains.

"Mr Hollow Man, who are you?" Munshi asked the voice.

"You don't need to worry about me," the voice said," Worry about yourself. You are in deep shit, bruh!"

"Why do you hate the government so much?" the voice asked.

"Well there is nothing right in this country and I am frustrated,"

"Politicians knock our doors for asking votes once in a year and disappear?" Munshi said, his voice low.

"What is the government doing?" he added.

"What are you doing for this country as a citizen? Think before you reprimand the government!" the voice added.

"So Mr Hollow Man, reveal yourself."

"Did you vote in the last General Elections?" the voice added.

"No, I didn't."

"You have no rights to talk about the country, government, discipline or responsibilities," the voice added.

"Fuck off man!" Munshi said.

"Yes, you fuck off, Munshi!" the voice said. With a blink of an eye, a masked man appeared in front of him. He was wearing a red cape and had an H on his chest.

He grabbed Munshi's neck and said," You don't deserve to live!"

"But I will spare you this time," he said and continued, "If you don't vote in this upcoming election, then I will find you and.."

"And kill me?" Munshi stuttered.

"No...I will find you and make you vote," the unknown caped hero said.

"So will you ever blame the government or talk wisdom shit?" he added.

"No, I will never do that again.. I am sorry Sir," Munshi said, his lips curved into a smile.

"But who are you?" Munshi asked the caped man.

"They all call me Hatke...Captain Hatke!" he said and vanished within the flash of a second.

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Go vote in the upcoming General Elections or else Captain Hatke will find you and make you vote!

Captain Hatke is the new series that I am planning to write in the month of April.

Drifting apart

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sat, 16 Mar 2019 14:57:00 -0400

We live in this world where
the sky unites us
and the oceans divide us
the birds no longer sing
just like my precious, you stopped smiling
your smile is my fuel to happiness
I can't tell you how it feels like
With the flash of a second,
our bond crippled, jaded and faded
I am sinking in the ocean of melancholia
My hello was once a reason for your smile
but now it follows an awkward silence
Strange, this pattern disgusts me
the ship has been gulped by the ocean
the hungry shark has chewed the sailor
our dalliance shredded with time
hear my heart cry a loud shrill
watch my thoughts bleed
Beauty with no admiration may be a sin
you'd cleansed my sins and made me pure
I find this hard to write, but you made it easy
A songbird that I am turning into
It may make no sense to you, but anyways!
this is meant for you, only you
Listen close, see yourself, you are drifting apart

A world full of light

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sat, 24 Nov 2018 13:50:00 -0500

Image Source

I am thinking of you

When our world was full of light

Together we unleashed the zest of life

We sang songs of affection in unison

Our heart synced in love

How would I forget,

those early summer kisses

When the emotions were so strong

But then our lives drifted apart

And our heart de-synced

Felt like my soul departing,

Leaving my body in a stasis

Then my heart desired you

But now my heart's desire is your happiness

Tears roll my cheek like the Bombay rains

Now, that you are moving out, drifting away,

As you prioritized your dream bigger than me

But my dream has always been you

Forthwith, I want you to be famous

Maybe I can sit next to you again

And announce to the world

How proud I am of you!

I will a song about you

Of how proud I am of you!

And I'll watch you shine like a star

With tears of joy on my eyes

I will celebrate your achievements

Perhaps that day I shall wipe my tears, smile again

and scream I'm happy you left me

To make your dreams come true

and hope you walk again by my side

What if, you forgot me

Or never came back,

Jabbing my soul with thousand knives

Oh dear, maybe I should stop overthinking

Because you may be gone with the wind,

but you'll boomerang back to me,

This I know!

But till then, I'm thinking of you

‘This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.’

How to easily identify an IRS scammer in USA?

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sat, 24 Nov 2018 11:36:00 -0500

Time and again we often hear about the different types of scammers who reside in the www. They interrupt the happiness in our life. And then out of nowhere someone calls you and says that you have done a major fraud in the tax system and the entire Tax and Revenue system is behind you. Imagine this situation. Most probably these scammers are operating from some call centre in India. Scammers have got innovative. Remember the Nigerian Prince who wants to share his 5 million dollars in your name and for that, he needs you to submit some amount to claim those millions. Maybe these scammers got to know that with time even people change. There is a long going IRS scam in the United States and these scammers duped multiple people over million dollars annually. The reason why I am writing this article is because I got a similar scam call yesterday with someone claiming to be police officer Bryan Alexander.

I am going to share my experience here and I will post some valid points to easily identify these IRS scammers.

The other day I was busy checking some Black Friday deals on my mobile phone when I got a call from 911. I was actually worried about why would someone call me from 911. Then I spoke to the guy who introduced himself as a police officer from Ashville, where I live. He said that an arrest warrant was issued for me for some fraud that I did in the tax filing last year. He claimed that IRS, the internal revenue system, the agency responsible for the collection of taxes and enforcement of tax laws in the USA had filed a complaint on me. This actually freaked me out in the beginning. He then asked me to google for a phone number. And that turned out to be the phone number of the Ashville Police station. The guy gave me his full name and his badge ID like he was a real cop. He wanted me to cooperate with him else he would be sending cops to my house to get me arrested. He didn't let me talk. This guy put me in a conference call with the guy claiming to be the IRS officer from his Washington DC office. The call looked genuine to me at the beginning. So he called me 'Mr. Ste-fun'. This was where I got the first doubt. No American would call me Stefun which ideally is the Indian/Asian pronunciation of my name. I carefully listened to the tale that the guy was cooking. He reiterated the story about my arrest warrant that the other guy from the Ashville line had told. He asked me if I want to hire an attorney or want to settle the matter out of court. He asked questions like Who filed your taxes and all. He didn't let me talk while he was talking. I asked how do I settle the case out of court. He said that I need to go to a nearby shopping mart and ask for a gift card of $1000.

It was then I confirmed myself that the guy is a fakester, scamster or whatever you tag them. I could have made fun of them but I didn't want to entertain them any longer. I immediately called 911 and informed about all this. The lady officer on the line confirmed that it was a scam and asked me to ignore them.

There are a few points I would like to share from my experience.

1. Always watch out for how they pronounce your name. This is because these guys are not proficient enough in saying Western names. Luckily I got to know the way they said my name. An American would call me Steven and not Ste-fun

2. IRS doesn't make any calls to any of the US citizens. IRS has always warned the US citizens to be aware of such calls and not to shell out their hard earned money in these scammers pockets

3. IRS would send a notice in case if there a tax violation

4. Any officers who call you claiming to be the police or from some department would talk to you politely. Remember, I talk to multiple people in the states on a day to day basis. They are normally kind and I've never seen people who won't let you talk or ask you to shut up on call. This is an important point

5. They will ask you for credit or debit card number on the phone

6. They would ask you to buy gift cards and give the number to them

7. They threaten to bring in cops or law enforcing agencies to get you arrested for not paying them the money

8. They demand that you pay them the money without giving you the chance to cross-question or appeal

9. They demand immediate payment

10. Watch out for their accent. Their Indian accent eventually shows up after some time.

If you are not sure then call the IRS at 1.800.829.1040. The IRS officers can help you with any payment issue or report the incident to the IRS at www.tigta.gov.

SO, remember these points and save your hard-earned money.

Roasted Turkey or Roasted in Turkey?

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Thu, 22 Nov 2018 10:04:00 -0500

Fiction

Mr. Watson, my boss had invited our team for a Thanksgiving dinner at his place. This meeting was to decide the fate of a few of our outstanding employees who shall be posted to our company's different overseas location.

Few of them included Syria, Turkey, Iran, UAE, Somalia, Ethiopia, and many North African countries. Well, seeing the list, you might have realized my feelings.

I had prayed to multiple gods that week as my heart didn't desire to go outside of America. I love the USA! At least I could say so after seeing the opportunities in those countries.

So we all gathered around the dining table. I smacked my lips as I saw the different Thanksgiving dishes Mrs. Watson had cooked for us. My boss was discussing the employee placement plan and I was busy staring at the roasted turkey that was neatly dressed on a large platter. My eyes couldn't resist that sight and it was tempting.

"So, I will now inform you what the management has decided." The boss said, " I just need a confirmation from you once I inform you your new work location."

My ears bypassed what he said all those time that actually made me regret.

He pointed towards me and said, "Turkey!" I was busy drooling at the roasted turkey.

"Yes, turkey!" I told him. "Are you sure?" he asked to confirm.

"Yes, of course," I said and the rats inside my stomach were busy rumbling. My mind failed to process the context of the topic and my boss had sent the confirmation to the management. The rest of my teammates had declined the offer and I was the only one who said yes.

I was busy gorging on the roasted turkey while few of my teammates came and sat next to me.

"I admit you are indeed a brave man, Steve," Andrea said to me.

"I second you, Andy," Greg said brusquely.

"I mean how could you think of Turkey," Matt said, " You must be a legend. Look at the extreme conditions there and the ISIS threat."

"How could you think of moving to Turkey?" Jeff joined in.

"Turkey." I stood perplexed. It was a late realization. The oven roasted turkey had blinded me for a moment that my company decided to parcel me to Turkey.

Because of roasted Turkey, I was sure of getting roasted in Turkey.

"Nooooooo....." I screamed at the top of my voice while my teammates were busy appreciating my courage.

How to fall asleep in 60 seconds?

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sun, 18 Nov 2018 12:46:00 -0500

Eric was busy staring at his iPad as Lisanne, his wife of 11 years was getting ready for work. She was a registered nurse at the Duke Medical University Hospital. It was one of those days when she had to work night shifts. The hospital paid extra incentives for its RN's who worked at night. They both had struggled a lot when they were new to Chicago.

"Honey, I'm leaving for Duke in 20 minutes. You need anything?" Lisanne asked Eric.

"Baby, come here quickly. Just see what I found?" Eric beckoned his wife.

"Ughh, what now? Eric, I'm already running late." Lisanne riposted.

She sat next to him as Eric showed her the video of how to fall asleep quickly in 60 seconds.

"Eric, not again. You should put these devices aside and try to get some sleep," she said.

Eric was suffering from insomnia. It had been years since Eric slept peacefully.

But sleep never beckoned him however hard he tried.

"Lis, the guy in the video says that we need to release stress from our arms and limbs through some breathing exercises," Eric told.

"So, I am going to try these breathing exercises and see if it works," Eric added.

"Honey, I am really running late for work now. You try to get some sleep, Okay?" She planted a kiss on his lips and left for the hospital as the clock struck 10 at night.

Eric was performing the steps mentioned in the video. Eric was happy today as he thought he found something that he was searching for ages.

The next morning, 8 AM.

Lisanne walked upstairs. She was rummaging her bag for the house key as she didn't want to wake up Eric.

Hope Eric's new therapy helped him, she thought as she finally found her house key.

She turned the key in the lock and opened the door. She stood there speechless, her mouth agape.

Eric was sleeping on the bed. She hadn't seen this in view for ages. She was happy for him.

"Eric, honey, wake up," she said, "Look, what I got for you?"

She had got Eric's favourite cheesecake from the Martin's.

She quickly changed her dress and saw Eric slept peacefully like a newborn baby.

"Eric, Eric," she called him again.

She went closer to him and saw that he was not breathing. He had indeed fallen asleep in 60 seconds. She screeched at the top of her voice as she saw her husband sleeping peacefully, forever and ever!

‘This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.’

Stan required Medical attention

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 15:38:00 -0500

Music is beautiful. And when they are coupled with lyrics to form a song, then it adds more beauty to it. I recently came across this particular song by Eminem named "Stan". I am mighty impressed by the way Eminem actually sang the song. It is a perfect example of storytelling through music. I seldom find artists have excelled this area. Because most of the performers have songwriters and singing a song that actually tells a story is a perfect Art.

Ok coming back to the discussion. Stan is the main character in this song. He has a pregnant girlfriend and he is a die-hard fan of slim who happens to be the alter ego of Eminem. He believes that Slim is his world and he is impressed with his songs and performances. Writing fan emails are not a bad idea but expecting a reply from celebs considering their busy schedule is indeed a bad idea for sure. I initially have some sympathy for the guy Stan especially when he says that he stood in the blistering snow with his little brother to get Slim's autograph. Well, that indeed is heartbreaking but celeb life is difficult too. But some fans are crazy because they prioritize their idols before everything.

Stan gives up all the hope of receiving a reply from Slim after writing multiple emails. He tears off all the posters from the underground in his home that he had kept a secret from everyone. He had Slim's poster and his song lyrics and everything maintained there. He was so crazy that he didn't pay attention to his pregnant girlfriend who required attention. He is so mad at Slim that he beats her and closes her in his car trunk. He is pissed off at his idol and wants to live a life of guilt and regret. And his idea of doing this is by giving away his life, not just his life but also his girlfriend's and his unborn baby. This is depressing and gets more depressing when his girlfriend screeches from the trunk as he drives at 90 mph in the highway. He records all this in a cassette and he plunges into the sea.

Well, he required some medical attention. He could have been treated through counselling. That's what Slim says when he finally decides to reply Stan and asks him not to be the guy who took away his life by killing himself. But Slim realizes that Stan was the guy and he is super disappointed.

There are many fans like Stan in this world who are crazy for their idols. The things that they do to get attention is annoying at times. These people need medical attention. It's not bad to be a fan of some big superstar but we should be mature enough to understand that we got our own world and they got their own world. These celebs earn money for their family and it is their life that they enjoy. They don't live for their fans and that's how life is! Such type of fans requires immediate medical attention. If you know someone like Stan in your family or in your friend's circle then please take them to a medical counsellor before they do anything drastic. The lyrics start with a hope of Stan talking about his favourite Slim and then gets a little depressing with Stan not receiving a reply an then he loses his cool and lashes out at Slim. Even after 20 years, this song still remains gold for me. Such a brilliant piece of work! Check out the lyrics and the video.

My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I

Got out of bed at all

The morning rain clouds up my window

And I can't see at all

And even if I could it'll all be gray

Put your picture on my wall

It reminds me, that it's not so bad

It's not so bad

My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I

Got out of bed at all

The morning rain clouds up my window

And I can't see at all

And even if I could it'll all be gray

Put your picture on my wall

It reminds me, that it's not so bad

It's not so bad

Dear Slim, I wrote you but still ain't callin'

I left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom

I sent two letters back in autumn, you must not-a got 'em

There probably was a problem at the post office or somethin'

Sometimes I scribble addresses too sloppy when I jot 'em

But anyways, fuck it, what's been up? Man how's your daughter?

My girlfriend's pregnant too, I'm bout to be a father

If I have a daughter, guess what I'm a call her?

I'm a name her Bonnie

I read about your Uncle Ronnie too I'm sorry

I had a friend kill himself over some bitch who didn't want him

I know you probably hear this everyday, but I'm your biggest fan

I even got the underground shit that you did with Skam

I got a room full of your posters and your pictures man

I like the shit you did with Rawkus too, that shit was fat

Anyways, I hope you get this man, hit me back

Just to chat, truly yours, your biggest fan

This is Stan

My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I

Got out of bed at all

The morning rain clouds up my window

And I can't see at all

And even if I could it'll all be gray

Put your picture on my wall

It reminds me, that it's not so bad

It's not so bad

Dear Slim, you still ain't called or wrote, I hope you have a chance

I ain't mad, I just think it's fucked up you don't answer fans

If you didn't wanna talk to me outside your concert

You didn't have to, but you coulda signed an autograph for Matthew

That's my little brother man, he's only six years old

We waited in the blistering cold for you,

For four hours and you just said, "No."

That's pretty shitty man, you're like his fuckin' idol

He wants to be just like you man, he likes you more than I do

I ain't that mad though, I just don't like bein' lied to

Remember when we met in Denver, you said if I'd write you you would write back

See I'm just like you in a way

I never knew my father neither

He used to always cheat on my mom and beat her

I can relate to what you're saying in your songs

So when I have a shitty day, I drift away and put 'em on

'Cause I don't really got shit else so that shit helps when I'm depressed

I even got a tattoo of your name across the chest

Sometimes I even cut myself to see how much it bleeds

It's like adrenaline, the pain is such a sudden rush for me

See everything you say is real, and I respect you cause you tell it

My girlfriend's jealous 'cause I talk about you 24/7

But she don't know you like I know you Slim, no one does

She don't know what it was like for people like us growin' up, you gotta call me man

I'll be the biggest fan you'll ever lose

Sincerely yours, Stan, P.S. we should be together too

My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I

Got out of bed at all

The morning rain clouds up my window

And I can't see at all

And even if I could it'll all be gray

Put your picture on my wall

It reminds me, that it's not so bad

It's not so bad

Dear Mister "I'm Too Good To Call Or Write My Fans"

This will be the last package I ever send your ass

It's been six months and still no word, I don't deserve it?

I know you got my last two letters, I wrote the addresses on 'em perfect

So this is my cassette I'm sending you, I hope you hear it

I'm in the car right now, I'm doing 90 on the freeway

Hey Slim, I drank a fifth of vodka

You dare me to drive?

You know the song by Phil Collins, "In the Air of the Night"

About that guy who could a saved that other guy from drowning

But didn't, then Phil saw it all, then at a a show he found him?

That's kinda how this is, you could a rescued me from drowning

Now it's too late, I'm on a thousand downers now, I'm drowsy

And all I wanted was a lousy letter or a call

I hope you know I ripped all of your pictures off the wall

I love you Slim, we coulda been together, think about it

You ruined it now, I hope you can't sleep and you dream about it

And when you dream I hope you can't sleep and you scream about it

I hope your conscience eats at you and you can't breathe without me

See Slim, shut up bitch! I'm tryin' to talk!

Hey Slim, that's my girlfriend screamin' in the trunk

But I didn't slit her throat, I just tied her up, see I ain't like you

'Cause if she suffocates she'll suffer more, and then she'll die too

Well, gotta go, I'm almost at the bridge now

Oh shit, I forgot, how am I supposed to send this shit out?

My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I

Got out of bed at all

The morning rain clouds up my window

And I can't see at all

And even if I could it'll all be gray

Put your picture on my wall

It reminds me, that it's not so bad

It's not so bad

Dear Stan, I meant to write you sooner but I just been busy

You said your girlfriend's pregnant now, how far along is she?

Look, I'm really flattered you would call your daughter that

And here's an autograph for your brother

I wrote it on the Starter cap

I'm sorry I didn't see you at the show, I must of missed you

Don't think I did that shit intentionally just to diss you

But what's this shit you said about you like to cut your wrists too?

I say that shit just clownin' dog, come on, how fucked up is you?

You got some issues Stan, I think you need some counseling

To help your ass from bouncing off the walls when you get down some

And what's this shit about us meant to be together?

That type of shit will make me not want us to meet each other

I really think you and your girlfriend need each other

Or maybe you just need to treat her better

I hope you get to read this letter, I just hope it reaches you in time

Before you hurt yourself, I think that you'll be doin' just fine

If you relax a little, I'm glad I inspire you but Stan

Why are you so mad? Try to understand, that I do want you as a fan

I just don't want you to do some crazy shit

I seen this one shit on the news a couple weeks ago that made me sick

Some dude was drunk and drove his car over a bridge

And had his girlfriend in the trunk, and she was pregnant with his kid

And in the car they found a tape, but they didn't say who it was to

Come to think about, his name was, it was you

Damn!

Everything is blue now

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Mon, 12 Nov 2018 22:23:00 -0500

Everything is blue now

How long do I remember you?

As long as there are days and nights

Till the sun and the moon shines

The birds are warbling and

Winter is coming

The snow is falling

But where are you?

Aren't you gonna come?

The wind whistles searching for you

The star weeps thinking about you

Will you ever come back?

No, never disappoint

Our hearts are already broken

Don't break it anymore

Oh Look, the voids have grown large

The bridge has fallen

And the gates have closed forever

The scars have turned dark

Our heart mourns and yearns

Everything is blue now

Aren't you sad seeing us in tears

The house that housed us together

It isn't the same anymore

The womb that bore you is filled with hurt

A joyful past we all had,

An hopeful future we all dreamed of,

But a present full of pain is what we nurse

and tears without you

Now Fake smile , broken dreams, shattered hopes

You know things aren't the same anymore

Now Everything is blue

Dear Little Sister

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sun, 11 Nov 2018 16:07:00 -0500

Dear Anu, my little sister,

Today is your 26th birthday. And you left all of us in distress last year when you ascended towards heaven. Did you know how much pain it caused us that day when you breathe your last on my arms. I can't believe I am writing this on your birthday in your absence that hurts me the most. I am a weak person and you, my little sister, have taught me some great life lessons. God punished you, an innocent being, by inflicting you with the deadliest disease in the world that even Medical science is striving to find a cure for! I detest God for doing this to someone whom I love more than anyone in this world. I know you would hate me for hating god for you have been the purest and god loving person in the world. You know Mom and Dad are crying every single day since you left for the heavenly abode. I don't have enough courage to ask them not to cry. Mother carried you in her wombs and fed you with love and treated you with utmost care. Our Father, whom I never saw so weak in my entire life is left heartbroken. I've never seen him cry so much. Do you remember the days he used to carry you to school when you were late? Wasn't that amazing? Every time he would call you from his work to ask what you want for snacks. And you would often ask him to get Samosa or Dabeli since you liked it the most. Do you remember how momma used to come home early during Saturdays so that she could spend most of her time with us? She still regrets leaving us home during our childhood. She holds herself responsible for whatever happened to you. She thinks she didn't love her children and she left them at home. But she did that because she wanted to raise her children well. Isn't that the story of every working parent? They have to sacrifice a lot to see their children happy. I remember the sadness on your eyes everytime Momma left for work because you wanted her to be with you. Anu, remember that we love you a lot. It's difficult to believe that you are no more I am not able to digest the events that happened that night when you left us. I am still in shock. Is God cruel enough to take my 'only' little sister?

You are special to me. I will never use a past tense for you because you are still alive for me. My mind is not able to process the fact that you are no more. Momma and Appa ask me to be strong but break when they say that. Even I can't control my tears when I ask them to stay strong. How can I say this to them? What they lost is something beyond imagination! I pray no parent ever loses their child. It's the most painful suffering for anyone in this world. Many say God took you because he wanted to reduce your pain. Maybe that's true. You had written many letters to him and I remember reading all of those after you left us. Those letters were full of hope. You just asked him for miracles and he disappointed you. You suffered a lot of pain from the moment you came to know about this disease that killed you every single minute. Maybe you shouldn't have browsed the internet or maybe it is my fault to have got an internet connection at home that was one of the reasons that broke you. You would say that it's good to be careful and the internet actually helped you in some or the other ways.

We hid your health issues from our family just because you never wanted people to look at you with sympathy. You always were a strong girl till your last breath but I still can't understand how a strong girl like you succumbed. You, my little sister, would always stay special for me. You loved doing creative stuff. Your crochet works like bags, bands, skirts and everything you did as part of your fashion designing is still in our house. Your wall paintings, your artwork - be it your designs or croquis, everything is inside our home. God weakened you and tried to test our love. But we four stayed united and never gave up. Our love towards each other grew strong and our bond strengthened.

Do you remember the summer vacations of 2003 when we both cried when you left early for our village? We both were quite young then. Imagine I couldn't handle the pain of such a small period of separation, how can I handle this absence? Mom, Dad and me are hurt and we know you have gone far away. We don't know what you are doing and what kind of life you are living. People who visit our home say that she is happy there with God. How can you be happy without us? You once said that we three are your world and you can't remain happy without your momma, appa and beloved anna. I know how much you loved us. It is evident from the letters that you have written. Mom cared for both of us equally but she never scolded you or beat you whenever you scored less in your exams during your school days. But she thrashed me whenever I scored less because she loved you and cared about you. She always cared about your happiness. She knows what you like and what you love. For people who say God has taken his child away from our parents. Does he know what you like? Momma and Appa know everything about your likes and dislikes. They worked hard for your expensive medicines. You were so mature that you used to advise me about life. I still have that poetry with me that you had written about living life to the fullest. You really did. You had so many dreams in your eyes and goals in your life. Your dream is now mine!

Dear little sister, I will work on all your dreams. You always used to say that when you grew up and worked, you will give away a small portion of your income to old age homes after you saw the sufferings of old parents in an old age home. Anu, you were so kind and the best. I've always been proud of you and would proudly talk about you and show your creative work with my colleagues and friends at the office. Everyone knew about you and your talent. Remember everytime you created something beautiful, I would share it on Facebook. That's because I wanted the world to see my sisters talent. I love you a lot.

I can't control my tears as I type each and every word of this article. Maybe we loved you so much that your absence is terribly hurting us. It is piercing and hurting our heart.

I still remember that early morning of 2011 when I left for Pune. You had a blackout and seizures. A part of me got destroyed that day itself. From that day itself, I pledged to myself to be the best brother to you. I always wanted to see you happy and got you everything that you wanted. I have written a lot of blog posts about you. And in all of them, I prayed to God to grant you a long and healthy life. But he never heard any of our prayers, even your prayers! How cruel can God be to our family?

Do you remember that Thursday of 1994 where you were sucking popsicles that our Aunt had brought you? You were just 2 years old and I snatched it from you and ate it. You just had your brand new teeth that you drugged inside my arms. I still have those scars on my left arms. Not just that there are numerous scars on my arms that you scribbled.

You were an angry young woman and you got angry very fast but your heart was pure. I will never ever get a sister like you. You were my best sister and my best friend. And you live with us forever!

You are always the best and we will never forget you till our last breath. Anu, stay happy. You are God's best angel and that's why he gave his best angel to us for just the 25 years of our life. When the time came, he took you! I miss you da and more than that I love you to infinity! Never forget us!

Yours loving Anna

Writing my heart out!

noreply@blogger.com (The Solitary Writer) — Sun, 11 Nov 2018 13:44:00 -0500

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I can't write my heart out

Painful thoughts engulf my mind

I lay on the floor deeming my past

Bliss and joy so vast

Now, my mind threatens my heart

My heart fails every day, every night

Thinking of the old days

My mind commands me to move on

But I simply can't, no never

And heart won't forgive me

And my mind yells at me

Asks me to direct my life

Where did you go? Why did you go?

I know you'll never forgive me

But I can't just think beyond

Like winds, ocean and time,

I'm not inured to move on

Maybe I'm just like that

Maybe I'm weak and tired

I don't know to explain myself

I don't even know how not to care

Ima gonna try, tell me to move on

Hate me or love me,

My mind urges me to move on

Maybe I should listen to it

Maybe I will try

Maybe I'll never

Maybe I'll just pretend

Maybe I don't deserve all this