Have forgiveness; feel the forgiveness in your heart for anything you think you’ve done wrong. Quiet your thoughts. Forgive yourself for all past hurts and pains; they are now long gone, no longer holding to you. Your angels are standing behind you, holding you with their wings, surrounding you with love. They’re releasing all the anger and the hate from you. Feel yourself become lighter as they take it from you. Understand you’re a different person now. Now you’re a person that forgives. Feel that forgiveness filling you and wrapping you with a sense of warmth and ease.

Take a minute and think of your parents. Forgive them for anything you have ever blamed them for. Understand that they too are different now. Let this forgiveness fill them up whether they’re in living or spirit. Surround them with love knowing in your heart that this is your most wonderful way to togetherness with your parents. A gift you give them and yourself.

Think of all the people nearest and dearest to you. Now forgive them for anything that you think they have done wrong or are doing wrong at this time. Fill them with your forgiveness. True forgiveness comes from your heart chakra into their heart chakra. They’re going to feel this and they will accept this whether they’re here or in spirit. Just let that forgiveness from your heart fill them. Realize that this is your expression of love to them.

Now think of your greatest friends. Forgive them for anything you dislike about them. Let your forgiveness reach out to them. Fill in your hearts and soul. They are embracing it now.

Think of the people you know, whoever they might be, and forgive them for whatever it is that you have blamed them for, that you have judged them for; that you dislike them for. Feel the forgiveness from your heart entering their heart, surrounding them, making them whole.

Now take a moment and think of a special person in your life who might really need you to forgive them. Toward whom you still, right now, have resentment for, rejection for, dislike for. Forgive them fully. Let this forgiveness come from your heart; reach out to that person complete and totally. Forgive them.

Now think of any person, situation, or group of people who are condemning, blaming, disliking. Could be different religious people. Could be the government. Let your forgiveness be your expression of unconditional love. Human beings have issues but we can forgive them for things. Forgiveness is an order for purity and love.

Now put your attention back on yourself and recognize all the goodness within you. Forgive yourself for anything that you think you’re doing wrong or anything you felt you have done hurtful or sad or you’re feeling. Your Angel is hugging you so tight and taking away all the negativity out of you. Feel the love they send through to you. You are now a vessel of God’s love and light. You are worthy of being forgiven. It is a gift you give yourself.

Recognize the beauty and goodness in you, the effort you are making today to forgive. Feel the warmth and ease that comes through your very soul-being as you experience into forgiveness. It is your birthright. May you now feel the forgiveness gift in your heart. May you now know that you are blessed. The negativity left. Take your angels with you and know that anytime you need to practice this forgiveness to someone else or yourself, just quiet your thoughts for a few minutes and send the forgiveness love from your heart to them, or the situation, and it shall be done.

Now, when you’re ready, you can open your eyes. Feel the love of all around you. And know that all is well in your world. Why? Because it’s your world and from this day forward you will choose it to be the best world that you want it to be.

And when you look at life as an adventure and each day the choice is yours for the emotions you want to feel, for the happiness you have. Trust me, when you start having a forgiving heart the people that are crabby and negative, they don’t want to be around you. They like to be the drama queens and kings. They like to be the negative. And when you’re in those kind of friendships you say, “I’m out of here,” because they’ll drag you right down. So forgive everyone, forgive everything, and know that you make your own life ‘cause all is well in your world. Why? Because it’s your world and you choose it to be.

I see Loved Ones on the other side and when they come in they’re so sad about how they died, about how they let us down. The greatest gift you give someone when they’re terminally ill is permission to die and really mean it. The next greatest gift is you forgive them for anything and everything and you go on to live your life to be happy. No one in my office that comes in there that has talked to someone on the other side, I’ve got the dead on the other side saying, “Will they forgive me for dying and for what I was like?” I’ve got the person on this side saying to me, “Do they forgive me because I said this to them one day or I didn’t tell them I loved them. I didn’t do this for them.” Or, “I put my mother in a home does she forgive me?”

And then I’m sitting in the middle as a medium thinking, “Boy, this really stinks.” This is word we’ve got to get out of our vocabulary ‘cause I don’t know if you know how a medium works. I’m getting it from this side. I’m getting the emotions from the other side. Sometimes I go home and I say, “Man I got to throw up. I need a hug.” It’s like this forgiveness stuff. And there’s not one person that doesn’t say that. So it is a gift you give to yourself.

When my daughter died my Angel said, “You’re forgiven. You’re going on.” They said—I’m not a perfect mother I did the same thing, I said, “Does she forgive me for this? Does she forgive me for that? When she was five I didn’t let you have this”—and my angel said, “Enough. She’s feeling all that on the other side. Your friends around you are feeling all this energy you’re giving off and beating yourself up.”

When you make the choice to give up hurt feelings and angry thoughts, you open up your soul for more joy and happiness and you attract more joy and happiness to you. No one can make you feel anything you really do not want to feel in your life, now can they? Learn the art of emotional detachment. My Angels have taught me that we should get up each day and say this statement and really mean it. I get up and say, “All is well in my world because it’s my world and no one can make it an unhappy one for me unless I allow them to.” If someone does something to hurt you it can only hurt you if you let it. So why would you waste your time and energy? The choice really is your own. And you don’t want to live with emotions that are negative it’s toxin and it makes you physically, emotionally, and spiritually sick. So the gift you give yourself is letting go.

When you forgive you allow the Divine love to move through you and release you from the burdens of all negativity. This will lift you up in spirit. It might help to know that forgiveness is not something you give somebody else, guys. It’s the gift you give to yourself. Because if you can’t forgive somebody you’re holding all that negativity in; you’re being crabby; your aura’s going yuck, yuck, yuck; everybody you’re around you’re toxin, you’re a toxic person. It’s like when you go to a party and someone all their talking about is the negative of the world, blah, blah, blah, my husband this, my blah, blah, blah. What do you do? You avoid that person like the plague, don’t you? You know why? Because they’re toxin to you, to your soul, to your energy, and to the world around you. You don’t want to be in that negativity. So it’s a gift you give yourself. You just say, “I forgive. I let go ‘cause it’s your issue.”

Trust me, whether they get it in this lifetime, what goes around always comes around; they’ll get to the other side and they’re going to have to deal with it anyway. So I look for the positive gift that I get out of when someone has hurt me even if it’s just to say, “I don’t have to be like them. I don’t have to be like them.”

And people would say, “Okay, I’m going to get an attorney and I’m going to sue that pharmacist that took my daughter’s life.” I went inside and I asked, “What should I do?” I didn’t see that pharmacist; it was a prescription called in from one pharmacy to the other. I knew that it was written wrong after I checked in hindsight. But my Angel says, “Forgive him. He’s made a mistake. Now you decide what you want to do to make good out of this, Carrie.”

So I went to the pharmacist and I talked to him. I said, “I could take your license. I could shut you down. I could show the police and stuff everything on this bottle, what happened.” I said, “But would that make another life better? That would devastate my life and devastate yours too, wouldn’t it? You have a family; I know it was a mistake.”

By doing this and talking to him I really believe that man, within his heart, made sure that no other prescription ever came out of that place bad. If he had to stay till midnight to make sure it was done, if he made his staff double check. So how many lives might I have saved by being forgiving and for knowing that everything happens according to God’s plan? And maybe I was the person to lose a child that way so someone else didn’t that maybe it would have devastated them. So don’t think I just talk the talk and don’t walk the walk about forgiving. I think that’s a pretty big thing to forgive for, isn’t it?

Then when you let go and God is totally in charge, you begin to allow Divine love to flow through you and from you in all the words and actions. I mean people will say to me, “Carrie, you’re such an innocent soul.” I’m like a child, what you see is what you get. I mean how I live my life: I laugh, I play, I giggle. People will laugh about my sermons being so funny. Well, it’s living. That’s what we’re here to do. You come to earth; you learn that educational process—the art of emotional detachment. Then you see these people—the drama queens and kings—and it’s, “If only I could get through my husband losing his job, I’ll have a life. If only I could get through my kid being on drugs, man I’ll really have my life. If only I can get through my sister-in-law calling all the time because she has cancer, whining, I’ll have my own life.” Well, listen guys. That is life. It’s how you deal with it.

You wouldn’t be sitting in this audience; you wouldn’t be one this earth plane if you had worked through all these emotional things. You’d be up in Heaven and you sure wouldn’t be wanting to come back; you’d learn the art of emotional detachment. So living life is people get sick, people tick you off, and people do things that we don’t like. But the choice is how are we going to deal with it? Remember, all is well in our world right? Because it’s our world and we create it to be any way we want it to be. And I just don’t talk the talk and walk the walk.

So that’s an emotion we all ought to just take out of our vocabulary. And if you really listen to the declarations you say here you don’t do anything to hurt anybody else. Especially none of us here, I’m looking out, no one does it intentionally. And when someone hurts you, my Angels have told me that is the greatest gift in the world they give us. If they treat us badly, or they cut us off in traffic, or they were physically abusive to us that’s a gift to us, look at that gift because we learn from that.

We’re to learn the art of emotional detachment that, “Hey, I can only get upset with that if I take it into my own heart and that’s your issue.” That’s where we learn unconditional love. What do you learn from someone that was not nice to you? Well, you sure learn you don’t want to be like that, right? Sometimes that’s the gift: “I don’t want to be like that crabby old father of mine,” or “I don’t want to be like that husband who’s judging everybody.” We come to the earth. We do have to love everybody. We have to not judge anybody. But, we don’t have to like them and do lunch with them if they’re negative. And the choice really is ours isn’t it?

She had a hip surgery and I seen her during her surgery. She did go to be with Joseph and I’m in a vision with her and she’s in front of the church. And in my vision I’m sitting—and she’s under, so she’s really out of her body in this church—lighting candles. And my angel says, “You can’t tell her to die. She has to do that herself.”

And I don’t know what happened. She was just so fearful she came back in her body through her hip surgery. And I told her, I said, “You had this dream. And you were saying help me make the decision.” And she said that yeah, the doctor said all she was yelling was “Help me!” And they’re saying, “I’m helping you! I’m helping you, Magda!” And she just wanted me to make the decision for her. And I said, “You know what? I can’t tell you to go. You had to make the decision yourself.”

Well, here she was, her dog had died. She really didn’t feel she had anything to live for, which is a selfish thing; she could have gotten out and helped other people. She just wanted to go. Finally, she got very sick and she was in the hospital for weeks. And I went to her and I said, “It’s okay to go now. Your husband’s here. Your Angels are here.” She said, “Yeah, I know. I see them but I’m waiting for the “White Light”—and I’m afraid of that—to go.”

And I kept on it and I thought, “There’s something missing. Something missing because she is not going”. Come to find out she had a beautiful housekeeper named Donna that said, “Magda needed to see all these friends.” She had many friends that she had pissed off and they’d pissed her off. So she was a type woman if you said something bad, “I’m not having anything to do with again. That’s it. You’re not my friend no more. That’s it. It’s finished.”

Well the housekeeper said, “I decided that I’m going to call all these friends in to her deathbed whether she likes it or not—if God’s going to be ticked at me later on, on the other side, then God’s going to be ticked at me—but something’s holding her.” I said, “Well there are only a couple people that I know that Magda upset about.” She goes, “Oh, no! There’s this whole list.” There are these ten people that she had just told them to get out of her life, blah, blah, blah. And they were her good friends and then something they said upset her and she would just be stubborn and tell them good bye.

So they called these people in and Donna called all these people to her beside and she asked them for forgiveness, which made me cry; she couldn’t even die without asking them to forgive her for what she had said. She was so afraid of death, and going to the other side, and being judged or whatever without making peace with these people.

Now that was a gift not just to her but to the people that were upset with Magda for the way that she treated them. And it wasn’t even two days after that she passed with a peaceful look. She needed then, on her deathbed—which she wouldn’t ask me and she wouldn’t be headstrong enough to tell Donna, “I need to talk to these people,” she carried that and on her deathbed was afraid of dying. And was so darn stubborn she wouldn’t even call these people or ask us to call these people. And then she was able to die in peace.

“No, all is well in your world Kendall. Why? Because it’s your world. And you choose to make it any way you want.” So why would you choose anything negative. I get up each morning and I make a conscience choice to say, “All is well in my world.” And we’re going to talk about that later on today. At the end of my sermon, my Angels have guided me to do a small meditation with you so you can get rid of everybody that you can’t forgive. And you can get rid of all the people you don’t like. And you can get rid and forgive all the political things. But most of all you’re going to be able to forgive yourself. I don’t think a good sermon should be me telling you what to do. I think you ought to go inside and do it yourself.

What is forgiveness? I feel “forgiveness”; it’s a healing journey for both the body and the soul. Sometimes, in one’s heart, you know that you want and need to forgive someone but you just feel it’s too difficult. You need to know that you really can’t move forward in your soul progress until you can forgive. And the main thing is not even to forgive others but to forgive yourself. We’re so hard on that.

And if we really listen to the principles that we’re going through here each week, we would never have something that we have to do that should be forgiven for, would we? So we should really think about that and to our own self be true. Now I’m going to talk a little bit about forgiveness.

We come to earth. It is an educational process. And I preach this over and over and teach this to my clients. And I’m teaching it to my granddaughters. I’ve even written a book for children so that when they’re little they don’t have to have the blocks of this. You really think about, we come to earth and we’re to learn the art of “Emotional Detachment”. So that means while we’re in this physical body—which sometimes we get upset at because we’re fat, or short, or whatever—no one can make us angry, sad, lost, lonely, disappointed, grief stricken, any of those emotions, can they? That’s a choice.

One of the most important uses of feng shui is the use of flowing water. The constant flow of water in your home or office placed in the right location brings wealth into ALL areas of your life. Having a constant flowing fountain is a must for all homes and work spaces. You can place a fountain in any area of your home except the bedroom. Another thing to have in your home or office to attract wealth would be a fish tank with gold fish in it because the color gold is a symbol of wealth. It is important to make sure your toilets are in good working order. If it runs all the time it will bring the chi energy of your abundance being flushed down the drain all the time. The same goes for Leakey faucets. Hanging picture of waterfalls and oceans will also attract prosperity into your home or office.

See the art of Feng Shui can be as easy a coloring your front door or buying a fish tank. Why not get started and bring new Positive Chi energy coming into your home or office?

Mirrors are a valuable potent feng shui tool. Mirrors reflect images so they will double what ever you want to attract into your space. Let’s say you want to attract more money into your life. You could put coins or dollar bills on or in front of a mirror. Maybe you would like to more love in your life. Put a picture of the opposite sex in front of a mirror. At my office I have a mirror behind my cash register to attract more money.

ATTRACTING LOVE INTO YOUR LIFE USING FENG SHUI

A way to attract love into you life using feng shui would be to match up items in your bed room. For instance, never have one picture place two pictures next to each other. Place as many objects as you can in your bedroom into pairs. Another way of attracting love to you would be to light two pink candles in front of a mirror that had a picture of a couple on it. Pink is the color of love. If you wanted to attract more passion in your life light two red candles instead of the pink ones .

NEVER place a fountain of running water in a bedroom as it will send the flow of love out the room. Ok, if you want to have a person leave your life then it might be good to have in your bedroom. Using fragrances like rose and jasmine in the bedroom will also attract love to you.

Using Feng Shui to create a happy home or work space can be fun. Feng Shui is the placing of object or using colors to attract good chi energy into spaces we occupy. The use of powerful feng shui formulas can improve all areas or your life. It can even maximize good fortune and avoid bad luck. Here are some fun and simple ways to apply feng shui into your spaces.

THE MAIN DOOR;

One of the most powerful feng shui features to have in any home or office is a personalized main door. Here is where you want to bring the good chi energy into your home or office. To attract good chi energy into your home the door should have a roof. It should be made of solid wood with some metallic trimmings. The stronger the door is, the better the protection of the people inside. The main door should also open inward to welcome the good chi energy into your home or office…

A red door will bring abundance and also protecting to the home or office. The Chinese consider a yellow door inviting to the chi energy also. Keep clear any clutter from blocking the flow of Chi to the entrance of your home or office. You should stand in front of you entrance door and make sure nothing blocks it. Having a light above or next to the door will help illuminate the energy coming into the space.

The outside door is a link between your hoe or office and the outside world. Make it inviting to the Blessed Chi energy you want to enter your home or work space.